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Immerse yourself in a world where curiosity meets sensuality. Where you empower your pleasure, embrace your desires, and embody your authentic erotic self. Embark on a weekly journey of shattering cultural norms and societal expectations, as we dive deep into the realms of erotic exploration — and unravel the intersection of sex, society, and self-expression.From unearthing kink and non-monogamy, to exploring trauma-informed healing modalities, indulge your pleasure with captivating conversations, expert insights, and accessible tools to cultivate deeper connections and embolden your erotic essence.Join your host, Lorrae Bradbury, erotic embodiment coach and founder of Slutty Girl Problems, in a podcast that empowers the erotically curious to expand pleasure, release expectations, and embody our authentic selves.Get free ebooks, coaching, and workshops at www.sluttygirlproblems.com and www.lorraejo.com 

Lorrae Bradbury


    • May 22, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
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    21. An Adult Simulation Game That's Actually Sexy with Game Developer Pretty Ink

    Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2024 48:25


    Put down the Switch, drop the Xbox controller, and unplug your headset. This week, we're talking adult simulation games. Lorrae chats with Pretty Ink, the anonymous creator of the College Craze role playing game.In this playfully sensual game, you'll escape into an erotic campus that's a choose-your-own adventure of sexy exploration – exploring themes of consent, navigating relationship decisions, and following your desires - with no unrealistic, male gaze-led characters or slut shaming!Pretty and Lorrae also discuss the importance of a sexual relationship with yourself first, the stigma around virginity (and what it really means), and the pros and cons of sleeping with the bad boys. Their chat encourages us to cultivate the crucial relationship with ourselves, allows us the freedom to prioritize our own pleasure, and reminds us that we're always growing and always learning about our bodies.___Get my favorite vibrator, the Magic Wand Rechargeable and the Magic Wand Mini! You can also get the authentic Magic Wand Original - available at my favorite sex-positive shop.Follow Lorrae:On Instagram at @sluttygrlprobs | @Lorraejo | @thepleasureprovocateurSGP on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokLorrae on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokResources:Join our Patreon for bonus content + extras!Download my free sex-magic ebookApply for 1:1 coaching with Lorrae and visit Lorrae's site for courses and workshopsVisit Slutty Girl Problems for articles on pleasure, intimacy, and connectionConnect with our guest Pretty Ink via Instagram | Twitter | Patreon

    20. Modern Dating Tips and Relationship Trauma with Allie Hoffman

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2024 54:01


    Are you single, a little bit anxious, and exhausted with swiping on dating apps for hours at a time with no legitimate prospects? We've got great news for you: this week, Lorrae is joined by Allie Hoffman, creator of the IRL singles event ‘The Feels,' and they chat all about dating app fatigue, difficulties of modern dating, and living our truth despite them.Allie and Lorrae dive deep into the tough relationship stuff - the importance of cultivating the relationship you have with yourself, healing from relationship trauma, representing yourself accurately on popular dating apps to find deeper connection, dating strategies for more intimacy, and so much more.They also take a look at the importance of removing the pressure of meeting the “love of your life”, feeling the freedom to let new connections simply be what they are, and asking the real questions (and listening to the answer) while sitting across from your latest prospect. The dating pros make us excited about dating again, emphasizing the importance of listening to yourself and what you deserve in a relationship.___Get my favorite vibrator, the Magic Wand Rechargeable and the Magic Wand Mini! You can also get the authentic Magic Wand Original - available at my favorite sex-positive shop.Follow Lorrae:On Instagram at @sluttygrlprobs | @Lorraejo | @thepleasureprovocateurSGP on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokLorrae on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokResources:Join our Patreon for bonus content + extras!Download my free sex-magic ebookApply for 1:1 coaching with Lorrae and visit Lorrae's site for courses and workshopsVisit Slutty Girl Problems for articles on pleasure, intimacy, and connectionConnect with our guest Allie Hoffman via Instagram | Substack Check out The Feels on InstagramFind ‘The Feels' events near you: https://www.eventbrite.com/o/the-feels-80234113653

    19. Polyamory Boundaries, Jealousy, and Cheating with Poly Philia

    Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2024 62:57


    Non-monogamous queers, this one's for you! This week, Lorrae is joined by polyamory educator and queer advocate Leanne Yau, who discusses the intersection of polyamory, queerness, and neurodivergence through her social media project Poly Philia. Leanne and Lorrae don't shy away from tough topics in non-monogamy: cheating in polyamory (yes, it's possible), effectively communicating and setting boundaries within multiple relationships, balancing your autonomy and needs within the context of relationships, and much, much more!They share a laugh about the missteps in their first attempts at exploring polyamory, remind us that jealousy within any relationship is totally natural, and share some truly incredible wisdom about doing the inner work in order to be a good partner – in a conversation that even monogamous couples can learn from.The two coaches inspire us to take stock of not only our relationships with our partners, but of the most important one of all - the one with ourselves. ___Get my favorite vibrator, the Magic Wand Rechargeable and the Magic Wand Mini! You can also get the authentic Magic Wand Original - available at my favorite sex-positive shop.Follow Lorrae:On Instagram at @sluttygrlprobs | @Lorraejo | @thepleasureprovocateurSGP on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokLorrae on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokResources:Join our Patreon for bonus content + extras!Download my free sex-magic ebookApply for 1:1 coaching with Lorrae and visit Lorrae's site for courses and workshopsVisit Slutty Girl Problems for articles on pleasure, intimacy, and connectionConnect with our guest Leanne Yau via Instagram | TikTok | Polyphilia Blog | PatreonBook a non-monogamous peer support session: https://www.polyphilia.blog/peer-supportBuy polyamory merch: https://polyphiliablog.threadless.com/“Is It Over? A Workshop on Breakups and De-Escalations” on May 19: isitover.eventbrite.com

    18. Cannabis in Self-Care, Reproductive Rights, and Modern Day Witchcraft with Author Sophie Saint Thomas

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2024 48:24


    Witches, stoners, and sluts - assemble! This week's guest on The Pleasure Provocateur, Lorrae chats with author and journalist Sophie Saint Thomas, whose work primarily focuses on modern day magic, cannabis and CBD, and all things sex-positivity. She's written several books about cannabis and CBD in self-care, countless articles answering all of our sex questions, and is coming out with a new book exploring the untold history of abortion, called “Reproductive Rites: The Real-Life Witches and Witch-Hunts in the Centuries-Long Fight for Abortion”. Sophie and Lorrae dive in headfirst to chat about the importance of knowing the roots of sex magic, how our relationship with cannabis can shift according to our needs, and exactly how ridiculous the history of reproductive rights has been (spoiler alert: always has been, always will be). Their candid conversation inspires us to take stock of our identity, ensure that we understand who came before us to pave the way, and learn what else needs to be done for future witches, stoners, and sluts – so we can move toward liberation for all. ___Get my favorite vibrator, the Magic Wand Rechargeable and the Magic Wand Mini! You can also get the authentic Magic Wand Original - available at my favorite sex-positive shop.Follow Lorrae:On Instagram at @sluttygrlprobs | @Lorraejo | @thepleasureprovocateurSGP on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokLorrae on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokResources:Join our Patreon for bonus content + extras!Download my free sex-magic ebookApply for 1:1 coaching with Lorrae and visit Lorrae's site for courses and workshopsVisit Slutty Girl Problems for articles on pleasure, intimacy, and connectionConnect with our guest Sophie St. Thomas via Instagram | Twitter | Linktree

    17. Navigating Queer Polyamorous Relationships with Gabalexa

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2024 66:06


    Poly queer bisexuality advocate and educator Gabrielle Noel (Gabalexa) stops by The Pleasure Provocateur to talk about all things queer, poly, and kinky. From writing about misconceptions about vaginas in womens' magazines to joining Jada Pinkett Smith for a discussion on The Red Table, Gabby's work covers the vast depths of sexuality.This candid conversation between Gabby and Lorrae addresses how other people's projections of their bisexuality and being told they're not ‘queer enough' has influenced their embodiment of their identities, and quest to be outspoken advocates for empowerment. They then dive into both the philosophy and practicality of practicing polyamory, navigating jealousy in open relationships and developing friendships with metamours, and how setting boundaries within their relationships has helped them thrive and grow.Their frank conversation inspires us to investigate the deepest parts of ourselves, from our queerness to our kinks to our deepest desires; in order to find the pleasure and satisfaction that we all deeply deserve.___Get my favorite vibrator, the Magic Wand Rechargeable and the Magic Wand Mini! You can also get the authentic Magic Wand Original - available at my favorite sex-positive shop.Follow Lorrae:On Instagram at @sluttygrlprobs | @Lorraejo | @thepleasureprovocateurSGP on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokLorrae on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokResources:Join our Patreon for bonus content + extras!Download my free sex-magic ebookApply for 1:1 coaching with Lorrae and visit Lorrae's site for courses and workshopsVisit Slutty Girl Problems for articles on pleasure, intimacy, and connectionConnect with our guest Gabalexa via Instagram | Website | Podcast | Queer ENM Resources

    16. Dispelling Sex Magic and Sacred Sexuality Myths with Wizard Devin Person

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2024 79:43


    Witch, please! Modern day wizard and genuine delight of a human Devin Person (host of This Podcast is a Ritual) joins Lorrae to explore the everyday magic of creating more pleasure in our lives – from using ritual,intention, and sex magic to create a slightly better reality, to embracing that magic isn't a shortcut to getting what we want - it's the scenic route to healing. Devin and Lorrae take a deep dive into the magic inside us all, recognizing our own patterns, limitations, and the roles we play in life, love, and relationships. We explore how to identifying the facets of ourselves that we love AND those that no longer serve us (like the Manic Pixie Dreamgirl role Lorrae shares she's emulated for so long!O), so we can release them and transform into something even more magical than we already are.This insightful conversation challenges us to let go of fear-based spirituality and the Puritanical aspects of “sacred sexuality” and “energetic entanglement”, and instead use our own experience of sexuality to understand ourselves and each other on a deeper level.___Get my favorite vibrator, the Magic Wand Rechargeable and the Magic Wand Mini! You can also get the authentic Magic Wand Original - available at my favorite sex-positive shop.Follow Lorrae:On Instagram at @sluttygrlprobs | @Lorraejo | @thepleasureprovocateurSGP on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokLorrae on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokResources:Join our Patreon for bonus content + extras!Download my free sex-magic ebookApply for 1:1 coaching with Lorrae and visit Lorrae's site for courses and workshopsVisit Slutty Girl Problems for articles on pleasure, intimacy, and connectionConnect with our guest Devin Person via Instagram | Website | Podcast | Patreon

    15. How to Enjoy Being Single and Sensual with Brianne Hogan

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2024 81:52


    Host of the Seriously Single podcast Brianne Hogan joins Lorrae to deep dive into dating – or rather, the celebrations and commiserations of staying single!Lorrae and Brianne nudge us towards the path of self-love, acceptance, and understanding in their insightful chat about prioritizing our happiness and well-being, approaching dating with openness and self-exploration, and creating a meaningful life for ourselves before a romantic partner. While celebrating their lives as single girlies, Brianne and Lorrae lead by example, exploring their own vulnerabilities, inner children, and past traumas to heal from the past and break out of toxic patterns. In a time of new beginnings, Brianne and Lorrae encourage us to return to our roots and enjoy the journey of self-discovery. ___Get my favorite vibrator, the Magic Wand Rechargeable and the Magic Wand Mini! You can also get the authentic Magic Wand Original - available at my favorite sex-positive shop.Follow Lorrae:On Instagram at @sluttygrlprobs | @Lorraejo | @thepleasureprovocateurSGP on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokLorrae on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokResources:Join our Patreon for bonus content + extras!Download my free sex-magic ebookApply for 1:1 coaching with Lorrae and visit Lorrae's site for courses and workshopsVisit Slutty Girl Problems for articles on pleasure, intimacy, and connectionConnect with our guest Brianne Hogan via: Instagram | Website | Podcast | Substack | TikTok | Facebook

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    14. BDSM Myths, Erotic Romance Novels, and Reclaiming Sexuality with Crohn's Disease with Jade May

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2023 49:55


    Erotica and romance novel author Jade May guides us through fantasy and storytelling to explore the nuances of kink, and power play all while challenging the conventional perception of BDSM, relationships, and feminism. Jade intimately shares details of her past that have shaped her journey to the present moment. Amidst her battle with Crohn's disease and numerous hospital stays, she discovered the world of erotic literature as both a means of escape and to understand and explore her own desires in fantasy, before bringing them alive in real life. In her latest book, "Tempted By Eden," Jade brings readers into the multifaceted realm of BDSM, artfully demystifying BDSM myths and illustrating the unique qualities and autonomy each relationship has to play by their own rules. Through her work, she destigmatizes kink – affirming that kinks are not always linked to trauma or mental health issues, that submission and feminism can coexist, and that BDSM doesn't have to be rough, inherently sexual, or “all or nothing”. So much variety exists! Jade also shares her intriguing behind-the-scenes experience working at the call center of a high-class escort agency, unveiling a concealed yet bustling world where men may tend to seek emotional connection over mere physicality, and while women often called in a companion to feel desired and boost their confidence. As she weaves her experiences and insights from the industry into her romance writing, she also explores various gateways to pleasure – sharing her perspective on using the Magic wand to discover sexual preferences, or simply to relax and unwind. This episode is a fascinating exploration of kink, intimacy, the intricacies of human desires, and how we explore them in our fantasies *and* in real life.Get my favorite vibrator, the Magic Wand Rechargeable and the Magic Wand Mini! You can also get the authentic Magic Wand Original - available at my favorite sex-positive shop.Follow Lorrae:On Instagram at @sluttygrlprobs | @Lorraejo | @thepleasureprovocateurSGP on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokLorrae on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokResources:Join our Patreon for bonus content + extras!Download my free sex-magic ebookApply for 1:1 coaching with Lorrae and visit Lorrae's site for courses and workshopsVisit Slutty Girl Problems for articles on pleasure, intimacy, and connectionConnect with Jade:Website: www.authorjademay.com IG/TikTok/Facebook

    13. Consent, Agency, and Self-Expression in the Digital World with Megan Wirick

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 14, 2023 37:02


    “The way images circulate on social media has disrupted the connection to our bodies, and to one another.” Queer artist Megan Wirick joins Lorrae to explore how digital devices and spaces have changed our relationship to intimacy, sexuality, and ourselves – and how we can navigate consent and agency in the digital age.Megan's art aims to develop new narratives on creativity, consumerism, beauty, and consent as we shape our digital personas and explore the ethics of content creation, when social media and sharing platforms have blurred the boundaries of clear consent.We also explore how to keep art and intimacy lighthearted, invite playfulness into pleasure, and how toys like the Magic Wand are not only tools for heightened sensation – but can become extensions of ourselves as we seek to expand our pleasure.Join us as we explore the impact of technology and virtual spaces on sex-positive, artistic expression – and how we can utilize both foster self-expression, community, and come to love and embrace our true selves.Get my favorite vibrator, the Magic Wand Rechargeable and the Magic Wand Mini! You can also get the authentic Magic Wand Original - available at my favorite sex-positive shop.Follow Lorrae:On Instagram at @sluttygrlprobs | @Lorraejo | @thepleasureprovocateurSGP on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokLorrae on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokResources:Join our Patreon for bonus content + extras!Download my free sex-magic ebookApply for 1:1 coaching with Lorrae and visit Lorrae's site for courses and workshopsVisit Slutty Girl Problems for articles on pleasure, intimacy, and connectionConnect with our Megan via Instagram for Makeup and Art | and on her Website  

    12. Unveiling the Secrets of Burlesque: Seduction and Power with Evana De Lune

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2023 61:28


    Imagine yourself on stage, bathed in the warm glow of the spotlight. You're feeling confident, sensual, and alive – teasing and tempting the audience. This captivating confidence, this art of seduction – is the power of burlesque.Burlesque is more than just an erotic performance art. It's a way to embrace your sensuality, connect with community, and tap into your desires - both on and off stage. In this episode, Lorrae chats with Evana De Lune, Australian burlesque performer and workshop host, on the history of burlesque, the allure of the taboo, and the power of performance art to feel fully embodied and confident in our erotic selves. We explore how iconic figures like Bettie Page and Dita Von Teese paved the way for future femme fatales to go on an artistic journey of erotic reclamation. Today, inclusivity and empowerment are at the heart of burlesque, with thriving communities that build each other up, regardless of body type, race, nationality, disability, or age. Burlesque gives everyone a voice – a chance to stand center stage and revel in the applause.Get my favorite vibrator, the Magic Wand Rechargeable and the Magic Wand Mini! You can also get the authentic Magic Wand Original - available at my favorite sex-positive shop.Follow Lorrae:On Instagram at @sluttygrlprobs | @Lorraejo | @thepleasureprovocateurSGP on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokLorrae on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokResources:Join our Patreon for bonus content + extras!Download my free sex-magic ebookApply for 1:1 coaching with Lorrae and visit Lorrae's site for courses and workshopsVisit Slutty Girl Problems for articles on pleasure, intimacy, and connectionConnect with Evana:Instagram:  Evana De LuneWebsite: www.evanadelune.comPR: Righteous PRTikTok:  Evana De LuneFacebook:  Evana De Lune Official

    11. Playful and Provocative: Exploring Joy and Eroticism Through Art with Julie Mollo

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2023 44:42


    Where sensuality and creativity flourish, inhibitions fade, and self-expression takes center stage – meet artist Julie Mollo, who creates a lively world of playful and provocative art that reclaims words and celebrates our empowered erotic selves.With a mission to bring smiles through her designs, Julie underscores the role of humor and “winky” nods to erotic innuendos. Sparked by a love for fun, flirty, retro rock 'n' roll aesthetics, Julie's playful creations indulge in subtle eroticism and boldly empowering themes. In this episode, we explore the fusion of art and sensuality, as playfully provocative elements like seashells and eggplants find their place in Julie's designs as cheeky reminders of the pleasure we get to create in our lives – where creativity knows no bounds, and the joy of self-expression takes center stage.Get my favorite vibrator, the Magic Wand Rechargeable and the Magic Wand Mini! You can also get the authentic Magic Wand Original - available at my favorite sex-positive shop.Follow Lorrae:On Instagram at @sluttygrlprobs | @Lorraejo | @thepleasureprovocateurSGP on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokLorrae on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokResources:Join our Patreon for bonus content + extras!Download my free sex-magic ebookApply for 1:1 coaching with Lorrae and visit Lorrae's site for courses and workshopsVisit Slutty Girl Problems for articles on pleasure, intimacy, and connectionConnect with Julie:Website: www.juliemollo.com – Get 15% OFF with code: PLEASUREIG & TikTok: @juliemollo 

    10 BONUS: IOP/PHP Treatment, DBT + IFS Therapy, and Community Support with Erika Moen

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2023 26:47


    Where mental health entwines with sexual expression, desire, and identity - Erika Moen of Oh Joy Sex Toy and Lorrae have a candid conversation about self-acceptance, embracing our quirks and differences, and complexities of navigating pain in a world where we seek to build more pleasure.Self-acceptance and community support are often vital elements in cultivating self-compassion and coming back home to ourselves. In this episode, we shed light on the challenges of learning to see ourselves more lovingly, navigating social media and its impact on mental health, and living an authentic life as we embrace the nature of our own changing relationship to Self over time.We take a personal deep-dive into our own experiences seeking mental health care through IOP/PHP treatment, DBT and IFS therapy, and as we recover, how we can regain our sense of selves AND our relationship to pleasure, eroticisim, and identities as a sexual being. Get my favorite vibrator, the Magic Wand Rechargeable and the Magic Wand Mini! You can also get the authentic Magic Wand Original - available at my favorite sex-positive shop.Follow Lorrae:On Instagram at @sluttygrlprobs | @Lorraejo | @thepleasureprovocateurSGP on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokLorrae on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokResources:Join our Patreon for bonus content + extras!Download my free sex-magic ebookApply for 1:1 coaching with Lorrae and visit Lorrae's site for courses and workshopsVisit Slutty Girl Problems for articles on pleasure, intimacy, and connectionConnect with Erika:Instagram and Threads: @FuckYeahErikaMoenTwitter and Substack: @ErikaMoenOh Joy Sex ToyLet's Talk About It BookOJST's Patreon | Erika's PatreonCelebrate 10 Years of Magic Wand

    10. Unlearning Shame, Exploring Kinks, and Mental Health with Erika Moen of Oh Joy Sex Toy

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 17, 2023 67:57


    Where art meets pleasure, inhibitions fade, and self-discovery reigns supreme – join us on a captivating journey with Erika Moen, the brilliant mind behind Oh Joy Sex Toy, in an intimate conversation as we unravel the tapestry of sex-positive art and it's intersection with our own self-expression.Erika is a trailblazer in the realm of sex positivity and a champion of pleasure, inclusivity, and unapologetic self-expression. We explore the inspirations that ignited the creation of Erika's Oh Joy Sex Toy, a unique comic series that redefines sex education, the exploration of pleasure, and demystifying taboo topics – from niche kinks to myths about reproductive health care. Voyage through the heart of unlearning shame and embodying sex positivity, where Erika shares her personal odyssey in shedding the weight of societal narratives and embracing a world filled with pleasure, while navigating personal identity and how we relate to ourselves as erotic beings. Erika's art dares to illuminate the taboo, sparks curiosity, and invites you to explore the corners of your desires, too. It's a journey that transcends boundaries, inviting you to embrace the joy of toys and their power to become instruments of self-expression. Get my favorite vibrator, the Magic Wand Rechargeable and the Magic Wand Mini! You can also get the authentic Magic Wand Original - available at my favorite sex-positive shop.Follow Lorrae:On Instagram at @sluttygrlprobs | @Lorraejo | @thepleasureprovocateurSGP on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokLorrae on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokResources:Join our Patreon for bonus content + extras!Download my free sex-magic ebookApply for 1:1 coaching with Lorrae and visit Lorrae's site for courses and workshopsVisit Slutty Girl Problems for articles on pleasure, intimacy, and connectionConnect with Erika:Instagram and Threads: @FuckYeahErikaMoenTwitter and Substack: @ErikaMoenOh Joy Sex ToyLet's Talk About It BookOJST's Patreon | Erika's PatreonCelebrate 10 Years of Magic Wand

    9. The Science of Pleasure: The Magic Wand Experiment with Sex Ed with DB

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2023 48:59


    We explore the transformative journey at the crossroads of pleasure, data, and self-discovery with Danielle Bezalel (DB), a renowned sex educator and the host of the "Sex Ed with DB" podcast!In this episode, we delve deep into DB's groundbreaking masturbation study, which explores the intriguing impact of daily Magic Wand use on a variety of data points - from happiness and stress, to strength of orgasms and overall horniness. DB meticulously traced data points encompassing the impact of masturbation on anxiety, confidence, focus, and so much more. This episode unveils unexpected trends as we venture through the study's results – discovering how masturbation leads to a reduction in physical tension and anxiety, increased mood and confidence, and even faster, more enjoyable orgasms.But it's not just about data – we also examine the societal stigma surrounding pleasure and how embracing curiosity can lead to more fulfilling experiences. Danielle shares her own intimate odyssey, underscoring the transformative power of authenticity and unbridled self-expression in her sensuality. Her mission revolves around nurturing fellow travelers on their unique paths and championing a sex-positive ethos. Whether you're drawn to the allure of pleasure's science or contemplating a voyage into sex-positive realms, this episode offers valuable insights and comforting encouragement – all set to awaken your senses and empower your journey.Get my favorite vibrator, the Magic Wand Rechargeable and the Magic Wand Mini! You can also get the authentic Magic Wand Original - available at my favorite sex-positive shop.Follow Lorrae:On Instagram at @sluttygrlprobs | @Lorraejo | @thepleasureprovocateurSGP on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokLorrae on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokResources:Join our Patreon for bonus content + extras!Download my free sex-magic ebookApply for 1:1 coaching with Lorrae and visit Lorrae's site for courses and workshopsVisit Slutty Girl Problems for articles on pleasure, intimacy, and connectionConnect with Danielle:www.sexedwithdb.comMagic Wand ExperimentWorkshop - Building a Profitable Online Sexual Health BrandDanielle's YouTube | Apple Podcasts | Spotify | IG | TikTok | Twitter

    8. Crowdsourcing Pleasure: Success & Authenticity for Sex-Positive Creators

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2023 60:27


    Explore behind-the-scenes of building a sex-positive career, and overcoming the challenges of marketing within the adult industry, when social media limitations and censorship have taken over. Casey Murphy, sex toy industry veteran of 18 years and digital marketing strategist for sexual wellness brands + sex-positive entrepreneurs, shares invaluable guidance on navigating the field and building a thriving sex-positive business. Casey's unique path from the music industry to the intimate world of pleasure products was not only a career transition, but a profound personal transformation. We delve into overcoming shame in our sexuality and emboldening our erotic expression, and as we build careers in the adult industry and create a path toward pleasure and success.We explore the power of embracing authenticity in personal relationships and our online presence, how to avoid burnout and prioritize self-care, and how our unique voice is essential in establishing successful business branding.We also explore how online communities, such as Instagram and Reddit, play a crucial role in crowdsourcing essential sex education, pleasure, and product knowledge. Join us on this enlightening journey into marketing, authenticity, and growth within the pleasure products industry, with profound insights to empower your pleasure and a rare glimpse into an industry often shrouded in mystery.Get my favorite vibrator, the Magic Wand Rechargeable and the Magic Wand Mini! You can also get the authentic Magic Wand Original - available at my favorite sex-positive shop.Follow Lorrae:On Instagram at @sluttygrlprobs | @Lorraejo | @thepleasureprovocateurSGP on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokLorrae on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokResources:Join our Patreon for bonus content + extras!Download my free sex-magic ebookApply for 1:1 coaching with Lorrae and visit Lorrae's site for courses and workshopsVisit Slutty Girl Problems for articles on pleasure, intimacy, and connectionConnect with Casey:thecaseymurphy.comThe Business of Pleasure Podcastthepleasureparlor.comCasey's Instagram | Twitter | Threads | Bluesky

    7. Breaking Stigmas and Sparking Conversations: Art as a Tool for Sexual Empowerment

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2023 49:25


    Art, desire, and the pursuit of pleasure. Join us as we delve into the captivating intersection of craftwork and sexuality, exploring boundaries and igniting sultry conversation starters that stir the senses and spark intriguing discussions.Intimately connect with Nicole Ortiz, the enchanting artist and visionary behind GrlPwrArt, your ultimate online destination for mini Magic-Wand earrings and cute kewpie accessories. In this captivating conversation, we go deep into Nicole's firsthand experiences working at the Museum of Sex, where her passionate support for the sexually curious guides visitors to embrace their deepest desires. Plus, we explore the blossoming sensations that awaken within visitors as they enter the immersive realm of the museum!Throughout this episode, our conversation delves into the importance of cultivating an atmosphere of sex-positive acceptance and providing open and accessible sex education in a society that often stifles the flames of sexual enlightenment.We also explore Nicole's captivating artistic process as she reveals her unique approach to infusing art and jewelry with sex-positive imagery. With a seductive emphasis on consent and open dialogue, we explore the allure of adorning oneself with sexually charged art, where each piece becomes a cherished symbol of honor and intrigue. Join us on a journey of self-expression, empowerment, and the celebration of sensuality!Get my favorite vibrator, the Magic Wand Rechargeable and the Magic Wand Mini! You can also get the authentic Magic Wand Original - available at my favorite sex-positive shop.Follow Lorrae:On Instagram at @sluttygrlprobs | @Lorraejo | @thepleasureprovocateurSGP on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokLorrae on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokResources:Join our Patreon for bonus content + extras!Download my free sex-magic ebookApply for 1:1 coaching with Lorrae and visit Lorrae's site for courses and workshopsVisit Slutty Girl Problems for articles on pleasure, intimacy, and connectionConnect with Nicole of GrlPwrArt:IG - @GrlPwrArt Linktree: linktr.ee/grlpwrart 

    6. Instagram's Sex-Positive Bans: Silencing Empowerment & Expression

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2023 20:56


    Instagram recently deactivated hundreds of sex-positive creators' accounts, including my own personal (@Lorraejo). The impact is far-reaching, extending beyond creators to society as a whole, diminishing access to sex-positive content, community, activism, and empowerment for all, and limiting our personal expression of our identities. This censorship and suppression also impacts creators (and their teams) livelihoods, and has wider implications for marginalized groups, limiting their ability to organize, advocate, and build communities. It's disheartening to see the spaces for expression, acceptance, and support being taken away from everyone, as the digital landscape becomes more and more censored.My personal IG has been the primary place where I connect with you all — a loss greatly hampers my ability to create solo episodes, as it's the main place where I share them with you. I'm hopeful for its reinstatement, and I am exploring other channels to continue sharing, but in the meantime, am taking a short break from solo episodes while this all gets sorted out. Guest episodes will return in September :) I am truly grateful for the incredible support I have received from our empowering community, and stay tuned for further updates!How you can help! On Instagram, shake your phone to submit a report (or go to Profile → Settings → Help/Support) to advocate for @Lorraejo and other sex-positive accounts to be reinstated. These accounts help the world with activism, advocacy, education, empowerment, and community. Our collective voices and vital to ensure free, sex-positive expression on the web!Get my favorite vibrator, the Magic Wand Rechargeable and the Magic Wand Mini! You can also get the authentic Magic Wand Original - available at my favorite sex-positive shop.Follow Lorrae:On Instagram at @sluttygrlprobs | @Lorraejo | @thepleasureprovocateurSGP on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokLorrae on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokResources:Join our Patreon for bonus content + extras!Download my free sex-magic ebookApply for 1:1 coaching with Lorrae and visit Lorrae's site for courses and workshopsVisit Slutty Girl Problems for articles on pleasure, intimacy, and connection

    5. Bedazzled Pleasure: Queer Joy, Self-Love and Creative Self-Expression

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2023 60:39


    Join us on a journey of self-discovery, sensuality, and creative expression. In this episode, we unveil the power of self-expression and authenticity, explore the transformative strength inherent in artistic expression, and delve into art's capacity to serve as a catalyst for healing, self-love, and liberation. Immerse yourself in conversations and enchanting stories with Alex Simon, extraordinary artist and founder of Make Good Choices, a one-stop-shop for all things ceramic, sparkly, and spirited. In this episode, we venture into the depths of the human experience, uncovering the hidden nuances of artistic processes intertwined with her own personal voyage of self-discovery.Dive into the whimsical and euphoric facets of the creative process, while discovering how the infusion of intentional rituals into your daily habits can bring forth a sense of pleasure and presence.Witness the significance of rituals and routines in nurturing creative momentum, and gain insight into how Alex's ceramic art serves as a profound medium for self-exploration and love. Our hope is that this episode kindles a flame of inspiration within you, encouraging you to embrace your own unique journey of self-expression, while finding joy and beauty in the rituals that breathe life into your everyday existence.In this episode, we explore:The deep connection between art, sexuality, and personal growth The hidden nuances of artistic processes and self-discoveryHow pottery becomes a channel for sensual expression and self-acceptanceThe powerful link between astrology, emotion, and personal transformationThe significance of nurturing sacred queer spaces, fostering consent and community, and embracing authenticityEnchanting rituals to infuse your everyday life with joy and sensualityGet my favorite vibrator, the Magic Wand Rechargeable and the Magic Wand Mini! You can also get the authentic Magic Wand Original - available at my favorite sex-positive shop.Follow Lorrae:On Instagram at @sluttygrlprobs | @Lorraejo | @thepleasureprovocateurSGP on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokLorrae on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokResources:Join our Patreon for bonus content + extras!Download my free sex-magic ebookApply for 1:1 coaching with Lorrae and visit Lorrae's site for courses and workshopsVisit Slutty Girl Problems for articles on pleasure, intimacy, and connectionConnect with Alex of Make Good Choices:IG - @makegoodchoices TikTok - @makegoodchoicesshopWebsite: www.makegoodchoicesshop.com 

    4. Sexuality, Spirituality, and Divination with Vibrating Tarot

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2023 47:52


    Embark on an exploration of pleasure and presence as we dive into the visionary world of Frank Lawrence and his creation, the Vibrating Tarot deck. This unique twist on the timeless practice of tarot takes us on a pleasure-forward journey like no other. In this episode, Lorrae engages in a mesmerizing conversation with Frank, where they venture into a realm where spirituality, divination, sex, and love intersect.Drawing upon the rich concepts of symbolism, sexuality, and self-discovery, Lorrae and Frank dive deep into the profound significance of pleasure in our lives and its divine alignment with the art of tarot card readings. Prepare to be inspired as Frank shares the very essence of his vision. He reveals the meaningful placement of pleasure products, like the Magic Wand, on his tarot cards, as well as guides you through his personal voyage of exploring the inspirational sparks that led to Vibrating Tarot.Join the conversation as we delve into the transformative power of creative processes, witnessing firsthand how ideas evolve and flourish. Plus, discover the inherent value of feedback and interaction within your own community, as Lorrae and Frank shed light on the collaborative nature of their own passion projects while uncovering the delicate balance of active engagement and stepping away to let ideas mature and evolve.In this episode, we explore:The intersection of sexuality, divination, spiritual tools, and symbolismFrank's personal journey and inspirationsSexual awakening and stripping away shameThe role of dreams and intuition in creative processesThe importance of engaging with community How life cycles through highs and lows Get my favorite vibrator, the Magic Wand Rechargeable and the Magic Wand Mini! You can also get the authentic Magic Wand Original - available at my favorite sex-positive shop.Follow Lorrae:On Instagram at @sluttygrlprobs | @Lorraejo | @thepleasureprovocateurSGP on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokLorrae on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokResources:Join our Patreon for bonus content + extras!Download my free sex-magic ebookApply for 1:1 coaching with Lorrae and visit Lorrae's site for courses and workshopsVisit Slutty Girl Problems for articles on pleasure, intimacy, and connectionConnect with Frank of Vibrating Tarot:Crowdfunding with BackerKit Pre-Launch Mailing ListWebsite: www.vibratingtarot.com, www.pallorpublishing.com/vibrating-tarot-homeAll Social Media: @VibratingTarot

    3. Tools for Rebirth: Healing Trauma, Setting Boundaries, and Embracing Growth

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2023 28:47


    Step into the raw realities of the rebirth journey and discover new tools to navigate big shifts in your life, as you transform your relationships, set boundaries, and follow your intuition. In this episode, Lorrae unveils personal experiences and offers insights on navigating toxic relationships, setting boundaries, and following your intuition as you embark on the challenging yet ultimately rewarding process of rebirth. Lorrae illuminates the transformation process, as we build our birth team, acquire tools for growth, and prioritize ourselves — reconnecting with intuition, extending self-compassion, and following our passions with excitement and curiosity. We also explore how to identify toxic relationships that hinder personal growth, advocate for ourselves, and set boundaries to protect our emotional well-being.If you are seeking guidance and inspiration on your own path of rebirth, this episode is a must-listen.In this episode, we exploreBuilding your birth teamNavigating relationships + setting boundariesPreparing yourself with tools + knowledgePrioritizing yourself + Reconnecting with your intuitionSelf-trust and self-compassionFollowing your passion, excitement, and curiosityGet my favorite vibrator, the Magic Wand Rechargeable and the Magic Wand Mini! You can also get the authentic Magic Wand Original - available at my favorite sex-positive shop.Follow Lorrae:On Instagram at @sluttygrlprobs | @Lorraejo | @thepleasureprovocateurSGP on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokLorrae on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokResources:Join our Patreon for bonus content + extras!Download my free sex-magic ebookApply for 1:1 coaching with Lorrae and visit Lorrae's site for courses and workshopsVisit Slutty Girl Problems for articles on pleasure, intimacy, and connection

    2. Rebelling & Breaking Taboos: Sexuality and Society through Erotic Art

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2023 44:30


    Rebel against mainstream narratives and embrace the power of self-expression through sex-positive art. Today, Lorrae is joined by Kayla, the masterful artist and rebellious soul behind Midnight Rose Rebellion, who pushes societal norms and expectations through her captivating stained glass masterpieces that literally drip with pleasure. Together, Kayla and Lorrae explore how we can empower ourselves by embracing our truth, honoring our uniqueness, and staying connected to pleasure in a world that often disconnects us from our bodies and each other. From the irreplaceable value of vulnerability, laughter, and play in intimacy and connection, to the importance of representation and bringing visibility to our sexual expression, this thought-provoking conversation challenges our personal perceptions as we explore the intersection of sexuality and personal growth. We dive deep into the philosophy of pleasure, exploring how we can celebrate our messy, imperfect, authentic selves — and through our own vulnerability and self-expression, we inspire others to let go of societal norms and live their own truths with self-love.Join us for a refreshingly raw and equally inspiring conversation.In this episode, we exploreHow sex-positive art is an act of rebellion that challenges mainstream perceptionsCreating community and a sense of belonging through our self-expression by celebrating sexualityThe profound connection between nature, sensuality, art, and the absence of shameEmbracing playfulness in intimate relationships for deeper connectionLetting go of stigma and shame through more openness and visibilityConnecting to our bodies and loving our authentic selves as we prioritize pleasureEmbracing our imperfections and staying true to ourselvesGet my favorite vibrator, the Magic Wand Rechargeable and the Magic Wand Mini! You can also get the authentic Magic Wand Original - available at my favorite sex-positive shop.Follow Lorrae:On Instagram at @sluttygrlprobs | @Lorraejo | @thepleasureprovocateurSGP on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokLorrae on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokResources:Join our Patreon for bonus content + extras!Download my free sex-magic ebookApply for 1:1 coaching with Lorrae and visit Lorrae's site for courses and workshopsVisit Slutty Girl Problems for articles on pleasure, intimacy, and connectionConnect with Kayla of Midnight Rose Rebellion:@midnight.rose.rebellionwww.midnightroserebellion.com 

    1. The Messy Rebirth Journey: From Illusion to Transformation

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2023 27:07


    Step away from the polished mirage on social media and uncover the real, raw truth behind the filters, rose petals, and perfectly curated images. Join Lorrae as she sheds light on the messy AF moments that go unspoken, and dives deep into the trenches of transformation on the personal growth journey.In this episode, Lorrae shares her personal journey of self-discovery, struggles with unhealthy relationship dynamics, patterns of burnout in work, and negative self-beliefs — exploring how our patterns impact our lives, and our growth on the journey to break free from them.Challenge the notion that the rebirth process is a linear, picture-perfect story and surrender to the beautifully messy reality of healing, where authenticity and self-discovery thrive as we embrace discomfort, dismantle old beliefs, and trust the process of our transformation.In this episode, we exploreCatalysts for changeThe messy AF reality of growthEmbracing the unknownRediscovering our new selfFollow Lorrae:On Instagram at @sluttygrlprobs | @Lorraejo | @thepleasureprovocateurSGP on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokLorrae on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokResources:Join our Patreon for bonus content + extras!Download my free sex-magic ebookApply for 1:1 coaching with Lorrae and visit Lorrae's site for courses and workshopsVisit Slutty Girl Problems for articles on pleasure, intimacy, and connection

    Welcome to The Pleasure Provocateur: Empowering Erotic Exploration

    Play Episode Listen Later May 24, 2023 1:39 Transcription Available


    Dive into a world of authentic erotic exploration and liberation with Lorrae Bradbury, erotic embodiment coach and your podcast host. Join Lorrae on a transformative journey to break free from societal norms and empower your pleasure with weekly episodes.Uncover the intersection of sex, society, and self-expression — as we explore topics from kink and non-monogamy to trauma-informed healing and mental health, to support you to embrace your desires and uncover new realms of pleasure. With captivating conversations, expert insights, and accessible tools to empower your pleasure — embark on a path of self-expression and sensual liberation as you connect with your erotic essence and embrace your authentic self.Follow Lorrae:On Instagram at @sluttygrlprobs | @Lorraejo | @thepleasureprovocateurSGP on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokLorrae on Twitter | Facebook | TikTokResources:Join our Patreon for bonus content + extras!Download my free sex-magic ebookApply for 1:1 coaching with Lorrae and visit Lorrae's site for courses and workshopsVisit Slutty Girl Problems for articles on pleasure, intimacy, and connectionSubscribe for weekly episodes and boundless pleasure.

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