The Raw Reality Podcast

How do you actually turn social media into a career?Today we're sitting down with Katie Gulle, who over the last year quit her job and went full time into social media through organic content. We're talking ALL things social media, from her Beginning Boutique and YOMG collabs, to TikTok, Snapchat, podcasting and everything in between.We're getting into what actually works on social media in 2026, how to grow from 0 followers, what makes a video go viral, creating content that feels authentic, building a community and, most importantly, how you can turn your socials into an actual career.Katie is breaking down exactly what she would do if she had zero followers today, how she approaches content, what she thinks people are focusing on that doesn't actually matter, how to turn views into a loyal audience and how creators can start making money from their platforms.Plus, we talk about the biggest thing that holds so many people back from posting: being embarrassed about what people they know will think.If you've wanted to start posting for YEARS but keep telling yourself you're not ready… this one is for you.2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

This week on Raw Reality, we're unpacking the Sydney Sweeney controversy that's taken over social media, Tori is officially crashing out, and we're getting into the realities of mum life, business life and everything in between.From internet drama and hot takes to the things actually happening behind the scenes, nothing is off limits in this week's girls chat.2026 Notion templateRaw Reality ⁠https://rawreality.com.au/⁠⁠**⁠⁠https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**⁠Between Us Connection Cards ⁠https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=web⁠Find us below:@rawreallity ⁠https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw⁠@ttorisstory ⁠https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/⁠@fitwithlilyy ⁠https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/⁠Community Facebook group ⁠https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/⁠

If we had to start our coaching businesses from ZERO and make $1M in the next 12 months… what would we actually do?We're breaking down the exact things we'd focus on, from getting clients, creating offers, content, pricing, growing an audience and knowing when it's time to scale.We're sharing what we've learnt from building our own businesses, what we'd do differently and the things we think actually matter when you're trying to grow a coaching business.

Girl Club is BACK! And this week, we're answering YOUR dilemmas.From not having a boyfriend yet, to wondering why your boyfriend hasn't asked for your ring size

If we could sit down with our younger selves for one hour… this is what we'd sayFrom makeup, smoothie diets and editing the shit out of our photos, to friendships, family, health, school, travelling and why you really don't need to rush into adulthood. We're getting REAL about the things we thought mattered so much when we were younger, and the things we've learnt with a few more years under our belts.Then we're flipping it and sharing the 5 things we'd tell ourselves NOW… because apparently we've learnt some things. Action creates momentum, it's cool to try, get on top of your tax and SET SOME BOUNDARIES.A very honest chat about growing up, figuring shit out, and realising you probably didn't need to take everything so seriously in the first place.2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

From Saturday morning routines and Father's Day celebrations to beach days with Tate, Perth plans and the latest Princess Polly obsession, Tori is giving us the full life update. Lily's had a BIG week too, from client shows and hiring a new coach to launching Hannah's program and questioning whether pedicures are actually worth it...Plus, we're diving into the Alix Earle documentary because of course we have thoughts, sharing what's been stressing us out lately and chatting through all the usual life updates and chaos.And for this week's recommendation… making your own coconut rice. Trust us, it's underrated.Another Friday episode filled with life updates, business, chaos, opinions and the conversations you'd actually have with your girls.2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

#199 In this episode, we're unpacking the parts of fitness that no one really talks about, from consistency and gym anxiety to body image, confidence and the habits we unknowingly pick up from the people around us.We chat about why **consistency will always beat intensity when you're starting out, when intensity actually matters, and why you probably don't need a better program… you just need to do the one you already have better.We're also getting real about gym anxiety, feeling intimidated, finding the confidence to just walk through the doors, and why having someone beside you can make all the difference.Then we dive into body image, the pressure women feel to constantly look better, and why your fitness journey shouldn't just be about looking good in your 20s. Building strength, maintaining muscle and looking after your bones now can be one of the best investments you make in your future self.Plus, we're asking the question: how much are the people around you influencing your health and fitness habits?*From partners and friends to the behaviours we've started to see as “normal”, your environment can have a bigger impact than you realise.Consider this your no BS breakdown of fitness, what actually matters, what doesn't, and how to build a routine that works for YOUR life

This week's episode is a LOT. We're catching up on our chaotic weeks, from girl time, matcha and new pyjamas to therapy sessions, three cafes before midday and trying to make Capris work.Then we get into EVERYTHING happening online, from the Tess and Jules debacle and the internet's obsession with their last names, to the comparisons, Mormon mission comments and that swinging comment that had us talking. Plus, IFBB Season C, Grace Beverly popping up, baby names, Sarah's Day marathon, AFM hiring and so much more.Basically… nothing is off limits. Consider this your weekly therapy session.2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

#198 This week we are unpacking everything social media. How did we build our platforms, what you're doing wrong and what actually works in the industry. Not everyone 'pops off', but how important it is to keep posting. We are speaking on our own journey's and how different they both were, but why they both work. 2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

Our therapy session this week is a VERY honest one. We're talking about being way too hard on ourselves, breakdowns, feeling like no one understands unless they've been through it, new highs on the scales, decluttering your life and a few confessions along the way.Then we're getting into content creation, what to do when you feel like you've run out of ideas, and how to turn one concept into endless content.Plus, our current recommendations, from the podcasts we're loving to one very important hot honey obsession.2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

Winter has you feeling a little flat, unmotivated and over the cold? In this episode, we're sharing our 10 favourite ways to ditch the winter scaries and romanticise your life again, because sometimes you don't need a full life reset, you just need a few little things that make you feel like you again.From getting your nails done (almond French or light pink because choosing a risky colour and immediately regretting it is NOT the vibe) to booking a massage, fake tanning, cleaning out your wardrobe and giving your home a little Pinterest inspired refresh, we're getting into all the small things that can completely change your mood.We're also sharing our favourite makeup products, how to make your skincare routine feel like a GRWM, the easiest accessories to instantly look more put together, digital decluttering, resetting your “for you” playlist and why an at home brow tint might just be the underrated glow up you need.Basically, 10 easy ways to feel fresh, put together and excited about your life again without needing to completely reinvent yourself.

This week is a BIG catch up from bub night routines, being sick, travel plans and the luteal phase absolutely ruining Lily, to working, fashion, dinners and everything in between.We're also chatting Lily's latest shoot with Hannah x Inform, the crazy results that can come from consistency during an off season, and why we're both feeling like we need a holiday ASAP.Plus, we're discussing Alex Cooper buying the girls' registry, a very interesting DM about peptides, and sharing our current recommendations, Tori's slow cooker obsession and Lily's favourite All For Mimi tanks.Basically… a big life update, lots of opinions and a whole lot of chit chat

#196 You say you want your dream life, but are you actually willing to do what it requires?In this episode, we're challenging the idea that success should feel easy, perfectly balanced or constantly “aligned.” Because while you can manifest, journal, visualise and dream about the life you want… at some point, you actually have to do the work.We're talking about the difference between wanting the outcome and being willing to do what it takes to get there, from building a successful business and becoming a creator, to getting fit, making money and creating the life you actually want.We get real about the influencer life people only see from the outside, Lily's journey of realising she wasn't working as hard as she thought she was, getting out of the victim mindset, comparing your starting point to someone else's, and why being busy doesn't always mean you're moving forward.We also unpack the uncomfortable truth that hard work doesn't guarantee success, life isn't always fair, and sometimes being uncomfortable doesn't mean you should stop.Because your dream life isn't something you simply manifest.It's something you build.And the question we want you to finish this episode asking yourself is:If I carried on being the person I am today, would I actually reach my goals?You say you want your dream life, but are you actually willing to do what it requires?Challenging the whole idea that success should feel easy, perfectly balanced, or constantly aligned.2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

From Tori's Melbourne trip, the latest Tate updates and all things motherhood, to Lily's first ever solo MSCR shoot, Saturday chaos and a movie night in the warehouse.Then we're getting into the weirdest aesthetic trends on the internet, rib contouring?! The “skinny” trend making its way around the algorithm, period stories from IG and why what you see online is SO different depending on your algorithm.Plus, our latest recommendations, including the Redken hair product we're obsessed with, Tower 28 and the Indy Clinton podcast.Basically… a big catch-up, a lot of opinions and some seriously questionable internet trends

What started with contractions and the excitement of finally meeting her baby quickly turned into something Tori never could have prepared for.In this episode, Tori takes us through her birth story from the very beginning, the first contractions, the anticipation, heading into hospital, labour, the moment her baby arrived… and then how everything suddenly took a terrifying turn.What was meant to be one of the biggest and most special moments of her life became an emergency, with things unfolding completely differently to how she imagined.We're talking the full birth story, the moments that scared her, what was happening behind the scenes, how she felt in the aftermath and what it was really like going from “I'm about to meet my baby” to “something is seriously wrong.”Raw, emotional, chaotic and completely unfiltered. This is Tori's birth story.

The Friday chats are officially here... and they're here to stay.

Over the past few episodes, we've unpacked why mid-year slumps happen, shared our different perspectives on getting out of them, and talked about what it really means to reset your life without trying to become a completely different person.Now it's time to bring it all together.This episode is the wake-up call you might not want, but probably need. We explore the uncomfortable truths that keep us stuck, why we often blame our timing, motivation or circumstances instead of taking ownership, and how raising your standards can completely change the direction of your life.We challenge you to ask yourself the questions you've been avoiding. What truth have you been avoiding? Where are you lying to yourself? What part of your life feels out of alignment? What are you blaming instead of changing? What behaviours are no longer acceptable for the person you're trying to become?Because the reality is, you can want more for your life, but eventually you have to start acting like it. The things you tolerate become the life you live, and if you keep accepting a life you say you don't want, you're choosing it.This episode isn't about becoming perfect. It's about becoming honest. It's about having the hard conversation with yourself, taking responsibility, embracing discomfort and choosing growth over excuses, because that's where real momentum begins.Your next chapter starts the moment you stop making excuses for the current one.2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

#194 It's been a while, so consider this your life catch up.In this episode, we're sitting down with no script and no pressure, just an honest conversation about where life has taken us over the past six months. We chat about what's changed, what we've been navigating behind the scenes, the highs, the challenges, and the lessons we've learnt along the way.From personal growth and relationships to work, health, and what's been taking up the most space in our minds lately, this episode is a chance to reflect on the season we're in and share where we're heading next.If you've ever looked back and realised just how much life can change in a short amount of time, this one's for you. Grab a coffee, get comfortable, and come catch up with us.2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

Not all burnout comes from doing too much.Sometimes the exhaustion you're feeling isn't because your schedule is full. It's because you've become disconnected from the things that make you feel like you.In this episode, we're unpacking what burnout can really look like. Losing touch with your purpose, your habits, your joy, and the version of yourself you know you're capable of being. We talk about how disconnection often happens slowly through small, everyday choices and why it's so easy to mistake feeling lost for simply being tired.Together, we explore the difference between physical, mental, and emotional exhaustion, how to recognise whether you need rest or a change in direction, and why taking time off isn't always the answer.We also leave you with a simple but powerful exercise: creating your own Back to Me List. A reminder of the habits, routines, people, and environments that bring you back to your best self.Because the goal isn't to become someone new. The goal is to come home to yourself.2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

#193 This week we are sending you a reply from Tori's conversation on Talk Therapy as this is such a strong and heartfelt conversation about Tori's journey with PCOS, the labels she was given at a young age, and how years of looking after her health eventually led to something she never saw coming.We speak about the pressure that can come with a diagnosis, what it's like living in a body that feels like it's working against you, and why comparing your timeline to everyone else's only creates more fear. Tori also shares the reality of pregnancy, the challenges she's faced physically and mentally, and how she's learnt to hold gratitude and struggle at the same time.This conversation isn't about having all the answers. It's about trusting yourself, questioning the stories you've been told, and remembering that every body and every journey is different.We hope this episode gives you a different perspective, starts conversations that matter, and reminds you that there is no one right way for life to unfold.

Halfway through the year doesn't mean it's too late, it means you have a choice.In this episode, we're talking about why your reset doesn't need to be dramatic. You don't need a new version of yourself. You need consistency from the version of you that already knows what works.We dive into the power of returning to your fundamentals, creating your own "Back to Me List," and why the all-or-nothing mindset is probably the biggest thing holding you back. We also chat about minimum vs. maximum standards, why momentum matters more than perfection, and how the smallest habits are often the ones that create the biggest change.If you've been waiting for the "perfect" Monday, the "right" motivation, or a complete life makeover before starting again, this episode is your reminder that consistency will always beat perfection.Because six months from now, your life won't be different because of one massive decision. It'll be different because of the small choices you repeated every single day.2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

#192 In this episode, we're talking about why confidence has so much less to do with having the "perfect" body than we think. We dive into comparison culture, social media, and why constantly measuring yourself against someone else will always leave you feeling behind.We also chat about shifting your focus from aesthetics to performance, why strength training and nutrition are the biggest game changers, and how balance looks in real life when you're working towards your goals.Most importantly, we unpack why consistency will always beat perfection. The body you're proud of isn't built through extreme diets or starting over every Monday. It's built through the small habits you repeat every day.We finish by talking about self respect, your relationship with your body, and how creating a lifestyle that supports your goals is what leads to lasting confidence.If you're ready to stop chasing perfection and start building a body that supports the life you want, this episode is for you.2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

Feeling stuck? Unmotivated? Like you've completely fallen off track?You're not alone and you're definitely not too far gone.In this week's episode, we're joined by Bec Stewart for an honest conversation about what it really feels like to be in a slump, why so many of us end up there, and how to stop waiting for motivation and start creating momentum instead.We talk about the warning signs of a slump, what causes us to lose momentum, the difference between protecting your energy and avoiding effort, and why trying to completely overhaul your life overnight usually does more harm than good.We also share the practical habits, mindset shifts and "bare minimum" standards that help us reset when life feels overwhelming, along with a rapid-fire round of advice to help you lock back in.If you've been waiting for Monday, next month, or the "right time" to start showing up for yourself again, this episode is your reminder that your reset starts today. Because you don't need a whole new version of yourself, you just need to start being consistent with the one you already are.2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

#191 The boys are finally taking over the podcast! After collecting your burning questions, we handed them the mic to answer everything from relationships and red flags to living with us, funny stories, and the questions you've all been dying to know.Expect plenty of laughs, honest opinions, a little chaos, and a whole new side of the boys. This is one episode you won't want to miss.2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

Halfway through the year and feeling like you've lost your spark? You're not alone.In this episode, we're having the mid-year reality check we all need. Whether you've fallen off your routines, lost motivation, slipped back into old habits, or simply feel disconnected from the goals you set in January, this conversation is for you.We unpack why the mid-year slump happens, how bad habits quietly creep in, and walk you through a simple reset formula to help you rebuild momentum without the guilt.Because here's the truth: you haven't ruined the year. July to December is enough time to completely change your life you just have to choose to start.2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

#190 Are we actually having a quarter-life crisis... or are we just growing up? This week we're unpacking the weird, confusing and hilarious stage of life where everyone seems to have it figured out... except you. From questioning our careers and friendships to suddenly caring about protein, gut health and homewares, we're diving into the identity shifts that come with your 20s.We chat about the pressure of society's timeline, changing priorities, existential spirals, and why feeling uncertain might actually be more normal than we think. If you've ever wondered, "Am I behind?" or "Should I completely reinvent my life?"... this one's for you. Tune in for a conversation that will make you laugh, reflect, and hopefully remind you that you're not the only one figuring it out as you go.2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

In this week's Pregnancy Series episode, we sit down with private midwife Tarlia from Avenir Midwifery to discuss home birth vs hospital birth, birth plans, common interventions, and how women can make informed choices throughout pregnancy and labour.From inductions and epidurals to C-sections and home births, we unpack the realities of birth, debunk common myths, and share practical advice to help women feel empowered, educated, and supported in their journey into motherhood.No matter your birth preferences, this episode is a reminder that there is no perfect birth—only the birth that feels right for you. 2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

#189 This week on Raw Reality, we sit down with Cooper Chapman, ex-professional surfer, mental health advocate, and founder of The Good Human Factory.Cooper shares his journey from chasing success in elite sport to building a movement that helps make mental health conversations more approachable, practical, and accessible for everyday people. We dive into the pressures of professional surfing, tying self-worth to performance, and the life experiences that ultimately shaped his mission to help others.Together, we unpack the power of small daily habits, the 1% Good Club, gratitude, mindfulness, purpose, and why mental health isn't just something we focus on when we're struggling it's something we need to nurture every day.A conversation full of perspective, wisdom, and actionable takeaways that everyone can benefit from.Join our exclusive community group chat with our community and The Good Human Factory community to share our gratitude together https://ig.me/j/Abb_xgWKwdgUmyap/ 2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

This week on Raw Reality, we sit down with Avalon for an honest conversation about conceiving, pregnancy, motherhood, body image, and the transition into becoming a stay-at-home mum.Avalon shares her journey to motherhood, opening up about the realities of trying to conceive, the pressures and emotions that can come with fertility, and the expectations she had before becoming a mum. We also dive into pregnancy, navigating a changing body, confidence, social media pressures, and the conversations many women don't hear enough about.Together, we explore the identity shifts that come with motherhood, how relationships and friendships evolve, the challenges and rewards of being a stay-at-home mum, and what finding purpose looks like in this season of life.Whether you're a mum, hoping to become one someday, or simply curious about the realities behind motherhood, this episode is full of honest reflections, reassurance, and wisdom from someone living it every day.2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

#188 Confidence is something almost everyone wants more of, yet so many people believe it's something you're either born with or without. In this episode, we're breaking down the truth about confidence and sharing 5 practical ways to build it in your everyday life.We chat about the importance of keeping promises to yourself, why confidence comes after action (not before it), how comparison can quietly destroy self-belief, the role discomfort plays in personal growth, and why the way you speak to yourself matters more than you think.If you've ever felt held back by self-doubt, waited until you felt "ready," or struggled to trust yourself, this episode will give you the tools and mindset shifts to start building genuine confidence from the inside out.2026 Notion TemplateRaw Reality[https://rawreality.com.au/](https://rawreality.com.au/)Life Upgrade System Notion Template[https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template](https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template)Between Us Connection Cards[https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=web](https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=web)Find us below:@rawreallity[https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw](https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw)@ttorisstory[https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/](https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/)@fitwithlilyy[https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/](https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/)Community Facebook Group[https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/](https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/)

Birth is one of the most natural things the body is designed to do, yet for so many women it feels overwhelming, feared, or misunderstood.In this episode, we're joined by Shari from Belly2Birth to break down what hypnobirthing actually is, the stages of labour, and what's really happening in the body during birth. We also dive into fear, mindset, and how they can shape the birth experience.We discuss hospital interventions, inductions, epidurals, informed consent, and the cascade of interventions, giving you a clearer understanding of your options so you can feel informed and empowered.This isn't about a “perfect” birth it's about understanding your body, your choices, and feeling confident no matter how your journey unfolds.This is the birth education every woman should have access to.2026 Notion templateRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Between Us Connection Cards https://rawreality.com.au/products/between-us-cards?utm_source=copyToPasteBoard&utm_medium=product-links&utm_content=webFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

#187 Welcome back to Girl Club

In this special pregnancy series episode, we sit down with a future mum and dad as they share their honest thoughts, emotions, and experiences on the journey to parenthood. From the excitement and anticipation to the fears, challenges, and everything in between, they open up about how they're feeling as they prepare to welcome their little one into the world. A raw and heartfelt conversation about one of life's biggest transitions.2026 Notion templateRaw Reality ⁠https://rawreality.com.au/⁠⁠**⁠⁠https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**⁠Find us below:@rawreallity ⁠https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw⁠@ttorisstory ⁠https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/⁠@fitwithlilyy ⁠https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/⁠Community Facebook group ⁠https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

#186 Surprise... we're launching our very own connection cards: Between Us.Created for the conversations we don't have enough of the honest ones, the vulnerable ones, the ones that bring us closer.With 35 thoughtfully designed prompts, Between Us is here to help you reflect, laugh, open up, and explore the conversations that often stay beneath the surface. Simply take turns pulling a card, answer honestly, and get curious rather than judgmental.Whether you're sitting down with your best friend, partner, family member, or someone you're just getting to know, these cards are designed to create deeper, more meaningful connection in a world that often settles for surface-level conversation.Because sometimes the conversations that change everything begin with a single question.This episode Is Between Us.JOIN THE WAITLIST https://rawreality.com.au/pages/between-us-waitlistRaw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2026 Notion template**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Find us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

#185 episode all about how wellness culture has gone from helping people… to convincing them they're constantly broken. We unpack the rise of fear-based health trends, performative wellness, and the obsession with fixing every symptom, ingredient, and routine. From supplements and cold plunges to anxiety disguised as “healthy living,” this conversation is a reminder that real health is usually built through the boring basics — sleep, movement, sunlight, whole foods, stress management, and consistency. Because health should improve your life, not consume it.Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2026 Notion template[**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**](https://subscribepage.io/d3KHtR)Find us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

#184 In this episode, we dive into what it truly means to show up as your authentic self, both online and in real life. From school pressure, family expectations, fitting in, and feeling like you had to be someone you're not, we unpack how society often teaches us to belong before we even know who we are. We talk about the exhausting cycle of performing for validation, the loneliness that comes from pretending, and why real confidence only comes from self-trust and authenticity. This episode is a reminder that people connect with what's real, not what's perfect and that your people can only find you when you stop hiding who you truly are.Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2026 Notion template**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Find us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

#183 In this episode, we're addressing the tea ...From social media opinions to the realities of putting your life online, we're having an honest conversation about assumptions, criticism, and why not everything is as personal as people make it.We also dive into the conversation around Tori's YouTube comments, plus catch you up on all the latest life updates, the warehouse, new set and new direction, pregnancy updates, baby moon plans, and comp season prep .Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2026 Notion template**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Find us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

#182 This episode breaks down what success actually looks like beyond money or achievements. We dive into how the way you train, show up in business, and build relationships all shape your reality. From discipline and consistency to failure, growth, and connection. This is about creating a version of success that's aligned, sustainable, and genuinely fulfilling.Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2026 Notion template**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Find us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

#181 This episode is your reality check. No fresh starts. No “Monday resets.” Just the truth about what to do when you're already in it… and feel like giving up. We're talking about showing up when it's hard, letting go of perfection, and learning that real progress comes from the messy, average days not the perfect ones. You don't need to do more… you need to quit less.Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2026 Notion template**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Find us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

Jaz Slone is a Kona-qualified Ironman athlete and former competitive bodybuilder — and in this episode she holds nothing back. We cover the brutal reality of Ironman training, navigating a stress fracture, the mental side of 11+ hours on course, and what it actually felt like to cross the finish line at one of the hardest races in the world. If you've ever wanted to push yourself further than you thought possible, this one's for you.Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2026 Notion template https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-templateFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

#180 in this episode, we open up an honest and unfiltered conversation around pregnancy, going beyond the highlight reel and into the reality of what this season actually feels like. From physical changes and training to body image, weight gain, and shifts in routine, we answer your questions and share how it has impacted us both physically and mentally.We also dive into the emotional side, including mental health, relationship dynamics, and fears around birth and the unknown. Alongside the challenges, we reflect on the moments that have made it all so special, from feeling baby move to stepping into the idea of motherhood. This is a raw look into pregnancy, the parts you see and the parts you don't.

In this episode, we sit down with Olympian Desi Johnson to unpack the full reality behind her journey. From representing Australia in netball to sprinting, battling serious injuries, and ultimately stepping into the world of bobsled. What looks like an unconventional path to the Olympics is actually years of discipline, setbacks, and relentless resilience. We dive into what those transition years really looked like, what led her into bobsled, and the behind-the-scenes grind of training for one of the most intense and high-risk sports in the world.We also go deeper into the truths no one talks about the financial pressure, loneliness, mental toughness, and uncertainty that comes with chasing something as big as the Olympics. From controlling fear at the start line to navigating identity, setbacks, and the possibility of giving everything without a guaranteed outcome, this episode is a powerful reminder of what it truly takes to chase greatness.Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2026 Notion template**https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-template**Find us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

#179 SkinnyTok is back… but at what cost? In this episode, we unpack the rise of “skinny” culture again from under-fuelling disguised as wellness to the growing conversation around Ozempic, peptides and rapid weight loss. We break down how these trends are being marketed as “health” and “discipline,” when in reality, a lot of it is restriction in disguise. Because the truth is, the line between being healthy and becoming obsessive can get blurry fast.We also dive into what you don't see.. the low energy, hormonal issues, mental load and loss of strength that often comes with chasing a smaller body. This is your reminder that your body is not a trend. We're shifting the focus back to strength, energy and longevity — because strong is sexy, and food is fuel, not something you earn. If you've been feeling pulled into the pressure to shrink yourself, this episode is your reality check.Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2026 Notion template https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-templateFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

In this episode, we sit down with elite athlete Bree Rizzo to unpack the reality of what it truly takes to compete at the highest level and it's not what you think. From the discipline behind the scenes to the sacrifices no one talks about, we dive into the gap between perception and reality in elite sport.We talk about showing up on the days you don't feel like it, the pressure of performance, and how much of success really comes down to consistency over talent. Bree also opens up about identity, comparison, and navigating self-doubt at the highest level.And just when people assume this chapter is over… we talk about what's next, including her vision of aiming to go from pregnancy to the Olympics.If you've ever said you “want it” this episode will show you what that actually means.Bree Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/breeemasters/Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2026 Notion template https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-templateFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

#178 In this episode, we sit down with our talent manager to unpack the reality of the influencer industry, from how agencies are built to what actually goes on behind the scenes of brand deals. We dive into what brands are really looking for, how to start charging, and the metrics that actually matter when it comes to growth. We also break down how management works, how to get signed, and the biggest mistakes people are making on social media. If you've ever wanted to turn content into a career, this is your inside look at the industry.Vive: https://www.vivemanagement.com.au/https://www.instagram.com/vive_management/Isabella: https://www.instagram.com/isabellalynden/Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2026 Notion template https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-templateFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

Welcome to the Athlete Series. In this episode, we sit down for the third time with Annabelle Ronnfeldt, and it's safe to say, a lot has changed. From HYROX to marathons, triathlons, Turf Games and everything in between, Annabelle is taking on just about every fitness challenge out there. We dive into what it really takes to balance high-performance training across multiple disciplines, and the reality behind maintaining that level.We also unpack the discipline driving her lifestyle, the importance of recovery, and how she fuels her body to perform at such a high level. This episode is packed with valuable insights on what it takes to stay consistent, push your limits, and truly balance it all.Annabelle's IG | https://www.instagram.com/annabelleronnfeldt/Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2026 Notion template https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-templateFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

#177 In this episode, we're calling it out the “lazy girl” mindset that's quietly holding you back. We unpack the difference between protecting your energy and settling for comfort, and why so many people stay stuck without even realising it. Because laziness doesn't always look like doing nothing, it looks like procrastinating, delaying and choosing the easy option.We talk about how this comfort loop shrinks your life, and why momentum is everything when it comes to change. If you've been saying you want more but not doing anything different… this is your wake-up call.Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2026 Notion template https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-templateFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

The final episode in the body building series with Cade, Lily's partner. We explore the reality of competitive bodybuilding, from the initial passion to the extreme lengths he took to chase his goal. Now shifting his identity, perspective and passions into other areas of his life - we hope you enjoy. Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2026 Notion template https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-templateFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

#176 In today's episode, we sit down with Zara, who quite literally changed her life with one “silly little” email to Steven Bartlett — and landed her dream role as his content manager.We dive into the bold decisions, risks and mindset shifts that got her there, from moving her entire life to London to backing herself before she felt fully ready. This conversation is all about taking chances, creating your own opportunities, and what it really takes to get your foot in the door.If you've been waiting for a sign to go after something bigger ... this is it.Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2026 Notion template https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-templateFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

A raw and powerful conversation with Hattie Boydle. We dive into her mindset behind competing at the highest level. From battling an eating disorder to becoming a world champion, we unpack the mental shift that changed everything. We talk about discipline, pressure, identity, and what it really takes to stay locked in when motivation fades. This episode explores resilience, self-worth beyond the stage, and the habits that separate great athletes from the rest. We hope you enjoy xx Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2026 Notion template https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-templateFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/

#175 In today's episode we let Chat GPT ask us questions and it's fair to say we went a little rogue!! Raw Reality https://rawreality.com.au/2026 Notion template https://rawreality.com.au/products/life-upgrade-system-notion-templateFind us below:@rawreallity https://www.instagram.com/rawreallity?igsh=cjZlMzZsM2lva3hw@ttorisstory https://www.instagram.com/ttorisstory/@fitwithlilyy https://www.instagram.com/fitwithlilyy/Community Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/share/v3sbEonnywyvp1h7/