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Narcissism is everywhere in today's conversation. Labeled, analyzed, and often condemned. But what if it isn't simply dysfunction… what if it's protection? What if the traits we judge most harshly were once necessary for survival? And when we look at powerful figures like Donald Trump, are we seeing pathology... or the long shadow of early adaptation? In this episode of the Align Podcast, Dr. Gabor Maté unpacks how childhood experiences shape identity, behavior, and health, revealing how trauma lives in the body and drives much of what we call personality. This conversation opens a deeper lens on healing, connection, and what it really means to come back to yourself. EPISODE #586 IS SPONSORED BY:

send us a text via Fan Mail!Our final segment in this mini-series, Dr. Deborah and I discuss what discipline is, understanding the developmental milestones of the child and viewing discipline in the context of connection, dignity and growth in maturity.00:53 - Giving a definition to discipline 4:05 - How do we learn our lessons?5:04 - Different perspectives and the root issue 6:15 - Does pain teach you?8:27 - Trust or fear based discipline 10:37 - Take the long view 12:23 - Vulnerability and dignity in relationship  16:42 - Emotional regulation programs, do they work?   22:31 - Big discipline issues and reclaiming the relationship 25:05 - When our caring is gone // taking care of ourselves  Dr. Deborah MacNamara (Website)As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Dr. Gordon Neufeld, Dr. Gabor MateRest, Play, Grow: Making Sense of Preschoolers (Or Anyone Who Acts Like One) by Dr. Deborah MacNamaraNourished: Connection, Food and Caring for Our Kids (And Everyone Else We Love) by Dr. Deborah MacNamaraTry these titles on audiobook with Audible free trial here. if not carrot and stick, then WHAT (blog post)growing things (blog post) Contact On Instagram at @make.joy.normal By email at makejoynormal@gmail.com Search podcast episodes by topic www.bonnielandry.ca Shop my recommended resources Thanks for listening to Make Joy Normal Podcast!

send us a text via Fan Mail!How do we make dealing with our kids behaviour easier? Dr. Deborah and I discuss key principles for strengthening connection and compliance in our children.  1:21 - Resilience is the fruit of good development 4:32 - Tears, sadness and facing futility7:15 - Make it safe to feel 11:46 - How our brain is shaped 15:22 - Show up, care and decide 20:06 - It's a relational problem 24:43 - Avoid coercion // Come alongside the resistance 27:33 - Kids who struggle with transitions 29:54 - Who's in charge? When a child tries to take the lead40:57 - Emotions, instinct and deep capacity to care 42:25 - Working ahead of a problem Dr. Deborah MacNamara (Website)As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.Nourished: Connection, Food and Caring for Our Kids (And Everyone Else We Love) by Dr. Deborah MacNamaraRest, Play, Grow: Making Sense of Preschoolers (Or Anyone Who Acts Like One) by Dr. Deborah MacNamara Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Dr. Gordon Neufeld, Dr. Gabor Matecarrot and stick: letting go (blog post) With Audible Standard you can now select one audiobook a month for only $8.99/month and enjoy a free 30-day trial. More on that here.Contact On Instagram at @make.joy.normal By email at makejoynormal@gmail.com Search podcast episodes by topic www.bonnielandry.ca Shop my recommended resources Thanks for listening to Make Joy Normal Podcast!

send us a text via Fan Mail!In this first episode we focus on nurturing and loving relationships with our children. With very practical wisdom, Dr. Deborah helps us to care, connect and lead our children with grace.  1:12 - Dr. Deborah's work 3:53 - I need to know what to do with this child! 5:04 - Email from a mom : concerns about 4.5 year old  12:02 - When parenting feels like a nightmare // always tip toeing 14:50 - How can parents take the lead better? 18:14 - What do I do with a temper tantrum? 19:14 - If you're stuck  26:13 - Staying in the moment with your child // caring 29:04 - Adapting our language to attachment 33:55 - Curiosity to connection and care 37:20 - Simple strategies to connect and build relationships Dr. Deborah MacNamara (Website) As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.Rest, Play, Grow: Making Sense of Preschoolers (Or Anyone Who Acts Like One) by Dr. Deborah MacNamaraNourished: Connection, Food and Caring for Our Kids (And Everyone Else We Love) by Dr. Deborah MacNamaraHold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Dr. Gordon Neufeld, Dr. Gabor MateMore podcast episodes featuring Dr. MacNamara: Rest, Play, Grow: Interview with Dr. Deborah MacNamara Nourished: an interview with Deborah MacNamara on her new book Contact On Instagram at @make.joy.normal By email at makejoynormal@gmail.com Search podcast episodes by topic www.bonnielandry.ca Shop my recommended resources Thanks for listening to Make Joy Normal Podcast!

Welcome to the Parenting Well podcast with Parent Engagement Network!  I am Dr. Shelly Mahon, your host and today's well source is Melissa Holland. Melissa Holland is a parenting coach, founder of Inner Wisdom Parenting, and a PEN Ambassador at SHMS who is passionate about helping parents raise emotionally healthy, resilient children, starting with themselves. Melissa works with parents of young children, particularly ages 5–10, helping them better understand what's really going on beneath behavior and how to respond with clarity, confidence, and connection. Through her coaching and workshops, she supports parents in tuning into both their child's inner world and their own, so discipline becomes less about control and more about growth, trust, and relationship. Grounded, compassionate, and deeply practical, Melissa's work empowers parents to slow down, listen differently, and parent from a place of intention rather than reactivity. Her approach reminds parents that they already have much of what they need. Sometimes they just need support accessing their inner wisdom. Melissa will be speaking at PEN's Stress & Anxiety Conference on Feb 28, 2026. Register Here In this podcast, we talk about: Tapping into your inner wisdom What is taking place developmentally for 5-10 year olds Neurodevelopment for this age group Frustration as the gap between our expectations and reality Key things that cause stress and anxiety during this phase of childhood Defiance as a symptom of excessive stress without the ability to understand and voice their feelings Difference between counter-willed and strong-willed Ways to recognize your child's triggers and modify your response Developing the capacity for self-compassion Resources Website App: Insight Timer Book: Hold On to Your Kids: Why  Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Mate Book: Self-Compassion for Parents LinkedIn

We all want to influence our children, but how do we get them to listen to us?Episode #59 is a book discussion featuring Lila Krishna (writer, programmer, mom). We talk about the parenting bestseller “Hold On to Your Kids -Why Parents Need to Matter More than Peers”The key concepts in this book emphasize the primacy of the parent-child bond. While there is an increasing tendency for children to get closer to peers than parents, the book traces the pitfalls of a child being influenced by peers at the expense of a strong attachment bond with parents.We talk about the ways to strengthen the parent-child bond and influence children. We also explore how the ideas from the book play out in the Hindu community.You can connect with Lila Krishna here on Substack or at lilakrishna.comHindu Parenting is a community for Hindu parents worldwide. We carry articles, podcasts, reviews, classes for teens and various other resources to help you in your parenting journey.Subscribe to get the latest articles and podcasts in your e-mail inbox.Leave a note, DM or send email to contact@hinduparenting.org if you'd like to share your viewpoints, experiences and wisdom as Hindu parents, or if you wish to join our community!You can also follow us on X (Twitter) or Instagram. Our handle is “hinduparenting”The opinions expressed by guests on The Hindu Parenting Podcast are their personal opinions and Hindu Parenting does not assume any responsibility or liability for the accuracy, completeness, suitability or validity of anything shared on our platform by them.Copyright belongs to Hindu Parenting. Get full access to Hindu Parenting at hinduparenting.substack.com/subscribe

Boze Geesten afl. 197In deze aflevering bespreken we de nummers 'Wij zeggen nee, nee, nee, tegen een AZC' van JW "Broken Veteran" en 'Vrijheid, gelijkheid, zusterschap' van Sophie Straat en proberen ons steentje bij te dragen aan wat men ook wel polarisatie noemt...Gast: Krijn Mengelershttps://nl.linkedin.com/in/krijn-mengelers-24829934***Steun Open Geesten / Boze Geesten

Dr. Gordon Neufeld is a developmental psychologist with over 50 years of clinical experience and a graduate degree from the University of British Columbia, where he taught psychology for 20 years. He is the author of the international bestseller "Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers", co-authored with Dr. Gabor Maté.His groundbreaking contributions to developmental psychology include the six stages of attachment development, the construct of counterwill, and his revolutionary understanding of how tears and futility drive human adaptation and transformation.In this profound conversation, Dr. Neufeld explains his attachment framework and why feeling futility is essential for both childhood development and adult healing.

Kate McAllister describes how nervous system regulation shifts behavior from reaction to response. The conversation maps how stress patterns shape daily life, from parenting and school to refugee camps and co-regulation through rhythm and presence. Breath, movement, and sensory grounding become practical tools for returning the thinking brain online when fight, flight, or freeze take over.

“I was in Auschwitz 6-7 weeks ago,” world-renowned author and physician Dr. Gabor Maté says, “at the very spot where my grandparents landed, before they were sent to the gas chambers, where my mother and I almost ended up in June of 1945. We came very close. And nothing in the world ever resembles the horror of Auschwitz, but the spirit of it, the inhumanity, the cruelty of it, the starving of people, the killing of starving people—that's going on right now, and the world is watching.” In this urgent installment of our ongoing series “Not in Our Name” on The Marc Steiner Show, Marc speaks with Dr. Maté about growing up Jewish in the wake of the Holocaust and being Jewish in the midst of Israel's genocide of Palestinians in Gaza.Guest:Dr. Gabor Maté is a Hungarian-born Canadian physician, Holocaust survivor, and a world-renowned expert on addiction and trauma. Dr. Maté has written several bestselling books, including the New York Times bestseller The Myth of Normal, the award-winning In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction; When the Body Says No: The Cost of Hidden Stress; and Scattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder. He is also the co-author of Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His works have been published internationally in more than forty languages.Additional resources:Dr. Gabor Maté, Toronto Star, “Beautiful dream of Israel has become a nightmare”Credits:Producer: Rosette SewaliStudio Production: Cameron GranadinoAudio Post-Production: Stephen FrankFollow The Marc Steiner Show on Spotify Follow The Marc Steiner Show on Apple PodcastsHelp us continue producing The Marc Steiner Show by following us and becoming a monthly sustainer.Sign up for our newsletterFollow us on:Bluesky: @therealnews.comFacebook: The Real News NetworkTwitter: @TheRealNewsYouTube: @therealnewsInstagram: @therealnewsnetwork

“I was in Auschwitz 6-7 weeks ago,” world-renowned author and physician Dr. Gabor Maté says, “at the very spot where my grandparents landed, before they were sent to the gas chambers, where my mother and I almost ended up in June of 1945. We came very close. And nothing in the world ever resembles the horror of Auschwitz, but the spirit of it, the inhumanity, the cruelty of it, the starving of people, the killing of starving people—that's going on right now, and the world is watching.” In this urgent installment of our ongoing series “Not in Our Name” on The Marc Steiner Show, Marc speaks with Dr. Maté about growing up Jewish in the wake of the Holocaust and being Jewish in the midst of Israel's genocide of Palestinians in Gaza.Guest:Dr. Gabor Maté is a Hungarian-born Canadian physician, Holocaust survivor, and a world-renowned expert on addiction and trauma. Dr. Maté has written several bestselling books, including the New York Times bestseller The Myth of Normal, the award-winning In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction; When the Body Says No: The Cost of Hidden Stress; and Scattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder. He is also the co-author of Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His works have been published internationally in more than forty languages.Additional resources:Dr. Gabor Maté, Toronto Star, “Beautiful dream of Israel has become a nightmare”Credits:Producer: Rosette SewaliStudio Production: Cameron GranadinoAudio Post-Production: Stephen FrankFollow The Marc Steiner Show on Spotify Follow The Marc Steiner Show on Apple PodcastsHelp us continue producing The Marc Steiner Show by following us and becoming a monthly sustainer.Sign up for our newsletterFollow us on:Bluesky: @therealnews.comFacebook: The Real News NetworkTwitter: @TheRealNewsYouTube: @therealnewsInstagram: @therealnewsnetwork

AMDG. In a continuation of last week's episode, Lisa Popcak shares her advice for new homeschooling families, including what aspects of education matter most and what worked in her own family. “I had promised her… you will be 100% fine,” Lisa recalled. “And sure enough, she got recruited by her college… and got almost a full ride to be a pre-med student.”     Lisa reflects on her children leaving the home for college, navigating hard seasons in the home, liturgical living, and so much more.     Kolbecast episodes mentioned & relevant:  261 Flow & Connection through Learning, the first part of our conversation with Lisa Popcak  255 Family Life as Liturgy with Dr. Greg Popcak  131 It's All about Relationship with Danielle Bean  62 Due Diligence with Darren Jones of the Homeschool Legal Defense Association (HSLDA)  105 Not Just for Special Occasions  Related links:   CatholicHOM (Households on Mission)  CatholicCounselors.com  More2Life Radio & podcasts  Books by Dr. Greg & Lisa Popcak  Momfidence podcast  BeDADitudes podcast  Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More than Peers by Gordon Neufeld & Gabor Maté  Books by the Popcaks mentioned in this conversation:  Discovering God Together: The Catholic Guide to Raising Faithful Kids  Parenting Kids with Grace (birth to age 10)  Parenting Your Teens and Tweens with Grace  Once upon a Lifetime Podcast  Have questions or suggestions for future episodes or a story of your own experience that you'd like to share? We'd love to hear from you! Send your thoughts to podcast@kolbe.org and be a part of the Kolbecast odyssey.   We'd be grateful for your feedback! Please share your thoughts with us via this Kolbecast survey!  The Kolbecast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and most podcast apps. By leaving a rating and review in your podcast app of choice, you can help the Kolbecast reach more listeners. The Kolbecast is also on Kolbe's YouTube channel (audio only with subtitles).  Using the filters on our website, you can sort through the episodes to find just what you're looking for. However you listen, spread the word about the Kolbecast! 

AMDG. Catholic podcaster and co-founder/vice-president of  CatholicCounselors.comLisa Popcak shares her wisdom on homeschooling and raising children in the faith. Lisa advocates for “flow” rather than structure in the homeschool day and paints a picture of what a rich— but achievable— prayer life looks like in a busy home. “We have to get away from the idea that our prayer life has to be rigorous,” Lisa says. “If our children are called to a rigorous monastic life, God will give them the grace for that. We have many saints who were… and many saints who went a different way.”     Kolbecast episodes mentioned & relevant:  255 Family Life as Liturgy with Dr. Greg Popcak  131 It's All about Relationship with Danielle Bean  Related links:   CatholicHOM (Households on Mission)  CatholicCounselors.com  More2Life Radio & podcasts  Books by Dr. Greg & Lisa Popcak  Momfidence podcast  BeDADitudes podcast  Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More than Peers by Gordon Neufeld & Gabor Maté  Have questions or suggestions for future episodes or a story of your own experience that you'd like to share? We'd love to hear from you! Send your thoughts to podcast@kolbe.org and be a part of the Kolbecast odyssey.   We'd be grateful for your feedback! Please share your thoughts with us via this Kolbecast survey!  The Kolbecast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and most podcast apps. By leaving a rating and review in your podcast app of choice, you can help the Kolbecast reach more listeners. The Kolbecast is also on Kolbe's YouTube channel (audio only with subtitles).  Using the filters on our website, you can sort through the episodes to find just what you're looking for. However you listen, spread the word about the Kolbecast! 

Are you struggling to connect with your teenager in the digital age? Dr. Gabor Maté and Dr. Gordon Neufeld join Reena & Dr. Lisa to reveal groundbreaking insights into parent-child relationships, tech addiction, and the secret to maintaining a strong bond during the challenging teen years. Discover the neuroscience of attachment, the dangers of digital devices, and how to create a warm, supportive environment that helps teens thrive. This episode is a must-listen for any parent feeling lost or frustrated in the parenting journey. We want to hear from you! What's your biggest challenge in connecting with your teenager? Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers: https://neufeldinstitute.org/resources/hold-on-to-your-kids-book/ Learn more about Children & Screens. ________________ “Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Parenting” is the essential podcast for parents seeking expert guidance, tested strategies, and psychological insights on raising kids, especially tweens and teens. Join renowned clinical psychologist Dr. Lisa Damour and former journalist and mom of two Reena Ninan as they explore real-life parenting challenges.  Looking to learn more about how to boost kids' resilience, build their confidence, or support their emotional well-being? Dr. Lisa and Reena have got you covered! Together they address listener questions about stress, anxiety, social media concerns, school pressures, and challenges in peer relationships. Each episode provides practical advice and science-backed solutions to help parents raise resilient, confident, and emotionally healthy kids. Tune in every week for the latest topics in parenting, child psychology, and family wellness. Get answers to your most pressing parenting questions. New episodes drop every Tuesday.  Check out our Ask Lisa Podcast Playlists. Binge specific topics like Raising Sons, Staying Connected to Your Teen: https://www.youtube.com/@asklisapodcast/playlists ________________ Episode Keywords: attachment, digital addiction, neuroscience, family relationships, communication, social media, parenting tips, dr gordon neufeld, dr gabor maté, hold on to your kids Show Keywords: ask lisa podcast, dr lisa damour, reena ninan, psychology, parenting, podcast, teens, tweens, parenting teens, parenting tweens, teen parenting, tween parenting, parenting tips, parenting advice, positive parenting, parenting podcast, teen behavior, tween challenges, raising tweens, raising teens, parenting hacks, parenting help, family dynamics, kids podcast, mental health, teen mental health, attachment styles, emotional intelligence

Are you struggling to connect with your teenager in the digital age? Dr. Gabor Maté and Dr. Gordon Neufeld join Reena & Dr. Lisa to reveal groundbreaking insights into parent-child relationships, tech addiction, and the secret to maintaining a strong bond during the challenging teen years. Discover the neuroscience of attachment, the dangers of digital devices, and how to create a warm, supportive environment that helps teens thrive. This episode is a must-listen for any parent feeling lost or frustrated in the parenting journey. We want to hear from you! What's your biggest challenge in connecting with your teenager? Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers: https://neufeldinstitute.org/resources/hold-on-to-your-kids-book/ Learn more about Children & Screens. ________________ “Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Parenting” is the essential podcast for parents seeking expert guidance, tested strategies, and psychological insights on raising kids, especially tweens and teens. Join renowned clinical psychologist Dr. Lisa Damour and former journalist and mom of two Reena Ninan as they explore real-life parenting challenges.  Looking to learn more about how to boost kids' resilience, build their confidence, or support their emotional well-being? Dr. Lisa and Reena have got you covered! Together they address listener questions about stress, anxiety, social media concerns, school pressures, and challenges in peer relationships. Each episode provides practical advice and science-backed solutions to help parents raise resilient, confident, and emotionally healthy kids. Tune in every week for the latest topics in parenting, child psychology, and family wellness. Get answers to your most pressing parenting questions. New episodes drop every Tuesday.  Check out our Ask Lisa Podcast Playlists. Binge specific topics like Raising Sons, Staying Connected to Your Teen: https://www.youtube.com/@asklisapodcast/playlists ________________ Episode Keywords: attachment, digital addiction, neuroscience, family relationships, communication, social media, parenting tips, dr gordon neufeld, dr gabor maté, hold on to your kids Show Keywords: ask lisa podcast, dr lisa damour, reena ninan, psychology, parenting, podcast, teens, tweens, parenting teens, parenting tweens, teen parenting, tween parenting, parenting tips, parenting advice, positive parenting, parenting podcast, teen behavior, tween challenges, raising tweens, raising teens, parenting hacks, parenting help, family dynamics, kids podcast, mental health, teen mental health, attachment styles, emotional intelligence

send us a text via Fan Mail!Elizabeth and I discuss strategies when things are difficult in our motherhood and homeschooling.1:35 - We all have bad days   6:30 - Getting through a crisis 9:52 - Lighthearted discipline 11:20 - Getting things done with a baby20:34 - Pregnancy and coping with difficulties 23:02 - How it gets easier 26:17 - Attachment to adult vs. peers 34:04 - Screen time for educationAs an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Gordon Neufeld Revolution of Mercy: How Kindness Changes Everything by Bonnie Landry Homeschooling, simplified: what matters most by Bonnie Landry Support the showContact On Instagram at @make.joy.normal By email at makejoynormal@gmail.com Search podcast episodes by topic Thanks for listening to Make Joy Normal Podcast!

Are you ready to pull your teens and kids from public school to start homeschooling, but don't know where to start!? This is the place. In this episode, we discuss deschooling...and yes, it IS a real thing! This is the second video of 5 in this mini-series. For a deeper dive into the homeschooling transition, check out Episode 1: Beginning the Journey of this podcast. Deschooling Tips Downloadable pdf Deschooling Worksheet Downloadable pdf Weapons of Mass Instruction: A Schoolteacher's Journey Through the Dark World of Compulsory Schooling by John Taylor Gatto Dumbing Us Down by John Taylor Gatto Hold on to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Dr. Gordon Neufeld Free to Learn by Dr. Peter Gray Unschooled by Kerry McDonald The Brave Learner by Julie Bogart Homeschooling 101 Part 1: Laws on YouTube Homeschooling 101 Part 2: Deschooling on YouTube Sign Up for the School to Homeschool Newsletter School to Homeschool YouTube Channel Private Mentoring with Janae: Schedule a Free Discovery Call Etsy Store: Shop for Homeschooling Swag *Please note that some of the links included in this article are Amazon affiliate links. CONNECT with US Join the Private Facebook Group  Connect and follow along with Janae's Journey on Instagram @janae.daniels Learn more about School to Homeschool Contact Janae: schooltohomeschool1@gmail.com

You're listening to Voices of Your Village and today we are sharing an episode we've aired before with Gabor Maté. It's been two years since the air date and it's still one of our most popular episodes because it absolutely slays. I adore him. He's a renowned speaker and bestselling author. Dr. Gabor Maté is highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics including addiction, stress, and childhood development. He's written several bestselling books, I love The Myth of Normal, there are so many more here, Realm of Hungry Ghosts, Close Encounters with Addiction, When the Body Says No, Exploring the Stress -Disease Connection, and Scattered Minds: How Attention Deficit Disorder Originates and What You Can Do About It. He has also co -authored Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More than Peers. He is so profound and I learn from him every time I get to hear him talk. I'm so excited to dive into this episode with you again because I learn new things every time I listen. All right, folks, let's dive in.  Connect with Dr. Gabor Mate: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gabormatemd/ Website: https://drgabormate.com/ Order the book: The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture Connect with us: Instagram: @seed.and.sew  Podcast page: Voices of Your Village Seed and Sew's Regulation Quiz: Take the Quiz Order Tiny Humans, Big Emotions now!  Website: seedandsew.org Music by: Ruby Adams and Bensound Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In today's episode, author, Courtney Carver and I dive into a question that feels more urgent than ever: When was the last time you gave yourself permission to pause, rest, and truly reset? In a world that tells us happiness and success come from doing more and pushing harder, many of us are left feeling like we're never enough. But what if there's another way? Today, we'll explore the transformative wisdom of Courtney's new book, Gentle: Rest More, Stress Less, and Live the Life You Actually Want. Courtney's message is simple yet profound: by embracing rest, releasing what weighs us down, and redefining success, we can step into the life we truly desire—with less overwhelm and more ease.Links Discussed in This Episode |Diane's Resource: Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than PeersConnect with Courtney:InstagramBook: Gentle: Rest More, Stress Less and Live the Life You Actually WantWebsiteAbout Courtney |Courtney Carver is the founder and creator of bemorewithless.com and The Simplicity Space, a membership community supporting and celebrating people as they simplify their lives. She co-hosts the Soul & Wit podcast with her daughter, Bailey, and is the bestselling author of Soulful Simplicity: How Living with Less Can Lead to So Much More and Project 333: The Minimalist Fashion Challenge That Proves Less Really Is So Much More. She has been featured by Good Morning America, the New York Times, and O, The Oprah Magazine. She lives with her husband in Salt Lake City, Utah.Work with Me |If you've been struggling with motivation to work through bad habits that are keeping you stuck, I'd love to help you achieve your goals! We'll work together (locally or virtually) to discover what areas in your life are high priority to get you feeling less overwhelmed right away. For more info on my processes, fees, and availability please contact!Episode Sponsors |Clear Intentions would not be possible without the support of weekly sponsors. Choosing brands that I believe in is important to me. I only want to recommend brands that I believe may help you in your daily life. As always, never feel pressured into buying anything. Remember: if you don't need it, it's not a good deal!Cymbiotika: Go to Cymbiotika.com/Minimalist for 20% off your order + free shipping today Hungry Root: Get 40% off your first box PLUS get a free item in every box for life. Go to Hungryroot.com/minimalist and use code minimalist.Enjoy the Podcast?Post a review and share it! If you enjoyed tuning into this podcast, then do not hesitate to write a review. Please share with friends that could be inspired by the wisdom of each and every guest!Further Questions |You can contact me through my website, find me on Instagram, Pinterest or like The Minimalist Moms Page on Facebook.Checkout the podcast storefront for recommendations from Diane (and a FULL list of previous guests' books!)Grab a copy of my first book Minimalist Moms: Living and Parenting with SimplicityCheckout a list of my past collaborative podcasts here!Our Sponsors:* Check out Acorns: https://acornsearly.com/MINIMALIST* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code MINIMALIST for a great deal: https://happymammoth.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/minimalist-moms-podcast2093/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This season of your life won't last forever--even though it seems like it will never end. Embrace the mess. The beauty is on the other side. Watch This Episode on YouTube Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Gordon Neufeld  Get the "Making a Magical Christmas Open & Go Experience" Private Mentoring with Janae: Schedule a Free Discovery Call Etsy Store: Shop for Homeschooling Swag BONUS: Making a Magical Christmas Workshop YOUTUBE BONUS: Making a Magical Christmas Audio Only *Please note that some of the links included in this article are Amazon affiliate links. CONNECT with US Join the Private Facebook Group  Connect and follow along with Janae's Journey on Instagram @janae.daniels Learn more about School to Homeschool

On today's episode, we hear about:  A woman who's being harassed by her ex-husband  A man struggling to establish a sleep routine  A mom seeking advice on how to maintain a relationship with her teenage daughter  Next Steps: Follow Dr. Matthew Walker on Instagram: @drmattwalker

This episode is brought to you by Momentous, Pique Life, and Air Doctor.  Despite our society's obsession with wellness, we're dealing with more chronic disease, mental illness, and addiction than ever before. What's at the root of society's most pressing issues? Today's guest is here to share his expertise and insight on this topic and more.  Today on The Dhru Purohit Show, we are rerunning one of our favorite episodes with Dr. Gabor Maté about his book, The Myth of Normal, and our crisis of separation, disconnection, and loneliness. Dhru and Dr. Maté discuss the link between addiction, our profit-driven culture, and trauma and the first steps we can take toward health and healing. Dr. Gabor Maté is a renowned speaker and bestselling author and is highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics, including addiction, stress, and childhood development. Dr. Maté has written several bestselling books, including the award-winning In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction, When the Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease Connection, and Scattered: How Attention Deficit Disorder Originates and What You Can Do About It and has coauthored Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His latest book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture, was just released. In this episode, Dhru and Dr. Maté dive into (audio version / Apple Subscriber version): What we've gotten used to in our toxic culture and its consequences (2:31 / 2:31) How society shapes our mind (12:02 / 8:33) The crisis of separation we're living in and its role in our toxic culture (17:49 / 14:20) The role genes play in human health and behavior (34:42 / 29:33) Gabor's childhood trauma and its impact on his life (38:49 / 33:40) Understanding trauma and how it shapes the way we live, love, and make sense of the world (46:29 / 41:20) What society gains from living in this toxic culture (53:39 / 48:30) Why women suffer from more anxiety, depression, and autoimmune disease than men (1:09:30 / 1:04:20) Personality traits and coping mechanisms (1:14:00 / 1:11:00) Psychedelics and healing (1:20:20 / 1:15:10) For more on Dr. Maté, follow him on Instagram, Facebook, X/Twitter, YouTube, and his website.  This episode is brought to you by Momentous, Pique Life, and Air Doctor.  Optimize your energy and mental clarity with the purest form of creatine made by and used by the best. Go to livemomentous.com and enter promo code DHRU to get 20% off any order.  Right now, Pique Life is offering 15% off the Radiant Skin Duo plus a free beaker and frother when you go to piquelife.com/dhru. AirDoctor is offering my community $300 off. Just go to dhrupurohit.com/filter/ to clean up your home's air and feel better today.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Pastor Tim Bayly is joined by his son, Joseph (Senior Pastor at Christ Church in Cincinnati), and son-in-law, Lucas Weeks (College and Administrative Pastor at Trinity Reformed Church in Bloomington, IN) to discuss parenting.We often think that our parenting is a failure if we have to resort to authority. That attitude is foolishness and an abandonment of God's rules for parenting. Our fears and modern psychologists have trained us to believe that authority is antithetical to having your child's heart. We must be reminded that if we intend to hold on to our children, obedience to God is the only way. No one would deny that mothers and fathers have duties regarding their children, but many are willing to dispute that children have duties regarding their parents. Parents ought to serve and love their children, but also children ought to serve and love their parents. ***Mentions during the show:First, the podcast starts out talking about this book: Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peersby Gordon Neufeld and Gabor MatéSecond, we mention this book:Shepherding a Child's Heartby Ted TrippThird, I read from this book:The Thing (the chapter I read from is titled, “The Drift from Domesticity”)by G. K. ChestertonJoseph mentioned:Technopoly: The Surrender of Culture to TechnologyBy Neil Postman***Out of Our Minds Podcast: Pastors Who Say What They Think. For the love of Christ and His Church.Out of Our Minds is a production of New Geneva Academy. Are you interested in preparing for ordained ministry with pastors? Have a desire to grow in your knowledge and fear of God? Apply at www.newgenevaacademy.com.Master of DivinityBachelor of DivinityCertificate in Bible & TheologyGroundwork: The Victory of Christ & The Great ConversationIntro and outro music is Psalm of the King, Psalm 21 by My Soul Among Lions.Out of Our Minds audio, artwork, episode descriptions, and notes are property of New Geneva Academy and Warhorn Media, published with permission by Transistor, Inc. ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★

Author Andee Martineu joins us to discuss one of her favorite books, Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté. Guest Bio Andee Martineau is a parenting coach and mom of six who specializes in helping parents all over the world raise their kids without yelling, ultimatums or bribes. Using her Connect Method Parenting techniques, she has taught thousands of moms to feel more in control of family life, stress less, get their kids to listen, and more. Andee is a former registered nurse who brings to her clients years of hands-on experience raising her own children (ages 13-22) and coursework in developmental psychology as well as certifications in life coaching and integrative health coaching. Andee is the author of ‘Connect Method Parenting: how to get your kids to WANT to listen to you without the yelling, ultimatums, and bribes'. When she's not spreading her message that parenting is about connecting and not correcting, you can find her relaxing at the creek next to her home. She lives in a cabin in the woods of Utah with her husband, children and their Sheepadoodle, Leia.   For episode homepage, resources and links, visit: https://kristenmanieri.com/episode297/    Learn more about coaching: Kristen@kristenmanieri.com    Mentioned in this Episode   Guest's website: http://connectmethodparenting.com     Book: Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté https://www.amazon.com/Hold-Your-Kids-Parents-Matter/dp/0375760288  Host Bio Kristen Manieri is a coach who works with teams to increase both productivity and wellbeing. She also helps individuals navigate transition with clarity and confidence. Her areas of focus are: stress reduction, energy management, mindset, resilience, habit formation, rest rituals, and self-care. As the host of the weekly 60 Mindful Minutes podcast, an Apple top 100 social science podcast, Kristen has interviewed over 200 authors about what it means to live a more conscious, connected, intentional and joyful life. Learn more at kristenmanieri.com/work-with-me.    Learn more about coaching: Kristen@kristenmanieri.com  Connect with the 60 Mindful Minutes podcast   Web: https://kristenmanieri.com  Email: Kristen@kristenmanieri.com    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/60MindfulMinutes Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kristenmanieri_/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/kristenmanieri/

Hidden sources of stress — and how to beat them. Also: the myth of normal, the necessity of being disillusioned, and the disutility of comparing your suffering.Description: There's so much to be grateful for in modern medicine. We can all agree that we would not do as well in a world with no Advil or dentistry. And yet, our guest today, who is a renowned doctor, says modern medicine is overlooking something crucial: the pernicious impact that modern living has on our minds and bodies. In other words, we are surrounded by these hidden societal and structural sources of stress and we aren't thinking about how to treat and prevent these factors that are degrading our happiness and our immune systems. Dr. Gabor Maté is a bestselling author with an expertise on everything from stress to addiction to ADHD. His latest book is called, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic CultureContent Warning: This episode has mentions of child abuse, sexual trauma, suicide and addictionIn this episode we talk about:What he means by “the myth of normal”How diseases, such as autoimmune conditions, are an “artifact of civilization”How to begin to tackle what Dr. Maté calls, “the social sources of illness” His definition of trauma and the difference between “big T traumatic events” and the trauma of “wounding”How trauma in society is so normalized that we don't even recognize itWhether the term trauma is overusedWhy comparing suffering is a fruitless endeavor What he means by “the necessity to be disillusioned” The power and possibility of psychedelics Why he thinks we should incorporate shamanic medicine into our western medical frameworkAnd what he means by “undoing self-limiting beliefs” and how these beliefs show up in our everyday livesFull Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/gabor-mate-archiveWhere to find Gabor Maté online: Website: drgabormate.comSocial Media:TwitterFacebookInstagramYouTubeBooks Mentioned:The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic CultureWhen the Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease ConnectionScattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit DisorderIn the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than PeersOther Resources Mentioned:The Wisdom of Trauma Posttraumatic Stress Disorder Is Associated with Increased Risk of Ovarian Cancer: A Prospective and Retrospective Longitudinal Cohort StudyDecrease in depression symptoms is associated with longer survival in patients with metastatic breast cancer: a secondary analysisMarital Status, Marital Strain, and Risk of Coronary Heart Disease or Total Mortality: The Framingham Offspring StudyGeorge EngelHow spanking may affect brain development in childrenThe Trauma of Everyday Life by Dr. Mark EpsteinIntraConnected: MWe (Me + We) as the Integration of Self, Identity, and Belonging by Dr. Dan SiegelA. H. AlmaasSign up for Dan's weekly newsletter hereFollow Dan on social: Instagram, TikTokTen Percent Happier online bookstoreSubscribe to our YouTube ChannelOur favorite playlists on: Anxiety, Sleep, Relationships, Most Popular EpisodesAdditional Resources:Download the Ten Percent Happier app today: https://10percenthappier.app.link/installSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode I get to talk with my friend, Leslie Martino, wife, mom to 4, speaker, author and curator of relationships. I like to say that cultivating relationships is one of Leslie's superpowers. In what is becoming a trend, I was moved to tears multiple times in this episode. Talking with Leslie will do that to you. She is so calm, loving and warm. She is also honest and says the hard things. I absolutely loved our time together and I know you will too.  Here's some more of what we talked about: I recommended this book to Leslie when I found out she loves miniature things: The Borrowers. Get the whole series here. We recently read this book in our kid book club: learn how to start your own kid, or adult, book club here. Leslie loves trying new things, which shows her kids they don't have to fear failure and that they are free to be a learner. Learn more about this idea here. Leslie and her husband intentionally pursued connection with their kids from the beginning, but she had a key insight early on: making mistakes as parents was their biggest motivator to pursue relationship with their kids. She realized that if she didn't make changes she'd destroy relationship rather than foster it: “I can do just as much good as I can do damage. I can be better.” Another key insight from Leslie into cultivating relationship with our kids: “Look at your children with a lens of gratitude” rather than as people we want to shape and change. A key word stands out as Leslie describes the way her parents cultivated connection with her as a child: available. Leslie's mother was physically and emotionally available.  Cultivating a strong relationship with parents as an adult child has a lot to do with: forgiveness. Gratitude also changes a fractured relationship Leslie reminds us to include our parents: invite them because they might be wondering “where is my place in my adult child's life?” Everybody likes to be invited. A book that reminds us that connecting with our kids does not have to be complicated is: Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. More ideas for creating simple connection points with your kids can be found on Leslie's free downloadable 30 Days of Connection Calendar More tips for creating connection with your kids: connection can be body to body—hugs and squeezes. Be in their physical space—hang out in their room and talk to them. Make eye contact during a conversation. Invite kids into your space too—like cooking with your kids, telling them about the book you're reading, sharing your prayer requests, inviting them on errands, helping them with their chores. Give them your time. Give them your attention. We need to make sure we're seeing our kids! Leslie tells us she's chasing joy right now by learning about neuroplasticity and engaging in activities that grow and change her brain.  Be sure to visit Leslie's website here to find more of her work.  Follow along with her in Insta here. And don't forget to look for her book, coming this summer!  Don't forget to like and subscribe to this podcast, and I'd be so very grateful if you leave a review of the podcast on iTunes.  Reviews are incredibly helpful to me as a new podcaster. Thank you for listening and being part of my team.  I love you guys! Greta 

Today we are revisiting one of my favorite podcast episodes that I've ever recorded, with the magnificent Gabor Maté. We talk about defining trauma, solving our internal psychological wounds, exploring relationships, and what it truly means to be vulnerable - amongst many other really important topics. Dr. Maté is one of my favorite people on the planet, and one of the world's leading psychologists - particularly in the realm of addiction. He's the author of ‘When The Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease Connection' and his most recent book, ‘The Myth of Normal'. Gabor is such an exemplary human being in every way possible, so I hope you get a lot from this episode. Thank you once again for tuning in. Be sure to share it with your friends, your family. Gabor Maté shares wisdom that every person in the world should hear.If you find yourself coming back to the podcast, make sure to hit that follow button and consider leaving us a kind review.  I hope you love this episode, and I'll catch you again next week! Enjoy Dr. Gabor Maté. More About Gabor: A renowned speaker and bestselling author, Dr. Gabor Maté is highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics including addiction, stress, and childhood development. Dr. Maté has written several bestselling books, including the award-winning In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction, When the Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease Connection, and Scattered: How Attention Deficit Disorder Originates and What You Can Do About It, and has coauthored Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His works have been published internationally in nearly thirty languages. Where To Find Gabor: Website Instagram Facebook YouTube Thank You To Our Sponsors: In addition to the discount you get by using promo code ALIGN10, you can get gifts with a purchase - up to 2 travel size bottles of Magnesium Breakthrough. Act Fast - this is a limited time offer! Go now to http://www.bioptimizers.com/align

SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODETeach Your Kids: LinkedIn | Website | X | Instagram | Substack | Facebook | TikTokManisha: LinkedIn | X | Instagram | FacebookLeonard Sax: Website | Email Join our premium community for expert support and advice on homeschoolingTeach Your Kids Podcast EpisodesDr. Gordon Neufeld on Redefining Parental Power & ConnectionBooks, Articles, and PublicationsThe Collapse of Parenting: How We Hurt Our Kids When We Treat Them Like Grown-Ups - Leonard SaxBoys Adrift - Leonard SaxGirls on the Edge: Why So Many Girls Are Anxious, Wired, and Obsessed--And What Parents Can Do - Leonard SaxWhy Gender Matters, Second Edition: What Parents and Teachers Need to Know About the Emerging Science of Sex Differences - Leonard SaxFailing At Fairness: How Our Schools Cheat Girls - Myra Sadker, David SadkerOf Boys and Men: Why the Modern Male Is Struggling, Why It Matters, and What to Do about It - Richard ReevesManning Up: How the Rise of Women Has Turned Men into Boys - Kay S Hymowitz Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers - Gordon Neufeld, Gabor Maté MD Rise in social media usage among Africa's young people raises concernMemo to the Surgeon General: Right Diagnosis, Wrong Treatment | Institute for Family StudiesIs TikTok Dangerous for Teens? | Institute for Family StudiesShould Boys Start Kindergarten One Year Later Than Girls?More women than men have college degrees. That's good news for Democrats.A Generation of American Men Give Up on College: ‘I Just Feel Lost' - WSJReclaiming kindergarten: Making kindergarten less harmful to boys. Sax, L. (2001). Psychology of Men & Masculinity Young Children's Feelings about School. Valeski, T. N., & Stipek, D. J. (2003). Child DevelopmentStarting Strong IV Early Childhood Education and Care Data Country Note: FinlandCourses/WorkshopsBoys AdriftTikTok Ate My Daughter, and My Son Won't Stop Playing Video Games Related ResourcesProgram for International Student Assessment (PISA)Podcast: Risk Reaps Rewards with Dr. Leonard and Sarah Sax | Plugged InThis site contains product affiliate links. We may receive a commission if you make a purchase after clicking on one of these links.  Time Codes00:00:00 - Introduction to the podcast and Dr. Leonard Sax by Manisha Snoyer.00:01:31 - Overview of Dr. Sax's expertise and work in child and adolescent development.00:02:49 - Discussion on the academic achievement gap between men and women.00:07:19 - The reasons behind the gender gap in educational attainment.00:13:27 - Boys' attitudes towards education and school's appeal to them.00:20:56 - Exploring gender differences and their impact on children's choices.00:31:11 - Discussion on the differences in brain development between boys and girls.00:35:17 - Exploring the right age for teaching phonics and handwriting.00:40:01 - Comparing Finnish and American education systems.00:44:22 - The impacts of early learning and parental expectations.00:47:43 - Parental authority in school choice decisions.00:50:15 - The rise of obesity in children and parental control over diet.00:53:19 - The importance of parent-child relationships.00:54:18 - Concluding thoughts on authority and freedom in homeschooling.This podcast is made possible through a generous grant from the Vela Education FundVELA Education Fund is catalyzing a vibrant alternative education ecosystem. VELA provides trust-based funding to entrepreneurs, fosters community-building and knowledge-sharing, and increases visibility through storytelling that promotes cultural awareness and acceptance of the out-of-system space. Today, VELA serves the largest community of out-of-system education entrepreneurs in the country, with over 2,000 community members. About half of VELA's community members operate small learning environments, and the other half are ecosystem and community builders offering direct services and support across the out-of-system space. Learn more at velaedfund.org.

Chapter 1 Reveal the true moral of the Hold On to Your Kids bookHold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers is a book written by Dr. Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté. In this book, Neufeld and Maté explore the challenges parents face in modern society, where the influence of peers can sometimes outweigh the influence of parents. They delve into the importance of attachment between parents and children, and how to strengthen that bond to ensure children can navigate the world confidently and securely. The authors provide insight and guidance on various topics, including discipline, education, and technology, with the aim of helping parents reclaim their role as the primary influence in their children's lives.Chapter 2 Shall we Read the Hold On to Your Kids book ？Opinions on the book "Hold On to Your Kids" by Gordon Neufeld may differ among readers. However, it generally receives positive reviews and is considered a valuable resource for parents. The book argues that in the modern world, children are increasingly influenced by peer culture rather than their parents, leading to various problems such as early sexualization, bullying, and detachment from family. Neufeld offers practical advice to help parents regain their authority, strengthen their connection with their children, and promote healthy development. It is recommended for parents looking to deepen their understanding of parent-child relationships and find effective strategies for raising secure and resilient children.Chapter 3 Key Points of the Hold On to Your Kids book"Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers" is a book written by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté. It explores the importance of strong parental attachments and the impact of peer orientation on children.The book argues that traditional parenting is being undermined by societal and cultural shifts that prioritize peer relationships over parental connection. Neufeld suggests that peer orientation, defined as children looking to their peers for direction and validation instead of their parents, leads to various negative consequences, including adolescents engaging in risky behaviors and struggling with emotional and mental health issues.Neufeld proposes that in order to counter the influence of peers, parents need to establish and maintain a secure attachment with their children. He emphasizes the importance of a parent's role as a guide, mentor, and provider of emotional security. The book provides practical strategies and advice for parents to strengthen their connection with their children and nurture their attachment.Neufeld also explores the impact of technology, media, and the educational system on children's attachment to their parents. He discusses the role of parents in buffering the negative effects of these external influences and encourages them to provide a healthy and balanced environment for their children.Overall, "Hold On to Your Kids" presents a compelling argument for the crucial role parents play in their children's lives. It addresses the challenges and pressures faced by parents in the modern world and offers practical guidance on how to establish and maintain a strong parent-child relationship.Chapter 4 the Hold On to Your Kids book Author Bio The book "Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers" is authored by Dr. Gordon Neufeld, a developmental psychologist, and Gabor Maté, a physician. The book was first published in 2004.Apart from "Hold On to Your Kids," Dr. Gordon Neufeld has written several other books,...

SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODETeach Your Kids: LinkedIn | Website | X | Instagram | Substack | Facebook | TikTokManisha: LinkedIn | X | Instagram | FacebookLesley Grossblatt: LinkedIn | Medium | XJoin our premium community with expert support and adviceSparking Independent Learning with Strewing | Modulo - Lesley GrossblattTeach Your Kids Podcast EpisodesRaising Gifted Learners With Megan Cannella: Insights From a Gifted Learning Specialist About Identifying and Supporting Gifted KidsDr. Gordon Neufeld on Redefining Parental Power & ConnectionBut what about socialization?Teach Your Kids Blog PostsBut what about childcare? - Teach Your KidsBooks and ArticlesFree to Learn: Why Unleashing the Instinct to Play Will Make Our Children Happier, More Self-Reliant, and Better Students for Life - Peter GrayHold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers - Gordon Neufeld, Gabor Maté MDThe Gifted Kids' Survival Guide: For Ages 10 & Under - Judy Galbraith M.A.The Gifted Teen Survival Guide: Smart, Sharp, and Ready for (Almost) Anything  - Judy Galbraith M.A.Unschooling Podcasts and Websites The Exploring Unschooling PodcastUnschooling Mom2MomStrewing CalendarUnschooling SchoolOnline ClassesCreativeLiveMasterClassKhan Academy Related ResourcesHomeschool Association of CaliforniaSudbury school - WikipediaWhat Are You Learning?Young StorytellersThis site contains product affiliate links. We may receive a commission if you make a purchase after clicking on one of these links.  Time Codes00:00:00 — Introduction: Manisha welcomes Lesley Grossblatt00:01:09 — Lesley shares her personal journey into unschooling00:03:53 — Discussing the concept of crisis homeschooling00:10:40 — The significance of the de-schooling process in unschooling00:17:05 — Lesley's perspective on the learner-driven approach of unschooling00:21:17 — Utilizing video games and technology as educational tools in unschooling00:29:48 — How Lesley tailored Japanese language learning for her child's interests00:34:31 — Addressing fears and misconceptions about unschooling00:38:45 — Lesley's older child's transition from unschooling to traditional high school00:46:40 — Exploring the concept of strewing in unschooling00:52:20 — Balancing unschooling with full-time work and nurturing children's independence00:55:30 — Lesley discusses integrating life skills into unschooling and shares her experience working with education entrepreneurs00:59:02 — The importance of community support in the unschooling journey01:03:25 — How Lesley manages time and resources for unschooling01:07:00 — Final thoughts and conclusion of the interviewThis podcast is made possible through a generous grant from the Vela Education Fund VELA Education Fund is catalyzing a vibrant alternative education ecosystem. VELA provides trust-based funding to entrepreneurs, fosters community-building and knowledge-sharing, and increases visibility through storytelling that promotes cultural awareness and acceptance of the out-of-system space. Today, VELA serves the largest community of out-of-system education entrepreneurs in the country, with over 2,000 community members. About half of VELA's community members operate small learning environments, and the other half are ecosystem and community builders offering direct services and support across the out-of-system space. Learn more at velaedfund.org.

SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODETeach Your Kids: Website | LinkedIn | X | Instagram | Substack | FacebookManisha: LinkedIn | X | Instagram | FacebookNeufeld Institute: Website | Facebook | YouTubeJoin our premium community with expert support and adviceTeach Your Kids Podcast EpisodesHomeschooling a Quantum Innovator: Meet 15-Year-Old JasmineTeach Your Kids Blog PostsBut what about "Socialization"?BooksHold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers - Gordon Neufeld Posts Parenting in Stressful Time Part I: How to be Your Child's “Best Bet”Parenting in Stressful Times – Part II: Holding On During the ReboundCourses/WorkshopsNeufeld InstituteNeufeld`s Model of AttachmentPower to ParentYouTubeDr Gordon Neufeld - Becoming the Answer a Child NeedsMiscellaneousNeil PostmanJean PiagetAbraham Maslow B.F. SkinnerCarl RogersJean-Jacques RousseauThis site contains product affiliate links. We may receive a commission if you make a purchase after clicking on one of these links.  Time Codes00:00:00 — Introduction: Manisha Snoyer discusses individualized education and social-emotional learning.00:00:33 — Manisha introduces Dr. Gordon Neufeld, shedding light on his expertise.00:01:23 — The rise of peer culture is examined.00:04:57 — Are social skills developed by peer grouping? Manisha seeks Dr. Neufeld's input.00:07:00 — Dr. Neufeld dissects the role of conflict in development.00:09:01 — Emotional skills in children: Dr. Neufeld talks about the role of mixed feelings.00:12:42 — Terminology matters: The word "skills" is put under the microscope00:15:20 — The importance of parental confidence and love is highlighted.00:18:03] — Dr. Neufeld introduces 'cascading care'.00:21:23 — Real-life parenting struggles: Manisha shares anecdotes.00:26:00 — Dr. Neufeld expresses his concern about homeschooling.00:29:54 — Power vs. Coercion: A nuanced discussion unfolds.00:35:00 — Dr. Neufeld argues against sculpting children.00:41:13 — Manisha debunks the myth that bullying strengthens children.00:50:31 — Cultivating relationships: Dr. Neufeld and Manisha Snoyer agree that it's never too late or too early. This podcast is made possible through a generous grant from the Vela Education FundVELA Education Fund is catalyzing a vibrant alternative education ecosystem. VELA provides trust-based funding to entrepreneurs, fosters community-building and knowledge-sharing, and increases visibility through storytelling that promotes cultural awareness and acceptance of the out-of-system space. Today, VELA serves the largest community of out-of-system education entrepreneurs in the country, with over 2,000 community members. About half of VELA's community members operate small learning environments, and the other half are ecosystem and community builders offering direct services and support across the out-of-system space. Learn more at velaedfund.org.

This is a conversation between new friends and neighbors.The only in-person interview recorded, Rahel came to Jeana's home on a weeknight and they had the luxury to sit and talk together. Jeana wanted to pick her brain about books she's reading, her philosophies on parenting, and how she completely transformed her life from a former costume designer living in Los Angeles to a health advocate, herbalist, homeschooling mama and Vermont farmer. Resources as mentioned:The Work of John Taylor GattoHold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté MD About Rahel AfileyRahel is a homeschooling mama of two spirited children. She is also a health advocate, herbalist, nutritionist and a Buteyko breathing coach. Rahel's passion for researching health led her to leave her career as a costume designer in Hollywood and pursue a career in holistic healing. When she is not taking clients, Rahel spends her time milking cows, farming and getting involved in community activities with her children.Follow her work here @haellanhealth Credits:Created and produced by Amy Keller and Jeana DonovanEdited by Jeana Donovan and Amy KellerMusic contribution by Casey SullivanCover design by Jeana Donovan JOIN THE MOTHERSHIP COLLECTIVE ON SUBSTACK.READ THE FULL ARTICLE HERE. 

Dr. Gabor Maté talks to us about how to reconnect with your feelings, trust your instincts, and help kids express emotions in healthy ways. If you enjoyed this episode, and it inspired you in some way, I'd love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to your Instagram stories, and tag me @mindfulmamamentor. Have you left a review yet? All you have to do is go to Apple Podcasts or  Stitcher (or wherever you listen), and thanks for your support of the show! Gabor Maté, MD, (pronunciation: GAH-bor MAH-tay) is a retired physician who, after 20 years of family practice and palliative care experience, worked for over a decade in Vancouver's Downtown East Side with patients challenged by drug addiction and mental illness. The bestselling author of four books published in thirty languages, Gabor is an internationally renowned speaker highly sought after for his expertise on addiction, trauma, childhood development, and the relationship of stress and illness. His book on addiction received the Hubert Evans Prize for literary non-fiction. For his groundbreaking medical work and writing he has been awarded the Order of Canada, his country's highest civilian distinction, and the Civic Merit Award from his hometown, Vancouver. His books include In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction; When the Body Says No; The Cost of Hidden Stress; Scattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder; and (with Gordon Neufeld) Hold on to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His next book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture will be published on September 13, 2022 and is available to pre-order now. To learn more, join his e-news list at www.drgabormate.com. Get Hunter's best selling book, Raising Good Humans now! Over 200,000 copies sold! Click here to order and get book bonuses! And now Hunter's newly released book, Raising Good Humans Every Day, is available to order! Click here to get your copy! ABOUT HUNTER CLARKE-FIELDS: Hunter Clarke-Fields is a mindful mama mentor. She coaches smart, thoughtful parents on how to create calm and cooperation in their daily lives. Hunter has over 20 years of experience in mindfulness practices. She has taught thousands worldwide. Be a part of the tribe—we're over 25 thousand strong! Join the Mindful Parenting membership. Take your learning further! Get my Top 2 Best Tools to Stop Yelling AND the Mindful Parenting Roadmap for FREE at: mindfulmamamentor.com/stopyelling/ Find more podcasts, blog posts, free resources, and how to work with Hunter at MindfulMamaMentor.com. We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on our website: https://mindfulmamamentor.com/mindful-mama-podcast-sponsors/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODETeach Your Kids: Website | LinkedIn | X | Instagram | Substack | FacebookManisha: LinkedIn | X | Instagram | FacebookLisa Betts-LaCroix: Website | LinkedIn | Super Power U Podcast | FacebookNir Eyal: Website | LinkedIn | X | Facebook | Nir and Far PodcastKerry McDonald: LiberatED Podcast | Website | X | Instagram | FacebookShiren Rattigan: Colossal Academy | LinkedIN | Instagram | XNaval Ravikant: Airchat | LinkedIn | X | Podcast | YouTubeRachel Thomas: Fast.ai | LinkedIn | X | FacebookAlycia Wright: Cultural Roots Homeschool Co-op| LinkedIn | Instagram | FacebookJoin our premium community with expert support and adviceJoin the Conversation on AirchatHomeschooling Room: https://getairchat.com/manisharose/homeschoolingRelated Teach Your Kids Podcast EpisodesHomeschooling with Naval Ravikant, Nir Eyal, Rachel Thomas, Kerry McDonald, Alycia Wright, Shiren Rattigan, and Lisa Betts-Lacroix: Part 1But what about socialization?Raising Indistractable Kids: Nir Eyal's Unconventional Approach to HomeschoolingMicroschooling with Iman Alleyne & Shiren RattiganThe Future of Educational Choice: Kerry McDonald Unpacks it AllTeach Your Kids: Game-Based Learning: The Prodigy Approach with Rohan Mahimker Blog PostsSo, what's the big deal about "Mastery Learning"?

SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODETeach Your Kids: Website | LinkedIn | X | Instagram | Substack | FacebookManisha: LinkedIn | X | Instagram | FacebookLisa Betts-LaCroix: Website | LinkedIn | Super Power U Podcast | FacebookNir Eyal: Website | LinkedIn | X | Facebook | Nir and Far PodcastKerry McDonald: LiberatED Podcast | Website | X | Instagram | FacebookShiren Rattigan: Colossal Academy | LinkedIN | Instagram | XNaval Ravikant: Airchat | LinkedIn | X | Podcast | YouTubeRachel Thomas: Fast.ai | LinkedIn | X | FacebookAlycia Wright: Cultural Roots Homeschool Co-op| LinkedIn | Instagram | FacebookJoin our premium community with expert support and adviceJoin the Conversation on AirchatHomeschooling Room: https://getairchat.com/manisharose/homeschoolingRelated Teach Your Kids Podcast EpisodesBut what about socialization?Raising Indistractable Kids: Nir Eyal's Unconventional Approach to HomeschoolingMicroschooling with Iman Alleyne & Shiren RattiganThe Future of Educational Choice: Kerry McDonald Unpacks it AllTeach Your Kids: Game-Based Learning: The Prodigy Approach with Rohan Mahimker Blog PostsSo, what's the big deal about "Mastery Learning"?

Mentioned in this Episode: Dr. MacNamara's Online Courseshttps://macnamara.ca/online-courses Books: Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Dr. Gordon Neufeld, and Dr. Gabor Matéhttps://neufeldinstitute.org/resources/hold-on-to-your-kids-book/ Nourished: Connection, Food, and Caring For Our Kids (and everyone else we love) by Dr. Deborah MacNamarahttps://neufeldinstitute.org/resources/dr-macnamaras-nourished/ Rest, Play, Grow: Making Sense of Preschoolers (Or Anyone Who Acts Like One) Dr. Deborah MacNamarahttps://neufeldinstitute.org/resources/rest-play-grow/ What Young Children Need You to Know by Bridgett Millerhttps://www.bridgettmiller.com/what-young-children-need-you-to-know/ For more on Dr. MacNamara, you can follow her on Instagram @drdeborahmacnamara and through the websites https://neufeldinstitute.org/person/deborah-macnamara/ and  https://macnamara.ca/.

Today we embark on a profound journey exploring the challenges of parenting a child experiencing Rapid-Onset Gender Dysphoria (ROGD). Alan and I delve into the emotional rollercoaster that parents often experience when their child exhibits signs of ROGD, including stress, pain, and confusion, before embarking on Alan's experience pursuing psychedelic treatment for complex PTSD to alleviate the secondary impact of his trauma symptoms on his family. Alan shares his transformative experience with meditation, the relationship between meditation and spirituality, how spirituality can provide solace and guidance during challenging times, and how meditation can help parents build emotional confidence. We also delve into the connection between psychedelics and meditation in the context of healing and personal growth, Alan shares how insights uncovered during his psychedelic journeys inform how he navigates ROGD parenting. For those interested in this therapeutic path, we provide practical (not medical) advice on using psychedelics safely and effectively, addressing matters of harm reduction, micro dosing and guided journeys, along with important do's and don'ts of set and setting. Drawing parallels between the dynamics of cults and certain aspects of the transgender movement is a crucial part of today's discussion where emotional and psychological traits can make individuals vulnerable to both. This week's episode offers a comprehensive investigation into the challenges parents of ROGD children face, the role of trauma, and the transformative power of meditation and psychedelic therapy. Thank you for joining us! In our discussion today, I mentioned some recently aired episodes of Some Kind of Therapist: 53. Awakening Beyond Transition with Laura Becker59. Cat Cattinson on Reclaiming Her Voice After Detransition62. To Suffer Well: Detransition, Psychedelics, and Faith, with Torren Danowski69. Parents with Inconvenient Truths about Trans: Gigi & JosieAlong with some other podcasts that offer great tools for mindfulness like “Waking Up” with Sam Harris which can be found here. Or if you're interested in learning more about psychedelics, check out the Multidisciplinary Association for Psychedelic Studies, here. I also mentioned some great books in this episode including, “The Collapse of Parenting” by Leonard Sax and “Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers” by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté MD, both of which can be found in my bookshop!And we mentioned Alan's article on PITT, which can be found here. If you enjoyed this conversation, please rate & review it on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. Share this episode with a friend, or on social media. You can also head over to my YouTube channel, subscribe, like, comment, & share there as well.To get $200 off your EightSleep Pod Pro Cover visit EightSleep.com & enter promo code SOMETHERAPIST.Take 20% off your entire purchase of nourishing superfood beverages at Organifi with code SOMETHERAPIST.Be sure to check out my shop. In addition to wellness products, you can now find my favorite books!MUSIC: Special thanks to Joey Pecoraro for our theme song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude and permission. www.joeypecoraro.comPRODUCTION: Thanks to Eric and Amber Beels at DifMix.comYou can now watch NO WAY BACK: The Reality of Gender-Affirming Care (our medical ethics documentary, formerly known as Affirmation Generation). Stream the film or purchase a DVD. Use promo code SOMETHERAPIST to take 20% off your order. nowaybackfilm.com Follow us on Twitter @2022affirmation or on Instagram at @affirmationgeneration.Have a question for me? Looking to go deeper and discuss these ideas with other listeners? Join my Locals community! Members get to ask questions I will respond to in exclusive, members-only livestreams, plus other perks TBD.Get your first month free with promo code GRANDFATHER; after that, it's only $8/month. Check it out at somekindoftherapist.locals.com. ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★

Manisha Snoyer explores the intricate subject of socialization, with a particular emphasis on homeschooling, by addressing misconceptions, sharing personal experiences, and offering practical guidance. She refutes the stereotype that homeschoolers are antisocial, highlighting the diversity and vibrancy within these communities. From discussing her own loneliness as a business owner to detailing the multifaceted approach to socialization, Snoyer offers insights into building friendships in both homeschooling and traditional environments. Emphasizing the role of parents, community, and inclusivity, she showcases various strategies to foster connections. Whether it's joining online groups, engaging in after-school activities, or even considering relocation, Manisha's ideas encourage a balanced and open-minded approach to homeschooling. SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODEJoin the Modulo premium community  for more expert support and advice on all things homeschooling. SEA HOMESCHOOLERSBlossom & RootEarly YearsKindergarten1st Grade2nd Grade3rd Grade4th Grade5th GradeBlossom and Root - FacebookBumble For Friends Appr/homeschool: Homeschool: Resources, Curriculum, & Homeschooling SupportSlifka Scholarship - Brandeis UniversityStudy finds high school students form more cliques, but counselors say social media blurs the lines - Chicago TribuneNetwork Ecology and Adolescent Social Structure - Daniel A. McFarland, James Moody,David Diehl, Jeffrey A. Smith, and Reuben J. ThomasBut what about "Socialization"?Thirty-three wonderful ways to make friends as a modular learnerModulo's socialization surveyHow To Talk So Kids Can Learn - ​​Adele Faber, Elaine MazlishHold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers - Gordon Neufeld, Gabor Maté, MDThe Different Drum: Community Making and Peace - M. Scott PeckThis site contains product affiliate links. We may receive a commission if you make a purchase after clicking on one of these links.Time Codes:[00:00:20] Manisha Snoyer introduces the topic of socialization, particularly in the context of homeschooling. She aims to delve into the issue and provide guidance for parents on how to cultivate a dynamic social life for their kids and themselves.[00:03:40] The importance of socialization in education, specifically the critical skills children learn through play.[00:07:46] Manisha Snoyer shares her personal experience of socialization growing up with a single mom and how it laid the foundation for her to develop close, intimate relationships.[00:16:32] Highlighting the bold decision to choose to homeschool, Manisha mentions that those who choose this path often do so out of desperation due to serious problems such as bullying, marginalization, or the need for independent thinking.[00:17:48] Introduction to the concept of modular learning, a method of customizing children's education, often used by homeschoolers.[00:22:01] The host delves into the developmental stages of children and elaborates on the importance of parents spending quality time with their children during their early years. [00:25:16] The age when children should start practicing their social skills by spending time with peers[00:31:06] Manisha Snoyer provides an overview of the challenges and opportunities of making friends as a homeschooler, depending on one's location and religious beliefs. She advises joining online homeschooling groups for global connections.[00:34:40] The benefits of joining curriculum-specific homeschooling groups.[00:37:00] Manisha shares a pro tip on hosting a board game night as a way to make friends in the homeschooling community. She encourages open-mindedness in friendships, regardless of beliefs.[00:39:40] Manisha speaks about her own experiences making friends in new cities and offers her assistance as a "master matchmaker for parents”.[00:41:20] She discusses the importance of family time in building relationships and social skills and encourages listeners to balance their children's social activities with quality family time.[00:44:21] Acknowledging difficult situations people who homeschool may face, Manisha provides a variety of solutions. She encourages listeners to explore all possibilities and not resist change.This podcast is made possible through a generous grant from the Vela Education FundVELA Education Fund is catalyzing a vibrant alternative education ecosystem. VELA provides trust-based funding to entrepreneurs, fosters community-building and knowledge-sharing, and increases visibility through storytelling that promotes cultural awareness and acceptance of the out-of-system space. Today, VELA serves the largest community of out-of-system education entrepreneurs in the country, with over 2,000 community members. About half of VELA's community members operate small learning environments, and the other half are ecosystem and community builders offering direct services and support across the out-of-system space. Learn more at velaedfund.org.

Guests: Katie McDonald, Julie Hildebrand, and Gabe Boyd   The book we all read is titled Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More than Peers written by Gordon Neufeld, Ph.D., and Gabor Mate, M.D. This is NOT a recommendation of this book, but an in-depth exploration of the concepts of “attachment” parenting that are raised and an exploration of the idea that youth need to be more connected to their parents than to their peers.   The “family dinner” is one of the strategies for building a meaningful relationship and connection between parents and children - don't take this important concept for granted.   Bedtime routines can also be tremendously valuable in establishing and maintaining a meaningful connection with your child.   “It takes a saint to not be alienated, but with our peer-oriented children, sainthood may be what we are called to. If that seems unnatural, it's because it is unnatural” (HOTYK). Establishing a meaningful relationship with your kids isn't just UNnatural, it's SUPERnatural!!!   John 17 parenting - as Jesus prayed and let his disciples hear how he spoke to his Father about them, we need to let our children hear us pray for them, about them, with them…so they can hear what we think about them!   Parents, be careful of “sleepovers” with friends - your children can learn a lot of bad things at homes and with “friends” who are not on the same page as you are!   Parents, understand the incredible impact that other voices can have on the lives of your children - coaches, teachers, pastors, etc…and if you're one of those individuals, make sure you take that responsibility seriously to speak life into those around you!   Parents, our primary responsibility is to raise our children so that they are connected to and find their identity in Christ! If you're connected to Christ and His larger story for your life, you'll want to share that with your kids…and your kids will want to be a part of something bigger than themselves! Special shout out to Jared Wood for allowing us to use his music - check him out at JaredWoodMusic!

This episode is brought to you by Paleovalley, InsideTracker, and Athletic Greens.Western medicine likes to separate the mind from the body, but the truth is, they couldn't be more connected. Starting at a young age, many of us face hardships that shape the lens through which we see the world. When left unresolved, adversity and trauma can lead to unhealthy lifestyle choices that directly influence our health.In today's episode, I talk with Dr. Jim Gordon, Lewis Howes, and Dr. Gabor Maté about how trauma can be stored in the body and why putting in the effort to work through it is vital to be a happy and healthy person.Dr. Jim Gordon, author of Transforming Trauma: The Path to Hope and Healing, is a Harvard-educated psychiatrist and the founder and CEO of the nonprofit Center for Mind-Body Medicine in Washington, DC. Dr. Gordon is internationally recognized for using self-awareness, self-care, and group support to heal population-wide psychological trauma. He is a clinical professor at Georgetown Medical School and was chairman (under Presidents Clinton and G.W. Bush) of the White House Commission on Complementary and Alternative Medicine Policy.Lewis Howes is a New York Times bestselling author, keynote speaker, and industry-leading show host. Lewis is a two-sport All-American athlete, former professional football player, and member of the US men's national handball team. His show The School of Greatness is one of the top podcasts in the world, with over 500 million downloads. He was recognized by the White House and President Obama as one of the top 100 entrepreneurs in the country under 30.A renowned speaker and bestselling author, Dr. Gabor Maté is highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics including addiction, stress, and childhood development. Dr. Maté has written several bestselling books, including the award-winning In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction, When the Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease Connection, and Scattered: How Attention Deficit Disorder Originates and What You Can Do About It, and has coauthored Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His latest book is The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture.This episode is brought to you by Paleovalley, InsideTracker, and Athletic Greens. Paleovalley is offering my listeners 15% off their entire first order. Just go to paleovalley.com/hyman to check out all their clean Paleo products and take advantage of this deal.Right now InsideTracker is offering my community 20% off at insidetracker.com/drhyman.Right now, Athletic Greens is offering 10 FREE travel packs with your first purchase by visiting athleticgreens.com/hyman.Full-length episodes of these interviews can be found here:Dr. Jim GordonLewis HowesDr. Gabor Maté Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, I speak with Dr. Gabor Maté, a renowned author and speaker about ADHD and its impact on people's lives.Trigger warning: Because I'm dedicated to helping as many individuals with ADHD as I can, I push myself to the limit and brought someone to this space who has been a contrarian in the ADHD world specifically, in the origins of ADHD. I'll leave it up to you to decide which viewpoint you agree with. But what is noteworthy is that we can all learn from different viewpoints as we continue to explore our experiences with ADHD, what is, what isn't and how it shows up for each of us. You don't have to agree with my guest's viewpoints to reach the benefits of what he shares during this episode. Trauma is a very real topic for individuals and up to 70% of adults have experienced at least one traumatic event in their lifetime. Do I agree with everything in this episode? Does it matter what I think? Listen to the end to hear my opinion.What We Discuss:• How Dr. Maté believes that ADHD is not a disorder, but a result of the environment in which an individual lives.• The impact of childhood trauma on the development of ADHD.• The role of parents in the development of ADHD.• The need for connection and relationships in managing ADHD.• The impact of stress on attention and the development of autoimmune diseases.• The importance of taking care of oneself and managing stress in managing ADHD.• The role of medication in managing ADHD symptoms.• The importance of understanding oneself and seeking help in managing ADHD.If you would like to learn more about Dr. Gabor Maté, visit his website, drgabormate.comThank you for tuning in to this episode of Successful with ADHD. If you enjoyed this conversation, please +FOLLOW the podcast on your favorite platform and leave a review to let me know your thoughts.Timeline:0:38 A special message from Brooke2:27 Dr. Gabor Mate's background in ADHD.7:14 ADHD doesn't have to define you.12:24 The architecture of the brain18:28 The risk of addiction in ADHD.23:49 If you want to get a two year old to behave, don't get triggered…26:31 How much do you have to motivate your kids?30:45 What's the difference between compounded trauma and trauma?35:51 The importance of the attachment relationship in parenting.42:14 If someone has a troubled childhood and their implicit memory is encoded in their brain, can we remove that memory over time?47:49 Your body and your mind react when you put pressure on yourself.52:28 Gabor's book recommendations for parents.Resources:Dr. Gabor Maté's website - drgabormate.com-When the Body Says No: The Cost of Hidden Stress by Dr. Gabor Maté-Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor MatéAre you a professional with ADHD looking for ways to control the chaos of your ADHD brain, find consistency in your positive habits and routines, and gain the tools and accountability to be confident and empowered? Check out our upcoming signature 3C Activation © hybrid 1:1 and adult ADHD Group Coaching program Do you get stuck in analysis paralysis more than you like when making decisions?Join me while I share my 5-Step Process in my upcoming FREE Masterclass on "How to Make Decisions with Confidence and Ease." >>https://event.webinarjam.com/register/47/684m6c5vSave your spot today, seats are limited. >https://event.webinarjam.com/register/47/684m6c5v

This episode is a powerful and important conversation exposing the increasingly devastating impact of the conflation between gender identity theory and the experience of living with gender dysphoria.In this episode, Sasha & Stella speak with Rose who wishes to remain anonymous. Rose is the mother of two young sons and lives in the United States. In August of 2022, she published the piece “True Believer” on the Parents with Inconvenient Truths around Trans (PITT) Substack. She wrote “True Believer” to share her story and help other parents and concerned adults who are struggling to understand the dynamics underneath the current phenomenon of transgender children. Rose's first-hand perspective is unique in that she and her partner were "affirming parents" — they thought their four-year-old son could be transgender and chose to socially transition him, only to realize they were wrong.Rose's story is incredibly important because, at its core, it's a simple case of the best of intentions garnering devastating impact. This is a humanized account of the pain, distress, confusion, fear, and regret that so many families are facing in the wake of doing what (“experts” told them) was best for their child.Links:Rose's original piece published on Parents with Inconvenient Truths around Trans (PITT) Substack:“True Believer” — https://pitt.substack.com/p/true-believerRose's appearance episode of Triggernometry podcast — https://pdst.fm/e/audioboom.com/posts/8242143.mp3?modified=1675602742&source=rss&stitched=1Rose's follow-up piece on PITT provides further reflections on the Triggernometry interview:“A Return to Reality” — https://pitt.substack.com/p/a-return-to-realityHold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peersby Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté, MD https://www.amazon.com/Hold-Your-Kids-Parents-Matter/dp/0375760288/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1680628544&sr=8-1Eliza Mondagreen: https://twitter.com/elizamondegreen/status/1625925867053383700Neufeld Institute — https://neufeldinstitute.org/resources/free/Dr. Gordon Neufeld — “Becoming the Answer a Child Needs”A Map of Detransition Island — https://genspect.org/infographics/#island“Dear Theodosia”, from Hamilton (the Musical by Lin-Manuel Miranda)https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=TKpJjdKcjeo“The Way Forward Is with a Broken Heart” — Quote/Book by Alice WalkerIf you liked this episode, more episodes you might find interesting:“1 — Trans: Identity vs Dysphoria”

To hear the rest of this discussion, please join us on Patreon at - https://www.patreon.com/thekatiehalpershow Direct link to the full discussion with Dr. Gabor Maté & Daniel Maté - https://www.patreon.com/posts/dr-gabor-mate-on-77937326 Here is a preview of my conversation with Dr. Gabor Maté and his Son Daniel Maté, in which Dr. Maté talks about the way capitalism kills people, his latest book which he wrote with Daniel, the New York Times best-seller "The Myth Of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture," and more. After 20 years of family practice and palliative care experience, Dr. Maté worked for over a decade in Vancouver's Downtown East Side with patients challenged by drug addiction and mental illness. Gabor is an internationally renowned speaker highly with expertise on addiction, trauma, childhood development, and the relationship of stress and illness. His book on addiction received the Hubert Evans Prize for literary non-fiction. For his groundbreaking medical work and writing he has been awarded the Order of Canada, his country's highest civilian distinction, and the Civic Merit Award from his hometown, Vancouver. His books include In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters With Addiction; When the Body Says No; The Cost of Hidden Stress; Scattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder; and (with Dr. Gordon Neufeld) Hold on to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His next book is The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture is due out on September 13, 2022. His next book, Hello Again: A Fresh Start for Parents and Their Adult Children is expected in 2023. Gabor is also co-developer of a therapeutic approach, Compassionate Inquiry, now studied by hundreds of therapists, physicians, counselors, and others internationally. Daniel Maté is a Vancouver-born, Brooklyn-based composer, lyricist, playwright, and co-author of the NYT best-seller The Myth of Normal. He's won several prestigious awards for his musical theatre songwriting, including the Edward Kleban Prize, Cole Porter Award, and Jonathan Larson Grant. He's the co-host, with Carice van Houten of Game of Thrones fame, of the new podcast Let's Get Lyrical with Carice and Daniel. He also runs the world's only mental chiropractic service, which is called Take A Walk With Daniel. ***Please support The Katie Halper Show *** For bonus content, exclusive interviews, to support independent media and to help make this program possible, please join us on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/thekatiehalpershow Direct link to the full discussion with Dr. Gabor Maté & Daniel Maté - https://www.patreon.com/posts/dr-gabor-mate-on-77937326 Follow Katie on Twitter: https://twitter.com/kthalps

Themes: Attachment Theory, Child Development, Trauma, the Mind-Body Connection, Authenticity, Boundaries, Illness, Health Summary:  It is such an honour to welcome renowned speaker and bestselling author Dr. Gabor Maté to the podcast this week. Dr. Maté is highly sought after for his expertise on various topics, including addiction, stress, and childhood development. He has written several bestselling books, including the award-winning In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction, When the Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease Connection, and Scattered: How Attention Deficit Disorder Originates and What You Can Do About It, and has coauthored Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His works have been published internationally in nearly thirty languages. In this illuminating episode, we discuss his incredible new book, The Myth of Normal, and how much of what we deem the norm in today's culture is neither healthy nor natural. Join us as we explore a range of topics, including trauma and its effects, attachment theory, the mind-body connection, the cost of repressing emotions, and more. Discover: How much of what we deem ‘normal' in today's culture is neither healthy nor natural and is actually responsible for a lot of illness in both mind and body.  How to differentiate trauma from a stressful experience The impacts of trauma on mental and physical health and how normalized trauma is in our culture Why the medical system ignores the mind-body connection The cost of repressing your emotions and people-pleasing How to heal in the toxicity of modern culture 00:00 Intro  00:47 The Myth of Normal 03:26 The idea of normal 05:28 The toxicity of modern culture 09:38 How our childhood wounds show up in the present day 12:43 Trauma 17:16 Why medicine ignores the mind-body connection 23:46 When does an experience become trauma? 26:16 Importance of attuned caregivers 34:15 The cost of suppressing your emotions 39:00 The cost of people pleasing & no boundaries 43:42 Choosing your pain - authenticity vs. belonging 50:00 Exercises for self-understanding 55:00 Healing a toxic culture Links: Website | drgabormate.com & wholehearted.org Book | The Myth of Normal - Trauma, Illness, & Healing in a Toxic Culture Instagram | @gabormatemd Facebook | @drgabormate Twitter | @drgabormate Neurobiology and the Development of Human Morality by Dr. Darcia Narvaez The Evolved Nest: Natures Way of Raising Children and Creating Connected Communities by Dr. Darcia Narvaez Sponsors: Cured Nutrition | Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off all products at curednutrition.com/createthelove Create the Love Cards | Use code CTLCARDS15 for 15% off at createthelove.com/cards See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of the Align podcast, Psychology expert Gabor Maté tells us all about trauma, how we can define it and how we can solve our internal psychological wounds. We explore the relationship we have with ourselves and others and what it truly means to be vulnerable. We also speak about the repression of our emotions, the essence of human nature and whether evil really exists within people or in the nature of their actions. A renowned speaker and bestselling author, Dr. Gabor Maté is highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics including addiction, stress, and childhood development. Dr. Maté has written several bestselling books, including the award-winning In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction, When the Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease Connection, and Scattered: How Attention Deficit Disorder Originates and What You Can Do About It, and has coauthored Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His works have been published internationally in nearly thirty languages. Thank you to our sponsors: LifeForce: Use code ALIGN for 15% off at: mylifeforce.com HVMN: Use code ALIGN-20 for 20% off at: https://hvmn.com The Align Method Program is launching January 15th! Now is the time to move better and feel better. Head to alignpodcast.com/amp to join the waitlist to be notified when enrollment opens! Try the first week for free.

Men aren't toxic, they're traumatized. Renowned physician, author and speaker Dr. Gabor Maté talks about internalized rage, our toxic world culture, childhood trauma and reframing our approach to mental illness. With over 40 years of clinical experience and personal development, Maté takes us to school on our misconceptions about the traumas and “toxicity” within us as he gently reminds us that we are much more connected than we are led to believe.      New episodes every Monday

How do you feel when you are in between stages of life? Excited? Nervous? Afraid?  Tweens - those kids in between childhood and adolescence - are capable, growing into their own thoughts and ideas and preferences, but not quite as opinionated as teenagers.  In this “in between” there is plenty of room for curiosity and character development if we will stay connected to and interested in our kids.  My guest this week is Charissa Lopez (she's gotten married since she was last on the show as Charissa Fry), a therapist and parent coach, and she encourages us that healthy attachment can lead to healthy individuation (that process of our kids distinguishing themselves from us).  She helps us see that for the entire time we are in relationship with our kids they need comfort and encouragement and connection with us. Though we still have authority over our kids we, as parents, are transitioning out of such a hands-on role in their lives and Charissa helps us think through puberty and friend groups, and our tweens' spiritual growth.  Connect with Charissa Lopez:  Website:  https://charissalopez.com  Special Resources for DMA Listeners from past episodes: https://charissalopez.com/resources/regulation-pack/ Links Mentioned*:   **For resources mentioned below, parents should read the book first. Don't feel like you have to read every word to your child. Just use the parts that work for your family and skip the rest. Or discuss why some people believe differently than you.* Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté  It's So Amazing!:A Book about Eggs, Sperm, Birth, Babies and Families The Care and Keeping of You: The Body Book for Younger Girls, Revised Edition The Care and Keeping of You 2: The Body Book for Older Girls Guy Stuff: The Body Book for Boys Birds and Bees Ministry with Mary Flo Ridley and Megan Michelson Related Episodes: Connecting Through Play :: Charissa Fry [Ep 319]  The Window of Tolerance :: Charissa Fry [Ep 260]  Self-Differentiation and Why it Matters :: Nancy Houston [Ep 335] Featured Sponsors:  Find links to this week's sponsors and unique promo codes at dontmomalone.com/sponsors.

This episode is brought to you by BiOptimizers and Birch Living.How is it possible that, in a culture so obsessed with wellness, we're dealing with more chronic disease, mental illness, and addiction than ever before?Today on The Dhru Purohit Podcast, Dhru talks to Dr. Gabor Maté about his new book, The Myth of Normal, and our crisis of separation, disconnection, and loneliness. They discuss the link between addiction, our profit-driven culture, and trauma and the first steps we can take toward health and healing.Dr. Maté is a renowned speaker and bestselling author and is highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics, including addiction, stress, and childhood development. Dr. Maté has written several bestselling books, including the award-winning In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction, When the Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease Connection, and Scattered: How Attention Deficit Disorder Originates and What You Can Do About It and has coauthored Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His latest book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture, was just released. In this episode, we dive into: -What we've gotten used to in our toxic culture and the consequences of it (2:31)-How society shapes our mind (11:37)-The crisis of separation we're living in and how it has played a key role in our toxic culture (17:25)-The role genes play in human health and behavior (32:41)-Gabor's childhood trauma and the impact it's had on his life (36:43)-Understanding trauma and how it shapes the way we live, the way we love, and the way we make sense of the world (44:04)-What society is getting from living in this toxic culture (51:11)-Why women suffer from more anxiety, depression, and autoimmune disease than men (1:07:27)-Personality traits and coping mechanisms (1:14:01)-Psychedelics and healing (1:18:18)For more on Dr. Maté, follow him on Instagram @gabormatemd, Facebook @drgabormate, Twitter @drgabormate, YouTube @drgabormate, and through his website, drgabormate.com. Get his book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture, here. This episode is brought to you by BiOptimizers and Birch Living.Magnesium Breakthrough really stands out from the other magnesium supplements out there. BiOptimizers is offering my community 10% off, so just head over to magbreakthrough.com/dhru with code DHRU10.The Birch Mattress by Helix is made out of organic latex, organic cotton, New Zealand wool, and American steel springs. To get $200 off your Birch Living mattress plus two free eco-rest pillows, head over to birchliving.com/dhru. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This episode is brought to you by Rupa Health, InsideTracker, and FOND.Why are we seeing more chronic disease, stress, obesity, addiction, and so many other states of illness than ever before, despite having the most advanced medical system in the world?Because we aren't living in a natural and normal world. We're actually having normal responses to our abnormal circumstances, many of which create trauma that gets stored in the brain and body. Today on The Doctor's Farmacy, I'm honored to talk to my dear friend Dr. Gabor Maté about the myth of normal, and why doing the difficult work of uncovering trauma is essential for living our fullest expression of life. A renowned speaker and bestselling author, Dr. Gabor Maté is highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics including addiction, stress, and childhood development. Dr. Maté has written several bestselling books, including the award-winning In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction, When the Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease Connection, and Scattered: How Attention Deficit Disorder Originates and What You Can Do About It, and has co-authored Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His latest book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture was just released. This episode is brought to you by Rupa Health, InsideTracker, and FOND.Rupa Health is a place where Functional Medicine practitioners can access more than 2,000 specialty lab tests from over 20 labs like DUTCH, Vibrant America, Genova, and Great Plains. You can check out a free, live demo with a Q&A or create an account at RupaHealth.com.InsideTracker is a personalized health and wellness platform like no other. Right now they're offering my community 20% off at insidetracker.com/drhyman.To experience FOND's amazing health benefits, go to fondbonebroth.com/drhyman and use code HYMAN20 to get 20% off your purchase. You'll even find a sampler there with all of my favorites!Here are more details from our interview (audio version / Apple Subscriber version):Uncovering my personal trauma history (6:42 / 3:50) Scientific evidence linking trauma and stress to physical and mental illness (14:38 / 11:45) Social determinants of health (16:34 / 14:15) Our crisis of separation, disconnection, and loneliness (20:25 / 18:00) The link between addiction, our profit-driven culture, and trauma (25:16 / 22:20) The myth of normal (31:07 / 26:33) Tools, therapies, and resources for your own healing (49:50 / 45:41) Treating trauma with plant medicines and psychedelics (55:40 / 51:16) The biology of psychology (1:10:46 / 1:06:20) Gabor's vision for our society (1:31:42 / 1:25:48) Learn more about Gabor Maté at drgabormate.com and get a copy of his new book, The Myth of Normal—Trauma, Illness, & Healing In a Toxic Culture, here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dr. Gabor Maté — The Myth of Normal, Metabolizing Anger, Processing Trauma, and Finding the Still Voice Within | Brought to you by Tommy John premium underwear, Athletic Greens all-in-one nutritional supplement, and ButcherBox premium meats delivered to your door.Dr. Gabor Maté (@DrGaborMate) is a renowned speaker and bestselling author, highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics that includes addiction, stress, and childhood development. Dr. Maté has written several bestselling books, including the award-winning In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction, When the Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease Connection, and Scattered: How Attention Deficit Disorder Originates and What You Can Do About It. He has also coauthored Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His works have been published internationally in nearly thirty languages.His new book is The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture.Please enjoy! *This episode is brought to you by Tommy John premium underwear! For men, Tommy John offers six different styles so you can find the one that suits you best. Their line of men's briefs and boxers is one of my top choices for all-day comfort. I tested their Second Skin Mid-Length Boxer Brief and the Cool Cotton Trunk.Shop Tommy John's Labor Day Sale now at TommyJohn.com/Tim and save 25% sitewide. There's little risk because of Tommy John's “Best Pair You'll Ever Wear or It's Free” guarantee. Offer ends September 11th.*This episode is also brought to you by Athletic Greens. I get asked all the time, “If you could use only one supplement, what would it be?” My answer is usually AG1 by Athletic Greens, my all-in-one nutritional insurance. I recommended it in The 4-Hour Body in 2010 and did not get paid to do so. I do my best with nutrient-dense meals, of course, but AG further covers my bases with vitamins, minerals, and whole-food-sourced micronutrients that support gut health and the immune system. Right now, Athletic Greens is offering you their Vitamin D Liquid Formula free with your first subscription purchase—a vital nutrient for a strong immune system and strong bones. Visit AthleticGreens.com/Tim to claim this special offer today and receive the free Vitamin D Liquid Formula (and five free travel packs) with your first subscription purchase! That's up to a one-year supply of Vitamin D as added value when you try their delicious and comprehensive all-in-one daily greens product.*This episode is also brought to you by ButcherBox! ButcherBox makes it easy for you to get high-quality, humanely raised meat that you can trust. They deliver delicious, 100% grass-fed, grass-finished beef; free-range organic chicken; heritage-breed pork; and wild-caught seafood directly to your door.And now, ButcherBox is offering you, my dear listeners, a fantastic deal—free chicken for a year! Get 2 lbs. of free-range, organic chicken breasts for free in every order when you sign up at butcherbox.com/TIM. Plus, get an extra $10 off your first box with promo code TIM10 at checkout. Claim this deal at butcherbox.com/TIM.*For show notes and past guests on The Tim Ferriss Show, please visit tim.blog/podcast.For deals from sponsors of The Tim Ferriss Show, please visit tim.blog/podcast-sponsorsSign up for Tim's email newsletter (5-Bullet Friday) at tim.blog/friday.For transcripts of episodes, go to tim.blog/transcripts.Discover Tim's books: tim.blog/books.Follow Tim:Twitter: twitter.com/tferriss Instagram: instagram.com/timferrissYouTube: youtube.com/timferrissFacebook: facebook.com/timferriss LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/timferrissPast guests on The Tim Ferriss Show include Jerry Seinfeld, Hugh Jackman, Dr. Jane Goodall, LeBron James, Kevin Hart, Doris Kearns Goodwin, Jamie Foxx, Matthew McConaughey, Esther Perel, Elizabeth Gilbert, Terry Crews, Sia, Yuval Noah Harari, Malcolm Gladwell, Madeleine Albright, Cheryl Strayed, Jim Collins, Mary Karr, Maria Popova, Sam Harris, Michael Phelps, Bob Iger, Edward Norton, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Neil Strauss, Ken Burns, Maria Sharapova, Marc Andreessen, Neil Gaiman, Neil de Grasse Tyson, Jocko Willink, Daniel Ek, Kelly Slater, Dr. Peter Attia, Seth Godin, Howard Marks, Dr. Brené Brown, Eric Schmidt, Michael Lewis, Joe Gebbia, Michael Pollan, Dr. Jordan Peterson, Vince Vaughn, Brian Koppelman, Ramit Sethi, Dax Shepard, Tony Robbins, Jim Dethmer, Dan Harris, Ray Dalio, Naval Ravikant, Vitalik Buterin, Elizabeth Lesser, Amanda Palmer, Katie Haun, Sir Richard Branson, Chuck Palahniuk, Arianna Huffington, Reid Hoffman, Bill Burr, Whitney Cummings, Rick Rubin, Dr. Vivek Murthy, Darren Aronofsky, Margaret Atwood, Mark Zuckerberg, Peter Thiel, Dr. Gabor Maté, Anne Lamott, Sarah Silverman, Dr. Andrew Huberman, and many more.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.