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Yay or Nay (but only news about black people) Black Creators you should follow: TikTok: @Kahlilgreene, @theconsciouslee, @isabelleleeanne, @tjasminesgarden23, @abnshark901, @ebonie_qt, @d0nnaallseeingeye, @kitarose_ @terrykaye, @glam_melanin, @jazmynjw, @mike.dynamo, @daturajonez, @ideffoverthink, @chef_joely, @twellis Youtube: Intexual Media, For Harriet, Khadija Mbowe, Medina Pendulum, F.D Signifier, Instagram: @thesamurider @blackforager Books: https://www.vogue.com/article/9-writers-book-recommendations-for-black-history-month https://www.shondaland.com/inspire/books/g30771264/must-read-books-black-history-month/ Black History Month tips: https://www.history.com/topics/black-history/black-history-month Black History figures: https://www.history.com/topics/black-history/black-history-month Follow us: @lady_blerd94 @NikkiAliMuse --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
We answer those 36 questions that lead to love even though you're supposed to do it with strangers and not with best friends you've known 18 years. :D (Spoilers, it gets emotional) A hotline to help (if you listen you'll know): 800-273-8255 Try it out with your own friends: https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/36-questions-to-fall-in-love Follow us: @NikkiAliMuse @lady_blerd94 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
To the Men who listen to this podcast, or a woman who wants better for a man, please give him this message: He deserves more than how a misogynist will limit him. Works Cited: Time Article: https://time.com/6104105/more-single-men-than-women/ Statistics on Single Motherhood: https://www.bizjournals.com/bizwomen/news/latest-news/2017/09/millennials-first-in-single-mother-households.html?page=all Research on Men and Women gap in colleges: https://www.nytimes.com/2021/09/09/upshot/college-admissions-men.html Research on Mental Health Help gap: https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/products/databriefs/db380.htm#:~:text=Interview%20Survey%2C%202019.-,Women%20were%20more%20likely%20than%20men%20to%20have%20received%20any,of%20men%20(Figure%202). Divorce Rates: https://www.goldbergjones-wa.com/divorce/divorce-by-generation/#:~:text=Baby%20Boomers%20continue%20to%20divorce,that%20number%20more%20than%20tripled. Neurological differences: https://stanmed.stanford.edu/2017spring/how-mens-and-womens-brains-are-different.html Feminist or Meninist: https://www.buzzfeed.com/sarahburton/feminist-or-meninist Follow us: @NikkiAliMuse @lady_blerd94 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
How to Actually Accomplish your New Year Resolutions this year Decent Advice from Decent People (Reddit Relationships and Am I The Asshole?) Follow us! @NikkiAliMuse @lady_blerd94 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Yay or Nay (I lied on accident, that man V broke the record for reaching 10 million followers, not 100,000) (Also, don't get arrested in an Applebees, that's embarrassing) A rapid fire advice session on how to survive different parties you may or may not want to attend Link to the game I forgot the name of: https://www.werenotreallystrangers.com/products/not-really-strangers-card-deck Reddit Relationships Advice! Follow us @NikkiAliMuse @lady_blerd94 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Yay or Nay (RIP to all of the victims of the Kentucky, to help click the link: https://www.nytimes.com/2021/12/12/us/how-to-help-victims-of-the-tornadoes.html) Work in America, finding a good job is a job in itself Follow us @NikkiAliMuse @lady_blerd94 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Yay or Nay (this is not what we meant by let's get back to normal) How to know you're making the right Reboot Follow us @lady_blerd94 @NikkiAliMuse --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Yay or Nay (Not a lot to choose from) The Origins of Black Friday, does it really save you money? Can We stay within our $1,500 shopping limit? (A Buzzfeed quiz) Follow us! @lady_blerd94 @NikkiAliMuse --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Yay or Nay (All the politics) Boomers V. Millennials V. Zoomers What Time Period do you Belong in Quiz Some Clapbacks for your family --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Yay or Nay (Ya'll started off November wild) Why does Society Hate Thanksgiving (And should we?) What Thanksgiving Foods Say About Your Personality: https://www.buzzfeed.com/shelbyheinrich/yuck-yum-thanksgiving-food Follow us: @lady_blerd94 @NikkiAliMuse --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
In which BelMars tells us some scary stories Follow us @NikkiAliMuse @lady_blerd94 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
BelMars tells us the story of Adolfo Constanzo and his journey into the religion of Palo Mayombe We give you heartwarming stories so you don't have nightmares after Follow us @NikkiAliMuse @lady_blerd94 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Yay or Nay (The Racism was Strong this Week) The (and Our) History of Halloween (Around the World) What Costume Should we Wear this Halloween? Follow us! @lady_blerd94 @NikkiAliMuse --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Yay or Nay (From Bisexual Comic Book Characters to weirdos insulting the dead) The "Taboo" or creepy things we like (yes, even NikkiAli) Would We Survive in a Horror Movie or the Salem Witch Trials (the answer will shock you!) Follow us: @NikkiAliMuse @lady_blerd94 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Yay or Nay (Ya'll we're kind of weird this week) Fairytales (and why the modern ones for kids teach them nothing) We pitch you our own fairytale movies (pick a winner!) Follow us: @lady_blerd94 @NikkiAliMuse --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Yay or Nay (Awful People Being Awful Edition) Horror Film Analysis (Why do ya'll want to have sex with monsters?) F**k, Marry, Kill (With Horror Movie Villains) Follow us! @NikkiAliMuse @lady_blerd94 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Yay or Nay (The News Game) Missing White Woman Syndrome Stories to Restore Your Faith in Humanity Donate to Black and Missing if it moves you: https://blackandmissinginc.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Yay or Nay News Game (Celebrity Edition, mostly) All the Problems of Hollywood Thirst Trap (oh and we take a quiz) Follow us: @NikkiAliMuse @lady_blerd94 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Yay or Nay (If you're a Naysayer despite the Pfizer FDA approval, than you just need to say so) A little (long, sorry) lesson in Astrology We don't know Astrology History, sorry. Discover your natal chart: https://astro.cafeastrology.com/natal.php Follow us: @NikkiAliMuse @lady_blerd94 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Yay or Nay (The University of Virginia said ya'll don't have to go home, but...) Back to School (Wow, we wrote a thesis, child) and Everything Wrong with the American Education System Are You Smarter than a 5th Grader (and maybe Texas Education isn't that bad, but still pretty bad) Works Cited: Statistics for American Education https://nces.ed.gov/pubs2021/2021144.pdf Where we Rank in the World: https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/education-rankings-by-country What's Wrong According to a Teacher: https://www.cato.org/cato-journal/winter-2018/teachers-perspective-whats-wrong-our-schools#ethical-expedience Follow us: @lady_blerd94 @NikkiAliMuse --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Yay or Nay (Yay to Don Cheadle calling out Kevin Hart) Is Hustle Culture Dead? (And why the "I Don't Dream of Labor" Movement can be a good or bad thing depending on how you define it) Middle School Games (MASH, spoilers: why did we both end up in Shacks :( Follow us @NikkiAliMuse @lady_blerd94 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Yay or Nay (Yay to all the black people who won Olympic medals) Why get married and Why stick to Wedding traditions (hint: don't) We plan our own weddings (Think we'll stay in budget) Thinking about getting married? check out OffBeat bride for ideas! https://offbeatbride.com/ Follow us: @lady_blerd94 @NikkiAliMuse --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Yay or Nay (I know Cancel Culture doesn't actually exist, but can we please cancel DaBaby?) How we found our passions (and how you can find yours, follow these steps I got from TikToker @ritajoyanunboxyourgift) 1. What did you enjoy doing as a kid and why (for you inner child) 2. What hobbies, skills and talents do you have that you enjoy and why? (Current skillsets) 3. What contribution do you want to make and why? (Future goal outside of yourself that creates fulfillment) Take the career aptitude test we took: https://www.truity.com/test-results-all/2839/19112796 And follow us on social media! @lady_blerd94 @NikkiAliMuse --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Yay or Nay (but it was so long it's a bonus episode) --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
The Conspiracy Theories ya'll apparently believe in (with some agreement from us) Are we True Conspiracy Theorists Follow us! @NikkiAliMuse @lady_blerd94 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Yay or Nay Game (Why does Texas keep ending up in the news?) Things we should keep post-pandemic (aka. Keep Social Distancing and Let me Work from Home) Advice for the Reddit Girls Follow us @NikkiAliMuse @lady_blerd94 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
I mean ya'll seem to like these, so... (Everything from why Obama was only a comparatively good president to why women should never propose to men) We are apparently not like other girls (and we kind of hate it???) Follow us! @lady_blerd94 @NikkiAliMuse --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
3 pieces of advice you're going to have to work towards from NikkiAli --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
The Yay or Nay news game (aka. we asked for #letherrun not #FreeBillCosby) Decide who would win in a fight internet: Identical Twins with scissors for hands that can shoot fireballs OR a Nigerian prince who can control plants and is armed with a sadness ray? Follow us on social media and let us know your answer: @NikkiAliMuse @lady_blerd94 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Why did ya'll create so much news this week (The Yay or Nay news game) Companies you should not support (or politicians) Learn more about how to help the Surfside Condo collapse in Miami here: https://www.gofundme.com/c/act/surfside-condo-collapse-fundraisers Follow us: @NikkiAliG @lady_blerd94 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
The History of Juneteenth How can you celebrate? There's no one right way to be black (but it's fun to find out what can get your black card revoked) Follow us: @lady_blerd94 @NikkiAliMuse --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Yay or Nay News segment (ya'll did a lot of shit this week) What our Daddies mean to us and what to get them Follow us on social @lady_blerd94 @NikkiAliMuse --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Yay or Nay with the News Some of the Wonderful things the LGBTQ+ community has given us Terrible Advice for the Reddit Girls Links! https://www.advocate.com/media/2019/5/17/12-gay-lgbtq-podcasts-you-should-be-listening#media-gallery-media-2 Social @lady_blerd94 @NikkiAliMuse Bye!~ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Gender vs. Sexual Identity Giving the Middle Finger to the Homophobes Advice for the (LGBTIA+) Reddit (Insert Pronoun) Learn more About Gays of Chick-fil-A @Natetambo Learn more about Marsha P Johnson https://marshap.org/about-mpji/ Learn more about the travesties affecting our Black Trans Women https://www.hrc.org/resources/fatal-violence-against-the-transgender-and-gender-non-conforming-community-in-2021 Follow us, and we'll do our best to update @NikkiAliMuse @lady_blerd94 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
A Review of what we did for the entire month we were on unintended hiatus (We promise it's actually funny) Follow us on Social! @lady_blerd94 @NikkiAliMuse --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
RIP to all those that lost their lives in mass shootings, attacks, COVID. Daunte Wright, Adam Toledo, DMX and Prince Phillip Parenting Advice from not parents (thanks for the song Willard Smith) Rating Disney parents Follow us on social media @lady_blerd94 @NikkiAliMuse --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
What isn't a Cult but seems like a Cult? The Rise and Fall of Q Anon We Make a Fake Cult in 15 steps (thanks WikiHow!) @NikkiAliMuse @lady_blerd94 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Why Don't Ya'll just leave Lil Nas X alone before he drags you (also, you're wrong anyway) Jesus May Have Died for Our Sins, but not so the Church couldn't learn from them Terrible Advice for the Reddit Girls The 627 Facebook Page for the Houstonians: https://www.facebook.com/The627foodtruckco Follow us: @lady_blerd94 @NikkiAliMuse Music by: @verism_rip --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Stop Cheating and just be in an Open Relationship Already (Ahem, Derrick Jaxn and Jason Collier) Ladies Who Deserve What Stereotypical Female Protagonist are we? Follow us on social! @Lady_blerd94 @NikkiAliMuse --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Please just resign Sharon Osbourne White Supremacy is the Enemy (We send out support to those in the AAPI community, for more resources on how you can help, click here: https://www.aapicovid19.org/resources You can donate at: https://www.gofundme.com/c/act/stop-aapi-hate) Finish the hashtag #AWorldWithoutMenWouldBe What's it like Being a Lady in the Workplace? (feat. Anjelica, Linda, JD, Stewie and B) Terrible Advice for the Reddit Girls Follow us! @NikkiAliMuse @lady_blerd94 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Ladies who need a shoutout Our Favorite Self-Care Rituals (and no it's not all Yoga and meditation) Pause for Cake We rank Anime Girl Tropes (and learn something about ourselves) Follow us: twitter.com/NikkiAliMuse instagram.com/lady_blerd94/ soundcloud.com/verismrip High Vibrations Tarot Reader: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCli3HWySaBmkr8-_1lg1xxg Guided Meditation: https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=guided+meditation --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Which Men are Ruining our Lives This Week Women's Issues We're Women so we can Obviously Answer all your Questions Follow us: @lady_blerd94 @NikkiAliMuse --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
32 Things Black Women Like Black Lady Reddit Celebrate the Black Ladies in Your Life Happy Black History Month! See you in Women's History Month Follow us: @lady_blerd94 @NikkiAliMuse --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
GTFO Ted Cruz We're Black and Nerdy Listen to us fail Nerd Trivia (from like the 80s) How Nerdy are we? If you would like to donate to families and individuals in need, follow us on @lady_blerd94 and @NikkiAliMuse for links where you can donate. Music by Verism --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
An interview with Kiwi and Stewie on Love and Relationships Terrible Advice for the Reddit Girls (Aka Girl Just Dump Him) Follow us on Social Media and have a lovely weekend --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Mardi Gras is Cancelled, get off the (Bourbon) Street Know Your History-- An interview with Stewie Terrible Advice for the Reddit Girls Follow us on Social! @lady_blerd94 @nikkialimuse --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Some Good News and Bad News Take these (Celebrity) Men and Women off Pedestals, please How do you feel you've grown? Dramatic Reading of a Fanfiction Generator Story Follow us on Social Media: lady_blerd94, nikkialimuse, soundcloud.com/verismrip --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Truth or Drink What genre of film most closely resembles your reality? Follow us on social: @lady_blerd94, @NikkiAliMuse @NikkiAliG soundcloud.com/verismrip --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Our wishlist to our new leader President Joe Biden (We basically just rant the entire time) What's Your Healthiest Obsession? Terrible Advice for the Reddit Girls Happy MLK Day everyone! Social: @NikkiAliMuse @NikkiAliG @lady_blerd94, soundcloud.com/verismrip --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Let us tell you why storming the Capitol wasn't your finest moment What do you think the Powers that Be are telling us through the Weather? Heaven's Gate Cult and why we're rating it like a 2/10. Fuck, Marry, Kill- Sorry to all the Chads, Tads and Chets of the world Today is Step in a Puddle and Splash Your Friends Day Cherish and Love the people in your lives everyone you never know when they'll no longer be here. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support
Only $600? Ken Jennings is no Alex Trebek When do you Think the World will End and How? Resolutions You Maybe able to Stick to (No Judgement if you Don't) BetterHelp: https://www.betterhelp.com Talkspace: https://try.talkspace.com Vetted Charities: https://www.charities.org/charities?gclid=Cj0KCQiA88X_BRDUARIsACVMYD9U4ux5L-FPb4E4j8IJFT7cT45KYqk07Z0Iidkg3DfX-z5vhWv5uOcaAitNEALw_wcB Terrible Advice for the Reddit Girls Our words for the Year are: BelMars: INVESTMENT NikkiAli: CONSISTENCY @lady_blerd94 @NikkiAliMuse --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/confrontational/support