Red Truck Marriage

We're back! It's been over eight months since we recorded our Red Truck Marriage podcast, and it feels great to finally connect with our audience! Today, we tell the story of how we navigated the personal struggle that kept us away during this time. Some days we didn't do so well, and others were marked by amazing spiritual, emotional, and relational growth. The truth is that all marriages will face hardship. In fact, without life's difficulties, it is impossible to grow! Our hope is that you hear in our story all that we learned and are encouraged to "fight the good fight" when things don't go as planned. Walking with you is a true honor as we all pursue God's Best in marriage!So let's get started!

Welcome to our 5th of 6 episodes discussing what we believe are the Top 6 Topics Couples Argue About in Marriage. Today we discuss the issue of Power and Control in Marriage. **We want to be clear that this episode is not about physical, verbal, or emotional abuse. If physical, verbal, or emotional abuse occurs in your marriage, we want you to take action by getting help. Reach out to us at  www.impactingpeople.com or click the help link below. It is never okay to be physically or emotionally abused by your spouse.** In today's episode, we discuss how an unequal distribution of power and control in marriage can destroy true intimacy and what couples can do about it. We also discuss how misguided rules can distract from our Creator's call to "Clothe ourselves with a LOVE that binds us together." We believe this episode will help you navigate in such a way that your "voice" is heard and respected by each other, even when there are different points of view!So let's get started!But first, as discussed on the podcast...Here's the link to our free eBook: Our Top 5 Tips to Improve Communication Now!Physical & Emotional Abuse Help link

Welcome to our 4th of 6 episodes discussing what we believe are the Top 6 Topics Couples Argue About in Marriage. Today we discuss How To Manage Household Responsibilities in your marriage.We have found that many spouses experience frustration and even anger over what they believe is an unfair distribution of household responsibilities.  Let's face it; most people are exhausted at the end of their workdays, yet the tasks continue into the evening and on weekends. So how do couples navigate this reality without thinking someone in the marriage is not pulling their weight or, worse yet, disinterested in equal responsibility?We believe this episode will help you navigate conversations about shared household responsibilities and devise a game plan to make your marriage feel more like a partnership. Chances are you both want the same thing... a sense of connection where everyone feels appreciated, respected, and equally responsible for the important but mundane tasks at home. So let's get started!But first, as discussed on the podcast...Here's the link to our free eBook: Our Top 5 Tips to Improve Communication Now!

Welcome to our third of 6 episodes discussing what we believe are the Top 6 Topics Couples Argue About in Marriage. Today we discuss How To Talk About the Frequency & Quality of Sex in your marriage.So have you ever wondered why emotions can escalate when talking about the frequency and quality of sex in your marriage? Today we discuss the answer to that question, and so much more! We discuss some of the differences between you and your spouse when it comes to sex drive and some of the things that fuel sexual energy.We believe this episode will help you navigate conversations about physical intimacy in a way that leads to emotional connection instead of conflict. Be inspired as you listen! Chances are you both desire the same thing... to be spiritually, emotionally, and physically connected!  So let's get started!But first, as discussed on the podcast...Here's the link to our free eBook: Our Top 5 Tips to Improve Communication Now!

So we decided to take a quick detour from our series the 6 Topics Couples Argue About in Marriage. Instead, we are discussing our story of struggle as we bring in the New Year, and how we are trying to navigate one day at a time.We believe it is fitting to commit this first RTM episode of the New Year to a topic that every couple can relate to... hardship. All couples are faced with the decision to either allow "life struggle" to create a divide or cultivate a deeper connection.  In today's episode, we talk about actions we are taking to grow our marriage amid our current struggles. Our choice to be intentional about these actions is serving us well (most days). Although we continue to feel the heat of the current "fire" we are walking through, our hearts continue to grow closer. How is that possible? Come and see!So let's get started!But first, as promised on the podcast...Here's the link to our free eBook: Our Top 5 Tips to Improve Communication Now!and to Stuart's website to learn more about The Notebook Meeting.

Welcome to our second of 6 episodes discussing what we believe are the 6 Topics Couples Argue About in Marriage. Today we talk about How Couples Can Manage Disagreement in Parenting.So have you ever wondered why parenting can be such a "hot-button" topic in marriage? Today we discuss the answer to that question, and so much more! We offer sound suggestions on how to lower the temperature when conflict arises over how to best parent your children. We also name a few of the non-negotiables for effective parenting. We believe this episode will help you navigate toward a true partnership as you lead your children. Be inspired as you listen! Chances are you both desire the same thing... for your children to be the best versions of themselves! The question is, how do you "parent" from the same page?  So let's get started!But first, as promised on the podcast...Here's the link to our free eBook: Our Top 5 Tips to Improve Communication Now!

Welcome to our first episode discussing what we believe are the 6 Topics Couples Argue About in Marriage. The first topic we cover today is: How to Respond to the Lack of Attention and Affection in Marriage. So have you ever had feelings of anger, hurt, frustration, and loneliness when your spouse seemed unwilling or unable to give you attention and affection? Have there been times when you even resorted to begging for your spouse's attention and affection? When experiencing a lack of affection, many couples get stuck in conflict and isolation because they don't know how to name and talk about their feelings without blaming the other. We believe this episode will help you navigate towards a more fulfilling and deeper connection with your spouse and ultimately reduce the conflict that leaves you exhausted and alone.  So let's get started!But first, as promised...Here's the link to our free eBook: Our Top 5 Tips to Improve Communication Now!

Are you like many couples who long to put an end to constant arguing? In marriage, we ALL face the daily challenge of preventing conversations from turning into conflict. When we allow conflict to become a daily occurrence, we develop destructive communication habits that can impact the entire family.  Today we talk about how to replace those destructive communication habits with proven tools that can produce more peace, respect, and connection in your marriage. We also discuss the two motivating forces that bring about real change in behavior. If you are interested in changing daily arguments into healthy conversations and stopping the negative habits of emotional escalation and relational disconnect, this episode is for you! We know you will get a ton of hope and encouragement by joining us today. It is a true honor to walk with you as we all pursue God's Best in marriage!So let's get started!

Today we talk about an experience we had while out to dinner with friends. One of the couples was celebrating their wedding anniversary,  which made the moment "ripe" for meaningful discussion about marriage. The question we threw out to the table of six was, "What are the top one or two 'pro tips' you can offer us for staying emotionally, spiritually, and physically connected?" Wow, did we get a few great nuggets!If you are like most couples who experience short periods or sometimes long seasons of feeling disconnected, you will want to hear what our friends had to offer! We think you will get a ton of encouragement to pursue your spouse and the Creator of marriage. It is a true honor to walk with you as we all pursue God's Best in marriage!So let's get started!

We are inundated with magazine articles, YouTube videos, TV commercials, and even podcasts about the importance of self-care... but what about Couple-Care?  The lack of Couple-Care is the reason Stuart and I frequently hear couples say, "We can't really explain it, we got busy with life, and now our sense of real connection and partnership has gone away!" Well, here's what we know to be true: couples who are intentional about caring for their relationship will recognize when the connection is "slipping," and take action!Today we discuss how the connection in our own marriage started slipping, what the signs were, and what we did to "fix it!" Our story may not exactly be your story, but we know you will relate to how easy it is to allow the day-to-day busyness to distract you from cultivating a marriage full of love and connection. A mutual commitment to Couple-Care is the answer to creating a fulfilling marriage in the midst of a busy life!  It is a true honor to walk with you as we all pursue God's Best in marriage!So let's get started!

Let's face it, arguments between spouses occur way more than most couples would like to admit. The question is whether or not the argument crosses the line into being hurtful or destructive. We have all behaved (out of escalated emotions) in ways that make us wish we could have a "do-over!"Today we discuss a PLAYBOOK that will not only help you avoid those hurtful interactions but also help you grow in your ability to regulate your emotions. If taken seriously, these strategies have the potential to cultivate a deeper connection between you and your spouse; one that has never been experienced before! They will also help you live a more emotionally mature version of yourself!  It is a true honor to walk with you as we all pursue God's Best in marriage!So let's get started!

Have you ever noticed that oftentimes conflict in your marriage is fueled by stress? If you are like many couples, the answer is "yes" to this question.  Stress is a common thread that all people share, and it can become very destructive in marriage. So what can you do about it? Today we discuss how stress can dramatically impact the "day-to-day" in marriage by fueling unnecessary conflict. We also discuss how unmanaged stress will ultimately impact your personal well-being for the worse! Of course, we won't leave you hanging without some proven strategies for successfully navigating stress with your spouse and getting back to the "best version of yourself and marriage!" It is a true honor to walk with you as we all pursue God's Best in marriage!We hope you enjoy this episode!   So let's get started!

So why is Grace and Forgiveness so Scandalous? It's the most unnatural act of humankind, and goes against almost every fiber in our body! Yet, we are all starving for the freedom, peace, restoration, and joy that only Grace and Forgiveness can give.  Today we talk about what grace and forgiveness look like in relationships and why it is truly the pathway to a deeper, safer, and more intimate marriage. We also discuss why so many of us are "stuck" in ungrace and unforgiveness, which fuels a life of loneliness, resentment, and hardship. We believe this episode is the most important topic we have ever delivered or will ever deliver!Thank you for joining us today. May you be blessed with the freedom to bring grace and forgiveness to a world full of ungrace and unforgiveness. We hope you enjoy this episode!   So let's get started!

Do you remember in the story Snow White and the  Seven Dwarfs the Evil Queen became angry when the mirror answered her question with THE TRUTH? Apparently, the Evil Queen was not interested in the truth that could help her become the best version of herself!  Today we talk about what it means to "hold a mirror up in front of our spouse" for the purpose of having the most intimate relationship possible (and, not to mention, remarkable personal and relational growth). We also talk about some of the reasons why attempting such an intimate act of having those "deeper" conversations ends in pushback, anger, resentment, defensiveness, and withdrawal. As you will hear in this episode, it's important to continue to grow your marriage so that "looking in the mirror" becomes commonplace! Although those deeper conversations can and will be difficult, the potential outcome can be deep friendship, security, connectedness, and creating the best version of yourself!As promised... click here to register for the "The Marriage Deck Deep Dive" webinar! We hope you enjoy this episode!   So let's get started!

So have you ever "punched up" a particular dish you are serving with your secret sauce, those ingredients that would take your meal from ho-hum to spectacular? Marriage can sometimes seem ho-hum and in need of some secret sauce! If this is your marriage, you have two options... 1) Learn to live in a marriage that falls painfully short of the connection, energy, companionship, and joy you once experienced or hoped for, or 2) Decide to change old habits and create that "secret sauce" that will change your marriage story into a life of authenticity, true partnership, and intimacy.  Today we will share those ingredients that we have found to be our secret sauce, and invite you to add a few more (ingredients) of your own! You will hear practical, yet profoundly powerful actions to take that will redefine how you do the "marriage journey" together! So let's get started!

Do you ever find yourself expending a ton of physical and emotional energy on tasks that don't  really seem to satisfy the desires of your heart and soul? Maybe you're that person who is constantly responding to the demands that pop up throughout the day instead of dedicating time to pursue your passions or calling. If so, you probably end up like many people: frustrated, tired, hurried, and unfulfilled. The good news is there is something you  can do about it!Today we talk about how to change the "old script" of allowing life's urgencies to hijack the joy and peace that can only come by living out your true calling. It's what we call, "focusing on your North Star." So what is your North Star? It's the people, work, and places (to name a few) that you are called to love and care about! Is it possible to follow that North Star most days? Absolutely!  Join us today on this episode to do a short self-assessment, and discover new ways to live out your authentic life. It's what we call “God's Best!”So let's get started!

The holidays can be a very stressful time of the year for a whole host of reasons. Many couples say that navigating the expectations of their extended family is on or near the top of the list of reasons for experiencing stress! Why is this so prevalent? Do your attempts to please grandparents, parents, aunts, uncles, and other extended family members hijack some of the "Merry" in your Christmas holidays, or, worse yet, prevent you from creating your own family traditions?  Today we talk about how to navigate the touchy subject of creating your own family holiday traditions when the extended family members mentioned above have other plans or expectations in mind. This episode will help you and your spouse create a plan that you can both feel great about!After all, it is perfectly natural to establish holiday traditions that will make every year something to look forward to for everyone in your family! It is possible to feel less stress and more MERRY this holiday season... we are sure of it! So let's get started!

One of the most common complaints spouses have is that their partner won't talk about their feelings. The absence of sharing feelings frequently leaves couples wondering if there is more to married life than simply managing the mundane day-to-day, having sex once in a while, and taking a vacation every year.We want you to know you CAN have so much more!Today we talk about the "why" and the "what" of this common complaint. That is, WHY it is that couples struggle to talk about their feelings, and WHAT you (as a couple) can do about it.This episode has the potential to help you and your spouse change the old story of emotional disconnect! You will learn how you can create a culture in your marriage that makes sharing feelings commonplace, and thus, create a marriage that feels safe even when those feelings are difficult to express or hear!So let's get started!

Have you ever watched a child play and wondered why they have so much joy? Perhaps their joy and zest for life come from the play itself! Couples who are intentional about play tend to describe their marriage as life-giving (at least most days)!Many couples who get caught up in the day-to-day hustle and bustle forget the powerful positive effect "play" has on their relationship. Play is one of those hidden secrets to a profoundly intimate marriage. Today we discuss some of the amazing benefits for couples who are intentional about making play a priority. We also give examples in our own marriage story of ways we have made play essential even while navigating all the "busyness" that life brings our way.This episode has the potential to help you have a profound life-giving impact on your sacred marriage!So let's get started!

Why is it that the topic of sex catches almost everyone's attention? Perhaps it's because sex is linked to such a huge bag of emotions... some good and some not-so-good.For many couples, there are very positive associations like emotional and spiritual connection, bliss, deep joy, exclusivity, and physical pleasure. Yet for others, the associations are not so positive. Feelings of shame, anxiety, resentment, and fear (to name a few) can hijack what was intended to be sacred for those who said: "I Do!" Today we discuss perhaps a new way to think about sex in marriage. We also discuss ways to bring new energy to physical intimacy between you and your spouse. Make sure to listen as we answer the question of Is It Sex or "Love-Making?" You may be surprised to hear our answer!This we know for sure... you have the power to write a marriage story full of physical and emotional connection that will bring great joy to the heart! So let's get started!

Everyone's authentic marriage story is powerful and sacred! Is it possible that there is a Greater Author to that story, and we are invited to "co-author" it with Him?  Today we discuss our own marriage story, both the wonderful and not-so-wonderful. We hope it encourages you to discover ways to create a marriage that offers restoration to each other, fueled by Love & Grace. We also shed light on what it means to "submit one to another" in marriage.You have the power to write a new chapter to your marriage story! A chapter full of connection, romance, forgiveness, play, grace, and restoration.So let's get started!

If you've been married for a while, you have experienced those seasons in your marriage when it seems the emotional or physical juices aren't exactly flowing. Perhaps there are some obvious reasons that you can identify or maybe not… all you know is, as a couple, you feel like you're living out your marriage in a desert with no idea of how to change it! If that describes your marriage right now, or if you want to avoid those desert seasons, we are so glad you are here!Today we talk about some of the root causes that create those "dry conditions" of disconnect and emotional isolation, and how to redefine your marriage partnership as vibrant, connected, joyful, and having a sense of oneness. So be encouraged... there are ways to begin that journey out of the desert and into those greener pastures!! You won't want to miss this episode!So let's get started!

Have you ever tried to address a conflict within your marriage, but resorted to trying desperately to change your spouse? Or perhaps a better question... have you ever felt frustrated, hopeless, or even angry because your spouse won't do or act in a way that seems so right or logical to you?My guess is yes! We have all been guilty of trying to do the impossible... change something about our spouse. Changing our spouse is impossible because it is way above our pay grade. So does being powerless to change our spouse (or anybody else for that matter) mean we should just live with it and experience conflict forever? Absolutely not! There is hope for all couples who want peace, joy, and connection in their marriage. Today we discuss how to navigate conflict in your marriage without attempting to do the impossible task of changing your partner, but instead by helping each other become the best versions of yourselves. We believe this episode will give you tremendous hope and practical tools to grow deeper in your marriage as you live out God's Best together. This is a can't-miss episode!So let's get started!

If you are like most people, the feeling of stress or anxiety is at full strength this time of year. For many couples, their children are starting back to school, fall sports are in high gear, and our world continues to struggle through health, political, and social crises. We know this for sure... when stress is high, marriages are impacted! But guess what... we all have the ability to manage stress in such a way that we can stand up underneath the chaos with strength, hope, joy, and connection with the ones we love!Today we talk about specific tools and strategies that have been proven to give couples the power they need to live out God's best even when stress is at its peak! This episode is a must for any couple who is interested in building a foundation for living an empowered life now!So let's get started!

We often say at the end of each episode that it's not good to navigate marriage alone. This wisdom is the driving force behind the Red Truck Marriage podcast! Our belief is that great marriages are developed in the context of a great community!  Today we talk about a dream of ours that has finally come to pass... It's the Red Truck Marriage Mastermind Group! We have always wanted to create an opportunity for couples to belong to such a community where people really get to know other couples, hear their stories, share their own stories in a safe space, learn tools to grow deeper in marriage, be encouraged by others, and celebrate wins! We decided to make this launch announcement to our ever-growing and faithful Red Truck Marriage podcast community first! Obviously, our excitement comes because we will be directly involved in this amazing opportunity for couples to live God's best in marriage! We are thrilled that you are here today to learn more about what promises to be a remarkable experience! And did we mention… there is a special offer for you to become a Founding Member! So let's get started!

Is there room in your marriage for transformation? By transformation, we mean remarkable improvement in the emotional, spiritual, and physical connection with your spouse. Great communication is the pathway to having such transformation.Today we talk with personal development experts, Wyman and Rosemary Winbush. The Winbushes have a heart for helping people discover what it means to live out "God's Best" in marriage, work, and family. We discuss ways to overcome some of the barriers to having great communication in marriage and a whole host of other related topics.This episode is a must for anyone who believes there is room in their marriage for transformation. Grab a pen and paper! You will want to remember many of the "nuggets" you're about to hear!So let's get started!Here are the links to learn more about Wyman & Rosemary Winbushhttps://www.wymanwinbush.com/https://www.rosemarywinbush.com/https://www.facebook.com/rosemary.winbush/https://www.facebook.com/wyman.winbushhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/wwinbush/https://www.linkedin.com/in/rosemary-winbush-35120965/https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC50ZnlTj_KSLEBXqe2Rv9Ww/videoshttps://www.instagram.com/wwinbush/https://www.instagram.com/rwwinbush/https://twitter.com/wwinbushhttps://twitter.com/RosemaryWin

One of the most powerful and meaningful gifts a spouse can give their partner is affirmations. That's right! The authentic spoken word is food for the soul! The question is... how do I affirm or build my spouse up in such a way that truly matters? Today we talk about three principles of affirmation that will over time create a sacred space in your spouse's heart that will feel like home. The Apostle Paul got it right when he called on God's people to encourage and build each other up! Is this guidance applicable in marriage? Of course, it is!This episode is a must for anyone who wants to be that authentic voice of love, encouragement, and strength in their spouse's ear!So let's get started!

So have you ever been faced with the decision to bring love or kindness to your spouse when you really didn't feel like it? It's usually during those times when you don't particularly feel all that connected, or you feel tired or frustrated with the person you said "I Do" to. The dilemma comes when you know in your heart that the right thing is to bring LOVE & KINDNESS to your spouse, but you withhold. If you are like many couples, you've been faced with this many times in your marriage!Today we talk about how to win this inner battle more times than not. In fact, we discuss how you can actually experience a "change of heart" to where there is little or no battle at all! Couples who make a habit of serving each other even when they don't feel like it discover the meaning of "transforming love!”This episode is a must for any couple who wants to experience a true breakthrough in bringing love, kindness, and service to their marriage more consistently.So let's get started!

No matter how strong your marriage is, there will always be times of feeling an emotional, spiritual, or physical disconnect. Those are the times when you realize you are just going through the motions as a couple, or "doing life" alone.If this is your story, you can take action... there is hope for even the most disconnected couple. The key is having a desire to change the story, and then being intentional about your action plan!Today we talk about how couples can reclaim the connection they once experienced, and go even deeper than ever before! We discuss the "4 P's" of bringing greater connection in your marriage. This strategy is practical, doable, and remarkably effective for couples who desire change.This episode is a must for any couple who is interested in doing life together as connected partners!So let's get started!

Do you really know or have you ever asked what your spouse's Life Dreams are? How would your marriage be impacted if both of you became each other's Biggest Fan, a fan who not only cheers the other on... but one who also comes down from the stands and participates in helping each other be successful?!Setting your spouse and marriage up for success requires conversation and an authentic desire to know your spouse's heart and "dreams" deeply! It's a way of doing life together where establishing a Balance of Significance is a priority.Today we talk about how couples can create sacredness in their marriage by being their spouse's #1 Fan not just in word, but also in action. This episode is a must for any couple who is interested in creating a love life that brings amazing joy!So let's get started!

Would you like to be at a place in your marriage where you or your spouse are able to manage emotions even if the other struggles to do so? That is... a person who stays in "your own shoes?"Most of us want to be that person who is able to maintain our sense of self, even when our spouse is "off track" emotionally. We don't want to follow our spouse deep into that downward spiral of emotionality. So how do you avoid such a destructive "dance" with your partner? Today we talk about how you can stay in your own shoes without appearing to be disinterested in your spouse's wellbeing. In fact, you will discover how you can help your spouse and attend to your own emotional wellness.This episode is a must for any couple who is interested in living from a place of emotional strength and maturity! So let's get started!

So how is it that we can work so hard on changing something about our behavior, start having success, then all of a sudden the "old' behavior comes back and impacts our relationships negatively? Well that my friend is called the "TWITCH!" Most married couples have experienced setbacks (twitches) in their marriage without a moment's notice. The key is learning how to navigate when those "old behaviors" return without letting them produce major discouragement, conflict, hopelessness, and disconnect.   Today we talk about the inevitable TWITCH that happens whenever people attempt to replace the old behaviors with new ones, and how to manage such setbacks in marriage. You will hear how couples can truly use this common occurrence for remarkable growth in their marriage!  So let's get started!

Does the topic of money bring joy and peace in your marriage, or does it generate fear and anxiety? Most likely, we all have our stories that would include all of the above!Do couples with an abundance of money feel more joy? Is it a good idea for you to talk about family finances with your children? How has your family of origin shaped how you think about money?Today we talk about these questions and a whole lot more with our dear friends, Mark and Amy Bondi. Mark serves others as a Financial Wealth Advisor. His wife, Amy, is a small business entrepreneur working as an Interior Design Consultant. Both Mark and Amy spend much of their time and energy mentoring young couples who are learning how to live out God's best in marriage.You won't want to miss this episode with Mark and Amy! They are warm, funny, smart, and authentic as they discuss the topic of Marriage & Money.So let's get started! 

The Red Truck Marriage community is growing by the minute, and we think we know why! Couples are hungry for a marriage full of grace, truth, compassion, forgiveness, intimacy, and friendship. It is such an honor to inspire and equip couples to drive that "Red Truck" in their marriages! So what exactly does it mean to drive such a truck in your marriage? You're about to find out! Today, not only do we tell the story of how the Red Truck Marriage organization got its name, but we also talk about an authentic way to live God's best in your marriage! If this is what you are searching for, you have come to the right place!  Welcome friends... it's not good for couples to navigate marriage alone!So let's get started! 

We are very grateful to have thousands of downloads that expand 6 continents. What do we think is the common thread with all of our listeners? They are all seeking to become more intimate in their marriages. This could be the most important episode regarding intimacy in marriage so far! Today we tell a story of a couple who want a level of intimacy that makes their relationship feel sacred. By sacred, we mean exclusive, deep, and connected to God and each other! Is it possible that praying together is the gateway to such a relationship? Yes! You won't want to miss this episode of the Red Truck Marriage podcast. We will talk about ways to think about prayer in marriage, and how couples can develop their own style when connecting with God together.So let's get started! 

We have all felt the emotional divide that hurt and anger can cause in our marriage. If left unattended, the divide can create habits of existing that don't just fade away! We are left feeling betrayed, hurt, alone, resentful, and dismayed.So what is the antidote? It's what author Philip Yancey calls "the Last Best Word"... GRACE!Today we talk about Grace and Forgiveness in the context of marriage. Without a doubt, choosing forgiveness can transform even the most divided marriage into God's Best... a relationship full of faith, hope, and love.If you are experiencing the great difficulty of giving forgiveness to a spouse or someone you love, you may get some encouragement and answers by joining us today!So let's get started!

Very few things could be more difficult than watching your child or teenager fight to maintain a strong sense of worth or confidence when the world seems to hijack it.  As parents, there are things you can do to help your child hold firm to the very foundation that brings strength, power, courage, and the fortitude to live out God's best in their lives!  Today we will give you some proven tips from our Courageous Parenting Seminar that will help you navigate with your child or teenager when the world seems harsh towards them.If you are a parent who wants practical strategies for helping your child grow their confidence, this episode is for you!So let's get started!

So what about the word Courageous? The root word, courage means heart... It takes a boatload of HEART to be an effective parent! Parenting can be a major source of joy and conflict in marriage. At times, we frequently second-guess if our parenting will make our children the best version of themselves. The stakes seem high! It's never a question of whether or not you love your child... of course, you do! The question is "how" you love your child as a courageous parent!Today we will give you some tips from our Courageous Parenting seminar. We've had the privilege of encouraging and giving tools to thousands of parents over the years... parents just like you who want God’s best for their children.It's essential to be ONE with your spouse as you navigate the most important job in the world... Parenting!So let's get started!

Are you interested in bringing out the best in your spouse and giving your best to your spouse? If so, this episode of the Red Truck Marriage podcast is for you! Today we are joined by our dear friends Tony and Trisha Vismor talking about ways to do just that!Tony is the Senior Pastor (our pastor) of Grace Fellowship Church near Athens, Georgia. He and his wife, Trisha, are huge fans of marriage and helping couples live out God's best in a covenant partnership.   In this episode, everything is on the table! We discuss communication, friendship, intimacy, overcoming resentment, and a whole host of other topics.We can't wait for you to hear from our good friends and supporters of the Red Truck Marriage podcast!So let's get started!

We have all been in conversations with our spouse when we later thought... "I wish I hadn't said that!" or "I wish I could take back those words!"We are now left with hurt, disconnection, and all the other emotional "wreckage" that follows.So how do you stop the bus from going too far down that road of destructive conversation in your marriage?  We will talk about it in today's episode and give you a powerful tool that will help you for years to come!So let's get started!

None of us said to our soon-to-be spouse... "I've got an idea, let's get married and wreck all this romance we are enjoying!"What we said was... "Let's get married and do this together for the rest of our lives!"So what happened? Day-to-day life came our way and hijacked life as we knew it. The question now is... How do we respond in such a way that will make us a thriving and connected couple?We will talk about it in today's episode. Most of us want answers to the most asked question among married couples... How do we navigate marriage in a way that will bring true connection, friendship, romance, and partnership in day-to-day life? We are so glad you are here!So let's get started!

Are you like many others who know the destructive power that clutter and chaos can have on marriages and families? You know...the struggle of managing work and family, or when there doesn't seem to be enough time in the day to care for yourself, your children, let alone your marriage? If this is all or part of your story, we are thrilled that you are joining us! Today we will give you a step-by-step process that has truly changed our lives and the lives of many couples over the years. The Notebook Meeting will help you clear the clutter and chaos that hijacks the love, joy, and peace we all want in our lives! If you have children, the Notebook Meeting is also for you! It will serve to give your children the opportunity to have a voice and engage in creating God's Best in your home. It's a structure that produces proven results along with a mindset that will make you want to dance in the streets (at least most days)! We recommend that you download the free Notebook Meeting Lift Off Package before you dive into this episode. You can also get our free download at www.redtruckmarriage.com/liftoff Be encouraged to have your first Notebook Meeting with great hope for the joy and freedom that is ahead!So let's get started!

Have you ever "rocked out" dancing to a song without really knowing the lyrics? If your answer is "yes," you aren't alone! Today we unpack the lyrics of one of the most insightful songs on marriage we have ever heard or danced to. If you have never considered your marriage as a form of dance, you probably will after this episode!Singer-Songwriter, Andrew Peterson captures in his song, Dancing In The Minefields, the joy, struggle, hope, and wonder of "dancing out" the famous last words in marriage... I Do!Whether you are listening to the Red Truck Marriage podcast because you want your good marriage to become great, or whether you are listening because of a broken heart over a marriage that may not make it, this episode is for you! We recommend that you listen to the song, Dancing In The Minefields before you dive into this episode. Be encouraged to DANCE with great hope for the joy that is ahead!So let's get started!

Happy New Year! Although January is the month for celebrating new beginnings, the truth is our stories don't start over. They go on with all the twists and turns (plots) of any truly authentic human story... just as it should be!Today we discuss the Power of Your Marriage Story. You will hear how the "Great Author" (God) writes our marriage story, but invites us to co-author it with Him. It can be an amazing journey full of hurts, joys, disappointments, and incredible gratitude if we treat our marriage story as the sacred piece of work that it is.You won't want to miss this episode! We hope it will inspire you to love, grow, share, own, be encouraged, and make peace with every chapter of your marriage story.So let's get started!

It's New Year's Eve, and we are producing an episode that we believe is so fitting for this time of year! As you know, our desire is for couples to learn new ways to live out God's best in marriage. We believe it begins with asking great questions that provide a window to see the mind and heart of your spouse! Today we discuss 5 Questions To Know Your Spouse More Deeply. Couples who are intentional about knowing and being known create a refuge that sets their marriage apart from all other relationships.We invite you to visit our website, www.impactingpeople.com to get your copy of the 5 Questions To Know Your Spouse More Deeply. You will also find our FUN BONUS DISCUSSION that will certainly bring "Romantic Energy" to the conversation!!So let's get started!

Do you ever have those days or even seasons when you're not feeling much "In-Love" with your spouse? Of course you do! The question is... What do you do about it? One thing is for sure, DON'T Panic or Settle for Less than God’s Best! Today we discuss how couples can navigate those times when life circumstances seem to hijack all the emotional, spiritual, and sexual energy out of your marriage. We all know that this dynamic is quite common for couples, even those with the best intentions of keeping their marriages fully alive! There are things you can do now to reclaim that love and connection!So let's get started!

Do you want to lift your marriage to new heights of connection, partnership, and joy? To do this you will need something reliable, strong, permanently fixed, and that will pass the test of time! This is especially the case when life circumstances do all they can to distract and discourage a strong marriage. Today we discuss what we call the Four Pillars of a Strong Marriage. These are the columns we place under the four corners of our marriage to keep it supported and lifted high.Again, do you want to lift your marriage to new heights of connection, partnership, and joy? The magic of your wedding day was in the "I Do!" So let's get started!

There are some clothes you should never take off, especially when you are with your spouse! Hold on- We're not down on physical intimacy! We're talking about not taking off the clothes described in the New Testament. These clothes are ones that "give life" to your spouse (and should be worn at all times) and are meant for those of us who want a marriage full of joy. Today we discuss those amazing words spoken by the Apostle Paul when he said, "Clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience." We believe this episode is a must for all couples to hear! It gets at the heart of what it means to feel true joy when Love Wins in your marriage! So let's get started!

We believe resentment toward your spouse is the #1 Intimacy Killer! Guess what?... Nobody is exempt from it! The feeling of resentment is part of the human experience in relationships. And it doesn't have to hijack your connection with your spouse! In fact, you will discover today that there is an "upside" to resentment.Today we talk about proven and practical strategies for identifying and removing resentment when it occurs. Remember this... the feeling of resentment in marriage is as common as not wanting to get out of bed some days. We believe this episode will give you yet another way to Drive the Red Truck In Your Marriage Today!So let's get started!

Do you ever wonder why stress in your life will eventually show up as conflict in your marriage? We have seen this play out with couples many times over the years. It’s even in our story! This episode is Part 2 of how to break free of the powerful and destructive Life Stress - Marital Conflict - Emotional Disconnect - Self Protection cycle.Today we talk about what we believe is the most powerful antidote to internal and marital conflict: GRACE! We do our best to capture what grace can look like in marriage, and describe how to practically apply it in everyday circumstances. You will also hear how we have used the concept of "Moving Forward" in our own marriage. The freedom, joy, and peace that follows is astounding!This episode will help you find new ways to resolve conflict and experience a deeper connection with your spouse that you never dreamed possible!So let's get started!

Do you ever wonder why stress in your life will eventually show up as conflict in your marriage? We have heard this story with couples many times over the years. It’s even in our story!Today we talk about the difficult cycle of Life Stress - Marital Conflict - Emotional Disconnect - Self Protection Couples who aren't aware or stay in this cycle will develop habits that are destructive and that seem impossible to overcome. The good news is everyone is capable of breaking free from such conflict!We believe this episode will help you find new ways to resolve conflict and experience a deeper connection with your spouse!So let's get started!