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This episode starts as a slow tease… and then turns into a full-on fire

Okay… I might've been a little predatory this time

If you think great sex starts with taking your clothes off… think again.

I'm getting real about the desire gap today with relationship coach Monica Tanner—and trust me, we go there.

A listener voicemail had me leaning in hard this week. She's been married 36 years and loves her husband deeply—but their sex life has basically never existed

I was feeling playful, so I invited ChatGPT to interview me about my favorite topic… sex, of course

On this Man-Splain It to Me Monday, we're diving into the controversial idea of paying for sex—yep, we're going there.

I brought back the deliciously insightful Venus Cuckoldress, and trust me… this conversation goes deep.

This Hump Day Wednesday gets deliciously wicked as I play one of G's fantasies that had me grinning the whole time.

Okay, curious ones… this is the Q&A you've been waiting for, and yes, I blush-proofed myself before recording

This week's Mansplaining Monday is coming in HOT because Sir Inc just had a full-blown “aha” about modern dating — and whew, it's not cute

WATCH THIS ON YOUTUBE TOO!You organize the panels. You write the statements. You celebrate every woman around you, and somewhere in the middle of all of it, you forget to let any of it land on you. This episode is not for the role you play. It is for you.EPISODE DESCRIPTIONWhy Women's History Month can feel like one more thing to perform instead of something to actually feelHow the identity shift into motherhood and leadership quietly puts parts of yourself on a shelf you haven't opened in yearsWhat it really means to reclaim — not dramatically, but honestly — a version of yourself that went dormantWhy restoration is less about self-care rituals and more about reconnecting with what has been depleting youHow rising can look like a quiet internal choice, not a grand gestureWhat it means to be making women's history right now, in this moment, in your real lifeTUNE IN TO LEARNIdentify one strength, dream, or version of yourself you've quietly been setting asideDistinguish between performing celebration and actually receiving itChoose one restorative practice that is unambiguously yours — not for your family or your teamUse a single word as your compass for the month of MarchPractice a guided reflective moment designed to help you feel grounded in your own risingTAKEAWAY MESSAGE If you are the woman behind Women's History Month - organizing, nominating, championing - it makes sense that you have poured out more than you have taken in. That pattern has a name: it is the cost of being capable, and it accumulates. Reclaiming yourself does not require blowing up your life. It starts with remembering her, and deciding she is not done yet. Listen in, reflect gently, and remember… you are always free to be mindful.REFERENCED LINKSWORK WITH VANESSA (NJ MOMS): Ready to go deeper? Book a free 15-minute therapy consultation → freetobemindful.com/contactBook Vanessa for Speaking → freetobemindful.com/speakingSend a textSupport the show NJ RESIDENTS, WORK WITH VANESSA Book a free 15-minute therapy consultation https://www.freetobemindful.com/contact LET'S STAY CONNECTED

Christi is back and this time we are ripping the filter ALL the way off

We are staying deep in our anal era, and trust me… it keeps getting hotter. This episode explores what it feels like to be stretched, filled, pinned down, and taken into that delicious space where pleasure and surrender collide. I share why watching a man unravel during sex might be one of my biggest turn-ons—and how my so-called punishment turned into one of the hottest orgasms of my life.

What happens when two sex-positive women start casually chatting about rim jobs? Apparently… a whole lot of self-discovery.

Happy Mansplain It to Me Monday, and ohhh baby… Sir InQ brought the gumbo

What happens when a man leaves a dead bedroom, opens his marriage, and accidentally discovers he's a Daddy Dom? Well… I found out firsthand in this conversation

I don't know what was in the air this week, but your girl was dangerously close to climbing the walls

This episode is what happens when raging hormones meet bad timing and questionable decision-making

From thirsty to thoughtful real quick—this episode is a ride

Cupid hit me with a fist this year… and honestly? I liked it.

This Hump Day gets extra dirty as I dive headfirst into audio porn that made my clit throb and my submissive heart flutter

This episode feels like a late-night confession whispered from my bed

Today's episode had me blushing and smirking as we dove straight into male sexual taboos and all the things men won't admit out loud

OMG babes, this episode is HOT—I'm rewinding the clock and replaying the very first time I interviewed the woman who literally sparked The Curious Girl Diaries: Girl On The Net

If quickies aren't your thing and you're dreaming of slow, deliciously familiar sex that only comes with time… baby, this episode is your vibe.

What happens when your fantasies start getting darker... and hotter?

Guys, I love your Spotify poll responses—and sometimes I eat a big ol' slice of humble pie because of them!

Ever wondered how a real-life femme fatale seduces men as part of her job?

Whew... if you've ever wanted to know what a healthy, kinky, committed sex life sounds like, this episode is it. My darling listener drops back in with the steamiest update—think boss/employee hotel roleplay, ass play, pegging, and a whole lot of sexy surprises.

Whew, this episode is piping hot, babes!

Let's be real… most guys learned about sex from porn and their boys—and that's exactly why things aren't hitting like they should.

You're not ready for this one. I sit down with Mistress Mia, a total queen of kink who's been running dungeons, wrangling sissies, and hosting massive sex parties for DECADES.

Okay, confession time

Warning: I might've gone full tinfoil hat this time

Ever wondered what a guy really thinks about your body count?

This episode is not for the faint of heart—or the faint of scent

Okay, okay—I know I said I'd stop hogging the mic on Hump Day, but you guys loved my last confession… so I had to come back for one more steamy share

Okay, confession time

So, what do you do when a man goes from “let's grab dinner” to “send nudes” in under 48 hours?

Okay babes, you know I love a woman who hustles hard, and Kathy K is the queen of sexy storytelling!

Wanna hear the fantasy that's got me absolutely dripping lately?

New year, same dirty girl

Happy New Year, sexy people!

Ohhh this one is dripping with audio foreplay!

Merry Vibes and Messy Fantasies, lovers! ✨ I'm taking you back to one of my most unfiltered episodes—“I Crave Your Come”—and trust me, this one still hits hard. It's sexy, it's science-y, and yes, it's me confessing why some men's finish drives me wild and others? Not so much. I spill the tea on primal attraction, secret cravings, and exactly what I do when I really want it inside me. Consider this my holiday gift to your earbuds

While I'm still in vacation mode, I'm giving you the ultimate gift: a sizzling throwback to where my sexploration journey really began

It's a holiday throwback, baby, and I'm gifting you something hard to resist

OMG, you guys—this throwback from 2023 episode is pure fire!

Surprise! I'm dropping a sexy little throwback for you this Christmas Eve featuring my spicy soul-sister from LA—Lily!