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Sleep training is one of the most emotionally charged parenting topics online, and this conversation pulls it back to what actually matters, evidence. We talk about how social media amplifies fear and confusion, why parents are told to “trust” personalities instead of data, and how looking directly at research helps cut through the noise. While opinions are loud, the body of evidence around behavioral sleep interventions is far less controversial than the internet suggests. We also walk through what the data says about timing, safety, and developmental readiness. From common myths about brain development to the fear of letting a baby cry, this episode centers on nuance. Sleep training is not all-or-nothing, not one rigid method, and not a replacement for parenting. It is a flexible set of tools families can adapt based on temperament, comfort, and goals. What we discussed: Why social media creates confusion around sleep training The importance of trusting research over personalities What the literature says about behavioral sleep interventions Why there is less scientific debate than people think Typical age ranges supported by evidence, around 4 to 6 months Developmental readiness and self-soothing ability The difference between sleep training and night weaning Why babies vary widely in temperament and sleep patterns The myth about prefrontal cortex development Why infants are capable of learning sleep skills Fear-based messaging and misuse of scientific language How parental anxiety gets amplified by misinformation Modifying sleep training methods to match family comfort Graduated extinction, parental presence, and flexible approaches The role of compromise between caregivers The core goal, helping a child fall asleep without active intervention Why sleep training does not replace responsive parenting Want more? Listen to the full, original episode. Our podcasts are also now on YouTube. If you prefer a video podcast with closed captioning, check us out there and subscribe to PedsDocTalk. Get trusted pediatric advice, relatable parenting insights, and evidence-based tips delivered straight to your inbox—join thousands of parents who rely on the PDT newsletter to stay informed, supported, and confident. Join the newsletter! And don't forget to follow @pedsdoctalkpodcast on Instagram—our new space just for parents looking for real talk and real support. We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on the PedsDocTalk Podcast Sponsorships page of the website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
"It's our birthright to be deeply connected to our babies and to grow from it." - Dr. KirshenbaumWhat if the most important thing you could do for your baby's brain… isn't something you buy, schedule, or optimize — but in the way you nurture & feel?This week, I sit down with Dr. Greer Kirshenbaum — neuroscientist, author of The Nurture Revolution, and former doula — to talk about what modern neuroscience says about pregnancy, birth, infant sleep, and the first three years of life. We talk about how your emotional experiences during pregnancy shape your baby's brain, why nurture is not “soft” but biologically essential, and what moms really need to know about stress, bonding, sleep training, and early brain development.If you've ever worried about doing enough, getting it right, or messing up your baby, you're going to love this discussion and I hope more than anything, it puts your mind at ease. I feel like I cannot say this enough, but YOU are the perfect mother for your baby AND you're doing better than you think you are!Here's some highlights from the episode: • How pregnancy experiences shape your baby's brain before birth • The neuroscience behind what doulas do in the birth and postpartum space • Why the first 0–3 years are the most critical window for emotional and mental health • What “nurture” really means from a brain-based perspective • Dr. Kirshenbaum's views on infant sleep and why she questions sleep training • What's considered normal for baby sleep around the world • How mothers can regulate stress — for themselves and their babies • Why soothing your baby also soothes your own nervous system • What happens if early nurture wasn't ideal (and why there's still so much hope) • The core message of The Nurture Revolution and how it supports modern motherhoodThis episode is a beautiful reminder that you don't have to be perfect to raise a healthy, secure, thriving baby. If you're pregnant, postpartum, or even just thinking about motherhood, this conversation will leave you feeling calmer, more confident, and deeply validated in the most important role you'll ever have. Don't forget to RATE & FOLLOW the Pregnancy & Birth Made Easy Podcast! Leave a Review! ⭐️ Here's how >> On Apple Podcasts Find “Pregnancy & Birth Made Easy” podcast Select “Ratings and Reviews” Click the stars! Select “Write a Review” and tell us what was the most amazing, comforting, eye-opening thing that you loved! On Spotify Find "Pregnancy & Birth Made Easy" podcast Click the 3 dots "..." Select "Rate podcast" Click the stars and write a quick review! FOLLOW "Pregnancy & Birth Made Easy" so you never miss an episode that makes pregnancy & birth feel easier! Here's how to do it in just 2 seconds: On Apple Podcasts → Tap the “+” Follow button in the top right corner of the show page. On Spotify → Tap the “Follow” button right under the show titles Let's Connect!Join the Course! https://www.myessentialbirth.com/getstartedEmail: hello@myessentialbirth.com. Follow @myessentialbirth on INSTAGRAM!
This week on The Night Feed, I'm diving into one of the most divisive and emotionally loaded topics in modern parenting: sleep training.More specifically, the question so many mums end up Googling through tears in the middle of the night: Is cry it out actually harmful?We talk about why this debate feels louder than ever, how social media has turned baby sleep into a moral battleground, and what the research from the past decade actually says about sleep training and attachment.I read a listener email from a mum caught between exhaustion and instinct, unpack what people really mean when they say “cry it out,” and gently walk through the science around attachment, stress, and cortisol without fear-mongering or judgement.This episode isn't about telling you what to do.It's about making space for nuance, reality, and compassion for yourself.Because most parents aren't choosing a method, they're choosing survival. In this episode we talk about:Why the sleep training debate feels so intense right nowWhat “cry it out” actually means (and why it's not one thing)What the research says about sleep training and attachmentStress, cortisol, and what gets misunderstood onlineWhy shame, not sleep methods causes the most harmA gentler way to think about sleep decisions in early motherhood Self-care tip:I share a simple but powerful idea for new mums: creating a “closing ritual” for your day to help your nervous system stand down, even if the night is broken.If you're listening in the dark, feeling torn, tired, and unsure you're not alone. And you're not doing this wrong. I'd love to hear where you land on this.You can email me, message me, or drop a comment.thenightfeedpodcast@gmail.comFemometer Ring: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B0DJXVWCH6?maas=maas_adg_F28889BB73736EDCF4EC8FFEA30A50F0_afap_abs&ref_=aa_maas&tag=maas&th=1Use code THENIGHTFEED for 20% offSupport the showTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thenightfeed
Topics:- Sleep Training Toddlers- Starting The Year Strong- Who Should You Seek Advice From For Your Marriage?- Revealing Clothes In Your HomeTime Stamps:00:00 - Intro14:50 - What My Wife Did This Week21:00 - Sleep Training & Potty Training36:31 - Talking To Your Friends About Marital Problems45:40 - Your Wife's Single Friends52:10 - If I Stop Something, Should She?59:00 - Commit Now Or Never?1:01:16 - Buying Your Wife LingerieJoin Hush Hush Crew to get access to exclusive content:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCivHlS8rtDWUji83z928luw/joinIf you're interested in relationships, marriage, fatherhood, or parenthood, or if you're simply curious about what it's like to be a young husband or father in your 20s.Make sure to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell so you never miss an episode of our honest conversations about marriage, relationships, parenting and fatherhood!Check Out Our Vibes With DTMW Playlist:Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6gwQRQBHuD0JV1hUOtFoM9?si=q9q-4Un2TMeI7FaMnCXUKQ&pt=f32f0441f2effeb1d3d6d5b35d40cb13&pi=e-XDo_DPp9RmqmJoin Ken & Tonye as they share their experiences of navigating marriage and fatherhood in their twenties.Email: DTMWPod@gmail.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dtmwpod/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dtmwpodYoutube: DTMWPodTwitter: DTMWPodCheck us out on: https://donttellmywifepodcast.komi.ioJoin hosts Ken & Tonye as they explore the realities of marriage, fatherhood, and life in their twenties. Each episode dives into relatable challenges, parenting tips, and humorous takes on keeping family life balanced. Email: DTMWPod@gmail.com Instagram: DTMWPod Twitter: DTMWPod Youtube: DontTellMyWifePodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2861: Amanda Brownlow shares how a gentle variation of the cry-it-out method helped her baby sleep through the night in just three days. Emphasizing routine, patience, and parental follow-through, she walks readers through a step-by-step nighttime strategy that helped her family reclaim rest and sanity. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://hellobrownlow.com/2019/01/10/how-our-baby-slept-through-the-night-after-just-3-days-of-sleep-training/ Quotes to ponder: "Babies and children crave routine." "You shouldn't touch your baby while checking in on him." "Talk it over with your partner and decide what your time limit on crying is." Episode references: BabyCenter: https://www.babycenter.com Bringing Up Bébé by Pamela Druckerman: https://www.amazon.com/Bringing-Up-Bebe-Discovers-Parenting/dp/0143122967
Do you feel like there's something missing from your toddler's sleep training plan? Has sleep training your toddler not worked?I can tell you why.Once your kid is three, four, or five years old and out of the crib, sleep can get crazy. If you haven't been able to get your toddler sleeping well, you're probably missing this ONE key element. Watch to learn exactly what to do to help your toddler sleep tonight.ResourcesLearn more about Jessica and Awesome Little Sleepers.Save your spot in my next free Toddler Sleep Masterclass at: ToddlerSleepMasterclass.comOther resources:Join me on Instagram @AwesomeLittleSleepersThe ONE thing you can start tonight to improve your toddler's sleep, click hereCheck out the blogWatch the YouTube channel ‘Sleep Tight Without a Fight' sleep course, click hereMy favorite sleep products, click here
Answering this weeks Top 5 Questions! This week's questions highlight the following: - What age to start sleep training- Moving to bigger wake windows- Night wakes and wake windows- The mid-day nap- When to stop using a baby monitorErin Junker | Paediatric Sleep ConsultantInstagram @thehappysleepcompanyWebsite www.thehappysleepcompany.com
Life doesn't give you a map for the moments that matter most - birth, loss, and everything in between. So when Jill had Luca, she called in a professional: postpartum doula and all-around force, Laura Veras. While the term "doula" tends to get thrown around a lot (especially in LA), Laura is special. Her journey to becoming a postpartum healer came at a time in her life when death and birth collided. She brings generational Guatemalan wisdom, serious newborn expertise, and a work ethic that doesn't clock out. She helped Jill survive those first weeks — not because parenting needs to be precious, but because nobody should have to go through a major life transition alone.Connect with Laura Veras Connect with US
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Want deeper sleep without hacks or hype? We unpack the real reasons you wake up at night and show how light exposure, dinner timing, and cortisol-insulin patterns quietly decide whether your body repairs or unravels. I walk through the nightly “window” when cortisol dips, why bright rooms and screens suppress melatonin, and how late meals trigger blood sugar crashes that jolt you awake. You'll learn simple, high-impact steps: get a morning light signal, dim evening brightness below 10 lux, eat earlier with balanced protein and carbs, and keep your bedroom cold, dark, and quiet.From there, we zoom out to what great sleep actually does. Your brain's glymphatic system flushes waste, mitochondria refill ATP, growth hormone rises to rebuild tissue, and the immune system coordinates smarter defenses. Slow wave sleep consolidates memory; REM helps you process emotions and creativity. When sleep slips, insulin resistance and inflammation climb the next day. I share practical questions to audit your routine—light, screens, caffeine, alcohol, dinner composition, temperature—and how to spot hot flashes, reflux, or frequent urination as metabolic clues rather than random symptoms.We then tackle training that supports, not sabotages, recovery. Most long, high-rep sessions and chronic cardio elevate cortisol without provoking adaptation. The better path is training with intention: progressive overload in the 5 to 6 rep range, shorter focused lifts, and brief sprint intervals with full recovery. Pair that with steady walking, mobility work, and cycle-aware planning to respect hormonal shifts. Watch your biofeedback: stubborn soreness beyond 48 hours, poor sleep, frequent illness, puffiness, mood swings, or menstrual changes all point to under-recovery. When you let sleep lead, the gains finally stick—stronger muscles, steadier metabolism, clearer mind.If this helped, follow the show, share it with someone who needs better nights, and leave a review so more people can find it. What's the first small change you'll make tonight?To get notified as soon as groups open at the beginning of the year - sign up here:https://stacy-baker.mykajabi.com/opt-in-9cffc5f4-f006-4adb-a0a7-6c33a0698b4bResources mentioned:Mycircadian APP DOCTOR (code)Ra Optics (Code DRSTACYND) blue light blockers!Bon Charge (Code DRSTACY) red light panel and circadian bulbsHigher Dose (my FAV sauna blanket with low to no EMF) code DRSTACYCGM (Code DRSTACY and DRSTACYAPP for app only)Analemma Water (structuring)Spring Aqua (my FAV water system) To work one-on-one with me, you can apply HERE!For more from me, follow me on IG @dr.stacy.ndThis information is just that; information only - not to be taken as medical advice. Please contact your primary care before changing anything to your routine. This information is not mean to diagnose, treat, or cure disease.
In this episode of How Long 'Til Bedtime?, we dive into one of the most common questions parents ask: How long does sleep training actually take — and how can you tell if it's working? Allison breaks down the realistic timeline she sees when working one-on-one with families, why the process isn't always linear, and what improvement should look like in the first week. You'll learn: What progress typically looks like from night one through week two Why night four is a key milestone for evaluating success The difference between night sleep improvements and nap stabilization How temperament and method impact the timeline Why "sleep training" is more than just cry-it-out or choosing another method Red flags that signal your approach needs adjusting When it's time to reach out for professional support Allison also explains why you shouldn't feel stuck in sleep training mode for weeks or months, and how small tweaks to schedule, method, or consistency can often make a significant difference. If you're unsure whether your child is getting the right amount of sleep for their age, download Allison's free infant and toddler sleep guide. You can also book a free 15-minute Get Acquainted Call with Allison or a member of her team anytime. Click here to listen to the episode on YouTube Looking for expert guidance on your child's sleep? Allison offers two free age-specific guides to help you discover how much sleep kids need to thrive—at any age. Get your free copy now: 0-2 Years Old or 3 to 10 years old From baby sleep to toddler sleep, daycare naps to sleep training—How Long 'Til Bedtime? is the podcast for parents who want practical, guilt-free sleep tips they can actually use. Hosted by pediatric sleep coach Allison Egidi, each episode delivers real solutions for every stage—from navigating newborn sleep struggles and weaning night feedings to helping your 3-year-old fall asleep independently (and stay asleep!). Whether you're trying to make sense of daycare sleep patterns, craving your evenings back, or simply need a working mom podcast to keep you grounded, you're in the right place. Want more from Allison? Sign up here to get her weekly email with podcast updates and other helpful parenting topics. Enjoying How Long 'Til Bedtime? Your rating and review help Allison reach and support more parents. On Apple Podcasts: Click here, scroll to the bottom, rate the show, and tap "Write a Review." On Spotify: Click here to leave a rating or review. Don't miss an episode—subscribe so you're always up to date! Connect with Allison: Instagram | Facebook | Website | YouTube
In today's episode, Sanda shares her experience with sleep training, and how it has been night and day different from her first baby and her second baby! She shares what works, what didn't, and what tips she has for moms who are trying to decide if sleep training is right for you.Mini Courses, Video Course and Consultations
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What if the hardest season of your motherhood… became the beginning of your purpose? In today's episode, meet Leann Low, founder of Sleepy Bubba, certified sleep coach, and a mum who went from complete exhaustion to building a business that now helps thousands of families sleep better. Leann shares: ✨ How sleep training transformed her life ✨ Why there's still so much taboo around sleep training in Asia ✨ Her turning point from corporate project manager to mompreneur ✨ How she built systems to stop hustling and start scaling ✨ And how YOU can take the first step toward better sleep, or your own business Whether you're a tired parent, a mum dreaming about starting something of your own, or someone who loves real transformation stories… this interview will stay with you. ❤️
On this week's episode of the WHOOP Podcast, WHOOP SVP of Research, Algorithms, and Data Emily Capodilupo sits down with Dr. Angela Holliday-Bell, physician and certified sleep specialist, to discuss the importance of sleep training from infancy to adulthood. Dr. Holliday-Bell explains how building consistent sleep habits supports long-term health by reducing risks like cardiovascular disease, anxiety, and depression, while also improving daily energy, focus, and creativity. Dr. Holliday-Bell shares her insights from her own experience sleep training her infant and breaks down the variety of methods parents can use to help their children sleep through the night. Emily and Dr. Holliday-Bell discuss the need for setting solid sleep routines for your toddler, teen, and evolving with these habits as your children grow up. Ultimately, Dr. Holliday-Bell reveals the key to supporting your child's sleep is supporting your own. (00:54) Dr. Angela Holliday-Bell's Background and Intro(03:18) WHOOP Rapid Fire Q's (04:03) Importance of Regulating Your Own Sleep to Help Your Child(05:42) How You Sleep As A Child Impacts Your Sleep As An Adult(06:31) Skills & Behaviors You Need For Your Child's Sleep Routine(09:36) The Three Habits To Try Before Seeking Help From Your Pediatrician(10:30) Life Through Sleep Stages: Newborn, Infancy, and Adulthood(15:52) How To Sleep Train Your Toddler(17:22) Importance of Whole Family Sleep Hygiene (20:30) Common Misconceptions About Sleep and Sleep Training(30:50) What To Look For In A Sleep Specialist(33:50) Sleep For Teens: How To Ensure Your Teen Is Sleeping Effectively(36:58) Sleep Patterns and Puberty: How Parents Can Help?(42:40) How To Reduce Sleep Deprivation(47:55) Wearables and Sleep Tracking for Parents & Kids(49:15) Dr. Holliday-Bell's Message For Kids, Teens, & ParentsFollow Dr. Angela Holliday-Bell:InstagramTiktokLinkedInWebsiteSupport the showFollow WHOOP: Sign up for WHOOP Advanced Labs Trial WHOOP for Free www.whoop.com Instagram TikTok YouTube X Facebook LinkedIn Follow Will Ahmed: Instagram X LinkedIn Follow Kristen Holmes: Instagram LinkedIn Follow Emily Capodilupo: LinkedIn
In this powerful and confronting conversation, Dr. Melissa Sell returns to Here for the Truth for her eighth appearance to explore how modern medical and cultural rituals have severed us from our primal instincts, our intuition, and our innate trust in life. Through the lens of German New Medicine and the Five Biological Laws, we examine how the earliest experiences of infants—from wellness checks to ear piercings to “cry it out” sleep training—can imprint deep patterns of fear, separation, and obedience. This episode is a wake-up call to reclaim our natural intelligence, to see through the conditioning that normalizes harm, and to remember that true health begins with awareness and self-responsibility.Time Stamps(00:00) Episode Teaser(00:27) Opening Conversation(07:57) Introduction to Dr. Melissa Sell's Work(08:39) The Growth of German New Medicine(10:35) Parenting and Health Paradigms(30:27) Personal Anecdotes and Reflections(45:35) The Ritual of Water and Biological Adaptation(49:21) Historical Context of Birthing Practices(50:41) Ear Piercing and Parental Dilemmas(52:09) Cultural Practices and Instinctual Overrides(55:44) Children's Nighttime Fears and Parental Influence(01:01:28) Biological Conflicts and Hospital Visits(01:03:07) Sleep Training and Crying It Out(01:06:26) Separation Conflicts and Childhood Diseases(01:09:13) Parental Conflicts and Child Symptoms(01:12:20) Spirituality and German New Medicine(01:19:38) Germanic People and Natural Living(01:25:37) The Impact of Fathers Traveling for Work(01:29:06) The Evolution of Family Names and Roles(01:31:18) Perspectives on Evolution and Adaptation(01:38:43) Sibling Rivalries and Biological Conflicts(01:40:33) The Significance of Tongue Posture and Ties(01:45:52) The Body's Biological AdaptationsGuest Linkshttps://www.drmelissasell.com/ https://www.instagram.com/drmelissasell/ Connect with UsJoin our membership Friends of the TruthTake the Real AF Test NowDiscover Your Truth Seeker ArchetypeWatch all our episodesConnect with us on TelegramAccess all our links
Pregnant and already worried about how your baby will sleep? Forget cry-it-out and rigid sleep methods — there's a gentler, biology-based way to support your baby's rest. In this episode, Pediatric Sleep Expert Louise Herbert shares what every pregnant mom needs to know before your little one even arrives.Learn how to set up your baby's environment, support their natural rhythms, and protect your own mental health...yep that matters and we talk about why in this episode!Some Highlights!!1:23 – Louise's inspiration Her personal journey with her daughter and why she's dedicated to helping families sleep peacefully.4:35 – Why common sleep methods fail Cry-it-out, intermittent soothing, chair method… what these approaches miss and why sleep isn't a skill to teach.8:21 – The “sleep puzzle” How to align your baby's biology so every piece — safety, rhythm, hormones, and environment — fits naturally.10:50 – My personal story Lessons learned trying cry-it-out and intermittent soothing with my own kids.13:41 – The environment matters Light, movement, and even the timing of pumped breastmilk influence your baby's rest. Learn how circadian rhythm and sensory nourishment impact sleep.18:46 – Connection over perfection “You are your baby's moon and stars.” Why your presence matters more than “doing it right.”23:28 – The myth of the unicorn sleeper Most babies wake at night — and that's normal. Synchronicity is the key to restful nights.29:39 – Sleep milestones: newborn to 1 year What's normal, what's a red flag, and how to minimize stress during developmental peaks.32:36 – Preparing before birth Safe sleep, room-sharing, and steps you can take now to set your baby up for rest from day one.38:42 – “Your way is a beautiful way” A reminder that you don't have to match anyone else's parenting path — trusting yourself is enough.39:49 – Sleep & maternal mental health Why your baby's well-being is deeply tied to your emotional state, and what really helps reduce your stress...spoiler alert - it's not more sleep
Call it what you like — sleep deprivation/sleep recession/The Exhaustion Economy —but when you're not getting enough sleep as a parent, it's sheer torture. And when actor Keira Knightley named it for the hell it is, every parent felt it in their (tired) bones. This week, we’re unpacking the long-haul burnout that comes with parenting — and the societal shrug that keeps it invisible. Meanwhile, if you think your parenting Group Chats are delivering chaos, you're not alone. Amelia (ever the secret Nicole) has three golden rules to survive them, while Monz is rolling out the five parent archetypes you’ll absolutely recognise.
No one tells you that after weaning, your hormones can crash so hard it feels like you're drowning in your own body. One week post-breastfeeding, I hit a wall of exhaustion and sadness I never saw coming until I discovered it's a real, biological phenomenon called post-weaning hormonal withdrawal.In this episode, I share my personal journey through the emotional and physical rollercoaster of weaning, unpack the science behind why these symptoms hit so hard, and reveal the actionable steps, supplements, and mindset shifts that helped me finally find relief. If you're a mom (or know one) preparing to drop those last feeds, this is the reality check and survival guide nobody talks about.You'll leave this episode feeling validated, informed, and ready to navigate weaning with clarity and confidence—no more shame, fear, or confusion about the wild ride your hormones take. Hit play and let's dive in.5:27 – What Happens to Your Hormones and Mood After Breastfeeding Ends 6:25 – How Prolactin and Oxytocin Drops Affect Your Emotional State 13:08 – Why Even Moms Who Are Ready to Wean Can Feel Unexpectedly Low 16:55 – Why Nutrient Depletion After Breastfeeding Matters More Than You'd Think20:17 – The Science-Backed Timeline Of Symptoms: When to Expect Mood Changes, Energy Crashes, and When Things Start to Normalize23:39 – Simple, Science-Backed Ways to Support Your Body Through Weaning21:17 – How and When Your Mood Stabilizes As Your Cycle Returns, and Why This Marks a Turning Point In Recovery Episode Links:Check out my Substack for the full story on how I got my cycle back postpartum, plus every supplement I used! Read Substack post here.Other Episodes You'll Love:Episode 107: My Slightly Controversial Thoughts On Breastfeeding, Sleep Training, Starting Solids, Screens and MoreEpisode 93: 6 Month Postpartum Update: My Struggles, Body Recomposition Plan and MoreEpisode 65: My Positive Birth Story: An Unexpected C-Section Delivery
Are you using “attachment parenting” — or accidentally doing permissive parenting?In this eye-opening conversation, Greg & Rachel Denning break down what true attachment parenting is (and isn't). They share the skills, mindsets, and tools that helped them eliminate tantrums for 16 years and prevent teen rebellion—without yelling, shaming, or rigid control.You'll learn why parenting is a specific, learnable skill, how to build secure attachment from baby to teen, and where popular advice (cry-it-out, forced “holding time,” over-scheduling, letting kids lead everything) quietly damages trust. You'll also get a clear blueprint for connection with boundaries so kids feel safe, seen, and guided—and you feel calm, confident, and effective.Bottom line: Attachment is earned, not forced. Respect your child's free will, meet real needs (sleep, food, attention), co-regulate big emotions, and set firm, sensible boundaries. That's the evergreen approach that works in every generation.Key Takeaways✅ Parenting is a skill—unrelated to how good you are at business, sports, or leadership.✅ Attachment ≠ permissive. It's connection + boundaries and kind + firm.✅ Attachment is earned, not forced. No cry-it-out or “holding until defeat.”✅ Respect free will while providing age-appropriate structure and safety.✅ Co-regulation first (your calm is contagious), then teach self-regulation.✅ Meet basics (sleep, nutrition, attention) before behavior battles.✅ Measure success by long-term trust and adult outcomes—not short-term compliance.Chapters:00:00 Introduction to Attachment Parenting00:43 Clarifying Misunderstandings in Parenting02:04 The Importance of Parenting Skills03:09 Defining Success in Parenting04:39 Understanding Attachment Parenting05:23 The Dangers of Misapplied Parenting Techniques06:56 The Impact of Adoption on Attachment08:25 The Consequences of Control in Parenting11:28 The Role of Freedom in Child Development13:48 The Misconception of Holding Time16:10 The Impact of Sleep Training on Children17:59 Respecting Free Will in Parenting20:39 The Concept of Holding Time24:22 Understanding Boundaries and Safety28:24 Preparing Children for Adulthood31:24 The Lifelong Mentor-Mentee Relationship33:01 Building a Legacy of Good ParentingMemorable Quotes
It's one of the most frustrating experiences for so many of my new clients. They come to me exhausted and confused. "We already sleep trained, we don't understand why it didn't work!!" Today I'll share all of my cold hard truths that will hopefully allow you to release the fear that you simply have a uniquely mystifying "bad sleeper" - even if you tried the same failing process with another child who actually is a good sleeper! More importantly - I'll explain what you need to try once again (once and for all!) to get to that blissful world great sleep, finally. Loved this episode? There is so much more where that came from:️Subscribe....leave a review....and share with your friends!Follow The Fun On IG: @BrittanySheehanSleepWork with me:Custom Sleep PlansSleep CoursesPotty Training & Parenting PlansThe B Hive Client Membership ProgramTake The Sleep QuizSay Hi: info@brittanysheehan.com
In this episode, I'm joined by economist and bestselling author Emily Oster for a myth-busting conversation about the science (and sanity) of parenting. We unpack everything from picky eating and sleep training to praise, rewards, and toddler tantrums—exploring what the data actually says and what parents can finally stop worrying about. We also talk about co-sleeping, potty training, and the myth that every small decision can ruin your child.I WROTE MY FIRST BOOK! Order your copy of The Five Principles of Parenting: Your Essential Guide to Raising Good Humans Here: https://bit.ly/3rMLMsLSubscribe to my free newsletter for parenting tips delivered straight to your inbox: draliza.substack.com Follow me on Instagram for more:@raisinggoodhumanspodcast Sponsors:Nurture Life: For 55% off your order + FREE shipping, head to NurtureLife.com/HUMANS and use codeHUMANSFlavCity: Visit Shop FlavCity.com and use code GOODHUMAN15 at checkout for 15% off your first purchaseSaks: Head to saks.comiRestore: Reverse hair loss with @iRestore lases and unlock HUGE savings on the iRestore Elite with the code RGH at https://www.irestore.com/RGH!Merit Beauty: Right now, Merit Beauty is offering our listeners their Signature Makeup Bag with your first order at meritbeauty.comQuince: Go to Quince.com/humans for free shipping on your order and 365-day returnsPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In this episode, we're diving deep into one of the most talked-about (and often misunderstood) topics in early parenthood SIDS and co-sleeping. Despite the scary warnings you've probably heard from the AAP or your pediatrician, many families still find themselves wondering how to safely sleep near their baby. And honestly? That's a valid question. We'll explore what the research actually says about bedsharing, the science of a baby's biological need for closeness, and how parents can make informed choices that balance safety and connection. You'll hear about the work of James McKenna, Helen Ball, and La Leche League's Sweet Sleep, plus insights from Sarah Ockwell-Smith that bring real-world practicality to this nuanced conversation. If you've ever felt torn between expert advice and your natural instincts, this episode will help you find clarity, confidence, and calm in your family's sleep choices. 00:00 Introduction: The Importance of Safe Sleep Practices 01:18 Personal Story: Transforming a Mother's Sleep Routine 03:28 Newborn Sleep Solutions Guide 07:22 The Science Behind Newborn Sleep 09:06 Interview with Dr. Greer Kirshenbaum 17:07 Understanding Co-Sleeping and Bed Sharing 22:32 Safe Sleep Guidelines and SIDS 28:39 Controversial Topics: Vaccines and SIDS 31:06 Global Perspectives on Safe Sleep 35:22 Purity Coffee: A Healthier Choice 38:43 Addressing Sleep Challenges in Babies 42:16 Embracing Flexibility with a Newborn 44:04 The Importance of Nervous System Regulation 46:11 Building a Support System for New Moms 52:28 Debunking Myths About Newborn Habits 56:47 The Impact of Sleep Training on Mental Health 01:06:43 Tips for Optimal Baby Sleep 01:13:17 Final Thoughts and Resources Guest Bio: Greer Kirshenbaum PhD is an Author, Neuroscientist, Doula, Infant and Family Sleep Specialist and Mother. She trained at the University of Toronto and Columbia University with additional training at New York University and Yale University. Greer has combined her academic training with her experience as a doula and mother to lead The Nurture Revolution. A movement to nurture our babies' brains to revolutionize mental health and impact larger systems in our world. Greer wants families, professionals, and workplaces to understand how early caregiving experience can boost mental wellness and diminish depression, anxiety, and addiction in adulthood by shaping babies' brains through simple intuitive enriching experiences in pregnancy, birth and infancy. Her book is called The Nurture Revolution: Grow Your Baby's Brain and Transform Their Mental Health Through the Art of Nurtured Parenting. She offers resources, workshops, and coaching on her website www.nurture-neuroscience.com and on Instagram @drgreerkirshenbaum. INSTAGRAM: Connect with HeHe on IG Connect with Dr. Greer on IG BIRTH EDUCATION: Join The Birth Lounge here for judgment-free childbirth education that prepares you for an informed birth and how to confidently navigate hospital policy to have a trauma-free labor experience! Download The Birth Lounge App for birth & postpartum prep delivered straight to your phone! LINKS MENTIONED: www.nurture-neuroscience.com Reviews of the research on SIDS and infant death James McKenna: https://cosleeping.nd.edu/ Helen Ball: https://evolutionaryparenting.com/bed-sharing-and-co-sleeping-research-overview/ La Leche League's Sweet Sleep book: https://llli.org/resources/sweet-sleep/ Sarah Ockwell-Smith: https://sarahockwell-smith.com/
The clocks are about to fall back—and parents everywhere are bracing for those dreaded 5 a.m. wake-ups. But the fall time change doesn't have to wreck your child's sleep. In this episode of How Long 'Til Bedtime?, pediatric sleep coach Allison Egidi shares exactly how to navigate the end of daylight saving time with less stress (and more rest). Learn what really happens to your child's body clock when we “fall back,” why pre-adjusting bedtime can backfire, and what simple schedule tweaks make all the difference for babies, toddlers, and big kids. You'll hear: Why Allison recommends not shifting bedtime in advance The step-by-step plan for managing Sunday naps and bedtime How to use an “early rescue bedtime” to prevent early waking How long it really takes kids to adjust A quick update on the Sunshine Protection Act and whether time changes might ever end
There's one thing you can start tonight that will help you and your toddler get more sleep. Here are a few tips for sleep training.The ONE thing you can start tonight to improve your toddler's sleep: http://AwesomeLittleSleepers.com/yt_o...ResourcesLearn more about Jessica and Awesome Little Sleepers.Save your spot in my next free Toddler Sleep Masterclass at: ToddlerSleepMasterclass.comOther resources:Join me on Instagram @AwesomeLittleSleepersThe ONE thing you can start tonight to improve your toddler's sleep, click hereCheck out the blogWatch the YouTube channel ‘Sleep Tight Without a Fight' sleep course, click hereMy favorite sleep products, click here
Does your little one nap like a champ at daycare but struggle at home — or the complete opposite? You're not alone. In this episode of How Long 'Til Bedtime?, pediatric sleep coach Allison Egidi dives into the fascinating (and sometimes frustrating) differences between daycare sleep and home sleep for babies and toddlers. You'll learn: Why toddlers often nap better at daycare than at home The role of structure, routine, and even peer pressure in daycare naps Why infants commonly struggle with short naps in daycare settings What you can do to support your child's teachers and set your baby up for more consistent sleep Why daycare sleep won't “undo” the independent sleep skills you've worked so hard on at home Whether your child naps beautifully at daycare or you're worried about short, disrupted naps, this episode will give you insight and practical strategies to help your little one get the rest they need. ✨ If daycare naps are a big challenge in your house, Allison offers consultations to help you work through your unique situation. Book 30 minute consultation with Allison or a member of her team to discuss ways to improve your child's naps today.
I loved this interview with Allexa, where she shared her journey with sleep training not one but two babies. Alexa shared how different her babies are and yet, both had success on their sleep training journey. From only sleeping in their arms to independent sleep all night, she shares why sleep training has changed their lives for the better.
Pacifiers: many babies love them… but when it comes to sleep training, they can become a major source of frustration. If you've ever played the endless “pacifier pop game” in the middle of the night, you know exactly what that means. In this episode of How Long 'Til Bedtime?, pediatric sleep coach Allison Egidi breaks down how pacifiers impact sleep, why you don't necessarily have to ditch them, and the key shift that can make nights smoother for everyone. What you'll learn: Why pacifiers can both help and hinder sleep training The truth about whether you need to give them up completely How to end the exhausting “pacifier pop game” once and for all When (and how) babies can learn to replace their own pacifier Simple ways to encourage independence and better sleep Allison also shares practical tips for helping babies practice finding their pacifier — and why a few extras in the crib can be a total game-changer.
Sometimes marriage and sleep training don't go together. It's no secret that sleepless nights are part of the package when it comes to parenting – especially when you have a baby. But if sleep struggles become the norm in your house as your child gets older, you may not realize the profound impact that poor sleep can have on maintaining healthy relationships in your life, like your marriage.✨ That's certainly what happened in my family. ✨But now I know this: prioritizing sleep for your kids is an act of strengthening your marriage, and I'm going to explain exactly how.➡️ Strengthen your marriage - Join my FREE Toddler Sleep Masterclass: https://www.ToddlerSleepMasterclass.comResourcesLearn more about Jessica and Awesome Little Sleepers.Save your spot in my next free Toddler Sleep Masterclass at: ToddlerSleepMasterclass.comOther resources:Join me on Instagram @AwesomeLittleSleepersThe ONE thing you can start tonight to improve your toddler's sleep, click hereCheck out the blogWatch the YouTube channel ‘Sleep Tight Without a Fight' sleep course, click hereMy favorite sleep products, click here
This week on Two Parents & A Podcast, we're joined by Rachael Shepard-Ohta, a pediatric sleep expert and founder of Hey, Sleepy Baby — to talk about what evidenced-based sleep methods that ACTUALLY work and how to get better sleep without “training” your baby. We get into it all: what to do in those first sleepless newborn weeks, when (if ever) to expect a routine, and why traditional sleep training isn't the only way. Rachael explains why baby sleep isn't linear, how to handle night wakings, and what safe co-sleeping can look like for families who choose it. We also cover the modern sleep training industry, what other countries are doing better around infant sleep, and the biggest mistakes parents make in the first year (spoiler: it's not what you think). Whether you're team crib, team co-sleep, or somewhere in between, Rachael will leave you feeling empowered to find what actually works for YOUR family :) Timestamps: 00:00:00 Welcome back to Two Parents & A Podcast! 00:05:20 Introduction to Rachael Shepard-Ohta (Pediatric Sleep Expert) 00:06:00 What's the game plan parents should follow for newborn sleep when bringing baby home from the hospital? 00:10:30 When can parents realistically expect their baby to get into a routine? 00:12:30 Why Rachael doesn't recommend traditional sleep training 00:15:30 The real pros and cons of sleep training 00:18:10 Rachael's personal experience with sleep training and how it shaped her approach 00:23:44 Why baby sleep is not linear — and what that means for parents 00:27:30 When should parents actually expect their baby to sleep through the night? 00:28:25 When do frequent wake-ups become concerning? 00:31:10 The pros and cons of co-sleeping — plus how to do it safely 00:35:21 Alex & Harrison share their own experience with sleep training 00:39:45 Evidence-based alternatives to sleep training and co-sleeping 00:47:10 Dealing with nap refusal and short naps 00:52:28 Trial-and-erroring new sleep methods and learning your baby's cues 00:54:50 What other countries are doing around infant sleep that the U.S. could learn from 00:55:37 Rachael's thoughts on the modern “sleep training industry” 01:02:00 The biggest mistakes parents make around sleep in the first year 01:06:00 Thank you for listening! #twoparentsandapod --------------------------------------------------------------- Thank you to our sponsors this week: *Fast Growing Trees: This Fall, Fast Growing Trees has the best deals for your yard, up to half off on select plants and other deals. Listeners of our show get 15% OFF at https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com/TWOPARENTS when using the code TWOPARENTS at checkout. *Neuro: For a limited time, you can get 20% off your first order at https://www.Neurogum.com by using code TWOPARENTS. You can also find Neuro at CVS and Amazon. *Hungryroot: For a limited time, get 40% off your first box PLUS a free item in every box for life. Go to https://www.Hungryroot.com/TWOPARENTS and use code TWOPARENTS. *BetterHelp: As the largest online therapy provider in the world, BetterHelp can provide access to mental health professionals with a wide variety of expertise. Our listeners get 10% off their first month at https://www.BetterHelp.com/TWOPARENTS. --------------------------------------------------------------- Follow Two Parents & A Podcast: Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/twoparentsandapod TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@twoparentsandapod Follow Alex Bennett: Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/justalexbennett TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@justalexbennett Follow Harrison Fugman: Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/harrisonfugman TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@harrisonfugman Find our guest: Website | https://heysleepybaby.com/ Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/heysleepybaby TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@rachaelshepardohta Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
If your toddler is suddenly taking forever to fall asleep—or bouncing off the walls when bedtime rolls around—it's tempting to think the solution is a later bedtime. But that's actually the wrong move in most cases. In this episode, Allison Egidi, pediatric sleep and wellness coach, explains the #1 mistake parents make with toddler bedtime routines and what to do instead. She breaks down why toddlers resist sleep, what a “second wind” really is, and how to structure evenings so kids can fall asleep more quickly and rest more soundly. You'll learn: Why pushing bedtime later usually backfires The role of activity level in the hour before bed How overtired toddlers get their notorious “second wind” What an age-appropriate bedtime really looks like Practical tips to help your toddler fall asleep faster Allison also shares a real-life example from a family who thought their 3-year-old needed a 9 PM bedtime—and how one simple shift transformed their nights. If you've been tempted to delay bedtime in hopes of making your toddler “more tired,” this episode will give you a fresh perspective and tools you can try tonight. Dealing with a sleep regression with a 15 to 30 month old? Grab Allison's workshop Want to talk through smoothing out your evenings or bedtime with your toddler? Connect with Allison for a 1-on-1 consultation Click here to listen to the episode on YouTube From baby sleep to toddler sleep, daycare naps to sleep training—How Long 'Til Bedtime? is the podcast for parents who want practical, guilt-free sleep tips they can actually use. Hosted by pediatric sleep coach Allison Egidi, each episode delivers real solutions for every stage—from navigating newborn sleep struggles and weaning night feedings to helping your 3-year-old fall asleep independently (and stay asleep!). Whether you're trying to make sense of daycare sleep patterns, craving your evenings back, or simply need a working mom podcast to keep you grounded, you're in the right place. Want more from Allison? Sign up here to get her weekly email with podcast updates and other helpful parenting topics. Wondering if your child is getting enough sleep? Allison's free guides take the guesswork out of bedtime. Learn the optimal sleep ranges for every age so your little one can feel their best—day after day. Get your free copy now: 0-2 Years Old or 3 to 10 years old Enjoying How Long ‘Til Bedtime? Your rating and review help Allison reach and support more parents. On Apple Podcasts: Click here, scroll to the bottom, rate the show, and tap “Write a Review.” On Spotify: Click here to leave a rating or review. Don't miss an episode—subscribe so you're always up to date! Connect with Allison: Instagram | Facebook | Website | YouTube
Few parenting debates stir more passion than how to help a baby sleep. In this episode, we will:Explore the science and controversy behind “cry it out,” Ferber/check-and-console, and gentler alternativesReview what research says about sleep outcomes, stress, and attachmentThink about this concept in relationship to varyting sleep needsUnpack the safety concerns around bed-sharing and why guidance is so dividedOffer practical takeaways so parents can choose an approach that works—and feels right—for their familyProduced by: Maeve WinterMore Twitter: @drchriswinter IG: @drchriwinter Threads: @drchriswinter Bluesky: @drchriswinter The Sleep Solution and The Rested Child Thanks for listening and sleep well!
Is it possible to sleep train your baby without leaving them to cry it out? The short answer: yes—but probably not without some tears. In this episode of How Long 'Til Bedtime?, pediatric sleep coach Allison Egidi breaks down the myths and realities of “no cry” sleep training methods and what parents can realistically expect. You'll learn: What “cry it out” really means (definitions vary so much) Why even the most gentle, hands-on sleep training methods usually involve some crying Why it's important to choose the best sleep training approach based on your baby's temperament and your parenting style Why gradual, more supportive methods may work best for younger babies—but not always for older ones How to minimize tears and set your child up for independent, restful sleep The truth is, parenting is never one-size-fits-all. Some families thrive with cry it out, others prefer a slower, gentler approach, and both can work. What matters most is finding a method that feels sustainable for you and supports your baby's development. If you've been wondering whether you can teach your baby to sleep without leaving them to cry for long stretches, this episode will give you clarity, compassion, and options. Resources mentioned: The car trash bags Allison is loving lately Learn more about the sleep training services provided at Sleep and Wellness Coach Click here to listen to the episode on YouTube From baby sleep to toddler sleep, daycare naps to sleep training—How Long 'Til Bedtime? is the podcast for parents who want practical, guilt-free sleep tips they can actually use. Hosted by pediatric sleep coach Allison Egidi, each episode delivers real solutions for every stage—from navigating newborn sleep struggles and weaning night feedings to helping your 3-year-old fall asleep independently (and stay asleep!). Whether you're trying to make sense of daycare sleep patterns, craving your evenings back, or simply need a working mom podcast to keep you grounded, you're in the right place. Want more from Allison? Sign up here to get her weekly email with podcast updates and other helpful parenting topics. Give your child the gift of better sleep. Allison's free, age-specific guides show you exactly how many hours of rest kids need to grow, learn, and thrive—no matter their age. Get your free copy now: 0-2 Years Old or 3 to 10 years old Enjoying How Long ‘Til Bedtime? Your rating and review help Allison reach and support more parents. On Apple Podcasts: Click here, scroll to the bottom, rate the show, and tap “Write a Review.” On Spotify: Click here to leave a rating or review. Don't miss an episode—subscribe so you're always up to date! Connect with Allison: Instagram | Facebook | Website | YouTube
Today's episode is a very special guest, my sister! Kalie Duvall is a working mom of two who decided early on that sleep training was going to be part of her motherhood. Kalie shares why she decided to sleep train, what that looked like with multiple kids, breastfeeding vs. bottle feeding, and much more.
Are you struggling with a newborn or a toddler that won't sleep? Have you just given up and resorted to having kids sleep in your bed or waking up throughout the night? Are you feeling frustrated, sleep deprived, and at the end of your rope? I am so excited to introduce you to Sue Mcglinchey! Sue and I connected when we both spoke at the Busy Mom's Blueprint Summit in the spring. Sue is a Certified Pediatric Sleep Consultant, a Certified Newborn Care Specialist. And founder of Tender Care Newborn Services & Sleep Training with Tender Care. She serves families both nationally and internationally through her virtual services. Sue's coaching helps teach little ones to sleep 8-12 hours a night, and allows everyone in the household to get the rest they need! Sue began her journey working with children and families nearly 25 years ago as a nanny and educator, and in the last 10 years Sue has found that her passion lies not only in working with families with infants but also parents of toddlers and preschoolers, helping them to conquer the chaos of getting through the evening routine and into bed. Sue sets families up for sleep success by providing parents with the tools they need to help their children learn to sleep reliably and peacefully through the night. Pull up a chair and grab your coffee as Sue and I talk about sleep training, and the keys to getting your little one to sleep through the night! Reminder We have some fun things coming up this fall. Our Group Coaching Program, Get Your Time Back 10 weeks to get your systems in place, and to create your dream schedule just kicked off. If you are sorry that you missed it and want to join the waitlist for the next round in the spring go to: (https://michellebyrd.myflodesk.com/waitlist) If you are listening to this episode and need some help carving out time, working through a transition, or trying to balance work and life. I would love to help you: You can leave a message on the website www.byrdmichelle.com You can grab the free Productivity Planner that I use with all my clients You can book a 20 min Discovery Call with me totally free and we can talk though what you need As always if you have any questions or want to just say hi you can reach me at contact@byrdmichelle.com. Contact Info & Social Media Handles For Sue: https://sleeptrainingwithtendercare.com https://tendercarenewbornservices.com https://www.instagram.com/tendercarenewbornservices/ I pray this blesses you! Michelle PS. If you need some extra accountability or help with productivity hacks, time management tools, mapping out a more efficient daily or weekly schedule, time blocking and so much more. We will break down what isn't working in your schedule, create new personalized goals for you, and determine the next new steps you need to take to have more freedom and live with more joy and laughter! Grab a coaching call with me at: Email: contact@byrdmichelle.com website: www.byrdmichelle.com Free Productivity Planner - my gift to you! Just go to my website Come join our Facebook Group: The Busy Vibrant Mom
Are you stressing over getting your baby's wake windows just right? You're not alone. Wake window charts are everywhere—on Instagram, in parenting groups, and even recommended by some sleep consultants. But here's the truth: wake windows aren't evidence-based. In this episode of How Long ‘Til Bedtime?, pediatric sleep coach Allison Egidi explains where wake windows came from, why they often backfire, and what research actually shows about healthy baby and toddler sleep. You'll learn: Why wake windows can create more stress than solutions How circadian rhythm—not wake window timing—drives quality sleep The power of consistent nap times and bedtime anchors What to focus on instead if wake windows aren't working for your baby If you've ever felt like your baby is “broken” because they won't fit into a chart, this conversation will set you free. Instead of micromanaging wake times, Allison shows you how to build sustainable sleep habits rooted in evidence and your child's natural rhythm. Resources mentioned: Episode 99. Understanding Natural Sleep Talent 1-on-1 sleep consultations with Allison and her team Click here to listen to the episode on YouTube From baby sleep to toddler sleep, daycare naps to sleep training—How Long 'Til Bedtime? is the podcast for parents who want practical, guilt-free sleep tips they can actually use. Hosted by pediatric sleep coach Allison Egidi, each episode delivers real solutions for every stage—from navigating newborn sleep struggles and weaning night feedings to helping your 3-year-old fall asleep independently (and stay asleep!). Whether you're trying to make sense of daycare sleep patterns, craving your evenings back, or simply need a working mom podcast to keep you grounded, you're in the right place. Want more from Allison? Sign up here to get her weekly email with podcast updates and other helpful parenting topics. Looking for expert guidance on your child's sleep? Allison offers two free age-specific guides to help you discover how much sleep kids need to thrive—at any age. Get your free copy now: 0-2 Years Old or 3 to 10 years old Enjoying How Long ‘Til Bedtime? Your rating and review help Allison reach and support more parents. On Apple Podcasts: Click here, scroll to the bottom, rate the show, and tap “Write a Review.” On Spotify: Click here to leave a rating or review. Don't miss an episode—subscribe so you're always up to date! Connect with Allison: Instagram | Facebook | Website | YouTube
Labor Day has passed, the kids are back in school, and it's the perfect time for a fall reset routine. After a summer of looser schedules, many parents and caregivers find themselves craving structure, healthy habits, and simple wellness swaps that create a greater sense of balance. In this episode of How Long 'Til Bedtime?, pediatric sleep coach Allison Egidi shares her personal fall reset habit shifts—from creating a consistent morning routine and prioritizing protein before coffee, to daily movement, improved sleep habits, and a renewed focus on whole-food meals (and remaining on a gluten free diet). Her goal is to use these small but powerful changes to feel calmer, more energized, and ready to take on the new school year. Whether you're seeking a fresh start, hoping to reset your wellness this season, or looking for inspiration for a fall morning routine, this episode offers practical ideas to put into practice right away. Click here to listen to the episode on YouTube From baby sleep to toddler sleep, daycare naps to sleep training—How Long 'Til Bedtime? is the podcast for parents who want practical, guilt-free sleep tips they can actually use. Hosted by pediatric sleep coach Allison Egidi, each episode delivers real solutions for every stage—from navigating newborn sleep struggles and weaning night feedings to helping your 3-year-old fall asleep independently (and stay asleep!). Whether you're trying to make sense of daycare sleep patterns, craving your evenings back, or simply need a working mom podcast to keep you grounded, you're in the right place. Want more from Allison? Sign up here to get her weekly email with podcast updates and other helpful parenting topics. Wondering if your child is getting enough sleep? Allison's free guides take the guesswork out of bedtime. Learn the optimal sleep ranges for every age so your little one can feel their best—day after day. Get your free copy now: 0-2 Years Old or 3 to 10 years old Enjoying How Long ‘Til Bedtime? Your rating and review help Allison reach and support more parents. On Apple Podcasts: Click here, scroll to the bottom, rate the show, and tap “Write a Review.” On Spotify: Click here to leave a rating or review. Don't miss an episode—subscribe so you're always up to date! Connect with Allison: Instagram | Facebook | Website | YouTube
This week, we're diving into all the spicy opinions we didn't know we had until becoming moms! From piercing baby ears to co-sleeping, sleep training, and screen time, we're sharing our honest (and maybe controversial) thoughts on all the “shoulds” that come with raising littles. Whether you're deep in diaper duty or just curious what kind of moms we are, this episode is equal parts candid, spicy, and kind. We hope this one makes you laugh, feel seen, and know you're not alone—even if your parenting choices look totally different than ours. We're all just figuring it out, and that's more than okay. [00:00] Why Kenz loves hot takes & Mac's fear of getting canceled[01:35] What kind of moms are we? (Spoiler: not Pinterest moms)[03:26] Piercing baby ears – not for us, but you do you[05:36] Sleep training – what we did, how it worked, and why people have feelings[11:45] Co-sleeping – why we passed and how that impacted our sanity[17:00] Screen time – our approach, the exceptions, and Friday night movies[24:00] Grace over perfection – the motto we're learning to live by[27:15] Church + childcare – navigating Sunday rhythms with little ones[30:10] Spanking – our honest thoughts on discipline and alternatives[36:45] Public vs. private school – praying through the decision[43:30] Vaccines – our personal experiences and how we're navigating it all[50:20] Final thoughts – trusting God in the unknowns of parenting PRE ORDER OUR NEW STUDY! This seven-week, verse-by-verse study through the book of Acts invites you to embrace the unpredictable, sometimes challenging adventure of Spirit-led living that characterized the early church. Thanks to Our Sponsors Brooklyn Bedding: Go to brooklynbedding.com and use our promo code FTG at checkout to get 30% off site wide. This offer is not available anywhere else. NIV Application Study Bible - Grab your copy today! Winshape: Learn more or submit your application today! If you'd like to partner with For The Girl as a sponsor, fill out our Advertise With Us form! Follow us!
When life turns upside down, helpers appear. In this heartfelt episode, pediatric sleep coach Allison Egidi shares a deeply personal story following a tragedy in her own neighborhood. Amid loss and devastation, she reflects on the healing power of helpers—the neighbors, friends, and community members who show up with compassion and kindness in times of need. Allison explores: Why witnessing kindness is profoundly healing in the face of hardship How being a helper can ease feelings of helplessness and guilt The importance—and courage—of accepting help when you need it most Practical ways parents can both offer and receive support in everyday life Whether you're walking through tragedy, adjusting to the challenges of new parenthood, or simply navigating the ups and downs of life, this episode is a reminder that community and connection are vital. Helpers are always there if we're willing to look—and sometimes the bravest thing we can do is say “yes” to their kindness. Click here to listen to the episode on YouTube From baby sleep to toddler sleep, daycare naps to sleep training—How Long 'Til Bedtime? is the podcast for parents who want practical, guilt-free sleep tips they can actually use. Hosted by pediatric sleep coach Allison Egidi, each episode delivers real solutions for every stage—from navigating newborn sleep struggles and weaning night feedings to helping your 3-year-old fall asleep independently (and stay asleep!). Whether you're trying to make sense of daycare sleep patterns, craving your evenings back, or simply need a working mom podcast to keep you grounded, you're in the right place. Want more from Allison? Sign up here to get her weekly email with podcast updates and other helpful parenting topics. Give your child the gift of better sleep. Allison's free, age-specific guides show you exactly how many hours of rest kids need to grow, learn, and thrive—no matter their age. Get your free copy now: 0-2 Years Old or 3 to 10 years old Enjoying How Long ‘Til Bedtime? Your rating and review help Allison reach and support more parents. On Apple Podcasts: Click here, scroll to the bottom, rate the show, and tap “Write a Review.” On Spotify: Click here to leave a rating or review. Don't miss an episode—subscribe so you're always up to date! Connect with Allison: Instagram | Facebook | Website | YouTube
Mornings can set the tone for the entire day—especially during the school year. If you've ever felt frazzled trying to get your kids out the door, this episode is for you. Allison shares her tried-and-true strategies for creating a smooth, stress-free morning routine, whether you're sending your child to daycare, preschool, or elementary school. From the three simple things she preps the night before, to dividing responsibilities with her spouse, to avoiding the most common morning time-waster, you'll learn practical tips you can start using tomorrow. You'll hear: Why a good night's sleep is the foundation for a smooth morning The three prep steps that make the biggest difference How to cut down on transitions (and meltdowns!) The one change that could eliminate a major source of stress Ways to adapt your routine when you're parenting solo in the mornings With small adjustments and consistency, you can turn chaotic mornings into calm, productive starts. Allison refers to Episode 91. A Simple Bedtime Routine That Takes 30 Minutes Or Less Click here to listen to the episode on YouTube From baby sleep to toddler sleep, daycare naps to sleep training—How Long 'Til Bedtime? is the podcast for parents who want practical, guilt-free sleep tips they can actually use. Hosted by pediatric sleep coach Allison Egidi, each episode delivers real solutions for every stage—from navigating newborn sleep struggles and weaning night feedings to helping your 3-year-old fall asleep independently (and stay asleep!). Whether you're trying to make sense of daycare sleep patterns, craving your evenings back, or simply need a working mom podcast to keep you grounded, you're in the right place. Want more from Allison? Sign up here to get her weekly email with podcast updates and other helpful parenting topics. Give your child the gift of better sleep. Allison's free, age-specific guides show you exactly how many hours of rest kids need to grow, learn, and thrive—no matter their age. Get your free copy now: 0-2 Years Old or 3 to 10 years old Enjoying How Long ‘Til Bedtime? Your rating and review help Allison reach and support more parents. On Apple Podcasts: Click here, scroll to the bottom, rate the show, and tap “Write a Review.” On Spotify: Click here to leave a rating or review. Don't miss an episode—subscribe so you're always up to date! Connect with Allison: Instagram | Facebook | Website | YouTube
Welcome to the summer from the archives series! We're revisiting some much loved podcast episodes from the early months of the podcast. These are episode that are great to revisit at different points in your parenting journey. Sleep training culture is pervasive, and almost every parent I talk with feels its impact in some way, even the most confident, attachment focused parents. Understanding the ways that sleep training shapes our culture well beyond cry it out can be a powerful tool in building confidence and making informed decisions in sleep. In this episode, I'm sharing about sleep training culture and how it influences your sleep expectations in ways you don't often realize. So many parents know they don't want to sleep train, but they aren't aware how much sleep training culture shapes their expectations and goals. Supporting sleep responsively isn't just about avoiding harsh sleep training strategies, but a totally different paradigm for sleep. Resources related to this episodeCheck out more about sleep training history in this blog post: https://intuitiveparentingdc.com/blog/history-of-sleep-trainingConnect with Kim Instagram: instagram.com/intuitive_parenting_dcFacebook: facebook.com/intuitiveparentingdcLearn more about working with Kim: https://intuitiveparentingdc.com/
This episode is brought to you by Audible, Caldera Lab and FLYKITT. In this episode of Ever Forward Radio, psychotherapist and author Vanessa Bennett returns to discuss her groundbreaking new book The Motherhood Myth. She pulls back the curtain on the cultural systems shaping how women experience motherhood, intimacy, rage, and identity—and why so many moms feel like they're failing even when they're doing everything “right.” Vanessa shares how Western models of parenting, isolation within the nuclear family, and myths rooted in patriarchy contribute to burnout, disconnection, and shame. She also offers a new vision for communal care, initiation rituals, and reclaiming motherhood as a transformative journey instead of a burden. Follow Vanessa @vanessabennett Follow Chase @chase_chewning ----- In this episode we discuss... 00:00 – The Motherhood Struggle 00:30 – The Nuclear Family Myth 03:27 – Motherhood as Transformation 04:42 – Lessons from Past Generations 09:07 – The Concept of the Child Mother 11:28 – Motherhood as Initiation 18:24 – WEIRD Parenting Models 22:38 – Sleep Training, Co-Sleeping & Intuition 26:38 – Communal Parenting vs. Burnout 30:23 – Capitalism, Patriarchy & Motherhood 32:52 – The Martyr Myth 36:31 – Interracial Parenting & Breaking Cycles 37:52 – Rage, Shame & Transformation 42:17 – Motherhood, Rage, and Relationship Expectations 56:19 – Ownership in Relationships & The Codependent Society 01:02:09 – Therapy as a Modern Rite of Passage & Closing Reflections ----- Episode resources: Free 30-day trial of Audible 20% off Caldera Lab men's skincare with code EVERFORWARD 15% off FLYKITT with code CHASE and never get jet lag again Watch and subscribe on YouTube Get Vanessa's book The Motherhood Myth Learn more at VanessaBennett.com
Kindergarten is a major milestone—for both kids and parents. So how can you best support your child's transition and set them up to thrive, not just academically, but emotionally and socially? In this encore episode, pediatric sleep coach Allison Egidi is joined by veteran kindergarten teacher Meg Franco for a warm and insightful conversation about what families can do before and during the school year to make the leap to kindergarten smoother for everyone. From managing separation anxiety to knowing what skills really matter on day one (hint: it's not reading!), this episode is full of practical advice and gentle encouragement. Meg has been teaching kindergarten for 22 years and strives to instill in her students a love of school and learning. Throughout this episode, she offers a glimpse inside a kindergarten classroom with plenty of anecdotes and tips. Whether your child is starting kindergarten this fall or you're thinking ahead, Meg's compassionate approach and real-world experience will help you feel more prepared—and more at peace. What You'll Learn: What kindergarten teachers really want kids to be able to do on day one How to foster independence and confidence at home The truth about early academics—and what matters more than reading How to handle drop-offs without prolonging the hard part The role of routine, rest, and regulation during the kindergarten year Why partnering with your child's teacher makes all the difference Resources mentioned: Episode 200. [ENCORE] What Your Child's Preschool Teacher Wishes You Knew with Elizabeth Lane Have You Filled A Bucket Today? Click here to watch or listen on YouTube From baby sleep to toddler sleep, daycare naps to sleep training—How Long 'Til Bedtime? is the podcast for parents who want practical, guilt-free sleep tips they can actually use. Hosted by pediatric sleep coach Allison Egidi, each episode delivers real solutions for every stage—from navigating newborn sleep struggles and weaning night feedings to helping your 3-year-old fall asleep independently (and stay asleep!). Whether you're trying to make sense of daycare sleep patterns, craving your evenings back, or simply need a working mom podcast to keep you grounded, you're in the right place. Want more from Allison? Sign up here to get her weekly email with podcast updates and other helpful parenting topics. Wondering if your child is getting enough sleep? Allison's free guides take the guesswork out of bedtime. Learn the optimal sleep ranges for every age so your little one can feel their best—day after day. Get your free copy now: 0-2 Years Old or 3 to 10 years old Enjoying How Long ‘Til Bedtime? Your rating and review help Allison reach and support more parents. On Apple Podcasts: Click here, scroll to the bottom, rate the show, and tap “Write a Review.” On Spotify: Click here to leave a rating or review. Don't miss an episode—subscribe so you're always up to date! Connect with Allison: Instagram | Facebook | Website | YouTube
Sending your child off to preschool can be exciting—and emotional. But how can you really prepare your child (and yourself) for that big transition? In this encore episode, Allison sits down with preschool teacher Elizabeth Lane to talk about everything she wishes parents knew before the first day of school. From fostering independence to navigating drop-off emotions to the real role parents play in early literacy, this conversation is full of practical, reassuring guidance you won't want to miss. Whether your child is heading to preschool this fall or you're just curious about what to expect in the years ahead, this episode will leave you feeling informed and empowered. You'll learn: Why practicing independence at home (like putting on a coat or recognizing their name) makes a big difference How to support your child's social-emotional development before and during the school year The best ways to handle emotional drop-offs (without lingering or guilt!) Why learning to read doesn't need to be rushed—and how to support a love of books The power of teamwork between parents and teachers to help your child thrive This episode is packed with insights to help you start the school year with confidence—and compassion for both you and your child.
It's not what you think! There are no magic products, mantras, not even one of my perfect schedules. The secret ingredients has much more to do with your CONFIDENCE - in the source of your information, the logic behind it, and in knowing what to do when things inevitably go sideways. I'll explain exactly what I mean in this week's episode!Loved this episode? There is so much more where that came from:️Subscribe....leave a review....and share with your friends!Follow The Fun On IG: @BrittanySheehanSleepWork with me:Custom Sleep PlansSleep CoursesPotty Training & Parenting PlansThe B Hive Client Membership ProgramTake The Sleep QuizSay Hi: info@brittanysheehan.com
As the new school year approaches, it's time to bring structure back to our children's sleep schedules. In this second installment of Allison's back-to-school sleep series, we focus on elementary-aged children—a group especially impacted by the transition from summer to school routines. Pediatric sleep coach, Allison Egidi shares practical tips to help parents reset their kids' internal clocks, plan for early wake-up times, and ensure they're getting the ideal amount of sleep for learning, behavior, and emotional regulation. You'll hear: Why sleep matters just as much as school supplies The surprising impact of sleep on classroom behavior and academic performance Allison's breakdown of realistic sleep needs by age (5–10 years old) How to identify signs your child is sleep-deprived Why a rescue bedtime might save your school week How puberty starts to shift sleep rhythms (and what to do about it) If your mornings are chaotic or your child struggles with focus or behavior during the school year, this episode offers clear guidance to help your whole family start strong. Click here to watch or listen on YouTube From baby sleep to toddler sleep, daycare naps to sleep training—this is the podcast for parents who want practical, guilt-free sleep tips. Hosted by pediatric sleep coach Allison Egidi, How Long 'Til Bedtime? delivers real solutions for everything from navigating newborn sleep struggles and weaning night feedings to helping your 3-year-old fall asleep independently (and stay asleep!). Whether you're trying to make sense of daycare sleep patterns, desperately want your evenings back, or just need a working mom podcast to keep you grounded, we've got you covered. Want to hear more from Allison? Provide your email address here to receive Allison's weekly email about the podcast and other fun topics. Enjoying How Long ‘Til Bedtime? Please consider rating and reviewing the show. This helps Allison support more parents. Click here, scroll to the bottom, rate the podcast, and select “Write a Review.” And if you're a Spotify listener, you can now leave reviews on Spotify by clicking here. Also, if you subscribe to the show, you won't miss any episodes! Connect with Allison: Instagram Facebook Website YouTube
The truth is, early parenting choices, like sleep training and letting babies cry it out, can affect how their brain and body develop for years to come. Many well-meaning parents follow these popular methods, only to see their kids later struggle with anxiety, depression, or behavioral issues that seem to come out of nowhere. That's because early attachment and nervous system development shape a child's mental health in ways we don't always see. Everything that happens in the first years of life, from how you respond to your baby's cries to how connected they feel, helps build their brain, nervous system, and their ability to feel safe and calm. Even common parenting habits can create hidden stress, making it harder for children to grow into resilient, emotionally healthy adults. In this episode, Dr. Darcia Narvaez joins Dr. Aimie to talk about what babies really need for healthy brain development, emotional safety, and attachment. You'll also learn how parents and practitioners can begin to repair early childhood trauma and help heal the nervous system, no matter the age. You'll hear about: How sleep training and crying it out disrupt a baby's developing nervous system The link between early separations and anxiety, depression, and attachment issues later in life How your own childhood experiences influence your health, relationships, and parenting style Practical ways to rebuild connection and help your child's nervous system heal Why the vagus nerve is essential for emotional regulation in children How common newborn medical procedures can cause lasting trauma Why children need love and connection, not constant performance for approval Whether you're a practitioner wanting to understand how early attachment trauma affects adult clients, or a parent looking for nervous system regulation techniques and coregulation strategies to support your child, this episode offers science-backed insights and practical tools you can use right away. Dr. Darcia Narvaez is a Professor of Psychology Emerita at the University of Notre Dame. She is the co-founder of the public and professional educational outreach project the Evolved Nest Initiative whose nonprofit mission is to share her science research into developing appropriate baselines for lifelong human wellness and providing guidelines for fostering full human potential. Guides, Tools & Resources: Attachment Trauma Healing Roadmap - Learn how your nervous system affects your ability to form secure attachments. Discover simple steps to rewire your nervous system for better relationships and overall health Biology of Trauma book - how the body experiences and holds fear, pain and overwhelm, and how to heal. Pre-order now and, at the time of this recording, you'll get over $400 in bonuses included! Those bonuses are only for the pre-order window which goes until Sept 22, 2025. When you've already pre-ordered it on Amazon head over here to receive your bonuses. The Foundational Journey - a 6 week program as the place to lay the foundation for all the phases of the healing journey explained in The Essential Sequence guide. If you are looking for emotional and nervous system regulation and changes in your physical health without a pill, this is for you. If you are a practitioner - this is where it all starts with the year certificate training program to become a Biology of Trauma professional. Related Podcast Episodes: Episode 14: How To Not Traumatize Your Infant With Common Parenting Practices With Bette Lamont, Part 2 Episode 92: How Chaos of Early Childhood Trauma Affects Our Adult Nervous System with Dr. Tian Dayton Related Youtube Videos: True Stories Of Parents Repairing The Effects Of Adverse Childhood Experiences | Dr. Aimie Apigian Disclaimer: By listening to this podcast, you agree not to use this podcast as medical, psychological, or mental health advice to treat any medical or psychological condition in yourself or others. This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and does not constitute professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your own physician, therapist, psychiatrist, or other qualified health provider regarding any physical or mental health issues you may be experiencing. This entire disclaimer also applies to any guests or contributors to the podcast. Under no circumstances shall Trauma Healing Accelerated, any guests or contributors to The Biology of Trauma® podcast, or any employees, associates, or affiliates of Trauma Healing Accelerated be responsible for damages arising from the use or misuse of the content provided in this podcast.
Are you often stuck in your toddler's room at bedtime? Here are some sleep training tips to get you UNstuck.Most of us have been here before… The bedtime routine is over but your child wants you to stay in their room. They don't want you to leave. They don't want to be alone.Maybe they're having a little separation anxiety… maybe they're in a new big kid bed that feels unfamiliar or maybe there's no rhyme or reason - they just want you to stay. If you are consistently staying with your child while they fall asleep, this actually makes it harder for kids to get to sleep.Help you and your child get more sleep by listening to this episode.ResourcesLearn more about Jessica and Awesome Little Sleepers.Save your spot in my next free Toddler Sleep Masterclass at: ToddlerSleepMasterclass.comOther resources:Join me on Instagram @AwesomeLittleSleepersThe ONE thing you can start tonight to improve your toddler's sleep, click hereCheck out the blogWatch the YouTube channel ‘Sleep Tight Without a Fight' sleep course, click hereMy favorite sleep products, click here
In this informative episode, Tara sits down with certified sleep coach Alexa Martinez to explore one of the most common (and exhausting) parenting challenges: sleep. Alexa opens up about her own journey from sleep-deprived mom to expert consultant, and shares practical advice for navigating baby and toddler sleep struggles. From debunking common sleep training myths to understanding how sleep impacts the entire family, this conversation offers both reassurance and real-world strategies for tired parents everywhere. Tara and Alexa also discuss the emotional toll of sleep deprivation, the importance of trusting your parenting instincts, and why no one-size-fits-all approach works when it comes to kids' sleep. They touch on surprising tools, like color psychology, and how involving children in the process can create smoother transitions. Whether you're deep in a sleep regression or just looking for guidance, this episode is packed with compassionate advice and helpful resources to remind you: you're not alone, and better sleep is possible. Links: https://www.instagram.com/mama.matters.too https://mamamatterstoo.com/
What if I told you that so much of what you THINK you'll do as a new mom totally changes once you're actually in the messy, magical trenches of motherhood? In this episode, I'm getting personal about all the “hot takes” and behind-the-scenes decisions Eric and I made—sometimes against conventional wisdom—during my first 10 months with Blakely. We're talking breastfeeding versus formula, real talk on night weaning and sleep training (including what I swore I'd NEVER do!), how we approach solids and screen time, and why changing your mind as a mom is basically a rule, not a failure.If you've ever wondered, “Am I doing motherhood ‘right'?” or felt a pang of guilt comparing your journey to anyone else's, you'll walk away from this episode feeling validated, informed, and so much less alone. You'll get clear insight into what worked for us, what absolutely didn't, and tiny tweaks I'll make next time—all shared openly so you can cherry-pick what fits your own family.If you're ready for a real, unfiltered take on the highs and lows of new motherhood, plus one thing no one warned me about (that completely rocked my world!) tap play now.
Is your kid's bedtime routine a sweet dream…or a beautiful nightmare? In this episode, the Mamas are joined by Brandi Jordan - pediatric sleep specialist, postpartum doula, lactation consultant, and professional baby whisperer. Brandi breaks down how sleep actually works, from healthy newborn sleep habits to setting boundaries with big kids who still crawl into your bed. She talks about dream feeds, developmental milestones, co-sleeping vs. the cry-it-out method, and how to create the right environment for restful sleep - for your little ones and yourself. Because yes, Village, your sleep matters too.Check out Brandi's agency - The Cradle Company, her podcast "Dear Doula", and follow her on Instagram @brandi_jordan_official for more tips.________________________ We love getting Listener Letters! Send any thoughts or questions for the Mamas at podcasts@blacklove.com.Make sure you connect with our Mamas:Ashley - @watermeloneggrollsCodie - @codiecoMelanie - @melaniefiona________________________ LOVE BLACK LOVE? Subscribe to our channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/blacklove?s...For more Black Love interviews and articles, visit http://www.BlackLove.comFollow Facebook: blacklovedoc Instagram: blacklove Tiktok: blackloveinc#BlackLoveDoc #blacklove #blacklovemagic
In this episode of The goop Podcast, Gwyneth sits down with sleep physician and research scientist Dr. Cheri Mah to explore the science—and the subtle art—of truly restorative sleep. From rituals and routines to nutrition and movement, they unpack the quiet power of rest: how to support it, protect it, and finally experience it in a way that actually restores us. Watch the full Sleep Training for Grown-Ups series, in partnership with Westin Hotels, at goop.com/sleeptraining or youtube.com/goop. Exclusive for podcast listeners, visit https://goop.com/the-sleep-shop/c/ and receive a free full size sleep milk ($105 value) with any order from the sleep shop using code: SLEEPBETTER. Valid through 6/17. To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices