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Ever wonder if your kids have it in them to be a killer? It's okay, we've all had the thought once or twice. And if you're willing to admit that, you'll love How Not to Raise a Serial Killer. On this podcast, criminal psychologist Dr. Michelle Ward digs into the childhoods of some of the most notorious criminals and killers in order to learn from them and prevent future tragedies. Dr. Ward will use her expertise to determine what went wrong with each killer (a brain injury, an undiagnosed illness, a specific trauma) with the help of a fellow mom/non-expert who can weigh in about their own taboo parenting fears. Because on our better days as parents, we want to know how to raise good humans. But on our worst days, we at least want to know that we're at least not raising a future serial killer.

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    “Serial Killer Session” with Dr. Michelle Ward | Lipstick & Lies Ep. 002

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 14, 2023 88:10


    In this episode of Lipstick & Lies, hosts Melissa Moore and Jami Rice speak with Criminal Psychologist, Dr. Michelle Ward. The ladies discuss everything from common misconceptions regarding serial killers to red flags people should watch out for in a romantic relationship. Dr. Michelle Ward also weighs in on the Gilgo Beach Murders case which recently had a major update with the arrest of Rex Heuermann who is suspected to be the the Long Island Serial Killer. But before diving into the dark topic of serial killers, Jami and Melissa play a game of “Would You Rather” with Dr. Ward as a warm-up to their deep dive on serial killers.  Follow Dr. Michelle Ward on Instagram @DrMichelleWard.  Crime is typically a good ol' boys club, but sometimes the truth lies behind lipstick.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Listen Now - Over My Dead Body: Gone Hunting

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2023 5:32


    When Mike Williams vanishes on a hunting trip, the authorities suspect he was eaten by alligators but the true predators who took Mike may lurk much closer to home. The mystery of Mike's disappearance might have faded from memory, if it wasn't for one woman's tireless crusade. From Wondery, comes a new season of Over My Dead Body; a story about an obsessive love affair, a scandalous secret and a mother's battle for the truth. Follow Over My Dead Body: Gone Hunting on Amazon Music or wherever you get your podcasts. You can listen early and ad-free by subscribing to Wondery Plus in Apple Podcasts or the Wondery app. Listen to Over My Dead Body:  Wondery.fm/OMDB4_SK Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Looks Who's Stalking Episode One Katie Socci: Stalked to Death

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2023 45:41


    In the inaugural episode of Look Whose Stalking, Dr. Michelle Ward talks about the stalking case of Katie Socci. Ex-boyfriend David McNamara, accused of strangling his estranged girlfriend to death, plead guilty to second-degree murder after a stalking case gone wrong. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Introducing: Look Who's Stalking

    Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2023 46:24


    On Look Who's Stalking, Dr. Michelle Ward takes you through the most tragic stalking cases of our time. Ex-lovers, secret obsessions, friendships turned sour: Michelle dissects the motives of each stalker and outlines how you can spot the tell-tale signs of a potential stalker. Michelle is a neuro-criminologist who has studied and interviewed the worst criminals and predators in the world, and with this podcast, she hopes to prevent others from falling victim to crimes of obsession. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    "The Count" & Interview with Victims Family

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2023 57:19


    This week, Michelle Ward covers a case that took the life of a young girl named Lisa Ann Mather. The killer known as “The Count” looked for young victims simply enjoying their nights out on the town in Los Angeles, CA. Michelle got the opportunity to speak with both Lisa Mather's aunt and sister, Nancy and Roz, to hear their side of the tragic story. Take a listen and hear more about the Lisa Mather case from first hand experiences with her actual family members.  Sponsors: Pretty Litter- Go to PrettyLitter.com/hownot to save 20% on your first order. Follow us at @hntrask on TikTok and @hownottoraiseaserialkiller on Instagram. Follow Michelle on Instagram and TikTok at @drmichelleward. Listen to Michelle's guest appearance on Love Before 100 on the episode Serial Killers, Dating Apps, & Dolly Parton. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Encore Episode: Lisa Montgomery- The Only Woman on Federal Death Row

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2023 58:06


    On this weeks episode of HNTRASK, we're re-releasing a fan favorite, where Michelle is joined by Missi and Abigail to discuss the unimaginable crimes committed by Lisa Montgomery. In 2004, Lisa and Bobby Jo Stinnett connected on social media through a dog breeding group. Under the guise of purchasing a puppy, Lisa was invited to Bobby Jo's home. After a gruesome murder and the kidnapping of an unborn child (you read that right...) Lisa became the first female prisoner to be put to death by the U.S. government since 1953. Listen to Michelle, Missi, and Abigail as they discuss Lisa's traumatic childhood, the life of crime that followed, and what can be done to prevent this. Follow us at @hownottoraiseaserialkiller on Instagram Watch Michelle and her friends on our HNTRASK YouTube Channel Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Payton Gendron: The Live-Stream Killer

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2023 65:29


    On this episode of HNTRASK, Michelle discusses the 2022 Buffalo shooting at a local Tops Friendly Market. Thirteen people were shot, 10 fatally. The gunman posted a 180-page manifesto just two days before his attack. Even worse, he live-streamed his slayings on Twitch. Follow us at @hntrask on TikTok and @hownottoraiseaserialkiller on Instagram. Follow Michelle on Instagram and TikTok at @drmichelleward. Listen to Michelle's guest appearance on Love Before 100 on the episode Serial Killers, Dating Apps, & Dolly Parton. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    The Dating App Killer

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2023 60:07


    On this episode of HNTRASK, Michelle brings back Love Before 100 host Rachel Burch to discuss the dangers of dating apps, and a serial killer who used them as a means to finding his victims. Tune in to hear the story of murderer Khalil Wheeler-Weaver, results of peer-reviewed studies of dating apps and rape, and first hand experiences of dating app close calls. Follow us at @hntrask on TikTok and @hownottoraiseaserialkiller on Instagram. Follow Michelle on Instagram and TikTok at @drmichelleward. Follow Rachel Burch at @therachelburch and her podcast Love Before 100 @lovebefore100. Listen to Michelle's guest appearance on Love Before 100 on the episode Serial Killers, Dating Apps, & Dolly Parton. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    The Butcher of Rostov

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2023 74:35


    This episode contains extremely disturbing descriptions of violence and brutality towards children and Ukrainian POWs. Listener digression is strongly advised. On this week's episode of HNTRASK, Michelle and Francis discuss the worst of the worst, Andrei Romanovich Chikatillo. Andrei, nicknamed The Butcher of Rostov, was a killer who other killers would find appalling. Preying almost exclusively on children, The Butcher received this moniker because of his gruesome M.O.: gouging out the eyes of his victims and often removing their organs for sexual gratification. While Andrei was obviously mentally unwell, and that is the understatement of the century, his upbringing in the communist USSR did not help his preexisting conditions. He grew up during a time of extreme famine, where cannibalism was common practice. Listen in to this conversation to learn more about The Butcher, his disturbing childhood, and the historical context that may have played a major role in his success and brutality as a serial killer. Follow us @hownottoraiseaserialkiller on Instagram! Follow us @hntrask on TikTok! Follow Michelle @drmichelleward on Instagram and TikTok! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    The Amazon Review Killer

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2023 57:59


    Michelle is back with her good friend Maleeda to discuss Todd Kohlhepp, "The Amazon Review Killer." Tune in to learn about the horrific crimes of Todd Kohlhepp, the signs of a fledgling psychopath, and strategies for parenting children with psychopathy.  This episode is sponsored by Care/of! For 50% off of your first Care/of order, go to takecareof.com and enter code hownot50. Resources Evidence-based psychosocial treatments of conduct problems in children and adolescents: an overview https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6762114/ Follow us on Instagram @hownottoraiseaserialkiller Follow us on TikTok @hntrask Follow Michelle on Instagram @drmichelleward Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    A Psychopath in Coach's Clothing

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 17, 2023 65:14


    This week on HNTRASK, Michelle and her good friend Kevin kick off this episode by going through some of the wildest crimes in football. Something all of these criminals have in common? They all played for the Florida Gators. Who coached (or groomed) these men to lack empathy and act impulsively? Listen this week as Michelle discusses the violent track record of the Florida Gators and their ringleader, who may be the worst of them all. Follow us @hownottoraiseaserialkiller on Instagram and @hntrask on TikTok! Follow Michelle @drmichelleward Clip Sources: Newton Laughs At Female Reporter's Question YouTube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G3morj18dJE Jaguars Head Coach Fired YouTube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TpFKsHqbD14 Chuck Hughes Collapses on the Field YouTube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lIlyvFg9-S4 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    The Murderous Alter of Deryl Madison

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2023 55:35


    On this episode, Michelle and her good friend Jessica discuss the unique case of Deryl Madison and his murderous alter. Madison was diagnosed with Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) by Dr. Wendall Dickerson after clearly being unable to recall many of his actions related to a homicide and revealing a murderous alter named Bubba. While this seems awfully convenient for a killer to forget his crimes, many of Madison's statements point to his eventual diagnosis, including a quote from his most recent TV appearance, “I feel there was someone else inside of me, besides me." Tune in this week to learn Michelle's personal take on this case, the tragic causes of DID, how to spot DID in children, and resources for parents with children affected by this disorder. In this episode, Michelle reiterates that there are harmful stereotypes that people who suffer from mental illness are frequently violent criminals, and this is completely untrue. The vast majority of people with mental illness are not violent criminals, and the relationship between mental illness and violent crime is elusive. Child Dissociative Checklist + The Adolescent Dissociative Experiences Scale This episode is sponsored by Prose. Go to prose.com/hownot for your FREE in-depth hair consultation and 15% off your first order today! Follow us @hownottoraiseaserialkiller on Instagram! Follow Michelle @drmichelleward Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    The Vampire Cult Killer

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2022 66:31


    This week, Michelle delves into the story of The Vampire Cult Killer. A thirst for power (and blood) brought a teenage boy to commit a most atrocious crime. Tune in as our host unravels details of the killer's childhood, explains what parents can do to prevent their children from joining a vampire cult, and talks with her good friend Beth about whether vampires vacation at Disneyland. Don't forget to follow us on Instagram @hownottoraiseaserialkiller Follow Michelle @drmichelleward Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    The Murderous Consequences of Lead Poisoning

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2022 59:45


    Do you know what toxins lurk in the walls of your own home? Join Michelle and her good friend Kevin as they dive into three different murders and find their common thread: a toxic substance that inflicts permanent brain damage on its victims, lead. Learn how you can protect your child (and yourself) from lead poisoning at https://www.cdc.gov/nceh/lead/prevention/sources.htm Follow us on instagram @hownottoraiseaserialkiller. Follow Michelle @drmichelleward. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    A Case of Botched Restorative Justice

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2022 57:51


    On this episode, Michelle and her childhood friend Christa discuss the tragic murder of Deborah Liles and the botched attempt of restorative justice that followed. The killer's past raises questions about the physical effects of systematic oppression and trauma on young children. Why are some neighborhoods plagued with violence? What are the consequences of growing up in communities with high crime rates? And what can we do about it in our own communities and our greater society? Michelle answers these questions and more on this week's episode. Follow us on Instagram @hownottoraiseaserialkiller and DM us with your comments and questions! Follow Michelle on Instagram @drmichelleward. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Introducing Mind of a Monster: One Serial Killer Follows Another

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2022 35:01


    In this season, criminal psychologist Dr. Michelle Ward takes us to Washington State in the 1970s to investigate two of the most prolific serial killers in US history – Ted Bundy and the so-called Green River Killer, Gary Ridgway. Both use deception to prey on young women and utilize the vast terrain to dump their bodies. And they did it almost 100 times between them – maybe more.  In this episode, multiple young women are disappearing without a trace. Then, on September 7, law enforcement's worst fears are confirmed when human remains are found in the woods near Issaquah. But there is even worse to come…  Watch full episodes of Mind of a Monster on discovery+: discoveryplus.com/mindofamonster. Terms apply. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Brad Waldroup and "The Warrior Gene"

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 8, 2022 66:39


    Are some people destined to kill? What if there was a gene that could predict one's propensity to become a murderer? Well, it's complicated... On today's episode, Michelle and Rachel Burch discuss the gruesome murder of Leslie Bradshaw and how the MAOA gene or "The Warrior Gene" played a part in getting Brad Waldroup a lighter sentence. Follow us on instagram @hownottoraiseaserialkiller and DM us with your questions and comments! Follow Michelle @drmichelleward. Follow Rachel @therachelburch and make sure to listen to her new podcast, Love Before 100. Sponsor Framebridge - Frame your photos or give someone the perfect gift at framebridge.com! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    Dissecting the Medical Serial Killer with Guest Pia Baroncini

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2022 61:19


    DISCLAIMER: This episode contains discussion of infanticide. Listener discretion is advised. On this episode of HNTRASK, Michelle invites entrepreneur, creative director, and podcaster Pia Baroncini (and her dog Nutella) to discuss the dark side of medicine. Following the arrest of serial killer Nurse Lucy Letby, who worked at Countess of Chester Hospital in the UK, Michelle brings to light the different classifications of medical serial killers and what motivates them to break their Hippocratic Oath. Follow HNTRASK at @hownottoraiseaserialkiller Follow Michelle at @drmichelleward Follow Pia Baroncini on Instagram @piabaroncini Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Jeffrey Dahmer Part II: Beyond the Netflix Documentary

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2022 62:26


    Oops! Were you confused at the end of this week's episode? So were we! A technical glitch that cut the episode in half left us all hanging! Hold on to your hats and glasses, because here is the unanticipated Part II of Michelle and Heidi's Dahmer deep dive! Today, Michelle and Heidi go beyond the new Netflix documentary, "DAHMER - Monster: The Jeffrey Dahmer Story." Learn more about Dahmer's childhood and psychological disorders while Michelle answers your questions from Instagram! Follow the podcast on Instagram @hownottoraiseaserialkiller and Dr. Michelle Ward on @drmichelleward and DM / comment with your questions! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Jeffrey Dahmer: Beyond the Netflix Documentary

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2022 40:57


    Join Michelle and her sister Heidi as they go beyond the new Netflix documentary, "DAHMER - Monster: The Jeffrey Dahmer Story." Learn more about Dahmer's childhood and disorders while Michelle answers your questions from Instagram! Follow the podcast on Instagram at @hownottoraiseaserialkiller and follow Michelle at @drmichelleward. DM us with your questions and comments! Sponsors Framebridge - Frame your photos or send someone the perfect gift today at Framebridge.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Postpartum Psychopathy with Kiva Founder Jessica Jackley

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2022 59:08


    This episode discusses several cases of infanticide. Listener discretion is advised. On this special episode of HNTRASK, Michelle circles back to one of the most important themes of this podcast, how can we bolster prenatal and postpartum support on an individual and societal level, so that in turn, parents can better support their children? Dr. Ward and her esteemed guest Jessica Jackley discuss the overlooked and underdiagnosed mental illness of postpartum psychopathy. Three months after giving birth, in the wake of troubling psychological symptoms, Erin Merdy drowned her three children on Coney Island. When we read stories like this, we often wonder, How could a mother do this to her children? It is unfathomable. After hearing the story of Erin Merdy, Michelle, PhD in Psychology and Clinical Neurology expert, was prompted to discuss the underpinnings of murders like this, and bring to light an underrecognized mental disorder that was once erased from DSM. If you or someone you know needs postpartum support - Michelle recommends the organizations below. Both are LGBTQ affirmative organizations. Postpartum Support International https://www.postpartum.net/ Postpartum Stress Center https://postpartumstress.com/ Follow us on Instagram @hownottoraiseaserialkiller Sponsor Framebridge - Go to framebridge.com and use promo code HOWNOT to save an additional 15% off your first order! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Jeffrey Landrigan: The Perils of Inheritance

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2022 70:05


    Join Michelle and Alison as they discuss one of the most astonishing cases of "like father, like son." This episode, Michelle details the brash criminal acts and wild family secrets of Jeffrey Landrigan. She wraps this episode with a discussion on the significance of twin studies in criminal psychology research - AKA her dissertation! Follow us on Instagram @hownottoraiseaserialkiller and be sure to DM us with your comments and questions! Sponsors Framebridge - To frame photos, or send someone the perfect gift, go to Framebridge.com and use promo code HOWNOT to save an additional 15% off of your first order! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Encore Episode: Levi King and Childhood Psychopathy

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2022 80:24


    This week we are releasing an encore episode about a killer that Michelle has interviewed herself, Levi King. If you haven't listened through already, be sure to tune in! HNTRASK will release a brand new episode next week about an adopted killer with astonishing, eerie similarities to his biological family. In September 2005, 23-year-old Levi King was forced to leave his father's home in Pineville, Missouri. He had been there for a week after violating his parole terms and fleeing a halfway house. After waiting for his father to leave in the morning, Levi grabbed several of his fathers guns without his knowledge and began a tragic killing spree that would soon result in five innocent victims. This week on How Not To Raise A Serial Killer, Dr. Michelle Ward and her good friend Alli recount the details of Levi King's killing spree and tragic childhood, as they discuss what could have been done to prevent it. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Israel Keyes Part II: The Evolution of a Psychopath

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2022 57:24


    This week, Michelle and Missy continue to discuss Israel Keyes. The hosts share more shocking details of Samantha's kidnapping and discuss the psychopathy that lead Keyes' to commit these meticulous murders. Michelle also explains how to spot psychopathy in your children (and their friends), empathy as a sixth sense, and therapies to reorganize psychopathic minds to curb violent tendencies. Follow us at @hownottoraiseaserialkiller on Instagram and DM us with your comments and questions! Watch Michelle and her friends on our HNTRASK YouTube Channel Sponsors Framebridge - To frame your photos or send someone the perfect gift, go to framebridge.com and use promo code HOW NOT to save an additional 15% off your order! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Israel Keyes Part I: 'Pure Evil Acting At Random'

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2022 57:58


    On February 1st, 2012, Samantha Koenig arrived at a roadside espresso shop to begin her evening shift. Around 8:00PM, Samantha began to close shop, tidying up the place when a man walked up to the window. That man was Israel Keyes, and he was about to commit his last murder. Keyes would send Samantha's family and friends on a scavenger hunt that ultimately lead to his arrest. On this episode, Michelle brings on her good friend Missy to discuss the many murders, assaults, and burglaries of Israel Keyes while diving into his harrowing childhood. Tune in next week for Part II, where Michelle and Missy discuss additional shocking details of Samantha's kidnapping and murder, the psychology behind the killer, and how you can spot unique psychopathic traits in your kids... and their friends. Follow us at @hownottoraiseaserialkiller on Instagram and DM us with your comments and questions! Watch Michelle and her friends on our HNTRASK YouTube Channel Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Peter Sutcliffe: The Yorkshire Ripper

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 2, 2022 74:30


    The story of Peter Sutcliffe, or the Yorkshire Ripper, is a lesson in botched justice, prejudice against sex workers, and victim blaming. Between 1975 and 1981, Sutcliffe would kill 13 women - many of whom were sex workers - and attempt to murder 7 to 10 more. Police spoke with Sutcliffe a total of 9 times before they discovered he was responsible for these calculating murders. In this episode of HNTRASK, Michelle and her good friend Britt discuss the murders of the Yorkshire Ripper, the botched investigation, and how brain damage in newborns can be reversed through different medical interventions. Tune in every other week for new episodes! Follow us at @hownottoraiseaserialkiller on Instagram, @hntrask on TikTok, and DM us with your comments and questions! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Gerald Stano and the Consequences of Maternal Rejection

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2022 66:27


    On the night of March 10th, 1973, in balmy Florida, two teen girls attempted to hitchhike into town for beer and cigarettes. The next morning, their bodies were discovered by a city worker. This was the work of Gerald Stano, a man who allegedly murdered between 30 and 41 women. On this episode of HNTRASK, Michelle and her good friend Krista tell the stories of Gerald's victims, discuss Gerald's unfortunate start at life, and share what can be done by communities to prevent maternal rejection by supporting mothers. Tune in every other week for new episodes! Follow us at @hownottoraiseaserialkiller on Instagram and DM us with your comments and questions! Watch Michelle and her friends on our HNTRASK YouTube Channel Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Daniel Byrd and the Conundrum of Teen Dating Violence

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 5, 2022 59:34


    In September 2006, Kaity Sudberry began her junior year at Moon Valley High School. Soon after starting the fall semester, Kaity met Daniel Byrd. They immediately became best friends, and as teen relationships do, the friendship quickly escalated into a romance. Over the next year, Daniel's affections turned possessive, and the story ends in every parent's worst nightmare. On this episode of HNTRASK, Michelle invites her Aunt Margit on the podcast to discuss the perils and complexities of teen dating violence, and what parents of victims AND abusers can do to prevent this type of violence. Resources for Teen Violence Founded by Ric and Bobbi Sudberry, Kaity's Way advocates for healthy teen relationships by providing education, skills and tools to youth and their allies. Visit kaitysway.org for resources and to learn how to get involved in preventing teen dating violence. The National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline - 800 799 7233 - is a 24-hour telephone helpline created to help teens experiencing dating abuse. NDVH provides empowerment-based crisis intervention, information, and referrals to victims of domestic violence and their friends and families. love is respect is a national resource to disrupt and prevent unhealthy relationships and intimate partner violence by empowering young people through inclusive and equitable education, support, and resources. Visit loveisrespect.org for resources and to learn how to get involved in preventing dating violence. Follow us on Instagram @hownottoraiseaserialkiller DM us with your suggestions, comments and questions! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Kelly Cochran: A Psychopath Turned Cannibal

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2022 75:30


    In 2002 two high school sweethearts, eager to start their lives together, exchanged wedding vows. While most of these exchanges were the run-of-the-mill "for better or for worse" and "in sickness and in health" - one of their promises was quite disturbing. On their wedding night, the young couple made a murderous pact... if either of them ever cheated on their spouse, they'd have to kill the extramarital lover. On this episode of HNTRASK, Michelle and her good friend Annie dissect the crimes and psyche of serial killer, Kelly Cochran and her husband Jason. As a textbook antisocial psychopath, Kelly used her cold nature and manipulative prowess to evade authorities after (allegedly) killing over a dozen individuals. Kelly's reign of terror finally came to an end at a BBQ she hosted, when her guests began to question why the cuts of BBQ meat looked so strange... Follow us at @hownottoraiseaserialkiller on Instagram Watch Michelle and her friends on our HNTRASK YouTube Channel Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Teen Opens Fire on Classmates: The Consequences of Inaction

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2022 68:11


    Seen this headline before? In 1998, with a 0.22 caliber rifle gifted from his father, a high school boy killed both of his parents and sprayed over 50 rounds of ammunition into his school's cafeteria. What police found next at the teen's home was something out of a horror movie. Why do we continue to allow this story to be told again and again? What can be done to extinguish this brand of violence? As Cindy Dean, creator of the Mental Health Education Management for Educators (MHEME), so thoughtfully states... working to extinguish gun violence is not a "prideful project," it must involve compromise. This week, Michelle and her good friend Cindy discuss the story of an unnamed active shooter, what might have led to his depraved acts of violence, and how targeted programs (like MEME) could curb the frequency of events like this. Follow us at @hownottoraiseaserialkiller on Instagram Watch Michelle and her friends on our HNTRASK YouTube Channel Sponsor Smartass & Sass - Subscribe at smartassandsass.com and use code HOW NOT for 15% off your first subscription! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Lisa Montgomery: The Only Woman on Federal Death Row

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 14, 2022 57:21


    On this episode of HNTRASK, Michelle is joined by Missi and Abigail to discuss the unimaginable crimes committed by Lisa Montgomery. In 2004, Lisa and Bobby Jo Stinnett connected on social media through a dog breeding group. Under the guise of purchasing a puppy, Lisa was invited to Bobby Jo's home. After a gruesome murder and the kidnapping of an unborn child (you read that right...) Lisa became the first female prisoner to be put to death by the U.S. government since 1953. Listen to Michelle, Missi, and Abigail as they discuss Lisa's traumatic childhood, the life of crime that followed, and what can be done to prevent this. Follow us at @hownottoraiseaserialkiller on Instagram Watch Michelle and her friends on our HNTRASK YouTube Channel Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Patrick Lewis: The Murderous Consequences of Chronic Underarousal

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2022 61:22


    During the 80s and 90s, Patrick Lewis murdered over half a dozen women, preying on sex workers who resembled his ex-lover and mother of his child. His terror on women was overlooked by police again and again, as Patrick was repeatedly released from prison on bail. How did these flagrant killings slip under the radar? What were the underpinnings of Patrick's MO? Were there warning signs in his childhood that pointed to a future killer? (Spoiler: YES) On this episode of HNTRASK, Michelle dissects young Patrick Lewis with her new friend Renee, and proposes treatments that could have prevented Patrick's prolific violence. Listen to the full episode wherever you get your podcasts! Follow us at @hownottoraiseaserialkiller on Instagram Watch Michelle and her friends on our HNTRASK YouTube Channel Sponsors Smartass & Sass - Subscribe at Smartassandsass.com and use code HOWNOT for 15% off your first subscription! Follow Smartass & Sass on social media for your daily dose of attitude. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Antonio Bustamante Part II: Medication & Meditation

    Play Episode Listen Later May 31, 2022 32:15


    In Part II of this episode, Michelle and Maleeda continue to discuss how head injuries can lead to dramatic changes in personality and, in some cases, murder, and Michelle gives some shocking solutions to treating head trauma. What do you do after your child hits their head? What does medication and meditation have to do with any of this? Find out the answer to these questions and listen in on some juicy mom stories on this episode of HNTRASK! Follow us at @hownottoraiseaserialkiller on Instagram Watch Michelle and her friends on our HNTRASK YouTube Channel Sponsors StoryWorth - Give all of the fathers in your life a meaningful gift that you can both cherish for years to come! Right now, for a limited time, you can save $10 on your first purchase when you go to StoryWorth.com/HOWNOT Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Antonio Bustamante Part I: The Horrifying Consequences of TBIs

    Play Episode Listen Later May 24, 2022 46:27


    In 1986, Antonio Bustamante broke into a home to steal. As he ransacked the house. He was in the middle of the burglary when the homeowner returned unexpectedly. The owner was a small 80-year-old man who had only gone to the local grocery store. Instead of barreling past the owner to run away, Antonio beat the man to death with his bare hands. In Part I of this story, Michelle and her good friend Maleeda discuss the murders of Antonio Bustamante, the dire effects of traumatic brain injuries, and what this all has to do with a man named Phineas Gage. Listen to Part II to learn more about how you can prevent and TREAT personality changes after head injuries. Follow us at @hownottoraiseaserialkiller on Instagram Watch Michelle and her friends on our HNTRASK YouTube Channel Sponsors EveryPlate - Get started with EveryPlate for just $1.79 per meal by going to EveryPlate.com, and entering code HOWNOT179 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Dr. Shirley Turner and the Murders of Andrew Bagby and Zachary Turner

    Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2022 65:09


    Dr. Shirley Turner wreaked havoc on the lives of many, most notably, terrorizing the Bagby familiy. Turner would murder their only son, Andrew, and grandson Zachary in acts of selfishness and entitlement. What drove this woman to commit such atrocious acts against her boyfriend and her infant son? What, if anything, could have been done to stop her from spiraling in this way? On this episode, Michelle and her good friend Amy discuss the murders of Andrew and Zachary, the signs and symptoms of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), and how this all relates to the Depp v. Heard Trial. Sponsors Audible - Listen to The Miranda Obsession on audible.com/themirandaobsession BetterHelp - How Not To Raise A Serial Killer listeners get 10% off their first month at BetterHelp.com/hownot Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Andrew Cunanan: How Not to Raise A Narcissist

    Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2022 61:13


    On this episode, Michelle and her sister, Heidi, analyze Andrew Cunanan, the infamous killer of Gianni Versace. After being cut off by his sugar daddy, Cunanan took the lives of five people over the course of three months, culminating in the murder of Versace. What could have driven this otherwise well-to-do socialite to commit five murders? Love? Desperation? Money? Well, Michelle and Heidi have a few ideas... Tune in this week as Michelle and Heidi discuss how certain styles of parenting can exacerbate personality disorders, and how parents can channel perceived negative traits into positive activities. Sponsor Smartass & Sass - Subscribe at www.smartassandsass.com and use code HOWNOT for 15% off your first subscription. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Levi King: Psychopathy in Childhood

    Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2022 82:13


    In September 2005, 23-year-old Levi King was forced to leave his father's home in Pineville, Missouri. He had been there for a week after violating his parole terms and fleeing a halfway house. After waiting for his father to leave in the morning, Levi grabbed several of his fathers guns without his knowledge and began a tragic killing spree that would soon result in five innocent victims. This week on How Not To Raise A Serial Killer, Dr. Michelle Ward and her good friend Alli recount the details of Levi King's killing spree and tragic childhood, as they discuss what could have been done to prevent it. Sponsor StoryWorth - Right now for a limited time you'll save $10 on your first purchase when you go to storyworth.com/hownot Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Matthew Cushing: A Compulsion to Kill

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2022 98:22


    Today, Michelle and fellow mom, Claire, sit down to discuss Matthew Cushing and his unthinkable crime. When Matthew was just a young college student, he woke up one day and decided he needed to travel home from school to kill his stepfather... instead, he killed his entire family. How did this young man from a good family end up doing such a terrible deed? After meeting him face to face, Michelle has some theories about what may have been going on in Matthew's brain, and it's something that all parents should be aware of. Today's Sponsors: BetterHelp - As a Special offer for How Not To Raise a Serial Killer listeners, BetterHelp is offering 10% off your first month at betterhelp.com/HOWNOT. That's betterhelp.com/HOWNOT. EveryPlate - Get started with EveryPlate for just $1.79 per meal by going to EveryPlate dot com and entering code hownot179. That's $1.79 per meal by entering hownot179 at Everyplate.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    James Holmes Part 1: Falling Through the Cracks

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2022 55:14


    On July 20, 2012, 24 year-old , James Holmes, bought a ticket for “The Dark Knight Rises” and proceeded to enact one of the worst mass shootings in our country's history up until that point. But how did this tragedy happen, exactly? In Part 1 of this 2 part episode, Dr. Michelle Ward is joined by her good friend and fellow mom, Courtney, to look into Holmes's childhood symptoms and family history, his urge to diagnose himself by pursuing neuroscience, and the full story of his undiagnosed schizophrenia. Part 2 reveals even deeper truths about childhood schizophrenia that all parents should be aware of, so be sure to listen to part 2 as well! Today's Sponsor: BetterHelp - As a Special offer for How Not To Raise a Serial Killer listeners, Better Help is offering 10% off your first month at betterhelp.com/HOWNOT. That's betterhelp.com/HOWNOT. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    James Holmes Part 2: "Self-Diagnosis of a Broken Mind"

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2022 47:36


    James Holmes is responsible for one of the worst mass shootings in United States history. But what can we learn from this terrible incident? By looking into Holmes's childhood symptoms and his undiagnosed schizophrenia, Dr. Michelle Ward finds some important lessons to take away from this tragedy. In Part 2 of this 2 part episode, Dr. Michelle Ward takes a deeper look at schizophrenia and the importance of a proper diagnosis. What can parents do when their own children display symptoms of schizophrenia? How can we fight the stigma against this mental illness (and all mental illnesses) as a society? With the help of her good friend and fellow mom, Courtney, Michelle dives deep so that we can try to prevent a similar tragedy in the future.  Today's Sponsor: BetterHelp - As a Special offer for How Not To Raise a Serial Killer listeners, Better Help is offering 10% off your first month at betterhelp.com/HOWNOT. That's betterhelp.com/HOWNOT. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Introducing: How NOT to Raise a Serial Killer

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2022 2:01


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