Podcast appearances and mentions of foster care system

For Foster Care Awareness Month, we're continuing our For the One series with one of our most honest and challenging conversations yet. In this episode, we wrestle with the tension between awareness and action. As believers, many of us know the foster care crisis exists. We've heard the statistics, seen the social media posts, and maybe even prayed for the children and families impacted by it. But at what point does “not everyone is called to foster” become less of a truth and more of a shield protecting our comfort, convenience, and fear? We also talk about the excuses we hear most often: “I'm too busy,” “I'm not equipped,” “What if it disrupts my family?”, and challenge listeners to honestly ask whether those barriers are rooted in wisdom… or fear and self-preservation. Because while not everyone may foster, some people absolutely are being called to step in, and are choosing not to because obedience feels costly. We unpack the reality that faith was never meant to stay comfortable. Jesus consistently moved toward brokenness, interruption, inconvenience, and vulnerable people. He didn't just raise awareness, He stepped in. And if our faith never moves us toward vulnerable children, struggling families, or sacrificial love, we have to ask ourselves what kind of faith we're actually living. This episode isn't about shame. It's about invitation. An invitation to stop looking away. To stop assuming someone else will do it. To ask God to break your heart for what breaks His, and to be willing to become part of the answer to your own prayers. Whether fostering feels impossible, intriguing, terrifying, or deeply stirring, our encouragement is simple: take one step. Learn. Ask questions. Show up. Move toward the brokenness instead of away from it. Because the foster care system doesn't just need more awareness, it needs people willing to live out a faith that has feet. Episode Highlights:  Foster Care Awareness Month  Faith with Feet in the Foster Care System  For the ONE Don't Just Pray- MOVE Debunking Common Barriers  Find More on Hope Bridge: Connect with a Hope Bridge Team Member Visit Our Website  Follow us on Instagram Follow us on Facebook  

It has been estimated that 60-90% of all child sex trafficking victims have histories in the child welfare system. So what happens when the very systems designed to protect children fall short? In this powerful episode, we sit down with Margie Barilla — advocate, speaker, and CEO of Barilla Consulting — to discuss the urgent realities facing vulnerable youth in the United States foster care system and the critical connection between system involvement and child human trafficking risk. In this important conversation, we take a deeper look at the realities many vulnerable youth face within the foster care system and how instability, trauma, abuse, neglect, and lack of support can increase the risk of exploitation and child sex trafficking. Lastly Margie explains how her organization Barilla Consulting is working to "push for immediate protections, advocate for systemic reform, and ensure that no child is abandoned to a dangerous environment." If you'd like to learn more or support the work she's doing, visit: https://www.barillaconsulting.com

Welcome to the Fraudian Slip, a podcast by the Identity Theft Resource Center (ITRC), where we peel back the layers of the latest scams, fraud and identity threats. This month, in honor of National Crime Victims' Rights Week and the release of our 2025 Annual Report, we speak with an identity theft victim to gain insights into victimization in the foster care system. Follow on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/idtheftcenter/ Follow on Instagram: instagram.com/idtheftcenter/ Follow on Facebook: facebook.com/IDTheftResourceCenter/ Follow on X: twitter.com/IDTheftCenter Follow on TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@idtheftcenter_

This episode features a conversation with Ov'Var'Shia “Shay” Gray-Woods, who participated in the Congressional Coalition on Adoption Institute internship program, where she was able to intern for Senator Elissa Slotkin. We explore the day-to-day experience of working on Capitol Hill, the process of developing a federal policy proposal, and the vision behind “Reforming Workforce Development and Youth Engagement in Permanency Planning for Foster Youth Transitioning Out of Care.”

Across the country, hundreds of thousands of children are living in the foster care system.It's an experience that author David Ambroz knows all too well.In his memoir, "A Place Called Home," Ambroz recounts his experiences in and out of the poverty cycle — growing up homeless and later unprotected in the foster care system.In spite of these harrowing experiences, his memoir is also a story about love, strength and solutions.We sit down with Ambroz ahead of an upcoming appearance at the San Diego Writer's Festival.Guest:David Ambroz, child welfare expert and author, "A Place Called Home"

At any given time, 400,000 children in the United States are in foster care.Their reasons for being in the system can include abuse, neglect or abandonment.Children typically age out of the system at age 18, though some states allow them to remain until 21, or in some cases 26.We're talking about the foster care system and the challenges young people face when they age out of the system.Ohio offers a Bridges program to help young adults with the transition from foster care to being an independent adult.Guests:Maggie Stevens, president & CEO, Foster SuccessKara Wente, director, Ohio Department of Children and YouthIf you have a disability and would like a transcript or other accommodation you can request an alternative format.

At any given time, 400,000 children in the United States are in foster care.Their reasons for being in the system can include abuse, neglect or abandonment.Children typically age out of the system at age 18, though some states allow them to remain until 21, or in some cases 26.We're talking about the foster care system and the challenges young people face when they age out of the system.Ohio offers a Bridges program to help young adults with the transition from foster care to being an independent adult.Guests:Maggie Stevens, president & CEO, Foster SuccessKara Wente, director, Ohio Department of Children and YouthIf you have a disability and would like a transcript or other accommodation you can request an alternative format.

You can listen wherever you get your podcasts or check out the fully edited transcript of our interview at the bottom of this post.In this episode of The Peaceful Parenting Podcast, I interview Kahlila Robinson and Sarah Gerstenzang about self-regulation, co-regulation, repair, and what realistic emotional expectations look like for children ages five to eight. We discuss why parent self-regulation matters so much, how to support kids through big feelings, and practical strategies families can use together.Know someone who might appreciate this episode? Share it with them!And if you love the podcast, FREE ways to help us out: 1- Rate and review the podcast in your podcast player app 2- “Like” this post by tapping the heart icon ♥️ 3- Share this with a friend. THANK YOU!We talk about:* 00:00 — Meet Kahlila Robinson and Sarah Gerstenzang* 03:00 — The book and self-regulation. What self-regulation is and why it starts with parents* 06:00 — What's realistic for kids (ages 5–8) and why big emotions are normal at this age* 11:00 — Co-regulation: What it is and how parents support it* 15:00 — Supporting kids through big feelings: Why feelings shouldn't be rushed or shut down* 20:00 — Revisiting hard moments and why conversations after the fact matter* 23:00 — Repair: How and why to repair after conflict* 29:00 — Practical tools and simple regulation strategies* 35:00 — When strategies don't work: Why practice and flexibility matter* 38:00 — Where to find the guests* 39:00 — Final reflections: Advice to their younger parenting selvesResources mentioned in this episode:* The Self-Regulation Workbook for Ages 5-8* Kahlila's website and IG @kahlilarobinson* Sarah G's website * Yoto Screen Free Audio Book Player* The Peaceful Parenting Membership* Evelyn & Bobbie bras* Strong-Willed Kids WorkshopConnect with Sarah Rosensweet:* Instagram* Facebook Group* YouTube* Website* Join us on Substack* Newsletter* Book a short consult or coaching session callxx Sarah and CoreyYour peaceful parenting team- click here for a free short consult or a coaching sessionVisit our website for free resources, podcast, coaching, membership and more!>> Please support us!!! Please consider becoming a supporter to help support our free content, including The Peaceful Parenting Podcast, our free parenting support Facebook group, and our weekly parenting emails, “Weekend Reflections” and “Weekend Support” - plus our Flourish With Your Complex Child Summit (coming back in the summer for the 3rd year!) All of this free support for you takes a lot of time and energy from me and my team. If it has been helpful or meaningful for you, your support would help us to continue to provide support for free, for you and for others.In addition to knowing you are supporting our mission to support parents and children, you get the podcast ad free and access to a monthly ‘ask me anything' session.Our sponsors:YOTO: YOTO is a screen free audio book player that lets your kids listen to audiobooks, music, podcasts and more without screens, and without being connected to the internet. No one listening or watching and they can't go where you don't want them to go and they aren't watching screens. BUT they are being entertained or kept company with audio that you can buy from YOTO or create yourself on one of their blank cards. Check them out HEREEvelyn & Bobbie bras: If underwires make you want to rip your bra off by noon, Evelyn & Bobbie is for you. These bras are wire-free, ultra-soft, and seriously supportive—designed to hold you comfortably all day without pinching, poking, or constant adjusting. Check them out HEREWelcome back to another episode of the Peaceful Parenting Podcast. Today's guests are Kahlila Robinson and Sarah Gerstenzang, who wrote The Self-Regulation Handbook for Kids ages five through eight. Although their book is aimed at parents of kids these ages, the truth is that so much of what we discussed applies to parents of kids of all ages, toddlers to teens.A lot of the themes we discuss today will be familiar to you as listeners because you've heard me talk a lot about self-regulation, co-regulation, and repair. Listen into our conversation to learn why these are important for us as parents and why they are so crucial for teaching kids self-regulation no matter what age they are.Let's meet Kahlila and Sarah.Sarah R: Hi, Kahlila. Hi, Sarah. Welcome to the podcast.Kahlila: Thank you so much, Sarah. Thank you for having us.Sarah R: Yeah. We're going to be talking about your book, The Self-Regulation Workbook for Children Ages Five to Eight. But before we dive in, maybe if you could each introduce yourselves and tell us a little bit about who you are and what you do.Kahlila: Sure. I'm Kahlila Robinson. I'm a licensed clinical psychologist based in New York City. I have a private practice where I see kids, families, and adults. I'm also a mom myself of two kids, and I'm very happy to be here talking about the book and sharing more about our process and some of the highlights from the book.Sarah G.: Yeah. Thank you. So I'm Sarah Gerstenzang. I'm a licensed clinical social worker here in Brooklyn, New York. I also have a private practice, which focuses on adoptive families and complex developmental trauma. I'm also the board chair of the Adoptive and Foster Family Coalition of New York, and the parent of three children, two by birth and one who we adopted through foster care.Sarah R: Welcome. Yesterday, when I was doing my preparation for this podcast, I came across an online copy of your book, Another Mother: Co-Parenting with the Foster Care System, and I started reading it, and I kept having to go, stop, stop, go back to the—it seems to—I kept it open on my laptop. I'm really looking forward to getting back to it. It seems really interesting. I grew up with some foster kids in my house when I was really young.Okay, so back to the book that we are here to talk about. Maybe just tell us a little bit about your book and, just while we're all on the same page, what's your definition of self-regulation?Kahlila: Our book is written for parents of kids age five through eight. So it's called The Self-Regulation Workbook for Children, but it's a slight misnomer. It's more directly written for parents and focuses on the importance of parents being able to self-regulate so that they can be calm on behalf of their kids, and really teaching parents strategies for how to do that through really stormy times with their kids.Because what we've seen, time and time again, is when parents are able to remain calm, for the most part, it benefits the child. It provides a model for the child. It supports a child's own self-regulation. So there's a lot in there in terms of parent guidance on how to support themselves when their child is having a hard time or when they're having a hard time. And then there's also a lot of strategies in the book for kids and parents to use together to support self-regulation in both of them.So that's the overview of the book.Sarah R: Yeah, it's a really helpful book. I notice that just in my practice of coaching parents, parents always come with this idea of, in short, “fix my kid,” right? So we kind of talk about that as the inroad, but then after a session or two, parents always say to me, “This isn't even about my kid. This is about me.” And I think that's—yeah. Nobody, though, wants to come into it thinking that. They always want to come into it thinking, “Fix my kid.”Kahlila: Yeah.Sarah G.: It's kind of confusing for them also, because most parents parent the way that they've been parented, and they can't really take that bird's-eye view and see, often, how they are impacting their own child's sense of safety and calm and capacity to be in charge of their own emotions. So yeah, it's confusing.Sarah R: So self-regulation—just give us a definition, what you think of as self-regulation, so we're all on the same page.Kahlila: Yeah.Sarah G.: Throwing yourself.Kahlila: Yes. In short, yeah. It's the ability to identify feelings that you have within yourself in terms of how they come through. They could come through physically, they can come through as thoughts and as emotions. So, being able to identify those feelings and then find ways to contain them within yourself so that they don't end up spilling out and creating more disruptive experiences for yourself or others. So: identifying, managing, and containing your own emotions.Sarah R: Yeah. And that's hard for kids, though. I guess that's, you know—hence the book, right? It's hard for kids, and it's hard for adults too sometimes. I think that's why you spent so much time on different—we're going to get to that—but strategies for parents to use themselves for their own emotional self-regulation.Before we talk about sort of what we're working toward, what do you think typical self-regulation in kids looks like? Because what I find is that the parents I work with have higher expectations than kids are capable of, you know, sort of—we'll talk about the under-eight set—in terms of what is a realistic expectation for how kids can manage their feelings?Kahlila: Yeah. I think there can be a slight range, right, in terms of variability, as human beings. Five- through eight-year-olds are going to be expressing emotion. A lot of times it's a full-body experience for them, right? So they're sad, they're mad—they're going to feel the charge in their system, in their full physical system. It could come out in ways that are more physical than it would be for an adult. They actually feel the emotion physically in a way that I think is more powerful than adults.They also, like we were saying earlier, don't necessarily have that perspective on what's a big deal, what's not a big deal, what can be fixed, what can't be fixed, how to solve certain problems. Things can feel much more overwhelming to kids because they don't have that experience and perspective on how to solve problems, why certain things are certain ways, much less of an understanding around things like time and how things function and all of that. So a lot less information on how things run. And because of that, they can have bigger, stronger reactions to things than adults.Sarah G.: And I would add to that, actually, that most children live in environments that are not very natural anymore. Kids five to eight—humans were meant to spend many, many hours, most of the day, outside in a natural environment, which is calming: walking, exercising, playing, learning from adults just by watching. So, number one, that would help their regulation. And if they did become dysregulated, I don't know if you've ever been outside with a 6-year-old screaming, but it's not nearly so terrible as it is with one in the grocery store.So, yeah, I think that also contributes to the misalignment of expectations and capacity.Sarah R: That makes sense. And I think it's a tricky age too because, in my experience, both as a parent and a coach, I remember with all three of my kids, I think the hardest time for my husband with them was when they were around six. It was because they were so capable in so many other ways. They could learn how to play chess, they could talk to you about the stars, they could—you know, in some ways, intellectually, they've made a big leap and they seem so mature in some ways, but they also could have a meltdown where they're a crying mess on the floor because they wanted to press the elevator button and you pressed it instead, right?So there's, I find, especially in this five- to eight-year-old set, a real asynchronicity between how developed they are in some areas and how emotional regulation is still super tricky for them in other areas. And I find that hard for parents. It does raise their expectations for how regulated it's possible for their child to be in those difficult moments.Sarah G.: Especially when HALT—hungry, angry, lonely, and tired—comes into play. I remember getting so annoyed at my husband. I had one child who's super vulnerable to being hungry, and I'd be like, “What? You forgot the snack?” So they don't have the capacity to overcome those things yet.Sarah R: Yeah, and I love how you brought that acronym in, and you talked about the “L” as being—the “L” for an adult might be lonely, but for kids as seeking connection or feeling a lack of connection. I think that is really important to think about.We've already talked a little bit about parental self-regulation. I want to just touch on that again, and also co-regulation. So self-regulation—when we can manage our own big feelings—can you talk about what co-regulation is? Listeners to this podcast hear me talk about it all the time, but because you do talk about that a lot in your book, if you could just talk about what co-regulation is, and also why parental self-regulation and co-regulation are so important in the context of kids' self-regulation.Kahlila: Yeah. So co-regulation happens in infancy, right? When we are an infant and we are hungry or sleepy or need soothing of some kind, ideally a calm, available, consistent parent will meet that need for us, and we have a way of calming our body down. So that's when we first learn that a high-arousal, really active, really uncomfortable bodily state can actually shift. It can actually shift to something calmer. We figure that out. We learn that over time as infants, and that's our first experience of co-regulation. It comes from outside of us, and then we learn that's something that our bodies and minds can actually do.Sarah R: So that's like soothing a baby. That movement, holding them, making those calming noises. That's something we do, I mean, a lot of us do that intuitively with babies. Maybe that's not fair to say, but we're—it's easier for us, I think, to do it with an upset baby, a lot of the time, than it is with an upset five- to eight-year-old. Why do you think that is?Kahlila: I think it has a lot to do with what you just said, Sarah, about the asynchronous development, which is typical, right? We're supposed to be asynchronous at five through eight, but I think it's that false sense of, like, “They've got it.” They have these capacities. They are in school. They're on a sports team. They're learning how to read. They're making friends. They're doing all these things that you're amazed by and that show this type of emotional maturity and growth and development. So maybe there's a false security there around, “Well, they can do it themselves.” And so it can be frustrating, right?Sarah G.: Also, they can talk and babies can't talk. There's a great documentary called The Dark Matter of Love about some kids who are coming in from an orphanage into a family. Early in the film, there's a lot of chaos, the kids acting out, but the dad can't understand because they're speaking in Russian. And you stay so calm—these kids are shouting—and they have the translation at the bottom of the film.And I think when you have a five- to eight-year-old, they seem bratty sometimes because of what they're saying and the way they're saying it.Sarah R: Mm-hmm.Sarah G.: Whereas a baby—we're biologically programmed, I think, to have that—it makes the back of your neck feel uncomfortable when you hear a shrieking infant, right? “Somebody pick that baby up.” But with a five-, six-, seven-, or eight-year-old, it's more like, “What's that kid sounding so bratty?” Obviously they need stuff too. They need to be co-regulated, but—Sarah R: Yeah.Sarah G.: That's part of our natural need to, as Kahlila was saying—it's totally natural—our need to get these kids in order so they can be functional adults someday. But they also need to learn.Sarah R: I think that's one of the reasons why every day I teach, “Kids are doing the best they can.” And I think it's hard—it's easy to remember that with a baby, but it's harder to remember that with a five- to eight-year-old.So what does co-regulation look like for a five- to eight-year-old with a parent? What would you do to co-regulate with a kiddo? Because that's how they also learn self-regulation, right? Through co-regulating with us.Kahlila: Yeah. So in our book, we talk about co-regulation starting with the ability to self-regulate as a parent. So if you notice yourself getting activated in relation to your kid, that's fine. That happens. An awareness of that is really helpful—like, “I notice myself getting kind of frustrated right now,” or just a tightening of my chest right now, or a furrowed brow. Just being able to have some awareness of where you're at, what your baseline is, is a good place to start so that then you can take care of yourself a little bit and keep yourself contained.That can be saying something to yourself like, “Okay, here we go. This is not a big deal. This is something we can do.” Or, “My only goal right now is to keep calm myself. Let me see if I can do that.” Or, “This is temporary. We'll get through this.” So a little bit of self-talk you can do with yourself if you notice yourself getting a little bit heated and wanting to co-regulate.If you need something a little more than that in terms of self-regulation as a parent, you could do a little bit of deep breathing. If you practice breathing when you're not upset, when you're calm, it can be really helpful in those moments that are more intense. It can be a strategy that's actually really effective if you take a couple nice deep breaths in.And if you have more time and you can do something else to calm yourself down in the moment, you can do many, many other things. Sarah talks a lot about strategies to use in the kitchen, right? Like washing dishes. If you have a window in your kitchen, or a window somewhere, staring outside—something sensory-based. Smelling something calm. We like to talk about sticking your head in the freezer, getting that blast of cool air, chewing on a piece of ice. Anything that you can do if you notice yourself getting a little too agitated to then engage with your child.Because if you're trying to calm your child—think of a conversation you have with an adult when you're upset, right? If you're upset and you're talking to an adult that's annoyed with you for being upset, or that is upset themselves, that doesn't tend to help calm you down. So you want to use that same model and idea for yourself: see if you can calm yourself down, make yourself feel as present and emotionally contained as possible on behalf of your child. So that's kind of step one.After that—Sarah, do you want to add in anything about co-regulating?Sarah G.: Yeah. So step two would be really a variation on what we do with infants. It could be patting on the back: “Hey, what's going on?” Or, “You need a minute? Do you want to go get your stuffy? Do you want to…” Just kind of calm down—what's going on? But using that same body, as Kahlila said. You need to be in a calm place. No child's going to calm down with their parent very agitated.Then I think just using your words. I make a lot of eye contact with my child who had the hardest time—I actually had two kids who had a very hard time regulating—so I'd say, “Look at me. Look at me.” And I'd start deep breathing and look in their eyes. I wasn't angry, just like, “Let's calm down together.” Around those ages, that was super effective for them.Sarah R: I love that. “Look at me” as a grounding technique, not as a “pay attention to me while I'm talking to you” sort of “look at me.”Sarah G.: Yeah, no. It was like, “Let's get back together here.”Sarah R: Yeah.Kahlila: I think you also want to frame it a little bit—maybe we'll talk more about this—the idea of co-regulation is to prevent as much as you can and contain a more disruptive, explosive thing. But it's okay for the child to feel upset about something, right? It's not like you want to say, “Stop, let me co-regulate this child so they can stop being upset because this is so annoying to me.” Maybe this is a very legitimate, healthy emotional expression that they're having, and you're just there to contain it and guide them and help them ride that wave of emotion.So I think that's the other thing that gets a little tricky sometimes for parents. Co-regulation is not necessarily about stopping the child from feeling what they're feeling and stopping the emotional expression. It's more about containing it and supporting it so that it can actually flow out of the child, right? If there's a legitimate hurt or upset feeling that the child's feeling, you don't want to co-regulate so that it goes away. You want to co-regulate so the child can actually have their full wave of feeling without it being super disruptive or overwhelming.Sarah R: Yeah, that's a great point. Sorry, Sarah, did you want to say something?Sarah G.: I was just going to say what our point is—what I remember saying to my kids many times—is, “I want to hear what you have to say, but I can't do that right now because of this.” There's too much emotion going on.Exactly what Kahlila is saying. And I think we can use our words to co-regulate too. “Wow, you're so angry right now, and I'm really sorry you're so angry. I want to hear what you have to say. Let's take a few minutes.” So acknowledging what they're feeling—your words really do matter. “I want to hear what you have to say, but I can't in this situation that we're in.”Sarah R: Yeah, in Peaceful Parenting we call it welcoming feelings. You talk in the book about how that's a really important part of kids learning self-regulation. Maybe you just mentioned it, but can you expand on that a little bit?Kahlila: Yeah. I think it's very important to understand that in order for kids to learn self-regulation, they actually have to feel the full extent of their feelings. Kids age five through eight pretty much don't have a chance—they don't have a choice—but to feel their feelings fully, for the most part. And as parents, we can unintentionally sometimes cut them off from the full extent and breadth of their feeling because it's annoying or disruptive or we don't want to deal with it.In that way, they don't necessarily get to learn how to fully contain it and understand it themselves. If they're getting prematurely kind of cut off by a parent saying, “Stop,” or even just a parent that's trying to use distraction—sometimes distraction is effective, but sometimes a parent that's just like, “Look over here. Stop feeling what you're feeling”—then it cuts off a little bit of learning for the child to say, “Oh, this is how deep the feeling goes. This is how long it lasts. Okay, this is what it starts to feel like when it starts to go down.”They get more of an internal knowing and understanding around what the intensity of the feeling feels like. So if you cut that off prematurely, then they don't get the full extent of that kind of learning.Sarah R: Yeah. I think sometimes we don't have the bandwidth for it as parents necessarily every single time they're upset, but I always talk about thinking of that as an intention. Your intention is to always welcome the feelings, but sometimes you do have to distract because you've got to get out the door for work and you don't have 15 minutes—or 45, or whatever—to sit with them while they go through the feelings. So I think it's just, over time, our intention is to welcome feelings whenever possible.Sarah G.: And I think one thing we talk about in the book that I think is just crucial is revisiting. I always say to parents, Saturday morning's a perfect time. You have pancake breakfast, whatever, if you can. Then you say, “Hey, on Wednesday, when you got so upset and we did get to school, but I was wondering—why were you so angry?” And just revisiting that time so you can understand what happened and then make different plans.I think that matters. It's great if you can do it in the moment. That's often very challenging. I have the same thought as you, Sarah. Time these days for parents is really, really rough. The pressures on them. But to actually go back and touch on that moment, that really matters.Sarah R: I love what you say about—you don't have to address it in the moment. You can address it later. I often tell parents, you don't have to address it in the moment, and often it's not even as effective because kids are not in their learning brains or their thinking brains, and they can't learn when you're trying to address whatever the situation is.Another thing you talk about is repair, and that goes on the heels of what we were saying—addressing something that's happened that's difficult for you or for them or for both of you. Can you just talk a little bit about repair? Whether you've kind of messed up or you've had some conflict with your kids, why is it important? And what are some best practices around repair?Kahlila: Yeah. I think this is probably one of the most essential places to go as a parent. It's such an important parenting tool, actually.And I think it can be foreign to a lot of parents, the idea of repairing with your child, because that wasn't how you were raised. You didn't have a mom or dad come to you after yelling or losing their temper and say, “Hey, you know what? I think I lost my cool.” So it's kind of like, how do I do this? This doesn't seem right, to apologize to your kid. There's all this discomfort that parents can have around it.But I think it's so powerful, and one of the reasons it's so powerful is because we really have to acknowledge that our children are some of our most important attachment relationships, right? There's a huge importance to how we are feeling about ourselves depending on how our relationship is going with our kids. So repairing is not only healthy and good for the relationship and for the child, but it's also healthy and important and good for the parent to feel like, “I've done the best I could in repairing a situation with a child.”So we've all been there. We've lost our cool, overreacted, done something that we regret with our kids. And so when we talk about repair, the first thing that we suggest is just taking some moments of reflection for yourself and repairing with yourself. So that means whatever the shame or the guilt or embarrassment or sadness that you have around what happened, be with that. Be gentle with yourself. See if you can self-soothe a little bit. Parenting is a really hard job. I do the best that I can. Even good parents make mistakes. So really, again, that self-regulation around calming yourself down, trying to contain your emotions before you engage with your child.So the first repair is really with yourself.Then you want to be the, in terms of secure attachment, bigger, wiser model of things emotionally for your child. So you go to your child and you talk about it as simply and directly as you can. “Hey, I apologize for yelling. I actually think I overreacted. And I'm sorry that my voice got so loud.” And that's pretty much it.Then you see how receptive your child is to that. If they're open to a hug or a high five, that's another way to affirm the repair. And then you see what it's like to move on. But you try to handle it pretty directly.Again, in terms of the timing of things, it's nice if you can handle it kind of the same day that it happened, shortly after the event happened. If that's too hard for some reason, I think there's no wrong time. There's never too late to say, “Hey, I've been thinking about what happened to us last week, last month. It's been on my mind, and I want to let you know that I apologize.”Sarah G.: Yeah. And I think then on the other side of that is that children make mistakes as well, right? And that we can give them—some kids are very natural, “Oh, I'm sorry, Mommy,” and explain whatever happened. But at this age, it's also unusual for them to do that. And so what one can do is give them an opportunity.If they spilled, “Get the sponge.” Or say they had a big fit and the juice went everywhere—“Let's get this cleaned up. You can help me by wiping up the floor.” Because we don't want them to be stuck in that shame state of, “I've made this big mistake and my parent's mad at me.” Even if you're not yelling, you can be silently really angry. So you can just give them an opportunity to repair. If they've hurt another child, “Take this ice pack and go…” You can apologize by bringing over the ice pack, or drawing a picture, or something. I think it's really helpful too to help them do it. It's not like we just wait until they're old enough to do it.Sarah R: Mm-hmm. I always say repair helps the kid—when you invite them to make a repair, it helps them feel like a good person again.And it's an invitation because we've all heard that, “Say you're sorry,” and then the kid's just like, “Sorry,” and runs away. That's not actually a repair. I always say, ask them, “What do you think you could do to help your brother feel better?” Which somehow is easier for kids, I think, than “Apologize” or “Tell them you're sorry.”But I love that you highlighted that it makes the person doing the repair feel better too.And I just want to go back to what Kahlila said about doing your own repair with yourself first, because I think it's really important that a parent making repair doesn't turn into asking the child for forgiveness. That's really what we have to do for ourselves first, because it's not their job to say, “It's okay, Mommy,” or whatever.Someone in my life, who shall remain nameless, still has a hard time with doing repair because his mother did the “I'm seeking forgiveness” kind of repairs, and he just feels they're empty because of that.Kahlila: Yeah, yeah.Sarah R: So you talk about tools. A lot of your book is really practical. You share a lot of self-regulation strategies for both parents and kids. So maybe you've mentioned a few already, but what's your favorite strategy for parents from the book—one that you haven't mentioned yet?Kahlila: Yeah. I think my favorite strategy for parents—and this is kind of in the first half of the book, not in the strategies part, but you can think of it as a strategy—is actually playing with your kids most days when you can. It doesn't have to be for a long time, but kids five through eight love to play, and it brings them so much joy and feels so good to them. I think it can be very regulating for kids, and I think it can be really supportive of the relationship.Even with my older child, yesterday we had a day where it was parent-teacher conferences, he had a half day from school, and afterwards we did errands and it was kind of more relaxed and we had more time to hang out and chat. We just had an easier time with each other and enjoyed each other's company. The evening routine was really smooth, and there was a lot of goodness between us and connection. The rapport was made even more solid between us.I see that happen all the time when parents are able to devote even five minutes of undivided, no-screen, no-phone attention with their kid—playing with them, talking with them. It really builds this ease to the connection such that giving directives or following the routine just makes things smoother. So for me, an effective strategy is having a bit of play and fun connection time with your kid once a day, even if it's only for five minutes. It really lubricates the whole system and makes things easier. It makes kids more motivated to keep that good feeling with you. So that's one of my favorites.Sarah R: Your book is really practical, and you do have strategies that parents can teach kids—things they can use in the moment. So what's your favorite strategy? We'll just call one out for the podcast here.Sarah G.: Yeah, I would say, actually, taking a walk. Doing it with your child when—it's a great way to regulate. Often once you're calmer, you're walking, you can repair. And it's also something kids can really do themselves as they get older. It's so simple. If things are really chaotic, it's just like, let's just start walking. Let's walk around the—Sarah R: I love that.Sarah G.: Walk. Love that.Sarah R: And that calls back to your “getting outside.” Everything feels better outside.Sarah G.: Yes, exactly. And it's funny—I just saw an article in the newspaper this morning about how now, having the phones that we have compared to not very long ago, landlines, people are actually spending so much more time on the phone. So if you can turn off that phone and take a walk—it's really interrupting the parent-child relationship in a lot of ways. So we have to be very conscientious about doing that. So: a walk with no phone, I should say.Sarah R: Yeah. I'm so glad that we didn't have phones when my kids were little because I think about those hours and hours spent at the playground where, frankly, it can get a little bit boring sometimes. And there was nothing to do but interact with the other people or watch your kids. There were no phones to pull out and see what's going on on Facebook or whatever.Kahlila: Yeah. Can I have one more?Sarah R: Oh, sorry. Yes.Kahlila: Maybe for, you know, it's a little harder for five-year-olds, but more for seven- or eight-year-olds: the idea of the child asking for a compromise when they are frustrated about something. You're setting a limit and they're not happy with the limit, and their response is frustration or anger.To really help kids practice this as a strategy—it's like a parent-child strategy—they can feel a lot more empowered when they say, “Okay, well this is the limit, but may I have a compromise?” And you can have a conversation with your parent that often gets you more into the thinking and speaking part of your brain versus the emotional part of your brain. You're engaging and you're trying to collaborate with your parent. That in itself calms things down a little bit. Again, it can be empowering for kids to say, “Wait a minute, I have a right to speak here and see if I can ask for a compromise here and work with my mom or dad and talk it through.”So I really like that one too.And then it's not exactly a strategy, but we have this section in our book where we have, I think, about eight kids talking about a time that was hard for them and how they dealt with it emotionally. Kids seeing other kids deal with big emotions and learning from how other kids do it is actually really helpful too. I've seen kids really want to absorb that and use it for themselves when they see another kid using a breathing exercise or pretending to blow bubbles or doing something. A lot of kids are learning calming strategies at their school, and so a parent could also say, “Well, what have you been learning at school that helps with you feeling calm at school?” and have the child teach the parent what that strategy is—another nice way of integrating self-regulation practices for kids.Sarah R: Yeah. I love that you brought up those calming strategies, like the ones that they've often learned at school these days, which is great—like blowing on a cup of hot chocolate, or pretending you're doing that to do the deep breathing.I love that your book is really more focused on the parents and what the parents can do in terms of self-regulation and co-regulation, because what I hear over and over from parents is, “Yeah, my kid can tell me five calm-down strategies that they've learned at school, but in the heat of the moment, they're not interested in using it.”So are there things that you suggest for parents when you have a kid who is resistant to those strategies that they know, maybe when they're calm, they know they can use, but then when they're upset they are refusing?Sarah G.: Practice. They need to practice ahead of time. Then the parents have to catch them doing it, even a small amount. Like, “Oh, I saw you started the breathing, but then I guess you got so overwhelmed. That was amazing.” And so—but also, you know, the stop, drop, and roll that they do in schools for fire—you need to do the same thing with these strategies.Sarah R: Mm-hmm.Sarah G.: Practice ahead of time. Talk about, “This is going to be a really hard day for you. You're so tired and we have these events, and what are you going to do when you're feeling so overwhelmed? What do you think is going to work for you?” So forth.Sarah R: Yeah, so prep ahead of time. And even afterwards, like, “Oh, that was so tough. You know, maybe next time we can try to do that calming strategy X that you learned at school when you're feeling that way.” I think that probably reinforces some of the patterns too, just even talking about it later.Kahlila: Yeah. And if you feel like there's something that's not working for your child and it—don't use it, right? Think outside of the box. Try new things. Do some trial and error. Every kid is unique, and something that may work for one child may not work for another. So discover that over the years and kind of accept the reality of what works for your child and what doesn't.Some children may want a very tight bear hug. Other children might want to chew on a piece of gum or something like that, or take a walk. So be attuned to what is happening for your child and believe them when they say, “This doesn't help.”Sarah R: Yeah. Love that.Thank you so much. This is really—I think your book is really great, and we'll put a link to it in the show notes. Any place you want to send our listeners before we let you go? Any best place to learn more about you and what you do?Kahlila: I have a website. It's kahlilarobinsonphd.com. So that's my website. I have an Instagram account with the same name, Kahlila Robinson PhD. So you can find a little bit more about me and my practice there. We'd be excited to get feedback from people on the book and see how they're using it and what's been helpful. So we are so open to hearing back from people.Sarah R: Awesome. What about you, Sarah?Sarah G.: Yeah, so anyone can find me at sarahgerstenzang.com. And I echo Kahlila's request. If people find something useful in the workbook, we just love to—we're proud of the work, and we'd love to know how it feels to actually use it.Sarah R: Wonderful. We'll put those links in the show notes.Before I let you go, there's a question that I ask every guest at the end of the podcast. So maybe, Kahlila, you go first, and then I'll ask you to answer the same question, Sarah. Which is: if you could give some advice to your younger parent self—go back in time and give yourself advice—what advice would you give yourself?Kahlila: I would probably say: enjoy it more. There's something about the intensity and the demands of scheduling and routines and pressure and all that kind of stuff. See if you can not sweat the small stuff as much and be a little bit more relaxed about things and enjoy it more.Sarah R: I love that. That's so important.Sarah G.: So we used to have very long dinner hours, and I was just thinking as we were talking about repair today: I should have done more repairs after some of those dinners didn't go—sort of erupted. We had a nephew living with us for a while, so had four teenagers at a table. Anyway, lots of it was fabulous and wonderful, but also sometimes things happen. So yeah, I think, “Oh, I should have done more repairs after those dinners.”Sarah R: Well, take your own advice. It's never too late.Kahlila: That's right. That's right.Sarah R: Let me know.Sarah G.: I've apologized for everything. Don't worry.Sarah R: Oh, good, good.Well, thank you both so much for coming on. It was a pleasure to meet you, and thanks for all the support you're giving parents out in the world.Kahlila: Thank you so much, Sarah. Thank you for having us. It was so nice to be here today.Sarah R: Thank you.Sarah G.: I really—Kahlila: Appreciate it.Reimagine Peaceful Parenting with Sarah Rosensweet Substack is a reader-supported publication. To support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sarahrosensweet.substack.com/subscribe

Claudia Rowe (Wards of the State: The Long Shadow of American Foster Care) is a decorated journalist, advocate, and author. Claudia joins the Armchair Expert to discuss making the shift from using long-form journalism to a book to tell a story, touching off a five-year correspondence with a confessed serial killer, and confronting why she became fixated on what causes a person to commit murder. Claudia and Dax talk about her harrowing experience writing a true-crime memoir, realizing that this trial of a teenager in foster care actually corresponded to all the reporting she'd done, and how the failures of the foster system factored into the case of Maryanne. Claudia explains collaborating with incarcerated individuals to articulate thoughts about the carceral system, how poverty can often look like neglect, and her argument for a rehabilitative system of child care.Follow Armchair Expert on the Wondery App or wherever you get your podcasts. Watch new content on YouTube or listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free by joining Wondery+ in the Wondery App, Apple Podcasts, or Spotify. Start your free trial by visiting wondery.com/links/armchair-expert-with-dax-shepard/ now.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Adriene Caldwell returns to continue to share the pivotal moments that shaped her path and the unexpected resilience that emerged when the odds were stacked against her. After facing homelessness, a broken family and abuse, she turned those pressures that broke her into strengths. In the second and final part of our conversation, we continue to discuss what helped her become unbroken.Contact me at silverliningshandbookpod@gmail.comCheck out the Silver Linings Handbook website at:https://silverliningshandbook.com/Check out our Patreon to support the show at:https://www.patreon.com/thesilverliningshandbookJoin our Facebook Group at:https://www.facebook.com/groups/1361159947820623Visit the Silver Linings Handbook store to support the podcast at:https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-silver-linings-handbook-podcast-storeVisit The True Crime Times Substack at:https://truecrimemessenger.substack.comThe Silver Linings Handbook podcast is a part of the ART19 network. ART19 is a subsidiary of Wondery and Amazon Music.See the Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and the California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Adriene Caldwell shares the pivotal moments that shaped her path and the unexpected resilience that emerged when the odds were stacked against her. After facing homelessness, a broken family and abuse, she turned those pressures that broke her into strengths. In the first part of our conversation, we discuss what helped her become unbroken.To preorder Adrienne's book:The Book | Unbroken: Life Outside the LinesContact me at silverliningshandbookpod@gmail.comCheck out the Silver Linings Handbook website at:https://silverliningshandbook.com/Check out our Patreon to support the show at:https://www.patreon.com/thesilverliningshandbookJoin our Facebook Group at:https://www.facebook.com/groups/1361159947820623Visit the Silver Linings Handbook store to support the podcast at:https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-silver-linings-handbook-podcast-storeVisit The True Crime Times Substack at:https://truecrimemessenger.substack.comThe Silver Linings Handbook podcast is a part of the ART19 network. ART19 is a subsidiary of Wondery and Amazon Music.See the Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and the California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode of the Foster Friendly Podcast, hosts Brian, Courtney, and Travis welcome listeners to 2026 and discuss the new rhythm of the podcast. They reflect on the importance of understanding foster care, the emotional journey of becoming a foster parent, and the realities of handling goodbyes. The conversation emphasizes the need for a support system, the reasons families may quit fostering, and how communities can better support foster families. They also touch on the challenges faced by youth who age out of the foster care system and highlight the mission of America's Kids Belong.Takeaways:You'll never feel “fully ready” to foster — and that's normal. Nervousness and discomfort don't mean you aren't called or capable; they often mean you're taking the responsibility seriously.Saying “no” to a placement can be the most loving decision. New foster parents often feel pressured to say yes immediately, but the wrong yes can lead to burnout, disrupted placements, and quitting altogether.Good matches matter more than good intentions. Asking detailed questions about a child's needs, visitation schedule, trauma history, and daily demands helps protect both the child and your family.Fostering impacts your whole household — not just you. If you have kids, their ages, personalities, and emotional capacity matter, especially when placements are similar in age or gender.Goodbyes are inevitable — and they're supposed to hurt. Healthy goodbyes include honoring the relationship, marking the transition, allowing grief, and prioritizing the child's emotional needs over your own.You don't have to perform grief the same way every time. Some goodbyes will break your heart; others may bring relief — both responses are valid if the child was cared for well.Most foster families quit within the first year due to preventable factors. Lack of preparation, support systems, realistic expectations, and trauma-informed training are the biggest reasons families burn out early.Support systems are non-negotiable. Foster families need practical, consistent help — especially with transportation, meals, childcare, and schedule flexibility.If you're not fostering, don't wait to be asked — step in proactively. Foster parents are often helpers who don't ask for help; specific, concrete offers (“I'll take kids to practice Tuesdays”) make a real difference.

There are 2.7 million grandparents in the U.S. raising their grandchildren. We are a silent army, often grieving our "Retirement Version" of life while navigating school runs and midnight fevers. In this powerhouse Series 2 premiere, Laura Brazan unveils The 2.7 Million Project Manifesto—a call to action for the "unpaid safety net" of America to move from survival mode to intentional leadership.In this episode, Laura shares a raw, never-before-told look at the midnight phone call that changed her life, the honest "shaky-voice" conversation with her husband, Tom, and the heartbreaking reality of what it means to walk into a "house of fire" to rescue the next generation.Are you suddenly navigating the complex realities of kinship care?Do you find yourself longing for acknowledgment as you trade leisure for late-night diaper changes? The invisible labor and secondary grief of caregiving can leave even the strongest among us feeling unseen. Whether you feel capable or completely overwhelmed, this episode is your reminder that you are the Invisible CEO of your family's rescue mission.In this episode, we explore:The "Ghost Life": How to honor your secondary grief and mourn your retirement dreams without guilt.The 2.7 Million Project: Why your presence is the most sacred thing these children have.The Spiritual Anchor: Finding the "Universal Christ" in the unpolished moments of trauma and tantrum.Tactical Resilience: Practical insights on managing the weight of the "Second Cradle."Welcome to a new era of Grandparents Raising Grandchildren. Through personal stories and the wisdom of experts like Dr. Dale Atkins and Dr. Kate Lund, we provide the toolkit you need for the legal, financial, and emotional hurdles ahead.You are not alone. Your story is honored here. We are 2.7 million strong—still nurturing, and still here.Send us a textThank you for tuning into today's episode. It's been a journey of shared stories, insights, and invaluable advice from the heart of a community that knows the beauty and challenges of raising grandchildren. Your presence and engagement mean the world to us and to grandparents everywhere stepping up in ways they never imagined. Remember, you're not alone on this journey. For more resources, support, and stories, visit our website and follow us on our social media channels. If today's episode moved you, consider sharing it with someone who might find comfort and connection in our shared experiences. We look forward to bringing more stories and expert advice your way next week. Until then, take care of yourselves and each other.Want to be a guest on Grandparents Raising Grandchildren: Nurturing Through Adversity? Send Laura Brazan a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/grgLiked this episode? Share it and tag us on Facebook @GrandparentsRaisingGrandchilden Love the show? Leave a review and let us know! CONNECT WITH US: Website | Facebook

Connect with Steve: https://milestoneranch.org/Join the Receive Academy and learn how to hear God and follow His promptings: https://receiveacademy.com/Chapters:00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Guest00:39 Steve Stone's Journey from Music to Ministry04:19 The Reality of Human Trafficking in Belize08:10 The Foster Care System and Its Challenges11:38 Building a Safe Haven for Young Men15:21 Relational Before Functional: A Biblical Perspective23:03 A Call to the Church: Caring for Kids Without Families26:03 The Power of Saying Yes to God27:29 Personal Journey of Faith and Growth38:31 Encouragement to Follow God's Unique Calling41:22 Success Stories and Future Vision for Milestone Ranch

Today, we're sharing a special live recording of The Disagreement at the Harvard Graduate School of Education*. Our topic: Parents' Rights and K-12 Curriculum. This is our first live recording in a university class, and we are incredibly appreciative of Professor Jim Peyser and his students for having us.This episode was sparked by the judgement in the recent Supreme Court case, Mahmoud v. Taylor (24-297), which ruled in favor of allowing parents to “opt-out” children from lessons that did not align with their religious beliefs. It was a highly controversial ruling and has the potential to reshape U.S. public education on both national and local levels.*A Note: The Harvard Graduate School of Education recently launched the Dialogue Across Differences initiative, which fosters conversations on a wide range of topics from diverse perspectives. Please note that the views and opinions expressed by our guests today are solely their own and do not necessarily reflect those of HGSE or Harvard University.The Questions:To what extent should parents be allowed to opt their children out of K-12 school curriculum and courses?In a pluralistic society, how should decisions about what should—and should not—be part of school curriculum be made and by whom?To what extent is exposing children to views that differ from their religious, cultural, or ideological beliefs an essential component of, or threat to, public education?The GuestsJennifer Berkshire is a writer and co-host of a biweekly podcast on education, policy, and politics, Have You Heard? She teaches a course on the politics of public education at Yale University and, through the Boston College Prison Education Program, is an instructor in a Massachusetts prison. Jennifer is the author of The Education Wars, which examines the impact of the culture wars on the foundation of public education.Naomi Schaefer Riley is a journalist and senior fellow at the American Enterprise Institute. She is the author of several books across a variety of topics, including No Way to Treat a Child: How the Foster Care System, Family Courts, and Racial Activists Are Wrecking Young Lives, and Be the Parent, Please. A lot of Naomi's work focuses on child welfare, child protective services, foster care, and adoption.  Questions or comments about this episode? Email us at podcast@thedisagreement.com or find us on X and Instagram @thedisagreementhq. Subscribe to our newsletter: https://thedisagreement.substack.com/

The Alaska office of Children's Services, OCS, is tasked with protecting children and supporting struggling families. Providing a stable, loving home for children helps improve their chances for success in health, education, social settings and future employment. An audit required by a 2018 law aimed at improving OCS outcomes found problems persist. Where has OCS had success and what else is needed? Advocates on both sides join us for this Talk of Alaska.

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Google has committed to allowing all creators who were kicked off YouTube — over so-called political speech "violations" — the chance to return to the platform.Jimmy Kimmel Live returned to ABC television, but not all ABC stations. Both Nexstar and Sinclair announced plans to preempt the late-night show. The two broadcast companies own or control nearly 80 ABC affiliates between them.President Donald Trump called for the member states of the United Nations to embrace Trump policies of strict border controls and domestic energy production "to be great again." In an effort to give Putin something new to think about, President Donald Trump said that he believes Ukraine could "take back" its country in its "original form" from Russia, promising to continue to supply weapons for NATO.After roughly two hours in deliberations, a jury found Ryan Routh guilty of attempting to assassinate President Donald Trump on a Florida golf course last year. After the verdict was read, Routh attempted to stab himself in the neck with a pen.Maryland's foster care programs failed to perform background checks, leading to 10 children living in foster homes with sex offenders and a convicted murderer being paid to provide "one-on-one" care for children in hotels, according to auditors from the Maryland General Assembly's Department of Legislative Services.Become a supporter of Tapp into the Truth: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/tapp-into-the-truth--556114/support Tapp into the Truth on Rumble. Follow, watch the older shows, and join the live streams.Hey snack warriors. You're busy, driven, pushing limits—and you need fuel that keeps pace. That's where One Way Jerky comes in. This isn't mystery meat—it's 100% real beef brisket, slow-smoked in the USA, tender, flavorful, and packed with protein to keep you going strong. Original, Sweet Teriyaki, Sweet & Spicy Mango, Spicy BBQ, and Hot Brisket—flavor profiles that range from savory-sweet to “painfully bold.” Right now, your first order ships free, and you can score 10% off with code TENDER. That's real brisket, zero compromise, delivered to your door. Craving that melt-in-your-mouth, high-protein snack? It's just one click away: TAPPINTOFOOD.COM.“Remember Pop Rocks? Now, imagine they gave you superpowers.” Please let me introduce you to Energy Rocks! Born from the grit and ambition of a competitive athlete who wanted a better, cleaner way to fuel the body and mind, without the hassle of mixing powders, messy bottles, or caffeine crashes. Energy Rocks is a reimagining of energy into something fun, functional, and fantastically effective. A delicious popping candy energy supplement that delivers a rapid boost of clean energy and focus — anytime, anywhere. No water. No mixing. No bulky bottles. Just open, pop it in your mouth, and get ready to rock. Making any time the right time to “Get in the Zone, One Pop at a Time.”Take This Quiz To Find Out The Best & Worst Foods To Avoid For Joint Pain!Do you wake up in the morning with stiff joints or pain in your hips, back, knees, or elbows? Then, chances are you're feeling the effects of chronic inflammation taking its toll on your body. The good news is that it is NEVER too late to help get this under control. And the best part is certain foods help you do this naturally, without the need for prescription medications.If recent events have proven anything, you need to be as prepared as possible for when things go sideways. You certainly can't count on the government for help. True liberty requires self-reliance. My Patriot SupplySupport American jobs! Support the show! Get great products at great prices! Go to My Pillow and use promo code TAPP to save! Visit Patriot Mobile or Call (817) 380-9081 to take advantage of a FREE Month of service when you switch using promo code TAPP! Morning Kick is a revolutionary new daily drink from Roundhouse Provisions that combines ultra-potent greens like spirulina and kale with probiotics, prebiotics, collagen, and even ashwagandha. Just mix with water, stir, and enjoy!Follow Tapp into the Truth on Locals Follow Tapp into the Truth on SubstackHero SoapPatriot DepotBlue CoolersKoa CoffeeBrainMDDiamond CBDSauce Bae2nd SkullEinstokBeanstoxBelle IsleMomento AIHoneyFund"Homegrown" Boone's BourbonBlackout Coffee Co.Full Circle Brewing Co.Pasmosa Sangria  

How do you find your creative voice when the world tries to quiet it? In this powerful episode, I sit down with artist Diana Hendrix, who shares her journey from Chicago's foster care system to carving a vibrant creative career. Diana reveals how to use your work to reshape a challenging world into something beautiful. We explore her path through a detour into law and how an unexpected health diagnosis ultimately forced a profound return to her artistic roots. This is an intimate story about resourcefulness, the power of encouragement, and how the most challenging course corrections can lead us directly to who we were always meant to be.   Chapters 00:00 - Introduction to Diana's Journey  01:51 - Art as a First Language in the Foster Care System 04:49 - A Mother's Encouragement and How it Shaped an Artist 06:51 - Discovering Basquiat, Alma Thomas, and an Artistic Lineage 11:21 - The Pressure to "Course Correct" to a Traditional Career 13:43 - The Unapologetic Joy of the "Don't Care Bears" 18:19 - Fueling the Next Generation of Artists   Connect with Diana:   Follow Diana on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bumbblebeedesigns/   Support the Show Website: https://www.martineseverin.com/ Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/martine.severin/ | https://www.instagram.com/thisishowwecreate_ Subscribe to the Newsletter: https://www.martineseverin.substack.com/ This is How We Create is produced by Martine Severin. This episode was edited by Daniel Espinosa. Subscribe wherever you get your podcasts Leave a review Follow us on social media Share with fellow creatives  

My guest this week is my friend Nina Morris, an Orthodox Christian and mother who grew up in the Texas foster care system. I had no idea about the kinds of experiments and challenges these children endured, but Nina lived through them, and she opens up about her experience in this episode. Despite attempts to break her spiritually and mentally, by the grace of God, she came through on the other side with strength and faith intact. Sponsors: Fox n Sons Coffee: https://www.foxnsons.com  Code: BUCK15 Perfect Spiral Capital: https://PerfectSpiralCapital.com/counterflow Podsworth App: https://podsworth.com  Code: BUCK50 for HALF off your first order! Clean up your recordings, sound like a pro, and support the Counterflow Podcast! Full Ad Read BEFORE processing: https://youtu.be/F4ljjtR5QfA  Full Ad Read AFTER processing: https://youtu.be/J6trRTgmpwE Get the new Counterflow T-shirt before it sells out! Visit https://www.counterflowpodcast.com/store or send $30 via PayPal to buck@counterflowpodcast.com with your size and shipping address! Donate to the show here: https://www.patreon.com/counterflow  Visit my website: https://www.counterflowpodcast.com  Audio Production by Podsworth Media: https://www.podsworth.com  Leave us a review and rating on Apple Podcasts! Thanks!

When 911 operators in Liberty Township picked up the call on April 25, 2024, they heard the frantic voice of someone begging for help. A ten-year-old boy lay unresponsive, and nothing paramedics tried could bring him back.His name was Dakota Levi Stevens. He was bright, affectionate, and only ten years old — a foster child who had already lived through more than most adults ever will. But what unfolded inside the home where he'd been placed just weeks earlier would leave his family shattered, investigators horrified, and the foster care system facing questions yet again.This is the case of a little boy who slipped through every safety net — and paid the price with his life.If you suspect child abuse, call the Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline at 1-800-4-A-Child or 1-800-422-4453, or go to www.childhelp.org. All calls are toll-free and confidential. The hotline is available 24/7 in more than 170 languages.Visit my site for more resources: https://wp.me/PdbuVw-X4f**************************************Do you have thoughts about this case, or is there a specific true crime case you'd like to hear about? Let me know with an email or a voice message: https://murderandlove.com/contactFind the sources used in this episode and learn more about how to support Love and Murder: Heartbreak to Homicide and gain access to even more cases, including bonus episodes, ad-free and intro-free cases, case files and more at: https://murderandlove.comMusic:℗ lesfreemusicBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/love-and-murder-heartbreak-to-homicide--4348896/support.

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Today, we’re bringing you the best from the KUOW Newsroom… Native American children are more likely than any other child to be taken from their parents - and some advocates say the best solution is for the state to never get involved. And citizen-scientists gather in a wildflower meadow in the Washington Cascades to help the western bumblebee keep buzzing through the air. We can only make Seattle Now because listeners support us. Tap here to make a gift and keep Seattle Now in your feed. Got questions about local news or story ideas to share? We want to hear from you! Email us at seattlenow@kuow.org, leave us a voicemail at (206) 616-6746 or leave us feedback online.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Claudia Rowe is an award-winning, investigative journalist who authored the book, "Wards of the State: The Long Shadow of American Foster Care," which highlights the foster care-to-prison pipeline and the urgent need for reform. You can Buy Me A Coffee to help support our podcast https://buymeacoffee.com/natehaber

July 16, 2025 ~ Samantha Bartosz, deputy director of litigation for Children's Rights, joins Marie Osborne to discuss her concerns with Michigan ending the federal oversight of the foster care system and where it the system is today.

Sponsor: Timothy Plan aligns your biblical values with your financial stewardship in a way that honors God. Click here to learn more!Abby is joined by child welfare expert and author Naomi Schaefer Riley to expose the harsh realities of America's foster care system. They discuss why so many foster families quit within the first year, the heartbreaking cycle of child maltreatment and reunification, and why fear of "the system" stops women from choosing adoption. Naomi breaks down common myths, highlights the real dangers children face—especially those under the age of three—and sheds light on how faith communities are stepping up to transform the foster care landscape. A must-listen for anyone who values life and wants to better understand how we can truly protect vulnerable children.FOLLOW ABBY ON SOCIAL MEDIA- Instagram- Facebook- Twitter

Welcome into the Young Dad Pod—whether you're folding laundry, wiping mashed bananas off the ceiling, or quietly googling ‘how to be a good dad' in the middle of the night—thank you for being here.Today's guest is Lane Igoudin—dad, professor, and author of the memoir A Family, Maybe, which tells the powerful story of how he and his partner Jonathan became a family through the foster care system—while fighting for equality as gay parents in pre-marriage-equality America. Lane is one of the first openly gay dads in the U.S. to foster and adopt, and his story is about more than paperwork and parenting—it's about love, identity, resilience, and how we protect what matters most.To everyone listening: if you want a memoir that will challenge your assumptions, inspire your spirit, and remind you what family is really about, grab Lane's book A Family, Maybe at laneigoudin.com/afm.Visit the website for interactive activity guides and everything YDP- ⁠⁠www.youngdadpod.com Click the link for YDP deals (Triad Math, Forefathers, and more) - https://linktr.ee/youngdadpod Interested in being a guest on the Young Dad Podcast? Reach out to Jey Young through PodMatch at this link: https://www.joinpodmatch.com/youngdadLastly,consider making a monetary donation to support the Pod, https://buymeacoffee.com/youngdadpod.For more info, DM “DadBod” to @madmaxfitness84 on IG. Listeners who mention the “Young Dad Podcast” will receive 1 month FREE.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Lane's Journey01:00 The Evolution of Gay Parenting04:53 The Foster Care System's Challenges10:28 Reunification vs. Adoption: A Child's Perspective15:14 The Role of the County as Parent24:49 The Cost of the System and Its Implications31:54 The Challenges of Gay Parenting and Adoption34:08 Scrutiny and Standards in Foster Care38:55 The System's Failures and Child Welfare44:50 Navigating Family Dynamics and Cultural Identity51:07 Conversations Across Divides: Finding Common Ground

In this episode of the Nonprofit Leadership Podcast, host Rob Harter sits down with Ben Sand, CEO of The Contingent, a nonprofit that's revolutionizing ...

A couple of months ago I attended the True Charity conference in Huntsville, Alabama. One of the speakers there was my guest today, Megan Rose, the founder and CEO of a Florida-based ministry called Better Together. Megan got my attention almost right away because of her personal story. I'm not going to give it away here except to say that you have to trust me on this. You want to keep listening if for no other reason than to hear that. But the robust policy and practical content of her message also arrested me. My wife and I have been foster parents here in the state of North Carolina, and Megan said out loud what we had learned, and that is that the foster care system in this country is broken, and it is broken in ways that merely having more Christian foster parents won't fix. Megan articulated that reality in ways that made sense to me. That's why I'm excited to have her on the program today. She had this conversation with me via zoom from her home in Naples, Florida. You can learn more about Better together by clicking here. Jeff McIntosh produced today's program. Heidi Allums provided graphic and technical support. Until next time, may God bless you.

Society would rather not see them. Like people in prison, the foster care system makes hundreds of thousands of kids invisible. And the system is doing them great damage for life. On this show, author and foster care, juvenile justice, The post It’s Not the Kids, It’s the Foster Care System That’s Damaged appeared first on KDA Keeping Democracy Alive Podcast & Radio Show.

Get Claudia's book here: https://store.abramsbooks.com/products/wards-of-the-state   Wards of the State starts with the story of Maryanne who had been arrested for murder by the time she was 16. In and out of foster and adoptive homes since age 10, she'd run away, been trafficked and assaulted, and finally pointed a gun at the latest man to take her into his car. She pulled the trigger and fled. But with no family to turn to and few reliable friends, it didn't take long for the police to catch up with her.   The book goes on to acquaint us with five other foster kids, including an 18-year-old sleeping on the New York City subways; a gangbanger-turned graduate student; and a foster child who is now a policy advisor to the White House. Author Claudia Rowe paints a visceral survival narrative showing exactly where, when, and how the system channels children into locked cells. Balanced with accounts from psychologists, advocates, judges, and foster parents, Wards of the State paves a road to reform by pulling back the curtain on a broken system and the searing realities faced by kids who may be sitting in classrooms next to your own children.   Check out our new bi-weekly series, "The Crisis Papers" here: https://www.patreon.com/bitterlakepresents/shop   Thank you guys again for taking the time to check this out. We appreciate each and everyone of you. If you have the means, and you feel so inclined,   BECOME A PATRON! We're creating patron only programing, you'll get bonus content from many of the episodes, and you get MERCH!   Become a patron now https://www.patreon.com/join/BitterLakePresents? Please also like, subscribe, and follow us on these platforms as well, (specially YouTube!)   THANKS Y'ALL   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCG9WtLyoP9QU8sxuIfxk3eg   Twitter: @TIRShowOakland Instagram: @thisisrevolutionoakland   Read Jason Myles in Sublation Magazine https://www.sublationmag.com/writers/jason-myles   Read Jason Myles in Damage Magazine https://damagemag.com/2023/11/07/the-man-who-sold-the-world/   Read Jason in Unaligned Here: https://substack.com/home/post/p-161586946...

On this week's episode of The 1 Girl Revolution Podcast, we welcome Darcy Olsen — powerhouse advocate, author, and founder of the Center for the Rights of Abused Children — a nonprofit organization dedicated to defending the rights of abused, abandoned, and neglected children. Darcy's journey is one of fierce determination, deep compassion, and relentless advocacy for our most vulnerable. A former foster mom, who adopted four of the children that she fostered, Darcy founded the Center after witnessing firsthand the injustices and systemic failures within the child welfare and family court systems. Her mission: to give children a voice, an advocate, and the opportunity to thrive. Darcy and her team have started a revolution that is dedicated to supporting children, their protection and safety, and their inalienable rights. The Center for the Rights of Abused Children works tirelessly to reform broken systems, pass life-changing laws, and fight for children's rights in court. In this episode, you'll hear:

In this gripping episode, author and care system reformer Chris Wild shares his powerful journey from childhood trauma to national advocacy. He unpacks the flaws in the system, the emotional and financial cost of neglect, and the urgent need for change. From life in care to solutions that can truly make a difference, Chris brings truth, purpose, and hope to a conversation we can't afford to ignore.Find more information and resources here: http://saradavison.com/Follow me on social media►Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/saradavisondivorcecoach/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SaraDavisonDivorceCoachTwitter: https://twitter.com/SDDivorceCoachLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sara-davison-742b453/

In this episode of the Foster Friendly Podcast, hosts Courtney and Travis engage with Abby Crooks, a veteran foster parent and founder of Fostering Faithfully. Abby shares her personal journey into foster care, the challenges and rewards of fostering, and the importance of community support for foster families. The conversation highlights the significance of celebrating foster children's birthdays and the emotional complexities of being a foster parent. Abby emphasizes the need for realistic expectations and the importance of finding joy in small victories while navigating the foster care system. She shares personal experiences and insights on fostering, emphasizing the importance of balancing personal life with parenting, the role of play in family dynamics, coping with grief and emotions associated with fostering, navigating the foster care system, and the key messages from her book 'Simply Available'. She highlights the need for foster children to feel loved and supported, and the importance of self-care for foster parents.Learn more about Fostering Faithfully and checkout their resources. Checkout Abby's guest blog for AKB on trauma and parenting.

Fact: Foster care disproportionately affects families of color. In this episode, I'm having a SUPER raw and real conversation with foster mama and foster care advocate Gaile Osborne. Gaile is the executive director of the Foster Family Alliance of North Carolina and has learned firsthand that most of us well-meaning foster mamas DO have work to do when it comes to being anti-racist and educating our extended family and friends to do the same. Learn more about the Alliance here: https://www.ffa-nc.org/ Get more support, including my Foster Mama Lifeline Community here: https://stan.store/fearless_fostering

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Show Notes:Content Warning: This episode contains discussions about drug use, abuse, and neglect. Please proceed with care.Two years after his first appearance on the podcast, Joe returns to share the incredible and often painful journey of adopting his niece and nephew. In this raw and honest conversation, he details the struggles of navigating a deeply flawed foster care system, the emotional toll of parenting children with trauma, and the ongoing challenges of healing as a family.From dealing with corrupt social workers to searching for the children's fugitive parents, Joe takes us inside the reality of stepping up when no one else would. Now, with the adoption finalized, he and his wife continue to work through behavioral struggles, the lack of mental health resources, and the weight of carrying a story that is far from over.Despite everything, they remain committed to giving these kids a future filled with safety, stability, and love.

Content Warning: This episode contains discussions of difficult subject matter, including child abuse and the tragic death/murder of a young child. Listener discretion is strongly advised. If these topics may be triggering or upsetting, we encourage you to prioritize your well-being and consider this before listening to this episode.Welcome back for the second part of our special 2-episode series of Fostering Change, featuring the story of the horrific murder of 5-year-old Harmony Montgomery.On our last episode, we spoke with Judge Carol Erskine, author of the book A Cruel Injustice, which documents how our judicial system failed young Harmony, who was taken out of foster care and placed with her birth father - who rather than nurturing her, murdered her.Today, we speak with Blair & Johnathan Bobbit-Miller, adoptive fathers of two sons before becoming the father of a 3rd son, Jamison, Harmony's brother.These amazing and sensitive humans discuss with Rob how the system continues to fail those who need it most—the children. They explain what they are doing, along with help from other Good Humans like Judge Erskine and Rob Scheer, to fix what many consider to be unfixable.This powerful episode of Fostering Change will make you want to activate yours. At the sentencing of Adam Montgomery (Harmony's father), Jamison read a victim-impact-statement. Part of the statement:"Tell everyone my name is Jamison. I'm 7 years old. My sister is Harmony. I love Harmony, I miss her," Bobbitt-Miller read. "I hope I get to see her again."He spoke of a broken Elmo toy Harmony had given him that was hers that he has kept ever since. He said he has a Minnie Mouse pillow and new Elmo he planned to give to her."I keep it in my closet for her," Bobbitt-Miller read. "I am really sad she is an angel. I miss her. She was my best friend. I hope she can see me playing basketball and being silly with my brothers and I wish I could bring Harmony to my school to meet my friends and teacher."To learn more about the Bobbit-Miller Family:Twitter: @BlairMillerTV @BobbitMiller Instagram: @johnathanb @blairmillertv “A Cruel Injustice” can be found anywhere you purchase books, including Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Cruel-Injustic...If you have any comments or questions regarding this episode or the foster care system, please send them to info@comfortcases.org. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Recovery Matters Podcast Episode 165 | Gordon Lyde shares his profound journey of overcoming addiction and trauma. Growing up in New Haven and moving through the DCYS system, Gordon faced numerous challenges, including being separated from his siblings and feeling unloved due to his biracial background. His struggles intensified during his teenage years in group homes, leading to heavy substance use. Despite multiple setbacks, including skepticism about recovery and years in prison, Gordon ultimately found sobriety and a purpose in helping others. Now a substance use counselor and executive director of Men of Evolution, Gordon's story is one of resilience, transformation, and service to the community. 00:00 Introduction and Early Life00:14 Foster Care and Family Dynamics01:24 Struggles with Identity and Acceptance02:55 Sibling Relationships and Family Separation06:44 First Encounters with Addiction07:21 Life in a Group Home11:01 Attempts at Recovery and Relapse17:43 Journey to True Recovery20:26 Struggling with Toxic Relationships21:08 Seeking Help and Finding Sobriety21:55 Humbling Experiences in Recovery23:06 The Power of Self-Work24:15 Building a New Life26:36 Family and Personal Growth32:59 Guiding the Next Generation37:28 Giving Back to the Community ----Across the Web----

At 20 years old , Emily Aragon recently graduated from the University of Arizona and shares her journey to her degree after being in and out of the foster care system. 

Over and over in the Scriptures, God makes it clear that He loves the orphan, and that He expects His people to do the same. Dennis and Barbara Rainey outline five ways we can care for what the Bible calls "the fatherless."

Are you navigating the highs and lows of unexpectedly raising your foster grandchild, feeling overwhelmed by the complexities of the foster care system and mental health challenges? Do you struggle with the painful memories of past traumas and disruptions, unsure if your household can find balance again? Are you looking for guidance, understanding, and a supportive community to share your journey in kinship care?I'm Laura Brazan, and today we dive into an emotional, enlightening, and sometimes gut-wrenching topic in 'Grandparents Raising Grandchildren: Nurturing Through Adversity.' Join us as we unravel the intricate paths taken by grandparents who become foster caregivers, tackling the staggering hurdles with love and resilience. This episode, “From Fostering to Grandparenting- Navigating the Complex Paths of Love, Loss, and Resilience,” features the heartfelt story of a kinship caregiver who, with unwavering commitment, transformed her life to raise her troubled foster daughter's baby as her own granddaughter.We'll delve into real-life experiences with bipolar disorder, the daunting fight against an unwieldy foster care system, balancing careers while caregiving, and the impactful struggles of children born into trauma. Hear her candid viewpoints on the social services system, and absorb expert insights aimed at better supporting foster families.Subscribe now to 'Grandparents Raising Grandchildren' for valuable resources, expert advice, and a deeply compassionate look at the emotional landscapes you're navigating. Join our community where every story helps build strength and solidarity, ensuring you don't face these adversities alone.Send us a textThank you for tuning into today's episode. It's been a journey of shared stories, insights, and invaluable advice from the heart of a community that knows the beauty and challenges of raising grandchildren. Your presence and engagement mean the world to us and to grandparents everywhere stepping up in ways they never imagined. Remember, you're not alone on this journey. For more resources, support, and stories, visit our website and follow us on our social media channels. If today's episode moved you, consider sharing it with someone who might find comfort and connection in our shared experiences. We look forward to bringing more stories and expert advice your way next week. Until then, take care of yourselves and each other.Liked this episode? Share it and tag us on Facebook @GrandparentsRaisingGrandchilden Love the show? Leave a review and let us know! CONNECT WITH US: Website | Facebook

Welcome to the "What to Expect While Fostering and Adopting" podcast, hosted by Christine Marie, a biblical mindset coach, previous foster parent of 77 children and adoptive mom of 2.  This episode dives into the complexities of adopting through the foster care system, addressing common concerns and providing insights into balancing the journey with grace and faith. The topic today is if adopting a child through the foster care system is an option for most families and what you need to know if considering this path. We are discussing the importance of setting boundaries, understanding the needs of your family, working with a mentor and trusting Gods timing in the process.  If you are struggling right now as a foster or adoptive parent, I am so thankful that you found this episode. I want you to know that you are not alone. You are seen, valued, loved and known. After you listen to this episode, I would love for you to head on over and join our inner circle of foster and adoptive mamas. Our Facebook group is your gateway to valuable resources and connection. https://www.facebook.com/groups/fostercareandadoptionforchristianwomen Thank you for being here. Go grab your cup of coffee and let's dig in. XO-Christine Marie If you found this episode helpful, I would love for you to leave me a review on apple podcasts. This will help others just like you to find my podcast and be encouraged along their journey: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/what-to-expect-while-fostering-and-adopting-adopting/id1701306333

Children in L.A.'s foster care system may be uprooted because of a problem with insurance. A new law signed by Newsom responds to Huntington Beach's voter ID policy. We look at the finances behind Councilmember Kevin de León's run. Plus, more. Support The L.A. Report by donating at LAist.com/join and by visiting https://laist.com.Support the show: https://laist.com

In this episode, Naomi Schaefer Riley discusses her book 'No Way to Treat a Child' and the issues within the foster care system and family courts. She also talks about the challenges of writing and the importance of being a parent. The conversation touches on the cultural problems of drug addiction and the decline of American cities. Riley introduces her upcoming project on child maltreatment fatalities and the need for transparency in child welfare agencies. The Karol Markowicz Show is part of the Clay Travis & Buck Sexton Podcast Network - new episodes debut every Monday & Thursday.Follow Clay & Buck on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/clayandbuckSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week on the podcast, foster care activist Mark Daley joins me to share his family's journey to adoption from foster care.The path that Mark and his husband took to become parents was filled with ups and downs, beauty and pain and finally a forever family. In this conversation we discuss our personal experiences as foster-parents and the lessons learned along the way. If you've ever considered becoming a foster parent, this is the episode for you.Get the Start Today Journal - https://starttoday.com/products/start-today-journalHave a question you want Rach to answer? An idea for a podcast episode??Call the podcast hotline and leave a voicemail! Call (737) 400-4626Sign up for Rachel's weekly email: https://msrachelhollis.com/insider/Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/RachelHollisMotivation/videosFollow along on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/MsRachelHollis/ To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices.