The Juxtaposition Podcast.

This Episode Is For Any Expecting Father & Current Girl Dad. The Love We Have For Our Baby Girls Are Endless

This episode, we dissect folks who OVERshare. We specifically talk about thus in the relationship context and when to have the "sexual history" conversation. More generally, we talk about the folks that provide too much information - too soon, as well as the folks who feel like you should share earlier than you're ready.Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

Do you know someone who asks you questions - time and time again & continue NOT to take your advice? Do you know someone who asks your advice because you've already been through that scenario and they ignore it and take the advice of someone who HASN'T been through it? If so, you've been speaking to "Askholes."We discuss what it's like to deal w/ Askholes and how you should deal with them.Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

We're tired. We're frustrated. You see the title. That's it. Enjoy the episode.Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

You know we watch that show together -- did you really watch this without me?? This week, we discussed some "unwritten" rules of relationships: Is she really entitled to your food, even though you asked her what she wanted in advance? Can our friends just pull up to the house or do you need advance notice -- also, who is the one to let the friends know it's time to go? We discuss all of this and more!Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

This episode, the guys discuss how to know that your partner is still as attracted to you today - as they were when you met them. How are you working to keep yourself desirable? Are you making sure to keep that spark? What happens when your partner isn't putting in all the effort needed to keep your attention? We dive into all of that and more on this episode!Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

How do you feel about Strippers? Is there a difference between "Video Vixen" & "Video Model" ? How much $$ is enough $$ to throw in a strip club? If you've asked yourself any of these hard hitting questions, this episode is for you.Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

This week, we talk comedy - in all facets! What's it like to "lose the crowd" right after a good joke. Do you press on when you joke doesn't hit? Do you repeat it? Also, we dive into knowing when to let go - when is it time to call it quits w/ a goal or a dream you have.This is a fun one!Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

This week, we discuss the NY Post Article (I know, I know - the NY Post is problematic, but walk w/ us), entitled "Why more black women should consider marrying white men." - the title of the article isn't the story, but the author is a Black Man - married to a successful Black Woman, which we dissect and analyze. Is it the responsibility of Black Women (who are statistically more successful than Black Men) to help uplevel Black Men - or is it on Black Men to step it up and hold their weight? We answer all those questions and more!Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

In this episode, we get personal and unpack all the necessary "pre relationship trauma" that you need to handle before embarking on the journey to long term companionship. Is your "house clean?" Have you dealt with your "bad" or "toxic" habits? How did you recognize them, then address them? We cover this and more!Time Stamps:4:00 "Week In Review"13:07 Main Top: "Fixing Insecurity & Brokenness"30:00 "Would You Consider Yourself a Momma's boy?"37:16 "Does The Support and Love Help Your Relationship"46:33 "Action Items: Give A Younger You Some Advice"48:44 "Motivational Moment"51:50 "Zo Knows" Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

We are here with a quick bonus episode, as we could wait until Friday to talk about this very strange, but very interesting topic - so lets unpack!I'm sure by now we've all seen the “smack heard around the world” and the incident between Will Smith and Chris Rock. We're not here to place blame, but we're here to discuss the happenings around the incident. We want to humanize this experience, as some people think that this is just fun and games.We've personally covered the “entanglement” situation in Ep 2 of this very podcast, but to elevate this conversation, we'd like to discuss this not as entertainment, but from the perspective of married black men.Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

Happy to welcome James aka MoneyBagg Yo back to the pod!This episode, we'll be talking about House Business! How much is too much for you to share outside of your relationship. What's off limits?Sex Life? Finances?Insecurities?We get into all that and more this week!Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

In our first #AskJux episode, we get the chance to talk to Oshaira (@oshaira) & Joanne (@_ayojo), friends of the show, to discuss dating - more specifically, what's it like to date in this landscape as a successful woman. We get into their worse date stories, habitual taker-backers and Male Fraud, no typo. This is a conversation that everyone can learn from, so enjoy!Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

This episode is dedicated to the memory of Bro. Maurice "Trillz" Johnson - a beloved member of ΚΑΨ - & our brother. With that in mind, the first half of this episode, we dive into how to deal with loss - how to succumb to grief and how to grow through it.At 32:55, The second half of the episode, we discuss the viral clip of men mentioning how a woman "makes herself eligible" by being an independent, high salary earner -- you can guess what our perspective with be on that. Check it out!Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

Fellas, can you submit to your lady? What does that mean? Is your ego in the way? We discuss all of that this episode! We also unpack if it's appropriate to 'correct' your partner in public.Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

We're BACK for Season 4 with a ton of updates! New Jobs, New Locations, Family Expansions & More. We also dive into what constitutes an intelligent risk and why is it important to take them. Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

*SEASON 3 FINALE* We dig deep into our "technology" bag this week - talking about the Metaverse and what that means for Black folks - how can we make sure we're apart of the conversation. Additionally, we spoke about the ever expanding digital space, including Crypto and NFTs to name a few, and how we can take advantage and be on the "ground floor" of these endeavors. We also talk about "Holiday-isms" - the universal Black experiences across America and how we deal with each as they approach. Great way to end the season!Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

"Sustainable Success Comes w/ Constant Challenges" - This episode, we get deep. The pod's foundation is built on transparency, dating back to our first episode "Vulnerability," this episode serves as a follow up. The last couple of weeks have been tough personally, so we do what we do best: Talk About It. Var opens us about the recent realizations he's made and the unresolved trauma he may be carrying around. Cleveland affirms the group and lets the team know that "Help is OK," while Kev and Zo chime in w/ stories of navigating the world as Black men, while the weight of the world is on our shoulders. This is a good one.Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

On this episode, we talk about what's a red flag in a relationship? When do we know FOR SURE she isn't for you. Was it her excitement to be around you? Was it the fact that she moved on from an ex too quick OR did she ask for you to share your location wayy too soon? Let's discuss!Time Stamps: 4:07 - "a Very Quick Week In Review"4:30 - "Var's Question of the Week: Is 100k A lot of Money? "21:20 - "Main Topic: (Red) Flags on the Play"21:35 - "Main Questions: What are some Red Flags That Will Stop You From Talking To Someone"1:09:00 "Zo Knows"  Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

This episode, we discuss if it's possible for Black Men to really and adequately take the break they need --  With the societal pressures to provide and protect - is there a space for Black Men to re-charge, if tired? We also discuss utilizing the “Power Of No” & our ability to scale back on things that may create more work for us - and avoid the “I Have To” mantra.Time Stamps: 4:50 "Week In Review"19:30 "Main Topic: When a (Black) Man Says He's Tired, Pay Attention"31:38 "Question 1: How Can We Take A Break"36:35 "Question 2: How can Empathy Help"46:33 "Question 3: Who Helps the Helper"51:50 "Question 4: How Being Proactive can Help"1:00:15 "Question 5:Whats the Motivation to Keep Going" 1:10:15 "Question 6: Can We Go To the Barbershop?"1:17:03 "Zo Knows"1:25:10 "Motivational Moment" Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

This Motivational Moment is an except from Ep. 60 - Here, Cleveland discusses the foundations of connection, both knowing and unknowing - & how we must cherish these sacred connections.Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

This episode we dissect the vaccine debate, but specifically in relation to Kyrie Irving and his decision not to get vaccinated. Does this make him a hero or selfish --or both? We also dive into the Netflix employees "Walk Outs" happening and we wonder if that type of trust would be afforded to Black folks in the same situation.Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

In this episode, we discuss our moral obligations to keep men and young boys in our circle accountable in understanding no always means no - then we chat about the tragic death of Miya Mercano and the reports that followed her death, including the details of her continuing to ignore the advances of her eventual killer.We wrap up w/ our analysis of Dave Chappelle's Netflix special "The Closer" and our perspective on the public outrage.Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

In this episode, we discuss the vast impact that social media has on the world today and if we could live without it. If so, what are the ramifications of that? We also dive into "Bro Code" & how would we respond if we were Omarion -- in the case of his "friend" hooking up w/ his ex and the mother of his children. Is it wrong? You might be surprised by the answer!Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

This episode is special. We sit down w/ Educator, Entrepreneur, Tech Founder and Artist, Tyree Barnes. Tyree is a remarkable man, as he's navigated impossible situations and has consistently come out better on the other side. From humble beginnings in Newark, NJ to becoming a Math Whiz and perusing Actuarial Science at Rider University to becoming a School Principal in his hometown at age 26 - to walking away from that to co-found an Educational Platform Start-Up, focused on incentivizing children to earn money by correctly answering math problems. Connect w/ Tyree:Personal InstagramBlack Genius Brand InstagramCHIPS. App InstagramDownload CHIPS. App:Download CHIPS. App: AppleDownload CHIPS. App: AndroidJux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

I don't know who needs to hear this but: Pumpkin Spice Season, count your days! It's Sweet Potato SZN now. This episode, we discuss if we would go to a HBCU out of High School Today, Black Men supporting Black Men, JD vs. Diddy and the woes of buying your first car!Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

If you love adulting - rate this podcast.If you DON'T love adulting - rate this podcast.Wow, did  we finally agree on something and made steps towards being better.Wow, did we just...adult?!Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

Simply Put: Black Men talking about mental wealth, manifestation, affirmations and meditation. Tap in.Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

Ladies - is he buying you flowers? Texting you everyday? Knows intimate details about you that most people don't? Chances are -- homeboy is not your friend. In this episode, we discuss ways to tell who's actually here as "the homie" & who's waiting in the wings for their opportunity. We also discuss our approach to how we operate w/ our female friends.Look at this as a Part 2 to Ep. 41: Can Men and Women Be Just Friends.Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

We're always faced w/ decisions - many force us to decide if we're going to rise to the occasion or walk away & we wanted to dissect that. In this episode, we discuss, What's worth fighting for? When it's time to walk away? How we determine what things are “valuable,” & What's the last thing we grew out of?Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

We're Back For Season 3! One update from Season 2 is that Var is now ENGAGED - no longer a "Possible" - he's now a "Guarantee". With that in mind, this episode, we are diving into our proposal stories. How did we propose? Where did we do it? What's the significance? Whose proposal is better?!Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

On our SEASON 2 FINALE - We have our partners, our best friends, our significant others - The 4 Wives & A Possible - Share some intimate details about life w/ us, when we're not recording.How did we meet?What's our origin story?What do we do that annoys them?Why they decided to stick beside us?Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

This week, we get into some listener questions and take a deep dive into our biggest regrets, how many breakups have been our fault, If you were to remarry would you choose a black woman and the best question: Who's our favorite ex?Who do you think didn't answer the question? Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

One Year Later! One Year Wiser! One Year Healthier! One Year In - Many More To Go! Thank you for rocking w/ us for 47 Episodes. From Ep 1: "Vulnerability" to now, the growth is outrageous. We appreciate each and every one of you for listening and sharing.Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

In this episode, we discuss the pressures of being productive. Are you busy for the sake of being busy? Is there a difference between "Busy" & "Productive" ? & Why do people feel the need to share their "Progress of productivity" via social media?Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

What Do You Do When Pride or Ego Is Stopping You From Progress? Do you check yourself? Do you get outside counsel? On this episode, we discuss how pride and ego play a major part in either our success or our detriment. Can pride and/or ego work in your favor? Let's discuss!Jux Pod Merch Available Here!Time Stamps:2:39 "Week In Review"14:45 "Main Topic: Pride or Ego?"25:43 "Too Much Pride"45:27 "Helpful Pride"53:17 "Foolsih Pride"57:40 "Mentor ship for everyone"1:03:56 "Action Items"1:08:04 "Motivational Moment"1:11:53 "Zo Knows"After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

We think it's about time that we become more formally acquainted - This week, the guys dig into various aspects of their personalities and enlighten the listeners to things that they may be unaware of - even things the guys don't know about each other. Sit back, relax and become familiar!Time Stamps:3:15 "Week In Review"18:50: "Main Topic: You Don't Know Me"19:15 "What Makes You Lame?"23:06 "What Makes you Proud"26:50 "Who Is Your GOAT"32:30 "Two Words to Describes You"35:42 "Who Do You Admire"40:00 "1 Gotta Go..."46:12 "1 Thing You Don't Share"48:09 "What Does Legacy Mean To You" 55:00 "Pet Peeves" 58:14 "What You Do Best"1:02:37 "What Makes You Dope"1:07:57 "Favorite Movie"1:18:23 "Favorite Creation"1:21:39 "Zo Knows"Jux Pod Merch Available Here!After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

It's pretty obvious what the episode is about - but the angles we'll be tackling are more nuanced than you may expect. From saving yourself for your wife (word, I know!) to the importance of a hoe phase - we dive deep! (See what I did there?).Time Stamps:2:28 "Week In Review"8:50 "Main Topic: The Sex Episode"27:50 "Non-Relationship Sex"39:12 "Do You Really Need A Hoe Phase?"56:15 "Did Your Past Help Your Future"1:13:50 "Action Items" 1:19:40 "Zo Knows"1:26:00 "Hint of Health" After you listen and follow us & let us know what you think on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

This week, we breakdown when's the best time to post 'bae' on social media. Have we ever gotten in 'trouble' for NOT posting? Have we ever wanted to be posted and have been told no. What does it feel like to be an IG boyfriend? We get into all of that and more!Time Stamps: 3:00 "Week In Review"16:09 "Main Topic: When To Post 'Bae' On Social Media?"1:17:28 "Zo Knows"

We dive deep into the age old question: "Can men and women be JUST  friends? Some say yes, some say no, but we cover it from multiple angles! Check out the time stamps below! Time Stamps:1:59: "How Was Your Week?"9:00: "Zo Knows" (News Updates)17:04: "Can Men & Women Be Just Friends?"17:13: "Steve Harvey Clip"18:45: "Our Reaction to Steve"22:18: "Can Men Friend Zone Women?"24:39: "Men w/ Options Don't Wait Around"26:33: "Benefits of Friendships w/ Women"31:27: "GF / Wife Have Issues w/ Female Friends?"40:10: "Work Husbands / Work Wives"51:06 "Same Sex Work Besties"1:06:41 "Final Thoughts"Follow us on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

This week we reflect on the days and time we discovered our confidence. When ddid you realize that you were "THAT guy" & how it worked out for us. Who contributed to it? What were our motivations? Also, we speak about the other side, the humbling experience of being TOO confident and the ways we bounced back.Time Stamps:3:30 "Week In Review"6:09 "Thank You for Listening"10:45 "Question of the Week"21:20 "Zo Knows"36:08 "Main Topic: Cocky or Confident?"Follow us on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

FIRST IN PERSON, IN STUDIO POD!Happy to be in studio together for the first time to talk about “What makes a good man?”We discuss the aspects, from the Male perspective - of what constitutes a “good man” & what the expectations are of a “good man.” From finances to companionship to loyalty - we dig into it all. Additionally, we dive into the impact that DMX has had on us as a collective. RIP to the legend, Earl “DMX” Simmons.

Have you ever heard that men can't "communicate?" Have you ever heard that trying to get a man to open up is super difficult? If so, you're probably a woman, who has failed to understand how to accurately communicate to us (haha) - but this episode gives you a behind the scenes look at the way WE like to be communicated with - and even a few tips you can learn along the way.Time Stamps:5:34 "Week In Review"6:55 "Question of the Week"14:07 "Zo Knows"27:45 "Main Topic: Unwritten Rules of Male Communication"1:13:25 "Action Items"1:20:25 "Hint of Health" Follow us on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

This week, we're discussing discuss the long term and short term changes a relationship goes through - particularly through the seasons. Pandemicships, Situationships, FWB - whatever it is, let's talk about it!Time Stamps:6:23 "Var's Question of the Week"15:18 "Zo Knows"30:50 "Main topic: Cuffing Season is Over"1:11:55 "Motivational Moment" 

It's March Madness & this episode, we dive deep to determine the greatest Black sitcom of all time, bracket style! 4 rounds - 16 shows, including The Jeffersons, Fresh Prince, Martin, The Cosby Show, Black-ish and many more - you'll wanna listen to the end - you may be surprised of the winner. Let's discuss! Time Stamps: :53 "Best Black Sitcom Theme-songs"6:43 "Week in Review"14:25 "Zo Knows"25:50 "Main Topic: Best Black Sitcom of All Time? - Round One"58:00 "Best Black Sitcom of All Time?- Round 2" 1:06:30 "Best Black Sitcom of All Time?- Round 3"1:18:45 "Best Black Sitcom of All Time?- Honorable Mentions" 1:23:00 "Best Black Sitcom of All Time?- Final Round" Follow us on instagram: @Juxtaposition.Pod

This week, we're discussing R-E-S-P-E-C-T and the generational nuances of it. We deep dive on the Kirk Franklin "rant" with his son, if we've ever in a position where you had to have words for someone you had a lot of respect for? and What does it mean to “respect your elders” these days? Another value packed episode!

In the episode, we catch up on current events! From our "Coming to America 2" review to the drama and regular racism from the Royal family. We also dive into our Black wins w/ Jay-Z and Tidal as well as with Swizz / Timbaland w/ Verzuz!

In the episode, we discuss what it's like to be Black in the Corporate space. We discuss the expectations, the implications and the obligations to speak up, especially when you're the "only" in the room. 

This episode, we discuss Leadership! Are leaders made? Are they born? We also dive into how to effectively lead a team, how experience builds leadership and Verbal vs. Action Oriented leadership style.Time Stamps: 4:00 "Week In Review"13.19 "Zo Knows"26:00 "Main Topic: Are Leaders Born or Made?" 1:18:25 "Actionable Items"Follow us on Instagram!

In this episode, we dissect everything there is to know about networking from: Informational InterviewsNetworking For HarvestBenefits of LinkedIn & How to use it properlyNetworking ReciprocityInternal vs. External Networking & More...This one is full of value!

This week, we dive into current events and have a healthy dialogue about the movie "American Skin" and it's various complexities and also dive into the recent conversation around colorism and DaniLeigh. We also discuss Valentine's Day / Galentine's Day / Palentine's Day - What's Your Favorite?Time Stamps:2:49 "Week In Review"14:18 "Question of the Week"19:15 "Zo Knows"36:33 "Main Topic: Palentines Day?"1:13:03 "Motivational Movement"