SEX, MONEY & POWER

In this episode Ilsa Fay speaks with Charles Eisenstein, American Philosopher and author of numerous essays and books, including Sacred Economics, Climate -- A New Story, and The More Beautiful World our Hearts Know is Possible. His interviews, writing, and courses may be found at charleseisenstein.org.   In this episode Ilsa and Charles talk about Culture, cultural narrative and how it shifts and informs through symbolism and mythology and how this in turn informs power dynamics. Charles shares about capitalism, sacred economics and loving the earth and Ilsa shares about her journey to deep inner self love and the ripple out effect in her life. Charles and Ilsa discuss the philosophies of ‘how' and ‘why' humans are the way they are and explore themes around the inner workings of the mind.

In this episode Ilsa Fay speaks with Yana Fay, Artist and Co-Founder of Vela Souls about slowing down, the pleasure of slowness and what is created from this place and the changing psychology of moving form a ‘productivity' mindset to following intuition. Ilsa and Yana discuss slow sex, slow money and the cultural narratives of thriving versus surviving and their desire to see a world that celebrates each person's shine. Yana and Ilsa share some of their personal experiences and give some simple and practical tools to explore slowness in your life.  

In this episode Ilsa Fay speaks with Arne Rubenstein, CEO of Rites of Passage Institute about the stages of initiation for boys moving into adolescence. Arne shares his experience as a GP and Emergency Doctor witnessing young men engaging in risky behaviours in attempts to self-initiate. Ilsa and Arne talk about traditional cultures and the import of rites of passage for young people and Arne shares what's involved in a modern-day rite of passage, the role of parents and Elders and how to support young people to stand in the fullness of their natural gifts. Ilsa and Arne also talk about the role ‘power' and it's companion, ‘responsibility' … and lots of other potent bits.   To find out more head to ritesofpassageinstitute.com.au

In this episode Ilsa Fay speaks with Alex White, Men's Work Facilitator and Father about how to ask for what you want in a relationship, the experience of ‘walking on eggshells' and what it really means to have your desires met.   Ilsa and Alex delve into the realms of sexual fantasy, share tips on how to begin to bring them to reality and the process of responsibility and communication required in fulfilling sexual fantasies. Alex shares about the simplicity that often arises from having desires fulfilled and Ilsa touches on the role of women celebrating men.

In this episode Ilsa Fay speaks with Ernest Morrow, Founder of Embodying Intimacy about love, relationships and cultivating intimacy. Ilsa and Ernest discuss the word ‘intimacy', what it means and it's permeations, they share some of their personal experiences and give some simple and practical tools to navigating relationships and creating a culture where we champion each other, ensuring that our relationship wins.   Ernest Morrow - Embodying Intimacy has generously offered a 15% discount for all listeners of the Sex, Money & Power podcast, simply head to this link >>>> and enter the code XXXX

In this episode Ilsa Fay speaks with Rob McDowell, Founder of Time Travellers Secret, workshop facilitator and student of Uncle Ben of the Koori Nation about his initiation into men's work, the importance of mentorship for young boys and men and how having more influences and perspectives support young people to grow. Ilsa and Rob discuss the role of mentors for youth and how modern parents can create a community that supports both them and their children as they navigate challenges through adolescence.   Books referred: Voices of the First Day by Robert Lawlor Iron John by Robert Bly My People's Dreaming Max Dulumunmun Harrison

In this episode Ilsa Fay speaks with Anastasia Borserio, Founder of Alive.Love and health and well-being coach about Safe Sex Behaviour in Female Adolescents. Anastasia and Ilsa talk about their personal experience of sex education, how the media and hyper-sexualisation of young girls and women influences adolescents with inaccurate representations and standards of normality and the role of communication in households, within schools and with peers. Anastasia shares some results of her thesis on this topic, opening a dialogue for what exists for female adolescents to navigate their emerging sexuality in a way that supports their physical, emotional and psychological safety. Ilsa and Anastasia also share some practical tips and tools for parenting and more …

In this episode Ilsa Fay speaks with Danny Redbard, Men's Circle Holder & Spiral Practitioner about open relating, the role of communication and the misconceptions of commitment. Ilsa and Danny talk about the intensity of Jealousy, the death of the White Picket Fence & Princess fantasy and how the rise of the sovereign woman has shifted the inner determination of men's roles within traditional societal gender manifestations. Danny and Ilsa share some tips about how to navigate sexual and relationship hygiene, including the meaning, quality and duration of connection with sensitivity and authenticity.

In this episode Ilsa Fay speaks with Jasmine Hana, Austrian/Egyptian woman and ISTA facilitator about female genital mutilation and the removal of pleasure from the feminine... not just in the young girls and women who physically experience this form of domination and abuse, but also of the feminine within men and the obstructions to their full pleasure.    Ilsa and Jasmeen explore power and the fear of feminine sexual potency, sexual and relationship hygiene, and more…    This episode discusses sexual and physical abuse, for support around trauma please contact a trusted organisation 

In this episode Ilsa Fay speaks with James Randall about the issues refugee and minority groups face with stigmatisation and the role of supporting young refugee men and women as they transition into new culture. James shares his views on the role of politics and media bias on how society views minority groups and the impact on their self-view.  

In this episode Ilsa Fay speaks with Leon Ruri, Founder of Haka for Life, about understanding the beauty of humans beyond religion, men's health and well-being and the impact of sexual and physical abuse he experienced. Ilsa and Leon explore the role of women being allies for men, man's tenderness and strength and the ways men show up for themselves and their families.    This episode discusses sexual and physical abuse, for support around trauma please contact a trusted organisation or get in touch with Leon hello@hakaforlife.org www.hakaforlife.org 

In this episode Ilsa Fay speaks with Bea Mazur about the energy of generosity and the effect of childhood events and religious dogma on her relationship to money. In this episode Ilsa and Bea share thoughts and experiences about financial literacy and the benefits of financial education for societal and individual empowerment   

In this episode Ilsa Fay speaks with Kylie Ryan, NLP Practitioner and Director of My Mind Coach about the role of intuition in business, the new wave of Super Coaches and the struggle of the ‘Wounded Healer'. In this episode Ilsa and Kylie discuss the importance of doing the ‘inner' work and the ‘outer' work, changing internal beliefs and stories and backing them up with action, Kylie also shares some great tips and takeaways …

In this episode Ilsa Fay speaks with Bree Gorman, Diversity and Inclusivity expert about Bi-sexuality, the myths and projections of bi-sexuality, how to create workplaces and communities that are welcoming for those who identify as bi-sexual and the opportunities for society, culture and corporate organisations when people feel happy, welcome and comfortable.  

In this episode Ilsa Fay speaks with Stephanie Curtis, Certified Sexologist, Tantra, Relationship & Intimacy Guide about loving the distortions of the masculine. This episode explores the nature and qualities of the masculine energy, the beauty of masculine essence and the behavioural distortions that arise from masculine energetic aspects. Steph and Ilsa also touch on the psychology of darker sexual and behavioural desires, taboos and predatory acts, and share about the role of love as an ally for self acceptance and healing shame.   This episode touches on themes of sexual and physical abuse, for support around trauma please contact a trusted organisation or get in touch with Stephanie https://stephanie-curtis.com 

In this episode Ilsa Fay speaks with Ruth Biddlecomb about domination culture, the role of slavery and conditioning in culture and how white body supremacy exists within individuals and the global culture affecting politics, economics and cultural standards. Ruth shares insights into emerging methodologies of politics, neighbourhood initiatives and the role of education and empowerment. Support the SEX, MONEY & POWER Podcast & become part of our growing Community on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/theilsafay

In this episode Ilsa Fay speaks with Janine MaRee, ISTA Faculty and lineage holder of the Womb Gates about the energetics of money, reawakening the remembrance of the original bartering system, the feminine essence of money as an expression of energy flow and the potency of the atomic vibration. 

In this episode Ilsa Fay speaks with Dane Tomas, Spiritual Entrepreneur and creator of The Spiral Institute about sales mastery, what magic really is, how the Magician archetype is an expression of Will and how religion uses dogma for influence and control through its journey of wealth holding and becoming a symbol of power.

In this episode Ilsa Fay and Tahlia Brand talk about the voice of the womb, voice attractiveness and the changing quality and pitch of women's voices through history and from maidenhood to the crone years. Ilsa and Tahlia discuss the embodiment of sound, the beauty of unique voices and how to feel the vibrations in the body.

In this episode Ilsa Fay speaks with Shadow Work and Spiral Practitioner, Danny Redbard about his journey into the esoteric community and manhood, sock wrestling, male sensuality, vulnerability and brotherhood.

In this episode Ilsa Fay speaks with Tahlia Brand about the role of the breath, sounding and the benefits of dropping deeper into the body for relaxing the nervous system and supporting empowerment. Tahlia is a Voice and Sexuality Coach with 25 years training and Performance in Voice (Classical Singing), Sound Healing, Bodywork, Somatic Sex Education, Embodied Counselling and Tantric practices.

In this episode Ilsa Fay speaks with Dane Tomas, Spiritual Entrepreneur and Founder of The Spiral Institute about the role of fear in power dynamics, being aware of inner anti-authoritarian states, why humans are so afraid of death and why that holds people back from fully living. He shares some practical tips on how to cultivate living a fully expressed and shares his personal journey of empowerment.

In this episode Ilsa Fay speaks with Sonia Waters, Creator of WildSelf and certified Sexologist about somatic therapy, sexology and the benefits of daily movement practices. Based in New Zealand and with a professional background in the Construction Industry, Sonia shares practical and elegant solutions about how to connect with the nature available to you, bringing awareness to the power of breath and the importance of honouring emotions.