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We're live at Micky's WeHo for the 2024 Pineapple Pride Cabaret! Filmed just moments before Marc MacNamara and John Hill stormed the Micky's stage to host and perform in this variety show benefitting PineappleSupport.org, this episode starts off John blessing Marc with some surprise gifts and REAL HOUSEWIVES OF ORANGE COUNTY queen Gina Kirschenheiter coming on to dish about everything from the new season of RHOC to her talents in the bedroom. We then talk all about Pineapple Support with sex therapist Jamila Dawson and about getting in drag for BELOW DECK with Bambi – aka Liam Riley. Next, Raging Stallion Studios superstar Drew Valentino hops on the couch to chat about his stand-up and how we did him dirty during our Grabbys Europe red carpet episode. Photographer Dexter Brown then comes in to tell us all about Marc's recent photoshoot before RUPAUL'S DRAG RACE icon Morgan McMichaels closes out the show and spills her unfiltered thoughts on the latest season of ALL STARS. We would also like to give a special thank you to Falcon | NakedSword, Mr. Man, and FansFuel – the presenting sponsors of the Pineapple Pride Cabaret – for having us at this special event. Also a great thanks to sponsors ASGmax, Flirt4Free, and SayUncle, along with AEBN, QueerCrush, MENatPLAY, Streammate, GayVN, and XBIZ for helping make this event possible and raising money for the essential services of PineappleSupport.org. Watch on YouTube – YouTube.com/@DiscAdPod Subscribe on Patreon – Patreon.com/DiscAdPod Merch – FalconMerchShop.com TikTok – @DiscAdPod Instagram – @DiscAdPod Twitter – @DiscAdPod Website – DiscAdPod.com Talk to us – ask@DiscAdPod.com
In this episode, Dr. Megan Speciale interviews Jamila Dawson, LMFT and Theodore Burnes, PhD on sex worker-affirming mental healthcare, the topic of their new book, “Essential Clinical Care for Sex Workers.” The authors discuss common issues faced by individuals involved in the sex industry, the impact of stigma and whorephobia on the mental and emotional well-being of sex workers, and the clinical priorities of sex worker-affirming counseling centered on sex-positivity and intersectionality. For more on our guests, links from the conversation, and APA citation for this episode visit https://concept.paloaltou.edu/resources/the-thoughtful-counselor-podcast The Thoughtful Counselor is created in partnership with Palo Alto University's Division of Continuing & Professional Studies. Learn more at concept.paloaltou.edu
The Modern Therapist's Survival Guide with Curt Widhalm and Katie Vernoy
Clinical Work with Sex Workers: An Interview with Jamila Dawson, LMFT and Dr. Theo Burnes, PhD Curt and Katie interview Dr. Theo Burnes and Jamila Dawson on their new book Essential Clinical Care for Sex Workers. We talk about what therapists get wrong when thinking about sex work and sex workers, what common biases therapists hold about sex work, what sex work looks like now, and how clinicians can work effectively with sex workers. Transcripts for this episode will be available at mtsgpodcast.com! In this podcast episode, we talk about sex workers seeking therapy There are number of client populations that we just don't talk about in grad school. Sex Workers are an important group that we find continue to face bias and ignorance in the therapy room. We reached out to Theo Burnes and Jamila Dawson to learn more about this often forgotten client population. What are therapists getting wrong when thinking about sex work and sex workers? Clinicians often are focused on saving people, which is misguided We lose opportunities as change agents Not understanding sex work and the complexity of any job There is a bias about the relationships between sex and work and what sex is What are common biases that therapists hold related to sex work? The bias that there must be trauma if someone chooses to do sex work The bias that they must hate their job and want to get out of this work The lack of awareness about immigration's intersection with sex work The additional bias related to racism, sexism, and genderism Anti-erotophobia Anti-neurodivergence – there are more folks in sex work who are neurodivergent due to the flexibility and other characteristics of the job Entertainment bias is pervasive with the rescue theme (e.g., Pretty Woman) What does sex work look like now? The “Whorearchy” or hierarchy within sex worker communities (outside vs inside, independent or employee, safety level) – for example working independently in the safest environments (i.e., inside, virtually) is seen higher up the whorearchy Different types of sex work including courtesan/girlfriend experience versus other types that are less heterosexual normative Understanding the pros and cons of each type of sex work is important for clinicians working with sex workers The opportunities related to innovation (sex and porn often drive innovation) and creativity How can a clinician work effectively with sex workers? Getting curious to fully understand the unique situation for the client Assessments availability in the book: Essential Clinical Care for Sex Workers Pay attention to how you talk about sex work as clients will test whether they can talk about their sex work Sex work may not be the presenting issue, but it is relevant to identify whether they are self-identifying as a sex worker to the therapist Holding space for clients not disclosing everything at the beginning of therapy Showing sex positivity and openness to hear about any sensitive topics (sex, drug use, etc.) Understanding the fears and myths that are floating around (e.g., the myth that therapists will call law enforcement or CPS solely because someone reports being a sex worker) Being an agent for social change and advocating for systemic change Stay in Touch with Curt, Katie, and the whole Therapy Reimagined #TherapyMovement: Patreon Buy Me A Coffee Modern Therapist's Survival Guide Creative Credits: Voice Over by DW McCann https://www.facebook.com/McCannDW/ Music by Crystal Grooms Mangano https://groomsymusic.com/
Pleasure is your birthright! Jamila Dawson joins us to talk about how to discover what is pleasurable, ways you might be limiting your pleasure, and how to make it part of your practice. We end the episode with Jamila walking us through a body scan. You can find Jamila on Instagram @jamila.thesextherapist and Twitter @Jamila_Dawson Spice up your love life with my free Ultimate Guide to Foreplay. Get it HERE. Follow Jordan D'Nelle on Facebook and Instagram. Email: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com Support the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators podcast! Leave an honest review on iTunes. Your ratings and reviews help this podcast impact more lives! Subscribe to Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators on iTunes if you haven't already! *Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. jordandnelle.com fireandflowtherapy.com
Guest Feature: Jamila Dawson, LMFT is a sex therapist and speaker. She supports Black people and other POC to manage trauma and thrive despite racial battle fatigue. Jamila has been a sex educator since 2005 and has practiced psychotherapy since 2015. She is the founder and owner of the psychotherapy practice Fire & Flow Therapy. She presents clinical trainings grounded in social justice to mental health organizations and teaches classes on kink/BDSM, ethical non-monogamy, navigating trauma, and ways to discover wellness through pleasure. Her life's work is to break down sexual stigma and help people design relationships that center pleasure, creativity, and liberation. She is co-author of With Pleasure: Managing Triggers for More Vibrant Sex, Pleasure, and Relationships (2021) and the co-author of the upcoming book Essential Clinial Care for Sex Workers: A Sex-Positive Handbook for Mental Health Practioners (2023) Resources: Book: With Pleasure https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B099GVZQXQ&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_5M16CAT3XKZ058GCEJQH Sex Positivity definition: https://goodvibesblog.com/sex-positivity/ Sex Positive/Social Justice Sites: 1. https://afrosexology.com/ 2. https://polyrolemodels.tumblr.com/ 3. https://www.sistersong.net/reproductive-justice 4.https://kimchicuddles.com/ Toys and Online Education: https://www.goodvibes.com/s Somatic/Mindfulness Resources Everyday Feminist.com: http://everydayfeminism.com/2015/10/sex-tips-mindfulness-activity/ Big Think.com: http://bigthink.com/videos/dr-bessel-van-der-kolk-on-dealing-with-ptsd Where to Find Jamila: Her Website, Instagram, Twitter Be Well, Sis Partners: Athletic Greens– Redeem your offer for 1 year of high-quality Vitamin D + 5 free travel packs BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month at betterhelp.com/bewellsis Let's Get Checked: If you want to feel more empowered in your health and wellness and get tested at home, visit trylgc.com/bewellsis and get 25% off your test using code BEWELLSIS JOIN THE INNER CIRCLE!!!
After experiencing multiple instances of sexual assault, Julia often feels sexually disconnected from her own body. She wants to be aware of her boundaries and find pleasure in new relationships going forward. On this episode of How To!, we bring on Jamila Dawson, licensed marriage and family therapist, and August McLaughlin, health and sexuality journalist and host of Girl Boner Radio. Together they wrote With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships. They share candid, tangible advice about navigating consent and how to turn awkward conversations into something empowering — even sexy. If you liked this episode, check out “How To Talk to Your Son About Sex”. Do you have a problem that needs solving? Send us a note at howto@slate.com or leave us a voicemail at 646-495-4001 and we might have you on the show. Slate Plus members get bonus segments and ad-free podcast feeds. Sign up now at slate.com/howtoplus. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
After experiencing multiple instances of sexual assault, Julia often feels sexually disconnected from her own body. She wants to be aware of her boundaries and find pleasure in new relationships going forward. On this episode of How To!, we bring on Jamila Dawson, licensed marriage and family therapist, and August McLaughlin, health and sexuality journalist and host of Girl Boner Radio. Together they wrote With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships. They share candid, tangible advice about navigating consent and how to turn awkward conversations into something empowering — even sexy. If you liked this episode, check out “How To Talk to Your Son About Sex”. Do you have a problem that needs solving? Send us a note at howto@slate.com or leave us a voicemail at 646-495-4001 and we might have you on the show. Slate Plus members get bonus segments and ad-free podcast feeds. Sign up now at slate.com/howtoplus. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Welcome to episode 259 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Jamila M. Dawson, LMFT and August McLaughlin to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss triggers and how are they defined, looking at the relationship between sex and trauma and understanding the importance of practicing self-compassion. Jamila M. Dawson, LMFT is the co-author of the innovative book: With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships. A licensed therapist with an expertise in sexuality, trauma, and relationships, Jamila has been a sex educator since 2005 and has practiced psychotherapy since 2015. She is the founder and owner of the psychotherapy practice Fire & Flow Therapy. She has collaborated with Buzzfeed, MEL, Playboy, Harper's BAZAAR and other media outlets and has appeared on numerous podcasts, including Girlboner and Sex with Dr. Jess. Jamila uses her Instagram & Facebook accounts to share practices, tools, and reflections on sexuality, relationships, and mental health. She divides her time between Las Vegas and Los Angeles. August McLaughlin is a nationally recognized journalist and host and producer of the podcast, Girl Boner Radio, a true story-driven podcast where she explores sexual empowerment, relationships and pleasure. Her articles have been featured by Cosmopolitan, the Washington Post, Salon and more. Her 2018 release, Girl Boner, was featured in the New York Times and called “equally fun, risqué, and informative” by Publishers Weekly. She has presented at colleges, recovery centers, and the CDC headquarters, attended the 2016 United State of Women summit as a nominated changemaker and gave a TEDx talk on her experience overcoming an eating disorder she was diagnosed with while working abroad in the fashion industry. In this episode, you will hear: What are triggers and how are they defined? How Jamila and August and became interested in this line of work Looking at the relationship between sex and trauma Understanding that issues around trauma are common Looking at how fight, flight and fawning works with trauma What is fawning and how is it related to trauma? The importance of practicing self-compassion Analyzing pleasure traps Understanding that you deserve to have pleasure Finding peace in alternative sexual behaviors Find Jamila M. Dawson Online https://jamiladawson.com Find August McLaughlin Online https://augustmclaughlin.com Sex Quiz for Women https://oasis2care.com/sexquiz Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio
This week we are thrilled to be cooking up something special! This character's name was brought to us by August McLaughlin of Girl Boner Radio. August has been an incredible supporter of not only Elaine's but of the Period Podcast Network, and she recently co-authored a book with Jamila Dawson called With Pleasure Managing Trauma for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships. and it is such a grounded and thoughtful read so many people could benefit from. Written and Directed by Allison Slice Produced by Period Podcast Network Edited by Allison Slice Starring Rosa Delgado as Elaine Nika Khitrova as Wombly Via Raechel Wong as the Courier Find us on Instagram: @elainescooking @periodpodcastnetwork @rohzahdee
In this episode we speak with Jamila Dawson, LMFT and August McLaughlin, authors of the new book With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships. We cover the basics of what trauma is, the lifelong impact of trauma, how trauma disrupts our safety and social belonging, what triggers are (and are not!) […] The post Managing Trauma Triggers appeared first on Pleasure Mechanics.
With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships is a companion for anyone experiencing the effects of trauma. Through true survivor stories, expert insight, writing prompts, and grounding exercises, it explores pleasure, relationships, and community as worthy and essential antidotes in trying times. Written by trauma-informed sex therapist Jamila Dawson, LMFT, and sexuality journalist and podcaster August McLaughlin, With Pleasure provides a much-needed alternative to harmful “self-help” ideologies that instruct people to “change their thoughts” or “choose to be happy.” Instead, Dawson and McLaughlin encourage readers to respect their feelings, understand the complexities of a society and systems that fuel trauma, foster self-compassion, and embrace pleasure. _______________________________________________ Produced by Maddie Gobbo, Lance Morgan, Natalie Freeman, & Michael Kowaleski. Theme: "I Love All My Friends," an unreleased demo by Fragile Gang. Visit https://www.skylightbooks.com/event for future offerings from the Skylight Books Events team.
Happy publication day to August McLaughlin and Jamila Dawson! Renee chats with the authors about their book With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationship. Their conversation ranges from pleasure, trauma, and healing to race and collaboration, with lots of laughter and warm fuzzy feelings in between. Follow and support our host: Renee: Instagram Follow and support our guests: Jamila: Website // Facebook // InstagramAugust: Podcast // Website // Instagram Purchase your copy of With Pleasure here! Beyond the Box: Our weekly round-up of blog and podcast content delivered directly to your inbox every Friday This episode was edited and produced by Renee Powers on the ancestral land of the Dakota people. Original music by @iam.onyxrose Learn more about Feminist Book Club on our website, sign up for our emails, shop our Bookshop.org recommendations, and follow us on Instagram, Twitter, TikTok, Facebook, Pinterest.
On today's episode, I interview August McLaughlin to discuss girl boners, pleasure & her latest book, "MANAGING TRAUMA TRIGGERS FOR MORE VIBRANT SEX & RELATIONSHIPS" August & I discuss reclaiming sexuality, self understanding and healing. August McLaughlin is a nationally recognized health and sexuality writer, author of Girl Boner and host and producer of the narrative podcast, Girl Boner Radio, which has been compared to “Sex in the City” meets NPR's “Fresh Air.” Her articles and expertise have been featured in a range of publications, including Cosmopolitan, The Washington Post, DAME Magazine, O: The Oprah Magazine, Forbes, Shape and Bustle. Known for melding personal passion, artistry and activism, August uses her personal passion and skills to encourage others to embrace their bodies, sexuality and selves. Her next book, With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships, co-written by Jamila Dawson, LMFT, will be released by Chicago Review Press on September, 14th. Links: https://augustmclaughlin.com/podcast/ https://augustmclaughlin.com/books/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lauren-colletti/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lauren-colletti/support
Are you having the sex you desire, or has sex lost something over time - or perhaps seemed lacking to begin with? Ever wonder what actually happens in sex therapy? Whether you’re having sex with a long-time partner(s) or having hookups, you have what Ian Kerner, PhD LFMT calls a sex script, both your own and one you co-create with your partner(s). And gaining awareness about your scripts can go a long way. A few things you’ll learn about in the episode: Why Ian says to all of his sex therapy patients, So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex (which is also the title of his new book!) What a sex scripts entails How David and Kate, a couple in their mid-30s, found their way to pleasurable sex by unpacking their personal histories How Jonathan and Chris, a couple in their 40s, saved their relationship and sex life by cultivating a “rec-relational” style Dr. Megan Fleming’s tips for finding an ideal therapist Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order here: https://bit.ly/33z44hQ Check out Dr. Megan’s latest Pleasure Picks: greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasurepicks Support the show and get fun extras! patreon.com/girlboner Submit a question for August or Dr. Megan: augustmclaughlin.com/contact Preorder With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships, by Jamila Dawson and August McLaughlin https://www.chicagoreviewpress.com/with-pleasure-products-9781641605038.php?page_id=21
Why is masturbation important? How can it change your life for the better? And what are some of the ways people can bring more self-pleasure into their lives? August shares her own personal journey as well as plenty of tips and applicable life hacks for ways you can have great sex with yourself. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17. About our guest: August McLaughlin is a nationally recognized health and sexuality writer, media personality and host and producer of the podcast, Girl Boner Radio, which offers a spicy blend of personal stories, in-depth reporting and inspiration. Reviewers have called the show “Sex in the City meets NPR” and the “Fresh Air of Sex” and the show frequents Apple Podcasts’ top 100 sexuality chart. August’s work as an advocate for sexual empowerment and gender parity led her to the TEDx stage and to attend the 2016 United State of Women summit as a nominated change maker. Her articles have appeared in a range of notable publications, including Cosmopolitan, The Washington Post and DAME Magazine. August is also a trauma-informed certified sex educator with a passion for myth-busting and normalizing stigmatized topics. Publishers Weekly called her book, Girl Boner: The Good Girl’s Guide to Sexual Empowerment (Amberjack Publishing, 2018) “equally fun, risqué, and informative” and “a welcome addition to sexual health literature.” The New York Times called it “terrifically encouraging” and “a thorough primer on everything from sex toys to bondage to ‘no means no.” Her workbook, Girl Boner Journal: A Guided Journal to Sexual Joy and Empowerment (Amberjack Publishing, 2019), is full of true stories and writing prompts for deepening sexual self-discovery. August’s forthcoming book, With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships, cowritten by sex therapist, Jamila Dawson, LMFT, will be released by Chicago Review Press in the fall of 2021. Known for melding personal passion, artistry and activism, August uses her skills to lift others’ voices, debunk damaging myths, and encourage folks to embrace their bodies, sexuality and selves, making way for richer, more authentic lives. To learn more visit girlboner.org Other links: Get Feeld - our favorite dating app - FREE + 50% off your first 3 months of the Majestic Membership by clicking here or going to this link: https://feeld.app.link/shameless50 Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast
Ep.188-Licensed Therapist and Sex Educator Jamila Dawson and I have a wide-ranging convo about bringing more pleasure into our lives, repressed trauma, dealing with major shifts in relationships, consent within kink/power dynamics, and more! This episode’s Consent Corner from my book, The Consent Guidebook (www.TheConsentGuidebook.com), focuses on enthusiastic consent. About Jamila: Jamila Dawson, licensed marriage and family therapist, holds a master’s in clinical psychology and is a sex therapist, pleasure activist, and speaker. Her focus: break down sexual stigma in order to design relationships that center imagination, connection, and liberation. She sees clients in her private practice, presents nationally on sexuality, neurobiology and wellness to mental health professionals and teaches classes on kink/BDSM and sexual enhancement to individuals, partners, and groups. www.JamilaDawson.com
Jamila Dawson, MA, LMFT is a sex therapist, pleasure activist, and speaker. She focuses on breaking down sexual stigma in order to design relationships that center imagination, connection, and liberation. In this episode Ethan and Jamila explore how the erotic, sensual nature of life can stimulate love in individuals, partnerships and communities and how we can learn from sex positivity to change culture for the better. Find Jamila on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter and Jamila Dawson.com Find Ethan at Extremist.Love and on Instagram
A real adult conversation on the art of attraction. We are bringing sexy back on tje edge
March is Women’s History Month! Trigger Warning: This episode discusses sexual trauma. If you’re someone that has been a victim of sexual trauma or if there’s any chance of this affecting your mental health, please don’t force yourself to listen. This episode is an important and personal one. We discuss reclaiming your sex life after sexual trauma. To help us facilitate this conversation, we are joined by an industry professional, sex therapist Jamila Dawson from Wildfire Therapy. Guest Info: Twitter: @Jamila_Dawson Instagram: @jamiladsextherapy Facebook: Jamila M. Dawson https://jamiladawson.com/ Reference articles: Sexual Intimacy After Sexual Assault or Sexual Abuse Enjoying Sex After Abuse Is Possible, So Here Are 5 Ways To Start Healing Healing Sex: A Mind-Body Approach to Healing Sexual Trauma Enjoy! We appreciate you taking a chance on us and welcome all feedback and commentary. Support Subscribe to our network’s Patreon for exclusive content! Purchase some merchandise! Use the hashtag #NotSoNewlywedPC on social media when live listening and posting about the show! Share this podcast with a friend, a loved one, a coworker, or even a stranger! Contact Twitter: @NotSoNewlywedPC Instagram: @NotSoNewlywedPC Facebook: Not So Newlywed Podcast TM Website: FlawlessNoises.com Not So Newlywed Podcast™ is a Flawless Noises Media Network presentation. #FNMediaProd --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/notsonewlywed/support
Sage of Boning and Bodily Juices (also licensed Sex Therapist) Jamila Dawson returns to help explain what exactly she does, why kink and poly relationships are on the rise, and what to do when it all explodes in your face (and not in the good way). At the top, Michael ruins your mental image of him forever, and all future prospects of holding elected office.
Having a conversation with children about sex and sexulity can be difficult and complicated at best. Parent Brains we are living in a different time and space with the openess to same sex marriage and gender reassigment taking center stage what to say and how to say it is just the tip of the Iceberg of this very edgy topic. So, I have invited Jamila Dawson sex and relationship theapist back on the edge to help us navigate our way through this sometimes challeneging parent child conversation.
June 19, 2018 - How would you describe your sex life? Exceptional, romantic, fun, kinky, underwhelming, confusing, boring, and/or time for a restart? Have you ever thought about your personal politics of pleasure? Sex and relationship therapist Jamila Dawson and Stephanie discuss today's culture of sex.
Brains SHE'S BACK and this time we are going to take the top off of your box with Sex and Relationship therapist Jamila Dawson we want to explore what is surfacing new and trending in the world of Kink and Polyamory relationships. We promise you will get down, spin it around then lay it down on the edge.
Sex therapist and proudly kinky person Jamila Dawson stops by the Pit to explain some jargon to Michael and take some of the mystery out of healthful erotic exploration.
EROTIC SEX- From a flicker to a flame Fetishes what makes us tick ,Masterbating or an Orgy, Feathers to Leather A few tips on making it spicy,special erotic zones,some of the dangers ,Homosexual sex avoiding judgement and just letting it go Hey brain I hope you are ready for me and my guest and if not your better get ready. We are going all in and getting it in literally here on the edge with my guest Jamila M Dawson ,MA, LMFT is a polyamorous, kinky, queer, sex therapist, sex activist, and facilitator and former employee to the Pleasure Chest in Hollywood. She is going to tell us how to bump our uglies in more ways than one. I might even read you some of my erotic poetry. X-rated not for children Yikes