The Confident Parent

In this episode, we discover 3 concepts to remember when taking full advantage of our days with our kids, even when they are difficult, because time flies fast! “For everything there is a season, a time for every activity under heaven.” Ecclesiastes 3:1 NLT 1.) Enjoy each season 2.) What do you want the nights to look like now? 3.) What am I doing today for their tomorrow?

ROMANS 12:17-21 17 Never pay back evil with more evil. Do things in such a way that everyone can see you are honorable. 18 Do all that you can to live in peace with everyone. 19 Dear friends, never take revenge. Leave that to the righteous anger of God. For the Scriptures say, “I will take revenge; I will pay them back,” says the Lord. 20 Instead, “If your enemies are hungry, feed them. If they are thirsty, give them something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals of shame on their heads.” 21 Don't let evil conquer you, but conquer evil by doing good. 1.) PRAY 2.) TALK IT OUT (PLEASE STOP, THIS IS HOW IT MAKES ME FEEL) 3.) SELF DEFENSE MATTHEW 18:15-17 15 If a brother sins against you, go to him privately and confront him with his fault. If he listens and confesses it, you have won back a brother. 16 But if not, then take one or two others with you and go back to him again, proving everything you say by these witnesses. 17 If he still refuses to listen, then take your case to the church, and if the church's verdict favors you, but he won't accept it, then the church should excommunicate him

As parents, we start off controlling every aspect of our child's life. We discuss practical ways to release control and begin to influence and when that right time is. Psalms 14:2-3 NLT // Romans 3:1-12”The Lord looks down from heaven on the entire human race; he looks to see if anyone is truly wise, if anyone seeks God. But no, all have turned away; all have become corrupt. No one does good, not a single one!“

”Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need.“ ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭6‬:‭33‬ ‭NLT‬‬Whose kingdom are you attempting to build? Your own? Your child's? God's Kingdom?

Julie Pratt is the Kidmin Director of Discipleship of the Assemblies of God. She shares her wisdom and experience on how to disciple our children at home.

20 You children must always obey your fathers and mothers, for that pleases the Lord. 21 Fathers, don't scold your children so much that they become discouraged and quit trying. (Colossians 3:20-21 TLB)1 Children, obey your parents because you belong to the Lord,[a] for this is the right thing to do. 2 “Honor your father and mother.” This is the first commandment with a promise: 3 If you honor your father and mother, “things will go well for you, and you will have a long life on the earth.”[b]4 Fathers,[c] do not provoke your children to anger by the way you treat them. Rather, bring them up with the discipline and instruction that comes from the Lord. (Ephesians 6:1-4 NLT)Don't discipline because of anger, discipline to teach and restore the relationship 

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What is it?Holy Spirit is our helper to live godly livesThe Holy Spirit is the third person of the Trinity (Father, Son, Spirit)He is a gift from GodBaptism is not salvation Why do I want it for my child?Living for Jesus is hard Holy Spirit teaches But when the Father sends the Comforter instead of me—and by the Comforter I mean the Holy Spirit—he will teach you much, as well as remind you of everything I myself have told you. (John 14:26)Guides youWhen the Spirit of truth comes, he will guide you into all truth. (John 16:13)Gives us power But when the Holy Spirit has come upon you, you will receive power to testify about me with great effect, to the people in Jerusalem, throughout Judea, in Samaria, and to the ends of the earth, about my death and resurrection.” (Acts 1:8)Power to be a witnessHow do I receive it?Ask for the giftThe physical evidence that you've received this supernatural gift is speaking in tongues, a supernatural language from God. Holy Spirit won't force you to do this Holy Spirit gives you the words, you speak themEven as Peter was saying these things, the Holy Spirit fell upon all those listening! 45 The Jews who came with Peter were amazed that the gift of the Holy Spirit would be given to Gentiles too! 46-47 But there could be no doubt about it,[c] for they heard them speaking in tongues and praising God. (Acts 10:44-47)Keep asking for itWhen you want something, you keep askingCan ask anywhere, anytime Sometimes Jesus wants us to care more about Him than the giftKeep obeying and loving Jesus daily, making Him #1. God doesn't give the gift out just willy nilly What happens next?Being baptized is just the startA greater love for God and peopleHaving God's eyes, God's heartEasier to witness Holy Spirit will help you not sinPray in tongues at willWhen I pray in a group, I often pray in the SpiritFruit of the SpiritLove, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentlest, and self controlGifts of the SpiritProphecy, How to lead your child into it?Teach you kid about the Holy Spirit Might feel weird, but it is supernaturalYou might feel unqualifiedShare what you've learned todayReceive the Baptism yourself, share your storyEncourage your child to seek the Holy Spirit on their ownPray with them/over themIf you make it not weird, it wont beIf you make it weird, it'll be weirdWhy should your house be a weird place to pray for the gift of the Spirit?Ask about it, talk about itEncourage your child to seek the Holy Spirit on their own

Rick and Theresa Senk share their experience raising their kids and the very real battle for their kids' soul that took place once sports entered the picture.

Letting go is difficult. It's an art, not a science. We teach our kids now to let them go. (Proverbs 22:6, Deuteronomy 6:6-9).We as parents hold on tightly because we want to be in control instead of trusting God to lead our kids.

Being generous is believing there's always enough to share, no matter how much you have.1.) Everything we have has come from God2.) Share your family's blessings and needs3.) Model It4.) Find ways for them to serve at home5.) Pray for a generous heart

Galatians 5:16-23 16 So I say, let the Holy Spirit guide your lives. Then you won't be doing what your sinful nature craves. 17 The sinful nature wants to do evil, which is just the opposite of what the Spirit wants. And the Spirit gives us desires that are the opposite of what the sinful nature desires. These two forces are constantly fighting each other, so you are not free to carry out your good intentions. 22 But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things!

As parents, we're trying to set our kids up for success while also enjoying their day to day. In this episode, we'll share the importance of praying for your child's heart and some specific ways to pray. Proverbs 4:23 Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life. Jeremiah 17:9-10 “The human heart is the most deceitful of all things, and desperately wicked. Who really knows how bad it is? But I, the Lord, search all hearts and examine secret motives. I give all people their due rewards, according to what their actions deserve.” 1 Samuel 16:7 But the Lord said to Samuel, “Don't judge by his appearance or height, for I have rejected him. The Lord doesn't see things the way you see them. People judge by outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”

1.) God Centered Routine Build your schedule around God 2.) 2 Goals For Your Child 3.) Ask Specific, Open Ended Questions 4.) Have a Family Fun Day/Night Eat at the table as a family 5.) Be Aware Of What Your Kids Are Doing With Tech

Punishment is payback. Discipline should fix the broken relationship.

We all want a Godly family that likes each other - even after our kids are grown and out of the house. So how do we create that in real life? Two things we as parents can do to create a Godly home - model our faith and talk about Jesus often.

Watch the video Podcast at youtu.be/T1YtwG8hxsY Take It Day By Day This situation is unprecedented. Things are constantly changing. This is our new norm. All Of The Resources Are Overwhelming Figure out what you want your day to look like and find resources for that. Limit social media Make Spiritual Life A Priority God has given us this opportunity to focus on Him Visit oakcreekag.org/kidslive   It's ok/essential to have alone/spouse time Fear not There's a lot of unknown right now God's got this. Pray for the joy of the Lord to be your strength and peace that transcends all understanding.

The Holy Spirit is the person of God we interact with most today. Kelly Presson, Director of Leadership Development for Children's Ministry Leaders at the National Office of the Assemblies of God shares insight on how to do that as a parent.

- Create a home/environment where your child feels safe to talk to you - Explain the 'why' behind the answers or reasoning - Get to know the parents of your child's friends - Have dialogue with child's friends' parents about what is allowed and not allowed for your child - Ask questions about sleepovers/events when your child returns home

- Defining a child centered home vs Christ centered home - Creating a vision for your marriage/family - Vision Retreat (getaway experience) - Why did God put us together? - What has God called us to accomplish to further His purpose? - What are the major ethical and moral standards we want our families to live by? - What kind of things do we want people say about us? - Are there any words of correction or direction God is speaking to us?

Sisterly bond Do the Next Right Thing When you don't know what to do, just take one step at a time and do the next right thing. Righting the Wrongs of the Father Unity Elsa Parallels Jesus' Resurrection

Discipline comes out of love for our kids and direction for their lives.   LISTEN & OBEY THE FIRST TIME RIGHT AWAY Obey the first time asked Consequence immediately follows if no obedience Follow up conversation that points them towards Jesus   - Consequence depends on the crime - Consistency - Pray for their heart

Scary stuff is everywhere and we can't avoid Halloween. So let's leverage it for spiritual growth!   WHERE I'M COMING FROM BIBLICALLY God is a god of peace and joy Jesus came to bring people back to life from death and sin Jesus is described as the hope and light of the world If you're a follower of Jesus, then our worldview should correlate with Jesus Jesus came to bring healing, not glorify sickness Through His death we gain eternal life, the end result being the focus not his death Eternity is real and the missions of every Jesus follows is to get people to Heaven, not Hell   HOW TO TALK ABOUT THIS HOLIDAY Decide with your spouse, by yourself where you stand You can talk about these things without adding a spooky factor to it Death is the main topic of Halloween Give a Christian understanding of death God didn't want us to die, but sin caused death. Jesus came to save us. Fear Try and identify fear What is scary about it? What is the concern will happen? Bible stories (Lazarus mummy, Daniel and being afraid) “Goodbye fear, God is here!” Prayer with and for   SAFE ACTION STEPS FOR YOUR FAMILY Protect their innocence as long as possible Pass out Jesus loves kids cards to Trick or Treaters Illustrated sermon It's ok to avoid scary aisles, houses, etc. Can do activities without adding the scary/death factor Pumpkin carving, painting. It's ok to not watch Halloween themed tv episodes Right Now Media (oakcreekag.org/rightnow)

What is missions? Fulfilling the mission Jesus sent us on to reach our world for Christ What is a missionary? Someone who dedicates their life to sharing the Gospel with others, usually in foreign countries. BGMC (Boys & Girls Missionary Challenge) The Assemblies of God kids missions program Accessible funds for missionaries to use for ministry   Why should missions matter to your kids? Obeys Christ (making an eternal impact) Builds compassion Develops a generous heart Creates entrepreneurial drive The church working together, we do this together

In this special on location episode we chat with Mark Kilcoyne, the Assemblies of God Wisconsin Northern Michigan Network Discipleship Director, at Spencer Lake in Waupaca, WI during Kids Camp. He shares insight as the Director of many camps and events that hundreds of kids attend. We'll explore the importance of sending your kids to Church camps and events for their spiritual growth and the benefits it provides parents in their quest to become the confident spiritual leader.

The Bible will change your life! In this episode, we're discovering patterns and techniques you can implement today to lead your family to interact with the Living Word of God! Featured guest - Carrie Lutter, Preschool Director at Oak Creek Assembly of God.   RECOMMENDED BIBLES FOR KIDS: - Fire Bible For Kids - Jesus Storybook Bible - The Action Bible - Bible App For Kids Storybook Bible

Is Toy Story 4 safe for your family? We'll also explore themes from the movie that you can use to lead your kids to a deeper relationship with Jesus and who God created them to be.   THEMES: - Our Purpose - That Inner Voice - Trying To Become Something For Someone Else - Value In Creation - Life Transitions - Becoming The Hero or Villain

Good parenting is more than being intentional, it's requires being strategic. In this episode, we'll explore the 3 4s to parenting!  These are 3 stages, routines, and patterns with four steps that you already have that you can leverage today to bring your family closer together and to Jesus.   1.) 4 STAGES OF PARENTING - 1-5 Years // Discipline Years - 5-12 Years // Why Years - 12-18 Year // Connecting Years - 18+ // Friendship Years   2.) 4 ROUTINES OF EVERY FAMILY - Drive Time - Eat Time - Play Time - Bed Time   3.) 4 SIGNS OF PERSONAL SPIRITUAL GROWTH - Private Devotions - Taught Jesus' Truth - Godly Friendships - Personal Ministry   You can learn more about the Children's Ministry of Oak Creek Assembly of God at OakCreekAG.org/kids  

Phases can be fun and enjoyable moments in your child's life… or they can be miserable. The days are long, but the years are short. In this episode with guest Stephanie Humpa, we'll explore how to navigate the constantly changing phases of our children's life and stay on track for who we want our family to be. Phases change, but our constants shouldn't Explore tools about navigating phases at justaphase.com You can learn more about the Children's Ministry of Oak Creek Assembly of God at OakCreekAG.org/kids

In this teaser, Joshua Humpa will explain where the idea for this Podcast sprung from and the hope we have for your family as a result of listening. You can learn more about the Children's Ministry of Oak Creek Assembly of God at OakCreekAG.org/kids