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172- Who Are You Not to Write This Book? Embrace Your Message and Make a Difference Welcome to our empowering podcast, designed to fuel the aspirations of budding authors like you. Our episodes revolve around crucial subjects such as writing, publishing, and book promotion. We also proudly showcase author journeys and book highlights, all aimed at unlocking the doors to your success as a writer.
A lot of us are so busy getting a check, planning that next BIG move, or just trying to hold ourselves above water. Lala brought us a topic that had us questioning "Who Are You?" Not so much of what you do professionally, but what drives you? What is your reason for pushing through? Some of us struggle with this and some of us are in our zones. We're discussing how to stop living in that 10% of what matters most, and allowing God to open our lives to be living 100% Gucci! God didn't create us to pay bills and go to work. We are ELEVATING today!
Ryan Michler is the founder of the Order of Man blog and podcast which helps men to master the 8 core areas of their life. He is also the founder of his own financial planning firm and a veteran of the Iraqi war. Favorite Success Quote “I am an old man and have known a great many troubles, and most of them never happened”~Mark Twain Key Points 1. Most of Your Fears Will Never Be Realized Something that most men never realize until it is too late, is that most of the things that they fear will never come to fruition, and lead lives of quiet desperation, paralyzed by fear, and unable to take action. Odds are, if you start that business you won't go bankrupt, if you take that trip you won't get kidnapped and murdered, if you ask that girl out you won't get wine splashed on your face and cursed out. Most of your fears are completely irrational and will never actually happen. Realize this, take the steps necessary to mitigate risks, and GET ON LIVING! 2. Who Are You Not to Start? One of the questions that inevitably comes up for most men whenever they look to start a business, improve their body, or their dating lives is “Who am I to do this?” Let me ask you a better question “Who are you not to do this?” Are you really so selfish that you would rob the world of your gifts, talents, and abilities out of fear? Are you really so selfish that you would rob your family, your friends, and your country of the amazing changes and difference that you can bring about simply because you don't feel worthy? How dare you even consider keeping your gifts inside of you! You have a responsibility to share yourself and your gifts with the world, in fact, you cannot be a “real” man until you do so. 3. Take Small Steps to Get Where You Want Whenever you have a big goal, it's easy to get frustrated and overwhelmed with how far you are from your goal. But the simple way to get around this frustration is to take small daily action. If you want to start a business, begin by simply writing on your blog every night for an hour after work, if you want to get in better shape, start by doing 10 pushups every morning and adding one each day, if you want to get better with women, start by just casually talking to girls in line at the grocery store. Your goals don't have to be big and scary. Start small and keep taking daily actions and you will get there. 5. Self Mastery is About Virtue Often times, people wonder what the meaning of self master is, and simply put, it's about mastering virtue. It's about integrity and doing the right thing even when it's hard. It's about saying no to watching adult websites even though you want to, about saying no to having another drink despite the jeers of your social circle, it's about staying faithful to your spouse, and it's about doing what you said you would do no matter what.
In Episode 474 I discuss: *having as much information as you can, and then going *taking action is how you can learn *avoiding information overload Listen to the latest Women Wanting More episode on iTunes here. MORE TIP Where are you postponing and making excuses for something in your life? What is it costing you to not execute, and what is it costing others? Past Related Episodes for #474 Episode 327: Choose To Show Up Episode 267: What is the Cost of Your Inaction on Others? Episode 241: Who Are You NOT to Be? Go Shop NOW at the WWM Store {FREE Shipping Special!} Get your FREE Limited Edition WWM Journal HERE Grab your copy of The MORE Journal System HERE Request to be added to the NEW Women Wanting MORE Experience Private FB Group here Join the NEW Women Wanting More Sisterhood (get your 7 Day FREE Trial-limited spots left) Follow me on Instagram here Follow me on Pinterest here Like the Women Wanting MORE Facebook Page here Visit my Website here
In Episode 471 I discuss: *having everything you want, even if circumstances don't make it easy *being there for your spouse and giving each other what you need *the majority of the world living in the mindset of scarcity Listen to the latest Women Wanting More episode on iTunes here. MORE TIP What part of your life are you saying "it's either this, or that?" What would you need to do to change that from an "either/or" to an "and." Past Related Episodes for #471 Episode 223: Scarcity Will Bury You Episode 241: Who Are You Not to Be? Episode 304: The Story That You Tell Yourself the Most… Go Shop NOW at the WWM Store Get your FREE Limited Edition WWM Journal HERE Grab your copy of The MORE Journal System HERE Request to be added to the NEW Women Wanting MORE Experience Private FB Group here Join the NEW Women Wanting More Sisterhood (get your 7 Day FREE Trial-limited spots left) Follow me on Instagram here Follow me on Pinterest here Like the Women Wanting MORE Facebook Page here Visit my Website here
In Episode 291 I discuss: *how as I am one day away from my 48th birthday, I have never felt or looked better *that age really is just a number *the KEY to getting better over time is how you LOVE yourself, and how you feel on the inside * the external things we do to care for ourself (fitness, nutrition, beauty products, clothes) are EASY....it's the internal work that is harder and takes time Listen to the latest Women Wanting More episode on iTunes here. MORE TIP Take out your Journal. Write at the top: I am _______ years old (your age), and this is AMAZING because...... Write for 10-15 minutes to see what insights come up for you. RESOURCES Episode 276: The Magic that is YOU Episode 241: Who Are You Not to Be? Episode 159: What is the Story You Tell Yourself? Get your Complimentary Ticket for WWM Live (ONLY 24 tickets left) Join the NEW Women Wanting More Sisterhood (get your 7 Day FREE Trial-limited spots left) Like the Women Wanting MORE Facebook Page here Request to be added to the Women Who Want MORE closed FB group here Visit my Website here
In Episode 289 I discuss: *whenever you come across challenges in your Life, there are 2 questions to ask yourself to help get clear when you are stuck in your stories: 1. What do I want right now? 2. If not, WHO do I have to BEcome to get what I want? *how these 2 questions were KEY for getting through 2 really hard days this past week *my DEEP Why with Women Wanting MORE and how my way out of my darkness all came back to Power Listen to the latest Women Wanting More episode on iTunes here. MORE TIP 1. Journal for 15 minutes about a situation you have in your Life right now that you wish was different. Ask yourself these 2 questions: 1. Is THIS what I want right now? 2. WHO do I have to become to get what I want? RESOURCES Episode 241: Who Are You Not to Be? Episode 214: I Know Who I AM Episode 133: ...Because It's What We Want Get your Complimentary Ticket for WWM Live (ONLY 25 tickets left) Join the NEW Women Wanting More Sisterhood (get your 7 Day FREE Trial-limited spots left) Like the Women Wanting MORE Facebook Page here Request to be added to the Women Who Want MORE closed FB group here Visit my Website here