YOUNG IN LOVE with Kezia.

In this raw and deeply personal episode, David shares the emotional aftermath of abortion, the haunting sense of loss, the psychological toll, and the profound betrayal that left him shattered. For David, this wasn't just another difficult moment, it was his breaking point. But unlike many men who feel unready and choose to walk away from an unplanned pregnancy, David's response is different — more complex, more human.Continuing from part 1 of this interview, David reflects on the impact of growing up in a household marked by his parents dysfunctional marriage. Did it shape the way he loved? Did it sabotage his relationships? With honesty and insight, he speaks about past romantic struggles and the surprising qualities he now values in a partner — far from what you'd expect.This isn't just a story, it's a journey through heartbreak, healing, and rediscovering what truly matters in love.

David Hundeyin shares his relationship and marriage life in this interview. He details the impulsive decisions he made with women that almost cost him everything, as well as the dire consequences of ignoring mental health cues. David shares vulnerable moments about intimate aspects of his personal love life and marital shenanigans. If you think you read it all in his book titled 'Breaking Point', wait till you see this interview.This is only the first part. Stay tuned for the second part. Available also on Youtube.

In this final episode of the #findinglove series, Kezia discusses why secrecy is dangerous for relationships. She also emphasises the importance of walking in love, as opposed to falling, and how the best relationships are founded on the principle of positive reciprocity.Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad.From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kezia Vilawa. ❤️https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcastSlow Music credit: Fesliyan Studios

Remember that you are not married until you are married. Dating? Single. Engaged? Still single.So when is it safe to ‘cut off' all others and focus on your partner? Especially knowing that the risk of a breakup is inevitable?Listen to find out.Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad.From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kezia Vilawa. ❤️https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast

Love is a logical decision as much as it is an emotional one. Knowing when to lower your expectations and when to be realistic with those expectations is an important step in finding love. Tradeoffs will be required, depending on the type of partner you desire. Listen to this episode to understand the tradeoffs necessary in the search of genuine and sustainable love.Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad.From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kezia Vilawa. ❤️https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast

Ever felt like you're the catch and your partner should be lucky to have you? It's time to check your ego at the door. Love blossoms when the two individuals recognise the unique qualities they each bring to the table. Listen to find out why thinking you're the prize can hinder the progress of your search for love. More-so, in a world that often pressures us to rush into commitments, Kezia emphasises the benefits of slowing down and truly getting to know one another. Learn how slowing down can give you clarity by allowing prospective lovers reveal themselves in different contexts. Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad. From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster,  Kezia Vilawa. ❤️ https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast

Is your heart's desire also a genetic match? On this episode, two medical doctors discuss the latest medical advancements and the importance of pre-relationship health screenings for genetic compatibility and infectious disease testing. Medical compatibility goes beyond just genotype. Listen to find out what else you might be missing. Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad. From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster,  Kezia Vilawa. ❤️ https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast

When you meet a potential partner, conversations become the primary method to knowing and understanding each other. If you do not hold your end of the conversation, the potential partner may eventually lose interest and take a walk. Good conversations take two people. How do you contribute to making a conversation 'good' and 'interesting'? How long should the talking stage last? Listen to find out. Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad. From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kezia Vilawa. ❤️ https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/younginlove/message

This episode explores why taking the initiative, making the bold move & breaking the ice is important to find love. You'll learn about overcoming shyness, effective icebreakers and putting yourself out there with confidence. By the end of this episode, you should be able to spark interesting conversations & peak genuine interest. Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad. From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kezia Vilawa. ❤️ https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/younginlove/message

Learn why ghost profiles & the absence of a persona in social spaces do not get any bonus points when seeking love. Strategically positioning yourself in love's path can work in your favour, so do it now. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/younginlove/message

You want a slim thick woman when you have a sugar daddy bod? Do you have the money to match? You want a man living in his OWN home and driving his own car. Did your daddy have a house when he married your mother? Do you have your own home? Or are your standards applicable only when it is on another person's pocket? This episode drives home the importance of working towards being the kind of person that you desire your partner to be- rich, educated, athletic, compassionate, prayerful and so on. ‘Becoming who you want to be with' is the third and important step in finding love. Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad. From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kezia❤️ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/younginlove/message

Don't settle for less than you deserve – it's time to define what truly matters to you in love and relationships. By crafting clear non-negotiables that filter out incompatible matches, you stop wasting time on people that lead nowhere which frees up your schedule for the good stuff! Tune in on the next episode for step 3 of Finding Love: becoming who you want to be with. Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad. From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kezia Vilawa. ❤️ https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/younginlove/message

The importance of defining what you truly desire in a partner is that you automatically start to recognise what you don't want, guiding you closer to your ideal match and saving you precious time and emotional energy. Finding love has become painfully challenging given limited quality options, despite an abundance of people. But what if the very first step in finding love is surprisingly simple? This episode dives into the power of admitting that you WANT love, and embracing your desire for connection. Enjoyed this? Tune in on the next episode for step two: identifying your non-negotiables – the dealbreakers that absolutely cannot be compromised. Let's find love together, one episode at a time. Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad. From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kezia Vilawa. ❤️ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/younginlove/message

Holding onto grudges can transform your partner into a villain, when in reality, it's your own inability to forgive that's consuming you. Grievances create a distorted view of your partner, making them seem worse than they are. But the real monster? Unforgiveness itself. Learn how to break free from the cycle for a happier, healthier relationship. Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad. From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kezia Vilawa. ❤️ https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/younginlove/message

From the undeniable betrayal of physical infidelity to the subtle transgressions of emotional entanglements, I discuss the nuances of each form. Whether you're grappling with the aftermath of cheating yourself or seeking to understand its complexities, this episode will challenge your perspective and make you question the boundaries of trust. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion that might just redefine your perception of cheating! Link to article referencing the research on high IQ men and cheating - https://www.businessinsider.com/intelligence-and-cheating-2017-10 Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad. From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kezia Vilawa. ❤️ https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/younginlove/message

I discuss the privilege of genuine love - how exciting things usually are at the beginning of love, relationships and marriage - and the eventual, sometimes unintended descent into the abuse of access. One of the fastest ways to ruin the beauty of love is to take the access you have to your partner for granted. Genuine love demands that you never trivialise the privilege of access even when the relationship has lost its spark or after your partner has been demystified. Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad. From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kezia Vilawa. ❤️ https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/younginlove/message

Do you have what it takes to hold the attention of the man you love? Good conversations do not happen by chance; they are the result of a willing heart and a curious mind. Listen to 4 basic tips to get you off to a good start in that conversation with your crush. He is supposed to chase after you, NOT after a conversation with you. I hope you know the difference. Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad. From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kezia Vilawa. ❤️ https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/younginlove/message

How ‘cheap' is your man? It sounds like all men lack control and discipline- but I would like to believe that God still has sons. Unsuspecting men falling prey to the seductive whims of women who aren't their partners is the new order of the day. Is he safe with your wig vendor for even a day? Or will he be ‘snatched' from you just like that? Where are the men who master discipline? Where are the men who understand boundaries? Where are the men who shun infidelity? Where are the sons of God? When you find them, are you able to recognise them? Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad. From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kezia Vilawa. ❤️ https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/younginlove/message

The absence of my father has influenced the way I interact with my romantic partners. The fatherless daughter syndrome is real and it manifests in more ways than we know. Constantly seeking validation, feelings of insecurity, clinginess, hyper vulnerability and a host of many others, could be signs that you are yet to heal from the psychological damage caused by a father who walked out on you as a kid. Emily (name changed) and I discuss our trauma response to absentee fathers in our relationships. Crafted with Love for the #YoungLoversSquad. From the rich stable of your favourite podcaster, Kezia Vilawa. ❤️ https://linktr.ee/younginlovepodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/younginlove/message

Are you in a committed relationship but find yourself attracted to another person? On this episode, Kezia discusses third-party attractions, why they occur, how to guard your heart jealously and what to do if you already find yourself in this tricky situation. Support the Podcast on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/younginlove Follow YIL Podcast on Instagram https://instagram.com/younginlove_podcast?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= Visit the Podcast website: https://www.podpage.com/young-in-love-with-kezia/ ~Crafted with Love for the #youngLoversSquad

Today, I put our African parents on the cross and nail them for the wickedness they display during the wedding preparations of their children. I say a short prayer for these parents, uncles and aunties as well as ‘village people'. To start this conversation with your parents, share this episode with them and leave your comments on the corresponding post on Instagram @younginlove_podcast. Support the Podcast on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/younginlove Follow YIL Podcast on Instagram https://instagram.com/younginlove_podcast?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= Visit the Podcast website: https://www.podpage.com/young-in-love-with-kezia/ ~Crafted with Love for the #youngLoversSquad

Is it really sexual harassment or an opportunity to show your sexual prowess? Where do we draw the line between sexual harassment and compliments? Is sexual harassment gender specific? Gideon and Kezia unravel the grey areas in sexual harassment of males and share real life experiences of sexual harassment and how they were managed. Leave your comments on the corresponding post on Instagram @younginlove_podcast. Support the Podcaster on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/younginlove Follow YIL Podcast on Instagram https://instagram.com/younginlove_podcast?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= Visit the Podcast website: https://www.podpage.com/young-in-love-with-kezia/ ~Crafted with Love for the #youngLoversSquad

It is true that the world has become so connected via the internet that you do not necessarily need to go out to meet new people. However, in-person interactions have an advantage that digital connections will never offer. On this episode, Miša and his fiancé, Irina, share the fateful story of how they met at the beach, Irina's adventurous trip to Serbia and their convictions around finding and staying in love. Support the Podcaster on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/younginlove Follow YIL Podcast on Instagram https://instagram.com/younginlove_podcast?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= Visit the Podcast website: https://www.podpage.com/young-in-love-with-kezia/ ~Crafted with Love for the #youngLoversSquad

This is not your regular love story. Theirs is one of fate; giving love a chance against the odds stacked against them. Chika and Taiwo join me to share the challenges they have had to deal with as a couple, the boundaries they established for ex-lovers, the intriguing story of how they met and so much more. Enjoy! Follow YIL Podcast on Instagram https://instagram.com/younginlove_podcast?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= Visit the Podcast website: https://www.podpage.com/young-in-love-with-kezia/ Support the Podcaster on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/younginlove ~Crafted with Love for the #youngLoversSquad

For people of faith, ever wondered if sex and prayer were compatible? Is there a safe way to 'fornicate'? Is there a guiltless way to 'fornicate'? On this episode, I am joined by Obinna to discuss the guilt from so-called fornication, and the liberty that eventually comes from having sex and being able to pray immediately after. Obinna speaks from experience and shares the absolute game-changer. Follow YIL Podcast on Instagram https://instagram.com/younginlove_podcast?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= Visit the Podcast website: https://www.podpage.com/young-in-love-with-kezia/ Support the Podcaster on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/younginlove ~Crafted with Love

I look like a Crocodile but that's gist for when you listen. He speaks German. I speak English. Is there the slightest chance that there's a future between us? Personally, I think not and for a good number of reasons. On this episode, I share my personal experiences with being approached by men who do not speak English and how I have navigated these situations. It's the first episode since November 2021 and I am happy to be in your ears once again. Happy New Year, #youngLoversSquad. Comment on this episode via https://www.podroomlive.com/?app=podroom&link=podcast/5304/invite Follow YIL Podcast on Instagram https://instagram.com/younginlove_podcast?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= Visit the Podcast website: https://www.podpage.com/young-in-love-with-kezia/ Support the Podcaster on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/younginlove ~Crafted with Love

You've got a wicked man? Say no more! You may very well be already punishing him and I share how. For those with kind men, let me tell you what you need to stop doing to enjoy those snugly cuddly nights in the arms of the man you love. To donate to Baby Chima's #gofundme, please use this link. https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-save-chinedum-onyemaechis-life?utm_source=customer&utm_medium=copy_link&utm_campaign=p_cf+share-flow-1 To get in touch, visit @younginlove_podcast on Instagram, Facebook and Twitter or send an email to younginlovepod@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/younginlove/message

How far are you willing to go to prove a point? On this episode, the guest couple & I explore the rationale for sharing graphic pictures of virgin blood from their first sex and the BEHIND THE SCENES of their pre-marital life. And oh, they have a word for everyone hating on them. Enjoy! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/younginlove/message

“Tell Me About Yourself”. For what? As who? Unto what? If you don't gedifok

I have been nominated for this Award. It's a National Award ooo, like in the whole Nigeria. You made this possible. To help me win this, keep voting aggressively till Sunday, 26th Sept 2021. Tell a friend to tell a friend to tell even an enemy

Mrs. X and I talk total sexual abstinence before marriage, how she handled pre marital sexual pressure, her first sexual experience with her husband after marriage, the challenges she currently faces and the resolution she has made. A must-listen for waiting singles and the married who waited. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/younginlove/message

I present to you, famous polygamists in the Bible and how they found favour with God. Something special about polygamy. Actually, if you've been fighting polygamy, this episode is for you. If you've always known that there's nothing wrong with polygamy but you just never found justification for it in the Bible, WORRY NOT! I got you covered. This episode is also for you. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/younginlove/message

This episode is a collection of real life experiences of real people and all the things that went wrong during their one night stands, the thrill and excitement, the risks, the fears and the lessons learned. You want to listen to the very end because, better is the end of a thing thereof than the beginning. I'm joined by King Precious, the host of the LET'S GIST WITH PRECIOUS Podcast. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/younginlove/message

Yes! It is just as scary as it is true. Your penis can actually break and at really odd moments. I share a little basic knowledge on penile fracture and sex positions that predispose you to penile fracture as well as the symptoms, diagnosis, treatment and precautionary measures that may help prevent your penis from breaking. Enjoy! Health content gotten from www.healthline.com and accessed on 17th July, 2021 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/younginlove/message

Don't you just get confused sometimes in your search for love? We are often advised to look for a long list of things in our partners. On this episode, I present four bedrock criteria that you may want to adopt in your quest for love. I shared same at the Podcasters' Hangout and if you weren't there, listening to this is a good way to play catch-up. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/younginlove/message

Here's what I think about humping. Y'all need to stop! Or at least pity our pubic tissues. I present a better option that may leave both parties happy at the end of a hump session. What better day to publish an episode on humping than on the hump day? Happy Hump Day; Happy Wednesday!  Donate to and share my #gofundmekezia link for my birthday https://gf.me/u/ysns75 Episode Cover Art image credit: Metro --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/younginlove/message

Is food really the fastest way to a man's heart? While many men have said NO to this question, their actions have shown otherwise. Join me and Alaoma on this exciting episode as we discuss. Wanna leave a comment on this episode? I'll be waiting to read from you on Podroom. Link below. https://www.podroomlive.com/?app=podroom&link=podcast/5304/invite  OR visit the Podcast website: https://www.podpage.com/young-in-love-with-kezia/  Would you like to support this ministry of love? You can do so on patreon.com/younginlove ~Crafted with Love

We have probably all been guilty of this at some point. In the wake of recent happenings in Nigeria, particularly rape, it is important that we learn that we could innocently justify rape by our words. In less than 8minutes, I share pointers to our guilt and a way forward. Comment on this episode via https://www.podroomlive.com/?app=podroom&link=podcast/5304/invite OR Podcast website: https://www.podpage.com/young-in-love-with-kezia/ Credit to https://www.FesliyanStudios.com for the background music. ~Crafted with Love

Do women really want to see pictures of men's 'pendulumic' endowment? Sex through texts has become a real thing in a digitalised world. Let my guest, Tochi, blow your mind with useful sexting tips as we discuss the rationale behind this form of sex, the satisfaction from it and what gender benefits more from it and how to master the art. For Adults only!

Celebrity couple, Banky and Adesua Wellington decided to share their journey through fertility and faith and how their love for God and each other managed to carry them through. The hour-long testimony has evoked a plethora of emotions and sentiments across Nigeria. On this episode, I share the highlights of their testimony, lessons learned and essential nuggets for dating in the future before marriage.  Let me know what you think in the comment section on Podroom via the link https://www.podroomlive.com/?app=podroom&link=podcast/5304/invite  Podcast website: https://www.podpage.com/young-in-love-with-kezia/  Credit to https://www.FesliyanStudios.com for the background music ~Crafted with Love

Love affairs at the Office will not always end delightfully. Winifred shares her unbelievably short but horrific experiences during her numerous office romance escapades. To leave a comment, visit Podroom via the link below https://www.podroomlive.com/?app=podroom&link=podcast/5304/invite Podcast website: https://www.podpage.com/young-in-love-with-kezia/ Credit to https://www.FesliyanStudios.com for the background music ~Crafted with Love

Have the Yorubas really done something to deserve all the demonization they get? I eavesdropped on a spicy but thought-provoking gossip at a hair salon in Lagos and I could not wait to share the gossip with you. I heard abominable things. Please just tell me none of these things are true! To leave a comment on this episode, visit

They found love at the Office! The guilty pleasures of office romance! My guests, Tele & Edidem and I, discuss falling in love, romance and everything in-between at the Office and I dare say, marrying that love. Advisable or not? To leave a comment on this episode, visit

When a person tells you “Goodnight” or “Bye”, that is the end of your own conversation with the person. On this episode of ‘Through Kezia’s Lens’, I discuss the common error of mistaking online presence for availability. Make sure you share this episode with your enemies and all those who bug you when you’re online.  Young in Love Podcast is ranked #17 in Top 50 Nigerian Podcasts 2020 by NaijaPod Hub. ✌

Have you ever felt disrespected by the choice of date location by your partner? Darlington and I explore what influences date locations and how some locations can be disrespectful not just because of the location itself, but also the activities carried out in the location eg. smoking, orgies, etc. Young in Love Podcast is ranked #17 in Top 50 Nigerian Podcasts 2020 by NaijaPod Hub. ✌

Single or dating? You do not want to miss this episode as this sexy Yoruba dem*n drops mind-blowing tips on what you should consider before outdoing yourself on ANY kind of date appointment.  Young in Love Podcast is ranked #17 in Top 50 Nigerian Podcasts 2020 by NaijaPod Hub. ✌

In a time with increasingly high expectations from men, it’s easy to despair as a man when you fall short of the set standards. Here’s a gender-special for all the men out there; YOU’RE STILL A MAN and YOU’RE ENOUGH! Young in Love Podcast is ranked #17 in Top 50 Nigerian Podcasts 2020 by NaijaPod Hub. ✌

I moved to a bigger city and found that the climate for love appeared to be hostile here in Lagos. My finding inspired this episode. Here, Fecko of the Surviving Eko Podcast (a born & bred Lagos boy) and I compare what it’s like to find love, date, marry and raise a family in the big cities of Lagos & Port-Harcourt. Enjoy! Young in Love Podcast is ranked #17 in Top 50 Nigerian Podcasts 2020 by NaijaPod Hub. ✌

Oo la la..!!! Don’t mind the French caption☺️☺️. I provide answers about my Podcast, my love life, sexual life and my career. One year of non-stop Podcasting is definitely worth it. YIL Podcast turns 1 and I thought it was a good opportunity to let you lovely Listeners gain a little insight into my quiet world by asking burning questions you’d like to know about me. Towards the end, I invite my Producer to drop tips on recording and sound editing as a Farewell Speech to me as I’ll no longer be recording at her Studio after returning from my Podcast break. Having stuck with Podcasting and content creation on social media for a year, I decided that a path in PR and Media Communications was right for me. Currently I hold an Admission Offer for a masters in PR and MultiMedia Communication. If you would like to support my education, please use the gofundme link below

Let’s face it.! We have been attracted to someone from the past; maybe from even our HighSchool. This episode brings back fond memories by assembling the real highschool sweethearts from ASTEC, Owerrinta. We discussed the innocence, awesomeness, awkwardness and future of highschool relationships. Plus, some old flames might have been rekindled

Should being an independent woman mean always splitting bills with your man? With modern trend of events, it’s hard to know where a man’s head is at when it comes to bills. This episode explores the hilarious, yet very embarrassing experiences of 3 Ladies with 21st Century men. Follow on Instagram @younginlove_podcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/younginlove/message