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A podcast by Erotic Writer, Robertta Bobbie , on her day to day feelings and thoughts. Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveandorgasms/support

Love and Orgasms


    • May 12, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • monthly NEW EPISODES
    • 33m AVG DURATION
    • 64 EPISODES


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    Intimacy in relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2025 18:32


    There are different ways to express intimacy in different relationships besides physical. Emotional, Spiritual and Mental - let's explore. https://youtu.be/eOW9Awmg3xo?si=mOjg4XffwwxqlVjB

    Pushing 30 - Anxiety?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2025 17:36


    I turned 29 and felt relief. It feels different up here. Was turning 30 scary for you?

    Sexual safety and Aftercare

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2025 24:41


    Have you ever thought about what makes you feel safe before, during and after sex?sex in long term relationships: https://youtu.be/AjMrcozIQNA?si=Q3QBqhbkwfNMQI8jAftercare: https://loveandorgasms.com/where-is-the-aftercare/

    The boyfriend who keeps borrowing money

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2025 34:22


    It's the start of a new relationship and the man keeps borrowing money. Are you staying or leaving?

    How to become a better speaker

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2025 32:35


    Here's some of the steps I take towards improving my speaking skills. EnjoyFollow: loveandorgasms.comBook me here: Appointy

    End of year fatigue - Thank you 2024

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2024 15:17


    It's been a great year and I'm grateful to you for being part of it. Thank you for the love and loyalty. Enjoy your holidays and see you next year! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/support

    He's very much into you! - How to keep a man

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2024 59:16


    Have you thought about what traits you'd look out for in a romantic partner? Here's what I think... --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/support

    Fixing my relationship with my parents

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2024 23:39


    Here's how I fixed my relationship with my parents. Is this something you are willing to try? --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/support

    I've been having sex - Girl math

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2024 22:21


    It's important that I'm honest with myself so that I can grow. here's what I've been up to... --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/support

    He's just not that into you

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2024 28:42


    I know he's told you he likes you, but do you really feel it? --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/support

    Healing your inner child- Forgiving yourself

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2024 13:40


    Most times we don't realize how grave the responsibility to heal self is. I hope this episode prompts you to forgive yourself! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/support

    Financial Trauma - How it affects sex and life

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2024 24:47


    Having discussions around money improves your quality of life, it's time to heal that trauma! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/support

    Sex in exchange for opportunities - What is grooming?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2024 17:10


    How old were you when you realized that you've been taken advantage of sexually before? Grooming is not always violent, sometimes it shows up disguised as 'love and care'. It is always important to remember that sexual relationships should be consensual and comfortable! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/support

    Condom sex or raw sex ?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2024 24:52


    This is the episode where I remind you to use condoms. I know raw sex feels better, but are you ready to deal with the consequences of not implementing better precaution? --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/support

    Consent - Your body can reject the wrong partner

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2024 20:20


    Did you know that your body knows if you feel safe sexually, and can reject the wrong partner? --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/support

    STOP KILLING WOMEN - A dummy's guide to END FEMICIDE

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 7, 2024 23:08


    Every day, women are murdered and abused by men; for being women. It's time to END FEMICIDE! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/support

    Emotional and financial desperation - dating while broke(n)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2024 38:23


    I've noticed a huge difference between the kind of people I used to surround myself with when I was insecure and desperate vs now. Even my dating life has changed! Becoming A CEO - https://youtu.be/xk8yq_jix6s?si=iriW64XCuG-caafp broke boys don't deserve no p$ssy - https://loveandorgasms.com/broke-boys-dont-deserve-no-pssy/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/support

    Finding the male G spot, finding the clit too.

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2024 37:49


    Is the male G spot really in the anus? Where is the clit? In this episode, I explain what orgasms are, how to achieve and enhance them. Anal sex: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/wiAx9VZ7eMb --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/support

    Building a secure attachment style - the art of letting go

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2024 36:58


    https://youtu.be/prWjjObh-W4?si=BNbtN6vVYazXtFY1 learn more about attcahment styles and how they affect our relationships as adults. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/support

    My body is changing + breaking up with the 'great' guy

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2024 34:00


    I feel like I just hit a second puberty, and it is changing my life, let's talk about it! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/support

    Should I join Onlyfans?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2024 20:47


    Here's what I think about starting an Onlyfans account…https://onlyfans.com/loveandorgasms --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/support

    Squirting and sex toys

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2024 26:43


    Here's what you need to know about squirting

    Sexually Transmitted Infections

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2024 15:19


    Have you been screened ? Do you know about STIs? --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/support

    Let's talk PORN

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 23, 2024 29:56


    Do you remember how you were first introduced to porn? How has it impacted your life ? Let's talk about it ☺️ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/support

    Foreplay

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2024 38:24


    What does foreplay mean to you ? Is it important at all ??? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/support

    A chat with my mother - Surviving cancer

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2024 47:20


    Nothing shakes your whole world like seeing your mother go through sickness. It changes something in you. I had a chat with my mom about her emotions during this period and got to hear from her for the first time while recording this. I'd love for you to learn from her today ❤️ Family Tv interview: https://www.instagram.com/reel/C6BykwdoNZn/?igsh=czg3ZGM5Ym0wd290 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/support

    Where do you meet amazing lovers?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2024 54:20


    There was a lot of questions about where I meet ‘amazing' lovers and here's an explanation in detail of how I do it

    Love bombing and gaslighting

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2024 38:59


    Have you ever been love bombed or gaslit before ? Here's how I got smarter at catching it ! Book me: https://booking.appointy.com/RoberttaBobbie https://loveandorgasms.com https://onlyfans.com/loveandorgasms --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/support

    Kinks and Fetishes

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2024 13:30


    What is the difference between a kink and a fetish ? https://loveandorgasms.com/tie-me-up-and-fck-me/ Book me here : https://booking.appointy.com/RoberttaBobbie --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/support

    Mourning my old self + no sex for me

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2024 28:39


    Did anyone ever mention the grief that comes with elevating your life ? I think I'm mourning the person I used to be . Follow: loveandorgasms.com / https://onlyfans.com/loveandorgasms --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/support

    Dating me - Cheating for revenge

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 25, 2024 25:27


    Dating for me has always been so scary because of my traumas around relationships ( that I'm working on) but I have to ask , have you ever cheated for revenge? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/support

    Premature Ejaculation and Micro Penis

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 25, 2024 13:32


    Does size/ time matter ??? https://loveandorgasms.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/support

    Taking care of your vagina

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2024 20:54


    Do you remember who taught you how to take care of your vagina ? Here's a lesson ! For bookings reach me here : https://booking.appointy.com/RoberttaBobbie --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/support

    I lost my job + preparing myself for love

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2024 51:28


    Nobody prepared me for the grief I would feel after the loss of a job, especially while going through other worse stuff. I am intentionally trying to build myself from love and prepare myself for it ! Bookings : https://booking.appointy.com/RoberttaBobbie , loveandorgasms.com Art by : Okal Lucy --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/support

    The Mating Game - being aware that sex has to be intentional

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 26, 2023 14:36


    I was chatting with my brother and he made me think about how almost all human interaction has the lingering presumption of SEX . What do you think ? Read more : loveandorgasms.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/support

    What is Masturbation?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2023 18:06


    How much do you know about masturbation? Book me here: https://booking.appointy.com/RoberttaBobbie Read more : https://loveandorgasms.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/support

    They always come back - can you choose better tho ?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2023 34:40


    Are you able to spot the things that make you uncomfortable when you hang around people ??? Spot the red flags with me , make bookings on : https://booking.appointy.com/RoberttaBobbie . Read more : https://loveandorgasms.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/support

    How does casual sex benefit women ?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2023 40:41


    What does FWB even mean ? Catch me on #daybreak every Tuesday on Citizen Tv and on loveandorgasms.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveandorgasms/support

    The Truth about Growth and Healing

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2022 53:19


    Growing and healing are the hardest but most rewarding things I've had to do for myself! The consequences however, are extremely rewarding ! Let me know about your journey too? Art Courtesy: ONCA Gallery. Follow me on https://onlyfans.com/loveandorgasms --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/loveandorgasms/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveandorgasms/support

    Let's get VULNERABLE

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 2, 2022 57:15


    Emotional unavailability only attracts the same. Are you ready to be vulnerable enough to allow yourself to receive the love that you deserve? Attachment styles - https://anchor.fm/loveandorgasms/episodes/Attachment-Styles-and-TMI-e1cqi13 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/loveandorgasms/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveandorgasms/support

    Situationships, One night stands and Friends with Benefits

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 20, 2022 46:30


    My experiences with casual sex have taught me that it doesn't benefit me in any way , I prefer safer ways of expressing myself sexually. I'd love to hear your opinions as well on loveandorgasms.com . Please follow https://onlyfans.com/loveandorgasms --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/loveandorgasms/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveandorgasms/support

    Becoming the woman of my dreams : Confidence & Sexual Liberation

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2022 66:49


    The confidence I have now was built over years - here's how I achieved it. Don't forget to check loveandorgasms.com out

    When he says he's ‘EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE'

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2022 73:04


    I cannot relate with people that are emotionally unavailable in the way that I would like to and so I thought to share one of my experiences on how I navigated this. Have you ever been with such a person? Read more on loveandorgasms.com Follow my OnlyFans here : https://onlyfans.com/loveandorgasms --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/loveandorgasms/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveandorgasms/support

    Moving out and Settling in : Healing my mother wounds

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2022 46:38


    I talk about the journey of discovering my self worth and staying confident while going through the loneliness of missing a present mother figure. Please don't forget to check out the #daybreak show on Citizen Tv every Tuesday morning as well as the loveandorgasms.com blog! Subscribe to my OnlyFans https://onlyfans.com/loveandorgasms and halla at @nairobibookclub for all sorts of books

    Attachment Styles and TMI ☕️

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 12, 2022 34:49


    Do you know what your attachment style is? Have a listen and let me know where you think you fit! Also, don't forget to check out loveandorgasms.com , Subscribe to https://onlyfans.com/loveandorgasms

    Masculine Energy vs Feminine Energy: The kind of men I'm into

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2021 52:16


    Do you know about masculine and feminine energy? Here's what I think In relation to the kind of guys I'm generally into. Follow me everywhere @roberttabobbie / @loveandorgasms loveandorgasms.com Here's my OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/loveandorgasms . Feel free to leave your feedback! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/loveandorgasms/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveandorgasms/support

    Another update: Single again? Another job? A new ‘baby' ? Bullied on Twitter?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2021 25:13


    Here's an episode before I talk about some real issues! I know what you're thinking, I missed y'all too!! Subscribe to my OnlyFans https://onlyfans.com/loveandorgasms Blog : loveandorgasms.com and follow me @roberttabobbie

    Life updates: New boyfriend? New job?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 14, 2021 40:56


    Here's a couple life updates since the last episode!! The guest today is Violet on https://loveandorgasms.com/birthday-sex-2020/ , show her some love

    25 important lessons I've learned, in 25 years

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2021 49:40


    It's my birthday!! Well, not today because my birthday is on the 29th of Feb, which we don't have this year

    He used to beat me up because I'd catch him cheating

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2021 58:42


    It feels like it's the right time for me to share my abuse story. I've since healed and can make jokes about it, and this to me screams GROWTH. Contact me here: https://loveandorgasms.com/contact-us/ and don't forget to use #loveandorgasms --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/loveandorgasms/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveandorgasms/support

    The first time I had sex

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2021 38:56


    Thought I'd give you guys a story time on the first time I had sex. Wish I could get to hear your stories too?? Plus an update on how I've been doing

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