Redefine Parenting

In today's episode of Redefine Parenting, I'm diving deep into a game-changing question every parent needs to ask: Where are you putting your focus with your kids? Are you focusing on what they're doing wrong… or what they're doing right? Are you guiding them with intention—or reacting in the moment? The truth is, where we put our focus determines the emotional climate in our home, and ultimately, the confidence and connection our kids carry with them. In this episode, we'll talk about: The difference between corrective parenting and intentional parenting How shifting your focus can build your child's emotional intelligence and self-esteem Why your child's behavior is often a mirror—and what to do with that reflection Simple mindset shifts to create more connection, cooperation, and calm in your home If you're ready to stop surviving and start thriving as a parent, this episode will give you the clarity and tools you need to truly show up with purpose.

In Part 3 of our Spiritual Child series on Redefine Parenting, we go to the heart of what every parent truly wants—to raise a child who is confident, grounded, and deeply connected to who they are. This episode is all about helping your child build authentic self-worth—not based on external validation, but on their inner wisdom, spiritual awareness, and emotional truth. When a child feels spiritually aligned and emotionally safe, they don't just walk through the world… they own their space in it. I'll share powerful insights and real-life strategies for: Cultivating inner peace and resilience Helping your child trust their intuition Creating a home where spiritual expression is not only welcomed—but celebrated Raising children who feel seen, heard, and guided—not controlled This is what soulful parenting looks like. And if you're ready to raise a generation of kids who know who they are—and won't spend adulthood trying to figure it out—this episode is for you.

Welcome back to Redefine Parenting, where today we continue our powerful conversation on raising a spiritual child. In Part 2 of this heartfelt series, we go even deeper—into the core of what it means to raise children who are connected to their inner truth, their intuition, and their unique identity. Let's be real—today's world is noisy, chaotic, and filled with distractions. But when we empower our kids to look within, to trust their gut, and to honor their emotional and spiritual intelligence, we raise confident, resilient human beings. This is the foundation of conscious parenting. In this episode, I share how to create safe spaces for children to express themselves spiritually, why emotional safety is non-negotiable, and how you can become the guide your child needs to grow with purpose, compassion, and clarity. This isn't just parenting—it's a spiritual practice. ✨ If you're ready to raise emotionally grounded, spiritually aware kids who lead from the heart—this episode is for you.

Raising a Spiritual Child: Why Their Inner World Matters More Than Ever (Part 1) In today's episode of Redefine Parenting, we're diving into a powerful and often overlooked topic—raising a spiritual child. As parents, we focus so much on academics, behavior, and achievements… but what about their inner world? What about their connection to self, purpose, and something greater? I believe every child is born with a spiritual spark—and it's our job to nurture it. This isn't about religion—it's about helping our kids grow into grounded, emotionally aware, and spiritually connected human beings. When we teach our children to trust their inner voice, to lead with compassion, and to find peace in a chaotic world—we're giving them tools that last a lifetime. In this first part of our series, I'll share stories, mindset shifts, and practical ways you can start raising a mindful, self-aware, and heart-centered child—no matter where you are on your own journey. ✨ Let's raise children who don't just survive… but truly thrive from the inside out.

Today, I'm talking about something so many of us navigate—co-parenting. As a parent, one of the greatest joys in life is watching your child grow and thrive. But when you're co-parenting, that journey can come with its own set of challenges—and powerful opportunities. Co-parenting, when done right, offers a sense of stability and continuity for your child. It allows both parents to remain active and meaningful influences in their child's life. But here's the key: it takes open and honest communication, a willingness to compromise, and a commitment to find common ground—even when it's hard. Remember, your child is always watching and learning from your actions. What you model now becomes the foundation for how they'll handle relationships in their own lives. Want to dive deeper?

In Part 3, we'll cover: ✅ How to personalize your child's learning experience for success ✅ Navigating the socialization question—How do homeschooled kids build friendships? ✅ Resources & tools to help parents feel confident in their homeschooling journey Samantha has spent years coaching families, designing curricula, and guiding parents through the legal and financial aspects of homeschooling. Whether you're just getting started or looking to refine your approach, this episode will give you practical advice and encouragement to make homeschooling work for your family. ⚠️ Disclaimer: This is a live-recorded conversation sharing personal experiences. Every homeschooling journey is unique—take what resonates and feel free to share your perspective! ✨ Give Your Kids a Childhood They Won't Need to Heal From.

Still wondering if homeschooling is the right choice for your family? In Part 2 of our series, we continue the conversation with Samantha Lin, a seasoned homeschool coach and family coach at Veenu Inspires, LLC. In this episode, we'll dive deeper into: ✅ Breaking down homeschooling misconceptions – what's fact vs. fiction? ✅ How to create a successful homeschool routine that fits your family's lifestyle ✅ The biggest challenges homeschooling families face—and how to overcome them With years of experience in curriculum planning, legal navigation, and homeschooling her own children, Samantha brings valuable insights and practical tips for parents at any stage of their homeschool journey. ⚠️ Disclaimer: This is a live-recorded conversation sharing personal experiences. Every homeschooling journey is unique—take what resonates and feel free to share your perspective! ✨ Give Your Kids a Childhood They Won't Need to Heal From.

Thinking about homeschooling but unsure if it's the right fit for your family?

Have you ever been at a child's soccer or football game, and there's that one kid who makes the winning goal—only to realize no one is there cheering for them?

In the final part of our series, we shift our focus to actionable steps parents can take to foster a supportive environment at home. Austin and I explore how to build a foundation of trust and open communication with your children. We'll provide insights into recognizing signs of mental health struggles and substance use, and how to intervene effectively. This episode is an invitation to take proactive steps toward ensuring your child's well-being. By addressing these deeper issues, we can guide our children toward a healthier, happier future. Don't miss this opportunity to equip yourself with the tools needed to support your child's journey.

In Part 2, we continue our conversation with Austin Davis, focusing on the root causes of substance use and mental health struggles in kids. As parents, we often find ourselves questioning our choices and wondering what we could have done differently. This episode is a chance to reflect and learn about the deeper issues that drive our children towards harmful coping mechanisms. We'll discuss practical strategies for creating a nurturing home environment where kids feel safe, supported, and understood. Discover how addressing these underlying challenges can empower your child to avoid harmful choices and thrive in their mental and emotional well-being.

Parenting is undoubtedly one of the toughest jobs, especially when facing the daunting reality of children grappling with mental health issues or substance use. In this first part of our series, "Kids Mental Health and Substance Abuse," I sit down with Austin Davis to explore the profound challenges parents face. Austin shares a powerful analogy that unveils the deeper reasons behind why many children turn to substances as a coping mechanism. We'll delve into how anxiety, depression, and unspoken family struggles can weigh heavily on them, even when we believe we're shielding them. Join us as we begin this journey to understand these complex issues and how we can better support our children.

Do you ever find yourself plagued by self-doubt, anxiety, or feelings of inadequacy? You're not alone. This podcast explores the profound impact of childhood criticism on our mental health. We delve into how harsh words from parents, teachers, and others can shape our inner voice – that persistent, negative commentary that undermines our self-worth and sabotages our success. We'll discuss: The lasting effects of childhood criticism: How it can manifest as anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, and difficulty forming healthy relationships. The importance of a supportive environment: How crucial it is to cultivate a safe and encouraging space, especially at home, to counteract the negativity we may have experienced in childhood. Strategies for silencing the inner critic: Practical tools and techniques for identifying and challenging negative self-talk, building self-compassion, and cultivating a more positive inner dialogue. Join me as we explore the power of self-acceptance and learn to break free from the limitations imposed by the inner critic. This podcast is for anyone who has ever struggled with self-doubt, experienced childhood criticism, or simply wants to cultivate a more positive and compassionate relationship with themselves.

In the final part of our series on giving kids a childhood they won't need to heal from, we focus on actionable ways to build resilience and self-worth in a digital-driven, post-pandemic world. How do we, as parents, guide our children to embrace their individuality, rediscover their passions, and develop the confidence to thrive both online and offline? ✨ In This Episode, You'll Learn:

In Part 2 of our discussion on giving kids a childhood they won't need to heal from, we dive deeper into the challenges children face in a world shaped by social media and post-pandemic isolation. As parents, how can we help them regain confidence, navigate self-esteem issues, and reconnect with real-world independence? ✨ In This Episode, We'll Discuss:

How can we give our kids a childhood they won't need to heal from? In today's episode, we're exploring new tools and methods to help them reclaim their independence and build self-esteem. After the challenges of C19, many kids have been isolated, confined, and now face new pressures from the world of social media. Instead of facing rejection in schools, they're turning to platforms where they compare themselves to others—leading to self-esteem issues and a loss of personal confidence. ✨ What We'll Cover:

In today's episode, we're diving into the topic of "Listening to Understand." Are we truly listening with empathy? Are we giving our kids the space to feel heard and understood when they talk to us? Let's explore how we can become more intentional and compassionate listeners for the benefit of our relationships and our children's emotional well-being. I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode—your feedback matters! To explore more about today's topic and join the conversation, visit Redefine Parenting: Give Your Kids a Childhood They Won't Need to Heal From.

In Part 3 of "Motivating Kids," we wrap up this powerful series. Together, we explore the final keys to helping kids excel in sports while building a foundation for lifelong success. ✨ In This Episode, You'll Learn:

In Part 2 of "Motivating Kids," the conversation continues with Michael Huber, Certified Mental Performance Consultant® and founder of Follow The Ball LLC. Together, we dive deeper into the mindset shifts and strategies every parent needs to guide their child through the pressures of sports and competition. ✨ In This Episode, You'll Discover:

Are you a parent looking to help your young athlete thrive in sports and life?

Today, we're exploring a topic that impacts every child and parent: "Comparison is the thief of joy for our kids." We'll unpack how comparison influences our children's self-esteem, where it originates, and, most importantly, how to handle it.

Today, we're diving into "7 Habits of Highly Effective Families", a transformative approach to parenting and family life that fosters connection, cooperation, and mutual success. In a world where self-worth often stems from comparisons and competition, many of us fall into the trap of believing that success is a zero-sum game: "If I win, you lose" or "If you win, I lose." But what if we could change that narrative?

Supporting Transgender Children and Embracing Gender Diversity

How do you prioritize quality time with your children amidst your busy schedule, ensuring they feel valued and heard? In what ways do you encourage open communication within your family to strengthen trust and understanding? How do you model self-care and emotional resilience for your children, showing them the importance of balance and well-being in their lives? These questions are designed to spark reflection and action, helping you cultivate a nurturing and supportive environment for your family. Remember, it's about creating moments that matter and fostering connections that last a lifetime. I'd love to hear your thoughts on these or any additional questions you find impactful in your parenting journey.

Redefine Parenting with Veenu Keller Give Your Kids a Childhood They Won't Need To Heal From Topic: "The Power of the Unknown" This week's guest is Yamile McBride, Transformational Leader & Strategic Operations Director

Redefine Parenting with Veenu Keller Give Your Kids a Childhood They Won't Need To Heal From Topic: "The Power of the Unknown" This week's guest is Yamile McBride, Transformational Leader & Strategic Operations Director

Redefine Parenting with Veenu Keller Give Your Kids a Childhood They Won't Need To Heal From Topic: "The Power of the Unknown" This week's guest is Yamile McBride, Transformational Leader & Strategic Operations Director

Redefine Parenting with Veenu Keller Give Your Kids a Childhood They Won't Need To Heal From Topic: "I'm not Dumb, I'm Dyslexic" This week's guest is Jess Arce, Managing Director of 3D Learning Experts

Redefine Parenting with Veenu Keller Give Your Kids a Childhood They Won't Need To Heal From Topic: "I'm not Dumb, I'm Dyslexic" This week's guest is Jess Arce, Managing Director of 3D Learning Experts

Redefine Parenting with Veenu Keller Give Your Kids a Childhood They Won't Need To Heal From Topic: "I'm not Dumb, I'm Dyslexic" This week's guest is Jess Arce, Managing Director of 3D Learning Experts

Join me, Veenu Keller, as I dive into an enlightening conversation with Billy on the Redefine Parenting podcast. In this episode, we explore the transformative power of emotional awareness and self-regulation in children. With over 20 years of experience as a life coach and behavior specialist, I share insights on moving away from traditional discipline towards a more cooperative, connection-based approach. Discover how leading with empathy and truly listening can revolutionize your parent-child relationships. We'll delve into practical strategies to sidestep power struggles and cultivate harmony at home. If you're eager to redefine your parenting journey and strengthen your bonds with your kids, this episode is a must-listen!

Welcome to Part 3 of the Redefine Parenting podcast! I'm Veenu Keller, and I am delighted to continue this compelling conversation with Allyson Ward, the brilliant mind behind "Please Don't Come Home (Except For A Visit): A Field Guide to Creating Independent Adults." In this final installment, we dive into the nuances of parenting with a focus on cultivating resilience and adaptability in our children. Allyson shares her profound insights on transitioning from being a supervisor to a trusted advisor, a pivotal shift in fostering true independence. In this episode, we explore how the G.R.I.T. framework can be applied in real-life scenarios, emphasizing the transformation from dependency to self-reliance. We delve into the importance of allowing children to make mistakes and learn from them, a critical component of their growth and development. This conversation is more than just a dialogue, it's an invitation to reflect on our parenting approaches and embrace the journey of raising confident, capable adults. We warmly invite you to engage with us, share your experiences, and consider how these insights might resonate with your unique parenting path. Join us as we wrap up this enlightening series, equipping you with tools to empower your children while nurturing a supportive and loving environment. Let's continue to redefine parenting, one step at a time!

redefine parenting together! Welcome to Part 2 of the Redefine Parenting podcast! I'm Veenu Keller, excited to continue this thought-provoking discussion on whether we're doing too much for our kids. Joining me again is Allyson Ward, the brilliant author of "Please Don't Come Home (Except For A Visit): A Field Guide to Creating Independent Adults." In this episode, we dive deeper into the art of fostering independence in our children, drawing from our personal journeys as single mothers. Allyson shares her profound insights and practical wisdom, focusing on the transformative G.R.I.T. framework: Game Plan, Resources, Investment, and Transformation. These strategies are pivotal in guiding our children to develop self-reliance and confidence. This episode is a heartfelt exchange of ideas and experiences. We invite you to reflect on what resonates with you and to contribute your own insights, as your experiences could inspire others. Join us as we explore the nuances of empowering our children to become independent adults while nurturing a loving bond. Let's embark on this journey of redefining parenting together!

Join me, Veenu Keller, on this enlightening episode of the Redefine Parenting podcast, where we delve into the critical question: "Are We Doing Too Much for Our Kids?" I'm thrilled to welcome Allyson Ward, the insightful author of "Please Don't Come Home (Except For A Visit): A Field Guide to Creating Independent Adults." Together, we explore the journey of raising children to become self-reliant adults, sharing personal stories and hard-earned lessons from our experiences as single mothers. In our conversation, Allyson brings her unique perspective, offering practical strategies and nuggets from her book, including the empowering G.R.I.T. framework: Game Plan, Resources, Investment, and Transformation. These elements are crucial in nurturing independence and confidence in our children. This episode is a live-recorded dialogue filled with personal insights and experiences. We encourage you to take what resonates and leave what doesn't, as every parenting journey is unique. Feel free to share your thoughts and insights, as your experiences might light the way for others on their path. Tune in to discover how you can empower your children to thrive independently while maintaining a strong, loving connection. Let's redefine parenting together!

Today I'm talking about “What does burnout look like for us parents?” How do we know that we're in burnout? How do we know what the signs are? What do we do to get out of burnout? Maybe we start yelling more. Maybe we're more irritated. There's a sense of lack of control maybe. “We're just trying to get control of something, rather than have control of anything” Follow me on social media  To hear more and learn more about today's topic:  Give Your Kids A Childhood They Won't Need To Heal From 

Welcome to another enlightening episode of the Redefine Parenting podcast! I'm Veenu Keller, the Parent-Child Whisperer, and today, I'm thrilled to welcome my dear friend Ronny Leber, a seasoned TV host, keynote speaker, and coach. Together, we dive into the crucial topic of "How to Deal with Mistakes." In this engaging conversation, Ronny shares his profound insights on transforming mistakes into powerful learning opportunities for both parents and children. We explore the impact of societal pressures on our children's fear of making mistakes and how we, as parents, can foster an environment of growth and resilience. Ronny's wisdom shines as he discusses the importance of self-worth, gratitude, and embracing the process of learning from mistakes. This episode is packed with actionable strategies to help you connect with your children and find joy in parenting, even amidst challenges. Join us as we redefine what it means to deal with mistakes and empower our children to see the gifts within them. Tune in and discover how to create magic moments from life's inevitable stumbles. Let's redefine parenting together!

In this insightful Part 3 of the Redefine Parenting podcast, I continue my engaging dialogue with Jonathan D. Steele, an esteemed family law attorney celebrated for his compassionate and thorough approach to family law. Building on our previous discussions, we delve even deeper into the theme of "Parenting Through Separation: Building Two Happy Homes." Jonathan offers further expert guidance on maintaining a nurturing and supportive environment for children during separation, emphasizing the importance of seamless transitions between two homes. His strategies continue to prioritize the emotional and digital well-being of families, ensuring that the journey through separation is anchored in love and connection. Join us as we explore advanced techniques for co-parenting with empathy and understanding, transforming the challenges of separation into opportunities for growth and harmony. This episode is packed with actionable insights that will empower you to foster resilience and happiness in your family, even amidst life's transitions. Dive in to uncover how two homes can indeed mean one loving family, as we continue this enlightening journey.

In this captivating Part 2 of the Redefine Parenting podcast, I continue my insightful conversation with Jonathan D. Steele, a leading family law attorney celebrated for his empathetic and comprehensive approach to family law. Building on our previous discussion, we delve deeper into the intricacies of "Parenting Through Separation: Building Two Happy Homes." Jonathan shares more of his expert advice on maintaining stability and support for children during separation, with a focus on creating a seamless transition between two homes. His strategies prioritize the emotional and digital well-being of families, ensuring that the journey through separation remains centered on love and connection. Join us as we explore advanced techniques for co-parenting with empathy and understanding, transforming the challenges of separation into opportunities for growth and harmony. This episode is packed with actionable insights that will empower you to foster resilience and happiness in your family, even amidst life's transitions. Tune in to discover how two homes can indeed mean one loving family, as we continue this enlightening journey.