Marriage By Design

It's more than just a "bad habit."

"Men should touch their wives as much as they touch their phones."

Your spouse isn't a product and your marriage isn't a subscription service.

Is your marriage stuck in "Same-Day Delivery" mode?

Marriage isn't a drive-thru.

Midweek Check-in.

Is your spouse a partner or a project?

Are you stuck in the "Behavior Trap"?

You can't "life-hack" your way to a holy marriage.

Midweek Check-in.

Ready for 2026?

New Year, New Focus! ✨ As we step into 2026, Nathan and Andrea are sharing the Top 5 things they are looking forward to this year for their marriage, family, and ministry. Get a glimpse into their vision and get inspired to set your own intentional focus! What's your biggest focus for 2026? Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

2026 is officially here!

Midweek Check-in.

How did God turn our marriage around?

The Pivot Point (Part 2)! ✨ Last week, we shared the depths of our crisis. This week, in the powerful conclusion of our 20th Anniversary Series, Nathan and Andrea reveal how God met them in their darkest hour and engineered the pivot that transformed their marriage. Discover the grace and truth that brought redemption. Listen to the full redemption story now! Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Part 2: The Redemption Story! ✨ Last week, Nathan and Andrea shared the "8-Year Nightmare." This week, they celebrate 20 years of marriage by focusing on God's incredible redemptive power and the most crucial lessons they've learned over the last 10-12 years of healing and growth. If you are clinging to hope, this episode is your fuel! Be encouraged this coming Monday! MarriageByDesignPodcast.com   Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Midweek Check-in.

Marriage truth time: Our first 8 years were a nightmare.

20 Years of Marriage, 8 Years of Nightmare.

Ever felt like your marriage wouldn't make it? We've been there.

Midweek Check-in. ❤️ It's an honest, painful feeling: "I love my wife, but I don't like her anymore." Nathan tackles this difficult question in today's YouTube Short. If you're feeling a deep relational disconnect, this message is for you. There is hope for rekindling the spark! Watch for practical steps toward change!

Kid gift ideas running dry?

The challenge of finding gifts that are both unique and provide lasting value is real. In our latest podcast, Nathan and Andrea share examples of high-impact, low-clutter gifts their children genuinely cherished. A great resource for those looking to maximize value and minimize waste this holiday season. Listen for practical gift strategies! Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Struggling for Unique Gift Ideas?

Midweek Check-in!

Ready for Thanksgiving?

As Thanksgiving approaches, we're doing more than just planning the feast!

As Thanksgiving approaches, we're taking a look back at the history and true meaning of the holiday.

Midweek Check-in!

Want your marriage wisdom to actually stick?

Part 2: Earning the Right to Speak.

Part 2: Earning the Right to Speak.

Midweek Check-in! Generation Z is hungry for authentic connection. Nathan shares a powerful challenge in today's check-in: Get serious about mentoring—not just your own kids, but their friends too. This is where real influence and legacy are built. Watch for practical ways to start mentoring today!

Have you wondered what your kids really think about marriage?

What Does the Next Generation Believe About Marriage?

Midweek Check-in! As we approach Veterans Day, Nathan wanted to take a moment to share a huge, heartfelt "Thank You" to all the brave men and women who have (and continue to) served our country. Your sacrifice, commitment, and defense of freedom mean everything. We honor you this Veteran's Day and always! Watch his full message of gratitude!

It takes wisdom to know when to speak and grace to know how.

The responsibility of community extends to offering critical support. In the first part of our new series, we tackle a challenging question: Should we intervene when we observe a partnership in distress? We discuss the ethical boundaries, the responsibility of a supportive network, and how to approach delicate situations with grace and wisdom. Listen to the new episode now! Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

The Hard Question: Speak Up or Stay Silent?

Midweek Check-in!

Ever feel like you're in a waiting season?

The Power of the 41st Day!

The Power of the 41st Day!

Midweek Check-in! Feeling disconnected? You're not alone. Nathan tackles a crucial question in today's YouTube Short: "I am an adult with no community. How do I build community?" He shares practical, step-by-step advice on making genuine connections. Watch now and take the first step!

When is the right time to talk to your kids about sex?

Stop Dreading "The Talk"!

It's Time to Talk!

Midweek Check-in!

Stop just talking about a godly marriage—start building one!

From Blueprint to Reality!