Private Party

Ashley is back for a reunion episode! Ashley tells us all about her big move to North Carolina as well as how it has been being a newlywed. The ladies discuss letting go of a jaded mentality and opening up to new chapters and opportunities. They also talk about how they overcome getting out of their own way when it comes to accomplishing the goals they have set. The episode ends with reflecting on the upcoming New Year and what the focus will be going into 2020. This episode is funny, reflective, and will leave you thinking about your next steps going into the new year. Let's get this party started! Instagram: @Privatepartypodcast Email/Collaboration Opprotunities: Privatepartypodcast@gmail.com   

Happy Hour: This Happy Hour the ladies are wearing shirts from Yes She Blogs. A blog that is made to inspire Millenials to live authentically. They have a discussion around how Millenials are often viewed by generations before them and how they have been given a "Rebel" reputation. The ladies make some good points on why Millennials are not able to follow in their parent's footsteps and some other ways to view the negative reputation Millennials have been given from the older generation. Khadijah, Tasha, and their guest host Vaden give real-life examples of how they have broken the traditional mold being millennials and the reactions they received from their parents around it.   Another Round: If you could introduce your current self to your younger self, what advice or insight would you give them? The ladies have an insightful and eye-opening conversation about some things they would tell their younger self if given the chance. They are hoping by sharing this with their listeners that they can give insight to other women who are once where they were and thought how they once thought. Hindsight is definitely a muthafucka at times ( As we say here on Private Party). So you want to tune in to this episode to soak up some of these gems. Who knows, they may speak to something you are going through currently. Don't be tardy to the party! Song: Kalin White - Routine Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Email: Privatepartypodcast@gmail.com

Happy Hour: The Happy Hour topic turned into the main topic of this episode. The ladies are talking about inconsistent parents. When you are the main caregiver of your child and the other parent comes and goes as they please, do you allow it this inconsistent behavior? or do you put your foot down by telling the other parent it is either all in or all out? Kiaya, Tasha, and Khadijah talk about their experiences with inconsistent parents in their lives and how they feel it affected them. Tasha and Khadijah also talk about dealing with their own children's fathers and which stance they take on this discussion. Parents, this episode is for you! Tune In! Instagram: @Privatepartypodcast YouTube: Private Party Podcast Email: Privatepartypodcast@gmail.com

Happy Hour: This Happy Hour the ladies are joined by Gia Jurosky also known as @justgtoyou on Instagram. Gia has been friends with Khadijah, Kiaya, and Tash for several years. They invited Gia on the show to discuss being single and dating in your 30's. The Happy Hour topic jumpstarts this talk by talking about a boyfriend who gave his girlfriend an ultimatum regarding her hairstyle. Jeff joins in on this conversation as well to give a man's perspective. Everyone seems to have different views and perspectives around this one.   Another Round: The ladies talk with Gia about all things dating and single life. Gia shares some hilarious stories about dating in 2019 and meeting guys on the new dating apps such as Tinder and Bumble. Her stories will have you dying laughing! Gia also gets super transparent about some of the internal doubts and fears that also come along with dating in your 30's, that many women can relate to. Gia is candid and made this episode super fun. Let's get this party started!

Happy Hour: The ladies are back for season 4! The Happy  Hour topic for this episode is about a strange request made from a bride to be to her bestie. Tash, Khadijah, and Kiaya are all in agreeance about this one but want to know, what you would do if your bestie were to ask this of you? Shaken Not Stirred: Joy also known as MissJone has come to the party. Joy shares her story around being in a long-term relationship and her partner having a child with someone else, during the relationship. Joy keeps it all the way real about how she navigated such a difficult time in her life, and she was very transparent about all of the feelings that she experienced along the way. Joy gives a very insightful perspective. She wholeheartedly believes this situation did not happen to her but for her. Listen to this episode to find out more about her story and her views around this. Joy is sharing her story in hopes of helping a woman who may be dealing with a similar situation. We hope by having her share her story that she can help that woman navigate her situation as well as feel related to when it comes to all the emotions that come along with a situation like this. We also discuss co-parenting. We share our own experiences as well as our opinions and the do’s and donts of co-parenting. Let’s get this party started!

Happy Hour: The girls catch up as they sip on Mimosas.       Another Round: Chrisnatha Derosier joins the party this week. Chrisnatha is an amazing Life Coach that specializes in helping women go from confusion to clarity, so that they can live a life full of purpose. She provides women the tools to identify the underlining issues that they may be dealing with unconsciously, also known as "Invisible Baggage". Chrisnatha will share with you some ways to unpack this baggage so that you can live your best life! Don't be tardy to the party!

Happy Hour: The ladies talk about Nipsey Hussle and the tragedy of him passing away. They talk about his legacy and what an exceptional person he was. RIP Nip!   Another Round: Before committing to an exclusive relationship with a person, should there be a sit down discussion about where each other are financially? At what point in a relationship should you and your partner lay your finances out on the table? While dating? While engaged? After being married? The ladies all have an opinion about this one, that will have you laughing and rethinking some things all at the same time. They even disclose some financial woes they have found themselves in that they are sure most people can relate to. You already know. It's none of your business, but they gonna talk about it anyway!

Happy Hour: The Happy Hour topic this week is for the working mothers and the single mothers. Tasha and Khadijah talk to the listeners about the obstacles they have encountered being single mothers and some of the emotions that come along with it. They also have some sound advice for any mothers who can relate to their journey in navigating motherhood, as well as some encouraging words. Kiaya gives a different perspective of being a very involved Aunt who helps raise her two nephews. She gives some observations from the outside looking in and how helping raise her nephews has impacted her views on motherhood.   Shaken Not Stirred: "Shame hates it when we reach out and tell our story. It hates having words wrapped around it. It can't survive being shared. Shame loves secrecy. When we bury our story, the shame metastasizes. - Brene' Brown The main topic for today is SHAME. We have all experienced situations or have something that is a part of us or our lives that we have felt ashamed of. Most times we will not share the things that eat us up inside, simply because we feel shame around the way it sounds. The ladies take shame head on, this episode. Khadijah reveals something she has felt shame around for years and has never shared with anyone but her mother, until this episode. Kiaya and Tasha also disclose experiences that they have gone through that they found themselves not wanting to share with people simply because they felt shame around it. The topic gets pretty heavy. Kiaya, Khadijah, and Tasha are hoping that by shedding light on their shameful experiences, it will encourage someone else to put shame to rest by sharing their truth and embracing their journey fully. As always "Its None of your business, but we gonna talk about it anyway!"   Song: Kay Austin - 452 Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Facebook: Private Party Podcast Twitter: __Privateparty Email: Privatepartypodcast@gmail.com  

Happy Hour: The ladies touch on a little bit of everything this week starting with the Kardashian drama that has taken place with Khloe's man Tristan Thompson and Kylie's best friend Jordyn Woods. Khadijah Share's a time when she found herself in a similar situation and how that whole situation panned out. Tasha and Kiaya have their opinions on what they believe they would do if put in Kylie's shoes.   Another Round: The main topic today is around Liars. Jessie Smollett is at the top of the liar list this week. The ladies dissect this story and their feelings regarding his haux. They also get into a hilarious convo about some of the lies they have told and regretted, some things they will ALWAYS lie about and so much more. TUNE IN!    

Happy Hour: The Happy Hour topic touches on who is considered the head of the household. If a man and woman are not married can the man still be considered the head? What makes a man the head of the house. This convo is hilarious. Tash, Kiaya, and Khadijah have some input that will have you dying laughing.   Another Round: This week's main topic is about rejection. How rejection is a test to your self awareness, self love, and confidence as a whole. The ladies talk about some rejection they have been through with men as well as what this rejection revealed to them about themselves. They also talk about how to overcome when someone some breaks-up with you and how to not let rejection define your self perception. Don't be tardy to the party!!

Happy Hour: The ladies are back with season 3! As they sip on a "Southern Tea" they have a very important announcement. They also fill you in on all that each of them have been up to and apologize for the LOOOOOONG wait.   Another Round: The topic at hand is the "Surviving R.Kelly Documentary" They get into rape culture in the black community as well as the worth of black women. They also question black men and their support for black women, when black women deal with sexual assault. The conversation is real and candid. They even had Jeff aka spindarella HAHA come from behind the scenes to give his input on the topic. Absolutely a party you don't want to miss. So grab your drink and get comfortable and get ready for this all access pass!!

This Happy Hour Kiaya and Khadijah talk about their elegant night gone rachet. They also discuss the tragic stabbing that took place in the Bronx.   The main topic for this episode is around headspace and mental health. With all of the suicides happening with celebrities the conversation felt fitting. Each of the ladies share their own struggles with keeping a positive headspace and even some of the dark thoughts they have had when their headspace was not in the best state. This is a topic that any and everyone can relate to. So what are you waiting for?? TUNE IN!   Song: Royce da 5'9 - Strong Friend​ Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Facebook: Private Party Podcast Twitter: @__Privatepary Email: privatepartypodcast@gmail.com

After a loooog spring/summer break the ladies are finally BACK! They have so much to catch up on. Kiaya gives an update on how single life has been for her in 2018 thus far. Tasha opens up about a conflict she had with her Mom and the power of forgiveness. Khadijah talks about her struggle with being detached in relationships and where she thinks it stems from. Ashley catches us up on how her long distance relationship is going.. and SO much more! So grab your drinks and get ready for this ALL ACCESS PASS!! Song: Eric Bellinger - Meditate​ Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Email: privatepartypodcast@gmail.com Twitter: @__privateparty Facebook: Private Party Podcast

**This episode was recorded via virtual call. Please bear with us this week on sound quality**   The ladies are talking "Single" life this week. They will share some of their craziest stories and sexcapdes from their single days. When it comes to being single should the mentality be "Play or get played" in order to maintain your power? All of the ladies seem to be on the same page around this question. With break up season on the horizon it only makes sense the ladies drop some gems for their single listeners who are ready to be "Outchea" this summer.   The ladies also highlight some hot topics this week around Fab and Emily's domestic violence allegations and what their thoughts are on this whole Khloe' and Tristan situation. You already know, its none of your business BUT, we gone talk about it anyway! Song: CHE - Before I Die   Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/privatepartypod Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Facebook: Private Party Podcast Twitter: __Privateparty Email: Privatepartypodcast@gmail.com  

Maria aka Khadijah's Mom aka Re-Dawg, is back for part 2 of the OG episode! The ladies still had so many questions for Maria around life. They ask her to reflect on each decade of her life and what she feels every stage has taught her. If you could tell your younger self one thing, what would it be? Re-dawg is here to be your own personal "Cheat Sheet" on life. You will turn this episode off feeling reflective, hopeful, wiser, and looking forward to what life has coming your way!  Song: Sk8 - Save Me Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/privatepartypod Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Facebook: Private Party Podcast Twitter: __Privateparty Email: Privatepartypodcast@gmail.com

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Happy Hour: The ladies sip on some Apothic Brew for the very first time. It is a bold red blend that has added cold brew coffee to its process. All of the ladies have different opinions on this strange duo.   Part 1 of "THE OG" episode...Khadijah's Mom AKA Re-Dawg has joined the party this week to drop some OG knowledge on areas of life we all can relate to. She will give her wise perspective on  parenting, child support, dating etiquette, and SO MUCH more! She even chimes in on one of Kiaya's cocktales. Kiaya, Ashley, Khadijah, and re-dawg definitely get the party started. This is an episode you don't want to miss! Song: Svnthesinger - Phases Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/privatepartypod Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Facebook: Private Party Podcast Twitter: __Privateparty Email: Privatepartypodcast@gmail.com

Khadijah and Kiaya are hosting this week's episode without their co-hosting Tasha and Ashley. Since the ladies had a hard time getting together this week Kiaya and Khadijah decided to do something a little different. This week they are catching you up with some of your favorite past episode guest. These past guest will share what they have been up to since being a guest on Private Party, as well as how being on Private Party has affected their life and inspired them in some way. Let's get this party started!!  Song: Plaza Personal Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/privatepartypod Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Facebook: Private Party Podcast Twitter: __Privateparty Email: Privatepartypodcast@gmail.com      

  This week's topic is all about infidelity. The big question is "Can a relationship ever FULLY recover, after infidelity?" Kiaya, Tasha, Ashley, and Khadijah all have very different opinions on this complicated question. They also discuss if there is ever an instance where the person who has been cheated on is the one who takes ownership for their partner cheating. If this scenario does exist when and why? Lastly, do you believe in "Taking a break" in a relationship? The conversation around this question is super funny. Each host will answer this question, as well as define what a "break" means in their eyes. Per usual, its none of your business BUT, we're gonna talk about it anyway! Song: Anders - Bad guy Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/privatepartypod Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Facebook: Private Party Podcast Twitter: __Privateparty Email: Privatepartypodcast@gmail.com

The ladies get really personal this episode as they share with you their relationship's with their father's. Kiaya and Ashley speak on how they feel having a present and active father has molded them into the women they are how they feel it gave them an upper hand when dating. Khadijah and Tasha speak about their fathers being absent majority of their lives and how they feel this has affected them even into their adulthood. They say a father is the first man you will ever love. They also say your father is the only man who will love you unconditionally. How do women who have not been able to experience that kind of love navigate through life differently verses those who have? You already know...It's none of your business BUT we gonna talk about it anyway!  Song: John Mayer - Daughters Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/privatepartypod Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Facebook: Private Party Podcast Twitter: __Privateparty Email: Privatepartypodcast@gmail.com

Cocktales: The ladies are sipping on Irish Mules this episode, as they talk "Bad Sex". Can you teach an old dog new tricks? Can you be with someone that doesn't satisfy you in the bedroom? Does size really matter? Kiaya, Ashley, Tasha, and Khadijah have a lot to say on this topic.   Another Round: The ladies are discussing interracial relationships and their opinions around the topic. They also speak their minds about how black men in interracial relationships, sometimes blame black women for their decision to be in an interracial relationship. You already know, its none of your business BUT we're gonna talk about it anyway.   ​Chris LaRocca - Call Me Up (ft. vixu) Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/privatepartypod Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Facebook: Private Party Podcast Twitter: __Privateparty Email: Privatepartypodcast@gmail.com

Happy Hour: The ladies sip on some Absolut Lime cocktails, as we open with this week’s #TalkTuesday topic. Do all men cheat? We explore each of the ladies perspectives. Kiaya is adamant that ALL men cheat! Do you agree all men HAVE cheated? The ladies give their take on the possibilities why a man may cheat and share their crazy past experiences. This conversation may make you rethink the questions you ask on your next #DateNight. V.I.P List: This week the ladies switched up the game! The special guest is Big Poppa aka Kiaya’s Dad, Mr. Eric. He stops by to drop some OG knowledge on us. He shares his experience being a single father to all girls – even the experience raising a child that was not his biologically yet he loves them all the same. The backstory gets deep as he shares his own unique upbringing, manhood and the fatal loss of a brother over $2. To sharing loving an addict and the impact it all had on his marriage and current dating life. The ladies get a deeper understanding of Kiaya and share some feminine moments. The conversation is hilarious!! Like always, this is a party you don't want to miss! It is none of your business, BUT they are gonna talk about it ANYWAY!   Song: Kalin white - Motions​ Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/privatepartypod Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Facebook: Private Party Podcast Twitter: __Privateparty Email: Privatepartypodcast@gmail.com

Happy Hour: The ladies sip on some spiced sangria as they discuss dating and etiquette. They share stories of guys they have dated having horrible etiquette and what they feel their definition of home training is. They even share some embarrassing moments of their own where a date may have judged them for not knowing the proper manners. The conversation is hilarious!! What are your etiquette deal breakers??   Another Round: The topic for today is Toxic Relationships. How do you tell the difference between the usual growing pains, of a relationship, verses a relationship that is unhealthy? Kiaya, Tasha, Khadijah, and Ashley have the top 10 ways to tell if your relationship is toxic. They also discuss in detail their own experiences with toxic relationships. They discuss everything from, the lies they told themselves while in it, and the internal thoughts they had to tell themselves in order to get out of it. Like always, this is a party you don't want to miss! It is none of your business, BUT they are gonna talk about it ANYWAY!   Song: Malachi - Basement (ft. February & The Big Hash)​ Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/privatepartypod Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Facebook: Private Party Podcast Twitter: __Privateparty Email: Privatepartypodcast@gmail.com

This episode Eriel Wicks comes through the party to share a very personal story about her life. This small town girl was faced with a BIG secret as a teen that not only changed her life from that point on, but has been a big reason for a lot of the choices she has made along the way. Eriel shares her story in hopes of bringing light to a situation that is more common in many families than most, people would believe. She hopes to help someone who has found themselves in her shoes to find understanding and peace within themselves. She also hopes that anyone who listens to her story and has faced the same situation, can feel relief in knowing that someone else has been through the same, and that you can come out on top, better and stronger. This is definitely a topic that is NONE of our business BUT we are going to talk about it anyway! Song: Song - Jay LaVita - E.T.A. (soon to be released)​ Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/privatepartypod Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Facebook: Private Party Podcast Twitter: __Privateparty Email: Privatepartypodcast@gmail.com

The ladies are finally BACK for season 2! In this episode, they are so excited to catch their listeners up on what they have been up to and all of the life changes that have taken place since last season. Season 2 will be LIT and they hope you are ready for what they have in store. So grab your drink and get ready for this all access pass!   Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Facebook: Private Party Podcast Twitter: __Privateparty Email: Privatepartypodcast@gmail.com   Song: Contact Me by K Forest Episode is sponsored by: Whiplashed by Lex Justbphotography Hush Collectionz

**Announcement** Private Party Podcast will be ending Season 1 after this episode. We will return in January with season 2! This episode Mar Mason, Co-founder of the CheckRock basketball league and clinic, has come to crash the party. He keeps it a 100 with the ladies and lets them know what is takes for a woman to be is VERY IMPORTANT PERSON. Mar talks about women nagging in relationships, along with what kind of women he finds to be the most clingy. They even get into some deeper issues with Mar around being a black man in society and how he feels he has been received by black women, in the workplace or even just walking down the street. Mar also comments on the topic from last episode on if a woman doesn't go out, does it make her more or less "Wifey Material". The conversation is candid, straightforward, eye opening, and of course hilarious. You already know...It's none of your business, BUT we're gonna talk about it anyway.   Facebook: Private Party Podcast Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Twitter: @__privateparty Song: Quinten Hachett and Dylan Matthew - WYTD

The ladies answer some listener's questions this episode. One in particular concerns Ashley and her Celibacy update. Is she still holding on to her C card? This question somehow leads into a hilarious "For the D" challenge that will have you in tears from laughing so hard. The ladies also discuss the recent Dove controversy and their take on the whole ordeal. The main topic for this episode is "WOMEN VS WOMEN". As women we all have our insecurities and we all have found ourselves jealous or envious of another woman at some point. However, why is it always one group of women verse another group of women? Such as, the woman who is a homebody talking down to the woman who goes out with her friends on the weekend, Or the woman who's hair is natural talking down about a woman who wears a weave and so on and so forth. The ladies touch on their thoughts around this and Khadijah shares a recent Facebook incident that made her feel as though she was being talked down to, as a woman with a child. As usual, Its none of your business....BUT we gonna talk about it ANYWAY!   Facebook: Private Party Podcast Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Twitter: @__privateparty  Music: Isaac Kawelo - Like that Feat. Locate (Prod. Forest green)

Cocktales: Tasha, Kiaya, and Khadijah sip on some sparkling while talking SEX BLOOPERS. Have you ever been having sex and things did NOT go as planned or something really embarrassing happened? The ladies tell some of there hilarious sex bloopers. This convo will have you in tears from laughing!   Another Round: First round topic is around going "Ghost" on a friend of the opposite sex, once you are in a relationship. Does your friend of the opposite sex deserve an explanation, before you go missing or before you end the friendship? Should you even end the friendship at all? The ladies will discuss this question from all angles.   Second round topic, we are still discussing friends of the opposite sex. The ladies discuss how they feel about their partner having a best friend or friends of the opposite sex. This topic is sensitive for some of the ladies and the dialogue around this is not only relatable but hilarious. Listen to Khadijah, Tasha, and Kiaya share their own personal experiences around this topic. You already know...its none of your business BUT we're gonna' talk about it anyway!

Happy Hour: The ladies are sipping on a Strawberry Sparkletini as they catch up. Ashley had a family Emergency and could not join the party. Kiaya, Tasha, and Khadijah discuss a recent episode from Being Mary Jane and how it touched on their Mad Black Woman episode. Tash has an exciting announcement to make!   Another Round: The ladies have a brand NEW segment! During the Another Round segment the ladies discuss multiple topics.   Topic 1 is entitled "Autumn Leaves". Kiaya brings up how the transition into the fall season makes her reflect on the next phase in life. The ladies talk about how they decipher what relationships, friendships, habits, etc. to move forward with and what should be left behind. Khadijah and Tasha each share their own personal experiences with letting go of friendships and being the friend who was actually dismissed.   Topic 2 is entitled "soft as teddy bear but hard as a rock". When us women give our men our ass to kiss why do we expect him to look past the attitude, and still show us affection and vulnerability? Kiaya, Khadijah, and Tasha all admit to being guilty of this. They discuss there personal experience with this, how they have changed their approach, and the outcome from it all. Don't be tardy to the party! Facebook: Private Party Podcast Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Twitter: @__privateparty  

It’s 5 o’clock somewhere; the ladies are back catching up on life. Sparkling wine in the cutest, “light weight” champagne flutes set the mood for a discussion about, letting go of that attractive man or woman that’s no good for you. This leads to a larger discussion about insecurity and how your partner’s issues can weigh you down. They also get into biggest turn offs and turn ons when it comes to the opposite sex. Side eyeing a B WORD that laughs a little too hard at your man and more hilarious dialogue related to these topics.   Jeff is back again, filling in for Tasha as he holds in his laughs waiting for the cue to speak. Khadijah shares a real life issue about taking on other peoples baggage, especially when it comes to siblings or extended family. Resentment, jealousy and unresolved childhood issues always seem to create a divide. Ashley and Kiaya weigh in with their perspective and realize that Jay-z said it best, “nobody wins when the family feuds”. We know somebody can relate! Let's get this party started! You already know...It's is none of your business, BUT we're gonna talk about it anyway.  Facebook: Private Party Podcast Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Twitter: @__privateparty Song: Eric Bellinger ft Blaq Tuxedo - Frequency

Happy Hour: The ladies sip on some bubbly. They discuss everything from Hurricane Irma leaving Ashley stuck in Puerto Rico to Kevin Hart’s epic fail cheating and extortion. Spinderella aka Jeff adds a male perspective to the conversation, while Tasha attends her church anniversary celebration.   The main Happy Hour topic this episode surrounds the question "How do you define Black Love?” The ladies get in depth about their opinions on the meaning, as well as share their experiences staying true to themselves in relationships. We all agreed the Cosby Show personified “Black Love” and we can’t forget Martin and Gina. Let's get this party started! You already know...   It is none of your business, BUT we're gonna talk about it anyway.  Facebook: Private Party Podcast Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Twitter: @__privateparty Song: Confetti by YMTK

Happy Hour: The ladies sip on some Makers and Gingerale. They talk about keeping the spark in your relationship. Khadijah and Tasha talk about something they recommend all ladies try in their relationship to keep the fire going. They also talk about sending nudes. When does a guy become worthy of receiving a nude?   The larger Happy Hour topic this episode surrounds the question "When is it ok to be selfish" The ladies get in depth about their opinions on this topic as well as share some experiences they have had when they realized they needed to be selfish. Let's get this party started! You already know...It is none of your business, BUT we're gonna talk about it anyway.  Facebook: Private Party Podcast Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Twitter: @__privateparty

Happy Hour: The ladies sip on some tequila and lemonade this Happy Hour. They discuss Kevin Hart, his current wife, and his ex wife. The debate is, was his current wife a side chick before they were married? The discussion around this is hilarious!   Shaken NOT Stirred: Brianna Phoenix (@Brii_tatted) came through the party this week. Brii is an alternative tattoo model as well as a creative director. The ladies speak with Brii, this week, about a taboo topic that happens often in the military. She tells the ladies all the details about this traumatic experience and how it was life altering for her and took her to the brink of suicide. Kiaya, Khadijah, Tasha, and Ashley are hoping this interview with Brii will shed awareness and give a voice to other military women who have been through a similar experience. You already know...It's none of your business, BUT we're gonna talk about it anyway!   Facebook: Private Party Podcast Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Twitter: @__privateparty

Happy Hour: During this happy hour the ladies enjoy some Jameson and Ginger beer while catching up. They also talk about the Floyd VS McGregor fight as well as some of the recent protest taking place in Charlottesville. STAY WOKE!   Shaken NOT Stirred: Anique Oliver (@aniquesahara), blogger and creative director, swings by the party to discuss her 5 year fight with infertility. Amongst the 7.3 million women in the United States, approximately 7% of white women experience infertility compared to 11.5% of African American women. Many women suffer in silence when it comes to dealing with infertility. The ladies hope that by having Anique be transparent and open about her experience it will help other women feel they are not alone. Anique gives some really good advice and resources to women who are still fighting infertility, as well as motivation to keep fighting. As usual, it's none of your business, BUT we're gonna talk about it anyway.  Anique's Announcement Video: HERE Song: Alayna - High Off You is the song  Facebook: Private Party Podcast Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Twitter: @__privateparty

Happy Hour: The ladies are missing Ashley this episode as they sip on some Rose' Mimosas. They discuss being "Old and Tired" and how partying in your late twenties is so much different than your early twenties.   Shaken NOT Stirred: We have all come to a point in our lives where we feel STUCK. You may find yourself in a financial bind that seems never ending. Or you are feeling stuck at a certain job or in a certain career. You may even have experienced being in a relationship that made you feel stuck, where walking away was not easy. Kiaya, Khadijah, and Tasha touch on all of these scenarios this episode. They will share their own personal experiences around feeling stuck. They will share what they did to get themselves out and give some motivation for listeners who may find themselves in the same predicaments. You already know. It is none of your business BUT, we gonna talk about it anyway!   Song at end of show: Title- Vices Artist- Sy Ari Da Kid Facebook: Private Party Podcast Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Twitter: @__privateparty

Happy Hour: The ladies catch up over vodka and tonics. Tasha talks about her close call with a shooting, while Khadijah tells the girls all about her first therapy session. They also discuss the talk Tuesday topic of "Is it ok for a woman to propose to her man?" Ashley, Tasha, Kiaya, and Khadijah all seem to have the same opinion around this question.   Shaken NOT Stirred: This week's special guest is author, writer, and public speaker Elona Washington. Elona has an Amazon best selling book "From Ivy League to Stripper Life". The ladies explore the topic of Promiscuity with Elona. Many women go through a "Hoe Phase" or a promiscuous time in their lives. Elona shares her story and her own experience with being promiscuous. The ladies want to get a deeper look into promiscuity. So many are quick to call a woman a hoe or "slut shame" but overlook what she has gone through in her life that may have caused her to become promiscuous. As always, it is none of your business BUT we're gonna talk about it anyway!   Facebook: Private Party Podcast Twitter: @__privateparty Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Gmail: privatepartypodcast@gmail.com

We sincerely apologize for the sound quality this episode. We did not realize the quality was shakey until after the episode was recorded. However, we could not bear to skip a week! So please bear with us.     Happy Hour: This episode starts off a little rocky. Khadijah and Tasha have a disagreement while Ashley and Kiaya awkwardly try to introduce the happy hour topic.   This happy hour the ladies talk Excuses VS Execution. Most of us have life goals that we all dream of making a reality some day, but what are we doing to get there? The host discuss taking baby steps as well as why we talk ourselves out of executing our plans. The question this episode is...How do we get out of our own way? Instagram:  @privatepartypodcast Email: Privatepartypodcast@gmail.com Twitter: @__Privateparty Facebook: Private Party Podcast

Happy Hour: The ladies are welcoming you back to the party! This week the ladies catch up on the latest events in their lives.   Shaken not Stirred: This week the ladies are discussing INSECURITIES. From childhood to womanhood, we’ve all experienced a lack of confidence or self- assurance about our looks, careers or relationships. Each host acknowledges their own battle with the little voice inside that attempts to shatter confidence. They also discuss how they’ve overcome and found happiness in the midst of it all. As always, it’s none of your business but we’re gonna talk about it anyway! Instagram:  @privatepartypodcast Email: Privatepartypodcast@gmail.com Twitter: @__Privateparty Facebook: Private Party Podcast

Happy Hour: Sometimes not committing goes left! The ladies are back and the drink of choice is whiskey sours. Catching up on this weeks #Adulting and excitement for the very FIRST Private Party Podcast Brunch on Aug. 13 . The ladies dive into situationships, a few listeners asked so we delivered! Kiaya shares her take on situationships and how sometimes there’s more pro’s vs. cons. Listen in as opinions differ and Ash tries to get away with not sharing! It’s none of your business but we’re gonna talk about it anyway!   Eventbrite: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/private-party- podcast-brunch- tickets- 36085857772 Instagram:  @privatepartypodcast Email: Privatepartypodcast@gmail.com Twitter: @__Privateparty Facebook: Private Party Podcast

Cocktales: The ladies did away with Happy Hour this episode and decided to discuss a Cocktale that is a SHOCKER! Tune in for dets!   Shaken NOT Stirred: Where exactly does the "Mad Black Woman" stigma come from? Many times black women are stereotyped as being angry, difficult, combative, and none submissive. However, when people are making these stereo types, they never think to look deeper into why black women are angry, or why they seem to have that stereotype. Tasha, Ashley, Khadijah and Kiaya open up about some deep rooted issues that have affected their actions and attitude, perceiving them as "Mad Black Women" to the men they encounter. This episode we look beyond the label and into the soul of these four women and the heartache behind the anger. YOU CAN’T HEAL WHAT YOU DON'T REVEAL. Emotions run high, this episode, and the transparency is real and honest. The ladies hope being open about the root cause to their pain, women everywhere, will relate. They hope this will shine some light on the stigma and allow black women to be viewed for who they are individually and not by a general statement that boxes them in.    Email: privatepartypodcast@gmail.com Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Twitter: @__privateparty Facebook: Private Party Podcast  

This week's episode is a continuation of last week’s interview with Passport Cutty (@passport_cutty) We left last week’s episode with a cliff hanger! Cutty finishes up her story about her getting pregnant at 21. The ladies touch on how social media and carreer titles and how it affects the way people view you. Cutty will talk about how she gained such a large following and the adversities that come along with it. What is next for Passport Cutty? Tune in to the second half of her interview to find out.   Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Twitter: @__privateparty Facebook: Private Party Podcast Email: privatepartypodcast@gmail.com  

Happy Hour: The ladies are BACK and they are in BROOKLYN! After what seemed like the longest two weeks ever!!! They sip on sparkling wine, while catching up on their whereabouts the last two weeks. Tasha has an exciting announcement to make! At what point in your relationship do you disclose your salary to your partner? That is the question for this happy hour. Each host gives their opinion on this topic, along with their special guest.   Champagne Toast: PASSPORT CUTTY (@passport_cutty) has come to crash the party this week! The ladies talk to Cutty about her newly released book entitled "THE M IN MAN IS FOR MONEY." She gives some real honest perspectives on dating and finances. Can some women be too independent? Tune in to hear what Cutty has to say about that. We are toasting to Cutty this episode. She has grown her brand from the days of being a twitter sensation and being known as "The Hoe Coach" to now being a successful Author, Blogger, and Fashion Ideal. She will share her journey and some profound moments that lead her to where she is today. Definitely a party you DON'T want to miss! Instagram:  @privatepartypodcast Email: Privatepartypodcast@gmail.com Twitter: @__Privateparty Facebook: Private Party Podcast

The ladies sip on some Makers Mark and ginger ale. Ashley catches everybody up on her trip to North Carolina to see her boo. Does she still have her "C" card is the question! They also talk about deal breakers and their biggest turn offs when it comes to dating.   Dr. D, a licensed therapist, has showed up to the party and she is dropping some true gems! The topic for this episode is ANXIETY and DEPRESSION. The ladies discuss with Dr. D the history and the taboos behind anxiety, depression, and mental illness, as a whole. They also touch on the history it has in the African American community. Everyone at some point in their life has experienced either depression and/or anxiety. However, since many have a hard time accepting they are dealing with one or even both, they often suffer in silence. The ladies want to kill the stigma around seeking therapy. They want to give their listeners a new perspective on self-care and how it is vital to living your BEST LIFE! Dr. D even shares her funniest "Therapist" moment that will have your mouth WIDE OPEN! Let's get this party started!   Facebook: Private Party Podcast Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Twitter:@__privateparty Gmail: privatepartypodcast@gmail.com

Episode 20 WOOP WOOP!!! During this milestone episode the ladies share stories and submissions from listeners. Many listeners have reached out to them to share their experiences on past episode topics. This episode is a walk down memory lane and a moment of reflection. The ladies will also give their advice and opinions to listeners who have reached out seeking counsel. This episode is dedicated to ALL the faithful listeners!!! We love all of you! Let's continue to grow and learn together, all while enjoying this crazy thing called life!   Email: Privatepartypodcast@gmail.com Facebook: Private Party Podcast Twitter: @__privateparty Instagram: @privatepartypodcast  

Happy Hour: The ladies talk dating and paying for dates. Should a woman always expect for a man to pay the tab, even when they are not dating exclusively?   The V.I.P. List: Jay Lavita (@jaylavita), singer and song writer, swings through the party to have some Sangria and bust it up with Kiaya, Tasha, and Khadijah, while Ashley is on a hiatus for the week. The ladies ask Jay all the questions their female listeners have sent in. They talk everything from what drives a man crazy to what makes bad pu**y and of course what it takes for a woman to be on Jay's V.I.P. list. Don't be tardy to the party!  Jay Lavita Twitter: @JayLavita Twitter: @__privateparty Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Facebook: Private Party Podcast Email: Privatepartypodcast@gmail.com

Happy Hour: The ladies reminisce about adventures on the Vegas Strip, Margarita March and the ultimate fashion finds. When your jeans fit right and tight, it’s a lituation! Get your cocktails ready!   Shaken Not Stirred: We’re gonna talk about mothersss! Throughout the month of May, the ladies continue to highlight Mother's. In this episode, the ladies discuss their relationships with their mothers and how they have affected the women they have turned out to be. Kiaya and Tasha get personal, and share details about their tumultuous relationships with their Moms. Khadijah and Tasha also shed light on how their mother’s impacted their approach to motherhood. Good, bad or indifferent Mom’s get all the respect for the tough job they do everyday!   Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Twitter: @__privateparty Facebook: Private Party Podcast Email: privatepartypodcast@gmail.com    

Happy Hour: The ladies have a debate around Mother's Day Gifts. The question of this happy hour..."Is your Boyfriend allowed to buy his child's mother a Mother's Day Gift." They discuss all the ways this scenario can play out and if they find this acceptable or not.   Shaken NOT Stirred: Khadijah's Mom Maria Scott, AKA Ree Dawg, joins the party this week. She shares with the ladies about how her Mother conceived her at 11 years old and gave birth to her at 12. She shares the obstacles she has encountered through her life, because of her Mother having her at such a young age. Maria's story is not only interesting and jaw dropping, but it empowering and inspirational! The ladies hope that by having Maria share her story, it will in turn remind all listeners, that you can overcome anything, not matter the hand you are dealt.   Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Facebook: Private Party Podcast Twitter: @__privateparty gmail: privatepartypodcast@gmail.com        

Happy Hour: Have you ever opened up to a friend – seeking support or simply a listening ear? Possibly to help make sense of the chaos of your life or an intimate relationship? However, it went left and you walked away from the conversation feeling judged. Or perhaps, even more unsupported than when the conversation started? This week, the ladies share their experiences on how they’ve struggled to be considered the supportive friend vs. the judge and jury of a friend’s situation. It gets real, as they sip ice-cold Cadillac margaritas. Get ready for this all access pass!   Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Facebook: Private Party Podcast Email: privatepartypodcast@gmail.com Twitter: @__privateparty

Happy Hour: The ladies sip on some Lime Patron Liqueur while discussing some current events. They discuss the Kendell Jenner Pepsi commercial outrage and their opinions on it. They also touch on the United Airlines incident.   Shaken NOT Stirred: Obsession (Noun): an idea or thought that continually preoccupies or intrudes on a person's mind. Stalking and checking another person's social media account on a daily basis can at times become consuming. It can also get to a point where you may in secret feel like you have become obsessed or consumed by the thought or this person and with checking their every post. This tends to be a shameful topic.   If you think you are the only person who has ever done this, believe us when we say, YOU ARE NOT ALONE! Kiaya, Khadijah, Tasha, and Ashley share some of their stories around becoming obsessed with another female’s page and the back story behind it. It's none of your business, BUT we're gonna talk about it anyway.  

Happy Hour: The ladies are in Brooklyn B! They came all the way to the big apple to bust it up with, So Shameless Podcast host, Tahoe also known as @realitybites. The drink of choice for this Happy Hour is Tito's vodka with lemonade.   The V.I.P. List: Tahoe crashes the party and lets the ladies know, what it takes for a woman to be his VERY IMPORANT PERSON.   Tahoe gives Ashley a hard time about her celibacy journey. He also gives his views about what makes a man respect their partner, bashing exes, why he feels his last relationship ended, running red lights and everything in between. Definitely don't want to be tardy to this party!   Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Facebook: Private Party Podcast Twitter: @__Privateparty Email: privatepartypodcast@gmail.com

Happy Hour: The ladies sip on some Hennessy on the rocks while discussing gender roles with domestic partners. Their Talk Tuesday post on this topic caused quite an uproar on social media.   Cocktales: "The truth is, honestly I'm faking it" The topic of this discussion is faking orgasms. How and when do you tell a partner they aren't getting the job done in the bedroom? This conversation is too real and too hilarious. So grab your drink and get ready!    Email: privatepartypodcast@gmail.com Instagram: @privatepartypodcast Facebook: Private Party Podcast Twitter: @__Privateparty