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Pt. 1: https://raprankings.captivate.fm/episode/s17e01-50-cent-the-massacre-pt-1 ---------------- Track 7: "Candy Shop" (0:00) -- Track 8: "Outta Control" (23:24) -- Track 9: "Get In My Car" (43:47) -- Track 10: "Ski Mask Way" (1:01:15) -- Track 11: "A Baltimore Love Thing" (1:49:44) -- Track 12: "Ryder Music" (2:06:54) -- Track 13: "Disco Inferno" (2:29:17) -- Track 14: "Just A Lil Bit" (2:43:16) -- Track 15: "Gunz Come Out" (3:00:13) -- Track 16: "My Toy Soldier" (3:31:31) -- Track 17: "Position Of Power" (4:00:11) -- Track 18: "Build You Up" (4:15:03) -- Track 19: "God Gave Me Style" (4:27:38) -- Track 20: "So Amazing" (4:49:15) -- Track 21: "I Don't Need 'Em" (5:03:25) -- Track 22: "Hate It Or Love It [G-Unit Remix]" (5:25:57) -- Ranking The Massacre (7:16:49) -- Outro (7:20:15)
Send us a textPhilip Yancey's courageous and penetrating new book, his memoir - Where the Light Fell - will be released on October 5. There's a big audience for Philip's story. There are over 100 million claim to have experienced Christian fundamentalism and 25 million more identify as "exvangelicals." Brother Marshall, a musical prodigy, had perfect pitch. Philip's father contracted polio and died when Philip was only 18 months old. Ken notes that Philip's experience in segregationalist fundamentalism is extreme. Paul Van Gorder, Bob Jones, Jr., Lester Maddox all would come to Philip's church. The Prophecy Conferences were an annual event, providing much to fear. Tony Evans came to the church, and was turned away. Philip's mother, a well known Bible teacher, struggled to make ends meet but never quite recovered from her husbands passing. The three Yancey's lived in a mobile home, located in an Atlanta area "trailer park." The Lost Cause narrative permeated church life, but high school opened new perspectives for Philip. He shares bitter-sweet memories of church life. Philip appeared as the Southern preacher Elijah in a high school performance of Inherit the Wind. In Bible College, Philip had a reputation as an intellectual rebel, reading Bertrand Russell and Harvey Cox. Then he met his match, Janet. The parable of the Good Samaritan changed everything. He would later write. What's So Amazing about Grace. George Beverly Shea's song touches Philip.SHOW NOTES Support the showBecome a Patron - Click on the link to learn how you can become a Patron of the show. Thank you! Ken's Substack Page The Podcast Official Site: TheBeachedWhiteMale.com
Tell us whatcha' think! Send a text to us, here! Thank you for sharing your thoughts on our podcast. Amaze.org Ain't So Amazing! Best of the Best, October 22, 2024In this conversation, Suzanne Gallagher discusses the controversial content provided by the Amaze.org website, which is used for sexual education in schools. She highlights specific videos that address sensitive topics such as masturbation and sexual orientation, raising concerns about the appropriateness of this content for young children.Gallagher also critiques the involvement of minors in content creation for Amaze and the implications of organizations promoting sexual education. She advocates for an opt-in policy for controversial curriculums, emphasizing the need for parental consent and awareness.Support the showIf you need assistance with a situation in your area, please fill out our free consultation form.DONATE TODAY!www.ParentsRightsInEducation.com
Musician, Joel Zuma on what to expect from theatrical performance ‘SO AMAZING – A Tribute to Luther Vandross Ft JOEL ZUMA’ at Joburg Theatres this Valentines. After two sold out performances last year in February, ‘SO AMAZING’ returns on 14 & 15 February 2025 at the Joburg Theatre. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The BEST of 2024 with Nick Power & Soul Kandi. Compiled from all this years Top tracks that made it into Nick Power’s & Soul Kandi’s monthly Music Charts. Vicky Martin – “So Amazing” (Vocal) [TyRick Music] Tom Conrad ft Carla Prather – “Speechless” (Vocal) [Adaptation Music] Fleur De Mur – “Love Will Change Ya […] The post Soul Kandi Radio Show 28th Dec 2024 appeared first on SSRadio.
Chapter 1 What's It's Perfectly Normal by Robie H. Harris"It's Perfectly Normal" by Robie H. Harris is a children's book that aims to provide a comprehensive and age-appropriate understanding of puberty, sexuality, and the changes that occur during adolescence. The book addresses various topics including body changes, sexual reproduction, emotional changes, and the importance of respect and consent. Through colorful illustrations and straightforward language, it encourages open dialogue between children and adults about these often-sensitive subjects. The book emphasizes that experiencing these changes is normal and natural, helping children to feel more comfortable and informed as they navigate this significant stage of their lives.Chapter 2 It's Perfectly Normal by Robie H. Harris Summary"It's Perfectly Normal" by Robie H. Harris is a comprehensive and approachable guide for children, primarily aimed at ages 10 and up, about puberty, bodies, and sexuality. The book addresses a range of topics related to the physical, emotional, and social changes that occur during adolescence, as well as broader concepts of gender and sexual orientation. Key Themes and Content:Puberty: The book describes the changes that boys and girls experience during puberty, including growth spurts, development of sexual organs, and emerging sexual feelings. It presents this information in a straightforward and non-judgmental manner, aiming to normalize these experiences.Body Awareness: Harris emphasizes understanding and appreciating one's own body, as well as the differences between bodies, including those of various genders. It engages readers to respect differences and embrace body positivity.Sexual Education: The text covers various aspects of sexual health, including the biological basics of reproduction, consent, and the importance of safe sex practices. It ensures the information is age-appropriate and accessible.Emotional and Social Changes: Beyond physical changes, the book discusses the emotional rollercoaster of adolescence, including feelings of attraction, friendship dynamics, and the importance of communication with parents or trusted adults.Diversity and Inclusion: Harris inclusively addresses topics of LGBTQ+ identities, aiming to create a supportive narrative around sexual orientation and the spectrum of gender, promoting understanding and acceptance. Visual Aids:The book is filled with illustrations by Michael Emberley that are engaging and help clarify the content while maintaining a respectful tone towards the subject matter. Conclusion:"It's Perfectly Normal" stands out as a crucial resource for children navigating the complexities of growing up. It encourages curiosity, promotes healthy attitudes towards bodies and sexuality, and serves as a catalyst for open conversations between children and parents about these important topics.Chapter 3 It's Perfectly Normal AuthorRobie H. Harris is an accomplished American author known for her work in children's literature, particularly books that address sensitive topics related to puberty, sex education, and body awareness. Her most notable book, "It's Perfectly Normal: Changing Bodies, Growing Up, Sex, and Sexual Health," was first published in 1994. The book has been widely praised for its informative and age-appropriate content and features illustrations by Michael Emberley. Other Notable Books by Robie H. Harris:In addition to "It's Perfectly Normal," Harris has written several other important children's books, including:"It's So Amazing! A Book About Eggs, Sperm, Birth, Babies, and Families" (1999) This book is geared towards a slightly younger audience and covers similar themes in an accessible way."It's Perfectly Natural: A Book About Growth, Change, Sexuality, and Family Life" (2004) This is a follow-up to "It's Perfectly Normal" and is...
Enjoy the glorious music of Handel's Messiah set to magnificent images of Earth from space. We begin with the historic Earthrise photo, as seen from the Moon and etched in our souls. With powerful new words for the Hallelujah Chorus adapted by Jeff Vogel, the New York City Labor Chorus sings “Life on Earth, So Amazing!” with power and joy. Yes, life on Earth is amazing. Series: "Arts Channel " [Arts and Music] [Show ID: 40232]
Soul Kandi Radio Show #843 presented by Nick Power giving you some Old in with the very latest. Enjoy the Music!! Andy Bach ft Uliana Zar – “I Need You Baby” (Love In May) [Disco Machine Records] Vicky Martin – “So Amazing” (Vocal) [TyRick Music] Aaron Smith ft Bridget Flowers – “All I Know” (Extended) […] The post Soul Kandi Radio Show 8th Jun 2024 appeared first on SSRadio.
New Month, New Music, So Nick Power Gives You a New Soul Kandi Radio Show. Listen, Love, Share, Enjoy!! Vicky Martin – “So Amazing” (Vocal) [TyRick Music] Ron Carroll ft Kai Zhi Hundred – “Run The Rhythm” (Ezel) [Category 1 Music] Prefix One ft Kay Nueze – “Dreams Come True” (Extended) [Househead London] Aaron Smith […] The post Soul Kandi Radio Show 1st Jun 2024 appeared first on SSRadio.
You are SO Amazing! … Do you know your history?
In this episode of Real Talk with Kid Docs, we explore how to have the awkward and sometimes difficult conversations with your children - you know, the ones about sex and drugs that we try to always push for another day. We are joined by Dr. Stan Brewer, D.O., a Child and Adolescent Psychiatrist to help guide us. We are reminded of the importance in developing an open and honest relationship with your kids to support these conversations and really all conversations at any age. A few tips: -Start earlier than you think. You want them to hear it from you first. -Follow your kid's lead and engage in their curiosity to develop the conversation. For example, it is very natural for elementary age children to have questions about body parts. Use that to guide the conversation. -Use language and terms that are correct and appropriate. Stick with a level that fits their maturity level.It feels like the tween and teen years are new and unfamiliar territory. Remember, you have been parenting for a while now. Build on things you have already talked about in their younger years. You may be more prepared than you think!Where do I even start? Well, often, the first question kids ask that makes a parent squirm is, "Where do babies come from?" Dr. Brewer recommends the following book series to start the conversation off with young kids so you can build them later. These books are recommended for ages 4-8 years. It's So Amazing! A book about eggs, sperm, birth, babies and families It's Not the Stork: A book about girls, boys, babies, bodies, families and friends It's Perfectly Normal: Changing bodies, growing up, sex and sexual healthAll by Robie H. Harris and Michael Emberley
Peter Doubrovsky and Brandino are both renowned musicians and fans of the 5-string double bass. Peter Doubrovsky, aside from his work with the Pasadena Symphony and POPS orchestra, is a highly sought-after recording musician. His illustrious career spans over twenty years, during which he has recorded for countless feature film soundtracks. Some notable works include Coco (2017), Spider-Man: Homecoming (2017), Rogue One: A Star Wars Story (2016), Star Trek (2009), and Conspiracy Theory (1997). Brandino's success is marked by his collaborations with many of the world's top recording artists and entertainers. His extensive involvement encompasses the music, entertainment, television, multimedia, web designing, and film industries. In 2007, his musicianship was recognized with double Grammys for his participation in the 2007 Grammy Nominated "Album of the Year" and "Best Pop Vocal Album" Justin Timberlake's "FutureSex/LoveSounds," Mary J Blige's "Breakthrough" which won 2006 Best R&B Album of the Year, Beyonce and Stevie Wonder's "So Amazing" single in 2005, and "OUTKAST" which bagged the 2004 Grammy Album Of The Year and Best Rap Album. Thanks to both Peter and Brandino for their insightful conversation on this episode. For further inquiries or to connect with Peter, he can be reached directly at pdoubrosky@hotmail.com. Subscribe to the podcast to get these interviews delivered to you automatically! Connect with us: all things double bass double bass merch double bass sheet music theme music by Eric Hochberg
James Catchpole stops by to talk about his fatherhood journey. He shares the lessons he learned from his kids. In addition we talk about how dads are praised for doing normal parenting tasks. After that we talk about his new book, You're SO Amazing. His new book addresses the assumptions people make about those with disabilities in an accessible, honest, and funny way. Lastly, we finish the interview with the Fatherhood Quick Five. About James Catchpole James Catchpole runs the Catchpole Agency with his wife, Lucy, and is the author of What Happened to You? Lucy Catchpole writes about disability, family, and children's books and has written for the BBC and the Guardian, in addition to running the Catchpole Agency with James. The Catchpoles live in the United Kingdom with their two young daughters and invite you to visit them online at thecatchpoles.net or whathappenedtoyou.co.uk, and on Instagram @thecatchpoles. About You're SO Amazing In this authentic and humorous picture book, a child with a limb difference is tired of being told how amazing he is for doing normal things. Joe and his friend Simone are practicing their best playground tricks, but everyone keeps saying how amazing Joe is, even when he tries to let Simone be the star. Will he ever get to be just Joe, whether he's amazing or not? This companion to What Happened to You? addresses the assumptions people make about those with disabilities in an accessible, honest, and funny way. Based on James Catchpole's childhood experiences and written with his wife, Lucy, a wheelchair user, You're SO Amazing! encourages young readers to think of disability the way disabled people do: as normal. About The Art of Fatherhood Podcast The Art of Fatherhood Podcast follows the journey of fatherhood. Your host, Art Eddy talks with fantastic dads from all around the world where they share their thoughts on fatherhood. You get a unique perspective on fatherhood from guests like Joe Montana, Kevin Smith, Danny Trejo, Jerry Rice, Jeff Foxworthy, Patrick Warburton, Jeff Kinney, Paul Sun-Hyung Lee, Kyle Busch, Dennis Quaid, Dwight Freeney and many more.
What Happens During an Eclipse & Why It's So Amazing!
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Romans. It has been called the most important letter ever written. It changed St. Augustine, Martin Luther, John Wesley, and the world. Romans is a book about God's amazing grace. Every Christian needs to grasp the truths highlighted in this 5-part series, Romans: What's So Amazing about Grace? This clear explanation of the life-changing truths in Romans is taught by Dr. Charlie Bing in New Zealand at the Winter Bible School hosted by the Long Story Short ministry . This series includes: Grace and Our Sin: How Low Must Grace Reach? 1:1-3:20 Grace and Our Salvation: How Acceptable Does Grace Make Us? 3:21-5:21 Grace and Our Sanctification: How Righteous Can Grace Make Us? 6:1-8:27 Grace and Our Security: How Far Does Grace Go? 8:28-39 Grace and Our Selection and Service: Who is Grace For and What Should Grace Motivate? Chs. 9-12 Watch the videos on the GraceLife Ministries Youtube channel or listen to the Simply by Grace Podcast http://www.SimplybyGrace.org. This series starts August 24, 2023. Be sure to subscribe so you won't miss an episode.
Romans. It has been called the most important letter ever written. It changed St. Augustine, Martin Luther, John Wesley, and the world. Romans is a book about God's amazing grace. Every Christian needs to grasp the truths highlighted in this 5-part series, Romans: What's So Amazing about Grace? This clear explanation of the life-changing truths in Romans is taught by Dr. Charlie Bing in New Zealand at the Winter Bible School hosted by the Long Story Short ministry . This series includes: Grace and Our Sin: How Low Must Grace Reach? 1:1-3:20 Grace and Our Salvation: How Acceptable Does Grace Make Us? 3:21-5:21 Grace and Our Sanctification: How Righteous Can Grace Make Us? 6:1-8:27 Grace and Our Security: How Far Does Grace Go? 8:28-39 Grace and Our Selection and Service: Who is Grace For and What Should Grace Motivate? Chs. 9-12 Watch the videos on the GraceLife Ministries Youtube channel or listen to the Simply by Grace Podcast http://www.SimplybyGrace.org. This series starts August 24, 2023. Be sure to subscribe so you won't miss an episode.
Romans. It has been called the most important letter ever written. It changed St. Augustine, Martin Luther, John Wesley, and the world. Romans is a book about God's amazing grace. Every Christian needs to grasp the truths highlighted in this 5-part series, Romans: What's So Amazing about Grace? This clear explanation of the life-changing truths in Romans is taught by Dr. Charlie Bing in New Zealand at the Winter Bible School hosted by the Long Story Short ministry . This series includes: Grace and Our Sin: How Low Must Grace Reach? 1:1-3:20 Grace and Our Salvation: How Acceptable Does Grace Make Us? 3:21-5:21 Grace and Our Sanctification: How Righteous Can Grace Make Us? 6:1-8:27 Grace and Our Security: How Far Does Grace Go? 8:28-39 Grace and Our Selection and Service: Who is Grace For and What Should Grace Motivate? Chs. 9-12 Watch the videos on the GraceLife Ministries Youtube channel or listen to the Simply by Grace Podcast http://www.SimplybyGrace.org. This series starts August 24, 2023. Be sure to subscribe so you won't miss an episode.
Romans. It has been called the most important letter ever written. It changed St. Augustine, Martin Luther, John Wesley, and the world. Romans is a book about God's amazing grace. Every Christian needs to grasp the truths highlighted in this 5-part series, Romans: What's So Amazing about Grace? This clear explanation of the life-changing truths in Romans is taught by Dr. Charlie Bing in New Zealand at the Winter Bible School hosted by the Long Story Short ministry . This series includes: Grace and Our Sin: How Low Must Grace Reach? 1:1-3:20 Grace and Our Salvation: How Acceptable Does Grace Make Us? 3:21-5:21 Grace and Our Sanctification: How Righteous Can Grace Make Us? 6:1-8:27 Grace and Our Security: How Far Does Grace Go? 8:28-39 Grace and Our Selection and Service: Who is Grace For and What Should Grace Motivate? Chs. 9-12 Watch the videos on the GraceLife Ministries Youtube channel or listen to the Simply by Grace Podcast http://www.SimplybyGrace.org. This series starts August 24, 2023. Be sure to subscribe so you won't miss an episode.
Romans. It has been called the most important letter ever written. It changed St. Augustine, Martin Luther, John Wesley, and the world. Romans is a book about God's amazing grace. Every Christian needs to grasp the truths highlighted in this 5-part series, Romans: What's So Amazing about Grace? This clear explanation of the life-changing truths in Romans is taught by Dr. Charlie Bing in New Zealand at the Winter Bible School hosted by the Long Story Short ministry . This series includes: Grace and Our Sin: How Low Must Grace Reach? 1:1-3:20 Grace and Our Salvation: How Acceptable Does Grace Make Us? 3:21-5:21 Grace and Our Sanctification: How Righteous Can Grace Make Us? 6:1-8:27 Grace and Our Security: How Far Does Grace Go? 8:28-39 Grace and Our Selection and Service: Who is Grace For and What Should Grace Motivate? Chs. 9-12 Watch the videos on the GraceLife Ministries Youtube channel or listen to the Simply by Grace Podcast http://www.SimplybyGrace.org. This series starts August 24, 2023. Be sure to subscribe so you won't miss an episode.
Join Jen as she sits down with sex therapist Dr. Cami Hurst to discuss the topics of safe sex and sex education for our queer kids. Cami presents the foundations of sexual health, including consent, non-exploitation, mutual pleasure, protection from STIs and unwanted pregnancy, honesty, and shared values. Don't miss this information packed episode, full of valuable resources and wisdom for parents everywhere. Special Guest: Cami HurstDr. Cami Hurst is a licensed marriage and family therapist and certified sex therapist in Meridian, ID. Cami operates a private practice offering therapy, coaching, and online small group education. She is a founder and current President of the Idaho Association of Sexual Health Professionals (ISHP). She is the host of the Sex Therapy 101 podcast. She holds a Master's Degree in Marriage, Couple, and Family Therapy and a PhD in Clinical Sexology. Cami is passionate about helping couples and individuals improve their relational and sexual health. As a Mama Dragon herself, Cami finds extra fulfillment in working with members of the LGBTQ community and their families. Links from the Show: It's Perfectly Normal by Robbie Harris: https://www.amazon.com/Its-Perfectly-Normal-Changing-Growing/dp/0763644846It's So Amazing by Robbie Harris: https://www.amazon.com/Its-So-Amazing-Families-Library/dp/0763668745It's Not the Stork by Robbie Harris: https://www.amazon.com/Its-Not-Stork-Families-Friends/dp/0763633313 Who Has What?: All About Girls' Bodies and Boys' Bodies by Robbie Harris: https://www.amazon.com/Its-Not-Stork-Families-Friends/dp/0763633313The Pride Guide by Jo Langford: https://www.amazon.com/Pride-Guide-Sexual-Social-Health/dp/1538144158 Cami's website: camihurst.comFor Hers: www.forhers.comFor Hims: www.forhims.com mistr (PrEP provider): https://heymistr.com/ Cami's podcast Sex Therapy 101: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sex-therapy-101-with-cami-hurst/id1487731899 Connect with Mama Dragons:WebsiteInstagramFacebookDonate to this podcast
Another show with lots of new songs, kids. We even have some Earth Day songs as well. Enjoy and thanks for listening! The Boogers - “The SMCB Theme Song” Keith Munslow - “Gotta Go!” Freddy Apple - “This is So Amazing!” The Punk Rock Socks - “2 Times Table” [The Punk Rock Socks] Lucky & Alisha show ID Lucky Diaz & the Family Jam Band - “La Guitarrista” Blue Tac - “If I Was an Animal” Marsha and the Positrons - “Ghost Forest Investigators” fleaBITE show ID Levity Beet & fleaBITE - “Truck in the Muck” Mama Birds - “Unicorns” [Mama Birds] Micha and Me - “My Tractor Song” [Tractor EP] Joy Blooms - “The Bubble Poppin' Boogie” Nanny Nikki - “Puzzle Pieces (feat. Divinity Roxx)” Formidable Vegetable - “Plastic” [Grow Do It] Sonia De Los Santos - “Chichimoco” [Esperanza] Little Miss Ann show ID Little Miss Ann & Mista Cookie Jar - “Tong Tong Tong” Esther Crow - “Start the Discussion (feat. Strawbitty Yops)” [Listen Lead Love] Mr. Elephant & De La Torre - “Desert Tortoise” [I Love Nature] Kymberly Stewart - “On the Playground” [Everybody Needs a Little Sunshine] The Zing Zangs - “Park Song” [The Good Day] Peter Himmelman - “Imagination” [My Trampoline] Biz Markie - “The Energy Blues” [VA: Schoolhouse Rock! Rocks]
DaGrip welcomes Rose Belk to the show. Rose Belk is a minister, recording artist, songwriter, and author. As a native of Pineville, North Carolina, she began singing as a small child and gave her life to Christ at the age of twelve. The youngest of eight children, she was most impressed by the love God has shown her. Her parents were very instrumental in this impression and encouraged her to use her God-given talent of singing to His Glory. From this, she recognized her foundation in Christ and her gift to sing. In 2000, Rose released her very first CD, My Song of Praise. Her gifts and talents are further showcased in her last five projects, Simply Rose - Nothing But Praise, This Is Your Season music video, her single, So Amazing, and her new hit single, Free to Be Me and new book, Free to Be Me – Secrets I Never Told! Rose was the recipient of the Bank of America and Cultural Calendar's Heritage award for Vocal Performance. She was a South Florida Gospel Music Awards nominee for Female Contemporary Artist in 2011. She has shared the stage with Helen Baylor, Phil Driscoll, Shirley Caesar, Ron Kenoly and others. She has also appeared on Bobby Jones Gospel. The pure sound of Rose Belk illustrates her pure heart, resonating a smooth and controlled tone and with a message that is crystal clear. Rose is a graduate of Charis Bible College and has led praise and worship in many auditoriums, churches, and venues. Her love of God and gift in music has afforded her the opportunity to form, develop, and serve as the Director of praise and worship teams at Victory Christian Center and to conduct worship seminars. She was a contributing writer for Optimal Living Magazine, which is located in Washington, DC. Her creative writing skills are also exemplified in her new book, Free to Be Me – Secrets I Never Told. She has furthered her gifts and talent in her motivational videos, Morning Boost which is on YouTube. Though Rose wears many hats, she always makes time for her family and loved ones. She is married to her soul mate of 42 years. Together they have been blessed with two children, a daughter-in-law, and grandchildren. She and her husband, Rogers, also run their own management company, R. Belk Music Group, LLC and record label, New Season Records and are pastors of True Identity Grace Church.
Sex ed is a very sensitive topic. But as my guest Amy Lang and I discuss, if we don't talk to our kids about it, the internet WILL. So we need to learn how to swallow our pride and talk about tough topics like sex, p*rn, masturbation, and more. Website: Birds & Bees & Kids https://birdsandbeesandkids.com/Podcast: Just Say This! https://birdsandbeesandkids.com/category/podcast/IG and FB @birdsbeeskidsBARK - monitoring and filtering for every device your kids use. Books are here Birds & Bees Talks - Sex Talks With Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It- Birds & Bees & YOUR Kids: A Guide to Sharing Your Beliefs About Sexuality, Love & Relationship- It's NOT the Stork- It's SO Amazing (4 - 11 yo) - It's Perfectly Normal (11+ - and you if you are feeling rusty!) Puberty books: - Celebrate Your Body - for girls- Guy StuffPorn: - How to Talk to Your Kids About Pornography- Good Pictures Bad PicturesIf you want a speaker in your school, email liz@savethekids.org and we will get you hooked up! OR fill out the form below.https://savethekids.wufoo.com/forms/z14ppj991ad9jfq/Make sure to check us out on Instagram!@savethekidsinc@bulliesbe.goneIf you want to support STK, use on of the affiliate links bellow for GABB and Pinwheel phones (STK approved and safe for kids)https://www.pinwheel.com/?via=lizhttps://gabbwireless.com/ - code STKSupport the show
Try a Solis WiFi Hotspot & Powerbank for International Travel. (Ad) What kind of traveler are you? How do you choose where to travel next? Travel podcast host, Matt Bowles, joins us from Senegal to talk about his four main strategies for choosing your personal travel "style" or type. He also fills us in on his favorite places to travel in Africa and unique events he recommends from a white truffle festival in Italy's wine region to a digital nomad conference in Buenos Aires, Argentina. Whether you're in the mood for a spontaneous adventure, a relaxing retreat, a guided group tour, or a solo jaunt around the world, Matt's travel strategies will help you choose a winner. Whatever your travel style is, it's important to prioritize activities and places that fulfill and excite you. Tune in to learn how to choose and plan trips that align with your travel style! Tune in for Part 2 of this interview next week as the conversation shifts from travel to turnkey real estate. Matt shares how you can earn passive income from owning investment properties in the USA - even if you live in another city, state, or country! Episode 192 Special Offers: Get a Solis WiFi Hotspot for travel (It doubles as a charging station for your devices!) Become a Patreon Patron Buy Digital Nomads for Dummies Subscribe to Kristin's weekly newsletter EPISODE 192 TOPICS DISCUSSED/WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: Matt's experience traveling and filming in Africa. Unique cultural events and festivals around the world, like Afrochella & Alba White Truffle Fair. The evolution of the digital nomad community in Buenos Aires, Argentina. How governments are promoting remote work and the digital nomad lifestyle. What it's really like to hike and summit Mount Kilimanjaro & How Matt prepared for the hike. Traveling solo vs. Traveling in a group. Traveling spontaneously vs. Planning ahead. Matt's top travel destinations and things to do in Africa. Passive real estate investment opportunities for beginners and digital nomads. The benefits of owning a rental property, even during inflation and recessions. QUESTIONS ANSWERED: How do you plan your travel itineraries? How do you feel about traveling as a digital nomad after the pandemic? Why hike Mount Kilimanjaro? How did you feel when you reached the summit of Mount Kilimanjaro? What are your favorite places you've traveled since the pandemic? How has Argentina changed in the past 10 years as a travel, tourism, and expat destination? Where are you going next? How do you afford to travel while working remotely? How is Maverick Investment Group different from other investment groups? What are the best real estate markets to buy in right now? And more! RESOURCES Resources for Digital Nomads: Free Resources for Badass Digital Nomads Listeners The Maverick Investor Group Remote Year Related Podcasts: How to Build a Location Independent, Passive Income Business with Matt Bowles How to Make Any Business Location-Independent with Matt Bowles, Host of The Maverick Show Traveling the World as a Surf Photographer with Jimmy Wilson What It's Like to Work Online and Travel with Remote Year How To Travel the World Full-Time with Remote Year Founder, Greg Caplan The Maverick Show #211: Summiting Mount Kilimanjaro, Ethiopian Immigrant Culture, and Why Japan is So Amazing with Tammer Abiyu Related Videos: 10 Passive Income Side Hustle Ideas To Make Money Online in 2023 I Asked Digital Nomads How They Make Money Living On A Remote Island
Kev Reverb - Crazyhead - in conversation with David Eastaugh Formed in 1986, the band signed to the independent record label, Food, later that year and their début single, "What Gives You The Idea That You're So Amazing, Baby?", reached number 2 in the UK Indie Chart in March 1987.[2] For the rest of the year they toured extensively, supporting The Cult, then Julian Cope, and also played at the Glastonbury Festival. Their second single "Baby Turpentine" reached number 4 in the Indie Chart. In mid-1988, their third single "Time Has Taken Its Toll on You" reached No. 65 in the UK Singles Chart, their label now owned by EMI. The band embarked on another UK tour to promote their début album Desert Orchid, released in October 1988, along with another single, "Rags", and then toured Europe supporting Iggy Pop. They then released the Have Love, Will Travel EP before embarking on yet another UK tour.
In This Episode, We Talk About: Our favorite Christmas cards and Christmas movies. Having open and honest (and awkward) conversations with our kids. How and when to best educate our kids. Resources + Links: Book Lovers by Emily Henry The Magic Misfits series by Neil Patrick Harris The Deep, Deep Snow by Brian Freeman It Starts with Us by Colleen Hoover A Court of Thorns and Roses by Sarah Maas It's So Amazing! by Robbie H. Harris https://latesbykate.com/ Connect with Moms in Real Life on Instagram | @momsinreallifepodcast Follow Stephanie and Katie on Instagram! Stephanie Nguyen | @modernmilk Katie Kunz | @kunzandcrew and @newbornlifecoach WANT TO HAVE YOUR MOM STORY FEATURED ON THE PODCAST? Sent us an email at info@momsinreallife.com Find out more on our websites https://www.modernmilk.com/ www.katiekunz.com Show Notes: As parents, all we want is for our kids to feel safe in approaching us about anything … But what happens when your little one asks you a question you don't know how to answer!? Today's mom friend is Jocelyn Miller, a family photographer and teacher at Happy Mom School! Together, we'll discuss all the things you never foresee as a parent, including the wild questions our kids ask. As we go, we talk about family photos and Christmas cards, how to help your kiddo get to sleep when they can't shut off their brain, F-word shenanigans, and much more! Then, Jocelyn gets into her story about the time her son asked her a very unexpected question in the car. How can we be open and honest with our kids, even while answering hard questions? Being a mom is all kinds of unpredictable, so join us as we share our top awkward and unexpected moments! 0:01:15 Was our favorite things episode helpful? 0:02:45 Say hello to Jocelyn Miller, a family photographer and teacher at Happy Mom School! 0:06:25 How do you choose photos for Chatbooks? 0:08:20 What do Christmas cards say about you? 0:12:55 What is your family eating this week? 0:15:20 What are the perfect snacks from Trader Joe's? 0:16:55 Katie's Instapot recipes. 0:17:55 How is your family sleeping lately? 0:21:30 What do you do when you want to wind down at night? 0:25:45 How is Katie's family sleeping in their new environment? 0:27:40 What are you loving right now? 0:29:05 What kitchen product is a complete game changer? 0:31:40 Why is it so important to get organized? 0:35:15 What coffeemaker is better than Keurig? 0:38:35 How do you do your coffee? 0:39:45 What are you reading, watching, or listening to? 0:42:40 What Christmas movies do Stephanie's family love? 0:46:50 What book series is Katie planning on starting? 0:49:50 Answering the unexpected questions our kids have. 0:54:05 What conversations have we had with our kids in the car? 0:56:35 Where do kids learn about sex? 0:59:00 Why is it better to have those conversations early? 1:02:55 What conversations are hard to have?
WARNING: this episode may not be suitable for young listeners. We talk openly about sexual content.Talking to your kids about the birds & bees can be really uncomfortable. And most people dread the idea of having “THE TALK”… but it doesn't have to be this way!My guest, Amy Lang had been a sex educator for over 16 years when she freaked out about talking to her young son about her favorite topic.Surprised by her discomfort with just the idea of talking with her young son about his body, she knew she needed help. Amy did a bunch of research to learn how to talk with kids about bodies and sexuality and realized she could help other parents with this important part of parenting. Amy combined her expertise in adult education and her love of sexual health and started Birds & Bees & Kids in 2006. Her mission is to help parents feel comfortable and confident when they have these important conversations.Through her books, classes, online solutions center, and podcast Amy has helped 1000's of parents around the world become their kids' go-to birds and bees source.In this episode you'll learn:What age to start talking to your little kids about sexWhy it's so important to regularly talk to your kids throughout childhood about sexHow to get over the initial awkwardness and what types of things should be included in conversations around sexualityHow to teach your family values while teaching sexualityWhere to start in sex conversations, if these talks haven't been part of your family culture so far (and why it's an important responsibility of parenthood)Links and Resources from this episode (the ones mentioned in this episode are in bold)Website: Birds & Bees & KidsJust Say This PodcastIG: @birdsbeeskidsFB: @birdsbeeskidsBooks linked here.Resources for parents and caregivers:Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It Birds & Bees & YOUR Kids: A Guide to Sharing Your Beliefs about Sexuality, Love & Relationships Birds & Bees Talk:It's NOT the Stork (4 - 6)It's SO Amazing (4 - 11) It's Perfectly Normal (11+ - and you if you are feeling rusty!) The Every Body Book: LGBTQ+ Inclusive Guide for Kids about Sex, Gender, Bodies, and FamiliesPubertyWill Puberty Last My Whole Life? - for everyoneCelebrate Your Body (puberty only) - for girlsGuy Stuff (puberty only) - for boysPorn EducationGood Pictures Bad Pictures, Jr. (5 - 8)Good Pictures Bad (9+)Body safetyI Can Play it Safe (4 - 7)C is for Consent (4 - 8)Consent for Kids (8+)Kid-safe videosAmaze.orgEverybody CuriousMonitoring and FilteringBarkQustodio (Outside US)---Coaching has changed my own life, and the lives of my clients. More connection, more healing, more harmony and peace in our most important relationships. It increases confidence in any parenting challenges and helps you be the guide to teach your children the family values that are important to you- in clear ways. If you feel called to integrate this work in a deeper way and become a parenting expert, that's what I'm here for.My coaching program: click hereFind me on the ‘gram: @the.parenting.coachWork with me 1:1: click hereWebsite: click here
https://marieaantoinette.com/ Mariea Antoinette talks about her latest single So Amazing, and much more.
Listen every Friday from 21 till 22 (Moscow time) Jazz FM (radiojazzfm.ru) Subscribe in iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/ru/podcast/funk-and-beyond-weekly/id1063844118?mt=2 for more details please visit beyondfunk.ru tracklist: 1. Men I Trust - Girl 2. Kohei YoshiI - Think Of You 3. The Shaolin Afronauts - Sun Spiral 4. RM Jazz Legacy - African Water 5. Néstor Álvarez - Just Add Vibes 6. Gyedu-Blay Ambolley - Asamansudo Groove 7. Clear Path Ensemble - Drumatix 8. The Mighty Mocambos - Ghost Walk 9. Ghost Funk Orchestra - Blood Moon 10. Theo Croker - Every Part of Me 11. Tc x The Groove Family - Duende 12. Kwesi Yvorra - Alchemic Ascension 13. Rosa Brunello - Habibi Baby 14. Abase, Wayne Snow - Align 15. Asagaya - Elusive Delusive (feat. Lorine Cha) 16. Kendra Morris - Circle Eights 17. Adrian Younge and Ali Shaheed Muhammad presents - So Amazing (feat. Luther Vandross) 18. Be PM - Part One 19. The Pharaoahs - Great House
Bonnie and Adam have an in-depth discussion about the ins and outs (pun intended) of “the sex talk”—the optimal time to have it with your kids, and why honesty is always the best policy. The talk can be really tough for parents who feel embarrassed and uncomfortable. Too often parents wait until embarrassment is high on both sides, so it never happens. Enter the internet. Embarrassment gets in the way of providing good, healthy, honest information about perfectly normal things that happen to our bodies. When we normalize the whole experience, chances are children will be far more responsible when the time comes. A few books to help you initiate talking to your kids about sex:Where Did I Come From by Peter MayleA Child is Born and How Was I Born, both by Lennart NilssonHappy Birthday!, It's Perfectly Normal, and It's So Amazing by Robie Harris, Michael EmberleyMommy Laid an Egg by Babette ColeWhat's the Big Secret: Talking about Sex with Girls and Boys by Laurie Krasny Brown and Mark BrownBonnie Harris, MS.Ed., director of Connective Parenting, 30+ years of coaching, teaching, and writing for parents. https://linktr.ee/bonnieharrisparentingWebsite: bonnieharris.com Email: bh@bonnieharris.comProduced, mixed, and scored by Echo Finch www.echofinch.com
When is the right time to talk to your kids about sex? What do you say? How do you start the conversation? Amy Lang, MA has been a sexual health educator for over 25 years. With her lively, engaging and down-to-earth style she helps parents become their kid's go-to birds and bees source. Amy's books, online solutions center and podcast show parents that talking about sexuality doesn't need to be totally uncomfortable and really can be fun.She also provides childhood sexual development and sexual abuse prevention training for early childhood and youth serving organizations.Sex Talks with Tweens: What to Say & How to Say It https://birdsandbeesandkids.com/sex-talks-with-tweens-by-amy-lang/Birds & Bees & Kids for the freebie "7 Tips to Have Great Birds & Bees Talk” https://birdsandbeesandkids.com/free-tips/Just Say This podcast https://birdsandbeesandkids.com/category/podcast/Books: It's NOT the Stork (4 - 6 YO) It's SO Amazing (5 - 12 YO) I Can Play it Safe (3 - 7 YO) C is for Consent (3 - 7 YO)________________________________________________________________Did you love this episode? BUY ME A COFFEE for support!Find me on Instagram@balkanina@mamaknowspodcastFind me on TikTokBalkaninaSubscribe to my NewsletterPrivate Facebook Motherhood-Podcast CommunityMama Knows FBDisclaimer: This podcast does not provide any medical advice, it is for informational purposes only!
How do you feel when you are in between stages of life? Excited? Nervous? Afraid? Tweens - those kids in between childhood and adolescence - are capable, growing into their own thoughts and ideas and preferences, but not quite as opinionated as teenagers. In this “in between” there is plenty of room for curiosity and character development if we will stay connected to and interested in our kids. My guest this week is Charissa Lopez (she's gotten married since she was last on the show as Charissa Fry), a therapist and parent coach, and she encourages us that healthy attachment can lead to healthy individuation (that process of our kids distinguishing themselves from us). She helps us see that for the entire time we are in relationship with our kids they need comfort and encouragement and connection with us. Though we still have authority over our kids we, as parents, are transitioning out of such a hands-on role in their lives and Charissa helps us think through puberty and friend groups, and our tweens' spiritual growth. Connect with Charissa Lopez: Website: https://charissalopez.com Special Resources for DMA Listeners from past episodes: https://charissalopez.com/resources/regulation-pack/ Links Mentioned*: **For resources mentioned below, parents should read the book first. Don't feel like you have to read every word to your child. Just use the parts that work for your family and skip the rest. Or discuss why some people believe differently than you.* Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté It's So Amazing!:A Book about Eggs, Sperm, Birth, Babies and Families The Care and Keeping of You: The Body Book for Younger Girls, Revised Edition The Care and Keeping of You 2: The Body Book for Older Girls Guy Stuff: The Body Book for Boys Birds and Bees Ministry with Mary Flo Ridley and Megan Michelson Related Episodes: Connecting Through Play :: Charissa Fry [Ep 319] The Window of Tolerance :: Charissa Fry [Ep 260] Self-Differentiation and Why it Matters :: Nancy Houston [Ep 335] Featured Sponsors: Find links to this week's sponsors and unique promo codes at dontmomalone.com/sponsors.
Pastor JT talks about his latest single release and what's coming up next. www.pastorjt.net- Artist Websitewww.wearemofia.com- Outreach Websitewww.thepreacherscorner.net-Podcast Websiteimhod.com -Church WebsiteFor prayer request ,rededication, acceptance of Christ. Visit our website under the join our Church tab. : imhod.com Lady Fenita R. Maberry & Pastor JT Music online for streaming. Last Days Available on all digital platforms SPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/album/7hNgCB... So AMAZING- https://open.spotify.com/album/4U2NAx... Take a look in the mirror https://open.spotify.com/album/0OhhNX... Wave your Hands : https://open.spotify.com/artist/3aBh1... Think Back: https://open.spotify.com/album/3rQ8lF... Visit our MERCH STORE: IMHOD.COM
Pastor Jt & Lady Fenita are back to converse about their unexpected success of their music and to talk about the behind the scene story on Pastor Jt's Single "So Amazing"So Amazing Official Video https://youtu.be/Ih1L19vN3EgLady Fenita R. Maberry & Pastor JT Music online for streaming. Last Days Available on all digital platforms SPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/album/7hNgCB... So AMAZING- https://open.spotify.com/album/4U2NAx... Take a look in the mirror https://open.spotify.com/album/0OhhNX... Wave your Hands : https://open.spotify.com/artist/3aBh1... Think Back: https://open.spotify.com/album/3rQ8lF... Visit our MERCH STORE: www.pastorjt.net
A Look Back at how we got started, a few guest (APOSTLE SEAN SMITH SR. AND H.LEE THAT'S ME of The HLEE that's ME PODCAST). ...., topics. #thepreacherscorner #pastorjt #ladyfenita #viralhiphopnews Last Days Available on all digital platforms SPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/album/7hNgCB... So AMAZING- https://open.spotify.com/album/4U2NAx... Take a look in the mirror https://open.spotify.com/album/0OhhNX... Wave your Hands : https://open.spotify.com/artist/3aBh1... Think Back: https://open.spotify.com/album/3rQ8lF...Visit our MERCH STORE: https://inhouseproductions5041.myshop...This Episode Music Is Produced By : Chaun "Da Fugitive" Williams CEO of Misfit Entertainment & Da Formula Productions. #worship #iamhod #inhouseproductions #pastorjt #ladyfenitarmaberry #jesus #onlineministry
In the 8th week of our series, Pastor Scott looks at Three Reasons Why God's Grace is So Amazing found in Mark 2:13-17.
================================================== ==SUSCRIBETEhttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCNpffyr-7_zP1x1lS89ByaQ?sub_confirmation=1================================================== == DEVOCIÓN MATUTINA PARA ADULTOS 2022“NUESTRO MARAVILLOSO DIOS”Narrado por: Roberto NavarroDesde: Chiapas, MéxicoUna cortesía de DR'Ministries y Canaan Seventh-Day Adventist Church 09 DE MAYO DIOS «PAGO LA MULTA»«Al que no conoció pecado alguno, por nosotros Dios lo trató como pecador, para que en él recibiéramos la justicia de Dios». 2 Corintios 5:21, NVI.¿QUÉ ES AQUELLO QUE LA IGLESIA puede ofrecer a la humanidad que el mundo no puede ofrecer? Según Gordon MacDonald, la gracia de Dios. Otras instituciones también pueden alimentar al hambriento, vestir al desnudo y sanar al enfermo, pero es el privilegio de la iglesia proclamar al mundo la incomparable gracia de Dios, manifestada en la persona de su Hijo Jesucristo. *¿Qué es la gracia divina? Es Cristo muriendo por nosotros a pesar de ser pecadores. Es Cristo, el inocente, pagando la deuda del culpable. Un relato de los días de Fiorello La Guardia, como alcalde de la ciudad de Nueva York, ilustra bien el punto. Una noche de invierno en 1935 La Guardia se presentó en un tribunal de uno de los distritos más pobres de la ciudad, y tomó el lugar del juez de turno. Entre los casos pendientes estaba el de una anciana que había robado pan.-El esposo de mi hija la abandonó —alega la anciana—; ella esta enferma, y sus ninos pasando estan hambrientos.--Ella merece el castigo, Su Señoría —dice el dueño de la tienda robada. Después de un largo suspiro, La Guardia da su sentencia.-Señora, tengo que penalizarla. Son diez dólares de multa o diez días en la cárcelLa Guardia saca entonces de su bolsillo diez dólares, lo coloca en su sombrero y dice:--Con este billete se paga la multa y la acusada queda libre de toda penalidad. Además --añadió, dirigiéndose ahora a todos los presentes—: dispongo que cada uno de los están en este tribunal pague cincuenta centavos de multa por vivir en un barrio donde una anciana tiene que robar pan para poder alimentar a sus nietos. Sr. Alguacil, ¡recoja las multas y entregue el dinero a la acusada!Dice el relato que «la multa» la pagaron los acusados de diversas faltas, los policías y ¡hasta el dueño de la tienda robada! La ancianita no sufrió castigo alguno, ya cambió con $47.50 en sus manos. Esa noche alguien la había tratado, no como merecía, sino como ella más lo necesitaba. ¿No es esta una ilustración muy apropiada de lo que ocurrió un viernes de tarde en el monte Calvario? «Al que no conoció pecado alguno, por nosotros Dios lo analizaron como pecador, para que en el recibiéramos la justicia de Dios» (2 Cor. 5: 21, NVI). ¡Oh, gracia divina! ¡Demasiado sublime para entenderla! ¡Demasiado preciosa para rechazarla! Gracias, Jesús, porque por tus llagas fuimos nosotros curados. Por siempre, esas llagas en tus manos nos recordarán el precio que pagaste por nuestra salvación.* Citado por Philip Yancey, What's So Amazing about Grace, Zondervan, 1997, p. 15.
REPRISE Philip Yancey's courageous and penetrating new book, his memoir - Where the Light Fell - will be released on October 5. There's a big audience for Philip's story. There are over 100 million claim to have experienced Christian fundamentalism and 25 million more identify as "exvangelicals." Brother Marshall, a musical prodigy, had perfect pitch. Philip's father contracted polio and died when Philip was only 18 months old. Ken notes that Philip's experience in segregationalist fundamentalism is extreme. Paul Van Gorder, Bob Jones, Jr., Lester Maddox all would come to Philip's church. The Prophecy Conferences were an annual event, providing much to fear. Tony Evans came to the church, and was turned away. Philip's mother, a well known Bible teacher, struggled to make ends meet but never quite recovered from her husbands passing. The three Yancey's lived in a mobile home, located in an Atlanta area "trailer park." The Lost Cause narrative permeated church life, but high school opened new perspectives for Philip. He shares bitter-sweet memories of church life. Philip appeared as the Southern preacher Elijah in a high school performance of Inherit the Wind. In Bible College, Philip had a reputation as an intellectual rebel, reading Bertrand Russell and Harvey Cox. Then he met his match, Janet. The parable of the Good Samaritan changed everything. He would later write. What's So Amazing about Grace. George Beverly Shea's song touches Philip. (First aired September 2021)SHOW NOTES | BECOME A PATRON of the BWM PodcastSupport the show (http://thebeachedwhitemale.com)
On this week's 51%, we speak with Robie Harris, author of the groundbreaking children's book, It's Perfectly Normal, about the importance of comprehensive sex education, and how parents can navigate “the talk” with their kids. Guest: Robie Harris, author of It's Perfectly Normal 51% is a national production of WAMC Northeast Public Radio. It's produced by Jesse King. Our executive producer is Dr. Alan Chartock, and our theme is "Lolita" by the Albany-based artist Girl Blue. Follow Along You're listening to 51%, a WAMC production dedicated to women's issues and experiences. Thanks for tuning in, I'm Jesse King. This week's topic is sex ed, and particularly the much-debated question: how much should we tell our kids, and when? Our guest today has written more than 35 children's books on a variety of subjects, but she's perhaps best known for her lineup of sexual education books: Who Has What? for three to five-year-olds, It's Not the Stork! for four to eight-year-olds, It's So Amazing! for kids as young as seven, and her groundbreaking 1994 book, It's Perfectly Normal, for ages 10 and up. The books have undergone several updates and re-releases over the years to accommodate new developments and conversations around sexual health. The latest edition of It's Perfectly Normal came out in May 2021. Each of these titles, especially It's Perfectly Normal, contain honest depictions of sex and/or the human body, drawn by illustrators Michael Emberly and Nadine Bernard Westcott. As a result, they've frequently drawn fire from lawmakers and faced removal at public libraries and schools — so much so that Harris is on the board of directors for the National Coalition Against Censorship. The practice of book banning is nothing new, of course, but it's a particularly hot topic at the moment: the American Library Association says more than 1,500 individual titles were challenged in 2021, the most it's seen since it first started tracking banning efforts in 2000. Many of the most challenged books from last year were targeted for portraying LGBTQ experiences, something Harris has never shied away from. Harris says the information in her books is crucial for preparing kids to get through puberty and, one day, make healthy decisions as adults. I recently sat down with Harris to discuss what she calls “comprehensive sex education” and look back at the books over the years. What prompted you to write It's Perfectly Normal? I was sitting in an editor's office in New York City, it might have been 32 years ago, I can't remember exactly. His name was Michael Demony, and we had done some children's books together. And he was the editor of the first book on HIV/AIDS. And when I say HIV/AIDS, HIV wasn't even a term that was used then. It's called And the Band Played On, and it was about the AIDS epidemic in San Francisco. He was a San Francisco Chronicle reporter, and highly, highly respected. So he had done that book, and I was sitting in his office, we were talking about children's books – we were also talking about the state of the nation. It was the day after Election Day, and we were talking about the state of children in America, and that it really wasn't very, very good. And they needed lots of information that they weren't getting. And he said to me, “Would you like to write a book on AIDS for school-aged kids?” And I said, “Oh my gosh, I don't really know enough to write about that.” I mean, I know a
On this week's 51%, we speak with Robie Harris, author of the groundbreaking children's book, It's Perfectly Normal, about the importance of comprehensive sex education, and how parents can navigate “the talk” with their kids. Guest: Robie Harris, author of It's Perfectly Normal 51% is a national production of WAMC Northeast Public Radio. It's produced by Jesse King. Our executive producer is Dr. Alan Chartock, and our theme is "Lolita" by the Albany-based artist Girl Blue. Follow Along You're listening to 51%, a WAMC production dedicated to women's issues and experiences. Thanks for tuning in, I'm Jesse King. This week's topic is sex ed, and particularly the much-debated question: how much should we tell our kids, and when? Our guest today has written more than 35 children's books on a variety of subjects, but she's perhaps best known for her lineup of sexual education books: Who Has What? for three to five-year-olds, It's Not the Stork! for four to eight-year-olds, It's So Amazing! for kids as young as seven, and her groundbreaking 1994 book, It's Perfectly Normal, for ages 10 and up. The books have undergone several updates and re-releases over the years to accommodate new developments and conversations around sexual health. The latest edition of It's Perfectly Normal came out in May 2021. Each of these titles, especially It's Perfectly Normal, contain honest depictions of sex and/or the human body, drawn by illustrators Michael Emberly and Nadine Bernard Westcott. As a result, they've frequently drawn fire from lawmakers and faced removal at public libraries and schools — so much so that Harris is on the board of directors for the National Coalition Against Censorship. The practice of book banning is nothing new, of course, but it's a particularly hot topic at the moment: the American Library Association says more than 1,500 individual titles were challenged in 2021, the most it's seen since it first started tracking banning efforts in 2000. Many of the most challenged books from last year were targeted for portraying LGBTQ experiences, something Harris has never shied away from. Harris says the information in her books is crucial for preparing kids to get through puberty and, one day, make healthy decisions as adults. I recently sat down with Harris to discuss what she calls “comprehensive sex education” and look back at the books over the years. What prompted you to write It's Perfectly Normal? I was sitting in an editor's office in New York City, it might have been 32 years ago, I can't remember exactly. His name was Michael Demony, and we had done some children's books together. And he was the editor of the first book on HIV/AIDS. And when I say HIV/AIDS, HIV wasn't even a term that was used then. It's called And the Band Played On, and it was about the AIDS epidemic in San Francisco. He was a San Francisco Chronicle reporter, and highly, highly respected. So he had done that book, and I was sitting in his office, we were talking about children's books – we were also talking about the state of the nation. It was the day after Election Day, and we were talking about the state of children in America, and that it really wasn't very, very good. And they needed lots of information that they weren't getting. And he said to me, “Would you like to write a book on AIDS for school-aged kids?” And I said, “Oh my gosh, I don't really know enough to write about that.” I mean, I know a lot about kids, because I have a background in child development. But I said, “I really don't know about that. But I wouldn't write a book just on AIDS, I would write a comprehensive book that would include almost every question that kids want to know about their bodies, about puberty, about growing up, and not even just the physical part of it, but the emotional part of going up.” I wasn't writing anything down, because I didn't think I would do this book. And he was writing down everything I said, and he handed me the paper and said, “Here's what you just said.” And I had outlined the book sort of off the top of my head. And he said, “Well, you know, your book could be banned. Do you care about that?” And I said, “No!” I care about if kids can't get the information that they need to stay healthy, but no, I'm not going to worry about [that], I'm going to write what I believe in. We live in a democracy, and that's my right as a citizen. And I went back home and I asked my sons, because my husband and I thought we've done a great job [with sex ed]. I asked my two sons who were then in, I think, fifth and seventh grade, “Tell us what you would put in a book, and did we leave anything out?” Well, they had a long list of things we left out. And I quickly wrote them, and then that night, I called everyone I knew. I called Bill Hazeltine, who is still a top expert in terms of HIV/AIDS and other diseases. I talked to our pediatrician, I talked to reproductive health experts at Harvard Medical School. A lot of people didn't know my name, this was before the internet – so when I call would call up, I'd say, “My name is Robie Harris, I would like to talk with Dr. So-and-So, I'm writing a book for kids on sexual health.” And no one turned me down. I mean, these were heads of departments at Harvard, or Boston University, or Boston Medical Center, or Harvard Medical School – no one turned me down. And it was a sort of joyful moment, just because people care about kids. My editor at that point was wonderful Candlewick Press, which is in Somerville, Massachusetts, a worldwide, children's book publisher. I talked to them about doing it, and the editor there bought the book within two weeks, which is like a record-setting time. And she said, “I want the book to be what your vision of the book is.” But I need to also tell you that many dear and well-meaning friends said, “If you write that book, no publisher will ever publish anything of yours again.” Well, now 35+ books later, they were wrong. And I said, “If that happens, it happens, you know? I'll write, one way or another.” When we're talking to kids, if we don't tell them the truth, then they're never going to trust us, and I think they'll stop listening to us. So I see these books – it's in my voice, it's what I would say to my own children. These books are my way of having a conversation with kids way beyond my children. So what kind of questions do you see kids asking, and how early should parents start educating kids about their bodies and sexual health, or I guess, start giving them “the talk?” The earlier the better. If you really want to think about it, babies are exploring their bodies – they're touching every single part of their body. So from birth, they're exploring that. And then of course, comes the toddler who may have heard something from an older brother or sister, right? They're like, “I was inside you?” And of course, it's often in the supermarket checkout line. “How did I get out? Did you cough me out of your mouth?” I mean, I've heard the zillion stories. “Did I come out of your belly button?” Kids want to know about their bodies. We live with our bodies, physically, 24/7 forever. I don't tell stories, generally, online about my two (at that point) young sons, but again, they were in fifth and seventh grade. The younger one whispered to the older, “In science class, did they talk about sex today?” And, you know, the seventh grader [has] a swagger, right, at that age, and said, “Well, yeah, of course, we talked about that in science class and biology. Of course, we talk about it.” And then they started laughing, and then they both said in unison, “And it's perfectly normal.” And I realized at that point, that was my title for that book. Why? Because most things about sex are perfectly normal. And of course, then there are the things that are not perfectly normal, that are abhorrent, tragic, traumatic, you know, and those things are included in this book – because kids hear about them, and particularly these days, during the pandemic and the access to the internet, even very young children [hear about them]. So I think that if we can talk to them, parents, or have someone else talk to them as a stand-in, that really helps kids navigate those times and realize that, “OK, nothing's wrong with me, I'm normal. This is what happens.” And for some kids, it happens younger, some kids, it happens older, and all of that kind of talk is in the book. It's in all the books – we have an even younger group, Who Has What?, a book about our bodies, and it names all the parts of the bodies, not just “head, shoulders, knees and toes,” which is a fun song to sing, but the genitals are left out. And I use the science names. I don't disapprove if people have their own family names, but I think kids should also know the science names, because this is human biology. But if you haven't started yet, and you have an older child, just roll up your sleeves and take a deep breath, right? And you know that you're going to make mistakes, at least I sure did. And also there are questions that you don't want to answer at that moment, because you just don't know how to do it. So you can say your kids, “That's a great question. I need to find out more about it. Let's talk about that on Friday instead of today, so that I can give you the accurate answer, the science answer, the medical answer, the psychological answer.” And then I have to say that there are parents who cannot – or are not able to, is a better way of saying it – because they themselves have had a traumatic experience that has to do with sex. My heart just goes out to them. But one can then ask one's sister in law, one's brother in law, one's health care provider for your child – Planned Parenthood, even. There are all kinds of places to get the information that you need, and people to do it for you. And I think we really have to respect that notion, because that group of parents still live with the trauma even if they're doing well. And they're marvelous parents, most of them, because of this, so let's include them in that way. How do you see the conversation changing? I mean, your books have been updated multiple times over the years. So which topics do you see coming into the conversation and which have become outdated? When we think about gender and how much more, at least for me, I know about it, I'm aware of it, I respect it – we can't just do the “boys, girls” [thing]. I think that we have to just be so inclusive and not leave anybody out. So what I did in It's Perfectly Normal, and then It's So Amazing!, which an updated version will be out in 2023 – what I did is that I wanted to be inclusive of all kids. And I have been since the beginning, LBGTQ+ kids, of course, they were going to be in my books. And at that time when I started out, if they were in the books at all, they were at the end of the book – [here] they are in chapter five in the first section of that book, called “What is sex?” “What is sex and gender?” it now says. So I decided that I also wanted to include striped kids – I didn't want to leave them out. So I use, throughout the book, I certainly use “they” and “a person” and all of the other ways to be gender neutral, but I also use the science names. For example, the male genitals are called “the male genitals,” that's the science name. I also, in places, so that those who were straight can feel that they're being spoken to in this book – I write “most boys,” “most girls,” “most females,” “most males.” I'd like to, if it's OK with you, I'd like to just read you one short paragraph. Yeah, of course. “Sometimes other people may try to define your gender for you. But who you are is most always the person you feel you are, or figure out you are, or already know you are – no matter what anyone else may say or think about you.” And that has to do with respect, which I write about. Gender is many things. That's why there's more than one answer to the question, “What is gender?” And sex is many things, too, so in the chapter before it says, “Sex is many things.” And on that page – and I just read today that U.S. passports are going to add “X” to their birth certificates, and many states have done so – we have a birth certificate. And Michael Emberley drew a wonderful birth certificate with “male, female, x.” So parents can put that, or an adult can when they're older. So there's a lot of new art in here. And I should just tell you, there's these two [gender neutral] characters in there: one's a bird and one's a bee. And the bird is the kid who wants to know everything, every single detail, and can't stop asking questions, while the bee – and I was more like the bee, in a way – the bee is the kid who thinks it's all gross and disgusting, but gets fascinated by the science. And I am fascinated by the science. So here's from when we talk about gender: the bird says, “Hey, now I know about sex and gender!” and the bee says, “Hey, now I don't need to know anything else about all that stuff!” And their backs are facing each other, because they're always at odds with one another until the end of the book – when they somewhat agree that it's perfectly normal, but just somewhat. There is a bill in the New York legislature right now that would provide for comprehensive sexual education. When you talk about “comprehensive sexual education,” what does that look like to you? Comprehensive sex education needs to include everything that kids need to know to stay healthy when it comes to sexual health. And as I said earlier, it's not just physically what happens to you, but emotionally what happens to you. And when it's not talked about, it becomes a taboo. So my understanding is that the only thing that's mandated in New York state is HIV/AIDS…and that's it, to be taught in the public schools and charter schools. Well, the bill is comprehensive sex education, K-8, from public and charter schools, and I sure hope that New York state is, and I will use the word, progressive enough to realize, going back to an old term of mine: If we can give kids comprehensive sex education in the schools, and then you have parents who are mostly able to do it, and then health care providers, and even the Unitarian Church has a wonderful program which uses our books, [our kids will be prepared]. If they grow up having had this information in an age-appropriate way, over and over and over again, as they get older – and I'll read you one thing that I do say at the end of the book: “They're more apt to be able to postpone pregnancy, to treat their friends with respect.” And I say, “A large part of growing up is learning to take care of yourself in a healthy way. It's more than taking just good care of your body, it means taking responsibility for your own actions for yourself and what you do. It means making healthy choices for yourself, including choices about your body and sex. And it means having respect for yourself and your own decisions, and having healthy relationships with other people.” And then, I ended with, “Yes, puberty is a time when friends, even good friends, often try to persuade or pressure one another to try out new things. Some of these things, which may involve sex, alcohol, drugs, or going on online sites, may be things you do not want to do, or are not ready to do, or are afraid to do, or feel are not safe to do. That's when it's important to make the decision that is best for you, one that is safe and healthy for you. Everyone makes mistakes and has bad judgment once in a while” – I really wanted to end with that – “But most of the time, you can and will make responsible choices.” And this is my hopeful end. So going back to this bill, really, our legislatures should be supporting our children as they are growing up and older. We couldn't do more to support them than to have comprehensive sex ed, and also train our teachers, who also need training. I've often said it's easier to just talk about this, but going back to the parents, it's hard as parents to talk to your own kids. So this community that I talked about, that can support kids – it's an ideal of mine, but it exists in many, many places. There's particularly a lot of debate right now over what's appropriate for children. Florida, of course, just enacted the so called “Don't Say Gay” bill, and Texas considers gender affirming medical treatments for transgender youth to be “child abuse.” It appears, from my view anyway, that the way we talk to children about sex and gender and their bodies, just in general, is a battlefront for what some would call the culture war in the U.S. And I guess I'm just wondering what your thoughts are on it, because I know your books have been banned or restricted in many libraries or schools as well. Well, the disturbing thing is – and I wrote it down so I hope I can be accurate about this – this is the Texas attorney general [saying] that parents are the ones who need to be involved, 100 percent, in sex education, not the school districts. And other people have said, “not teachers.” Well, I have to tell you something – if I took myself back to when I had an elementary school-aged kid, right? As I said, I know a lot about children – but teachers and librarians and even booksellers are professionally trained to teach. I'm not. I am not. I learned, you know, as a parent, but I also learned from doing all the research on this book. I don't want to be the one telling my school that they can't teach this. And in many of these programs, the parents can go into school and say, “I want my child to opt out.” And so the kids go to the science center, somewhere in the school, a place to do some homework, right? And they don't have to be part of it. That's been going on for a long time, because sometimes, for cultural and religious reasons, people don't want their kids to have that information, and I respect that. Just don't keep me and my child from getting that information. So I feel for the teachers and the librarians and booksellers who are on the front lines. I'm just, you know, here I am sitting in front of my computer, and every once in a while they let me out to speak or go to a meeting. But they're living in their own communities, so it doesn't stop. When they go to the supermarket, someone's going to complain or attack them. And now there's the whole [debate] about keeping books that have the word “gay” in it, or describe pornography – which I do in It's Perfectly Normal. I am not a pornographer, but it's stunning the amount of kids, and then younger kids, who go online and see pornography. For some, it's upsetting, for others it's exciting. They haven't done anything wrong, but we need to talk to them about it. [We need to speak] to the fact that most of it is not real, and if you find yourself very upset by what you're seeing, you need to find a trusted adult. And that's the same reason that I talk about abuse. I mean, we have to give kids, we have to let them know that they didn't do anything wrong, that, often, abusers are in your family, so you can't go there – but to go to a trusted adult. You might want to take a friend with you, if you can't go alone. If you can't talk to your family, find a trusted adult and ask them to help you, because they can help you to get help and help the abuse to stop. In our democracy, our kids have a right to have truthful, accurate, as up to date as possible, scientific and psychological information to stay healthy. I have hope: kids have across the country have fought these kinds of laws, and in one place turned one of them around. So my hope is in these younger kids. And when I say younger, I'm talking some eighth graders, seventh graders, some older kids, college kids, who are speaking out against what's happening, and really for getting the information they deserve. Robie, thanks so much for taking the time to speak with me and to be on the show. Is there anything you'd like to leave our listeners with? I heard you might have another reading you'd like to share with us? Yeah, yeah. Because I am concerned about the rate of teen suicide, and it's gone up in the LBGT community. [The book] says: “No matter what people may think, it's so important for every person to treat all people with respect. And it's important to know that people's daily lives, having fun, going to school, going to work, making a home, having friends, being in love, being single, being a partner, being married, raising children, are mostly the same – whether someone is straight, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, or questioning.” But I wanted to say something about teen moms. It's very difficult for a high percentage of teen moms, especially if they don't have support from their own families or the people that care for them. And again, my heart goes out to certain groups of people, and it does to them, because who knows why they got pregnant. Perhaps they didn't have comprehensive sex ed, it could be for other reasons. But also, there are teenagers who seem to be able to make it on their own, to do their schoolwork or have family support. So I have respect, and I think we all need to – and I'm sounding a little preachy now, but I guess at my age and being a grandmother, I can. I think we really have to help and respect that community of teen parents. Robie Harris is the author of several children's books, including It's Perfectly Normal, It's So Amazing!, It's Not the Stork!, and Who Has What?. Her latest title, not on that subject, is Somewhere with artwork by Armando Mariño. You can learn more at her website, robieharris.com. 51% is a national production of WAMC Northeast Public Radio. It's produced by Jesse King. Our executive producer is Dr. Alan Chartock, and our theme is "Lolita" by the Albany-based artist Girl Blue.
On this week's 51%, we speak with Robie Harris, author of the groundbreaking children's book, It's Perfectly Normal, about the importance of comprehensive sex education, and how parents can navigate “the talk” with their kids. Guest: Robie Harris, author of It's Perfectly Normal 51% is a national production of WAMC Northeast Public Radio. It's produced by Jesse King. Our executive producer is Dr. Alan Chartock, and our theme is "Lolita" by the Albany-based artist Girl Blue. Follow Along You're listening to 51%, a WAMC production dedicated to women's issues and experiences. Thanks for tuning in, I'm Jesse King. This week's topic is sex ed, and particularly the much-debated question: how much should we tell our kids, and when? Our guest today has written more than 35 children's books on a variety of subjects, but she's perhaps best known for her lineup of sexual education books: Who Has What? for three to five-year-olds, It's Not the Stork! for four to eight-year-olds, It's So Amazing! for kids as young as seven, and her groundbreaking 1994 book, It's Perfectly Normal, for ages 10 and up. The books have undergone several updates and re-releases over the years to accommodate new developments and conversations around sexual health. The latest edition of It's Perfectly Normal came out in May 2021. Each of these titles, especially It's Perfectly Normal, contain honest depictions of sex and/or the human body, drawn by illustrators Michael Emberly and Nadine Bernard Westcott. As a result, they've frequently drawn fire from lawmakers and faced removal at public libraries and schools — so much so that Harris is on the board of directors for the National Coalition Against Censorship. The practice of book banning is nothing new, of course, but it's a particularly hot topic at the moment: the American Library Association says more than 1,500 individual titles were challenged in 2021, the most it's seen since it first started tracking banning efforts in 2000. Many of the most challenged books from last year were targeted for portraying LGBTQ experiences, something Harris has never shied away from. Harris says the information in her books is crucial for preparing kids to get through puberty and, one day, make healthy decisions as adults. I recently sat down with Harris to discuss what she calls “comprehensive sex education” and look back at the books over the years. What prompted you to write It's Perfectly Normal? I was sitting in an editor's office in New York City, it might have been 32 years ago, I can't remember exactly. His name was Michael Demony, and we had done some children's books together. And he was the editor of the first book on HIV/AIDS. And when I say HIV/AIDS, HIV wasn't even a term that was used then. It's called And the Band Played On, and it was about the AIDS epidemic in San Francisco. He was a San Francisco Chronicle reporter, and highly, highly respected. So he had done that book, and I was sitting in his office, we were talking about children's books – we were also talking about the state of the nation. It was the day after Election Day, and we were talking about the state of children in America, and that it really wasn't very, very good. And they needed lots of information that they weren't getting. And he said to me, “Would you like to write a book on AIDS for school-aged kids?” And I said, “Oh my gosh, I don't really know enough to write about that.” I mean, I know a lot about kids, because I have a background in child development. But I said, “I really don't know about that. But I wouldn't write a book just on AIDS, I would write a comprehensive book that would include almost every question that kids want to know about their bodies, about puberty, about growing up, and not even just the physical part of it, but the emotional part of going up.” I wasn't writing anything down, because I didn't think I would do this book. And he was writing down everything I said, and he handed me the paper and said, “Here's what you just said.” And I had outlined the book sort of off the top of my head. And he said, “Well, you know, your book could be banned. Do you care about that?” And I said, “No!” I care about if kids can't get the information that they need to stay healthy, but no, I'm not going to worry about [that], I'm going to write what I believe in. We live in a democracy, and that's my right as a citizen. And I went back home and I asked my sons, because my husband and I thought we've done a great job [with sex ed]. I asked my two sons who were then in, I think, fifth and seventh grade, “Tell us what you would put in a book, and did we leave anything out?” Well, they had a long list of things we left out. And I quickly wrote them, and then that night, I called everyone I knew. I called Bill Hazeltine, who is still a top expert in terms of HIV/AIDS and other diseases. I talked to our pediatrician, I talked to reproductive health experts at Harvard Medical School. A lot of people didn't know my name, this was before the internet – so when I call would call up, I'd say, “My name is Robie Harris, I would like to talk with Dr. So-and-So, I'm writing a book for kids on sexual health.” And no one turned me down. I mean, these were heads of departments at Harvard, or Boston University, or Boston Medical Center, or Harvard Medical School – no one turned me down. And it was a sort of joyful moment, just because people care about kids. My editor at that point was wonderful Candlewick Press, which is in Somerville, Massachusetts, a worldwide, children's book publisher. I talked to them about doing it, and the editor there bought the book within two weeks, which is like a record-setting time. And she said, “I want the book to be what your vision of the book is.” But I need to also tell you that many dear and well-meaning friends said, “If you write that book, no publisher will ever publish anything of yours again.” Well, now 35+ books later, they were wrong. And I said, “If that happens, it happens, you know? I'll write, one way or another.” When we're talking to kids, if we don't tell them the truth, then they're never going to trust us, and I think they'll stop listening to us. So I see these books – it's in my voice, it's what I would say to my own children. These books are my way of having a conversation with kids way beyond my children. So what kind of questions do you see kids asking, and how early should parents start educating kids about their bodies and sexual health, or I guess, start giving them “the talk?” The earlier the better. If you really want to think about it, babies are exploring their bodies – they're touching every single part of their body. So from birth, they're exploring that. And then of course, comes the toddler who may have heard something from an older brother or sister, right? They're like, “I was inside you?” And of course, it's often in the supermarket checkout line. “How did I get out? Did you cough me out of your mouth?” I mean, I've heard the zillion stories. “Did I come out of your belly button?” Kids want to know about their bodies. We live with our bodies, physically, 24/7 forever. I don't tell stories, generally, online about my two (at that point) young sons, but again, they were in fifth and seventh grade. The younger one whispered to the older, “In science class, did they talk about sex today?” And, you know, the seventh grader [has] a swagger, right, at that age, and said, “Well, yeah, of course, we talked about that in science class and biology. Of course, we talk about it.” And then they started laughing, and then they both said in unison, “And it's perfectly normal.” And I realized at that point, that was my title for that book. Why? Because most things about sex are perfectly normal. And of course, then there are the things that are not perfectly normal, that are abhorrent, tragic, traumatic, you know, and those things are included in this book – because kids hear about them, and particularly these days, during the pandemic and the access to the internet, even very young children [hear about them]. So I think that if we can talk to them, parents, or have someone else talk to them as a stand-in, that really helps kids navigate those times and realize that, “OK, nothing's wrong with me, I'm normal. This is what happens.” And for some kids, it happens younger, some kids, it happens older, and all of that kind of talk is in the book. It's in all the books – we have an even younger group, Who Has What?, a book about our bodies, and it names all the parts of the bodies, not just “head, shoulders, knees and toes,” which is a fun song to sing, but the genitals are left out. And I use the science names. I don't disapprove if people have their own family names, but I think kids should also know the science names, because this is human biology. But if you haven't started yet, and you have an older child, just roll up your sleeves and take a deep breath, right? And you know that you're going to make mistakes, at least I sure did. And also there are questions that you don't want to answer at that moment, because you just don't know how to do it. So you can say your kids, “That's a great question. I need to find out more about it. Let's talk about that on Friday instead of today, so that I can give you the accurate answer, the science answer, the medical answer, the psychological answer.” And then I have to say that there are parents who cannot – or are not able to, is a better way of saying it – because they themselves have had a traumatic experience that has to do with sex. My heart just goes out to them. But one can then ask one's sister in law, one's brother in law, one's health care provider for your child – Planned Parenthood, even. There are all kinds of places to get the information that you need, and people to do it for you. And I think we really have to respect that notion, because that group of parents still live with the trauma even if they're doing well. And they're marvelous parents, most of them, because of this, so let's include them in that way. How do you see the conversation changing? I mean, your books have been updated multiple times over the years. So which topics do you see coming into the conversation and which have become outdated? When we think about gender and how much more, at least for me, I know about it, I'm aware of it, I respect it – we can't just do the “boys, girls” [thing]. I think that we have to just be so inclusive and not leave anybody out. So what I did in It's Perfectly Normal, and then It's So Amazing!, which an updated version will be out in 2023 – what I did is that I wanted to be inclusive of all kids. And I have been since the beginning, LBGTQ+ kids, of course, they were going to be in my books. And at that time when I started out, if they were in the books at all, they were at the end of the book – [here] they are in chapter five in the first section of that book, called “What is sex?” “What is sex and gender?” it now says. So I decided that I also wanted to include striped kids – I didn't want to leave them out. So I use, throughout the book, I certainly use “they” and “a person” and all of the other ways to be gender neutral, but I also use the science names. For example, the male genitals are called “the male genitals,” that's the science name. I also, in places, so that those who were straight can feel that they're being spoken to in this book – I write “most boys,” “most girls,” “most females,” “most males.” I'd like to, if it's OK with you, I'd like to just read you one short paragraph. Yeah, of course. “Sometimes other people may try to define your gender for you. But who you are is most always the person you feel you are, or figure out you are, or already know you are – no matter what anyone else may say or think about you.” And that has to do with respect, which I write about. Gender is many things. That's why there's more than one answer to the question, “What is gender?” And sex is many things, too, so in the chapter before it says, “Sex is many things.” And on that page – and I just read today that U.S. passports are going to add “X” to their birth certificates, and many states have done so – we have a birth certificate. And Michael Emberley drew a wonderful birth certificate with “male, female, x.” So parents can put that, or an adult can when they're older. So there's a lot of new art in here. And I should just tell you, there's these two [gender neutral] characters in there: one's a bird and one's a bee. And the bird is the kid who wants to know everything, every single detail, and can't stop asking questions, while the bee – and I was more like the bee, in a way – the bee is the kid who thinks it's all gross and disgusting, but gets fascinated by the science. And I am fascinated by the science. So here's from when we talk about gender: the bird says, “Hey, now I know about sex and gender!” and the bee says, “Hey, now I don't need to know anything else about all that stuff!” And their backs are facing each other, because they're always at odds with one another until the end of the book – when they somewhat agree that it's perfectly normal, but just somewhat. There is a bill in the New York legislature right now that would provide for comprehensive sexual education. When you talk about “comprehensive sexual education,” what does that look like to you? Comprehensive sex education needs to include everything that kids need to know to stay healthy when it comes to sexual health. And as I said earlier, it's not just physically what happens to you, but emotionally what happens to you. And when it's not talked about, it becomes a taboo. So my understanding is that the only thing that's mandated in New York state is HIV/AIDS…and that's it, to be taught in the public schools and charter schools. Well, the bill is comprehensive sex education, K-8, from public and charter schools, and I sure hope that New York state is, and I will use the word, progressive enough to realize, going back to an old term of mine: If we can give kids comprehensive sex education in the schools, and then you have parents who are mostly able to do it, and then health care providers, and even the Unitarian Church has a wonderful program which uses our books, [our kids will be prepared]. If they grow up having had this information in an age-appropriate way, over and over and over again, as they get older – and I'll read you one thing that I do say at the end of the book: “They're more apt to be able to postpone pregnancy, to treat their friends with respect.” And I say, “A large part of growing up is learning to take care of yourself in a healthy way. It's more than taking just good care of your body, it means taking responsibility for your own actions for yourself and what you do. It means making healthy choices for yourself, including choices about your body and sex. And it means having respect for yourself and your own decisions, and having healthy relationships with other people.” And then, I ended with, “Yes, puberty is a time when friends, even good friends, often try to persuade or pressure one another to try out new things. Some of these things, which may involve sex, alcohol, drugs, or going on online sites, may be things you do not want to do, or are not ready to do, or are afraid to do, or feel are not safe to do. That's when it's important to make the decision that is best for you, one that is safe and healthy for you. Everyone makes mistakes and has bad judgment once in a while” – I really wanted to end with that – “But most of the time, you can and will make responsible choices.” And this is my hopeful end. So going back to this bill, really, our legislatures should be supporting our children as they are growing up and older. We couldn't do more to support them than to have comprehensive sex ed, and also train our teachers, who also need training. I've often said it's easier to just talk about this, but going back to the parents, it's hard as parents to talk to your own kids. So this community that I talked about, that can support kids – it's an ideal of mine, but it exists in many, many places. There's particularly a lot of debate right now over what's appropriate for children. Florida, of course, just enacted the so called “Don't Say Gay” bill, and Texas considers gender affirming medical treatments for transgender youth to be “child abuse.” It appears, from my view anyway, that the way we talk to children about sex and gender and their bodies, just in general, is a battlefront for what some would call the culture war in the U.S. And I guess I'm just wondering what your thoughts are on it, because I know your books have been banned or restricted in many libraries or schools as well. Well, the disturbing thing is – and I wrote it down so I hope I can be accurate about this – this is the Texas attorney general [saying] that parents are the ones who need to be involved, 100 percent, in sex education, not the school districts. And other people have said, “not teachers.” Well, I have to tell you something – if I took myself back to when I had an elementary school-aged kid, right? As I said, I know a lot about children – but teachers and librarians and even booksellers are professionally trained to teach. I'm not. I am not. I learned, you know, as a parent, but I also learned from doing all the research on this book. I don't want to be the one telling my school that they can't teach this. And in many of these programs, the parents can go into school and say, “I want my child to opt out.” And so the kids go to the science center, somewhere in the school, a place to do some homework, right? And they don't have to be part of it. That's been going on for a long time, because sometimes, for cultural and religious reasons, people don't want their kids to have that information, and I respect that. Just don't keep me and my child from getting that information. So I feel for the teachers and the librarians and booksellers who are on the front lines. I'm just, you know, here I am sitting in front of my computer, and every once in a while they let me out to speak or go to a meeting. But they're living in their own communities, so it doesn't stop. When they go to the supermarket, someone's going to complain or attack them. And now there's the whole [debate] about keeping books that have the word “gay” in it, or describe pornography – which I do in It's Perfectly Normal. I am not a pornographer, but it's stunning the amount of kids, and then younger kids, who go online and see pornography. For some, it's upsetting, for others it's exciting. They haven't done anything wrong, but we need to talk to them about it. [We need to speak] to the fact that most of it is not real, and if you find yourself very upset by what you're seeing, you need to find a trusted adult. And that's the same reason that I talk about abuse. I mean, we have to give kids, we have to let them know that they didn't do anything wrong, that, often, abusers are in your family, so you can't go there – but to go to a trusted adult. You might want to take a friend with you, if you can't go alone. If you can't talk to your family, find a trusted adult and ask them to help you, because they can help you to get help and help the abuse to stop. In our democracy, our kids have a right to have truthful, accurate, as up to date as possible, scientific and psychological information to stay healthy. I have hope: kids have across the country have fought these kinds of laws, and in one place turned one of them around. So my hope is in these younger kids. And when I say younger, I'm talking some eighth graders, seventh graders, some older kids, college kids, who are speaking out against what's happening, and really for getting the information they deserve. Robie, thanks so much for taking the time to speak with me and to be on the show. Is there anything you'd like to leave our listeners with? I heard you might have another reading you'd like to share with us? Yeah, yeah. Because I am concerned about the rate of teen suicide, and it's gone up in the LBGT community. [The book] says: “No matter what people may think, it's so important for every person to treat all people with respect. And it's important to know that people's daily lives, having fun, going to school, going to work, making a home, having friends, being in love, being single, being a partner, being married, raising children, are mostly the same – whether someone is straight, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, or questioning.” But I wanted to say something about teen moms. It's very difficult for a high percentage of teen moms, especially if they don't have support from their own families or the people that care for them. And again, my heart goes out to certain groups of people, and it does to them, because who knows why they got pregnant. Perhaps they didn't have comprehensive sex ed, it could be for other reasons. But also, there are teenagers who seem to be able to make it on their own, to do their schoolwork or have family support. So I have respect, and I think we all need to – and I'm sounding a little preachy now, but I guess at my age and being a grandmother, I can. I think we really have to help and respect that community of teen parents. Robie Harris is the author of several children's books, including It's Perfectly Normal, It's So Amazing!, It's Not the Stork!, and Who Has What?. Her latest title, not on that subject, is Somewhere with artwork by Armando Mariño. You can learn more at her website, robieharris.com. 51% is a national production of WAMC Northeast Public Radio. It's produced by Jesse King. Our executive producer is Dr. Alan Chartock, and our theme is "Lolita" by the Albany-based artist Girl Blue.
When do kids start dating...and what does that look like? How do social media and various apps affect relationships? How and when do we bring up consent? What are red flags your child might be in an unhealthy relationship or friendship? Today Joe Myers from Crime Victims' Center of Chester County returns (our first return guest!) to answer all these questions and more. We also discuss: the age when kids should have a solid understanding of reproduction, how to teach your kids to both give and get consent from others, and how consent and boundaries are BFFs. This episode is coming out during the first week of April, which is Sexual Assault Awareness Month, and we dive into what sexual assault means, how we can try to prevent our kids from being assaulted, and also what to do if something does happen. We also discuss (and link up below) many resources with videos and scripts on how to have these conversations so that “if we aren't weird, it won't be weird.” Join us! Things we mentioned during our conversation: Joe was our guest for Episode 5: Bullying & Cyberbullying. AMAZE has great resources for both kids and parents on healthy relationships, consent, boundaries, sexual education and more. Chrissie talked about the books “It's Not the Stork” and “It's So Amazing”, part of a series of children's books by Robie Harris. Joe mentioned Safe Secure Kids as a resource for parents to learn skills to talk to their kids about respect, consent, and other topics (with videos, handouts, and “learn together” games). April is Sexual Assualt Awareness Month (SAAM) and the theme is “Building Safe Online Spaces Together”. Denim Day, as part of this awareness campaign, is happening on April 27th. CVC will also be doing programming–be sure to follow CVC on FaceBook and Instagram at the links below! Crime Victims' Center of Chester County (CVC) is a nonprofit agency providing free, immediate, and confidential crisis response and compassionate support to children and adults impacted by sexual violence and all other crime. CVC provides assistance through counseling, advocacy, resources, and education. The Center fosters community awareness and understanding through its comprehensive outreach and prevention programs. Support CVC by joining the virtual Race Against Violence this May! Sign up here! CVC's 24/7 Hotlines: Sexual Assault (610) 692-7273 and Other Crimes (610) 692-7420 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/cvcofcc Instagram: @crime_victims_center LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/CVCCC CVC Staff are available to present to your school, parent group, workplace and/or community on topics including bullying, healthy relationships, mandated reporting, respect at work, and more. Click here for more information about available programs. You can now follow Chrissie on Instagram @ctc_chrissie for info from each episode, Parent to Parent blog updates, and other parent resources. Communities that Care has a Parent to Parent Blog and many online resources and webinars. Please follow us on socials for more tips, resources and support!: Instagram @downingtownctc Facebook @DowningtownAreaCTC Twitter @DowningtownCTC YouTube LinkedIn Be sure to Subscribe/Follow us to get new episodes every other Monday. We would love to hear from you! Please email Chrissie with any questions, comments or other feedback at cdziembowski@dtownctc.org Find the episode webpage and previous episodes HERE.
Philip Yancey is author of 25 books, including The Jesus I Never Knew and What's So Amazing about Grace? His most recent – Where the Light Fell: A Memoir – is his most personal. It's an amazing book. One reviewer said, “Where the Light Fell could be a Faulkner novel, with racist preachers, off-kilter parenting, tormented siblings, and religious hypocrisy right and left. It's not an overstatement to say that this stunning memoir might be the miracle we've all waited for.” This podcast is produced by underdog.film, based in Franklin, TN. Underdog.film focuses on video storytelling for businesses, churches, non-profits and documentary film production. Everyone has stories, we help tell it through powerful video. Visit https://www.underdog.film or send Kendall an email at johnsonk@underdog.film to start a conversation about your film needs.
All I have to say is Iwai Mars Whiskey. SO AMAZING... we discuss Dune Part One and discuss new Red Fang and a fun little track from Amine! And Aaron revisits the childhood event that made him the degenerate man he is today!
On Friday, April 23rd, 2021 we were delighted to launch a new series on “Discovery and Doxology” in partnership with BioLogos and Church of the Advent. This series brings together leading scientists and theologians to discuss the relationship between science and faith. In this, our first event in the series, we hosted author and theologian, Philip Yancey, and Dr. Julia Wattacheril, discussing suffering, healing, and meaning. Yancey and Wattacheril help us to think through the meaning of our personal and national pain and how knowing the God who suffers with us can redeem such suffering, even transform it. This event was made possible through the support of a grant from Templeton Religion Trust. The opinions expressed in this program do not necessarily reflect the views of Templeton Religion Trust. Learn more about Philip Yancey and Dr. Julia Wattacheril. Watch the full Online Conversation and read the transcript from April 23, 2021. Authors and books mentioned in the conversation:The Jesus I Never KnewWhere Is God When It Hurts?Disappointment with GodWhat's So Amazing about Grace?A Companion in CrisisC.S. LewisJohn DonneDr. Paul BrandTime MagazineN.T. WrightG.K. ChestertonRev. Martin Luther King, Jr. Related Trinity Forum Readings:Devotions, a Trinity Forum Reading by John Donne and introduced and paraphrased by Philip YanceyWrestling with God, a Trinity Forum Reading by Simon Weil The Purchase of a Soul, a Trinity Forum Reading by Victor HugoMan's Search for Meaning, by Viktor Frankl Special thanks to Ned Bustard for the artwork and Andrew Peterson for the music!
Today's episode is a long one, but SO AMAZING! I have my sister Jess (they/them) on the show with me and we dig into our childhood experiences, what brought us to the choice of parental estrangement, and the ways we've reconnected with our intuitive, creative selves in the years since. Trigger warnings: mentions of racism and homophobia, stories about emotional abuse and dissociation, sexual assault, death of a parent, and death of a pet. When the people in your closest relationships are telling you that your ideas aren't good, or safe, or worth pursuing, that really puts a damper on your creative expression and your ability to try new things and push outside your comfort zone. In this episode we talk about boundaries, childhood creativity, being adult children of abusive/toxic parents, and what estrangement MEANS for people who choose it. Spoilers: It's not a moral choice and isn't something you HAVE to do in order to heal. Get last week's Anger workbook here! https://bit.ly/AccessAnger And I did make a blog post about books I recommend for trauma processing and healing childhood wounds, which are very helpful in the decision making process around estrangement. Check out that blog at http://caitlinlizfisher.com/?p=4772. Important Links: Passion Pacers: Visit PassionPacers.com for the scoop on this mentorship program if you're ready to put your learnings into action! Join the Run Like Hell Toward Happy Facebook Community. Music by Leave Nelson B. Photography by Jen Hearn. Follow Caitlin Liz Fisher on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter, if you want!
This week Tova and Kristen delve into the world of having "THE TALK" with our kids. Yes, the sex talk! What age is appropriate, what to say, how to say it, and the best books to describe where babies come from. They discuss and debate whether and when to talk about porn, pleasure, and the how uncomfortable but necessary these topics are with our children. And the two hosts also reveal where and how they learned about sex, and how they were taught and felt about it as children. Tova and Kristen also love sharing the headlines from around the world in their NOT SO NEWS segment. This week there's more glitter, but this time it's the men's trends! In this week's episode, Tova & Kristen have partnered with the following brands: Honey - Join free here! https://www.joinhoney.com/coffee Swap.com - Use Code COFFEE for 40% off plus free shipping CreatePhotoCalendars.com - Save 55% off using code PODCAST They also mentioned the following books: What Makes a Baby? http://amzn.to/2Ad1Jwg It's So Amazing http://amzn.to/2i9BVKh It's not the Stork http://amzn.to/2BsZiDw Where Did I come From? http://amzn.to/2zws1G8 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.