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EMA's latest podcast is Confidently You: Women in Leadership, designed to support women working in independent schools who are or want to become leaders. The podcast is hosted by Lynne Macziewski from The Baldwin School and Rebecca Malotke-Meslin of Pleasantly Aggressive Coaching & Consulting. We engage in thoughtful discussions about our experiences as women leaders to demystify the path to leadership and provide valuable resources in our field.

Rebecca Malotke-Meslin & Lynne Macziewski


    • May 19, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 39m AVG DURATION
    • 28 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from Confidently You: Women in Leadership

    Shaping the Future of All-Girls Education

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2025 29:25


    On this episode of Confidently You, we're joined by Megan Murphy, Global Executive Director of The International Coalition of Girls' School, also known as ICGS. We discuss the evolution of ICGS and its new Global Leadership Institute, a one-year fellowship for girl-serving educators and professionals to advance their expertise in leadership. 

    Headspace: Polly Fredlund

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2025 52:11


    On this episode of Confidently You, we're joined by  Polly Fredlund, Head of School at Westover School, an all-girls boarding and day school for grades 9-12 in Middlebury, CT. Polly is an independent school leader with over twenty-five years of experience working in schools as an Assistant Head of School, Director of Admissions and Financial Aid, Assistant Director of Upper School, English teacher, coach, outdoor leader, and advisor. We're speaking with Polly about her journey to headship. She shares some of the toughest moments in her career and how it led her to the leader she is today.

    Unlocking Your Leadership with Listening

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2025 34:22


    On this episode of Confidently You, we're joined by Liza Garonzik, founder and CEO of R.E.A.L Discussion. We're talking with Liza about her career in and around independent schools, her path to entrepreneurship, and how listening is the key to unlocking your leadership capabilities.

    Vulnerability & Inclusivity

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2024 46:10


    On this episode of Confidently You, we're joined by Cheryl Schenk, Director of Enrollment Management at Eastside Preparatory School, in Kirkland, Washington, just outside of Seattle. We're discussing with Cheryl what it means to be an authentic and vulnerable leader and how she cultivates an inclusive community at Eastside Prep.    

    Stronger Together: Women Supporting Women [S3:E1]

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 14, 2024 47:24


    On this episode of Confidently You, we're joined by a team of women leaders from the Browning School, an all-boys K-12 day school in New York City. Our guests are Jan Abernathy, Chief Communications Officer, Janet Lien, Assistant Head of School and Director of Enrollment, and Kelly West, Director of Admissions. We're discussing creating a culture within their administration that supports women leaders. Whether they are giving each other their flowers, setting healthy boundaries, or letting go of perfectionism and the scarcity mindset, we can all learn more about the role we each play in supporting the women around us. 

    Authentically Embracing Risk

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2024 40:23


    On this episode of Confidently You, we're joined by Claire Goldsmith. Claire is an educational innovation and strategy consultant for schools and non-profits through her company, Lamplight Education. She is also the Chair of the EMA Board of Trustees. We're excited to discuss Claire's career journey, being a thought leader in Ed Tech, and her experiences serving on Boards.

    Wellness and Belonging

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2024 40:30


    On this episode of Confidently You, we're joined by Dr. Susan Perry, Associate Head of School for Wellness and Belonging at Forsyth Country Day School in Lewisville, North Carolina, and Senior Consultant for EXPLO Elevate. We're excited to discuss Susan's career, the role wellness and belonging play in our school community, and what potential this new model has to create healthy, sustainable schools.

    Headspace: Dr. Autumn Graves

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2024 40:01


    On this episode of Headspace, we're joined by Dr. Autumn Graves, Head of School at St. Anne's-Belfield in Charlottesville, VA. Her leadership extends beyond her own school - Dr, Graves is the Vice Chair of the Board of Trustees of SAIS, she sits on the Board of Directors of the 1911 Group, and is also a Board member of Leadership + Design. We're excited to discuss Dr. Graves's career and her thoughts on how mentorship, sponsorship, and partnership support successful leadership.

    Connecting Women Leaders

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2024 38:47


    In this episode, we're joined by Jen Evers, Executive Director of The Heads Network and former Director of Strategic Initiatives & Professional Development at the International Coalition of Girls Schools. We're going to talk about Jen's career with independent schools and associations, her future with The Heads Network, and how we can all work together to help women lead authentically. 

    Elevating Your Leadership

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2024 41:45


    On this episode, we're joined by Whitney Soule, Vice Provost and Dean of Admissions at the University of Pennsylvania. Whitney shares her career journey through higher ed, what she has learned in the first few years of her current position, and how she has led a team through tumultuous times.

    Headspace: Jodi Grass

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2024 31:33


    On this episode of Headspace, we're joined by Jodi Grass, the Head of The Oak Grove School in Ojai, California. Jodi has been Head of School for seven years but has been a part of the Oak Grove Community for 17 years. Listen in as we learn more about her path to leadership, how her values align with Oak Grove's mission, and how she has navigated big changes at a small school.  

    Wise Women with Donna Orem [S2.E4]

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2023 43:38


    In this episode, we're joined by Donna Orem. Donna became president of NAIS in 2016. Before that, she served as NAIS's chief operating officer for 11 years. But, she began at NAIS in 1998 as the vice president for educational leadership and later became the vice president for strategic initiatives and research. Now, 25 years later, Donna is heading into the next chapter in her career: retirement. Today, Donna shares her wisdom with us, along with some real talk about the progress toward gender equity of leadership in independent schools and where we can go from here.

    Demystifying the Search Process: Part II [S2:E3]

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2023 38:50


    Welcome to part two of our conversation with Meera Shah and Amy Richards from Educational Directions. We are Demystifying the Search Process for women leaders in independent schools. In this episode, we're talking about the nuts and bolts of the process, the role of the search firm versus the search committee, what materials you'll need to prepare, and how to navigate the process with confidence.

    Hiring and Getting Hired [S2.E1]

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 21, 2023 48:19


    In this episode, we're joined by Rebecca Taylor, Director of Human Resources at Georgetown Day School. After spending ten years as a Director of Human Resources at an independent school in North Carolina, Rebecca joined GDS in 2022 to help create a comprehensive Human Resources function. We're going to talk about the important leadership skill of hiring as well as what to think about when applying and interviewing for new positions. We're also asking Rebecca to share great hiring practices to help build a healthy culture to promote inclusion and retention in your schools.

    Demystifying the Search Process: Part I [S2:E2]

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2023 44:30


    In this episode, we're joined by Meera Shah and Amy Richards from Educational Directions, a nationally recognized consulting firm for independent schools specializing in searches for heads of schools and administrators. With Meera and Amy's help, we'll peek behind the curtain of the independent school search process. This is a big topic, so we decided to break it into two episodes. In Part I, we'll hear about Meera and Amy's personal leadership stories. We'll also discuss how to be intentional about career planning and what these search consultants wish candidates knew before, during, and after the process.

    Women & EMA's 2023 State of the Independent School Enrollment Industry Report

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 29, 2023 38:47


    In this episode, Lynne and I are sharing our thoughts on the 2023 State of the Independent School Enrollment Industry Report, also known as the SOTI.  We talked about three areas highlighted in the SOTI and their impact on women:  1. What do enrollment leaders need to be successful? 2. What is the career journey for today's enrollment professional? 3. Real talk about the gender gap for men and women admission directors. This report is the Enrollment Management Association's (EMA) flagship research project providing a snapshot of the enrollment management industry about every three years. The 2023 update is EMA's fourth edition of the report. EMA members can view the full report and access the SOTI Data Dashboard at enrolllment.org in the Member Community.     

    Headspace

    Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2023 35:27


    This episode is part of a new series we're calling Headspace, where we interview Women Heads across independent schools. Our first Headspace guest is Anne Stavney, Head of School at the Blake School in Minneapolis, MN, where she has served as their Head since 2012. We discussed Anne's history with independent schools, the key to her success as a leader with many priorities, and how she has been a champion for women leaders in her role as Head. 

    Innovative Leadership

    Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2023 42:35


    In this episode, we're joined by Heather Hoerle, Executive Director & Chief Executive Officer of The Enrollment Management Association. Heather became EMA's executive director in 2011. Working with the leadership team, she sets a clear direction for the staff, inspiring gold-standard service for our constituents and pushing for us to continuously innovate. Externally, in her work with schools and the wider education sector, she aims to advance the profession of enrollment management and empower individual professionals. We're going to talk about Heather's career, her steadfast support of women in leadership, and the ways she's innovating at EMA.

    Valuing the Outside-In Perspective

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 2, 2023 36:45


    In this episode, we're joined by Penny Abrahams, Senior Consultant with Independent School Management. Penny first joined ISM in 2010 as a member of the Advancement Academy's founding faculty. As a Senior Consultant, she specializes in marketing communications, enrollment management, and development. Her experience in these areas comes from working in private-independent schools and other non-profits for more than 20 years.  Being a strong leader means knowing when to consider working with an outside organization to help you achieve your goals. Penny shares with us how she supports schools, their advancement teams, and women leaders in order to maximize their impact. 

    Leading Teams with Confidence and Kindness

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2023 42:32


    In this episode, we are talking with Susanne Carpenter, Founder and Principal of Carpenter Leadership Consulting, a firm focused on strategy, organizational development, and leadership performance for independent schools. She is also the proud graduate of an independent school, an independent school trustee, and a champion for these schools. Susanne knows first-hand how education has been disrupted in the last couple of years. Her goal is to help align independent school leaders' vision with goals and to build the best schools possible. Leadership needs support as they transition into this new era. 

    Reimagining the Education of Leaders

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2023 33:04


    Today, we're joined by Dr. Carrie Grimes, Assistant Professor and Director of the Independent School Leadership Graduate Program at Vanderbilt University's Peabody College. At Peabody, Carrie serves as a faculty member across different graduate programs in the department of Leadership Policy and Organization in addition to her role as Program Director of the Independent School leadership master's degree program. Carrie is here to share with us the exciting research and changes at Peabody that have led to an increase in women joining the Independent School Leadership Graduate Program. These intentional changes are a reimagining of not only the training of our leaders but also leadership itself.  

    The Struggle is Real: Avoiding & Managing Burnout in Admissions​

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2023 47:33


    We recorded this episode at EMA's Annual Conference in Orlando.  In this episode, we're joined by Lauren Lewis Director of Enrollment Management at the Advent School in Massachusetts, and Laura Burgess from Senior Associate Director of Admissions at Tabor Academy in Massachusetts. Lauren and Laura presented the session The Struggle is Real: Avoiding & Managing Burnout in Admissions. The title says it all! They are here to share their own experiences but also create a space for women in schools to talk about the symptoms of burnout, why working in a school is a unique and all-consuming environment, and why it is different for women and people of color and what we can do to prevent, manage and recover from burnout together.

    Women of Color Power Hour

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 8, 2022 40:40


    We recorded this episode at EMA's Annual Conference in Orlando.  In this episode, we're joined by Susan Mantilla-Goin, Dean of Enrollment Management at the Pomfret School in Connecticut, and Vivien Valenzuela Mallick Director of Admission and Financial Aid at The Bishop's School in La Jolla, California. During the annual conference, Vivien and Susan hosted the Women of Color Power Hour. This session gave these two long-time friends, former colleagues, and veterans in the field an opportunity to share how they earned their leadership positions by possessing the experience, knowledge, skills, and vision to meet their schools' enrollment goals. They're hoping to help women of color use their voice and bring their authentic selves to work so that they can confidently share their perspectives which are underrepresented at predominantly white institutions.

    Tooting Your Own Horn

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 24, 2022 42:55


    In this episode, we're talking with Angela Brown, Assistant Head for Admission and Strategic Initiatives at Dana Hall School. Angela is here to talk with us about claiming your achievements, tooting your own horn, and making strategic career moves. Angela shares her personal experiences as well as tried and true ways that women can overcome their fears of self-promotion to advance their careers.

    Parenting and Leading at School

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 10, 2022 39:11


    In this episode, we're talking with Bethany Burgun, Director of Mission Advancement at Saint Joseph High School in South Bend, Indiana. Bethany is here to talk with us about the complexities of being a school leader while also having your children enrolled in your school. While it can be incredibly rewarding it can also bring on stress, and impact your relationships with colleagues and employees.

    Staying In It

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 27, 2022 26:45


    In this episode, we're talking with Frankie Brown, Assistant Head of School for Enrollment Management and Financial Aid at Sidwell Friends School in Washington DC. Frankie is here to speak with us about the space between being a leader while still needing to be led, managing up while also creating a path for others to follow in your footsteps, and how leadership still looks different for women and women of color in independent schools.

    Building Meaningful Relationships to Advance Your Career

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2022 31:20


    Join Lynne and Rebecca as they discuss building meaningful relationships with people who can help advance your career. While we'd like to think we can do it all by ourselves, let's be real.  You need to create a network around you of colleagues, influencers, decision-makers, and mentors to achieve success in your current role and when reaching for that next rung on the ladder. They share different ways you can get started building those relationships. 

    How to be a Better Risk-Taker

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2022 39:04


    In this episode, we're talking with Debra Wilson, President of the Southern Association of Independent Schools (SAIS). Debra is here to talk with us about trends in headships for women, the challenges women still face when ascending into leadership, and how to gain experience and confidence to take on your next leadership role.

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