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The Fizzy Speaks is a youthful podcast centred around our collective and individual journeys through life, exploring the perspectives on topics we encounter in everyday life. All about that good stuff, the "Do Better Be Better Narrative" one conversation at a time, changing our world for the better. Let's Get It!

Salim M. Tarfa


    • Apr 18, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • monthly NEW EPISODES
    • 33m AVG DURATION
    • 94 EPISODES


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    The Thing with Mirrors feat. Juliet Godwin

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2025 41:41


    What does your mirror say back to you?In this deeply personal episode, I sit with the insightful OAP and Content Creator Juliet Godwin to unpack the layers of self-image, internalized standards, and the long journey toward reclaiming truth in our own reflection.From poetry to personal stories, we explore:

    Living With Your Delusions

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2025 13:56


    In this episode, I dive deep into the tension between faith and delusion—how our beliefs shape our reality, the stories we tell ourselves, and the fine line between conviction and self-deception. Are we truly standing on solid ground, or are we just convincing ourselves that we are?I share my personal perspectives on navigating faith, doubt, and the power of belief, exploring how the mind constructs its own versions of truth. And at the end, I leave you with a challenge: to question, reflect, and embrace the uncomfortable—because sometimes, the only way forward is to interrogate the narratives we've built.Are you ready to face your own delusions? Listen in!

    Let's Talk: Average

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2024 22:35


    on this episode I talk about " average" and how this simple word can affect our lives. enjoy

    When Life Isn't Measuring Up

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2024 13:50


    On this Episode, I share my perspective on how we measure our lives, our process, our growth.

    Does God Exist? Will of God?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 10, 2024 58:47


    This Episode is straight from my archives, strong topics on marriage, thoughts on failing faith, broken promises, trust, and finding a plan. Raw and unfiltered... I hope this blesses you.

    Best Before Blame Feat. Promise Hyacinth

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 10, 2024 30:46


    On this rant of an episode, I discuss with Promise, a budding career woman with a lot of great banter on the matter of dealing with "Best Before". Enjoy.

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    Uncut: 2024 Dating Standards & Expectations Feat. Salma, Idy, Joules

    Play Episode Listen Later May 31, 2024 58:11


    The dating scene is constantly evolving, and 2024 brings a fresh set of standards and expectations. In this episode, we dive deep into the current landscape of dating, exploring: Shifting Priorities, Communication and Boundaries, and Dating after Experiences --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thefizzyspeaks/message

    Do "Second-Chance" Relationships Work?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2024 47:08


    On this episode, three amazing ladies doing amazing things : Habiba M. Tarfa, Promise Hyacinth and Juliet Godwin, share their thoughts on the question: Do relationships work on the second time of trying especially after a defined breakup. #Relationships #Breakups #Cheating #DomesticViolence #Love #Healing #Marriage ... Let's get it. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thefizzyspeaks/message

    Should Wives Kneel? Feat. Tola Leramo

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2024 9:26


    On this Episode, Tola Leramo asks an interesting question: Do men want their wives to kneel to show respect or honour? We discuss. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thefizzyspeaks/message

    Myth of the "Understanding" Girlfriend feat. Salma, Idy, OAP Juliet

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2024 40:06


    On this episode filled with fun, laughter and realness, I discuss on the topic of "The Understanding Girlfriend" with Joy Salma, Idongesit Abasi-Uko and Juliet Godwin sharing insights on this very intriguing matter. Definitions, Perspectives and Learning. Let's Get It! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thefizzyspeaks/message

    Adulting: To Be A Man Feat. Simeon Sodo

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2024 31:44


    Robbed, In an Accident, and faced with a dilemma for a Life, what would you do? How would answer the call to be a man? On this episode I discuss with a Simeon Sodo, a man with a story to tell. Enjoy. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thefizzyspeaks/message

    The Hypocrite, The Liar, The Fraud Feat. Onimisi

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2023 40:19


    On this episode, following a conversation on post traumatic experiences and how our actions and habits affect our outcomes. Exposing our hypocrisy, deceit and fraudulence. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thefizzyspeaks/message

    10 Steps to Self-Healing From Pain

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2023 18:00


    In this empowering podcast episode, we delve into the transformative journey of self-healing from pain. Join us as we unravel the essential "10 Steps to Self-Healing From Pain," offering insights, practical strategies, and mindful approaches to navigate through emotional and physical challenges. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thefizzyspeaks/message

    The Power of Words as Weights

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2023 31:37


    Words have the incredible ability to shape our thoughts, emotions, and even our actions. They can lift us up or weigh us down. In this episode, we'll explore the impact of the language we use, both towards ourselves and others. We'll uncover how our words hold the power to influence our mindset, relationships, and overall well-being. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thefizzyspeaks/message

    The Fear Paradox

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2023 21:35


    From its potential to motivate and push us beyond limits to its dark manipulation as a tool for control, this episode offers profound insights that resonate with the essence of the human psyche. Listen and Enjoy. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thefizzyspeaks/message

    When It's Your Fault

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2023 19:09


    Tune in to discover how embracing personal accountability can lead to profound transformation and foster healthier relationships. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thefizzyspeaks/message

    Relationships : Red Orange Green Flags Feat. Osayuki-chan

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2023 67:36


    On this episode we talk on relationships: red flags green flags and "orange" flags with the amazing Yuki. Enjoy. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thefizzyspeaks/message

    The Power of Belief & Rejection

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2023 41:38


    On this episode I share my thoughts on the Power of Belief and Rejection. Enjoy --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thefizzyspeaks/message

    Poll: Dealing with A Bad Break

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2023 5:39


    It's a poll. Care to share your angle? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thefizzyspeaks/message

    Are You Self-Sabotaging?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2023 36:41


    You may be a victim of sabotage—self-sabotage. How do you know, and what can you do about it? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thefizzyspeaks/message

    Relationships: Are You The Prize? Only Fans & High Value Feat. Joules & Idy Uko

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2023 59:58


    On this fun episode, "Joules" Juliet Godwin, "Idy" Idongesit Abasi-Uko & I team up to tackle a question made prime in our generation on what it means to be the "Prize" in relationships. We touch on only fans and high value partners. Lots of goofing around but ultimately enlightening. HIT THAT LISTEN, SHARE! PEACE! ✌

    Consistency: Gaming, Business, Life. Feat. Mr Kosisi

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2023 33:35


    On this episode of The Fizzy Speaks, Mr Kosisi, the legendary man behind many booming business across Abuja gives an insight into how he put consistency to work for him. Learning is an ongoing thing. Enjoy! It's a goofy yet serious fun one. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thefizzyspeaks/message

    Relationships: High Risk Ambitions Vs Compatibility Feat. Salma

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2023 25:48


    Can you, should you, how do you cope with the idea of a partner in a high risk field? Should we give up ambition for love? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thefizzyspeaks/message

    Overcoming Grief and Finding Acceptance Feat. OAP Joules

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 26, 2023 52:35


    Grief is a part of virtually everyone's story at some point, navigating loss and the hurt that comes with it is why Joules and I teamed up on this one. We address Grief, myths about dealing grief from death, heartache and more. Enjoy. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thefizzyspeaks/message

    Shower Thoughts

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2023 49:25


    On this episode, Usman Abdulrazaq Kayode and I discuss random thoughts surrounding King Solomon's exploits, Wisdom Vs Compatibility in relationships and marriage, some history, and so much more. Enjoy! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thefizzyspeaks/message

    Finding Your Authentic Self

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2023 33:40


    To kick start a fresh year of Podcast episodes, I share some perspectives on realising our Authentic selves and how pivotal that is in attracting the right people into our lives. Enjoy! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thefizzyspeaks/message

    25 Signs You're Ready for a Relationship Feat. Joules

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2022 56:23


    On this episode, OAP Juliet Godwin(Joules) and I go through 25 signs you're ready (Or not) for a relationship. Talking points and more... Enjoy. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thefizzyspeaks/message

    Mindfulness: Going Alone

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2022 42:54


    On this episode, I talk on the benefits I've realised from going alone and why I think everyone should spend some time in self awareness. Enjoy! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thefizzyspeaks/message

    Mindfulness: Hurting Our Energies

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2022 44:10


    Starting a new series talking on mindfulness, sharing some talking points on how we, hurt, damage and in some cases, how we can start the process of healing our energies. Enjoy! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thefizzyspeaks/message

    Anikulapo: The Movie Review Feat. Salma

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2022 49:58


    Kunle Afolayan's Anikulapo movie has a lot of people divided over the various talking points in his epic production. On this Episode Salma and I attempt a review of this movie and some talking points that many might be missing. Enjoy. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thefizzyspeaks/message

    Avoiding Pain: The Happy Lie

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2022 33:11


    On this episode I discuss the different ways we seek to avoid pain and the lies we have been told about happiness. Let's Get It! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thefizzyspeaks/message

    BurnOut: Help! I'm Burnt Out! Feat. Juliet Godwin

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2022 53:58


    On this Episode, I discuss with OAP Juliet Godwin and youth convener of "Into the Real You" to discuss on the phases, causes, counter measures and the ills from burnout. Connect with her @intotherealyou for more information on what she does and how you can be blessed identifying your true self. Enjoy the episode! Peace! ✌

    Are You Bitter or Better?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 26, 2022 32:34


    On this episode, I share some personal experiences and thoughts on the concept of identifying the dangers of not overcoming bitterness and more. Enjoy. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thefizzyspeaks/message

    Self Affirmations

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2022 17:23


    On this episode we run through some self affirmations and touch on why this is a great way to bless ourselves each day. Some examples to run with as well! Enjoy! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thefizzyspeaks/message

    To Be Nigerian

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2022 35:30


    On this episode, I speak on the happenings in Nigeria, the "Jesus" posts, and thoughts on the upcoming elections. Enjoy! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thefizzyspeaks/message

    A Tribute to my General

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2022 35:38


    A Tribute to a great man, friend, father and more, with some lessons to note. Enjoy. Rest in peace Dad. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thefizzyspeaks/message

    Pseudo Flourishing Vs Self Love Feat. Lawlah

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2022 45:13


    On this episode the Baby Cakes of the federal republic and I discuss a number of cases involving people like us who have lived in conditions where they felt stuck in a rut and some ways to know when to make the next move. Enjoy. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thefizzyspeaks/message

    Breakup/Breakfast Myths Debunked feat. Sheddy Fresh Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2021 23:26


    Heartache, breakups, the trauma that's all within, these are all things many of us can clearly relate with. There are a lot of myths related to dealing with breakfast. On this episode, for the young at heart, we look at some myths and Debunk them. Part 1 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thefizzyspeaks/message

    This Vs That

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2021 15:44


    Is it right to say everything's basically one way or the other based off of our feelings and that there is only one right answer? Ever wondered if we can be blind to truth? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thefizzyspeaks/message

    Lost Ones: This Isn't Home

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2021 18:02


    All episode inspired by a sermon. As tempting as it can be to treat our temporary situations as permanent, we need to open our hearts and minds to our journeys. Enjoy. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thefizzyspeaks/message

    The Complex Life We Share

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2021 16:35


    Inspired by the gradually creeping awareness of the lives of a lot of people around me including those I do not know much of... If you feel alone maybe this episode is just for you. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thefizzyspeaks/message

    Overwhelmed with something Hooge

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2021 36:45


    Big expectations, big dreams, a lot of stuff to overwhelm us. On this episode I go over some ways to cope with feeling overwhelmed while we wait, work, for something Hooge. Shout out to BarnzyBeats for the cool soundtrack! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thefizzyspeaks/message

    The Ronaldo Effect

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 3, 2021 14:06


    After yet another dreamlike comeback by Cristiano Ronaldo, I'm inspired to make this episode. What is the Ronaldo Effect? Listen, enjoy! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thefizzyspeaks/message

    Nigeria: The Mental Episode

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2021 40:35


    On my way home, I share my moments and thoughts on Nigeria in a rant like episode. Enjoy! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thefizzyspeaks/message

    Perfectionism Debunked Part 2 Feat. Uyiosa Egharevba

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 18, 2021 23:37


    Continuing the conversation from where it ended in part one, Uyiosa Egharevba continues to share his perfectionist experiences with regards studying, relationships, and expectations in general. Enjoy! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thefizzyspeaks/message

    The Birthday Podcast Episode

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 2, 2021 26:21


    It's MY birthday!!! In this episode, I take a moment to appreciate you all and share some free...Vibes. Enjoy! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thefizzyspeaks/message

    Perfectionism Debunked Feat. Uyiosa Egharevba Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2021 51:06


    There's big talk about being perfect and from all sides there is a lot to tell us how to do it right. On this episode with Uyiosa, a multi-talented go-getter, we debunk Perfectionism...Oh, and this is a two-part series. Part 2 Drops soon! Enjoy! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thefizzyspeaks/message

    The Dark Side of Chasing Your Dreams: Taekwondo Edition Feat. Hassan Nurudeen

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 22, 2021 42:20


    In this episode, we have Hassan, an enterprising young dream chaser, with a love for people, travel and food. He describes his journey in bits, highlighting his experiences through Electrical Engineering, Sales Engineering, Content Creation and Martial Arts. How does everything combine to shape him and how does he deal with the pressures of living in different environments? Listen and Enjoy. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thefizzyspeaks/message

    No More Mr. Nice Guy

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2021 44:09


    In this episode of The Fizzy Speaks, I share some experiences from my journey transitioning niceness to kindness, highlighting the many ways niceness can actually work against us and keep us from living truly better, more balanced lives. Enjoy! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thefizzyspeaks/message

    Hope Vs Everything

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2021 42:22


    Sapa, Nigeria banning Twitter, other issues that seek to rob us of our joy, our peace, and eventually our hope. On this episode, I talk about hope versus everything. Let's get it. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thefizzyspeaks/message

    Dealing with Pressure feat. Lawlah

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2021 50:07


    On this episode, Lawlah and I(The Fizzy) discuss ways to deal with pressure. A follow up to the Episode on Uncertainty. Enjoy! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thefizzyspeaks/message

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