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The Conquer Me show is about overcoming the number 1 thing holding us back - our own poor habits and self-limiting beliefs. These lessons are tough in depth in the Conquer Me Coaching Program. Your host, Jay Soileau, strives the be the example of what it means to live the Conquer Me lifestyle. Jay has managed to overcome a tough childhood, multiple bouts with addiction, bankruptcy, poor health, and much more, and he wants to share those lessons with others to help then get unstuck.

Jay Soileau


    • Aug 26, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 29m AVG DURATION
    • 77 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from Conquer Me

    #77: The Winner's Mindset

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2024 20:13


    In this episode of the ConquerMe Podcast, we dive deep into the concept that winning is more than just a series of fortunate events—it's a mindset. A true winner's mindset isn't about the temporary highs of success but about embracing challenges and using setbacks as stepping stones toward growth and greatness. We often see winning as the ultimate goal, but what if the real victory lies in how we handle our losses? Today, we'll explore how to shift your perspective to see every failure as an opportunity to learn, adapt, and come back stronger.

    #76: Mess to Message

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2024 38:28


    In this episode, Jay is interviewed by Michelle Drew and they discuss Jay's "messy middle" and how he's turning it into his message of hope and inspiration. If you're feeling down and out about your past, this episode will bless you.

    #75: The Winters of Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2024 16:55


    In this enriching episode of the ConquerMe Podcast, we delve into the metaphorical seasons of life, focusing on the challenging yet crucial period we call the winters of life. Just as nature undergoes cycles of growth and dormancy, our lives are marked by seasons that shape who we are. Join us as we explore why winters—those times of struggle, hardship, and introspection—are necessary for our personal growth and transformation. These cold, barren times can feel isolating and harsh, but they are essential for shedding old habits, building resilience, and preparing for the vibrant springs of renewal and new beginnings.

    #74: Republican or Democrat?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2024 26:55


    Welcome to another episode of the ConquerMe podcast! In this thought-provoking episode of the ConquerMe Podcast, we dive deep into the heart of political identity. Are you a Republican or a Democrat? Does it matter? More importantly, why do you identify with one party over the other? Join us as we explore the concept that no matter which side you choose, you've likely been programmed to think this way. From family influences to media narratives, our political beliefs are often shaped by external factors more than we realize. But what if you could challenge those thoughts? What if, instead of seeing the opposition as the enemy, you could see the good in others, regardless of their political stance? This episode encourages you to break free from the mental programming that divides us and to start seeing the humanity in everyone. Tune in and discover how to foster understanding, empathy, and unity in a world that thrives on division. It's time to challenge your beliefs, open your mind, and see the good in others. Subscribe now and join the conversation as we navigate the complex world of political identity with an open heart and an open mind. Let's conquer the divide together.

    #73: 15 Things to STOP Doing Immediately

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 1, 2024 27:03


    Welcome to another episode of the ConquerMe podcast! Today, we're diving into the 15 things we should STOP doing to live a more purposeful and fulfilling life. These insights are designed to help you break free from negative habits and mindsets that hold you back from achieving your full potential. Episode Highlights Stop Doubting Yourself Believe in your abilities. Self-doubt undermines your confidence and potential. Stop Watching the News Constant exposure to negative news can drain your energy and create unnecessary anxiety. Stop Believing Everything You Hear or Read on Social Media Not everything you see is true. Be discerning and critical of the information you consume. Stop Complaining Complaining doesn't solve problems. Focus on solutions and positive action instead. Stop Looking at Your Phone Immediately After Waking Start your day with intention. Avoid the digital world and set a positive tone for the day. Stop Wasting Time Use your time wisely. Prioritize activities that align with your goals and values. Stop Working During Family Time Create boundaries between work and personal life. Quality time with family is irreplaceable. Stop Watching Porn It can negatively affect your mental health and relationships. Seek healthier alternatives. Stop Making Empty Promises Keep your word. Reliability builds trust and respect. Stop Taking Advice from People Who Aren't Where You Want to Be Seek guidance from those who have achieved what you aspire to. Be selective about your mentors. Stop Letting Your Emotions Get the Best of You Manage your emotions. Reacting impulsively can lead to regretful decisions. Stop Worrying About the Future Focus on the present. Worrying about the future can paralyze your actions today. Stop Comparing Yourself to Others Comparison is the thief of joy. Focus on your journey and progress, not someone else's highlight reel. Stop Gossiping Gossiping damages relationships and creates a negative environment. Speak positively or remain silent. Stop Caring What Others Think or Say About You Live according to your values and goals, not others' opinions. Your life is yours to live.

    #72: Comfort Zone Dangers

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 24, 2024 20:31


    In this episode, we uncover the hidden dangers of staying in your comfort zone and how it can hold you back from achieving true success and fulfillment. Breaking free from your comfort zone is essential for personal growth and reaching your highest potential. Join us as we explore the mindset shifts necessary to conquer your fears and embrace change. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more empowering episodes!

    #71: I'm Dying

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2024 23:34


    Are you living each day to its fullest, or are you caught up in what others think? In this thought-provoking episode of the ConquerMe podcast, we confront a universal truth: every day brings us closer to death. But instead of letting this reality create fear, we can use it as a catalyst to ensure we're doing what we feel called to do. Join us as we explore how to live with intention, prioritize our passions, and break free from the constraints of societal expectations. Don't let your time slip away unnoticed—embrace your mortality and start living the life you were meant to lead. Tune in and take the first step towards a more fulfilling, fearless, and purposeful existence.

    #70: The Power of Daily Habits

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 10, 2024 22:43


    Welcome to another powerful episode of the ConquerMe Podcast!

    #69: The Stories in Your Head

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2024 23:55


    In this episode, we'll talk about the stories in your head! Our stories are either empowering us or hindering us from reaching our potential. The great news is, we can choose our stories!

    #68: The Pros and Cons of Ozempic w/ Jenn Broxterman

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2024 69:14


    In this episode, Jennifer Broxterman and I discuss the pros and cons of using Ozempic and other similar drugs for weight loss.

    #67: Finding Your Passion

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2024 31:35


    It this episode, we'll discuss practical ways to uncover your passion. Self Reflection Identify Strengths Try New Things Consider Your Values Listen to Feelings/Feedback

    Vision & Value

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2024 32:56


    In this episode, we'll discuss Myron Golden's 4 levels of value and the importance of having a compelling vision that spurs us into action.

    #65: Eliminate Your Excuses w/ Nick Santonastasso

    Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2024 69:36


    Buckle up! In this episode, you'll hear from one the most incredible people I've ever met, Nick Santonastasso. Nick is a highly sought after speaker and coach that rubs shoulders with Tony Robbins, Ed Mylett, and many of the greats in the space of speaking and personal development. Not only has Nick reached an admirable level of success, he's been able to do with with no legs and only one arm. If you have excuses for why you're not where you want to be in life, you don't want to miss this episode! You can connect with Nick here: https://www.instagram.com/nicksantonastasso

    Sober Talk w/ DK (Donald Kidwell)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2024 43:14


    In this episode, DK and Jay discuss their experience with alcohol and sobriety. DK shares the valuable lessons he learned while building an impressive fitness business while also battling with alcohol abuse.

    #63: Your Future Self

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2024 26:32


    In this episode, I'll share a powerful way of setting goals that will allow you to operate as your most ideal future self. This idea will challenge everything you've been taught about goal setting, your past, and how you're showing up today.

    #62: Coaching & Training w/ RJ Coleman

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2024 75:48


    In this episode, RJ and I discuss the ends of out of different fitness modalities and his experience of being a career Coach and Personal Trainer.

    #61: The Importance of Identity w/ Matthew Headden

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2024 64:22


    In this episode, Matthew and I discuss the importance that identity plays in our ability to change. Our life experiences have a tendency to shape how we see ourselves, and often times, that perspective keeps us stuck in endless cycles of pain and frustration. Change your identity, change your life! Follow Matthew Headden Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mheadden Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matthewheadden/?hl=en

    #60: From Lock Up to Start Up w/ Damon Nichols

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2024 50:30


    In this episode, Damon Nichols and I discuss his past struggles with addiction to led to turmoil and jail time for many year. We also discuss Damon's incredible comeback and the lessons he learned along the way.

    #59: Waiting on Permission

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2024 22:51


    In this episode, we'll discuss my struggles with waiting on permission to take action.

    #58: Simplifying Nutrition w/ Jennifer Broxterman

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 27, 2023 56:56


    Jennifer Broxterman is a Registered Dietitian, owner of NutritionRX and Prosper Nutrition, and cancer survivor after being given an 8% survival rate. Jenn is a master at simplifying the complex topic of nutrition and helping coaches do the same. Connect with Jen here

    #57: Processing Emotions

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2023 27:30


    In this episode, we'll discuss my method for processing emotions. If negative emotions linger, it's guaranteed to keep us stuck.

    #56: Leveraging Fear

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2023 24:26


    In today's episode, we're gonna discuss FEAR.  The pros and cons of fear and ways you can reframe and leverage fear so that it's an asset instead of allowing it to enslave us. 

    #55: The Comparison Trap

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2023 24:53


    In this episode, we'll discuss the dangers of comparing yourself to others and the freedom that comes when you break free from this trap!

    #54: The Power of Mentorship

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2023 31:22


    In this episode, we'll talk about the value of mentorship, how it's changed my life, and how it can change yours too.

    #53: Break the Cycle

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 31, 2023 18:31


    In this episode, we discuss negative cycles, or generational curses, and how you can be THE ONE to break them!

    #52: Growth vs Fixed Mindset

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2023 34:43


    In this episode, we'll discuss the power of having a growth mindset and the dangers of a fixed mindset.

    #51: Dealing with Overwhelm

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2023 24:08


    In this episode, we'll discuss how to deal with feelings of overwhelm.

    #50: What Transformation Looks Like

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2023 39:23


    In this episode, I chat with Brandon Vaughan about his transformation. I believe this episode will be extremely helpful for those who find themselves feeling stuck.

    #49: Mindset with Amanda Matos

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2023 52:41


    In this episode, my guest Amanda Matos of StrongSevles Fitness Studio talks about her journey and how changing her mindset was crucial in her transformation.

    #48: Imposter Syndrome

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2023 28:57


    In this episode, we'll discuss the meaning of imposter syndrome and how it could be holding you back from living your full potential.

    #47: Letting Go of Resentment

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 27, 2023 19:46


    In this episode, we'll discuss the dangers of holding on to resentment (and other low frequency emotions), and how to finally let them go!

    #46: Just Show Up!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 25, 2023 16:46


    In this episode, we'll discuss the power and importance of just showing up.

    #45: Managing Your Emotions

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 26, 2023 25:27


    In this episode, we'll discuss the power of emotions and how to leverage them to better serve us.

    #44: Increasing Your Pain Tolerance

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 22, 2023 16:48


    In this episode, we'll discuss a power way to increase your pain tolerance by using "contrast therapy."

    #43: The Dangers of Social Media

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2023 25:46


    In this episode, we'll discuss the many dangers of social media addiction.

    #42: Borrowing Beliefs

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2023 23:08


    In this episode we'll discuss the importance of getting around people that believe in your and are a similar path of growth.

    #41: Sick Care System

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2023 26:07


    In this episode, we'll discuss the dangers of big pharma and our sick care system.

    #40: Crabs in a Bucket

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2023 17:13


    In this episode, we'll discuss what happens when you put crabs in a bucket together, and why it's so important to audit your association.

    #39: Controlling Your Thoughts

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2023 21:41


    In this episode, you'll learn how your thoughts have created the "matrix" or reality that you live in. By auditing and improving the quality of our thoughts, we can change our lives.

    #38: The Awakening

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2023 28:05


    In this episode, we'll discuss an awakening that's happening with the people in my community!

    #37: The Weight Loss Cheat Code

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2023 15:37


    In this episode, you'll learn why protein is considered the cheat code for sustainable weight loss.

    #36: Weekends are Destroying Your Progress

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2023 15:54


    In this episode, we'll discuss the math behind weight loss and why your weekends may be killing your progress, causing you to yo-yo.

    #35: Authenticity Over Acceptance

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2023 16:14


    In this episode, we'll discuss the importance of choosing authenticity over acceptance.

    #34: Conflict Resolution

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2023 30:51


    In this episode, we'll discuss the importance of developing the skill of conflict resolution. Our ability or inability to handle conflict says a lot about our level of emotional stability and emotion intelligence.

    #33: 20 Habits of the Unsuccessful

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2023 21:04


    In this episode, we'll discuss 20 habits that are common among the unsuccessful. We all struggle to some degree with one of multiple of these habits, but they could be keeping us stuck.

    #32 Do You Believe?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2023 17:16


    In this episode, you'll hear a story about how my son missed out on $50 and I'll bring to light how important our beliefs are and how self-limiting beliefs are stealing our ability to become the best versions of ourselves.

    #31: Clearing the Clutter

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2023 22:27


    In this episode, we'll discuss the dangers of living a cluttered life. Mental, physical, and digital clutter could be distracting your from focusing on what's most important.

    #30: Don't be a Karen.

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2023 13:02


    In this episode, we'll discuss what it means to be a "Karen" and the dangers associated with such behavior

    #29: Mastering Self-Discipline

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2023 24:05


    In this episode, we'll discuss the importance of self-discipline and how to increase it over time.

    #28: Ozempic, Phentermine, Medical Weight Loss

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2023 28:01


    In this episode, we'll discuss the dangers of pharmaceutical and medical weight loss practices that are plaguing our society.

    #27: Depression Medication

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 17, 2023 34:58


    In this episode, we discuss the current depression crisis, psychoactive medications, and natural ways to help you reduce depression.

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