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Naomi chats with Nicole Soule of How to Train a Dream Dog about the similarities between being parents of young children and animal trainers, raising children alongside pets and her own adventures of moving her own multi-species household in with her fiancé and his dog - all while being pregnant with their first child! Key Moments[00:34] Guest introduction [01:19] Icebreaker: Two truths and a lie about Nicole [04:22] Training Service Dogs [05:29] Cast of characters: Charlie the human, Voo the cat, and Copper and Olive the dogs [07:30] Voo's resistance to change/problems with UTIs through stress [08:34] Changes for Voo: A new man-human, a new doggy roommate, and a new baby on the way [10:11] Voo: a resource guarding cat [10:40] Voo vs. Charlie - the incident [12:06] Challenges surrounding Charlie's different background in handling animal behavior [12:37] Voo's extreme behavior around food [14:48] Management to prevent conflict around food [17:01] Being proactive not reactive [18:31] The iceberg model of behavior [20:44] Current state of affairs between Charlie and Voo [22:11] Olive passing away and the effects on Voo and Copper [22:57] Getting Voo and Copper ready for the new baby [25:04] Preparing for changes in behavior when the baby started walking/moving about on her own [28:07] "Inviter not invader": teaching baby to respect the pet's space [30:39] The similarities between managing dog/cat interactions and pet/baby interactions [31:14] When to start teaching children how to interact with pets [32:12] Researching and preparing ahead for children's interactions with pets (at different stages of their development) [34:33] Can you be a force-free animal trainer while being a with less-than-force-free parent? [39:08] Self-reflection/self-criticism as parents and as animal trainers [40:39] How a background in animal training has helped in parenting [43:18] The importance of “apologizing” to your pets and kids [43:57] Understanding the need for positive interaction after conflict to reset the relationship [44:28] Working through choices and no-choice situations with kids and pets Resources Discussed: https://www.instagram.com/biglittlefeelings/ (Big Little Feelings Instagram) https://takingcarababies.com/ (Taking Cara Babies) https://www.nocrysolution.com/books/the-no-cry-sleep-solution-solution-2/ (The No-Cry Sleep Solution) https://www.instagram.com/howtotrainadreamdog/ (How to Train a Dream Dog) https://www.instagram.com/praiseworthypets (DM Naomi to suggest other trainers to interview!)
This episode focuses on evening or bedtime routines for kids. We discuss various ways to make bedtime less stressful for everyone and set the family up for success the following day. Take a listen to find out how I compare my kids to iPads. The No-Cry Sleep Solution by Elizabeth Pantley Follow us @theteachermamaspodcast @ashes2fitrition @teacher_mama_roberta
Were our parents good parents? We have no complaints. Well, maybe a few tiny ones. Mentioned: Transforming the Difficult Child by Howard Glasser; The Child with Special Needs by Stanley Greenspan; The No-Cry Sleep Solution by Elizabeth Pantley; psychologist Adele Brodkin.
From infancy, it seems we're set up to struggle with our kids around bedtime. This is the S.U.R.E. Parenting approach to make bedtime run more smoothly and enjoyably for everyone. Free call: bit.ly/callsami Email list: bit.ly/sureparentingemails S.U.R.E. Parenting: Building Blocks to Create Their Best Childhood: bit.ly/sureparentingbook The No-Cry Sleep Solution: https://amzn.to/2Xykwte www.sureparenting.com
Everyone has an opinion on the controversial topic of putting babies on a schedule. Here's my take as a mom of 10! In this episode: Why babies don't sleep. How to make the choice between scheduling and not scheduling. My favorite ways to help babies sleep. Resources mentioned: Sleep Training post on Raising Arrows - https://www.raisingarrows.net/2013/03/ask-amy-sleep-training-babies/ No Cry Sleep Solution by Elizabeth Pantley - http://amzn.to/2EdUSo8 Rock 'n Play Sleeper - http://amzn.to/2FHnoLV
00:29 Canada Mourns: Nicole is saddened by the loss of two important Canadians, actor John Dunsworth and Gord Downie of The Tragically Hip.06:40 Were Our Parents Good Parents? We have no complaints. Well, maybe a few tiny ones. Mentioned: Transforming the Difficult Child by Howard Glasser; The Child with Special Needs by Stanley Greenspan; The No-Cry Sleep Solution by Elizabeth Pantley; psychologist Adele Brodkin.27:39 Friday Speed Round: Morning Routines: The ability to wake up without an alarm clock is not a universal feature of most kids... or parents.37:33 Roundabout Roundup: Catherine's coloring with the Sandbox app; Nicole's reading SciBabe on Facebook; and Terri recommends these gluten-free goodies: GeeFree puffed-pastry snacks, Lebby Chickpea Snacks, Honey Stinger energy chews, and Garlic Expressions salad dressing.45:04 Shameless Self-Promotion: Terri's tweets from the Gluten-Free and Allergy-Friendly Expo; Star Babies; Nicole's book (again!) on Amazon.Thanks as always to Jon Morin for our fun in-and-out music. If you're reading this somewhere without hyperlinks, come to http://parentingroundabout.com for the full recap experience.
Join the Joyful CourageTribe in our community Facebook group - Live and Love with Joyful Courage. Raising our children while growing ourselves... My guest today is Rebecca Michi, a children's sleep consultant and mother of two daughters. In her work with families over the years, Rebecca found that sleep issues were a common problem. This realization led her to specialize on the subject and offer coaching help to many parents. I'm thrilled to get her insights into this issue—and( let's be truthful),haven't we all had some pull-our-hair-out moments? Whether you're a brand new parent or the parent of teens, Rebecca has great tips to share. Join us! What you'll hear in this episode: Temperaments and sleep patterns are unique to each person. Rebecca's average client is 8 months old! Most children need help falling asleep and STAYING asleep. Her philosophy? Support parents in their parenting style Unique family dynamics Sleep: Why it's a very basic need Sleeping “through the night” is usually defined as 5 consecutive hours AFTER midnight. “Good sleeper” or “bad sleeper” At bedtime, focus on relaxation and physically slowing down. Other bedtime routines can be singing songs, reading books, and quiet play. Negotiables and non-negotiables about bedtime Giving children SOME choices gives them healthy empowerment. Teens' sleep patterns change (but they STILL need 8-9 hours!) Limit evening electronics and bright lights (use incandescent bulbs) Rebecca shares the guidelines for number of sleep hours needed, from ages 0-3 months to 13 years. It's normal to wake 2-6 times each night. The goal for your child? The ability to get themselves back to sleep when waking Don't make sleep or the bedroom a means of punishment! What does Joyful Courage mean to you? “It means going forward on your parenting journey, even when it's unknown, and trying to enjoy it! Look at it in a positive way.” Resources: www.childrenssleepconsultant.com Find Rebecca on Facebook, too! The No-Cry Sleep Solution by Elizabeth Pantley :::::::::: Brain Informed Parenting - A Webinar This week for Wednesday Webinar (7.27.16), I will share some basic brain science that you don't need to be a genius to understand. When we have a basic understanding of our kids brain development, and our own, it can shift the way we interact with our kids, deepening our relationships and keeping us focused on teaching skills. You DO NOT want to miss this hour! :::::::::: #JoyfulCourage10I would LOVE to have you check out the latest offer I have for parents - it is FREE and SUPER supportive!! Just click here for more info and to register. :::::::::: Join the Joyful CourageTribe in our community Facebook group - Live and Love with Joyful Courage. Raising our children while growing ourselves... :::::::::: Make sure to SUBSCRIBE to the Joyful Courage Podcast on iTunes to get the latest shows STRAIGHT to your device!! AND PLEASE rate and review the Joyful Courage Parenting Podcast on iTunes to help me spread the show to an ever larger audience!! :::::::::::
Practical Research Parenting Podcast| evidence-based | raising children | positive parenting
Cry it out and controlled crying are commonly recommended for addressing sleep problems. There are alternative sleep training methods. Mindell and colleagues (2006) reviewed research on 5 approaches (including cry it out and controlled crying). They concluded that each approach was much more effective than no intervention at reducing bedtime problems and night wakings. In summary, any approach that improves sleep for babies and mothers has benefits for the family. I would recommend prevention education for babies under 6 months old. For babies and toddlers 6 months and up I would try positive routines before scheduled awakenings, controlled crying, or cry it out. The review found all methods to be beneficial. Here are quick links to the 5 methods reviewed: 1. Prevention education 2. Positive Routines/ Faded Bedtime 3. Scheduled Awakenings 4 & 5. Cry it out and controlled crying If none of these sound quite right for you, or you just want more options check out: The Sensible Sleep Solution by Sarah Blunden The Possums Sleep Intervention from Possums Online The Dream Baby Guide by Sheyne Rowley The Sleep Options Wizard for 0-5 Year Olds for the entire range of suggestions tailored to your child Sleep training approach 1: Prevention education Prevention education involves teaching parents sleep strategies. The following advice was provided in five large evaluation studies. Advice common to all studies is stated first. Advice unique to a single study is stated last. Settling methods Lie baby in the cot sleepy but awake. If baby won't settle, try again after one of these (Give each action 10 minutes to work before trying another; James‐Roberts &Gillham, 2001): Check nappy. Check and adjust temperature. Try burping. Stroke and talk softly. Cuddle if necessary. Importance of routine. "Dream feed" between 10pm and midnight*. Bath at the same time each day. Maximise day and night differences (noise, light, activity levels). Respond to physical needs at night, but keep lights dim and avoid playing and socialising. If weight gain is sufficient at 3 weeks of age, stretch intervals between night feeds by using alternative settling methods*. Respond to crying, not fretting. Babies often fret before falling back to sleep. Don't allow lengthy daytime sleep. Change the nappy every night feed if 3 or 4 hours apart, or as required for night feeds less than 3 or 4 hours apart. *Steps marked with an * were recommended, but were not followed by parents. They may still be effective, but cannot explain the observed results. Does this advice work? Yes. The studies reviewed found that babies of parents given advice like this: Were more likely to sleep for 5+ continuous hours at night at 6-9 weeks (Pinilla & Birch, 1993; Wolfson, Lacks, & Futterman, 1992) and 12 weeks of age (2.5 times more likely than a control group; James‐Roberts & Gillham, 2001). Woke and fed less frequently at night at 6-9 weeks of age (but still consumed the same amount of milk per 24 hour period as babies in a control group; Pinilla & Birch, 1993; Wolfson et al., 1992). Slept for longer at night (total sleep compared to a control group; Pinilla & Birch, 1993). Had fewer night wakings, and woke on fewer nights at 9 months of age (than babies in a control group; Adair, Zuckerman, Bauchner, Philipp, & Levenson, 1992; Kerr, Jowett, & Smith, 1996). Had fewer difficulties settling to sleep at 9 months of age (than babies in a control group; Adair et al., 1992; Kerr et al., 1996). Philosophy This advice attempts to set up 'good' habits early. 'Good' is based on largely Western ideals of independence and pragmatic preferences for feeding more during the day than the night. Whether this is 'good' advice depends on the parents ideals and family situation. The No Cry Sleep Solution by Elizabeth Pantley provides a lot of this advice in d...
Practical Research Parenting Podcast| evidence-based | raising children | positive parenting
Show Notes: Sleep Associations In this episode I examine sleep associations in the context of classical conditioning. I argue that the terms “dysfunctional associations", "inappropriate associations", "negative associations", and "bad sleep habits” are unhelpful and inaccurate. Based on classical conditioning theory I argue why a concerted effort to break these associations may not be helpful or successful. The focus should be on building new associations, not breaking old ones. I then use the theory to suggest how we could create new sleep associations. Here are the topics I cover: Introduction to classical conditioning Why I dislike the terms dysfunctional, inappropriate, negative, or bad associations How classical conditioning can help in the formation of new associations Step by step suggestions for creating new associations to replace old ones Through this podcast you will learn: The very basics of classical conditioning and how this may apply to sleep.Thethreemainelementsare shown in the table below. The steps are as follows: 1. The CS precedes the US more often than not. 2. The CS begins to produce the CR, which is very similar to the UR. Picture Title Description Pavlov’s example Sleep example Conditioned Stimulus (CS) Something that causes a reaction only after learning Bell Music Softicons Unconditioned Stimulus (US) Something that causes an unlearned reaction Food Comfortable, sleepy feeling PSD Graphics Un/Conditioned Response (UR/CR) The biological (UR) or learned (CR) reaction Salivate Sleep Sleep associations are a little more complex than food associations. The unconditioned stimulus (the comfortable, sleepy feeling) comes on gradually and consists of multiple parts: Comfort (Physical and Security) Sleepy (Body clock and Fatigue) For more information on classical conditioning, the Wikipedia entry provides good information 3 reasons why I disagree with the terms “Negative associations”, “Bad sleep habits”, “dysfunctional associations”, and “Inappropriate sleep associations”: On a personal level. Breastfeeding and hugging are extremely positive experiences for me. They assume that feeding/rocking is a CS, but it may be better considered an US (1) Comfort - Need for contact is biological (2) Sleepy - Breast milk contains nucleotides that facilitate sleep, especially at night (3) Pavlov’s dog still salivated to food, with, or without the bell. Babies can sleep without the CS, but you need to provide the US. Whittingham and Douglas 2014 (1) argue that it is dangerous to try to break the association between feeding/rocking and sleep, because you risk breaking the association between sleepy and sleep. Feeding, hugging, or rocking to sleep aren't an inherent problem - but they may become unsustainable for you. At this point focus on setting up new associations, rather than breaking old ones. To set up new associations, according to classical conditioning: Something (like music) needs to immediately precede something else (like feeling sleepy) more often than not to become associated The association needs to be formed and maintained It doesn’t matter how good the CS is, if you remove the US too early, it may not work. Summary – Action points Continue your usual settling routine, but introduce a CS Use CS just as eyes begin to droop at each sleep time Work on familiarising baby with US substitutes such as cot, wrap Every now and again, use your CS as you pat your baby in their cot. If it isn’t working, don’t do it too often, may be once a day, so you can retain the association between your cues and sleep at other sleep times. Links Dream Baby Guide Safe-T-Sleep Advocates of sleep cues: Pinky McKay, The No-Cry Sleep Solution by Elizabeth Pantley Sea horse: Fisher-Price Seahorse Via Amazon Soothing music: Dreaming: Relaxation Music for Sleepin...
Betsy Brown Braun, author of "Just Tell Me What To Say", Elizabeth Pantley, author of "The No Cry Sleep Solution" and Dr. Bob Sears, author of "The Vaccine Book" weigh in on the pros and cons of sleeping with your baby, otherwise known as "co-sleeping"
We are substituting New Moms, New Babies in for PregTASTIC this week. On this episode of NMNB: As soon-to-be parents all you can ever wish for is a healthy baby... with healthy sleep patterns. From feeding to sleep, rocking to sleep or even driving to sleep; turning to any means to get our babies to sleep. Elizabeth Pantley, author of the No Cry Sleep Solution and the No Cry Nap Solution answers our questions and shares tips, tricks and sanity savers to get rid of all the sleeping crutches.
As new parents all we can ever wish for is a healthy baby with healthy sleep patterns. From feeding to sleep, rocking to sleep or even driving to sleep; turning to any means to get our babies to sleep. Elizabeth Pantley, author of the No Cry Sleep Solution and the No Cry Nap Solution answers our questions and shares tips, tricks and sanity savers to get rid of all the sleeping crutches.
Amy & Sheryl respond to a thoughtful listener email and get honest about parenting strategies that worked for them and those that didn't. Above all they rail against inflexibe parenting mandates. They know that in the real world everybody makes it up a little as they go along. Then Amy talks to one of her favorite parenting experts, Elizabeth Pantley, author of "The No-Cry Sleep Solution." You can learn more about Elizabeth's work at http://www.pantley.com/elizabeth/
This week we talk with parenting author Elizabeth Pantley about helping your child sleep. She is the author of "The NO Cry Sleep Solution for Toddlers and Pre Schoolers." Dr. Robert Greene explains how to have a healthy hormonal balance. Randine Lewis, author of "The Infertility Cure" shares the ancient Chinese secrets for getting pregnant and having healthy babies.