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This week, Vee and Elle play WHOREible Life with repeat guest Catherine Drysdale, a dating and intimacy expert who shared how she accidentally stepped into her power as a mommy dom in Episode 168. Today, pull up a seat and eavesdrop on three unapologetically honest humans as we swap wild stories, reveal our kinks, confess our preferences, and answer the kinds of questions most people only think about behind closed doors. Chapters:Sex Club Or Dungeon + Sex Toy Preferences (0:00)Why We Don't Like Metal Handcuffs And Smart BDSM Tips (04:16)The Carpet Men In Nyc (10:12)Rim Job Or Double Vaginal Penetration (DVP) (14:38)Make A Girl Squirt Or Give Road Head  (22:20)How To Be Multiorgasmic (28:40)Edging And Elle's Cervical Orgasm  (45:14)____

In this episode, Vee joins Alexa Andre of In Bed With Alexa for a conversation about sexual fantasies: the ones we secretly crave, the ones we've brought to life, and the ones that are better left in our heads. From public play and group experiences to praise kinks, fantasy fulfillment, shame, and self-discovery, they unpack how fantasies evolve as we evolve. The conversation gets raw, funny, and unexpectedly vulnerable as they explore what our deepest turn-ons reveal about our desires, insecurities, healing, and sense of freedom. ___________________________

Sex Is a Skill. Beducated is where you learn it. Join Beducated today at https://beducate.me/loversbyshan.  Big love to the sponsor of this episode, CozyEarth! Head to https://cozyearth.com/LOVERS and use my code LOVERS for an exclusive 20% off. Head to www.penguinrandomhouse.com to get your copy of Caro Claire Burke's new book Yesteryear, a gripping, darkly funny thriller about an influencer trapped in a nightmare version of the past. —----- Dondré Whitfield on why men cheat — and what nobody taught them about love. Dondré Whitfield is an actor best known for his roles in Guiding Light, Queen Sugar, and The Game, and the author of Male vs. Man (a book about what it actually means to be a man in the context of family, fatherhood, and love). In this conversation, he traces the origin of his infidelity not to a moment of weakness but to a moment of watching his father lust after other women in plain sight (that was the day, he says, the cheater in him was born — not because he wanted to be that man, but because he didn't yet know he had a choice). What follows is one of the most specific and honest conversations we've had on this show about what it looks like when a man finally decides to understand himself and then builds an entire framework so his children don't have to start from zero. His concept, "we date as a family" (where the whole family meets not just the person a child is dating but their father too, so everyone can help scaffold the relationship toward something healthy), is practical, radical, and worth hearing in full. Follow Dondré Whitfield Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/alldondre/ Website → https://www.dondrewhitfield.com/ Get Dondré's book Male vs. Man → https://a.co/d/0het8rPc Want more Lover? Shan's AI trained to give you her advice → http://loversbyshan.com  Get a free weekly Love Letter → http://loversbyshan.com/newsletter  Join the Lovers Community → https://www.loversbyshan.com/community Explore free quizzes + worksheets → http://loversbyshan.com/quizzes Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Elle and Vee sit down with kink educator Foxie Lou. This is a masterclass in turning sex from performance into exploration touching on BDSM, play, trust, and connection. From primal wrestling and predicament play to nervous system safety and the fear of receiving, the conversation gets raw fast as Elle realizes her struggle with submission might actually be a struggle with vulnerability. Foxie breaks down why great sex has way less to do with performance and way more to do with curiosity, playfulness, and feeling safe enough to be fully seen. Somewhere between sardine pizza punishments and wrestling your partner on the floor, we uncover the real secret to better sex: stop performing and start playing.Chapters:00:00 — Meet the Kink Educator Making BDSM Feel Human05:11 — Elle admits submission terrifies her and has trouble receiving and Fox immediately goes straight for the emotional jugular14:13 — Power Play, Questions To Always Ask Before Play, The Difference Between Bottoming, Topping, Giving, Taking, and Receiving: Q20:51 — Primal Play, Wrestling, and Getting Out of Your Head31:44 — What the Hell Is Predicament Play?43.23— Accessing Playfulness: Gamifying Relationships and Caretaking01:01:46— Rapid Fire Questions:— The Missing Ingredient in Most Relationships— The Real Secret to Good Sex — How to Stop Living in Your Head During Sex____Guest:: Fpxie Lou Website: https://www.foxieloucoaching.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/mxfoxielou/____

Showing some love of the sponsor of this episode #BEDucated. Join Beducated today at https://beducate.me/loversapril.  Shout out to the sponsor of this episode #Quince. Go to Quince.com/LOVERS for free shipping and 365-day returns. LOVERS! Right now, you can receive up to 32% off your purchase by heading to Biologica.com/LOVERS! ——— Melyssa Ford has heard every version of the argument. She's seen the comments. She knows what people think about a woman her age with no husband and no kids who says she's genuinely happy.  And she's back to say it again,  louder. In this episode, Shan and Melyssa get into the real reason so many women are quietly stepping back from traditional relationship structures, not out of bitterness, not out of trauma, but out of a clear-eyed look at what they were actually being offered.  If you've ever felt like the options on the table weren't worth the cost, this one is for you. Follow Melyssa Ford → Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melyssaford→ Watch Hot & Bothered with Melyssa Ford (YouTube): https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCgI18pIo71rZWq6upn_QxMgListen to Hot & Bothered Podcast: available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts & all major platforms → Get her book Allow Me to Reintroduce Myself: 13 Lessons for a Life Well Lived: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/58631608-allow-me-to-reintroduce-myself?from_search=true&from_srp=true&qid=n6x35X4UoC&rank=1 Want more Lover? Shan's AI trained to give you her advice → http://loversbyshan.com  Get a free weekly Love Letter → http://loversbyshan.com/newsletter  Join the Lovers Community → https://www.loversbyshan.com/community  Explore free quizzes + worksheets → http://loversbyshan.com/quizzes Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get your Beducated pleasure map: https://beduc.at/pd2622-august   Some of our favorite orgasm stories, shared at an event co-hosted by Sex-Positive Los Angeles in 2023.Highlights include: A brussels sprouts-gasm Before and after menopause climaxes A first orgasm after years of sex-phobia The sexiness of "messiness" and safe exploration Leaning into your intuition for more pleasure What donuts and orgasms have in common SPLA on Instagram: @SexPosLA   Sign up for August's free email list for occasional updates: https://substack.com/@augustmclaughlin IG: @GirlBonerMedia   FB: @MyGirlBoner  TT:: @augustmclaughlin.gb    augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner    patreon.com/girlboner   Save $15 at Crave! Elegant, woman-designed jewelry and toys: https://lovecrave.com/august

In this episode, Dr. Elle aka Dr. Sexy breaks down the 13 biggest things quietly wrecking the vaginal microbiome and why so many women stay stuck in cycles of BV, yeast infections, odor, irritation, and feeling “off” in their own bodies. She gets real about what it actually takes to keep your pussy balanced while living a sexually open lifestyle, from sex parties and multiple partners to semen exposure, stress, sleep, hormones, and the everyday habits nobody realizes are throwing their body into chaos. This conversation is raw, shame-free, and packed with practical advice for women who want to explore their sexuality without constantly paying for it physically afterward. If you've ever wondered why your body keeps reacting no matter how “clean” or careful you are, this episode gets into the real root causes most doctors never talk about.Bacterial Vaginosis (BV). (02:03)Microbiome 101: what is it? What are the key bacteria in the vaginal microbiome, and what is the overlap with the gut microbiome? (03:29)13 Things That Disrupt the Microbiome:Gut Health. (05:55)Antibiotics, and things that act like them. (16:32)Douching, soap and spermicide. (22:37)Food, sugar, and water-based lubes. (24:06)Periods, semen, saliva, and hormonal changes. (26:34)Prevention/support for your microbiome. (32:46)Oral vs. inserted probiotics, and boric acid. (37:47)______________Get 10% off ALL supplements discussed and more here: https://us.fullscript.com/welcome/deepwellnessFor Elle's Vaginal Health Protocols: Check back May 23rd or after - link will be here! ______________

Sex Is a Skill. Beducated is where you learn it. Join the world's largest sex school and access 150+ courses for curious adults: https://beduc.at/bg2621-boody Big love to the sponsor of this episode, Masterclass. Right now, our listeners get an additional 15% off any MasterClass annual membership at masterclass.com/lovers.  ---------- In this episode of Lovers, I sit down with KevOnStage and Melissa Fredericks for a conversation about the kind of partnership most people admire from a distance… but might struggle to survive in real life. Before the success, before the tours, and before the platform, Melissa was the one carrying the financial weight of their household while Kev pursued stand-up comedy full time. She talks honestly about what it felt like to be the responsible one, why she chose not to weaponize money in their relationship, and how they built trust without keeping score. Together, they unpack the mindset that has shaped their marriage for years: if one person fails, both people fail. If one person wins, both people win. We also talk about resentment in long-term relationships, navigating major life transitions like perimenopause, giving your partner room to evolve, and why some of the choices that strengthened their marriage would look completely irrational to other couples. This episode challenges modern ideas around independence, partnership, sacrifice, gender roles, and what it actually means to build a life with someone instead of simply alongside them. If you've ever wondered what real partnership looks like behind the scenes, or questioned whether you'd actually be willing to make the sacrifices required for the kind of love you admire, this conversation is for you. Follow KevOnStage & Melissa Fredericks → Kev's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kevonstage  → Melissa's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrskevonstage/?hl=en  → Website & Tour Dates: https://www.kevonstage.com  → Watch Kev's Shows & Comedy Content https://www.youtube.com/user/KevOnStage AND don't miss the latest release from Kennedy Ryan upcoming novel Score → https://kennedyryanwrites.com/score/  Did you know Kennedy Ryan came on the podcast? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jSJxZ-XzFck  Want more Lover? Shan's AI trained to give you her advice → http://loversbyshan.com  Get a free weekly Love Letter → http://loversbyshan.com/newsletter  Join the Lovers Community → https://www.loversbyshan.com/community  Explore free quizzes + worksheets → http://loversbyshan.com/quizzes Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

To celebrate Masturbation Month, we're sharing a compilation of clips about self-pleasure. Masturbation Month traces back to 1995, when U.S. Surgeon General Joycelyn Elders stated that masturbation is a natural part of human sexuality and should perhaps be included in sex education. The political backlash ultimately led to her firing, and May 14 was later declared National Masturbation Day in her honor—a movement that eventually expanded into Masturbation Month. In this episode, we're exploring the history and science of self-pleasure. Featured guests include Dr. Eric Sprankle, Marie Aoyama from TENGA, professor Carole Hooven, urologist Joshua Gonzalez, sleep researcher Michele Lastella, and sex therapist Emily Jamea. Some of the specific topics we address include: How have attitudes toward masturbation changed over time? What do people fantasize about during masturbation? Does avoiding sex and masturbation boost athletic performance? How can we build a healthier relationship with self-pleasure? Can masturbation help you fall asleep faster? Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors!  Level-up your bedroom skills with Beducated. Featuring more than 150 online courses taught by the experts, Beducated brings pleasure-based sex ed directly into your bedroom. Kick off your journey by taking Beducated's Quiz to get your personalized roadmap to sexual happiness at https://beduc.at/pd2620-lehmiller Why do we love who we love? Why do some relationships thrive while others fall apart? In The Intimate Animal, Dr. Justin Garcia explores the science of attraction, intimacy, and love by blending cutting-edge research with real-world insight.  *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Bluesky to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest. Vibrator photo by IFONNX Toys on Unsplash.

This week, Elle and V are diving headfirst into the messy, vulnerable, wildly under-discussed world of vaginal health, BV, yeast infections, microbiomes, and the shame so many women silently carry around their bodies. Check out our first episode on this topic in 011: Vagina Health: How to Prevent and Treat Yeast Infections, BV, and UTIs. In this NEW episode, we go deeper. From play party etiquette to how to tell someone their pussy smells with care instead of humiliation, this episode is raw, funny, deeply educational, and the conversation every sexually active person probably needs to hear. Guys, this episode is for you to hear as well.Chapters00:00 — Pussy Problems: Welcome to the Vaginal Health Episode07:45 — What the Hell Is a Microbiome?09:40 — Why Your Pussy Smell Is Information, Not Shame12:29 — Why Every Woman Should Taste & Smell Herself16:03 — How to Tell Someone They Smell “Off” Down There21:60 — Can BV Spread Through Partners?  The groundbreaking 2025 study25:37 — Your STI Test Probably Missed Stuff26:44 — Ureaplasma & Mycoplasma Explained33:00 — The Exact Text Vee Wrote About Someone's Vaginal Odor35:30 — Should You Tell Someone In Person or Over Text?39:30 — Part Two Preview_____

Sex Is a Skill. Beducated is where you learn it. Join the world's largest sex school and access 150+ courses for curious adults: https://beduc.at/bg2620-boody  ------ In this episode of Lovers, I sit down with my sister Lauren Morrison to say something ick: we both still enjoy attention from men. While we prepare for Mash Majesty, our section for Toronto Caribbean Carnival, we've been having important conversations around what carnival represents for us, and in addition to community and culture, it's also a day to flirt with the gaze!  In this episode, we talk about how motherhood, marriage, long-term partnership, and aging can shift the way women experience themselves socially and romantically, especially in a culture that simultaneously rewards female desirability while shaming women for acknowledging that they enjoy it. Together, we unpack why so many women quietly miss feeling desired, why being loved and being wanted are not always the same emotional experience, and how spaces like Carnival and Mash Majesty can reconnect women to embodiment, visibility, sensuality, play, and freedom without shame. This episode is deeply personal, but it's also connected to the spirit behind Mash Majesty itself: creating a space where women can feel expressive, magnetic, joyful, powerful, sensual, seen, and fully alive in their bodies. If you've ever questioned whether it's shallow to enjoy attention, missed feeling desired in your relationship, or struggled with how motherhood, aging, or partnership changed the way the world responds to you, this conversation is for you. Join us for Toronto Caribbean Carnival August 1st, 2026 https://tribal.masos.app/events/b73d9cf9-ca8b-4d97-b7c8-a2511cec0b35/sections/db97e350-5840-448f-ba03-ff461464549c Follow Lauren Morrison → Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachlaurenmorrison/→ Get Lauren's new book https://www.amazon.com/Be-Room-Shrinking-Leading-Purpose/dp/B0FM4HGYSP→ Sign up for a free coaching consultation with Lauren https://www.beintheroomcoaching.com/work-with-lauren Want more Lover? Shan's AI trained to give you her advice → http://loversbyshan.com  Get a free weekly Love Letter → http://loversbyshan.com/newsletter  Join the Lovers Community → https://www.loversbyshan.com/community Explore free quizzes + worksheets → http://loversbyshan.com/quizzes Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Elle and Vee sit down with Genevieve Lejeune, founder of Skirt Club, to explore what really happens when women gather without the male gaze. From all female play parties and bisexual awakening to sex magic, nervous system regulation, and erotic sisterhood, this conversation dives deep into the emotional and psychological layers of female desire. Genevieve opens up about building a global community for bi curious women, the healing power of feminine spaces, and why so many women are starving for permission to finally choose themselves. The result is raw and deeply validating for any woman craving more pleasure, freedom, and connection.Liberating Women: The Power of Female Spaces. (00:00)Exploring Bisexuality and Female Empowerment. (03:08)Not Just a Sex Club: Community and Connection. (09:04)The Role of Sex Magic in Personal Empowerment. (14:50)Why are retreats so powerful? The Importance of Energy and Environment. (18:00)Self-Regulation and Wellness, Navigating Burnout and Embracing Feminine Energy. (25:07)Creating Safe Spaces for Pleasure. (33:24)How to get out of your head into your body at a play party! (41:12)Diverse Event Themes to Unleash Women. (46:13)Tips for your first time at an all-femme play party. (53:20)Pheromones, Smelling and Tasting Yourself. (59:14)____________

Showing love to our sponsor Arya. You deserve a novelty and pleasure in your intimate, ESPECIALLY in light of Mothers' Day. Head to https://www.arya.fyi/mothersday to learn more Sex Is a Skill. Beducated is where you learn it. Join the world's largest sex school and access 150+ courses for curious adults: https://beduc.at/bg2619-boody  —————————— How much of your attachment style is actually formed in childhood? In this episode, Shan sits down with renowned psychiatrist and attachment expert Dr. Amir Levine to unpack the myths around attachment theory and why attachment styles are far more flexible than people think. Dr. Levine explores the nuances of anxious, avoidant, and secure attachment, with a specific emphasis on avoidant attachment and the misconceptions surrounding it in modern dating culture. He explains why attachment is better understood as a belief system rather than a fixed diagnosis, revisits the groundbreaking “Strange Situation” experiment developed by Mary Ainsworth, and shares practical tools like the Tennis Wall of Love and the C.A.R.R.P. method to help build healthier, more secure relationships. The conversation also explores how technology and modern communication have completely changed the way we connect, date, and experience intimacy today. Follow Dr. Amir Take his MasterClass on The Science of Connection → https://www.masterclass.com/classes/the-science-of-connection Get His New Book Secure → https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/secure-amir-levine/1148276412 Get His Bestselling Book Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find and Keep Love → https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/attached-amir-levine/1102355415 Connect with Dr. Amir → https://amirlevinemd.com Want more Lover? Shan's AI trained to give you her advice → http://loversbyshan.com  Get a free weekly Love Letter → http://loversbyshan.com/newsletter  Join the Lovers Community → https://www.loversbyshan.com/community Explore free quizzes + worksheets → http://loversbyshan.com/quizzes Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get your Beducated pleasure map: https://beduc.at/pd2619-august    Karen Bigman's divorce led to a sexual awakening that changed her life. Much of it started with an orgasm in an exam room.    Learn more about Karen and listen to her podcast, Taboo to Truth: https://www.taboototruth.com/podcast   Sign up for August's free email list for occasional updates: https://substack.com/@augustmclaughlin IG: @GirlBonerMedia   FB: @MyGirlBoner  TT:: @augustmclaughlin.gb    augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner    patreon.com/girlboner   Save $15 at Crave! Elegant, woman-designed jewelry and toys: https://lovecrave.com/august  

In this episode, Elle and Vee sit down with Elle's husband M just four weeks postpartum to unpack a birth story that took a wild, unexpected turn. From using a vibrator to trigger contractions to an intense, emotional delivery that led to a complete mindset shift, nothing went as planned. They dive into the raw reality of postpartum healing, libido shifts, and what happens to your sex life after baby number two. It's messy, vulnerable, and brutally honest in the way only they can be.ChaptersWhy Did Elle Bring A Clit Sucking Vibrator During Labor?  (00:00)When Labor Begins But Won't Progress And The Moment Everything Got Overwhelming (8:17)C Sections, Pushing And Shitting  (18:43)Fisted In The Delivery (26:10)The Circumcision Debate And Body Autonomy  (32:56 )Vasectomy Talk And Semen Retention (40:00)Future Sex As Parents And Kink Aspirations In 3 Months And In 1 Year (45:59) How Do Elle And Vee Stay Connected In Their Relationship? (54:47)Rapid Fire Questions: (58:50)-- Who Is Hornier Right Now? -- Who Has Cried More This Week?-- Most Unhinged Thought? -- Weirdest Thing That Turned You On Recently Even If You Didn't Act On It? -- One Thing You Miss That Isn't Sex? _____

Showing love to our sponsor Biologica. Take their Quick Hormonal Life Stage Quiz to find the formula that's right for you, and get up to 32% on your purchase: https://biologica.com/lovers  Thanks to Cozy Earth for sponsoring this episode. Go to cozyearth.com/LOVERS for up to 20% off!  Sex Is a Skill. Beducated is where you learn it. Join the world's largest sex school and access 150+ courses for curious adults: https://beducate.me/shanboody.  —————————— What does the Kama Sutra say about hands? In this episode, Shan sits down with storyteller and pleasure educator Seema Anand to explore one of the most overlooked (and underestimated) tools of intimacy: your hands. Recorded live in London in front of an audience of sex educators and pleasure-positive voices, this conversation focuses on expanding your pleasure potential, with a special emphasis on hand sex, as we celebrate the launch of our brand new Käma jewelry collection, inspired by the Kama Sutra. Seema shares what the Kama Sutra actually teaches about touch, including specific finger combinations, how intention shapes sensation, and why hands play a central role in pleasure. We also explore the connection between the Kama Sutra and lunar phases, rethink the art of foreplay, and touch on the idea of being multi-orgasmic, and what that can look like.

A gay man's female friend is planning her wedding. But the relationship is already a disaster, and the caller does NOT approve of this union. Should he still help her choose a wedding dress? A bi man got into a cat fight with a guy on one of the hook-up apps when he wasn't polite enough about ending a conversation. Is there a social contract on gay hook-up apps? On the Magnum, Dan chats with Dr. Jennie Young, author of Burn the Haystack: Decode Dating, Torch the Duds, and Make Room for Men Who Matter. Her feminist, pragmatic approach to dating for straight women is blunt and hilarious. She talks about her method for brutally winnowing down the list of men, how dating apps are addictive by design, and (counterintuitively,) why the man should plan the first date. Don't miss this one! And, a man asks for logistical advice on how to plan the abduction scene his wife desires. What could possibly go wrong? Maybe she'll call and tell us how it went! 206-302-2064 Q@Savage.Love And remember: Every sperm is sacred. This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit ⁠VB.Health⁠ when you use the code Savage. This episode is brought to you by Mack Weldon: timeless, innovative menswear to help you move throughthe day with confidence. Get 20% off your first order of $125 or more, with promo code SAVAGE at ⁠MackWeldon.com⁠ Beducated brings pleasure-based sex education right to your bedroom. Kick off your best sex life with Beducated's awesome, five-minute quiz at ⁠https://beduc.at/pd2618-savage⁠ Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From polyamory, to BDSM, gay rights to sexual health and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage has been cultural force for sex positivity since the 1800s.

Thank you Beducated for sponsoring this week's episode! Click this link to take their quiz, and get access to over 150+ classes led by experts! l  https://beduc.at/pd2614-queerpod https://beduc.at/pd2614-queerpodHAPPY LESBIAN VISIBILITY WEEK! Today Capri and Ashely talk learning to feel comfortable with your body and your queerness, navigating hard friendships, and queer intimacy. IT'S A GOOD ONE FOLKS. If you liked this episode please leave us a review!If you didn't...mind your business...Follow LittleQueerPod On instagram https://www.instagram.com/littlequeerpod/?hl=enFollow Ashley On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashleyelizabeth_11/?hl=enFollow Capri On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/capricampeau/

This week Elle and Vee chat with Aviva (aka Leora) about the raw and unexpected intersection of parenting, tantra, and kink. They explore how divorce became a gateway to self-discovery, pleasure, and reclaiming personal power—while unpacking how core principles of kink and tantra (like attunement, boundaries, and presence) can actually enhance the way we parent. The conversation weaves through emotional regulation, dominance vs. control, and finding pleasure in everyday parenting moments. It's a provocative look at what becomes possible when parents stop separating their desires from their role as caregivers.Investing in Pleasure: A Path to Self-Discovery. (00:00)The Intersection of Parenthood and Kink. (05:04)Finding Playfulness in Parenting. (10:08)Navigating Emotions: Parenting and Kink Dynamics. (15:02)The Role of Attunement in Parenting and Kink. (19:48)Gentle Parenting vs. Authoritative Parenting. (25:02)Testing Boundaries: The Nature of Child and Sub Behavior. (30:27)Authoritative Parenting: Balancing Love and Discipline. (33:20)Holding Space for Big Feelings: Emotional Regulation in Parenting. (36:55)Sensory Play: Connecting Through Touch and Presence. (41:15)Kink and Parenting: Embracing Playfulness in Raising Children. (50:48)Emotional Intelligence: Teaching Kids to Navigate Feelings. (57:41)_____

What is the role of a man today? What qualities and skills should he have? Should he go the manosphere direction or the opposite of that? With so much pressure and deliberate misinformation about who and what men should be, it is no surprise that many men are confused and many women are frustrated. In this episode of The Love Lab Podcast, Kevin Anthony speaks with coach and the host of the Dad Nation Podcast, Mitchell Osmond, about the mixed messages men get, why the two extremes are both problematic, what the middle way is, and how to get started on becoming an Integrated Masculine Man and the best version of yourself. To Get Started with Beducated, Click The Link Now: https://beduc.at/pd2615-lovelab To Find Out More About Mitchell Osmond, Click The Links Below: https://www.dadnationco.com/ https://www.dadnationco.com/code

Sex Is a Skill. Beducated is where you learn it. Join the world's largest sex school and access 150+ courses for curious adults: https://beducate.me/shan2026  —---------  In this episode of Lovers, Jared and I sit down on vacation for a conversation we've never had this honestly before. This is our seventh year of marriage, the year people warn you about. The year of the “seven-year itch.” And while we've built a life together, kids, history, love, this was the first year I really sat with a truth that surprised even me. For a long time, I wasn't fully certain we would stay married forever. In this conversation, we talk about what it actually feels like to be years into a relationship, how having children changes the dynamic between partners, and why even strong marriages go through seasons of doubt, distance, and recalibration. We share the fears we had going into year seven, the honest ways our relationship has been tested, and what ultimately shifted for me to say, fully and consciously, that this is the person I'm choosing for life. This episode isn't about perfect love. It's about commitment, growth, and what it really takes to stay. If you've ever wondered whether your relationship can survive the hard seasons, or questioned what long-term love is supposed to feel like, this conversation is for you. Follow Jared BradyInstagram → https://www.instagram.com/enjoyjaredbradySubscribe to his YouTube → https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKVWwEy39GLNzKXXt9v46TA  Want more Lover Receive the weekly Love Letter → http://loversbyshan.com/newslette Join the Lovers Community → https://www.loversbyshan.com/community Explore quizzes and worksheets → http://loversbyshan.com/quizzes Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get your Beducated pleasure map: https://beduc.at/pd2618-august    Cat had an unexpected sexual awakening while working  in a sex positive, female-gaze-centered environment. Eager to delve into exploration, she came up with a film idea that took a sexy turn and revealed a lot about her identity.   Check out Ersties: https://ersties.com/   Sign up for August's free email list for occasional updates: https://substack.com/@augustmclaughlin IG: @GirlBonerMedia   FB: @MyGirlBoner  TT:: @augustmclaughlin.gb  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner    patreon.com/girlboner   Save $15 at Crave! Elegant, woman-designed jewelry and toys: https://lovecrave.com/august  

We tend to think about sexual orientation as a fixed identity that’s clear, stable, and easy to define. However, sexuality doesn't fit into neat and tidy boxes like that. In this episode, we’re diving into the world of heterosexual man who want to have sex with other men, and what this tells us about the complexity of human sexuality. I am joined once again by Kathy Kay, host of the Strictly Anonymous Podcast and author of the new book Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers, a collection of real, unfiltered stories from people revealing their most private sexual thoughts and experiences. Some of the specific topics we explore include: How common is it for heterosexual guys to have same-sex fantasies? Are these fantasies and desires purely physical, or is there an emotional component as well? Are these men just secretly gay? Why is male same-sex behavior more stigmatized than female same-sex behavior? Are women sometimes turned on by watching their husbands or boyfriends with other men? To learn more, check out the Strictly Anonymous website. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors!  Level-up your bedroom skills with Beducated. Featuring more than 150 online courses taught by the experts, Beducated brings pleasure-based sex ed directly into your bedroom. Kick off your journey by taking Beducated's Quiz to get your personalized roadmap to sexual happiness at https://beducate.me/pd2615-lehmiller  If you’re looking to gain a broad understanding of human sexuality or refresh your knowledge, check out the upcoming Human Sexuality Intensive courses at the Kinsey Institute: https://kinseyinstitute.org/learning/human-sexuality-intensive.html  *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Bluesky to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.

This week, Vee and Elle go deep with Catherine Drysdale — a dating and intimacy expert who accidentally stepped into her power as a mommy dom and never looked back. She breaks down the truth behind dominance that no one talks about: it's not about pain, it's about presence, boundaries, and knowing exactly what you want. We get into service subs, pleasure-first dynamics, and why she refuses to center men's pleasure in her sex life. From making men clean her apartment to teaching women how to access confidence through their own bodies, this episode is a full permission slip to be selfish in the bedroom. If you've ever wondered what it looks like to own your desire unapologetically, this is it.Chapters Meet The Woman With 72 Orgasms And Zero Tolerance For Bullshit (00:00)What Is Mommy Domming And First Sub Who Showed Up And Started Cleaning Her Apartment (2:33)Why Boundaries Make Kink Safer And Hotter (07:56)When Dominance Turns Into Abuse And How To Spot The Difference (10:58)Maybe You Are Already a Mommy Dom And How Confidence Is The Real Kink No One Talks About (18:51)Where To Start: Follow Along With NLP Technique For Rewiring Your Brain For Confidence And Desire (28:01)Follow Along With EFT Tapping (34:41)Constructing A Scene: Blindfolds Tip And Working On Asking For What You Want (42:09)Praise Vs Humiliation (47:53)The Kink BDSM Test That Will Change Your Sex Life (52:07)I'm Too Nice To Be A Dom… Or Am I? Tips To Get Started (55:40)Soft Limit Vs Hard Limits (01:02:15)Overidentifying With A Role Can Limit Exploration (01:07:15)_______

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This week, Elle and Vee sit down with Suriya Nikko to dive into the world of yoni massage, internal orgasms, and what your body might be holding onto beneath the surface. They unpack how pelvic tension, stress, and even subtle trauma can block pleasure.  This is for women who already orgasm and want more pleasure, and for partners who want to learn how to slow down, tune in, and unlock deeper layers of pleasure. From internal hotspots to breath, rhythm, and presence, this episode is about expanding what your body is actually capable of feeling. How to deepen pleasure beyond “just” orgasming  Internal pleasure zones (G, P, A spots and cervix) and how to explore them  The before, during and after of yoni massageWhat is the yoni, and what is a yoni massage really? (00:00)Creating safety in the body before a yoni massage. Massage and the release of tension. (17:48) Tight pussies vs toned pussies. Toning your vaginal muscles with kegels vs yoni eggs vs yoni massage. (25:33)Yoni egg questions answered. (31.28)Can you do a yoni massage while pregnant? When shouldn't you do a yoni massage? (35:04)Spots Decoded: K Spot aka Perineal Sponge; P Spot aka Posterior Fornix; Cervix; A Spot aka Anterior Fornix. (40:04)Breath, sound & movement. (45:17)Squirting through A-Spot stimulation. (49:17)Emotional release & orgasm. (53:38)Reclaiming sexuality through daily tips to stay open. (58:58)Finding a practitioner.  (01:00:31)Lingam massage for men. (01:02:46)___________________________

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Hey lady! It’s getting warm outside and you might be in the mood to mix and mingle. Before you welcome a handsome stranger into your life and begin the beautiful dance of getting to know them, we welcome you to some self-inquiry so that you can introduce your authentic self to your potential lover and not a mask of who you think you need to be. Terri and Dr. Dom explore the key conversations you should be having with yourself to prepare for the blessing of love and companionship should you so choose to engage. If you listened to Loving Ourselves Through the 7 Dimensions of Wellness, you’ll remember Dr. Dom discussing the wellness wheel. This week, Dr. Dom and Terri apply that framework and apply it to the most important relationship of all – the one with yourself. Have you checked-in about how you’re faring on the wellness wheel and are you having conversations about what you would like to improve or continue? Use today’s conversation as a guide that you can adapt to necessary conversations with your potential boo to keep you happy, healthy, and on track. Quote of the Day: “In order to create the relationship that you’re dreaming of you need to first start from the inside and work your way out.” – Dr. Jeanine Staples Beducated offers expert-led courses designed to help you explore intimacy, pleasure, communication, and confidence, on your own terms and at your own pace. If you’re ready to learn more about your body and deepen your understanding of pleasure, check out Beducated here: https://beducate.me/pd2614-herspace. Goal Mapping Starter Guide Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary Resources: Dr. Dom’s Therapy Practice Get That Pitch Workshop: Turn your story and expertise into speaking gigs, media features, and collaborations, without a publicist. Visit GetThatPitch.com and Use code HERSPACE for a special listener discount. Branding with Terri Melanin and Mental Health Therapy for Black Girls Psychology Today Therapy for QPOC Therapy Fund Foundation Where to find us: Twitter: @HERspacepodcast Instagram: @herspacepodcast Facebook: @herspacepodcast Website: cultivatingherspace.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Thanks to Cozy Earth for sponsoring this episode. Go to cozyearth.com/LOVERS for up to 20% off! Sex Is a Skill. Beducated is where you learn it. Join the world's largest sex school and access 150+ courses for curious adults: https://beducate.me/lovers. — In this episode of Lovers, I sit down with Lisa Bilyeu to talk about a decision a lot of women think about… but don’t always say out loud: what if you don’t want kids? Lisa is an entrepreneur, co-founder of Quest Nutrition, and founder of Impact Theory Studios. She’s known for building billion-dollar businesses alongside her husband while also speaking openly about identity, marriage, and what it means to choose a life that actually fits you. Lisa built a life that looked like the dream. Marriage, stability, and the role she thought she was supposed to want. For a long time, she even stepped into the idea of being a traditional wife. But over time, something didn’t sit right. What happens when you realize the life you chose doesn’t actually fit you anymore? We talk about what it looked like for Lisa to tell her husband that she didn’t want children, how they navigated being in a marriage where one partner wants kids and the other doesn’t, and why choosing to be child-free doesn’t mean something is missing, broken, or selfish. This conversation challenges the idea that every woman is meant to become a mother, and unpacks the pressure many women feel around motherhood, marriage, and identity. We also explore what it means to redefine a successful relationship on your own terms, whether that includes children or not. If you’ve ever questioned whether motherhood is for you, wondered how to tell your partner you don’t want kids, or felt conflicted about choosing career, independence, or a different kind of life, this episode is for you. EXCLUSIVE LOVERS COMMUNITY RESOURCENeed help starting a difficult conversation? Access our guided journal inside the LOVERS community: → https://www.loversbyshan.com/resource/navigating-change-hard-conversations-in-relationships-community-exclusive Follow Lisa Bilyeu → Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/→ Watch & learn on Impact Theory: https://impacttheory.com/→ Explore her personal website: https://lisabilyeu.com/→ Listen to her podcast Women of Impact: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/women-of-impact/id1435217865→ Get her book Radical Confidence: https://radicalconfidence.com/ Want more Lover?Receive the weekly Love Letter → http://loversbyshan.com/newsletterJoin the Lovers Community → https://www.loversbyshan.com/communityExplore quizzes and worksheets → http://loversbyshan.com/quizzes See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Who's watching what, a man faces backlash after running 3 miles in an airplane bathroom, Elon Gust and Dame Judy Drench, forest bathing, panic attacks - and more. Join us on Patreon  for more of the inner sanctum with Sarah and Mary: Post Malone's doomsday mansion, teleporting to a Waffle House, baked potatoes - and more.   Subscribe, Follow, Like, and Review, Wherever you get your podcasts. Follow us on Twitter, Instagram, & Facebook.   Get RUMP Merch here: https://areyoumypodcast.bigcartel.com/   Visit Jonesroadbeauty.com and use code MYPODCAST for a free Shimmer Face Oil with your first purchase. Visit LumiGummies.com and use code MYPODCAST for 30% off your order. Brought to you by Beducated, get started by clicking on the link below and take the quiz: Http://beducate.me/pd2611-mypodcast   sarahcolonna.commaryradzinski.com      Sarah's merchMary's merch   © 2020-2022 Are You My Podcast?

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This week, Elle and Vee chat with Tash Doherty about all the random sexy, kinky things that come up during a game of WHOREible Life (think: never have I ever, but unhinged). Playing Would You Rather with WHOREible Life cards opens the door to a wildly honest, funny, and surprisingly deep conversation about fantasies, exhibitionism, impact play, submission, and the psychology behind what turns us on. From sex toys to self-awareness to craving attention in all the right (and wrong) ways, nothing is off-limits. Would You Rather: be a webcam girl or have a celebrity hookup? (02:51) Tash's real-life celebrity crush and the allure of high-brow intelligence in sex appeal. (03:20) Fantasies, crush archetypes, and exploring sexual desires through imagination. (08:46) The debate on camming, authenticity, and the appeal of virtual intimacy. (10:36) Would You Rather: orgasm from impact play or receive a massage with a happy ending? (14:16) How slowing down and self-touch rituals can lead to more intense pleasure. (16:17) Would You Rather: fuck a sex doll or wear a vibrating butt plug? (24:14) Exploring different toys: vibrators, butt plugs, and the importance of size and comfort. (29:21) Would You Rather: crawl on a leash or use sex toy beads? (33:12) Submission Fantasies: crawling, collars, and the dynamic of brat versus obedient roles. (34:52) Brat Behavior: Power dynamics, role-playing, and the push-pull of domination and submission. (37:08)__________________________

When people open a relationship, they often start by asking: what are the rules? But the real key to healthy non-monogamy isn't rules. It's clarity about needs, desires, and expectations. In this episode, we're talking about how to design relationship agreements that actually work. I am joined once again by Dr. Nicole Thompson, a sex and relationship psychotherapist and host of the popular podcast, Modern Anarchy. She is the author of The Psychedelic Jealousy Guide: Crafting Secure Non-Monogamous Relationships. She is also the founder of The Pleasure Practice, where she supports individuals in crafting pleasurable sex lives and expansive non-monogamous relationships. Some of the specific topics we explore in this episode include: What’s the difference between our needs and our desires? How can partners discuss and negotiate different desires in healthy ways? What kinds of things should go into a relationship agreement? How do you cultivate feelings of security in a non-monogamous relationship? To learn more, check out the Modern Anarchy website. Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology. *** Thank you to our sponsors!  Level-up your bedroom skills with Beducated. Featuring more than 150 online courses taught by the experts, Beducated brings pleasure-based sex ed directly into your bedroom. Kick off your journey by taking Beducated's Quiz to get your personalized roadmap to sexual happiness at https://beducate.me/pd2610-lehmiller  If you’re looking to gain a broad understanding of human sexuality or refresh your knowledge, check out the upcoming Human Sexuality Intensive courses at the Kinsey Institute: https://kinseyinstitute.org/learning/human-sexuality-intensive.html  *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Bluesky to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.

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Hey lady! This week’s episode is for all of the mothers out there holding it down to make sure their babies have the best in life despite all of the stigma, obstacles, and challenges that can come with being a single mother in America. Jamilah Lemieux, notable author and editor and Black Twitter media personality, joins Terri and Dr. Dom to discuss her new book Black.Single.Mother and her journey into wholeness as a woman, co-parent, and mother of a teenager. Jamilah has a real and relatable conversation about how she processed the dissolution of her relationship, came to terms with rejection, and moved into a healthy co-parenting dynamic that still honors her needs and boundaries but keeps the focus on her daughter and what is best for her development. Jamilah drops gems about the internal work she had to do to get to a place where she wasn’t recreating patterns based on her life experience. Some of the biggest work we will do as women is being able to become so full of ourselves – our light, our brilliance, our joy – that we are able to fill in the areas where we feel incomplete, broken, or unworthy. It is some of the most important work we can do if we want to raise healthy children that will walk into the world knowing their inherent worthiness and free from inherited feelings of lack. We want confident young people that grow into capable leaders and it starts with all of us – mother or not – freeing ourselves from shame and stigma. So, tap in and get some real love from Jamilah and the ladies of Cultivating H.E.R. Space and find out why being a present, loving “baby mama” is something to be proud of, not ashamed. Quote of the Day: “Our people (and, really, the whole world) need a complete overhaul of their ideas about Black single motherhood.” – Jamilah Lemieux Beducated offers expert-led courses designed to help you explore intimacy, pleasure, communication, and confidence, on your own terms and at your own pace. If you’re ready to learn more about your body and deepen your understanding of pleasure, check out Beducated here: https://beducate.me/pd2606-herspace Goal Mapping Starter Guide Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary Where to find Jamilah Lemieux: Website: Jamilah Lemieux Book: Black.Single.Mother IG: @jamilahlemieux Threads: @jamilahlemieux Twitter (X): @jamilahlemieux LinkedIn: Jamilah Lemieux Facebook: Jamilah Lemieux Resources: Dr. Dom’s Therapy Practice Get That Pitch Workshop: Turn your story and expertise into speaking gigs, media features, and collaborations, without a publicist. Visit GetThatPitch.com and Use code HERSPACE for a special listener discount. Branding with Terri Melanin and Mental Health Therapy for Black Girls Psychology Today Therapy for QPOC Therapy Fund Foundation Where to find us: Twitter: @HERspacepodcast Instagram: @herspacepodcast Facebook: @herspacepodcast Website: cultivatingherspace.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sarah and Mary laugh their way through travel woes, feral cat angels, booze to wash down school lunch, unsolicited comedy feedback (NO THANK YOU) - and more. Join us on Patreon  for more of the inner sanctum with Sarah and Mary: a crazy personal story from Iowa trip - and more.   Subscribe, Follow, Like, and Review, Wherever you get your podcasts. Follow us on Twitter, Instagram, & Facebook.   Get RUMP Merch here: https://areyoumypodcast.bigcartel.com/   Visit LumiGummies.com and use code MYPODCAST for 30% off your order. Brought to you by Beducated, get started by clicking on the link below to take the quiz: http://beducate.me/pd2608-mypodcast   sarahcolonna.commaryradzinski.com      Sarah's merchMary's merch   © 2020-2022 Are You My Podcast?

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You poor, poor people. For Valentine's Day this year, we're going dark and airing some of your most unpleasant break-up stories. Like the woman who learned her husband was cheating on her when she saw the tattoo he got of the other woman's initials on his leg. That sort of thing. You'll hear a few of these stories on the Micro and more on the Magnum. Meanwhile, a married man sneezes uncontrollably after he comes. Why?! Make it stop! A woman begs every man, everywhere to shave his beard. Our Magnum guest is the delightful Adam Zmith- author of Deep Sniff: A History of Poppers Queer Futures. He has recommendations for popper brands and...flavors. Anybody up for some pumpkin spice poppers? And, how soon is too soon to ask your boyfriend to get a vasectomy? Q@Savage.Love 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase. Beducated brings pleasure-based sex education right to your bedroom. Kick off your best sex life with Beducated's awesome, five-minute quiz at https://beducate.me/pd2607-savage.

Hey lady! Life is about balance. Newton states that for every action and equal and opposite reaction takes place. Every act of cruelty, injustice, and genuinely that we see currently seems overwhelming, which is why Dr. Dom and Terri prioritize sharing moments of joy, fun, and pleasure on the show. This week, Dr. Dom and Terri are delighted to welcome Dr. Nikki Coleman, an award-winning licensed psychologist, sexologist, and founder of Dr. Nikki Knows, PLLC, to discuss why making pleasure your focus is a worthwhile endeavor for a healthy life. Dr. Nikki breaks down some of the misconceptions Black women tell ourselves about pleasure, why some women struggle to have the orgasms they deserve, and ways women can advocate for themselves and their pleasure with their partners. Lady, don’t let the pressures of life steal your joy. Learn how to release in ways that feel fulfilling and satisfying. If you want the real tea of how to up your pleasure tune into the Aftershow where Dr. Nikki joins Terri and Dr. Dom for the real lowdown on what it means to be sexy at any age. If you are looking for community and you’re in the Houston-area, join Dr. Nikki March 7, 2026 for an intimate gathering where she’ll help guide you into true intimacy with yourself. Quote of the Day: “So you’re just never gonna have sex again because you don’t like this body?” – Dr. Nikki Beducated offers expert-led courses designed to help you explore intimacy, pleasure, communication, and confidence, on your own terms and at your own pace. If you’re ready to learn more about your body and deepen your understanding of pleasure, check out Beducated here: https://beducate.me/pd2606-herspace Goal Mapping Starter Guide Cultivating H.E.R. Space Sanctuary Where to find Dr. Nikki Coleman Website: Dr. Nikki Coleman Workshop: The Sanctuary IG: @drnikkiknows Threads: @drnikkiknows YouTube: @drnikkiknows LinkedIn: Dr. Nikki Coleman Resources: Dr. Dom’s Therapy Practice Get That Pitch Workshop: Turn your story and expertise into speaking gigs, media features, and collaborations, without a publicist. Visit GetThatPitch.com and Use code HERSPACE for a special listener discount. Branding with Terri Melanin and Mental Health Therapy for Black Girls Psychology Today Therapy for QPOC Therapy Fund Foundation Where to find us: Twitter: @HERspacepodcast Instagram: @herspacepodcast Facebook: @herspacepodcast Website: cultivatingherspace.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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