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What do rednecks and entitlement have in common? Well, people with these conditions both let off tell-tale signs. Today were going to talk about what signs and symptoms to looks for so you can recognize entitlement when you see it. We'll also talk about how entitlement actually isn't something new to society, it is just more prevalent. In fact, chances are your grandma and grandpa knew darn well what this thing was AND how to prevent it. Moneypants is the only app on the market that claims it can cure entitlement. We'll talk about how exactly Moneypants provides a remedy to all the nasty symptoms of entitlement. And, We'll talk about the differences of needs and wants and as a bonus share the one medical expense every teen should pay for themselves. https://captainmoneypants.com

Have you ever worried that your kids are wasting their time developing a talent that you seriously doubt will go anywhere? What should you do about it? On the flip side, have you ever worried that you might be that parent who is pushing their child and trying to live vicariously through them? Where do you draw the line between being supportive and being pushy? Today we're going to answer these questions and share some simple ways you can protect your relationship with your children, support their dreams, and at the same time have complete confidence that you aren't trying to live their lives for them. https://captainmoneypants.com

A mom recently posted on a social media forum that she had decided to restrict the amount of time her son was spending playing video games, and her son got really upset at her. Video games were really important to him. He was developing his talents by playing them. How could she restrict that? The mom got all confused and didn't know what to do or how to respond, and she was asking other parents for help. Does this scenario sound familiar? Are you wondering if there truly are benefits to gaming that might justify allowing your kids to spend more time on video games? Today, we are going to discuss the top four lies society has taught us regarding video games. We'll discuss how to counteract those lies. And in the end, we are also going to address what to do if your child has developed an addiction to video games. https://captainmoneypants.com

Just like Rome wasn't built in a day, neither was Moneypants. In fact, it's taken us about 20 years to get to where we are now. And today, we are going to get personal and relate the story of how Moneypants came to be. Oddly enough, it wasn't the ease of a perfect life that motivated the creation of Moneypants. Instead, it was a lot of very difficult situations that prompted new solutions. We're going to share ten distinct moments in time that really helped us define Moneypants. By the end of this story, we're hoping you'll feel confident that if we can do Moneypants and it helped our family, it will do the same for you and more so. In fact, we strongly suspect that if you adopt Moneypants you will probably outdo us. https://captainmoneypants.com

Moneypants is a cash-based system, and it's that way for a very good reason. However, handing kids cash introduces certain problems that can turn into a headache. For example, what do you do if the cash your kids earned gets lost or stolen? What do you do if the money gets misspent or your kids lose track of what they spent their money on? And what if your kids start having fights with each other about money and business deals they are making with each other? In this podcast, we are going to explain the 3 easy rules to follow to prevent these common cash problems. https://captainmoneypants.com

Paying kids for chores sound like a brilliant idea up until the moment one of your kids casually waves their hand at you and says, “Nah.  You know what Mom, I'm actually enjoying my book here, I'm not interested in the money today, you can go ahead and do the dishes for me instead.” That's typically when parents say, “Nope, we're not playing this game. You're gonna do your job because you live in this house”. Today we're going to discuss the Moneypants rules to follow when someone in the family neglects to do their job for any reason. After all, the jobs in the house aren't optional.  You can't just let dishes or garbage pile up.  Someone has to do them.  Today we'll discuss how to keep the home running smoothly and fairly whether some is unavailable, sick or simply refuses to do their part.  Plus, we'll share the simple solution of what to do when your teenager starts making money flipping burgers and mistakenly thinks it means they no longer need to help out around the house.  https://captainmoneypants.com

Today we’re going to talk about the art of crafting effective consequences. We recently learned of a judge who creates unique and custom punishments that are much more effective at promoting reform than the national average. Today we’re going to talk about his secret, and we’re also going to talk about how you can imitate his success by using the Moneypants framework. We’ll share 7  principles of crafting custom consequences, including how to use them for rewards as well as punishments. Plus, we’ll analyze some of the key differences between the average parent and a judge in the courtroom and how to bridge that gap. https://captainmoneypants.com

“Consequences” and “control”. Are those bad words? Some people think so! Today we’ll discuss why consequences and control are not only good but absolutely necessary. We’ll discuss the two types of consequences, both natural and logical. And what the role of parents are in administering them. We’ll talk about unintended consequences and how to teach your kids to start considering the consequences of their actions. We’ll also talk about how consequences and freedom are related, and how to determine what freedoms are age appropriate. Plus, we’ll share some specific ideas on how Moneypants bridges the gap between living at home and being on your own. https://captainmoneypants.com

If you had to explain to someone else what manipulation is, what would you say? What exactly is manipulation? For example, when you offer your child or teen a reward for doing what you want, are you being manipulative? Or when you attach consequences for bad behavior, is that manipulation? Today, we are going to define what exactly qualifies as manipulation. We are then going to show why Moneypants naturally helps families avoid manipulation. And hopefully, even give some tools on how to detect it and avoid it altogether. https://captainmoneypants.com

Have you been listening to the Moneypants podcast and think you might be ready to dive in and test it out?  Well, today we’re going to walk you through what you can expect during the first 30 days of implementing Moneypants.  We’ll talk about why we call the first 30 Days “a challenge”, but why this so called “challenge” is actually not that big of a deal if you know what to do.  We’ll talk about the honeymoon week and how to make the most of it and the emotional rollercoaster that typically follows. We’ll explain why the 30 Day challenge will repeat in the future, but will be less and less noticeable as you use Moneypants year after year. Plus, we’ll share some tips for dealing with manipulation. https://captainmoneypants.com

There is a lot of advice out there. Everyone has an opinion. Especially when it comes to raising kids and running the home. A simple internet search will reveal thousands of articles about how to be a good parent. But what do you do when it’s not right? Often one blogger’s advice will conflict with another blogger’s advice. How can you tell what advice is legit and what is just fluff? Today, we’re going talk about why you should try to cut through any unnecessary fluff.  We’ll share 4 easy tests to help determine whether the advice you’re being given will be of value, or whether it is just nonsense. Plus, we’ll apply these 4 easy tests to some actual advice from books. https://captainmoneypants.com

How are you planning on paying for your kids’ college? The answer to that question may be easier than you think. Today we’re sharing our best episode yet. We’re going to discuss how Moneypants can help you and your children save thousands of dollars by avoiding the college debt trap. With college costs skyrocketing and debt going through the roof, we’re going to share 8 ways Moneypants can help. The fact is, there are a lot of options that are a lot better than going into massive debt, and we’re going to talk about them. Plus, we’ll share a cool scholarship technique that we use with our own kids. https://captainmoneypants.com

Do your teens and preteens think they are too old for Moneypants? Are you having trouble getting your teens on board with the program? We’ll talk about the easiest way to convince your teen that Moneypants isn’t just a gimmick for 5-year-olds. In fact, if properly applied, Moneypants actually becomes more beneficial the older your kids get. We’re going to talk about the change in Moneypants that needs to happen as your kids are transitioning into adulthood. We’re going to explain how to reframe Moneypants for teens so instead of being annoyed by it, they will feel genuinely grateful for your help. Plus, we’ll hear from 3 teens and what their experience has been. https://captainmoneypants.com

Do ribbons, trophies, money, and praise create self-confidence? We contend the answer is a resounding “no”. Today, we’re going to discuss where self-confidence truly comes from and why anyone can develop it. We’ll share one easy way parents can support their children’s efforts to cultivate self-confidence. We’ll show how this one secret will increase your child’s chances of getting a better education, have better relationships with peers and teachers, improve their reputation, and open up future opportunities. https://captainmoneypants.com

Part two of “Adult Skills Every Kid Should Have Before Leaving Home”. We’ll discuss ways of incorporating emergency preparedness skills using Moneypants. We’ll talk about the real purpose of developing talents. And we’ll talk about the one sport every child should be required to play. Plus, we’ll share the most effective way to teach your kids self-defense without spending any money. https://captainmoneypants.com

A former dean at Stanford University wrote a blog titled “Adult skills Every 18-year-old should have”. We took that idea and ran with it. We came up with about 40 skills every kid should have before they leave home. And we’re going to talk about how Moneypants can help. We’ll discuss some of the best resources for teaching etiquette, hygiene, basic computer skills as well as the most effective way to teach your child to read, write, and communicate.https://captainmoneypants.com

Today we’re going to talk about the best way to resolve fights between family members in the court of Mom and Dad. First, we’ll talk about what cases should be thrown out by the judge and how to prevent chronic tattling. Next, we’ll also discuss why spending a little more time resolving fights now actually saves you time and energy in the future. We’ll share the secret of how to effectively turn a fight into a teaching moment. And we’ll talk about ways to help deescalate anger and avoid repeat offenses using Moneypants. https://captainmoneypants.com

We are going to reveal the biggest weakness of Moneypants. Yes, there is one major weakness. Moneypants is an incredible program. If you use Moneypants your kids will be hardworking, smart, and talented. Oddly enough, however, this may or may not be a good thing. Today we are going to discuss why that is and what to do about it. https://captainmoneypants.com

Bridge Money!  What is it? and how does it work?  Today we’re going to tell you how bridge money helps family members transition into paying for their own things.  We’re going to talk how bridge money creates a sense of fairness and how it helps parents feel more confident about using Moneypants.  We’ll talk about how bridge money gets repaid.  What to do, if a family member doesn’t have enough money to repay the bridge money.  What to do, if you no longer want to provide bridge money. Finally, we’ll talk about how bridge money makes it much easier to plan out your year. https://captainmoneypants.com

Brandon McMillan, the former star of the show “Lucky Dog”, is the best of the best when it comes to training animals.  Today we are going to breakdown some of the principles Brandon teaches and talk about how they overlap with Moneypants. Turns out, the underlying principles of training apply across the board. From reptiles to elephants to tigers to humans. We’ve chosen 19 concepts that Brandon McMillan uses for training dogs, and we’re going to apply them to using Moneypants.  It’s not a mystery, and everyone can do it. Plus, we’ll share the secret to training dogs to not dig in the yard. https://captainmoneypants.com

Arguments! They are emotionally exhausting, and they strain relationships. Today, we’re going to talk about how to spot an argument, what to do if you find yourself getting into one, and how to avoid them in the future. We’ll talk about the motives your kids may have for arguing and some of the false expectations parents have for arguing. We are also going to discuss the differences between using gimmicks to try and get the behavior you want versus focusing on the responsibilities you actually have control of. And then, we’re going to share five ways Moneypants helps your family avoid arguments in the first place.https://captainmoneypants.com

Criticism kills motivation. But from a practical standpoint isn’t criticism necessary for meaningful progress to take place?  When using Moneypants, how can you avoid the poison of criticism but still help your family members make necessary changes and improvements?  Today we are going to talk about what exactly qualifies as criticism versus what qualifies as correction.  We’ll talk about how the two have very different motivations and very different effects on the person receiving them.  We’ll talk about how to approach problems in a way that helps motivate others.  We’ll talk about why you shouldn’t feel guilty or shy about giving your children a healthy dose of corrections.https://captainmoneypants.com

Are you l00% honest when you communicate with your children? We are going to talk about some of the common situations where parents find themselves lying to their children and to themselves. We’re going to talk about why the habit of lying can undermine the entire Moneypants system. We’ll talk about the primary issues that lead to dishonest communication and ways to help yourself stay honest and straightforward. We’ll talk about avoiding extremes and ways to make what you say carry more weight. https://captainmoneypants.com

This week we are hosting a match: allowances versus Moneypants. The majority of Americans believe it is critical for parents to teach their children to be financially responsible. So, most parents pay their children a weekly allowance with the expectation that it will teach their children to be financially savvy. But is this approach actually working? How well does an allowance actually prepare children to become financially responsible adults? We will break down exactly what qualities make an adult financially responsible. We will then be comparing an allowance with the Moneypants approach and show why Moneypants clearly beats out an allowance every time. We will also discuss why some parents have decided to forgo paying their kids entirely, and why that is a mistake. https://captainmoneypants.com

This week we’re covering the practical nuts and bolts of family counsel. We’ll start off with some quick tips for making family counsel a success.  Then we’ll go through a simple agenda a family might want to follow during their family counsel.  We’ll talk about why the calendar is a key component to even the most basic family counsels.  We’ll talk about the benefits of holding regular family counsel.  We’ll discuss why it might be more difficult to hold family counsels in times of crisis, and why it might be more important to hold counsel during those times.  Finally, if the idea of family counsel still seems overwhelming, we’ll give you an idea of how you can start enjoying some of the benefits with minimal effort or preparation. https://captainmoneypants.com

Family council. Boy doesn’t that sound dry….or is it? We went to the experts and asked some challenging questions such as “Should parents and children have the same level of say? How do you avoid fights and negativity when discussing problems in family council? Does holding family council guarantee cooperation? What sorts of things should be discussed in family council and what sorts of things should not?” We’ll discuss how to teach your children to bring up problems without ruining relationships. We’ll also discuss why holding family council relieves stress and tension at home and improves relationships.https://captainmoneypants.com

Parents usually give their kids money because they want them to learn how to manage money on their own. Today we are going to talk about why Moneypants is the best tool to prepare your children to handle money responsibly in the real world. We’ll talk about the variety of money management tactics financial experts endorse and the big why behind all those plans. Are you worried that if you pay your kids money, they’ll become obsessed with money? We’ll give you the secret for avoiding that pitfall. We’ll discuss the simple secret for making your savings meaningful and we’ll talk about why fun money is necessary for any budget. Finally, we’ll explain exactly how the Moneypants app goes about distributing money into piggy bank on pay day and the important lessons it will teach your children. We will also get some extra insights from a special guest we have invited on the show. https://captainmoneypants.com

In many homes, parents have members of the family take turns doing different jobs.  They either switch jobs daily or weekly.  Today we’ll be talking about the 6 reasons to STOP frequent job rotations.  We’ll talk about how giving family members the same job for an entire year significantly decreases stress in the home, does a better job teaching work ethic, and helps prevent parents from getting burned out.  Finally, we’ll talk about how you can expect your kids to react when they are assigned  the same job for an entire year. https://captainmoneypants.com

Today we’re talking about how to discover your kids’ superpowers. Moneypants is all about developing superpowers, but what are those superpowers? We’ll talk about nine keys to helping every family member discover what their superpowers are. And what things will get in the way of your objective. How parents are like coaches and have the responsibility to discover the talents and abilities of their team members. Why you shouldn’t be afraid to be wrong and try different things. Be sure to listen to the end, where we’ll show that superpowers may not be exactly what you think. And you may be surprised to discover you have more powers than you realize! https://captainmoneypants.com

Today we’re going to talk about how to create a balanced meal of habits. How work ethic isn’t just about chores. We’re going to talk about the six different categories of habits. How to avoid extremes. The foundational habits. What habits create a foundation for the other habits to make sure you succeed at your other habits. We’re going to talk about why certain kinds of goals are necessary. And give examples of different types of habits and what ones are the most effective. We’ll also talk about how to replace a bad habit with a good one, and what to watch out for. https://captainmoneypants.com

Today we’re going to talk about the power of Quickpoints—the jelly beans of Moneypants. The smallest rewards available on the Moneypants app. Why they work, how they work, and ideas for using quickpoints in your home. We’ll discuss five different uses for quickpoints, including using them for learning, going on short trips, anytime you’re waiting in line, for small clean up jobs, and for catching random acts of goodness. We’ll also talk about the psychology behind quickpoints and why they are so effective. https://captainmoneypants.com

The Three “M” Privileges: Money, Media, and Mobility. We’re going to talk about the third and final of the three “M” Privileges: Mobility. Yes, we’re discussing teenagers and cars. We’ve invited a special guest, who has a lot of experience with both. We’re going to talk about whether you should give your kids a car, let them borrow the family car, if they should be on your insurance, who should pay the registration, gas, and pay for repairs. We’re going to talk about some of the problems to anticipate with a new teenage driver. Things to consider as you walk into the world of teenage drivers. And how the Moneypants philosophy can help you navigate and act as your personal GPS. https://captainmoneypants.com

The Three “M” Privileges: Money, Media, and Mobility. We’re going to talk about the second of the three “M” Privileges: Media. Today we are going to try to convince you that all media and devices in the home should belong to mom and dad. This includes TV, movies, internet, social media, books, and music. We’re going to discuss some of the things to consider in your family council as your family comes up with rules about media in your home. We’re also going to talk about how unfettered access to media can act as kryptonite to your kids developing their superpowers.  https://captainmoneypants.com

The Three “M” Privileges: Money, Media, and Mobility. We’re going to talk about the first of the three “M” Privileges: Money. Why you should limit your kids' access to money. Why money earned outside the home should be treated as a privilege, not a right. How to keep money earned outside the home from destroying your Moneypants system. Problems to anticipate when teens start earning money outside the home. What things you should be discussing in family council before kids get jobs outside the home. Some of the problems you can anticipate and prevent. Some of the safety issues involved when kids work outside the home. The risks and dangers of having money that’s unaccounted for. Safety issues to watch out for when your kids are getting jobs from people you know or even nearby businesses. https://captainmoneypants.com

We’re going to talk about our history with fees. We’ll talk about the lab work we’ve done here in our home and what actually happened when we tried to use fees in different ways. When collecting fees, we’ll talk about what did NOT work, what DOES work, and how to use fees effectively. We’ll discuss how to frame fees so you can support your family members with their goals. We’ll share the five steps to being a peacemaker in the home. Ideas about where fee money can go. Should parents get fees or not? And what types of soap taste the best. https://captainmoneypants.com

We’ll talk about three uses for the prize bag. Who should fill up the prize bag, and why? Why you should treat free stuff differently than stuff your kids pick out at the store themselves. Why you’re NOT being a miser by charging kids money for stuff that was given to your family for free. How to avoid prize bag fights. How the prize bag can build immediate and long-term trust. How charging money for prize bag items helps connect the concepts of work, earnings, and purchases. And how having prizes set aside ahead of time can help people of all ages achieve long-term goals.https://captainmoneypants.com

What has undeveloped motor skills, a short memory, limited vocabulary, poor organizational skills, is unable to understand delayed gratification, and has a short attention span, but really wants to help out at home? That’s right: toddlers! Today we’re going to talk about the specific and practical steps to teaching a toddler how to master a job. If you’re the parent of a toddler or a child with special needs, you’re going to love this. But hold on! What if you’re not the parent of a toddler? This episode is still for you. Anybody who faces a new and overwhelming task will find they have a lot in common with toddlers. Be sure to keep listening, because the trick to overcoming is very much the same. It just happens a lot faster. Plus, we’ll talk about why it’s so critical to be needed.https://captainmoneypants.com

We’re going to talk about becoming a master, Mr. Miyagi style. We’re going to talk about how mastery points came to be and what they mean. Why rotating jobs can lead to mediocrity. How parents can have peace of mind as their kids grow up and leave home. And what it means to truly master a job. And why you should definitely “come back tomorrow”. https://captainmoneypants.com

How to create the perfect, delicious 6-layer rewards parfait. When creating rewards, you don’t have to limit yourself to just one type of reward. Layered rewards are WAY more effective and serve different purposes and accomplish different goals—both short term and long term. We’ll talk about how to use payday, privileges, treats, the job bonus, the habit bonus, and mastery points—all to help motivate every member of the family to become their best selves. We’ll also talk about how using layered rewards helps maintain good relationships and straight-forward communication. https://captainmoneypants.com

How to leverage the money and resources you already have to help motivate your family members to become their best selves. Did you know that most parents have no idea how much they actually spend on their kids? When they go to try paying their kids an allowance, they either grossly overpay or way underpay their kids, and the results are less than stellar. We’ll talk about how to determine how much to pay your kids. And what your kids should be paying for themselves. Hint: it’s not the electric bill. We’ll answer the question: how much should I pay my kid for doing the dishes? It totally depends. We’ll share the secret sauce behind figuring out the optimal pay. Plus, we’ll talk about how you can still use the Moneypants concept even if you are flat broke. https://captainmoneypants.com

Do you ever feel like when you got married, your life was over and you lost your sense of identity? If so, you’re not alone. Society places bizarre and unhealthy expectations on parents. It doesn’t need to be that way. Moms and dads are people, too, with talents and abilities and major things to contribute. Perhaps even the most important contributions of all. Today, we’ll talk about the top ten reasons moms and dads should use Moneypants Boss and why it may be the greatest thing since sliced bread. Plus, how Moneypants stops all sorts of fights in the home, including fights about money. https://captainmoneypants.com

The job inspector. Why you need one. Why a job inspector is an absolute necessity. The qualities you should look for in a top-notch job inspector. What mistakes to avoid when inspecting, especially the secret to avoiding manipulation and fights and never-ending job time. Plus, we will have a special guest, the reigning champion of job inspectors: the one and only Trixie Petunia Pineapple. She’ll share her method for running a successful job inspection routine. https://captainmoneypants.com

You have to have a spending plan or else your money will disappear. But is it part of a budget, a spending plan, or a rewards plan? Or is it all three? Why money in and of itself is a poor motivator. It’s just little green pieces of paper. Find out how using a spending plan changes that poor motivator into a fantastic motivator for each individual in the family. Find out why a spending plan creates more satisfaction, helps avoid fights with your kids and also fights with your spouse. Discover tips and tricks for effectively setting up a spending plan. And how this is going to save you time, energy, and get rid of stress for the entire year. https://captainmoneypants.com

What is job jar? We’ll talk about how job jar works, what the benefits are and what the limits are. How it works in conjunction with daily and weekly jobs. Why kids and adults love it. And the big mistake to avoid when handing out extra jobs. https://captainmoneypants.com

Some parents are very adamant that paying kids money is a huge mistake. And they have some pretty valid reasons for saying that. We’re going to share with you how to avoid disaster when paying your kids. We’ll talk about the concept of directed spending, giving your kids choices within specific boundaries, what to do if your kids don’t want to spend their money on piano lessons but you want them to. What the benefits are for both you and your children when you adopt directing spending. And why the kazoo may just be the answer to all your problems. https://captainmoneypants.com

Today our goal is to convince you that the job timer is your friend. And a friend of the whole family. We’ll discuss how long job time should be, when is the best time to hold job time, what happens when job time is up, and how the honeymoon first week affects the job timer. We’ll talk about other ways the timer can be used: for bedtime, fixing behavior problems, creating good habits, and motivating academic achievement. But make sure you listen to the very end, where we will share with you the best secret yet: how to make your family vacation a roaring success. You won’t be disappointed. https://captainmoneypants.com

Payday. It’s not just about the money. We’ll discuss why you should hold payday. The right way to do it. And a bunch of wrong ways. The secret to jumpstarting Moneypants if you’ve gone off track. How it helps with achieving your goals and why it helps establish trust with your family members. Plus, we’ll talk about directed spending, when to use the prize bag, and the power of cash. https://captainmoneypants.com

Part two of what to do with satanic grandparents. This podcast turned out to be much longer than we originally thought. We’ll keep discussing the importance of getting gifts under control, especially when it comes to grandparents. The three types of grandparents and how to deal with each type. https://captainmoneypants.com

How gifts to your kids can totally upend your family system. What to do? When people give your family and kids gifts, how to deal with them, whether it’s friends, family, neighbors, coworkers, or grandparents. Why you should pay for free stuff that you get, even if it’s only a dollar. Plus, ideas to implement this Christmas. https://captainmoneypants.com 

Put your darn kids to bed. Seriously. We’ll talk about the sleep needs of infants, toddlers, kids, tweens, teens, and even adults; and even really old people who accomplish amazing things. What to do when your toddler won’t go to bed, why sleep is so critical to your goals, and how to help your teen not be so teen-like. Plus, how much sleep a person needs may surprise you. https://captainmoneypants.com