Podcast appearances and mentions of Ian Kerner

The Man Without Fear is Born Again... as a new Disney+ series that picks up where earlier MCU Daredevil stories left off! Wilson Fisk is back and running for Mayor of New York! Foggy Nelson, Karen, and Bullseye are back to their old selves! New characters are introduced! And even Frank Castle is back for the ride! But does this new season deliver? Or is the Devil in the details? Luckily, Ian Kerner joins Geekscape as we put all 9 episodes of 'Daredevil: Born Again' Season One on trial and sift through the evidence! You can also subscribe to the Geekscape podcast on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3H27uMH Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3BVrnkW Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today, I'm joined by Ian Kerner, a renowned sex therapist, best-selling author, and expert in helping individuals and couples navigate intimacy challenges. You might know him from his book She Comes First—a must-read on prioritizing women's pleasure. Ian is also the co-founder of the Sex Therapy Program at the Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy and a sought-after speaker at TED, Goop, and more.In this episode, we dive into how heterosexual men can become more attuned to their partner's pleasure, shifting focus from performance to connection.We talked about:Why did he write a book in 2004 to help men better understand women's pleasure?Oral sex and more pleasure for womenWhat has changed in heterosexual men's approach to sexuality since he wrote "She Comes First" in 2004?A relax penis is an erect penis!The 'willingness window' The areas that men still need to improve when it comes to heterosexual intimacyAnd much more!My guest :iankerner.comShe comes firstSo Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex: Laying Bare and Learning to Repair Our Love LivesMy Instagram account: @camilleparlesexe -/- My website: www.camillebataillon.com

Spidey is back with a new animated series on Disney+... but it also brings some confusion. Is this new high school set series of 10 episodes a part of the MCU? Is this Tom Holland's Peter Parker? But other MCU actors are here playing their MCU roles? What big changes did they make to Spider-Man's classic supporting cast? Where does this series sit among the animated Spider-Man shows? Ian Kerner joins me to take this series for a swing and see if it sets off our Spidey Senses! You can also subscribe to the Geekscape podcast on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3H27uMH Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3BVrnkW Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this weekend's 'Captain America: Brave New World' Sam Wilson, the new Captain America, finds himself in the middle of an international incident after The Serpent Society tries to steal a valuable resource and the original super soldier Isaiah Bradley attempts to assassinate President Thunderbolt Ross... but are those the only things going on in the film? Ian Kerner is going to help me work through all of the twists and turns as we discuss what was reshot, who new characters like Sabra are, why this is as much an Incredible Hulk sequel as a Captain America film, and so much more! Don't miss it! You can also subscribe to the Geekscape podcast on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3H27uMH Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3BVrnkW Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Disney+'s 'Star Wars: Skeleton Crew' just wrapped its first season... and will there be more? We ask that question and many more as Ian Kerner and I visit that galaxy far, far away with the Goonies in Space style series 'Star Wars: Skeleton Crew'! Were these brand new characters, droids, aliens, and planets as good as we'd all hoped? Does this series reawaken that old Star Wars magic? Is the mysterious Jod Na Nawood really a Jedi? And have we seen his character in the Star Wars universe before? We'll be discussing LOTS of Spoilers so don't blast off to hyperspace until you've seen all these episodes! Enjoy! You can also subscribe to the Geekscape podcast on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3H27uMH Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3BVrnkW Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ian Kerner and I discuss James Gunn's first (official) entry to his new DCEU with the animated 'Creature Commandos'! Just who are the Creature Commandos? Is it like the Suicide Squad? And what hints do these episodes give for future seasons or for next summer's 'Superman' film? We'll be discussing the source material and what came before! But also... SPOILERS! So be careful! Strange Creatures lurk beyond this podcast blurb! You can also subscribe to the Geekscape podcast on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3H27uMH Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3BVrnkW Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Ian Kerner, bestselling author of “She Comes First” and licensed sex therapist, shares insights from his 20+ years helping couples create more fulfilling sexual connections. From his own journey of overcoming sexual challenges to becoming a leading voice in sex therapy, Dr. Kerner discusses how traditional scripts around sex often limit pleasure and intimacy. He emphasizes moving beyond the “intercourse discourse” to embrace a more holistic view of sexual experiences that prioritizes mutual pleasure and absorption.Through his clinical work and research, Dr. Kerner has observed concerning trends among younger generations choosing partnerships without sexual chemistry, while also noting positive shifts in couples' openness to sexual exploration and toy incorporation. He provides practical frameworks for couples to examine and improve their “sexual scripts” - the patterns and behaviors that make up their intimate encounters.The conversation explores how couples can cultivate psychological arousal, maintain erotic connections between encounters, and create space for authentic sexual expression without judgment. Dr. Kerner shares valuable insights about the importance of both emotional safety and maintaining elements of mystery and desire in long-term relationships.Topics Covered:Rethinking traditional sexual scriptsCreating psychological arousal and intimacyThe role of foreplay vs coreplaySexual chemistry in choosing life partnersMaintaining desire in long-term relationshipsGuest Info:Website: IanKerner.comBooks: “She Comes First”, “So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex”Follow Me:Instagram: @afinehuman Shop Dame: dame.com This podcast was produced by The Wave Podcasting

Marvel's animated series 'What If...?' was released on Disney+. And it's a shame, because the first two seasons are some of the best storytelling the MCU has to offer, with multi-versal interpretations of some of our favorite Marvel characters! And sometimes these animated alternates find their way to the wider MCU, like the fan favorite Captain Carter! Now that Season 3 has concluded, it's time to search through the multiverse and answer a bunch of questions! What new characters does Season 3 introduce? Do they have origins on the comic page? Will we see these characters again? Join me and Geekscape's own Watcher, Ian Kerner, as we ask... What If...? You can also subscribe to the Geekscape podcast on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3H27uMH Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3BVrnkW Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Finally! Sony has released the final chapter in its Spider-Man-less Spider-Man villain series of films with 'Kraven: The Hunter'! Starring Aaron Taylor Johnson, Kraven's solo adventure sees him hunting down the bad people who deal drugs, run crime syndicates and do what he does in the comics: hunt animals! But that's not the only deviation from the source material! Ian Kerner joins me to pick through the spoils and compare and contrast Kraven, and the other surprise Marvel characters who appear, to the printed comic page! We'll also be giving you our final rankings of all 6 of these Spider-Man-less Sony Spiderverse films! You can also subscribe to the Geekscape podcast on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3H27uMH Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3BVrnkW Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Chapter 1:Summary of She Comes First"She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman" by Ian Kerner is a comprehensive guide focused on enhancing sexual pleasure and intimacy for women. The book emphasizes the importance of understanding female sexuality and prioritizing women's pleasure in sexual relationships.Kerner argues that many men lack knowledge about women's sexual anatomy and desires, leading to unsatisfactory experiences for both partners. He advocates for a shift in perspective, encouraging men to approach sex with a focus on women's pleasure—specifically through techniques such as oral sex and clitoral stimulation.Throughout the book, Kerner incorporates practical advice, anatomical illustrations, and step-by-step instructions for various sexual techniques. He also addresses common misconceptions about female sexuality and the importance of communication in cultivating a fulfilling sexual relationship.Ultimately, "She Comes First" serves as a resource for men seeking to improve their sexual experiences with women by fostering understanding, empathy, and skill in the art of pleasure. The book promotes a more intimate connection and better overall sexual satisfaction for both partners.Chapter 2:The Theme of She Comes First"She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman" by Ian Kerner is a relationship and sexual advice book focused on understanding female sexuality and enhancing intimacy. While the book is primarily non-fiction and instructional, it can still be analyzed for key ideas, themes, and character-like entities in the context of relationships. Here are some key points regarding character development, themes, and ideas presented in the book: Key Plot Points and Structure:1. Importance of Female Pleasure:- The primary argument is that physical intimacy should prioritize female pleasure. Kerner emphasizes that understanding women's bodies and desires can transform sexual experiences.2. Anatomy and Physiology:- Kerner provides detailed explanations of female anatomy, focusing on the clitoris, and breaks down the importance of understanding these physiological aspects to enhance sexual experiences.3. Techniques for Pleasuring Women:- The book introduces various techniques for oral sex and manual stimulation, providing practical advice on how to focus on a woman's pleasure.4. Communication and Consent:- Emphasizes the importance of open communication and consent in any sexual relationship, empowering both partners to express their desires and boundaries.5. Emotional Connection:- Kerner argues that emotional intimacy and connection are crucial for fulfilling sexual experiences. Understanding a partner's emotional needs is highlighted as key to overall pleasure. Character Development:- While the book does not have traditional characters, various archetypal figures are present, such as:- The Educated Man: Represents the reader who seeks to understand and improve his sexual and romantic experiences by gaining knowledge about women's sexuality.- The Empowered Woman: Embodies the ideal of a woman who knows her body and desires, encouraging men to prioritize her pleasure. This character serves as a model for understanding female sexual agency. Thematic Ideas:1. Sexual Equality:- The book promotes the idea that sexual satisfaction should not be a one-sided affair, advocating for balanced pleasure in sexual relationships.2. Breaking Taboos:- Kerner aims to dismantle societal taboos surrounding female sexuality, encouraging discussions that normalize women's desires and pleasures.3. Education and Awareness:- Stresses the importance of sexual education, suggesting that knowledge can lead to better sexual experiences both for men and...

Down, down, down the road... Down the Geekscape road... to a Jonathan and Ian Kerner breakdown of the full season of 'Agatha All Along'! The series has concluded and had some big shoes to fill as a sequel to Wanda Vision! So did it get crushed under a house? Or did these witches soar? I'll be breaking down all the ingredients with Ian as we discuss all 9 episodes, compare the characters in the show to their comic book origins, what the show's events mean for the larger MCU as a whole, and much more! Won't you walk down this road with us?!? You can also subscribe to the Geekscape podcast on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3H27uMH Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3BVrnkW Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode was originally released on January 20, 2018.  “I'm a 24-year-old woman who is completely and embarrassingly aroused by people who are confined to wheelchairs,” writes a woman who calls herself “Wishing to be Seen.” In her pained letter, she explains the possible origins of her isolating fetish and asks the Sugars for a way out: “I just want to have an orgasm with a real human rather than with my sad self, in my sad bed, sadly watching YouTube videos of women I feel I am objectifying and using.” “Wishing to Be Seen” is plagued by a single, shame-inducing fantasy, which Dr. Ian Kerner terms her “core erotic theme.” Where do our core erotic themes come from? And is it possible to escape their grip? In part two of our Dark Fantasies series, Dr. Kerner returns to help the Sugars answer these questions and delve deeper into the world of sexual fantasy. Dr. Kerner specializes in sex therapy and couples therapy. He's also the New York Times best-selling author of “She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman.” The Sugars Recommend “The Metal Bowl,” by Miranda July “The Erotic Mind,” by Jack Morin

Natasha is joined by Ian Kerner on this episdoe of the Natasha Helfer Podcast. Ian Kerner, PhD, LMFT  is the co-Director of the sex therapy program at the Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy and contributes regularly on the topic of sexual health for CNN. He is the New York Times best-selling author of "She Comes First" (Harper Collins) which has been translated into more than a dozen languages and he maintains a private practice in NYC dedicated to honoring the centrality of sexuality in his patients' lives. Natasha and Ian discuss sexual scripts and also refer to another one of his books, "So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex: Laying Bare and Learning to Repair Our Love Lives." To help keep this podcast going, please consider donating at natashahelfer.com and share this episode. To watch the video of this podcast, you can subscribe to Natasha's channel on Youtube and follow her professional Facebook page at natashahelfer LCMFT, CST-S. You can find all her cool resources at natashahelfer.com. This podcast addresses many topics around mental health and sexuality and may not be suitable for minors. Some topics may elicit a trigger or emotional response so please care for yourself accordingly. The views, thoughts and opinions expressed by our guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views or feelings of Natasha Helfer or the Natasha Helfer Podcast. We provide a platform for open and diverse discussions, and it is important to recognize that different perspectives may be shared. We encourage our listeners to engage in critical thinking and form their own opinions. The intro and outro music for these episodes is by Otter Creek. Thank you for listening. And remember: Symmetry is now offering Ketamine services. To find out more, go to symcounseling.com/ketamine-services.

This episode was originally released on January 13, 2018.  Orgies. Sex in public. Incest. These are the things that some of us think about in the dark. Taboo fantasies can be exciting, but they can also be the source of our deepest shame. In this two-part series on sexual fantasies, the Sugars read letters from people who want to turn off the thoughts that turn them on. Dr. Ian Kerner, a psychotherapist and sexuality counselor, helps the Sugars answer a letter from a woman who calls herself “Fed Up With Fantasy.” She writes, “Ever since I started being a sexual being I've had terrible fantasies. Incest of every kind. Teachers having sex with their underage students. Gangbangs in public bathrooms. I cannot get turned on without thinking of these story lines. Did something bad happen to me that I have repressed so much I don't even have a hint of it?” she asks. “And how do I make it stop?” Dr. Kerner and the Sugars explore where dark fantasies come from and offer “Fed Up With Fantasy” ways she can share them with her boyfriend. Dr. Kerner specializes in sex therapy and couples therapy. He's also The New York Times best-selling author of “She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman.”

We all know the standard: missionary, doggystyle, woman on top but have you ever heard of these...the Stand and Deliver, the Pearly Gates, the Pretzel? Maybe you're scratching your head right now. We hope you're at least intrigued and ready to join us on this fun, playful episode where we are talking all things sex positions! Inspired by an article in a recent issue of Men's Health by Ian Kerner, sex therapist and author of "She Comes First," George and Laurie are introducing listeners to these positions and many more. Our sexpert, Dr. Laurie breaks down how these positions increase pleasure for both partners and can increase the quality of orgasm, lover connection and maybe even some laughter to the bedroom. This is a spicy episode that you'll definitely want to listen to with the lover in your life!  Check out this episode's sponsor and help support the pod! cozyearth.com -- the softest, sexiest lounge wear and sheets! Laurie won't buy any others! Use the code Foreplay at checkout and get 30% off your order!! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The new Star Wars series 'The Acolyte' just wrapped its first season on Disney+. And were fans happy with what they got? Taking place 100 years before The Prequels, the series introduced all new characters, Jedi martial arts, and ideas about the Force to the established Star Wars canon. Some of those changes made some people crazy. But were there any highlights? Will we get a Season 2? More than anything, I think we were left with a lot of questions. Luckily, Ian Kerner is here to help me wade through all of mine as we discuss 'The Acolyte' on a brand new Geekscape podcast! You can also subscribe to the Geekscape podcast on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3H27uMH Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3BVrnkW Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

For the 154th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Ian Kerner for a long-term relationship sex rut reboot. Dr. Ian Kerner is a nationally recognized sex therapist and author of the smash hit She Comes First and the recently released So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex. He also coined the term "cliteracy" and is a Sherlock Holmes of the bedroom—a sexual detective helping individuals and couples solve the mystery of why they're not f*cking like they wish they were.  For more Ian Kerner: Order Ian's book So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex Follow Ian on Twitter @IanKerner Check out Ian's website iankerner.com Psst, Courtney has an 0nIyFan$, which is a horny way to support the show: https://linktr.ee/cocopeepshow Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Flure is a dating app where fun, wild, and safe collide. Download the Flure app, set your relationship goals—whether it's a long-term thing or a rendezvous with a hot stud—be real, be shamelessly you, and I promise, you'll have a blast! flure.com STDCheck.com is the leader in reliable and affordable lab-based STD testing. Just go to ppupod.com, click STDCheck, and use code Private to get $10 off your next STI test. Explore yourself and say yes to self-pleasure with Lovehoney. Save 15% off your next favorite toy from Lovehoney when you go to ppupod.com, click Lovehoney, and enter code Private at checkout. Fleshlight is the #1 selling male sex toy in the world. Fleshlight is offering Private Parts Unknown listeners 10% off with code PRIVATE10. Go to ppupod.com, click Fleshlight, and enter code PRIVATE10 at checkout. https://linktr.ee/PrivatePartsUnknownAds If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating and sexy review! —> ratethispodcast.com/private  Psst... sign up for our Private Parts Unknown newsletter for bonus content related to our episodes! privatepartsunknown.substack.com Let's be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram @privatepartsunknown and Twitter @privatepartsun. Connect with host Courtney Kocak @courtneykocak on Instagram and Twitter. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Marvel is back with a new live-action Disney+ series: ‘Echo'! Spinning out of the events from ‘Hawkeye', Echo sees Maya Lopez deal with the consequences of shooting Wilson Fisk. What happens when The Kingpin Wilson returns? Also returning is Ian Kerner as we talk about the 5 episode miniseries! What about Marvel cameos like Daredevil? What are the differences in the treatment of Echo in the comic books vs on screen? And when we might see Maya and these characters again? It's all on a new Geekscape! You can also subscribe to the Geekscape podcast on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3H27uMH Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3BVrnkW Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sheepdog (formerly WoundedSheepdog) joins the conversation. (Today's guest wishes to remain anonymous and will be referred to by his Twitter (X) handle.) My guest has been in a relationship for over 20 years, is a father, and has a lot of unique experiences to share with those who may be struggling in a sexless or sexually declining relationship. His tweets are inspirational, insightful, and accountable. So, if you are seeking motivation, I highly encourage you to follow him. Today's topic indulges the question, “How to encourage conscious relationships without endorsing the gender war.” Caution: this episode contains sexual topics. Sheepdog has been through an inspiring transformation and shares his background story and journey from emotionally retarded to emotionally intelligent. We discuss why the Red Pill Agenda is a harmful mindset that encourages men to see women as objects, not people. We also discuss why porn can be degrading to our beliefs about sex and intimacy and how porn can negatively impact our expectations. We then talk about how we learned there was so much more to sex than the basic flat concept floated around by social, cultural, and media narratives. Also, chatter about why taking the O out of the sex session can lead to better sex and connection. While being goal-oriented is an attribute to the boardroom, it isn't an attribute to the bedroom. Emotionally connected sex is THE BEST sex you can have, bar-none. Romance is important, rituals are important. It does not mean you are a “simp” or a “cuck” if you like to appreciate your lady or receive affection from your lady. Love isn't logical, nor does love aim to fit the mold of the Red Pill Agenda. We discuss the importance of touch, which is EVERY SINGLE PERSON'S LOVE LANGUAGE. Danielle talks about why it's important to see your spouse as a human being and not just some label or category or affiliation. We need to see each other as equal in value and worth. We must remember we are on the same team. Danielle expounds on an idea mentioned by Sheepdog in one instance regarding ego and speaks to why we sometimes straddle ego and authentic self in the bedroom, why we need a story line (mental arousal) while we are in present moment with the touchable, physical NOW. Sheepdog then highlights the trends of relationship orientations, such as “Trad-Con” relationships, in which the demands and expectations for this type of relationship demean and objectify women. How the Red Pill movement is really just an Agenda of Agent Smith. Must the man lead? And if he's unconscious, CAN he lead? What does it require for a man to lead? Sheepdog says patience! Then we take a dive into the controversial topic of infidelity and forgiveness. How do you take accountability for infidelity? What happens on Discovery Day (D-Day, as Sheepdog calls it)? How do you rebuild trust? Can you love again after an affair? Toward the end of the conversation, we share our learning and teaching experiences in the realm of parenting and specifically, how to talk to your children about sexuality and intimacy and how to encourage their curiosity. This episode is filled with so much substance, nuance, and two individual perspectives compassionately considering one another in an authentic, connected dialogue. Mentioned in this podcast: Zuby, Andrew Tate, Fresh and Fit Podcast, Red Pill Movement, Wife Worship, TradCon, Biblical Marriage, Obligatory sex, Chump Lady, Adam Lane Smith, She Comes First by Ian Kerner, LastaDolphin. For more insight and inspiration, be sure to follow today's guest on X (formerly Twitter- forever Twitter) https://twitter.com/Woundedsheepdog    

Marvel's newest cosmic, cinematic outing 'The Marvels' released this weekend, combining and continuing the adventures of 3 of their most powerful female characters: Captain Marvel, Ms. Marvel and Monica Rambeau! Based on box office receipts, the pundits are out in full force, claiming the MCUs most recent release is a sign of "superhero fatigue"... but is that what's really going on here? Blast off with Ian Kerner and I as we compare the film's storylines to their comic book counterparts, discuss its place in the MCU and why you shouldn't count 'The Marvels' out quite yet! You can also subscribe to the Geekscape podcast on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3H27uMH Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3BVrnkW Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The second season of Marvel's 'Loki' has come to a close, leaving me and Ian Kerner with a glorious purpose: to break it all down for you! How did the events in Season 2 compare to some of the classic (or more recent) Marvel storylines? Where do the events in the Finale leave our characters and the MCU moving forward? Does Marvel have "a Kang problem"? We'll be discussing this and more on a brand new Geekscape so check your TemPad and listen in! You can also subscribe to the Geekscape podcast on Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3H27uMH Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3BVrnkW Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode Dr. Rena Malik, a urologist and pelvic surgeon, is joined by Dr. Laurie Mintz, a sexual psychologist and author, to discuss the important topic of why penile size shouldn't matter for sexual pleasure. Dr. Mintz recently wrote a book called "Becoming Cliterate," which explores female pleasure and includes a chapter dedicated to men. The conversation covers the orgasm gap between men and women, the role of female anatomy in achieving orgasm, and the need for clitoral stimulation. They also address the use of toys and accessories in the bedroom and the importance of open communication with partners. Join us as we delve into these fascinating and important insights, challenging societal misconceptions and promoting sexual satisfaction for everyone. (affiliate links)Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters--And How to Get Itby Laurie Mintz: https://amzn.to/3G80En9She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman by Ian Kerner:https://amzn.to/3g2np1nQuit Porn Without 12-StepCan't quit porn? Get new tools to address the root cause so you can find freedomListen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySchedule an appointment: https://www.renamalikmd.com/appointments Buy your very own Take Care of Yourself water bottle or coffee mug: https://www.youtube.com/@RenaMalikMD/storeLet's Connect!:WEBSITE: http://www.renamalikmd.comYOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RenaMalikMDINSTAGRAM: http://www.instagram.com/RenaMalikMDTWITTER: http://twitter.com/RenaMalikMDFACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/RenaMalikMD/LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/renadmalikPINTEREST: https://www.pinterest.com/renamalikmd/TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/RenaMalikMD------------------------------------------------------DISCLAIMER: This podcast is purely educational and does not constitute medical advice. The content of this podcast is my personal opinion, and not that of my employer(s). Use of this information is at your own risk. Rena Malik, M.D. will not assume any liability for any direct or indirect losses or damages that may result from the use of information contained in this video including but not limited to economic loss, injury, illness or death.

*This episode includes sexually explicit language.We communicate about a lot of things with our romantic partner -- money, kids, career, food, and politics– but how often do you really TALK about sex? And if you do, are you doing it right? Best-selling author and sex therapist Ian Kerner breaks down how to talk about sex with your partner and explains why writing your personal sex script is key to sexual happiness. In 2004 he released the blockbuster best-selling book She Comes First. Ian's work has been featured in the Washington post, NYT, NPR, The Atlantic, and New York Magazine. He is the go-to expert on sex therapy and in his latest book,So Tell Me About The last Time You Had Sex, he suggests couples use a “sex script.” What is a sex script and how do you write one or follow it? Ian Kerner answers these questions, and guides us through writing our own sex script, in this episode of Ten Seconds to Air.Ian Kerner Website:https://www.iankerner.com/

Marvel's 'Secret Invasion' might be the most glaring sign among fans that the MCU has turned a dark corner since the glory days of the Infinity Gauntlet saga... but is it really deserving of all the criticism? Is the spy story of Nick Fury trying to stop a Skrull invasion of earth not without some real highlights? What does an incredible all star cast add to the mix? Well, you're just going to have to listen to Ian Kerner and me sift through all the clues do see what can be gleamed from this latest chapter of the MCU! You can also subscribe to the Geekscape podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3BVrnkW Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3H27uMH Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Abundant Positivity is the theme for Day 3 of San Diego Comic Con! And things turn around for the better as this was the best day yet! Eric Nguyen and Scott Burman of 'White Savior' drop by to sign comics! Ian Kerner gives us his breakdown of SDCC 2023! Derek Kraneveldt talks the changes in his SDCC habits during the strike year! And 'Attack of the Killer Tomatoes' creator Costa Dillon visits to tell the story of creating the cult franchise and where it's headed! Plus there's a ton more from the Geekscape team in this one so ENJOY! You can also subscribe to the Geekscape podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3BVrnkW Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3H27uMH Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Kerner is a licensed psychotherapist and nationally recognized sexuality counselor, best known for his New York Times best-selling book "She Comes First." His expert insights on sex therapy, couples therapy, and relational issues regularly grace prestigious media outlets such as The Atlantic, The New York Times, The Economist, and NPR. Our candid and enlightening conversation with Dr. Kerner covers an array of topics, from the importance of communication and self-compassion in sex and relationships to the common misconceptions about men and women in these contexts. We delve deep into the nuances of the sexual experience, exploring the three phases of sex, the role of fantasy, and the differences between men and women in the bedroom. Host: Brent Franson, Founder & CEO, Most Days Guest: Dr. Ian Kerner Music: Patrick Lee Production: Artifact  

Finally, after years of development, production, and controversy, the DCEU's 'The Flash' film hit theaters! But was it worth all that trouble with a corporate reset on the horizon? Or was this multiverse-spanning adventure just what we fans needed? Is it possible that it could be both of those things and more? How was Michael Keaton's return as Bruce Wayne? Or the introduction of Sasha Calle's Supergirl? Does this film really set things up cleanly for James Gunn's new DCEU? And what would we love to see carried over? There is a LOT to talk about in this film as Ian Kerner and I are joined by Christian Bladt and Garrett Briones in a true Geekscape Crisis Crossover! Let's get nuts! You can also subscribe to the Geekscape podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3BVrnkW Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3H27uMH Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Isn't it ironic and kind of sad that having kids can wreak havoc on a marriage and your sex life? Today, get ready to get your mojo back and rekindle the spark with your spouse thanks to renowned licensed psychotherapist and nationally recognized sex counselor Ian Kerner. Ian Kerner, who is a PhD and LMFT specializes in sex therapy, couples therapy and working with individuals on a range of relational issues that often lead to distress. Ian is regularly quoted as an expert in across all media outlets. He's a regular on the Today Show and in CNN HealthThe Atlantic, The New York Times, The Economist and NPR. He gives lectures on sex and relationships, with recent presentations at NYU, Yale, Princeton, the Ackerman Institute and TED 2021. Ian is the New York Times best-selling author of She Comes First (Harper Collins) which has been translated into over a dozen languages. His new book, So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex was recently published by Hachette. Ian lives in New York with his wife, two sons and two dogs. He maintains a private practice in NYC dedicated to honoring the centrality of sexuality in his patients' lives. Meet My Guest: WEBSITE: IanKerner.com FACEBOOK: /IanKernerLMFT Mom Haul: CORAL MOBILE APP: Relationship Self-Care App WE VIBE: Couples' Vibrator OMGYES.COM: The Science of Women's Pleasure

Sex therapist Ian Kerner hears about a common problem from his patients: "failure to launch," or the inability to build and maintain sexual momentum. What's the solution? Whether you're looking to reignite the spark in your relationship or reconnect with your own desire, Kerner shares advice on how to cultivate your erotic imagination and get back on the "arousal runway." Note: This talk contains mature content. In order to protect patient privacy, the speaker has combined or adjusted several patients' experiences.

Click to subscribe to my email list & for a chance to win one of Ian's books here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ Today I am joined by Ian Kerner, PhD, LMFT. He's a licensed psychotherapist, a nationally recognized sex therapist and a New York Times Best Selling Author. As a fan of his work I am thrilled to be able to share our conversation about the pleasure gap and how both men and women can work together to bring more sexuality equality into the bedroom. To learn more about Ian, visit his website here: https://www.iankerner.com/ If you're interested in buying his books: So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex She Comes First Passionista (As an Amazon Associate I may earn from qualifying purchases) To check out the show's new website or to leave a voice message for Rory click here: https://www.crimesoftheheartpod.com/ For video clips from this episode or to follow Rory on INSTAGRAM click @icouldbeblonder and on TIKTOK @roryuphold Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? We would LOVE to hear from you! Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or DM on Instagram & TikTok SHOW NOTES: Welcome to Crimes of the Heart, the podcast that delves into the taboo complexities of human relationships. In our latest episode, we sit down with sex therapist Ian Kerner to discuss how his work can help save relationships and sex lives. He emphasizes the importance of healthy communication and open discussion about sexual desires and fantasies in relationships. Our conversation touches on the growing popularity of non-monogamy among couples, the challenges women face in achieving orgasm during partnered sex, and the importance of prioritizing sexual attraction when choosing a partner. We also discuss the significance of foreplay and the misconception that intercourse is the only form of sex. Join us as we explore the complexities of female orgasm and the importance of mental and emotional factors. Don't miss out on this thought-provoking and informative episode of Crimes of the Heart. Subscribe now and enter for a chance to win a copy of Ian Kerner's book! TOPICS INCLUDE: - Talking about sexual fantasies - Prioritizing sexual attraction - The significance of foreplay - Shifting to outer course - The importance of sensual kissing - Relational vs. recreational sex - Compatibility in relationships - Complexity of female orgasm - Building a "sex script" - Communicating from a vulnerable space Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Laurie Mintz joins Dr. Solomon for a conversation about all things pleasure, from the orgasm gap to sexual myths to vibrators, offering inspiration and encouragement to both individuals and couples as they seek to reignite and reconnect with their desire and sexual identity.Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters--And How to Get It by Dr. Laurie Mintz:https://bookshop.org/p/books/becoming-cliterate-why-orgasm-equality-matters-and-how-to-get-it-laurie-mintz/6438079?ean=9780062664556A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex: Reclaim Your Desire and Reignite Your Relationship by Dr. Laurie Mintz:https://bookshop.org/p/books/a-tired-woman-s-guide-to-passionate-sex-reclaim-your-desire-and-reignite-your-relationship-laurie-b-mintz/19853981?ean=9781605501079She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman by Dr. Ian Kerner:https://bookshop.org/p/books/she-comes-first-the-thinking-man-s-guide-to-pleasuring-a-woman-ian-kerner/7910727?ean=9780060538262Get the brand new REIMAGINING LOVE WORKBOOK:https://courses.dralexandrasolomon.com/reimagining-love-workbook-0c34cba5-a457-4253-b7d7-9ca051dc0326Subscribe to Dr. Solomon's Newsletter:https://dralexandrasolomon.com/subscribe/Submit a Listener Question:https://form.jotform.com/212295995939274Take Dr. Solomon's "Relationship Superpower" Quiz:https://dralexandrasolomon.com/rsa-quiz/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 25 dives right into the bedroom! Lauren's recently been rereading Ian Kerner's book: SHE COMES FIRST and she has some juicy questions for Trey.  But, before they launch into the subject of communicating their way to better and more patient sex, Trey shares one of his favorite phrases, "Are you asking for advice or do you want me just to listen?" They discuss why this term has been so helpful to their partnership and Lauren even goes so far as to say that, "If we cannot feel vulnerable enough to communicate with our partners, there is no way that our sex is going to improve. Because better sex requires better communication." Throughout this episode, they discuss female arousal times and even tell a story about a recent work day where Lauren had to embrace the slow build, fight feelings of inadequacy, and trust that there was plenty of patience for her AND that Trey would communicate if he needed to be done. Since Trey has not read Ian's book (spoiler!) Lauren asks him to share where and how he learned to provide oral and manual pleasure to the vulva and clitoris. Trey asks Lauren how she moves through personal frustration when arousal is taking longer than desired, and she shares how she avoids using negative phrases at all costs! They both realize that their favorite go-to-phrase is, "are you comfy?" This code allows them both to continue chasing pleasure while checking in with the other's body.  They discuss the power of coaching one another up in the sex they want and HOW they want it and close this episode out by sharing the power of celebrating the unique sexual desires of all humans. If you'd like to learn how to understand YOUR process of arousal or how to communicate what you want in the bedroom, schedule a FREE 15-minute consult with Lauren today! https://sexedforyou.as.me/freeconsult⁠ Lauren loves equipping couples with tools to communicate their sexual needs, wants and desires! Reminder: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how they" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It's all up to you. Looking to expand your own sexuality education in the new year? Check out Lauren's monthly membership program, HEMLOCK. At only $10 a month you'll have access to the tools you need to begin to reclaim your sexuality for yourself!⁠ https://sexedforyou.com/hemlock  ⁠ Want to make your own podcast? We cannot recommend Spotify for Podcasters enough. Visit⁠ https://podcasters.spotify.com/ to launch your podcast today. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thepartnershippodcast/support

James Gunn's 'Guardians of the Galaxy Vol. 3' blasted into theaters this weekend as a proper send-off to the MCU's current Guardians team. And with it arrived fan-favorite characters like Adam Warlock and The High Evolutionary! But who even are these characters or the new additions to the Guardians team? Does the third Guardians film crash and burn or soar into space? Does it mark a return to classic form for Marvel's massive film universe? And where do the events of this film leave the MCU as a whole? Or these characters? How do they compare to their comic book counterparts? There's a lot to discuss with Ian Kerner this time around so definitely don't miss it! You can also subscribe to the Geekscape podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3BVrnkW Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3H27uMH Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It seems like just yesterday that Star Wars fans were getting their first adventures with Din Djarin and baby Jedi Grogu... or even their actual names! And now Disney has just wrapped up their 3rd Season of the Mandalorian! And now the questions begin anew! Did Season 3 hold up to the standards of Seasons 1 and 2? What were the highs and lows for Din, Bo Kataan, Grogu and the new characters introduced? How does this expand the Star Wars universe? And what comes next? Luckily, Ian Kerner joins me to help throw out the Bantha fodder and break it all down on a new Geekscape special for 'The Mandalorian' Season 3! You can also subscribe to the Geekscape podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3BVrnkW Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3H27uMH Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ian Kerner, PhD, LMFT is a licensed psychotherapist and nationally recognized sex therapist who works with individuals and couples on a range of relational issues that often lead to distress. Ian is the bestselling author of She Comes First, an essential guidebook for pleasuring women, praised by The New York Times for its "cool sense of humor and an obsessive desire to inform." It encourages men to put down the remote and engage in oral sex Read his book here: https://www.amazon.com/She-Comes-First-Thinking-Pleasuring/dp/0060538260

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'Shazam! Fury of the Gods' has flown into theaters... but did it arrive with the fury of a lightning bolt or fizzle as one of the last remnants of the established DCEU? Well, we've got answers! Ian Kerner joins me to talk about the soaring highs and potential lows of Zach Levi's latest appearance as Billy Batson, the boy who can summon the powers of the gods! Does this really mark the end of the Shazam films? How does the sequel compare to the fun original? Is 'The Flash' really going to mark the end of these characters or did this film surprise us with some clues to the future? I'm pretty excited to talk to Ian about this one specifically so you're not going to want to miss it! You can also subscribe to the Geekscape podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3BVrnkW Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3H27uMH Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The MCU starts Phase 5 off with 'Ant-Man and the Wasp: Quantumania'! Scott Lang, Hope Van Dyne and the Pyms return to battle their biggest foe yet: Kang the Conquerer! So I join Geekscape's own multi-versal warlord Ian Kerner to talk about the film and compare it to the comics! What parts felt straight from the books and what parts were added to make things work on the big screen? Who is Kang and why is he really bad news for the rest of the Marvel universe? What might need to be phased out of this phase going forward? And where do these characters go from here? There's lots to talk about! You can also subscribe to the Geekscape podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3BVrnkW Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3H27uMH Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What is sex therapy and how is it different from other forms of therapy? What are some common concerns explored through sex therapy? What should you expect from a sex therapist and sessions alone or with partner(s)?In this episode, Effy and Jacqueline chat with nationally recognized sex therapist and the author of She Comes First and So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex, Dr. Ian Kerner. They discuss the advantages of sex therapy for those who are looking to address struggles around erotic intimacy and sexuality, solo or with partners. Ian shares his practical and solutions-focused approach, which takes a closer look at people's sexual scripts by analyzing the last time they had sex.To learn more about Ian KernerIan Kerner, PhD, LMFT is a licensed psychotherapist and nationally recognized sex therapist who works with individuals and couples on a range of relational issues that often lead to distress. He lectures frequently on topics related to sex and relationships, with recent presentations for the Psychotherapy Networker Symposium, the Ackerman Institute, Tony Robbins, The Society for Sex Therapy and Research and TED 2021. Ian is the New York Times best-selling author of She Comes First (Harper Collins) which has been translated into more than a dozen languages and more recently So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex. He is the co-founder and co-director of the Sex Therapy program at the Institute for Contemporary Psychology. He lives with his family in New York City. Website: iankerner.comResource: aasect.orgSupport the showConnect with us on IG and more:Curious Fox @wearecuriousfoxesEffy Blue @coacheffyblueJacqueline Misla @jacquelinemisla Email us: listening@wearecuriousfoxes.comLeave us a voicemail: 646-450-9079 Join the conversation: fb.com/WeAreCuriousFoxes

Ian Kerner is the New York Times best-selling author of She Comes First as well as the recently published So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex.

'The Guardians of the Galaxy Holiday Special' brings Marvel's Phase 4 to a joyful close with a bite-sized amount of holiday cheer! But is James Gunn's second to last visit with The Guardians just a light piece of entertainment? Or does it contain clues and ramifications for the future of the MCU? Ian Kerner and I sit down to rejoice and talk things over! You can also subscribe to the Geekscape podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3BVrnkW Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3H27uMH Subscribe to Geekscape on Apple Podcasts! Follow Jonathan on Twitter and Instagram!Join the Geekscape Forever Facebook Group!Visit Geekscape.net for more Geekscape goodness! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

An episode from the vault - and everyone gets the full show today. I'm joined by Dr Ian Kerner as we discuss his new book So Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex. Our conversations last week were all about the scripts we have in our sex lives. That's what Dr Kerner's book is all about. To learn more about Ian visit his site - https://www.iankerner.com/ Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Manscaped: Get 20% off and free shipping on the worlds best grooming products for men. Use the code SMR at  https://manscaped.com Better Help: This episode is also brought to you by Better Help - online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr The post Your Sex Scripts Revisited | Dr Ian Kerner #599 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

An episode from the vault - and everyone gets the full show today. I'm joined by Dr Ian Kerner as we discuss his new book So Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex. Our conversations last week were all about the scripts we have in our sex lives. That's what Dr Kerner's book is all about. To learn more about Ian visit his site - https://www.iankerner.com/ Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Manscaped: Get 20% off and free shipping on the worlds best grooming products for men. Use the code SMR at  https://manscaped.com Better Help: This episode is also brought to you by Better Help - online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr

An episode from the vault - and everyone gets the full show today. I'm joined by Dr Ian Kerner as we discuss his new book So Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex. Our conversations last week were all about the scripts we have in our sex lives. That's what Dr Kerner's book is all about. To learn more about Ian visit his site - https://www.iankerner.com/ Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Manscaped: Get 20% off and free shipping on the worlds best grooming products for men. Use the code SMR at  https://manscaped.com Better Help: This episode is also brought to you by Better Help - online counseling services accessible from anywhere. Save 10% on your first month https://betterhelp.com/smr The post Your Sex Scripts Revisited | Dr Ian Kerner #599 appeared first on Sexy Marriage Radio.

*During the school holidays we'll be sharing memories from interviews with Justin's favourite guests*Today's guest - Sex Therapist, Ian KernerTo become a Happy Families member, find out more here, Happy Families Membership.Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

*During the school holidays we'll be sharing memories from interviews with Justin's favourite guests* Today's guest - Sex Therapist, Ian Kerner To become a Happy Families member, find out more here, Happy Families Membership. Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families Email us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au

Whether you had to think for awhile or you can recall your last time like that, we're chatting with She Comes First author and sex therapist Ian Kerner about the pleasures of sex and how sex can help us bring us closer to our partners (and in light of everything going on, we all need that reminder more than ever!). We discuss the importance of being 'cliterate' and not just putting the emphasis on intercourse, how you can start to explore in the bedroom in a way that doesn't seem as intimidating, and the important sex trends you need to know that are happening right now. TW: In the intro we also talk about abortion rights and the overturning of Roe v. Wade Learn more about Ian Kerner: https://www.iankerner.com/ and check out his latest book 'So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex' Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboardThank you to our partners for this episode:Filter Off: Try the new dating app where you date people not profiles and receive 5 extra daily picks at https://www.getfilteroff.com/ with the code DATEMEDrizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphotoDateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcastsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

It's time for another episode featuring one of the other podcasts in the network we're a part of. This week we're featuring Sex Talk with My Mom, where Cam and KarenLee talk about sex and sex scripts with Dr. Ian Kerner, author of So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex: Laying Bare and Learning to Repair Our Love Lives. If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of like-minded listeners at patreon.com/Multiamory. You can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, bonus episodes, and more! Get hair care that is completely customized to your hair and your life AND get 15% off at Prose.com/multiOrder a sexy gift box from our sponsor, Like a Kitten, and get 20% off with our code MULTI at LikeAKitten.com/multi Get better sleep with a Helix mattress customized for you. Try it for 100 nights, risk-free, get 2 free pillows and $200 off your order at helixsleep.com/multi Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Please send us your feedback and questions to info@multiamory.com, find us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast, tweet at us @Multiamory, check out our Facebook Page, visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network.