Podcasts about girl boner radio

Dr. Diane Mueller traded sexual pain for pleasure, then explored polyamory twice before reclaiming monogamy in a sexier, more intentional way. After her story, hear her top tips for spicing up a monogamous (or any long term) relationship.    Learn more about Dr. Diane Mueller and take her libido quiz at libidocode.com. Join her hot and modern monogamy club or get her free e-book at hotterlife.com.   Check out the latest specials at thepleasurechest.com!  IG: @GirlBonerMedia   FB: @MyGirlBoner  TT:: @GirlBonerRadio  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner    patreon.com/girlboner   Get free shipping at Crave! Elegant, woman-designed jewelry and toys: https://lovecrave.com/products/vesper2?bg_ref=UAgjcRRV14   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin.  

Writer April Would felt shame for being a virgin in young adulthood. When she realized her relationship with her “first time” partner wouldn't last, April questioned a lot of what they'd learned about sex and their own desires. Eventually, April delved into sex work and audio erotica, which brought even more epiphanies – and more chances to work through shame. Check out April's story in Best Women's Erotica, Volume 10. (More purchasing options here.) Follow @AprilWould on Bluesky and Patreon. Check out the latest specials at thepleasurechest.com! IG: @GirlBonerMedia   FB: @MyGirlBoner  TT:: @GirlBonerRadio  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner    patreon.com/girlboner   Get free shipping at Crave! Elegant, woman-designed jewelry and toys: https://lovecrave.com/products/vesper2?bg_ref=UAgjcRRV14   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin.  

Globally touring recording artist, Lachi, wasn't sure what orgasms were when she left the U.S. for boarding school overseas. After exploring her sexuality for a while, she realized what Big Os really entail. That awakening set the stage for greater confidence, in and outside of the bedroom. In addition to Lachi's story, you'll get  her top tips for cultivating confidence and feeling sexy. More from Lachi: https://lachimusic.com/ Check out the latest specials at thepleasurechest.com!  Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin.   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner    patreon.com/girlboner   Get free shipping at Crave! Elegant, woman-designed jewelry and toys: https://lovecrave.com/products/vesper2?bg_ref=UAgjcRRV14  

Five years ago, a group of friends gathered with August in the Girl Boner Radio studio to play You Don't Know My Life. They shared spicy, funny, embaraassing, and touching stories from their lives. You'll hear about puberty mishaps, awkward kisses, sexy exploration, unforgettable dates and more. Listen, enjoy, and play along!  This episode features: Erin Tillman https://erintillman.com IG: @datingadvicegrl Makenzie Mizell https://www.makenziemizell.com IG: @makenziemizell Rayne Parvis https://rayneparvis.com IG: @RayneParvis Vanessa McGrady http://vanessamcgrady.com IG: @art_and_intrigue  You Don't Know My Life ttps://www.youdontknowmylife.com IG: @ydkmlgame Support August's work and help fund her new laptop: https://www.patreon.com/girlboner or https://account.venmo.com/u/august-gb Do your holiday shopping at thepleasurechest.com! A few fun picks: Evolved Our Gyro Vibe   Je Joue ILY Wand Rechargeable G-Spot Vibrator   Oxyballs Willy Rings   Strap-On Unique Harness   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin.  

Continuing Jennifer's story from the last Girl Boner Radio episode, you'll hear how Adam reacted when she returned from her intensive therapy program, what happened in their relationship post infidelity and how they've both found healing.    This episode touches on childhood trauma and abuse. Please take care while listening.   ACE childhood trauma quiz   Dr. Talal's books   Explore the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner    patreon.com/girlboner   Produced by August McLaughlin  

People masturbate for all kinds of reasons including pleasure, exploration, sleep and pain relief. For women who have never experienced orgasm, self-pleasure is the most scientifically supported sex therapy technique to learn the stimulation needed to climax. August McLaughlin, a journalist, author and host/producer of Girl Boner Radio, joins me to share her insights, and personal journey with masturbation. We discuss some practices and tips, as well as debunk a few common myths around solo sex.  August McLaughlin is a journalist, author and host/producer of Girl Boner Radio. Her acclaimed Girl Boner book is currently in its second printing. Visit our episode sponsor UBERLUBE use code CINDY for 15% offMore on these topics:Orgasm is a Big Brain Event with Dr. Nan WiseThe Pleasure Crisis and Why Good Sex Matters with Dr. Nan WiseExploring Your Perspective of Pleasure10 Ways to be Sexual Without MasturbatingUntangling Sexual ShameLearning to Listen to Your BodyNatural Health Benefits of OrgasmJOIN my Newsletter Community.FOLLOW on Instagram.VISIT my Website.

August McLaughlin is a journalist, author, and host/producer of Girl Boner Radio, which was named “one of the best sex podcasts you should be listening to” by Romper, and one of the top feminist podcasts by Bellesa.  Her articles and expertise have been featured in Cosmopolitan, The Washington Post, O: The Oprah Magazine, DailyOM, Forbes, Shape, and more. August has presented for TEDx Women and the Centers for Disease Control headquarters, ghostwritten hundreds of works for gynecologists and physicians, and participated in orgasm fMRI research at Rutgers University. She's also a trauma-informed certified sex educator with related expertise in eating disorders and ADHD.  Hey everyone! Welcome to today's episode of the Wright Conversations Podcast! For today's episode, I'm joined by August McLaughlin to talk about August's journey from body dysmorphia to a full-on eating disorder, the burden of living with an eating disorder, and taking steps towards recovery. We also talk about how eating disorders affect our sex lives, how vulnerable people could get drawn in to diet culture, and hear August's words of advice for those in the struggle.  Let's delve in!    In this Episode You'll Learn:  [01:19] A bit about August.  [02:09] August's eating disorder history.  [05:25] Dysmorphia to disordered eating.  [11:52] The burden of living with eating disorders.  [15:48] August's recovery.  [18:54] Sex and eating disorders.  [22:01] Where is August now?  [30:30] August's words of wisdom.    Quotes:  “The whole system is right there if you're vulnerable to it.” [08:37]  “We don't need to be commenting on each other's bodies.” [10:56]  “Keep going and take it a day at a time.” [31:42]    Connect with August McLaughlin  Website: augustmclaughlin.com.  Instagram: @augustmclaughlin.  LinkedIn: August McLaughlin.    Connect with Rachel Wright  Website: https://rachelwrightnyc.com  Instagram: @thewright_rachel  Twitter: @thewrightrachel    Resources  Girl Boner Podcast.    Evvy Vaginal Health Test! Use Code: RACHEL10 for $10 OFF your first test    Get a 1-day FREE Trial and 40% OFF A Yearly Subscription at Beducated! Use Promo Code: WRIGHTCONVERSATION.    Get 20% OFF Your First Order at The Honey Pot! Use Promo Code: Rachel20    WIN A FREE INTIMACY AFTER DARK DECK!    Get 30% OFF the NEW After Dark Deck! Use Promo Code: Rachel    Get your Zumio Discount!    Call to Action  Please, if you love this episode, share it with your friends and others. To help this podcast grow, please leave a review, and don't forget to subscribe. 

August McLaughlin is a journalist, author, and host/producer of Girl Boner Radio, which was named “one of the best sex podcasts you should be listening to” by Romper, and one of the top feminist podcasts by Bellesa. Her articles and expertise have been featured in Cosmopolitan, The Washington Post, O: The Oprah Magazine, DailyOM, Forbes, Shape, and more. August has presented for TEDx Women and the Centers for Disease Control headquarters, ghostwritten hundreds of works for gynecologists and physicians, and participated in orgasm fMRI research at Rutgers University. She's also a trauma-informed certified sex educator with related expertise in eating disorders and ADHD. Hey everyone! Welcome to today's episode of the Wright Conversations Podcast! For today's episode, I'm joined by August McLaughlin to talk about August's journey from body dysmorphia to a full-on eating disorder, the burden of living with an eating disorder, and taking steps towards recovery. We also talk about how eating disorders affect our sex lives, how vulnerable people could get drawn in to diet culture, and hear August's words of advice for those in the struggle. Let's delve in!   In this Episode You'll Learn: [01:19] A bit about August. [02:09] August's eating disorder history. [05:25] Dysmorphia to disordered eating. [11:52] The burden of living with eating disorders. [15:48] August's recovery. [18:54] Sex and eating disorders. [22:01] Where is August now? [30:30] August's words of wisdom.   Quotes: “The whole system is right there if you're vulnerable to it.” [08:37] “We don't need to be commenting on each other's bodies.” [10:56] “Keep going and take it a day at a time.” [31:42]   Connect with August McLaughlin Website:            augustmclaughlin.com. Instagram:          @augustmclaughlin. LinkedIn:            August McLaughlin.   Connect with Rachel Wright Website:            https://rachelwrightnyc.com Instagram:          @thewright_rachel Twitter:              @thewrightrachel   Resources Girl Boner Podcast.   Evvy Vaginal Health Test! Use Code: RACHEL10 for $10 OFF your first test   Get a 1-day FREE Trial and 40% OFF A Yearly Subscription at Beducated! Use Promo Code: WRIGHTCONVERSATION.   Get 20% OFF Your First Order at The Honey Pot! Use Promo Code: Rachel20   WIN A FREE INTIMACY AFTER DARK DECK!   Get 30% OFF the NEW After Dark Deck! Use Promo Code: Rachel   Get your Zumio Discount!   Call to Action Please, if you love this episode, share it with your friends and others. To help this podcast grow, please leave a review, and don't forget to subscribe.

Today I sit down with August. She is a journalist, author, and host/producer of Girl Boner Radio, which was named “one of the best sex podcasts you should be listening to” by Romper and one of the top feminist podcasts by Bellesa. Her articles and expertise have been featured in a range of publications, including Cosmopolitan, The Washington Post, O: The Oprah Magazine and Shape. In this episode she shares with us her first time self-pleasuring and her experience with self-pleasuring for research in an MRI machine! (Yep, you read that right!) There is so much shame and stigma around self-pleasuring, and we are here to break it all down for you! If you have never pleasured yourself before or are new to it, listen to this episode. We also share the benefits of masturbation, our fav toys, and so much more! Enjoy this incredible conversation with August

Join me and August McLaughlin, as we talk about ADHD things and the Adderall shortage! I love August because we have such similar brains. She talks freely about female sexuality at Girl Boner Radio and she's an amazing writer. Also, we ran around without shirts and our parents told us that wasn't okay. Here's more about the lovely August: August is a journalist, author of several books and host and producer of Girl Boner Radio, which was named “one of the best sex podcasts you should be listening to in 2022” by Romper and one of the top feminist podcasts by Bellesa. Her articles and expertise have been featured in a range of publications, including Cosmopolitan, The Washington Post, DAME Magazine, O: The Oprah Magazine, Forbes and Shape. She's also a certified sex educator with related expertise in eating disorders and ADHD.

We're gettin on all fours and revisiting a fan favorite… DOGGY STYLE. August McLaughlin of Girl Boner Radio joins us to share all the dirty deets. We cover: What doggy style is and its many variations Making the position work for YOU and YOUR BODY How to make doggy feel more intimate Finding the G spot during doggy Stroke tips and tricks What you can do as the receiver Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Elizabeth Anne Wood's mother, Judy, had been enjoying her sexual prime (that started in her 50s) when she was diagnosed with terminal cancer. Elizabeth's memoir, Bound: A Daughter, a Domme, and an End-Of-Life Story, explores the last eight months of Judy's life and highlights the importance of sex-positivity.    In this Girl Boner Radio episode, you'll hear:   A few of Elizabeth's childhood memories, including the “pecker head story” How Judy began to embrace kink, BDSM and Domme life How BDSM helped Judy navigate aspects of her cancer treatment What was missing, sexuality-wise, from Judy's care How Elizabeth and Judy found moments of pleasure amid hardship Elizabeth's relationship with Judy (and her ashes) since her death   Check out The Pleasure Chest's latest specials!    IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio     More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   Produced by August McLaughlin  

Episode 127: Orgasm MRI with August from the Girl Boner Radio In this episode we talk about Augusts experience doing an Orgasm MRI, why she did it and the events leading up to it. She didn't have an orgasm until after she hit 30 and didn't think she could, but we share what helped her get there. August McLaughlin is a journalist, sex educator and the host/producer of Girl Boner Radio, which was named one of the best sex podcasts you should be listening to in 2022 by Romper and one of the top feminist podcasts by Bellesa. On the show, she helps listeners “arouse their lives,” in and outside of the bedroom — guiding with true stories. Her writing and expertise have been featured in Cosmo, The Washington Post, O: The Oprah Magazine, Shape and more. Check out August on Girl Boner Podcast here - https://augustmclaughlin.com/podcast/Website:https://augustmclaughlin.com Topics we cover in this episode: What is an Orgasm MRI How the Orgasm MRI went and how it was not able to move very much What she learned from the Orgasm MRI experience How it felt before she was able to orgasm What she would tell her younger self when she was struggling to orgasm Best tip for women to improve their sex life    5 Steps to Mind Blowing SEX ➡️➡️FREE Workshop  - https://bit.ly/sexygoddesschallenge

After experiencing multiple instances of sexual assault, Julia often feels sexually disconnected from her own body. She wants to be aware of her boundaries and find pleasure in new relationships going forward. On this episode of How To!, we bring on Jamila Dawson, licensed marriage and family therapist, and August McLaughlin, health and sexuality journalist and host of Girl Boner Radio. Together they wrote With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships. They share candid, tangible advice about navigating consent and how to turn awkward conversations into something empowering — even sexy.  If you liked this episode, check out “How To Talk to Your Son About Sex”. Do you have a problem that needs solving? Send us a note at howto@slate.com or leave us a voicemail at 646-495-4001 and we might have you on the show. Slate Plus members get bonus segments and ad-free podcast feeds. Sign up now at slate.com/howtoplus. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

After experiencing multiple instances of sexual assault, Julia often feels sexually disconnected from her own body. She wants to be aware of her boundaries and find pleasure in new relationships going forward. On this episode of How To!, we bring on Jamila Dawson, licensed marriage and family therapist, and August McLaughlin, health and sexuality journalist and host of Girl Boner Radio. Together they wrote With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships. They share candid, tangible advice about navigating consent and how to turn awkward conversations into something empowering — even sexy.  If you liked this episode, check out “How To Talk to Your Son About Sex”. Do you have a problem that needs solving? Send us a note at howto@slate.com or leave us a voicemail at 646-495-4001 and we might have you on the show. Slate Plus members get bonus segments and ad-free podcast feeds. Sign up now at slate.com/howtoplus. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fiona Dawson grew up in a semi-sex-positive home, and didn't question her orientation until she fell in love with a woman. Coming out as gay felt fairly easy to her. Coming out as bi was another story…    Now an Emmy-nominated, award-winning filmmaker and author of the forthcoming book, “Are Bisexuals Just Greedy?,” Fiona aims to un-f*ck gender and sexuality for a more harmonious world.    You'll also learn about:   Fiona's sexual “firsts” and a few from listeners The difference between bisexual and pansexual What Fiona's female gender identity means to her Fiona's “blow job learning curve” (and her related book dedication) Why it's pretty common for people assigned female at birth not to enjoy going down on a penis   Learn about Fiona Dawson's work: freelionproductions.com   Fiona on IG: fionajdawson and @nowwithfiona   Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0   Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner   More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner    Makenzie Mizell engineered the interview session for this episode at the Period studio: periodpodcastnetwork.com    Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin.

If you've used sex toys, you probably have memorable sex toy stories. Hear several from listeners, as well as Andrew Gurza and Heather Morrison of Bump'n—plus how these two siblings ended up launching an accessible sex toy company, with a mission that goes beyond the toy itself.   Learn all about Bump'n and preorder the Joystick: getbumpn.com   Check out the “Picture This” documentary on Prime.   Explore the Pleasure Chest's Spring Fling collections!   Get 2 months of fee-free investing at Vinovest:  zen.ai/girlbonerradio   Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 (or girlbonerradio at checkout)   Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner   This episode features voice artists Rosa Delgado and Loquiverba! Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin of Nourish Literary, Inc.

Beverly Diehl felt somewhat relieved when she was diagnosed with breast cancer, a disease she expected to develop at some point. What she didn't anticipate was the profound impact a boudoir photoshoot would have on her body image and sense of sexiness.    In this Girl Boner Radio episode, you'll hear excerpts from August's 2019 conversation with Beverly, plus tips for planning your own sensual shoot.    A transcript and a few photos from Beverly's shoot: augustmclaughlin.com/blog   Beverly's Great Sluts of History series on Medium: writerbeverly.medium.com   Beverly's memoir: Sex, Drugs, Rock ‘n Roll & a Tiara   Nick Holmes' photography   Get 2 months of fee-free investing at Vinovest: zen.ai/girlbonerradio   Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 (or girlbonerradio at checkout)   Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner  

CK Love thought she was finally “fully open” in her sensuality when a breakup prompted her to dig deeper. Babe West has flourished since entering the porn industry for work that varies greatly from her survival sex work earlier on.   Learn more about this episode's guests: CK Love: restlessspiritproductions.com Babe West: thebabewest.com   Get 2 months of fee-free investing at Vinovest:  zen.ai/girlbonerradio   Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 (girlbonerradio at checkout)   Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin of Nourish Literary, Inc. Learn more: augustmclaughlin.com  IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin

Pleasure, connection, mindblowing sex! Frank Wiegers grew up during World War II, in a sexually repressive environment. Today, the former fighter pilot and Vietnam War veteran embraces “magical sex,” and teaches others how to invite and make the most of the same.   In addition to Frank's personal journey, you'll learn:   What “magical sex” is, including 4 stages Activities that can deepen pleasure and connection How (and why) to apply sex magick after sex A ritual Frank and Judith practice to keep the spark alive   Learn more about Frank's work: themagicalsexbook.com   Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest!   Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr here: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 (or “girlbonerradio” at checkout)   Join August's community: patreon.com/girlboner     IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin of Nourish Literary, Inc.  

After a difficult pregnancy, traumatic childbirth and near death experience, Renée Schuls-Jacobson endured “next level insomnia.” Little did she know the dark places her attempts to feel better would lead.    For seven years she took medications as prescribed, not realizing the drug was intended for short-term use or that she'd grown dependent. Meanwhile, she tried to make her marriage, which lacked sexual chemistry, work. Renée's story is also one of hope, healing and vibrancy—including re: her Girl Boners. ;)   This episode contains mentions of traumatic events and suicidal ideation. If you're struggling with such thoughts, please call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800-273-8255   Explore or purchase Renée artwork: rasjacobson.store   Order Psychiatrized: Waking up after a Decade of Bad Medicine   Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr here or here: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3    Join August's community: patreon.com/girlboner     Instagram: @GirlBonerMedia  Facebook: @MyGirlBoner  Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin.  

Emotional connection before sexual chemistry, love without the heirarchy and more! August shares highlights from her 2019 conversation with Carolina Hoyos, an Afro-Indigenous (Quechua-Kichwa) actor, playwright, director, songwriter and voice artist.    You'll learn about:   Carolina's sexual empowerment journey Common myths about demisexuality Common myths about bisexuality Carolina's coming out (to family) story The importance of queer represention in films and TV   Check out Carolina's film and festival: Indigiqueer Identity: Reclaiming Past, Present, and Future   Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr here or here: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3   Join August's community: patreon.com/girlboner     Instagram: @GirlBonerMedia Facebook: @MyGirlBoner Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin.

Author Kandi Steiner was leaning toward no more casual sex when an experience with a friend bolstered that decision. She now creates female characters who voice their desires. Adult star turned author, Logan Pierce, learned similar lessons the hard way. And erotic fiction can help inspire steamier experiences. Take it from writer and editor, Rachel Kramer Bussel.   A few more things you'll learn about:   Communicating your desires Accepting sex-related feedback (with a throwback clip featuring Logan PIerce) Spicy and empowering perks of erotica    Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr here!    Books by Kandi Steiner   Between the Sheets: Rise of a Working Stiff    Best Women's Erotica of the Year, Volume 7    The Big Book of Orgasms, Volume 2: 69 Sexy Stories   Join August's community: patreon.com/girlboner     Instagram: @GirlBonerMedia Facebook: @MyGirlBoner Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin.  

After using dating apps for 10 years, author Shani Silver gave them up and gained surprising, life-shifting rewards. Therapist Kerry Cohen has learned to navigate life and relationships while managing sex and love addiction, terms that remain common and controversial.    A few things you'll learn about:   What finally prompted Shani to give up dating apps Her advice for anyone feeling miserably dependent on them A perspective shift she recommends for embracing single-hood When Kerry's struggles with sex and love emerged A few reasons “sex and love addiction” termonology is controversial, and why Kerry believes that's a good thing  How messaging around sex, love and romance make romantic and sexual compulsions trickier, and how those messages affect us all   Check out A Single Revolution, by Shani Silver, and Crazy for You, by Kerry Cohen   Save 30% on your first three of Zencastr here!    Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest!   Join August's community: patreon.com/girlboner     Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber.  

Dr. Heather Bartos was well into her career when her husband stopped desiring sex. Navigating a sexless marriage opened up old wounds and led her to look deeply at her sex-related beliefs.    A few more things you'll learn about:   What Dr. Bartos learned about sex growing up in the ‘80s in Texas The most common sex-related challenge she hears about in her office 5 factors that fuel low sexual desire in anyone, men and penis-havers included Benefits of embracing your sexuality as your own—plus an important way to do so    Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr here! (Open in Chrome.)   Support the show and get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     Sign up for occasional email updates from August   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber.   

Your biggest obstacle to mind-blowing pleasure isn't your partner's inability to find your g-spot or your inability to find a partner or your limited drawer of sex toys...it's actually your thoughts.   If you find yourself stressing about your appearance during sex (solo or with a partner!), worrying about your partner's pleasure more than your own, or feeling like your desire is dependent on whether someone desires you, tune in to this interview with August McLaughlin from Girl Boner Radio. In it, we explore some common orgasm-blocking thoughts, and how to rewire your brain so you can jump-start your libido.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://unfuckyourbrain.com/215

Welcome to episode 259 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Jamila M. Dawson, LMFT and August McLaughlin to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss triggers and how are they defined, looking at the relationship between sex and trauma and understanding the importance of practicing self-compassion.   Jamila M. Dawson, LMFT is the co-author of the innovative book: With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships. A licensed therapist with an expertise in sexuality, trauma, and relationships, Jamila has been a sex educator since 2005 and has practiced psychotherapy since 2015. She is the founder and owner of the psychotherapy practice Fire & Flow Therapy. She has collaborated with Buzzfeed, MEL, Playboy, Harper's BAZAAR and other media outlets and has appeared on numerous podcasts, including Girlboner and Sex with Dr. Jess. Jamila uses her Instagram & Facebook accounts to share practices, tools, and reflections on sexuality, relationships, and mental health. She divides her time between Las Vegas and Los Angeles.   August McLaughlin is a nationally recognized journalist and host and producer of the podcast, Girl Boner Radio, a true story-driven podcast where she explores sexual empowerment, relationships and pleasure. Her articles have been featured by Cosmopolitan, the Washington Post, Salon and more. Her 2018 release, Girl Boner, was featured in the New York Times and called “equally fun, risqué, and informative” by Publishers Weekly. She has presented at colleges, recovery centers, and the CDC headquarters, attended the 2016 United State of Women summit as a nominated changemaker and gave a TEDx talk on her experience overcoming an eating disorder she was diagnosed with while working abroad in the fashion industry.   In this episode, you will hear:   What are triggers and how are they defined? How Jamila and August and became interested in this line of work Looking at the relationship between sex and trauma Understanding that issues around trauma are common Looking at how fight, flight and fawning works with trauma What is fawning and how is it related to trauma? The importance of practicing self-compassion Analyzing pleasure traps Understanding that you deserve to have pleasure Finding peace in alternative sexual behaviors Find Jamila M. Dawson Online https://jamiladawson.com   Find August McLaughlin Online https://augustmclaughlin.com   Sex Quiz for Women https://oasis2care.com/sexquiz   Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio

This week we are thrilled to be cooking up something special! This character's name was brought to us by August McLaughlin of Girl Boner Radio. August has been an incredible supporter of not only Elaine's but of the Period Podcast Network, and she recently co-authored a book with Jamila Dawson called With Pleasure Managing Trauma for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships. and it is such a grounded and thoughtful read so many people could benefit from. Written and Directed by Allison Slice Produced by Period Podcast Network Edited by Allison Slice Starring Rosa Delgado as Elaine Nika Khitrova as Wombly Via Raechel Wong as the Courier Find us on Instagram: @elainescooking @periodpodcastnetwork @rohzahdee

It was such a treat to interview Jamila and August and dive deep into 'With Pleasure' , their new book about managing trauma triggers for more vibrant sex and relationships. Be sure to order yours today and let us know what you would like to learn more about! Jamila M. Dawson, LMFT is the co-author of the innovative book: With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships. A licensed therapist with an expertise in sexuality, trauma, and relationships, Jamila has been a sex educator since 2005 and has practiced psychotherapy since 2015. She is the founder and owner of the psychotherapy practice Fire & Flow Therapy. She has collaborated with Buzzfeed, MEL, Playboy, Harper's BAZAAR and other media outlets and has appeared on numerous podcasts, including Girlboner and Sex with Dr. Jess. Jamila uses her Instagram & Facebook accounts to share practices, tools, and reflections on sexuality, relationships, and mental health. @jamila.thesextherapist August McLaughlin is a nationally recognized journalist and host and producer of the podcast, Girl Boner Radio, a true story-driven podcast where she explores sexual empowerment, relationships and pleasure. Her articles have been featured by Cosmopolitan, the Washington Post, Salon and more. Her 2018 release, Girl Boner, was featured in the New York Times and called “equally fun, risqué, and informative” by Publishers Weekly. She has presented at colleges, recovery centers, and the CDC headquarters, attended the 2016 United State of Women summit as a nominated changemaker and gave a TEDx talk on her experience overcoming an eating disorder she was diagnosed with while working abroad in the fashion industry. @augustmclaughlin @emotionalsupportpod https://www.emotionalsupportpod.com/  

So you know how we love having inspirational people tell their sex & empowerment stories? In the studio today, we're joined by August McLaughlin, nationally recognized journalist, author of Girl Boner and host and producer of the podcast, Girl Boner Radio.Join our Patreon: Clit Talk Confidential  | https://www.patreon.com/ClitTalkConfidentialDiscounts | https://clittalkshow.com/discounts Show Notes | https://clittalkshow.com/new-blog/ep184

What about trauma makes a person feel lost and alone? How does trauma get in the way of intimacy? How can we best support our partners when their trauma gets triggered? Find out the answer to these questions and more in this week's episode of The Learn to Love Podcast, where your host Zach Beach interviews both the therapist, writer and educator Jamila M. Dawson, LMFT and the journalist and podcast host, August McLaughlin on Managing Trauma Triggers For more on this episode click here: https://www.the-heart-center.com/ep-68-managing-trauma-triggers-with-august-mclaughlin-and-jamila-m-dawson-lmft/ Learn more about your guests below: Jamila M. Dawson, LMFT is a licensed sex and relationship therapist, writer, and educator. She runs her private psychotherapy and consulting business, Fire & Flow Therapy while also teaching as adjunct faculty at Antioch University Los Angeles. She has lectured at University of Southern California, ASSECT Summer Institute, collaborated with a variety of sex therapists and educators as well as with Buzzfeed, Playboy, Harper's Bazaar and other media outlets. She presents locally and nationally on sexuality, empowerment, BDSM/kink, pleasure, relationships and trauma-informed/healing-focused psychotherapy. Learn more about Jamila at: - Website: https://fireandflowtherapy.com - Twitter: https://twitter.com/Jamila_Dawson - Instagram: @fireandflowtherapy - Facebook: @everydayeroticsextherapy - LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamila-dawson-2a033b2b/ August McLaughlin is a nationally recognized journalist and host and producer of the podcast, Girl Boner Radio, a story-driven podcast where she explores sexual empowerment and pleasure with a broad range of guests. Her articles have been featured by Cosmopolitan, the Washington Post, Salon, HuffPost, LIVESTRONG.com, and more. Her 2018 release, Girl Boner, was featured in the New York Times and called “equally fun, risqué, and informative” by Publishers Weekly. She has presented at colleges, recovery centers, and the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention headquarters, attended the 2016 United State of Women summit as a nominated changemaker and gave a TEDx talk on her experience overcoming an eating disorder she was diagnosed with while working abroad in the fashion industry. Learn more about August at: - Website: https://augustmclaughlin.com/ - Podcast: https://augustmclaughlin.com/podcast/ - Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin - Instagram: @AugustMcLaughlin + @GirlBonerMedia - Facebook: @AugustMcLaughlin + @MyGirlBoner - LinkedIn: August J. McLaughlin Learn more about your host and the show at: www.zachbeach.com www.the-heart-center.com Support The Show: If you like the show there are many ways you can support it, such as, - Register for Relationship Mastery, a 6-week self-guided course to take your relationship to the next level. https://www.the-heart-center.com/relationship-mastery-landing-page/ - Check out one of our sponsors, Listenable and use the discount code “zachbeach” for the first seven days on the platform for free. There you can find Zach's How To Be a Better Partner Course. https://frstre.com/go/?a=76205-87a7d9&s=1256514-e13191&p_affiliate.referral_code=zachbeach - Purchase The Seven Lessons of Love: Heart Wisdom for Troubling Times on Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/Lessons-Love-Heart-Wisdom-Troubling/dp/1983940704/ - Purchase a love shirt and show the world your love of love https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-heart-center/ - Review, Like, and Subscribe to the show on iTunes. - Like us on Facebook facebook.com/learntolovenow - Join the  Facebook Community Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1428012130828678/

On today's episode, I interview August McLaughlin to discuss girl boners, pleasure & her latest book, "MANAGING TRAUMA TRIGGERS FOR MORE VIBRANT SEX & RELATIONSHIPS" August & I discuss reclaiming sexuality, self understanding and healing. August McLaughlin is a nationally recognized health and sexuality writer, author of Girl Boner and host and producer of the narrative podcast, Girl Boner Radio, which has been compared to “Sex in the City” meets NPR's “Fresh Air.” Her articles and expertise have been featured in a range of publications, including Cosmopolitan, The Washington Post, DAME Magazine, O: The Oprah Magazine, Forbes, Shape and Bustle. Known for melding personal passion, artistry and activism, August uses her personal passion and skills to encourage others to embrace their bodies, sexuality and selves. Her next book, With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships, co-written by Jamila Dawson, LMFT, will be released by Chicago Review Press on September, 14th. Links: https://augustmclaughlin.com/podcast/ https://augustmclaughlin.com/books/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/lauren-colletti/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lauren-colletti/support

Anal sex can be awesome with some smart planning. In this Girl Boner Radio episode, you'll learn:   Differences between anal sex in porn and in real life Ways to ensure cleanliness, especially if you're nervous about poo Painful mistakes to avoid Tips for maximizing pleasure and choosing an ideal toy More!   Check out the featured guests' work:   https://www.instagram.com/therealvickichase/ https://lunamatatas.com https://www.twogirlsonemic.com/   Shop the Anal Toy collection at The Pleasure Chest! https://thepleasurechest.com/anal-toys Support the show and get fun extras, including access to August's full, unedited conversation with Vicki Chase: patreon.com/girlboner     Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order! https://bit.ly/33z44hQ  

Why is masturbation important? How can it change your life for the better? And what are some of the ways people can bring more self-pleasure into their lives? August shares her own personal journey as well as plenty of tips and applicable life hacks for ways you can have great sex with yourself.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17.  About our guest: August McLaughlin is a nationally recognized health and sexuality writer, media personality and host and producer of the podcast, Girl Boner Radio, which offers a spicy blend of personal stories, in-depth reporting and inspiration. Reviewers have called the show “Sex in the City meets NPR” and the “Fresh Air of Sex” and the show frequents Apple Podcasts’ top 100 sexuality chart. August’s work as an advocate for sexual empowerment and gender parity led her to the TEDx stage and to attend the 2016 United State of Women summit as a nominated change maker. Her articles have appeared in a range of notable publications, including Cosmopolitan, The Washington Post and DAME Magazine. August is also a trauma-informed certified sex educator with a passion for myth-busting and normalizing stigmatized topics. Publishers Weekly called her book, Girl Boner: The Good Girl’s Guide to Sexual Empowerment (Amberjack Publishing, 2018) “equally fun, risqué, and informative” and “a welcome addition to sexual health literature.” The New York Times called it “terrifically encouraging” and “a thorough primer on everything from sex toys to bondage to ‘no means no.” Her workbook, Girl Boner Journal: A Guided Journal to Sexual Joy and Empowerment (Amberjack Publishing, 2019), is full of true stories and writing prompts for deepening sexual self-discovery.  August’s forthcoming book, With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships, cowritten by sex therapist, Jamila Dawson, LMFT, will be released by Chicago Review Press in the fall of 2021. Known for melding personal passion, artistry and activism, August uses her skills to lift others’ voices, debunk damaging myths, and encourage folks to embrace their bodies, sexuality and selves, making way for richer, more authentic lives. To learn more visit girlboner.org Other links: Get Feeld - our favorite dating app - FREE + 50% off your first 3 months of the Majestic Membership by clicking here or going to this link: https://feeld.app.link/shameless50 Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast    

If you’ve struggled to ask for what you want sexually or aren’t even sure what to aim for, you are far from alone. Kait Scalisi, MPH, founder of Passion by Kait, grew up in a household where no conversation topics were taboo, but conflict was. She now helps others find freedom in pleasure   A few things you’ll learn about in this episode:   Positive versus negative messages about sex and conflict Kait absorbed growing up Kait’s advice for figuring out what you actually want in bed Kait’s thoughts on listeners’ desires and how to bring them up A sex communication tip Kait feels is super impactful and underexplored  Why slipping out during sex happens and what to do about it   Learn more from Kait and her team and get awesome related resources at passionbykait.com!   Check out Dr. Megan’s FREE pleasure challenge: greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure   Support the show and get fun extras! patreon.com/girlboner     Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber.  

Jordan Power discovered a family secret that changed the course of his life. Shana James realized she was bringing more to the bedroom than her body and desires. Dr. Megan weighs in for a listener who’s curious about “dirty talk.” How can you get started, years into a relationship? Learn more about Jordan on Instagram: @jpowercomedy   Watch Shana’s TEDx Talk: shanajamescoaching.com "Get sprung" with spring specials at The Pleasure Chest!  thepleasurechest.com Check out Dr. Megan’s FREE pleasure challenge: greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure   Support the show and get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber.  

Promescent CEO Jeff Abraham speaks about his sexual empowerment journey, benefits of delay spray and his top sex tips for men and couples!    A few things you’ll learn about in the episode:   What Jeff learned about sex, growing up in the 1960s and ‘70s What led him from small town life to bigger pastures A few ways to keep sex exciting long term! How delay spray can help penis owners and their partners, whether they’re dealing with premature ejaculation (PE) or not Promescent’s mission and the tragedy that fuels Jeff’s work   Save 15% on your first order of lube, arousal gel, delay spray and more at Promescent with promo code august15! Delayspray.com   Save $50 on Yarlap with promo code GB50! Learn more at greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasurepicks or yarlap.com.    For more Girl Boner fun, join August on Patreon: patreon.com/girlboner     Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber.  

August McLaughlin is a nationally recognized health and sexuality writer, media personality and host and producer of the podcast, Girl Boner Radio, which offers a spicy blend of personal stories, in-depth reporting and inspiration. Reviewers have called the show “Sex in the City meets NPR” and the “Fresh Air of Sex” and the show frequents Apple Podcasts’ top 100 sexuality chart. August’s work as an advocate for sexual empowerment and gender parity led her to the TEDx stage and to attend the 2016 United State of Women summit as a nominated change maker. Her articles have appeared in a range of notable publications, including Cosmopolitan, The Washington Post and DAME Magazine. August is also a trauma-informed certified sex educator with a passion for myth-busting and normalizing stigmatized topics. ----- p.s. Take our FREE Assessment. Our Intimacy Blindspot Assessment is a quick, simple yet effective assessment so you can discover how to have the sexual freedom, healthy communication, and deep connection you deserve - https://allanapratt.com/quiz  Gentlemen - End the Fear of Rejection. Enjoy your "How To Be A Noble Badass" Complementary Training at www.GetHerToSayYes.com Ladies - Be irresistible. Feel sacred. Attract him now. Enjoy your "Vulnerability is the New Sexy" Complementary Training at http://allanapratt.com/vulnerability   Featuring music by: 4 Chambers - written by Aeone / BMI Published by Angleterre Music /BMI

Desiree has lived with incontinence for about two decades, since age 6. She wanted to share her story with August because her symptoms have played a big role in her life, including her sexuality, relationships and self-esteem.    A few things you’ll learn about in the episode:   Desiree’s experience with urinary incontinence, including challenges and ways she’s learned to manage How she navigates sexual intimacy amid her symptoms Facts about urinary incontinence, including the 4 types and how prevalent it is Awesome accessible toys/accessories, available at The Pleasure Chest Dr. Megan’s latest Pleasure Pick, Yarlap. Save $50 at checkout with the code GB50! greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasurepicks This episode features voice over artist Rosa Delgado: rosamdelgado6 at gmail dot com   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin.  

Have you ever felt as though you’ve lost yourself or your confidence after a relationship? Or wondered how a romantic relationship that started out like a fairytale spiraled into lies, gaslighting and pain? If so, you may be one of the many people who’ve grappled with narcissistic abuse syndrome.    August has been there, as have numerous of her past guests. For this week’s episode, she explores the impact of narcissistic abuse with Dr. Kate Balestrieri, a sex therapist and psychologist who specializes in treating people on both sides of the equation.   A few things you’ll learn about in the episode:   What Kate learned about sex and sexuality growing up Common signs of narcissistic abuse syndrome How gaslighting can impact sex and intimacy Kate’s thoughts for a listener whose controlling ex restricted sex and affection Dr. Megan’s thoughts for a listener who’s haunted by her ex’s “porn addiction” How trauma can impact sex and pleasure Important truths about healing from trauma A few powerful things healing can bring to our lives   Save 15% on your first order of lube, arousal gel, delay spray and more at Promescent with promo code august 15: delayspray.com   Check out Dr. Megan’s FREE pleasure challenge: greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure   Join August on Patreon to get an upcoming bonus episode on this topic and more!: patreon.com/girlboner     Instagram:  @themodernintimacy @drkatebalestrieri @GirlBonerMedia  @dr.megan.fleming   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber. Learn more and find lightly edited transcripts at augustmclaughlin.com.   

Self-love plays an important role in everything from pleasure and intimacy to our everyday interactions. But how do you cultivate it, especially when things feel difficult?    In this Girl Boner Radio episode, Mike Johnson, author of Making the Love You Want, speaks about his childhood, how he’s cultivated self-love and the impact self-love has had on his life. He also answers Girl Boner listeners’ questions, reflects on how he was depicted on The Bachelorette, and shares his top tips for sexual empowerment!   A few things you’ll learn about in the episode:   Why Mike describes his mom as “a shining star of resiliency, determination and persistence;” Gender roles Mike feels we should do away with, including personal examples from his life; How Mike felt revealing the sexual assault he endured during childhood in Making the Love You Want; The difficult breakup that brought Mike lengthy grief and how he found healing; How he feels about how he was depicted on The Bachelorette; Mike’s answers to listeners’ questions!; Why he prefers the term “rising action” over “foreplay,” and how he defines it; How self-love can enhance pleasure + tips for cultivating it from Dr. Megan Fleming   LEARN MORE:   Order a signed copy of Mike’s book at mikejohnsonsmile.com. Follow him on Instagram at @Mike_Johnson.   Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! thepleasurechest.com   Check out Dr. Megan’s FREE pleasure challenge: greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure   Join August on Patreon: patreon.com/girlboner  Show IG: @GirlBonerMedia    Read a lightly edited episode transcript: girlboner.org/mike-johnson   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber.  

Are you ready to discover and ignite your inner sexual fire? Then you have to listen to this episode with August McLaughlin. August is a nationally recognized journalist, media personality, author of Girl Boner and host and producer of the podcast, Girl Boner Radio. In this episode, we dive deep into sexual liberation, masturbation in relationships and her tips for getting into solo play. August talks about how she started her Girl Boner brand and gives us the details on how to know if threesomes are something for you and so much more.    About August McLaughlin:August McLaughlin is a nationally recognized journalist, media personality, author of Girl Boner and host and producer of the podcast, Girl Boner Radio, which has been compared to “Sex in the City” meets NPR's “Fresh Air.” Her articles and expertise have been featured in a range of publications including Cosmopolitan, The Washington Post, DAME Magazine, O: The Oprah Magazine, Forbes, Shape and Bustle. Known for melding personal passion, artistry and activism, August uses her skills as a journalist and podcaster to encourage others to embrace their bodies, sexuality and selves, making way for fuller, more authentic lives.    Inside this episode, August shares: What led her to start her blog and podcast,Girl Boner  How her sexuality has shifted since she's stepped into it What a sexuality liberated person is How to know if threesomes are for you Her advice about masturbating in a relationship Her tips for solo play    For full show notes, resources and links: https://www.hungryforhappiness.com/episode-190 The Sam Skelly Show combines personal development, deep conversations, and comedy to shake up the way you connect with yourself and the world. Be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts so you don't miss an episode!

If you’ve ever had a one night stand and then felt like you shouldn’t talk about it, worried that you cared too much about sex outside of a relationship or acquired an STI from an abusive partner, you’re not alone. Ella Dawson experienced all of these issues and writes about them, both so she can process it all and to help others who relate.   A few things you’ll learn about in this episode:   Why Ella believes “casual sex” is a misnomer A few experiences from her life that illustrate major gaps in what we’re taught about physical intimacy outside of relationships The link between intimate partner abuse and STIs What you can get by joining Ella’s Patreon community! What to do when you start falling for your “friends with benefits” pal, with Dr. Megan Fleming   Join August on Patreon for GirlBoner extras: patreon.com/girlboner.    Join us on Instagram: @brosandprose  @GirlBonerMedia  @dr.megan.fleming    Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber.  

Ever wondered why sex used to feel easy and pleasurable and gradually, or suddenly, that stopped? Or wished you could experience orgasms or great sex in the first place?    Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus, sex therapist and author of SEX POINTS, believes everyone who wishes to can have “rockin’ sex” and that all related challenges are surmountable. She spoke with August about her personal journey and lessons we can all learn from challenges she’s encountered in the lives of her clients, as well as her own.   A few things you’ll learn about in this episode:   Unforgettable sex-talk stories from Dr. Marcus’s childhood Why it’s important to consider sexual arousal, desire and functional challenges beyond the psychological Ways birth control can influence sexual desire and orgasms What many of us get wrong about fantasizing  The myth that women do better with monogamy than men Common factors that can lower what Dr. Marcus calls “sex points” What led her to “lose her orgasms” twice, and how she found her way back to that pleasure Dr. Megan Fleming’s thoughts for a listener who wants to experience orgasm (and for her partner to, too) during intercourse, versus only through masturbation   Stream an exclusive bonus segment, and get more rewards, by joining August’s Patreon community: patreon.com/girlboner.    Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! Free, discreet shipping over $75.   Join us on Instagram:   @drbatsheva  @GirlBonerMedia  @dr.megan.fleming @pleasurecheststores   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber.  

Does great sex start at 50? It sure can, according to Tracey Cox, a renowned bestselling author and expert about sex and relationships.    A few things you’ll learn in this episode:   What leads to sexlessness in relationships When to accept or change that dynamic Myths about sexless marriages How to talk about low sexual desire or frequency, even if years have passed without sex The truth about “lesbian bed death” How to fuel female sexual desire The role body image can play in pleasure and desire How Tracey went from high to low libido, then to some of the best sex of her life Her top advice for anyone struggling in these areas What struck Tracey most while completing Great Sex Starts at Fifty Dr. Megan Fleming’s Pleasure Pick of the Month! And how you can enter a very special giveaway.   Join August on Patreon at patreon.com/girlboner.    IG: @GirlBonerMedia   @traceycoxsexauthor   @dr.megan.fleming   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber.  

Curious about threesomes? Or ways to make your next one better?    Stella Harris, a Certified Intimacy Educator, Sex Coach and author of The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes, is expert at ways to effectively become “a threesome person,” benefits of thoughtful threesomes and how to decide whether or not to bring this type of play into an existing relationship or your life in the first place.   A few things you’ll learn in the episode:   What many folks get wrong about threesomes Questions to consider before deciding on a threesome Why jealousy isn’t the worst thing (or unusual)  How intoxication can impact threesome play Ways to more comfortably ease into your first one Where to meet people for a threesome Dr. Megan Fleming’s thoughts for a listener who’s struggling after a threesome didn’t go as she had hoped   Register for Stella’s book launch party with SheBop here!   Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest! Free, discreet shipping over $75.   Join August on Patreon at patreon.com/girlboner.    Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber.

Download Podcast TranscriptSex tips and aphrodisiac foods to try on Valentine's Day! August McLaughlin is a journalist, health and sex educator, author of Girl Boner, and host and producer of the nationally recognized Girl Boner Radio podcast. She is a certified and trauma-informed sex educator and is passionate about breaking down the myths installed in our society that misinform. Normalizing stigmatized and taboo topics makes her a benchmark in sexual empowerment. Her articles and experience have appeared in a variety of publications including Cosmopolitan, The Washington Post, Forbes, Shape, and Bustle. In her work she fuses personal life, art and activism, taking advantage of her journalistic skills to incite others to self-love, thus being able to love others and have a better life.HighlightsAugust tells what was her turning point to realize she wanted to work with sex and create Girl Boner.She says what is healthy for her; authenticity and self-embrace.She explains how intuitive eating helped her overcome an eating disorder.How sexual fantasies in relationships can improve sex life.New generations and pleasure; how we can educate so that sex is not taboo and we can normalize it.August highlights the importance of doing what you like without following what is supposed to give you pleasure in sex.The ins and outs of a good sex life.The best aphrodisiac foods that can spice up your Valentine's Day.To learn more about August McLaughlin, follow her on Instagram, or visit her website. Download for free Girl Boner's first chapter or Girl Boner Journal excerpt + exercise.Follow us on Instagram or visit our website and stay inspired by our blogs, featuring a collection of posts about lifestyle, food, and so much more.

S and C are scientists and foodies who share a deep love. One thing they don’t share is an equal desire for sex. While S is pretty much always “ready to go,” her partner C desires sex less often. And when he does desire it, his wants aren’t always those that S can fulfill.    Shan is a virtual assistant and mother who consistently desired sex less often than her beloved late husband, Jim. Navigating these differences well came in waves, she said, as they learned what did and didn’t help over the years.   For this Girl Boner Radio episode, August spoke with S and C and with Shan about their journeys and ways to manage mismatched libido in a loving relationship.   Content note: This episode includes mentions of abuse, miscarriage and death.   Find Valentine’s Day gifts for you or a parter at The Pleasure Chest!   Save 25% on Dr. Megan’s Rekindle Desire program! Through Valentine’s Day, 2021.   Support the show and get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner   Produced and edited by August McLaughlin Transcript support from KM Huber

Ep.192-On this episode, Host of the Girl Boner podcast and Certified Sex Educator, August McLaughlin and I chat about the importance of setting boundaries for 2021, lessons learned from 2020, and being intentional about who is in our social circles. About August: August McLaughlin is a journalist, certified sex educator, author and host of the podcast, Girl Boner Radio, which reviewers have called "Sex in the City meets NPR.” Her articles and expertise have been featured in Cosmopolitan, The Washington Post, DAME Magazine, O: The Oprah Magazine, Forbes, Shape and more. augustmclaughlin.com

They aren’t all holidays-themed, but some fun distraction may be just what 2020 ordered! August wraps up the Girl Boner Radio year by sharing the voices and stories of librarian Jess Witkins, publicist Will Armstrong, sex educator Angelique Luna and #open's Maile Manliguis. A few things you’ll hear about this episode:   Some intense improv (and okay, lies) that fueled romance Attraction that was finally acted on, after a date with someone else A play date that turned into a lengthy therapy session An odd kind of handsy-ness at the end of sex Wild animals on a wild night Why "green flags" are important in relationships How to navigate sexual dysfunction or low desire after an ex’s infidelity (and then some), with Dr. Megan A fun and spicy gift to consider for you and/or a partner   The show will return on January 6th. Wishing you meaningful holidays!   Shop holiday specials at The Pleasure Chest! thepleasurechest.com Get the replay of Kenneth Play’s top 3 sex hacks! greatlifegreatsex.com/sexhacks/ Edited and produced by August McLaughlin Transcript support from KM Huber

August McLaughlin is a nationally recognized journalist, media personality and podcaster, best known for her brand and book series, Girl Boner, and the podcast, Girl Boner Radio. Her articles have appeared in Cosmopolitan, The Washington Post, DAME Magazine, HuffPost and more. Her expertise has been featured in a range of major media outlets including O: The Oprah Magazine, Forbes, Shape, Elite Daily and Bustle.  We discuss topics including: How to use her platform to discuss eating disorders, body image and recovery Sharing her personal story People need to see diversity in body image Sharing responsibly on social media Seeking help and not being afraid to ask for support

August McLaughlin is a nationally recognized journalist, media personality and podcaster, best known for her brand and book series, Girl Boner, and the podcast, Girl Boner Radio. Her articles have appeared in Cosmopolitan, The Washington Post, DAME Magazine, HuffPost and more. Her expertise has been featured in a range of major media outlets including O: The Oprah Magazine, Forbes, Shape, Elite Daily and Bustle. We discuss topics including: Developing shame around sexuality when August struggled with her eating disorder How embracing her own sexuality saved her life Being angry at societal messages regarding sexuality How her sexual trauma was linked to her eating disorder and the role her that her spirituality played __________ If you have any questions regarding the topics discussed on this podcast, please reach out to Robyn directly via email: rlgrd@askaboutfood.com You can also connect with Robyn on social media by following her on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and LinkedIn. If you enjoyed this podcast, please leave a review on iTunes and subscribe. Visit Robyn's private practice website where you can subscribe to her free monthly insight newsletter, and receive your FREE GUIDE “Maximizing Your Time with Those Struggling with an Eating Disorder”. For more information on Robyn's book “The Eating Disorder Trap”, please visit the Official "The Eating Disorder Trap" Website. “The Eating Disorder Trap” is also available for purchase on Amazon.

August launched an exclusive Girl Boner community on Patreon! Learn more in this quickie announcement episode. Check out the reward and sign up here: http://patreon.com/girlboner

Meagan Ingerman talks with August McLaughlin, the author of Girl Boner and host of Girl Boner Radio, about her work in sex education and why it’s never too early to answer childrens’ questions about sex. The post Sex education at all ages appeared first on Prostasia Foundation.

What’s your wildest sex or dating memory? This week on Girl Boner Radio, August shares OMG stories from fellow Period podcasters, including Makenzie Mizell, AM Davies and Sara, plus dating empowerment coach, Erin Tillman. August starts with one of her own stories and wraps up with stories submitted by listeners.    Work with Erin: https://thedatingadvicegirl.com Celebrate Anal August! https://thepleasurechest.com More Girl Boner fun: https://girlboner.org/    Period: https://www.periodnetwork.com Comadres y Comics: https://www.periodnetwork.com/comadres-y-comics Yes, a Stripper Podcast: https://www.thequeenofsexy.com/yes-a-stripper-podcast/

August McLaughlin is a nationally-recognized health and sexuality writer, media personality  and host and creator of Girl Boner® and Girl Boner Radio. Her articles have appeared in Cosmopolitan, The Washington Post, DAME Magazine, HuffPost and more. her expertise has been featured in a range of  media outlets, including O: The Oprah Magazine, Forbes, Shape, Elite Daily and Bustle. Known for melding personal passion, artistry and activism, August uses her skills as a public speaker and writer to encourage others to embrace their bodies, sexuality and selves, making way for fuller, more authentic lives.    In this episode we speak about everything from: ~ our experience with life changing orgasms ~ critical reason why self pleasure is a must ~ why embracing your sexuality is as important as eating a healthy diet ~ a profound connection between eating disorders and sexual health ~ the process of learning to love + respect your body ~ the unusual benefits from connecting with your anger ~ the surprising byproduct of embracing your sexuality ~ experiencing pleasure after trauma ~ and much more!   Connect with August McLaughlin Website |        https://augustmclaughlin.com Girl Boner Radio | https://apple.co/2SH11zP   *****   MOJO MEMBERSHIP What do you think of when you hear the words: Confidence Feminine radiance Enthusiasm Sensuality Intuition Gratitude Ease  Joy Do you feel inspired? Or disconnected? Do you think yes! I'd like all of that and then some? Well, I've got good news for you. There's something so simple waiting for you right now. It's online and accessible with one simple click. And it's all yours FOR LIFE, IF you choose to take advantage of it. Curious? Get all the deets here: www.mojomembership.com   *****   Connect with Deborah Website | http://therealundressed.com/ Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/therealundressed/   https://www.instagram.com/deborahkagan/ Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/mojorecoveryspecialist/   Subscribe to The Real Undressed Podcast iTunes | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-real-undressed-with-deborah-kagan/id1494643770   Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/1eOQaw6kryBsXo7Jb6qEnv Please remember to: Subscribe Rate Review the podcast. I read every single one and your feedback is valuable.      

Welcome to Truth + Tequila! These episodes are dedicated to answering any and all questions you have navigating the areas of spirit, sex and of course, igniting your mojo. This week's question comes from Becca, who says: I see myself in a recurrent situation. It comes from me being loyal to a fault. I feel like there is something not functioning right in my behavior because I knew from some news I got a least six months ago that I was not feeling good about my relationship with someone that I've known for a long time. This is a work relationship. However, I still continued on in the work relationship and all along I've been frustrated. I expressed my frustration and so on. But yet, did I? So, I mean, how long does it take to step away from something that you know isn't right for you? The level of mindfuck seems to take a really long time and it's so hard to separate. PS. I'm not even talking about the marriage that lasted 10 years more than it should, that's a different story. SO, what's it what is my problem? Or as you say, the kink in me. This is insane. So first of all, it's not insane. Ok. Love yourself. like really, truly, madly, deeply love yourself first. Because your question is coming from there's something wrong with you and there's nothing wrong with you. There's nothing inherently wrong with any of us. Nothing. Your question could be asked by many people out here. You simply bought into the lie that you're the problem or that the problem lies within you. You bought into the bunk stories and lies. There's nothing wrong. And what is beautiful is you have an awareness of where you are denying the deeper truth within yourself. You're actually clear. You're like, OK, I got this message within approx. 6 months ago. Well, to me, this sounds like it's all about an old story. And, without having all the details, the thing that stands out is: Six months. Right. Six months went by. You know, previously in your life of similar experiences, were they longer than six months before taking an action or having an awareness? My guess is yes based on the marriage comment. So, consider this. Consider that six months is big progress. And really, I want to encourage you and everybody here to recognize this. I'd love to give everybody some kind of a pill where you can recognize all of your wins, when it comes to your personal development and when it comes to this type of growth, it's really this inner growth. It's insidious because you are not trained to look for the wins in this way. In micro movements. And yet these are the ways that your life truly changes. And when I say life, I mean your careers, your relationships, your health, your mental well-being. So the fact that you had only six months before asking for help or taking an action is like a big fucking deal (vs. the previous amounts of time, like one year or two or 10). So Number one: celebrate that. Number two: it's not about well, fuck, You're jumping into the pattern again. Now what can happen is this six months can potentially turn into six days the next time you notice the pattern. Which could then potentially go into a more immediate response or within 24 hours of going, oh, right, I'm feeling this thing/person/experience is not right for me. And then you move on. You're in this forward progression and that first has to be acknowledged, because if you gloss over that, it's when you're training a dog, Right. If you don't treat the dog enough, when it does the good stuff, it's not necessary to keep doing the good stuff. And it's the same thing with the relationship with yourself. I think for you right now, it's critical to celebrate the crap out of the fact that it's only been six months. And as you move forward, allow yourself to listen and then respond from your body. Your body is the ORACLE that holds all the truth and knows the exact next step.   As always, these episodes are FOR YOU. And they are driven by your needs and desires to discover YOUR truth. To have your question considered for an upcoming Truth + Tequila episode, Go to therealundressed.com And click submit your Q on the Truth + Tequila image. The Real Undressed is here to inspire you to get free…in whatever way, shape or form that takes. If you're digging the episode, please take 60 seconds and subscribe to the podcast on Spotify or Apple and leave a 5 star rating. And if you really want to let your mojo shine, leave a review. They make the world of difference in helping this show grow and reach the people who need it most. We'll see you Friday for a full episode with health and sexuality expert and creator of Girl Boner Radio, August McLaughlin. As always, thanks for getting undressed with me.      

This week on Naked Talk with Jess, August McLaughlin from Girl Boner Radio talks about her book and podcast which focuses on sexual empowerment and independence.  August and Jess talk about shedding the stigma and shame surrounding masturbation as a woman so you can stop being insecure and start being independent when it comes to your sexuality.    Topics Discussed in this Episode:    Shame and masturbation Sexual empowerment  Sex and religion/spirituality  Sexuality as self-care   What’s next? You can connect with August on Twitter at @AugstMcLaughlin Listen to Girl Boner Radio at https://augustmclaughlin.com/podcast/ Follow Naked Talk Podcast on Instagram. 

Think you know what a Girl Boner is? Curious to find out?From lack of proper sex education to the over sexualization of women in the media, we live in a culture of mixed messages, where many of us exist completely disconnected from our bodies, our sexuality and our power. In this episode, Dr. Tammy and acclaimed sexuality writer, and host of Girl Boner Radio, August McLaughlin get personal as they talk about body image, eating disorders, embracing pleasure, claiming your power - and yes, Girl Boners.This episode is sponsored by UBERLUBE - Feeling is everything. Go to uberlube.com to get 10% your first order with promo code: DRTAMMY. Uberlube ships for free within the USA. Join The Trouble with Sex Community, support this podcast and get exclusive perks, special access to Dr. Tammy, extra resources, offers and deals. Go to patreon.com/thetroublewithsex for more now!Resources mentioned on this Episode:Click here for the results of Dr. Nan Wise's MRI study about human sexuality that Dr. Tammy and August reference during the show. Dr. Tammy recommends the legendary Louise Hay's Best Selling Book – You Can Heal Your Life.ENJOY!Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/thetroublewithsex)

In Pursuit Of Truth with Aideen T. Finnola Radio Show Conflicting and confusing information about sexuality? In our culture? Nooooo, really?!? Unfortunately, yes! You've heard about guy boners, but did you know that girl boners exist too? Yep, they're a thing . . . a real thing . . . Truth! If you grew up in North American culture (or just about any other culture across the globe), you probably didn't get the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth about sexuality! That was certainly the experience of August McLaughlin, host and creator of Girl Boner® and Girl Boner Radio and author of Girl Boner: The Good Girl's Guide to Sexual Empowerment. After having spent a lifetime in pursuit of sexual truth, August is an expert on all things sexual, especially Girl Boners! Join Aideen for a fun, probably racy, certainly insightful, and undoubtedly enlightening conversation with August McLaughlin about the truth of sexuality, sexual expression, and Girl Boners! August McLaughlin is a nationally recognized health and sexuality writer, media personality and creator of the female sexual empowerment brand Girl Boner. Her feature articles have appeared in Cosmopolitan.com, DAME magazine, the Huffington Post, Sexual Wellness News, LIVESTRONG.com, The Good Men Project and more. On her weekly web radio show and podcast, Girl Boner Radio, she interviews relationship experts, celebrity entertainers, “everyday” women and more, exploring women’s lives and sexuality “like no one else.” For the past several years, she’s been listed as one of Kinkly‘s 100 Sex Blog Superheros. In 2016, she was chosen to attend the United State of Women summit, convened by the White House, in Washington DC, as a nominated change maker, for her work in gender equality and women’s sexuality. As a speaker at Beverly Hill’s first TEDx Women event, in October 2016, she shared her story of surviving an eating disorder. (See her talk on the importance of self-embracement here.) Since recovering from anorexia and years of body dysmorphia, August has taught and mentored individuals with eating disorders and other psychological disorders on wellness and body image on an individual and group basis. She is the executive producer of Weight Limit—a body image-related PSA, and speaks professionally for a variety of audiences on body image, eating disorders and women’s sexuality. Known for melding personal passion with activism, August uses her skills as a public speaker and journalist to encourage women and people in the LGBTQIA+ community to embrace their bodies and sexuality, making way for fuller, more authentic lives. Publishers Weekly called her book, Girl Boner: The Good Girl’s Guide to Sexual Empowerment “equally fun, risqué, and informative” and “a welcome addition to sexual health literature.” The companion book, Girl Boner Journal: A Guided Journal to Sexual Joy and Empowerment, is now available.  https://augustmclaughlin.com/books/  https://www.amazon.com/Girl-Boner-Girls-Sexual-Empowerment/dp/1944995714/  https://augustmclaughlin.com/book/girl-boner-journal/  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/girl-boner-radio/id814715884    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z7po4cUMXpg&feature=youtu.be   https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjoiqcart1An7I8yZPvECYg  august@augustmclaughlin.com    https://augustmclaughlin.com/ Author of My Exquisite Purple Life  Purchase Book Here or Audio Here https://www.balboapress.com/BookStore/BookDetails/752312-My-Exquisite-Purple-Life ~ More About In Pursuit Of Truth with Aideen T. Finnola ~  Aideen T. Finnola is an empowerment coach, author, speaker, and radio show host. She is an unapologetic and empowered survivor of and thriver after physical, emotional, psychological, and religious abuse. As she was raised in a religious cult for the first two decades of her life and was then unsuspectingly married to a closeted gay man for her life’s next two decades, she has a lot of experience with varying degrees and expressions of untruth. These experiences have fueled her pursuit of truth to the point of a full-on passion (some might say obsession). Aideen has learned that above all, untruth is both unworkable and painful. Coming from the perspective that life, time and space, and the human experience are all perfect and good, she knows that truth can only exist within ideas and experiences that are both workable and enjoyable. Aideen coaches her clients to find their own truth by investigating outside the conventional parameters of “should and shouldn’t,” “good and bad,” and “right and wrong.” She guides them instead to evaluate their experiences by questioning “Is this working for me?” and “Am I enjoying this?” Aideen empowers people all over the world through her coaching, her memoir, My Exquisite Purple Life, her speaking, and her radio show. Her unwavering message is to look for truth, guidance, and answers within, because it’s all there inside! https://www.aideentfinnola.com/     ~    https://www.facebook.com/aideentfinnola    To get more of In Pursuit Of Truth ~ Aideen T. Finnola, be sure to visit the archives page for replays of all her shows here: https://www.inspiredchoicesnetwork.com/podcast/in-pursuit-of-truth-with-aideen-t-finnola/  

Ethan speaks with Girl Boner Radio and Publication writer August McLaughlin about her exploration of sex and body positivity influenced by purity culture and how she healed past trauma by exploring her sexuality. The conversation dives into sex as a lens through which love can be explored in setting and pushing boundaries, personal empowerment and physical healing. Find August at augustmclaughlin.com and on Instagram Find Ethan at extremist.love and on Instagram

Ep.175-Consent Guidebook Contributor, Sexuality Writer, and Speaker August McLaughlin and I talk about the release of her new book Girl Boner Journal, the followup to Girl Boner, the importance of talking openly about sexuality, how consent/sexuality/pleasure are linked and so much more! About August: August McLaughlin is a health and sexuality writer and host and creator of Girl Boner® and Girl Boner Radio. Her work appears in Cosmopolitan, DAME Magazine, the Huff Post, LIVESTRONG.com and more. Kirkus Reviews called her first novel, In Her Shadow, “an engaging story with an inventive structure and an intriguing focus on body-image issues.” Each week on Girl Boner Radio, she interviews sex and relationship experts, celebrity entertainers, sex workers, entrepreneurs, survivors and more. In 2016, she attended the United State of Women conference convened by the White House as a nominated change maker and spoke about surviving an eating disorder at a TEDx Women event in Beverly Hills. Known for melding personal passion, artistry and activism, August uses her skills as a public speaker and journalist to encourage women and people in the LGBTQIA+ community to embrace their bodies and selves, making way for fuller, more authentic lives. Publishers Weekly called her book, Girl Boner: The Good Girl’s Guide to Sexual Empowerment “equally fun, risqué, and informative” and “a welcome addition to sexual health literature.” The companion book, Girl Boner Journal: A Guided Journal to Sexual Joy and Empowerment, is now available for pre-order. @AugustMcLaughlin

August looks back on memorable moments from five years and 250 episodes of Girl Boner Radio. This extra special episode features unique sex ed stories, female sexual arousal and squirting 101, inspiring interview excerpts, a creepy in-studio happening, tips for inviting more pleasurable sex and more. Sign up for Girl Boner extras by email at augustmclaughlin.com.

"It was through embracing my sexuality and then cultivating healing in my own life and discovering who I am that artistry blossomed.” - August McLaughlin   This episode is brought to you in collaboration with Siena Soap Company.   Welcome to the brand new Feminist Book Club: The Podcast! Today’s episode is an introduction to the podcast and an interview with August McLaughlin. Celebrate the launch by entering the giveaway: bit.ly/FBClaunch and check out our new website feministbookclub.com   August McLaughlin is a nationally recognized health and sexuality writer, media personality and host and creator of Girl Boner® and Girl Boner Radio. Her articles have appeared in Cosmopolitan, The Washington Post, DAME Magazine, HuffPost and more. She's been a featured TEDx presenter and attended the United State of Women summit, convened by the White House, as a nominated change maker. Publishers Weekly called her book, Girl Boner: The Good Girls’ Guide to Sexual Empowerment “equally fun, risqué, and informative” and “a welcome addition to sexual health literature.” The companion book, Girl Boner Journal, is now available for pre-order.   In a culture where female empowerment is used to sell everything from sex toys to soap, most sex education continues to bypass pleasure. The results are stark—we’ve grown accustomed to slut- and prude-shaming and allowed others to dictate how a “good girl” is meant to feel, act, and look.  In Girl Boner: The Good Girl’s Guide to Sexual Empowerment, August McLaughlin offers an unfiltered blend of personal narrative and practical tips on relationships, solo play, journaling, gender issues, and more. From the perks of “Jilling off” to seven types of ‘gasms, Girl Boner will “empower you to own your sexual self and enjoy … your whole life a great deal more.” So, what exactly is a girl boner? We dare you to find out.   Pick up your copy of Girl Boner: The Good Girl's Guide to Sexual Empowerment by August McLaughlin Preorder the Girl Boner Journal. Listen to Girl Boner Radio. Learn more about August McLaughlin and her work.   August’s book recommendation: Brain on Fire by Susannah Cahalan    Website: feministbookclub.com Instagram: @feministbookclubbox Facebook: Feminist Book Club Twitter: @fmnstbookclub Email newsletter: http://eepurl.com/dvRgvD   - Logo and web design by Shatterboxx  Original music by @amiofficialmusic Transcript for this episode: bit.ly/FBCtranscript1

August McLaughlin is a nationally recognized health and sexuality writer, media personality and host and creator of Girl Boner® and Girl Boner Radio. Her articles have appeared in Cosmopolitan, The Washington Post, DAME Magazine, HuffPost and more. A frequent speaker on sexuality and gender equality issues, August has been a featured TEDx presenter and attended the United State of Women summit, convened by the White House, as a nominated change maker. Publishers Weekly called her book, Girl Boner: The Good Girls’ Guide to Sexual Empowerment “equally fun, risqué, and informative” and “a welcome addition to sexual health literature.” The companion book, Girl Boner Journal: A Guided Journal for Self Awareness, is now available for pre-order.  Theme music for Madame Perry's Salon composed and performed by Denton Perry. Authors! Need to promote your book but can't afford a publicist? Get Sell Your Books Todayright now!  As a seasoned entertainment publicist I know exactly what insider info you need to get your books to the world!

In celebration of her new book, August took Girl Boner Radio to NYC! This episode features a panel with Dr. Megan Fleming and The V. Club cofounder Courtney Clemen on ways to deepen connection in your sex life and relationships. You'll also hear from two surprise returning guests and a spicy excerpt from August's book. Sign up for occasional email updates at augustmclaughlin.com. Outro music: In Between the Sides by Gaston Beltran, featuring Bria Jene. 

In this episode, August McLaughlin and I talk about her new book, Girl Boner: The Good Girls Guide to Sexual Empowerment. Join in as August and I discuss her journey and how embracing her sexuality is one of the keys to healing her eating disorder, what it means to be a “good girl”,  slut shaming, prude-shaming, sexual empowerment, body image, girl boners, orgasms in an MRI and more! August McLaughlin is a health and sexuality writer and host and creator of Girl Boner® and Girl Boner Radio. Her work appears in Cosmopolitan, DAME Magazine, the Huffington Post, LIVESTRONG.com and more. Kirkus Reviews called her first novel, In Her Shadow, “an engaging story with an inventive structure and an intriguing focus on body-image issues.” Each week on Girl Boner Radio, she interviews sex and relationship experts, celebrity entertainers, sex workers, entrepreneurs, survivors and more. Find out more about August at www.augustmclaughlin.com.   

Welcome to episode 67 of the Sexology Podcast, today I'm joined by Erica Garza who talks to us about her book Getting Off, the connection between sexual shame and addiction and the story of her recovery from sexual addiction  Born in Los Angeles to Mexican parents, Erica Garza has spent most of her adult life traveling and living abroad. She currently lives in Los Angeles with her husband and daughter. Erica's essays have appeared in Salon, Narratively, BUST, Marie Claire, Good Housekeeping, Refinery29, Bustle, Alternet, Vivala, HelloGiggles, the Los Angeles Review, and Australia's Mamamia and The Motherish.   She has appeared as a guest on BBC Radio 4, Thom Hartmann's The Big Picture, and August McLaughlin's Girl Boner Radio. In 2010, she earned her MFA in Creative Nonfiction at Columbia University. Her memoir on sex addiction, Getting Off, is her first book.   Her addiction follows and transforms with her in each point in her coming-of-age, which spans the transition from dial-up to digital in the 1990s and early 2000s. From Playboys hidden discreetly under mattresses to softcore on late night cable to vast varieties of porn ubiquitous and easily accessible across the internet, Garza's personal account is also a study of an era in which both technology and sex changed dramatically in our everyday lives.   GETTING OFF is as raw and unflinching a personal story as it is an insightful and modern perspective on sexuality and addiction. Garza doesn't find a tidy cure for her obsessions, but in the absence of false hope and prepackaged redemption is a credibly imperfect and remarkably relatable journey toward self-acceptance.   In this episode, you will hear:   The challenge of talking about her sex life openly Why Erica decided to share her story The perspective of sex addiction being an ethnic minority and female How sex addiction can affect anyone in life The ways in which porn can be used as a crutch How over-viewing porn can lead to desensitization The connection between sexual shame and addiction What made Erica comfortable disclosing her issues to her now husband   Resources http://www.ericagarza.com https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care https://twitter.com/oasis2care

Cassie Brighter, a speaker and author, joins August for a Girl Boner Radio chat on intersectionality in womanhood, whether pussy hats are transphobic, her personal journey as a transgender woman, raising trans children, and more! August also addresses the most common topic she hears about from cis men with the help of Dr. Megan Fleming. (Hint: It involves penises!) Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com. 

In this episode I’m joined by sex blogger and podcaster August McLaughlin. She’s doing ground breaking work to advance knowledge of and access to longer lasting, more satisfying, and more divine states of female arousal. We discuss the spirituality and politics of female pleasure and how to progress beyond the standard narratives and curricula of the church and state. Please visit her website at: http://www.augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner/ About August: August McLaughlin is a health and sexuality writer and host and creator of Girl Boner®. Her work appears in Cosmopolitan, DAME Magazine, the Huffington Post, LIVESTRONG.com and more. Kirkus Reviews called her first novel, In Her Shadow, “an engaging story with an inventive structure and an intriguing focus on body-image issues.” Each week on Girl Boner® Radio, she interviews relationship experts, celebrity entertainers and more, exploring women’s lives and sexuality “like no one else.” Known for melding personal passion, artistry and activism, August uses her skills as a public speaker and journalist to inspire women to embrace their bodies and selves, making way for fuller, more authentic lives.

Erotic filmmaker Erika Lust chats with August about sex education in Sweden, ethical porn and why we need more women filmmakers. Multitalented musician Michelle Mangione and rock n’ roll icon Grace Slick of Jefferson Airplane join in to discuss Writers for the Storm, which supports victims of hurricanes Harvey, Irma and Jose. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who found hardcore porn on her boyfriend’s computer. To get $30 off your first month of therapy through TalkSpace and support Girl Boner Radio at the same time, visit talkspace.com/boner. For more Girl Boner fun, visit augustmclaughlin.com.

Breakups aren't often simple. What do you do with items that remind you of the relationship once it's ended? Should you keep them or let them go? Would you donate them to a museum? In this Girl Boner Radio episode, August interviews Alexis Hyde, director of the Museum of Broken Relationships in Los Angeles, then takes listeners on an audio tour of select items on display at the museum -- including silicone breast implants, pubic hair and a confession booth, where visitors fess up anonymously in a journal. You'll also hear from August's friends (Karina, Rayne and Erin), who weigh in on keeping gifts from exes, and August and Dr. Megan Fleming's thoughts for a listener working to heal from relationship trauma. For occasional Girl Boner extras, sign up for email updates: augustmclaughlin.com. 

August McLaughlin is a nationally recognized health and sexuality writer, author and host and creator of Girl Boner® and Girl Boner® Radio. Her work appears in DAME Magazine, the Huffington Post, LIVESTRONG.com and more. Known for melding personal passion, artistry and activism, August uses her skills as a public speaker and journalist to inspire other […]

Masturbation May. Have you gotten yours on yet? If not, pop over to our exclusive sale with podcast-approved toys and treat yourself to something deliciously naughty. This week, August McLaughlin shares a little about her battle with anorexia and body dysmorphia, plus how that led her to creating Girl Boner. We also field some wonderful questions from listeners on the way our bodies and genitals look, plus struggling with orgasms. In this episode, August and I: Laugh and cringe over the sad state of sex education in the United States. Rarely is pleasure ever mentioned to young people, but if it is, it's usually reserved for folks with a penis, while the only info we get about vulvas is that they have cramps and periods. Explore August's eating disorder and body dysmorphia and how that led her to heal her relationship with her sexuality. Dig into the importance of letting go of shame around our shame. How can we confront our own stories and beliefs to lead a more empowered and authentic life rather than the one put on us by others? Contemplate a listener question about anal bleaching - is she doing it to please her husband and make herself feel more worthy or because she wants to do it as an act of power to celebrate her body? Stress the importance of consuming porn that has body diversity, including a wide range of pubic hair, labia, penises, and body size. Answer a question from a virgin who is worried that his uncircumcised penis is what's driving away potential lovers. (Our answer is a resounding NO.) Discuss a listener question about orgasms - she can orgasm on her own but can't from intercourse and is worried her partner feels frustrated by it all. Has she tried toys? Various positions? Talking to him about it and making it a fun exploration Gush over why we should replace "achieving orgasm" with "experiencing orgasm". About August McLaughlin August McLaughlin is an award-winning, nationally recognized health and sexuality writer and host and creator of Girl Boner®. Her work appears in Cosmopolitan, DAME Magazine, the Huffington Post, LIVESTRONG.com and more. Kirkus Reviews called her first novel, In Her Shadow, “an engaging story with an inventive structure and an intriguing focus on body-image issues.” Her latest book, Embraceable: Empowering Facts and True Stories About Women’s Sexuality, is a celebration of women’s sexual empowerment. Each week on Girl Boner® Radio, she interviews relationship experts, celebrity entertainers and more, exploring women’s lives and sexuality “like no one else.” Known for melding personal passion, artistry and activism, August uses her skills as a public speaker and journalist to inspire women to embrace their bodies and selves, making way for fuller, more authentic lives. Want to stay in touch with August? Find her at AugustMcLaughlin.com where you can also listen to Girl Boner radio. Be sure to like her on Facebook and follow her on Twitter, too. Hearing from you is the best, so here's how to contact the show: Contact form: Click here  

Episode 21 - “Red Flag Issue Episode:  Relating to Sociopaths with guest August McLaughlin" In this "Red Flag Issue” Episode, Dr. Wendy and Miss Jenni are joined by Health & Sexuality writer August McLaughlin (Girl Boner Radio).  In their chat they examine what Sociopathy can look like in romantic relationships, what the short- and long-term traumatizing effects can be, and how one might extricate oneself from this toxic connection. www.DoctorWendyOConnor.com e:  DrWendyOConnor@gmail.com fb: https://www.facebook.com/askdrwendy tw: @askDrWendy www.JenniJVWilson.com e:  JenniferJVWilson@gmail.com fb: www.facebook.com/JenniJVWilson tw: @JenniJVWilson Guest: August McLaughlin http://www.augustmclaughlin.com/ Girl Boner Radio:   http://www.stitcher.com/podcast/gvb-radio/girl-boner-radio-with-august-mclaughlin https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/girl-boner-radio/id814715884?mt=2 tw: @AugstMcLaughlin MENTIONS -  READING AND INFO - Psychopathy Checklist - Dr. Robert Hare https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychopathy_Checklist U.S. Presidents & Psychopathy - http://www.spring.org.uk/2013/09/which-us-president-was-the-biggest-psychopath.php Dr. Martha Stout “The Sociopath Next Door” -  http://www.amazon.com/Sociopath-Next-Door-Martha-Stout/dp/0767915828 Gavin DeBecker “The Gift of Fear” -  http://www.amazon.com/Other-Survival-Signals-Protect-Violence/dp/0440508835/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1462820497&sr=1-1&keywords=the+gift+of+fear+by+gavin+de+becker Julia Cameron "The Artists Way” - http://www.amazon.com/Artists-Way-Julia-Cameron/dp/1585421464/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1462820533&sr=1-1&keywords=the+artists+way+by+julia+cameron Helen Reddy “I Am Woman” - https://www.amazon.com/I-Am-Woman-Helen-Reddy-ebook/dp/B004LWYZYK?ie=UTF8&keywords=Helen%20Reddy%20autobiography&qid=1462818747&ref_=sr_1_1&s=books&sr=1-1 Jon Ronson “The Psychopath Test:  A Journey Through the Madness Industry” - http://www.amazon.com/Psychopath-Test-Journey-Through-Industry/dp/1594485755/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1462818676&sr=1-1&keywords=the+psychopath+test M.E. Thomas “Confessions of a Sociopath:  A Life Spent Hiding in Plain Sight” -http://www.amazon.com/Confessions-Sociopath-Spent-Hiding-Plain/dp/0307956652?ie=UTF8&keywords=confessions%20of%20a%20sociopath&qid=1462818785&ref_=sr_1_1&s=books&sr=1-1 Music Cues - Chicago “Hard For Me To Say I'm Sorry” - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zqq3tW3iACw Steppenwolf “Magic Carpet Ride” - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U4WiyxXpyZc Helen Reddy “You and Me Against The World” - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qxd-7dTsUfQ Helen Reddy “Can't Say Goodbye To You”- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R49k9iULZR0 Peter Gabriel “In Your Eyes” - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B3kFPBtc9BE Gloria Gaynor “I Will Survive” - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tth-8wA3PdY Salt n Pepa “Let's Talk About Sex” - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ydrtF45-y-g Helen Reddy “I Am Woman Hear Me Roar” - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zu4xpDuf84A Helen Reddy “Peaceful” - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y3BJjehjOGo Helen Reddy “Ain't No Way To Treat A Lady” -https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mrhMhOlzry0

Aired Thursday, 31 March 2016, 4:00 PM ETMartha welcomes August McLaughlin, host and creator of Girl Boner®, to explore disordered eating and its impact on sexuality. August overcame decades of poor body image and a severe eating disorder, which she was diagnosed with while working as an international model. With a back ground in nutritional science and recovery under her belt, August knows the complications of disordered eating and the bedroom, as well as ways to heal.About the Guest August McLaughlinAugust McLaughlin is an award-winning, nationally recognized health and sexuality writer and host and creator of Girl Boner®. Her work appears in DAME Magazine, the Huffington Post, The Good Men Project and more. Kirkus Reviews called her first novel, In Her Shadow, “an engaging story with an inventive structure and an intriguing focus on body-image issues.” Her latest book, Embraceable: Empowering Facts and True Stories About Women’s Sexuality, is a celebration of women’s sensuality. Each week on Girl Boner® Radio, she interviews relationship experts, celebs and more, exploring women’s lives and sexuality “like no one else.” Known for melding personal passion, artistry and activism, August uses her skills as a public speaker and journalist to inspire women to embrace their bodies and selves, making way for fuller, more authentic lives. Learn more on: augustmclaughlin.comhttps://www.facebook.com/MyGirlBoner/ (personal’s fine, too!)https://twitter.com/augstmclaughlinhttps://www.instagram.com/augustmclaughlin/

Aired Thursday, 31 March 2016, 4:00 PM ETMartha welcomes August McLaughlin, host and creator of Girl Boner®, to explore disordered eating and its impact on sexuality. August overcame decades of poor body image and a severe eating disorder, which she was diagnosed with while working as an international model. With a back ground in nutritional science and recovery under her belt, August knows the complications of disordered eating and the bedroom, as well as ways to heal.About the Guest August McLaughlinAugust McLaughlin is an award-winning, nationally recognized health and sexuality writer and host and creator of Girl Boner®. Her work appears in DAME Magazine, the Huffington Post, The Good Men Project and more. Kirkus Reviews called her first novel, In Her Shadow, “an engaging story with an inventive structure and an intriguing focus on body-image issues.” Her latest book, Embraceable: Empowering Facts and True Stories About Women’s Sexuality, is a celebration of women’s sensuality. Each week on Girl Boner® Radio, she interviews relationship experts, celebs and more, exploring women’s lives and sexuality “like no one else.” Known for melding personal passion, artistry and activism, August uses her skills as a public speaker and journalist to inspire women to embrace their bodies and selves, making way for fuller, more authentic lives. Learn more on: augustmclaughlin.comhttps://www.facebook.com/MyGirlBoner/ (personal’s fine, too!)https://twitter.com/augstmclaughlinhttps://www.instagram.com/augustmclaughlin/

August and former guest, stylist Rayne Parvis, turn the tables! Rayne interviews August about her new book, EMBRACEABLE, Girl Boner® Radio and more. Plus, learn about sexy New Year's Resolutions with Dr. Megan Fleming.

In a 1-year anniversary special, August interviews comedian Margaret Cho on her new TV show and #BeRobin campaign—plus, guest appearances by Alia Janine, Millana Snow and August's mom.

In celebration of Girl Boner Radio's 25th episode, August shares sex-perts' answers to listeners' questions and interviews Dr. Lisa Masterson, a practicing OB/GYN, mom, philanthropist, author and host of Health in Heels with Dr. Lisa.

AUTHOR SPOTLIGHT, H.S. Clark presents exclusive interview with psychological thriller author and sexuality journalist August McLaughlin, Left Coast Crime mystery conference, Monterey, CA. She wrote the psychological thriller In Her Shadow, and hosts a podcast Girl Boner Radio on iTunes, about empowering female sexuality. This is a unique look at her writing, her life, and her thoughts on the craft, brought to you by thriller author H.S. Clark, author of SECRET THOUGHTS a Medical Thriller. For more information on SECRET THOUGHTS a Medical Thriller, visit http://hsclarkmystery.com  Music: "Rescue Me" by DoKashiteru (feat. Kaer Trouz) CC license http://goo.gl/nRaFk1