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In this very juicy and educational episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets in bed with Jamie Joy, a queer, trans certified sex educator and full-blown fisting aficionado. We dive deep (literally and figuratively) into the world of fisting, from how to prep and practice it safely to the surprising aftercare and emotional intensity it can carry.We also discuss:How to prep for fisting (from hygiene to headspace)Differences between vaginal and anal fistingSafety tips, including glove use, nails, and douchingWhy fisting is more emotional and intimate than you'd thinkWhat to do if you're curious about trying itDebunking myths about poop, pain, and gay panicThe role of breath, communication, and pleasure in anal playThe stigma around anal play—especially for straight menJamie's favorite techniques and their own mold of their fist (yes, really!You can check out more of Jamie's work here!
“Slut” is a powerful term that has historically been used as an indictment of women's moral character. And as my guest today explains, as long as terms like this retain their power, we're never going to have true gender equality in the bedroom. She argues that it's well past time to reclaim the word slut once and for all, so let’s talk about it. I am joined once again by Dr. Hilary Caldwell, a sex worker, author, academic, and sexologist. Her bold political memoir, Slutdom: Reclaiming Shame-Free Sexuality, challenges the enduring impact of slut shaming and argues for a world in which everyone can pursue pleasure without fear, stigma, or coercion. Some of the specific topics we explore include: What does it mean to reclaim the world “slut,” and why is it important? Why is reclaiming sexual slurs controversial? What does it really mean to be sexually empowered? How can we become more sexually empowered? You can check out Hilary’s website to learn more about her work. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors! Expand your sexual horizons with Beducated! Featuring more than 100 online courses taught by the experts, Beducated brings pleasure-based sex ed directly into your bedroom. Enjoy a free trial today and get 60% off their yearly pass by using LEHMILLER as the coupon code. To redeem this offer, visit: https://beducate.me/lehmiller-june Passionate about building a career in sexuality? Check out the Sexual Health Alliance. With SHA, you’ll connect with world-class experts and join an engaged community of sexuality professionals from around the world. Visit SexualHealthAlliance.com and start building the sexuality career of your dreams today. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Bluesky to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.
In the spirit of the trend that's been sweeping social media, we are breaking down all the propaganda we refuse to fall for. We cover everything from the current state of our country to the JoJo/Fletcher controversy and sapphic dating myths. Share the things you won't be bamboozled by in the comments!Thank you to Beducated for sponsoring this week's episode! Use code "queerpod" to get 50% off their yearly pass: https://beducate.me/pd2522-queerpod.Immigration Support Resources:Immigrant Defenders Law CenterImmigrant Legal Resource Center DonationsCalifornia Immigrant Policy CenterIf you liked this episode please leave us a review!If you didn't...mind your business...Follow LittleQueerPod On instagram https://www.instagram.com/littlequeerpod/?hl=enFollow Ashley On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashleyelizabeth_11/?hl=enFollow Capri On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/capricampeau/
Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Thea Rose, host of Seggs Talk Radio and founder of a new STI testing startup, to talk about what it really takes to build a sex-positive business—from scratch, with heart, and without losing your mind.Thea opens up about her messy, honest path as a multi-hyphenate creator, how she juggles podcasting, launching companies, and staying grounded through burnout, ADHD, OnlyFans, and entrepreneurship in a taboo space. If you've ever wondered what it actually takes to build something sustainable in the sexual wellness world—this one's for you.We get into:How to actually niche down without losing your voice or creativityWhy your “little business” deserves as much celebration as a wedding or babyHow to recover when your audience isn't aligned (and why starting fresh matters)The role of risk-taking in entrepreneurship (and how it shows up in the bedroom)Launching an OnlyFans Why being passionate about your work matters more than the moneySex-positive branding, burnout, and building your dream audienceThe cost of being underestimated as a woman in businessChoosing to celebrate yourself in your own wayCraving more intimacy—even in a city full of peopleWhy we have to break away from traditional life milestones
Men are much more likely to report having paid for sex than women; however, there are probably more women paying for sex than we think. In today's show, we're going to do a deep dive into the world of women who pay for sex. We’ll be exploring what their experiences are like, why some women see paying for sex as being safer than having casual sex, and more. My guest is Dr. Hilary Caldwell, a sex worker, author, academic, and sexologist. Her bold political memoir, Slutdom: Reclaiming Shame-Free Sexuality, challenges the enduring impact of slut shaming and argues for a world in which everyone can pursue pleasure without fear, stigma, or coercion. Some of the specific topics we explore include: Why is there less research on women who pay for sexual services relative to men? How common is it for women to have paid for sex before? Why do some women who patronize sex workers don’t consider themselves to have bought sex? What are some of the main motivations for women to purchase sexual services? What are women’s experiences with purchasing sex like? Do they tend to feel stigmatized? You can check out Hilary’s website to learn more about her work. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors! Expand your sexual horizons with Beducated! Featuring more than 100 online courses taught by the experts, Beducated brings pleasure-based sex ed directly into your bedroom. Enjoy a free trial today and get 50% off their yearly pass by using LEHMILLER as the coupon code. To redeem this offer, visit: https://beducate.me/lehmiller-june Passionate about building a career in sexuality? Check out the Sexual Health Alliance. With SHA, you’ll connect with world-class experts and join an engaged community of sexuality professionals from around the world. Visit SexualHealthAlliance.com and start building the sexuality career of your dreams today. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Bluesky to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.
The way that many of us are approaching romantic relationships is all wrong. We're not prioritizing the things that really matter when selecting our partners. In today's show, we're going to talk about the conversations you need to be having with a potential partner in order to develop deeper connections and establish long-term compatibility. My guest is Lindsay Jill Roth, an award-winning television and live-events producer who has created and developed a wide variety of programming globally. She is also author of the new book Romances & Practicalities, which is based on a set of 250 research-backed questions designed to help you initiate tricky conversations and find lasting love. Some of the specific topics we explore include: What are we doing wrong when it comes to selecting relationship partners? How can being more pragmatic in your approach to relationships help to build a stronger foundation for love? Why is money management a vital issue to discuss with a potential partner? Beyond finances, what are some other key topics we should be discussing? How do you initiate conversations about topics that many people are uncomfortable discussing? You can check out Lindsay’s website to learn more about her work. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors! Expand your sexual horizons with Beducated! Featuring more than 100 online courses taught by the experts, Beducated brings pleasure-based sex ed directly into your bedroom. Enjoy a free trial today and get 60% off their yearly pass by using LEHMILLER as the coupon code. To redeem this offer, visit: https://beducate.me/lehmiller-june Passionate about building a career in sexuality? Check out the Sexual Health Alliance. With SHA, you’ll connect with world-class experts and join an engaged community of sexuality professionals from around the world. Visit SexualHealthAlliance.com and start building the sexuality career of your dreams today. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Bluesky to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.
En este episodio hablamos de lo que les pasa a muchas mujeres en el mundo laboral cuando se convierten en madres, especialmente en el sector privado. Hablamos con Carolina Villanueva, co-fundadora de Grow - Género y trabajo y una gran referenta para quienes queremos impulsar cambios en la sociedad a través de la transformación de los espacios de trabajo. Hablamos de violencia laboral, penalización de la maternidad, división sexual del trabajo y políticas que pueden implementarse para ser más equitativos con las personas que, además de trabajar, cuidan. Nos acompañan también con audios esclarecedores Carolina Ivachuta, Gerenta de Comunicación Interna y Externa de Danone Argentina y Flora Curci, socióloga e investigadora de mercado. ----- Este episodio contó con el apoyo de BEDucated.com, una plataforma digital que ofrece cursos para que todas las personas alcancen su plenitud sexual. Podés acceder a un 60% OFF en tu suscripción anual entrando a este enlace y poniendo el código: comadre. https://beducate.me/pd2523-comadre ----- ♥ Comadre es posible gracias a nuestra comunidad. Unite a nuestra Tribu del bien, nuestro programa de membresías, y ayúdanos a garantizar la existencia y la sostenibilidad de nuestro periodismo independiente. ★ Si no querés perderte ningún episodio, suscribite a nuestro newsletter gratuito y recibí novedades en tu correo.
Thank you to Beducated for sponsoring this week's episode! Use code "queerpod" to get 60% off one year of Beducated with a 14-day money back guarantee: https://beducate.me/pd2518-queerpod.While this episode might be a little shorter on time, it's still full of answers to your queer questions and stories that need advice. We talk about finding queer community in a new environment, moving on from the canon event that is being in love with your (straight) best friend, and how to deal with uncomfortable micro aggressions. Don't forget, our IG inbox is always open for more questions or topic requests!If you liked this episode please leave us a review!If you didn't...mind your business...Follow LittleQueerPod On instagram https://www.instagram.com/littlequeerpod/?hl=enFollow Ashley On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashleyelizabeth_11/?hl=enFollow Capri On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/capricampeau/
The most common sexual problems that women experience center around low sexual desire and/or difficulty becoming aroused, formally known as female sexual interest/arousal disorder. In today's show, we're doing a deep dive into what this disorder looks like, where it comes from, and why it seems so hard for women to access treatment for it. I am joined by Dr. Lori Brotto, an internationally recognized leader in sexual health research. She is a Professor in the UBC Department of Obstetrics and Gynaecology, a Registered Psychologist, and Canada Research Chair in Women's Sexual Health. She is also author of the book Better Sex Through Mindfulness. Some of the specific topics we explore include: What is “female sexual interest/arousal disorder?” How is it clinically defined? How common is this disorder? What do we know about its causes? Is it physical, psychological, or a bit of both? Why does it take an average of 5 years for women to access treatment for sexual desire and arousal problems? Why is it so hard to develop drugs and medications that stimulate sexual desire? You can check out Lori’s website to learn more about her work. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors! Expand your sexual horizons with Beducated! Featuring more than 100 online courses taught by the experts, Beducated brings pleasure-based sex ed directly into your bedroom. Enjoy a free trial today and get 60% off their yearly pass by using LEHMILLER as the coupon code. To redeem this offer, visit: https://beducate.me/lehmiller-may The Kinsey Institute at Indiana University has been a trusted source for scientific knowledge and research on critical issues in sexuality, gender, and reproduction for over 75 years. Learn about more research and upcoming events at kinseyinstitute.org or look for them on social media @kinseyinstitute. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Bluesky to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.
Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sits down with NYC-based photographer, ethical slut, and reformed cheater Matthew Kayman for an honest, reflective, and hilarious conversation about evolving from messy dating patterns to intentional, kink-informed, and transparent relationships.We unpack his shift from monogamy to polyamory, navigating play parties, unlearning toxic masculinity, and figuring out how to explore power dynamics while remaining ethical and emotionally available.✨ In this episode, we talk about:How Matthew realized he wasn't dating ethically—and what changed thatHis transition into ethical non-monogamy and what it taught him about himselfTips for flirting, FaceTime pre-dates, and dating apps that don't suckPower dynamics in dating, and how kink helped him explore both dom & sub rolesGroup sex, queer curiosity, and learning how to communicate mid-orgySlutty shame, hot guy privilege, and navigating softness in hookup cultureWhy it's not just about consent, but context and careLessons from play parties, switching, and setting expectations with new partnersThis is an episode about dating better—not perfectly, but with curiosity, compassion, and accountability.
The pelvic floor is a really important set of muscles that plays a big role in sexual and reproductive function. However, most people don’t know much about it, including common signs that they might have a problem. In today’s show, I am joined by the “Vagina Whisperer” to discuss what you need to know about the pelvic floor I am joined by Sara Reardon, a board-certified pelvic floor physical therapist and founder of The V-Hive, an online, on-demand pelvic floor fitness platform. She is author of the new book FLOORED: A Woman's Guide to Pelvic Floor Health at Every Age and Stage. Some of the specific topics we explore include: What exactly is the pelvic floor, and what are the main functions of it? How common are pelvic floor problems? What are some of the most common signs that you might have a pelvic floor issue? Why so do many medical professionals seem unprepared to help with pelvic floor issues? What happens when pelvic floor issues go untreated long-term? You can check our Sara’s website to learn more about her work. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors! Expand your sexual horizons with Beducated! Featuring more than 100 online courses taught by the experts, Beducated brings pleasure-based sex ed directly into your bedroom. Enjoy a free trial today and get 60% off their yearly pass by using LEHMILLER as the coupon code. To redeem this offer, visit: https://beducate.me/lehmiller-may The Kinsey Institute at Indiana University has been a trusted source for scientific knowledge and research on critical issues in sexuality, gender, and reproduction for over 75 years. Learn about more research and upcoming events at kinseyinstitute.org or look for them on social media @kinseyinstitute. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Bluesky to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.
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In this episode, we're joined by Celeste Hirschman, co-creator of the Somatica® Method and co-founder of the Somatica Institute. Celeste is a somatic sex coach who specializes in helping men and women create deeper, more connected, and more satisfying intimate experiences.We dive into how you can become a detective in the bedroom—not by overanalyzing, but by tuning in. Learn how to pick up on what a woman likes, what she doesn't, and how to test the waters in a way that feels confident, playful, and deeply attuned. Celeste shares actionable tips on how to explore and communicate desire without killing the mood, how to bring more sensuality into your touch, and how to come across as the sexy, grounded man women crave—without second-guessing yourself.Whether you're just starting to explore intimacy or want to take your bedroom confidence to the next level, this episode will give you a new perspective on pleasure, connection, and what women actually want.>>> Ready to become the most charming, magnetic, WITTY and confident version of yourself? Book a free call with Kristen here: https://calendly.com/kristenandchill/magneticmanstrategysession>>> Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni's Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelpThis week's episode is brought to you by Beducated. Get an additional 10% off at https://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomenhttps://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomen
In heterosexual relationships, women don't orgasm as frequently or consistently as men. So why is that? As we’ll explore in today’s show, it’s because there’s an “orgasm pursuit gap.” Sexual scripts lead women to pursue their own orgasms less than men, and to perceive less support from their partners for their own pleasure. My guest is Carly Wolfer, a sex researcher, relationship scientist, and health educator whose work explores how to create more equitable and pleasurable sexual experiences. She's currently working on her Ph.D. in Social Psychology at The CUNY Graduate Center. Some of the specific topics we explore include: What’s wrong with the current way we think about the orgasm gap? Why do women pursue their own orgasms less than men? What does healthy pursuit of orgasm look like? How can you get your partner to support your pleasure? How do we close the orgasm gap? You can connect with Carly on LinkedIn to follow her updates. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors! Expand your sexual horizons with Beducated! Featuring more than 100 online courses taught by the experts, Beducated brings pleasure-based sex ed directly into your bedroom. Enjoy a free trial today and get 60% off their yearly pass by using LEHMILLER as the coupon code. To redeem this offer, visit: https://beducate.me/lehmiller-may The Kinsey Institute at Indiana University has been a trusted source for scientific knowledge and research on critical issues in sexuality, gender, and reproduction for over 75 years. Learn about more research and upcoming events at kinseyinstitute.org or look for them on social media @kinseyinstitute. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Bluesky to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.
Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Catherine Drysdale—sex & relationship coach—who's on a mission to help women and femmes unlearn the “good girl” scripts that keep them small, quiet, and out of touch with their desires.We talk about:• What “good girl conditioning” really means and how it shows up in our lives• The difference between Good Girl Conditioning and being a "good girl" in a power dynamic• The pressure to be nice, palatable, and liked (and how that impacts our relationships and sex lives)• Why so many of us have trouble asking for what we want—especially in bed• The link between patriarchy and the fear of being “too much”• How to begin reclaiming your voice, your wants, and your power• Ways to get comfortable with discomfort, especially when it comes to setting boundaries• Rewriting your relationship with shame, worthiness, and sexual expressionThis is a permission slip to take up space and live more fully, more loudly, and more authentically.✨ At the end of the episode, we also chat about how this work spills into dating, communication, and how to support other women on the same journey.
What if your “dark side” was the key to unlocking deeper confidence, attraction, and connection in your relationships?In this episode, Adam Skoda — host of The Masculine Mindset Show, author of 77 Ways to Develop a Masculine Mindset, and creator of the Alpha Body Bootcamp Training Program — joins the show to explore the real power behind what psychology calls the “Dark Triad” traits: narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy.We dive into:What the Dark Triad really means in the context of human attraction and female psychologyHow to channel “dark” energy in a healthy way to create polarity and deeper emotional connectionPersonal stories from our own relationships where embracing shadow energy created surprising breakthroughsA grounded, practical guide to shadow work — and how to do it without spiraling or getting stuck in shameIf you've ever felt like there's a part of you you've been told to hide — this episode is your permission slip to bring it into the light (and use it well).This week's episode is brought to you by Beducated. Get an additional 10% off at https://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomenhttps://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomen>>>Ready to become the most charming, magnetic, WITTY and confident version of yourself? Apply to work exclusively with Kristen here (spots are limited): https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni's Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp
At some point, almost everyone in a long-term relationship is going to wonder, “What happened to my sex life?” Where did the initial passion and excitement go? In today's show, we're going to explore why desire, pleasure, and connection often decline in relationships, as well as how you can get it back. I am joined by Dr. Kate Balestrieri, a licensed psychologist and certified sex therapist. She is the founder of Modern Intimacy, a counseling practice that operates in Los Angeles, Miami, and Chicago. She is author of the new book What Happened to My Sex Life? A Sex Therapist's Guide to Reclaiming Lost Desire, Connection, and Pleasure. Some of the specific topics we explore include: Does a loss of passion necessarily mean there’s something wrong in your relationship? What can you do if you feel like you and your partner have become roommates instead of lovers? How can being too close to your partner hurt desire? How can addressing anger and resentment in healthy ways open the door to more desire? What do you need to know about moving past trauma and opening yourself up to pleasure again? You can check out the Modern Intimacy website to learn more about Kate’s work. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors! Expand your sexual horizons with Beducated! Featuring more than 100 online courses taught by the experts, Beducated brings pleasure-based sex ed directly into your bedroom. Enjoy a free trial today and get 60% off their yearly pass by using LEHMILLER as the coupon code. To redeem this offer, visit: https://beducate.me/lehmiller-may The Kinsey Institute at Indiana University has been a trusted source for scientific knowledge and research on critical issues in sexuality, gender, and reproduction for over 75 years. Learn about more research and upcoming events at kinseyinstitute.org or look for them on social media @kinseyinstitute. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Bluesky to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.
This week, we're flipping the script on what you think women want.Yes, your so-called "shortcomings" (the things you're not proud of) can actually attract women when you know how to use them the right way. And our amazing guest - fiery redhead Yoann Bohbot, Founder of dotsspace.com - is here to explain exactly how to do it.We also dive into:How to find and pursue the right woman for youHow to build a strategy for attracting a specific girlHow to get different types of women based on what you wantHow to mentally overcome obstacles without ever stepping into therapy...and so much more.Don't miss this one — it's packed with fresh insights that could change the way you see yourself (and how women see you).This week's episode is brought to you by Beducated. Get an additional 10% off at https://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomenhttps://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomen>>>Ready to become the most charming, magnetic, WITTY and confident version of yourself? Apply to work exclusively with Kristen here (spots are limited): https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni's Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelp
Use code MADDIE for 60% off the yearly pass at Beducated: https://beducate.me/bg2514-maddie robbie's back again! and this time, we're talking about his 600 crushes, AI therapy, fighting for babies in a movie theater, and answering some audience submissions about stealing from your friends, having experience in the bedroom, and falling out of love. main show and post show are juicy this week folks! strap in! TIME STAMPS:00:00 – rip brat summer 04:46 – almost to masturbation may 07:39 – free fun!! coupon summer!! 09:39 – pizza tour drama 12:38 – senior assassin 17:05 – robbie is anti-prank 18:35 – more free fun ideas 22:54 – AI therapy ads all over bushwick 31:09 – insane public interactions i witnessed recently 38:09 – the purple supremacy is spreading 43:00 – robbie has a secret 47:09 – listener can't stop stealing from their friends 56:57 – falling out of love with your significant other 01:03:11 – how important is having experience in the bedroom?
Thank you to Beducated for sponsoring this week's episode! Use code "queerpod" to get 50% off of their yearly pass at: https://beducate.me/pd2514-queerpod.This week we're back with two more AITA stories and a couple of your queer questions. We would love to hear your thoughts about some of the topics we covered. Do you think he should've told his girlfriend that his dads are gay? Would you tell your best friend you caught feelings for them? Let us know in the comments!If you liked this episode please leave us a review!If you didn't...mind your business...Follow LittleQueerPod On instagram https://www.instagram.com/littlequeerpod/?hl=enFollow Ashley On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashleyelizabeth_11/?hl=enFollow Capri On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/capricampeau/
Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sits down with Alex Fine, educator, activist, parent and founder of the pleasure-forward brand Dame, to talk about how to find the sex toy that actually works for you—and how to confidently use it, whether you're flying solo or playing with a partner.Alex shares how Dame is redefining pleasure with intentional, inclusive design, and we get into how to move past shame, communicate your needs, and create sexy experiences that center your pleasure.Whether you're new to toys or looking to level up, we've got guidance on how to explore in ways that feel exciting, not overwhelming.✨ In this episode, we cover:How to choose a toy based on your anatomy and what you likeTips for using toys with a partner without making it weird or performativeHow to bring up toys with a partner if they're nervous or skepticalThe difference between clitoral, vaginal, anal, and blended stimulation—and toys for eachHow to care for your toys so they last (and stay safe to use)Debunking myths like “you'll get addicted to your vibrator”How Dame is shaking up the industry with body-safe, beautifully designed productsThe role of design in enhancing your pleasure and creating easeMasturbation as a form of self-connection and stress reliefWhy you don't have to “fix” anything—pleasure isn't a performanceSuing the MTA so they could advertise on the subwayThank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 50% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up:https://beducate.me/alexa-april
A few years back, there were a ton of media articles going around about how the pandemic killed the sex party scene. Flash forward to today, and sex parties are back with a vengeance. So what is it actually like to attend a sex party? In today’s show, we're going to explore the world of sex parties and what you need to know if you're thinking about attending one. I am joined once again by Dr. Tara, an associate professor of relational and sexual communication at California State University Fullerton. She is also a sex and relationship coach and host of the podcast Luvbites by Dr. Tara. Some of the specific topics we explore include: What does a sex party involve? What’s the atmosphere like? What’s the difference between a sex party and an orgy? How does consent work in a group setting? What are the typical rules or etiquette of a sex party? How do you even find a sex party to attend in the first place? What do you need to do to prepare for attending a sex party? You can check out Dr. Tara’s website to learn more about her work. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors! Expand your sexual horizons with Beducated! Featuring more than 100 online courses taught by the experts, Beducated brings pleasure-based sex ed directly into your bedroom. Enjoy a free trial today and get 50% off their yearly pass by using LEHMILLER as the coupon code. Click here to redeem this offer. Passionate about building a career in sexuality? Check out the Sexual Health Alliance. With SHA, you’ll connect with world-class experts and join an engaged community of sexuality professionals from around the world. Visit SexualHealthAlliance.com and start building the sexuality career of your dreams today. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Bluesky to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.
In the previous episode, we spoke with the madam of a legal brothel in the US state of Nevada. In today's show, we're going to peel back the sheets a bit further and talk about the courtesans who live and work in this brothel, as well as the surprisingly wide range of customers who visit. It turns out that, more often than not, the patrons are looking for far more than just sex. I am joined once again by Tara Adkins, who has served as the madam of the World Famous Mustang Ranch for 17 years. As the madam of this property, Tara is responsible for hiring and training the courtesans. Additionally, she provides counsel to the women, offering support on financial and personal matters to ensure their success as independent contractors and beyond. Some of the specific topics we explore include: Is there a typical brothel customer? Beyond sex, what are customers looking for when they visit a brothel? How do brothels help customers to fulfill their sexual fantasies? What’s it like to work at a brothel? What type of skill set do you need in order to be successful as a brothel worker? You can click here to check out the World Famous Mustang Ranch’s website. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors! Expand your sexual horizons with Beducated! Featuring more than 100 online courses taught by the experts, Beducated brings pleasure-based sex ed directly into your bedroom. Enjoy a free trial today and get 50% off their yearly pass by LEHMILLER as the coupon code. Passionate about building a career in sexuality? Check out the Sexual Health Alliance. With SHA, you’ll connect with world-class experts and join an engaged community of sexuality professionals from around the world. Visit SexualHealthAlliance.com and start building the sexuality career of your dreams today. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Bluesky to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.
Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sits down with world-renowned sex educator and author Kenneth Play to talk all things oral sex on vulvas—techniques, mindset, communication, and pleasure-maximizing strategies. Known for his viral videos, global workshops, and author of Beyond Satisfied, Kenneth breaks down how anyone can become a more confident and skillful oral lover—no magic tongue required.In this episode, we discuss:The most common mistakes people make when going down on someoneHow to build confidence if you feel awkward or unsureKenneth's signature “sex hacking” approach and why it worksThe anatomy of pleasure: why understanding the clitoris is essentialWhy going slow is underrated and how to read your partner's body cuesCommunication tips that don't kill the vibeTechniques for different sensations: flicking, sucking, pressure, and moreHow to involve your hands, body, and breath for maximum connectionTips for anyone struggling to orgasm from oral stimulationWhat Kenneth learned from working with thousands of vulva ownersBusting myths about what “good oral” looks likeHow to prioritize pleasure over performanceKenneth's top tips for becoming a more intuitive, generous loverWhether you're new to oral or want to refine your technique, this episode is full of real, actionable tips that can immediately change your sex life.✨ Unedited episodes, behind-the-scenes of my dating & sex life, and access to my close friends list on Instagram available on Patreon: https://patreon.com/sexwithalexaThank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 50% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up: https://beducate.me/alexa-april
There are close to two dozen legal brothels in the U.S. state of Nevada. In today's show, we're going to go inside one of these brothels and talk to the madam who manages it. We're going to talk about what the job of a brothel madam is really like, as well as some common myths and misconceptions about brothels and sex work. My guest is Tara Adkins, who has served as the madam of the World Famous Mustang Ranch for 17 years. As the madam of this property, Tara is responsible for hiring and training the courtesans. Additionally, she provides counsel to the women, offering support on financial and personal matters to ensure their success as independent contractors and beyond. Some of the specific topics we explore include: What requirements do you have to meet in order to be a fully legal brothel? What is the inside of a brothel actually like? What are the brothel madam’s main responsibilities? How does the madam ensure safety and respect for sex workers? What are some of the biggest misconceptions people have about legal brothels? You can click here to check out the World Famous Mustang Ranch’s website. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors! Expand your sexual horizons with Beducated! Featuring more than 100 online courses taught by the experts, Beducated brings pleasure-based sex ed directly into your bedroom. Enjoy a free trial today and get 50% off their yearly pass by LEHMILLER as the coupon code. The Kinsey Institute at Indiana University has been a trusted source for scientific knowledge and research on critical issues in sexuality, gender, and reproduction for over 75 years. Learn about more research and upcoming events at kinseyinstitute.org or look for them on social media @kinseyinstitute. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Bluesky to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.
Dating is challenging enough, so why make it harder by hiding your true self and not asking for what you want? This week, we're joined by Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, coach and therapist at GrowingSelf.com, who shares powerful insights on building self-confidence and showing up authentically in your love life. She also breaks down attachment styles - how to identify yours and what it means for your relationships. If yours isn't serving you well, don't worry, Dr. Bobby provides practical tools to help you shift toward healthier, more fulfilling connections.>>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, apply to work with Kristen here: https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni's Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelpThis week's episode is brought to you by Beducated. Get an additional 10% off at https://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomenhttps://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomen
Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sits down with Miss Lauren to talk about how to take charge in the bedroom, tap into your confidence, and explore power dynamics in a way that feels fun and natural. Whether you're looking to spice things up or just want to feel more in control, this episode is packed with practical tips and expert advice on owning your desires.We cover:How she got started and what it's like working at a dungeon.How to start dominating your boyfriend—even if you've never done it before.Why confidence is key—and how to build it in and out of the bedroom.Ways to take the lead in sex—without feeling awkward or forced.How to introduce power dynamics in a fun, flirty way—no whips or leather required.The psychology behind why some people love being told what to do—and how to use that to your advantage.Findom (financial domination) 101—what it is, how it works, and why it's more common than you think.How to communicate what you want—and make sure your partner is on board.Easy ways to get started with small, subtle power shifts that can change everything.A special thank you to our incredible sponsor, Beducated, for supporting this project. Beducated is committed to empowering individuals on their sexual wellness journey with expert-led courses that foster intimacy, communication, and pleasure. Their dedication aligns seamlessly with our mission here.Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 60% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up:https://beducate.me/alexa-march
Can your taste in music lead you to love? In this episode, we're joined by Rachel Van Nortwick, creator of the dating app Vinylly, to dive into the power of music in romantic connections. We explore why sharing playlists might be more telling than answering dating profile prompts and how musical chemistry can spark real-life attraction.Plus, we break down the transition from working together to dating - when it works, when it doesn't, and how to navigate the shift without hitting a wrong note. If you've ever bonded over a band or wondered if your favorite song could lead you to your person, this episode is for you.Join Vinylly at https://vinyllyapp.com>>>To become the most witty, charming, attractive and polished version of yourself, apply to work with Kristen here: https://www.kristenandchilldating.com/coaching>>>Get A FREE Dating Playbook Session with Marni's Wing Girl Team. Apply Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/letmehelpThis week's episode is brought to you by Beducated. Get an additional 10% off at https://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomenhttps://beducate.me/pd2510-askwomen
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If you've been feeling creatively blocked, emotionally flat, or disconnected from your sensuality—this episode is for you.Your sacral chakra is the energetic home of your feminine power, pleasure, and magnetic presence. In this episode, I'll guide you through what it really means to awaken this center and how doing so can reignite your aliveness, creativity, and confidence from the inside out.We'll explore:The signs your sacral may be blocked or shut downHow this sacred energy impacts your pleasure, power, and relationshipsSimple ways to reconnect with your sacral energy todayWhat becomes possible when you live turned on—by life, desire, and your body✨ Want to go deeper? Join me for the Sacral Awakening Masterclass on April 9th, where we'll release shame and awaken your full feminine expression.
What happens when one partner wants something sexually, but the other doesn't? In this episode, Lauren and Trey respond to an audience member's question about sexual boundaries in relationships. Lauren shares one of her favorite Betty Dodson quotes: "The first principle of pleasure is the freedom of personal choice."—reminding us that if you don't want to do something in bed, you don't have to. Period.They explore past experiences, why relationships don't begin or end over just one preference, and how mutual enjoyment plays a role in long-term intimacy. Plus, Lauren shares a resource for learning pleasure-centered techniques through Beducated.This short but impactful episode (under 30 minutes) is a must-listen for anyone navigating intimacy, consent, and personal agency in relationships. Because your body, your choice—always.
Your intuition isn't random. It's your power—and it's time to trust it.In this beautiful and expansive episode, I sit down with Nicole Broadbent—Reiki Master Teacher, medium, and creator of Soul Alchemy Reiki—to explore how intuitive healing, inner child work, and energy practices can support us in reclaiming our wholeness.You'll hear:✨ How Nicole turned her pain into purpose through energy healing✨ The difference between Reiki modalities (Karuna, Yosui, Holy Fire)✨ What it really means to channel and trust your intuitive gifts✨ How healing ourselves helps us show up differently for our children✨ Why belief is the missing piece when stepping into your power✨ The link between sexual embodiment and intuitive awakeningThis is an episode for the women who feel something stirring within them… who know they're meant for more… and are ready to meet their gifts with love instead of fear.
Confidence isn't just about what you say - it's about how you say it. This week, we're joined by speaking empowerment coach Linda Ugelow, who reveals the subtle yet powerful ways you can show confidence to women through your voice, tonality, and presence while eliminating anxiety.Learn how to make women lean in, listen, and think, Wow, that guy is confident—without trying too hard. We break down the psychology behind vocal authority, the small shifts that make a big impact, and why confidence is one of the sexiest traits you can embody.Tune in now and start owning the room with your voice.
Alright, lover—this episode? It's giving deep, dirty, and delicious.
Talking about sex in a long-term relationship can feel awkward, vulnerable, or even impossible—but it doesn't have to be. In this episode of The Partnership Podcast, Lauren and Trey dive deep into how to have hard conversations about your sexual relationship and create the sex life you both want.They unpack societal scripts that shape men's and women's experiences of desire, share real feelings from couples—including feeling stuck and trapped—and explore Esther Perel's insight: “It is not a crisis of desire, it is a crisis of imagination.”Together, they walk through six steps to reinvigorate your sex life:1️⃣ Examine your beliefs – Where did your ideas about sex come from? Do they still serve you?2️⃣ Assess your social circles – Are the relationships around you communicative and pleasure-centered?3️⃣ Expand your knowledge – Introduce new ideas and education into your “diet” and consider working with a sexuality educator like Lauren.4️⃣ Own your part – Take accountability for ways you may have contributed to a stagnant sex life and discuss what you'd love to nurture together.5️⃣ Take risks & explore – Experiment with new initiation styles, fantasies, Creative Monogamy (Dr. Joli Hamilton), sexy getaways, and educational resources like OMGYES and BEDUCATED.6️⃣ Integrate & choose – After experimenting, decide what works for you and what you want to keep.Lauren wraps up with a powerful reminder: “Once we have a greater understanding of our options and our choices, we don't feel stuck—we feel like choice makers. And THAT equals great sex.”
Are men seasonal when it comes to their horniness?
BDSM wasn't just about pleasure for me—it cracked open a whole new way of understanding myself!
Hey sexy listeners, it's Miss K here! Did I ever tell you how writing saved my life and made my sex life even hotter?
Buckle up, because this episode is wet and wild!
"It's a lot of work to get laid!"
You ever walk into a date thinking it's about to be fire and instead it's… a dumpster fire?
Buckle up, because this episode is full of raw, unfiltered goodness!
Ever wondered what really goes down on a porn set?
Buckle up, babe—this episode is all about pushing boundaries and owning your desires.
Casual relationships? Yes, darling, they can be so much more than just a fling!
Today I am joined with the CEO/Author of Wake Her Up and we are discussing her personal story of what happened when she woke up and her sex drive was GONE, she (thought)she hated her husband and he seemed to be the person to blame for why the spark was gone. Low and behold Marcella was in peri menopause..while this isn't the case for everyone relationship wise, her starting hormones rocked her world…for the better! Now she feels it's her personal mission to help couples 35-55 to understand what is going on hormonally in the home that may be your biggest ‘cock block' Learn more about Marcella here. Today's listener questions include the use of jeweled butt plugs, multiple orgasms and a wife desiring an open marriage due to a religious upbringing. Tune in now! Join the Patreon for bonus content at www.patreon.com/thehornyhousewifepodcast Beducated: Use code JORDYN to get 60% off Beducated's yearly subscription at https://beducate.me/february Bathmate: Get 10% off using promo code HORNYHOUSEWIFE at bathmatedirect.com/hornyhousewife Popstar: Go to popstarlabs.com/hornyhousewife and use code HORNYHOUSEWIFE at checkout get 20% off your order. VIIA Hemp: Use code HOUSEWIFE to get 15% off at https://viia.co/HOUSEWIFE Bluechew: Try your first month free! Learn more at Bluechew.com
Guess what? This episode was so damn good, I HAD to bring it back!
Hello lovely listeners, Miss K here.
I've been a very bad girl, and this episode proves it!
Today tune in to discuss tossing salad, obligatory sex (wives making sure to partake in order to keep their husbands) and why cheaters cheat- and what to do with the people we know IRL who aren't being loyal to the person they call husband/wife. Like audio erotica? Join the Patreon here. Want to ask a listener question? Ask Anonymously at www.thehornyhousewifepodcast.com Fleshlight: Use code HOUSEWIFE at http://fleshlight.sjv.io/TheHornyHousewife Popstar- Use code HORNY HOUSEWIFE for 20% off at https://www.popstarlabs.com/hornyhousewife or shop for popstar on amazon! Bathmate: Go to bathmatedirect.com/hornyhousewife to get 10% off Beducated: Visit https://beducate.me/horny-valentine to get 60% off one year of Beducated use code JORDYN! Every Plate: get your first box 50% off by going to everyplate.com/podcast Bluechew: Try your first month FREE using code Housewife at checkout!