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Chapter 1 What's The Care And Keeping Of You by Valorie Schaefer"The Care and Keeping of You" by Valorie Schaefer is a comprehensive guide designed for young girls transitioning into adolescence. Covering topics from puberty to emotional changes, the book addresses physical development, hygiene, and self-care, emphasizing the importance of understanding one's body and feelings. It features practical advice on handling periods, dealing with body image issues, and navigating relationships with friends and family. The tone is friendly and reassuring, making it accessible for preteens. Illustrations and relatable stories enhance the text, helping girls feel supported as they embark on this significant life journey. Overall, it serves as an empowering resource to educate and inspire confidence.Chapter 2 The Care And Keeping Of You by Valorie Schaefer Summary"The Care and Keeping of You" by Valorie Schaefer is an informative and approachable guide aimed at preteen girls, covering the changes that accompany puberty and the physical, emotional, and social aspects of growing up. Summary:Body Changes: The book begins by addressing the physical changes that occur during puberty, including breast development, menstruation, body hair growth, and skin changes. It explains these changes in a straightforward manner, helping girls understand that these are normal and natural parts of growing up.Menstruation: A significant portion of the book discusses menstruation—what it is, how to prepare for it, and tips for managing it effectively. It offers practical advice on using menstrual products such as pads and tampons and addresses common concerns and questions that girls may have.Personal Hygiene: The importance of personal hygiene is emphasized throughout the book. It covers topics like bathing, shaving, deodorant use, dental care, and the importance of maintaining cleanliness to feel good about oneself.Emotional Changes: Schaefer also touches on the emotional rollercoaster that may accompany puberty, such as mood swings, self-esteem issues, and the complexities of friendships and relationships. The author encourages girls to talk about their feelings and provides coping strategies.Health and Nutrition: The book promotes healthy eating and physical activity, stressing how good nutrition and exercise can positively impact both physical and mental health. It provides tips on balanced diets and finding fun ways to stay active.Respecting Boundaries: There are sections on understanding personal boundaries and the importance of consent and respect in interactions with others, laying a foundation for healthy relationships.Self-Care and Empowerment: Ultimately, "The Care and Keeping of You" encourages self-care and personal empowerment, urging girls to embrace their bodies and the changes they are going through with confidence. Conclusion:Overall, Schaefer's guide serves as a reassuring resource for young girls navigating the challenges of puberty, providing them with the knowledge and tools they need to take care of themselves physically and emotionally.Chapter 3 The Care And Keeping Of You AuthorValorie Schaefer is an American author best known for her books focusing on the themes of puberty, health, and body image for young girls. She co-authored the popular book "The Care and Keeping of You: The Body Book for Younger Girls," which was published by American Girl in 1998. This book is designed to help girls understand the changes they will experience during puberty in a friendly and accessible manner.In addition to "The Care and Keeping of You," Schaefer has written several other books, including:"The Care and Keeping of You 2: The Body Book for Older Girls" (2005)"The Feelings Book: The Care and Keeping of Your Emotions" (2009)Various other titles under the American Girl series that address similar...
Welcome to the Stellar Cycles Podcast! In this episode, we're talking about how to talk to your kids about puberty in order to navigate the period topic with ease. We'll cover the importance of being the expert in your home, ways to normalize period talk, especially for boys, and the role of the internet in our kids' lives. The most important thing is to keep the lines of communication open with your kids and provide them with the tools and information they need to navigate these sensitive topics.Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more tips on women's health and wellness! Recommeded Reads1. “The Compleat Tween” by Nancy Van Pelt2. "The Care and Keeping of You: The Body Book for Younger Girls" by Valorie Schaefer3. "What's Happening to Me?" by Peter Mayle4. "The Girl's Body Book: Everything You Need to Know for Growing Up You" by Kelli Dunham5. "Celebrate Your Body (and Its Changes, Too!): The Ultimate Puberty Book for Girls" by Sonya Renee Taylor6. "Puberty Is Gross but Also Really Awesome" by Gina Loveless.7. "The Period Book: A Girl's Guide to Growing Up" by Karen GravelleOther mentions: Check out @thehealthyhophead on Instagram for single serving meal recipes. Download our FREE phasic foods grocery guide here! Stellar Cycles Instagram @stellarcyclespod Use code STELLAR10 for 10% off BioOptimizers magnesium supplementsListen on SpotifyListen on Apple Podcasts
Mama, Your darling daughter is starting to show signs of “the change”. She is entering the tween stage. She is starting puberty! You are likely not ready for this and you sure aren't thinking about having those talks quite yet. I'm sorry to tell you mama, this is the time. You can't avoid or prolong it. Your 10, 11, 12 year old needs her mama to spill the beans about what's going on with her body. No worries, friend, I'm sharing 3 tips for having the talk with your tween girl. AND mamas if you have an older teenage daughter, you may want to listen to this anyways because there may be some holes we need to patch up to move your girl along the road of puberty. Resource referenced in episode: The Care and Keeping of You: The Body Book for Younger Girls Are you looking for ways to communicate with your girl so she can start opening up to you? Do you want to understand why is it so hard to approach your girl? Are you stuck on how to approach your teenage daughter in conversation without her freaking out? SIGN UP FOR TALK TO YOUR TEEN GIRL FRAMEWORK!! A 4-WEEK JOURNEY TO SHIFT HOW YOU COMMUNICATE SO SHE CAN COME TO YOU! You'll walk away with a deeper understanding the changes happening to your girl, Equipped in your new role as COACH in this teen stage, and establish better communication pathways to connect and grow closer with your daughter Imagine if you and your daughter can finally have conversations at a level where she doesn't need to hide anything from you! Plus, you'll get to meet other mamas who are all in the same boat.... SIGN UP HERE! You can find me here: Work with me: www.jeanniebaldomero.com/mentoring Connect: hello@jeanniebaldomero.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeanniebaldomero/ Free mom support community: www.linktr.ee/jeanniebaldomero
Figuring out how to talk to your kids about body parts, sex, periods, etc can be awkward... but it doesn't have to be! Inside today's episode, I'm sharing how I have created an open door, no filter policy with my girls as we talk about these topics.-------------------------------------------------------Get that Body book from American Girl here: Amazon.com: The Care and Keeping of You: The Body Book for Younger Girls, Revised Edition (American Girl Library): 8601404233258: Schaefer, Valorie, Masse, Josee: BooksLearn more about the Nixit menstraul disc here: https://nixit.com/?rstr=rawmomlifeNew episodes post every Thursday!Watch for RAW CONVERSATIONS with mamas every month! Want to be a guest? Click here:https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSf8HSieo2ZXe4DOesXnlzb-WerDhA9U9wZXEIqoDd7IWUPg6Q/viewformCome hang with me on IG, it's my fave place to be:https://www.instagram.com/amberwilfahrt
How do you feel when you are in between stages of life? Excited? Nervous? Afraid? Tweens - those kids in between childhood and adolescence - are capable, growing into their own thoughts and ideas and preferences, but not quite as opinionated as teenagers. In this “in between” there is plenty of room for curiosity and character development if we will stay connected to and interested in our kids. My guest this week is Charissa Lopez (she's gotten married since she was last on the show as Charissa Fry), a therapist and parent coach, and she encourages us that healthy attachment can lead to healthy individuation (that process of our kids distinguishing themselves from us). She helps us see that for the entire time we are in relationship with our kids they need comfort and encouragement and connection with us. Though we still have authority over our kids we, as parents, are transitioning out of such a hands-on role in their lives and Charissa helps us think through puberty and friend groups, and our tweens' spiritual growth. Connect with Charissa Lopez: Website: https://charissalopez.com Special Resources for DMA Listeners from past episodes: https://charissalopez.com/resources/regulation-pack/ Links Mentioned*: **For resources mentioned below, parents should read the book first. Don't feel like you have to read every word to your child. Just use the parts that work for your family and skip the rest. Or discuss why some people believe differently than you.* Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté It's So Amazing!:A Book about Eggs, Sperm, Birth, Babies and Families The Care and Keeping of You: The Body Book for Younger Girls, Revised Edition The Care and Keeping of You 2: The Body Book for Older Girls Guy Stuff: The Body Book for Boys Birds and Bees Ministry with Mary Flo Ridley and Megan Michelson Related Episodes: Connecting Through Play :: Charissa Fry [Ep 319] The Window of Tolerance :: Charissa Fry [Ep 260] Self-Differentiation and Why it Matters :: Nancy Houston [Ep 335] Featured Sponsors: Find links to this week's sponsors and unique promo codes at dontmomalone.com/sponsors.
Mentioned In this Episode and Argavan's Recommendations: CDC Growth Charts, including WHO charts:https://www.cdc.gov/growthcharts/index.htm Body Positivity Books:Celebrate Your Body (and Its Changes, Too!): The Ultimate Puberty Book for Girls https://www.amazon.com/dp/164152166X/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_DWFA3AG1R2391WTEWTEE?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1The Care and Keeping of You: The Body Book for Younger Girls, Revised Edition (American Girl Library) https://www.amazon.com/dp/1609580834/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_43P2QB27GCPW8R4DB4SP?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1Body Books (for younger children) https://www.funwithmama.com/20-childrens-books-about-the-human-body/Body Books for Tweens and Teens https://www.commonsensemedia.org/lists/books-about-puberty For more on Argavan Nilforoush, be sure to follow her on Instagram @babystepsnutrition, on Facebook: Baby Steps Nutrition Podcast page, on Twitter @argavanRDN, on LinkedIn @ArgavanNilforoush and through her websitewww.babystepsnutrition.com.
How are babies made? We speak with Cory Silverberg, author of What Makes A Baby, for answers to questions about how we all come into the world. This is a conversation that welcomes all kinds of families as we answer questions about why babies don't hatch out of eggs, why boys have nipples, why girls have babies but boys don't and why some people look more like one parent more than the other. Later in the episode we also explore how we get our last names and how two people can have the same last name when they're not related. We made this episode with our youngest listeners in mind, but parents may want to preview this episode on their own or listen with their kids. Download our learning guides: PDF | Google Slide | Transcript "How are babies made?" - Wade, 7, Charlottesville, Va. In his book What Makes a Baby, Cory Silverberg begins by reminding kids and grownups that there are really two questions: what makes a baby in general, and then the more specific question that is unique to you--where did you come from? That's a question that only your parent or parents or the adults who love you can answer. While there are lots of ways that babies join families, some things are true for all of us. “For all humans to be born we need three things. We need to start with an egg; we need to start with a sperm; and those come from two different bodies. And then we need a third body part which is called a uterus. That's where we grow, where this tiny, tiny thing grows into a baby, which is the thing you are when you are born," Silverberg explains. Book recommendations from Cory Silverberg Books Geared to Kids 4 - 7 (ish) What Makes a Baby By Cory Silverberg and Fiona Smyth A book about where babies come from that works for every kind of family, regardless of who is in it and how the child came to be. What's the Big Secret: Talking about Sex with Girls and Boys By Laurie Krasny Brown and Marc Brown A simplified and clear introduction to reproduction, genitals, and touch. Leaves out a lot of kids and families, but better than most. Who Are You? The Kid's Guide to Gender Identity by Brook Pessin-Whedbee and Naomi Bardoff Also simplified, but a good introduction on gender identity written and illustrated for younger children. Books Geared to Kids 7 to 10 (ish) The Care and Keeping of You: The Body Book for Younger Girls By Valorie Schaefer and Josee Masse Only for girls, and not trans inclusive, but still one of the best books to cover a range of sexuality and puberty related topics. It's So Amazing! A Book about Eggs, Sperm, Birth, Babies, and Families By Robie Harris and Michael Emberly Covers reproduction including intercourse gestation and birth, with a focus on heterosexual, gender normative parents and kids. Sex Is a Funny Word By Cory Silverberg and Fiona Smyth Covers body parts, boundaries, touch, and an extensive gender section for kids and families of all identities and orientations. Stacey's Not a Girl By Colt Keo-Meier, illustrated by Jesse Yang A picture book about a kid who knows they aren't a girl, but isn't sure if they are a boy.
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This week the High Moms discuss some hot topics, their motherhood journeys , parenting styles. Thank you for listening to our podcast. Please leave a review on Apple Podcast and let us know what you think, any topics you would like for us to discuss. Happy Mothers Day Ladies: A mother is she who can take the place of all others but whose place no one else can take. Details: The Care and Keeping of You: The Body Book for Younger Girls-by Valorie Schaefer (Author), Josee Masse (Illustrator), This book helped me through my pre-teen and teen years, taught me everything i needed to know about being a young girl. A must Read for young girls. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
This week the High Moms discuss some hot topics, their motherhood journeys , parenting styles. Thank you for listening to our podcast. Please leave a review on Apple Podcast and let us know what you think, any topics you would like for us to discuss. Happy Mothers Day Ladies: A mother is she who can take the place of all others but whose place no one else can take. Details: The Care and Keeping of You: The Body Book for Younger Girls-by Valorie Schaefer (Author), Josee Masse (Illustrator), This book helped me through my pre-teen and teen years, taught me everything i needed to know about being a young girl. A must Read for young girls. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
This week I talk with the beautiful Bree Card. A mother, Science lover and author. This in-depth conversation is all about parenting, patience and the science connection to childhood tantrums. We talked about the taboo conversations to have with children from racism to sex education. You can find more from Bree Card at https://www.tiktok.com/@breecard?lang=en Book Recommendations: Bree Card's Book - Dear Over Stimulated Parent: 10 Small Ways to Save Your Sanity https://amzn.to/37TLbc5 The Care and Keeping of You: The Body Book for Younger Girls https://amzn.to/3sCKV9v The Care of Keeping You 2: The Body Book for Older Girls https://amzn.to/3uv6udE Who Has what https://amzn.to/2ZVPkba Guy Stuff: The Body Book for Boys https://amzn.to/2O2i27E The Whole-Brain Child https://amzn.to/3pZEhZd The Explosive Child https://amzn.to/3uC2J6s Raising Human Beings https://amzn.to/2ZXVaZm --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/thehennessyshouse/support
In this week's episode, the Charlatans explore the inner fear we have of being open about one's health journey. We reflect on growing up in a culture that often silences meaningful conversations around health and wellness in favor of being diet and weight obsessed. Listening to one's mental, emotional, and physical health can be empowering to becoming the best advocate for yourself. Special thanks to Michael Lehman for the music and Cellar Studio 39 for mixing this episode. Books mentioned in this episode: The Care and Keeping of You: The Body Book for Younger Girls from American Girl In the FLO: Unlock Your Hormonal Advantage and Revolutionize Your Life by Alissa Vitti
Today on the Dads With Daughters Podcast we have Amy Lang of Birds and Bees and Kids . Amy has over 25 years as a sex education expert and she is bringing that information to you. Today we are talking about the birds and bees and how you can talk to your daughters about this. Amy Lang helps people deal with the really difficult and uncomfortable circumstances that happen in the world of sexuality. This is not an easy conversation to have with our daughters, but as a father, we must be a part of our daughters’ lives and this is a part of that, no matter how uncomfortable it makes us. Below are some books Amy Lang shared as resources for you! It’s not the Stork (Below 6) It’s So Amazing (6-11 year old) It’s Perfectly Normal: Changing Bodies, Growing Up, Sex, and Sexual Health (Over 11) The Care and Keeping of You: The Body Book for Younger Girls, Revised Edition The Care and Keeping of You 2: The Body Book for Older Girls The Care and Keeping of You Journal: for Younger Girls The Care and Keeping of You 2 Journal Is This Normal: MORE Girls’ Questions, Answered by the Editors of The Care & Keeping of You Also, Amy Lang has her own Podcast: Just Say This! https://birdsandbeesandkids.com/category/podcast/ which will give you even more answers to questions you might not have even known you had! She also offers you a Birds & Bees Solution Center for Parents that is full of amazing information https://birdsandbeespros.thinkific.com/courses/the-birds-bees-solution-center-for-parents On the Birds and Bees and Kids site use coupon code DADS for 15% off the one-time payment of $69
Continuing our conversation with Mr. Kevin Webb, we dive deep into the world of sexual consent and gender identity. We learn about some of the struggles the youth of today are going through in the high school and college arena when it comes to sex. Though we know are children will have sex at some point in their lives, Kevin shares ways to talk with your children about what consensual sex, title 9, and even rape. He also offers some our listeners resources and organizations parents can use to aid them in these conversations surrounding sex and consent. We listed the links to the resources and organizations discussed in this podcast. A Call To Men - www.acalltomen.org Men Can Stop Rape - https://www.mencanstoprape.org Know your IX - Empowering Students to Stop Sexual Violence - https://www.knowyourix.org The body Book for Boys by Rebecca Paley - https://www.amazon.com/Body-Book-Boys-Rebecca-Paley/dp/0545237513 The Care and Keeping of You: The Body Book for Younger Girls - https://www.amazon.com/Care-Keeping-You-Younger-American/dp/1609580834 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/newschooldaddy/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/newschooldaddy/support
Today Bonnie and Audrey tackle the topic of sex education. Talking to kids about sex is an important parenting task. We cover this in 4 parts; 1- Why to have the talk, 2- What age to give them which information, 3- How to cover the specifics and 4- How this relates to them and puberty. Explaining about "the birds and the bees" is not a comfortable conversation sometimes, but a very important one to discuss. We give you tips for healthy conversations about sex with your kids. Bonnie recommends: Good Pictures, Bad Pictures Good Pictures, Bad Pictures Junior Audrey recommends: The Care and Keeping of You: The Body Book for Younger Girls The Care and Keeping of You 2: The Body Book for Older Girls
Who taught you about sex as a child? If you’re a parent, how do you feel about talking to your child about sex? According to a survey conducted by Knowledge Networks, 57% of parents feel uncomfortable talking to their kids about sex and 64% reported that their parents didn’t do a good job talking to them. How do we engage in this important conversation with our kids with confidence as well as effectiveness? On this episode of the Better Together Podcast, I’m talking Lauren Snyder, Executive Director of Ministry at CedarCreek Church in Perrysburg, OH. Join our conversation as we have a conversation about a topic that we hate talking to our kids about: SEX. During this podcast, you hear and learn: A fun story about the unconventional way that Lauren learned about the birds-and-the-bees; Why parents must be the first and primary voice in their children's life regarding sex; Lauren will equip you with phrases that we need to repeat early and often to our kids to keep them from developing body-related or sex-related shame. During our podcast, Lauren also named a few of the resources that she provided to Lydia. We’ve also included those links for you: The Care and Keeping of You: The Body Book for Younger Girls, Revised Edition Paperback (2012) by Valorie Schaefer (Author), Josee Masse (Illustrator) The Care and Keeping of You 2: The Body Book for Older Girls (Paperback – 2013) by Cara Natterson (Author), Josee Masse (Illustrator) God's Design for Sex Series (4 books) By Stan Jones and Brenna Jones As Lauren recommends, please read these resources before handing them off with your kids. You’ll want to be aware and equipped to receive the questions that your child might ask, rather than scrambling to do damage control or untwist any misconceptions. What if you’re afraid to teach your kids about sex because you feel ashamed or guilty about your past? Romans 8:1 says that there is no condemnation for those who belong to Christ Jesus. If God has forgiven you, then you need to let His forgiveness in to clear your heart and mind and not block it with your guilt, shame or self-hatred. If you don't accept God's forgiveness, you'll miss an opportunity to testify to your kids about how God forgives and how we can be set free from guilt and shame. What if you don’t know what the Bible says about sex? This is a common question. There are a lot of people who are confused about what the Bible does and doesn't teach about sex. Now, there are an endless list of resources and perspectives. Here is a "starter" list for adults who want to learn more. You're welcome to share your suggestion on the blog page. The Gift of Sex in Marriage - sermon by Ben Snyder, CedarCreek Church) If you’re single – Love, Sex and Dating by Andy Stanley If you’re married – Sheet Music by Kevin Leman For Women Only – by Shaunti Feldhahn Pornography - Resources available at XXXChurch.com
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Today's guest is Beth Boatman. Beth is a sex therapist and sexuality educator with the insight and expertise to inspire all of us to create more joy in our lives by embracing a sense of healthy sexuality. She shared the story of how she came to be known as Beth the Sex Consultant and offered her thoughts on comprehensive sex education, balancing different sex drives and keeping desire alive across the lifespan. One of the key points she makes is the importance of the c word……communication! Whether it's talking to your child about sex or trying to increase your level of desire with your partner, the key is to become more comfortable expressing yourself. If you're struggling (or maybe avoiding?) having a chat with someone you care about, this interview might be just the thing you need to spark up a conversation. Enjoy! Beth Boatman received a Masters Degree in Human Sexuality Education atWidener University and is a Certified Sexuality Educator (AASECT) and aBoard Certified Sexologist (ACS). She is currently a Ph.D. candidate in Family Therapy at Texas Woman's University where she specializes in psychotherapy for individuals and couples facing issues related to sexual dysfunction, intimacy issues, chronic illness, and medical family therapy. Beth is a lifelong resident of the Dallas-Fort Worth, Texas area and provides counseling services, education, speaker presentations, and professional trainings on sexuality related topics. Resources: Find Beth at http://www.beththesexconsultant.com/home.html Book Suggestions: Girls & Sex: Navigating the Complicated New Landscape By Peggy Orenstein The Care and Keeping of You: The Body Book for Younger Girls, Revised Edition By Valorie Schaefer Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence By Esther Perel Passionate Marriage: Keeping Love and Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships By David Schnarch PhD IF you enjoyed today's episode please take a moment to download, rate, review and/or share!