The Adoption Journey Podcast

SummaryIn this episode of the Adoption Journey podcast, host Tarcia Smith speaks with Kim Hill, an adoptee and founder of a nonprofit organization. They discuss Kim's journey of discovering her adoption, the challenges she faced growing up, including rebellion and isolation, and her experience as a teenage mother. The conversation highlights the complexities of identity, family dynamics, and the search for belonging within the context of adoption. In this conversation, Kim Hill shares her journey of early motherhood, the challenges of finding her identity, and the emotional process of reconnecting with her birth family. She reflects on her experiences as a young mother, the struggles with her own family dynamics, and the pivotal moments that led her to search for her birth parents. The discussion highlights the importance of emotional maturity in navigating these complex relationships and the profound impact of reconnecting with one's roots. In this conversation, Kim Hill shares her emotional journey of searching for her birth parents after being adopted. She discusses the complexities of family dynamics, the challenges of meeting her birth mother and father, and the impact of communication on relationships. Kim reflects on her experiences of disappointment, the importance of understanding one's identity, and offers advice for others on similar journeys of self-discovery and reunion.

In this episode of the Adoption Journey podcast, host Tarcia Smith speaks with Jae, a transracial adoptee from Korea. Jae shares her lifelong awareness of her adoption, her experiences growing up in a predominantly white community, and the challenges of cultural identity. She discusses her journey of self-discovery, including her awakening to her Korean heritage while working at a ramen shop. Jae also talks about her efforts to connect with her biological family and her plans to visit Korea. The conversation highlights the importance of community, cultural exposure, and the complexities of adoption. In this conversation, Jae discusses the seven core issues of adoption, including shame, guilt, and identity, and how these themes are reflected in their music. They share personal experiences of growing up in a religious environment, the journey of self-discovery, and the impact of therapy on mental health. Jae also highlights the importance of addressing substance abuse as a coping mechanism and the significance of upcoming musical performances that explore these themes.

In this episode of the Adoption Journey podcast, host Tarcia Smith speaks with Astrid Castro, who shares her experiences as a transracial adoptee. Astrid discusses her early life, the challenges of adapting to a new culture, and the complexities of family dynamics in an adoptive setting. She reflects on her childhood memories, the impact of language loss, and the search for her birth family in Colombia. The conversation delves into the nuances of being adopted, the differences in treatment between biological and adopted children, and the importance of cultural connection. In this conversation, Astrid Castro shares her journey of searching for her birth family and the complexities of navigating her identity as an adoptee. She discusses the challenges and emotions involved in reunion, the ripple effects of adoption on families, and the importance of creating spaces for open conversations about adoption. Through her organization, Adoption Mosaic, she aims to provide education and support for all members of the adoption constellation, emphasizing the need for dialogue around the hard parts of adoption.Adoption Mosaic:https://adoptionmosaic.com/

In this episode of the Adoption Journey podcast, host Tarcia Smith speaks with Angie Legg, a fellow adoptee, about her unique life story. Angie shares her experiences from being born two months premature to a Haitian immigrant mother, her struggles in the NICU, and the decision made by her birth mother to give her up for adoption due to her medical needs. Angie recounts her journey through foster care, the challenges of being adopted by a white family in the 1980s, and her cultural identity as a Haitian American. The conversation delves into the complexities of her health challenges, the role of her foster mother, and the eventual name change that marked a new chapter in her life. Throughout the discussion, Angie emphasizes the importance of resilience and the unique purpose that her life story holds. In this conversation, Angie Legg shares her journey of navigating cultural identity as a Haitian adoptee raised in a predominantly white environment. She discusses the challenges of maintaining her Haitian culture, the complexities of racial identity, and her eventual reconnection with her birth family. Angie reflects on her childhood experiences, the privilege she recognizes in her life, and the emotional impact of meeting her sister for the first time. The conversation highlights the nuances of identity, family dynamics, and the importance of understanding one's roots. In this conversation, Angie Legg shares her profound journey of reconnecting with her biological family after years of separation. She discusses the complexities of sisterly relationships, the emotional impact of meeting her birth mother, and the challenges faced during her family's reunion. Angie also reflects on the devastating 2010 Haiti earthquake and her efforts to support her family during that crisis. Finally, she offers heartfelt advice to adoptees who are considering seeking out their biological families, emphasizing the importance of navigating their unique experiences with openness and hope.

In this episode of the Adoption Journey podcast, host Tarcia Smith engages in a heartfelt conversation with Dr. Tanesha Lawrence about the complexities of abandonment, particularly in the context of adoption. They explore the definition of abandonment, its emotional impact, and the connection to identity issues. Dr. Lawrence shares her personal journey of recognizing her own abandonment issues and the healing process she underwent, emphasizing the importance of community support and self-acknowledgment in healing. The discussion also highlights the need for open conversations about mental health within the Black community and the various resources available for those struggling with abandonment issues.

In this episode of the Adoption Journey podcast, host Tarcia Smith engages in a heartfelt conversation with Morocca, who shares her experiences of being adopted and the challenges she faced throughout her childhood. From discovering her adoption at the age of 11 to enduring physical and emotional abuse, Morocca recounts her tumultuous journey. She discusses her time at House of Hope, a safe haven that provided her with stability and support, and reflects on the complexities of returning to her adoptive home. The conversation delves into the silence surrounding adoption and the search for her biological roots, highlighting the emotional struggles and resilience that come with such experiences. In this conversation, Tarcia shares her profound journey of searching for her biological family after being adopted. She recounts the emotional rollercoaster of discovering her mother's name, learning about her siblings, and navigating the complexities of family dynamics. Through her story, she emphasizes the importance of self-discovery and the courage to share one's truth, inspiring others who may be on similar paths.Order your cakes from Morocca!IG:  @oneslicemissing ​

SummaryIn this episode of the Adoption Journey podcast, host Tarcia Smith speaks with Callie, a birth mom and founder of Talk About Adoption. Callie shares her personal journey of becoming a birth mom at the age of 15, the challenges she faced, and the support she received from her family and organizations. The conversation delves into the emotional complexities of unexpected pregnancy, the decision against abortion, and the experiences in a maternity home. Callie also discusses the evolution of open adoption and her experiences with the adoptive parents of her son. In this conversation, Callie shares her personal journey of placing a child for adoption and the emotional complexities involved. She discusses the importance of self-improvement, the challenges of navigating open adoption, and the evolution of adoption practices over the years. Callie emphasizes the need for a supportive community for birth mothers and offers advice for women facing unexpected pregnancies, highlighting the importance of exploring all options available to them.

SummaryIn this episode of the Adoption Journey podcast, host Tarcia speaks with David, a transracial adoptee from the UK. David shares his lifelong awareness of his adoption, growing up in a multicultural environment, and the unique challenges he faced as the only black child in his small town. He discusses his experiences with racism, family dynamics, and the motivations behind his adoptive parents' decision to adopt. David also reflects on his childhood, the impact of a structured upbringing, and his journey to find his birth mother, which was sparked by the birth of his own daughter. In this conversation, David shares his profound journey of reconnecting with his birth family, exploring themes of gratitude, identity, and emotional growth. He reflects on the complexities of navigating relationships with his birth mother and father, the impact of grief after losing his birth mother, and the challenges of being a transracial adoptee. David emphasizes the importance of feeling emotions rather than just thinking about them, offering insights into personal growth and the significance of family connections.

Kendal Richardson shares his journey of discovering his adoption at the age of 23 and the challenges he faced in uncovering his biological identity. He discusses the lack of information from his adoptive parents, the trauma and abuse he experienced, and the search for his biological family. The conversation also touches on the complexities of closed adoptions, DNA testing, and the emotional impact of the adoption journey. The conversation covers the themes of adoption, identity, family, and resilience. It delves into the experiences of adoptees, the impact of knowing one's biological family, and the importance of open communication. The conversation also explores the challenges of dealing with trauma and the journey of turning pain into praise.

Summary In this episode of the Adoption Journey podcast, host Tarcia Smith speaks with Tonya Hockaday about her profound experience of discovering her adoption at the age of 31. Tonya shares the shock and emotional turmoil she faced upon learning the truth, the impact on her identity, and the complexities of family dynamics surrounding her adoption. The conversation delves into her journey of self-discovery, the search for her birth family, and the emotional challenges that arose from family secrets. Tonya's story is a powerful testament to the struggles and revelations that come with understanding one's identity and family history. In this conversation, Tonya Hockaday shares her profound experiences as a black adoptee, discussing the complexities of grieving for unknown family members and the importance of community support. She reflects on her journey of acceptance, the significance of sharing her story, and the impact of the Black Adoptee Meetup, which provided her with a sense of belonging and empowerment. Tonya emphasizes the importance of identity and the healing power of storytelling, encouraging others to embrace their narratives and connect with their communities.

In this episode of the Adoption Journey podcast, host Tarcia Smith speaks with William Uhrlaub, a transracial adoptee of Haitian descent. William shares his complex adoption story, detailing his early life in Haiti, the circumstances surrounding his adoption, and the challenges he faced growing up as the only black child in a predominantly white family. He discusses the impact of his upbringing in a fundamentalist Christian commune, the abuse he endured, and the ongoing struggle with his identity and cultural differences, particularly regarding hair care. William's journey highlights the intricacies of adoption, the importance of understanding one's roots, and the lasting effects of childhood experiences. In this conversation, William Uhrlaub shares his journey of self-discovery, navigating traumatic experiences related to his hair and identity, his time in juvenile detention, and the cultural awakening that followed. He discusses the challenges of growing up in a mixed-race family, the importance of understanding his black heritage, and the pivotal moment of reconnecting with his Haitian roots after years of believing his mother was dead. Through faith and community, he learns to embrace his identity and the complexities of his background. In this conversation, William Uhrlaub shares his profound journey of reconnecting with his biological family after being adopted. He discusses the overwhelming experience of meeting numerous family members, the challenges of navigating cultural expectations, and the complexities of his relationship with his biological mother. William emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and understanding cultural differences, particularly for transracial adoptees. He also critiques the savior mentality often associated with adoption, advocating for a more nuanced understanding of cultural dynamics and the need for systemic change.

In this episode of the Adoption Journey podcast, host Tarcia Smith speaks with Lorna Little, a late discovery adoptee who shares her profound journey of discovering her adoption at the age of 33. Lorna recounts the shocking moment she learned about her adoption while applying for a passport, leading to a cascade of revelations about her birth parents and the complex family dynamics that ensued. Throughout the conversation, Lorna reflects on her emotional journey, the challenges of keeping her adoption a secret, and her eventual search for her birth family, culminating in a heartfelt reunion. In this conversation, Lorna Little shares her profound journey of discovering her birth family, the emotional complexities of adoption, and the importance of open communication about family histories. She reflects on her experiences of connecting with her birth mother and siblings, the challenges of navigating relationships, and the significance of understanding one's identity. Lorna emphasizes the need for honesty in adoption narratives and offers valuable advice for late discovery adoptees, highlighting the emotional stages of grief and the importance of feeling one's feelings.

In this heartfelt episode of the Adoption Journey Podcast, host Tarcia Smith reflects on her personal journey as an adoptee, her reunions with her birth parents, and the profound impact of the conversations she has had throughout the podcast. She expresses gratitude to the adoption community for their support and emphasizes the importance of sharing diverse stories. Tarsha encourages listeners to find balance in their lives while continuing to do the important work of advocacy and storytelling in the adoption space. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

Summary In this episode of the Adoption Journey podcast, host Tarsha Smith interviews Jeff, an adoptive parent and author. Jeff shares his family's journey through adoption, including the emotional challenges they faced, the process of connecting with birth mothers, and the cultural considerations of raising children of different races. He discusses the dynamics of sibling relationships in an adoptive family and the inspiration behind his children's book, 'A Buffalo Out to Water.' In this engaging conversation, Jeff shares his passion for high-quality children's entertainment and how it inspired him to write a children's book about adoption. He discusses the importance of addressing sensitive topics in children's literature, particularly the complexities of adoption and the feelings that adoptees may experience. Jeff also reflects on his own family's journey with open adoption, emphasizing the value of maintaining connections with birth families. He offers heartfelt advice for prospective adoptive parents, encouraging them to approach the journey with love and openness, while acknowledging the challenges that may arise. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

In this powerful episode, Tanisha Bankston shares her harrowing journey from childhood trauma and abuse to finding her voice and purpose. Adopted at a young age, Tanisha faced unimaginable challenges, including sexual abuse and domestic violence. Despite these adversities, she emerged as a survivor, using her experiences to empower others and break the cycle of abuse. Her story is a testament to resilience, healing, and the importance of speaking out. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

Summary In this episode of the Adoption Journey podcast, host Tarcia Smith welcomes back repeat guest Koko and her brother Eric Shaw to discuss their experiences as Black adoptees. They reflect on the recent Black Adoptee Meetup 2024, sharing how it was a profound and healing experience for them. The conversation delves into their personal stories of growing up adopted, the dynamics of their adoptive family, and the impact of their adoptive parents on their lives. Eric and Koko share their differing experiences with their adoptive mother, highlighting the complexities of their relationships and the challenges they faced. They also discuss the effects of trauma and the importance of addressing it to break the cycle for future generations. In this conversation, Eric and Koko delve into their experiences with trauma, family dynamics, and the impact of narcissism on their lives. They discuss the challenges of reconnecting with their birth families, the complexities of their relationships with their adoptive mother, and the importance of setting boundaries for self-love and healing. The dialogue emphasizes the significance of understanding narcissistic traits and the necessity of prioritizing one's well-being in the face of familial challenges. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

Summary In this episode of the Adoption Journey podcast, host Tarcia Smith speaks with Jade, a transracial adoptee who shares her harrowing experiences of growing up in foster care and navigating multiple adoptive families. Jade recounts her early life in a chaotic home, her time in a therapeutic foster home where she faced abuse, and her struggles with cultural identity in a conservative adoptive family. The conversation highlights the complexities of adoption, the impact of trauma, and the resilience required to overcome such challenges. In this conversation, Jade shares her profound journey through childhood trauma, foster care, and the complexities of adoption. She discusses the challenges she faced while growing up in an abusive foster home, her decision to run away, and the eventual adoption by a loving family. Jade also reflects on her reconnection with her biological family, the struggles of navigating cultural identity as a transracial adoptee, and the importance of advocacy for foster children. Her story is one of resilience, personal growth, and the ongoing journey of self-discovery. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

Summary In this episode, host Tarsha Smith connects with her cousin Jerome, whom she recently discovered through her paternal side of the family. Jerome shares his experience as an adoptive parent and discusses why he and his wife decided to adopt. They also talk about the challenges and adjustments their biological children had to make when they welcomed foster children into their home. The conversation explores the process of fostering and adoption, as well as the importance of empathy and living out one's faith. In this conversation, Jerome Chandler discusses his experience as a foster and adoptive parent. He talks about the process of becoming a foster parent, including the extensive background checks and home inspections. Jerome emphasizes the importance of maintaining therapy appointments and documenting the child's progress. He also addresses the concern of children being lost in the system and assures that in his case, the agency and state were actively involved in checking on the children. Jerome shares that the adjustment of the adoptive children has had its ups and downs, but overall, they have been doing well. He highlights the importance of open communication and family therapy in resolving conflicts and building stronger relationships. Jerome also discusses the role of faith and therapy in his parenting journey. He encourages potential foster and adoptive parents to do inner work, take classes, practice discipline techniques, and seek support from a support group. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

Summary In this episode of the Adoption Journey podcast, host Tarcia Smith speaks with Kimberly Carter, a fellow adoptee, about her experiences growing up knowing she was adopted, the emotional complexities of her journey, and her eventual search for her birth family. Kimberly shares her feelings of shame and relief, the challenges of navigating relationships with both her adoptive and biological families, and the importance of self-care and community support during the search process. The conversation highlights the significance of understanding one's identity and the healing journey for adoptees. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

Summary The conversation revolves around the Black Adoptee Meetup, highlighting the experiences, connections, and cultural significance of the event. The speakers share their personal stories, the importance of creating a safe space for dialogue, and the unique challenges faced by Black adoptees. They reflect on the impact of the meetup and express gratitude for the community formed, emphasizing the need for such gatherings in the future. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

Summary In this episode of the Adoption Journey podcast, host Tarcia Smith speaks with Dominique Williams, who shares his unique story of searching for his father after growing up without him. Dominique discusses his childhood experiences, the challenges of not having a father figure, and the emotional journey of discovering his family through DNA testing. He recounts the steps he took to find his father, the initial contact, and the subsequent building of relationships with newfound family members. Dominique offers insights and advice for others who may be on a similar journey of searching for lost family connections. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

Summary In this episode of the Adoption Journey podcast, host Tarcia Smith engages in a heartfelt conversation with Tony Hynes, who shares his personal experiences with adoption, foster care, and identity. Tony reflects on his early awareness of being adopted, the complexities of his family dynamics, and the impact of cultural differences on his upbringing. He discusses the challenges faced by interracial adoptive families, the motivations behind adoption, and the importance of understanding one's identity, especially in the context of race and family. The conversation also touches on the significance of hair as a cultural marker, navigating relationships in a gay household, and the ongoing complexities of relationships with birth families. Tony emphasizes the importance of support for adoptees and the need to hold space for all emotions related to adoption. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

Summary In this episode of the Adoption Journey podcast, host Harsha Smith speaks with Adrienne Tucker, an adoptive mother who shares her emotional and transformative journey to motherhood through adoption. Adrienne discusses her background in working with victims of sex trafficking, her struggles with infertility, and the unique circumstances that led her to adopt a child. She highlights the challenges of navigating the adoption process, including cultural considerations and the importance of community support. Adrienne also shares her experiences with fundraising for adoption, the emotional rollercoaster of waiting for a child, and the joy of finally holding her baby. The conversation emphasizes the significance of open adoption and the importance of being honest with adopted children about their origins. Ultimately, Adrienne's story is one of hope, love, and the power of community in the adoption journey. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

Summary In this episode of the Adoption Journey podcast, host Tarcia Smith engages in a heartfelt conversation with Morgan Harvey about her experiences with adoption, DNA testing, and the search for her birth family. Morgan shares her emotional journey of discovering her roots, connecting with her birth family, and navigating complex relationships with her birth parents. The discussion highlights the impact of identity, the significance of family connections, and the ongoing process of self-discovery and healing that comes with understanding one's origins. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

Morgan Harvey shares her adoption journey, starting with finding out she was adopted at the age of four. She recalls the conversation with her parents and how she already knew she was adopted. At the age of eight, she had a different conversation about her adoption, which led to feelings of being shut down and silenced. Morgan discusses her relationship with her adoptive parents, describing her dad as cool and her mom as strict. She talks about her experiences in school, including being bullied and constantly switching schools. Morgan then shares her decision to search for her birth family, starting with her birth mother. She also discusses her journey to becoming a mother herself and the challenges she faced. The episode ends with Morgan going to the adoption agency and hitting a roadblock in her search. Morgan shares her experience of searching for her biological family and the challenges she faced along the way. She recounts her interactions with adoption agencies and the difficulties in obtaining information. Morgan eventually discovers non-identifying information about her birth mother, which provides some insight into her background. She also discusses her struggles with attachment and identity after giving birth to her own child. Despite the obstacles, Morgan remains determined to find answers and connects with other adoptees for support. She eventually takes a DNA test and receives surprising results. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

Brittney shares her experience of being in the foster care system and the challenges she faced. She talks about the initial transition into foster care and the circumstances that led to her and her siblings being placed in the system. She discusses the impact of being separated from her siblings and the trauma she experienced. Brittney also highlights the difficulties she faced in different foster homes and the lack of understanding and support she received. She touches on the issue of behavior and how it affected her placements. The conversation ends with the revelation that her twin and younger sister were adopted together, leaving her feeling abandoned. Brittney Sherell shares her journey from foster care to advocacy and founding the Suitcase in a Dream foundation. She emphasizes the importance of never stopping dreaming and provides resources and support for those aging out of foster care. Brittney also discusses her experiences with autism, healing, and the power of unpacking. She announces the launch of her podcast, Suitcase Conversations. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

Summary Kathy shares her journey as a two-time adoptee, revealing her experiences with abuse, foster care, and the challenges of identity and family dynamics. She discusses her search for her birth parents and the complexities of her adoption story. Kathy shares her journey of searching for her biological family, encountering heartbreak, disappointment, and unexpected reunions. She navigates the complexities of family relationships and the impact of her discoveries on her life. Kathy shares her journey of finding her birth parents and the challenges she faced in building relationships with them. She emphasizes the importance of identity and medical history for adoptees and encourages others to pursue their own search for their birth families. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

Summary Maya, a same-race adoptee, shares her adoption journey and how her understanding of adoption changed as she grew older. She discusses the challenges she faced as a child and teenager, feeling isolated and struggling with her identity. Maya talks about her decision to search for her birth parents and the support she received from her adoptive parents. She shares the steps she took in her search, including registering on an adoption registry and writing a letter to the court. Despite not finding a match, Maya remains determined to continue her search. Maya Holmes shares her journey of searching for her birth family and the emotional reunions she experienced. After learning about changes in adoption laws, Maya requested her original birth certificate and received it on Mother's Day. She then wrote a letter to her birth mother's address, which turned out to be her grandmother's house. Her siblings contacted her, and she had heartwarming conversations with her birth mother and oldest sister. Maya reflects on the impact of being adopted and the positive path her life took because of it. She also embarks on a search for her biological father. Maya shares her experience of meeting her biological father and his family. She recounts how she reached out to her father and the surprising phone call she received from him. Maya describes her first meeting with her father and the overwhelming experience of meeting her extended family. She reflects on the emotions she felt and the sense of belonging she experienced. Maya also discusses the challenges she faced in her reunion journey, including the passing of her biological mother and the impact of addiction on her family. She emphasizes the importance of therapy and allowing oneself to feel and heal. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

Summary In this episode, host Tarcia Smith interviews Helen, a transracial adoptee from Ethiopia who grew up in a predominantly white community in the Netherlands. Helen shares her experiences of struggling with self-hatred and identity as she navigated a world where nobody looked like her. She discusses the impact of her external environment on her self-perception and the challenges she faced in dating. Helen also talks about the role of her adoptive parents and their efforts to support her, as well as her journey to accept and embrace her natural hair. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of representation and the need for a diverse and inclusive environment for adoptees. In this conversation, Helen discusses her experience as a transracial adoptee and the challenges she faced in discovering her identity. She talks about the pressure to conform to societal beauty standards and the struggle to embrace her natural hair. Helen also shares her journey of uncovering information about her birth parents and the emotional impact it had on her. She emphasizes the importance of seeking support from others who share similar experiences and the need for better mental health resources for adoptees. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

Monica Kelsey shares her powerful journey of being conceived in rape, abandoned at birth, and her quest to find her biological mother. She also discusses the impact of adoption on her life and the inspiration behind the Safe Haven Baby Boxes. Monica Kelsey shares her personal journey of discovering her biological roots and the impact it had on her sense of worth. She also discusses the creation of the Safe Haven Baby Box and its impact on saving the lives of abandoned infants. The conversation delves into the challenges and successes of the Baby Box program, as well as the importance of providing options and support to mothers in crisis. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

Summary Adrian, a transracial adoptee, shares his adoption journey from Peru to Canada. He was adopted at two weeks old due to the political unrest and economic struggles in Peru. Growing up in a predominantly white area, Adrian stood out as the only person of color. Despite this, he had a good childhood and was well-liked by his peers. As he got older, Adrian became more interested in his Peruvian culture and took Spanish classes. He made several trips back to Peru to learn the language and connect with his roots. Learning Spanish boosted his self-esteem and gave him a deeper sense of identity. Adrian discusses his experience with language learning and how he has become fluent in Spanish. He also talks about his dating preferences and attraction to Latin girls. The conversation then shifts to Adrian's experience as an adoptee and his relationship with his adoptive and birth families. He shares his journey of reconnecting with his birth family in Peru and the emotions he felt during that process. Adrian also mentions his therapy sessions in Spanish and how it has helped him in his personal growth. Adrian shares his experiences with his biological mother and father, highlighting the challenges and complexities of building relationships with them. He discusses the difficulties of communication and the economic disparities that affected their interactions. Adrian also emphasizes the importance of managing expectations when reconnecting with birth parents and the need to be prepared for various outcomes. He expresses gratitude for the support of his adoptive parents throughout his journey and encourages other adoptees to explore their first culture and heritage. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

Summary Dakotah shares their experience as an adoptee, starting from being put in foster care at a young age. They recall memories of their birth parents and the reasons they were taken into foster care. Dakotah discusses the challenges of being separated from their siblings and the difficulties they faced in the foster care system. They then talk about their adoption at the age of seven and the dynamics within their adoptive family. Dakotah reveals the abuse they experienced from their adoptive father and the complex emotions they felt about speaking up due to their concern for their siblings. They also mention the favoritism shown by their adoptive mother towards their younger brother. Dakotah shares her experience of growing up in an abusive adoptive family, where she faced physical and sexual abuse from her adoptive father. She discusses the lack of support from her adoptive mother and the denial and gaslighting she experienced. Dakotah eventually sought therapy and confronted her adoptive father, leading to her decision to cut off contact with her adoptive family. She emphasizes the importance of breaking the cycle of abuse and creating her own family. Despite the challenges, Dakotah finds strength in sharing her story and hopes to inspire others. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

Summary The conversation covers Tarcia's journey of reuniting with her birth family, the emotional rollercoaster of meeting her birth father, and the self-reflection and healing that came with it. It also delves into the complexities of adoption trauma and the importance of self-love and storytelling within the adoption community. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

Summary Chanelle Harris shares her adoption journey, from discovering her adoption at age five to reconnecting with her biological family as an adult. She discusses the emotional impact of seeking her biological family and the challenges she faced along the way. The story unfolds with moments of hope, disappointment, and eventual reconnection. Chanelle E Harris shares her emotional journey of reuniting with her biological family, meeting her birth mother, and coping with the loss of her mother. The story is a testament to the complexities of adoption, the search for identity, and the power of family bonds. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

Chancie Bramlett shares his emotional journey of being adopted and the challenges he faced growing up. From the discovery of his adoption to the heartbreaking loss of his biological mother, Chancie's story is one of resilience and finding purpose in the face of adversity. Chancie Bramlett shares his journey of healing and self-discovery, from the weight of his past to finding joy in his talents. He discusses his experience as an adoptee, the impact of his father's actions, and the journey to forgiveness and self-expression through social media. His story is one of resilience, healing, and the pursuit of self-acceptance. #adoptiveparents #adoptee #birthparents #podcast #adoption #fostercare #adoptionjourneypodcast #kinshipadoption --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

Summary In this episode of the Adoption Journey podcast, host Tarcia Smith interviews Dr. K.E. Garland, an award-winning author and fellow adoptee. They discuss Dr. Garland's journey of self-discovery as an adoptee and her experiences with sex addiction. Dr. Garland shares her epiphany of realizing she was an adoptee and the emotional impact it had on her. She also delves into the concept of sex addiction and how it relates to unresolved trauma and attachment issues. Throughout the conversation, they touch on themes of loss, identity, guilt, shame, and the importance of seeking therapy for healing. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

In this episode, Jamel shares her journey of infertility and the decision to pursue adoption. She discusses the support she received during her infertility journey and the importance of seeking therapy to work through the grief and loss associated with infertility. Jamel also highlights the presence of adoption in her family history and how it influenced her decision. She shares her experience attending an informational meeting at an adoption agency and the discussions she had with her husband before ultimately deciding to pursue adoption. This part of the conversation covers the adoption process, including choosing an adoption agency, the adoption education and training process, open or closed adoption, potential confusion for the adopted child, being yourself and embracing differences, and advice for those dealing with infertility. In this conversation, the guest shares their personal story and experiences, highlighting the universality of the topic. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

Summary Garrett Lee shares his experience as a same race adoptee and how he found out about his adoption at the age of 11. He recounts the moment when a family friend revealed the truth at his father's funeral. Garrett discusses his initial disbelief and the subsequent conversation with his mother, where she confirmed that he was indeed adopted. He shares his journey of questioning his identity and searching for answers about his biological parents. Garrett also reflects on his gratitude for his adoptive parents and the love and support they provided throughout his childhood. In this conversation, Tarcia discusses the emotional impact of being adopted and the challenges she has faced in her relationships as a result. She shares her journey of self-discovery and the importance of knowing one's roots. Tarcia also emphasizes the need for adoptees to seek therapy and find support from others who have gone through similar experiences. She encourages adoptees to be open-minded and consider different perspectives when exploring their adoption stories. Tarcia concludes by urging adoptees to do their own research and not rely solely on the narratives they have been told. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

Summary In this episode, Sharon shares her journey of discovering her adoption at the age of 53. She talks about the clues she had throughout her life and the confirmation she received. Sharon discusses her relationship with her parents, particularly her loving and supportive father and her strained relationship with her mother. She also opens up about the emotional and physical issues she faced as a result of her mother's treatment. Sharon shares her experience of discovering her brother's adoption and the impact it had on their relationship. She also discusses her college years and the lack of financial support from her parents. In this part of the conversation, Alicia (Sharon) Williams discusses her identity crisis as an adoptee and the feeling of not knowing who she truly is. She reflects on the impact of her upbringing and the lack of self-discovery. Alicia shares her journey of unraveling her story and finding her own identity. She also discusses the disappointments and strained relationship with her adoptive mother. The conversation takes a turn when Alicia reveals her experience with Ancestry DNA testing and the shocking revelation it brings. Alicia (Sharon) Williams embarks on a journey to uncover her true identity after discovering inconsistencies in her family history. She sets out to find her birth certificate and learn more about her origins. Along the way, she encounters challenges and roadblocks, but her determination never wavers. As she delves deeper into her search, she uncovers shocking revelations and unexpected connections. Despite the emotional turmoil, Alicia remains hopeful and continues to build relationships with newfound family members. With the help of a confidential intermediary, she gets closer to finding the answers she seeks. In this conversation, Alicia (Sharon) Williams shares her journey of discovering the truth about her adoption and reconnecting with her biological family. She recounts the moment she received confirmation of her mother's death and the emotional impact it had on her. Alicia describes the extensive research she conducted to uncover her family history and the joy of finally connecting with her siblings. She reflects on the importance of truthful disclosure in adoptions and the need for accessible and accurate documentation. Alicia also discusses the strained relationship with her adoptive mother and the challenges of caring for her in her later years. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

Summary In this episode, Sharon shares her journey of discovering her adoption at the age of 53. She talks about the clues she had throughout her life and the confirmation she received. Sharon discusses her relationship with her parents, particularly her loving and supportive father and her strained relationship with her mother. She also opens up about the emotional and physical issues she faced as a result of her mother's treatment. Sharon shares her experience of discovering her brother's adoption and the impact it had on their relationship. She also discusses her college years and the lack of financial support from her parents. In this part of the conversation, Alicia (Sharon) Williams discusses her identity crisis as an adoptee and the feeling of not knowing who she truly is. She reflects on the impact of her upbringing and the lack of self-discovery. Alicia shares her journey of unraveling her story and finding her own identity. She also discusses the disappointments and strained relationship with her adoptive mother. The conversation takes a turn when Alicia reveals her experience with Ancestry DNA testing and the shocking revelation it brings. Alicia (Sharon) Williams embarks on a journey to uncover her true identity after discovering inconsistencies in her family history. She sets out to find her birth certificate and learn more about her origins. Along the way, she encounters challenges and roadblocks, but her determination never wavers. As she delves deeper into her search, she uncovers shocking revelations and unexpected connections. Despite the emotional turmoil, Alicia remains hopeful and continues to build relationships with newfound family members. With the help of a confidential intermediary, she gets closer to finding the answers she seeks. In this conversation, Alicia (Sharon) Williams shares her journey of discovering the truth about her adoption and reconnecting with her biological family. She recounts the moment she received confirmation of her mother's death and the emotional impact it had on her. Alicia describes the extensive research she conducted to uncover her family history and the joy of finally connecting with her siblings. She reflects on the importance of truthful disclosure in adoptions and the need for accessible and accurate documentation. Alicia also discusses the strained relationship with her adoptive mother and the challenges of caring for her in her later years. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

Summary In this episode, host Tarsha Smith interviews Hannah, a transracial adoptee from Ethiopia. Hannah shares her experiences growing up in a different culture and the challenges she faced in school and social settings. She discusses the importance of therapy and self-acceptance, as well as the impact of the George Floyd incident on her mental health. Hannah also emphasizes the need for adoptive parents to be proactive in incorporating their child's culture into their lives. Overall, her story highlights the journey of self-discovery and embracing one's identity as a transracial adoptee. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

Monica Hall shares her experience as a transracial adoptee and her journey to reconnect with her birth family. She discusses her identity struggles, feeling like an outsider in her adoptive family, and the impact of trauma on her life. Monica also talks about her decision to search for her birth family and the emotional process of discovering her birth mother's identity. She shares the challenges and revelations she encountered during her search and the eventual reunion with her birth family. In this conversation, Monica Hall shares her journey of discovering her Indigenous roots, her experience with closed adoption and reunion, and the complexities of her relationships with her daughters. She discusses the challenges of unresolved issues with her birth mother and the lack of understanding society has towards adoptees. Monica emphasizes the importance of compassion and understanding for both birth mothers and adoptees. She also promotes her book, 'Practically Still a Virgin,' which explores her adoption journey and the healing process. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

Summary In this episode, Jasmine shares her journey of discovering her adoption and finding her birth mother and birth father. She recounts the moment she found out she was adopted and how she learned about her adoption at a young age. Jasmine talks about the conversation she had with her birth mother and the search for her birth father. She emphasizes the importance of knowing one's origins and the challenges adoptees face in finding their biological families. In this conversation, Jasmin shares her journey of discovering her biological family and navigating the complexities of adoption. She discusses the unexpected revelation of her paternal side and the challenges of connecting with distant relatives. Jasmin also shares her experience of finding a potential sibling and the emotional impact of the search. She emphasizes the importance of embracing one's story and sharing it to help others. Jasmin and Tarcia discuss the different perspectives on adoption and the impact it has on identity. They also express gratitude for the adoption decision and the opportunity to meet biological relatives. The conversation concludes with a message of letting go of guilt and shame and embracing freedom. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

Summary In this episode, the guest shares her experience of discovering her adoption at a young age and growing up in a closed adoption with limited contact with her birth mother. She discusses the challenges and resentment she faced, as well as the dynamics with her siblings. The guest also talks about her strict upbringing and coping mechanisms. She shares the story of how she found her birth mother through a viral Facebook post and eventually moved in with her biological family. The episode highlights the strained relationship with her adoptive mother and the support she found in her biological family. Ajanae Nicole shares her experience of reconnecting with her birth family and the challenges she faced along the way. She describes how moving in with her birth mother was a dream come true, but soon realized that the reality was different from her expectations. The relationship with her birth family became strained, leading to a falling out with her siblings. Ajanae Nicole embarked on a journey of self-healing, seeking therapy and finding her purpose in helping others through her music and art. She emphasizes the importance of taking accountability for one's own healing and finding strength in oneself. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

Summary In this episode, host Tarcia Smith interviews Keith, a transracial adoptee who discovered his adoption at the age of 33. Keith shares his experience growing up feeling different and the extreme measures his adoptive family took to hide his adoption. He also discusses the emotional impact of the late discovery and the process of reconnecting with his birth father and birth mother's family. Keith's story highlights the complexities and challenges faced by late discovery adoptees and the importance of understanding one's identity and heritage. In this conversation, Keith shares his experience of discovering his adoption and reconnecting with his biological family. He discusses the challenges he faced and the emotions he experienced throughout the process. Keith emphasizes the importance of relying on God and finding strength in faith. He also highlights the significance of knowing one's history and the impact it can have on mental health. Keith encourages others to consider therapy and overcome the stigma associated with seeking help. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

Tara shares her adoption journey, starting with living with her biological family until the age of 11. She then moved in with her maternal uncle and aunt, who eventually adopted her at the age of 13. Tara's biological parents had mental health issues and she experienced a challenging and unsafe environment. She moved between different family members' homes, including her grandmother's and her biological parents', before finding stability with her adoptive parents. Throughout her journey, Tara felt a sense of confusion and a desire to be with her biological parents while also feeling safe and supported by her adoptive family. This conversation explores the experiences and emotions of being adopted and the challenges faced in navigating relationships with both biological and adoptive families. The chapters cover topics such as feeling disconnected, guilt and confusion, the complexity of kinship care, navigating relationships with family, communication challenges, discovering biological family, understanding birth parents, the complexity of adoption, the emotional journey, the continuing search for identity, becoming a birth mother, the decision to relinquish rights, the impact on the child, the importance of early communication, the need for support and resources, preserving families and systemic issues, and the workbook on navigating adoption. The conversation emphasizes the importance of education, open communication, and providing resources and support for adoptees and their families. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

In this episode, Sarah Murphy shares her experience of discovering her birth sister, Patrice Martin. Sarah recounts how she found out about her sister as a teenager and the challenges she faced in searching for her. She discusses the emotional journey of taking a DNA test and the unexpected results that led her to her sister. Sarah shares the joy and relief she felt when finally meeting her sister and the importance of having an open mind and giving people space in the reunion process. She offers advice to adoptees considering searching for their birth families and emphasizes the value of knowing and seeing the face of a person. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

Patrice Martin shares her adoption journey and the process of reconnecting with her biological family. She grew up knowing she was adopted and had a good childhood. It wasn't until her mid-twenties that she started to think about her birth family. After learning about DNA testing, she decided to participate in the show Long Lost Family. Through the show, she was reunited with her biological sister and later met her biological mother and brother. Patrice emphasizes the importance of centering the adoptee's story and the overwhelming but rewarding experience of building relationships with her biological family. In this conversation, Patrice Martin shares her experience of reunion as an adoptee and the importance of managing expectations. She emphasizes the need for adoptees to be ready for the rollercoaster of emotions that come with reunion and highlights the value of community and support. Patrice also discusses the Adoptee Prayer Collective, a space for adoptees to come together and pray for each other. Overall, her story is a powerful testament to the resilience and healing that can be found in the adoptee community. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

Joseph shares his journey as an adoptee, starting with the discovery of his adoption at the age of nine. He recounts the turbulent relationship with his biological mother and the challenges he faced when she reentered his life. Joseph also discusses his experiences growing up in different neighborhoods and navigating racial identity. He shares the difficulties he faced with rebellion and strained relationships, as well as the times he slept on the streets. Despite the challenges, Joseph remains resilient and determined to find his place in the world. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

In this episode, Valencia shares her journey of becoming an adoptive mom. She discusses her upbringing and how she never wanted to have kids until she had her own son. Valencia talks about her desire to save and help children, which led her to become a Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) and eventually a foster parent. She shares the challenges and joys of taking in two twins who were malnourished and behind on their development. Valencia also emphasizes the importance of communication and support from her husband throughout this journey. In this conversation, Valencia discusses her role as a parent and the importance of providing a safe and loving environment for her children. She also shares her perspective on adoption and the concept of a forever family. Valencia and Tarcia discuss their personal experiences with adoption and the impact it has had on their lives. They emphasize the importance of growing up knowing about one's adoption and the need for open communication and support. The conversation concludes with a reflection on the significance of following one's heart and mind in making important decisions. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support

This conversation explores the experiences of a transracial adoptee and the challenges she faced growing up. The discussion covers topics such as discovering adoption, dealing with racial identity and hair, exploring Haitian roots, navigating middle school, family dynamics, and the impact of adoption on mental health. The conversation also highlights the importance of support and understanding for adoptees and the need for prospective adoptive parents to be aware of the complexities involved in adoption. In this conversation, Steffany Venneri shares her experience as an adoptee and the reasons behind her decision to go no contact with her adoptive family. She reveals a shocking revelation about her adoption and discusses the guilt and gratitude that often come with being an adoptee. Steffany also talks about finding peace and owning her own narrative. She emphasizes the importance of creating safe spaces for adoptees to share their stories and find support. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support