What Ate Said

Hiiiii friends! We are back and today we wanted to have a chat about all the things they didn't tell you about being a adult! Picture this, you're 18, free as a bird without a worry in the world and then somehow in the blink of an eye, you're in your mid-to-late 20s, wondering why the tissue paper is always running out, why you have so many bills and why keeping friendships can be hard work. And then, it hits you... you're parents were right all along...Thanks for tuning in! If you like the podcast, spread the love and let your friends know about us so they too can enjoy our candid conversations about life, love and everything in between.Follow us on our socials @whatatesaid.podcastAntonette: @antsantuicoAudrey: @aud.reysEloiza: @eloizagraceeVinning: @vmaaak

Helloooo and happy Wednesday! Today we're going through reddit and discussed some 'Am I The Asshole?' situations. From oblivious boyfriends, bridesmaid drama and a postcard lover??Thanks for tuning in! If you like the podcast, spread the love and let your friends know about us so they too can enjoy our candid conversations about life, love and everything in between.Follow us on our socials @whatatesaid.podcastAntonette: @antsantuicoAudrey: @aud.reysEloiza: @eloizagraceeVinning: @vmaaak

Helloooo and Happy Hump Day! In today's episode, we took a test to find out what attachment styles we had. So what are attachment styles, what does it say about our past, and what were our results? If you want to take the same test we did, here is the link: https://quiz.attachmentproject.com/Follow us on our socials @whatatesaid.podcastAntonette: @antsantuicoAudrey: @aud.reysEloiza: @eloizagraceeVinning: @vmaaak

Helloooooo and welcome back to Season 3!!! Today we're just having a bit of a catch up with the Ates, hear their thoughts on kdramas they've been watching, that solo by a certain BlackPink member oh and just casually starting new businesses. 

Hello friends, today we have a very special episode to round of season 2 on teh Whate Ate Said podcast!! This week we are collaborating with Beyond Mondays - a question card game that helps to start deeper conversations with close friends. We had a lot of fun answering the questions and even discovered things about each other that we didn't know (and we already know a lot about each other!)If you'd like to pick up your own deck of cards to play with your friends, head to Beyond Mondays' website: https://beyondmondays.com/This episode rounds off Season 2! We will be taking a short break and will be back in a few weeks. In the mean time, be sure to catch up on all the previous episodes in the season!

Hellooooo, happy Wednesday friends! This week, we're discussing confidence. We touched on confidence in general, around our body image and in the workplace. A lot of interesting conversations we're had this week so be sure to listen and let us know your tips on confidence!If you love the podcast, please follow us on Spotify or subscribe on Apple Podcasts and share on your socials! It would mean the world to us!Follow us on our socials @whatatesaid.podcastAntonette: @antsantuicoAudrey: @aud.reysEloiza: @eloizagraceeVinning: @vmaaak

Haaappy Wednesday friends! In this week's episode, we received some Qs so Antonette and Audrey are here to give you the As!If you love the podcast, please follow us on Spotify or subscribe on Apple Podcasts and share on your socials! It would mean the world to us!Follow us on our socials @whatatesaid.podcastAntonette: @antsantuicoAudrey: @aud.reysEloiza: @eloizagraceeVinning: @vmaaak

Haaappy Wednesday friends! In this week's episode, we received some Qs so Loi and Vinning are here to give you the As!To give you a little teaser, here are some of the questions asked:- How do your partners feel about you sharing personal stories?- What is something people would be surprised to know an Ate is good at?- How early would/did you discuss having kids in your relationship?- Do you eat burger first then fries, fries first then burger, or both at the same time??If you love the podcast, please follow us on Spotify or subscribe on Apple Podcasts and share on your socials! It would mean the world to us!Follow us on our socials @whatatesaid.podcastAntonette: @antsantuicoAudrey: @aud.reysEloiza: @eloizagraceeVinning: @vmaaak

Hello hello! Since we're back in lockdown, we decided to have a more light hearted recording session and talk about all our embarrassing stories. If you love the podcast, please follow us on Spotify or subscribe on Apple Podcasts and share on your socials! It would mean the world to us!Follow us on our socials @whatatesaid.podcastAntonette: @antsantuicoAudrey: @aud.reysEloiza: @eloizagraceeVinning: @vmaaak

Happy Wednesday friends! Today we're talking about first dates and we've brought back two of our fave Kuyas, Jerome and Aaron.Now, it's been a little while since we've all had first dates so we're gonna take a little trip down memory lane and think back to our first dates, red flags and love at first sight.*This episode was recorded pre-lockdown

Hey friends, welcome back to another episode! Today, we're discussing 'The Code', the unwritten rules of friendship and what happens when 'The Code' is broken. Well let me tell you now, one of us certainly did! Listen now to find out all the tea!If you love the podcast, please follow us on Spotify or subscribe on Apple Podcasts and share on your socials! It would mean the world to us!Follow us on our socials @whatatesaid.podcastAntonette: @antsantuicoAudrey: @aud.reysEloiza: @eloizagraceeVinning: @vmaaak

Happy happy Wednesday! Today we are talking about baggage. No.. not the baggage that you don't unpack for weeks after coming back from a holiday. We're talking the invisible baggage from past experiences that we carry with us everyday without knowing and sometimes it really weighs us down. Don't forget your tissues, this episode gets a little emoshy.If you love the podcast, please follow us on Spotify or subscribe on Apple Podcasts and share on your socials! It would mean the world to us!Follow us on our socials @whatatesaid.podcastAntonette: @antsantuicoAudrey: @aud.reysEloiza: @eloizagraceeVinning: @vmaaak

Happy Wednesday everyone! In this week's episode, we're talking ghosting. Have you ever ghosted someone?? Or were you the one that was ghosted? We are sharing all our stories today ates so grab a coffee, or tea, or beverage of choice and enjoy!If you love the podcast, please follow us on Spotify or subscribe on Apple Podcasts and share on your socials! It would mean the world to us!Follow us on our socials @whatatesaid.podcastAntonette: @antsantuicoAudrey: @aud.reysEloiza: @eloizagraceeVinning: @vmaaak

Good morning Ates & Kuyas!

Gooood morning friends. In today's episode, Vinning and Aaron are going to deep dive into their relationship, talk about life after being cheated on, how that affects your view on relationships afterwards and what they do differently in their relationship now compared to the past. If you love the podcast, please follow us on Spotify or subscribe on Apple Podcasts and share on your socials! It would mean the world to us!Follow us on our socials @whatatesaid.podcastAntonette: @antsantuicoAudrey: @aud.reysEloiza: @eloizagraceeVinning: @vmaaak

Happy Hump Day everyone!! On this week's episode, we welcome back Kuya Jerome to the podcast to have a conversation with Antonette about ~bebes~. Ohhhh that's right, first it's "When are you getting married??" and when that's done, it quickly turns to "When are you having babies??" Tune in to hear them discuss starting a family together and the obstacles they have faced so far. They never do tell you what happens when the birds and the bees don't get along...  If you love the podcast, please follow us on Spotify or subscribe on Apple Podcasts and share on your socials! It would mean the world to us!Follow us on our socials @whatatesaid.podcastAntonette: @antsantuicoAudrey: @aud.reysEloiza: @eloizagraceeVinning: @vmaaak

Hello everyone and happy Wednesday. In today's episode, Eloiza and her partner, Arvin, will be having a conversation about how one supports the other through their mental health battles. While this episode is by no means meant to serve as advice, we hope that by listening to Eloiza and Arvin's experience, you're able to come away with a new perspective.If you love the podcast, please follow us on Spotify or subscribe on Apple Podcasts and share on your socials! It would mean the world to us!Follow us on our socials @whatatesaid.podcastAntonette: @antsantuicoAudrey: @aud.reysEloiza: @eloizagraceeVinning: @vmaaak

Hello and Happy Wednesday. This week we are starting a new series where each us have a conversation about a topic with our partners. To kick off this series, we're starting off with Audrey and Andii who talked about the realities of starting a new business and affect it had on Andii's mental health while owning and running their family owned restaurant. If you love the podcast, please follow us on Spotify or subscribe on Apple Podcasts and share on your socials! It would mean the world to us!Follow us on our socials @whatatesaid.podcastAntonette: @antsantuicoAudrey: @aud.reysEloiza: @eloizagraceeVinning: @vmaaak

Hello everyone and happy Wednesday. In today's episode, we talk about marriage counselling - what happens in marriage counselling, what are the topics you speak about (especially the ones that made us go "Hmm, we've never had a conversation about this"), what did we learn about our partners that we didn't know before and any conversations we think are worth having with your partner regardless of whether you are married or soon to be.If you love the podcast, please follow us on Spotify or subscribe on Apple Podcasts and share on your socials! It would mean the world to us!Follow us on our socials @whatatesaid.podcastAntonette: @antsantuicoAudrey: @aud.reysEloiza: @eloizagraceeVinning: @vmaaak

Hello friends and welcome back to another episode of the What Ate Said podcast! Today we chose something lighthearted and fun to do after a stressful morning featuring a lonely dog Audrey found on her way to record. The átes decided to play We're Not Really Strangers x Red Table Talk - a card game created by L.A based model and artist, Koreen, that encourages meaningful connections and conversations with others.If you love the podcast, please follow us on Spotify or subscribe on Apple Podcasts and share on your socials! It would mean the world to us!Follow us on our socials @whatatesaid.podcastAntonette: @antsantuicoAudrey: @aud.reysEloiza: @eloizagraceeVinning: @vmaaak

Hello friends and happy Wednesday! On today's epsiode, we're having a discussion about lying. Is it ever okay to lie? Why do people lie in the first place? What if we are just omitting the truth? Is that the same as lying??If you love the podcast, please follow us on Spotify or subscribe on Apple Podcasts and share on your socials! It would mean the world to us!Follow us on our socials @whatatesaid.podcastAntonette: @antsantuicoAudrey: @aud.reysEloiza: @eloizagraceeVinning: @vmaaak

Hiiiiiii and Happy Hump Day!!! To get you through this week, in today's episode, we have a discussion about what love actually is. We talk about love languages, how love is expressed whether their is a  difference is between loving someone and being in love with someone.If you love the podcast, please follow us on Spotify or subscribe on Apple Podcasts and share on your socials! It would mean the world to us!Follow us on our socials @whatatesaid.podcastAntonette: @antsantuicoAudrey: @aud.reysEloiza: @eloizagraceeVinning: @vmaaak

Hello and Happy Wednesday! On today's episode we're talking about whether we would be friends if we weren't family... Who do you think would get along? Who do you think wouldn't get along... Find out in this episode!If you love the podcast, please follow us on Spotify or subscribe on Apple Podcasts and share on your socials! It would mean the world to us!Follow us on our socials @whatatesaid.podcastAntonette: @antsantuicoAudrey: @aud.reysEloiza: @eloizagraceeVinning: @vmaaak

Hellooooo and Happy Wednesday friends! This week we decided we had no tears left to cry, literally - so today, to keep the mood light and happy, we have a discussion about if our dogs could talk. We're sure all pet owners have all wondered about the things their pets would say if they could talk. Would they ever talk back? What would their voices sound like? Do you think they ever talk sh*t about us behind our backs?? If you love the podcast, please follow us on Spotify or subscribe on Apple Podcasts and share on your socials! It would mean the world to us!Follow us on our socials @whatatesaid.podcastAntonette: @antsantuicoAudrey: @aud.reysEloiza: @eloizagraceeVinning: @vmaaak

Helloooo friends and happy Wednesday! Today we are coming at you with a new episode where we talk about what we thought our lives would look like when we were little kids versus what they actually look like now. We discuss what being a grown up even means and what we aspired to be when we were younger. If you love the podcast, please follow us on Spotify or subscribe on Apple Podcasts and share on your socials! It would mean the world to us!Follow us on our socials @whatatesaid.podcastAntonette: @antsantuicoAudrey: @aud.reysEloiza: @eloizagraceeVinning: @vmaaak

Helloooo and Happy Hump Day friends! Did you ever have a partner your family didn't approve of? Maybe you have a partner your family doesn't approve of now.  In today's episode, we talk about how family impacts our romantic relationships, what kind of role they played in our previous relationships as well as currently. If you love the podcast, please follow us on Spotify or subscribe on Apple Podcasts and share on your socials! It would mean the world to us!Follow us on socials:Antonette: @antsantuicoAudrey: @aud.reysEloiza: @eloizagraceeVinning: @vmaaak 

Hellooooo and welcome back to another episode!! In this week's episode, we're talking about friendships. We discuss how our friendships have changed (or unchanged) since high school, how we have formed new friendships over the years, friends who we have fallen out with and some of the things we do in our busy lives to stay connected with our mates!Thank you for your patience as we took time off last week to catch a breath. As always, if you enjoyed the episode, please share with your friends on your socials, follow us on Spotify, Apple Podcasts and Instagram!@whateatesaid.podcast@antsantuico@eloizagracee@aud.reys@vmaaak

Happy Wednesday everyone! On today's episode, we have the last instalment of the 'What Kuya Said' series where we introduce Audrey's other half, Andii! Find out more about the entrepreneurial prankster, his passion for whiskey and how he met Audrey's parents for the first time. As always, follow us on Spotify, leave us a review on Apple Podcasts, and share it with your friends on your socials! Follow us on Instagram @whatatesaid.podcast@ant.santuico @aud.reys@eloizagracee@vmaaak__

Trigger Warning: In this episode, we talk about depression, anxiety, domestic violence, self harm and BPD.Hi everyone and happy Wednesday. In topday's episode, we will be talking about mental health and sharing our experiences and stories of our mental health journey. Resources mentioned in the episode:- Headspace App and Netflix Show- Smiling Mind App

Helloooo and Happy Hump Day!! Today we are back with the 3rd instalment of the What Kuya Said with Aaron *snaps* In this episode, we spill all the embarrassing and funny stories of Aaron growing up, why Aaron is, well, Aaron and his and Vinning's love story. As always, follow us on Spotify, leave us a review on Apple Podcasts, and share it with your friends on your socials! Follow us on Instagram @whatatesaid.podcast@ant.santuico @aud.reys@eloizagracee@vmaaak__

Helloooooo and Happy New Year!! Welcome back and welcome to our first episode of 2021! In this episode, we will be recapping our Christmas and New Year *antics* and what we're looking forward to in 2021. Thank you for tuning in to a new year with us - we will be in your ears every Wednesday with a new topic so if you have any specific topics you'd like us to talk about, slide into our DMs! Once again, thank you for listening, share us on your socials, follow us on Spotify and Apple Podcasts and Instagram @whatatesaid.podcast. 

Hellooooo friends, Happy Wednesday!! Today is our final episode of the year. Thank you so much to everyone who has tuned in for our very first year of this podcast. We're so grateful so every single comment, mention, follow, share, feedback and love! On today's episode, we will be recapping the year that has been 2020. And wow has it been a year!As always, if you enjoyed the episode, please share with your friends, sisters, brothers and pets and of course on your socials! It really helps grow our little podcast and we appreciate it so much! Follow us on our socials @whatatesaid.podcastThe Ates:Antonette: @ant.santuicoAudrey: @aud.reysEloiza: @eloizagraceeVinning: @vmaaak

Happy Wednesday friends! To help you get over this hump day, we have a bit of a spicy episode coming at you! On today's episode, we will be talking about how we resolve conflict with our partners. We will be sharing with you some of the recent *fights* we've had and how we ended up resolving them...or not resolving them... This was quite a vulnerable topic to record and we learnt a lot from each other this episode so we hope you're able to take something away from it as well. As always, if you enjoyed the episode, please share with your friends, sisters, brothers and pets and of course on your socials! It really helps grow our little podcast and we appreciate it so much! Follow us on our socials @whatatesaid.podcastThe Ates:Antonette: @ant.santuicoAudrey: @aud.reysEloiza: @eloizagraceeVinning: @vmaaak

Hello friends, Happy Hump Day!! We are back in your ears today with another episode in the 'What Kuya Said' series with Eloiza's husband - Arvin! In today's episode we chat about the man of all trades, who's Roy?!, and when he knew she was the one. If you like the podcast, please leave a rating and comment on Apple Podcasts or hit that follow button on Spotify. Also, share to your socials! It helps out the podcast so much and would mean the world to us!Follow us on our socials @whatatesaid.podcastThe Ates:Antonette: @ant.santuicoAudrey: @aud.reysEloiza: @eloizagraceeVinning: @vmaaak

Hello and Happy Wednesday! In today's episode, we dive into the topic on social media and how it affects us. Since starting this podcast, our use of social media has shifted slightly for some and quite a bit for others. We reveal how long we actually spend on our phones, our vulnerabilities when it comes to posting content and what we do when we need to take a step back. If you like the podcast, please leave a rating and comment on Apple Podcasts or hit that follow button on Spotify. Also, share to your socials! It helps out the podcast so much and would mean the world to us!Follow us on our socials @whatatesaid.podcastThe Ates:Antonette: @ant.santuicoAudrey: @aud.reysEloiza: @eloizagraceeVinning: @vmaaak

Hello friends, Happy Hump Day!! We are back in your ears today with a very special episode. We are kicking off a series of 'What Kuya Said' with Kuya Jerome! Jerome is Antonette's husband and throughout this series you will be meeting all of the ates partners. In today's episode we chat about what Jerome was like growing up, his curiosity to trying anything and everything and how he got out of the friend zone...If you like the podcast, please leave a rating and comment on Apple Podcasts or hit that follow button on Spotify. Also, share to your socials! It helps out the podcast so much and would mean the world to us!Follow us on our socials @whatatesaid.podcastThe Ates:Antonette: @ant.santuicoAudrey: @aud.reysEloiza: @eloizagraceeVinning: @vmaaak

Hello friends and welcome back to another episode! This week we are taking a trip down memory lane and talking about our high school experiences. We can't believe it's been about a decade since we graduated! We will be chatting about our challenges during those troublesome teenage years, the expectations our parents had on us and what we would say to our younger selves if we had the chance. Stay tuned till the end to find what our embarrassing email addresses were back then as well!If you like the podcast, please leave a rating and comment on Apple Podcasts or hit that follow button on Spotify. Also, share to your socials! It helps out the podcast so much and would mean the world to us!Follow us on our socials:Antonette: @ant.santuicoAudrey: @aud.reysEloiza: @eloizagraceeVinning: @vmaaak 

Hello and Happy Wednesday! In today's podcast, we chat about moving out and how parent expectations and culture impacted our decisions. We talk about all the good and bad things about living with our partners and share our tips on leaving the nest. If you love the podcast, please follow us on Spotify or subscribe on Apple Podcasts and share on your socials! It would mean the world to us!Follow us on socials:Antonette: @antsantuicoAudrey: @aud.reysEloiza: @eloizagraceeVinning: @vmaaak

Hello and Happy Hump Day! Today, we are getting into our first deep topic - heartbreak. We will be chatting about our previous relationships, how we healed from them and what we learned in the process. Oh, and the real tea... Do we still stalk them?? (online, of course) Tune in to listen now!

Hello and welcome to our very first podcast! We are soooo excited to be sharing our conversations about life, love and everything in between with you. In this episode, you will get to know all the ates a little more, how we became the close friends that we are and why we decided to start the podcast. Tune in to find out who forced who to eat flower petals when they were younger and who almost ended up in a relationship with the other's current partner! Follow our socials!Instagram: @whatatesaid.podcastAntonette: @antsantuicoAudrey: @aud.reysEloiza: @eloizagraceeVinning: @vmaaak_

Hi there, we are so excited to be launching the What Ate Said podcast where we have candid conversations about life, love and everything in between. We will be in your ears every Wednesday starting the 21st of October so be sure to set a reminder for our very first podcast. We hope to see you there!