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I had a blast talking with the amazing Jaiya about her Erotic Blueprint Method.   What I love most about erotic blueprints is that they are so HELPFUL. Jaiya shares how to use your individual blueprint to elevate your sexual aliveness – learn better communication, find deeper intimacy with yourself and your partner(s) and enjoy lots and lots more […] The post Your Erotic Blueprint appeared first on Oactually.

Ditch the taboo and get the facts about g-spots, the female prostate, and female ejaculation. It’s time to say hello to your female prostate. Information about women’s bodies is too often withheld from us – even our text books are missing key inclusions to basic female anatomy! Naturopathic Physician Hayley is a wealth of wisdom […] The post It’s not pee! Celebrating The Female Prostate & G-Spot and Female Ejaculation with Hayley Porter appeared first on Oactually.

From male circumcision and reverence for foreskin – to racial politics within the world of sex education – to the delight of truly feasting through oral sex…. we cover *a lot* in this interview with Tyomi Morgan. Tyomi is passionate, innovative, and ambitous. She brings a modern-day edge in presenting sex education over at her […] The post Glamerotica101 with Tyomi Morgan appeared first on Oactually.

A few months ago I drove six hours for a breakfast. Yes, you read that correctly. I love me a good road trip, but even for me this was out of the ordinary. Then again, my breakfast date was with the very extraordinary Javier Regueiro. I met Javier in Peru two years ago. The month […] The post Emotions are the Gateway to Intuition – Honoring the Feminine with Javier Regueiro appeared first on Oactually.

It’s time to answer, What DO WE WANT FOR OUR OPTIMAL SEXUAL HEALTH? Do we want pleasure, intimacy with ourselves and others, delight, orgasms, safety, wonder? I hope you agree with me that we do. Listen in for why a north star of pleasure is needed for the healing we crave. The post A Pleasure Manifesto {The Banned TEDx talk} appeared first on Oactually.

Do you feel that you could really use some education about your sexuality and the unique way that your body can give you pleasure? Or would you like to find out more about the spin-off benefits that you can enjoy from really knowing your body and how it works? Today, Alex encourages you to listen in so that you can feel completely free to explore your body and your desires and discover what really works for you.   On today's show, Alex talks about a panel discussion that she attended recently in New York City, hosted by her friend, Bryony Cole, host of The Future Of Sex Podcast. There they spoke about the need for women (and men) to be better educated about women's sexuality and also about the orgasm gap. Alex also talks about how each woman's geography and topography can can make a huge difference and that we, as women, tend not to know that, nor do we get the necessary information or encouragement, to explore our own bodies to discover what really does work for us.   The guest on today's show is Kit Maloney, founder of O'actually, which celebrates sexually stimulating content, products and knowledge, that focuses on enhancing and stimulating women's sexual pleasure. O'actually is dedicated to changing the landscape of adult entertainment, to prioritize women's arousal and pleasure by distributing new types of film, audio visual arts and literature. Listen in today, as Kit shares some of her knowledge about sexuality and explains how you can increase your sexual pleasure. You can read the full show notes at www.alexandrajamieson.com/132

Rachael Maddox is a healing force. I credit an interview I did with her for the first season of the O’actually podcast for catalyzing my own healing journey. I am tremendously thankful to her. Rachael has wisdom for you too. In this in-depth conversation, we get real about how to come back home to your body and find joy in sex. Buckle up, you’re in for a memorable and powerful ride. The post Sex After Trauma with Rachael Maddox appeared first on Oactually.

Alexis Saloutos provides an introduction and exploration of the chakra energy system and deeper awareness around the connection between your sacral chakra (housing sexual and creative enegery) and your throat chakra (home to self expression, courage, and truth). This episode truly blew me away. Alexis walks us through the mirrored connection of the Sacral/ 2nd […] The post Let’s talk CHAKRAS with Alexis Saloutos appeared first on Oactually.

Are your finances limiting your sex-life and vice versa? Are you living in a story that you should already know all you need to know about sex? Have you bought into the belief of a “sex-script” that is actually limiting your experience of pleasure? This week on the podcast, I speak with renowned author and […] The post Sex & Money and the “Sex Scripts” that limit pleasure with Amy Jo Goddard appeared first on Oactually.

    On the podcast this week, I talk with the luminous and wise Ariel White. It’s a rich conversation. We cover the inner work and outer practices needed to discover a world of exquisite men; living life at the edge of the mystery; and how compassion is the access point to liberation. Ariel also introduces me […] The post Why Women can’t wait for Men to “Permission” them into Sexual Freedom appeared first on Oactually.

This episode is unlike any I've done before, and it turned out terrifically well. If talking about sex makes you uncomfortable, then this episode is especially for you. Especially if you're a woman. I talked to Kit Murray Maloney, CEO of O'Actually. O’actually celebrates sexually stimulating content, products, and knowledge that focuses on enhancing and stimulating women’s sexual pleasure. The company is dedicated to changing the landscape of adult entertainment to prioritize women’s arousal by distributing new types of film, audio, visual arts, and literature. O’actually also shares sexual enhancement knowledge and recommends products that promote female pleasure. Kit bared her soul (no pun intended) to talk honestly about the importance of women's orgasms, why masturbation is ok, and why porn and pleasure are at opposite ends of the spectrum. On Porn, Masturbation and Pleasure Phil: Welcome to the show Kit. Tell us why you started O’Actually. Kit: We are here to remind women to owning their own pleasure that is often missed we are here to remind everyone involved that it is important. There’s a real lack of awareness around women's pleasure, and most porn is made purposefully for men. It isn’t made for real life. Phil: Are you telling me porn isn’t real life? Ha! Kit: With the persuasiveness with porn in mainstream life it gets real muddled with entertainment and reality, with the age a young man first sees porn has dropped from 11 to 8. Adults can realize that porn isn’t reality but if you are introduced at a young age to sexuality through porn, you’ll wind up confused. Not to mention that porn is adult entertainment and made for men to enjoy alone and they are geared towards that stimulus. Because it’s all we have, it gets turned into education or that's thinking that’s what women's bodies are meant to look like. Phil: How do we introduce that subject without it being that weird story of the stork or odd story of the birds and bees? Kit: It does seem we have these extreme porn stories with sex and none of its real.  We need to be open and honest factual and truthful. We need to talk about pleasure and we need to be honored. Pleasure is this wildly missing word with sex educators. I’d like to ask my audience and yours for anyone that has used that word when talking about sex. That used the ‘p’ word. Share this: Pleasure is this wildly missing word with sex educators. @KitMalo http://bit.ly/2cRWIxO I’d like to celebrate anyone I really think they need to be honored and thanked for bringing that in. We really focus on prevention, prevention of disease, prevention pregnancy, what we don’t want to happen, we are lacking the potential the focus and exploration of all the great things of sex and sexuality. Phil: How did you get introduced to this? Kit: Back when I was 18 and I was about to go to college and I got affected by the rates of sexual assault on college campus knowing this was arena I wanted to be involved. I went to my college and I was I couldn't hold this negativity into and during this time I experienced my own sexual trauma that I only started sharing.  A couple of years ago I realized pleasure is completely missing from the conversation. Heal the trauma A space where we can we all be honest Phil: Kit, what is your background? Kit: I was Engaged in Social Activism for about 20 years, accidently picked up a women's study minor. I earned a masters in social economics and gender studies.  From there, I got involved with a few early stage businesses and startups. Phil: You have a podcast. Tell us about that. Kit: The podcast has been a gift and it combines the things that I intuitively love doing. And I love doing it and learn so much. I’ve had beautiful conversations and it’s been such a gift and I’ve taken it anywhere that I have had questions or been curious. There have been no taboo topics Phil: Take us through the services that you provide and the products you sell. Kit: Please keep checking out our site, we are about to have a lot more there it has to be highly curated. Which is hard.  And there’s some exciting stuff to come. There is a surprising amount of women who love to write erotica and I love to give them a space to contribute and to be present and active. Phil: It’s not something people talk about.  Why do we think it’s such a taboo subject?  Kit: We tell ourselves so many stories as a society and individuals. About sex. And I think we really put sex and women's sexuality into prude and whore dynamic and it’s really hard to navigate what’s in the middle where are the boundaries. And who am I? I don’t live up these clichés? I don’t live up these expectations of people with people who give themselves permission for sex If you are going to call me a bad name or something, that usually has something to do with the other person than with me. Phil: Why is it so challenging? Kit: We are just so ingrained to never talk about masturbation or solo-sex. If we look at sitcoms there is an abnormal amount of jokes around male masturbation and none around about women. I have a great group of women friends and I would have said that we don’t have any taboo topics and then I realized we do have those taboo topics; we don’t talk about solo sex or adult entertainment. When we create the space to listen and hear and be honest ourselves we are allowing others to give back to us in that same manner and that’s what I found with close with whether it be friends or family. It’s been great for me, I get to ask all those questions. Phil: That’s kind of scary, right? Kit: Once we get past that initial uncomfortable part, we get to the business sense. There is the depth and soul to it. and the the genuine holistic part and the importance of orgasms in your daily routine. So many entrepreneurs don’t talk about sex, they don’t consider it in self care or routines and I am one of the few entrepreneurs that includes it in my talk about self care and routines who has awareness of sex. I disdain the term work hard play hard. I want to love my work, love my play. I want to genuinely love my life. Now don’t get me wrong, I have my bad days, I am human. It’s not yet truly in the mainstream, to think that. It’s a mind shift on things, for sure. It doesn’t have to be extravagant. Allow yourself to enjoy it. Share this: I disdain the term work hard play hard. I want to love my work, my play. I want to genuinely love my life. @kitmalo http://bit.ly/2cRWIxO It is deeply important to me and I prioritize things and things comes to fruition for me. Really cool things are possible when you focus on them.  And, you have to make choices. There is a balance and trade-offs. Phil: How can women get started on the path on finding their pleasure? Kit: We talk about triggers in self development, we can have pleasure triggers. We can pleasure triggers that infuse happiness and pleasure.  Just identify one pleasure trigger. It could be anything, and it could change. More from Kit and O'Actually O'Actually website - learn more about their very important mission Check out the Pleasure with O'Actually podcast Continue the conversations with O'Actually on Facebook

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Hi there lovely, We started off this week talking with Nadia Munla about the importance of exploring and honoring your sensual range. Today I want to talk about a different range – the range of sexual experiences and how they are all interconnected in a beautiful, messy, and sometimes devastating web. As you may know, I spent years […] The post An Exploration of Healing appeared first on Oactually.

I have treat for you! This week I had the great opportunity to a record a conversation with Betty Dodson! If you don’t know Betty, she’s a force! Since the early 1970’s, she’s been a champion for women embracing and owning their sexual pleasure. As she approaches her 90s, Betty and her business partner Carlin […] The post The Godmother of Masturbation appeared first on Oactually.

I have a special treat for you this evening: a jam with the wonderful Nadia Munla. Nadia is a health and sensuality coach. She is also a queen of playlists that foster a true exploration of our emotional range. She’s also my personal guru for getting me out of my freakin head and into my […] The post Sensuality – the Gateway Drug to Sexuality appeared first on Oactually.

Hey babe! Let’s talk about {anal} sex, shall we?! Putting aside the taboo and the baffling messages we might have received about anal from society and/or mainstream porn, I wanted to know more about anal sex for women and the anal female orgasm. So I reached out to the straight talking, pleasure championing, delightful fountain […] The post Anal Sex for Women with Ashley Apple appeared first on Oactually.

Our interview today is with Jena la Flamme, the founder of the Pleasurable Weight Loss movement. Jena dives deep and shares with us: – How Jena Became Priestess of Pleasure – Her Journey From Rape Victim To Reclaiming Her Sexy – How Doing Yoga Helped Jena Face Her Teenage Rape Experience – Why The Path […] The post It’s Time: Become A Priestess Of Pleasure appeared first on Oactually.

* Anita Kopacz, Editor-in-Chief of Heart and Soul Magazine, and the author of ‘Finding Your Way’   LISTEN ON ITUNES LISTEN ON STITCHER * Oooooh! I just adore Anita Kopacz, Editor-in-Chief of Heart and Soul Magazine, the author of the beautiful book Finding Your Way and the author of her monthly newsletter, Not Your Mama’s […] The post What Sex, Abundance & Healing All Have In Common appeared first on Oactually.

Kit Interviews Anita Kopacz, Editor-in-Chief of Heart and Soul Magazine, and the author of ‘Finding Your Way’. This is a special, beautiful and in-depth interview. Anita opens up with and shares: 1. Her journey from shame and silence over a childhood molestation to finding deep healing, self love, and self acceptance 2. How she ended […] The post What Sex, Abundance & Healing All Have In Common appeared first on Oactually.

A Doctor’s Perspective   * Dr. Derek Polonsky, Harvard Psychiatrist And Author Of The Book, “Talk About Sex”   LISTEN ON ITUNES LISTEN ON STITCHER * Today we’re diving into the Oft-Taboo Topics of: Masturbation (for women/men/girls/boys) Sexless Marriages Teaching Teens About Sexual Pleasure (Not Just Sexual Function) Psychiatrist, Dr. Derek Polonsky, has been in […] The post Why Masturbation is a Necessary Part of Human Development appeared first on Oactually.

Interview with Dr. Derek Polonsky, a Boston based Psychiatrist and author of the book, “Talk About Sex”. Today we’re diving into the Oft-Taboo Topics of: Masturbation (for women/men/girls/boys), Sexless Marriages, Teaching Teens About Sexual Pleasure The post Why Masturbation is a Necessary Part of Human Development appeared first on Oactually.

There have been so many false assumptions flying around the web about Addyi that we decided to interview the experts to get the REAL information. The post The Truth! Your Addyi Questions Answered appeared first on Oactually.

Today Kit Murray Maloney has a special treat for you. Today she invited her Co-founder, Vigdis, and O’actually Team Member, Molly, to Interview her, the woman behind all of these hot, fun, sexy conversations. And, she has to admit she’s a little nervous about what questions they have prepared. Stay tuned. It’s a good one. The post What It’s REALLY Like To Support Women’s Sexual Pleasure appeared first on Oactually.

* TABLES TURNED: Team O’a Interviews ME What It’s REALLY Like To Stand For Women’s SEXUAL Pleasure   LISTEN ON ITUNES LISTEN ON STITCHER * Well, here I am – raw, real, and a wide open book for you. My co-founder and team member turn things around and put me on the chopping block. I invited […] The post What It’s REALLY Like To Support Women’s Sexual Pleasure appeared first on Oactually.

Our interview today is with Psalm Isadora, Founder of the global sex coaching program Urban Kama Sutra, creator of OYoga, and star of Playboy TV’s reality show Cougar Club. In today’s episode we are going to talk about how Psalm went from a sexually abused child raised in radically religious and restrictive commune to to […] The post From Childhood Sexual Abuse in a Religious Cult to Tantric Sexual Healer appeared first on Oactually.

* Psalm Isadora America’s Favorite Tantric Sex Expert!   LISTEN ON ITUNES LISTEN ON STITCHER * Whoa. It was truly an incredible experience to interview Psalm Isadora. She’s the founder of the global sex coaching program Urban Kama Sutra, creator of OYoga, and star of Playboy TV’s reality show Cougar Club. Special note from moi: […] The post From Childhood Sexual Abuse in a Religious Cult to Tantric Sexual Healer appeared first on Oactually.

Kit Murray Maloney Interviews Rachel Kramer Bussel, New York-based author, editor, and blogger who specializes in erotica. When Rachel first moved to NYC she was a law student, but she was also drawn into all of the sexy, fun things happening around her. She bought her first vibrator and attended her first sex party and […] The post From Student of Law to Queen of Erotica Interview with Rachel Kramer Bussel appeared first on Oactually.

What Do You Really Want In Your Sex Life? Alex Jamieson Helps Us Explore the Answer by Kit Murray Maloney The post What Do You Really Want In Your Sex Life? Alex Jamieson Helps Us Explore the Answer appeared first on Oactually.

* Beating a 10 year prison sentence,  Emerging a Sexual Goddess with Leora Edut. Creator of the Nationwide Goddess-On-The-Go Workshop While Leora’s Goddess on the Go Events bring women together to celebrate life, heal, and support one another, Leora’s life wasn’t always as mystical and celebratory as it is today. Leora grew up in tough […] The post How I Beat a 10 Year Prison Sentence and Emerged as a Sexual Goddess appeared first on Oactually.

Kit Murray Maloney Interviews Leora Edut, the creator of the Nationwide Goddess On The Go Workshops. Kit and Leora discuss – – How Leora Beat a 10 Year Prison Sentence – Why She Created a Powerful Sisterhood in NYC – What it Meant To REALLY Open Up to a Group of Women – How Pleasure […] The post How I Beat a 10 Year Prison Sentence and Emerged as a Sexual Goddess – Interview with Leora Edut appeared first on Oactually.

 * The Science Behind Your Fantasies: Rape, Trans-sexuality and Beyond   *******   Dr. Ogi Ogas The Author of A Billion Wicked Thoughts   Oh la la… Today is a good one! Want to know what EVERYONE IS ACTUALLY DOING ON THE WEB?! Well, my guest today, Dr. Ogi Ogas literally has the answers.  He’s the author […] The post No More Sex Fantasy Shame: Here’s Why… appeared first on Oactually.

Today we are interviewing Dr. Ogi Ogas. It is a very special and unique interview. Not only have we brought the first gentleman onto the Pleasure with O’actually Podcast, but Dr. Ogi Ogas is also a dear friend, adviser, and mentor who wrote an edgy book titled, A Billion Wicked Thoughts: What the Internet Tells […] The post No More Sex Fanasty Shame: Learn Why in our Interview with Dr. Ogi Ogas appeared first on Oactually.

* With Krista Kujat The Creator of Permission Session Workshops   Welcome to the Pleasure with O’actually Podcast.  I loved connecting with Krista Kujat about the female mind and how to drop out of your head and into your body for a more intense sexual experience. * Do you ever find that it feels more inside your […] The post The ONE Word That Is Killing Your Sex Life appeared first on Oactually.

Kit Murray Maloney’s Interview with Krista Kujat The Creator of Permission Session Workshops Get ready to sit back and ENJOY a transformational 40 minutes of orgasmic delight because Krista Kujat and Kit discuss: – Receiving Sexual Pleasure from Your Partner and Thoroughly Enjoying it – How You (as an individual, or with your partner) can […] The post The ONE Word That Is Killing Your Sex Life – Interview with Krista Kujat appeared first on Oactually.

For this Interview with Ashley Apple, get ready to sit back and ENJOY a tantalizing 40 minutes of orgasmic delight because Ashley and I discuss: – Why a Focus on Female Pleasure will Help Heal and Better the World – The DIS-service our Society is Doing to MEN (not just women) by Promoting the “wham […] The post How To Be a Blow Job Queen and Love It! – O’actually Interview’s Ashley Apple appeared first on Oactually.

In this interview, Ashley shares: – How to Access Your Sexual Center – A Powerful Example of a Woman Transforming Her Life Due to Her Sexual Practice – How to Speak Your Sexual Truth to Your Partner – Why Date Rape is Almost Non-Existent in the Netherlands – How to Discover Your Sexual Desires – […] The post How to Have a 20 minute Orgasm – Pleasure Pledge Interview with Ashley Apple appeared first on Oactually.

One of our favorite Liz quotes from the interview: “Multi-tasking is just a really lovely way of saying that you’re not focusing on anything.” (Wondering how that relates to your orgasmic pleasure? Check of the interview and find out!) In this interview, Liz shares: – How to open ALL your senses to heighten your pleasure […] The post The #1 Challenge Women Have With Self-Pleasure – Pleasure Pledge Interview with Liz DiAlto appeared first on Oactually.

One of our favorite Allison quotes from the interview: “Self-pleasuring is a really important practice [of mine], even though I’m married.” In this interview, Allison shares: – How a Self-Pleasure Practice Makes You MORE Productive – How to Turn on Your Manifestor Mojo! – How Allison Made More Money in ONE Week Than she had […] The post Manifest Your Dreams Through Pleasure – Pleasure Pledge Interview with Allison Braun appeared first on Oactually.

Today’s Featured Guest: Dr. Marianne Brandon on How to Have Great Sex with Your Partner – Whether it’s been 6 Months or 16 Years. Dr. Marianne Brandon is a clinical psychologist and sex therapist and she’s got a simple but powerful message for you in today’s video. You may recognize her from the frequent articles […] The post Unlocking The Sexy In Surrender – Pleasure Pledge Interview with Dr. Marianne Brandon appeared first on Oactually.

One of our favorite Nadia quotes from the interview: “The hottest thing that exists is a woman pleasuring herself.” In this interview, Nadia shares: – 3 Tips to Connect with Your Sensuality – The Difference between Soulful Sexy and Presentational Sexy – What is S Factor? – What Mediation & Sensual Dance Classes (like S […] The post Why isn’t there an American Pie for girls? – Pleasure Pledge Interview with Nadia Munla appeared first on Oactually.