Vulnerability Is The New Sexy

This Pride Month, we're celebrating identity in its fullness. In this episode, we talk about what it means to be Queer, Black, and Whole in a world that often tries to split us apart. From navigating family and faith to finding joy, freedom, and healing—this is a conversation about reclaiming every piece of ourselves without apology. Because being whole doesn't mean being perfect—it means being real.

Welcome back to Vulnerability is the New Sexy, the space where healing gets real, and therapy meets real life.Every second Tuesday of the month, we bring together an incredible panel of licensed Black therapists to respond to the questions you've been sending in—because sometimes, you just need to talk to your therapist. So join us tonight for Vulnerability is the New Sexy.

On today's episode, we're taking a deep dive into an often overlooked question in our community: Are we really prepared for emotionally intelligent partners?We've all seen the trending conversations and Instagram posts unpacking what it means to be in a relationship with a man who shows up with emotional honesty, clarity, and integrity—but what does that really require from us as individuals and as a community?Today's conversation brings together a powerful panel of Black mental health professionals to explore this topic with nuance, honesty, and cultural relevance.

Today, we're diving deep into a conversation that many of us avoid but desperately need—accountability and forgiveness. As Black men, our ability to heal and evolve is directly tied to how well we own our mistakes and release resentment. Without accountability, growth is stunted. Without forgiveness, peace is impossible.

Welcome back to Vulnerability is the New Sexy. I'm your host, Joe Corley — licensed therapist and Black male mental health advocate. Today's episode is deeply personal. We're talking about the presence — and absence — of fathers in the Black community, and how that shapes who we are as men, fathers, and partners. We'll dive into the generational patterns, the healing, and the legacy we're trying to build. I'm joined by some incredible brothers who are here to share their truth.

Today's episode is one we wish we didn't have to have — but we must. We're here to honor lives like Kyren Lacy and Keith Miller — Black men whose inner battles became too heavy to carry. We're not here to speculate. We're here to listen, feel, and heal — as a community.

Welcome back to Vulnerability Is the New Sexy. I'm your host, Joe Corley, and this week we're diving into a timely and transformative conversation: How do we get beyond the gender wars and start uplifting one another as Black men and women?The narratives online often pit us against each other, but real healing happens when we sit down, listen, and speak with intention. Today, I'm joined by two brilliant therapists, Felice Britt HighTower and Jeanni Johnson, and one more brother in the field, as we explore what it truly means to understand each other's needs, expectations, and emotional truths

Welcome back to Vulnerability Is the New Sexy. Tonight, we're examining the health of today's Black man. We're looking at mind, body, and soul to explore the intersection of physical health, mental health, and the lived experience of Black men. We'll dive into how stress, culture, systemic oppression, and internalized expectations take a toll on our bodies and minds—and what we can do about it. It's a talk few Black men may want to hear, but all should. Join us tonight.

Welcome back to Vulnerability Is the New Sexy. Today, we're diving into a real conversation that's been sitting heavy with me. I recently saw a clip of Kool Moe Dee saying something that stuck with me—he called the drug dealer the first sellout in the Black community. Then, I saw another clip of Black celebrities openly praising movements and ideologies that seem to go against our people.""It made me wonder—who has done more damage to the Black community? The drug dealer who brought destruction to our neighborhoods? The Black celebrity who profits off our culture while promoting anti-Blackness? Or is it something bigger—systemic forces, white supremacy, economic oppression? And if we're keeping it all the way real, how have women's responses to these types of men played a role in this dynamic?""So today, I'm chopping it up with my brothers Jonathan, Q, and Walter. We're going to break this down, challenge some narratives, and get to the root of who or what has really hurt us the most

Welcome back to Vulnerability Is the New Sexy. Today's conversation is one that's been a long time coming—How to Make a Black Man Feel Seen. Because let's be real, in a world that demands so much from us, how often do we feel truly valued beyond what we provide?"I've got three brothers with me today—Mike, Walter, and Q—and we're going to get into what it really means to be seen, why so many Black men suffer in silence, and what needs to change in our relationships, our communities, and within ourselves. Fellas, before we dive in, I want to ask—on a scale from 1 to 10, how seen do you feel in your personal life? And why?

Welcome back to Vulnerability Is the New Sexy. Today, we're diving into a powerful discussion inspired by something the rapper Ma$e said—‘No powerful man has ever achieved greatness without a strong woman by his side.'""For centuries, Black men have been raised with the idea that we have to be strong, independent, and self-sufficient. But what if true greatness isn't about going at it alone? What if having the right woman in your corner isn't just an asset—but a requirement?""Joining me today are three Black men I deeply respect—my brothers Q and Walter, and a fellow therapist, Brian Perry. We're going to break this down, get real about our experiences, and talk about what this means for us as men. Fellas, before we jump in, what was your first reaction to this statement? Do you believe it's true?

Welcome back to Vulnerability Is the New Sexy. This is Part 4 of our relationship series, where we've been diving deep into what makes relationships thrive. Today, we're talking about something that can make or break a couple—creating shared meaning and building a future with purpose.""I'm Joe Corley, a licensed therapist, and today's conversation is all about the importance of aligning values, setting goals together, and making sure we don't just exist in the same space but actually build a meaningful life together. And for this special episode, I'm honored to have my wife, Donna, joining me. Donna, I know we've had our own journey when it comes to growing together, so I'm glad you're here to share your insight.

The Art of Turning Towards: Everyday Bids for ConnectionA Special Episode of "Vulnerability Is The New Sexy"Welcome back to another episode of Vulnerability Is The New Sexy. This is Part 3 of our special four-part series on relationships, and today we're diving into something that might seem small but actually has the power to make or break relationships—how we respond to each other's bids for connection.""Bids for connection are the little things—when your partner sends a text just to check in, when they want to share a story from their day, or when they reach for your hand while walking together. How we respond to these moments can either build intimacy or create distance over time. Many relationships don't fall apart because of big, explosive fights, but because of small, everyday disconnections.""In this episode, we're going to break down what these bids look like, how we can respond to them in ways that strengthen our relationships, and how to stay emotionally present even when life gets busy."

Welcome back to another episode of Vulnerability Is The New Sexy. This is Part 2 of our special four-part series on relationships. Today, we're talking about something every couple faces—conflict. But instead of seeing conflict as something that tears relationships apart, what if we learned how to fight in a way that actually brings us closer?Let's be real—many of us grew up in environments where conflict meant yelling, shutting down, or even walking away completely. But if we don't learn how to communicate through disagreements, we risk losing the very connections we're trying to protect. Conflict doesn't have to be destructive—it can actually be an opportunity for deeper understanding, growth, and intimacy. The key is knowing how to navigate it in a healthy way."Today, we're breaking down exactly how to do that, and I have some incredible guests joining me:Donna Corley – My wife, who knows firsthand what it's like to navigate conflict with me.Mike & Kim Pruitt – A couple who has learned to turn conflict into connection.Derrick & Mel Moore – A couple with experience overcoming major challenges together.Jeanni Johnson, LPC – A therapist who specializes in conflict resolution.We're going to unpack why so many couples struggle with fighting fair and what practical steps you can take to improve how you and your partner handle disagreements. Join us on Vulnerability is the New Sexy.

Welcome to Vulnerability Is the New Sexy. I'm your host, Joe Corley, a Black male therapist passionate about creating spaces where we can have real, raw conversations that promote healing and growth. Relationships are one of the most important and sometimes most difficult aspects of our lives, and that's why for the month of February, I'm bringing you a four-part series all about relationships. My goal is to give you honest, unfiltered discussions that leave you with real tools to build stronger, healthier connections. Whether you're dating, married, or somewhere in between, this series is for you." "Tonight, we're talking about the foundation of love—how to build and maintain emotional connection. Because real love isn't just about romance; it's about deep understanding, trust, and the ability to be vulnerable with each other. I'm excited to have some incredible guests joining me for this conversation, including my wife, Donna, two amazing couples, and a fellow Black male therapist, Dr. Curtis Hill."

Welcome to Vulnerability Is the New Sexy, the podcast where we have real conversations, break down barriers, and explore the strength in vulnerability. I'm Joe Corley—a licensed therapist, mental wellness consultant, and advocate for authentic living. This is a space for Black men to talk about the tough stuff, normalize seeking support, and redefine what it means to be strong and self-aware. Because here, we know vulnerability isn't just powerful—it's sexy. Let's get started.

Welcome to Vulnerability Is the New Sexy, the podcast where we break down barriers, have honest conversations, and embrace the transformative power of vulnerability. Tonight we're talking about a term that's been around for centuries but is now being weaponized in a new, toxic attack against Black Men. "Sassy" is usually a term to describe women, so why is it now being used to emasculate men? Tonight we'll talk about how societal norms define Black masculinity. I'm Joe Corley—a licensed therapist, mental wellness consultant, and advocate for authentic living. This is your space to explore tough topics, normalize seeking help, and redefine what strength and self-awareness look like. Because here, we believe that vulnerability isn't just powerful—it's sexy.

Welcome to Vulnerability Is the New Sexy, where we normalize vulnerability and celebrate growth in Black men. I'm your host, Joe Corley, and tonight, we're diving into a timely conversation about Black men and New Year's resolutions. Now that 2025 is here, we're reflecting on how goal-setting can shape our mental health, our relationships, and our future. Are resolutions just a ritual, or can they be transformative for Black men? Let's talk about it.”

Welcome to Vulnerability is the New Sexy, where we create a safe space to explore important topics impacting Black men, our mental health, and our relationships. I'm your host, Joe Corley, and today's conversation is one that's often avoided but deeply necessary—porn addiction. I'm joined by a powerful panel of Black male therapists: Dr. Curtis Hill, Karlos Lyons, and Dr. Sekou Fraser. Together, we're going to break down what qualifies as porn addiction, the consequences it can have on men's lives, and how to overcome it. Let's shine a light on this issue with honesty, compassion, and actionable solutions. Join the discussion today on "Vulnerability is the New Sexy" --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/joseph-e-corley-jr/support

Welcome to Vulnerability is the New Sexy, where we explore the intersection of mental health, relationships, and the power of living authentically. I'm your host, Joe Corley. Today, we're diving into a topic that's both personal and deeply nuanced—non-monogamy. With recent headlines featuring Ne-Yo's candid comments about monogamy not being for him, this conversation feels especially timely. Joining me are three incredible guests: Walter, Charita, and Thomas. Each of them has embraced non-monogamous lifestyles, and we'll discuss their experiences, the mental health benefits they've found, and the challenges they face. Let's explore how breaking free from traditional relationship structures can open doors to self-awareness, deeper connections, and yes—vulnerability. Join the discussion today on Vulnerability is the New Sexy! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/joseph-e-corley-jr/support

Welcome to Vulnerability is the New Sexy! I'm Joe Corley—licensed therapist, mental wellness consultant, and advocate for emotional growth, especially within our Black community. Today, we're talking about marriage—specifically, the hard work it takes to build and sustain a lifelong partnership. Inspired by Ice Cube's recent reflections on his 32-year marriage, we'll explore what it really means to show up for your spouse every day. Our panel consists of Black men who've been married for years, each bringing their unique perspectives on navigating the highs and lows of committed relationships. We're also interested in what you have to say so bring your opinions, thoughts and comments when you join us tonight for Vulnerability is the New Sexy! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/joseph-e-corley-jr/support

Tonight on "Vulnerability is the New Sexy" with Joe Corley The recent allegations of sexual assault against a prominent music mogul have sent shockwaves through the Hip Hop community. Fans are left grappling with uncertainty and confusion about what to believe. And it's not just fans who are affected; charges like these in high-profile celebrity cases can have a profound impact on many Black men, evoking feelings of fear, stress, anger, and disappointment. Join me and my guests as we navigate these complex emotions and explore effective strategies for mental coping. Together, we'll work towards understanding and healing in the face of such challenging news. That's tonight on " "Vulnerability is the New Sexy" with Joe Corley. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/joseph-e-corley-jr/support

Today on "Vulnerability is the New Sexy," therapist Joe Corley closely examines the complex topic of emotional suppression among Black men. Societal expectations and cultural stigmas often prevent these men from seeking help and expressing vulnerability. Research indicates that men face significant challenges related to emotional expression. Studies show that societal norms frequently discourage men from displaying emotions, which can lead to higher rates of mental health issues among those who suppress their feelings. Does society look down on emotionally expressive men? Many men report feeling judged or less masculine when they show vulnerability, deterring them from seeking help. Is the prevalence of online toxic masculinity making it more difficult for men today? The pressure to conform to traditional masculine ideals can lead to emotional isolation and hinder open discussions about mental health. We would love to hear your thoughts and comments on this important topic, so join therapist Joe Corley and his guests for this episode of "Vulnerability is the New Sexy." --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/joseph-e-corley-jr/support

In this emotionally charged episode of Vulnerability is the New Sexy, we delve into Tyrese Gibson's controversial statement, "I will shoot, stab, and kill over mine," exploring its implications for Black masculinity, fatherhood, and emotional expression. Joined by a panel of insightful guests, we discuss how hurt and unresolved pain can shape our protective instincts, the societal pressures on Black men to suppress vulnerability, and the consequences of translating emotional hurt into extreme declarations of loyalty and protection. Tune in as we unpack the complexities of safeguarding what matters most while fostering healthy emotional outlets. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/joseph-e-corley-jr/support

In the much-anticipated return of Vulnerability is the New Sexy, host Joe Corley dives into the powerful topic of Black fatherhood and its portrayal on television. Joined by three remarkable guests—fathers, husbands, and leaders in their fields—they explore how iconic Black TV dads like James Evans, Uncle Phil, and Randall Pearson shaped perceptions of fatherhood and influenced their personal experiences. This candid conversation reveals the vulnerabilities, joys, and challenges of being a Black father today, reflecting on their own upbringings and the lasting impact of representation in media. Tune in for an authentic and heartfelt discussion on love, growth, and legacy. Listen now on Apple Podcasts and Spotify! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/joseph-e-corley-jr/support

In part two the ladies and I discuss comments made in the media by Ebony K Williams, what's it like to transition from a relationship to being single, are physical requirements important, emotional maps, is vulnerability really sexy, and how to manage the stress of dating anxiety! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/joseph-e-corley-jr/support

Description: In this episode, we dive into the dynamic world of dating for black women in 2023. Join us as we explore the unique experiences, challenges, and triumphs of being outside the norm. My special guests Keiana, Brenda, Taylor and Savannah share their personal stories, insights, and advice on navigating the ever-evolving dating landscape. From dating apps to cultural expectations, we'll discuss it all, offering guidance and support for black women looking to create their own love stories and leave a lasting legacy in this day and age. Tune in for an enlightening and empowering conversation that celebrates the resilience and beauty of black women in the dating world. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/joseph-e-corley-jr/support

This week I invited three of my brothers, Derrick, Mike and Jay to have an uncomfortable yet fulfilling conversation on our lived experiences on living inside blended families. We don't shy away from some of the difficulties that come with the dynamic, and we also share some strategies that we employ that have worked for us thus far. Often times, marriages that exist inside a blended family don't survive so this was an important conversation. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/joseph-e-corley-jr/support

In this powerful episode me and some brothers I know discuss our journey as black men who have bravely chosen to confront the stigma surrounding mental health within their community. We delve into the experiences of these resilient individuals and explore the transformative impact therapy has had on their lives. We share our personal struggles, shedding light on the unique challenges they face in a society that often perpetuates harmful stereotypes. From the pressure to appear strong and stoic to the complexities of navigating intersectional identities, our conversations touch on a wide array of topics that many black men grapple with silently. Throughout this episode, we highlight the resilience and strength found in vulnerability. We explore the cultural barriers that have historically hindered black men from seeking help and how breaking through these barriers has been a crucial step toward self-discovery and healing. Tune in to this eye-opening episode as we shed light on the transformative power of therapy and the importance of fostering a supportive community that embraces mental health for all. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/joseph-e-corley-jr/support

In this episode my friend Jatoya and I discuss the code and standards that we live by in order to maintain peace in life. We explore some of the concepts we learned early in life and how they show up in current lives. Do you have a code that you live by that helps you maintain peace? --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/joseph-e-corley-jr/support

In this episode I speak with my friend and fellow therapist Susana Munoz. Susana and I discuss maternal mental health, and a little bit of paternal mental health. I learned a lot in this episode, and I encourage everyone to listen and get educated on the process of having children and toll it can take on you mentally if you're not mindful and proactive about taking care of yourself. Please like, subscribe, rate and review! I hope you enjoy! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/joseph-e-corley-jr/support

In this episode I sit down with my friend Brenda Valentine. We discuss our journeys into therapy and the search for healing. Both of us touch on our first experiences with counseling and how we got into the spaces we are in with therapy. We will also share some insight on what we would do if we had to look for a new therapist tomorrow. The healing journey can be difficult and uncomfortable, the hope of this episode is that we peel back some of those fearful layers and encourage someone who may be struggling to seek the help they need! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/joseph-e-corley-jr/support

In hard times, being asked how you are can be overwhelming. Can you relate? In this episode I have a conversation with my longtime friend Tanisha about the process of answering the small but heavy question "How are you?" I know when I'm not in a good space, being asked how I'm doing can bring on some anxiety. Tanisha and I talk about how we feel when being asked how we are and some ways to cope with the heaviness. I hope you can gain something from this episode. Thank you for listening and don't forget to subscribe! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/joseph-e-corley-jr/support

Can you relate to feeling qualified to be in the spaces that you're in but still feeling as though you don't belong there? That is imposter syndrome. In this episode, Phoenix and I discuss our experiences with imposter syndrome and will share how I identified and cope with it to this day. I discuss my struggles with imposter syndrome as a coach, teacher, and therapist. Toward the end of the episode, I give 4 tips on overcoming imposter syndrome and accepting the praise you deserve! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joseph-e-corley-jr/support

Living with suicidal ideation can be physically heavy, defeating, and extremely painful. The pain extends to loved ones and can be difficult for all involved to cope with. In this episode, I share my own experiences with suicidal ideation and how I've coped with it for many years. I give insight on my journey to becoming a therapist and what I've learned and wish to share about my healing journey. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joseph-e-corley-jr/support

Often times the people in our lives set boundaries at inconvenient times. It can be difficult to decipher if a person is showing up selfish or exercising their right to take care of themselves. In this episode I answer the question, is it selfish, or are you mad that you were beat to the boundary? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joseph-e-corley-jr/support

In this episode I sit down with my friends, Ev, Jeff, and Gareth and we discuss several topics regarding navigating manhood. Neither of claim to be an expert, we process our experiences, discuss vulnerability, and what it's like building relationships amongst other men. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joseph-e-corley-jr/support

I speak to my friends Jeff and Jennifer Henry in this episode about their HBCU love story. I asked Taylor to sit in, she is currently a student at Howard University, the place of origin of this love story. In this episode, we discuss their origins as individuals and the role that played in how they show up in their marriage. There are so many gems in this episode for people of all stages of relationships. Whether you are on campus trying to figure it out, or in the midst of your marriage. Enjoy! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joseph-e-corley-jr/support

In this episode you hear the origins of a 14, going on 15-year marriage. Donna and I talk about how we navigate life together as a couple, as parents, as partners, and as friends. We discuss how we are still learning to resolve conflict and what it was like for Donna to be married to someone who is clinically depressed. It's a journey we are still on, and we are vulnerable and transparent about some of the challenges. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joseph-e-corley-jr/support

This conversation with my son is an example of how a healing journey can have an impact on those closest to you. My son and I display what vulnerability can look like between a father and son. The way my son lives through my pain with me is a validation for me on how important it is to seek healing. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joseph-e-corley-jr/support

I'm back! In this episode, I briefly touch on what vulnerability means to me and what purpose vulnerability serves in my life. Thank you for the support, especially while taking a much-needed hiatus. Please rate and comment! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joseph-e-corley-jr/support

In this episode Marcus allows himself to get vulnerable about his personal struggles. The pressures of being a collegiate athlete and going through a strenuous rehab took its toll on Marcus mentally and physically. The bounce-back has been rewarding and inspiring, I'm very proud to bring you this episode. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joseph-e-corley-jr/support

In this episode, I talk with Samuel "S3" Arnold, aka Squirmy. We discuss his road to becoming a professional boxer and the personal challenges and sacrifices that presents. The importance of his mother and father on his journey and what it takes to be a champion! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joseph-e-corley-jr/support

Yaqui is a Salvadorian young woman, the child of immigrants. She has grown up in poverty and fought her way through adversity, finding herself and making it through college. She speaks about her experiences, growing up being bullied, living in fear, and the mental health challenges of herself and close friends. She is a remarkable young woman. If you want to support Yaqui her cash app is $YaquelinLobo --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joseph-e-corley-jr/support

I experience a healing moment as I speak to my nephews about some of their life experiences. These are two grown men that I've known since the first day of their lives. In this episode, we discuss generation trauma, the effects of losing my mother, being the child of incarceration, growing up in the foster care system, and much more! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joseph-e-corley-jr/support

The conversation about men and vulnerability is becoming more and more prevalent. The topic is multifaceted and multilayered, it couldn't possibly be covered in one episode. I hope that this is the beginning of a series of conversations that help begin to bridge a communication gap between men and women, and hopefully bring more men to therapy and healing. Let's create spaces where men can be vulnerable with other men and help lift each other and make this world better.  --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joseph-e-corley-jr/support

March 26th is Epilepsy Awareness Day! In this episode, I sit down with my former player and current friend Kenitra as she discusses her battle with Epilepsy. She gives us insight into her challenges with depression and anxiety and how that plays a role in her battle. Kenitra also gives insight into how she copes and what she is doing to bring awareness to this chronic disease. Thank you for listening! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joseph-e-corley-jr/support

In this episode, I sit down with Dominique Puentes, a young man I've known for most of his life. We talk about his struggles with anxiety and how he has learned to overcome them. We talk about our shared experience of growing up without our fathers and the impact that has had on our lives. I'm very proud of this episode and I'm proud of this young man. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joseph-e-corley-jr/support

This episode tells the story of my friend and my barber Marcus. Marcus talks about some of his blessing and struggles growing up, how being gay helped him transition into manhood. He talks about struggling to come to terms with his sexuality in his young life, and the peace he found once he did. There is a discussion on his time in the Marines, overcoming legal issues and becoming an entrepreneur. He opens up about his past relationships and the peace and happiness he found in his current relationship. This is a story of adversity! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joseph-e-corley-jr/support

Brenda has spent the majority of her life piecing together who she is. In this episode we will hear her tell her story of being adopted, biracial and raised in caucasian household. Brenda shares her journey to find her biologocal parents and the many years she spent assembling a puzzle that seemed impossible to complete. This was and is a journey to find herself and her identity, this is a search for Brenda Valentine.  --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joseph-e-corley-jr/support

I personally had never heard of polyamory until my friend Charita sat at my table and broke it down for me. In this episode I gain a better understanding of polyamory and her identity as a queer black woman. We had conversations on how it impacts her as a corporate woman and a mother. There is a lot in this episode, I hope you enjoy! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joseph-e-corley-jr/support