Divorced after 16 years of marriage and single at 39… I share my mistakes and experiences to help your marriage, improve your dating life and prepare you for life after divorce.
Ep89- Scott Erickson, a TikTok vlogger with 140k followers, shares his recent divorce journey, discussing the signs that his marriage was ending and his experiences with modern dating post-divorce. COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today! Why She Left You 6 Strategies to Help You Thrive After Your Divorce Ask Me Anything- Submit Your Question Here 1:1 Coaching- Book Your 30 min Session Here SEE WHAT I AM UP TO Tiktok Facebook Instagram Youtube #divorce #divorced #marriage #marriageadvice #rudeadvice #scotterickson #tiktok #lifeafterdivorce
Ep88- Is it ok for your wife to dress like an escort for a girl's night out? I'll also talk about the power of temptation and how many of us will falter in its presence. ***Recorded LIVE on TIKTOK.*** COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today! 5 Things to Consider Before Filing for Divorce- Free Download 6 Strategies to Help You Thrive After Your Divorce Ask Me Anything- Submit Your Question Here 1:1 Coaching- Book Your 30 min Session Here SEE WHAT I AM UP TO Tiktok Facebook Instagram Youtube #divorce #divorced #marriage #marriageadvice #rudeadvice #temptation #escort #girlsnightout #cheating #affairs
Ep89- On July 1st, after leaving the gym I had a mini-stroke, a Transient ischemic attack (TIA). I am telling my story and sharing what I felt to spread awareness. COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today! 5 Things to Consider Before Filing for Divorce- Free Download 6 Strategies to Help You Thrive After Your Divorce Ask Me Anything- Submit Your Question Here 1:1 Coaching- Book Your 30 min Session Here SEE WHAT I AM UP TO Tiktok Facebook Instagram Youtube #Transientischemicattack #menshealth #stroke #truestory
Ep87- Life after divorce, especially the first few months after it is final can be a heartbreaking and lonely experience. I've been there and I know what you are going through. Today I share some tips on how to break out of that loneliness and begin your journey to your new normal. ***Recorded LIVE on TIKTOK.*** COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today! 5 Things to Consider Before Filing for Divorce- Free Download 6 Strategies to Help You Thrive After Your Divorce Ask Me Anything- Submit Your Question Here 1:1 Coaching- Book Your 30 min Session Here SEE WHAT I AM UP TO Tiktok Facebook Instagram Youtube #divorce #divorced #marriage #marriageadvice #rudeadvice #toxicrelationships #lifeafterdivorce #loneliness #depression
Ep86- Nothing lasts forever, not even your current relationship. In today's discussion, I explore the concept of releasing this notion and embracing the reality that life is all about change. Living for yourself and focusing on the present moment is the most fulfilling way to approach life. COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today! 5 Things to Consider Before Filing for Divorce- Free Download 6 Strategies to Help You Thrive After Your Divorce Ask Me Anything- Submit Your Question Here 1:1 Coaching- Book Your 30 min Session Here SEE WHAT I AM UP TO Tiktok Facebook Instagram Youtube #divorce #divorced #marriage #marriageadvice #rudeadvice #toxicrelationships
Ep85- Are you in a Toxic Relationship? At one point we've all been in one. I'll talk about the specific behaviors and patterns of a toxic relationship. COACHING SESSIONS AND RESOURCES Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today! 5 Things to Consider Before Filing for Divorce- Free Download 6 Strategies to Help You Thrive After Your Divorce Ask Me Anything- Submit Your Question Here 1:1 Coaching- Book Your 30 min Session Here SEE WHAT I AM UP TO Tiktok Facebook Instagram Youtube #divorce #divorced #marriage #marriageadvice #rudeadvice #toxicrelationships
Ep84- Having gone through a divorce, I've learned some tough lessons. Today, I want to share 20 crucial topics you should discuss with your fiancé before saying "I do." Each of these issues has been a factor in ending marriages. It's essential to have these difficult conversations now, before your big day. Coaching Sessions are now Available! Get specific advice from Rudy about your unique situation and learn how to survive your divorce and create the new life you deserve. Rudy has proven there is life after divorce. Let him help you today! https://stan.store/Rudy_A #divorce #divorced #marriage #marriageadvice #rudeadvice
Ep83- In this episode we welcome my good friend Flor, who recently went through a divorce after an 8-year marriage. Flor shares her personal journey, hoping that her experience will offer support and insight to others facing the possibility of divorce. Post-Divorce Courses and Coaching Programs Coming 7/1! Click Here to Sign Up for Early Access Social Media links https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #divorce #divorced #marriage #marriageadvice
Ep82- In this podcast episode, we delve into the top 10 reasons why marriages often fail, exploring common pitfalls such as poor communication, financial stress, and infidelity. By understanding these factors, couples can better navigate their challenges and work towards a healthier marriage. Post-Divorce Courses and Coaching Programs Coming 7/1! Social Media links Rudy A https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #divorce #divorced #marriage #marriageadvice
EP 81- In this episode, we explore the financial reality of supporting a traditional housewife lifestyle. What annual income does a man need to sustain this arrangement, especially with two kids in the mix? Tune in as we break down the numbers and reveal what it really takes to make this dream a reality. #tradwife #traditionalwife #marriage #marriageadvice #marriagetips #divorce
EP80 - In this pilot episode recorded back in March 2019, I sit down with one of my ex-girlfriends, Veronica, for a candid conversation. This laid the groundwork for what would later evolve into Rude Advice. Our discussion delves into the trials and tribulations of dating in your 40s, offering valuable advice for those starting over. From navigating dating profiles to sharing dating horror stories, we cover it all, even touching on the reasons behind our breakup. Social Media Links Rudy A -https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #dating #datingafterdivorce #datingapp #datingstories #datingat40 #datingtips
EP79 - I received an email from a young man going through a divorce and it reminded me of what I experienced 8 years ago. Also, Self Magazine reached out to me and wanted to hear about my divorce story. So, I felt it was appropriate to sit down and finally share my complete divorce story with everyone. I'll talk about my journey and the challenges leading up to the decision of divorce. And how divorce changed my life for the better. For more advice, subscribe and follow my social media accounts below. New videos every week. Social Media Links Rudy A -https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official Self Magazine- https://www.self.com/story/happiness-after-divorce Gen Ex Reviews- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCRGlGlDDePkYM9MBbkeJ5DQ #divorce #story --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/rudy-a5/support
Ep78- Dr Courtney specializes in helping others navigate through the difficult process of high-conflict divorces. She also provides steps on how to heal after a divorce and strategies on how to co-parent with a narcissist. Social Media links Rudy A - https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official Dr. Courtney | Parallel Parenting Coach - https://stan.store/dr_courtneycoaching #divorce #highconflictdivorce #parellelparenting #coparenting #narrcissist #familycourts --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/rudy-a5/support
Ep77- In this episode, I discuss a TikTok video of mine that has garnered 2 million views, unveiling an intriguing revelation from the comments: it seems that women often overlook the actual words being spoken. Let's dive into the evidence. Social Media links Rudy A - https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #tiktok #viral #marriage #advice #marriagetips #marriagegoals #relationshipadvice #relationshiptips #toxicwomen --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/rudy-a5/support
Ep76 - After years of swearing it off, here I am, diving back into marriage. Whether you're a first-time bride or groom, or contemplating round two, this episode is tailored just for you. Plus, I'll delve into a viral TikTok video where a wife requests to peek into her husband's phone before he heads out to work. Social Media links Rudy A - https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #tiktok #marriage #shouldIgetmarriedagain #marriageadvice #marriagetips #lifelesssons #rudeadvice --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/rudy-a5/support
Ep75- Max “Tripp” Kramer is the founder of the #1 Men's Dating Coaching Program with 12 years of teaching men how to attract women and host of the How to Talk to Girls podcast. Today we discuss why men have given up on date. Why are men so unsuccessful with dating apps? What is the best way to start a conversation with a woman and how women select men? Social Media links Rudy A – https://linktr.ee/rudy_a_ Tripp Advice- https://www.coachedbytripp.com/ig1 #dating #datingcoach #trippadvice #trippkramer #firstdate #datingadvice --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/rudy-a5/support
Ep74- I'm diving into a recent viral moment on TikTok where a single mother stirred up controversy by expressing her belief that a good man would help her raise her child. However, her statement quickly attracted the ire of incels, sparking a heated debate online. Why do incels harbor such animosity towards single mothers? And what about the role of stepdads—do they fall into the category of "simps"? Join me as we explore these questions. Social Media links Rudy A – https://linktr.ee/rudy_a_ #singlemothers #stepsdads #dating #datingadvice #rudeadvice #rudya #simp #redpill --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/rudy-a5/support
Ep73- Sally Kathryn is a dating coach with over 10 years of experience. Today we'll discuss the top 5 dating red flags for men and women. My vasectomy procedure from hell and how TikTok has become a platform that fuels the hate between men and women. Social Media links Rudy A – https://linktr.ee/rudy_a_ Sally Kathryn Dating Coach- https://www.sallyheart.com/apply #dating #datingcoach #redflagsformen #redflagsforwomen #datingtips #tiktok #redpill #hatespeech --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/rudy-a5/support
EP72 - My good friends Cody Leach and Charles the Comedian join me for another discussion of random topics. Such as transgenders, why Hollywood movies suck, and are you allowed to have privacy in a marriage? Also, the pressures of social media, being an influencer, and selling out. Social Media links Rudy A – https://linktr.ee/rudy_a_ #movies #marriage #dating #advice #codyleach --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/rudy-a5/support
Ep71- Porn addiction is a silent problem that millions of men and women suffer from. It's destroying marriages and relationships. It's leading many into depression and lifelong negative neurological changes. Heather Nielsen, founder of Conquering the Beast has reached millions of viewers and helped thousands of individuals in over 31+ countries to reduce their use of pornography and sexual addiction. She offers classes, courses, programs, support groups, free resources, accountability, and coaching for those looking to change their lives and quit for good. Social Media links Rudy A – https://linktr.ee/rudy_a_ Heather Nielsen- https://linktr.ee/fightthebeast #pornaddiction #porn #pornhub #addiction #fightthebeast #rudeadvice #pornography #tiktok --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/rudy-a5/support
Ep70- Is dining at Hooters disrespectful to your wife or girlfriend? I'll also talk about a father who is working two jobs and is having trouble paying child support. I'll share a woman's horrible take on why this is punishment for him. And last, I'll discuss the disturbing trend with men and physical violence. Social Media links Rudy A - https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #hooters #childsupport #divorce #coparenting #dating #twinpeaks #tiktok #redpill
Ep69- Do men prefer BBLs or natural booties? Can you trust your friends around your girl? And why you shouldn't get married in your 20s. Social Media links Rudy A - https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #cheating #datingadvice #datingapps #brocode #marriage #marraigeadvice #cheaters
Ep68- Sean Chandler is a movie critic and YouTube superstar with over 280K subscribers. But before YouTube, Sean secretly battled his addiction to alcohol that nearly destroyed his life. Sean shares his story during this time and how he conquered his demons and eventually conquered YouTube. Social Media links Rudy A - https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official Sean Chandler - https://www.youtube.com/@SeanChandlerTalksAbout #seanchander #youtube #addiction
Ep67- If you are married or in a relationship, are you entitled to privacy? Is it healthy to share your passwords or is it a sign of no trust? Is there a difference between secrecy and privacy? Social Media links Rudy A - https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #trust #phones #cheating #relationships #relationshipadvice #cheating #
Ep66- Once a cheater, always a cheater? Who cheats more, men or women? Dr. Kathy Nickerson is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist, Author, and Affair Recovery Specialist. Today she shares how an affair begins. What is a person thinking while having an affair and can you save your marriage after an affair? Social Media links Rudy A - https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official Dr. Kathy Nickerson - https://linktr.ee/drkathynickerson #cheating #affairs #drkathynickerson #kathynickerson #
Ep65- If you want to improve your dating life, this is the episode you need to listen to. Dating Apps are a great tool for meeting women. But you need to be using them correctly. Today, I share my dating profile and my inbox with messages from women proving my tips work. I also share tips for your first dating and some crazy dating stories. Social Media links https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #rudeadvicepodcast #datingapps #datingtips #dating #moderndating
Ep64- Gentlemen, getting married in your 20s is a horrible idea. Your 20s are your opportunity for self-discovery, gaining self-respect, and finding your passions. Allow me to explain in further detail. Social Media Links Rudy A -https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #divorce #donotgetmarried #marriageadvice #marriage #rudeadvicepodcast
Ep 63 - Can an affair evolve into a lasting healthy relationship? What are people thinking while having an affair and how do they begin? I'll also answer viewer questions. Social Media Links Rudy A -https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #affairs #cheating #willheleavehiswife #rudeadvice #tiktok #cheaters #divorce
Ep 62 - A single 38-year-old woman gets rejected by a matchmaker, yet blames everyone else. Also, a young woman uses marriage to escape her home. We'll also talk about how my advice has been reported for hate speech on Facebook. Social Media Links Rudy A -https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #divorce #modernwomen #datingadvice #tiktok #viralvideos #dating #rudya #rudeadvice #marriage
Ep 61- After 3 years of coaching young men, I'm getting to a point where I don't see a silver lining. I am honestly disappointed. Here's my rant. Social Media Links Rudy A -https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #divorce #dating #adviceformen #advice #lifeadvice #datingskills
Ep 60- Do women lack the strength and capability to manage the challenges of everyday life while also fulfilling the role of a wife? Is the increasing rate of marriages primarily due to the actions of modern women, or is the issue rooted in men's behavior? Social Media Links Rudy A -https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #divorce #divorced #modernwomen #donotgetmarried
Ep 59- Macken Murphy is a GRS-funded scientist at the University of Melbourne. His public works on evolution have been praised by the BBC, the CBC, Booklist, Apple, the Press Association, and The New York Times, among others. Macken graduated magna cum laude as a Trustee Scholar from Kilachand Honors College, and completed an MSc at Oxford with the highest possible mark. Social Media Links Rudy A -https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official Macken Murphy - https://www.mackenmurphy.org/ #cheating #cheaters #cheat #affair #mackenmurphy #rudeadvice #tiktok
Ep 58 - Today, I'll be recounting a story sent to me by one of my followers. Additionally, I'll delve into the tale of one of the first women I dated post-divorce—a passionate affair that concluded quite disastrously. Interestingly enough, she happened to be engaged at the time. Social Media Links Rudy A -https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #cheating #datingamarriedman #cheaters #cheat #affair #shesmarried #loveaffair
EP 57- Do you find your spouse attractive? Do you desire your spouse sexually? Well, most women don't according to a recent survey. Let's talk about it. Social Media Links Rudy A -https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #marriedlife #marriage #cheating #divorce #attractive #desire #staysexy #lessons #rudeadvice #rudya
Ep 56- TikTok megastar and friend Tatiana from Tatianas Creepy Storytimes is back for her 3rd visit to the Rude Advice podcast. Today we are discussing how her engagement ended because of her TikTok fame, and also how I am adjusting to living with a woman again after living on my own for 8 years. Social Media Links Rudy A -https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official Tatiscreepystories- https://beacons.ai/tatianaandtony #ghosts #ghoststories #Tatiscreepystories #divorce #lifeafterdivorce
Ep 55- Today, I react to viral videos highlighting the societal pressures placed on young men and women, concerning the expectation to start a family in their twenties and the traditional role of men as the primary providers for their families. Social Media Links Rudy A -https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #marriage #lifeadvice #datingadvice #dating #rudeadvice #rudya #tiktok #kids
EP 54 - Are men allowed to cry in front of their girlfriend, wife, or at all? Most young male influencers say never, especially in front of your women. "When you cry, your woman turns dry." Let's talk about this nonsense. Social Media Links Rudy A -https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #aremenallowedtocry #rudeadvice #rudyatiktok #rudya
EP 53 - Divorce Attorney Dennis Vetrano, or DRVLaw on TikTok, discusses the state of divorces in the US. We also discuss, what are his client's biggest regrets as they see their marriage coming to an end. Are men still losing everything in a divorce, or have things changed? Also, when you come to the realization that its finally over. Social Media Links Rudy A -https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official Dennis Vetrano - https://linktr.ee/DRVLAW #divorce #dennisvetrano #tiktok #rudeadvice #gettingdivorced #drvlaw
EP 50- The husband who is a wonderful father that is verbally abused by his wife, is more common than you would think. Last week, my Tiktok video on this topic went viral and as of this recording, over 1 thousand men said they were in the same situation. TikTok Video #domesticabuseonmen #verballyabusivewives #divorce #marriagelife #menmatter #divorced #tiktok #rudyaoffical #rudeadvice Social Media Links Rudy A -https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official
Ep49 - Since its creation in 2016, OnlyFans has rapidly grown year by year. In 2022 OF made over 2.5 billion dollars. Many men have ridiculed women for having an OF account, yet as of 2023 OF has over 190 million active users... 87% are men. Who is to blame for OF? The creators or the demand? #onlyfans #dating #relationships #onlyfansmodels Social Media Links Rudy A -https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official
EP 48- My male audience demanded this episode. Men's feelings are often disregarded or not given the attention it deserves. Why is that? In this episode, I talk about 7 ways women show their man unappreciation. I also speak about BOOBS, Rollo Tomassi, why women love the bad guy, and much much more! Social Media Links Rudy A -https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #relationships #marriageadvice #divorce #realtionshipadvice
EP 48- "I've given up. Women aren't worth the trouble. I like my peace." These are some of the responses I've received from my followers when I asked why have they given up on dating. Unlike generations before, men have lost all hope in finding a girlfriend or wife. Is this a product of social media or are women unworthy to pursue? Social Media Links Rudy A -https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #mgtow #redpill #dating #mengivinguponwomen #modernwomen #hypergamy #datingapps #socialmedia #feminism
EP 46- The term SIMP has been used often on social media, but what does it mean? Since I started sharing advice, I have been called SIMP a few times. So I decided to start doing research on these men to see if I could find a pattern in their behavior. Needless to say, the results didn't surprise me. Social Media Links https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #simp #datingadvice #dating #incels #adviceformen
Recorded LIVE ! Answering Viewer Questions on the following topics: 1. Co-Parenting Post Divorce and Dating 2. How do you know when it's time to move on 3. Partner having friends of the opposite sex 4. Starting over after divorce 5. Realistic expectations on Intimacy and what either partner expects as a whole #divorce #startingover #divorced #dating #intimacy #rudeadvice
EP 45- Did you have a good father in your life? How about a mentor or coach? I am blessed to have had all three and they've taught me a lot. At 46 years old, I've made many mistakes and have failed. I've learned that failure is life's greatest teacher, especially when you hold yourself accountable. I've had many wins and successes. A major part of those successes was what my father and mentors taught me. Social Media Links Rudy A -https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #marriage #marriageadvice #divorce #divorcestats2023 #marriageadvice #shouldIgetmarried
Ep 44 - Annebella and Charlotte host the Peasant Party Podcast in Austin, TX. We discuss dating in Austin and how much it's changed over the past 3 years. How is more sexually aggressive, men or women? Also the power of charm, humor and charisma aka RIZZ. Why do women hate when you ask for their Snapchat? How to approach a woman and start a conversation and much more. Social Media Links Rudy A -https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official Peasant Party Podcast - https://linktr.ee/peasantpartypod Annabelle - https://www.instagram.com/thefemalegothic/ Charlotte - https://www.instagram.com/charty805/ #datingtips #datingadvice #datingapps #dating #adviceforguys #tiktok
Ep 43- Trigger Warning ⚠️ All the stories you'll hear are real. Are you ready for marriage? In today's episode, I'll share true stories and scenarios about married life, that I know you aren't considering. But they happen. I'll also go over the most recent divorce statistics for 2023. Forbes- https://www.forbes.com/advisor/legal/divorce/divorce-statistics/ Social Media Links Rudy A -https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official #marriage #marriageadvice #divorce #divorcestats2023 #marriageadvice #shouldIgetmarried
EP42- Your girlfriend just dumped you...what do you do? What do you say? Should you get back with your EX or move on? Benny the No Contact coach has been coaching for over 4 years and has a following of 125K on Tiktok. He has helped thousands get through a breakup and today he's going to help you. Social Media Links Rudy A -https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official Coach Benny- https://stan.store/coachbenny #breakup #howtowinbackyourex #howtogetoverabreakup #tiktok #rudyatiktok #rudyaofficial #exgirlfriend #exboyfriend #toxicex #toxicexgirlfriend
Ep41- Where are the worse places to go for a first date? What are the top 3 dating mistakes you don't know you're making RIGHT NOW? Can you approach modern women at a bar? My good friend Starr Demarco, host of the Cheap Suits Podcast joins me today to help you gents with your dating life. For more advice, subscribe and follow my social media accounts below. New videos every week. Social Media Links Rudy A - https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Official Starr Demarco - https://linktr.ee/cheapsuitspodcast #datingadvice #datingadviceformen #topthreedatingmistakes #dating #datingmodernwomen
Recorded LIVE Ep 40 - Today, we'll ask the age-old question...Can men and women be friends? Can you still be friends with your ex? How do you fall into the Friendzone? Can you ever get out? Charlotte Warren, Taryn Sinatra, and my good friend Charles join the conversation. Social Media Links Rudy A - https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Officia Dating by Charlotte- https://linktr.ee/welcometothepeasantparty?utm_source=linktree_profile_share
Ep39- Sarah Dawn Moore is a dating expert and YouTube superstar approaching 400k subscribers. We're talking about the truth about sex in today's dating world – what women want, how men can improve their dating life, and more. Social Media Links Rudy A - https://linktr.ee/Rudy_A_Officia Sarah Dawn Moore - https://linktr.ee/sarahdawnmoore #toxicdating #redpill #tiktok #sarahdawnmoore #dating #sexadvice #datingadviceformen #moderndating #modernwoman #whatwomenwant