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Best podcasts about before you split

Latest podcast episodes about before you split

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast
“My Spouse Isn't Changing! What Should I Do?”

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2024 11:56


Fixating solely on things you want your spouse to change isn't good for your marriage. Jim Daly speaks with Toni Nieuwhof about the dangers of focusing too much on your spouse's problems. Plus, John and Erin share how owning your faults can help you make it through marital challenges.    Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.   Receive the book Before You Split for your donation of any amount!   Hope Restored   Listen Anytime    Contact our Counseling Department    Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage   Support This Show!    If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast on Oneplace.com
“My Spouse Isn't Changing! What Should I Do?”

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast on Oneplace.com

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2024 12:26


Fixating solely on things you want your spouse to change isn't good for your marriage. Jim Daly speaks with Toni Nieuwhof about the dangers of focusing too much on your spouse's problems. Plus, John and Erin share how owning your faults can help you make it through marital challenges.    Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.   Receive the book Before You Split for your donation of any amount!   Hope Restored   Listen Anytime    Contact our Counseling Department    Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage   Support This Show!    If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1196/29

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast
Forgiveness and Justice for a Struggling Marriage

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2024 11:24


How do you forgive your mate, when it seems like your marriage is filled with hurt? Jim Daly speaks with Toni and Carey Nieuwhof, who faced many difficulties in their relationship, about forgiveness and restoration. Plus, John and Greg talk about how restoration comes when you own your mistakes and flaws.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.   Receive the book Before You Split for your donation of any amount!   Hope Restored   Listen Anytime    Contact our Counseling Department    Is Divorce the Right Answer?    If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

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Forgiveness and Justice for a Struggling Marriage

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast on Oneplace.com

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2024 11:53


How do you forgive your mate, when it seems like your marriage is filled with hurt? Jim Daly speaks with Toni and Carey Nieuwhof, who faced many difficulties in their relationship, about forgiveness and restoration. Plus, John and Greg talk about how restoration comes when you own your mistakes and flaws.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.   Receive the book Before You Split for your donation of any amount!   Hope Restored   Listen Anytime    Contact our Counseling Department    Is Divorce the Right Answer?    If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1196/29

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast
Persevering Through the Almost Giving Up Season

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2024 10:51


Many struggling couples are asking, "Can our relationship survive?" Carey Nieuwhof joins Jim Daly to share about how he's seen divorce negatively impact people. You'll then hear John ask Greg and Erin Smalley about how they persevered through some challenging times in their own marriage.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.   Receive the book Before You Split for your donation of any amount!   Hope Restored   Listen Anytime    Contact our Counseling Department    Is Divorce the Right Answer?    If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast on Oneplace.com
Persevering Through the Almost Giving Up Season

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast on Oneplace.com

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2024 11:21


Many struggling couples are asking, "Can our relationship survive?" Carey Nieuwhof joins Jim Daly to share about how he's seen divorce negatively impact people. You'll then hear John ask Greg and Erin Smalley about how they persevered through some challenging times in their own marriage.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.   Receive the book Before You Split for your donation of any amount!   Hope Restored   Listen Anytime    Contact our Counseling Department    Is Divorce the Right Answer?    If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1196/29

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast
From a Divorce Attorney's Perspective

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 25, 2024 12:31


The pain of divorce is regarded as one of the hardest things a person can face. Carey and Toni Nieuwhof join Jim Daly to share about ways they've seen divorce negatively impact others. Also, John, Greg and Erin offer hope to couples who've been in a desparate season for a long time.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.   Receive the book Before You Split for your donation of any amount!   Hope Restored   Listen Anytime    Why and How to Pursue a Healing Separation    Contact our Counseling Department    If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast on Oneplace.com
From a Divorce Attorney's Perspective

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast on Oneplace.com

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 25, 2024 13:00


The pain of divorce is regarded as one of the hardest things a person can face. Carey and Toni Nieuwhof join Jim Daly to share about ways they've seen divorce negatively impact others. Also, John, Greg and Erin offer hope to couples who've been in a desparate season for a long time.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.   Receive the book Before You Split for your donation of any amount!   Hope Restored   Listen Anytime    Why and How to Pursue a Healing Separation    Contact our Counseling Department    If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1196/29

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast
When Childhood Wounds Reappear in Your Marriage

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2024 13:50


Sometimes, when spouses lash out at each other, it's actually rooted in childhood wounds. Toni Nieuwhof nearly lost her marriage with her husband Carey, and she talks with Jim Daly about how wounds from growing up negatively impacted her marriage. Then, John and the Smalley's discuss first steps spouses can take toward wholeness if they have undealt with childhood trauma.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.   Receive the Before You Split for your donation of any amount!   Hope Restored   Listen Anytime    Watch Greg Smalley's Story    Contact our Counseling Department    If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast on Oneplace.com
When Childhood Wounds Reappear in Your Marriage

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast on Oneplace.com

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2024 14:20


Sometimes, when spouses lash out at each other, it's actually rooted in childhood wounds. Toni Nieuwhof nearly lost her marriage with her husband Carey, and she talks with Jim Daly about how wounds from growing up negatively impacted her marriage. Then, John and the Smalley's discuss first steps spouses can take toward wholeness if they have undealt with childhood trauma.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.   Receive the Before You Split for your donation of any amount!   Hope Restored   Listen Anytime    Watch Greg Smalley's Story    Contact our Counseling Department    If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1196/29

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast
A Divorce Isn't What I Want

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2024 13:26


Have you ever felt like giving up on your marriage? You are not the only one. Carey and Toni Nieuwhof share with Jim Daly about the night they hit rock bottom in their marriage. Also, Erin Smalley talks with John and Greg about why some couples struggle to keep fighting for their marriage.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.   Receive the book Before You Split for your donation of any amount!   Hope Restored Marriage Intensives   Audio Download: "Rejecting Divorce and Choosing to Stay"    Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage    Contact our Counseling Department    If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast on Oneplace.com

Have you ever felt like giving up on your marriage? You are not the only one. Carey and Toni Nieuwhof share with Jim Daly about the night they hit rock bottom in their marriage. Also, Erin Smalley talks with John and Greg about why some couples struggle to keep fighting for their marriage.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.   Receive the book Before You Split for your donation of any amount!   Hope Restored Marriage Intensives   Audio Download: "Rejecting Divorce and Choosing to Stay"    Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage    Contact our Counseling Department    If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1196/29

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast
When Things are Bad at Home

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2024 15:26


It may seem to others like you have it all together, but inside, you know your marriage is struggling. Carey and Toni Nieuwhof join Jim Daly to share how they reached a crisis in their marriage, even though they were leading a growing church. Also, John and the Smalley's will provide a word of hope if you feel like you have nowhere to turn. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book Before You Split for your donation of any amount! Hope Restored Marriage Intensives Audio Download: "Rejecting Divorce and Choosing to Stay"  Contact Our Counseling Department  If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast on Oneplace.com

It may seem to others like you have it all together, but inside, you know your marriage is struggling. Carey and Toni Nieuwhof join Jim Daly to share how they reached a crisis in their marriage, even though they were leading a growing church. Also, John and the Smalley's will provide a word of hope if you feel like you have nowhere to turn. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book Before You Split for your donation of any amount! Hope Restored Marriage Intensives Audio Download: "Rejecting Divorce and Choosing to Stay"  Contact Our Counseling Department  If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1196/29

Smart Family Podcast
SFP 108 How To Make Progress When Your Marriage is Challenging with Psychotherapist Sarah Covey

Smart Family Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 31, 2024 57:05


If you'd asked me (Toni) about what or who was causing our marital strife during the rough period my husband Carey and I went through, I can assure you I would not have pointed the finger back at me. For a time, I firmly believed Carey was mainly to blame. Only later did I discover how much my own lack of self-awareness and my weaknesses were also at play. In today's episode with my friend and owner of the Covey Wellness Centre, Sarah Covey, we talk about how our journeys in personal growth intersect marriage. We talk about my book, Before You Split, where I chronicle some of the personal challenges Carey and I faced, our learnings, research and perspectives from my work as a divorce attorney. Listen in for practical insights on how to overcome the obstacles that keep you from being more deeply satisfied with your married life.

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast
Your Spouse Wants Out. Now What?

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2024 13:29


What can you do when your spouse says, "I want out of this marriage?" Greg tells John the story of how he and Erin reached a difficult time in their marriage. Also Toni and Carey Nieuwhof talk with Jim Daly about how they went to counseling after Toni confessed she wanted to leave.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book Before You Split for your donation of any amount!   Hope Restored   Listen Anytime   Contact our Counseling Department   Is Divorce the Right Answer?    If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast on Oneplace.com
Your Spouse Wants Out. Now What?

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast on Oneplace.com

Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2024 13:59


What can you do when your spouse says, "I want out of this marriage?" Greg tells John the story of how he and Erin reached a difficult time in their marriage. Also Toni and Carey Nieuwhof talk with Jim Daly about how they went to counseling after Toni confessed she wanted to leave.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book Before You Split for your donation of any amount!   Hope Restored   Listen Anytime   Contact our Counseling Department   Is Divorce the Right Answer?    If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1196/29

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast
They Almost Didn't Make It!

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2024 12:03


When a couple reaches a desperate place, they start asking questions like, "Can our marriage survive?" Carey and Toni Nieuwhof join Jim Daly to tell their love story, and when they later reached a crisis in their relationship. Then, John and Erin discuss how couples can still be restored, even if it seems hopeless now.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book Before You Split for your donation of any amount!   Hope Restored   Listen Anytime   Contact our Counseling Department   Is Divorce the Right Answer?    If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast on Oneplace.com

When a couple reaches a desperate place, they start asking questions like, "Can our marriage survive?" Carey and Toni Nieuwhof join Jim Daly to tell their love story, and when they later reached a crisis in their relationship. Then, John and Erin discuss how couples can still be restored, even if it seems hopeless now.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book Before You Split for your donation of any amount!   Hope Restored   Listen Anytime   Contact our Counseling Department   Is Divorce the Right Answer?    If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1196/29

Awesome Marriage Podcast
Worth Repeating: Hope For the Unhappy Marriage With Special Guest Toni Niewhof

Awesome Marriage Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2023 48:37


Has marriage been harder than you thought it would be? We often say there's hope for every marriage, no matter where you are today - and there truly is. But you may be wondering how exactly to hold on and fight for your marriage if you're in a really hard season. Today, we are sharing Dr. Kim's conversation with special guest Toni Nieuwhof.  Toni is an author, speaker and family law mediator, and she brings such hope and wisdom in today's episode. Tune in for hope and help to make the future of your marriage better than today.  We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage.  Episode highlights include:  The mental shift helped Toni and her husband keep fighting when their marriage was on the brink Practical steps they took to start healing  Common issues Toni sees couples divorce over  How to change your mental narrative about your marriage    Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode. When you sign up, you will get our 4 Week Connection Challenge for free! Plus you will get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox. *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    RESOURCES Get more of Toni's wisdom on this topic in her book, “Before You Split”  On her website at https://toninieuwhof.com/  And on the Smart Family Podcast  Are you willing to do what it takes to reset and renew your marriage? Fight for your marriage with the  Marriage 911 online course. Missed the other episodes of our summer Worth Repeating Series? So far we've aired:  Worth Repeating | Be Your Authentic Self in a Superficial World With Special Guest Sam Acho Worth Repeating | Breathe: Don't Be Prickly Worth Repeating: Cultivating Curiosity & Courage with Special Guest Bob Goff

Awesome Marriage Podcast
Worth Repeating: Hope For the Unhappy Marriage With Special Guest Toni Niewhof

Awesome Marriage Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2023 48:37


Has marriage been harder than you thought it would be? We often say there's hope for every marriage, no matter where you are today - and there truly is. But you may be wondering how exactly to hold on and fight for your marriage if you're in a really hard season. Today, we are sharing Dr. Kim's conversation with special guest Toni Nieuwhof.  Toni is an author, speaker and family law mediator, and she brings such hope and wisdom in today's episode. Tune in for hope and help to make the future of your marriage better than today.  We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage.  Episode highlights include:  The mental shift helped Toni and her husband keep fighting when their marriage was on the brink Practical steps they took to start healing  Common issues Toni sees couples divorce over  How to change your mental narrative about your marriage    Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode. When you sign up, you will get our 4 Week Connection Challenge for free! Plus you will get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox. *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    RESOURCES Get more of Toni's wisdom on this topic in her book, “Before You Split”  On her website at https://toninieuwhof.com/  And on the Smart Family Podcast  Are you willing to do what it takes to reset and renew your marriage? Fight for your marriage with the  Marriage 911 online course. Missed the other episodes of our summer Worth Repeating Series? So far we've aired:  Worth Repeating | Be Your Authentic Self in a Superficial World With Special Guest Sam Acho Worth Repeating | Breathe: Don't Be Prickly Worth Repeating: Cultivating Curiosity & Courage with Special Guest Bob Goff

Smart Family Podcast
SFP 089 SPECIAL REPLAY Jon Acuff Interviews Toni and Carey Nieuwhof on How A Marriage Can Move From Despair to Thriving, How To Leave Unhappiness Instead of Your Spouse, And Toni's Insights As A Family Law Mediator And A Former Divorce Attorney

Smart Family Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2023 64:17


We got so much positive feedback on this episode and so many new listeners since it first aired in February 2021, that we felt it would be great to replay  - either to listen to again or for the first time. Enjoy! Are you feeling stuck, overwhelmed or disconnected in your marriage? Worried about how this is impacting the kids? Do you wonder if maybe splitting up is better than continuing on? Then this is an episode you won't want to miss. Toni and Carey Niewuhof reflect together on how marriage can become empty, and offer practical advice on how to turn it around. As a family law mediator and former divorce attorney Toni shares her insights in her new book "Before You Split". This honest and open conversation will instil hope - no matter where your marriage is at.

The Happy Brain
Divorce Lawyer's Advice

The Happy Brain

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2023 40:06


Toni Nieuwhof wrote “Before You Split” after years of watching the toll that divorce takes. (toninieuwhof.com)Link to my new course! https://innermammalinstitute.org/course If you like The Happy Brain Podcast, please rate and review it to help others make peace with their inner mammal.THE HAPPY BRAIN PODCAST helps you blaze new trails to your dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin, and endorphin. My guests are pioneers in retraining the inner mammal. I love learning from them! Listen in and subscribe so you can turn on your happy chemicals in healthy new ways.Your host, Loretta Breuning PhD, is founder of the Inner Mammal Institute and author of "Habits of a Happy Brain: Retrain your brain to boost your serotonin, dopamine, oxytocin and endorphin levels.” Details at: https://innermammalinstitute.orgLife is more peaceful and satisfying when you understand the brain we've inherited from earlier mammals. Your mammal brain controls the chemicals that make you feel good: dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin, and endorphin. These chemicals are released for reasons that don't make sense to our verbal human brain. When you know what these chemicals do in animals, your ups and downs make sense!Our happy chemicals evolved to reward survival behavior, not to make you feel good all the time. Each happy chemical has a special job. When it turns on, it paves neural pathways that turn it on more easily in the future. That's why we repeat behaviors that we'd rather do without. Fortunately, you can re-wire yourself to stimulate them in sustainable ways.But it's hard. It's like learning a foreign language: it takes a lot of repetition. Yet people do it every day. You can be one of them! You can design a new path to your happy chemicals and repeat it until it's strong enough to turn on easily. The Inner Mammal Institute shows you how.The Inner Mammal Institute has free resources to help you make peace with your inner mammal: videos, blogs, infographics, and podcasts. Dr. Breuning's books explain the big picture and help you plot your course step by step. No matter where you are right now, you can enjoy more happy chemicals in healthy ways. Get the details at https://InnerMammalInstitute.org.Music from Sonatina Soleil by W.M. Sharp. Hear more of it at https://InnerMammalInstitute.org/musicbywmsharp

FOUR12 Canada Podcast
Episode 0047 Season 4 Toni Nieuwhof on how to build a healthy marriage

FOUR12 Canada Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2022 26:42


Subscribe: iTUNES | SPOTIFY | YOUTUBE Here's a reality ... your home and marriage health impacts your serving health. In this episode, Toni Nieuwhof is a family law mediator, former divorce attorney, author, speaker and co-host of the Smart Family Podcast.  In today's podcast, she shares how her professional experience with divorcing couples and personal challenges in her own marriage culminated in her book “Before You Split" - and it's a book for newlyweds too, not just couples in tough times!    Listen and learn how you can face difficulties without letting your emotions rule your expectations.  We are thrilled to announce that we have a copy of Toni's book to give away with this episode! Head over to Youtube and Subscribe, like and comment there for your chance to win "Before You Split"! The GIVEAWAY closes November 1st 2022!   Connect with Toni  WEBSITE | PODCAST | INSTAGRAM  PODCAST LINKS   Toni Nieuwhof website Better conflict cheat sheet 10 ways to stop your next fight Smart Family Podcast ENCOURAGEMENT "Take control of your expectations before your emotions take control of you." - Toni Nieuwhof 1 Peter 5:5 ESV "...clothe yourselves, all of you, with humility toward one another, for  God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble." Thanks for listening! We hope this episode has equipped you for greater influence through serving. We don't want you to miss a single episode, so if you haven't done so already, please subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts. Help us reach more people by writing a review on the Apple podcast app and other podcast apps that you use. The FOUR12 Canada podcast is a ministry of Faith Baptist Church in Huntsville, Ontario. Explore everything FOUR12 Canada at four12.ca. Thanks for spending time with us. See you next time! Subscribe: iTUNES | SPOTIFY | YOUTUBE Up Next Episode 0048:  Claire Odogbo on How to Live Fully Surrendered  

Ditching Perfection
Episode 6: Ditching Perfection as You Juggle Family and Professional Life | Toni Nieuwhof

Ditching Perfection

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2022 51:53


We live in a Pinterest-perfect world where we are told we have to “have it all together.” For many of us, feelings of comparison and inadequacy creep in… especially as we try to balance family and professional life. On this week's podcast, my friend and mentor, Toni Nieuwhof is here to help us ditch perfection and embrace vulnerability as we try to balance the various roles in our lives. I look up to Toni immensely; she walks out what she teaches. She has balanced her family and professional roles with grace and a clear reliance on Jesus. Toni is very familiar with what it feels like to wear many hats. She's a family law mediator, former divorce attorney, author, speaker, and co-host of the Smart Family Podcast. She is married to leadership expert, author, speaker, and former pastor, Carey Niewhof. Carey and Toni have two adult sons. To connect with Toni, visit her website www.toninieuwhof.com and check out her book, “Before You Split.”

So...What Else?
Toni Nieuwhof | Before You Split

So...What Else?

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2022 60:16


Today we have THE Toni Nieuwhof on SWE! She has worn many hats in her life as a pharmacist, attorney, speaker, author, podcaster, wife, and mother. Today she talks with us about her book, Before You Split. If you're in a relationship, this episode is for you as Toni provides her unique perspective on whether to stay or split in the midst of a troubled relationship.     Show Notes: Free Audible Trial & Audiobook! Toni's Website Before You Split @toninieuwhof  The Smart Family Podcast @so.what.else   @kaitlingrace20  www.kaitlinelliott.com

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So What Else is Going On
Toni Nieuwhof | Before You Split

So What Else is Going On

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2022 60:16


Today we have THE Toni Nieuwhof on SWE! She has worn many hats in her life as a pharmacist, attorney, speaker, author, podcaster, wife, and mother. Today she talks with us about her book, Before You Split. If you're in a relationship, this episode is for you as Toni provides her unique perspective on whether to stay or split in the midst of a troubled relationship.     Show Notes: Free Audible Trial & Audiobook! Toni's Website Before You Split @toninieuwhof  The Smart Family Podcast @so.what.else   @kaitlingrace20  www.kaitlinelliott.com

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Lead My Kids Podcast
Episode 2: Before You Split with Toni Nieuwhof

Lead My Kids Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2022 25:13


Get the book, Before You Split, HERE (https://www.amazon.com/Before-You-Split-Really-Marriage/dp/0525653368/ref=sr_1_1?crid=AOLTRQXQTV4D&keywords=before+you+split+toni+nieuwhof&qid=1645989743&sprefix=before+you+split%2Caps%2C97&sr=8-1) Download the Fight for "We" Couples Conversation Guide (https://toninieuwhof.com/conversation-starters/) Find great resources at ToniNieuwhof.com (https://toninieuwhof.com) Listen to the Smart Family Podcast (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/smart-family-podcast/id1497316466) with Toni Nieuwhof & Dr. Rob Meeder Faith Promise Marriage Resources (https://faithpromise.org/parents/marriage-resources/) Special Guest: Toni Nieuwhof.

Rusty George Podcast
159: Toni Nieuwhof on Saving Your Marriage Before You Split

Rusty George Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 28, 2021 38:48


“I didn't sign up for this!” “I can't do this anymore!” “That's it - I'm done!” Have you ever said or thought these things? Are you feeling disconnected in your marriage, not knowing what the next step holds? Toni Nieuwhof is an author, speaker and law mediator, whose powerful voice in Christian leadership is shaping influencers and leaders around the world. She joins me in this episode to discuss the steps for finding what you really want to save the future of your marriage, based on her new book "Before You Split".

Growing Home Together Podcast
Episode 29: How You Can Find the Path to Happiness in Your Miserable Marriage--with Toni Nieuwhof

Growing Home Together Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2021 36:52


Pain and stress, unresolved conflict, and past traumas can lead even the most committed couple to the brink of divorce. Perhaps you and your spouse—or a couple you know—is feeling so hurt and disconnected you wonder how to carry on. In your heart of hearts, you're tempted to give up and walk away from your relationship.   Today's guest, Toni Nieuwhof, knows what it's like to feel wounded and hopeless in her marriage. As a divorce attorney who experienced dramatic healing and joy in her own marriage, she brings a powerful and practical word of hope for couples. In this heartfelt conversation, Toni shares:   How Toni and her husband reached a breaking point in their marriage How as a divorce attorney, she witnessed the pain and regret on the other side of splitting up What it's like to feel stuck in survival mode in your marriage How to make a plan to reconnect and build the bond between you The lies that keep you from a healthy, happy relationship How to finally break the negative cycle of conflict  The power of shared experiences to build intimacy  Toni Nieuwhof is a family law mediator, former divorce attorney and co-host of the Smart Family Podcast.  She is the wife of Carey Nieuwhof, who is an influential leadership author and podcaster, and international speaker. Toni and Carey have spoken publicly about their marriage of more than three decades. In her downtime, Toni enjoys outdoor sports and spending time with Carey, their two grown sons, and their extended family and friends. Visit her online at www.ToniNieuwhof.com.   For practical help on how to find what you really want for the future of your marriage, take hold of Toni's powerful book, Before You Split. Enter to win your very own copy by leaving the comment “Before You Split” on this post today!   This podcast is produced and edited by Angie Elkins Media, Inc. 

Dream Big Podcast with Bob Goff and Friends
Carey and Toni Nieuwhof - Setting Absurd Expectations for Marriage

Dream Big Podcast with Bob Goff and Friends

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2021 33:43


Nobody stands at the altar on their wedding day and vows, "Hey- let's just shoot for typical, ok?" Rather, wedding days are filled with hope and imagination for a beautiful life spent together. But then real life happens. Marriage is certainly not an easy endeavor. And rarely does anyone get taught how to navigate the complexities of marriage, like navigating conflict, financial stress, career struggles, or raising kids together. With all of that, you throw in a global pandemic on top of it, and so many marriages have really struggled recently. So, where can we turn to help us sort it all out? I can think of no one better suited than Carey and Toni Nieuwhof. Carey Nieuwhof is a best-selling leadership author, speaker, podcaster, former attorney, and church planter. He writes one of today's most influential leadership blogs, and his online content is accessed by leaders over 1.5 million times a month. He speaks to leaders around the world about leadership, change and personal growth. Carey and his wife, Toni have been married for over 30 years.Toni Nieuwhof is a family law mediator, former divorce attorney, author, speaker and co-host of the Smart Family Podcast. Toni and Carey have spoken publicly about their marriage and she has just released a book to help struggling marriages, Before You Split. From her attorney work, she gives her readers a clearer view of their future options, while also showing how her marriage with Carey went from that bad to this good.On the episode:Producer : Tatave AbeshyanProducer & Co-host : Scott SchimmelJOIN BOB WEEKLY We've launched a new subscription-based offering with exclusive content from the one and only Bob Goff. In vintage Bob fashion, you can join him on his adventure of living a life of whimsy, love, and action. Each week you'll receive a video message from Bob, plus guided reflection exercises and activities for personal growth and structured conversations with friends. Now more than ever we need to look to voices we can trust. If Bob's message has inspired you in the past, you're not going to want to miss out on Bob Weekly. So sign up today and let Bob guide you as you go through this unpredictable thing called your life. Learn More bobgoff.com/weekly

The Writing Room with Bob Goff and Kimberly Stuart
Carey and Toni Nieuwhof - Setting Absurd Expectations for Marriage

The Writing Room with Bob Goff and Kimberly Stuart

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2021 33:43


Nobody stands at the altar on their wedding day and vows, "Hey- let's just shoot for typical, ok?" Rather, wedding days are filled with hope and imagination for a beautiful life spent together. But then real life happens. Marriage is certainly not an easy endeavor. And rarely does anyone get taught how to navigate the complexities of marriage, like navigating conflict, financial stress, career struggles, or raising kids together. With all of that, you throw in a global pandemic on top of it, and so many marriages have really struggled recently. So, where can we turn to help us sort it all out? I can think of no one better suited than Carey and Toni Nieuwhof. Carey Nieuwhof is a best-selling leadership author, speaker, podcaster, former attorney, and church planter. He writes one of today's most influential leadership blogs, and his online content is accessed by leaders over 1.5 million times a month. He speaks to leaders around the world about leadership, change and personal growth. Carey and his wife, Toni have been married for over 30 years.Toni Nieuwhof is a family law mediator, former divorce attorney, author, speaker and co-host of the Smart Family Podcast. Toni and Carey have spoken publicly about their marriage and she has just released a book to help struggling marriages, Before You Split. From her attorney work, she gives her readers a clearer view of their future options, while also showing how her marriage with Carey went from that bad to this good.On the episode:Producer : Tatave AbeshyanProducer & Co-host : Scott SchimmelJOIN BOB WEEKLY We've launched a new subscription-based offering with exclusive content from the one and only Bob Goff. In vintage Bob fashion, you can join him on his adventure of living a life of whimsy, love, and action. Each week you'll receive a video message from Bob, plus guided reflection exercises and activities for personal growth and structured conversations with friends. Now more than ever we need to look to voices we can trust. If Bob's message has inspired you in the past, you're not going to want to miss out on Bob Weekly. So sign up today and let Bob guide you as you go through this unpredictable thing called your life. Learn More bobgoff.com/weekly

The Marriage Adventure
EP//59: Before You Split, Interview with Toni Nieuwhof

The Marriage Adventure

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2021 33:47


What would it take to leave your unhappiness behind instead of your spouse? In today's episode, author, speaker, and podcast co-host, Toni Nieuwhof shares insights from her new book, Before... The post EP//59: Before You Split, Interview with Toni Nieuwhof first appeared on The Marriage Adventure.

Middays with Susie Larson
Toni Nieuwhof on what to do Before You Split

Middays with Susie Larson

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 9, 2021 49:40


Toni Nieuwhof is author of Before You Split, speaker and family law mediator, and has spent decades of her professional life practicing law. Her most challenging work as a lawyer involved advising and representing people going through the journey of divorce.

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The Alli Worthington Show
Transforming Your Marriage (Not Your Spouse!) with Toni Nieuwhof

The Alli Worthington Show

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2021 48:48


Our marriage mini-series continues this week with a question we've all likely asked ourselves at some point in our lives: wouldn't I be better off alone? It's a question that creeps up on us in moments where we feel stuck, overwhelmed and disconnected from the person that matters most.    This week, Toni Nieuwhof joins me on the show to talk about those moments of doubt, guilt and worry that affect our relationships. She has worked with hundreds of families over the years, often as a divorce attorney, and she tells us what she's learned from those difficult experiences along with the important lessons she and her husband, Carey, have learned as they took their own marriage from unhappy to thriving.   In today's episode, Toni shares research-driven data, real-life examples and practical tools to transform struggling relationships into healthy, safe spaces. We also chat about her book, Before You Split: Find What You Really Want for the Future of Your Marriage, and she gives her best advice for fighting for the couple instead of yourself and how the light of Christ can help us identify self-limiting beliefs.    Some of my favorite moments from our conversation include:   1. The 5:1 ratio and its importance in our interactions with our spouse, significant others, and even our children.  2. How kindness and respect are essential pillars of the family space and how we can use them to change our family dynamic. 3. How our reliance on God and those we're in relationship with can help us become fully alive.   Favorite quotes: 1. Sometimes looking inside is scary. Or it feels painful. And yeah, there's some pain to go through, but if you can sit with it and not back away, and just move through that pain, there's just something so beautiful on the other side.2. The victim story you may be telling yourself is probably blurring your vision. 3. We had to come to the point where we could realize that the only emotions we can really try to influence or control are our own.   4. Just sit with your spouse's emotions and validate them, and accept them for what they are.  5. It's really hard when you're in the midst of the struggle to recognize just how much value your spouse has in the eyes of your child. Your child needs both of you.   Great things we discussed:  1. Toni Nieuwhof 2. Before You Split  3. Gratitude 4. Pride & Prejudice 5. Forgiving What You Can't Forget 6. Raw Hemp Seeds 7. Window Bird Feeder  8. Titanic  9. Gladiator  10. Standing Strong   Hope you loved this episode! Be sure to subscribe in iTunes and slap some stars on a review! :)   xo, Alli    www.alliworthington.com/toninieuwhof/

The Joshua Gagnon Leadership Podcast
Ep 239: Toni Nieuwhof // Is It Possible to Leave Your Unhappiness & Not Your Spouse?

The Joshua Gagnon Leadership Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2021 46:35


Welcome to the 239th episode of the Joshua Gagnon Leadership Podcast!   If you enjoy listening to this podcast and it has helped you and your team in any way, please leave us a review on Apple Podcast or Stitcher or take the time to share it on social media. Do you have a question for Pastor Josh about leadership, ministry, or any other topic we've covered on the podcast so far? Submit your questions to info@joshuagagnon.com or @joshgagnon on Twitter and Pastor Josh might answer it on a future episode!   Connect with Pastor Josh: Pastor Josh on Instagram: www.instagram.com/joshgagnon Pastor Josh on Twitter: www.twitter.com/joshgagnon Send your leadership questions to info@joshuagagnon.com Calling all couples! In this episode of Outspoken, Pastor Roman sits down with Toni Nieuwhof to talk about the idea that it is possible to leave your unhappiness but not your spouse. Far too often in our marital relationship, we see the exit as the only way out. Listen in to discover some key principles to a happy and fulfilled marriage as Toni shares insight from her new book, “Before You Split.” Connect with Toni Nieuwhof: Website: https://toninieuwhof.com/ Twitter: @ToniNieuwhof Facebook: @Toni Karsikas Nieuwhof Instagram: @toninieuwhof Podcast: https://smartfamilypodcast.com/

The Learner's Corner with Caleb Mason
Episode 201: Toni Nieuwhof On What to Think Through Before You End Your Marriage and What She's Learned as a Divorce Attorney

The Learner's Corner with Caleb Mason

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 26, 2021 52:37


In this episode, Caleb talks with Toni Nieuwhof about her book, Before You Split. Toni Nieuwhof ( https://toninieuwhof.com ) Before You Split by Toni Nieuwhof ( https://www.amazon.com/Before-You-Split-Really-Marriage/dp/0525653368/ref=sr_1_3?crid=ZYMF5JB6GQIK&dchild=1&keywords=before+you+split+toni+nieuwhof&qid=1611674310&sprefix=before+you+sp%2Caps%2C182&sr=8-3 )

The Jenni Catron Leadership Podcast
Cultivating Connection in Your Marriage: An Interview with Toni Nieuwhof

The Jenni Catron Leadership Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 12, 2021 33:18


As leaders, it's often up to us to prioritize objectives for our team, to articulate what matters most and guide those we lead to focus their energy toward it. So, why does it also seem that the relationships that matter most to us don't always receive our focused energy? In this episode, Jenni Catron and author (and former divorce attorney) Toni Nieuwhof discuss ways to prioritize our closest relationships and the benefits of doing so. It's the thematic content of Nieuwhof's new book Before You Split, a valuable resource for leaders who want to pursue healthy relationships.In this episode, you'll learn...the value of emotional health and maturityhow to respond to difficult emotionswhy trying to "fix" your marriage isn't necessarily the best approachways to reconnect and grow with your spouseBefore You Split: Find What You Really Want for the Future of Your Marriagetoninieuwhof.comsmartfamilypodcast.comFollow Toni on Instagram

Linch With A Leader
Episode 98: Toni Nieuwhof

Linch With A Leader

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2021 45:38


In Episode 98 Mike sits down with Toni Nieuwhof to talk about her newest book Before You Split.  Toni Nieuwhof is a family law mediator and former divorce attorney. She is the wife of Carey Nieuwhof, who is an influential leadership author, podcast host, and international speaker. Toni and Carey often speak publicly about their marriage of more than three decades. In her downtime, Toni enjoys outdoor sports and spending time with Carey, their two grown sons, and their extended family and friends.In this conversation, Mike and Toni talk about the stresses and strains of marriage but also the hidden benefits of staying together and "working" it out!  Toni brings such a great perspective not only as a family law mediator but also as a church planter's spouse.  No matter where you find yourself, this conversation will be incredibly powerful for you to hear & share!

Living Hope Wesleyan
Toni Nieuwhof

Living Hope Wesleyan

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 21, 2020 32:18


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