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Breakup coach Dorothy, outlines the steps to get over your ex without it “just taking time”. She has combined her background in psychology with her life coach certification tools to provide actionable insights so that you're not only learning the why but you're learning the HOW to getting over your…

Breakup Coach Dorothy


    • May 19, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
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    The How to Get Over Your Ex podcast is a life-changing resource for anyone who is struggling with the aftermath of a breakup or divorce. Hosted by breakup coach Dorothy, this podcast offers valuable insights, actionable steps, and a supportive community for healing and moving on. Dorothy's ability to break down the model and explain it clearly is commendable, making it accessible to listeners with different backgrounds and experiences.

    One of the best aspects of this podcast is Dorothy's expertise and understanding of what individuals going through a breakup are experiencing. She addresses common struggles such as feeling betrayed, bitterness, and bringing past baggage into new situations. Her episodes provide practical advice that listeners can apply in their own lives to change their thought patterns and feel better. Dorothy's guests also add value by sharing their personal stories and perspectives.

    However, one aspect that could be improved is the lack of representation for older audiences or those who have experienced loss of family units or initiated the breakup themselves. It would be beneficial for Dorothy to occasionally address these specific situations and provide guidance tailored to those experiences.

    In conclusion, The How to Get Over Your Ex podcast is an invaluable resource that provides much-needed support for individuals navigating the complexities of a breakup or divorce. Through insightful episodes, actionable steps, and a compassionate approach, Dorothy helps listeners heal their hearts and create the lives they want. Whether you're in the midst of a breakup or long after it has happened, this podcast offers guidance and inspiration for moving forward.



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    Latest episodes from How to Get Over Your Ex

    Ep. 291 - When your ex is wrong… but you're the one still suffering

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2025 12:50


    You're furious and you can't stop thinking about it. Your ex said or did something you completely disagree with, and even though you understand how they might see it that way, you know they're wrong. The anger feels endless, and the more you think about it, the worse it gets. In this episode, I'm breaking down why rage after a breakup sticks around longer than it should, why it's really there, and how to finally move past it without needing your ex to agree with you. You'll learn the hidden role anger is playing in your healing, the three-step process to break out of the rage cycle, and how to take your power back when you're stuck in mental arguments you can't win. If you feel trapped replaying what they said and how wrong they were, you cannot miss this episode. The Get Over Your Ex Program: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/getoveryourex/

    Ep. 290 - Stuck on Your Ex Because You Think No One Else Will Measure Up?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2025 13:29


    You're stuck thinking your ex was the only person you could ever truly want and every time you meet someone new, your brain seems to prove it. In this episode, we break down why you're not just missing your ex, you're caught in what I call a "mental hostage situation." I'll show you how your brain is running two hidden tracks at once, how they're keeping you stuck, and the simple shift that breaks the loop. If you feel like no one could ever measure up to your ex, this episode will change how you see everything and open up possibilities you can't even see yet. The Get Over Your Ex Program: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/getoveryourex/ The Breakup First Aid LIVE (Replays): https://dorothyabjohnson.com/breakupfirstaidlive/ The Breakup Toolkit: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/breakuptoolkit/

    Ep. 289 - The fear you'll never fall in love again

    Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2025 14:28


    You're terrified you'll never experience love again. Every dating app swipe feels empty, every "moving on" advice rings hollow, and deep down, you wonder if your chance at real love died with your relationship. But what if this fear isn't what's actually holding you back? In this episode, I'm exposing the hidden thought patterns keeping you locked in post-breakup limbo and sharing the exact mindset shift that transformed my clients' relationship with love after heartbreak. If you're haunted by the question "What if they were my last chance at love?" — this is the episode you need to hear. The Get Over Your Ex in 3 months or less program: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/getoveryourex

    Stop Obsessing Over Your Ex in 60 Minutes Flat (Join My Free Live Event)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2025 3:05


    Your ex left, but the thoughts didn't. Join Breakup Coach Dorothy for a free 2-day live experience that will completely change your relationship with your breakup. In this quick episode, she reveals what you'll discover during Breakup First Aid LIVE and why this approach works when conventional breakup advice fails. Breakup First Aid LIVE: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/breakupfirstaidlive/

    Ep. 288 - The part of you that your ex hated? It's actually your secret weapon

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 28, 2025 11:09


    That quality you hate most about yourself? It might actually be your greatest strength. In this episode, I share how one of my clients discovered her "indecisiveness" was actually her hidden superpower and how this revelation transformed her healing journey. I'll walk you through the exact 5-step process to identify, reframe, and embrace the parts of yourself you've been at war with (often the same parts your ex criticized). When you finally love what you've been taught to hate, you don't just heal faster, you unlock the secret to building a life that's genuinely bigger and better than the one you had with your ex. The Get Over Your Ex Program: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/getoveryourex/

    The Breakup Toolkit: Your 911 for Those 2AM Ex Thoughts

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2025 2:41


    In this quick episode, Breakup Coach Dorothy reveals why you're still obsessed with your ex (hint: it's not because they were "the one") and introduces her free Breakup Toolkit that's helped thousands stop the 2AM thought spirals and social media checking. If you're tired of conventional advice that doesn't work, this 3-minute episode could change everything. Download the toolkit now: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/breakuptoolkit/ 

    Ep. 287 - Stop forcing yourself to “get over” your ex when you don't want to

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2025 10:22


    You can't get over your ex. You've tried everything—journaling, therapy, unfollowing them, throwing yourself into work—but nothing sticks. Here's the uncomfortable truth: maybe you're stuck because you're forcing yourself to "move on" when deep down, that's not what you actually want. In this episode, I'm sharing a powerful mindset shift from a recent coaching session that completely transformed how my client approached her breakup healing. If you've been beating yourself up for still wanting your ex back, this episode will give you the permission and practical steps to find authentic relief without forcing yourself into an emotional state you're not ready for. The Get Over Your Ex Program: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/getoveryourex/

    Ep. 286 - Turning Betrayal into Brilliance: Lessons from Ariana Madix

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2025 16:36


    When Ariana Madix discovered her partner's betrayal on national television, no one expected what happened next: one of the most spectacular post-breakup transformations we've ever witnessed. In this episode, I break down the exact mindset shifts that allowed Ariana to not just survive her heartbreak but absolutely thrive in its aftermath. If you're struggling to see how your life can possibly get better after a devastating split, this episode will show you exactly how to engineer your own post-breakup glow up… not just to show your ex what they're missing, but to create a life that's genuinely bigger and better than the one you had before.   The Get Over Your Ex Program: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/getoveryourex/

    Ep. 285 - The hidden freedom in letting go: Why we cling to people who don't choose us

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2025 17:16


    In this episode, I reveal the counterintuitive truth about why letting go feels impossible (even when holding on is blocking everything you want), and the unexpected place where freedom is actually hiding. If you've been feeling like you know exactly what you need to do to move on from your ex but haven't been able to actually "do it", it's a must listen. You'll discover a simple 3-step mental shift that finally breaks the cycle of attachment… without the struggle you've experienced so far. By the end of this episode, you'll have a clear path to stop caring so much about your ex and start channeling that energy into building the bigger, better life that's waiting for you. Most importantly, you'll see how letting go isn't about losing something, it's about creating the exact runway needed for the love and life you truly want to finally arrive. The Get Over Your Ex Program: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/getoveryourex/

    Ep. 284 - Why We Wait: 5 Steps to Transform Fear Into Life-Changing Choices

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2025 32:46


    That life-changing decision you've been putting off? It's not procrastination, it's fear masquerading as "I need more time." Dorothy reveals how she shattered months of paralyzing indecision about her housing situation in just 20 minutes with the right guidance. The real reason we wait until the final hour isn't lack of information, it's our invisible ceiling of comfort protecting us from the unknown. Every day you postpone is silently draining your potential, one "maybe tomorrow" at a time. In this episode, you'll get the exact 5-step framework to transform your fear into decisive action. That flutter in your stomach when facing a big decision isn't a warning, growth calling. This isn't just content; it's the permission slip you've been waiting for to finally make the choice your future self is begging you to make. The Bigger & Better Life Mastermind: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/biggerbetterlifemastermind/

    Ep. 283 - The gap between "I can't do this" and "I am": The evolution nobody talks about

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2025 22:32


    In this raw and revealing episode, Dorothy opens up about her journey through motherhood and entrepreneurship, sharing the profound realization that changed everything: the gap between "I can't do this" and "I am." Through vulnerable stories of 3 AM doubts and unexpected breakthroughs, she reveals how our most limiting thoughts often appear right before our greatest expansions. If you've created a life beyond what your heartbroken self could imagine but still feel like there's another level to reach, this episode illuminates why ceiling-breaking isn't a one-time event but a lifelong practice. Discover why "bigger and better" is a direction not a destination, why new ceilings don't invalidate past growth, and how to recognize when you're solving the wrong problems. For anyone wondering "what's next?" after healing from heartbreak, this conversation will transform how you view your evolution. The Bigger & Better Life Mastermind (Closes March 31st): https://dorothyabjohnson.com/biggerbetterlifemastermind/

    Ep. 282 - Your ex isn't holding you back anymore. THIS is.

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2025 20:28


    In this eye-opening episode, Dorothy challenges you to confront what's actually holding you back long after you've "healed" from your breakup. Discover why so many people who are "over their ex" still find themselves recreating similar patterns and limitations in their new life. Learn the three critical mindset shifts that shatter this and allow you to quantum leap into the extraordinary life you deserve. If you've done all the right healing work but still don't wake up feeling like you've won the lottery every day, this episode will transform how you view your potential and what's truly possible for your post-breakup evolution. The Bigger & Better Life Mastermind: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/biggerbetterlifemastermind/

    Ep. 281 - How to stop thinking about your ex all the time

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2025 12:17


    You can't stop thinking about your ex, and it's exhausting. No matter what you do, they're always on your mind—replaying memories, overanalyzing what went wrong, wondering if they miss you too. It feels like you have no control over it. But what if you could? In this episode, I'm giving you a simple, two-step process to break the mental loop and finally get relief. No fluff, no vague advice—just exactly what to do to stop obsessing over your ex and start feeling like yourself again. If you're sick of them taking up space in your head, this episode is a must-listen. The Get Over Your Ex Course: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/getoveryourexcourse/

    Ep. 280 - The real reason you're still stuck on your ex

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2025 14:36


    You're stuck on your ex, and you don't know why. You've tried everything—cutting contact, waiting for time to heal, distracting yourself—but nothing is working. What if the reason you can't move on isn't what you think it is? In this episode, we're uncovering the hidden force keeping you emotionally tied to your ex and why the usual breakup advice isn't helping. If you've ever wondered, Why am I still not over this?—you need to hear this. The Get Over Your Ex Course - https://dorothyabjohnson.com/getoveryourexcourse

    Ep. 279 - When it feels like you don't matter to the person who matters most to you

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2025 22:24


    After a breakup, it's painful to feel like you never mattered—especially when it feels like you don't matter to the person that matters most to you in this world. When your ex acts indifferent, it can make you question your own worth. In this live coaching session, we unpack why their actions don't define your significance and how to reclaim your sense of importance, appreciation, and power. You get to decide that you matter—no one else. If you're ready to stop looking for validation from the wrong place and start feeling unshakable in your worth, this episode is for you. The Get Over Your Ex Course (available for a limited time at $997): https://dorothyabjohnson.com/getoveryourexcoursend/ 

    Ep. 278 - “They promised forever … then left. How to trust again.”

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2025 29:37


    After a heartbreak, especially one where someone promised forever and then changed their mind, trusting again can feel impossible. You might be wondering, ‘How will I ever believe in love again?' In this week's episode, we unpack why shutting down trust isn't the answer and how to move forward without fear. This isn't about labeling your ex as toxic or rewriting the past—it's about understanding that trust is meant for the right people, not withheld because of the wrong ones. If you're ready to stop feeling stuck and start feeling free, this episode is for you. DEADLINE to join the Get Over Your Ex in 3 months or less program at ($1,500 off) is Friday, February 21st: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/getoveryourexcelebrate/

    Ep. 277 - How to feel loved this valentine's day (even if you're newly single)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2025 28:43


    Valentine's Day can feel overwhelming when you're newly single—reminders of love are everywhere, and the loneliness can feel sharper than ever. But what if, instead of dreading it, you used this time to lean into love in a way that actually makes you feel connected, supported, and at peace? In this episode, I share three defining relationships—one where I was left, one where I did the leaving, and one where I stayed—to show you how love exists in every stage of your journey. You'll learn how to shift your perspective, embrace love from your past, present, and future, and walk into Valentine's Day feeling empowered rather than anxious. If you're ready to transform this holiday from painful to powerful, this episode is for you.   LIVE (Feb 10 - 14) 5 day How to Get Over Your Ex Training: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/5daylivetraining/  Enrollment for the Get Over Your Ex program opens FEBRUARY 13th! Save your spot here: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/getoveryourexcelebrate/

    Ep. 276 - If you think your ex's new partner is better, listen to this

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2025 27:36


    Seeing your ex with someone new can feel like a punch to the gut—especially if you believe their new partner is somehow "better" than you. In this episode, I break down exactly why that feeling of jealousy takes over and how to take your power back. I'll walk you through three key steps to stop obsessing over your ex's new relationship and start feeling motivated to build the life you actually want. If you're tired of comparing yourself, stuck in self-doubt, or feeling like you'll never measure up, this episode will give you the mindset shifts and tools to move forward with confidence—regardless of what your ex is doing. Click play to get started! 5 months of healing in 5 days! Our LIVE event is February 10-14 2025! Come join us. It's for heartbroken humans who didn't want the breakup in the first place, those of you who felt forced to leave, and anyone working on building a life that is bigger and better than the one they had with their ex. Save your spot today: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/5daylivetraining/

    Ep. 275 - How to release mom guilt after a breakup or divorce with Laura Conley

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2025 37:33


    After a breakup, many moms face the overwhelming challenge of feeling guilty for investing in themselves while their children are also hurting. It's common to question whether you should be putting time, energy, or even money into your healing journey. In this episode, Breakup Coach Dorothy and Laura Conley (Founder of Yummy Mummy) tackle that guilt head-on by breaking down the two types of guilt: one that can actually help guide you and one that holds you back. You'll learn how to distinguish between the two and what to do with each form, so you can not only heal but show up even stronger for yourself and your children. This episode will give you the clarity to stop guilt from running the show and start focusing on your well-being without sacrificing your role as a mom. Learn more about Laura Conley: Website: https://www.lauraconley.com/  Instagram: @lauraconleycoaching Linktree: https://linktr.ee/lauraconleycoaching 

    Ep. 274 - How to leave an unhealthy relationship and stand in your standards

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2025 10:41


    Struggling to leave an unhealthy relationship or stand firm in your standards? In this episode, we dive deep into how the way you think about yourself today impacts the actions you take tomorrow. If you've ever found yourself holding onto a relationship you know isn't right or letting someone treat you poorly, this episode is for you. We'll explore why it's so hard to break these cycles and offer two powerful steps to help you shift your mindset and start standing in your standards. No more beating yourself up—learn how to cultivate self-respect and take action that aligns with the life and relationships you deserve.

    Ep. 273 - How to stop comparing your new partner to your ex in 2 simple steps

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2025 10:41


    If you've found yourself comparing your new relationship to your ex, you're not alone—and it doesn't necessarily mean you're not over them. In this episode, I break down two powerful steps to help you move past those comparisons and focus on what truly matters: creating clarity and deeper connection in your current partnership. Whether you're sabotaging a great relationship, feeling like something is missing, or stuck in a conflict with your new partner, this episode will help you take the right actions to build the relationship you deserve. Tune in to find out how to stop looking back and start moving forward!

    Ep. 272 - How to align with what you really want and let go of mental limitations

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2025 12:50


    As we enter 2025, it's easy to get caught up in setting goals based on what our minds think we should achieve. But what if there's a better way? In this episode, we're exploring how to set your intentions for the new year by tapping into your inner voice, the part of you that knows what truly matters. Instead of letting your mind create goals driven by expectations, I'm going to guide you through a process that allows your inner being to take the lead. Discover how to align with what you really want, let go of mental limitations, and start creating a life that feels authentic and expansive. Ready to approach 2025 differently? Let's dive in!

    Ep. 271 - 3 powerful ways to feel anchored in dating after a breakup

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 30, 2024 46:35


    In this episode, Breakup Coach Dorothy and Braveheart Miranda talk about how to feel anchored in dating after a breakup. Miranda is a member of the Bigger and Better Life Mastermind, a 6-month immersive experience of creating your bigger and better future, whatever that looks like to you. Tune in as they talk about 3 specific ways to feel anchored in dating after a breakup, diving deeper during the mastermind, the benefits of having a community around you, lessons and realizations while building a bigger and better life, learning to be unapologetically yourself, living your core values, and so much more! Join the Bigger and Better Life Mastermind: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/biggerbetterlifemastermind/

    Ep. 270 - Self help burnout, how to stop chasing and start living

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2024 14:14


    Feeling burned out from constant self-improvement? In this episode, I'm sharing a practical 5-step plan to help you shift from revamping your life to fully living in and enjoying it. If you're at a place where you've built much of what you've envisioned for yourself but feel like it's time to pause and simply be, this episode is for you. We'll talk about reflecting on your personal growth, choosing areas for intentional integration, and creating simple, meaningful actions to flow through this season of your life. Plus, I've included a fun twist to keep things fresh with the “challenge box”. Ready to stop hustling and start living? Tune in now! Bigger & Better Life Mastermind is OPEN for Enrollment: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/biggerbetterlifemastermind/

    Ep. 269 - 6 Life-Changing Lessons to Create Your Bigger & Better Life in 6 Months

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2024 50:25


    Imagine living a life that feels like you've won the lottery every day—where everything aligns with who you truly are, free from attachment, and grounded in emotional maturity. In this episode, I'm sharing the six lessons that Bravehearts have learned and lived through over the past six months in the Bigger & Better Life Mastermind. We'll explore how they applied powerful tools like inner voice work, human design, and deep coaching to create lasting, meaningful change. Whether it's building authentic relationships, setting boundaries, or stepping into their true worth, these lessons will show you how to amplify your own bigger and better life. Tune in to hear the exact steps they took, the beliefs they rewired, and how you can do the same. The Bigger & Better Life Mastermind is now open for enrollment: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/biggerbetterlifemastermind/ 

    Ep. 268 - Your personalized prescription for overcoming undesirable outcomes

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2024 14:23


    In today's episode, we delve into a common yet often overlooked issue: lingering on undesirable outcomes, such as the inability to move past an ex. Discover a transformative, step-by-step process tailored to shift your perspective and actions to achieve more favorable outcomes in your emotional and personal life. We'll explore how taking ownership of your thoughts and behaviors provides a personalized prescription to change what feels unchangeable. This episode equips you with the tools to reconstruct your emotional state and behavioral patterns, paving the way for success and satisfaction in moving on and healing as well as building your bigger and better life. Tune in to learn how to meticulously craft a strategy that aligns with your unique circumstances and propels you toward the life and relationships you truly desire. This is about gaining clarity, taking control, and transforming your life trajectory.

    Ep. 267 - What to do with your happy memories of your ex

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2024 10:39


    In today's episode, we dive into a common post-breakup challenge: handling the happy memories with your ex that keep pulling you back. If you find yourself frequently lost in nostalgic moments, wondering how to balance these memories with your current path to healing, this discussion is for you. We explore a transformative approach that doesn't erase the past but empowers you to live fully in the present. Tune in to learn how you can reshape your relationship with these memories, allowing them to coexist with your journey towards a brighter, independent future. This episode offers key insights and practical strategies to help you navigate your emotional landscape more effectively. Join us to find out how to turn those memories into stepping stones for personal growth.

    Ep. 266 - When to feel your feelings and when to shift your perspective w/ Dana Evans

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2024 57:16


    In this episode, join Breakup Coach Dorothy and Dana Evans as they discuss when to feel your feelings and when to shift your perspective. Dana is an emotional clearing expert and walks us through exactly “how” to process emotion with tangible steps as well as a clear guide on “how to get out of a funk”.  Tune in as they talk about how the mind can get in the way of the inner voice, reframing and checking the mind, shifting on an emotional level, dealing with your triggers, how to break out of your current state, and so much more!  Learn more about Dana Evans: Linktree: https://linktr.ee/dana_evans  Instagram: @dana_evans

    Ep. 265 - Navigate life's changes without losing yourself

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2024 12:51


    In today's episode, we're diving deep into self-identity through life's varied seasons. Whether you're in the throes of personal transformation or navigating the complexities of self-discovery post-breakup, understanding and embracing the fluidity of your identity is crucial. We unpack the concept that our self-perception need not be rigid but can evolve gracefully with life's inevitable changes. We'll explore practical steps to align your self-identity with your current life phase without losing your core essence, focusing on maintaining authenticity and confidence regardless of external circumstances.

    Ep. 264 - Two questions to see if your relationship expectations are too high

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2024 9:23


    Are you worried that your expectations in a relationship might be too high? In this episode, we tackle the common fear of “am I asking too much?" when it comes to what you want in a partnership. If you've ever found yourself second-guessing your standards or wondering if you're expecting too much, this episode is for you. We'll dive into two powerful questions that will help you get crystal clear on what you're truly asking for and why it might feel like too much. These insights will help you stop settling for less and start believing that what you want is not only reasonable but also achievable. Join us as we explore how to shift your mindset and stand firm in your desires, so you can attract the partnership that truly aligns with your worth.

    Ep. 263 - Should I reach out to my ex or not?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2024 11:31


    Are you struggling with the question of whether to reach out to your ex? In this episode, we dive into a practical 5-step process that helps you gain clarity and confidence in making the right decision for YOU. Instead of relying on advice from others, this episode guides you through a series of questions and scenarios to uncover what's truly aligned with your needs and desires. You'll learn how to navigate your emotions, explore the best case scenarios, and connect with your inner voice, so you can move forward with confidence and peace of mind. Don't let confusion hold you back—discover the clarity you need to make the best choice for your unique situation.

    Ep. 262 - Build your revenge body w/ Jenny Blake

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2024 32:16


    Did you know that what you eat, how you work out, and how you feel in your body, can affect your breakup journey?! Join us in today's episode as Jenny (The Nutritionist) shares how food affects our body, how we can use nutrition to change our shape, how to prepare food in a way that truly satisfies us and how lifting weights improves our bodies all in relation to your breakup. Leave today's episode knowing how to create and cultivate your revenge body! Learn more about Jenny The Nutritionist: Website: https://jennythenutritionist.com/create-your-shape/  Instagram: @‌jennythenutritionist Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/create-your-shape-with-jenny-the-nutritionist/id1596687414 Take the Quiz: What are you missing to be fit, well-fed, and fully energized? (https://jennythenutritionist.com/create-your-shape/what-are-you-missing-quiz/)

    Ep. 261 - How to 10x your dating potential without going on 100 dates

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2024 11:57


    Feeling stuck in your dating life, overwhelmed by advice, or just underwhelmed by the experience? This episode is for you. Today, we dive into a powerful coaching session that transformed one of my clients, helping her break free from the confusion and struggle (hustle) of dating. We explore the three core truths she embraced that allowed her to reinvent herself as a dater—authentic, confident, and aligned with her true self. If you're ready to stop hustling and start dating on your own terms? Tune in to discover how you can create a dating life that feels right for you.

    Ep. 260 - 3 Game Changing Truths to Conquer the Fear of Judgment After Your Breakup

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2024 14:42


    Struggling with the fear of being judged after your breakup? In this episode, I'm diving deep into how judgment—whether from others, your ex, or even yourself—can hold you back from true healing. We'll explore the three essential truths about judgment that will help you break free from this fear and focus on your own recovery. Learn why judgment is inevitable, how to make sure you're not the one unhappy with your life, and why following your own path is the most powerful step you can take. Listen in and discover how to shift your focus from external opinions to your own authentic healing journey.

    Ep. 259 - 5 unconventional habits to fast track your breakup recovery

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2024 17:05


    Feeling stuck in your breakup? In this episode, I'm sharing five unconventional habits that my most successful students are using to accelerate their healing and build a life bigger and better than before. These aren't your typical self-help tips; they're bold strategies like embracing “delusional” optimism, believing in your transformation before you see it, and focusing on growth instead of gaps. If you're ready to break free from the stagnation and move forward with purpose, this episode is for you. Listen in to discover the habits that will fast-forward your journey.

    Ep. 258 - Scared of being alone after 28 years of marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2024 19:44


    After 28 years of marriage, Keisha was scared to be alone. She had always had her husband there to make joint decisions, to fall back on, and confide in. She was absolutely devastated when he had chosen to leave right as they were about to become empty nesters. Fast forward to today, she's embraced her independence. She books flights and vacations on her own, figured out her finances and is living her bigger and better life! Join us in today's episode as Keisha shares the tools that helped her most in her healing journey and how you can apply it to your life!

    Ep. 257 - Reduce fear through learning after a breakup

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2024 8:10


    In this episode, we tackle the paralyzing fear that holds you back from making progress. Whether it's fear of grief, the unknown, or new challenges after a breakup, we explore how understanding the basics and mechanics of what scares you can reduce that fear just enough to take the first steps. Using real-life examples like overcoming a fear of roller coasters, swimming and spiders we'll show you how learning and experiencing can transform your mindset. Tune in to discover practical strategies to identify your fears, educate yourself, and build the courage to move forward with confidence. Click to listen and start conquering your fears today!

    Ep. 256 - Everything you need to know about grief in breakups

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2024 48:04


    In this essential episode, we dive deep into understanding grief after a breakup or divorce. Many people fear grief because they don't know what to expect or how to handle it. We're here to change that. Consider this your Grief 101 class—covering myths about grief, its various forms, and practical steps you can take to navigate through it. By breaking down the basics and providing actionable advice, we aim to demystify grief and show you how it can become a pivotal part of your healing journey. Join us to learn how to manage grief so it doesn't become all-consuming, and discover how to use it to enhance your human experience. Click to listen and empower yourself with the knowledge to face grief head-on.  

    Ep. 255 - The unexpected benefits of fasting during a breakup

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2024 11:45


    Struggling through a breakup or divorce? Discover how fasting can be a transformative tool for your mind, body, and spirit. In this episode, I share my personal experiences with fasting and how it has been a game-changer during my toughest times. By abstaining from food and only consuming homemade green juice, I found a way to reset my digestive system, calm my nervous system, and gain clarity. This episode isn't medical advice, but a look into how fasting helped me reconnect with my inner self and glow from the inside out. Learn how this practice might be the unexpected reset you need to navigate your heartbreak and emerge stronger. Click to listen and explore the profound impact of fasting on your healing journey. Disclaimer: do not attempt this alone. It's important you find a guide that is trained, understands this process, and is someone you trust that can hold you through this experience.  My guide/support was Lyndsey Lee, she can be found on instagram at @lyndsaylee

    Ep. 254 - The first step to getting over your ex

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 2, 2024 16:23


    Struggling with where to start in getting over your ex? This episode dives into the different starting points based on your unique situation. Whether you're longing for your ex back, overwhelmed by emotions, obsessing over them, or uncertain about your future, we've got you covered. I break down the essential steps: decide to move on, commit to your healing journey, and practice becoming the person who's already over their ex. Additionally, I provide specific tools tailored to where you're starting from. Join me for practical advice and actionable steps to help you navigate your breakup and start building a brighter future. Click to listen and take the first step toward reclaiming your life.

    Ep. 253 - How she monetized her heartbreak w/ Yasmin Bahrami

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2024 32:55


    Yasmin Bahrami is a Braveheart alumni that took her heartbreak and turned into a successful career through art. Tune in as we talk about her heartbreak journey and how it led to not only art but also money and a career. If you're struggling to figure out what to do with your pain, you'll leave this episode knowing exactly what to do to turn into your power. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moonkissedcollective/  Website: https://moonkissedcollective.com/

    Ep. 252 - How to trust yourself when choosing a new partner

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2024 20:16


    In this episode, we dive into the challenges of trusting yourself to choose a new partner after a breakup. We'll address common fears like repeating past mistakes and struggling with low self-worth, and explore how to overcome these obstacles. Discover six powerful mindset shifts that will help you regain confidence in your decision-making and attract a partner who truly aligns with your values and desires. Tune in to learn how to build trust in yourself, set clear intentions, and embrace your journey toward a better, more fulfilling relationship. Click to listen and empower yourself with the tools to choose wisely and confidently!

    Ep. 251 - What to do when you can't sleep after your breakup

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2024 17:35


    Struggling to sleep after a breakup? In this episode, we tackle this all-too-common issue with practical, actionable advice. Learn how to improve your sleep with effective daytime strategies. We also dive into what to do when you find yourself awake at night, offering creative and productive activities to shift your focus away from anxiety and toward personal growth. Listen today and discover how to reclaim your nights and restore your energy for a brighter tomorrow!

    Ep. 250 - What's the best way to breakup

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2024 20:04


    Breakups are never easy, whether you're the one ending the relationship or on the receiving end. In this episode, we tackle the challenging task of breaking up with someone with intention and clarity. Learn five powerful journal prompts and three fundamental truths to guide you through this difficult decision. These tools will help you identify the best approach tailored to your unique situation, ensuring you handle the breakup with compassion and respect. Discover how to communicate your feelings honestly, consider your partner's emotions, and maintain your self-worth throughout the process. Click to listen and gain the insights needed to navigate breakups with integrity and intentionality! Want to know when to leave a relationship? Listen to the podcast episode: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/2023/07/18/when-to-leave-a-relationship/

    Ep. 249 - What happens if I don't get over my ex?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2024 56:14


    If you're terrified you'll never get over your ex, you've got to listen to today's episode. Braveheart Summer and Breakup Coach Dorothy talk about Summer's journey to being over her ex and what she found to be even more important than getting over her ex. If this is the worst case scenario, I want it! The GOYE Course is now available! https://dorothyabjohnson.com/getoveryourexcourse

    Ep. 248 - How to set monthly intentions to build your bigger and better life

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2024 13:40


    Are you stuck in the aftermath of a breakup, unsure how to move forward and build the life you deserve? In this episode, we delve into the power of intentionality in overcoming your ex and creating your bigger, better life. Discover how integrating the Thought Model and Living Visions can guide and direct your journey, helping you place a clear order with the universe. Learn to set meaningful intentions, analyze past actions, and blueprint your future self. With these tools, you'll gain clarity, purpose, and the momentum needed to transform your life. Click to listen and start setting your intentions for a brighter future today! Resources From Episode: The Thought Model by Brooke Castillo Living Visions introduced to me by Jamie Berman from Living Visions by Michael Beckwith

    Ep. 247 - The #1 tool to save your relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2024 24:25


    Are you and your partner struggling to make things work but deeply desire to stay together? This episode introduces the transformative tool called the Feedback Wheel, where thought and mindset work are applied within the context of a relationship. Created by Terrence Real's groundbreaking book, "Us: Getting Past You & Me to Build a More Loving Relationship," this tool helped save my marriage and can do the same for you. Learn how to communicate effectively, understand each other's perspectives, and find actionable solutions to your conflicts. Whether you're in the midst of a challenging period or want to strengthen your partnership, this episode provides practical steps to navigate and improve your relationship. Click to listen and discover how the Feedback Wheel can change the game for you and your partner (whether that's your next relationship or your current). Terrence (Terry) Real: https://terryreal.com/books/

    Ep. 246 - Integrated grief

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 8, 2024 12:19


    Struggling with grief long after a traumatic event? In this episode, we explore the transformative concept of integrated grief, showing how to embrace and incorporate grief into your life rather than resist it. Discover how to turn grief from a painful scar into a meaningful beauty mark. Through personal anecdotes and powerful journaling prompts, learn to welcome grief, allowing it to shape and enrich your life. Click to listen and find out how to make your grief a part of your story, transforming it into a source of strength and inspiration.

    Ep. 245 - How to help a friend through a breakup

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 1, 2024 24:43


    Feeling helpless watching a loved one struggle through a breakup or divorce? In this episode, we tackle the challenge head-on with ten actionable ways to provide real support. From validating their emotions to shifting their mindset and offering practical resources, learn how to help them navigate this difficult time more effectively. Say goodbye to the usual advice like "it just takes time" and discover new strategies that truly make a difference. Click to listen and empower yourself to be the supportive friend or family member they need right now! Resources mentioned in the episode: The Get Over Your Ex Course: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/getoveryourexcourse/  Why do I feel addicted to my ex? Podcast episode: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/2023/09/18/why-do-i-feel-addicted-to-my-ex/

    Ep. 244 - How to feel like yourself again after a breakup

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 24, 2024 33:14


    If you feel like you lost yourself in your last relationship, today is the day we talk about how to feel like yourself again after a breakup. Leave with brilliant insights and mind blowing moments that will help you feel like yourself again TODAY. The Get Over Your Ex COURSE: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/getoveryourexcourse

    You're worth it

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2024 8:17


    Bravehearts, to truly learn something is not to simply “know it”. To truly learn something is to “master it.” You cannot master something unless you put it to practice. When I hear Bravehearts saying “I'm trying, I'm trying, I'm trying” or “I logically know…” it shows me they've learned to the point of “knowing” but not to the point of mastering.  You're worth it to master the art of non attachment. You're worth more than 5 days. You're worth the time, energy, and effort you put into your last relationship.  THE GOYE COURSE (start today for only $185): https://dorothyabjohnson.com/getoveryourexcourse

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