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Everything’s (not) Fine is a podcast for every mom, dad, and (dangerously close to) middle-aged person that is just tired of faking it when the proverbial shit hits the fan. Improperly Forward’s Keli Budinich and co-host Nicole Gonzalez dive into every-day topics with their hilarious wit and no BS candor.The trenches of adulting, parenting teens and somehow holding onto that last shred of our own identity is an emotionally exhausting and sometimes lonely place. At some point, we just need a little judgement-free help from our friends. Whether you’re squeezing in 30 minutes on the treadmill (god bless your soul,) escaping to the car during another rainy soccer practice or hiding out in the back of your closet with smuggled Twinkies, we’re here for you. Ground your kid from their AirPods so you can pop them in and get 30 minutes of sanity and maybe a little comic relief.We’re excited to tackle the tough topics like teen mental health and suicide, parenting kids with ADHD and learning disabilities, functioning with depression and rekindling a sexless marriage. In the midst of the hard stuff, there will be plenty of important chats about which Netflix shows to binge, how to break your husband from watching idiotic YouTube videos at full volume (we still don’t know. HELP) and why on earth did we think being a sports mom would be fun!? We might even have an expert or two on hand to give us some real answers to the hard stuff.We live in a world where our lives are on display pretty much all the time. Even if you’re not big into social media, people know your business more now than ever. There’s a lot of pressure to keep up appearances and sugar coat the crap. We’re here to say, you don’t have to do that anymore. It’s okay to stop everything, look Karen square in the eye and say “you know what? Everything is NOT fine. This shit is hard. So keep it to yourself, Karen.”Let’s do this.(Also, I’m really sorry if your name is Karen. I’m sure you’re actually lovely.)

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    • Jan 11, 2023 LATEST EPISODE
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    • 1h 1m AVG DURATION
    • 72 EPISODES

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    Latest episodes from Everything’s (not) Fine

    New Year, same me

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2023 29:40


    This is Nicole's first solo episode.

    Kel's Last One

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2022 39:25


    In this episode, Kel talks about the highlights of what the podcast has given her these past three years and why she's calling this one her last one... It's bittersweet and I'm going to miss so many things, but I'm so ready to see what lies ahead both for me and whatever Nicole does with this show.

    Holiday Madness

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2022 54:26


    Welp, the holidays are officially upon us. In this upbeat episode they dive into holidays with adult/older kids, keeping traditions alive, but also when to let a few go.  We want to connect! Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Allen is @nicoleallen_spokane Keli is  @msbudinich Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    Deepening the Feminine Bond

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2022 80:34


    Nicole and Keli spent the weekend in the woods with their Coven! This episode covers some of the shenanigans that ensued along with some of the challenges Keli was feeling during the weekend. Listen in to hear about the quest to keep ourselves on the priority list and also the challenges in deepening the feminine bonds between us.  If you're not into hearing us talk about line dancing at a good ol fashioned honkey tonk skip to about the 30 minute mark. If you want to hear about the start of the Coven last year, listen to that episode here.  We want to connect! Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Allen is @nicoleallen_spokane Keli is  @msbudinich Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    Outcome Attachment

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2022 67:53


    Nicole and Keli talk about their own realization of "Attachment to Outcome" issues and what that even is. Let's just say... it's stupid and we don't like it. :) We want to connect! Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Allen is @nicoleallen_spokane Keli is  @msbudinich Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    Liberation is Never One-Sided

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2022 85:13


    Nicole and Keli chat about their favorite Glennon Doyle quote, "...there's no such thing as one way liberation," and all it means to them at this stage of life. Last week Kel turned 46 and celebrated in some unconventional ways. She shares why it was so important for her to do it and how this past year led to this point. Nicole has some great insight on the different places liberation shows up in our lives. This is one of my favorite episodes yet!   We want to connect! Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Allen is @nicolewith3 Keli is  @msbudinich Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    Everything's Not Fine, and that's perfectly okay

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2022 66:04


    Keli Budinich and Nicole Allen introduce the revamped show and return to the roots of this podcast: eavesdropping on friends as they discuss their lives and all the ways it's fine but also totally not fine and the beauty of just keeping it real.

    WHY?? We're running, but what are we running to...or from?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 13, 2022 56:09


    Nicole talks about a conversation she recently had about what her WHY is in running so hard at work. A little self exploration about what is/has motivated us to make the decisions/do the things we do. It's better than it sounds. :)   We want to connect! Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Allen is @nicolewith3 Keli is  @msbudinich Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    Curoisity - the nuts and bolts of self discovery

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 5, 2022 48:28


    Keli talks about her process/methods of self-discovery and curiosity.  Nicole tells us a little about the Vagus Nerve and a quick intro to the parasympathetic nervous system. How can we use this knowledge to bring a sense of calm in the midst of the stress loop? Listen in for some quick and easy "exercises" (don't worry, no cardio required!)  We want to connect! Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Allen is @nicolewith3 Keli is  @msbudinich Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    Mom of the Queerlings

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 23, 2022 66:57


    It is our privilege to share the love story of one Mama and her LGBTQ kiddos. Mama Kait kindly invites our curiosity and bravely shares a bit of the story of her family's experiences in the LGBTQ community.  Kait is the mom to eight children, thriving all over the spectrum of neurodivergence, medically complex, and just downright awesome.  This episode is not one of political agenda, it's just an invitation to open your heart to curiosity and love.  In the episode we discuss resources. A couple of places to get started are: PFLAG - A national is a community working to create a caring, just, and affirming world for LGBTQ+ people and those who love them. For WA residents: Seattle Children's Mental Health Referral Service - A resource for all Mental Health needs

    Curiosity, Compassion and Kindness

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2022 64:16


    Nicole and Keli return from their break ready to rumble! :) The ladies give a brief recap of the past couple of months and introduce the new "theme" of curiosity and compassion they are learning and living.  Give a listen and then meet us on instagram to discuss ways you're showing curiosity in your life! We want to connect! Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Allen is @nicolewith3 Keli is  @msbudinich Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    Checking In

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2022 66:36


    Nicole and Keli touch base about what's going on in their lives.  Keli talks about parenting challenges in her neurodivergent kids, and "regrouping" for this stage of life with them.  Nicole tells one of her HILAROUS stories about the Adventures of Aaron and I'm positive this must become a regular segment. We want to connect! Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook: Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Allen is @nicolewith3 Keli is  @improperlyforward Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    SPECIAL GUEST - the OG Nicole Gonzalez on Homeschooling and Sports-Momming

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2022 53:57


    Nicole Gonzalez is back to let us know what the heck she's been up to. This amazing mom and teacher and friend talks all things motherhood for her right now and how she's holding it together. She is a GIFT! ****Please know there are a few sound delays so any "awkward silences" are simply the delay. There was no Awkwarndes and NO silence. ;)   We want to connect! Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook: Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Allen is @nicolewith3 Keli is  @improperlyforward Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    Q & R...Hey! We're addressing Listener Questions

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2022 100:57


    Keli and Nicole talk about some of the most asked Listener Questions... 1. Where's the Original Nicole (ON) 2. Why is Keli so grossly in love with her husband? 3. Is Keli a Witch? 4. How does Nicole keep Keli in line (okay, not this actually. but it's a seriously good question!)

    Drawing a Line in the Sand

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2022 82:35


    Sometimes we draw a line to delineate a boundary - this is what I need/can't do for my personal health.  And sometimes we draw a line saying "Nope. No more. I won't go on. I won't be vulnerable in this area. I'm good here no matter what. I will die on this hill." Nicole tells the story of an old friend who recently talked about that "not crossing this line of vulnerability" experience and how it played out in their life. Keli talks about her struggle with financial stubbornness and her recent decision to cross her imaginary line into more financial responsibility.  The ladies also tell about their most recent "Coven Weekend" and what they were up to.

    How Goes the Battle?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 9, 2022 64:14


    Join Nicole and Keli as they check in on each other in their "process." Nicole gives an update on how things have been since her recent realization of putting everyone else's happiness above her own and how that is affecting her life. Keli talks about figuring out her place in her life as a "healed" person and what that will look like as she moves to Spokane and all the fears associated with it. We want to connect! Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook: Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Allen is @nicolewith3 Keli is  @msbudinich Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes.     

    Movers and Shakers and...Pukers

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2022 64:27


    Keli lets us in on a few details of her upcoming move. Nicole tells us some incredible stories about her recent las vacaciones de Mexico which make Keli laugh until she wheezes. What more do you need? We want to connect! Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook: Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Allen is @nicolewith3 Keli is  @msbudinich Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes.     

    It's Getting Hot in Here

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 16, 2022 54:45


    First of all... That halftime show. I mean, we can't NOT talk about it. Sorry if you're over it. WE WILL NEVER BE OVER IT! Then we talk about our defense mechanisms of not wanting to see ourselves or even others at times.  How do we let down our defenses to find some GD freedom? Oh baby. It's getting hot in hurrrr.

    Oh Girl, I SEE you.

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2022 58:20


    Keli spent the week caring for little people and comes back with some realizations/revelations. Nicole had a flashback of young mothering and the ugly mom snuck up on her over a decade later.  We had our moments of "ohhh GIRL, we SEE you. And we saw ourselves. Another Brutiful episode.   We want to connect! Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook: Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Allen is @nicolewith3 Keli is  @msbudinich Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    Being Seen in Our Story

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2022 107:47


    In this special episode, Keli shares a significant part of her story. During the past couple of years on the podcast, she has mentioned her estranged relationship with her mother, and today she shares how that decision evolved over time. She tells about when she realized that in order to have a healthy relationship with her own daughter, she would need to take a step back from her mother so they could both heal. It is a raw and vulnerable story that most people will relate to in some way, even if life circumstances are vastly different. Nicole provides incredible insight and support for her friend as she truly sees her right where she in her story.  TW: Keli does mention times of domestic, physical, emotional and sexual abuse in her story. Please listen when you have the emotional bandwidth and/or support that is best for you. We love you.   We want to connect! Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook: Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Allen is @nicolewith3 Keli is  @msbudinich Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    Being Seen In Motherhood

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 26, 2022 80:22


    We are learning that the absolute gift of Being Seen in our relationships can be life changing. One of the most crucial areas of life that we can be seen in is motherhood. Whether that is being seen by our partner/co-parent, our children, fellow mothers... it all makes a huge impact.  One of the most challenging things that has happened in the evolution of modern, western mothers is losing the Ethels to our Lucys. We dive into that and a lot more in this episode.    We want to connect! Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook: Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Allen is @nicolewith3 Keli is  @improperlyforward Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    What does it even mean to ”Be Seen?”

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2022 68:57


    Nicole and Keli start a series on Being Seen. In this first episode, among a lot of other random things, they talk about what it means to them to "Be Seen" by others. Is it even a good thing? Crap, more vulnerability. Nothanks.  Future episodes will dive deeper into what being seen looks like in different areas of our life, so this is a general overview of the concept. And some good chit chat. :)   We want to connect! Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook: Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Allen is @nicolewith3 Keli is  @improperlyforward Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    The one where Keli doesn't remember recording the previous episode because she had Covid.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 12, 2022 64:08


    Nicole and Keli tackle important topics such as why you should definitely NOT purchase an LED magnifying mirror at this age. Keli realizes that she has absolutely know idea what they talked about during the previous episode because she was in the midst of a Covid fever stupor. At the end of the episode Nicole shares the most HILARIOUS story about her recent news interview and well... you need to hear it. We want to connect! Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook: Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Allen is @nicolewith3 Keli is  @improperlyforward Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    New Year, New Intentions

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2022 63:00


    New Year's Resolutions are so 2010. Now we set intentions and are much more Zen about it all. Nicole and Keli talk about their personal intentions for 2022, Keli talks about how she started the tradition of setting a word/intention of the year (or repurposed it from old cult days) and there's a holiday recap.    We want to connect! Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook: Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Allen is @nicolewith3 Keli is  @improperlyforward Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    Go Get Her (part 2) - Holiday Edition

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2021 53:26


    Making the decision to push pause on sacrificing ourselves on the alter of holiday magic isn't easy, but we've got to do it!   We want to connect! Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook: Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Allen is @nicolewith3 Keli is  @improperlyforward Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    Vulnerability - That B*tch Brene Brown does it again

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2021 75:45


    Nicole and Keli debrief on the most recent We Can Do Hard Things episode with Dr. Brene Brown.  We can do vulnerability. We can do letting go of control. We can do facing the hard crap.  Glennon told us we could and that B Dr. Brene gives us a road map. We hate them both. We want to connect! Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook: Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Allen is @nicolewith3 Keli is  @improperlyforward Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    BONUS: A Podcast Challenge from ”Coach” Jim Budinich

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2021 33:44


    Keli's husband Jim is back for a conversation to "Coach"/Challenge Keli and Nicole to get more in depth in their episodes.  "Whatever" - Keli Budinich "Bring It!" Nicole Allen  :)

    BONUS - Hilarious Recap of Allen Family Disney Adventures

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2021 58:39


    This BONUS episode Nicole tells some HI-larious stories from their time at Disney with ADULT children and teens. It's not the same as chasing toddlers, you guys.  We also just chat about life and what's going on. Nothing too deep, but a warm chat with your friends as we go about life. This one is just a tiny break from the deep.   We want to connect! Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook: Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Allen is @nicolewith3 Keli is  @improperlyforward Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    Go Get Her

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2021 56:29


    Did you see Jen Hatmaker's social media post about her recent experience at the Broadway production of Waitress? Basically, she was bawling during the song, "She Used to be Mine" and you just need to go find the post and read what she wrote. And then come back here!  Nicole and I talk about the HER that we both lost and have/are finding in ourselves in this episode. It's one of the most important conversations we've had on this pod and I hope it resonates with you as much as it does with me. If so, I hope you share it with those you love. If we all help each other, we CAN Go Get Her! Love, Kel and Nicole   We want to connect! Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook: Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Allen is @nicolewith3 Keli is  @improperlyforward Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    the other side of friendships

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 3, 2021 55:26


    Keli and Nicole chat about the other side of friendships and meaningful relationships - the parts that are hard and ugly and how they are each processing the end of a mutual friendship. One of the cornerstones of our purpose of this podcast is sharing ALL of our lives, not just the pretty parts. This episode definitely stays true to that principle!   We want to connect! Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook: Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Allen is @nicolewith3 Keli is  @improperlyforward Join our Facebook community (You can find our group on Facebook by searching "everything's not fine community.") Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    The Coven (not THAT coven)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2021 49:58


    We want to connect! Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook: Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Allen is @nicolewith3 Keli is  @improperlyforward Join our Facebook community (You can find our group on Facebook by searching "everything's not fine community.") Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    The Pursuit of Happiness is Overrated

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2021 39:52


    Nicole and Keli discuss the We Can Do Hard Things episode ALL THE FEELS and their own take on the pursuit of happiness.   We want to connect! Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook: Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Allen is @nicolewith3 Keli is  @improperlyforward Join our Facebook community (You can find our group on Facebook by searching "everything's not fine community.") Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    the ties that bind

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2021 39:23


    Keli and Nicole kick off SEASON THREE with a fun episode about what to expect this season, and some of their favorite topics - fun, friends and fashion? (not really fashion, but it was an F word that wasn't THE F word.) In this episode we give a recap of our Alanis Morissette concert - honoring our teenage selves and appreciating our heroes who grow with us. WE HAD FUN for the sake of having fun!  90's fashions - how far can we really go in revisiting our favorite fashion era?  Ladies' Weekends - connecting with our people and strengthening the bonds between us.  Keli's upcoming birthday and how she wants to celebrate officially entering middle age. We want to connect! Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook: Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Allen is @nicolewith3 Keli is  @improperlyforward Join our Facebook community (You can find our group on Facebook by searching "everything's not fine community.") Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    Network Marketing...some of us do and some of us DON‘T

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2021 57:46


    Keli talks about her experience with network marketing / MLMs and when she decided she cannot support that business model, and Nicole talks about the ways she still supports some of them. The ladies talk about the recent Docuseries on Prime Video called LulaRich (about the rise and fall of the clothing company, Lularoe.)  This is an episode full of opinion and encouragement for those of us finding our place in the workforce or discovering how we want to financially contribute in our households.   

    The gift of truly being seen

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 31, 2021 56:03


    Nicole and Keli chat about relationships and friendships with longevity. Knowing one another for 25 years (literally our whole adult lives) has had its rewards (and a drawback or two) ;) We talk about the best gift we can give a friend in a time of need and the beauty of being seen.   We want to connect! Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook: Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Allen is @nicolewith3 Keli is  @improperlyforward Join our Facebook community (You can find our group on Facebook by searching "everything's not fine community.") Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    SPECIAL GUEST: Jim Budinich - Keli talks life with her husband

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2021 54:55


    Nicole is on vacation so Keli shares the mic with her better half on this episodes answering questions submitted by our listeners and maybe one from our kids. :) Keli has decided this is her favorite episode ever. (Gross.)   We want to connect! Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook: Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Allen is @nicolewith3 Keli is  @improperlyforward Join our Facebook community (You can find our group on Facebook by searching "everything's not fine community.") Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    F*in Purity - the backfire of the cultish beliefs around sexuality

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2021 64:39


    Keli started therapy - ACTUAL THERAPY! After 20 years of finding every sort of free therapy in the book, I actually started real therapy. We talk about that and the initial subjects that came up during the session...none other than sexual trauma and misguidance experienced during the days of purity culture. Join us for a real whirlwind of a show. It's a good one if I do say so myself. :) We want to connect! Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook: Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Allen is @nicolewith3 Keli is  @improperlyforward Join our Facebook community (You can find our group on Facebook by searching "everything's not fine community.") Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    Conversion Culture

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2021 60:44


    A discussion on the recent Netflix documentary Pray Away and the destructive practices of conversion therapy within many American Christian churches. Keli and Nicole also talk about many of the parallels they saw in their own religious experiences and thoughts during vulnerable times in their lives.  For those of you who love to hear about "the cult," this one is for you. :) We want to connect! Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook: Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Allen is @nicolewith3 Keli is  @improperlyforward Join our Facebook community (You can find our group on Facebook by searching "everything's not fine community.") Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    Flying the F*in Coop - Launching kids into adulthood

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2021 45:53


    Watch the episode recording on YouTube here. Keli Budinich and Nicole Allen reflect on the road to releasing our kids into the wild, and all of the feelings that go along with it. This is a personal episode as we both have launched our kids this summer into their own adulthood (Keli, this week!) Even though this is an episode about older kids, there's plenty of discussion about parenting them when they were little as well. We want to connect! Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook: Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Allen is @nicolewith3 Keli is  @improperlyforward Join our Facebook community (You can find our group on Facebook by searching "everything's not fine community.") Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    F*in Fragility - Parenting styles that create fragility vs confidence

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 27, 2021 78:21


    Watch the Video Recording of this episode on YouTube Here.  Keli Budinich and Nicole Allen tackle the tough topic of parenting styles/techniques that stunt our kids' abilities to build confidence in the face of hard things.    We want to connect! Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook: Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Allen is @nicolewith3 Keli is  @improperlyforward Join our Facebook community (You can find our group on Facebook by searching "everything's not fine community.") Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes.   

    F*in FUN. What even does that word mean?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 20, 2021 67:24


    Watch This Episode Recording on ITunes Here. This episode Keli and Nicole discuss the challenges of having fun. In a recent episode of Glennon Doyle's podcast "We can do Hard Things" the show discussed having a stunted fun "gene" and it hit home! We don't even know what fun is, much less how to have it. Join us as we talk about what we've learned, how we feel challenged to shake the dust off of our party pants and what we'll be doing to try to rediscover our fun selves. Yikes. Also, listen to the original We Can Do Hard Things episode from Glennon Doyle wherever you listen to podcasts. It's episode 4, entitled "FUN: What the hell is it and why do we need it?" (Exactly. All that.)   We want to connect! Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook: Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Allen is @nicolewith3 Keli is  @improperlyforward Join our Facebook community (You can find our group on Facebook by searching "everything's not fine community.") Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    Everything's F*in Fine

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2021 45:00


    I'll be honest, we recorded this episode over a week ago and I can't even remember what it's about. Nicole Allen and I talk about graduations, kids flying the coop and...I'm not sure what else. Let's all listen together for the first time. LOL. - Kel Watch this episode on YouTube here!   We want to connect! Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook: Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Gonzalez is  @nicolejeangonzalez Nicole Allen is @nicolewith3 Keli is  @improperlyforward Join our Facebook community (You can find our group on Facebook by searching "everything's not fine community.") Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes.   

    F*in Finally - Return to "normal" and the challenges that come with it

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2021


    Host Keli Budnich andGuest Co-Host Nicole Allen discuss a new wave of life changes as "Pandemic Life" and some of the restrictions ease up and life gets to a new normal. There's a lot of change in the air and change ain't always easy, am I right? Marriages, schooling, jobs, you name it... we're all in the midst of getting to a new normal, and for some of us that looks drastically different. We especially talk about divorce and relationships in this one. You can VIEW the recording of this episode on YouTube (woohoo!!) by following this link.  **Audio on this video is less than awesome. Turns out, my "puppy" (who is too old to call a puppy anymore and also too old to be chewing my stuff!) chewed on one of my AirPods and the microphone was crap without my knowledge. Cool cool. - kel   We want to connect! Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook: Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepod Nicole Gonzalez is  @nicolejeangonzalez Nicole Allen is @nicolewith3 Keli is  @improperlyforward Join our Facebook community (You can find our group on Facebook by searching "everything's not fine community.") Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.com Please take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    Oh man, F*ing Friendship

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2021 54:54


    Welp, this episode is a doozy. Keli chats with Nicole Allen about some of the dynamics of building, maintaining and growing friendships, especially among women. Keli finds herself struggling during the conversation and can't really put her finger on what is holding her back mentally and emotionally. As the conversation starts to wind down, the ladies get vulnerable about some of the dynamics about their own friendship in the past.  We want to connect!Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook:Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepodNicole Gonzalez is  @nicolejeangonzalezNicole Allen is @nicolewith3Keli is  @improperlyforwardJoin our Facebook community (You can find our group on Facebook by searching "everything's not fine community.")Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.comPlease take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    F*n Feelings

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2021 58:21


    Keli Budinich and Nicole Allen spend some time talking about feeeeeeellllings. Ugh. We hate feelings. This episode covers how we, as moms, are parenting our teens during this season of life, how those worries and fears are taking its toll on us from time to time, and how just talking it out can bring relief to the overwhelm. We also discuss hitting our emotional walls and where do we go from here.  It's a real uplifting one! ;) Seriously, it is kind of uplifting. We want to connect!Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook:Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepodNicole Gonzalez is  @nicolejeangonzalezNicole Allen is @nicolewith3Keli is  @improperlyforwardJoin our Facebook community (You can find our group on Facebook by searching "everything's not fine community.")Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.comPlease take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    January F*n Sixth *REMASTERED*

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2021 64:00


    *This is a remastered episode to correct audio issues in previous release!* (Sorry bout that.)Keli Budinich and Nicole Allen return to discuss the personal aspect of relationships divided during the current political and social events in the US. We want to connect!Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook:Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepodNicole Gonzalez is  @nicolejeangonzalezNicole Allen is @nicolewith3Keli is  @improperlyforwardJoin our Facebook community (You can find our group on Facebook by searching "everything's not fine community.")Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.comPlease take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    January F*n Sixth

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2021 64:00


    Keli Budinich and Nicole Allen return to discuss the personal aspect of relationships divided during the current political and social events in the US.  We want to connect!Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook:Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepodNicole Gonzalez is  @nicolejeangonzalezNicole Allen is @nicolewith3Keli is  @improperlyforwardJoin our Facebook community (You can find our group on Facebook by searching "everything's not fine community.")Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.comPlease take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    New Year Same F*n Us

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 12, 2021 66:10


    Hey Hey Hey! Lookie what we have here. New Year, same sassy us!Join us in welcoming Nicole Allen as guest Co-Host and let's kick this year off with some fun. We want to connect!Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook:Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepodNicole Gonzalez is  @nicolejeangonzalezNicole Allen is @nicolewith3Keli is  @improperlyforwardJoin our Facebook community (You can find our group on Facebook by searching "everything's not fine community.")Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.comPlease take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    Beauty Gone Bad - disastrous tales of "self care"

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 26, 2020 47:38


    Join Keli and Nicole as they tell hilarious (and painful!) stories of beauty treatments in the salon and at home that didn't go quite as expected.And while we're on the subject...An Open Letter to Women's Beauty Standards:What's up with these impossible things we women are expected to do for the sake of "beauty?" Wax this, curl that, shave these. What's so wrong with the hair god gave us anyway?? Whether we're adding to our eyebrows or removing our mustaches, it's a full time job just keeping up with self grooming, and not everyone is interested in this crap.So take your standards and shove them where the sun don't shine. We only shave what we WANT to shave now, and if you don't like it, you can just move on. We want to connect!Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook:Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepodNicole is  @nicolejeangonzalezKeli is  @improperlyforwardJoin our Facebook community (You can find our group on Facebook by searching "everything's not fine community.")Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.comPlease take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    Back to School - Tales from the Battlefield

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2020 26:37


    A mini episode kicks off Season Two with Keli and Nicole discussing what back to school looks like when we're still in the world of COVID and distance learning. Discussions on the silver linings of the life skills they're learning in the midst of our world right now, and how we can allow them to acknowledge how challenging it is are the main focus. There's also a quick chat on the WAP and a lot of good laughs.We want to connect!Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook:Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepodNicole is  @nicolejeangonzalezKeli is  @improperlyforwardJoin our Facebook community (You can find our group on Facebook by searching "everything's not fine community.")Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.comPlease take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

    We're Baaaack for Season 1.5: Myspace, Podcasting, Sharing our Lives

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2020 45:03


    Keli and Nicole return from their break ready for fun. The ladies discuss social media platforms and the recent trending topic of Myspace. They talk about the lifeline that social media was in early motherhood, and how things have changed. They also chat about the stink that is pubescent boys, and what their families have been up to during the break.They spend some time reflecting on season one, what the show has taught them and the things that have been unexpected. This is a fun and lighthearted episode that reminds us all just what we love about these ladies.We want to connect!Find Nicole and Keli on social media by visiting Instagram and Facebook:Find us on instagram @everythingsnotfinepodNicole is  @nicolejeangonzalezKeli is  @improperlyforwardJoin our Facebook community (You can find our group on Facebook by searching "everything's not fine community.")Email us at improperlyforward@gmail.comPlease take a moment to subscribe and share a review of the podcast wherever you listen, especially on Apple Podcasts/iTunes. 

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