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It's our First of The Month Free Episode! Subscribe to our Patreon to listen to our weekly full-length episodes. https://www.patreon.com/dateologypod Listen to a guy whip up a bogus word salad excuse for keeping a woman on the hook so he can continue to get laid. How to stop a fuckboy in his tracks Is there a way to vet potential new partners for toxic relationship patterns? Why do men give the silent treatment?
LISTEN TO THE FULL HOUR-PLUS LONG EPISODE- SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/posts/59001981 IN THE FULL EPISODE: We kick off the episode with a little pop culture. IN THIS EPISODE: Let's normalize using men for sex Why Chris Pratt is misogynistic trash & Paul Rudd is an unproblematic king Taylor Swift's call-out of Jake Gyllenhall and the downside of publicly discussing your love/sex life. A man's take on why men lose interest so quickly The STD Step - Why do people really ask you to get tested? Should you tell someone you're a virgin & how common it is to be a virgin over 30.
BECOME A PATRON TO LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE https://www.patreon.com/posts/58449053 IN THIS EPISODE: Why the whole masculine/feminine energy discussion is bullshit rooted in homophobia A dating story with more red flags than a carnival What men really mean when they say they're looking for someone "open-minded" The new trend of women flying across the country to meet strange men from the internet What constitutes a "real" relationship
FOLLOW US ON PATREON FOR MORE WEEKLY FULL-LENGTH EPISODES https://www.patreon.com/dateologypod IN THIS FIRST OF THE MONTH FREE EPISODE: Why men are so bad at making conversation and don't ask questions on first dates. How should you react when they tell you they're dating other people? Signs the person you like has put you on the back burner. Why it's so hard to get over toxic people. Two red flags NEVER to ignore. Why Interacting With Women Can Leave Men Cognitively Impaired https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/why-interacting-with-woman-leave-man-cognitively-impaired/
LISTEN TO THIS WEEK'S FULL-LENGTH EPISODE HERE: https://www.patreon.com/posts/57836821 You've stated your intentions in your dating profile. You're both on the same page. Now learn how to avoid having your time wasted.
SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PATREON TO LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: https://www.patreon.com/posts/57545643 Hold on to your butts. We go on a RANT about why women need to stop caring if men ghost after sex. It doesn't matter, ladies. Fuck that guy and then FUCK THAT GUY. IN THIS EPISODE: Why it's a red flag if your match shows their friend your profile before you meet Creepy men who obsessively trash women that reject them When should men tell women they don't want anything serious? Signs your match is a flake and wants you to do all the work
SUBSCRIBE TO MY SUBSTACK TO HEAR THE FULL EPISODE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/latest-podcast-mental-health-matters IN THE FULL EPISODE: IN THIS EPISODE: How does she convince her matches not to want marriage and kids? A man has a tantrum about women not looking like their dating profile photos Should a man continue to support his professionally & financially unstable girlfriend? What to do when their mental health is interfering with your relationship Why you shouldn't wait too long to tell a man you're looking for a relationship.
SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PATREON & LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE https://www.patreon.com/posts/57264672 IN THIS EPISODE: Who's The Bad Art Friend? A woman sues a friend for writing a snarky short story about her attention seeking Facebook Group Christan's experience with trauma brain Men who lie about having kids The secret to finding a relationship online Lying about your age in your dating profile & how to attract matches your age Is her boyfriend losing interest or is she being insecure?
Listen to the full episode on our Patreon1 Subscribe here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/57072611 Submit a dating question: https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question IN THE FULL EPISODE: A Bumble conversation that went horribly wrong Why can she only attract younger men? Should she tell two women they're dating the same man? Should she dump her unemployed boyfriend?
Enjoy our First of The Month Free Full-Length Episode! Subscribe to our Patreon & Substack to get additional exclusive episodes https://www.patreon.com/dateologypod https://dateologycoach.substack.com In this episode: 1. The #Couchguy viral video on Tik Tok and why it's another example of people getting off watching a woman be humiliated. 2. Pervy messages and the common pattern they follow. 3. Requests for nudes and the double standard involving women being judged for sending but men not being judged for asking. 4. How being lonely can actually help you find a great relationship. 5. Should you circle back to a match that ghosted you mid-conversation? SUBMIT A DATING QUESTION HERE! https://www.dateologycoach.com/submit-a-question Check Out My Master Online Dating Courses https://dateologycoach.thinkific.com/collections
Enjoy a teaser from this week's full-length episode. SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PATREON TO LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: https://www.patreon.com/posts/56392154 IN THIS EPISODE: *Why more and more women are ditching their husbands and getting divorced *Just looking for a hook-up? How to do it without matching with creeps *What to say when someone asks your body count *Why sexual exclusivity is not a thing *Dating someone who isn't on your financial level
Here's a teaser of this week's Substack Podcast. To hear the full episode subscribe here: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/blocking-exes-toxic-exes-and-fatphobia IN THIS EPISODE: *Should she give men who rejected her before she lost weight a second chance? *Is it worth teaching men what you like in bed or are their egos too fragile to take instruction? *Is she dating the same toxic person over and over? *When should you block an ex on social media?
Here's this week's teaser for our full-length episode available only to Patreon subscribers. *To listen to the full episode, subscribe here* https://www.patreon.com/posts/56084509 In this episode: *How do you avoid matching with tourists? *Are women to blame for why men don't want to commit? *Has the pandemic made people more avoidant? *How does she stop meeting guys who ghost, cheat or blow her off? *Is he interested or is he using her for a ride to the gym?
It's our Free First Episode of The Month! Alternate title: F*ck That Guy: Endgame Listen to all of our weekly full-length and bonus shows by subscribing to our Patreon here https://www.patreon.com/dateologypod In this episode: *We kick things off by discussing Ryan Murphy's fatphobia *The reason men love relationships with a pre-determined endings. *Why men cheat instead of breaking-up with you. *Casual sex and why if he wanted to, he would
Here's a teaser from this week's Substack exclusive podcast episode. We discuss a woman's "strategy" for getting a guy that ghosted to come back. Subscribe and listen to the entire episode and all weekly Substack podcasts episodes. (These are not the same eps posted to our Patreon.) SUBSCRIBE HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/they-ghosted-you-for-a-reason
Welcome to the weekly teaser! Listen to the full episode here https://www.patreon.com/posts/55212923 IN THIS EPISODE *Should she mention in her dating profile that she had weight loss surgery? *Dating profile photo tips when you have a physical feature you're trying to hide. *Should women date more than one man at a time? *Messing tips and how to avoid being boring. *How do you know if someone has more dating options than you?
Listen to Tik Tok Creator AsianBimbo69 explain how her time working in real estate prepared her for vetting potential matches and weeding our guys who are going to waste your time. MARK ROSENFELD'S VIDEO ABOUT WHY MEN LOSE INTEREST AFTER SEX: https://youtu.be/EycJ496UwwE SOURCES FOR THIS EPISODE CAN BE FOUND HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/why-men-lose-interest-after-sex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PATREON AND LISTEN TO WEEKLY FULL LENGTH EPISODES https://www.patreon.com/dateologypod MASTER ONLINE DATING ZOOM WORKSHOP - AUG 24 For relationship-focused singles! https://www.dateologycoach.com/product-page/modworkshop
BECOME A PATRON AND LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE - SUBSCRIBE HERE: https://www.patreon.com/posts/54934652 We might have to come up with a new catch phrase after this episode. *A woman writes in asking how she can get her boyfriend to stop making fun of her *We listen to a Tik Tok from a woman whose date had the audacity to suggest she lose 100 pounds. *A woman wants to know how to get over the man that possibly used her to leave his wife. *We talk about how to vet your matches to see if they're emotionally available
We saved the best letter for this week's bonus podcast. See letter & listen to the full episode here. https://www.patreon.com/posts/54441416 Also discussed: Should I start a Youtube Channel? “Exposing” male dating coaches Why break-ups are so painful Guys who check casual sex & long term relationship on their dating profiles
Subscribe to our Patreon and listen to weekly full-length episodes and minisodes: https://www.patreon.com/dateologypod It's our first of the month free episode! Unsolicited Dick Pics. Why? In addition to deconstructing that mystery of The Universe in this episode we talk about: *Bitchy dating profiles *Questions to ask your matches to see if they're toxic or just looking for sex *Our suspicion that liberal women are being targeted on dating apps *How long does it take for someone to know if they want to commit? Want To Meet Decent Men Online? Write A Bitchy Dating Profile https://betterhumans.pub/want-to-meet-decent-men-online-write-a-bitchy-profile-10de19d262d9?gi=db162a8deef4
SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PATREON & LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://www.patreon.com/posts/53826217 IN THIS EPISODE: Should men have to pay if they're not interested in a 2nd date? Will it be hard for her to find someone who doesn't want marriage and kids? How much should you chat before and how do you confirm your first date? Are first dates at his place a red flag? Are people now using 1st dates as free therapy? Dating lessons we learned from The Godfather
Over the course of the next month he made amends by going back to being attentive and consistent..by now it's Valentine's Day and I asked him what were we doing for that date and he said that was a day for kids/teens!!!..He did nothing special for me despite my telling him I wanted to..We had one more date after our first one and I could tell he expected sex but I felt I wasn't ready to take that step just yet..that was the last time I saw him physically... Read the full letter here: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/perfect-example-of-why-men-are-trash SUBSRIBE TO MY SUBSTACK NEWSLETTER FOR MORE DATING ADVICE POSTS & EXCLUSIVE PODCASTS https://dateologycoach.substack.com/
LISTEN TO THE FULL SUBSTACK-SUBSCRIBER PODCAST HERE: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/welcome-to-peen-week It's Peen Week here on The ‘Stack. Listen in as Sarah and I break down: *Why men with broken penises have THE AUDACITY *Why public claims of maintaining a rotation of men - if true - is harmful to other women. *Red Flags in women that aren't actually red flags
BECOME A PATREON SUBSCRIBER & LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://www.patreon.com/posts/53560783 In this episode: *We get a little true crime-y and discuss Netflix's Sophie: A Murder In West Cork *How does she get rid of her meth-loving match? *Beware The Low Effort Man *Should she stick out her rocky marriage? *Ways to filter out sex-seeking time-wasters Cat Person: https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2017/12/11/cat-person “Cat Person” and Me https://slate.com/human-interest/2021/07/cat-person-kristen-roupenian-viral-story-about-me.html
In this Patreon episode: How and when does she tell men she wants to adopt? Why isn't she sexually attracted to her partner anymore? Is her boyfriend in love with his female best friend? How does she find out if her best male friend wants to date her? He dumped her to go back to his ex. Should she give him a second chance? LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE (For Patreon Subscribers Only) https://www.patreon.com/posts/rebounds-love-in-53322221 LISTEN TO THIS WEEK'S SUBSTACK SUBSCRIBER PODCAST EPISODE: Subscribe for $5 and listen here: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/big-little-bonus-episode-older-womenyounger Why I side-eye older women/younger men relationships How men need to step it up in the self-care department Should she stay with a man who's broke? The pitfalls of texting with someone for too long without meeting
We're back! Thank you for allowing us a little time to decompress. Here's this month's First of The Month Free episode. SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PATREON TO LISTEN TO MORE FULL-LENGTH EPISODES: https://www.patreon.com/dateologypod IN THIS FREE EPISODE: *Vice London featured Christan in a story about a marketing scam of men posing as single women on the internet. See story here: https://youtu.be/e2QpVBrVtMo *Inter-racial dating & concerns people in marginalized communities have about dating online. *How to handle dating when you have a strained relationship with your family *Signs your date isn't interested they're just looking for validation *Sneaky ways men try to earn "vagina credit." Subscribe to my Substack community and read my dating advice column and more exclusive podcast episodes not published on Patreon. Subscribe here: https://dateologycoach.substack.com/
Buckle up, because we're calling some people out in this episode. Content thieves, smug male creators and women that perpetuate Bro-Science myths regarding sex, attachment and making men wait for sex. BECOME A $5 PATREON SUBSCRIBER AND LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://www.patreon.com/posts/52714912
BECOME A PATREON AND LISTEN TO THIS WEEK'S EXCLUSIVE SUBSCRIBER EPISODE. Subscribe here: https://www.patreon.com/dateologypod IN THIS EPISODE: *Should she leave her married boyfriend? *What is masculine and feminine energy and is it total bullshit? *Why masculinity is trash. *Will looks always win over personality? *Should she do a background check on her daughter's new man?
SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PATREON AND LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://www.patreon.com/posts/emotional-whiny-51886808 We've got follow-up from the woman from last week's episode who found emails from her boyfriend to his ex! Also in this episode: *Our thoughts on including Astrological signs & Myers Brigg's personality types in your dating profile *When to ask someone if they want kids *Should you date more than one person at a time? *A Tik Tok Influencer who can never admit he's wrong can't understand why he's still single. *Why do some couples always want to hang wout with their single friends?
SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PATREON TO LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE https://www.patreon.com/posts/51610507 IN THIS EXTENDED TEASER EPISODE: *Why situationships & FWBs rarely work in the woman's favor. *Should she leave if he doesn't sign a pre-nup? *Why do women settle for The Girlfriend Experience instead of the real thing? *When someone says in their profile they're looking for someone "athletic" what does that really mean?
No Brokies! In this bonus episode we discuss whether a woman's financial security and independence is a selling point, dating profile tips to avoid attracting grifters & why "men want women to be more feminine" is utter bullshit. BECOME A PATRON AND LISTEN TO ALL FULL-LENGTH AND BONUS EPISODE FOR $5 A MONTH https://www.patreon.com/dateologypod TIK TOK DISCUSSED IN EPISODE: https://www.tiktok.com/@misshyperglam/video/6957363323310443782?lang=en&is_copy_url=1&is_from_webapp=v1
You're not going to want to miss this one. In this episode we ponder how a man can tactfully ask a woman to help pay for dates. We also analyze one of the most obnoxious dating profiles we've ever seen. BECOME A PATRON FOR $5 A MONTH. SUBSCRIBE AND LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://www.patreon.com/posts/how-does-he-get-51330769
BECOME A PATREON MEMBER FOR $5 AND LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://www.patreon.com/posts/weve-got-tea-2nd-51064737 The letter writer from last week's show follows up with more info about why her new boyfriend's ex sent her a friend request. The story involves romance scammers, brain injuries & LOTS of hurt feelings. We also discuss: *A woman wants to know how if she should leave her younger man because he wants kids. *The problem with TMI on a second date. *Are political differences THAT important? (Hint: YES.) *Why you probably keep matching with creeps from out-of-state. *Signs they're still married.
Here's this month's free episode! Become a Patron and get access to our member's only full-length episodes and mini-sodes. Join here: https://www.patreon.com/dateologypod In this episode: *Why do we define success by marraige and kids? *Ways to improve lingering trust issues *How does she get her partner to plan more dates? *Tips for online dating when you're newly single after divorce. *Why is her new partner's ex trying to befriend her? *Tips for dating when you're on the asexuality spectrum. *Signs you shouldn't date someone with kids.
LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE - BECOME A PATRON FOR $5 - LISTEN HERE: https://www.patreon.com/posts/50361826 Listen in as Sarah shares her tested method for determining if your Bumble match is a racist homophobe. Letters answered: *How do I know if the person I'm dating is a bigot? *Why are we still encouraging women to use sex to get a relationship? *How does she get her toxic ex to leave her alone? *Why isn't the man she's dating contacting her more frequently?
Is it just us or are more and more women getting stood up on dates? What's going on?? BECOME A PATRON FOR $5 AND HEAR THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://www.patreon.com/posts/why-youre-first-50191548 Topics covered in this week's full episode: *Are older men that try to date much younger women predators? *Why do men keep unmatching her? *Why are so many women getting stood up? *Will she scare a man off if she tells him she's looking for a relationship? *What to say when your match asks you what you're looking for. *Dating App Red Flag: You only communicate on the app
A woman writes in wanting to know how to discuss her involvement with the BDSM community with her matches. We also delve into a story about a woman dating man who shows signs of being psychologically abusive. BECOME A PATRON FOR $5 A MONTH AND LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE: https://www.patreon.com/posts/49799580
Have you heard of Post-Nut Clarity? Men say it's the moment after someone orgasm's when they realize they aren't really into the person they just had sex with. It's a thing, apparently. Only...it's not. We discuss what that post-climax ennui is really all about and why too many people use it as an excuse to ghost. BECOME A PATRON FOR $5 - LISTEN TO THE FULL 30 MINUTE EPISODE HERE: https://www.patreon.com/posts/is-this-why-some-49614060
Sarah has had a week so buckle up. We talk about dating on the asexuality spectrum, people that unload their problems on unsuspecting Bumble matches, the importance of enthusiastic consent and awkward first dates with clingy men. BONUS EPISODES ON PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/dateologypod
We're talking about awkward first date kisses, an overly sensitive Ted Talker on Bumble, one reason why people block you on social media and why it's toxic, and how to avoid the dating app time wasters. BECOME A PATRON AND LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE https://www.patreon.com/dateologypod
Here's the teaser for this week's episode. We're talking why some men choose porn over having sex with their partners; why you shouldn't Google your dates if you have trust issues; how to break toxic dating patterns; and how you recover when that guy you met online dies. Yes. Actually dies. To listen to the full episode, become a Patron for $5 a month. Become a Patron here: https://www.patreon.com/dateologypod Your paid membership includes 3 members-only full-length episodes posted every Thursday night and a paid subscription to The Dateology Coach newsletter. Newsletter includes 2-3 public dating advice columns as well as 2-3 members only columns/mini-podcast episodes.
Enjoy the teaser to this week's full-length Patrons only episode. We're talking about toxic dating rules and why they all need to die in a fire. Become a Patron for $5 a month and get 3 full-length episodes every Thursday night, a free subscription to The Dateology Coach Dating Advice Newsletter and bonus mini-episodes. Become a Patron here: https://www.patreon.com/dateologypod
What would you do if you went home with someone after a date and saw two empty condom wrappers in their waste basket? That happened to one man and we talk about it in this episode. Also covered: *The struggle of dating with an anxious attachment style *One woman's refusal to post full-body shots to her profile & why that could lead to a very uncomfortable first date. *How some people think they want a relationship but really don't We also talk about the struggle of dating with an anxious attachment style, why full-body shots are necessary and the excuses we give when trying to break up with someone. Was he always going to break up with her? https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/was-he-always-going-to-break-up-with ****IMPORTANT***** Reminder: the remaining March episodes will be for Patrons only. Subscribe to our Patreon and you'll get 3 full-length episodes per month, bonus mini-episodes, and a free subscription to Dateology Coach's Substack advice newsletter. Subscribe to our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/dateologypod
We open with Christan's experience with a hostile Tik Tok Troll and why women fear rejecting men. We keep it moving with letters about men using women for their apartment, dead end situationships, getting too invested after first dates and why your male BFF might be toxic. DOES HE REALLY LIKE HER OR IS HE JUST USING HER? https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/does-he-really-like-her-or-is-he HOW TO AVOID THE POST-FIRST DATE FREAK OUT https://dateologycoach.substack.com/p/how-to-avoid-the-post-first-date
Can't seem to get a second date and wonder why? We've got an answer! We're talking a boyfriend who wants to go on The Bachelor, a man who wonders why he loses interest after every first date, a woman engaged to an emotional trainwreck, and why we sometimes fixate on people we know don't want us. You might still be single because of something called the 'paradox of choice' — here's what it means https://www.businessinsider.com/how-the-paradox-of-choice-could-explain-why-youre-still-single-2018-2
We answer more listener letters: *Are men intimidated by her post-grad degree? *Who invests more on dates: men or women? *Why did he lie about sleeping with someone else? *Dating Profile Decoder: What he really means when he says he's affectionate
Is Bumble protecting white supremacists? We discuss. Letters answered on today's show: 1. If they're sexting why hasn't he made a move? 2. Signs your new relationship is on the right track...or not 3. Is he still in love with his Ex? 4. Is her intelligence scaring men off? Bumble removed its political filter after people said they used it to lure conservatives who were at the Capitol riot into sending incriminating evidence https://www.businessinsider.com/bumble-removes-political-filter-encouraged-find-capitol-rioters-evidence-2021-1
Tune in as we answer listener letters. 1. Is my choice to be celibate keeping me single? 2. How do I let go of my ex? 3. Signs you're a rebound 4. Dating profile photo problems 5. Why aren't I matching with anyone I like?
Hate those fish pics men post to their dating profile? We know why! We're talking profile pics, financial inquiries and why trying to make men jump through hoops never works. Single moms with “stay at home parent” for a career https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/kt55w0/single_moms_with_stay_at_home_parent_for_a_career/ To bikini photo or not to bikini photo...that is the question. https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/ksrain/to_bikini_photo_or_not_to_bikini_photothat_is_the/