Life Lessons with Dustin & Dorothy Anne Dauenhauer: Ministry | Marketing | Mentoring Families

This is not about “how to prepare for marriage” or “how to meet your spouse”.  This is to encourage single people to be single well, and to offer advice to married people on how to love and serve your single friends.What or Where is your focus?    Our hope should be in Jesus – not in another person or in a certain outcome    Be careful that marriage/parenthood isn’t your sole focus.     Focus on becoming more like Christ. No matter what happens, it’s a win-win. Whether you’re single or married, we all need to become more like Him.    Watch your thoughts! There’s a fine line between dreaming and fantasy. Fantasy can be dangerous.What are your concepts about life and yourself?    Marriage isn’t a reward for good works. If you’re single, it doesn’t necessarily mean that you did something wrong. Of course, you may not be ready for marriage. The answer is still to become more like Him and He’ll reveal those areas to you.          [Tweet " Remember that your life doesn’t begin the day your say “I do”."]What are your concepts about relationships and ministry?    Surround yourself with a multi-generational community. We all need a Paul, a Barnabas and a Timothy in our lives.    God has a ministry for you even today. Your ministry may change if you get married, but it doesn’t have to start when you get married.Be Thankful    Gratitude goes a long way. No one is promised tomorrow. Be grateful for your life today. Why spend all your time pining for someone or something in the future? Live your life today.[reminder]If you could go back in time and speak to your single self what advice would you give?[/reminder]

In this episode we continue our interview with Josh and Jen Armstrong. They share about how you can overcome discouragement and what real missions is all about. Plus some other great tips about the missionary life that will inspire and encourage you to pursue the call of God.

In this episode, we interviewed Josh & Jen Armstrong a missions minded family, where they share their journey of how they met, were called into ministry at an early age and how they continue their journey as a married couple with children.

Today this post is dedicated to my beautiful and amazing wife Dorothy Anne in celebration of her birthday. While she was away one evening for a ladies' event at our church I gathered the kids together to record this secret podcast to surprise her on her special day.You can hear all about the kids' favorite moments with their mommy, an adorable impromptu song Aliyah made up for her mom and of course Liam's cute animal sounds. You won't want to miss that! Also you get to find out one of my favorite moments with Dorothy Anne and whether or not I fainted on our wedding day. Hope you enjoy!!!

  Short Summary Hi! My name is DorothyAnne. I’m a Filipina singer/songwriter based in the Dallas, Texas area. I’m married with 4 children and 1 on the way. I grew up singing in church, listening to the radio and watching music videos. For as long as I can remember I have aspired to become a professional recording artist.  Over the years I’ve discovered that one of my greatest passions in life is writing songs. When I’m feeling inspired, there's nothing quite like the feeling of putting my heart on paper.  2015: A Year to Finish What I’ve Started This CD project is very important to me because early this year I felt very impressed to finish what I’d started. As a mom and minister, many things come before pursuing a life-long dream. Dreams get put on the back burner. While that’s ok, there comes a time when dreams just take extra hard work to accomplish. I’m Invested Last year I professionally recorded one of my original songs entitled “Don’t Let Me Go” and released it in the fall. I invested over $1,500 into that project and learned so much along the way. Many people had a positive response to the single, and it encouraged me to record more music. I’ve always believed when you have a skill or gift it’s imperative not to bury it or hide it. Instead take what you have and go the extra mile to make it better.   No More Excuses The main things that have held me back from doing a CD project in the past were finances and thinking I didn’t have the means to make a professional full length album. In early 2014 I enrolled in a leading course called Christian Music Industry Academy based in Nashville, TN where I learned the tools and a game plan to make my dream a reality. Through the course, I was encouraged to first record a single, raise funds for an EP (extended play record which consists of 5-6 songs ), and after touring, building momentum and a fan base, record a full length CD. This is the cutting edge alternative to recording a full length album. What Do You Say About Dreams? By giving toward this project you will be saying that dreams can come true! With hard work and determination anyone can accomplish their purpose. You will be helping me to inspire other mothers out there, young and old to pursue their own passions. The truth is no one can do anything great by themselves. There is always someone in life that believes in the dreamer and helps them along the way. Will you believe in me? What I Need A 5 song EP will run me approximately $9,700. Here’s the breakdown:   •   $1,200 per song -     Renting Studio Space      Audio Engineer     Producer     Musicians     Mixing •   $500 - Mastering   •   $300 - Album Artwork•   $1,700 - CD Duplication •   $600 - Indiegogo Fees (they take any where from 7-10% of monies raised)•   Advertising - $600* *We will only spend this money if I exceed my fundraising goal of $5,997.   What’s In It For You? I’m really excited about the gifts and perks to my incredible supporters. I want to give you something special and unique that you will truly appreciate:   •   For a $10 gift you will receive an early release digital download of my debut EP + The article "My Top 5 Tips Every Songwriter Should Know" ($17 value) •   For a $27 gift you will receive all of the above + a signed copy of my debut EP, shipped to your house at no extra cost + Exclusive digital download of the single "Don't Let Me Go" & instrumental version ($35 value) •   For a $47 contribution you will receive all of the above + a 15 minute Skype session or phone call to "Ask Me Anything!" + Receive a secret link to listen to the original demo track of "Don't Let Me Go" ($75 value) •   For a $97 contribution you will receive all of the above +I will sing a song of your choice and send you either a video link or audio download just for you! + Handwritten "Thank You" with a sheet of special stickers ($200 value) •   For the generous $497 donors you will receive all of the above + I will write YOU a song! We'll talk. I'll get to know you a little better. I'll hear what's on your heart, and I will create a special original piece just for you!  + An extra signed EP you can give as a gift. (A value of $1,200)   My favorite of all the perks is the one where I will write you a song. Who wouldn’t want a song write about or for them?! I believe this perk will be and incredible experience for both me and you. Forever Grateful I’m so grateful that you’d be willing to partner with me to make this project happen. Thank you in advance for being a part of my dream. I can’t thank you enough for believing in me and being a part of something bigger than myself. My relationship with you is one of many precious things in my life. I’m blessed to know you. And if I don’t know you yet, I look forward to getting to know you! The Impact My hope is that my story and music would be a blessing and inspiration to all the dreamers out there. My ultimate goal is to help people in life. I find great fulfillment in helping people develop their gifts and reach their potential. I believe this is what I was meant to do on this earth. This is just the beginning and I look forward to communicating all that I learn along my journey. Risks & Challenges The great thing about this campaign is that there is no risk to you. When you give your gift is tax deductible. Even if I do not reach my fundraising goal, all is not lost because I am fully committed to seeing this project through. I will continue to fundraise through other avenues like church bookings, business sponsorships and even personal phone calls to meet my budget. Other Ways You Can Help Perhaps you can’t help with a monetary gift but you believe in this project and want to be a part of it. Please consider sharing this campaign on your social media outlet like Facebook or even via email. That would mean so much to me and speak volumes of your support. You never know how reaching out to your friends and sharing my story could impact someone’s life Thank you again from the bottom of my heart! PS I will keep you informed on the status of the project and expected delivery date of May 2015. If anything should change you will be the first to know. FAQ Q: Do you have your own songs that you'll be recording? A: Yes I do.  Q: What will you do if you exceed your fundraising goal? A: I will use the funds to reimburse monies I've already spent for the project and for promotional and advertising costs for the EP. Q: When will the album be released? A: If all goes well the projected date is May 2015 Q:Is my contribution tax deductible? A: Yes. You will be issued a tax deductible receipt via email.    

Have you ever been faced with so many options that it began to overwhelm you? Rather then helping you solve a problem, it actually caused more stress and anxiety. In today’s culture we are constantly offered multiple options and many times we find it difficult to make the right choice. Then when we finally do decide, sometimes fear creeps in making us think we made the wrong choice. In this episode we discuss how options can become a trap for unhappiness and how we’ve learned to deal with it.   www.DefiningMomentsTv.com

In today's episode we talk with professional actor, storyteller and writer, Chuck Neighbors . We tackle a much debated topic over the years in the church, "Why Drama?"  Is drama still relevant and important in the church today or is it a lost art? In addition Mr. Neighbors shares great insight to why entertainment in the church is not a bad as seems and how we who are artists or creatives can redeem entertainment in the church. Chuck Neighbors began his career as a professional actor, director, storyteller and writer in 1974. He has toured his one-man shows throughout North America as well as 17 countries around the world.His most popular one-man drama, an adaptation of Charles Sheldon’s Christian Classic, In His Steps, has been featured on radio and television and performed before hundreds of live audiences. Chuck has performed in theaters, churches, gymnasiums, airplane hangars and even on board a submarine.He has traveled by planes, trains and automobiles (and buses and boats) and even by helicopter to mountaintops in Korea, performing for U.S. military troops. In recent years Chuck’s ministry, Master’s Image Productions, has expanded to represent other professional Christian artists.Chuck’s published works include his best-selling What Would Jesus Do? Playbook, The Comfort Zone, In the Moment, Drama Now! (Lillenas Publishing), and Power Plays (Baker Books). He has also written numerous magazine articles on the arts and worship.Chuck is much in demand as a workshop/seminar leader for both large conferences and the local church. Chuck and his wife, Lorie, make their home in Salem, Oregon.If you would like to connect with Chuck Neighbors you can visit his website at www.MastersImage.com How has drama impacted you?

In this episode I had the opportunity to interview a new and upcoming artist who just happens to be my wife singer/songwriter, Dorothy Anne.Song Description:A moving debut single by new artist, DorothyAnne. Ever the storyteller, she weaves a tale of unrequited love and vulnerability, with her signature vocals and infectious melodies.Don't Let Me Go is a ballad inspired by the love story between two favorite characters, Matthew and Mary, from the hit TV series Downton Abbey. Dorothy Anne's Bio DorothyAnne is a Filipina singer-songwriter based in Dallas, Texas. She has sung and performed all over the United States and desires to encourage and inspire listeners with her music and writing. A passionate storyteller, her songs evoke the journey of life and struggle. She draws on themes of love and hope in her lyrics, and pairs them with bright, catchy melodies, and beautiful orchestrations. Beyond her career as a recording artist, DorothyAnne seeks to foster young artists in their pursuit of their dreams. Her faith in Christ is a defining element of her work. When not recording, she is the mother of four, and co-founder of Defining Moments, Inc. with her husband (and biggest inspiration) Dustin. Don’t Let Me Go LryicsIf time heals all woundsMaybe I could see the truthThat love won’t hold backAnd you’ll forgive my pastWhat’s a girl to doWhen all she has is goneWhat will people sayWhen they find out all her shame I can never tell youHow I really feelHow you changed my mindYou’ve moved on but I wantFight to make things rightGive it one more tryIf there’s a chance for our love to surviveI’ll hold on to that hope for dear life Don’t let me goDon’t let me goDon’t let me goDon’t let me go Now you’re awayBeing so so braveAnd I’m left hereFeeling so so alone Wish I could escapeAnd run from all my painWish I told you yesBut maybe it’s for the best

In this episode, we interviewed Daniel King an international evangelist who has ministered in over sixty countries and has authored over 16 books. Today you will discover why God wants YOU to write a book, and you will learn different tips and strategies on how you can make it a reality.   Daniel King’s Newest Book   7 Tips For Writing Your Book   Write down your discoveries about God. A short pencil is better then a long memory. The first time you write something it won’t be perfect. Just focus on getting your ideas down on paper rather than proper grammar or spelling. Write every day even if it’s 5- 10 min. Make a goal to write 500 words a day. (That’s about half a page long.) The thing that will make you a good writer is practice. Don’t give up! You can’t write to everyone. You need to have a niche or target audience you are writing for. Remember everyone has a story to tell. Everything you’ve gone through is for a reason. You can help someone by telling your story. Spend money on your book design. It will be worth the investment.   5 Quick Questions You Should Ask to Discover Your Next Book Title   What has God told you to write about? Sometimes God will give you things to write about. What are you passionate about and like to talk about often? What areas are you knowledgeable in? What are your specific areas of expertise? Everybody has a specific skill they can talk about. What are the subjects other people continually ask counsel from you about?   Receive A Free Copy of Daniel King's Book "How To Write A Book." Click To Tweet Powered By CoSchedule         Daniel has graciously agreed to give everyone who has listened to this podcast a copy of his eBook “How to Write a Book.” Get Your FREE eBook Here!   Links Mentioned In The Show   www.KingMinistries.com www.GraceWins.net How To Write A Book Question: If your book could be published tomorrow, what would your book title be?

In this episode, we interviewed Author, Speaker and Youth Pastor Jamal Miller and got an inside look at the incredible way he met his wife on Facebook, plus we learn more about his most recent book entitled "25 Things You Can Do To Prepare for Marriage Other Than Dating" which recently became an Amazon #1 best seller!

In this episode, we got the honor to interview my parents and discuss timeless truths about money, relationship, character, teamwork and more.  We laughed we cried and learned some great life lessons from my mom and dad as they shared their hearts about life.

In this episode, we'll be talking about what ministry kids wished you knew. Often times high, standards placed upon pastors kids are difficult to live up to. Today we will be interviewing Lance Brodsky a former ministry kid, turned minister, and He will be sharing keen insights from his real life story as a ministry kid and how he overcame the false expectations placed on him by others.

 In this episode, we will be interviewing Josh and Iza Cagle who are the Directors of Christ for the Nations bible school in Poland and who also happen to be our best friends. We’ll be talking about friendship, Family, marriage and ministry.

  In today's episode we will be talking about the missing link to successfully setting your goals. In addition we will give you 5 questions you must ask yourself in order to move towards achieving your dreams.    Michael Hyatt “You Don’t have to have the same year again and again.”     The Missing Link to Successfully Setting Goals The missing link to goal setting is to process the past. This is the # 1 thing you must do in order to make your goals crystal clear. If you already made your goals for 2014 without processing the past then you need to put your goals on hold and answer the following 7 questions below. Note: in the podcast we only covered five of the seven due to time.   The past several years my wife and I have processed the past in ordered to better plot out our future. Recently we came across some great questions to ask ourselves to help us in the process that were written by Michael Hyatt of of Platform University.(which we are members of)   7 Questions to Help You Set Yourself Up For The Best Year Ever   11.     If the last year were a movie of your life, what would the genre be? Drama, romance, adventure, comedy, tragedy, or a combination? ·      Ours was a Suspense Thriller.   22.    What were the two or three major themes that kept recurring? ·      No matter what came our way that we wouldn’t be shaken. ·      Trust in God to see us though   33.    What did you accomplish this past year that you are the most proud of? ·      America Tour Traveled 5800 miles doing ministry and fundraising across 10 states ·      Benefit concert for the Philippines ·      Launched A podcast Life Lesson’s ·      Brand new interactive website   44. What do you feel you should have been acknowledged for but weren’t? ·      Did not cover this in the podcast   55.   What disappointments or regrets did you experience this past year? ·      Not getting the Desoto Arts Grant   66.   What was missing from last year as you look back? ·      Did not cover this in the podcast   77. What were the major life-lessons you learned this past year? ·      Learning to walk in Forgiveness more then normal ·      Persevering through difficult times  Question: If the last year were a movie of your life, what would the genre be? Drama, romance, adventure, comedy, tragedy, or a combination? Life Lessons Podcast Received Our First Review on iTunes by A Top Podcaster John Lee Dumas of EntrepreneurOnFire.com gave us our first review in iTunes this is huge for us because John has a podcast with over 450,000 downloads a month on his show so to get a review from him was awesome! John Lee Dumas Quote under the question Accomplishments show twitter handletoo along with iTunes review photo www.EOFire.com   Links Mentioned On The Show: Unite to Give Benefit Concert Pictures   Great Photographer Fernando Morales   The Gathering Church   Old Website DefiningMomentsinc.com  New  www.definingmomentsTv.Com   John Lee Dumas   www.PlatformUniversity.com   Desoto Arts Grant link    Benefit concert Facebook page   Dorothy Anne’s Pintrest   My brother Scott Dauenhauer website www.meridianwealth.com   Michael Hyatt’s Article 7 Questions To Ask About Last Year   Building 429 We Wont be Shaken    Whatever will come our way Through fire or pouring rain We won't be shaken No we won't be shaken Whatever tomorrow brings Together we'll rise and sing That we won't be shaken No we won't be shaken   We will trust in You We will not be moved We will trust in You And we won't be shaken

In this episode, we will be talking about producing our first ever benefit concert featuring multi-talented Filipino artists in Dallas/ Fort Wort area and our goal to raise $10,000 to help the victims of typhoon Haiyan.

In this episode, we will be talking about an article that received over 76 thousand shares on Facebook alone, entitled "The 20 Things Your Most Annoying Friends Do on Facebook" by Stephanie Buck. Although all 20 are funny we just wanted to highlight 5 of our favorite annoying things and the life lessons behind them.

In today's episode, we are going to talk about some hidden gems not many know about and when used effectively, will help you and your team achieve greater creativity.