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Amy is a Sex and Relationship Coach and Sex Educator with a passion for promoting unabashed, pleasure-focused sexuality education. April is a motivational speaker, sex toy mogul, as well as one of the leading women in the sex-toy industry. April and Amy combined forces to create the Shameless Sex Po…

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    #315 Daddy Dynamics and Dirty Talk - With Mischa Byruck

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 7, 2023 67:10


    What does it mean to be a Daddy? How can someone embody or role-play their hot inner daddy energy? Does it always involve dominance? How does dirty talk come into the mix of daddy dynamics? What are some top tips for upping my dirty talk game? And what if I'm shy but want to be more sexually vocal and verbally express my sexual desires? "Daddy" Mischa shares all this and more. About our guest: Mischa Byruck (He/him) is a sexual integrity coach. He guides people to live their sex lives in line with their values. He is the founder of Evolve.Men, where he coaches, teaches and writes on gender and sexuality. He is an ICF-certified coach, with training in abuser counseling, facilitation, antiracism, trauma, gender, consent, men's work, and sexuality. He teaches workshops on phone sex, dirty talk, daddy kink, and is the consent education partner for Bonobo Network, the Bay Area's premiere sex-positive community organization. He's also been an erotic model and appeared in amateur porn. Previously, he founded forLove, a virtual erotic events company, ran partnerships for DataKind and Code for America, worked in international development, and started a large-scale disaster relief organization. He holds a BA from Columbia and an MPA from NYU. Learn more about Mischa at Evolve.Men Check out his upcoming course here: BeyondConsent.love Find him on Instagram at @mByruck Come to Shameless Sex Podcast's live "G-spots, P-spots and Backdoor-lovin'" class in Salt Lake City on Saturday, Feb 25th! Purchase tickets at Blue Boutique's Sugarhouse location: blueboutique.com Or join us for the event online by registering here: https://fb.me/e/4aTb53igO Other links: Learn more about the American Sex podcast here: sunnymegatron.com Get 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #314 How to Have Long Arousal, Arousal Arcs, and Erotic Bliss - With Pamela Madsen

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2023 69:12


    What is long arousal and how does it differ from orgasm? Can everyone experience it? If so, how? What are arousal arcs? How can understanding and cultivating these practices lead to liberating, pleasure-filled erotic bliss? The legendary Pamela Madsen answers all this and so much more. About our guest: Pamela Madsen, a Somatic Wellness Coach with a Master's degree in Education, has coached hundreds of women and couples on their own personal journey back into their bodies. Pamela founded Back to the Body, Inc and The Back To The Body MethodTM, now in its twelfth year. A pioneer in fertility and sex advocacy, she also was the Founder and first Executive Director of The American Fertility Association. Pamela is a veteran speaker, educator, and has been a blogger for The Huffington Post, Psychology Today, and more. She is the author of Shameless: How I Ditched The Diet, Got Naked, Found True Pleasure and Still Got Home In Time To Cook Dinner (Rodale, January 2011). Pamela has appeared on Sex with Emily, Oprah, Cosmopolitan, Women's Health, Buzzfeed, 60 Minutes, CNN, The New York Times, O Magazine, USA Today, and more. She is also the co-creator of Everybody Squirm, objects for sensory experiences. She is a fearless advocate for women's health and integrated sexuality who leverages her raw honesty and well-informed wit to help strip the stigma from women's wellness, female desire and pleasure, body image, and infertility. To learn more visit https://backtothebody.org Her website, which includes a link to book a consultation -- https://backtothebody.org/ Her quiz -- https://quiz.tryinteract.com/#/62d17e2bf1290b001863d3a3 Her blog post about the study that features her work -- https://backtothebody.org/blog/womens-sexual-wellness-demands-research Other links: Listen to the Good Moms, Bad Choices podcast at goodmomsbadchoices.com Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at CALM.COM/Shameless Get 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #313 Shameless Sex "Smash-Up" - Our Top Juiciest Episodes Of 2022

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2023 88:13


    This episode is a fun "Smash-Up" containing clips of six of Shameless Sex podcast's favorite episodes from 2022. We love all of our episodes and guests, and we could only choose a few, so here is a little sneak peak that is near and dear to our hearts (and genitals) :) #295 How to Talk Dirty - With Sexpert Lola Kat - Listen here or here #271 How to Have the Best Sex of Your Life! - With Layla Martin - Listen here or here #286 A Sex-Hacker's Guide to Anal Sex - With Kenneth Play - Listen here or here #267 Spank Me! Choke Me! (But Learn These Tools First!) - With Orpheus Black - Listen here or here #287 Flirting, Dating and Casual Sex - With Rachel Wright, LMFT - Listen here or here #293 Fetishes, Porn and Sex Toys - With Master Fetish Trainers Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire - Listen here or here Other links: Listen to the Anthony Bourdain of sex podcast, the Private Parts Unknown podcast here Try our favorite dating app Feeld for free + get a free month of their Majestic Membership here: feeld.co/shameless Get 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #312 Relationship Mastery - With Fabienne Annick and Mos Jef

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 17, 2023 68:05


    What makes a deeply connected relationship work? Can couple's continue to have the best sex of their lives in long term relationships, and if so, what are some of the tools or creating and maintaining a fulfilling sex life? How does commitment including marriage affect things? What are some of the ways people can grow and nourish partnerships whether or not they "put a ring on it"? About our guests: Jef combines transformational coaching with emotional mastery, psychological integration, shadow work, and energetic attunement.  He is a meme lord and a master level practitioner and teacher of EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) and incorporates shadow integration and cognitive science into the methodology that he now trains practitioners in.  He guides people in a process of intentional patterns of thought that invite internal unification, profound personal empowerment, and deep energetic/emotional hygiene. His vision is one of collective healing, harmonization and integration that is self replicating, just like a meme. Check out Jef's work at mosjef.co and peep his memes on Instagram @mos__jef Fabienne is a Sex and Intimacy coach who specializes in helping penis-owners develop mastery over themselves through the window of their sexual energy, offering them the insight and perspective of a well-studied woman with a pussy. She helps people have better sex lives, helping them embody their sexual power with integrity through the use of ancient practices and therapeutic techniques based on modern day neuroscience.  Her mission is to help people of all genders come into more understanding and respect of each other so that we can all evolve together while getting our needs met and having great sex.  Find out more about Fabienne's work at fabienneannick.com or on Instagram @fabienneannick, and for $300 off Fabienne and Jef's upcoming course use code SHAMELESS. Other links: Listen to the Double Teamed Podcast at doubleteamedpodcast.com Make eating healthy, delicious meals easy with 60% off plus free shipping at greenchef.com Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at CALM.COM/Shameless Get 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #311 How to Take the Pressure Off Of Sex - With Dr. Alison Ash

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2023 54:47


    How does pressure show up in relationships, and why does it hinder pleasure, connection and arousal? How does pressure operate differently in new encounters vs long term relationships? What are some helpful tips to start turning the pressure valve down - both within the self and when engaging in intimacy with others? Repeat guest Dr. Aly answers all this and more. About our guest: Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences. Dr. Aly is champion for others overcoming shame and deepening pleasure and helps her clients experience pleasurable sexual interactions and nourishing romantic relationships. She designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them. Dr. Aly invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love at www.TurnON.love/intimacy Click here to sign up for Dr. Aly's upcoming Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Mastercourse Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast! We just lost out own account and now have a new one. Follow us for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one. Listen to the Holly Randall Unfiltered podcast here Learn more about our awesome Pleasure Podcast Network here Other links: Get 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #310 The Art of Orgasmic Anal Sex - With Alicia and Erwan Davon

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2023 59:30


    How can I have amazing orgasmic anal sex? How does surrender and awareness come into the mix? How can I enhance my orgasmic potential as a receiver, and how can I up my anal sex game as a giver? Repeat guests Alicia and Erwan Davon share all this and so much more. About our guests: Erwan and Alicia Davon have become the go- to experts for those seeking a higher level of relationship support. Erwan is the founder, senior teacher and president of San Francisco based The Davon Method. Together with Alicia, who has a Masters in Psychology and training as a therapist, they specialize in supporting singles in getting into passionate and successful relationships, and helping couples take their relationships to new heights of romance and intimacy. Based in the SF Bay Area, Erwan and Alicia provide a high end boutique service that gives their clients an effective way to enhance their relationships. They offer all of their coaching and classes online and support students all over the world.  To work with the Davon's text 415 308 9580 or click this link To learn more about their work visit davonmethod.com Follow their socials on IG & TikTok handle @davonmethod Sign up for their upcoming Valentine's Pleasure Course for singles & couples here. Get $100 off with coupon code CODE100 Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one. Check out the MultiAmory podcast here Other links: To learn more about microdosing THC go to Microdose.com and use code Shameless to get free shipping & 30% off your first order Get 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #308 Sex-Hacking Internal vs External Orgasms - With Kenneth Play

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 27, 2022 74:09


    What is the difference between internal and external orgasms and why are internal orgasms generally more difficult to achieve for many vulva-owners? How does foreplay and erogenous zones fit into all of this? And how do you personally define foreplay? What are some of the top sex-hacking tips for bigger, better, more frequent internal and external orgasms? About our guest: Kenneth Play is an international expert on female pleasure who was named the World's Greatest Sex Hacker by GQ & Men's Health. Kenneth has been featured by more than 100 media outlets including The New York Times, Nightline, Cosmo, Playboy, Vice, and Huffington Post. Kenneth is also the author of one of our favorite books, “Beyond Satisfied: A Sex Hacker's Guide to Endless Orgasms, Mind-Blowing Connection, and Lasting Confidence”. To learn more visit kennethplay.com  Join our free online community on Discord! We have a fun improv game coming up on Thursday, Dec 29th at 6pm PST. Sign up here: https://discord.gg/v7zTPnT5mb?event=1051832459861434368 Listen to The Bawdy Storytelling podcast here Learn more about our awesome Pleasure Podcast Network here Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at CALM.COM/Shameless Get 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #307 How to Explore Fantasies and Role-play in Relationships - With Naomi Slater

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2022 58:21


    Why is expressing or playing with fantasies beneficial for relationships? What are some ways we can share fantasies with partners? What can we do if our partners are not comfortable with what we share? And what if we actually want to turn the fantasy into role-play? What are some ways we can actually start to explore our fantasies? About our guest: Naomi Slater is an experienced intimacy & relationship coach, yoga teacher and bio-energy therapist. She is the creator of the 3-month online course “Awaken Your Desire” that helps women reclaim their wild and powerful divine feminine through yoni egg practices, emotional alchemy, meditation and psychoanalytic tools. Naomi is the host on the “Divine Couples” podcast, where she explores conscious sexuality through monologues and guest interviews. She holds an MA in Conflict Management & Resolution and a BA in Psychology and studied esoteric practices, treatments and philosophies with various gurus worldwide. Naomi's passion is helping others heal their relationships and reclaim their power, pleasure and passion. To learn more visit divinecouples.com Download her free Ebook for couples at awakenyourdesire.com/free-ebook Online course for women January 11th, 2022 - Awaken Your Desire Links for social media: instagram.com/tantraintimacycoaching facebook.com/naomi.slater.37 Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast! We just lost out own account and now have a new one. Follow us for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one. Other links: Get 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #306 Sensual Kink and BDSM - With Sir Marvelous

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2022 79:34


    What is BDSM, and how does “sensual kink” fit into the mix? Why is communication so important in kink, and how can people improve their erotic communication skills? How can people begin to dip their toes into the world of sensual BDSM? Also, what is the orgasm gap, how does it show up in BDSM, and what are “lifestyle events” all about? About our guest: Sir Marvelous, is a well-known and highly respected Pleasure Coach and Professional Sensual BDSM Dominant. Based out of the NYC area, he has 10 years of practice and owns and operates a Dungeon in New Jersey. Specializing in introducing and de-stigmatizing BDSM, his mission is to help close the orgasm gap by teaching people how to have and give stronger and more frequent orgasms, while tapping into the sensual side of BDSM. Sensual BDSM can completely transform how people experience intimacy by increasing connection, arousal and sensitivity. Sir Marvelous has performed at numerous sex positive events, has numerous reviews from private clients all over the country, and has spoken on expert panels. Most recently, Sir Marvelous was a featured speaker at the BDSM Panel for Kandi Burruss at the Bedroom Kandi 10th Annual Convention in Atlanta. For more information, Sir Marvelous can be reached at ​Marvelous Things Entertainment, LLC: Email: Bookings@sirmarvelous.com Webpage: liinks.co/marvelousthings Instagram: @Sirmarvelous & @Sirmarvelouskinks Twitter: @Sirmarvelous5 Other links: Listen to The Horny Housewife podcast here Learn more about our awesome Pleasure Podcast Network here Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast! We just lost out own account and now have a new one. Follow us for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one. Other links: Get 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #305 How to Up Your Flirting Game - With Euphemia Russell

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2022 71:29


    What is flirting? Is it just something single people do or can we flirt with our partners as well? What if someone feels like they are “bad” at flirting? How can they learn to become more confident and up their flirting game? What are some tips for flirting whether single or partnered? And how does non-sexual touch play into all of this? About our guest: Euphemia is a full spectrum pleasure coach and bestselling author of Slow Pleasure.  Their work aims to support people to flourish and feel pleasure. Even despite our collective crisis of pace and disconnection. They've been featured in Elle, Cosmopolitan, Vice, Harper's Bazaar, and multiple national radios and newspapers. ‘Slow Pleasure' is both the name of Euphemia's best-selling book and their theory of change. By learning to access the full spectrum of pleasure, drip by drip and microdose by microdose, people can feel their own aliveness and reestablish a nourishing connection to self, others, and the land. Euphemia understands pleasure and somatics to be a journey of creating moments to pause, listen and remember, rather than ‘fix' or accumulate knowledge. To learn more visit euphemiarussell.com Euphemia's Instagram: Euphemia.russell Euphemia's Tik Tok: @Euphemia Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at CALM.COM/Shameless To learn more about microdosing THC go to Microdose.com and use code Shameless to get free shipping & 30% off your first order Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    Bonus Episode: The Science of Horniness from Come As You Are - With Dr. Emily Nagoski

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2022 18:56


    Today, we're sharing a preview of a new podcast we're enjoying and think you will, too. On Come As You Are, educator and bestselling author Dr. Emily Nagoski answers questions about sex with the latest science. You'll get a modern guide to sexual wellbeing, backed by groundbreaking research about desire, anatomy, orgasm and much more. In conversation with her producer, Emily debunks cultural myths and flips the script on everything you thought you knew about sex and sexuality. In this preview, Emily answers a listener question about losing the motivation to have sex and introduces us to a concept known as the "dual control model,” which offers a simple but radical shift in the way we think about horniness. Click here listen to Come As You Are, or visit https://podcasts.pushkin.fm/caya?sid=shameless

    #304 Penis Enhancement and Testosterone - With Dr. Judson Brandeis

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2022 63:17


    What is penis enhancement all about? Is it about size or performance, and why would someone want to enhance their penis? Are there any dangers to penis enhancement? What are the statistics for positive results? And what are some of the key points penis-owners should know about testosterone and how it affects the body? Dr. Brandeis shares all this as well as his new research on the P-Long Study and P-Long protocol. About our guest: Dr. Judson Brandeis is a graduate of Brown University and Vanderbilt University School of Medicine, with Urologic Surgery residency at UCLA and a post-doc fellowship at Harvard, today he specializes in the emerging field of sexual health and medicine. Dr. Brandeis helps men everywhere feel great, look good, and have better physical intimacy. Over the course of his 25-year career as a board-certified urologist, he has performed thousands of surgeries and pioneered surgical robotics. In 2019, Dr. Brandeis decided to follow his true passion and opened BrandeisMD, a national leader in technology and sexual medicine innovations. As a sexual medicine expert and educator leading courses all around the country, he approaches the subject of male sexual wellness with enthusiasm and an ability to explain complicated topics in ways the listener can understand. Dr. Brandeis is intimately familiar with the challenges men face as they age. Helping men meet these challenges and optimize their health inspires his commitment to clinical research, compassionate patient care, and education of other physicians. To learn more visit brandeismd.com. To buy the book visit: thetwentyfirstcenturyman.com Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast! We just lost out own account and now have a new one. Follow us for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one. Other links: Get 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #303 Experience Erotic Hypnosis From a Dominatrix - With Mistress Carol

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2022 53:18


    What is erotic hypnosis? How does it help people as sexual beings, as well as in other aspects of their lives? Can it really inspire them to overcome issues and habits so they may create their best lives? And how is erotic hypnosis related to BDSM and working with a Dominatrix? Mistress Carol shares all this and more (and even does a brief demo on air!). About our guest: Mistress Carol is a Dominatrix, Erotic Hypnotist, and Clinical Hypnotherapist at EroticHypnosisForMen.com. She is an expert in controlling your mind and taking you deep into the sensual experience of hypnotic trance and fantasy. Her sessions have been celebrated as some of the best in the industry, with her provocative and controlling voice that welcomes one to surrender into hypnotic submission. With an intellectual interest in psychology and the mysteries of the subconscious mind, Mistress Carol has been practicing hypnosis and creating erotic trance sessions for over ten years. As a sensualist, she takes pleasure in creating a dream-like environment where one may be immersed in fantasy, lost inside her control, sexually dominated, as she blows your mind. She thrives on pain and pleasure, domination and submission, control and surrender, and passion and desire. With a bit of a mischievous streak and a playful manner, Mistress Carol enjoys the dynamics of tease and denial, taking you to the edge of agony and lust, then leaving you aching for more.  Professionally, Mistress Carol is also a clinical hypnotherapist and works within the community, supporting individuals with overcoming issues and habits so they may create their best lives. She has helped many to overcome anxiety, stop smoking, lose weight, and conquer their own personal limitations. Mistress Carol is the creatrix of Erotic Hypnosis for Men, a lair of wicked enchantment and depravity, which features a captivating variety of recorded erotic hypnosis sessions available for online purchase. Mistress Carol also offers live online sessions for one-on-one trance experiences and distance training on many sexually inspiring topics, and she was Featured in book “the heart of the dominatrix” by Inanna justice.. You may also find her older, discounted sessions at My Hypnotic Domains, or visit her at LoyalFans.com/MistressCarol where you can enjoy her subscribers-only VIP content. Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast! We just lost out own account and now have a new one. Follow us for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one. Other links: Get 20% off all your kink gear and toys with code SHAMELESS at sportsheets.com/shameless Get 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #302 Swinging, Stripping and Sex Parties - With Kiley the Sexy Swinger Chic

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2022 65:35


    What does swinging entail, and how does someone know this lifestyle is for them? Is swinging for people of all ages (well, 18 and up)? How can people both dip their toes into and navigate the world of swinging? How can swinging go awry, and what are some options for working through these hurdles? And what is the difference between swinging and sex parties? About our guest: Kiley is a millennial non monogamous swinger activist and sex worker from Cleveland, Ohio. Over the course of the past 18 months Kiley has taken social media by storm helping break stigmas associated with the non monogamous lifestyle. She uses her platform for good and has started working with organizations like The Woodhull Foundation, The Swinger Society and is part of the PR committee with The National Coalition For Sexual Freedom. Kiley wants to continue fighting for sexual freedoms via her platform and on a local level. She hopes her efforts will help de-stigmatize the non monogamous community. To learn more visit sexyswingerchic.net TikTok: @sexyswingerchictalks  Twitter@sexyswingerchic  IG:@sexyswingerchic1991 Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast! We just lost out own account and now have a new one. Follow us for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one. Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at CALM.COM/Shameless Get 15% off your ultimate sexy holiday kit with code SHAMELESS at likeakitten.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #301 Narcissism and Healing After Toxic Relationships - Kate Loree, LMFT

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 8, 2022 67:01


    What is narcissism and borderline personality, and how can they cause to others? How can someone recognize if they are dating someone with narcissistic tendencies? Why are certain people drawn to them, and why do so many find it har to leave what feels like a toxic relationship? What are some coping skills or strategies that can help a person finally leave, as well as tools for the healing process after experiencing so much emotional abuse? Repeat guest Kate Loree shares all of this and more.  About our guest: Kate Loree, LMFT, is a sex-positive licensed marriage and family therapist with a specialty in non-monogamous, kink, LGBTQ, and sex worker communities, author of Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships, and cohost of the podcast Open Deeply, with Sunny Megatron. Kate Loree has been featured in Buzzfeed videos, Playboy Radio, as well as many podcasts. To learn more visit KateLoree.com. Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one. Come join our free private Shameless Sex online community on Discord: discord.gg/9q4ybEb5jW Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of vulva pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com, and 20% off the Magic Wand line with code SHAMELESSWAND here

    #300 Cuckolding, Hot-Wifing, and Male Chastity - With Dr. David Ley

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2022 69:15


    What is Cuckolding and why are people into it? How does Cuckolding differ from Hot-Wifing? How can people embrace their inner Cuck? And how does male-chastity fit into the mix? Dr. David Ley shares all this and more. About our guest: David Ley is a clinical psychologist, sex therapist and author, based in Albuquerque, New Mexico. He's the author of several books and research articles on sexuality, including his first book, Insatiable Wives: Women who Stray and the Men Who Love Them, which was the first book to examine the cuckolding and hotwife phenomenon. With Dr. Justin Lehmiller and Dan Savage, he published the first psychological study of the cuckold fantasy. Dr. Ley is a frequent guest in media around the world, with appearances in the New York Times, CNN and Time Magazine, as well as Hustler and Playboy magazines. To learn more visit davidleyphd.com Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one. Come join our free private Shameless Sex online community on Discord: discord.gg/9q4ybEb5jW Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com, and 20% off the Magic Wand line with code SHAMELESSWAND here

    #299 The Vasectomy Episode - With Dr. Justin Dubin

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2022 69:53


    Repeat guest and Urologist Dr. Justin Dubin joins us once again to teach us all about the wonderful world of vasectomies. How do vasectomies actually work, and what does the procedure and healing process look like? Who should consider a vasectomy? What are the success rates? Are they bad for the body? What if someone wants to get their vasectomy reversed? What does this procedure and healing process look like, and what are the success rates? Oh, and is botox for the balls really a thing? Tune in for this fun episode to discover why Dr. Dubin is a huge fan of vasectomies (and we are too). About our guest: Dr. Justin Dubin grew up in Wayne NJ and attended Johns Hopkins University for undergraduate school. He completed medical school at Rutgers Robert Wood Johnson, his urology residency training at the University of Miami, and more recently his fellowship in Male Infertility and Sexual Medicine at Northwestern University. Dr. Dubin is a Men's Health specialist at Memorial Healthcare System in Hollywood, Florida. He's passionate about men's health and education with the goal of improving both the lives of men and their partners. He has published multiple papers on both male infertility and sexual health, has been quoted in the NY Times, Insider, and Men's Health and is the current co-host of the men's health podcast Man Up: A Doctor's Guide to Men's Health. LINKS: https://www.themanuppod.com https://www.instagram.com/justindubinmd https://twitter.com/justindubinmd https://linktr.ee/JustinDubinMD https://www.mhs.net/physicians/d/dubin-justin Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one. Come join our free private Shameless Sex online community on Discord: discord.gg/9q4ybEb5jW Other links: To learn more about microdosing THC go to Microdose.com and use code Shameless to get free shipping & 30% off your first order Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #298 Prostates and Super Orgasms (and Enemas!) - With Forrest Andrews Of Aneros

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2022 67:00


    Repeat guest and expert Forrest Andrews joins us for a pre-Movember episode to talk all about prostate health, pleasure, how penis-owners can have a Super O AKA mind-blowing full-bodied multi-orgasmic experiences, prostate toys, the purpose and art of enemas, and so much more. About our guest: Forrest Andrews is the Product and Business Development manager of Aneros. Forrest's relationship with Aneros began in 2002 and he has played an important role in the evolution of the company and their products ever since becoming their sole product tester and a consultant for the development of new products. Between 2003 to 2012 he mentored many hundreds of men helping them transition to new levels of sensual awareness through prostate massage. To check out all of Aneros' incredible line of products go to aneros.com Other links: Hey Iceland! We love you, and we LOVE this pleasure shop: https://blush.is/ And for all you US folks, get 15% off all of your sex toys (including the ones shared in this episode) with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com To learn more about microdosing THC go to Microdose.com and use code Shameless to get free shipping & 30% off your first order Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless

    #297 "Eargasms" and the Power Of Audio Erotica - With Lala

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2022 55:20


    What is audio eroticism & erotica? What is an auralism kink and is Audio Hypnosis Erotica part of this? What are the benefits of incorporating erotic content into your lifestyle, and how can erotica be incorporated into a relationship to improve sexual intimacy and emotional connection? Be sure to listen all the way through for a sexy snippet from erotic aural erotica master Lala. About our guest: Lala is the founder of Lala's Bedtime Tales, a sexual wellness and liberation brand. She is a sexuality and sexual health advocate, audio erotic podcast host, and an erotica writer. Lala started Lala's Bedtime Tales to create a safe and judgment-free space for individuals to learn about sexual health and how to feel sexually empowered in and out of the bedroom. Lala's Bedtime Tales is a sexual wellness digital platform that inspires you to take control and ownership of your sexy by mixing education with entertainment. Through Lala's Bedtime Tales, she offers erotica and romance literature, sexual health and wellness education from licensed medical professionals, and healthy relationships & intimacy advice from sexuality experts. Lala's mission is to de-stigmatize women's sexuality as a dirty thing and encourage and educate women on ways to enjoy their sexual pleasure and feel confident and sexy in their sexuality. Lala is a firm believer that sexual health education is a human right and everyone deserves knowledge about sexual wellness, consent, and pleasure because sex should never be mentally or physically painful but a fun, beautiful, and intimate act. Links: · Lala's Bedtime Tales Website: https://www.lalasbedtimetales.com/ · Lala's Bedtime Tales Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/5YmouZTiUYHdrPwsw3Ro9V · Lala's Bedtime Tales Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lalasbedtimetales/ Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast! We just lost out own account and now have a new one. Follow us for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one. Come join our free private Shameless Sex online community on Discord + join our fun Sexy Jeopardy event (hosted live by Amy) Thursday, October 16th at 6pm PST. Join here: discord.gg/9q4ybEb5jW Other links: Get 20% off your first order of some of our favorite arousal oils by visiting foriawellness.com/SHAMELESS OR use code SHAMELESS at checkout Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #296 How to Navigate Breakups and Heartbreak - With Dr. Alison Ash

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2022 69:42


    What are some of the signs you should break up in relationships, as well as the top tips for navigating them with as much success and ease as possible? What if you know you should break up but feel like you can't do it? How can people cope with a breakup - especially when they are feeling so much sadness, loss, anger and/or grief? Is "conscious uncoupling" or closure conversations available to everyone? And what can breakups teach us as valuable tools in moving forward? Repeat guest Dr. Aly answers all this and more. About our guest: Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences. Dr. Aly is champion for others overcoming shame and deepening pleasure and helps her clients experience pleasurable sexual interactions and nourishing romantic relationships. She designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them. Dr. Aly invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love at TurnON.love For info on Dr. Aly's upcoming Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills Mastercourse, starting January 2023, visit TurnON.love/intimacy  Social links: www.instagram/turnon.love  www.facebook/turnon.love Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast! We just lost out own account and now have a new one. Follow us for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one. Come join our free private Shameless Sex online community on Discord + join our fun Sexy Jeopardy event (hosted live by Amy) Thursday, October 16th at 6pm PST. Join here: discord.gg/9q4ybEb5jW Other links: To learn more about microdosing THC go to Microdose.com and use code Shameless to get free shipping & 30% off your first order Get up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #295 How to Talk Dirty - With Sexpert Lola Kat

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2022 69:33


    What exactly is Dirty Talk? What are the benefits using it to spice up sex? What are some tips for folks who want to up their dirty talk game, and how can people who are desiring to engage in more Dirty Talk talk ask for this from their partner? Sexpert Lola Kat teaches all of this, and even shares a reading in her sensual voice. About our guest: Lola Kat Yonder is a Sex Positive - Body Positivity Advocate & Sensual Storyteller: She remarks she grew up in the adult industry, 13+ years & counting: including 8 years as a sensual product consultant & small biz marketing director, commercial hostess, & content creator for luxury adult retail; along with 5+ years of experience in sensual voice performance. Colleagues have dubbed her the Wordsmith & the Vanna White of Vibrators.   In the past, Lola performed 16 years as a classically-trained Church vocalist, as well as contributed 6+ years in senior healthcare. She has evolved from her conservative roots by embracing sexual openness emphasizing intimate education. She has also competed to model for the Next Face of Torrid 2015, and walked the runway at multiple Body Positivity Empowerment events in Baltimore & NYC; & maintained an active presence on the adult conference circuit, attending events such as Exxxotica & AVN. Lola's passions include music, fashion, voiceover, queer positivity, sex toy exploration and empowerment. Her mantra is Style, Makeup, & Masturbation in the Pursuit of Self Love, Intimate Connections, and Positive Mental Health. You can find her commercial work with keywords 'Spice2nite Show' on YouTube, and modeling/ body positivity on @thecoybox on IG A lifelong learner, she is currently interested in living powerfully as an accomplished woman with adult-ADHD, for which she has started a consultant page ADHDsensual.com. Also learn more about her work at lolakatyonder.com Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast! We just lost out own account and now have a new one. Follow us for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one. Come meet and play with us on October 2nd, 2022 at this fun local event in Santa Cruz. Other links: To learn more about microdosing THC go to Microdose.com and use code Shameless to get free shipping & 30% off your first order Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #294 How to Be a Cougar (and Why Cougars Are Awesome!) - With Dr. Sarah Hill

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2022 65:54


    What is the definition of a Cougar? Why do people have such a hard time with female led age gap relationships, when male led age gaps are seen as no big deal? What is so appealing about older women to younger men, how can older women stop second-guessing their desirability, and what are some tips and tricks to help fuel women's sexual response at any age? Repeat guest Dr. Sarah Hill answers all this and so much more. Follow us on Tik Tok @shamelesssexpodcast! We just lost out own account and now have a new one. Follow us for entertaining and informative clips from episodes such as this one. Come meet and play with us on October 2nd, 2022 at this fun local event in Santa Cruz. About our guest: Dr. Sarah Hill is an award-winning research psychologist and professor with expertise in women, health, and sexual psychology. Her work has been written about in outlets like the New York Times, the Economist, and The Guardian, and you can see her featured in the Netflix documentary, The Principles of Pleasure. Most recently, Dr. Hill has been using her expertise as a consultant with Cougar Life, a dating website for those seeking female-led age gap relationships. To learn more go to sarahehill.com Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at CALM.COM/Shameless Get your ultimate sex kit with everything you need at unwrap-pleasureshop.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #293 Fetishes, Porn, and Sex Toys - With Master Fetish Trainers Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2022 68:44


    What is a fetish, and how can people work with their fetishes in a safe, pleasurable way? What does it mean to be “master fetish trainers”? And how can we approach porn, sex toys, and our consumption of the erotic industry with more awareness, sex-positivity and inclusivity? Master Fetish Trainers Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire share this and so much more. About our guests: Jet Setting Jasmine is a licensed clinical Psychotherapist with a strong emphasis on Intimacy Post Injury and Intimacy Post Illness. She is the owner and lead therapist of full-service therapy practice, Blue Pearl Therapy. Jasmine is an international sex educator and Master Fetish Trainer. King Noire is an accomplished writer, artist, MC and global activist using the proceeds of his album ‘Music Is My Weapon' to build a school, fresh water well and medical clinic in Guinea Bissau, West Africa. He has used his position as an adult performer and Master Fetish Trainer to develop an ethically sound molded toy in partnership with Lust Art; raise consciousness around Kink safety for people of color; and offering sex education to audiences ranging from college students to medical providers. Jasmine and King are the co-owners of three-time award winning Royal Fetish Films and together have over 20 years of experience as adult entertainers, directors and producers. The duo's love of the arts, film and sex education are combined to produce erotica that stimulates and engages the audience to explore their sexual boundaries. Their work on the Decolonization of Sex & Porn and Politics has been featured in Huffington Post, Rolling Stones, Paper Magazine, VICE, Playboy, Forbes, Business Insider, Cosmopolitan, BBC, Psychology Today and more. To learn more visit Royalfetishxxx.com and Jetsettingjasmine.com Other links: To learn more about microdosing THC go to Microdose.com and use code Shameless to get free shipping & 30% off your first order Get 20% off your first order of some of our favorite arousal oils by visiting foriawellness.com/SHAMELESS OR use code SHAMELESS at checkout Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #292 Sex Positions and the Art of Penetration - With Alicia and Erwan Davon

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2022 66:15


    Sex and relationship experts Alicia and Erwan Davon join us once again to talk about sex positions and the art of orgasmic, pleasurable penetration. Learn why it's helpful allow the vulva owner (or any receiving orifice for that matter) to move towards the giver to build up desire. Also why there's a time and place for “pushing it real good" (shout out to Salt 'n' Pepper), top tips for mind-blowing penetrative sex, how to continue play without a hard cock, and so much more. About our guests: Erwan and Alicia Davon have become the go- to experts for those seeking a higher level of relationship support. Erwan is the founder, senior teacher and president of San Francisco based The Davon Method. Together with Alicia, who has a Masters in Psychology and training as a therapist, they specialize in supporting singles in getting into passionate and successful relationships, and helping couples take their relationships to new heights of romance and intimacy. Based in the SF Bay Area, Erwan and Alicia provide a high end boutique service that gives their clients an effective way to enhance their relationships. They offer all of their coaching and classes online and support students all over the world.  To work with the Davon's text 415 308 9580 or click this link Use CODE100 for $100 off their upcoming Pleasure Course September 24-25th 2022 by clicking here To learn more about their work visit davonmethod.com Follow their socials on IG & TikTok handle @davonmethod Come join Shameless Sex's FREE Discord community here: discord.gg/nvXqTEcBTg Other links: Get up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #291 2022's Top Sex Toys For Anal Play - With Amy and April

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2022 55:34


    The title tells it all, but this episode is all about our current top sex toy recommendations when it comes to anything anal including pegging products, plugs, beads, anal pleasure and safety, and positions. Happy Anal August and on to Shameless Sextember! Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at CALM.COM/Shameless Boost up that immune system and get a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D, plus 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase of Athletic Greens at athleticgreens.com/SHAMELESSSEX Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #290 The Truth About the Pelvic Floor, Popping Cherries, and Tight Pu$$ies - With Jenny Putt, PT

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2022 66:58


    What is the pelvic floor about and how is it related to sexual pleasure (and orgasms!)? Why is the idea of having a tighter pussy generally BS? How can people heal or improve their pelvic floors? And what's the truth about "popping cherries" (AKA first time penetration)? About our guest: Jenny Putt is a pelvic floor physical therapist and sex educator among many other letters that go after her name. She believes talking about sex, poop, pee and genitals shouldn't be deemed awkward or inappropriate and that the world would be a better place if people were more connected to their pelvic floor and had access to more pleasure.  She specializes in the pelvic floor health of perinatal individuals with in-person and virtual services across the continuum of preconception through pregnancy, delivery and postpartum recovery. To learn more visit www.jennyputtpt.com or checkout her IG at @jennyputtpt Upcoming events: Join us in Santa Cruz in getting your booty's kicked at Carina Reid's Ignite Change event on September 18th by signing up here Enhance your intimacy with your partner at a 2-day retreat in Malibu September 24th-25th. Learn more here Other links: Boost up that immune system and get a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D, plus 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase of Athletic Greens at athleticgreens.com/SHAMELESSSEX Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless. Also learn about their recent study an anal pleasure here Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #289 WET: Time to Turn That Pu$$y On - With Alexis Lauren Ware, L.Ac

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 16, 2022 68:11


    In this fun in-person interview we chat with Alexis Lauren Ware all about becoming WET - not necessarily the way Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion describe it, but more so about how we can (re)connect with our genitals, “reclaim” our wetness and turn-on, and live a life of feeling WET both in and out of the bedroom. I mean, who doesn't want that? We cure to check out Alexis' live online 6-week group course (guess what it's called...WET!) as it's limited to only 20 people at sovereign-university.com/wet About our guest: Alexis Ware, L.Ac., founder of Sovereign University, is an energy expert and life strategist who specializes in restructuring subconscious belief systems to amplify power in service to love, connection, creative expression and deeper enjoyment of life, sex and relationships. Alexis is a licensed acupuncturist, Kundalini Yoga teacher, Human Design enthusiast, ThetaHealing® expert/instructor of 12+ years and a sex, desire & intimacy coach. Alexis Ware, L.Ac., founder of Sovereign University, is an energy expert and life strategist who specializes in restructuring subconscious belief systems to amplify love, connection, creative expression and deeper enjoyment of life, sex and relationships. Alexis is a licensed acupuncturist, ThetaHealing® expert & instructor of 12+ years and a sex, desire & intimacy coach. Alexis Ware is an energy expert and life strategist who specializes in restructuring subconscious belief systems to amplify love, connection, creative expression and deeper enjoyment of life, sex and relationships. Alexis is a licensed acupuncturist, ThetaHealing® expert & instructor of 12+ years and a sex, desire & intimacy coach. sovereign-university.com Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 20% off your first order of some of our favorite arousal oils by visiting foriawellness.com/SHAMELESS OR use code SHAMELESS at checkout Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #288 How to Have Transcendent Cervical Orgasms - With Dr. Willow Brown and Leah Piper

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2022 72:08


    We've all heard about the power of transcendent and cervical orgasms (AKA the A-Spot), but how are they obtained? What do they feel like, why are they life-changing, and what are the tips and tricks for having more powerful, transcendent internal orgasms? About our guests: Dr. Willow Brown & Leah Piper bring a wealth of wisdom through their combined 40 years of expertise in human sexuality, health, and spiritual growth. Leah is a Tantric Sex Master Coach and Positive Psychology Facilitator while Dr. Willow is a Chinese & Functional Medicine Doctor, and Taoist Sexology Teacher. When these two devotees of love come together they blend and weave the ancient teachings of Tao and Tantra for the modern lover with humor, insight and wisdom. To learn more visit sexreimagined.com. Also visit: Drwillowbrown.com moreloveworks.com Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at CALM.COM/Shameless Boost up that immune system and get a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D, plus 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase of Athletic Greens at athleticgreens.com/SHAMELESSSEX Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #287 Flirting, Dating and Casual Sex - With Rachel Wright, LMFT

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 2, 2022 69:48


    In this playful episode we interview Psychotherapist Rachel Wright, MA, LMFT all about flirting, in-person and online dating, relationships and casual sex. Whether you are single, non-monogamous, or want to learn how to navigate the dating field, this episode has plenty of gems to offer you. About our guest: Psychotherapist Rachel Wright, MA, LMFT (she/her) is recognized as one of the freshest voices on modern relationships, mental health, and sex. She is an experienced speaker, group facilitator, educator, therapist, coach, and on-camera mental health and relationship expert. With a Master's Degree in clinical psychology, Rachel Wright has worked with thousands of humans worldwide, helping them scream less and screw more. She has brought her message to stages across the globe, was SHAPE Magazine's Sex + Relationships Coach, and created the virtual workshop series What You Wish You Learned in School: Sex Ed and is currently one of mindbodygreen's article review experts. She also recently did a show at Green Room 42 in NYC called “One Night Stand: A Night for Sexier & Healthier Broadway.” (Check out the review in BroadwayWorld here.) Rachel has been featured widely in the media, including on Cheddar TV, as a regular contributor to SHAPE, INSIDER, mbg, InStyle, The Dipp, Well & Good — plus Cosmopolitan Magazine, PIX 11 (NYC), Women's Health, NBC News Radio, Huffington Post, CTV (Canada), and hundreds of other outlets.  Rachel lives in New York and loves live theatre so much. You can probably find her in PJs eating gluten-free food with one of her partners if she's not working! Learn more at www.rachelwrightnyc.com or connect in her cozy corner of Instagram, @thewright_rachel Other links: To learn more about why we LOVE the Calm app go to go to CALM.COM/Shameless to get 40% off a Calm Premium Subscription Boost up that immune system and get a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D, plus 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase of Athletic Greens at athleticgreens.com/SHAMELESSSEX Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #286 A Sex-Hacker's Guide to Anal Sex - With Kenneth Play

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 26, 2022 70:14


    It's almost one of our favorite months - Anal August! And to celebrate we are interviewing repeat guest and sex expert Kenneth Play all about anal sex. Kenneth shares his top tips and "hacks" for making anal sex more fun, relaxing, pleasurable, and even orgasmic. You don't want to miss this one. And be sure to check out our YouTube Channel to get a visual of some of the techniques he shares, as well as our Instagram for short clips from this episode. About our guest: Kenneth Play is an international expert on female pleasure who was named the World's Greatest Sex Hacker by GQ & Men's Health. Kenneth has been featured by more than 100 media outlets including The New York Times, Nightline, Cosmo, Playboy, Vice, and Huffington Post. Kenneth is also the author of one of our favorite books, “Beyond Satisfied: A Sex Hacker's Guide to Endless Orgasms, Mind-Blowing Connection, and Lasting Confidence”. To learn more visit kennethplay.com  Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 20% off your first order of some of our favorite arousal oils by visiting foriawellness.com/SHAMELESS OR use code SHAMELESS at checkout Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #285 Jerk-Off July and How to Up Your 'Bating Game - With Amy and April

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2022 60:43


    While we love Masturbation May, April decided it's time to start celebrating Jerk-Off July. In this episode we discuss why it's good for you, our own experiences with masturbation, and tips and tool to up your self-pleasure game. Other links: To learn more about microdosing THC go to Microdose.com and use code Shameless to get free shipping & 30% off your first order Boost up that immune system and get a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D, plus 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase of Athletic Greens at athleticgreens.com/SHAMELESSSEX Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #284 Sexual Confidence and Full-Bodied Orgasms For Cock-Owners - With Fabienne Annick

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2022 55:02


    How does sexual confidence for penis owners show up in sex and enhance the way they tend to their lovers, specifically ones with pussies? Why do so many men feel like they need to push their sexuality down in order to be a “safe person”? How can they find their sexual power in a safe way? What can they do to uncover parts of their sexuality they've been burying and how can they integrate them? And how can penis owner's learn how to have more full-bodied orgasms? About our guest: Fabienne is a California based Sex and Intimacy Coach who specializes in helping men and other penis-owners develop sexual mastery, offering them the perspective and insight of a well-studied woman with a pussy. She guides people to use their sexual energy with integrity and intention to get more in touch and in love with their authentic selves and sexual expression. Fabienne loves to create, explore, and play with the form she has arrived in. Her mission is to be a loving witness to each person's strange, creative, beautiful selves, and to support others and herself to continue to heal in order to step into a freer form of self-expression and celebration of life. Find out more about Fabienne's work at fabienneannick.com or on Instagram @fabienneannick Use code "shameless" for $300 off her upcoming course in September 2022 For Melissa Hite's online Summer Self-Care course all about perfecting the art of boundaries, click here and use code SHAMELESS to get $100 off if you sign up by the end of July, 2022. Other links: To learn more about microdosing THC go to Microdose.com and use code Shameless to get free shipping & 30% off your first order Get 20% off of Manscaped's re-launched Ultra Smooth Package (+ free shipping!) with the code SHAMELESS at manscaped.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #283 Building Loving Relationships, Non-Monogamy and Attachment Styles - With Kate Loree

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 5, 2022 65:43


    What are the attachment styles and how do they impact relationships in general, especially non-monogamy? How do people know if they are non-monogamous? What's the difference between fantasy and innate needs or desires? How do people's unresolved attachment injuries get triggered within non-monogamy and how can they work with this once it's triggered? What are some tools, and do they also apply to monogamous relationships? Lastly, what are some top tips for navigating both monogamous and non-monogamous relationships? About our guest: Kate Loree, LMFT, is a sex-positive licensed marriage and family therapist with a specialty in non-monogamous, kink, LGBTQ, and sex worker communities and the author of Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships. In addition to her master's in marriage and family therapy, she also has an MBA and is a registered art therapist (ATR). She is an EDSE certified sex educator and an EMDR certified therapist with additional training in the Trauma Resiliency Model (TRM) for the treatment of trauma. She has been practicing psychotherapy since 2003. She co-hosts her own sex-positive podcast, Open Deeply, with Sunny Megatron, has been featured in Buzzfeed videos, and has been a guest on Playboy Radio and many podcasts, including American Sex, Sluts and Scholars, and Sex Out Loud. She has written for Good Vibrations and Hollywood Magazine and is a frequent public speaker. Her private practice resides in Encino, CA. For more information, please visit her on the web at KateLoree.com. Attention vulva-owners (in the tri-state area who have never had an orgasm and are interested in contributing to research (and maybe getting a little help along the away! Email the beloved nan@askdoctornan.com to learn more. Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #282 Solo Sex and How ‘Batin Can Lead to Great Sex With Partners - With Mike Mantell

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2022 67:57


    In this episode we talk all about masturbation AKA 'batin, why it's beneficial to have a masturbation practice and how to develop one, and ways your solo-sex can also lead to more pleasurable and connected sex with partners. About our guest: As a sex and relationship facilitator, Mike creates transformational group experiences to support people in their journey of sex, intimacy, and relationship. Mike is kinky, queer, and poly, and they live in an intentional community in Seattle called Confluence that serves as a practice ground for personal and relational growth. Mike loves offering free insights about sexuality, connection, and personal growth on their website mikemantell.com Other links: Get affordable online therapy now from the privacy of your own home + 10% off your first month when you go to betterhelp.com/shamelesssex Get $10 off your order of $50 or more on our favorite mouth-gasmic treats at milkbarstore.com/Shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #281 ED AKA Erectile Issues, Porn, and Blue Balls - With Dr. Justin Dubin

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2022 69:05


    In this playful episode we talk all about what most doctors call erectile or sexual dysfunction (ED), but we prefer the term erectile control issues, and you will learn all about why we reframe it this way in this episode. Dr. Dubin also explains the statistics on erectile issues, his research with porn performers and the correlation between porn and erectile control, tips for working around this, as well as whether or not blue balls are a real thing. About our guest: Dr. Justin Dubin grew up in Wayne NJ and attended Johns Hopkins University for undergraduate school. He completed medical school at Rutgers Robert Wood Johnson and his urology residency training at the University of Miami. Currently, Dr. Dubin is completing his fellowship in Male Infertility and Sexual Medicine at Northwestern University and will be starting up as the Director of Men's Health at Memorial Health Systems in Hollywood Florida. Dr. Dubin is passionate about men's health and education with the goal of improving both the lives of men and their partners. He has published multiple papers on both male infertility and sexual health, has been quoted in the NY Times, Insider, and Men's Health and is the current co-host of the men's health podcast Man Up: A Doctor's Guide to Men's Health. LINKS: https://www.themanuppod.com/ https://www.instagram.com/justindubinmd/ https://twitter.com/justindubinmd https://linktr.ee/JustinDubinMD Want to join our free online Shameless Sex community on Discord (and maybe even connect with Amy and April on there from time to time? Go here: https://discord.gg/nvXqTEcBTg Other links: Get affordable online therapy now from the privacy of your own home + 10% off your first month when you go to betterhelp.com/shamelesssex Avoid the takeout temptation with ease (and yummy food that is good for you) + $40 your first shipment when you go to dailyharvest.com/shamelesssex Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #280 How to Tap Into Your Ultimate Inner Sexy Slut - With Layla Martin

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 14, 2022 75:05


    Layla Martin joins us once again to take back the word slut and own it as an empowering tool for becoming the ultimate sexy badass that is uniquely you in the bedroom. Whether you want to learn to worship a slut or goddess, or you want to dive deeper into that powerful part of you, Layla has plenty of juicy tips and tricks you won't want to miss. About our guest: Layla Martin is a visionary rebel who teaches on sexuality, relationships, and self-love to people across the globe. Her devoted study of Tantra for 18+ years along with her sexuality studies at Stanford University have informed her unique teaching process and the creation of her proprietary VITA™ Methodology. Her programs have taught over 12,500 women, men, and non-binary people her method of using breath, sound, movement, meditation, and energy awareness to awaken their sexuality and reclaim their power and worthiness. She is a thought leader who combines mystical practices with the most up-to-date scientific approaches to transformation to enable radical liberation, rapid change, and outrageous pleasure. Her highly effective programs, tools, and practices empower you to experience exquisite sex, shameless self-love, and incredible depths of intimacy. She's the founder of the Vital and Integrated Tantric Approach (VITA™) and the creator of the VITA™️ Sex, Love & Relationship Coaching Certification, the VITA™ Sacred Sexuality Initiation, and other programs. She's shared her work with over 135 million people through her YouTube channel and has a weekly email audience of 375,000+ people. If you want to experience epic sex, legendary love, and your most magnificent self, visit Layla's website and follow her on Facebook and Instagram. Other links: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 20% off of Manscaped's re-launched Ultra Smooth Package (+ free shipping!) with the code SHAMELESS at manscaped.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #279 A Porn Performer's Journey Finding Self-Love After Having a Disability - With GoAskAlex

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2022 61:04


    In this episode we interview award-winning adult model, performer, sex educator and disability advocate GoAskAlex all about her experience in the adult film/porn industry. Alex got her start in 2014, and then a few years into her career she had a life-changing surgery resulting in a permanent disability. Alex shares her journey towards self-love and acceptance, as what it's like as she continues to work in adult film. More about our guest: GoAskAlex is an adult model, onscreen performer and sex educator with the distinction of being the industry's first-ever ostomate since receiving a life-changing surgery in 2019: “my small intestine was diverted out through my abdomen, and I now wear a permanent medical device.” The auburn-haired British Columbia, Canada native - who launched her adult career in 2014 as a webcam model and online companion - has since taken the opportunity to use her high-profile platform to advocate for disabled and underrepresented bodies in adult media. GoAskAlex currently sits atop the 1% of content creators on OnlyFans, is a top attraction over at SuicideGirls.com and sells her original video clips on top sites such as ManyVids. iWantClips and Clips4sale. She has since been featured in XBIZ Magazine, posing for the cover as the trade publication's first-ever model with an ostomy, as well as Hustler E-Magazine to promote her inspiring Disabled Sex Workers Calendar. She also won 2020's XBIZ Cam Award for Best Inked Model and 2021's XBIZ Best Cam Model. To learn more visit goaskalex.com Other links: Get 15% off and free shipping on the ultimate sexy Spring Box at likeakitten.com/shameless  Get up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    Pride Month Bonus Episode: From Shame and Trauma to Celebrating Your True Erotic Self - With Ava Rose

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2022 51:52


    Ava Rose is a 32 year old musician, research analyst, media expert, activist, trauma survivor, and former retail manager who is just starting to work as a gender/sexuality/relationships coach in Northern California. Creatively, she describes herself as a ‘former suburban feral child' who escaped an abused upbringing, coming out with ‘titanium bootstraps' and a rebellious passion for finding balance & beauty in the personal investments and media entertainment we sometimes overlook or receive passively. Three decades of toxic instability in her home life culminated in a total disconnect from most of her family & friends during the height of the pandemic. Ava has spent the last two years recovering on the sidelines, transitioning (with minimal access to local care/support), writing new music, building up her self-owed business with ever- expanding professional qualifications, and learning to absolutely embrace the person that—for so long—she hadn't been allowed to fully explore. With a genuine appreciation for the ‘cultural melting pot,' a loud passion for progress, a humble spirit, and a bit of a sharp wit, Ava aims to live the best life she can as an ‘out' transgender, pansexual artist/consultant/comforting shoulder, and to support the communities she most identifies with. Although she's much happier, healthier, safer, and more complete in herself, today, Ava looks to an even brighter future in bridging her great passions—Music, Advocacy, Humanism, Catharsis, and a bit of Sarcasm—helping to break the echo chambers we often perpetuate in our own thinking, decluttering our contemporary lives, raising the bar in our entertainment, and getting back to the political business of ‘pursuing happiness' for each, every, and all persons. To learn more visit silagency.com

    #278 The Submissive Side of BDSM - With Orpheus Black

    Play Episode Listen Later May 31, 2022 61:16


    What does being a sub mean, and how does this show up in sex? What if someone who identifies as a sub and wants their partner to be more dominant in the bedroom, how can they approach this? How can submissive folks stay in their identity or role while still initiating sex with their partners? Master teacher and return guest Orpheus Black addresses all this and so much more. Be sure to checkout Orpheus's upcoming 3 day workshop extravaganza on June 25, July 2, July 9. It is a hybrid class to be held in LA and streamed on Zoom. Plus you get 20% off with code Shameless1. Sign up here or visit his website at orpheusblack.com Also, if you want to join our free online Shameless Sex Discord community, sign up here: discord.gg/nvXqTEcBTg About our guest: Orpheus aims to propel the intellectual and sensual evolution of masculinity both by challenging men to reconnect with its roots and by inviting them to embrace manhood in its fullness, the way strong modern men wish it to be. In this role, he shares insights, offers tools, and speaks against societal norms of shame and repression. He does it all with the earnestness of a therapist, the knowledge of a guru, and the charisma of a stage performer.  With a helpful practice steeped in spirituality and intimacy, Orpheus is a living bridge between healthy sex and enlightenment. Through a balanced integration of Afro-Buddhism, psycho-sensuality, and Taoist teachings popularized by the martial arts, his light-hearted lessons have become sought after internationally, even as counsel to the experts in his field. As a result, many today look to him as the “coach's coach”. For groups, couples and individuals looking for a deeper exploration of self, shadow, kink, dominance and submission Orpheus Black regularly provides guided lessons at world famous staples in the S&M community and offers private coaching sessions. Other links: Get $10 off your order of $50 or more on our favorite mouth-gasmic treats at milkbarstore.com/Shameless Get 20% off of Manscaped's re-launched Ultra Smooth Package (+ free shipping!) with the code SHAMELESS at manscaped.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #277 How to Add More Hotness and Desire to Your Relationship - Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey

    Play Episode Listen Later May 24, 2022 56:08


    This episode is all about how to add more hotness and newness into your relationship. From exploring non-monogamy to kink to role-play, or just adding a little spice to your monogamous lover-ship, Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey has something to teach you. About our guest: Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey is a clinical psychologist, sex/intimacy coach, author, speaker and podcast host based in London. With more than 30 years helping people create and sustain meaningful and exciting relationships, Dr. Bisbey specializes in GSRD (gender, sexuality, relationship diversity), is consensual non-monogamy and kink BDSM knowledgeable and helps traumatized people to move from victim to survivor and back into life. On a mission to create an open dialogue about sex, relationships, and self-expression, Dr Lori Beth is the specialist relationship therapist guiding couples on Open House: The Great Sex Experiment (Firecracker Films, Channel 4) and the host of the popular podcast The A To Z Of Sex®.She's also a passionate speaker, dynamic workshop/retreat facilitator, and sought after expert in the media on the topics of sex, relationship style, intimacy, and trauma. Dr. Bisbey is the author of Chopping Wood, Shaping Metal & Other Erotic Stories, Dancing the Edge to Reclaiming Your Reality: Essential Life Skills for Gaslighting (and Trauma) Survivors and Dancing the Edge to Surrender: An Erotic Memoir of Trauma and Survival, and identifies as a queer consensually non-monogamous leather woman, and is in a full-time authority transfer-based relationship with her husband. To learn more, visit DrLoriBethBisbey.com. Twitter.com/drbisbey Instagram.com/drbisbey Facebook.com/drloribethbisbey TikTok.com/@loribethuk https://the-a-to-z-of-sex.captivate.fm For links to some of our favorite sponsors, click here Other links: Get 15% off and free shipping on the ultimate sexy Spring Box at likeakitten.com/shameless  Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #276 Open Monogamy: Recreating Your Relationship For Hotter Sex and Connection - With Dr. Tammy Nelson

    Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2022 54:28


    Why is monogamy so hard for so many long-term partnerships? What are the “new models” for monogamy, and how can both monogamous and non-monogamous partner/s work together to recreate the relationship as a means for better sex and connection?  For Dr. Nelson's free 40 Questions to Start Your New Monogamy Agreement, check out our blog at shamelesssex.com or click here About our guest: Tammy Nelson, PhD, is a licensed psychotherapist, Board Certified Sexologist, Certified Sex Therapist, and Certified Imago Relationship Therapist. She is a TEDx speaker and the host of The Trouble with Sex podcast. Her books include Getting the Sex You Want,  The New Monogamy, and her latest Open Monogamy. She is executive director of the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute and has been a featured expert in NY Times, Wall Street Journal, Washington Post, Glamour Magazine, Cosmopolitan, RedBook, MSNBC, Men's Health, Woman's Day, and has been a source for Time Magazine.  Dr. Nelson draws on her 30 years of experience as a relationship and sex therapist to provide advice and tools for finding one's place on the “monogamy continuum,” having honest and respectful communication, making relationship agreements, and more. To learn more or buy her book go to drtammynelson.com   Want to join our free online Shameless Sex community on Discord (and maybe even connect with Amy and April on there from time to time? Go here: https://discord.gg/nvXqTEcBTg We have a Never Have I Ever__! event coming up May 24th 530-630pm PST. Not only will Amy and April be there, but we are also giving away free passes to Amy's online Orgasm 101 class. Other links: Get affordable online therapy now from the privacy of your own home + 10% off your first month when you go to betterhelp.com/shamelesssex Avoid the takeout temptation with ease (and yummy food that is good for you) + $40 your first shipment when you go to dailyharvest.com/shamelesssex Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #275 Painful Sex, Hemorrhoids, and Solutions For More Pleasure - With Dr. Meredith Brezinski

    Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2022 63:37


    Why is it so common for vulva-owners to experience pain during penetrative sex, and what are some of the solutions? What about hemorrhoids? Can people with hemorrhoids still explore and enjoy anal sex? And if so, what can they do to make it more pleasurable?  Trigger warning: We talk a lot about bowel movements AKA poop in this episode. But hey, everybody poops, right?  To learn more about our guest: Dr. Meredith Brezinski is a pelvic health and orthopedic physical therapist located in Portland, Oregon. Meredith provides one-on-one, in home, concierge physical therapy services which eliminates the stress of commuting to an appointment, hiring childcare, and worrying about sharing the intimate details of your story with an entire clinic. Dr. Meredith knows that every person has a story to share and having time with your provider is often the piece that is lacking in our traditional healthcare system. Meredith will help you determine the root cause of your symptoms, develop a plan for relief, and help you get back to what is most important - living your best life! Meredith also serves as the Director of Pelvic Health for Concierge Physical Therapists, a nationwide company, that offers all in home services to their clients. We have therapists in 14 different states in the US and continue to grow to more locations. If you are interested in finding a therapist near you, you can find out more info at www.conciergephysicaltherapists.com. Meredith received her Doctorate of Physical Therapy at University of Colorado Anschutz Medical Campus in 2016 following her Bachelor of Science in Exercises Physiology at West Virginia University in 2013. She has completed numerous courses specific to pelvic health through Herman and Wallace Pelvic Rehabilitation Institute.  Meredith loves everything outdoors and can be found hiking, backpacking, on the water, or hanging out with her dogs Luke and Leia. She lives with her husband Will in Portland Oregon. If you would like to contact Dr. Meredith, you can reach out with these links below! Website: www.drmeredithbrezinskipt.com Instagram: @dr.meredithbrezinskipt   Other links: Get 15% off and free shipping on the ultimate sexy Spring Box at likeakitten.com/shameless  Get 20% off of Manscaped's re-launched Ultra Smooth Package (+ free shipping!) with the code [SHAMELESS] at manscaped.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #274 Used Panties From Adult Stars and the Truth About Anal - With Fans Utopia and Kenna James

    Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2022 71:10


    In this fun in-person recording we collaborate with two badass women - Natasha Root, the creator of the successful Fan's Utopia site where she sells porn performers used panties, sex toys and more - as well as Kenna James, an award winning adult star and model, as well 2016's Penthouse Magazine Pet of the Year. While our main intention was to focus on the porn industry as well this lucrative business Natasha has created, we also somehow end up getting a free Anal 101 lesson as well. Enjoy! About our guests: Natasha Root is a Los Angeles Native and fashion executive-turned-entrepreneur. She is currently the Owner of the popular platform, Fans Utopia, which connects fans with their idols on a deeper level, while also enabling adult talent to earn the money they deserve. She began working nearly two decades ago at her dads autobody shop, which instilled her the go-getter attitude that has led her to where she is today. Prior to starting Fans Utopia, Natasha was a model, and held positions at Capitol Records, designing clothes for band's tours, and a cobbler company where she repaired high-end fashion goods. As a former director of a cobbler company, she handled all business operations and quickly learned the ins-and-outs of product design and fashion. At 34 years old and nearly two decades of work experience, her unique background and go-getter attitude lead her to create her own ecommerce platform, Fans Utopia. She was no stranger to the porn industry, having grown up and lived in LA her whole life. Once she had an idea to start a platform to bring together their fans and idols there was no looking back. She brings to Fans Utopia decades of experience working in client service, fashion, and entertainment to the company. She turned what started out as a local, LA-based startup into an international company in no time. As the Owner of the company, she continues to lead all business operations and works closely with adult talent worldwide. She's been featured in several times in Goop and well-known fashion blogs. To learn more visit https://fansutopia.com/   Kenna James is an award winning adult star and model, as well 2016's Penthouse Magazine Pet of the Year. You can purchase items from her most famous scenes and live streams at fansutopia.com, and to see all of Kenna's work visit kennasjoint.com. For her social links visit:  twitter.com/kennajames21 instagram.com/realkennajames   Other links: Get up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #273 Hand and Oral Techniques Part 2: Pu$$ies - With Alicia and Erwan Davon

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2022 63:47


    Episode #258 was all about how to give blowjobs and handjobs (on/with) penis-owners, and now it's time for Alicia and Erwan Davon to join us once again to give us all the juicy tips on how this applies to vulva pleasure. They talk about everything from their top techniques for manual stimulation to oral stimulation to how to have extended orgasms along the way.  Note: We had a bit of a technical issue so we apologize if the audio quality is not top notch :/ About our guests: Erwan and Alicia Davon have become the go- to experts for those seeking a higher level of relationship support. Erwan is the founder, senior teacher and president of San Francisco based Erwan Davon Teachings. Together with Alicia, who has a Masters in Psychology and training as a therapist, they specialize in supporting singles in getting into passionate and successful relationships, and helping couples take their relationships to new heights of romance and intimacy. Based in the SF Bay Area, Erwan and Alicia provide a high end boutique service that gives their clients an effective way to enhance their relationships. They offer all of their coaching and classes online and support students all over the world.  Be sure to check out their online Pleasure Course here May 21-22, 2022 and get $100 off with CODE100: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-pleasure-coursethe-5-keys-to-a-successful-relationship-tickets-273688007197?aff=shameless To work directly with them, Text 415 308 9580 or click this link: https://erwandavon.com/consult/ Follow them on Instagram at @davonmethod Other links: Get 15% off and free shipping on the ultimate sexy Spring Box at likeakitten.com/shameless  Get $10 off your order of $50 or more on our favorite mouth-gasmic treats at milkbarstore.com/Shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #272 A Sex Hacker's Guide to Endless Orgasms and Lasting Confidence - With Kenneth Play

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2022 56:51


    Sex Educator and Sex Hacker Kenneth Play returns to teach us his top sex hacks from fulfilling fantasies to curating a mind-blowing 90 minute orgasmic experience to multiple orgasms, unlocking erogenous zones, being a great lover no matter what size you are, and so much more. You definitely do not want to miss this one, and be sure to check out his new book Beyond Satisfied: A Sex Hacker's Guide to Endless Orgasms, Mind-Blowing Connection, and Lasting Confidence. Also, join our free Shameless Sex community on Discord! This week we are hosting a fun Meet 'n' Greet event (online) where we share sex stories from challenges to celebrations on Thursday, April 21st at 530pm PST: https://discord.gg/nvXqTEcBTg About our guest: Kenneth Play is an international expert on female pleasure who was named the World's Greatest Sex Hacker by GQ & Men's Health. After his 15 years of experience as a personal trainer, he leveraged the best of the fitness education model to re-envision sex education, and has now helped millions of men gain sexual competence through rapid skill acquisition. His newest course, Sex Hacker Pro, features 70+ videos and over 12 hours of content, and was described by AskMen as having “at least one nugget of sexual learning you've almost certainly never encountered before, if not several.” He partnered with Dr. Zhana Vrangalova to conduct the world's largest scientific survey on female ejaculation. He has guest lectured on female sexual pleasure at New York University and San Jose State University. Kenneth has been featured by more than 100 media outlets including The New York Times, Nightline, Cosmo, Playboy, Vice, and Huffington Post. He cofounded Hacienda, a sex-positive community space which empowers sexual exploration through hands-on sex education workshops and events. Go get Kenneth's latest book, Beyond Satisfied: A Sex Hacker's Guide to Endless Orgasms, Mind-Blowing Connection, and Lasting Confidence now at kennethplay.com/book and be sure to checkout his sex hacker pro course at kennethplay.com  Other links: Up your grooming game with 20% off and free shipping with code SHAMELESS at manscaped.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com    

    #271 How to Have the Best Sex of Your Life! - With Layla Martin

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2022 66:54


    Return guest and badass sex-ed priestess Layla Martin joins us to talk all about how to have the best sex of your life. Listen to learn why she says "If you want to f**k a Goddess then you have to know you're a God".  Be sure to check out her upcoming offerings: To sign up for Layla's FREE Epic Lover's Digital Guide, click here To check out her 21 Day Erotic Confidence Challenge, click here About our guest: Layla Martin is a visionary rebel who teaches on sexuality, relationships, and self-love to people across the globe. Her devoted study of Tantra for 18+ years along with her sexuality studies at Stanford University have informed her unique teaching process and the creation of her proprietary VITA™ Methodology. Her programs have taught over 12,500 women, men, and non-binary people her method of using breath, sound, movement, meditation, and energy awareness to awaken their sexuality and reclaim their power and worthiness. She is a thought leader who combines mystical practices with the most up-to-date scientific approaches to transformation to enable radical liberation, rapid change, and outrageous pleasure. Her highly effective programs, tools, and practices empower you to experience exquisite sex, shameless self-love, and incredible depths of intimacy. She's the founder of the Vital and Integrated Tantric Approach (VITA™) and the creator of the VITA™️ Sex, Love & Relationship Coaching Certification, the VITA™ Sacred Sexuality Initiation, and other programs. She's shared her work with over 135 million people through her YouTube channel and has a weekly email audience of 375,000+ people. If you want to experience epic sex, legendary love, and your most magnificent self, visit Layla's website and follow her on Facebook and Instagram. Other links: Get 15% off and free shipping on the ultimate sexy Spring Box at likeakitten.com/shameless  Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

    #270 Get Sexual Superpowers Through Your Erotic Blueprint - With Julianne Vaccaro

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2022 62:28


    What are the different types of erotic blueprints? How might each one show up in sex and relationships - both as superpowers and challenges? And how can folks to utilize their erotic blueprints in their daily lives in the bedroom and beyond?  About our guest: Julianne is a women's life and health coach, Erotic Blueprint Master Coach, Certified Somatic Sexologist Practitioner, and Certified Holistic Health Counselor. Her innovative Goddess Approach Methodology focuses on healing the mind, body, and soul so that women's bodies not only become safe, but pleasurable, places to be.  Her journey from physical and emotional abuse and disordered eating to the eventual choosing to come into love for herself gives her a unique foundation for helping women cultivate a healthy relationship with food so that they can reclaim their health and love their bodies. Ultimately, she helps women heal at deep levels so that they can strip away the stories that aren't serving them, remind them of the lost parts of their souls, and remember the truth of who they are in their wholeness. To learn more visit: https://www.instagram.com/juliannevaccaro/ https://www.instagram.com/direct/inbox/ https://www.juliannevaccaro.com/ https://www.instagram.com/trppodcast/   Other links: Get up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com    

    #269 Everything We Wished We Knew About Sex In Our Teens, 20's, 30's+ - With Amy and April

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2022 71:07


    This episode includes a raw yet playful discussion of all the things we wish we knew about sex from our teenage years, to our 20's, to our 30's and soon to be 40's. We shamelessly share everything from our first sexual experiences to some of the not so great ones, to the tips and tools we've learned along the way where great sex and deep connection are now the standard (but with the understanding that we will be forever learning and growing).  We both share our love and appreciation for getting our start in the field of sex-positivity by working at Amy's mother-daughter owned pleasure boutique purepleasureshop.com. Need some new toys or sexy goodies? Go support Amy's awesome mama by visiting the site, and be sure to use code SHAMELESSSEX for 15% off.  Want to connect with other Shameless Sex fans? Join our (free) Discord channel: https://discord.gg/nvXqTEcBTg Other links: Get 15% off and free shipping on the ultimate sexy Spring Box at likeakitten.com/shameless  Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com    

    Bonus Episode: How to Maximize Your Pleasure (Just For YOU!) - With Michelle and Nicoletta

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2022 37:11


    In this bonus episode we learn all about what it means to “maximize pleasure for for you”, as well as ways people can bring their personal pleasure game to the next level from both a burlesque star's and sex therapist's perspectives.  To learn more, be sure to check out their offerings including their upcoming April 2nd, 2022 InToPleasure Virtual event here: intopleasure.com About our guests: Michelle L'amour is an international burlesque star and empowerment advocate. She is the creator of InToPleasure and host of the podcast Look Down There. She has been featured on America's Got Talent, MTVs Amazingness, Playboy and Sex Life on the Epix Network. She believes in life, liberty and the pursuit of pleasure. Nicoletta von Heidegger is a Sexologist, podcaster, educator, and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (#110256) based in Los Angeles. Nicoletta received her BA in Psychology from Stanford University, her MA in Clinical Psychology from Pepperdine University, and her MEd in Human Sexuality from Widener University. Nicoletta is currently pursuing her PhD in Human Sexuality from Widener. Nicoletta sees clients virtually and at a ranch where she also offers equine facilitated/ assisted psychotherapy. Nicoletta believes in embodied practice and is certified in levels I and II of The Trauma Resiliency Model as well as Level 1 of PACT. When not working with clients, Nicoletta creates and hosts the growing hit podcast Sluts & Scholars and teaches educational seminars and classes to help others learn about sexual and mental health.

    #268 How to Find the Right (Sex and Relationship) Therapist or Coach - With Keeley Rankin, M.A.

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2022 87:17


    One of the more common answers we share when addressing your sex questions is to go get support with a (sex) therapist or coach. But we realize taking that next step is not always an easy process. Return guest Keeley Rankin, M.A. and Sex and Relationship Coach joins us to answer everything from why it's helpful to work with a (sex and relationship) therapist or coach, to where to find them and the questions you should ask to see if they feel right to you, as well as red flags to watch out for, addressing and working around financial issues, and more.  About our guest: Keeley Rankin received her master's degree in Counseling Psychology. She's trained in  Hakomi Therapy and Recreation of the Self. She specializes in facilitating deep erotic connections for couples and has been featured in media outlets such as the Huffington Post and Oprah Magazine as an expert in male sexual struggles where she created a Premature Ejaculation Mastery Video Course for men to learn to last longer in bed from the privacy of their own home. To learn more visit keeleyrankin.com   Other links: Up your grooming game with 20% off and free shipping with code SHAMELESS at manscaped.com Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com    

    #267 Spank Me! Choke Me! (but learn these tools first) - With Orpheus Black

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2022 60:22


    Repeat guest Orpheus Black joins us to discuss everything from the differences between BDSM and Fetish, to tools and tips for spanking, face slapping and chocking - all with a great emphasis on pleasure, play, safety and consent.  His expertise and relatable way of teaching will likely inspire you to want to learn more via his upcoming 2-part course on "The Erotic Art of Spanking" happening online April 2nd and April 9th, 2022. Space is limited so sign up ASAP at orpheusblack.com and be sure to use code SHAMELESS25 for 25% off About our guest: Orpheus Black is a public speaker, teacher, thought leader, and somatic visionary with expertise in kink. Orpheus aims to propel the intellectual and sensual evolution of masculinity both by challenging men to reconnect with its roots and by inviting them to embrace manhood in its fullness. In this role, he shares insights, offers tools, and speaks against societal norms of shame and repression. Orpheus regularly provides guided lessons at world famous staples in the S&M community and he has been recognized by news resources like Mashable.com, Playboy, Marie Clair, and Ebony. To learn more visit orpheusblack.com   Other links: Get 20% off and free shipping on the ultimate sexy BYOB Box at likeakitten.com/shameless  Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com    

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