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Brace yourselves! Men's dating coach Alpha Dom made quite the splash this week on social media with his problematic advice. Sarah and I deconstructed his videos and determined he's sometimes right. HEAR US OUT BEFORE YOU JUDGE! Dom does have an idea of how women think and what they want. The problem is he often veers off course because his understanding of women is limited. We can't wait to hear your thoughts! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Get exclusive bonus episodes & content by subscribing to our Patreon. https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Follow me on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube for more free content. Instagram https://instagram.com/dateologypod & https://instagram.com/thechristanm TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@dateologycoach Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL5iTMQHvcH8YwDw6JLk2ew

IN THIS EPISODE: A man lectures women on how they should dress at the gym and immediately regrets it. If you've spent time on social media this week, you've probably seen clips of Ryan Gosling singing "I'm Just Ken" at The Oscars. We discuss the performance, John Mullaney's infidelity, and why Cillian Murphy's win made me cry. A woman has a brilliant idea of wearing statement t-shirts on first dates to let men know we won't accept low-effort nonsense. Ariana Grande's new song, "We Can't Be Friends," aptly describes trying to move on from a breakup. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Get exclusive bonus episodes & content by subscribing to our Patreon. https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Follow me on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube for more free content. Instagram https://instagram.com/dateologypod & https://instagram.com/thechristanm TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@dateologycoach Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL5iTMQHvcH8YwDw6JLk2ew

I was quoted in an article about the dangers of Are We Dating The Same Guy groups. The article interviews women who have been stalked or harassed after posting to the groups. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE ON OUR PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/posts/99928272 A woman wants to know if she should tell her man's mistress he's not as rich as he'd led her to believe. The critical reason you need to ditch your frenemies. We hop in the time machine and discuss the Dave Coulier/Alannis Morissette relationship, how he found out he inspired the album, and how You Oughta Know impacted women. We're making an Angry Lady Playlist. Leave your suggestions in the comments of our Patreon. Follow me on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube for more free content. Instagram https://instagram.com/dateologypod & https://instagram.com/thechristanm TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@dateologycoach Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL5iTMQHvcH8YwDw6JLk2ew

An author thinks her writer husband is trolling her online and leaving negative reviews on her latest book. After some Googling, Sarah and I suspect that the woman who wrote the letter about her husband harassing her online and the columnist providing advice are the same person. SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PATREON FOR EXCLUSIVE BONUS EPISODES https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach Also in the episode: Green flags you should never ignore when you first start dating someone that are actual green flags and not just a guy doing the bare minimum. Why are we drawn to the same type of person, and when does it become problematic? Follow me on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube for more free content. Instagram https://instagram.com/dateologypod & https://instagram.com/thechristanm TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@dateologycoach Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL5iTMQHvcH8YwDw6JLk2ew

It was only a matter of time. Are We Dating The Same Girl groups are cropping up across Facebook. Women make these groups to ensure they're not dating a cheater or abuser. Men create them to whine about women who call them on their creepy behavior. JOIN OUR PATREON FOR EXCLUSIVE EPISODES AND BONUS CONTENT: https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach In This Episode: A listener tells a story about being posted in an AWDTSGirl group that proves men lack boundaries and feel entitled to women's bodies. A Tiktok creator teaches women how to identify and avoid Red Pill men. How to properly delete your dating apps when you decide to be exclusive. A woman snoops around her new boyfriend's bathroom and immediately regrets it.

A man claimed men know when they've met a great woman, and they don't let her get away. LOL. K. We revisit the topic of publicly dissing your ex and how, if you make it your brand, it could interfere with your relationships. A beautiful woman catches her VERY mid-looking boyfriend cheating and he proceeds to gaslight her until she calls his mistress. A man is creeped out by his girlfriend's constant nudity around her dog. A listener wants to know if she handled a male co-worker's awkward behavior. Follow me on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube for more free content. Instagram https://instagram.com/dateologypod & https://instagram.com/dateologypod TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@dateologycoach Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL5iTMQHvcH8YwDw6JLk2ew

We reviewed a list of First Date Green Flags and debates, which are good signs and which praise people for doing the bare minimum. Are dating apps over? That's what some experts are saying. JOIN THE PATREON TO LISTEN TO BONUS EPISODES: https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/dateologypod SUBMIT A DATING QUESTION: https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question

Prepare to get ragey! A man wants his ex to be his new girlfriend's surrogate because he doesn't want her to ruin her hot body. JOIN THE PATREON TO LISTEN TO BONUS EPISODES: https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach Also in this episode: We talk about Greta Gerwig's Oscar snub. A woman wants advice about whether she should be a surrogate for her ex and his new girlfriend. An article in Buzzfeed sparks an insightful discussion about internalized misogyny. I talk briefly about my experience with police while trying to file for a restraining order. Sarah gives a very quick recap of the new Netflix series American Nightmare, which is about a woman who was kidnapped and returned home only to be accused of orchestrating her own disappearance. We discuss the scrutiny and judgement women experience by seeking out casual sex.

Listen in as we talk about the pending lawsuit against Are We Dating The Same Guy Founders and why this whiny prick might actually win. Follow us on Patreon for more episodes https://www.patreon.com/dateologycoach Also in the episode: A TikTok creator provides four key questions to ask your dates to determine if your political views align. Buzzfeed compiled stories from people that proving that dating in 2024 is a cesspool of low effort/high crazy people. Dating Has Become A Literal Cesspool, And These 32 Awful People Prove It https://www.buzzfeed.com/hannahmarder/photos-that-prove-how-rough-dating-is

A Tiktok creator is convinced a restaurant hired someone to pose as a single guy on a dating app to get her to show up at their venue and order food. Girl, what? Plus, we offer tips to help women avoid being stood up. LISTEN TO THE Fhttps://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/devious-ways-men-scam-single-womenULL EPISODE: ALSO IN THE EPISODE: A woman wonders if she's being too sensitive or if the man she's dating is as awful as he sounds. We start our review of the can't-look-away trainwreck that is Netflix's Escape From Twin Flames documentary. The series focuses on two scammy “love gurus” and their cultish “university” that exploits vulnerable single women. PAY CLOSE ATTENTION. This documentary gives women exceptional insight into how narcissistic men target vulnerable women. Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube for more free content. Instagram https://instagram.com/dateologypod & https://instagram.com/dateologypod TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@dateologycoach Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL5iTMQHvcH8YwDw6JLk2ew

Enjoy a teaser for this Wednesday's episode. I wasn't sure if I wanted to talk about this publicly. This guy was the catalyst for my decision to cut back on discussing my personal life publicly. It's also one of the areas I focused on narcissistic abuse when I sought my trauma recovery certification. This was a dark rabbit to go down, Nuggets. SUBSCRIBE & LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: Become a Substack subscriber for $5 a month and get two Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and one full-length episode on Fridays. https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/law-and-order-ftg-abusive-narcissist Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube for more free content. Instagram https://instagram.com/dateologypod & https://instagram.com/dateologypod TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@dateologycoach Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL5iTMQHvcH8YwDw6JLk2ew

It's all fun and games until a guy jizzes in your eyes. In this episode, we read a Reddit post written by a woman who thinks she made a big mistake moving in with her lazy-ass boyfriend. We also discuss an outbreak of ocular syphilis that traces back to one man all the women met online. SUBSCRIBE & LISTEN TO MORE FULL EPISODES: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/ FOLLOW US: Instagram https://instagram.com/dateologypod & https://instagram.com/thechristanm TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@dateologycoach Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL5iTMQHvcH8YwDw6JLk2ew

Sarah and Christan discuss an unemployed man who took to the internet to whine that his girlfriend won't pay his rent. In Nugget #2, we offer advice to a woman who's fallen in love with her guy best friend, who's been using her until he found a girlfriend. ************ ************ Send your dating questions to hello@dateologycoach.com and follow us on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube for more free content. You can find links in the episode description. Become a Substack subscriber for $5 a month and get two Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and one full-length episode on Fridays. Listen to full episodes at https://dateologycoach.substack.com Instagram https://instagram.com/dateologypod & https://instagram.com/dateologypod TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@dateologycoach Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL5iTMQHvcH8YwDw6JLk2ew

Is "open to non-monogamy" code for something else? Plus, does your sociosexuality determine if you'll be ghosted after sex? Enjoy a teaser of this week's full-length episode. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/does-this-one-thing-determine-if#details SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE FOR MORE FREE CONTENT https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL5iTMQHvcH8YwDw6JLk2ew SUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO FULL EPISODES - SAVE 20% You can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly to listen to full episodes. You'll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast. Subscribe here: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember LISTEN TO MORE EPISODES HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com SUBMIT A DATING QUESTION: https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question

The nuclear family isn't what it used to be. Dating needs to catch up with the times. SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE FOR MORE FREE CONTENT https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL5iTMQHvcH8YwDw6JLk2ew SUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO FULL EPISODES - SAVE 20% You can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly to listen to full episodes. You'll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast. Subscribe here: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember LISTEN TO MORE EPISODES HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com SUBMIT A DATING QUESTION: https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question

Gather round and hear us explain why women who date men should avoid separated men at all costs. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/fck-that-guy-sketchy-separated-guy#details SUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO FULL EPISODES: You can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly to listen to full episodes. You'll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast. Subscribe here: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember LISTEN TO MORE EPISODES HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com SUBMIT A DATING QUESTION: https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question

A therapist recently stitched this Tiktok of mine and gave her thoughts on single-by-choice women. She believes that women who forego dating are likely avoidants struggling with unhealed wounds. I believe that's bullshit. SUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO FULL EPISODES: You can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly to listen to full episodes. You'll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast. Subscribe here: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember LISTEN TO MORE EPISODES HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com SUBMIT A DATING QUESTION: https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question

A woman's avoidant boyfriend has been running hot and cold. How much longer should she stay on this rollercoaster? SUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO FULL EPISODES: You can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly to listen to full episodes. You'll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast. Subscribe here: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember LISTEN TO MORE EPISODES HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com SUBMIT A DATING QUESTION: https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question

Enjoy a teaser from our first Law & Order: FTG (F*ck That Guy) Unit episode. It's time to break out your deerskin hats and magnifying glasses and help me decipher a mysterious email I received this week from the son of an ex looking for proof of his father's affair. Who *really* wrote this email? I know it wasn't a 17-year-old. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/law-and-order-ftg-fck-that-guy-unit#details

We discuss our thoughts on having an open phone policy with your partner and why you shouldn't advertise that policy in a dating profile. Telling a stranger you have an open phone policy is one of the fastest ways to attract someone who is controlling and insecure. Agree or disagree? Here's what else is in store for today's episode: Why you should never discuss anything related to money or financial stability in your dating profile. The pros and cons of selecting the spicy pepper icon for sex positivity in your Bumble profile and what it means when men check it off. LISTEN TO MORE EPISODES HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com SUBMIT A DATING QUESTION: https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question SUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO FULL EPISODES: You can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly to listen to full episodes. You'll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast. Subscribe here: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember JOIN OUR FREE PRIVATE ONLINE COMMUNITY The Dateology Coach Network allows members to congregate, network, and offer/seek guidance and support. This group is open to all ages, gender identities, and orientations https://dateologycoachnetwork.mn.co/ Book A Dating Profile Review - Use code PODCAST30 to save $30 It's fall. You know what that means. Cuffing season is just around the corner. If you're ready to hit the ground running and make a real attempt at finding love online, you're going to need the proper tools. It's possible to use dating apps and avoid the burnout and frustration that often comes with it. https://www.dateologycoach.com/bookasession

Let's discuss the “Where'd She Go?” approach to dating all women should start implementing ASAP. LISTEN TO MORE EPISODES HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com SUBMIT A DATING QUESTION: https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question SUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: To listen to the full episode you can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly. You'll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast. Subscribe here: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember JOIN OUR FREE PRIVATE ONLINE COMMUNITY The Dateology Coach Network allows members to congregate, network, and offer/seek guidance and support. This group is open to all ages, gender identities, and orientations https://dateologycoachnetwork.mn.co/ Book A Dating Profile Review - Use code PODCAST30 to save $30 It's fall. You know what that means. Cuffing season is just around the corner. If you're ready to hit the ground running and make a real attempt at finding love online, you're going to need the proper tools. It's possible to use dating apps and avoid the burnout and frustration that often comes with it. https://www.dateologycoach.com/bookasession

Let's talk about setting expectations and how to write messages that won't get you unmatched. SUBMIT A DATING QUESTION: https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question BECOME A SUBSCRIBER TO You'll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast for $4 monthly. Subscribe here: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember Book A Dating Profile Review - Use code PODCAST30 to save $30 It's fall. You know what that means. Cuffing season is just around the corner. If you're ready to hit the ground running and make a real attempt at finding love online, you're going to need the proper tools. It's possible to use dating apps and avoid the burnout and frustration that often comes with it. https://www.dateologycoach.com/bookasession

The majority of the episode is based on an article and Tiktok about women's frustration with situationships and the internal conflict we experience when we want to de-center men but also crave a romantic relationship. LISTEN TO THEFULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/how-do-you-de-center-men-when-you#details SUBMIT A DATING QUESTION: https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question SUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: To listen to the full episode you can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly. You'll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast. Subscribe here: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember JOIN OUR FREE PRIVATE ONLINE COMMUNITY The Dateology Coach Network allows members to congregate, network, and offer/seek guidance and support. This group is open to all ages, gender identities, and orientations https://dateologycoachnetwork.mn.co/ Book A Dating Profile Review - Use code PODCAST30 to save $30 It's fall. You know what that means. Cuffing season is just around the corner. If you're ready to hit the ground running and make a real attempt at finding love online, you're going to need the proper tools. It's possible to use dating apps and avoid the burnout and frustration that often comes with it. https://www.dateologycoach.com/bookasession

The advice to choose better men is reductive and insulting. It goes much deeper than that. SUBMIT A DATING QUESTION: https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question SUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: To listen to the full episode you can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly. You'll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast. Subscribe here: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember JOIN OUR FREE PRIVATE ONLINE COMMUNITY The Dateology Coach Network allows members to congregate, network, and offer/seek guidance and support. This group is open to all ages, gender identities, and orientations https://dateologycoachnetwork.mn.co/ Book A Dating Profile Review - Use code PODCAST30 to save $30 It's fall. You know what that means. Cuffing season is just around the corner. If you're ready to hit the ground running and make a real attempt at finding love online, you're going to need the proper tools. It's possible to use dating apps and avoid the burnout and frustration that often comes with it. https://www.dateologycoach.com/bookasession

A woman wants to know if she should give a man who abruptly dumped her a second chance. NOPE! No, she should not. Thank you for coming to our Ted Talk. In The Full Episode: Tik Tok's Aba n Preach Editor (abanpreacheditor) show women the appropriate response when someone who ghosted them returns from the dead. We discuss one sure-fire way to end up dating a low-effort man. The economics of thinness and how they affect hiring. How does a man explain his lack of sexual experience to the woman he just started dating? LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/zombies-ghosts-and-other-dating-horror#details SUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: To listen to the full episode you can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly. You'll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast. Subscribe here: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember JOIN OUR FREE PRIVATE ONLINE COMMUNITY The Dateology Coach Network allows members to congregate, network, and offer/seek guidance and support. This group is open to all ages, gender identities, and orientations https://dateologycoachnetwork.mn.co/ Book A Dating Profile Review - Use code PODCAST30 to save $30 It's fall. You know what that means. Cuffing season is just around the corner. If you're ready to hit the ground running and make a real attempt at finding love online, you're going to need the proper tools. It's possible to use dating apps and avoid the burnout and frustration that often comes with it. https://www.dateologycoach.com/bookasession

This episode is about ensuring you know having certain expectations does not make you needy or demanding. Because f*ck that guy. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/having-standards-does-not-make-you#details SUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: To listen to the full episode you can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly. You'll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast. Subscribe here: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember JOIN OUR FREE PRIVATE ONLINE COMMUNITY The Dateology Coach Network allows members to congregate, network, and offer/seek guidance and support. This group is open to all ages, gender identities, and orientations https://dateologycoachnetwork.mn.co/

A man cancels a date at the last minute, claiming he's sick. His date gets understandably upset. Even though he showed poor manners, she's attacked because OF COURSE. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/fck-that-guy-men-are-trash-edition#details SUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: To listen to the full episode you can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly. You'll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and the weekly full-length advice podcast. Subscribe here: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember JOIN OUR FREE PRIVATE ONLINE COMMUNITY The Dateology Coach Network allows members to congregate, network, and offer/seek guidance and support. This group is open to all ages, gender identities, and orientations https://dateologycoachnetwork.mn.co/

In this episode, we're critiquing (and praising!) men's dating profiles and sharing ways men demonstrate their emotional intelligence. GET MORE DATING ADVICE To listen to the full episode you can become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly. You'll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and Friday's full-length advice podcast. Subscribe here: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember DO YOU WANT A PRAISE WORTHY DATING PROFILE? Do you want a praise-worthy profile that grabs people's attention? Click the button below and book a session with me. Let's write a story that pulls potential matches in and shows them you're ready for your first last date. Profile assistance is available to men, women & non-binary singles. Use code PODCAST30 to save $30 https://www.dateologycoach.com/bookasession

I'll warn everyone ahead of time that this is not a dating-related episode. Sarah and I will be recording again this weekend and have a Nugget posted on Monday. In this episode, we talk about the fatphobic and misogynistic rant Samantha Aquilina (samanthatherese6), Sydney Alexis Norton (bratnorton), and Alyssa McGrath (LunaNoir) went on about me this week (with clips), how online hate towards women is minimalized, and how The Halo Effect often comes into play in these kinds of dynamics. See full Live discussed in this episode below: https://youtu.be/UoYaAWP2r4Q?si=SSKeMiEmk9ygOw1p

Dear Men: The call is coming from inside the house. Stop telling women they're shallow golddiggers. You wrote the playbook. We're just playing by your rules. SUBSCRIBE FOR WEEKLY FULL-LENGTH EPISODES If you enjoy these weekly podcasts and find them insightful, please consider supporting my work. Become a paid subscriber for $5 monthly. You'll get two weekly Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and Friday's full-length advice podcast. That's 3 episodes a week full of advice, insights, and encouragement for those currently dating or who are single by choice. My goal is to provide encouragement and humor, and show you you're far more resilient than you think. https://dateologycoach.substack.com/subscribe SUBMIT A DATING QUESTION https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question CUFFING SEASON IS ALMOST HERE - GET A DATING PROFILE REVIEW - USE CODE PODCAST30 TO SAVE $30 Work with me, and I'll help you craft the ideal dating profile that is unapologetically YOU, clarifies your intentions and expectations, and keeps away the matches that will waste your time. https://www.dateologycoach.com/bookasession

A woman writes in and wants to know how to get her new boyfriend to see his Ex trying to sabotage their relationship. Plus, we review men's Bumble dating profiles and unlock new Icks. SUBSCRIBE HERE AND LISTEN TO FULL EPISODES FOR ONLY $4 A MONTH https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/what-should-she-do-about-his-co-dependent#details SUBMIT A DATING QUESTION https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question GET A DATING PROFILE REVIEW & POLISH https://www.dateologycoach.com/profilereview

If all your brain knows is toxic behavior, all you'll meet is toxic people. Listen to this episode to hear how to fix that. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/how-to-stop-dating-toxic-people#details Become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly to listen to the full episode. SUBSCRIBE HERE AND SAVE 20% https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember

Enjoy a teaser of today's 60-minute interview with The Burned Haystack Method's Jennie Young. You don't want to miss it. We discussed coded language in men's dating profiles, messaging clues to tell if someone will waste your time, subtle signs of deception, and much more! Become a paid subscriber for $4 monthly to listen to the full episode. SUBSCRIBE HERE AND SAVE 20% https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember JOIN THE BURNED HAYSTACK DATING METHOD FACEBOOK GROUP https://www.facebook.com/groups/9116647515019601

I'm so excited for this episode I can barely contain myself. Ever heard of The Burned Haystack Dating Method? It's where you try to turn off as many men as possible to "burn the haystack" so you can find your needle. The method was developed by Jennie Young, Ph. D. in rhetoric and Prof. @ UW Green Bay. READ THE ARTICLE: https://jennieyoung.medium.com/frustrated-with-the-apps-try-the-burned-haystack-dating-method-5663eee6254a SUBSCRIBE HERE AND LISTEN TO FULL EPISODES FOR ONLY $4 A MONTH https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember SUBMIT A DATING QUESTION https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question GET A DATING PROFILE REVIEW & POLISH https://www.dateologycoach.com/profilereview

As single women, we're often encouraged to prioritize the time and feelings of women in relationships with men over our own. We don't discuss the grief involved with the prospect of losing a friend to a relationship. Nor do we acknowledge the very normal jealousy and sense of inadequacy that can crop up when a friend makes their relationship their entire personality. SUBSCRIBE HERE AND LISTEN TO FULL EPISODES FOR ONLY $4 A MONTH https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember SUBMIT A DATING QUESTION https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question GET A DATING PROFILE REVIEW & POLISH https://www.dateologycoach.com/profilereview

We're talking healthy boundaries, stripper dating problems, and the chilling revelation Carrie makes about Big in this week's episode of And Just Like That. SUBSCRIBE HERE AND LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE FOR ONLY $4 A MONTH https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember FULL EPISODE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/setting-boundaries-stripper-dating#details In This Episode: A woman learned the man she's dating updated his Bumble profile. What's her next move? A woman's boyfriend told her he wanted her to stop stripping if she wanted to get engaged. She wants to know if asking him to compensate her for the financial loss is realistic if she quits. We discuss the dos and don'ts of stating boundaries with your dates. And Just Like That Episode 8 recap. We have whiplash. Seema gets real about what it's like when you watch from the sidelines as your friends find love. Carrie is delusional. Che is tolerable. Charlotte is shallow. Judgey Miranda is back.

In This Episode: Let's talk about the idea that being chronically single is bad and results from being “too broken.” Also in this episode: A woman's crush on her therapist inspires a conversation about the connection between trauma and limerance. Join the fun! Become a paid subscriber for $4 a month and get two weekly Nuggets of Dating Advice podcast episodes and one weekly full-length Dateology Coach podcast episode that includes an analysis of dating-related content and other pop culture media. SUBSCRIBE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember

LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/women-are-freezing-their-eggs-because#details In This Episode: We discuss a listener-submitted letter about a dehumanizing experience with a man on a dating app. How some men disguise their sexual dysfunction by not showing interest in physical intimacy and by “being respectful.” We review an article stating that the lack of quality potential partners is compelling many women to freeze their eggs. We recap And Just Like That Ep 7 and our favorite masochists, Carrie and Aidan's reunion. BECOME A PAYING SUBSCRIBER AND SAVE 20% https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember Join the fun! Become a paid subscriber for $4 a month and get two weekly Nuggets of Dating Advice podcast episodes and one weekly full-length Dateology Coach podcast episode that includes an analysis of dating-related content and other pop culture media.

Listen to three examples of men lecturing women about having standards and preferences. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/welcome-to-whiny-men-on-the-internet#details SUBSCRIBE AND SAVE 20% - PAY ONLY $4 A MONTH Join the fun! Become a paid subscriber at $4 a month and get access to weekly full-length podcast episodes and regular Nuggets of Dating Wisdom mini-podcasts. https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember

Enjoy our re-cap of And Just Like That Episode 5. In this week's installment, we learn Carrie is still socially inappropriate and makes us cringe. Also, the writers finally expose Che Diaz. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/men-using-manipulative-therapy-speak#details SUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO FULL EPISODES & SAVE 20%: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember JOIN OUR PRIVATE ONLINE COMMUNITY; https://dateologycoachnetwork.mn.co/

He told her he thinks they should be FWB before dating. Bless his heart. He thinks the decision is up to him. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE - https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/myth-buster-women-not-men-are-the#details SUBSCRIBE TO LISTEN TO FULL EPISODES & SAVE 20%: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember JOIN OUR PRIVATE ONLINE COMMUNITY; https://dateologycoachnetwork.mn.co/

Listen to a story about a real-life Carrie, Big, Aidan toxic love triangle LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE - SUBSCRIBE AND SAVE 20%: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember JOIN OUR PRIVATE ONLINE COMMUNITY; https://dateologycoachnetwork.mn.co/

Boy are those feminine energy coaches going to be PISSED. We discuss an NPR article that shatters the myth that men are hunters who like the chase. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE - SUBSCRIBE AND SAVE 20%: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember JOIN OUR PRIVATE ONLINE COMMUNITY; https://dateologycoachnetwork.mn.co/ In This Episode: A woman fears a man will reject her if her appearance changes. Is your partner obligated to stay in shape and maintain their appearance throughout the relationship? Are all men that don't wear wedding rings sketchy? We blow the doors off the “men are hunters” myth Analysis of And Just Like That Episode 4. Spoiler alert: Che still sucks.

LISTEN TO FULL EPISODES - SAVE 20% To listen to full-length podcast episodes, become a paying subscriber. For $5 a month, you'll get the weekly full-length podcast & additional weekly Nuggets of Wisdom mini-podcasts. https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/is-being-single-by-choice-the-same#details In This Episode: Why a malignant narcissist is so dangerous. If you don't prioritize dating or stop altogether, does that mean you've given up? Why are so many people bothered by plus-sized women's confidence? Should you date when you're in debt? A woman wonders is she should remove her impressive careers from her profile to avoid matching with creeps. Should a woman pursue a relationship with a man at work? We recap Ep 3 of And Just Like That.

In this Nugget episode, I discuss preferences, standards, and how nobody gets to decide them for you. A man with significant debt keeps getting ghosted after he discloses his financial situation. Should he take a break from dating? A writer has many thoughts about a plus-sized woman having the audacity to be attracted to conventionally fit men. Single people with visible or invisible disabilities (or anyone who doesn't meet conventional beauty standards) are allowed to have preferences. LISTEN TO FULL EPISODES - SAVE 20% To listen to full-length podcast episodes, become a paying subscriber. For $5 a month, you'll get the weekly full-length podcast & additional weekly Nuggets of Wisdom mini-podcasts. https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember

Enjoy a special And Just Like That… analysis episode. Spoiler alerts abound, so listen with caution. Topics covered: How women are discouraged from listening to their instincts. Miranda's transformation into Carrie 2.0. Freeloading men. How women hold it all down when the men around them are losing it. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE - SUBSCRIBE FOR $4 A MONTH https://dateologycoach.substack.com/currentmember FULL EPISODE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/miranda-has-become-the-new-carrie#details

In “F*ck This Guy” news, a man on Tik Tok thinks that if a woman has a high body count, she has low standards. The problem with this argument is that it implies men only sleep with women that meet their standards. And we know that isn't true. SUBSCRIBE TO MY SUBSTACK & LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/a-double-dose-of-fck-that-guy#details

In this teaser episode, we talk about why scaring off your situationships is a superpower every woman needs. SUBSCRIBE AT 20% OFF AND LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/subscribe?coupon=58c60f68 IN THE FULL-LENGTH EPISODE: In This Episode: A man wonders why the single mom he's dating doesn't need him aka doesn't make more time for him. We dissect the confirming the date issue. How often should you communicate after you set the first date? Who should confirm and when? We tell the male listeners the key to getting women to date them. How some signs of narcissistic behavior might actually be neurodivergence. A woman calls out a clout chaser who posted a video of her friends and made up a story for attention. What happens when women finally say the quiet part out loud to their situationship.

Listen as a man whines about women using filtered photos on dating apps as though he doesn't know humans have pores, and we aren't born with glittery pink shadow on our eyelids. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/who-lies-more-about-their-appearance#details In This Episode: Kim Cattrall is returning to And Just Like That for a cameo and we discuss why she left the franchise. Is it women that baby trap men or the other way around? Is this the new way men tell women they're open to a relationship? Why the advice to hold off on sex until a commitment is offered is toxic to women. Three women talk about what they did when they found out their partners bought fake engagement rings. STI testing and why it's unlikely men will do it when asked. A man complains about women using filters on dating apps and insists men don't lie about their appearance.

Enjoy a teaser of this week's podcast. Listen as we dissect the ranting of an angry man who thinks women should alter their preferences and lower their standards so more men can get laid. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/angry-short-men-breakup-guilt-and#details In This Episode: A man tells women to consider short men's feelings and asks them how they'd feel if rejected for superficial criteria. Sir. We discuss the myth of getting attached after sex and having sex “too soon.” Do men worry that a woman will get attached after sex, or is that only something women worry about? We talk about the Jodi Arias case and the psychological abuse that made her kill her ex-boyfriend. How much effort should you make when you first start dating someone? Are breakups harder for the person initiating the breakup? Is there ever a good time to get back with an Ex? Why you should buy a fake engagement ring and how it will make you more successful at dating. JOIN OUR COMMUNITY OF BRILLIANT, EMPATHETIC, AND INSIGHTFUL WOMEN: Become a Substack subscriber and meet other single women currently navigating the dating scene or who are choosing to stay single. We host group activities, check-ins, dating advice sessions and other community-focused events. Subscribe here: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/ *Get my Write The Best Dating Profile Ever Online Course* dateologycoach.thinkific.com/courses/wr…ingprofile *Submit Your Dating Questions* www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question *Get my Master Online Dating Online Course* dateologycoach.thinkific.com/

This week's podcast teaser covers one of my favorite Sex & The City episodes, “I Love a Charade. We discuss the false narrative that women must fix themselves to find love, how society defines love and marriage, and why Carrie was the worst sex columnist ever. Also, a few of us met on Zoom last night, and everybody shared their dating profiles. People found the feedback so helpful I've scheduled another for May 23rd. To attend and get a free profile review and access full-length podcast episodes, just become a paying subscriber and save 20%. (Only $8 a month!) SUBSCRIBE HERE https://dateologycoach.substack.com/subscribe?coupon=58c60f68 Here is a list of upcoming Zoom sessions: May 16 - Plus-Sized Dating Support Session May 18 - Check-in & Support Session - 5pm Start Time May 23 - Group Dating Profile Review Session - 5pm Start time - Note: Certain session parts may be recorded and posted on Substack. You can turn off your camera if you don't want to be recorded. May 23 - Dating Advice Session - 6pm start time Jun 1 - Group Check-In & Support Session Jun 6 - Plus-Sized Dating Support Session Jun 8 - Group Check-in & Support Session - 6pm Start time