A sex podcast for couples by couples. We discuss all things sex and relationships in order to save intimacy over time.
Send us a textBut is it? Lately there have been a few viral videos well known people discussing the change in degree of difficulty in pleasing a penis vs. a vulva. This week Kari and Casey provide their perspective on the whole conversation. Support the show
Send us a textThis week we sat down with the author of the Disorderly Conduct series: Jade Greene. Jade has published 2 books in the series with a third on the way. We wanted to get an inside look on her process and how she can draw inspiration from steamy personal stories to aid in her writing. You DO NOT want to miss this!Jade Greene's SocialsSupport the show
Send us a textMoving on in KINKtober! We're talking would you rather....kink edition as well as our upcoming activities! Support the show
Send us a textKari and Casey talk all things Kink including some bits of history, how kinks form, and how you can begin to talk with your partner about kink in an effort to introduce some into your love life!Mentioned this episode@shibaristudios@wildflowerintimatesBook mentioned in this episodeUnlearning Shame by Devon Price, PhDAvailable on AMAZONresources mentioned Mojoupgrade.combdsmtest.orgX confessions Support the show
Send us a textAfter a 4 moth hiatus..... WE'RE BACK! In this episode we're updating you on all the things that have been going on behind the scenes including our new collaborations, partnerships, and how much fun we've been having! We also dive into the fantasy of transactional sex with your partner. Is it okay to to make sex transactional? Doesn't that take away from your intimacy? Spoilers..... HELL NO it doesn't! When explored through the lens of fantasy and in ways that can actually facilitate MORE intimacy, transactional sex can be a ton of fun!Mentioned in this episode@wildflowerintimates Grace at wildflower intimates might have THE best lingerie shop on the planet! She offers free bra fittings that will have you questioning WHY you never had a proper one done as well as some of the most amazing undergarments you will ever see. In fact, Casey and Kari will be hosting an intro to Shibari workshop at Wildflower on November 15th, 2024! @madisonfromdallas We are happy to be going through rebranding with THE madison from dallas. You may have seen here recent work featuring artists like the meteoric Chapelle Roan. We were elated to eb able to hang with Madison. Her work is PHENOMENAL!@shibaristudios Shibari studio is THE premier studio in Fort Worth for both seasoned and new Shibari enthusiasts. Whether you are new to the ropes or an experienced Rigger or Bunny, Shibari studios offers a safe and consent driven environment to explore your rope fantasies. All memberships include a background check and waiver to ensure safety for all participants. They also offer courses from intro classes to advanced suspension classes and even world class performances! USE CODE CWKC1023 at checkout from shibaristudios.com for $25 off your membership good through October 31st 2024. Support the show
This week we welcome Johnnie and Iris, Executive producers of FetEvolution, a Dallas based fetish group and event planners to talk all about the importance of creating and maintaining community within the fetish lifestyle. fin them here! Instagram FetEvolution Website Support the Show.
Welcome to Masturbation May! Today we are talking about modern masturbation including the toy industry FINALLY diversifying in their toys for penis owners!We are also inviting you to the most wonderful gothic themed burlesque show in existence, NIGHTSHADE BURLESUE! This event occurs every first Friday of the month at The Cicada in Fort Worth TexasMentioned Nightshade BurlesqueThe CicadaSupport the Show.
Welcome to part 2 of The Poly Pocket with returning special guest, Fox Eros, The Polyamory Therapist!Fox Eros (M.A., AMFT), known as 'The Polyamory Therapist' has earned a reputation as an incandescent, deeply empathetic and passion filled Psychotherapist, Writer and Speaker. She has a Master's Degree in Marriage Family Therapy and is an expert in Consensual Non-Monogamous Relationships and Sex Therapy. She is currently at work on her first book about polyamory and is a contributing writer and educator in the polyamory field. Fox continues to be sought out to help individuals and people in relationships with life stress, self-worth, identity, impacts of trauma, sex and intimacy related topics. Fox identifies as a pansexual, panromantic, polyamorous, multi-ethnic, Black Girl Magic, BIPOC femme person; and lives on the land of the Chumash and Gabrielino-Tongva First Peoples. Her pleasures include being a Beloved, forest bathing, sun dancing, anything chocolate & peanut butter, and crushing on our infinite Universe. Also, rainbows. Connect with Fox on social media @thepolyamorytherapist or her website https://www.foxerosinlove.com/. Support the Show.
One of our most requested topics is about open relationships. There just seems to be so much interest not only from listeners that ARE open, but also from monogamous people simply interested in what these relationships look like. This week we are joined by Fox Eros AMFT, “The Polyamory Therapist” to discuss all things polyamory. The why, the how, and the what surrounding it all.About Fox:Fox Eros (M.A., AMFT), known as "The Polyamory Therapist” has earned a reputation as an incandescent, deeply empathetic and passion filled Psychotherapist, Writer and Speaker. She has a Master's Degree in Marriage Family Therapy and specializes in Sex Therapy and Consensual Non-Monogamous Relationships. She is currently at work on her first book about polyamory and is a contributing writer and educator in the polyamory field. Fox continues to be sought out to help individuals and people in relationships with life stress, self-worth, impacts of trauma, sex and intimacy related topics. Fox identifies as a pansexual, panromantic, polyamorous, multi-racial, Black Girl Magic, BIPOC femme person; and lives on the land of the Chumash and Gabrielino-Tongva peoples. Her pleasures include being a Lover, being loved, forest bathing, sun dancing, dreaming in chocolate and crushing on the fantasticalness of it all. Also, rainbows. Want to know more? You can get to know Fox through these links Instagram https://www.foxerosinlove.com/TikTokSupport the show
We have sponsorships available! Head over to CWKC and submit a sponsorship requestWe're going back to basics! Lets discuss just a few options of erogenous zones to hit to make your partner have "that" faceSupport the show
The recent boom in erotic literature in the last few years has been exciting. More people are being open about their sexual interests thanks to authors paving the way for open conversation. In this episode award winning dark romance author Shae Coon gives us her insight on the process of creating kinky characters and the worlds the play in. Support the show
In this episode we are going over the most googled sex questions of 2023 because they are HILARIOUS! Seriously, there are people out there that could use some good education in terms of sex, Support the show
Let's talk about the sexual spectrum with our favorite educator, Ley David Elliot Crey, PhD!Support the show
Join Kari and Casey as they discuss the benefits of pre-game boundary setting, and why most arguments occur. Mentions in this episodeNightshade BurlesqueSexual Health AllianceSupport the show
Let's continue our discussion on celebrated days of sex! The second half of this promises more fun than the first. Enjoy!Support the show
Happy 2024! We're getting right into things with a fresh update on all things CWKC, including some really exciting announcements. Mentioned in this episodeNightshade Burlesque Sexpositive.memesSupport the show
Let's talk 2024! We have compiled a list of the most recognized sex days all nice and neat for you. So sit down with us and lets plan a kinky 2024Mentioned in this episode:Carla Renee IntimatesNightshade Burlesque Support the show
Kari and Dr. Casey are talking how to Use the holidays as a time to fit in plenty of sex even when dealing with kids and family. Mentioned in this episode:Carla Renee IntimatesNightshade Burlesque LoversSupport the show
Let's talk rope play and relationships! We are joined by Knot Snacks and Faeriere, two wonderful people and Shibari enthusiasts, who are talking about how to have some real fun with ropes!Support the show
Lets talk The Dallas Fetish Ball! Kari and Casey had a wonderful evening with friends and seeing allllll the things like leatherwear, impact play, hot wax (kudos to Kari for the public hot wax performance) and of course out favorite, Shibari. Support the show
Let's dive into dirty talk. WHY to do it, HOW to do it, and some tips from us on how to improve upon it. Mentions in this episode Nightshade BurlesqueSupport the show
Let's talk masturbation! We're well into kinktober and we polled our listeners about how long it takes them to C*m when engaging in solo play. Some of the answers brought up some interesting conversation on this episode of Cum With KCSupport the show
Let's talk fluidity in your sex positions! We often hear people discuss sex positions and variations of each, but what we don't often hear is how to flow through each position in a way that is fluid. Mapping out what this looks like can elevate your bedroom game in a VERY erotic way. Don't forget! Nighshade Burlesque is the first Friday of every month with some truly inspiring acts. Need a burlesque Photographer? Carla Renee Intimates is the perfect person to get you feeling sexy with some amazing artwork that might be private...or not!. Support the show
Let's talk Fantasy play! How can you explore yours, your partners, and how can you decide what to try?! This week's episode is all about fantasy play and how to have a conversation around it. MentionsCarla Renee IntimatesNightshade BueliesqueSupport the show
This week we are joined by Aubrey Warren At age twenty-one, Aubrey Warren turned to yoga to heal her chronic infections when western medicine was ineffective. She has now been a yoga teacher for over twenty years and yoga educator for a decade. In her newly published self-help-meets erotica teaching memoir, “Sleeping Beauty Awakened: Tools for the Modern Goddess,” Warren hopes to be the role model she never had. Warren has been married to her husband, Jacob, for over twenty years, and she's excited to share with you all the tips and tricks she's cultivated to keep her marriage thriving and hot after two decades.Aubrey's book Sleeping Beauty Awakened is available NOW!Support the show
This week we welcome Somatic Sex Coach Lexi aka @SluttyForSerotonin to the show to discuss how to use kink as a healing tool and finding your own place in the world of open relationships. Were talking Comfort, Communication, and Consent baby!Find Lexi on InstagramSupport the show
Let's talk anatomy and physiology! Dr. Casey is giving a simple breakdown of what occurs within the body during the various phases of sex. As always we want to make our show not so DRY like you hear with so many other shows out there, so we're spicing it up a bit! Enjoy.....Support the show
Kari and Casey have compiled a few of the most submitted questions from their listeners to dive into. How can I get my partner to initiate sex? How should I prep for anal? and What are some ways I can spice up life in the bedroom?Mentions in this episode:Nightshade BurlesqueCarla Renee IntimatesSupport the show
Today we are joined by Violent Lavender and Vivvienne Vermuth of Nightshade Burlesque, a gothic themed and inclusive burlesque show. GET TICKETS HERETodays guests:Violent LavenderVivienne Vermuth Venue: The Cicada Support the show
It's our 1 year anniversary! We are celebrating by bringing you some of our favorite episode clips from our most popular episodes. This last year has been a wonderful experience and we cannot wait to see what year two brings. In this episode we have clips from our shows on-who we are and what we do-fantasies kinks and fetishes-how to have anal like a pro-role playing strategies-opening your relationship- and of course our most popular episode.... we went to a sex party. From both Dr. Casey and Kari, we love you and we are excited to move forward! Support the show
Its Season 3 and we're kicking it off with a bang! Let's talk censorship. Since we we recently ran into some censorship troubles on social media, we decided to dive into the topic. What types of censorship are seen within relationships? How can you deal with a partner who is censoring you, and is this censorship boundary setting or manipulative? As always we invite your questions! DM us @CWKC.2 CumwithKC@gmail.comHave you checked out our amazing photographer? @carlareneeintimates is out here making people look fabulous, sexy, and in our own words "artsy as fuck"So enjoy episode 1 of this new season of CUM! With KCSupport the show
This week we sit down with Myranda a.k.a Wrexbabe to talk about OnlyFans and how she has made a name for herself. Support the show
Trigger Warning: In this episode we talk about sexual trauma and how to regain your sexual self as a survivor. We also cover tools for survivors and their partners to have amazing sex while being prepared to handle triggers in and out of the bedroom. You may contact Leighanna directly at Break The Mold TherapySupport the show
We're closing our PRIDE month with stories from our experiences and some history as to WHY PRIDE is celebrated!Join us this week as we talk Stonewall, Rooftop PRIDE parties, the Target debacle, and minding your own business. In this episode we mention a few of our lovely artists and our wonderful photo partner in crime! You can find them here:Dirty little rejectsAngelic VortexCarla Renee IntimatesSupport the show
Lets' talk our new foray into boudoir with Carla! Find her @carlareneeintimates and allow her to help you feel the sexiest you have ever felt on camera. In this episode we talk the WHY of boudoir, how to get comfortable in a shoot, and how Carla turned her garage into a MAGNIFICENT little studio with the perfect lighting. Support the show
We continue our foray into Shibari this week with @Tempermental_Kitten! Tess is an experienced rope bottom that is talking all about the experience of being tied and suspended from the physical feeling of the pain cycle to the drift into sub-space. You can find Tess on all platforms under @tempermental_kitten Have a question about relationships, kink, or sex? Email us at cumwithkc@gmail.com or DM us @cumwithkc!Support the show
In this episode we talk Kari's coming out story and how she recognized she was queer, how it has affected our relationship, and we answer some anonymous questions. Happy Pride month everybody! Support the show
In this episode we are talking all things Shibari With Jake, aka Gedo_Nawa! This is a great introduciton to the HOW of tying each other up and even icludes some practical application involving shoelaces and pillow cases! Contact Jake through Instagram as @gedo_nawa. DMs are open! mentions in this episode Shibaristudy.com - they offer a free 7 day trial so you can familiarize yourself and start learning, as well as free safety videosClean Rope Company - for your rope needs As always we are open to your questions! Shoot us a DM on Insta @cumwithkc, or an email to cumwithkc@gmail.comSupport the show
What do you do when an interview day goes to shit? You record anyways! So we're answering some common questions around kinky conversations, role play, and masturbation in this weeks episode of Cum With KC!Support the show
Kari and Dr. Casey are sitting down with Kelsey Eisenberg to talk all things poly. How does an established couple know if it is a good time to open up? HOW can they begin to have discussions around the subject? Where can they go to find a community that isn't filled with predatory partners? And what are red flags to look for? We're answering all this and more on this weeks episode!Support the show
In this episode we are welcoming Cj and Linwood to the show to talk about what it takes to be a long standing couple who participates in ethical non monogamy. We cover quite a bit in a short period of time, so give a listen and as always, send you questions to cumwithkc@gmail.com!Cj can be found at noshamewithcj.comSupport the show
In this very special interview of Cum With KC we are hosting THE Silvia Saige! This woman does it all. Successful stand-up comedian, business owner, podcaster, and award winning star of adult film, Silvia has take L.A by storm over the last number of years. She was recently awarded MILF of the Month by Mylf.com and has been a MILF performer of the year nominee multiple years in a row at the X-BIZ awards. So join us as we talk life, liberty, and the pursuit of sexual freedom on this episode of Cum With KC!Silvia's podcast: https://www.instagram.com/sexyfunnyraw/Silvia's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesilviasaige/Silvia's Links ;) https://lnk.bio/SilviaSaigeOfficialSupport the show
In this episode of Cum With KC We're talking about how to maintain connection when a partner is out of town. Casey just got back from a Colorado bachelor party, so Kari and Casey are sitting down to discuss how to still feel close when there are hundreds of miles between you. Then they talk the steps partners can take to have successful nights out without each other. This one is going to give you some great answers!Support the show
Now THIS is a touchy episode. How do you approach the conversation about sex with your kids? What should you tell them? How should you tell them? What should the conversation look like? Today we sit down with Brandie Sellers from Mind Your Heart Counseling to talk all things about "the conversation" If you are a parent and hae any questions, PLEASE reach out to us!Support the show
Let's talk sexual compatibility and WHY it is important in relationships!We are told all the time that relationships require us to be on the same page about careers, finances, family matters and money matters. WHERE. THE. FUCK. Are the people telling us to be on the same page about sexual matters?! In this episode of your favorite sex podcast we're discussing just that: getting on the same page with your sexual compatibility. Enjoy!!Support the show