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In April 2025 I sit down with Jeff Forney, a photographer specializing in advertising, music and celebrity portraiture. Jeff is currently working on “The Innocent People Project” - taking photos of adoptees and sharing their stories. In this episode we dive into the reasons behind starting this project, what it has meant to him and so much more!
Would he hate us for loving him this much? We didn't know. Would he see this as the ultimate act of betrayal? We didn't know. Would he embrace the help we had finally found for him? We didn't know. What we did know was our son needed help, help our love couldn't give him. Hi Neighbor, Can you imagine the heartbreak of watching your child struggle with emotions so raw and unfamiliar, you don't even know what they mean, let alone how to help? That's the reality for many adoptive parents. In this episode, I allow myself to go back and feel my feelings from the day my wife and I took our son Jonny to residential. I do so I can remember what it feels like to be in the struggle, so I can help other adoptive parents who are struggling in their parenting journey. I'll also share the one tool that benefited me the most as I navigated the complexities of adoption trauma. This is my journey! Anchors of Hope and Healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. You're not alone in this journey. If you haven't joined our private community, consider this an invitation. It's a safe space to share your struggles and triumphs with fellow adoptive parents who truly understand what you're going through. Listen to today's episode and share it with fellow adoptive parents. These conversations foster strength and understanding in our community. Be the anchor others may need right now.
In March 2025, I am so fortunate and honored to welcome some of the members of the Transracial Journeys Community, Co-Directors Mary Halm and Karen Thomas. We dive into this idea of luck in adoption and the blessings and burdens that come along with this experience. We also hear from one of the Board of Directors of TRJ, and adoptive parent, Michelle Daray. There are so many incredible gems in this one! For any member of the adoption community, this is a must listen episode.
In this episode of the Foster Friendly Podcast, hosts Brian Mavis and Courtney Williams welcome Nicole Barlow, a former foster parent and health and wellness coach, to discuss the essential habits foster and adoptive parents need to adopt for their well-being. Nicole emphasizes the importance of self-care, nutrition, movement, and rest, explaining how these elements not only benefit the parents but also create a healthier environment for the children in their care. The conversation highlights practical strategies that parents can implement to improve their mental and physical health, ultimately leading to better outcomes for their families.Checkout Nicole's podcast and coaching resources.
When I work with parents, they ask me, have I done it right? Did I do something wrong? How could I have done it better? There is a lot of self-reflection, which is really healthy. But I'm also mindful of the emotional burden that adoptive parents carry all the time. ~Crystal Luk-Worrall Hi Neighbor, EMDR therapy for kids? Yes! Initially, for soldiers with PTSD, this therapy helps children process memories, especially those who can't verbalize trauma. Today, I want to welcome my neighbor from London, Crystal Luk-Worrall. Crystal is a music therapist, EMDR practitioner, and clinical supervisor specializing in helping children and families heal from early trauma. Understanding trauma is crucial. Crystal shares how EMDR therapy, eye movement desensitization, and reprocessing, can help adoptive children and their families process these memories for a brighter future. Anchors of Hope and Healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. You're not alone in this journey. If you haven't joined our private community, consider this an invitation. It's a safe space to share your struggles and triumphs with fellow adoptive parents who truly understand what you're going through. Listen to today's episode and share it with fellow adoptive parents. These conversations foster strength and understanding in our community. Be the anchor others may need right now. Connect with Crystal: Website: https://www.clapandtoot.com/ Email: crystal@clapandtoot.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/crystal-luk/ Disclaimer: The content of this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your healthcare provider with your health questions and concerns. As is the case with anyone that I bring on the show to talk to you, I encourage take notes and listen to the information. Then do your due diligence and use what you can in your adoption journey to parent your child the best way you can.
Hello and welcome to conversations from the A&F podcast. In this episode I speak to adoptive parent Ali. With her husband they adopted two boys and after what seemed like a routine and normal experience of parenting challenges came when they started School. Ali shares her experience of facing challenges, difficult decisions that led to her setting up the ‘Fizzy Kids' website and FaceBook page. As always if you've experience of adoption, fostering or special guardianship from any perspective personal or professional and would like share that on the podcast please get in touch through the Facebook page, the app formerly known as Twitter or email us at AandFpodcast@gmail.com Listen/subscribe on iTunes here Spotify here
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“Take hold of my instructions. Don't let them go. Guard them, for they are the key to life.” ~Proverbs 4:13 Hi Neighbor, How can adoptive parents be okay even if their kids aren't? May I suggest you hold on to an anchor. In this episode, I'll consider a concept I call an ”anchor point,” which involves anchoring yourself in biblical principles to find guidance and peace during challenging times. I'll also share a story from our private community, where an adoptive parent courageously shared their struggles, and how the support and encouragement they received became a beacon of hope. In your Daily Doable, we'll look at practical ways to hold on to your anchor points with an example from the book of Philippians. We'll also consider why it's important to strengthen your adoptive parenting journey by connecting with a community that understands you. Remember, you are not alone in your journey. Whether it's through community support or grounding scripture, there are anchors ready to guide you through the storm. Anchors of hope and Healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. You're not alone in this journey. If you haven't already joined our private community, consider this an invitation. It's a safe space to share your struggles and triumphs with fellow adoptive parents who truly understand what you're going through. Listen to today's episode and share it with fellow adoptive parents. These conversations foster strength and understanding in our community. Be the anchor others may need right now.
Today we have an adoptee who was a guest on episode 50 where we discussed the dangers of calling adoption a blessing. Sara Easterly is an adoptee, essayist, and author of books that include Adoption Unfiltered: Revelations from Adoptees, Birth Parents, Adoptive Parents, and Allies, and award-winning spiritual memoir, Searching for Mom. She is the founder of Adoptee Voices, which supports adoptees in their storytelling. She is also a trained course facilitator with the Neufeld Institute, with special interest in the intersection of attachment, child development, brain science, and adoption.We discuss:Check in on her book tours for Adoption Unfiltered (I make a cameo in this book!)The feeling of rejection for adopteesHow she found her book collaboratorsSara's reunion with her biological familyThe corruption in adoptionThe new excuse to hold onto adoption narrativeBooks cited:Author Gabor Mate "Addicted to Drama" by Dr Scott LyonsDaniel Nayeri the author of "Everthing Sad and Untrue"Gretchen Sisson the author of "Relinquished" (Guest on Episode 71)GUEST:www.saraeasterly.comhttps://www.instagram.com/saraeasterlyauthor/https://www.facebook.com/saraeasterlyauthorhttps://x/saraeasterlyPhoto credit for bio pic: Adoptee Eileen Skahill Support the showCONNECT WITH HOST:@youngadoptee@lantoineswww.laniseantoineshelley.comWATCH ON YOUTUBE Here!MERCH here "I am my Hero" and "Courage, my love" TeesSPONSORSHIPS: BetterHelp Show Link HERE!DISCOUNT on WeUNIK Cosmetic Hair products15% off Code: WTWY ADOPTEE CONVERSATIONS WITH PARENTS:14 through18, and episode 28, and 29. WATCH PANELS: Here!JAMES BALDWIN'S ESSAY ON "WHITENESS": HISTORY of the word “Colored”:NYC ARTICLE ON THE USE OF "BIPOC":RESOURCES ON ...
Send Kiona a Text Message!Nicky was birthed into motherhood through adoption, but it was far from easy for her and her husband to have a baby placed with them. The birth mother of their son Jack also had an interesting situation that caused Nicky and her husband to be stuck in California for 3+ weeks before being able to take their baby back home. birthasweknowitpodcast.com/79 Disclaimer: This podcast is intended for educational purposes only with no intention of giving or replacing any medical advice. I, Kiona Nessenbaum, am not a licensed medical professional. All advice that is given on the podcast is from the personal experience of the storytellers. All medical or health-related questions should be directed to your licensed provider. Want to hear another adoptive parent story? Tune in to 73-Lindsay Bruggeman-Adoptive Parent- 2 Births-1 Cesarean & 1 VaginalResources:Nicky Yazbeck,CISW: www.nickyYyoga.comThe Connected Community: Exploring Possibility:https://www.youtube.com/@TheConnectedCommunity/videos Breast Milk App-Share The Drop: https://sharethedrop.com/ Perinatal Support of Washington: https://perinatalsupport.org/ Postpartum Support International: https://www.postpartum.net Definitions:Adoptive Parent Donor Breast Milk Support the showThank you so much for tuning in to this episode! If you like this podcast, don't hesitate to share it and leave a review so it can bring the podcast to the attention of others. If you want to share your own birth story or experience on the Birth As We Know It™️ Podcast, head over to https://birthasweknowitpodcast.com/ or fill out this Guest Request Form. Support the podcast and become a part of the BAWKI™️ Community by becoming a Patron on the Birth As We Know It Patreon Page! And don't forget to join in on the fun in the Private Facebook Group!
“The things you have learned and received and heard and seen in me, practice these things, and the God of peace will be with you.” ~Philippians 4:9 Hi Neighbor, In this episode, I'll share a personal story from my adoption journey and how it inspired my words for the year. Ever think about the secret sauce to navigating the highs and lows of the adoption journey? Let's chat about a concept from Philippians that might be your game-changer: PRACTICE. Daily Doable: If you haven't listened to them, check out Episodes 167-174. They help lay the foundation for the concepts behind PRACTICE. Hope and Healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. If this podcast uplifted you, please share it and be an anchor of encouragement for others. Leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how. Join our safe space for adoptive parents. Let's replace isolation with connection, loneliness with community, and anxiety with hope. You're never alone on this journey. Reach out to Tim: email tim@anchorsofencouragement.com
In February 2025, I give you the 9th installment of How to Love a Transracially Adopted Person. In this part of the series I am joined by someone who, for the past year, has been on this journey with me in the most personal way: my boyfriend, David Sutphen. While he wasn't adopted, he has personal connections to adoption and knows what it's like to be part of a blended family. These experiences, I believe, have shaped his identity, his sense of belonging, and his capacity to love me, a transracially adopted person. Join us as we talk about connections in adoption, identity, and love. I also humbly share a very personal example of how my default setting of abandonment played out following a very special birthday trip with David.
In this episode, we sit down with Lisa C. Qualls—author, speaker, and adoptive mom—to discuss the complexities of adoption, parenting, and connection. Lisa brings a wealth of wisdom from her personal experience as both a birth mom and adoptive mom, as well as her expertise as a TBRI Practitioner and Christian spiritual director. She is the co-author of The Connected Parent (written with Dr. Karyn Purvis) and the host of The Adoption Wise Podcast. Through her work, Lisa equips parents with practical tools and compassionate insight to navigate the joys and challenges of adoption and foster care.During our conversation, Lisa shares her personal journey of adoption and the lessons she has learned along the way. We discuss the importance of attachment, practical ways to build trust and connection with children, and the role of faith in parenting through difficult moments. We also dive into blocked care—what it is, why it happens, and strategies to overcome it. Lisa provides encouragement and actionable tools for parents who may be feeling emotionally drained or disconnected, offering hope for restoring connection and strengthening relationships.Lisa and her husband, Russ, live in Idaho, where they have raised twelve children and are now proud grandparents. In addition to her writing and speaking, she offers coaching, retreats, and resources for parents seeking support.To connect with Lisa, check out the links listed below.If you enjoy this episode, don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review ReStoried!Episode Highlights: Lisa's personal journey as a birth and adoptive momLisa's BooksWhat is Blocked Care?10 Signs of Blocked Care The realities of adoption and the importance of attachmentPractical ways to build trust and connection with childrenThe role of faith in parenting through hard momentsResources and tools for adoptive and foster parentsFind more on Guest:Check out Lisa's Website Follow Lisa on Instagram Follow Lisa on FacebookThe Adoption Wise PodcastFind More on Hope Bridge:Visit Our Website Follow us on InstagramFollow us on Facebook Foster Our Community Instagram Buy The Connected Parent: Real-Life Strategies for Building Trust and AttachmentBuy Healing for Every Heart in Adoption: Redemptive Prayers and Strategies for Adoptive Parents, Adoptees, and Birth ParentsBuy Reclaim Compassion: The Adoptive Parent's Guide to Overcoming Blocked Care with Neuroscience and FaithThis show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.
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"I think she had a deep ambivalence about me, knowing me, having a relationship with me from the very beginning." -- Susan Kiyo Ito Read the transcript of this episode here: https://app.swellai.com/t/tp_01JJYRPQ0EJEGKW4GNXFMCA8CV EPISODE SUMMARY: In this episode of Unraveling Adoption, I had the pleasure of speaking with Susan Kiyo Ito, a writing professor and author of the memoir I Would Meet You Anywhere. Susan's book, a culmination of 30 years of work, explores her journey as a biracial adoptee—half Japanese and half white—who was adopted at three and a half months old by Japanese American parents. We delved into Susan's origin story, her relationship with her adoptive parents, and her deep desire to connect with her birth mother, Yumi. Susan described Yumi as a charismatic yet ambivalent figure, reflecting on the complexities of their relationship and the cultural stigma surrounding adoption in Japanese society. Throughout our conversation, we discussed the emotional weight of adoption, the challenges of identity, and the universal longing for connection that many adoptees experience. Susan shared how writing her memoir was a healing process, allowing her to articulate her experiences and put down the burdens she had carried for so long. We also touched on the misconceptions surrounding adoption, particularly the notion of "luck," and how important it is for adoptive parents to support their children in their search for identity and connection without imposing their own feelings onto them. As we wrapped up, Susan encouraged listeners to embrace their stories and consider the power of sharing their experiences. Her insights and reflections provide a valuable perspective on the complexities of adoption, making this episode a must-listen for anyone impacted by adoption or interested in understanding its nuances. ===============
Hello and welcome to conversations from the A&F podcast. In this episode I speak to solo adopter Ramsey. He shares his journey to adoption and the experience of travelling through it on his own. As always if you've experience of adoption, fostering or special guardianship from any perspective personal or professional and would like share that on the podcast please get in touch through the Facebook page, the app formerly known as Twitter or email us at AandFpodcast@gmail.com Listen/subscribe on iTunes here or Spotify here
For many adopted persons, the journey to understanding identity and belonging is filled with complexities, questions, and the need for community. In this episode, host April Dinwoodie is joined by Tracie Carlson, a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor and fellow adopted person, to explore how growing up adopted shaped their identities and how finding community became essential to their journeys. From the experience of being "chosen" to the emotional realities of searching for family, April and Tracie discuss what it means to be truly seen and supported. They reflect on the both/and of adoption, the power of connection, and how creating spaces of belonging can change lives—not just for adopted persons, but for the world.
"The most healing thing for me now has been the support of other adoptees." -- Dave Sanchez-Brown Read the transcript of this episode here: https://app.swellai.com/t/tp_01JJD8EF1R7VJ6J0V5GXRWXJY4 =============== EPISODE SUMMARY: In this episode of Unraveling Adoption, I had the privilege of speaking with Dave Sanchez-Brown, an adoptee who has bravely navigated the complexities of adoption, mental health struggles, and addiction. Dave shared his adoption story, which took a significant turn after he read Dani Shapiro's memoir Inheritance. Inspired, he decided to take a DNA test, leading him to uncover his biological family and the trauma associated with his past. He discussed the overwhelming emotions that surfaced as he connected with his roots, including the discovery of a family history marked by addiction. Throughout our conversation, Dave highlighted the importance of community and peer support in his recovery journey. He emphasized that finding others who share similar experiences has been more therapeutic than traditional therapy. We also touched on the stigma surrounding addiction and mental health, and how society often lacks empathy for those struggling. As we wrapped up, Dave offered valuable advice for adoptive parents, urging them to be aware of their children's emotional needs and the potential for feelings of alienation. He encouraged parents to seek their own healing to better support their kids. This episode is a powerful reminder of the resilience of the human spirit and the importance of connection in healing. I hope Dave's story inspires listeners to seek support and understanding, whether they are adoptees, adoptive parents, or anyone affected by mental health challenges. Thank you for joining us, and remember to stay safe and connected. ===============
“Therefore, don't worry about tomorrow, because tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.” ~Matthew 6:34 CSB Hi Neighbor, Welcome to another unplugged episode of Anchors of Encouragement. In our previous episodes, I began laying the foundation for my words this year, giving you breadcrumbs to a word jumble. Here's a hint: I'm going to reveal these words slowly. We'll dive deep into their meanings by breaking them into acronyms, like a little puzzle – a tribute to my Mom who loved word jumbles. Each episode will bring new insights and tools to help you navigate the year with faith and confidence. Don't miss out on the journey! Today's word begins with the letter, “I.” The adoption journey is filled with challenges, distractions, and anxiety. How do we stay focused? By being intentional every day. I'll share 4 ways that help me to be intentional. And one my son Jonny shared in Episode 14. Hope and Healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. If this podcast uplifted you, please share it and be an anchor of encouragement for others. Leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how. Join our safe space for adoptive parents. Let's replace isolation with connection, loneliness with community, and anxiety with hope. You're never alone on this journey. Reach out to Tim: email tim@anchorsofencouragement.com
Hello and welcome to conversations from the A&F Network. In this episode I speak to Augusto, with his wife they adopted twins. He reflects on the challenges of early permanence and transracial adoption. As always if you've experience of adoption, fostering or special guardianship from any perspective personal or professional and would like share that on the podcast please get in touch through the Facebook page, the app formerly known as Twitter or email us at AandFpodcast@gmail.com Listen/subscribe on iTunes here Spotify here Google here
“The generous will prosper. Those who refresh others will themselves be refreshed.” ~Proverbs 11:25 NLT Hi Neighbor, Welcome you to another unplugged episode of Anchors of Encouragement. In our previous episodes, I began laying the foundation for my words this year, giving you breadcrumbs, if you will, to a word jumble. Here's a hint: I'm going to reveal these words slowly. We'll dive deep into their meanings by breaking them down into acronyms, like a little puzzle – a tribute to my Mom who loved word jumbles. Each episode will bring new insights and tools to help you navigate the year with faith and confidence. Don't miss out on the journey! Today's word begins with the letter, “P.” We'll explore how to intentionally put principles in play to refresh adoptive parents. But the principle is only beginning to accomplish its purpose. Listen to find out why. Our principle and affirmation comes from the book of Proverbs, chapter 11, verse 25. Hope and Healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. If this podcast uplifted you, please share it and be an anchor of encouragement for others. Leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how. Join our safe space for adoptive parents. Let's replace isolation with connection, loneliness with community, and anxiety with hope. You're never alone on this journey. Reach out to Tim: email tim@anchorsofencouragement.com
“All for One and One for All!” Hi Neighbor, Welcome you to another unplugged episode of Anchors of Encouragement. In our previous episode, I began laying the foundation for my words this year, giving you breadcrumbs, if you will, to a word jumble. Here's a hint: I'm going to reveal these words slowly. We'll dive deep into their meanings by breaking them down into acronyms, like a little puzzle – a tribute to my Mom who loved word jumbles. Each episode will bring new insights and tools to help you navigate the year with faith and confidence. Don't miss out on the journey! Today's word begins with the letter, “T.” Actually, I have 2 words for you:) We'll also look into the book of Ecclesiastes for inspiration and reference a 17th-century novel about musketeers. Hope and Healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. If this podcast uplifted you, please share it and be an anchor of encouragement for others. Leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how. Join our safe space for adoptive parents. Let's replace isolation with connection, loneliness with community, and anxiety with hope. You're never alone on this journey. Reach out to Tim: email tim@anchorsofencouragement.com
“Your road led through the sea, Your pathway through the mighty waters, a pathway no one knew was there.” ~Psalm 77:19 Hi Neighbor, Welcome you to another unplugged episode of Anchors of Encouragement. Today, I'm going to begin revealing what my words are for the coming year. Here's a hint: I'm going to reveal these words slowly. We'll dive deep into their meanings by breaking them down into acronyms, like a little puzzle – a tribute to my Mom who loved word jumbles. Each episode will bring new insights and tools to help you navigate the year with faith and confidence. Don't miss out on the journey! Hope and Healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. If this podcast uplifted you, please share it and be an anchor of encouragement for others. Leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how. Join our safe space for adoptive parents. Let's replace isolation with connection, loneliness with community, and anxiety with hope. You're never alone on this journey. Reach out to Tim: email tim@anchorsofencouragement.com
Host April Dinwoodie sits with producer Kyle Ferreira to discuss how holiday traditions have evolved over the years. April also shares thoughts about the baby in the manger, the nativity and the “Holiday Miracle” as it relates to adoption.
Coming & Going - A Biblical Guide for your Parenting Journey
Did you know that 30,000 children in the US age out of the foster care system year to year? Did you also know that if approximately one Christian from every church in the state of Michigan alone stepped into foster care, we would have no more kids in the foster care system? On this episode of Coming & Going, Joe sits down with C.T. and Meg Eldridge to talk about the importance of adoption and how we can come alongside and encourage foster and adoptive parents. If you have ever thought about adoption or foster care, you definitely want to check out this episode!Resources Lifeline Children's Services | https://lifelinechild.org/ Orphan Justice: How to Care for Orphans Beyond Adopting | https://bit.ly/4fu5mNX Christian Alliance for Orphans | https://cafo.org/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
“When the dark clouds of despair have darkened the pathway of life's progress, just remember that behind each cloud is a silver lining, if you will only learn to see it.” ~Napoleon Hill Hi Neighbor, Adoptive parents sometimes face dark clouds of adversity in their adoption journeys, but remember: every dark cloud has a silver lining. In this journaling episode, we'll consider the transformative power of seeing silver linings amidst adversity. Whether you're facing the unique challenges of the adoption journey or simply navigating life's unpredictable storms, this episode is packed with practical advice, affirmations, and heartfelt inspiration. Hope and Healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. If this podcast uplifted you, please share it and be an anchor of encouragement for others. Leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how. Join our safe space for adoptive parents. Let's replace isolation with connection, loneliness with community, and anxiety with hope. You're never alone on this journey. Reach out to Tim: email tim@anchorsofencouragement.com
"I use the language of supply and demand because this is a market-based system and it's uncomfortable for a lot of people, right? Because you're talking about a supply and demand of human beings." -- Gretchen Sisson Read the transcript here: https://app.swellai.com/t/tp_01JESZ6VPKJMRTMRHX6ZMBHDB7 EPISODE SUMMARY: In this episode of Unraveling Adoption, I had the pleasure of speaking with Gretchen Sisson, the author of the acclaimed book Relinquished: The Politics of Adoption and the Privilege of American Motherhood. Gretchen's work stems from a decade-long qualitative sociological study that delves into the experiences of relinquishing mothers and critiques the American adoption system. We discussed her journey into this research, which began while she was working with pregnant and parenting young people in Boston. Gretchen highlighted the stigmatization of young motherhood and the disconnect between societal narratives and the lived experiences of these women. Her research emphasizes the complexities of adoption, particularly how it intersects with issues of reproductive health and justice. Gretchen shared insights from her book, revealing that the majority of women who are denied access to abortion end up parenting their children, with only a small percentage choosing adoption. This led to a discussion about the implications of the recent Dobbs decision and its potential impact on adoption rates, as well as the troubling commodification of children within the adoption system. Throughout our conversation, we explored the reactions to her book from both the adoption community and the broader public. While many adoptees have resonated with her work, some adoptive parents have expressed defensiveness. We emphasized the importance of listening to adoptees and understanding the systemic issues surrounding adoption. Gretchen also touched on the need for better support systems for both adoptive parents and adoptees, advocating for a more nuanced understanding of family structures and the complexities of parenting. We concluded with a call to action for listeners to engage with the voices of adoptees and to consider the broader implications of adoption in our society. I encourage everyone to check out Gretchen's book, available in various formats, and to connect with her on social media. Thank you for joining us in this important conversation about adoption and its many layers. ===============
He faced one discouraging obstacle after another, yet through it all, he persisted. How did he do it? First, he partnered with God. Hi Neighbor, In this journaling episode, I'll share a journaling prompt inspired by the story of one of my favorite Bible characters. I'll also share with you an easy way to begin journaling even if you have never done it before. Plus how you can persist with pen-to-paper in order to partner with God. And so much more. Hope and Healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. Here are a couple of my favorite Bible Apps for comparing translations. YouVersion and Blue Letter Bible If this podcast uplifted you, please share it and be an anchor of encouragement for others. Leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how. Join our safe space for adoptive parents. Let's replace isolation with connection, loneliness with community, and anxiety with hope. You're never alone on this journey. Reach out to Tim: email tim@anchorsofencouragement.com
The adoption journey can be difficult and adoptive parents often need support but won't ask for it. What's the solution? A kind gesture! Hi Neighbor, In this journaling episode, I'll share a kindness quote and show how it can be used to support adoptive parents. We'll consider how important compassion is in supporting adoptive parents through their unique challenges and struggles. If you are an adoptive parent, please listen for a tip you can use to receive kindness and compassion from the people who care about you. Hope and Healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. If this podcast uplifted you, please share it and be an anchor of encouragement for others. Leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how. Join our safe space for adoptive parents. Let's replace isolation with connection, loneliness with community, and anxiety with hope. You're never alone on this journey. Reach out to Tim: email tim@anchorsofencouragement.com
Summary In this episode of the Adoption Journey podcast, host Tarsha Smith interviews Jeff, an adoptive parent and author. Jeff shares his family's journey through adoption, including the emotional challenges they faced, the process of connecting with birth mothers, and the cultural considerations of raising children of different races. He discusses the dynamics of sibling relationships in an adoptive family and the inspiration behind his children's book, 'A Buffalo Out to Water.' In this engaging conversation, Jeff shares his passion for high-quality children's entertainment and how it inspired him to write a children's book about adoption. He discusses the importance of addressing sensitive topics in children's literature, particularly the complexities of adoption and the feelings that adoptees may experience. Jeff also reflects on his own family's journey with open adoption, emphasizing the value of maintaining connections with birth families. He offers heartfelt advice for prospective adoptive parents, encouraging them to approach the journey with love and openness, while acknowledging the challenges that may arise. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tarcia-smith0/support
Lech Blaine with the strange true story of his childhood, shaped by love, religious zealotry, and four wildly different parents. CW: descriptions of foster care and child removal.
In November 2024, host April Dinwoodie sits with Producer Kyle Ferreira to talk about the both/and of her holiday table. April also shares helpful tips for transracially adopted persons when it comes to the holiday season.
Send Kiona a Text Message!In this episode, Lindsay speaks on the assumptions people make when they find out you have gone through the route of adoption to ow your family. She also talks about what it was like to find the two different local families that she matched with in order to grow her family from two to four in less then two years time. birthasweknowitpodcast.com/73 Disclaimer: This podcast is intended for educational purposes only with no intention of giving or replacing any medical advice. I, Kiona Nessenbaum, am not a licensed medical professional. All advice that is given on the podcast is from the personal experience of the storytellers. All medical or health-related questions should be directed to your licensed provider. For more episodes related to adoption check out episode 70-Morgan Harvey-2 Vaginal Births-NICU-Beyond Birthing Doula-AdopteeResources:Lindsay Bruggeman-The Hopeful HAP: https://www.thehelpfulhap.com/home InstagramFacebookBreast Milk App-Share The Drop: https://sharethedrop.com/ Perinatal Support of Washington: https://perinatalsupport.org/ Postpartum Support International: https://www.postpartum.net Definitions:Adoptive Parent Donor Breast Milk Support the showThank you so much for tuning in to this episode! If you like this podcast, don't hesitate to share it and leave a review so it can bring the podcast to the attention of others. If you want to share your own birth story or experience on the Birth As We Know It™️ Podcast, head over to https://birthasweknowitpodcast.com/ or fill out this Guest Request Form. Support the podcast and become a part of the BAWKI™️ Community by becoming a Patron on the Birth As We Know It Patreon Page! And don't forget to join in on the fun in the Private Facebook Group!
If you're an adoptive parent who feels like you're all alone, I'm here to tell you there are other adoptive parents who feel the same way. They are going through the same struggles as you. What can you do when you feel this way? I believe it's important to hold on to and embrace an anchor of encouragement. Hi Neighbor! Adoptive parenting can often feel like you're all alone with no one understanding the unique challenges you face. But the truth is, many adoptive parents are experiencing the same struggles. My wife and I felt incredibly alone in our adoption journey. It wasn't until we connected with other adoptive parents during our son's time in residential that we realized we weren't alone. In this journaling episode, let's explore 7 benefits for adoptive parents to embrace an anchor of encouragement in their adoption journey. Hope and Healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. Join our safe space for adoptive parents. Let's replace isolation with connection, loneliness with community, and anxiety with hope. You're never alone on this journey. Reach out to Tim: email tim@anchorsofencouragement.com If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how.
“I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” -Jeremiah 29:11 Welcome to The Adoption & Foster Care Journey—a podcast to encourage, educate and equip you as you care for children in crisis through adoption, foster care and kinship care. This week host Sandra Flach talks with adoptive mom Jodi Jackson Tucker and birth/adoptive mom Lisa Qualls. Jodi and Lisa, along with adult adoptee Betsy Kylstra, have co-authored the book new book Healing for Every Heart in Adoption—Redemptive Prayers and Strategies for Adoptive Parents, Adoptees, and Birth Parents. Jodi Jackson Tucker leads Second Mothers, a community for foster and adoptive moms. She's also the author of Second Mother—A Bible Study Experience for Foster and Adoptive Moms. Lisa Qualls is a birth mom, former foster youth, foster mom and adoptive mom. She is the coauthor of The Connected Parent: Real-Life Strategies for Building Trust and Attachment and coauthor of Reclaim Compassion: The Adoptive Parent's Guide to Overcoming Blocked Care with Neuroscience and Faith. Listen in today as these moms share their stories and discuss their new book for foster and adoptive parents. Please be sure to subscribe to the podcast, leave a review, and share it on your social media. Links mentioned in this episode: justicefororphansny.org justicefororphansny.org/hope-community Email: sandraflach@justicefororphansny.org sandraflach.com Hope For the FASD Journey Support Group secondmothers.org adoptionwise.org
Have you ever had one of those days? A really hard day with your adopted child? You're at your wit's end! What do you do? Maybe it's time to hit the Pause Button! Hi Neighbor! There are days when adoption can be really hard. In this episode of Anchors of Encouragement, we'll consider 7 ways for adoptive parents to find support and achieve respite. And it all begins by hitting the Pause Button! Grab a pen and paper to capture these tactical ways to achieve respite. Hope and Healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. Reach out to Tim: email tim@anchorsofencouragement.com Join our amazing Facebook Community. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how.
Have you ever had rain in your heart? Maybe you should seek shelter under the umbrella of a friend. Hi Neighbor! Have you ever had rain in your heart? Sometimes it can feel like a drizzle while other times it feels like a downpour. Where can adoptive parents go for shelter? I believe the solution is found under the umbrella of a friend. In this episode, I would like to share this idea of an umbrella with you and explain how it relates to the Encouragement Anchor. We'll also consider 3 ways to acknowledge an adoptive parent and be their umbrella. I pray this episode encourages you to seek shelter under the umbrella of a friend and be an umbrella for them too. Hope and Healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. To reach out to me, email tim@anchorsofencouragement.com Join our amazing Facebook Community. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how.
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For those times when life has you rattled and you find yourself needing to catch your breath, what do you do? May I suggest you look up and regulate yourself with the anchor of a pause. Hi Neighbor, In this episode of Anchors of Encouragement, I'll share a couple of stories that happened in a span of just one week. Two remarkable events that gave me the opportunity to PAUSE. When life feels overwhelming, pauses like these can be incredibly grounding. We'll consider those stories plus encouraging Bible verses from Psalm 19. Sometimes when life feels overwhelming, all we need is the anchor of a pause. Hope and Healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. If you would like to see the images that I took of the northern lights and the comet, they're in our private community. I would like to invite you to become a member. This is a safe space for adoptive parents. We would love to have you. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how.
In life's hustle and bustle, how can adoptive parents regulate themselves? May I suggest? There are times when you need to retreat. Hi Neighbor, Welcome to a special hiking episode of Anchors of Encouragement. Today, let's talk about something crucial for adoptive parents navigating life's hustle and bustle: self-regulation. Retreating to a place where you're genuinely understood can work wonders. I want to share a story of the impact of being with “your people,” the people who get you, support you, and help you recharge. Hope and Healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. Joining a supportive community can make all the difference in navigating your adoption journey. I encourage you to retreat to our safe space for real and raw conversations. Will you take that first step to connect? If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how.
As an adoptive parent, for those times when you feel anxious or overwhelmed, what can you do to regulate yourself? Sit with that question for a moment. Hi Neighbor, Welcome to another walking episode of Anchors of Encouragement. Feeling anxious and overwhelmed as an adoptive parent? It happens to all of us. But today, I have a simple yet powerful tip to cope with anxiety and regulate those feelings. When life feels overwhelming, sometimes the best solution is the simplest one. Join me for this go-to method for regulating emotions as an adoptive parent. Hope and Healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. And remember, you're not alone in this journey. Join our supportive community of adoptive families and allies! The camaraderie and support can offer additional regulation and peace of mind. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how.
This month host April Dinwoodie sits down with producer Kyle Ferreira to talk about the recent Transracial Journeys Camp that April is involved in each year and how beneficial this camp is to building confidence and clarity around some of the more difficult aspects of transracial adoption.
Why can't we be like other families? Hi Neighbor, Welcome to another walking episode of Anchors of Encouragement. I have a personal confession to make, something I have wrestled with my entire life. And something that causes me anxiety. But it pales in comparison to the anxiety I want to address in this episode. Many adoptive parents struggle with this question. I know because you've told me. It's a question my wife and I have asked many times. Let's dig into the truth behind that question and how we as adoptive parents can navigate the challenges of adoption trauma to experience real peace of mind. We'll unpack a 4-step principle from Philippians chapter 4 that I first mentioned in Episode 152. Peace of mind is possible! You Are Not Alone! Hope and Healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. Get support from other adoptive parents and join our amazing Facebook Community. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how. “Don't worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. THEN you will experience God's peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:6-7
“God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.” ~The Serenity Prayer Hi Neighbor, Welcome to another walking episode of Anchors of Encouragement. Ever feel overwhelmed by things beyond your control? I understand because I've been there. Let's talk about how to find peace and calm in the storm. To illustrate this point, I'll share two personal stories that taught me the importance of letting go of the things I can't control. We'll consider an encouraging Bible verse from the book of Philippians and the principle you can put into play whenever you need support. Hope and Healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. Get support from other adoptive parents and join our amazing Facebook Community. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how. “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and petition with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.“ Philippians 4:6-7
Is it possible for adoptive parents to feel gratitude even during the struggles they may encounter in their adoption journey? The answer is yes. Grab a pen and paper, and let's explore the concept of gratitude together. Hi Neighbor, In this journaling episode, I want to consider with you the concept of gratitude, and how it applies to adoptive parents who are facing the struggles their adoption journey. Because even in the darkest times, there are things to be thankful for. Today, I would be remiss if I didn't thank you, my listeners. This is episode 150 of the podcast. Thank you for listening. Thank you for your encouraging words as I navigate this podcast journey with you. It is my hope and prayer that in some small way, this podcast is encouraging you in your adoption journey. Hope and Healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. Join our amazing Facebook Community. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how.
Hi Neighbor, Welcome to another walking episode of Anchors of Encouragement. Do you ever feel like you're not good enough as an adoptive parent? Maybe you feel like a failure, or perhaps in extreme cases, you don't even feel worthy to be an adoptive parent. I understand because I've been there. For those times when I didn't feel good enough or I felt like a failure or even when I didn't feel like I was worthy to be an adoptive parent, I knew it was time to put a principle into play. A principle I would like to share with you today to encourage you in your adoption journey. We'll consider an encouraging Bible verse from the book of Proverbs and the principle you can use anytime you need encouragement. Hope and Healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. Join our amazing Facebook Community. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how.
He faced one discouraging obstacle after another, yet through it all, he persisted. How did he do it? Grab a pen and paper and I'll show you how he first partnered with God. Hi Neighbor, In this journaling episode, I'll show you how you can persist in your adoption journey with a story inspired by one of my favorite Bible characters. We'll consider encouraging Bible verses from the books of Genesis, Proverbs, and James. I'll also share an easy way to begin journaling even if you have never done it before. It's based on my own journaling experience. Plus I'll show you how you can persist with pen-to-paper in order to partner with God. And so much more. Hope and Healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. Join our amazing Facebook Community. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how. Here are a couple of my favorite Bible Apps for comparing translations. YouVersion and Blue Letter Bible
When you discover a process that works for you, it makes sense to do it over and over. You've probably heard the old adage, if it ain't broke, don't fix it. That's certainly the case with the concept I share in this encore episode, and the main reason I'm bringing it to you again. Because It Works! It's a process I use on a regular basis, and it's a process that has helped me navigate the challenges of my adoption journey. I want to encourage you to listen closely. Grab a pen and paper as I walk you through this process with practical action steps you can begin to implement today. Hope and healing are on the way. What do you do when life is coming at you from all different directions? Life is tough. Storms in life are inevitable. What do you do when those storms are bearing down on you? May I suggest you sit with the text? Hi Neighbor, Welcome to an unplugged episode of Anchors of Encouragement. The fact that we are living on this planet means that we can't escape storms. They're a fact of life. But how do you deal with those storms? In this episode, we'll sit with the text and consider verses from Psalm 31, Psalm 121, and Psalm 143. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. Join our amazing Facebook Community. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how.
Do you ever feel like a failure as an adoptive parent? If you answered yes, I know how you feel because I've been there. Grab a pen and paper, and I'll share 3 affirmations to restore your confidence as a parent. Hi Neighbor, In this journaling episode, I want to help you navigate your adoption journey for those times when you feel like a failure as an adoptive parent. I know how you feel because I was there. I'll share 3 affirmations from the Book of Hebrews that helped restore my confidence Have you ever doubted yourself as an adoptive parent? It's a tough journey, but journaling affirmations helped me and I know they can help you too. Grab that pen and paper! Let's get started. Hope and healing are on the way. Your Neighbor, Tim P.S. Join our amazing Facebook Community. If this podcast has given you the courage and confidence to face storms in your life, the number one way you can thank me is to leave a written review on Apple Podcasts. Here is a short video to show you how.