"Glowing Through It" with Kytia and Jerrell

In this episode, we are talking about an incident that happened recently that brought up a lot of internal feelings in us regarding hopelessness, injustice, and vengeance. How do you react when you end up in a fight or flight situation, and why do you think that is? Let's talk about it. "Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written: 'It is mine to avenge; I will repay,' says the Lord." - Romans 12:19

In this episode, we are reacting to your assumptions about us. Are we perfectly matched? Do we still get into big arguments? Have we ever gone to couple's counseling? Let's talk about it. "Stop judging by mere appearances, but instead judge correctly.” - John 7:24

In this episode, I'm sitting down to let you in on some things I've avoided sharing in the past months and even years. Homeschooling, moving, politics, prophecy, social media, etc. Got time? Let's talk about it. "As the rain and the snow come down from heaven, and do not return to it without watering the earth and making it bud and flourish, so that it yields seed for the sower and bread for the eater, so is my word that goes out from my mouth: It will not return to me empty, but will accomplish what I desire and achieve the purpose for which I sent it." - Isaiah 55:10-11

In this episode, we are reacting to your unpopular Christian dating opinions. Should you live together before marriage, is it okay to date a nonbeliever, does God care who you marry? Let's talk about it. "In all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight." - Proverbs 3:6

In this episode, we are talking about our experience with church hurt and how we healed from it. There are so many things that can happen within church and amongst fellow believers, so how can we move forward and still trust God for community? Let's talk about it. "And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching." - Hebrews 10:24-25 Here is a link to Alysha Miller's website: https://www.alyshamiller.com/

In this episode, we are talking about how the world reacted to Roe v. Wade being overturned on June 24th, 2022 as well as the commentary we've seen about it in the news. Do people have a right to be upset about the Supreme Court's decision? Let's talk about it. "Your eyes saw my unformed body; all the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be." - Psalm 139:16 Here is a link to Ben Shapiro's video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dwQ3VoLI2wM Here is a link to an ABC exclusive you might find interesting titled: 'Baby Roe' Breaks Her Silence: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CwpbZqSdzb4

In this episode, we are talking about our personal reactions to Roe v. Wade being overturned on June 24th, 2022 as well as the commentary we've seen about it in the church. Is this a good thing, and do we have the right to celebrate? Let's talk about it. "Your eyes saw my unformed body; all the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be." - Psalm 139:16 Here is a link to Ben Shapiro's video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dwQ3VoLI2wM Here is a link to an ABC exclusive you might find interesting titled: 'Baby Roe' Breaks Her Silence: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CwpbZqSdzb4

In this episode, we are talking about our experience with handling touchy subjects as our children grow up. While trying to shelter them in a healthy way, there will inevitably be some conversations that arise simply because of society and popular culture flooding into everything and everywhere. What are some of the ways Christian parents inadvertently sexualize their children? Let's talk about it. "Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will." -Romans 12:2

In this episode, we're talking about something you've probably heard about: haters. What happens when you focus so much on who isn't for you that you lose your gratitude for who is? Let's talk about what steps you can take to get out of a victim mentality. “If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first." - John 15:18

In this episode, we are talking about what we did in our youth that prepared us for a healthy marriage. God's design for marriage isn't for it to fix your problems and complete you. The issues you don't deal with before marriage will creep into your relationship and make it harder to love and submit to one other the way you vowed to, and it's best not to open up the door to romance until you're really ready. "Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you: Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires." - 2 Song of Solomon 8:4 To watch this full episode on LIFTABLEtv as well as my other exclusive content on the platform, check out this link and use code “KYTIA15” for 15% off the first month of your membership: https://liftable.tv/lamour/

Most people focus on what's happening right in front of them, but there is so much spiritual activity happening at all times. Your prayers about a problem you're facing might be genuine, but if you're not dealing with the root cause of your situation, it might actually delay the solution you really need. "The weapons we fight with are not the weapons of the world. On the contrary, they have divine power to demolish strongholds." - 2 Corinthians 10:4

Whether you've learned to be submissive and a people pleaser at an early age, or if you've been conditioned to accept toxic relationships later in life, it's hard to break free from them. In this video, we're talking about how we learned to recognize people who meant us harm instead of good, and how God helped us to stand up for ourselves and our well-being after years of abuse. "Do not make friends with a hot-tempered person, do not associate with one easily angered, or you may learn their ways and get yourself ensnared.” - Proverbs 22:24-25 To watch this full episode on LIFTABLEtv as well as my other exclusive content on the platform, check out this link and use code “KYTIA15” for 15% off the first month of your membership: https://liftable.tv/lamour/

It's important when God calls you to fast that you obey, but also that you are open to however He wants to move during and after your fast. In this video, we're sharing how a three day fast that each of us did in the Fall of 2019 forever changed our lives and our perspectives on the situations we were facing. Jesus answered, “It is written: ‘Man shall not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God.'” - Matthew 4:4 To watch this full episode on LIFTABLEtv as well as my other exclusive content on the platform, check out this link and use code “KYTIA15” for 15% off the first month of your membership: https://liftable.tv/lamour/

We're chatting about some events that were in the headlines recently involving two different incidents that had many Christians talking and even disagreeing. What do we do when we think leaders within the body of Christ are missing the mark, and should we hold them accountable? "You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye.” - Matthew 7:5 To watch this full episode on LIFTABLEtv as well as my other exclusive content on the platform, check out this link and use code “KYTIA15” for 15% off the first month of your membership: https://liftable.tv/lamour/

In this episode, we are diving into the topic of purpose in marriage and how a lack of purpose can ruin your relationship. Trying to find fulfillment and happiness within your spouse instead of the calling God placed inside of you can actually strain the bond you have with each other, and we're sharing firsthand how this very thing affected us. "For we are God's handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.” -Ephesians 2:10 To watch this full episode on LIFTABLEtv as well as my other exclusive content on the platform, check out this link and use code “KYTIA15” for 15% off the first month of your membership: https://liftable.tv/lamour/

How many times have you gotten into arguments over politics with your family and friends? I'm guessing a lot more than usual in recent years. In this video, we dive into the importance of putting politics aside when it comes to your relationships and how you view the world, and instead seeking God's wisdom in how to keep from being a part of what divides humanity. "Don't have anything to do with foolish and stupid arguments, because you know they produce quarrels.” - 2 Timothy 2:23 To watch this full episode on LIFTABLEtv as well as my other exclusive content on the platform, check out this link and use code “KYTIA15” for 15% off the first month of your membership: https://liftable.tv/lamour/

Manifesting is becoming more and more popular, but God is clear that we are to seek Him in all things instead of speaking things into existence. Why do people think manifesting works? You'll have to watch to find out. "For this reason I am telling you, whatever things you ask for in prayer [in accordance with God's will], believe [with confident trust] that you have received them, and they will be given to you." - Mark 11:24 To watch this full episode on LIFTABLEtv as well as my other exclusive content on the platform, check out this link: https://liftable.tv/lamour/

We've been through our ups and downs with friendships, but one thing that stands out between the relationships that worked and those that didn't was having God at the center. We've learned that forcing or "making" people into friends not only drained us emotionally, but it also put a strain on our marriage. How? You'll have to listen to find out. "One who has unreliable friends soon comes to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother." - Proverbs 18:24 To watch this full episode on LIFTABLEtv as well as my other exclusive content on the platform, check out this link: https://liftable.tv/lamour/

On the subject of raising children, there are a lot of standards in the Christian culture that haven't lined up with scripture. It's been a common default to leave God out of the discussion when it comes to our child's success and also leave it up to chance if our child discovers their purpose or not. We're here to share some of the lessons we've learned since becoming parents that haven't always been heavily discussed within the church. "Train up a child in the way he should go [teaching him to seek God's wisdom and will for his abilities and talents], Even when he is old he will not depart from it." - Proverbs 22:6 To watch this full episode on LIFTABLEtv as well as my other exclusive content on the platform, check out this link: https://liftable.tv/lamour/

In your life, you've probably come across plenty of Christian media that just lacks the polish that most main stream media productions have. In today's episode, we're talking about a series we've been watching called "The Chosen" and how it inspired us personally as well as changed the game when it comes to faith-based content. Have you seen the show? Let us know! "For God so loved the world that He gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life." - John 3:16 GIVEAWAY DETAILS: Giveaway is open to people with a U.S. mailing address only. Enter by commenting on the YouTube video for this episode that you want to win these gifts from "The Chosen" no later than 11:59pm PST August 14th, 2021. I'll be picking the winner on August 15th, 2021. Here is a link to "The Chosen" YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBXOFnNTULFaAnj24PAeblg Here is my husband's video detailing his experience creating fan art for "The Chosen": https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1rXuz_3Q4jg

We've had our fair share of being on the outside, but that's not where God wants us to stay forever. In this episode, we talk about how we've dealt with rejection, feeling like we don't belong, and letting go of the wrong people in order to create space for divine relationships. "But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God's special possession, that you may declare the praises of Him who called you out of darkness into His wonderful light." - 1 Peter 2:9

Have you ever felt like you received a dream or desire from God, but you didn't know what to do about it or have the support to keep believing God would come through? We've been there too, and that's why we wanted to share a personal story of how we kept the faith even when circumstances didn't seem to line up with what God was asking us to do. "Take delight in the LORD, and He will give you the desires of your heart." - Psalm 37:4 Here is the video we mentioned where Jerrell goes into more detail about his recent "dream job come true". https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8ZUkGc_SJk8

If you've been following along with us for any length of time, you'll know that we just had our second child in November. We're so excited about being parents to two little blessings and wanted to share some details about bringing our son into the world. We're going over pregnancy, labor, and delivery. If any of those interest you, let's chat! "It is the same with my word. I send it out, and it always produces fruit. It will accomplish all I want it to, and it will prosper everywhere I send it." -Isaiah 55:11 GIVEAWAY DETAILS: Email me at lamourinchrist@gmail.com in order to enter the giveaway to receive my maternity clothes. The winner must have a United States mailing address and contact me by Sunday December 27th at 11:59pm PST. Winner will be chosen and contacted on Monday December 28th. GIVEAWAY DETAILS: Email me at lamourinchrist@gmail.com in order to enter the giveaway to receive my maternity clothes. The winner must have a United States mailing address and contact me by Sunday December 27th at 11:59pm PST. Winner will be chosen and contacted on Monday December 28th.

You've probably heard the phrases "youth is wasted on the young" and "I wish I knew then what I know now". One thing that we know for sure is that time only moves forward and not backwards (unless you have a time machine). Instead of allowing the enemy to keep us in a constant state of regret, let's keep moving on with what we do know and do better when we can. "Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus." - Philippians 3:13-14

There's a popular saying that "time heals all wounds". If only that were the case, it would be so much easier. The truth of the matter is it takes a lot of work to get to the point of truly living in freedom and healing with Christ's strength. It might be the longer and harder route, but we're here to tell you it's totally worth it! "Lord my God, I called to you for help, and you healed me." - Psalm 30:2

It might take a while to understand what healthy relationships look like if you haven't had a lot of experience with them. Unfortunately, the enemy is always ready and willing to set you up in a community that doesn't have your best interest at heart and actually impedes on your progress with the Lord. Today we talk about our personal experiences with having to walk away and sever ties with people for different reasons and how we came to the point of allowing God to help strengthen us through that process. "If anyone will not welcome you or listen to your words, leave that home or town and shake the dust off your feet." - Matthew 10:14

If you're alive, you've probably had someone lie about you behind your back, try to assassinate your character, or make you question the things you believe to be true about yourself. We've both been there and had a hard time coping with it until we allowed God to intervene. Dealing with difficult people is a given in this life, but it's up to us to pray and seek God on how to protect our God-given identity and stop allowing ourselves to be victimized by others. "At one time we too were foolish, disobedient, deceived and enslaved by all kinds of passions and pleasures. We lived in malice and envy, being hated and hating one another. But when the kindness and love of God our Savior appeared, he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit, whom he poured out on us generously through Jesus Christ our Savior, so that, having been justified by his grace, we might become heirs having the hope of eternal life. This is a trustworthy saying. And I want you to stress these things, so that those who have trusted in God may be careful to devote themselves to doing what is good. These things are excellent and profitable for everyone." - Titus 3:3-8

You may have wondered if God wants to have a say in your future. The answer is: YES! In this episode, we're sharing what we've done wrong, how we got on the right track, and why you should never give up on your God-given dreams. "Call to me and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know." - Jeremiah 33:3 Here's where I'll be posting more about our Baby Registry when it's up! https://itsonlyreality.com Here is a link to my husband's new book. Happy reading! Let us know what you think... https://www.amazon.com/Trials-Samson-Bloodlines-II/dp/B08JVLBZXX/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1SZBIZE5Q2171&dchild=1&keywords=trials+of+samson+volume+2&qid=1602300742&sprefix=trials+of+sa%2Caps%2C210&sr=8-1

There are so many ways we are deceived by the enemy. He uses blatant attacks as well as those that are not so obvious. We're sharing our personal experience regarding the ways we've been tricked and how we went to God for wisdom. Don't waste your time being taken for a fool. Instead, seek Jesus for understanding to get through life with truth on your side. "The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge; fools despise wisdom and instruction." -Proverbs 1:7

It's no secret that the days are getting darker and the world is on a detrimental path. Now more than ever we need to seek The Lord in how we navigate through the opinions and pressures that come from secular media and the many voices within it. Will you continue to stand for the truth and protect you and your family at all costs? "Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter." - Isaiah 5:20

Why do people set up idols in their hearts and why is it wrong? Today we discuss the harm of putting anything before God and how sometimes we do it without even knowing it. "Therefore, my beloved, flee from idolatry." - 1 Corinthians 10:14

We've made it to the 11 year mark of marriage, and boy has it been a journey. To commemorate this occasion on our podcast, we opened up our discussion to questions from you guys. You asked us about our relationship and relationship advice in general, so let's get started! "Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you: Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires" - Song of Solomon 8:4

Fear is such a huge tactic the enemy uses to keep us from the path God has for us. We're sharing how it's impacted us personally and how we've seen examples of it throughout the Bible. Have you had to overcome fear in your own life? We'd love to hear about it in the comments! "For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline." - 2 Timothy 1:7

A few weeks ago, I asked Jerrell questions that many wives are too afraid to ask. This time, the tables are turned and I'm in the hot seat. We hope that these questions will help you to open the door to deeper conversations in your own relationship and give some insight on marriage from a Christian perspective. Let us know if you have any additional questions! "He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD." - Proverbs 18:22

In your personal life, has social media come with mostly negative or mostly positive experiences? Social media is just a tool that's up to us to use wisely, but it can often lead to fights, ended relationships, and resentment towards those you interact with. Here are some ways to avoid the toxic traps that many fall into on a daily basis, especially in such volatile times we see ourselves in today. "Don't have anything to do with foolish and stupid arguments, because you know they produce quarrels." - 2 Timothy 2:23

Being a new Christian can be a very confusing and overwhelming time in general. Even more so now that many churches are shut down and even small gatherings are prohibited in certain places around the world due to the pandemic and civil unrest. So what should you do as you navigate your newfound faith? We're here to offer some advice. Thank you for your comments and involvement in inspiring conversations like these! "Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and eat with him, and he with Me." - Revelation 3:20

Talking about Jesus can be frightening. Especially in a culture where a lifestyle of following God directly goes against the desires of the world. We're talking today about the mistakes we've made in sharing the gospel as well as how we've learned to do it the right and effective way. "But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect, keeping a clear conscience, so that those who speak maliciously against your good behavior in Christ may be ashamed of their slander." - 1 Peter 3:15-16

We've been married for almost 11 years and to say we've been through some stuff is an understatement. We've seen marriages end within our family and friend groups, and we've seen marriages (including ours) go through fires we never saw coming. That being said, we wanted to share in depth why divorce hasn't and will never be an option for us and how we've been able to make it this far. "So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate." - Matthew 19:6

We cannot emphasize enough how important it is to guard yourself and be careful of who you let close to you in life. Be prayerful and allow God to let you know if any of these toxic traits are running rampant in the people close to you or even yourself. "Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces." -Matthew 7:6

I've seen this tag going around for a few months and wanted to try it out on my own husband. Today, Jerrell is in the hot seat answering questions you guys asked on my Instagram Story. We're keeping a Christian perspective in mind, so this will help whether you're single, dating, engaged, or married. What was your favorite question? Let us know! "Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear." -Ephesians 4:29

Cancel culture is running rampant in the U.S. nowadays. Some will say it's good to hold people accountable for their actions, but are we taking it too far? Let's look at the some of the ways this type of extreme thinking can actually negatively affect our walk with God. "But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins." - Matthew 6:15

Now that the news is out there, we're sharing some honest thoughts and feelings about how this pregnancy has been and what wonderful things God has done throughout the past few months despite everything going on in the world. "Children are a gift from the Lord; they are a reward from Him." - Psalm 127:3 Check out my pregnancy/motherhood blog that I mentioned: http://www.itsonlyreality.com

Many people will tell you who to identify with because of your background, culture, or skin color. All of these things are superficial when it comes to the values you hold dear. In this episode, we talk in depth about why culture will never be able to define us as Christians and neither will our skin color. "And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity. Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful." -Colossians 3:14-15

It can be hard not to become swept up in terrible things that are happening globally or even personally. How do we keep from throwing in the towel? We share some tips that we've learned about keeping a positive outlook and allowing God to help us with our perspective. "Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable--if anything is excellent or praiseworthy--think about such things." - Philippians 4:8

There are so many hard issues facing humans across the globe. Racism is one of them, and it's been in the spotlight lately. Sometimes it feels like there is a darkness is looming across humanity that never goes away. Unfortunately, as long as satan has a presence here on earth we will always feel that darkness. But there is hope for those who put their trust in Jesus and allow Him to be a part of the solution. There is hope when you know that your purpose directly correlates with the solutions God has for our problems. Let's talk about that today. "May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope." - Romans 15:13

If you're a Christian, you've probably heard of the term "soul ties" and thought "What are they?". Is it something you can only get when you sleep with someone? Is it an emotional connection? Can it be broken? These are all questions we'll be discussing in this episode. "So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed." -John 8:36

It seems like the world is crumbling around you and now you're left to return to a sense of normalcy. With a global pandemic, it's hard not to let it shift your perspective or even throw you for a loop. In this episode we're encouraging you to fix your eyes on Jesus as the storm rages around you, and rely on God to steady your feet for the journey ahead. "Heaven and earth will pass away, but My words will never pass away." -Matthew 24:35 As we mentioned, here is a link to my husband's new book. Happy reading! Let us know what you think... https://www.amazon.com/Trials-Samson-Bloodlines-Eggiz%C5%8D-Entertainment/dp/B0892J1F8X/ Join the Eggizo Facebook Group Here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/TheTrialsOfSamson/

Does God care who you marry? Why is it taking so long to find "the one'? Is it okay to date someone who's not a Christian? How do you know you're ready for marriage? Should you have close friends of the opposite sex? How do you handle a long distance relationship? These are some of the questions you sent in that we answered in our dating Q&A. Thank you for participating! "But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you." -Matthew 6:33

There are many times in our Christian walk when we might be confused about if we're going through a trial, if God is testing us, or if the enemy is attacking us. We dive into our personal experience in this episode and hope to shed some light on how you can apply the lessons we learned to your own life so that you can begin to tell the difference. "Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all." - 2 Corinthians 4:16-17

We think pretty much everyone cares about what other people think of them, but what if it goes too far? What if their opinion of you starts to shape how you see yourself? The only way to get out of that trap is to learn to place your identity in Christ. We share some practical ways on how to do just that. "Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ." - Galatians 1:10

What does it mean to have balance? Can you have it all, do it all, and be everything to everyone? We've learned the hard way that balance is something you have to be intentional about; it doesn't just happen. So, let's talk about what it means to prioritize as a Christian and navigate through responsibilities in a healthy way. "There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens." - Ecclesiastes 3:1