Sex Talk with Khrys

On this episode of Sex Talk With Khrys, we're breaking down the myth that marriage is the only path to satisfaction. Our guest is single, sexually liberated, emotionally whole, and deeply fulfilled—without a ring in sight! We talk:     •    Reclaiming your body and pleasure on your own terms     •    Emotional peace vs. relationship pressure     •    Dating for fun, not validation     •    Saying no to societal timelines and yes to self-defined joy     •    Sex, satisfaction, and spiritual freedom as a single woman This one is for every woman who's ever been told she needs a partner to be complete. Spoiler alert: she doesn't—and neither do you. Tune in, take notes, and turn yourself on. #UnmarriedAndUnbothered #SexTalkWithKhrys #SelfSatisfactionIsSexy

In this candid and unfiltered episode of Sex Talk with Khrys, we sit down with a proud gay man who takes us on a raw and intimate journey through his sexuality. From early awakenings to navigating desire, pleasure, shame, and freedom—no topic was off limits. We unpack stereotypes, celebrate liberation, and explore what it means to truly own your erotic identity in a world that often misunderstands it. Expect honesty, laughter, and moments that might just challenge everything you think you know about gay male sexuality. Press play and prepare to expand your mind and turn up your volume—this one's juicy. #SexTalkWithKhrys #GaySexuality #QueerVoices #UnapologeticallyYou #SexCoachTalks #AfterDarkWithKhrys

In “Healed and Ready,” we dive into the vibrant journey of life after divorce for women in their 30s. This empowering episode explores how shedding the weight of an old relationship can spark a personal rebirth – from rediscovering your sensual self to rebuilding unshakable self-worth. You're not alone in this transformation: nearly 70% of divorces are initiated by women , a testament to the courage it takes to choose yourself. With a warm, bold tone, we celebrate sexual liberation, emotional healing, and the unapologetic confidence that comes when you realize you're not broken by divorce – you're healed and ready for your next chapter. Tune in this episode is not to be missed. Subscribe now and join the revolution — because your pleasure is powerful, and it's time to talk about it. #SexCoaches #IntimacyRevolution #SexTalkWithKhrys #PleasureIsPower #RealSexTalk #healing

In this raw, reflective, and real conversation, Khrys sits down with the vibrant and unapologetic Isoke—whose journey has taken her from the wild nights of “order my shots” to the deeply intentional path of “order my steps.” We dive into her transformation from living for the moment to living with purpose, pleasure, and power. Isoke opens up about healing, redefining intimacy, and learning how to walk in alignment without losing her sexy. This episode is all about reclaiming your narrative, choosing divine alignment over chaos, and learning how to honor both your flesh and your faith.

Postpartum is still dripping… Let's be real—postpartum isn't just about bouncing back. It's the leaking, the losing yourself, the silent cries in the shower, and trying to find the woman you were before your body, your mind, and your life changed forever. In this episode, we get into the thick of it with one woman's raw, unfiltered postpartum journey. From physical recovery to emotional unraveling, from the shift in her marriage to the mental weight of motherhood—nothing is off-limits. This is the stuff we don't talk about until we're already in it, and baby, it's dripping into every part of our lives—sex, identity, relationships, all of it. Whether you're a new mom, seasoned mama, or supporting someone who is—this conversation is one you'll feel in your soul. In this episode we dive deep into:     •    The truth about postpartum healing—physically and emotionally     •    How sex and desire shift after birth     •    Navigating marriage, resentment, and reconnection     •    When life keeps lifing while your body is still recovering     •    What we really need but are too afraid to ask for This episode is healing, heavy, and necessary. Tap in and enjoy, babe. #YupSexTalkWithKhrys #PostpartumRealness #SexAfterBaby #MarriageShift #LifeBeLifin #YourPleasureIsMyPassion

In this raw and revealing episode, two powerhouse sex coaches crawl under the sheets — not just with each other, but with you, the listener — to share the truths we wish everyone knew about sex, intimacy, desire, and real connection. Join Sex Coach Aspen and Khrystal Jones as they break down:     •    What keeps people stuck in unsatisfying sex lives     •    Why fantasy and curiosity are not dirty words     •    The myths that hold us back from real pleasure     •    How to talk to your partner about what you really want in bed     •    And the one thing everyone deserves in the bedroom (but often doesn't ask for) This isn't your average sex talk — it's bold, educational, and empowering, with just the right dose of playful heat. Whether you're partnered, solo, or somewhere in between, this episode will leave you feeling seen, sexy, and ready to own your pleasure. Your pleasure is our passion. Guests: Sex Coach Aspen of The Intimacy Revolution Khrystal Jones, host of Sex Talk With Khrys

Hey, sexy souls! Welcome back to Sex Talk with Khrys, where we dive deep into all things pleasure, intimacy, and connection. Today, we're exploring something that can completely transform your sex life—mindful sex. This is about slowing down, being fully present, and experiencing pleasure beyond just chasing the orgasm. If you've ever felt disconnected during sex, struggled with performance anxiety, or just want to experience sex on a deeper, more intimate level—this episode is for you. So, grab your favorite glass of wine, settle in, and let's talk about how to bring mindfulness into your bedroom and take your pleasure beyond the orgasm.”

Desire discrepancy is one of the most common challenges in relationships. It happens when one partner has a higher or lower sex drive than the other, leading to frustration, miscommunication, and emotional distance. Sexual desire isn't static—it changes based on life phases and relationship shifts.     •    Instead of seeing it as a “problem,” view it as a journey of discovery together.     •    The goal isn't perfect alignment but understanding, compromise, and pleasure for both partners. In this episode, we explore what causes desire gaps and how to bridge them for a more fulfilling sex life. In this episode, we explore what causes desire gaps and how to bridge them for a more fulfilling sex life. Remember: Your pleasure is my passion!

In this raw and unfiltered episode of Sexx Talk With Khrys, I sit down with Todd Windham as he lays it all out—the scars, the lessons, and the wild truths of his post-divorce journey. From heartbreak to healing, from redefining manhood to navigating the dating world, Todd gets real about what most men won't say out loud.   We dive into:  The emotional & sexual aftermath of divorce  How society shapes (and sometimes stifles) men's sexual freedom  The reality of dating after marriage—sex, expectations & shocking surprises  What men really wish women knew about their desires Healing, growth & embracing pleasure without shame   This one's raw, real, and unapologetic. If you're curious about what goes on inside a man's mind after love, loss, and a second chance at pleasure, hit play now!

Are you truly getting the pleasure you deserve in the bedroom? In this episode of Sex Talk With Khrys, we're diving deep into the power of advocating for your pleasure and communicating your needs with confidence. I break down: Why speaking up about what you like (and don't like) is essential for a satisfying sex life How to express your desires without fear, guilt, or shame Effective tips for guiding your partner in a way that feels sexy and empowering  The importance of open dialogue in creating intimacy and deeper connection If you've ever struggled with telling your partner what you want—or felt frustrated when things just aren't hitting the right spot—this episode is for you. Your pleasure matters, and it's time to claim it! Listen now and learn how to confidently take control of your satisfaction!  Your pleasure is my passion! 

In this episode of, Sex Talk with Khrys, we dive deep into the ways religious teachings—especially in the Seventh-day Adventist Church—have shaped women's understanding of pleasure, desire, and personal empowerment. From the silence around women's sexual fulfillment to the lack of education on pleasure and desire, we explore the unintended consequences of these missing conversations. What happens when women aren't taught to embrace their pleasure or advocate for themselves in relationships? And how can we begin to unlearn the limiting beliefs that keep us from fully experiencing life's pleasures?   What You'll Learn in This Episode: How Seventh-day Adventist teachings (and other religious influences) shape views on women's sexuality and desire. The impact of purity culture and the silence around women's pleasure. The consequences of not being educated on Real-life pitfalls women face when they aren't given these essential tools. How we can reclaim our right to pleasure, financial freedom, and self-awareness.

In this episode of Sex Talk With Khrys, we're diving deep into a powerful truth: your sexuality is YOURS, and no one else's limited thinking or outdated rules should dictate how you experience pleasure.   Too often, we allow societal norms, cultural expectations, or other people's opinions to hold us back from fully embracing our desires. Well, it's time to break free.     In this episode, we'll explore: • Why other people's sexual hang-ups are NOT your responsibility. • How to recognize and release the limitations placed on your pleasure. • Practical steps to reclaim your sexual freedom unapologetically. • Why living YOUR sexual truth is the ultimate act of empowerment.   It's time to let go of the shame, the rules, and the outdated beliefs that don't serve you. You deserve a life of unfiltered pleasure and connection.   Listen now and learn how to step into your sexual power without hesitation.   Your pleasure is my passion, and this episode will show you how to own it unapologetically.

Fantasies are a natural and powerful part of human sexuality. However, they're often misunderstood or stigmatized. On this episode we'll discuss why fantasizing is essential for a fulfilling sex life, how it can enhance intimacy, and tips for sharing fantasies in a healthy, positive way.

Oral sex is a very intimate interaction. When is the perfect time to perform this yummy act? On this episode we really break down what that really is and what really takes place.  Oral sex is a beautiful thing however it should approaches with knowledge and caution.  Happy listening.

Women are supposed to be strong. We're supposed to work, have and raise kids, clean the house, and our build careers.  When we choose ourselves it looks ugly to others.  It's OK to stand up for yourself and desire more  at all cost.  In this episode we discuss some really good examples on what that looks like in real time.

Women have for so long been taught that we are supposed to be in a particular box operating on what others feel is best for us.  With experiences we gain a understanding of us and our pussy's.  Lori Harvey is a true example of living out loud. So enjoy the episode and afterwords ask yourself…living her best life”….. or whoring???

People underestimate the power of being able to speak seductively to their partner. Sometimes it takes a little bit of encouragement such as alcohol or drugs etc. but understanding the art in a cognitive space is truly a gift. Being able to arouse your partner through your audible design is a craft that many people underestimate. In this episode there is a workshop being had where “The art of talking dirty” is discussed. Talking dirty takes confidence and went down right can bring your partner to their erotic knees.  Happy listening.

Women for a long time have placed timelines on men not really understanding what they are doing and the detrimental of faxican have on one life, finances, kids, and so much more. We put these timelines on our partners' not concerned with, if they are actually ready for this life changing and monumental obligation. In this episode we discuss real life things that need to be looked at prior to marrying anyone. Of course “Sex Talk With Khrys” is going to give you another way to look at the situation. So I hope you're able to see where I'm coming from and able to wear my glasses comfortably. Enjoy.

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Sounds can intrigue. Sounds can provide the permission needed for a partners to continue swimming deep in our aquatic pussies. The absence of sounds creates anxiety in that it's dead air! Sounds have a great abilities and in this episode we discuss all of the yummy, juicy, and succulent goodness it holds.  Dive in with me…your ears won't be disappointed.

One night stands are completely unsafe however absolutely thrilling. They can allow for women to truly tap in to her sexual liberation. Truth is one night stands require a certain type of woman. This type of woman was understand her roll on “this ride”.  Whether you're for or against one night stands understanding what they really require is something vital that every woman should know.

Kids can be an amazing thing however most forget about what happens during that time when there is no sleep, no energy, no communication with other adults because you're too busy being a new parent. These are realities of people rarely think about in regards to children. In this episode we break down a lot of that and have some real discussion about what happens when we bring our beautiful bundles of joy into this world.

Marriage is an amazing time in any woman's life. Going into it fully aware then marriage is not the fairytale that is portrayed is very important. Marriage it's like an onion layer upon layer we learn and learn.

Oral stimulation of a penis is such a beautiful thing. For the longest time women have been taught that oral stimulation is something that good girls don't do. However, when you're good at it things can really open up sexually. Oral sex is more than just the act of a penis or vagina entering into a mouth until a climax.  When done confidently it can really begin to create some real erotic energy. So let's dive in.

Fantasies five is by far one of the most erotic things that we can do during an act of sex. Fantasies allow us to tap into whatever you want and create whatever we desire. Being our authentic selves with our partners in regards to our fantasies provides us with the freedom to run that fantasy out loud.  This can heightening our sexual experiences with our partner. So fantasize and be sure to fantasize and properly season your sexual experiences.

The way we speak, look, and interact with others sometimes can easily cause them shame. In this episode we talk about shame and how even the simplest things can bring shame to another.  Learning new ways to engage with our friends families and partners can be achieved but first we must begin to reshape our minds and our thoughts.  Learning acceptance and empathy must take place for us to begin this new way if thinking.

Postpartum depression It's such a hard thing for women to experience. Trying to remotely think about our sexy is not some thing that is in the forefront of our minds. Postpartum depression is real and feels like an attack of the emotions and hormones within our bodies. With some tools we can potentially shorten our postpartum depression journey and begin to tap into our sexier selves. Ladies we must understand postpartum is a real however it is not constant. There is light at the end of the tunnel.

Women wear many many hats. Women take care of so many things and for the most part little joy is found in most of the activities, functioning on auto-pilot.  The fuck yes effect allows for us to find the joy and/or pleasure in every facet of our lives. Imagine if we added this concept to every aspect of our lives to include our sex life.  How freeing?  How liberating and exciting.  The “fuck yes effect” exists, we simply have to be intentional in obtaining it.

Feeling safe with your partner is something that allows for one to feel they can do anything sexually.  It welcomes and escorts vulnerability into our spaces.  We worry so much about “stuff” that has no place in our quarters. “What will people think”, “What if I look stupid”, “What if I'm not good”. This thinking blocks and/or destroys any potential of sexual engagements in which both parties are present. Create a safe place where your partner can be who they are, knowing it's totally welcomed and appreciated.

Oral stimulation of a penis is such a beautiful thing. For the longest time women have been taught that oral stimulation is something that good girls don't do. However, when you're good at it things can really open up sexually. Oral sex is more than just the act of a penis or vagina entering into a mouth until a climax.  When done confidently it can really begin to create some real erotic energy. So let's dive in.

Is your pussy lacking I feeling of sexual desire? Is your pussy unkept, therefore creating a unattended unattractive landscape of a pussy?  Are you not enthused to have sexual engagements because of the appearance of your pussy?  Your pussy might be broken.  On this episode of Sex Talk With Khrystal” we talk about tips and tricks to achieve a pretty pussy therefore bringing more confidence to the bedroom. Once our pussies look good we can begin to feel better in regards to the presentation of our pussies.  It's one of the best forms of self-care.

Sometimes our partners dicks can be labeled as trash when that's not really the truth.  Sometimes it's just at a stumbling block due to all the pressures put on it by society to be great all the time whenever the mood strikes.  In this episode we're really unveiling the most common sexual dysfunction issues plagued by men that affects our pussies.  We are giving tips and tricks that encourage the dick to show up as its true authentic self.  Let's dive in.

Women for so long have been taught to be the good girls. To ensure that they check off certain boxes that was signify to onlookers that they have follow the strict line and have been the best girls they can be. Sadly the reality is when these women grow up they are unaware that there upbringing causes so much issues within their relationships. Some of those women find it very hard to look at sex as a healthy thing and therefore their relationship suffers, most times leaving the men to outsource dishonestly and therefore adding further damage to the already stressful and presumed doomed situation.

People have large amounts of shame. The shame people walk with each and every day. Have you ever thought about or where the shame originates. Most time it doesn't originate from us however we subscribe to the thoughts of feelings of others.  NO MORE!!! Let's identify and work through our shame and learn how to live life “SHAMELESSLY SHAMELESS.

Mind penetration also known as intimacy is so vital to true connection with our partners.  Sex without intimacy is simply the act of sex and its most basic definition. Sex including intimacy can make even the average love maker one of the best. It has the magical power to take any encounter to another level.

Erotic breathing is the center of our bodies pleasure source.  It allows for us to feel more centered and awakened. Some of us are going through life on auto pilot.  Erotic breathing promotes connections and that we are totally present and conscious regarding our pleasure and desires. Erotic breathing is monumental in opening the gate way to the highest heights of our arousal and pleasure.

Disappointments happen. We are humans. When they happen what do we do? What should we do? We must be realistic and address these issues of our disappointments head on. Let's get to the core of it. On the other side of disappointments is the possibility of pure satisfaction and our core desires being met.

In seeking out our partners what do we think about? Good mother, a good father, good listener etc. Rarely do we think about the sexual needs and the ability to bring us to true sexual completion long term.  Let's begin to look deeper.

Being in a committed relationship can be extremely hard. Especially when one partner sexual needs and desires are going unmet.  What do you do? Approaching this takes courage and love from one and a willingness to “try”.  Remaining curious and hungry always.

On this episode we begin talking about boundaries and capacity and how that plays into what we want and being able to provide that information to our partners. Sometimes there are other things going on that can affect our sexual drives and this must be addressed.  To not address then only creates more issues that will become suppressed.  Let's begin the conversation utilizing our authentic selves.

A sexually liberated unforgettable thing aka SLUT is a name we as women have been so embarrassed and ashamed of for as long as I can remember.  When that word “slut” is thrown at us based off our chosen actions that express our sexuality...... understand that what's really happening.  Now let's talk sex!

Who we want to be and who we are sometimes seems that it is in an attainable desire. Women do so much for others and really think about the time that is being taken away from ourselves. We can achieve these things we just have to put things in play that will allow us to achieve those goals.  Achieving them only makes us sexier and more desired to others but more importantly to ourselves.

In deepening the connection to ourselves and our partners we must begin to find the pleasure in the things we are doing for and with them.  When we are on auto pilot we do not truly connect and the things we are doing is void of happiness.  Let's begin finding the pleasure in things therefore deepening the connection.