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Hosted By Therapist, Phillip Roundtree MSW, MS, #YouGoodMan? is a podcast dedicated to men's mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual wellness. He combines intellect with comedy as he discusses, relationships, mental health, fatherhood, pop-culture and everything in-between. Tune-in!

Phillip J. Roundtree, MSW, MS


    • Sep 6, 2023 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 52m AVG DURATION
    • 86 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from #YouGoodMan?

    Rejection & Protection

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2023 47:54


    In this episode, Dr. Phil and Mike discuss the viral video of the aftermath of Rho Bashe being hit in the face with a brick after rejecting a man's advances. We discuss men's roles as protectors, why a lack of intervention in stressful situations isn't gendered, and more. Tune-in. Share w/ a brother.

    Beyond the Silence: Men's Perspectives on Death, Dying, and Unprocessed Grief

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2023 49:41


    In this heartfelt episode, we delve into the complexities of death, dying, and grieving. We reflect on personal experiences, societal conditioning, and the need for compassion when navigating loss as men. Join us as we explore the diverse ways in which grief is processed and the importance of creating spaces for open conversations about this universal human experience.

    Live Q&A

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 17, 2023 82:43


    In episode 64, Dr. Phil and Mike answer questions from the people like rekindling sexual intimacy after a cancer diagnosis, how to ensure the next generation of boys are emotionally healthy, and the myth related to men and commitment. Tune in, subscribe, and share with a brother.

    The O'Shae Sibley Episode

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2023 54:39


    In this episode, Dr. Phil & Mike discuss the tragic killing of O'Shae Sibley, analyzing the psychosocial and economic conditions that created this situation and whether an opportunity for restorative justice exists. Tune in, subscribe, and share with a friend.

    More Father Woundedness

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 2, 2023 62:43


    In this episode, Dr. Phil (@phil_roundtree) & Mike (@sisyphean_absurdity) discuss teachable moments in hypermasculine environments like the gym and the father wound's impact on parenting, self-worth, and relationships. Tune in, subscribe, comment and share with a brother. #mentalhealth #menshealth #wellness #depression #anxiety #gym #masculinity

    Men, Productivity, & Connectedness

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 27, 2023 47:57


    In this episode, Dr. Phil and Mike discuss men's connectedness with work and whether this impacts their mental and emotional well-being. #mentalhealth #menshealth #wellness #depression #anxiety

    Healing The Father Wound

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2023 80:24


    In this episode replay, Dr. Phil, Michael Olenik, and Zane Booker discuss the impact father's presence, or a lack thereof, has on their sons mentally and emotionally and how they can work towards healing their "Father Wound. Tune in, subscribe, & and share w/ a brother!

    Rules & Regulations or Boundaries?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2023 76:03


    In this episode, Dr. Phil and Michael Olenik discuss men and boundaries. The pair talk Darius Jackson's "you're a mom" comment to his co-parent Keke Palmer and the ensuing social media firestorm. They also discuss whether Jonah Hill's attempt at setting boundaries with now ex-partner Sarah Brady were indeed healthy boundaries or unhealthy rules and regulations #SarahBrady #jonahhill #kekepalmer #dariusjackson #boundaries boundaries #health

    Men, Isolation, & Self-love

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 5, 2023 60:52


    In Episode 59, Dr. Phil and Mike discuss a viral clip of Busta Rhymes speaking on men feeling isolated, factors influencing self love, and why all men are unknowingly branded as predators. Tune in, subscribe, and share with a brother.

    On Rape Culture: A YK Osiris & Sukihana Discussion

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2023 51:48


    The #YouGoodMan? men's wellness podcast returns with Dr. Phil and new co-host, Michael Olenik, dissecting YK Osiris sexually assaulting Sukihana, boys and men's understanding of rape culture, and steps men can take to improve their knowledge. #ykosiris #sukihana #rapeculture #sexualassaultawareness #hiphop50 #hiphopmusic #hiphopculture #mentalhealth #depression #anxiety #liberation #Blacklove

    Healing Black Men w/ James Harris

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2022 60:25


    In this episode, we're in conversation with therapist James Harris (@men_to_heal) about the idea of men healing and its impact on families, community, and society. We'll also talk about the viral topic "should boys have toy kitchens?" Like, subscribe, and share with a brother.

    Eat, Protest, Lift w/ Dr. Caleb Stephens

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2021 57:35


    In this episode, We're in conversation with Dr. Caleb Stephens talking "Eat, Protest, Lift", his documentary dissertation which analyzes blackness in the context of relationships, advocacy, and athletic competition. We'll also delve into the harm of masculinity, allyship, mental health, and the profession of social work. Click the share button

    Healing The Father Wound

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2020 80:03


    In this episode, Phil & his guests discuss the impact father's presence, or a lack thereof, has on their sons mentally and emotionally and how they can work towards healing their "Father Wound". Tune-in, Subscribe, & Share w/ a brother!

    Understanding Rape Culture & Consent: Men's Perspective

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2020 92:48


    Men offer their honest thoughts on rape culture, consent, accountability, and allyship. Subscribe & share w/ a brother!

    Creating & Coping During Crisis

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2020 76:19


    Authors Kiese Laymon (Heavy), Derrick Harriell (Stripper In Wonderland), Al-Lateef Farmer, & Pro Dancer Zane Booker join the conversation to discuss using creativity to cope, self-care, and whether Joe Biden is racist. Tune-in! Subscribe! Share with a brother!

    The Last Dance: What Does Greatness Entail?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2020 75:58


    In this episode, Phil and several dope men convene to discuss Michael Jordan and whether the quest for individual greatness is achievable without compromising integrity. Tune-in. Subscribe. Share with a brother!

    Made In China

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2020 42:47


    In this episode, Phil is joined by Recording Artist, Julian King, who discusses his stint on "The Voice" and how living in China shaped his mental health and inspired his recent project, Made In China. Tune-in. Share w/ a Brother!

    Mamba Mentality

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2020 75:35


    In this episode, Phil and his guests examine Kobe's complicated legacy. They discuss male vulnerability, the mamba mentality, fatherhood, and Phil speaks why it's not "too soon" to discuss the Colorado sexual assault case. Share with a friend and subscribe!

    Jump Ship

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2020 52:06


    In this episode, Phil is joined by Poet & Author, Kirwyn Sutherland. The pair discusses Kirwyn's new book, Jump Ship, using the art of poetry in healing, being black at an all-white college, and why quitting your job is emotionally liberating. He also reads an impactful piece from his new book. Tune-in. Subscribe. Share

    To Err Is Human; To Forgive, Divine

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2019 21:10


    In this episode, Phil discusses men and forgiveness, and why the backlash against Brandt Jean, brother of Botham, is unwarranted. Tune-in. Share with a brother! Subscribe.

    Periods, Commas, Men, & Menstruation

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2019 55:08


    In this episode, Phil is joined by Filmmaker Cobbina Frempong. The pair discusses fatherhood and whether men overcompensate due to societal stigma, the difficulties of having uncomfortable conversations with your children on topics like menstruation, sex, etc., and how boys view on sex, identity, and relationships are shaped by their peers. Lastly, they discuss their self-care strategies. Tune-in! Subscribe! Share with a brother!

    Jealous Ones Still Envy

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2019 30:32


    In this episode, Phil gets honest about his experience at the 2019 Black Enterprise BMExcel Summit, why olheads with ego/misogyny issues ruin things, how jealousy and envy get a bad rap, and how he played himself with Penny Hardaway. Tune-in! Share with a brother! Subscribe!

    Men, Microaggression, & Misandry

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2019 26:39


    In this episode, Phil discusses various forms of microaggressions and why men's experiences as victims are often minimized. He talks microaggressions wellness implications and solutions to combat its effect. Tune-in, Share with a brother, and Subscribe!

    The BlackEnterprise.com Episode

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2019 33:49


    In this episode Phil is interviewed for the historical business entity/ publication "Black Enterprise" by SVP/ Executive Editor-at-Large, Alfred Edmond Jr. Phil discusses his mental wellness journey, black mens mental health, safe spaces for men, and the upcoming 2019 Black Men XCEL Summit. Tune-in, Share with a Brother, Subscribe!

    Repressed Memories

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 8, 2019 21:29


    In this episode Phil discusses the relationship between"repressed memories" and trauma, why many mental health experts think its bologna, and how adult fears often indicate childhood trauma. Tune-in

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    But You Say He's Just A Friend

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2019 18:41


    In this episode, Phil talks about platonic relationships from a male perspective. He addresses myths related to men's ability to sustain non-sexual friendships, unrequited love, and why seeking therapy may realistic option if sexual desire develops. Tune-in, Subscribe, and Share with a brother!

    How To Find A Therapist

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2019 44:48


    In this episode, Phil breaks down “How To Find A Therapist”. Phil discusses why he restarted therapy (5:10), reasons why people go to therapy (6:45), how to pay for therapy (12:35), resources to locate a therapist (20:00), types of therapy services, e.g.individual, couples (24:00), various types of “therapists” and approaches (31:00) and to cap things off, why interviewing your therapist is important & questions to ask yourself after therapy (39:40) Tune-in, share with a brother, and subscribe!

    The Myth Of Closure

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2019 14:41


    In this episode, Phil discusses the idea of "closure" and the various types, why you should rarely seek closure from others, and how to successfully navigate thoughts and feelings related to closure. Tune in, Share With a Brother, and Subscribe!

    Autistic Inclusion

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 5, 2019 48:51


    Phil is joined by Community Autism Network Founder, Keyon Mallory. Together the pair discuss autism prevalence amongst boys and men, autism myths, why inclusion matters, and the organizations upcoming charity softball game. Tune-in, Subscribe, and Share with a brother! • ⭐Follow on Instagram & Twitter: @phil_quadefy ⭐Follow on Facebook: facebook.com/PhillipMSW ⭐Visit the Website: www.quadefyllc.net ⭐Exclusive Dope Merchandise: quadefyllc.bigcartel.com

    Digital Minimalism

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2019 21:56


    In this episode, Phil discusses why technology and social media are weakening friendships/relationships, creating superficial connections, and negatively impacting our mental health. He offers tangible solutions designed to help you reassess your relationship with technology, allowing you to choose a “focused life in a noisy world”. Tune-in, share with a brother and subscribe.

    Mental Wealth

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2019 60:33


    In this episode Phil is joined by Alfred Edmonds Jr., SVP/Editor-at-large of Black Enterprise, Author, and Entrepreneur. We discuss "mental fitness", healthy relationships, entrepreneurial wellness, and redefining masculinity. Tune-in, Subscribe, and Share with a brother!

    Estheticizing Identity

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2019 57:10


    In this episode, Phil is joined by the "EyeBrowKing", Nicck Townsend. The pair discusses sexual identity exploration within the black community, unhealthy masculinity, and being male in a female dominated industries. Tune in and share with a brother!

    Men Healing: A Warriors' Mentality

    Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2019 54:39


    In this episode, Phil is joined by social media fitness Lewis Ford aka The ANF Action Figure, where he describes creating the moniker while in solitary confinement. He also discusses the challenges of having two children before the age of 20, parenting while incarcerated, and how he uses fitness to cope and heal from trauma. Tune-in, Share with a brother!

    Purpose in Pain

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2019 63:37


    In this episode, Phil is joined by Entrepreneur, @Reginald_Foreman. We discuss his remarkable story, which includes receiving an illegal 18 1/2 year sentence for armed robbery and being "mistakenly" released for 3 years. We discuss the role faith & spirituality plays in his journey, masculinity, and how he copes with stressors. Tune-in, Subscribe, and Share w/ a brother!!

    The Mother Wound

    Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2019 79:24


    In this episode Phil is joined by Author and Healer, Jennifer Arnise, We'll be discussing Ayesha Curry's insecurities and "baggage" women bring into relationships, healing the "mother wound" and its implications for men, how can men support their intimate partners' wellness. Lastly, you can vote on who won the show's debate. Tune-in, share with a brother, and subscribe!

    Hypertenzion N The Hood

    Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2019 14:20


    In this episode, Phil examines the untimely death of filmmaker legend, John Singleton, the impact of high blood pressure in his recent stroke, and why a lack of estate planning destroys families. He discusses the #1 killer of men in America and why a teaspoon of salt could be a death sentence for black men. Lastly, he identifies strategies to combat the "silent killer". Like, Share, Subscribe.

    "Not As Highly Qualified As Others"

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2019 20:38


    In this episode, Phil discusses how men respond to career-based rejection. using his recent rejection from academia and their reasoning(podcast title) for reference, the need to disassociate your self-worth from your skill-set, and how to move forward in the aftermath of rejection. Tune-in! Share with a brother

    We're Not Worthy: Impostor Syndrome

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2019 23:22


    In this episode Phil breaks down "Impostor Syndrome" and why men are particularly susceptible. He discusses symptoms, how it shows up in our life, and why "STOP" is such an effective strategy when we have unhealthy thoughts. Tune-in, Subscribe, and Share with a brother.

    Black Boy Rage: Nipsey, Trauma, and PTSD

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 4, 2019 32:47


    In this episode, Phil discusses Nipsey Hussle's death and why historical community trauma contributed to his death. He also talks about the choice of "Survival" vs. "Healthy Coping" in urban settings. Lastly, he defines PTSD and expresses frustration over culturally insensitive strategies to combat it. Tune-in!!

    Joy, Gratitude, and Perfectionism: The Unholy Trinity

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2019 26:17


    In this episode, Phil MSW, MS discusses the importance of practicing joy and gratitude in our daily lives, and how "Perfectionism" disrupts that process; how two PhD school rejections unveiled his growth, and why unfollowing people you admire on social media can be necessary for your wellness. Share, subscribe, and tell a brother!

    The Entrepreneurial Matrix

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2019 33:03


    In this episode, Phil MSW, MS, is joined by PK Kersey, the Founder of "That Suits You". The pair discusses his initiative to provide suits to underprivileged boys/men, fears related to leaving job security for entrepreneurship, and strategies to cope with the highs and lows of entrepreneurship. Tune-in! Tell a brother! Subscribe!

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    Dear Future Wife/Husband

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2019 84:41


    In this episode, Phil MSW, MS, is joined by Paul B. Williams, LCSW-C, an Expert Therapist and Author of “Dear Future Wife: A Man’s Guide & Woman’s Reference To Healthy Relationships”. The pair discuss the impact of shame on black manhood and vulnerability, keys to a “healthy relationship”, and why your partner comes first in a relationship. Tune-in, share with a brother, and subscribe!.

    Hip Hop Trauma

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2019 67:10


    In this episode, Phil, MSW, MS is joined by Christopher Scott, MSW aka "The Hip Hop Social Worker". Together they discuss hip hop's influence on black mental health, expression of trauma, and toxicity. Chris discusses the impact of his parent's addiction, recovery, and why he chose social work. Lastly, they discuss their Top 5 MC's, with Phil questioning Portland's rap history. Tune-In! Share with a brother, and subscribe.

    Embrace Your Inner Millennial

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2019 81:50


    In this episode, Phil is joined by "Business Growth Expert" and Tedx Speaker, Brandon Blackburn-Dwyer. The pair discuss myths related to "millennials", tips for the entrepreneur, e.g. the importance of saying "No!" to opportunities, and Brandon's transition from being a central figure in Chinese business to a US entrepreneur having to "prove" himself. Tune-in!! Subscribe!! Tell A Brother!!

    Entrepreneurial Wellness

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2019 51:39


    In this throwback, but highly relevant episode, Phil is joined by Styling For Your Life Founder/CEO, and fellow Clinician, Querida Lugo, MSW. Together they discuss why many entrepreneurs experience symptoms of depression and anxiety, their personal highs and lows as entrepreneurs, and daily strategies on how to maintain/improve your overall wellness. Tune-in!

    What's Your Revolution?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 17, 2019 54:53


    In this episode, Phil, MSW,MS is live on Dr. Charles Corprew's "What's Your Revolution?" podcast. The pair discusses Phil's revolutionary goals related to mental health. In addition, they discuss the origin of Phil's #YouGoodMan? efforts, the APA's newly issued guidelines on traditional masculinity, Gillette's commercial aimed at redefining masculinity, and why mental health matters. Tune in, share with a brother, and subscribe. Dr. Corprew's, "What's Your Revolution?" podcast can be heard on itunes and soundcloud.

    Making A Predator: R Kelly Aftermath & Protecting Male Survivors

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2019 29:11


    In this episode, Phil discusses his takeaways from the R Kelly docuseries, as well as talking the importance of protecting male survivors, improving the nonexistent conversation on male sexual assaults, to avoid creating the next R Kelly. He identifies signs, symptoms, and consequences of child abuse and how men can truly be allies.

    New Year, Same You?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2019 10:40


    In this 20th episode, Phil MSW, MS identifies strategies needed to achieve goals, avoiding being the "same you" in 2019. He discusses why having more than 2 goals at a time is wasteful, the importance of an accountability partner, and the pros and cons of vision boards. Tune-in!

    Where Are "Safe Spaces" For Men?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2018 32:23


    In this episode, Phil MSW, MS talks about the importance of men having safe spaces, even in a “patriarch” and what that space should look like. In addition, he looks at the "safe space" of therapy, identifying the steps in finding a competent therapist, using his own process as an example. Tune-in and tell a brother!

    Gender Toxicity: From The Rooty To The Tooty

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 12, 2018 61:12


    In this episode, Phil is joined by Jaynay Johnson, MFT where they have a spirited conversation on toxic masculinity, whether toxic femininity truly exists, and discuss strategies to improve oneself if unhealthy thoughts, feelings, and behavior exist. Tune-in!

    Competition vs. Collaboration: Can They Coexist

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2018 29:35


    Join Phil, MSW, MS as he dissects why men opt to compete with other men instead of collaborating. He breaks down hip-hops impact on both, why Michael Jordan was driven by toxic masculinity, strategies to improve one's perspective on competition, and how the Black Enterprise BMXcel conference changed him as a business man and human-being.

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