Twin Flame Truth

In this season, follow Magnetize Your Twin Flame®️student Joe as he works with Elle to navigate his journey by learning the truth about twin flames and implementing the process taught in the coaching program to align and balance his energy and ultimately magnetize his twin flame. Joe's twin flame is coming in more often and he is noticing a shift in their energy and how they are interacting with him.  Elle reminds Joe that his twin flame is responding to his energy and helps him understand how he can use the interactions with his twin flame as a mirror to see where his energy is, identify back door feeds and distinguish where he still needs to balance more.   Quotes: "The fear-based energy can be very deeply seated.  In other words, you don't feel anything...you don't have any judgment surface level, but it is down there deep which could be the reason why she is feeling the fear-based energy here."  (15:05 - 15:26) "This is how the whole mirroring thing with twin flames works.  That's a myth, you know, they're not doing exactly what you're doing and mirroring you like that.  It's whatever your fears are, even if you aren't even aware of them, they're going to keep showing up until you become aware of them.  So your twin flame is going to keep showing you whatever you have fear-based energy of."  (19:44 - 20:08) "The thing with the energy too, the focus, the attention has to remain on you...your fear-based energy will constantly pull it back and put the focus back on the twin flame but you can't have that.  It has to remain on you otherwise where your attention goes, so does the twin flame's.  So if you want the twin flame's attention on you, you keep yours on you."  (30:15 - 30:42)   If you're ready to take charge of your twin flame journey and receive the same guidance and support as Joe, schedule a call with one of our coaches and start becoming irresistible to your twin flame today.  https://bewithyourtwinflame.org/clarity-consultation/

In this season, follow Magnetize Your Twin Flame®️student Joe as he works with Elle to navigate his journey by learning the truth about twin flames and implementing the process taught in the coaching program to align and balance his energy and ultimately magnetize his twin flame. In this episode, Elle teaches Joe the importance of being present with your twin flame and how "planning" when and how he responds to his twin flame and "scheduling" time together is fear-based.   Quotes: "It's not the words that matter, like how you text her or what you say at all.  If you're focused on that then that's total fear-based energy.  The only thing that matters is the energy."  9:56 - 10:06 "The more and more you balance and interact with your twin flame, the less words you're going to need and the more comfortable you'll both feel just being in the same energetic space that you share with no one and nothing else."  13:35 - 13:50 "Planning comes from your mind, and your mind is fear-based energy.  That's why we don't want to plan, we don't want to go over and our what we're going to say and make sure it sounds funny or flirty because again, trying to be funny or flirty is trying to get a reaction out of your twin flame and that's trying to "get".  In the moment...as much as you can be in the moment is exactly how you want to relate with your twin flame."  19:17-19:48 If you're ready to take charge of your twin flame journey and receive the same guidance and support as Joe, schedule a call with one of our coaches and start becoming irresistible to your twin flame today.  https://bewithyourtwinflame.org/clarity-consultation/  

In this season, follow Magnetize Your Twin Flame®️student Joe as he works with Elle to navigate his journey by learning the truth about twin flames and implementing the process taught in the coaching program to align and balance his energy and ultimately magnetize his twin flame. Now that Joe is interacting with his twin flame more often, he has some new questions about his twin flame "relationship" such as working out logistics (since they are not in the same state), dating other people, and timing.   Elle explains how and why these questions are fear-based and can create backdoor feeds and teaches him how to dig deeper to see where his fear-based energy is "hiding" within his intention so he can identify and balance it more effectively. Quotes: "The soul always works it out.  Nothing physical can keep your soul away from each other.  The only thing that can do that is your own push-pull energy of the soul, that push-pull part of the soul, the fear-based energy of the soul.   That's the only thing as long as you're not balanced.  So there's no physical thing that can possibly be stronger than your soul."  (8:56 - 9:19) "You always have to ask deeper what your real intentions and motives are for doing something with this journey."  (20:26 - 20:32) "It's not about a relationship with your twin flame.  With other people, it's a relationship.  With your twin flame it's a reunion of your soul.  It's that sacred of a bond, so it's a completely different ball game.  No other relationships you have with anything or anyone else has anything to do with your twin flame journey."  (24:09 - 24:25)   If you're ready to take charge of your twin flame journey and receive the same guidance and support as Joe, schedule a call with one of our coaches and start becoming irresistible to your twin flame today.  https://bewithyourtwinflame.org/clarity-consultation/

In this season, follow Magnetize Your Twin Flame®️student, Joe, as he works with Elle to navigate his journey by learning the truth about twin flames and implementing the process taught in the coaching program to align and balance his energy and ultimately magnetize his twin flame. Since Joe has magnetized his twin flame, he is experiencing brand new ways his fear-based energy is trying to be in control of his twin flame situation.  Elle helps him recognize the sneaky ways his energy is trying to feed and offers guidance in how to remain in the process day to day including identifying his fear-based energy when making decisions, how the interactions with his twin flame must change after magnetization and the importance of honesty and integrity in intention.   Quotes: "Questioning or worrying about how you're supposed to interact with her - any confusion around that is your fear-based energy.  Fear is always confusion and doubt and uncertainty because those are synonymous with fear."  (4:44 - 4:58)   "There's no finiteness in love.  Love is completely infinite. Your soul is completely infinite, so as soon as we take something from infinite and try to make it finite, and organize it and label it and try to put timing on it or anything else in the physical world, that takes it from love to fear.  And remember, nothing can happen with your twin flame physically from the space of fear." (14:56 - 15:18)    "Your fear-based energy controls your mind.  It needs things to be in order.  It only exists in the physical world where everything is finite, where everything is temporary, where everything needs to be in chronological order because the third dimension of physicality and fear-based energy is linear.  But in the fifth dimension of love and the soul, there's no lines, it's not linear, it's everything everywhere all at once.  It's chaos.  The soul is chaos but the mind doesn't like to think of chaos because it can't even conceive of chaos.  That's why it has to think of things as very finite and very orderly and categorize them because it makes the fear-based energy feel like it has more control that way.  But really it's a false sense of control because your soul is orchestrating everything always."  (17:22 - 18:08)  If you're ready to take charge of your twin flame journey and receive the same guidance and support as Joe, schedule a call with one of our coaches and start becoming irresistible to your twin flame today.  https://bewithyourtwinflame.org/clarity-consultation/  

In this season, follow Magnetize Your Twin Flame®️student, Joe, as he works with Elle to navigate his journey by learning the truth about twin flames and implementing the process taught in the coaching program to align and balance his energy and ultimately magnetize his twin flame. After implementing the techniques he learned in the process for just a few weeks, Joe was able to balance enough that he magnetized his twin flame.  As is the case with everyone who first magnetizes their twin flame, Joe's energy began to feed from this interaction so Elle shares how to recognize his sneaky and subtle fear-based energy more clearly and guides him through what to do to help him not only maintain his balance by stopping the feed, but also how to balance even more to prevent the energy from repelling again and pushing his twin flame away.  Quotes: "Why she came in and why she came in a different way is because you've balanced enough of your fear-based push energy to clear the energetic field which enabled your soul to bring the two physical bodies, yours and hers, together physically.  And even though you're not physically in the same room, by physically we mean she comes into your physical somehow, right?  Which she did, she called."  (3:35 - 3:50)   "Whatever the twin flame says, thinks, feels, or does is totally irrelevant.  The only thing we want to focus on is just, "Oh, I balanced enough that here she is, she came in."  And that's all you need to know.  So you don't ever have to talk to her, you don't have to message with her...I'm not saying that you can't, but I'm just saying you want to get to the point where it's not about that, it's not about the details so to speak."  (12:15 - 12:39) "It's different now relating with her.  It has to be or else the fear-based energy comes back in.  Like if you want to make it like a "normal" relationship like you'd have with anybody else or you had with her previously, the push-pull, fear-based energy will just kick back in."  (21:51 - 22:05)   If you're ready to take charge of your twin flame journey and receive the same guidance and support as Joe, schedule a call with one of our coaches and start becoming irresistible to your twin flame today.    LINK https://bewithyourtwinflame.org/clarity-consultation/  

In this season, follow Magnetize Your Twin Flame®️student, Joe, as he works with Elle to navigate his journey by learning the truth about twin flames and implementing the process taught in the coaching program to align and balance his energy and ultimately magnetize his twin flame. In this episode Joe learns more about his fear-based energy.  Elle teaches how this sneaky energy works and helps him understand the effect it has on how he feels, his thoughts, his beliefs, and how it feeds, and offers guidance in how to effectively implement what he's learned in the process so far to identify his fear-based energy and stop it from feeding. Quotes: "Everything that we do, we say, we think, we feel is all fear-based energy.  And that energy is the push energy that's pushing toward her, and she is your pull and she pulls away at the same time.  So, every time we indulge or placate or give in to that energy, that urge, that feeds the energy so it builds up stronger, so it pushes out even stronger.  So, it doesn't matter whether you actually reach out to her, or you talk to her, it's all about within you if you're feeding that energy.  So, even just to check to see if she's online feeds that energy and builds it up even stronger to push out towards her and she feels it no matter what, whether she's right next to you, whether she's talking to you, whether she's half way around the world, she feels it, it's her energy too."  (6:49-7:39) "When you stop doing those things, and when you start really seeing them, and you start shrinking your fear-based energy, what it's going to do is that it's going to try to find sneaky ways that are more subtle that it's connecting things to her.  We call these backdoor feeds."  (14:16-14:32) "The more that you move through this process and the more you, we call it "balance" your fear-based energy, which makes it smaller, the sneakier it is because it's not so big in your face.  You're not really in it anymore, you're seeing it from the observer perspective and it just gets smaller and smaller.  But then it gets sneakier and sneakier, so that's why coaching is so important on this journey."  (19:55 - 20:18) "So, right now you're push energy, she's pull energy of your soul, of your one soul which is an energetic field.  Your push particles in the energetic field, she's pull.  So, that's polarized.  That's what we call polarized like a battery, there's a plus like a positive and negative.  What we're doing is every time that you "balance" we call it, but every time that you become the observer of your fear-based energy, and you'll learn more about doing that in the next coming up modules, the more you do that, that stops the push because it neutralizes it.  The neutrality of that is love.  It takes your fear-based energy and it transmutes it into love energy, and that's forever."  (32:36 - 33:22)   If you're ready to take charge of your twin flame journey and receive the same guidance and support as Joe, schedule a call with one of our coaches and start becoming irresistible to your twin flame today: https://bewithyourtwinflame.org/clarity-consultation/

In this season, follow Magnetize Your Twin Flame®️student, Joe, as he works with Elle to navigate his journey by learning the truth about twin flames and implementing the process taught in the coaching program to align and balance his energy and ultimately magnetize his twin flame. In this episode Joe gains more clarity about what's really going on with his twin flame situation such as the energetic push-pull dynamic and how that's playing out for him, why he's obsessed, why she pulls away, and how implementing this process will improve his twin flame relating experience as well as every other area of his life. Quotes - "So, you and your twin flame share the same soul; it's the same energy.  And so, in the physical world the soul has to have polarized dual energies.  So it has to have a push energy and a pull energy.  And that's why it has two different bodies, the two twin flames.  One is the soul's push energy, one is the pull energy."  (15:43 - 16:03) - "The reason why it's pulling away is because energetically the pull twin flame feels suffocated almost from the energy of the push twin flame.  Even physically, the push twin flame can be blocking them or trying to move away from them but the energy is what matters."  (18:51 - 19:14) - "We remove the push and pull, it neutralizes it.  So neutralizing the shared energetic field enables the soul to bring the two physical bodies together again."  (23:49 - 24:00) Links: If you're ready to take charge of your twin flame journey and receive the same guidance and support as Joe, schedule a call with one of our coaches and start becoming irresistible to your twin flame today: https://bewithyourtwinflame.org/clarity-consultation/  

Have you noticed that since your twin flame left, your money seems to have vanished as well?  Have you been struggling to get back on track but no matter what you try, nothing seems to work - even if it worked before? The truth is, there is a direct connection between your twin flame journey and your finances.  In this episode, Elle shares the divine connection between your twin flame journey and infinite abundance and what to do to take advantage of this connection to experience infinite abundance in your life.   Quotes: "The twin flame journey is so significant and impactful in every area of your life not just regarding your twin flame. " (1:53 - 2:03)   "Everything in the physical world including your thoughts, your beliefs, your feelings, your words, numbers,...they're all limitation."  (27:28 - 27:36)   "Every time you take your power back, you awaken more and more and you lift the limitations to break the patterns, and you stop dreaming and you remember your true self which is limitless, unadulterated joy and infinite abundance, and of course, love." (30:41 - 30:59)   "As long as you believe in the dream, the fantasy, the illusion, and any of this is real, you can't break through the cobwebs and continue to awaken to experience infinite abundance." (45:16 - 45:23) Links: Twin Flame Path to Riches Learning Portal https://elle-hari.mykajabi.com/offers/Z3F2L8Ep Elle's Bookstore:   https://store.ellehariauthor.com/ To discover all of the other ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame Journey, please visit: https://linktr.ee/ellehari   If you're ready to leverage the pain, confusion and obsession of the journey to have a loving relationship with your twin flame and elevate every aspect of your life, speak with one of our clarity coaches here:  https://bewithyourtwinflame.org/clarity-consultation/  

Are you spending more time alone than usual, lately? Do you find yourself lonely without other people to provide you with love, peace and comfort? This season of isolation is the perfect opportunity to learn to love yourself completely and wholly, to enjoy your own company, without the need of approval from anyone else. The more you love yourself, the more you love your Twin Flame and thus draw them to you like a magnet.    Too many people are afraid to be alone. They forget that they are enough just as they are. No matter how many people you surround yourself with–including the physical form of your Twin Flame–no one can truly make us feel anything, good or bad. We are in charge of our own feelings and shouldn't give anyone the power to define or fulfill us.    As Elle says on this latest episode, it's time we all own our own shit. This is part of loving ourselves, and loving ourselves brings us closer to our Twin Flames.   Quotes  “Right now, you're being given a gift from the Universe and your soul is being given a gift, and it's a gift of solitude.”(4:02 | Elle) “Well, think about it: when you love someone, or you think you love someone, what do you want to do? You want to spend time with them. You love being with them. They're enough. Just being with them is enough. That's where you need to get with yourself. You feel whole and complete and have the best time ever just being with you.” (4:49 | Elle)  “That's a very real fear for most people. Most people cannot be alone. And it's because they don't truly love themselves. They're looking outside themselves to other people, constantly, for comfort, to feel good, for happiness.” (6:08 | Elle) “Everyone–everyone–is responsible for their own feelings, and it's about time we all take responsibility for that and accountability and own our own shit. Because that's loving yourself.” (7:33 | Elle)  “Because ultimately, what's that doing? It's giving away your power. That's saying someone else has the power over you to cause you to feel comfortable, or happy, or angry, or pissed off. Why would you give your power away like that?” (7:59 | Elle)   Links For information about the Be With Your Twin Flame® Coaching Certification and Business Academy or if you're ready to leverage the pain, confusion and obsession of the journey to have a loving relationship with your twin flame and elevate every aspect of your life, speak with one of our Clarity Coaches here: https://go.oncehub.com/ClarityConsultationCall   To discover all of the other ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please visit:  https://linktr.ee/ellehari   Shop Elle Hari's latest books here:  https://store.ellehariauthor.com/   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Have you found yourself isolated with more time to think and less time to spend with people? As a result, are your thoughts becoming more obsessive? If you are looking to stop those thoughts, then think again, Elle says. What you want to change is the energy behind the thoughts and the stories that your fear-based energy attaches to them. Thoughts themselves are neutral, and can mean something different to you from one day to the next depending on the meaning you assign to it.    This is easier said than done, as some of our thoughts are deeply embedded in our subconscious and are attached to triggers, behavioral patterns, and stories. The stories you attach to the physical embodiment of your Twin Flame–examples of which Elle shares here, including one from her own life–will keep you apart from each other.    To clear up the fog that obsessive thoughts create between the two of you, you must practice the opposite of that fog, which is  truth and love, to make things clear. Join Elle in today's episode to learn how to do it!   Quotes  “You're not supposed to stop your thoughts. It's not about stopping something because you don't want to resist it. What you resist, persists. What it's really about is sitting there and being aware of your thoughts.” (4:16 | Elle)  “If you ever take an actual ball of snow, a little tiny one in your hand, and you roll it around  on the ground, it gets bigger and bigger, it just collects more snow. That's how your fear-based energy works. So, it starts with a factual thought that may appear to be the case, but then it adds a story to it that you don't know is real, because it's made up by your fear-based energy.” (7:14 | Elle)  “I know you've felt this way because I've felt this way: when you're in the throes of your Twin Flame journey like this, it almost feels like you're in a fog.” (9:21 | Elle) “Fear is cloudy; fear's not clear. Truth is clear. Truth and love. They're clear.” (9:42 | Elle) “So as you do all those things, and as you lift the cloud for yourself, you're lifting it for your Twin Flame as well.” (11:47 | Elle)   Links For information about the Be With Your Twin Flame® Coaching Certification and Business Academy or if you're ready to leverage the pain, confusion and obsession of the journey to have a loving relationship with your twin flame and elevate every aspect of your life, speak with one of our Clarity Coaches here: https://go.oncehub.com/ClarityConsultationCall   To discover all of the other ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please visit:  https://linktr.ee/ellehari   Shop Elle Hari's latest books here:  https://store.ellehariauthor.com/   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Do you find yourself having an abundance of fearful thoughts lately? Are you dwelling on the negative more than usual? In today's world, it's almost impossible not to be bombarded by stressful imagery and messaging. Since they know it's all very addictive, the media makes sure to keep it in steady rotation.    Elle is here to help, guiding you with simple exercises and suggestions to keep you centered and present, so that the fear-based energy in your mind doesn't stand between you and your Twin Flame.  She'll show you what to do with the thoughts that come up in your mind, and explain why it's important not to dwell either in the present or the past. No one outside of you can create your feelings. The antidote to fear and fear-based thinking is to trust and love yourself completely.    As Elle explains in this episode, sometimes being out of your mind is a good thing. She reveals the one thing you must do for any of the other steps to work and recommends one of the best books on the topic of living presently.    Quotes  “As anyone on the Twin Flame journey knows, fear-based energy is highly addictive, and like all energy, its natural inclination is to grow and expand. That's what it's meant to do.” (4:39 | Elle)  “The media companies and the news outlets, they've always known that fear is addictive and that's why they prey on it.” (5:50 | Elle) “You want to temper yourself from going forward or backward, and just really try to be present for a while. Fear cannot live in the present.” (11:22 | Elle) “Let the thoughts just float on by. It's OK. They don't mean anything; they aren't real. They're created in your mind which is run and controlled by what?---Your fear-based energy.” (13:04 | Elle)  “Trust and believe that your soul is orchestrating everything in your life. Because it is, and it's doing it for a reason, even if your mind doesn't know what that reason is.” (16:07 | Elle)   Links For information about the Be With Your Twin Flame® Coaching Certification and Business Academy or if you're ready to leverage the pain, confusion and obsession of the journey to have a loving relationship with your twin flame and elevate every aspect of your life, speak with one of our Clarity Coaches here: https://go.oncehub.com/ClarityConsultationCall   To discover all of the other ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please visit:  https://linktr.ee/ellehari   Shop Elle Hari's latest books here:  https://store.ellehariauthor.com/   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Are you using the Law of Attraction to manifest what you want? Is it working the way you want it to?   In this episode, Elle explains why manifesting techniques can hinder you, and will never be as powerful, as letting everything you desire come to you freely by aligning with your soul. Your mind is fear-based and limited to your physical experience, she says. It cannot even conceive of what your soul can bring to you.   Popular manifesting techniques require that you stay in your head, focused on the past and worried about the future. Also, people usually do it when they are in a panicked or worried state. The soul energy, which is infinitely more powerful than the mind, requires that we stay in the present, recognizing that all things are possible.    Free will is not what we think it is, Elle explains. Join the conversation to hear her explain how to reconcile the Twin Flame Journey with intentional manifesting, and the best method to use to get what you most desire.    Quotes  “It's interesting and yet backwards but people tend to want to manifest from a place of fear, when they realize that things are lacking or missing, or they feel a sense of things not being the way they want them, which is all fear-based thought. That's when they actually look to intentionally manifest, usually. Of course, that's the time when you really shouldn't and that's not going to work.” (3:43 | Elle) “Any sense of control it does feel is totally a false sense of control. It's never in control. Think about it: your mind only exists for the whole of your lifetime, it's not eternal, you don't take it with you. It's part of your physical reality and your physical existence. It's not your soul, your soul is eternal.” (5:56 | Elle) “Your soul is a direct spark of source energy. Source energy–whatever you want to call it, the Universe, Source, God, Goddess, whatever— it is the ultimate creator. It created everything, everything that exists in the entire history of everything, everything in the entire cosmos. It invented the cosmos. It invented everything, it created everything. And so, your soul is a direct spark from that energy, so therefore, you are an ultimate creator.”  (6:39 | Elle)  “Your mind can't even dream as big as what your soul can bring you.” (8:18 | Elle)  “‘Whatever thoughts are going through our heads, whatever we'd like to see show up in our physical world, if we're worried about it, if we're concerned about it, if we're so focused on it that we can't even find real, true peace about it in our life at all, unless we get it because it's so in our head, that's being in our mind and that's being fear-based. And then if we try to intentionally create or manifest things from that space, with that energy, that's just not being in alignment with our soul.” (16:35 | Elle)   Links For information about the Be With Your Twin Flame® Coaching Certification and Business Academy or if you're ready to leverage the pain, confusion and obsession of the journey to have a loving relationship with your twin flame and elevate every aspect of your life, speak with one of our Clarity Coaches here: https://go.oncehub.com/ClarityConsultationCall   To discover all of the other ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please visit:  https://linktr.ee/ellehari   Shop Elle Hari's latest books here:  https://store.ellehariauthor.com/   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Do you know what you truly want in life? Are you on a journey toward what you've been conditioned to believe is success? Be prepared to be thrown right off course, Elle warns. As you move closer into alignment with your soul–your true self–you move closer to your true life's purpose and your true desires. These are often different from those that you form in your mind, where your ego–and fear based energy–are stored. And it's not just your career that will change–you'll find yourself receiving your true desires in all aspects of your life.    And they will come with ease–because the soul will magnetize it all toward you. This is why it is so important to trust your soul-your true self. The mind and the ego will create resistance, and skepticism is normal. But to truly love yourself–your true self–means trusting yourself completely.    Elle's own life and the life of her students have changed drastically as a result of their Twin Flame journey. She is one of many successful entrepreneurs  who contributed their story to the internationally bestselling book “Yes, I Can.” In this episode, she explains why this process holds the key to success in every area of your life.    Quotes  “The definition of success, what you might think you want or desire in life, what you might think is your definition of success—and always has been—it may very well change as you move along this journey.”(4:23 | Elle)  “I'm not saying everything you want now is not aligned with truth or is all fear-based—if you want world peace, that's perfect and great–it's different than that. You can desire and want the same things, but your “come-from” about it, your intention for it, is different.” (6:57 | Elle) “When you're in alignment with your true self and your soul, your soul magnetizes in all your true desires to you, without your really having to do anything. You don't have to plan in your mind how to get it. You don't have to really go out and do anything. And when you do things, and you do take actions, they don't feel like they're actions, they don't feel like they're work. You don't even have to think about how to do it, the answer just comes to you. It really is amazing and miraculous and I see it all the time with my students, and I am living proof of exactly why and how that happens.” (8:09 | Elle)  “That's really the number one lesson of this journey, is to trust and believe in yourself, and by ‘self,' of course, I mean ‘soul.' (12:24 | Elle)   Links For information about the Be With Your Twin Flame® Coaching Certification and Business Academy or if you're ready to leverage the pain, confusion and obsession of the journey to have a loving relationship with your twin flame and elevate every aspect of your life, speak with one of our Clarity Coaches here: https://go.oncehub.com/ClarityConsultationCall   To discover all of the other ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please visit:  https://linktr.ee/ellehari   Shop Elle Hari's latest books here:  https://store.ellehariauthor.com/   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Has your entire life been disrupted and overturned? After years of near-perfect success and smooth sailing, are your health, finances, career or other major areas of life suddenly falling apart? This is not only common, but, as Elle explains, quite a necessary part of the Twin Flame journey.    It's an awakening, an alarm. Your soul is trying to get your attention. Physical pain and exhaustion are often signs of fear being alchemized into love. The more you align with your true self, the closer you come to your true desires and your true soul's purpose. And this means your definition of success may not look the same as it used to.    Take heart knowing that you can never go backwards. The Twin Flame journey moves in only one direction: forward. Quotes  “Your soul is trying to get your attention. You cannot ignore this journey. And if you're not going to pay attention to the more subtle signs that are going on–your soul just knows you, it is you—if it doesn't wreak havoc or change or affect one or all areas of your life, then you might not notice. This really is an awakening. It has to wake you up.” (5:12 | Elle) “The point of pain–even physical pain–pain is a symptom. It's not the actual cause or the problem. Pain is there as an alarm, an alert, an awakening to tell you, ‘Hey! This is going on. This hurts. So pay attention.' It gets your attention and leads you to find out and discover what actually is the underlying cause of the pain.”  (5:43 | Elle) “In the realm of the soul, what you really feel the need to do is create. Your soul is a creative energy, we are creative beings.” (8:51 | Elle) “When you are in alignment with your soul and what your true soul's purpose is, you're in alignment with the universe. And that is the whole energetic space of pure potentiality, which includes everything that you ever truly desire.” (9:24 | Elle) “Change in and of itself is very painful for people because our fear based energy hates change. It feels like it's losing control.” (10:48 | Elle)   Links For information about the Be With Your Twin Flame® Coaching Certification and Business Academy or if you're ready to leverage the pain, confusion and obsession of the journey to have a loving relationship with your twin flame and elevate every aspect of your life, speak with one of our Clarity Coaches here: https://go.oncehub.com/ClarityConsultationCall   To discover all of the other ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please visit:  https://linktr.ee/ellehari   Shop Elle Hari's latest books here:  https://store.ellehariauthor.com/   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Are you at the mercy of your limiting beliefs? Do you place people and things into boxes, therefore limiting their possibilities? To live in the 3D world is to be surrounded by limitations. Our fear-based minds, desiring a false sense of control tend to name, label, and categorize things and people, declaring what they are and are not, and therefore boxing them in. Your soul, however, is limitless. In the soul realm everything is possible and there are no opposites of good or bad, right or wrong, is and is not.   Applying labels to yourself and others–even positive ones like “empath,”-- is harmful. It suggests that you are only empathetic and nothing else. Labeling your Twin Flame a narcissist suggests that they have only narcissistic traits, while you have none. In fact, we all have a combination of every trait living within us at any given time.    Whenever you find yourself labeling something or someone–including yourself–take a moment to pause. Remember, everything is possible and right in the realm of the soul.    Quotes  • “A limitation is anything that imposes some type of restriction, disbelief, impossibility, boxing, categorizing, or label. So basically, most things in the physical world are limiting–that includes words and definitions.” (3:16 | Elle) • “How can we be in alignment with our soul which knows no limits, which is limitless – if we are living with limitation, if we are believing in limitation?” (4:25 | Elle) • “We look at empirical data, scientific evidence, things of that nature to see, to validate if something is possible, or if something is right or wrong. But in the realm of the soul everything is right–everything is. It's not right or wrong, it just is. In the realm of the soul where there are no limits, no physical data, anything and everything is possible.” (6:42 | Elle) • “If you say you're an empath, for example, that means you're saying that you're never not empathetic. And remember, to say you're always one thing and never another thing is a limitation.” (9:24 | Elle) • “There are no opposites in the realm of the soul. You just are, and you are everything. Everything, anything, all at once.” (9:57 | Elle)    Links For information about the Be With Your Twin Flame® Coaching Certification and Business Academy or if you're ready to leverage the pain, confusion and obsession of the journey to have a loving relationship with your twin flame and elevate every aspect of your life, speak with one of our Clarity Coaches here: https://go.oncehub.com/ClarityConsultationCall   To discover all of the other ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please visit:  https://linktr.ee/ellehari   Shop Elle Hari's latest books here:  https://store.ellehariauthor.com/   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Do you feel the need to do something to accelerate your Twin Flame journey? Do you feel anxious when you compare your journey to other people's? This need to “do” is fear-based “push” energy, and has the opposite effect–it will actually impede your progress toward your Twin Flame. It is when you let go and stay present and put complete trust in your soul that you allow it to deliver you in perfect time to exactly where you need to be.    Despite what the mind will try to tell you, there is no prize to be won. You win by letting go, trusting your soul, as it is the only thing that is truly in control. Time is an illusion. The awareness of it comes from your fear-based mind. The soul–which is truly in control of everything– has no sense of beginning or end. When you find yourself frustrated, remember that everyone's journey is different.    Quotes  • “Remember: when we feed our fear-based “push” energy, by believing it, by enacting what it wants us to do, then it just grows bigger, it pushes out farther and causes our Twin Flame to pull away farther.” (5:00 | Elle) • “Your soul is guiding you, perfectly. And your soul will bring you to exactly what you truly desire, your exact destiny, in divine perfect timing. All it takes is trust and belief in your soul.” (5:27 | Elle)  • “It has no sense of time. Every lifetime to your soul is just a second, an instant, a moment, because it just goes on forever. There is no end, there is no destination, there is no finality. (8:20 | Elle)  • “What is fast for one person is not as fast as for another. There's no sense in comparing anything either, with anyone else. That's also your fear-based “push” energy, wanting to make this a competition, because it looks at this as there's a prize to win, being with your Twin Flame physically. But it can't be like that.” (11:31 | Elle)  • “That's the Twin Flame paradox: you have to really let go of the need or the want or the yearning or the longing, the physical desire of being with your Twin Flame in order to then be with them.” (13:37 | Elle)   Links For information about the Be With Your Twin Flame® Coaching Certification and Business Academy or if you're ready to leverage the pain, confusion and obsession of the journey to have a loving relationship with your twin flame and elevate every aspect of your life, speak with one of our Clarity Coaches here: https://go.oncehub.com/ClarityConsultationCall   To discover all of the other ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please visit:  https://linktr.ee/ellehari   Shop Elle Hari's latest books here:  https://store.ellehariauthor.com/   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Are you trying to get the attention of your Twin Flame by looking them up or orchestrating a run-in with them? Or, by contrast, are you actively trying to avoid or ignore them? If you answered yes to either, you are in your “push” energy. And when you “push”, your Twin Flame inevitably “pulls”. This is a mutually manipulative dance in which you both vie for control.    Of course, any sense of control is false and fear-based. The mind, which is only part of your earth-based experience, is never actually in control. Control belongs to your soul, which is eternal through all lifetimes and everything in between.    The goal of the push/pull phenomenon is to learn to let go of this need to control, and to let your soul take over. When you do, miracles tend to happen.   Quotes  • “There's a belief that knowledge is power. You Google things, you have a quest and a search and a curiosity for information about things. You want to know things. That's all fine and perfect–as a human being with a mind, that's what the mind does, but why does the mind do that? Because it feels like the more it knows, the more in control it is.” (5:31 | Elle) • "What the false sense of control gives the fear-based push/pull energy is a false sense of security. Your mind and your fear-based push/pull energy are never in control. Your soul is controlling everything, it's orchestrating everything in your life, in every lifetime, between every lifetime. Your mind isn't even there in between your lifetimes. You only get a mind when you come into physical form.” (6:35 | Elle)  • “The “push” energy feels like it's in control by trying to get reactions and responses from the “pull” energy. The “pull” energy feels like it's in control by focusing anywhere else but on the “push” energy.” (10:57 | Elle)  • “They're both very manipulative. It's a very manipulative game.” (11:23 | Elle) “You can't let go of your Twin Flame. What you want to let go of is, pretty much, the wheel. Sit back and let go of trying to control your journey.” (14:11 | Elle)   Links For information about the Be With Your Twin Flame® Coaching Certification and Business Academy or if you're ready to leverage the pain, confusion and obsession of the journey to have a loving relationship with your twin flame and elevate every aspect of your life, speak with one of our Clarity Coaches here: https://go.oncehub.com/ClarityConsultationCall   To discover all of the other ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please visit:  https://linktr.ee/ellehari   Shop Elle Hari's latest books here:  https://store.ellehariauthor.com/   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Do you practice a traditional religion? Are you trying to maintain ties to this religion while continuing on your Twin Flame journey? If so, chances are you are finding it quite difficult, much like trying to move forward while still being tethered to the ground. This is because the two pursuits are inherently contradictory: religion is trusting and believing something outside of yourself that is dictated by other people, while the Twin Flame journey's mission is to teach you to trust and believe in yourself.    Religions were created in the mind, which means they're fear-based. Love is fearless. As you continue to ascend on your Twin Flame journey, you learn to transmute fear into love. Rather than putting your faith in gods and goddesses, you begin to realize that we are our own gods and goddesses. We are omnipotent, infinite and indestructible.    Quotes  • “I call it an issue because religion itself goes against what we are doing, learning here in this journey, what this journey is all about.” (3:14 | Elle) • “Anything created in the mind is fear-based, and so religion was ultimately created from a fear-based perspective, from a fear-based energy in people's minds.” (5:37 | Elle) • “The Twin Flame journey, it's an awakening, it's the first step of ascension, out of the fear-based paradigm of looking outside of ourselves for something to believe in, something to have faith in and realize that we are everything within. Our souls are everything. We are directly from Source.” (6:59 | Elle)  • “The church was there entwined with the government and used to oppress people, to keep people down, to keep building on and preying on their fear-based energy, on their fear of the devil or evil or whatever. And that helps keep people oppressed.” (9:57 | Elle) • “Now that you're awakened to this journey, it's really challenging and difficult to have both, because when you trust and believe in something, whether it's yourself or some external god or being or whatever your preacher is telling you, either way you're not fully trusting or believing in anything unless you're 100 percent in. There's no such thing as half belief, or half trust or half faith. You either have it or you don't.” (10:54 | Elle)    Links For information about the Be With Your Twin Flame® Coaching Certification and Business Academy or if you're ready to leverage the pain, confusion and obsession of the journey to have a loving relationship with your twin flame and elevate every aspect of your life, speak with one of our Clarity Coaches here: https://go.oncehub.com/ClarityConsultationCall   To discover all of the other ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please visit:  https://linktr.ee/ellehari   Shop Elle Hari's latest books here:  https://store.ellehariauthor.com/   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Are you experiencing earth shattering heartbreak, a dire financial state or unprecedented health problems? If so, you are not alone These are just a few of the very common pitfalls experienced by those on the Twin Flame journey, all of which can be attributed to feelings of fear or lack. These feelings are exclusive to the 3D physical world and all stem from the illusion of separateness.    In the 5D world, the spirit realm, everything is connected and we are whole. As Rumi tells us, everything we want we already are. You and your Twin Flame are a single connected energy field existing in two separate bodies. Part of our earthly experience is to feel separateness so that we can recognize the opposite.    If you've felt any of the above, Elle has answers for you. As always, she is here to guide you through these latest rites of passage along your Twin Flame journey.    Quotes  • “The point of this journey is to love ourselves. And what does that mean? It means shifting closer into alignment with who we truly are, because we are love we are our souls. And so it's recognizing and resonating with our true being, our true soul” (5:14 | Elle) • “In the realm of the soul, and spirit, all that, fear does not exist. It only exists in the physical, 3D world. And what is fear? Fear is the illusion of separation.” (7:04 | Elle)  • “In order to know what something is, we have to see also what it's not.” (10:20 | Elle) • “Anywhere, there's fear, it's going to come up, you're going to have to deal with it, you're going to have to balance , you're going to have to transcend that fear and transmute that fear into love energy, which is what we do on this journey.” (19:24 | Elle) • “That's really why so many people come to me, and they say not only did my Twin Flame leave me and I'm feeling awful and on the floor, but it seems like every area of my life has just fallen apart.  And there is a reason for that. It's because it's wherever you feel that you have lack, where you're not looking at it as you're total, you're whole and complete and everything you want you already are. Wherever you have that fear, that is that sense or illusion of separation.” (18:02 | Elle)    Links For information about the Be With Your Twin Flame® Coaching Certification and Business Academy or if you're ready to leverage the pain, confusion and obsession of the journey to have a loving relationship with your twin flame and elevate every aspect of your life, speak with one of our Clarity Coaches here: https://go.oncehub.com/ClarityConsultationCall   To discover all of the other ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please visit:  https://linktr.ee/ellehari   Shop Elle Hari's latest books here:  https://store.ellehariauthor.com/   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

As you continue along your Twin Flame journey, dating may be the furthest thing from your mind. Then suddenly–bam!--someone comes along who sweeps you off of your feet and reminds you what it's like to be in a normal relationship, reminds you that you absolutely can be physically attracted to another person and brings more balance to your life by taking the focus off of your Twin Flame for a while.    Of course, if you are consciously and intentionally hoping that a new relationship will aid you in calling in your Twin Flame, this will backfire. This is fear-based push energy and will not help you on your journey at all. If you are going to enjoy a relationship while moving along your Twin Flame journey, you must completely separate it from the rest of the journey.    Of course, if you feel you don't want to date anyone at all, that's also normal and perfectly fine. There is no right or wrong way to go about this. Trust that everything is working out perfectly and in its own divine time, just for you.    Quotes  • “Generally most people do not, can't even think about or fathom dating someone else until they've shifted closer in line with their soul. They're feeling balanced, they've magnetized in their twin flame, or maybe not, they haven't magnetized in their twin flame yet, but they're feeling great. They don't need anyone else not even thinking about that, they're not looking for that. And then all of a sudden, out of nowhere, Bam! Their soul magnetizes in someone that just knocks their socks off, just whirlwind sweeps them off their feet.” (5:21 | Elle) • “We don't want to date anyone else with the hopes of taking our focus off of the twin flame, or getting the twin flame or balancing more or moving along our journey or anything else. We want to date someone else just because, in the moment, it feels good, and we're having fun with that person. Nothing to do with a twin flame, nothing to do with the twin flame journey at all. You cannot connect it at all, it has to be separate–totally, totally separate. Otherwise, that's the fear based energy connecting it and it's feeding your fear based push energy, which isn't helping your journey at all.” (9:55 | Elle) • “You don't have to always be wanting that, you can be disinterested, you can go through long lulls of being disinterested in that. And that's perfect, too. However your journey is playing out, however you're feeling, there's nothing wrong with it. There's no right or wrong here.” (12:13 | Elle) • “Regarding the twin flame journey, we don't want to believe or judge any of the thoughts as being good or bad. We just want to kind of neutralize those out, but feel the feelings.” (13:05 | Elle)   Links For information about the Be With Your Twin Flame® Coaching Certification and Business Academy or if you're ready to leverage the pain, confusion and obsession of the journey to have a loving relationship with your twin flame and elevate every aspect of your life, speak with one of our Clarity Coaches here: https://go.oncehub.com/ClarityConsultationCall   To discover all of the other ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please visit:  https://linktr.ee/ellehari   Shop Elle Hari's latest books here:  https://store.ellehariauthor.com/   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Do you know the biggest mistake almost everyone makes on their Twin Flame journey? According to host Elle Hari it's discussing your journey with others, even your Twin Flame. And while it may be tempting to want to share your feelings about it, you are doing yourself and your Twin Flame a disservice.    Whether it be venting, gossiping, or just talking about your Twin Flame journey is disrespectful to your journey. Because when you do this, you are allowing your fear-based energy to control your thoughts, feelings and actions. It is important to know that the Twin Flame journey is the most important thing that your soul will ever experience, so you must approach it with the highest regard. And the more you tap into the urge to discuss your journey, the more you are feeding your fear-based energy and the more your Twin Flame will pull away.    While our human inclination is to share stuff with others, some things are better kept to ourselves, especially our Twin Flame journeys. When you finally accept this journey as sacred and hold your experience close to you, you can shut out the fear-based energy and be with your Twin Flame if you choose to do so.  Quotes  • “This journey is your spiritual journey. It is the very first step of your ascension. That means it should be revered, it should be treated as the beautiful amazing and transformative gift that it is. It is not like any other relationship with anyone else where you would go and gossip about it with people.” (04:23-04:44 | Elle) • “Announcing about or discussing your Twin Flame journey is very degrading. It's not very respectful to the sanctity of what this journey is about.” (05:39-05:59 | Elle) • “This journey is private. It is meant to be a private journey.” (09:49-09:54 | Elle) • “You cannot advance along this journey while also simultaneously feeding your fear-based energy.” (11:38-11:41 | Elle) • “Me and the coaches that I have trained under me, we know how to hold a space for people to discuss their journey and their Twin Flame with us where we're making sure that they're also not simultaneously feeding their fear-based energy.” (12:13-12:33 | Elle)     Links To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari    Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io    Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/ Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Throughout the episodes, you have probably heard host Elle Hari talk a lot about ascension and its role in your Twin Flame journey. Not only does it impact your relationship with your Twin Flame, but with everyone around you, including yourself. In today's episode, Elle explains what ascension is and what it looks like in your life.    According to Elle, ascension is a three-step process and the Twin Flame journey is the first step of that process. It is the whole purpose of our existence throughout our lifetimes. But what exactly does it look like? As we now know, you cannot be with your Twin Flame physically unless you transmute your fear-based energy into love. And through ascension, our levels of consciousness and awareness rise to collapse the separateness that we feel with our Twin Flame until we become one. It is here that we can gain our power back and live fearlessly. And once you have achieved ascension with your Twin Flame, you will begin to notice that you can do this with everyone around you.    When you no longer have to concern yourself with the thoughts or actions of others, you become empowered to live in alignment with your soul, which is love. And then, you can finally reach the sacred Twin Flame reunion that you have been waiting for.    Quotes  • “Ascension is the whole entire point and purpose of our existence in every lifetime.” (01:52-02:00 | Elle) • “Ascension is essentially like a three step process and the Twin Flame journey is the first step of that process.” (02:30-02:33 | Elle) • “Once you reach ascension, and your Twin Flame reaches ascension, that means you have no fear. You become fearless.” (07:02-07:08 | Elle) • “When you realize that you no longer have to concern yourself with what anyone else is doing, saying, thinking, or feeling, especially about yourself, then that just empowers you. It gives you your power back.” (13:16-13:28 | Elle) • “The whole ascension process is really about loving yourself, not just in the Twin Flame part of the journey,  but also with other people. And as that happens, you will see how you are all one.” (14:30-14:46 | Elle)   Links To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari    Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io    Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/ Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Are you starting to realize that the presence of your Twin Flame comes with a shadow of anxiety or doubt? According to host Elle Hari, this is the tipping point of your journey. In today's episode, she explains what the tipping point is and how it shifts your relationship with your Twin Flame.   It's important to remember that your fear-based energy was activated at the moment of soul recognition. And ever since, this fear-based energy has been behind all of your thoughts and feelings regarding your Twin Flame. It is this energy that makes you feel the highest of highs and the lowest of lows. And while your relationship with your Twin Flame felt more amazing than any other, at some point your energies will become so polarized that you will start to feel like your twin flame is pulling away and like you have to do things to try to keep them with you. Looking back, you can usually pinpoint the exact moment when this began to happen in your relationship with your twin flame. It usually occurs shortly after the best, most magical day you shared with your twin flame. This moment is what Elle calls the “tipping point.” Here, your fear-based energy will be pushing and pushing. And in return, your Twin Flame will pull farther and farther away from you. And from that moment on, your journey will change forever.   Once your fear-based energy is balanced, whether or not you and your Twin Flame sustain any form of a relationship, it will never feel the way it once did during the honeymoon period. Rather than looming with anxiety, the presence or absence of your Twin Flame will leave you feeling content, happy, and at peace.    Quotes  • “Happiness doesn't rely on something outside of you.” (03:36-03:38 | Elle) • “You may believe that when you're with your Twin Flame, you are happy. But underneath it all, there's a knowing in there that you're not happy. Why? Because the entire time that you're with the physical form of your Twin Flame, it's almost like you're just waiting for the other shoe to drop.” (03:48-04:14 | Elle) • “From that tipping point on, you're no longer feeling the blissful feelings that you felt on your honeymoon period because your polarized fear-based energy is there. Your push energy is there pushing and pushing. And because it reached a tipping point, your Twin Flame is pulling and pulling in tandem.” (08:47-09:06 | Elle) • “If you are in the back and forth push-pull dynamic and your Twin Flame does come in periodically, you will know that you're not fully happy there.” (11:12-11:21 | Elle) • “Once you do balance out your push-pull fear-based energy, and you are in a physical relationship with your Twin Flame, or even interacting with your Twin Flame at all, it will never go back to feeling like it did with the honeymoon period.” (11:53-12:10 | Elle)   Links To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari    Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io  Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

When it comes to the Twin Flame journey, it is not possible to have a physical relationship with them until you learn unconditional love. And while many people mistakenly believe that unconditional love has more to do with their feelings for others, host Elle Hari explains that it actually has everything to do with yourself. In today's episode, Elle explains the true meaning of unconditional love.    To experience unconditional love, you must love without conditions. So anytime you are worried about what your Twin Flame is thinking, doing, or feeling, you are putting conditions on your Twin Flame and therefore, cannot have a physical relationship with them. To experience unconditional love, you must first love yourself. Because by doing so, you free yourself from wanting or needing anything from anyone else.    We cannot experience love until there is an absence of fear. And our fear-based energies are working all the time to keep us occupied on the things that don't truly matter. But once we learn how to transmute our fear into love for ourselves, we can finally be with our Twin Flames.  Quotes  • “Unconditional love is the state that you must be in with your Twin Flame in order to physically be with them. If you don't have unconditional love, then you cannot physically be together.” (02:04-02:22 | Elle) • “Love is the absence of fear.” (02:52-02:55 | Elle) • “How do we get to unconditional love with our Twin Flame? It comes from loving ourselves.” (03:49-03:55 | Elle) • “When we love ourselves, we don't want or need anything from anyone or anything outside of us. That includes the physical form the Twin Flame.” (05:08-05:15 | Elle)   Links To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari    Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io    Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/ Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Do you attribute your feelings good or bad to the behaviors of your Twin Flame? According to host Elle Hari, this is a common response to engaging with your Twin Flame. However, by doing this, you are allowing your fear-based energy to keep you apart from your Twin Flame in the long run. In today's episode, Elle expresses the importance of owning your own sh!t.    The entire purpose of the Twin Flame journey is to learn how to unconditionally love yourself. And since the Twin Flame is you, that is why their involvement is so significant. The Twin Flame allows us to see parts of ourselves that we are not consciously aware of and brings to light the parts of us that we are not proud of. And while it can be easy to blame your Twin Flame for making you feel really happy or sad, that is just you not owning up to your own sh!t.    At the end of the day, your Twin Flame cannot make you feel any specific way. It is up to you and only you to determine how you feel about things relating to the physical world. When you stop blaming your Twin Flame for your own stuff, you open the door to a lasting relationship with your Twin Flame. Quotes  • “In order to love yourself or to love anything, you have to completely know it.” (02:35-02:39 | Elle) • “You need to know and understand yourself to love yourself. This includes stuff that may not seem so pretty, or you may not be so proud of.” (02:50-03:04 | Elle) • “Let's take an example and say you thought things were going great, but your Twin Flame blocked you or left you. You need to own your shit here. You need to really take responsibility and accountability for your role for what you did on the physical level to make them do that.” (05:41-06:01 | Elle) • “Putting expectations on a relationship is not true love.” (06:50-06:56 | Elle) • “No one is responsible for how you feel, including your Twin Flame. You alone are responsible for your feelings and this is what you need to own.” (07:48-07:55 | Elle) • “Your fear-based energy believes that your Twin Flame makes you feel good. But that right there is not love. That is what is keeping you from having any type of physical relationship with your Twin Flame for any extended period of time.” (08:22-08:39 | Elle) Links To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari    Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io    Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/ Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Do you feel desperate at times to make sense of your Twin Flame journey? According to host Elle Hari, this is the mindset that everyone first comes into their journey with. And while it is a common phenomenon, it is one that needs to change before the real journey even begins. In today's episode, Elle explains how to shift  in the right direction.    When you first embark on your Twin Flame journey, you probably want to spend time making sense of everything. It is natural to allow your focus on the outside fear-based world to determine how you feel, think, and do things. However, it isn't until we shift on a soul level that we can truly begin our journey to ascension. Elle explains that the focus on the outside world is just our fear-based energy trying to intervene with our progress. And once you begin to shift closer into alignment with your soul, you will begin to notice that everything falls into place perfectly.    Ultimately, the Twin Flame journey is a journey of the soul, not the mind. And once you have accepted this, the outside world will begin to reflect the benefits of love, peace, abundance and perfection in your life.  Quotes  • “You shift from your mind's mental fear-based perception into your soul perspective.” (02:46-02:57 | Elle) • “The shift that needs to happen is you need to do this journey on the level of the soul.” (03:38-03:43 | Elle) • “When you make this shift, you make it by shifting energetically closer into alignment with your soul. And when you do that, you will realize that it all falls together perfectly.” (03:45-04:00 | Elle)   Links To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari    Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io    Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/ Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

“Your fear-based energy doesn't allow you to have integrity. When you have integrity, you are your truth,” explains host Elle Hari, Founder of Be With Your Twin Flame®. Fear can manipulate much about how we view ourselves and our Twin Flame. Today, Elle explains that we must work past our fears to live authentically from the perception of our souls.   If we listen to our fear-based energy, we are tricked into believing that we must always be physically near our twin flames. The truth is we are our own Twin Flame because even if our souls are in different bodies, our energies are always connected. Ultimately, we must acknowledge that we are never really separate as we continue our journeys into loving ourselves.   Don't let your fear-based energy lead to selling out your soul. Learn more about how fear affects your truth, the duality of energy, and why true love means loving yourself.    Quotes  • “The Twin Flame journey is all about loving yourself. The whole point of this journey is to learn to love yourself on the deepest level possible, and that level is your soul level.” (2:26-2:37 | Elle) • “Your fear-based energy doesn't allow you to have integrity. When you have integrity, you are your truth.” (2:52-3:00 | Elle)  • “The truth for every single being is that you and your Twin Flame are the same beings because you are your Twin Flame, so you are never separate. The illusion of separateness is fear-based energy.” (4:43-4:58 | Elle)  • “The truth has no emotion with it. The truth is just truth, and that's your soul.” (11:53-11:58 | Elle) • “You must put yourself first. It's not selfish to not sacrifice yourself. It's not selfish not to sell out. It's not selfish to not compromise anything about your truth. You have to love yourself first.” (14:20-14:34 | Elle)   Links To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari    Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io    Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/ Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Do you ever feel stuck wondering how long your Twin Flame journey will take? In today's episode, Host Elle Hari explains the paradox of time and how to move past your fixation on it.   As you move through your Twin Flame journey, it is completely normal to wonder how much time it is going to take for you to feel better and magnetize your Twin Flame because our fear-based energy tends to focus on these things. However, it is important to know that time only exists in the physical world. And when it comes to your soul, time does not exist because our souls are eternal. So in reality, we need to shift our focus from time and allow our journeys to progress naturally. And once we have let go of the concept of time, things will fall into place as they should.   In the end, time is another distraction set forth by our fear-based energy. Once we learn how to redirect our focus to balancing our energy, time won't seem to matter anymore.  Quotes  • “As humans, we are hooked into the concept of time.” (02:22-02:26 | Elle) • “Our fear-based push-energy is all about time. It loves hooking onto dates and counting down the time.” (02:51-03:00 | Elle) • “Time only exists in the 3d physical world. Time does not exist in the realm of the soul. Why? Because the soul is eternal.” (03:43-03:52 | Elle) • “Once you let go of your fixation on time, time then seems to move so much faster.” (12:25-12:30 | Elle)   Links To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari    Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io/   Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/ Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Have you been feeling disconnected from your Twin Flame? Even though you might be working through your journey by aligning your soul and balancing your fear-based energy, it can be hard to not crave the physical form of your Twin Flame. In today's episode, host Elle Hari discusses the phenomenon of demystifying your Twin Flame.   It is important to remember that it is your fear-based energy that drives the addiction to the physical form of your Twin Flame. And at times, this addiction can feel so overwhelming that you tend to place your Twin Flame on a pedestal. But after you balance your fear-based energy, and focus on your real Twin Flame, which is your soul, you will realize that you don't need the physical form of your Twin Flame after all. And as a result, you will magnetize them into your physical world without even thinking about it.    Ultimately, having a physical relationship with your Twin Flame isn't as important as you might think. Once you have balanced your energy and connected with your soul, the physical form of your Twin Flame won't seem so necessary.    Quotes  • “Your push fear-based energy is addicted to the physical form of your Twin Flame and what that physical form is doing, thinking, saying, feeling. But remember that your physical body is not your Twin Flame, your Twin Flame is your soul.” (02:29-02:48 | Elle) • “Because the fear-based push-energy's drug of choice is the physical body of your Twin Flame, then it tends to put it on a pedestal.” (03:06-19 | Elle) • “When you magnetize your Twin Flame back in because your energy is balanced enough for your soul to be able to do that, your focus on them will be diminished. And then you will wonder what the hype is about.” (05:38-05:54 | Elle)    Links To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari    Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io/   Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/ Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

When anyone sets out on their Twin Flame journey, they are eager to know everything they can about their Twin Flame. And while this is a normal way to begin, Elle reminds listeners that it is actually our fear-based energy driving our motives to control everything. In today's episode, host Elle Hari answers the question, what does it mean when someone says, “your soul knows everything?”   It is almost human instinct to believe that your mind can control every aspect of your life. And while you can manifest certain things to happen, it is not your mind doing this, it is your soul. In fact, your soul is what orchestrates everything in your life. And regardless of whether you're the push or pull energy on your Twin Flame journey, it is still your fear-based energy trying to unintentionally control your mind. And once you balance your energy, you will allow your soul to do its job.    Regardless of what you may think you know, your soul knows better. Learn more about removing the barriers within yourself so that you can find true love along your Twin Flame journey.   Quotes  • “All of the need to know more, and to keep learning more about your Twin Flame is your fear-based energy. And your fear-based energy controls your mind.” (03:33-03:41 | Elle) • “Your soul is doing and orchestrating everything in your life. It is in control.” (03:15-03:20 | Elle) • “You're not able to manifest everything into your life because some of those things might be out of the realm of what your soul deems is for your highest good.” (06:20-06:30 | Elle) • “You are your soul. Your soul is magnificent, it's omnipresent, it's limitless, it's boundless.” (06:37-06:40 | Elle) • “The whole point of balancing, aligning, and moving through this journey is  really the unlearning of what you have learned in your mind.” (12:13-12:27 | Elle)   Links To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari    Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io/   Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/ Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

As we know from previous episodes, it's important to align closer to your soul and be out of your mind. But to be with your Twin Flame physically, you must do one more thing. In today's episode, host Elle Hari explains why it is necessary to balance your energy.    As Elle explains, fear-based energy controls our minds to determine whatever our Twin Flames are thinking, feeling, or doing as good or bad. And when we do this, we judge our thoughts as good or bad and it will ultimately determine how we feel. And while sometimes it can make us feel great, it is important to know that is still your fear-based energy controlling you. Fear-based energy is also addictive energy, so we are actually addicted to judging the physical world. When we finally balance our energy, we can achieve two things: find true inner peace and stop the push-pull dynamic that is keeping us and our Twin Flames apart.    At the end of the day, if we want to join with our Twin Flames physically we must do three things: get out of our minds, align closer to our souls, and then balance our fear-based energy. And once we learn how to stop listening to our fear-based energy, we can live in true bliss whether we end up with our Twin Flames or not.    Quotes  • “Balancing your energy is neutralizing it. It's taking your energy and instead of making it push, and making it be about fear, it's neutralizing it so there is no fear and no more push-energy.” (03:30-03:50 | Elle) • “What the fear based energy wants to do is get in your mind, and focus and obsess on something. Of course, in this case, it's your Twin Flame. And so that's why we have obsessive thoughts about the Twin Flame journey because our fear-based energy is activated.” (05:24-05:42 | Elle) • “If you're judging whatever you're thinking your Twin Flame is doing, saying, thinking, or feeling as good, then you're going to feel good. But if you're thinking that whatever your Twin Flame is doing, saying, thinking, or feeling is bad, then you're going to feel bad.” (06:34-06:45 | Elle) • “Once the push-pull energy is neutralized, it clears out energetic fields so that your soul can bring you and your Twin Flame physically together.” (09:56-10:04 | Elle)   Links To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari    Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io/   Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/ Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

“That's what I mean by shifting into alignment with our soul. We do it on an energetic level by transmuting the fear based energy that inhabits our physical bodies of our soul into the love based energy of our soul from other dimensions. Taking that fear based component, polarized component, duality component out of it,” explains host Elle Hari, founder of Be With Your Twin Flame®, international bestselling author, ascension alchemist, teacher, and coach. In the season four opener, Elle shares the reasoning behind why the first step of any Twin Flame journey is to align with our souls.    Due to the Universal Law of Correspondence, the energetic shift must happen within ourselves before we can even begin to look at anything outside of ourselves. The physical body exists in the third dimension, whereas the soul resides in the fifth dimension. We must transmute the fear based energy that inhabits our physical bodies into the love based energy of our soul in order to be in alignment. This is step one of the Twin Flame journey, because it allows for the layers to peel back and reveal our true selves. As we get closer to alignment, we learn how to love ourselves and begin resonating with an energy that is more in tune with our Twin Flame.    To really love ourselves, we must first learn to accept each layer of ourselves without judgment.  As we get closer to alignment and move from fear based energy into love based energy, we will begin attracting others to us whose vibrations resonate with our own. That is why the very first step on the Twin Flame journey is to energetically shift ourselves to be more aligned with our true soul's purpose. Quotes  • “We have to shift into ourselves first before we can even try dealing with outside of ourselves. And that's according to the universal law of correspondence, as within so without, so it has to happen within first.” (5:07-5:20 | Elle) • “Why is it necessary to do this? Why do we even want to do this? So, this is really the crux of the whole thing. So, the ultimate purpose and point of the Twin Flame journey is to learn how to unconditionally love yourself, how to love yourself. And every shifting closer and closer into alignment with your soul, with your true self, with love, is loving yourself. It's like working through the layers of an onion.” (6:15-6:49 | Elle) • “Your soul has a certain vibration and resonance. The only other person that you share the exact same resonance with is your Twin Flame. Your Twin Flame has the exact same resonance as your soul.” (7:50-8:03 | Elle) • “As you shift closer and closer, you go through those layers of that onion closer and closer to your true soul, you're going to encounter and unravel vibrations that are more in tune with your true soul's passions, your true soul's purpose, with people that resonate more with you.” (8:24-8:47 | Elle) • “People that were in your life before that were toxic relationships or just weren't really meaningful relationships will, silently without drama, fade away, and new people will come in. And as this happens, you're also bringing in things that help you learn more about yourself. Learning about yourself and then accepting those things without judgment is how you love yourself.” (8:48-9:16 | Elle)   Links To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari    Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io/   Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/ Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Do you ever worry that a past life or karma is disrupting the relationship between you and your Twin Flame? Contrary to popular belief, things like this actually have nothing to do with your journey at all. In today's episode, host Elle Hari explains why past lives and karma have no effect on the Twin Flame journey.    According to Elle, when we focus on our past lives we are focusing on the past—where our fear-based energy largely resides. Since the Twin Flame journey is centered around ridding ourselves of fear-based energy, it is important that we shift our focus to the present moment. At the end of the day, nothing from the physical world travels with us once we leave our physical bodies. So nothing you or your Twin Flame did, said, thought, or felt in a past life will matter in this life.    Tune into this week's episode of Twin Flame Truth® to learn more about the importance of shifting your focus from the past to the present so you can continue your journey towards ascension.   Quotes  • “Whatever you or your Twin Flame said, did, or thought in any previous life is not going to matter.” (04:19-04:27) • “In every lifetime, whatever happens in the physical world stays there. You don't bring your physical world stuff with you when you transition out of your physical body.” (04:38-04:47) • “Your previous lives are in the past. And when you're focused on the past, guess what you're doing? You're feeding your fear-based energy.” (06:47-06:56) • “Karma does not exist between you and your Twin Flame because you're the exact same energy source.” (09:10-09:14)   Links   Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io    To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari    Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/ Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Will you ever let go of this heartbreak?  In today's episode, Elle explains the difference between normal heartbreak and Twin Flame repulsion.    The main difference between regular heartbreak and the pain you experience from your Twin Flame is that with time, you will get over a regular heartbreak. Since normal heartbreaks are caused by the thoughts in the mind, it is possible to truly overcome it. However, because your Twin Flame is the same soul, you can never get over them. The reason it feels so endlessly painful is because the twin flame journey has activated your core wound. While this can be agonizing at times, Elle explains that it is a necessary part of your journey to ascension.   Tune into this week's episode of Twin Flame Truth® to learn more about the distinctions between regular heartbreak and Twin Flame repulsion and why the pain of your Twin Flame journey is necessary for your progression towards ascension.    Quotes  • “When I say normal heartbreak, I mean heartbreak from a physical relationship that's not the catalyst to start you on a Twin Flame journey.” (03:04-03:12) • “Despite your intentions, or your desires to want to move on and get over your Twin Flame, you can't because you are the same soul.” (06:25-06:36) • “Yes, the Twin Flame journey feels painful, but that pain is just your wake up call.” (07:33-07:37) • “For people on a Twin Flame journey, it is normal for them to feel physical pain and try to move on or cut the cord, but nothing will happen and it doesn't work.” (08:42-08:48)   Links   Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io    To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari    Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/ Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

According to host Elle Hari, anytime your Twin Flame journey isn't appealing to you it is because you are self-sabotaging. In today's episode, Elle discusses the phenomenon of self-sabotage and how to prevent it.    While it sometimes may feel like your Twin Flame is in charge, the only person that plays any role in how you feel is you. Whenever your Twin Flame is pulling away from you, Elle explains it's because they are responding to your fear-based push energy. So in reality, to get your Twin Flame to stop pulling, you need to learn how to stop pushing.     Tune into this week's episode of Twin Flame Truth® to learn more about the importance of controlling your push energy and being true to yourself so you can enjoy the Twin Flame journey without self-sabotaging.    Quotes  • “If whatever is happening in your Twin Flame journey does not appeal to you, it doesn't feel good, or it's not what you desire, it's all because of self-sabotage.”  (01:30-01:46) • “How the pullback manifests physically is that your Twin Flame is going to do exactly what it is that your push-energy is afraid of.” (03:39-03:50) • “All physical energy, emotions, and feelings are all based on fear because they all stem from our beliefs and thoughts.” (05:21-05:26) • “All you have to do is stop the push and your Twin Flame will stop the pull.” (07:22-07:25) • “When you're still focusing your intention on anything that your Twin Flame is doing, saying, thinking, or feeling, then you're just sabotaging everything that you want.” (07:29-07:40) Links   Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io    To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari    Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/ Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Whether you've known your Twin Flame your entire life, or you just met them a few weeks ago, every Twin Flame story is unique. In today's episode, host Elle Hari discusses how your Twin Flame journey might look for you.   While everyone's physical story of how they met their Twin Flame is unique, the reason we all are on this journey is the same- to take our first step towards ascension. And because of this, Elle explains that worrying about your physical experience with your Twin Flame is irrelevant. The best thing that you can do is look underneath all the physical distractions, and there you will find the truth.    Tune into this week's episode of Twin Flame Truth® to learn more about what truly matters most about your Twin Flame story.    Quotes  • “Everyone's story is unique and individual. Not one Twin Flame couple story is the same.” (02:42-02:49) • “Every Twin Flame story is different, valid, and beautiful. But they all have the same purpose, to start you on your journey to ascension.” (03:01-03:13) • “Even though the way the Twin Flame story manifests physically for everyone is unique and individual,  the real story underneath it all is exactly the same for everyone.” (04:19-04:32) • “Forget about how everything plays out physically because what's underneath it all is the truth.” (08:07-08:15) Links   Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io    To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari    Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/ Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

According to host Elle Hari, Many people want to give up on the Twin Flame journey anytime they feel a sense of anger towards their Twin Flame. In today's episode, Elle discusses why it is harmful to yourself to place blame on your Twin Flame.   Since your Twin Flame is the opposite side of your push-pull energy, their primary role is to reveal the parts of your personality that you are reluctant to accept. And because of this, Elle explains that when you are blaming them for something they did, you aren't upset at them, but rather yourself. Instead of resorting to blaming your Twin Flame, it is important to reflect on what they are trying to teach you. Ultimately, your Twin Flame's job is to show you how to love yourself unconditionally, and the sooner you can do that, the sooner you can be with your Twin Flame.    Tune into this week's episode of Twin Flame Truth® to learn more about how your reactions to your Twin Flame can reveal a lot about who you are and how you feel about yourself.  Quotes  • “Anything that you feel towards your Twin Flame is what your feelings towards yourself are. So any blame you place on your Twin Flame, means you are also blaming yourself.” (01:47-01:57) • “Your Twin Flame is here to show you the denied parts of you.” (06:45-06:49) • “Whenever you blame your Twin Flame for what they are showing you, you are actually blaming yourself because they're showing you the parts of yourself that are in the shadows.” (08:48-08:58) • “You can accept yourself without having to hate or place blame on your Twin Flame because ultimately, you're just hating and blaming yourself.” (09:49-09:56) • “No one can hurt you. It's all in your reactions to what you are experiencing. And the reaction you have to your Twin Flame is actually your reaction to yourself.” (11:42-11:51)   Links   Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io    To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari    Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/ Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

According to host Elle Hari, if you're listening to this podcast, you're likely the push-energy in your Twin Flame relationship. In today's episode, Elle explains subtle ways you are likely feeding your fear-based energy.   The further along the journey you are, the harder it gets so it is important to recognize when your fear-based energy is present. According to Elle, the best way to go about this is by shifting your intentions to always be centered on yourself. When you accept that this journey is about you and your soul, you will stop feeding your push energy and you will naturally magnetize everything that is meant for you, including your Twin Flame.    Tune into this week's episode of Twin Flame Truth® to learn how to reset your intentions and live judgment free so you can break your fear-based energy and live in a state of unconditional love.   Quotes  • “You can't even hope to find balance if your intention is still to be with your Twin Flame physically.” (04:46-04:50) • “In order to bring the physical vessels together, you first need to bring yourself together within.” (06:07-06:13) • “The more I shift into the love energy of my soul, I'm going to attract everything I ever wanted and desired into my physical world.” (08:03-08:14) • “Physical communication with your Twin Flame is a lifeline for your fear-based energy and it's a very popular way that you could sneakily be feeding it.” (12:32-12:40) • “You don't want to connect any part of the rest of your life with the Twin Flame journey because they are meant to be completely separate.” (16:52-17:00)    Links   Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io    To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari    Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/ Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

While the Twin Flame is a major component of your journey to ascension, it is important to know that you also play a significant role in how things play out. Last week, host Elle Hari discussed the role of the Twin Flame and in today's episode, she discusses how you impact the Twin Flame journey.    According to Elle, if you're listening to this podcast, chances are you are the push-energy in your Twin Flame relationship. While it can often feel like you are the only one putting in any effort, Elle explains that your role is essential to joining the two of you together. By shifting closer into alignment with your soul, you not only balance your energy but your Twin Flame's energy as well and when there is balance, you will naturally show your Twin Flame how to love you unconditionally.    Tune into this week's episode of Twin Flame Truth® to learn more about the part the push-energy plays in the Twin Flame journey and how you can find appreciation in doing the work that brings you and your Twin Flame together.    Quotes  • “Your role is to lead your Twin Flame into alignment with your soul by teaching and showing them how to unconditionally love you.” (02:26-02:42) • “As you shift closer into alignment with your soul, you are energetically pulling your Twin Flame closer into alignment with your soul as well.” (03:55-04:05) • “As you pull your Twin Flame closer into alignment with your soul they will also start experiencing and magnetizing things in their physical lives that are more conducive and resonant with what their true passions and purpose are.” (06:25-06:45) • “The Twin Flame with the push-energy usually does end up doing all of the work. But it's awesome work. And it is totally miraculous and priceless.” (10:31-10:41)   Links Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io    To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari    Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/ Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

For many people, there comes a point along their journey where they feel frustrated. While it can sometimes feel like the Twin Flame isn't putting in much effort, their job is more important than you might think. In today's episode, host Elle Hari breaks down the role of the Twin Flame.    Because the Twin Flame journey is all about unconditional love, the main role of the Twin Flame is to show you how to love yourself by revealing the truest parts of your soul. According to Elle, every time the Twin Flame comes in and out of your life, it is to show you something important. So instead of blaming the Twin Flame for coming and going, it is important to look within yourself and find ways to bring balance to your life. It is only after you have stabilized your fear-based energy that you can physically be with your Twin Flame.    Tune into this week's episode of Twin Flame Truth® to learn more about the importance of internal reflection and self-acceptance so you can restore balance and be on the path to ascension.     Quotes  • “Your Twin Flame's job, in a nutshell, is to keep you honest.” (02:09-02:13) •  “Anytime your Twin Flame physically comes in your life, it's to show you the denied part of yourself.” (05:38-05:44) • “Every time your Twin Flame pulls, it's revealing a part of you that needs more balancing.” (07:35-07:40)  • “You do not need the physical form of your Twin Flame to balance more.” (10:14-10:17) • “It's all about being honest with yourself. Instead of blaming your Twin Flame for everything, look within. That's where you'll find the answers.” (11:45-11:54)     Links   Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io    To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari    Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/ Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

As humans, we focus a lot of our time and energy searching for someone that will love us the way we want to be loved. While there is such a thing as unconditional love, it isn't what you probably think it is. In today's episode, host Elle Hari simply explains the concept of unconditional love and how to receive it from your Twin Flame.   According to Elle Hari, unconditional love can only happen once you release yourself and your Twin Flame from any and all conditions. When you place any expectations on what love should look like, you are living in your fear-based energy. In reality, unconditional love is the freedom to be yourself, and the only way to experience love with your Twin Flame is to shift closer into alignment with your soul.    Tune into this week's episode of Twin Flame Truth®  to learn more about the importance of balancing your fear-based energy and letting go of all conditions so you can align with your soul and find unconditional love with your Twin Flame.     Quotes: • “You cannot be with your Twin Flame unless you are in a state of unconditional love.” (01:57-02:02) • “You can't have a love that's not unconditional because, by definition, love has no conditions.” (02:23-02:29)  • “Fears will cause people to put conditions on love and fear and love cannot coexist.” (03:57-04:01) • “The only way to have love is to shift and align closer to your true soul vibration which incidentally is your Twin Flame.” (04:41-04:54) • “Unconditional love is the freedom to feel just with yourself and not have or need anyone else there.” (10:39-10:50)   Links   Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io    To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari    Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/ Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

What people desire most from their Twin Flames is their undevoted energy and attention. Because of this desire, people often spend too much time focusing on what the Twin Flame is doing rather than investing in themselves. In today's episode, host Elle Hari discusses why you need to treat yourself the way you want to be treated by your Twin Flame.  According to host Elle Hari, the Twin Flame journey is about self-love, not the Twin Flame. While it is normal to want affection from your Twin Flame, you can never achieve any physical relationship with them unless you put yourself first. When you focus on yourself, you show up as the best version of yourself for everyone, including the Twin Flame. Once your energy is flowing inward, you will naturally draw your Twin Flame towards you.  Tune into this week's episode of Twin Flame Truth® to learn more about the importance of investing in yourself so you can be a better version of yourself and also attain a physical relationship with your Twin Flame.   Quotes  • “When I say you are exactly the same as your Twin Flame, I'm talking about who you really are. It is not your body, your personality, or your mind. It's the underlying energy. You and your Twin Flame are the exact same energy.” (02:33-02:48) • “What you really want is for your Twin Flame to invest their attention and energy into you. And to do that, you must first invest your attention and energy onto yourself.” (03:00-03:25) • “You have to separate the fact that you're the same energy from the fact that you're two separate bodies.” (04:10-04:14) • “If you put your attention onto yourself, that means your energy is going to flow onto yourself. This means you're bringing your Twin Flame onto yourself and therefore their attention is going to come on to you.” (04:31-04:44)  • “When your attention and energy goes to loving yourself, then your Twin Flame has no choice but to come and love you, too.” (07:54-08:02)    Links   Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io    To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari    Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/ Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Throughout your Twin Flame journey, you will inevitably run into obstacles that prevent you from attaining a physical relationship with your Twin Flame, including death. Even though these hurdles may seem impossible to overcome, they are beneficial to your Twin Flame experience. In today's episode, host Elle Hari discusses how to handle physical challenges that arise along your journey.  According to Elle, obstacles can come in a variety of ways. Whether it be location, age, gender, sexual orientation, or even death, almost everyone experiences some form of physical limitations during their journey. Rather than succumbing to elements of the physical world, Elle wants listeners to remember the true meaning behind the Twin Flame experience: love yourself unconditionally. When we drive out our fear-based energies, we allow our soul to be in control. Not only can your soul align and balance your energy, but it will also transcend any obstacle you may encounter.  Tune into this week's episode of Twin Flame Truth® to learn more about common obstacles between Twin Flames, the strength of your soul, and how to rely on yourself to overcome any problem you endure in your physical existence.     Quotes  • “I think almost all Twin Flame relationship stories have some form of a physical obstacle.” (01:44-01:50) • “An obstacle is anything in the physical world that you can see, feel, touch, and hear that would preclude you from even considering being with this person.” (03:51-04:02) • “Obstacles happen because it is showing you that your soul is strong. It's no match for anything in the physical world and your soul will overcome, surpass, and transcend anything that can possibly be considered an obstacle.” (04:34-04:50) • “I don't care how astronomical, crazy, or impossible any kind of physical situation seems to be, your soul will make it work.” (06:39-06:51) • “Don't be discouraged by any kind of physical obstacle. There are no obstacles because your soul is a miracle. Your soul is perfect. It can do anything and it can surpass anything that's physical.” (10:42-10:54)    Links To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari    Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io    Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/ Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

When host Elle Hari was rejected by her Twin Flame, it was one of the most painful things she had experienced. While not being accepted by your Twin Flame may feel like the worst thing in the world, Elle explains that it is actually for your benefit. In today's episode, Elle discusses why being rejected by your Twin Flame is one of the greatest things.  According to Elle, when you are blocked by your Twin Flame, it is the universe's way of providing you the necessary space to focus on what matters most: aligning and balancing your fear-based energy. Since you cannot physically be with your Twin Flame until you are balanced and aligned, it is important to focus on yourself for a while. Not only will you rid yourself of all the pain and obsessive thoughts, but you will also create the energetic space where you and your Twin Flame can be together in the most ideal way.   Tune into this week's episode of Twin Flame Truth® to learn more about the importance of soul work, the two types of situations regarding the Twin Flame, and how to temporarily let go so you can destroy your fear-based energy, find alignment, and finally be with your Twin Flame in a state of pure love.    Quotes  • “When your two push-pull energies build up so much that they start to repel each other, what happens is your Twin Flame will completely and totally disappear and block you.” (02:46-03:01)  • “Every time your Twin Flame comes and goes, the going will be just as painful as it was the last time.” (03:32-03:38) • “When you're blocked, cut off, and you have no contact with your Twin Flame, that's the most preferable place for you to be.” (04:07-04:16)  • “The only physical beings in physical form who are able to be in a space of pure love with each other are Twin Flames, but only after they have gone through the necessary energetic work.” (05:29-05:42) • “You need to have space away from all the fear-based energy in order to align and balance you and your Twin Flame's energy, and then your soul can bring you together.” (06:20-06:35)  • “When you balance out the fear-based push-pull polarities of your Twin Flame, your energetic space will be clear enough for your soul to bring you together physically in a space of pure unconditional love.” (11:04-11:15)    Links Take the free Twin Flame Quiz and check out the brand new Be With Your Twin Flame app here: https://be-with-your-twin-flame.passion.io    To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari    Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/ Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

As we all know, push-energy is the number one enemy to the Twin Flame journey. While it can sometimes be obvious, host Elle Hari explains that fear has sneaky ways of disrupting our peace. In today's episode, Elle discusses eight ways your push-energy might be keeping you from your Twin Flame.  Just like any energy, the natural inclination of our push-energy is to continue to grow and expand. If we allow this energy to gain too much control, it will continue to push the Twin Flame further and further away. This is why it's crucial that we actively work to drive any fear-based energy out of our lives. To do so, we must remember that nothing in the physical world connects us to our Twin Flames. Whether it be thoughts, feelings, emotions, obsessions or desires for a relationship, we cannot concede to aspects of the physical world. Instead, it is important to let go and allow our souls to guide us in the right direction. Tune into this week's episode of Twin Flame Truth® to learn more about stopping your obsessions and letting go of physical desires, so you can starve out the fear-based energy that is keeping you from your Twin Flame.    Quotes  • “Your push-energy is fear-based, it's addictive. And like any energy, its inclination is to grow and to expand, but we don't want this energy to do that. We want to actually starve it out so that it shrinks.” (01:52-02:08)  • “When you have dreams of your Twin Flame, that is your fear-based push-energy sneaking in a feed while you are not awake and consciously aware of it.” (06:29-06:40) • “What connects you with your Twin Flame are not physical things. So, feelings, emotions, thoughts are all physical, they are all created in the mind.” (08:20-08:33) • “Any obsession is fear-based energy.” (13:57-14:00)   Links To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari    Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/ Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

When it comes to having a physical relationship with your Twin Flame, you may picture it being a monogamous relationship. While having this kind of relationship with your Twin Flame is possible, host Elle Hari explains that it will look different than what society defines monogamy to be. In today's episode, Elle clarifies how the concepts of monogamy, boundaries and marriage apply to the Twin Flame journey. Humans are not naturally monogamous creatures; rather, the concept was developed by the human mind to control and oppress people. Since this is a man-made idea, it is derived from physical, fear-based energy. So, if you desire a monogamous relationship with your Twin Flame, Elle explains that you are not coming from a place of love but rather one of fear and scarcity. Forcing conditions like marriage or monogamy onto your Twin Flame will only trigger your fear-based energy and push them away. Despite how we have been programmed, true monogamy can only exist between you and your Twin Flame because you are one soul.  Tune into this week's episode of Twin Flame Truth® to learn more about the true meaning of monogamy and how to let go of all fear-based conditions, so you can truly love yourself and achieve a relationship with your Twin Flame.    Quotes  • “Monogamy came about as a way to actually oppress and control. How do I know this? Because humans are not a naturally biologically monogamous species.” (03:22-03:32) • “Love is not monogamy. Monogamy comes from fear.” (04:54-04:57) • “Marriage is being the same and being one, and that's you and your Twin Flame.” (07:38-07:44) • “Twin Flames are the only two people that monogamy can actually occur with, but it can't come from the mind. You can't intend it with your mind because that'd be pushing your fear-based energy onto your Twin Flame. And then where would your Twin Flame go? They would pull away.” (08:09-08:28) • “You can't set the boundary of monogamy and then also be with your Twin Flame. It won't happen because setting that boundary is not loving yourself.” (09:44-09:53)   Links To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari    Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/ Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Do you spend a lot of time obsessing over what your Twin Flame is doing, thinking or feeling? According to host Elle Hari, doing this is allowing your push-energy to get in the way of your success. In today's episode Elle discusses why nothing in the physical world actually means anything. Regardless of what it may feel like, whatever your Twin Flame is doing, thinking or feeling is completely irrelevant because it is all related to the physical world. Everything in the physical world is temporary and, therefore, not real. The only thing that is real/permanent is your soul. The only reason this journey feels so overwhelming at times is because you are giving credit to your own fear-based energy's judgments about what is going on around you Rather than allowing your feelings of anxiety to dictate your life , Elle explains that it is important to just ride it out and go with the flow, knowing that nothing is “bad” or “wrong.” Those are judgments created in our minds based on our own limitations and beliefs. In truth, everything is neutral, and any pain we feel is always caused by resistance to  (or judgment of) what is.  Tune into this week's episode of Twin Flame Truth® to learn more about why giving credit to anything of the physical world will slow down your journey and prohibit you from attaining a relationship with your Twin Flame.    Quotes  • “When your push-pull energy becomes activated, what happens is that it becomes very sensitive to other energies around you, especially energies in the universe.” (04:27-04:45) • “Not everyone resonates with every energetic event.” (06:43-06:45) • “Feel your feelings, do not repress them, and do not believe your thoughts. Any thought that accompanies feelings regarding your Twin Flame, don't judge them.” (08:11-08:21) • “Whatever your Twin Flame says, thinks, feels or does is irrelevant. The only meaning that it has is what you give it. And that includes anything that comes into your physical world.”  (09:21-09:35) • “When you judge your Twin Flame and what they're saying, thinking, doing or feeling as either good or bad, then it makes you feel good or bad. But most importantly, it's feeding your push energy.” (10:17-10:30) • “When you put your focus on the physical form of Twin Flame, what are you doing? You're pushing your Twin Flame away.” (10:37-10:44)   Links To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari    Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/ Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Do you ever feel isolated from your Twin Flame? While you may not have a physical relationship with your Twin Flame, host Elle Hari explains that it is impossible to be completely detached. In today's episode, Elle discusses the idea that you and your Twin Flame are never separate.  Even though at times you may be unable to touch or see your Twin Flame, Elle explains that your energetic field will always keep you connected. Rather than focusing on physical aspects, it is important to tap into your soul's energy because it is the strongest force in the universe. When you connect with your soul, you allow yourself to vibrate on the same frequency as your Twin Flame. And for this reason, you can never truly be alone.  Tune into this week's episode of Twin Flame Truth® to learn more about the universal law of oneness and how to detach yourself from physical desires, so you can transcend all dimensions and connect you to your Twin Flame.    Quotes  • “Your soul transcends space, distance, time and even dimensions.” (05:07-05:13) • “Anywhere you go, your Twin Flame is going to go. Anything you do, your Twin Flame is going to be there. Why? Because you're in the same exact energetic field.” (06:46-06:53) • “You're always together because your energetic field transcends all dimensions. So, you're never ever separated.” (07:19-07:29) • “Everything and everyone is one because we are under the one energetic vibration of love. But each of us has our own unique frequency of that vibration that we share with nothing and no one else in the entire cosmos, except for our Twin Flame.” (11:06-11:23)   Links To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari    Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/ Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Do you ever find yourself wishing your relationship with your Twin Flame would be as strong as the love in your favorite romance movie? According to host Elle Hari, this is the biggest misconception everyone has about the Twin Flame journey. In today's episode, Elle discusses why the Twin Flame journey has nothing to do with romance.  According to Elle, the sensationalization of romance in our society actually exists to trigger our fear-based energy. While it is possible to have a romantic connection with your Twin Flame, it will not look how it does in the media. Rather than desiring the mushy-gushy, romance-novel type of love, Elle explains that you need to focus on ridding yourself of your fear-based, push-pull energy. Once you can relieve yourself of fear-based energy, you will be able to create a space of love for your Twin Flame because love and fear cannot coexist.  Tune into this week's episode of Twin Flame Truth® to learn how to let go of unrealistic expectations and desires, so you can take the next step towards being with your Twin Flame.    Quotes  • “Romance is actually a fear-based thing. It has nothing to really do with love.” (03:07-03:10) • “You can only physically be with your Twin Flame when there's actual love, and actual love means zero fear.” (04:06-04:13) • “There is only one Twin Flame because the Twin Flame is you.” (05:36-05:39) • “Everyone has/is a Twin Flame. You're not special for having a Twin Flame or being a Twin Flame.” (07:12-07:18) • “The first step for anything has to begin with yourself. So that's why the Twin Flame journey is the first step of ascension. The Twin Flame journey is about you because the Twin Flame is you.” (08:51-09:02)   Links To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari    Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/ Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Do you ever yearn for the relationship you once had with your Twin Flame? According to host Elle Hari, it's not you that wants that relationship, it's your fear-based energy. In today's episode, Elle explains why you have to redefine your relationship with your Twin Flame in order to have a physical relationship with them. According to Elle, it isn't the relationship or even your Twin Flame that you really desire; it is the feelings you have associated with the Twin Flame. While it may seem like those feelings brought you happiness, Elle explains that those feelings come from your cyclical fear-based energy. The only way you can ever be with your Twin Flame is to shift into alignment with your soul because when you are aligned with yourself, you are aligned with your Twin Flame.  Tune into this week's episode of Twin Flame Truth® to learn how to let go of your past desires and align with your soul, so you can create a space of love that is able to unite you with your Twin Flame once and for all.   Quotes  • “It's not a relationship with your Twin Flame or even your Twin Flame that you want. If you think about it, what you want are the feelings that you felt when you were with your Twin Flame.” (01:58-02:15) • “You really cannot love anyone, including your Twin Flame, until you love yourself. Because loving yourself is loving your Twin Flame because your Twin Flame is you.” (07:46-07:54) • “By shifting closer into love energy, you become love, and you become yourself.” (09:10-09:17) • “You pull your Twin Flame closer into alignment with your soul as you shift closer into alignment with your soul. You are then in the space of love with each other, and the physical relationship can happen.” (11:51-12:04) • “As long as you keep trying to get back that same relationship you had with your Twin Flame, you're just going to keep going from the highs to the lows, the fake good to the fake bad, the cycle will continue, it will not stop.” (18:08-18:23) • “You can't possibly be the best you until you are being the true you.” (21:23-21:26)   Links To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari    Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/ Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

Throughout the Twin Flame journey, there will be times where you feel down and out. In today's episode, host Elle Hari discusses how to stop feeling negative, so you can reunite with your Twin Flame. According to Elle, whenever we judge things as good or bad, we are allowing our fear-based energy to be in control. Rather than succumbing to negative energy, Elle suggests figuring out what thought is causing you to feel bad and then changing your perspective. Once you understand that everything is meant to be, it will be easier to accept your circumstances and come to a neutral space. When we live without judgement, we can find peace and happiness.  Tune into this week's episode of Twin Flame Truth to learn how to stop negative feelings and trust in your soul, so you can stay on the path that will lead you towards everything you desire.    Quotes  • “If you think a thought is bad, you're going to feel bad.”(03:49-03:51) • “Regarding anything related to our Twin Flame journey, we don't want to judge our feelings as good or bad.” (05:49-05:57)  • “Who are any of us to judge anything that we perceive as good or bad? That's not our job or our role. That's just our fear-based energy wanting to do that.” (07:27-07:07:39) • “If you can figure out and determine what the main thought is that's causing you to believe something is either good or bad, then you can turn that belief around.” (11:56-12:06)   Links To discover all of the ways we can assist you along your Twin Flame journey, please click here: https://linktr.ee/ellehari    Follow Alaya Life on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealayalife/ Get your exclusive listener offer at Alaya Life ~ The Apothecary For Ascension™️ (will be applied at checkout): https://thealayalife.com/discount/elle15   Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm