Durand on Demand

Dave joins John Morales on Morning Air to give 5 tips on how to get better at whatever you put your mind to.

From the Vault: Episode 12 of The Dave Durand Show. Dave breaks down four ways to become “unfireable” and shares part of a talk given to Ave Maria University students on how to achieve success without compromising your soul. Plus, listener Q&A.

Dave joins John Morales on Morning Air to share reflection questions that can make you stronger in fidelity and workplace.

In this episode, I talk about the danger of appearing sincere while still holding something back from God. Using the story of Ananias and Sapphira, I explain why partial surrender isn't just incomplete, it's a serious spiritual problem.I also walk through how this shows up in everyday life, from the way we give and serve to the way we seek recognition or hold onto control. The real issue isn't always what we do, it's why we do it.If we want to grow in holiness, we have to examine our interior life and ask a harder question: are we truly giving everything to God, or just enough to look like we are?

From the Vault: Episode 11 of The Dave Durand Show. Dave shares a talk he gave to a Catholic high school's entrepreneurship and investment club, breaking down principles that apply at any stage of life. He also answers audience questions and offers insight into whether it's better to start a business solo or with a partner.

Dave joins John Morales on Morning Air to share the difference between judging, judgement and being judgmental.

In this episode, I explain why the idea of “don't judge” is misunderstood and why judgment is actually essential to living well. I walk through how to make better decisions, avoid rash conclusions, and pursue truth with clarity and humility.

From the Vault: Episode 10 of The Dave Durand Show. Dave discusses common career mistakes and why it's never too late to pivot. He's joined by bestselling author and founder of Dynamic Catholic, Matthew Kelly, for a conversation on the importance of silence and how faith fuels family life, business, and mission. Plus, listener Q&A.

In this episode, I address two major questions: why God doesn't always answer our prayers, and whether it's fair that people are born into different religions. By understanding God as a Father and looking at both justice and mercy, these questions begin to make more sense.

From the Vault: Episode 9 of The Dave Durand Show. Dr. Sean O'Mara joins Dave for a conversation on faith, health, and human performance. Dave also explores the seven subconscious ways we either attract or repel others—and why that matters in leadership and evangelization. Dr. O'Mara shares how his faith integrates with his vocation as a physician and expert in chronic disease prevention.

Dave joins John Morales on Morning Air to share 5 ways you might be inspiring someone around you without even knowing it

In this episode, we explore the difference between genuine humility and performative humility. I'll outline four ways to recognize pride disguised as virtue and explains why true humility ultimately leads us toward faith, hope, and charity.

From the Vault: Episode 8 of The Dave Durand Show. Dave sits down with American mile record holder Alan Webb to discuss his greatest race of all—the race toward heaven. Alan shares how faith reshaped his life after athletic success left him unfulfilled. Dave also outlines the seven traits of long-term performers and answers listener questions.

Dave Durand joins John Morales on Relevant Radio to discuss the errors that hurt the interior life.

In this episode, Dave Durand explains the five spiritual “weapons” that protect Christians from deception and moral compromise. From understanding sin and purification to the role of the saints, Church authority, and the sacraments, Dave explores the tools God gives believers to fight the deeper spiritual battle.

From the Vault: Episode 7 of The Dave Durand Show. Dave interviews former Navy SEAL and entrepreneur Sam Blair on faith, surrender, and stepping into the challenges God places in front of us. Dave also breaks down common excuses that hold leaders back and answers listener questions on self-help, momentum, and what it means to stop “spinning your tires.”

Dave Durand joins John Morales on Morning Air to discuss the subtle errors that can quietly damage your spiritual life.

Success in business and leadership isn't driven by systems, technology, or incentives alone. It begins with the interior life.In this episode, Dave explains why virtues like prudence, fortitude, honesty, and wisdom are the true foundation of effective leadership, and how a strong spiritual life ultimately makes both your work and your soul more fruitful.

From the Vault: Episode 6 of The Dave Durand Show. Dave tackles a controversial question: can you be both a socialist and an entrepreneur? Drawing from his own experience and Church teaching, Dave offers thoughtful insight into the principles behind ownership, economics, and moral responsibility. Plus, listener Q&A on re-entering the workforce after time at home, scaling a part-time business, and more.

Dave Durand joins John Morales on Relevant Radio's Morning Air to discuss the keys to efficiency.

In this episode, I use AI as a starting point to talk about something much deeper: pride. As technology advances and success grows, the real danger isn't innovation, it's forgetting where our gifts come from. If we lose humility, we lose everything. Let's talk about why pride, not progress, is what leads to our demise.

From the Vault: Episode 5 of The Dave Durand Show. Dave walks through the seven critical forks in the road that every leader eventually faces. He's joined by Kevin O'Brien, CEO of Best Version Media, for a conversation on leadership, faith, and the importance of fatherhood. Plus, Dave answers listener questions on navigating a recent demotion and handling challenges with a small business vendor.

Dave Durand joins John Morales to share how you can accomplish great work while living a holy interior life. 

In this episode, I explain why your interior life determines everything, your leadership, your work, and your family life. I also announce that I'm releasing a full YouTube playlist of leadership and influence videos that were previously part of paid programs, now available for free. As the channel continues to mature, we're going deeper, especially as we approach Lent.

From the Vault: Episode 4 of The Dave Durand Show. Dave breaks down the key inhibitors of success—what quietly holds leaders back and how to overcome them. He also sits down with Tom Monaghan to discuss the pivotal faith moment that inspired the founding of Ave Maria University. Plus, Dave answers listener questions in this week's Q&A segment.

Dave Joins John Morales on Relevant Radio's Morning Air to discuss the causes and cures for anxiety.

If heaven isn't your motive, what is?In this episode, I talk about the reward you're really working toward. Most people build their lives around success, security, influence, or comfort. None of those are wrong, but none of them are enough.When the wrong reward becomes your motive, it eventually owns you.There is only one motive that frees you while you pursue excellence. And if you get this wrong, everything else eventually falls apart.Let's talk about what you're actually trading your life for.

From the Vault: Episode 3 of The Dave Durand Show. Dave sits down with Matthew Pinto—founder and President Emeritus of Ascension Press—to talk about leadership inside mission-driven organizations and why the ability to pivot (and track your numbers) matters in any business. Dave also breaks down how to push past your potential through intense, precise work paired with truly intentional rest. Plus, listener Q&A on working with difficult co-workers and how to protect your culture when a high performer starts hurting team morale.

Dave Durand joins John Morales on Relevant Radio's Morning Air to discuss the levels of Pride.

From the Vault: Episode 2 of The Dave Durand Show. Dave sits down with Mark Middendorf—President of Ave Maria University and founder of Lighthouse Catholic Media—to discuss what it means to be a ferocious leader while staying rooted in Catholic principles. Dave also shares practical ways to stay motivated, lead with conviction, and motivate others, then wraps up with answers to listener questions.

From the Vault: Episode 1 of The Dave Durand Show. Dave kicks off the series by laying the foundation of what it means to become a “Leading Giant” in your workplace and leadership. He's joined by tech executive Denzil Samuels for a powerful conversation on living out the Catholic faith at work and at home. Plus, Dave answers listener questions on becoming a better public speaker and discerning when it's time to take the leap from employee to entrepreneur.

Dave Durand joins John Morales on Relevant Radio's Morning Air to discuss the importance of focus and virtue.

In this short episode, I talk about what personal growth really is: the quiet “evolution” of the heart. We'll look at sincerity, the subtle pride that hides in everyday life, and why greatness on earth means nothing if it isn't aimed toward heaven.

In this episode, I talk about the tension every serious person eventually faces: how to hold high standards without becoming judgmental, harsh, or hypocritical.We all know that high standards matter. They shape quality, integrity, and growth. But when standards aren't anchored in humility, they start to break relationships — at home, at work, and within ourselves.I walk through the difference between aiming at perfection and falling into perfectionism, why humility is the only thing that allows us to re-aim when we fall short, and how judgment without humility turns into defensiveness and resentment.This conversation is about personal growth in its deepest sense — becoming better through the ordinary things we do every day — and why humility is the key that makes high standards sustainable rather than destructive.If you care about growth, leadership, faith, and living with integrity in real life, this episode will give you a clearer framework for how those pieces actually fit together.

We all know the value of high standards. They matter at work, at home, and in leadership. But there's a tension most people never resolve: when standards are high and humility is low, relationships break down, trust erodes, and hypocrisy creeps in.In this episode, I walk through why aiming high is essential—and why it fails without humility anchoring it. I talk about the difference between healthy standards and perfectionism, how judgment turns inward and outward, and why humility is the only thing that allows us to pursue excellence without destroying ourselves or others in the process.If you care about growth, leadership, family, or becoming a better version of yourself through the ordinary moments of daily life, this episode will help you recalibrate your aim.

In this episode, I talk about standards — not the kind we talk about casually, but the kind that actually shape who we become.We admire professionals, elite performers, and great leaders because they live by standards most people won't hold themselves to. They don't just think big — they live disciplined, intentional lives.But here's the deeper question: If we're willing to raise our standards for success, performance, and achievement, why do we hesitate to raise them for our interior life?This conversation goes beyond ambition and productivity. It's about conscience, virtue, faith, and the call Christ gives us to live differently — not halfway, not comfortably, but with clarity and purpose.Because at the end of the day, the most important standard you live by isn't what the world applauds — it's what actually prepares you for eternity.

This episode is about leadership at home.I walk through five foundational practices that help men lead their families with clarity, unity, and purpose—whether you're a husband, a father, or preparing to be one.We talk about the importance of daily blessing, routine prayer, regular confession, educating your family the right way, and being truly present with the people you love. These aren't abstract ideals—they're practical disciplines that build order, protection, and trust inside the home.If you want to lead your family well, stay grounded, and create unity instead of chaos, this episode will give you a clear framework to start doing that today.

This week, I'm talking about one of the biggest factors that determines whether teams, marriages, families, and friendships stay strong or quietly fall apart: how we see each other.Most relationships don't break because someone did something terrible. They break because of misperceptions, unfair assumptions, and the slow erosion of unity. When we magnify each other's flaws, assign motives that aren't there, or expect others to live without the imperfections we allow in ourselves, everything becomes fragile.In this episode, I dig into:Why unity is built on accepting others' flaws rather than collecting themHow pettiness destroys marriages, teams, and even nationsThe difference between judging someone's actions and judging their motivesWhy magnanimity — generosity of spirit — is the foundation of strong relationshipsThe importance of each person understanding and embracing their roleHow gratitude and latitude protect relationships from unnecessary conflictIf you want to strengthen the relationships that matter most — at work or at home — this episode will help you see people more clearly and support them more effectively.

This week's episode is intentionally brief — a quick message I recorded while walking on the beach. It felt like the perfect setting to talk about something most people get wrong: leisure.Not vacation. Not burnout recovery. Leisure — the kind that actually recreates you.In this short reflection, I explain why God built rhythm into creation, how real leisure works, and why you can't truly rest if every “break” is just another form of productivity or distraction. If you struggle to slow down, detach from your phone, or be present — this mini-episode is for you.A simple reminder, delivered in a simple way.

In this episode, I'm talking directly to men—especially younger men—about what truly matters and how to order your life so you can build something that lasts.I walk through the real priorities of a man's life: getting to heaven through faith in Jesus Christ, embracing God's plan for marriage and family, and becoming excellent in your vocation so you can lead and provide well. I also break down the stages of a man's journey—from boyhood, to the adventurer, to the conquering provider, to the mentor, and finally the patriarch.I share some of my own experience raising a large family while building businesses because I want young men to know you don't have to choose between a great career and a strong family. In fact, responsibility usually makes you sharper, more focused, and more successful.What I cover:Why heaven—not comfort—is the real finish lineGod's design for family and why it leads to joy, not limitationThe six stages of a man's growthWhy delaying marriage and children often backfiresHow responsibility makes men better at everything they doIf you're a man who wants to lead well, raise a strong family, and build a legacy that endures, this episode is for you.

In this mini Thanksgiving episode, I take a deeper look at gratitude — not as a mood or a feeling, but as a virtue that shapes your entire life.Most people wait to “feel grateful” before they practice gratitude. But that's backward. Gratitude is a choice, a discipline, and one of the most reliable ways to build joy, resilience, and long-term success.I break down how gratitude interacts with the cardinal virtues, why entitlement destroys happiness, and how simple, deliberate acts of gratitude can lift your attitude the same way sunlight breaks through after a long storm.If you've been tired, discouraged, or struggling to see the good — this episode will help reset your perspective.Happy Thanksgiving.

Most people chase success.Few know how to keep it.In this week's episode, Dave unpacks what separates short-term achievement from long-term greatness — and why true success doesn't fade when it's built on the right foundation.Drawing from years of coaching leaders and entrepreneurs, he reveals the two keys to staying successful forever: order and truth.Order creates peace.Truth sustains growth.Together, they form the framework that keeps you grounded through every win, challenge, and transition in life.If you've ever wondered why some people seem to flourish for decades while others burn out after one good year — this episode is for you.

Everyone makes excuses — but few people understand why. In this week's episode, I break down the real reasons we justify, delay, or distort the truth when life gets hard — and how to stop doing it.From laziness and shortcuts to pride and self-deception, excuses are never just words. They reveal the gaps in our character.You'll learn how to spot the five root causes of excuses — and how the four cardinal virtues (prudence, justice, fortitude, and temperance) are the antidotes that lead to freedom and growth.If you want peace, purpose, and progress, it starts with one thing: stop making excuses and start mastering yourself.

When your personal life is in chaos, your professional life can't stay immune. In this week's episode, I explore how the peace (or tension) in your home directly affects your focus, clarity, and performance at work.I'll dive into how emotional tone, self-control, and humility shape relationships — and why learning to lead well at home is the foundation for leading well anywhere.

In this episode of Durand on Demand, Dave breaks down one of the most overlooked leadership skills: credibility.You don't earn influence just because you have authority — you earn it because people believe you. Whether you're leading a team, building a marriage, or trying to close a sale, credibility determines whether people listen, follow, or tune you out.In this conversation, Dave reveals: ✅ Why people stop listening (and don't even realize it) ✅ The four habits that make someone instantly credible ✅ How to back your words with reality — not just rhetoric ✅ The secret connection between humility and influenceIf you want to communicate with clarity, earn trust quickly, and lead with lasting impact, this episode will help you rebuild the foundation that every great relationship — personal or professional — depends on.

This week, I'm diving into four subtle behaviors that quietly destroy relationships — not just marriages, but friendships, partnerships, and teams.Comparison. Passive aggressiveness. Withholding kindness. Flirtatious subtleties.They all seem small, but over time they corrode trust, respect, and intimacy.In this episode, I unpack how each of these habits starts, why they're so destructive, and how to replace them with humility, clarity, and intentional love — in marriage, in leadership, and in life.What I Cover:The danger of comparing your spouse (or your peers)How passive aggression poisons communicationWhy withholding small acts of kindness erodes joyHow seemingly harmless interactions can cross hidden lines

In this episode of Durand on Demand, Dave breaks down the five hidden forces that derail success — in business, leadership, and everyday life.Drawing from decades of experience coaching entrepreneurs and building companies, Dave explains why so many people start strong but never finish — and how to fix it.What you'll learn:Why excitement without purpose burns out fastHow “majoring in the minors” kills momentumWhy shortcuts always catch up to youThe danger of self-deceit and ego in leadershipThe truth about the real work–reward relationshipWhether you're growing a business, leading a team, or working on yourself, this episode will help you identify the blind spots holding you back — and replace them with habits that lead to lasting success.

In this episode of Durand on Demand, Dave breaks down three qualities everyone wants — wisdom, intelligence, and smarts — and shows how they're similar, how they're different, and how you can grow in each.Too often people settle for raw IQ or quick wit, but miss the deeper grounding of wisdom. Without it, even the brightest minds can lose their way. I'll share:✅ Why wisdom begins with ordering your life toward truth and purpose ✅ The difference between natural intelligence and how you actually develop it ✅ How “smarts” combine both wisdom and intelligence — and why pattern recognition is key ✅ The danger of bias (even Einstein fell into it) and how humility unlocks growth ✅ How to apply this in your daily life to make better decisions, lead well, and live with clarityBy the end, you'll see why it's not enough to be intelligent — you need wisdom to direct it and practical smarts to apply it.

In this episode of Durand on Demand, Dave Durand speaks to a collegiate women's soccer team about the deeper truths behind sports psychology and peak performance.Performance isn't just about raw ability — it's shaped by relationships, mindset, and self-awareness. Dave unpacks how pride blinds athletes while humility — “precision truth about yourself” — fuels growth. He shares why bench players can be more valuable than starters, how relationships with coaches, teammates, and even family affect performance, and why psychological talent often matters more than physical skill.✅ What You'll Learn:Why humility is the hidden talent that fuels championsHow relationships shape athletic and team performanceWhy pride and “my truth” distort growth and clarityHow bench players can play a critical role in winningWhy psychological talent separates long-term winners from the restWhether you're an athlete or part of a team in business or life, this episode will show you how humility and clarity unlock true performance.

In this episode of Durand on Demand, Dave unpacks the most powerful force in the world: decision. Every part of life flows from the choices we make — but it's not just the primary decisions (to take a job, get married, or start something) that matter. It's the secondary decisions and recommitments that determine whether we thrive or fail.Recorded live, Dave illustrates this through the story of King David — a leader who chose comfort over adventure and fell into folly — and shows how the same dynamic plays out in our own lives. The path forward, he explains, lies in the virtues: prudence, justice, fortitude, and temperance.This talk also explores the universal desires of every human being — goodness, beauty, truth, and unity — and why denying truth or lowering standards leads to distortion and decline. At its core, this is a call to live a life of adventure, virtue, and reality.✅ What You'll Learn:Why decision is the most powerful force in your lifeThe difference between primary and secondary decisionsWhy comfort leads to folly and adventure fosters growthHow prudence, justice, fortitude, and temperance shape optimizationThe universal human desires: goodness, beauty, truth, and unityWhy rejecting objective truth destroys clarity and characterThis episode is both a wake-up call and a roadmap: choose adventure, embrace virtue, and ground yourself in truth.

In this episode of Durand on Demand, recorded live with a group of collegiate leaders, Dave takes a deeper dive into personality optimization—focusing on extraversion, agreeableness, and how the Big Five test really works.Forget the clichés like “listen twice as much as you speak.” Dave explains why communication depends on context, why extraversion isn't an either/or label but a spectrum, and how your natural tendencies can be shaped by experiences.He also unpacks agreeableness: why being too agreeable leads to people-pleasing and lowered standards, while being too disagreeable creates conflict and isolation. The goal? Learning to optimize these traits at the center—where virtue and effectiveness meet.✅ What You'll Learn:The real formula for balancing listening and speakingWhy extraversion is a spectrum, not a binaryHow past experiences can distort personality expressionThe dangers of excessive agreeableness (a.k.a. “suicidal philanthropy”)Why lowering standards always drags leadership downThis short but practical episode will help you see personality optimization in action—and why finding the right balance makes all the difference in leadership and life.