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send us a text via Fan Mail!Elizabeth and I discuss strategies when things are difficult in our motherhood and homeschooling.1:35 - We all have bad days   6:30 - Getting through a crisis 9:52 - Lighthearted discipline 11:20 - Getting things done with a baby20:34 - Pregnancy and coping with difficulties 23:02 - How it gets easier 26:17 - Attachment to adult vs. peers 34:04 - Screen time for educationAs an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Gordon Neufeld Revolution of Mercy: How Kindness Changes Everything by Bonnie Landry Homeschooling, simplified: what matters most by Bonnie Landry Support the showContact On Instagram at @make.joy.normal By email at makejoynormal@gmail.com Search podcast episodes by topic Thanks for listening to Make Joy Normal Podcast!

Dans cet épisode, Élisabeth analyse la mini-série britannique Adolescence de Philip Barantini à travers le prisme de la théorie de l'orientation par les pairs du Dr Gordon Neufeld.*GEEK ALERT!* *SPOILER ALERT!*______Préparez les générations futures à une vie épanouissante, libérées de la nécessité perpétuelle de guérir leur enfance.Rejoignez Élisabeth Dufresne (Éducation Autrement), éducatrice à l'enfance, dans son nouveau podcast qui explore sans détour les fondamentaux de l'éducation des enfants : la théorie de l'attachement et le jeu libre.Depuis sa chambre nichée dans les Cantons-de-l'Est, Élisabeth vous libère du nouveau passage obligé des nombreux livres sur la parentalité bienveillante et vous accompagne à devenir des guides assumés, lucides et instinctifs. _Suivez Élisabeth Dufresne surInstagram : ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/elisabeth.dufresne/⁠⁠⁠Facebook : ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/educationautrementbalado⁠⁠⁠Youtube : ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxpVH1Wg3BIEdcRnYM_3k7g⁠⁠⁠Réalisation : Élisabeth DufresneThème musical : Les Émergents par ⁠⁠⁠Étienne Dufresne⁠⁠⁠Illustration: ⁠⁠⁠Florence Rivest⁠⁠⁠_RéférencesBarantini, Philip (2025). Adolescence [Mini-série]. Netflix.Neufeld, Gordon, & Maté, Gabor. (2013). Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. New York, NY: Ballantine Books._Pour commanditer un épisode, contactez-nous!info@elisabethdufresne.com

Are you ready to pull your teens and kids from public school to start homeschooling, but don't know where to start!? This is the place. In this episode, we discuss deschooling...and yes, it IS a real thing! This is the second video of 5 in this mini-series. For a deeper dive into the homeschooling transition, check out Episode 1: Beginning the Journey of this podcast. Deschooling Tips Downloadable pdf Deschooling Worksheet Downloadable pdf Weapons of Mass Instruction: A Schoolteacher's Journey Through the Dark World of Compulsory Schooling by John Taylor Gatto Dumbing Us Down by John Taylor Gatto Hold on to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Dr. Gordon Neufeld Free to Learn by Dr. Peter Gray Unschooled by Kerry McDonald The Brave Learner by Julie Bogart Homeschooling 101 Part 1: Laws on YouTube Homeschooling 101 Part 2: Deschooling on YouTube Sign Up for the School to Homeschool Newsletter School to Homeschool YouTube Channel Private Mentoring with Janae: Schedule a Free Discovery Call Etsy Store: Shop for Homeschooling Swag *Please note that some of the links included in this article are Amazon affiliate links. CONNECT with US Join the Private Facebook Group  Connect and follow along with Janae's Journey on Instagram @janae.daniels Learn more about School to Homeschool Contact Janae: schooltohomeschool1@gmail.com

You're listening to Voices of Your Village and today we are sharing an episode we've aired before with Gabor Maté. It's been two years since the air date and it's still one of our most popular episodes because it absolutely slays. I adore him. He's a renowned speaker and bestselling author. Dr. Gabor Maté is highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics including addiction, stress, and childhood development. He's written several bestselling books, I love The Myth of Normal, there are so many more here, Realm of Hungry Ghosts, Close Encounters with Addiction, When the Body Says No, Exploring the Stress -Disease Connection, and Scattered Minds: How Attention Deficit Disorder Originates and What You Can Do About It. He has also co -authored Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More than Peers. He is so profound and I learn from him every time I get to hear him talk. I'm so excited to dive into this episode with you again because I learn new things every time I listen. All right, folks, let's dive in.  Connect with Dr. Gabor Mate: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gabormatemd/ Website: https://drgabormate.com/ Order the book: The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture Connect with us: Instagram: @seed.and.sew  Podcast page: Voices of Your Village Seed and Sew's Regulation Quiz: Take the Quiz Order Tiny Humans, Big Emotions now!  Website: seedandsew.org Music by: Ruby Adams and Bensound Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In today's episode, author, Courtney Carver and I dive into a question that feels more urgent than ever: When was the last time you gave yourself permission to pause, rest, and truly reset? In a world that tells us happiness and success come from doing more and pushing harder, many of us are left feeling like we're never enough. But what if there's another way? Today, we'll explore the transformative wisdom of Courtney's new book, Gentle: Rest More, Stress Less, and Live the Life You Actually Want. Courtney's message is simple yet profound: by embracing rest, releasing what weighs us down, and redefining success, we can step into the life we truly desire—with less overwhelm and more ease.Links Discussed in This Episode |Diane's Resource: Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than PeersConnect with Courtney:InstagramBook: Gentle: Rest More, Stress Less and Live the Life You Actually WantWebsiteAbout Courtney |Courtney Carver is the founder and creator of bemorewithless.com and The Simplicity Space, a membership community supporting and celebrating people as they simplify their lives. She co-hosts the Soul & Wit podcast with her daughter, Bailey, and is the bestselling author of Soulful Simplicity: How Living with Less Can Lead to So Much More and Project 333: The Minimalist Fashion Challenge That Proves Less Really Is So Much More. She has been featured by Good Morning America, the New York Times, and O, The Oprah Magazine. She lives with her husband in Salt Lake City, Utah.Work with Me |If you've been struggling with motivation to work through bad habits that are keeping you stuck, I'd love to help you achieve your goals! We'll work together (locally or virtually) to discover what areas in your life are high priority to get you feeling less overwhelmed right away. For more info on my processes, fees, and availability please contact!Episode Sponsors |Clear Intentions would not be possible without the support of weekly sponsors. Choosing brands that I believe in is important to me. I only want to recommend brands that I believe may help you in your daily life. As always, never feel pressured into buying anything. Remember: if you don't need it, it's not a good deal!Cymbiotika: Go to Cymbiotika.com/Minimalist for 20% off your order + free shipping today Hungry Root: Get 40% off your first box PLUS get a free item in every box for life. Go to Hungryroot.com/minimalist and use code minimalist.Enjoy the Podcast?Post a review and share it! If you enjoyed tuning into this podcast, then do not hesitate to write a review. Please share with friends that could be inspired by the wisdom of each and every guest!Further Questions |You can contact me through my website, find me on Instagram, Pinterest or like The Minimalist Moms Page on Facebook.Checkout the podcast storefront for recommendations from Diane (and a FULL list of previous guests' books!)Grab a copy of my first book Minimalist Moms: Living and Parenting with SimplicityCheckout a list of my past collaborative podcasts here!Our Sponsors:* Check out Acorns: https://acornsearly.com/MINIMALIST* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code MINIMALIST for a great deal: https://happymammoth.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/minimalist-moms-podcast2093/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This season of your life won't last forever--even though it seems like it will never end. Embrace the mess. The beauty is on the other side. Watch This Episode on YouTube Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Gordon Neufeld  Get the "Making a Magical Christmas Open & Go Experience" Private Mentoring with Janae: Schedule a Free Discovery Call Etsy Store: Shop for Homeschooling Swag BONUS: Making a Magical Christmas Workshop YOUTUBE BONUS: Making a Magical Christmas Audio Only *Please note that some of the links included in this article are Amazon affiliate links. CONNECT with US Join the Private Facebook Group  Connect and follow along with Janae's Journey on Instagram @janae.daniels Learn more about School to Homeschool

On today's episode, we hear about:  A woman who's being harassed by her ex-husband  A man struggling to establish a sleep routine  A mom seeking advice on how to maintain a relationship with her teenage daughter  Next Steps: Follow Dr. Matthew Walker on Instagram: @drmattwalker

This episode is brought to you by Momentous, Pique Life, and Air Doctor.  Despite our society's obsession with wellness, we're dealing with more chronic disease, mental illness, and addiction than ever before. What's at the root of society's most pressing issues? Today's guest is here to share his expertise and insight on this topic and more.  Today on The Dhru Purohit Show, we are rerunning one of our favorite episodes with Dr. Gabor Maté about his book, The Myth of Normal, and our crisis of separation, disconnection, and loneliness. Dhru and Dr. Maté discuss the link between addiction, our profit-driven culture, and trauma and the first steps we can take toward health and healing. Dr. Gabor Maté is a renowned speaker and bestselling author and is highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics, including addiction, stress, and childhood development. Dr. Maté has written several bestselling books, including the award-winning In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction, When the Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease Connection, and Scattered: How Attention Deficit Disorder Originates and What You Can Do About It and has coauthored Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His latest book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture, was just released. In this episode, Dhru and Dr. Maté dive into (audio version / Apple Subscriber version): What we've gotten used to in our toxic culture and its consequences (2:31 / 2:31) How society shapes our mind (12:02 / 8:33) The crisis of separation we're living in and its role in our toxic culture (17:49 / 14:20) The role genes play in human health and behavior (34:42 / 29:33) Gabor's childhood trauma and its impact on his life (38:49 / 33:40) Understanding trauma and how it shapes the way we live, love, and make sense of the world (46:29 / 41:20) What society gains from living in this toxic culture (53:39 / 48:30) Why women suffer from more anxiety, depression, and autoimmune disease than men (1:09:30 / 1:04:20) Personality traits and coping mechanisms (1:14:00 / 1:11:00) Psychedelics and healing (1:20:20 / 1:15:10) For more on Dr. Maté, follow him on Instagram, Facebook, X/Twitter, YouTube, and his website.  This episode is brought to you by Momentous, Pique Life, and Air Doctor.  Optimize your energy and mental clarity with the purest form of creatine made by and used by the best. Go to livemomentous.com and enter promo code DHRU to get 20% off any order.  Right now, Pique Life is offering 15% off the Radiant Skin Duo plus a free beaker and frother when you go to piquelife.com/dhru. AirDoctor is offering my community $300 off. Just go to dhrupurohit.com/filter/ to clean up your home's air and feel better today.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Pastor Tim Bayly is joined by his son, Joseph (Senior Pastor at Christ Church in Cincinnati), and son-in-law, Lucas Weeks (College and Administrative Pastor at Trinity Reformed Church in Bloomington, IN) to discuss parenting.We often think that our parenting is a failure if we have to resort to authority. That attitude is foolishness and an abandonment of God's rules for parenting. Our fears and modern psychologists have trained us to believe that authority is antithetical to having your child's heart. We must be reminded that if we intend to hold on to our children, obedience to God is the only way. No one would deny that mothers and fathers have duties regarding their children, but many are willing to dispute that children have duties regarding their parents. Parents ought to serve and love their children, but also children ought to serve and love their parents. ***Mentions during the show:First, the podcast starts out talking about this book: Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peersby Gordon Neufeld and Gabor MatéSecond, we mention this book:Shepherding a Child's Heartby Ted TrippThird, I read from this book:The Thing (the chapter I read from is titled, “The Drift from Domesticity”)by G. K. ChestertonJoseph mentioned:Technopoly: The Surrender of Culture to TechnologyBy Neil Postman***Out of Our Minds Podcast: Pastors Who Say What They Think. For the love of Christ and His Church.Out of Our Minds is a production of New Geneva Academy. Are you interested in preparing for ordained ministry with pastors? Have a desire to grow in your knowledge and fear of God? Apply at www.newgenevaacademy.com.Master of DivinityBachelor of DivinityCertificate in Bible & TheologyGroundwork: The Victory of Christ & The Great ConversationIntro and outro music is Psalm of the King, Psalm 21 by My Soul Among Lions.Out of Our Minds audio, artwork, episode descriptions, and notes are property of New Geneva Academy and Warhorn Media, published with permission by Transistor, Inc. ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★

Author Andee Martineu joins us to discuss one of her favorite books, Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté. Guest Bio Andee Martineau is a parenting coach and mom of six who specializes in helping parents all over the world raise their kids without yelling, ultimatums or bribes. Using her Connect Method Parenting techniques, she has taught thousands of moms to feel more in control of family life, stress less, get their kids to listen, and more. Andee is a former registered nurse who brings to her clients years of hands-on experience raising her own children (ages 13-22) and coursework in developmental psychology as well as certifications in life coaching and integrative health coaching. Andee is the author of ‘Connect Method Parenting: how to get your kids to WANT to listen to you without the yelling, ultimatums, and bribes'. When she's not spreading her message that parenting is about connecting and not correcting, you can find her relaxing at the creek next to her home. She lives in a cabin in the woods of Utah with her husband, children and their Sheepadoodle, Leia.   For episode homepage, resources and links, visit: https://kristenmanieri.com/episode297/    Learn more about coaching: Kristen@kristenmanieri.com    Mentioned in this Episode   Guest's website: http://connectmethodparenting.com     Book: Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté https://www.amazon.com/Hold-Your-Kids-Parents-Matter/dp/0375760288  Host Bio Kristen Manieri is a coach who works with teams to increase both productivity and wellbeing. She also helps individuals navigate transition with clarity and confidence. Her areas of focus are: stress reduction, energy management, mindset, resilience, habit formation, rest rituals, and self-care. As the host of the weekly 60 Mindful Minutes podcast, an Apple top 100 social science podcast, Kristen has interviewed over 200 authors about what it means to live a more conscious, connected, intentional and joyful life. Learn more at kristenmanieri.com/work-with-me.    Learn more about coaching: Kristen@kristenmanieri.com  Connect with the 60 Mindful Minutes podcast   Web: https://kristenmanieri.com  Email: Kristen@kristenmanieri.com    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/60MindfulMinutes Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kristenmanieri_/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/kristenmanieri/

Hidden sources of stress — and how to beat them. Also: the myth of normal, the necessity of being disillusioned, and the disutility of comparing your suffering.Description: There's so much to be grateful for in modern medicine. We can all agree that we would not do as well in a world with no Advil or dentistry. And yet, our guest today, who is a renowned doctor, says modern medicine is overlooking something crucial: the pernicious impact that modern living has on our minds and bodies. In other words, we are surrounded by these hidden societal and structural sources of stress and we aren't thinking about how to treat and prevent these factors that are degrading our happiness and our immune systems. Dr. Gabor Maté is a bestselling author with an expertise on everything from stress to addiction to ADHD. His latest book is called, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic CultureContent Warning: This episode has mentions of child abuse, sexual trauma, suicide and addictionIn this episode we talk about:What he means by “the myth of normal”How diseases, such as autoimmune conditions, are an “artifact of civilization”How to begin to tackle what Dr. Maté calls, “the social sources of illness” His definition of trauma and the difference between “big T traumatic events” and the trauma of “wounding”How trauma in society is so normalized that we don't even recognize itWhether the term trauma is overusedWhy comparing suffering is a fruitless endeavor What he means by “the necessity to be disillusioned” The power and possibility of psychedelics Why he thinks we should incorporate shamanic medicine into our western medical frameworkAnd what he means by “undoing self-limiting beliefs” and how these beliefs show up in our everyday livesFull Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/gabor-mate-archiveWhere to find Gabor Maté online: Website: drgabormate.comSocial Media:TwitterFacebookInstagramYouTubeBooks Mentioned:The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic CultureWhen the Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease ConnectionScattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit DisorderIn the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than PeersOther Resources Mentioned:The Wisdom of Trauma Posttraumatic Stress Disorder Is Associated with Increased Risk of Ovarian Cancer: A Prospective and Retrospective Longitudinal Cohort StudyDecrease in depression symptoms is associated with longer survival in patients with metastatic breast cancer: a secondary analysisMarital Status, Marital Strain, and Risk of Coronary Heart Disease or Total Mortality: The Framingham Offspring StudyGeorge EngelHow spanking may affect brain development in childrenThe Trauma of Everyday Life by Dr. Mark EpsteinIntraConnected: MWe (Me + We) as the Integration of Self, Identity, and Belonging by Dr. Dan SiegelA. H. AlmaasSign up for Dan's weekly newsletter hereFollow Dan on social: Instagram, TikTokTen Percent Happier online bookstoreSubscribe to our YouTube ChannelOur favorite playlists on: Anxiety, Sleep, Relationships, Most Popular EpisodesAdditional Resources:Download the Ten Percent Happier app today: https://10percenthappier.app.link/installSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode I get to talk with my friend, Leslie Martino, wife, mom to 4, speaker, author and curator of relationships. I like to say that cultivating relationships is one of Leslie's superpowers. In what is becoming a trend, I was moved to tears multiple times in this episode. Talking with Leslie will do that to you. She is so calm, loving and warm. She is also honest and says the hard things. I absolutely loved our time together and I know you will too.  Here's some more of what we talked about: I recommended this book to Leslie when I found out she loves miniature things: The Borrowers. Get the whole series here. We recently read this book in our kid book club: learn how to start your own kid, or adult, book club here. Leslie loves trying new things, which shows her kids they don't have to fear failure and that they are free to be a learner. Learn more about this idea here. Leslie and her husband intentionally pursued connection with their kids from the beginning, but she had a key insight early on: making mistakes as parents was their biggest motivator to pursue relationship with their kids. She realized that if she didn't make changes she'd destroy relationship rather than foster it: “I can do just as much good as I can do damage. I can be better.” Another key insight from Leslie into cultivating relationship with our kids: “Look at your children with a lens of gratitude” rather than as people we want to shape and change. A key word stands out as Leslie describes the way her parents cultivated connection with her as a child: available. Leslie's mother was physically and emotionally available.  Cultivating a strong relationship with parents as an adult child has a lot to do with: forgiveness. Gratitude also changes a fractured relationship Leslie reminds us to include our parents: invite them because they might be wondering “where is my place in my adult child's life?” Everybody likes to be invited. A book that reminds us that connecting with our kids does not have to be complicated is: Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. More ideas for creating simple connection points with your kids can be found on Leslie's free downloadable 30 Days of Connection Calendar More tips for creating connection with your kids: connection can be body to body—hugs and squeezes. Be in their physical space—hang out in their room and talk to them. Make eye contact during a conversation. Invite kids into your space too—like cooking with your kids, telling them about the book you're reading, sharing your prayer requests, inviting them on errands, helping them with their chores. Give them your time. Give them your attention. We need to make sure we're seeing our kids! Leslie tells us she's chasing joy right now by learning about neuroplasticity and engaging in activities that grow and change her brain.  Be sure to visit Leslie's website here to find more of her work.  Follow along with her in Insta here. And don't forget to look for her book, coming this summer!  Don't forget to like and subscribe to this podcast, and I'd be so very grateful if you leave a review of the podcast on iTunes.  Reviews are incredibly helpful to me as a new podcaster. Thank you for listening and being part of my team.  I love you guys! Greta 

Today we are revisiting one of my favorite podcast episodes that I've ever recorded, with the magnificent Gabor Maté. We talk about defining trauma, solving our internal psychological wounds, exploring relationships, and what it truly means to be vulnerable - amongst many other really important topics. Dr. Maté is one of my favorite people on the planet, and one of the world's leading psychologists - particularly in the realm of addiction. He's the author of ‘When The Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease Connection' and his most recent book, ‘The Myth of Normal'. Gabor is such an exemplary human being in every way possible, so I hope you get a lot from this episode. Thank you once again for tuning in. Be sure to share it with your friends, your family. Gabor Maté shares wisdom that every person in the world should hear.If you find yourself coming back to the podcast, make sure to hit that follow button and consider leaving us a kind review.  I hope you love this episode, and I'll catch you again next week! Enjoy Dr. Gabor Maté. More About Gabor: A renowned speaker and bestselling author, Dr. Gabor Maté is highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics including addiction, stress, and childhood development. Dr. Maté has written several bestselling books, including the award-winning In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction, When the Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease Connection, and Scattered: How Attention Deficit Disorder Originates and What You Can Do About It, and has coauthored Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His works have been published internationally in nearly thirty languages. Where To Find Gabor: Website Instagram Facebook YouTube Thank You To Our Sponsors: In addition to the discount you get by using promo code ALIGN10, you can get gifts with a purchase - up to 2 travel size bottles of Magnesium Breakthrough. Act Fast - this is a limited time offer! Go now to http://www.bioptimizers.com/align

SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODETeach Your Kids: LinkedIn | Website | X | Instagram | Substack | Facebook | TikTokManisha: LinkedIn | X | Instagram | FacebookLeonard Sax: Website | Email Join our premium community for expert support and advice on homeschoolingTeach Your Kids Podcast EpisodesDr. Gordon Neufeld on Redefining Parental Power & ConnectionBooks, Articles, and PublicationsThe Collapse of Parenting: How We Hurt Our Kids When We Treat Them Like Grown-Ups - Leonard SaxBoys Adrift - Leonard SaxGirls on the Edge: Why So Many Girls Are Anxious, Wired, and Obsessed--And What Parents Can Do - Leonard SaxWhy Gender Matters, Second Edition: What Parents and Teachers Need to Know About the Emerging Science of Sex Differences - Leonard SaxFailing At Fairness: How Our Schools Cheat Girls - Myra Sadker, David SadkerOf Boys and Men: Why the Modern Male Is Struggling, Why It Matters, and What to Do about It - Richard ReevesManning Up: How the Rise of Women Has Turned Men into Boys - Kay S Hymowitz Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers - Gordon Neufeld, Gabor Maté MD Rise in social media usage among Africa's young people raises concernMemo to the Surgeon General: Right Diagnosis, Wrong Treatment | Institute for Family StudiesIs TikTok Dangerous for Teens? | Institute for Family StudiesShould Boys Start Kindergarten One Year Later Than Girls?More women than men have college degrees. That's good news for Democrats.A Generation of American Men Give Up on College: ‘I Just Feel Lost' - WSJReclaiming kindergarten: Making kindergarten less harmful to boys. Sax, L. (2001). Psychology of Men & Masculinity Young Children's Feelings about School. Valeski, T. N., & Stipek, D. J. (2003). Child DevelopmentStarting Strong IV Early Childhood Education and Care Data Country Note: FinlandCourses/WorkshopsBoys AdriftTikTok Ate My Daughter, and My Son Won't Stop Playing Video Games Related ResourcesProgram for International Student Assessment (PISA)Podcast: Risk Reaps Rewards with Dr. Leonard and Sarah Sax | Plugged InThis site contains product affiliate links. We may receive a commission if you make a purchase after clicking on one of these links.  Time Codes00:00:00 - Introduction to the podcast and Dr. Leonard Sax by Manisha Snoyer.00:01:31 - Overview of Dr. Sax's expertise and work in child and adolescent development.00:02:49 - Discussion on the academic achievement gap between men and women.00:07:19 - The reasons behind the gender gap in educational attainment.00:13:27 - Boys' attitudes towards education and school's appeal to them.00:20:56 - Exploring gender differences and their impact on children's choices.00:31:11 - Discussion on the differences in brain development between boys and girls.00:35:17 - Exploring the right age for teaching phonics and handwriting.00:40:01 - Comparing Finnish and American education systems.00:44:22 - The impacts of early learning and parental expectations.00:47:43 - Parental authority in school choice decisions.00:50:15 - The rise of obesity in children and parental control over diet.00:53:19 - The importance of parent-child relationships.00:54:18 - Concluding thoughts on authority and freedom in homeschooling.This podcast is made possible through a generous grant from the Vela Education FundVELA Education Fund is catalyzing a vibrant alternative education ecosystem. VELA provides trust-based funding to entrepreneurs, fosters community-building and knowledge-sharing, and increases visibility through storytelling that promotes cultural awareness and acceptance of the out-of-system space. Today, VELA serves the largest community of out-of-system education entrepreneurs in the country, with over 2,000 community members. About half of VELA's community members operate small learning environments, and the other half are ecosystem and community builders offering direct services and support across the out-of-system space. Learn more at velaedfund.org.

Chapter 1 Reveal the true moral of the Hold On to Your Kids bookHold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers is a book written by Dr. Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté. In this book, Neufeld and Maté explore the challenges parents face in modern society, where the influence of peers can sometimes outweigh the influence of parents. They delve into the importance of attachment between parents and children, and how to strengthen that bond to ensure children can navigate the world confidently and securely. The authors provide insight and guidance on various topics, including discipline, education, and technology, with the aim of helping parents reclaim their role as the primary influence in their children's lives.Chapter 2 Shall we Read the Hold On to Your Kids book ？Opinions on the book "Hold On to Your Kids" by Gordon Neufeld may differ among readers. However, it generally receives positive reviews and is considered a valuable resource for parents. The book argues that in the modern world, children are increasingly influenced by peer culture rather than their parents, leading to various problems such as early sexualization, bullying, and detachment from family. Neufeld offers practical advice to help parents regain their authority, strengthen their connection with their children, and promote healthy development. It is recommended for parents looking to deepen their understanding of parent-child relationships and find effective strategies for raising secure and resilient children.Chapter 3 Key Points of the Hold On to Your Kids book"Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers" is a book written by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté. It explores the importance of strong parental attachments and the impact of peer orientation on children.The book argues that traditional parenting is being undermined by societal and cultural shifts that prioritize peer relationships over parental connection. Neufeld suggests that peer orientation, defined as children looking to their peers for direction and validation instead of their parents, leads to various negative consequences, including adolescents engaging in risky behaviors and struggling with emotional and mental health issues.Neufeld proposes that in order to counter the influence of peers, parents need to establish and maintain a secure attachment with their children. He emphasizes the importance of a parent's role as a guide, mentor, and provider of emotional security. The book provides practical strategies and advice for parents to strengthen their connection with their children and nurture their attachment.Neufeld also explores the impact of technology, media, and the educational system on children's attachment to their parents. He discusses the role of parents in buffering the negative effects of these external influences and encourages them to provide a healthy and balanced environment for their children.Overall, "Hold On to Your Kids" presents a compelling argument for the crucial role parents play in their children's lives. It addresses the challenges and pressures faced by parents in the modern world and offers practical guidance on how to establish and maintain a strong parent-child relationship.Chapter 4 the Hold On to Your Kids book Author Bio The book "Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers" is authored by Dr. Gordon Neufeld, a developmental psychologist, and Gabor Maté, a physician. The book was first published in 2004.Apart from "Hold On to Your Kids," Dr. Gordon Neufeld has written several other books,...

SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODETeach Your Kids: LinkedIn | Website | X | Instagram | Substack | Facebook | TikTokManisha: LinkedIn | X | Instagram | FacebookLesley Grossblatt: LinkedIn | Medium | XJoin our premium community with expert support and adviceSparking Independent Learning with Strewing | Modulo - Lesley GrossblattTeach Your Kids Podcast EpisodesRaising Gifted Learners With Megan Cannella: Insights From a Gifted Learning Specialist About Identifying and Supporting Gifted KidsDr. Gordon Neufeld on Redefining Parental Power & ConnectionBut what about socialization?Teach Your Kids Blog PostsBut what about childcare? - Teach Your KidsBooks and ArticlesFree to Learn: Why Unleashing the Instinct to Play Will Make Our Children Happier, More Self-Reliant, and Better Students for Life - Peter GrayHold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers - Gordon Neufeld, Gabor Maté MDThe Gifted Kids' Survival Guide: For Ages 10 & Under - Judy Galbraith M.A.The Gifted Teen Survival Guide: Smart, Sharp, and Ready for (Almost) Anything  - Judy Galbraith M.A.Unschooling Podcasts and Websites The Exploring Unschooling PodcastUnschooling Mom2MomStrewing CalendarUnschooling SchoolOnline ClassesCreativeLiveMasterClassKhan Academy Related ResourcesHomeschool Association of CaliforniaSudbury school - WikipediaWhat Are You Learning?Young StorytellersThis site contains product affiliate links. We may receive a commission if you make a purchase after clicking on one of these links.  Time Codes00:00:00 — Introduction: Manisha welcomes Lesley Grossblatt00:01:09 — Lesley shares her personal journey into unschooling00:03:53 — Discussing the concept of crisis homeschooling00:10:40 — The significance of the de-schooling process in unschooling00:17:05 — Lesley's perspective on the learner-driven approach of unschooling00:21:17 — Utilizing video games and technology as educational tools in unschooling00:29:48 — How Lesley tailored Japanese language learning for her child's interests00:34:31 — Addressing fears and misconceptions about unschooling00:38:45 — Lesley's older child's transition from unschooling to traditional high school00:46:40 — Exploring the concept of strewing in unschooling00:52:20 — Balancing unschooling with full-time work and nurturing children's independence00:55:30 — Lesley discusses integrating life skills into unschooling and shares her experience working with education entrepreneurs00:59:02 — The importance of community support in the unschooling journey01:03:25 — How Lesley manages time and resources for unschooling01:07:00 — Final thoughts and conclusion of the interviewThis podcast is made possible through a generous grant from the Vela Education Fund VELA Education Fund is catalyzing a vibrant alternative education ecosystem. VELA provides trust-based funding to entrepreneurs, fosters community-building and knowledge-sharing, and increases visibility through storytelling that promotes cultural awareness and acceptance of the out-of-system space. Today, VELA serves the largest community of out-of-system education entrepreneurs in the country, with over 2,000 community members. About half of VELA's community members operate small learning environments, and the other half are ecosystem and community builders offering direct services and support across the out-of-system space. Learn more at velaedfund.org.

SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODETeach Your Kids: Website | LinkedIn | X | Instagram | Substack | FacebookManisha: LinkedIn | X | Instagram | FacebookNeufeld Institute: Website | Facebook | YouTubeJoin our premium community with expert support and adviceTeach Your Kids Podcast EpisodesHomeschooling a Quantum Innovator: Meet 15-Year-Old JasmineTeach Your Kids Blog PostsBut what about "Socialization"?BooksHold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers - Gordon Neufeld Posts Parenting in Stressful Time Part I: How to be Your Child's “Best Bet”Parenting in Stressful Times – Part II: Holding On During the ReboundCourses/WorkshopsNeufeld InstituteNeufeld`s Model of AttachmentPower to ParentYouTubeDr Gordon Neufeld - Becoming the Answer a Child NeedsMiscellaneousNeil PostmanJean PiagetAbraham Maslow B.F. SkinnerCarl RogersJean-Jacques RousseauThis site contains product affiliate links. We may receive a commission if you make a purchase after clicking on one of these links.  Time Codes00:00:00 — Introduction: Manisha Snoyer discusses individualized education and social-emotional learning.00:00:33 — Manisha introduces Dr. Gordon Neufeld, shedding light on his expertise.00:01:23 — The rise of peer culture is examined.00:04:57 — Are social skills developed by peer grouping? Manisha seeks Dr. Neufeld's input.00:07:00 — Dr. Neufeld dissects the role of conflict in development.00:09:01 — Emotional skills in children: Dr. Neufeld talks about the role of mixed feelings.00:12:42 — Terminology matters: The word "skills" is put under the microscope00:15:20 — The importance of parental confidence and love is highlighted.00:18:03] — Dr. Neufeld introduces 'cascading care'.00:21:23 — Real-life parenting struggles: Manisha shares anecdotes.00:26:00 — Dr. Neufeld expresses his concern about homeschooling.00:29:54 — Power vs. Coercion: A nuanced discussion unfolds.00:35:00 — Dr. Neufeld argues against sculpting children.00:41:13 — Manisha debunks the myth that bullying strengthens children.00:50:31 — Cultivating relationships: Dr. Neufeld and Manisha Snoyer agree that it's never too late or too early. This podcast is made possible through a generous grant from the Vela Education FundVELA Education Fund is catalyzing a vibrant alternative education ecosystem. VELA provides trust-based funding to entrepreneurs, fosters community-building and knowledge-sharing, and increases visibility through storytelling that promotes cultural awareness and acceptance of the out-of-system space. Today, VELA serves the largest community of out-of-system education entrepreneurs in the country, with over 2,000 community members. About half of VELA's community members operate small learning environments, and the other half are ecosystem and community builders offering direct services and support across the out-of-system space. Learn more at velaedfund.org.

This is a conversation between new friends and neighbors.The only in-person interview recorded, Rahel came to Jeana's home on a weeknight and they had the luxury to sit and talk together. Jeana wanted to pick her brain about books she's reading, her philosophies on parenting, and how she completely transformed her life from a former costume designer living in Los Angeles to a health advocate, herbalist, homeschooling mama and Vermont farmer. Resources as mentioned:The Work of John Taylor GattoHold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté MD About Rahel AfileyRahel is a homeschooling mama of two spirited children. She is also a health advocate, herbalist, nutritionist and a Buteyko breathing coach. Rahel's passion for researching health led her to leave her career as a costume designer in Hollywood and pursue a career in holistic healing. When she is not taking clients, Rahel spends her time milking cows, farming and getting involved in community activities with her children.Follow her work here @haellanhealth Credits:Created and produced by Amy Keller and Jeana DonovanEdited by Jeana Donovan and Amy KellerMusic contribution by Casey SullivanCover design by Jeana Donovan JOIN THE MOTHERSHIP COLLECTIVE ON SUBSTACK.READ THE FULL ARTICLE HERE. 

Dr. Gabor Maté talks to us about how to reconnect with your feelings, trust your instincts, and help kids express emotions in healthy ways. If you enjoyed this episode, and it inspired you in some way, I'd love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to your Instagram stories, and tag me @mindfulmamamentor. Have you left a review yet? All you have to do is go to Apple Podcasts or  Stitcher (or wherever you listen), and thanks for your support of the show! Gabor Maté, MD, (pronunciation: GAH-bor MAH-tay) is a retired physician who, after 20 years of family practice and palliative care experience, worked for over a decade in Vancouver's Downtown East Side with patients challenged by drug addiction and mental illness. The bestselling author of four books published in thirty languages, Gabor is an internationally renowned speaker highly sought after for his expertise on addiction, trauma, childhood development, and the relationship of stress and illness. His book on addiction received the Hubert Evans Prize for literary non-fiction. For his groundbreaking medical work and writing he has been awarded the Order of Canada, his country's highest civilian distinction, and the Civic Merit Award from his hometown, Vancouver. His books include In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction; When the Body Says No; The Cost of Hidden Stress; Scattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder; and (with Gordon Neufeld) Hold on to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His next book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture will be published on September 13, 2022 and is available to pre-order now. To learn more, join his e-news list at www.drgabormate.com. Get Hunter's best selling book, Raising Good Humans now! Over 200,000 copies sold! Click here to order and get book bonuses! And now Hunter's newly released book, Raising Good Humans Every Day, is available to order! Click here to get your copy! ABOUT HUNTER CLARKE-FIELDS: Hunter Clarke-Fields is a mindful mama mentor. She coaches smart, thoughtful parents on how to create calm and cooperation in their daily lives. Hunter has over 20 years of experience in mindfulness practices. She has taught thousands worldwide. Be a part of the tribe—we're over 25 thousand strong! Join the Mindful Parenting membership. Take your learning further! Get my Top 2 Best Tools to Stop Yelling AND the Mindful Parenting Roadmap for FREE at: mindfulmamamentor.com/stopyelling/ Find more podcasts, blog posts, free resources, and how to work with Hunter at MindfulMamaMentor.com. We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on our website: https://mindfulmamamentor.com/mindful-mama-podcast-sponsors/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODETeach Your Kids: Website | LinkedIn | X | Instagram | Substack | FacebookManisha: LinkedIn | X | Instagram | FacebookLisa Betts-LaCroix: Website | LinkedIn | Super Power U Podcast | FacebookNir Eyal: Website | LinkedIn | X | Facebook | Nir and Far PodcastKerry McDonald: LiberatED Podcast | Website | X | Instagram | FacebookShiren Rattigan: Colossal Academy | LinkedIN | Instagram | XNaval Ravikant: Airchat | LinkedIn | X | Podcast | YouTubeRachel Thomas: Fast.ai | LinkedIn | X | FacebookAlycia Wright: Cultural Roots Homeschool Co-op| LinkedIn | Instagram | FacebookJoin our premium community with expert support and adviceJoin the Conversation on AirchatHomeschooling Room: https://getairchat.com/manisharose/homeschoolingRelated Teach Your Kids Podcast EpisodesHomeschooling with Naval Ravikant, Nir Eyal, Rachel Thomas, Kerry McDonald, Alycia Wright, Shiren Rattigan, and Lisa Betts-Lacroix: Part 1But what about socialization?Raising Indistractable Kids: Nir Eyal's Unconventional Approach to HomeschoolingMicroschooling with Iman Alleyne & Shiren RattiganThe Future of Educational Choice: Kerry McDonald Unpacks it AllTeach Your Kids: Game-Based Learning: The Prodigy Approach with Rohan Mahimker Blog PostsSo, what's the big deal about "Mastery Learning"?

SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODETeach Your Kids: Website | LinkedIn | X | Instagram | Substack | FacebookManisha: LinkedIn | X | Instagram | FacebookLisa Betts-LaCroix: Website | LinkedIn | Super Power U Podcast | FacebookNir Eyal: Website | LinkedIn | X | Facebook | Nir and Far PodcastKerry McDonald: LiberatED Podcast | Website | X | Instagram | FacebookShiren Rattigan: Colossal Academy | LinkedIN | Instagram | XNaval Ravikant: Airchat | LinkedIn | X | Podcast | YouTubeRachel Thomas: Fast.ai | LinkedIn | X | FacebookAlycia Wright: Cultural Roots Homeschool Co-op| LinkedIn | Instagram | FacebookJoin our premium community with expert support and adviceJoin the Conversation on AirchatHomeschooling Room: https://getairchat.com/manisharose/homeschoolingRelated Teach Your Kids Podcast EpisodesBut what about socialization?Raising Indistractable Kids: Nir Eyal's Unconventional Approach to HomeschoolingMicroschooling with Iman Alleyne & Shiren RattiganThe Future of Educational Choice: Kerry McDonald Unpacks it AllTeach Your Kids: Game-Based Learning: The Prodigy Approach with Rohan Mahimker Blog PostsSo, what's the big deal about "Mastery Learning"?

Mentioned in this Episode: Dr. MacNamara's Online Courseshttps://macnamara.ca/online-courses Books: Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Dr. Gordon Neufeld, and Dr. Gabor Matéhttps://neufeldinstitute.org/resources/hold-on-to-your-kids-book/ Nourished: Connection, Food, and Caring For Our Kids (and everyone else we love) by Dr. Deborah MacNamarahttps://neufeldinstitute.org/resources/dr-macnamaras-nourished/ Rest, Play, Grow: Making Sense of Preschoolers (Or Anyone Who Acts Like One) Dr. Deborah MacNamarahttps://neufeldinstitute.org/resources/rest-play-grow/ What Young Children Need You to Know by Bridgett Millerhttps://www.bridgettmiller.com/what-young-children-need-you-to-know/ For more on Dr. MacNamara, you can follow her on Instagram @drdeborahmacnamara and through the websites https://neufeldinstitute.org/person/deborah-macnamara/ and  https://macnamara.ca/.

Gordon Neufeld is a developmental psychologist from Vancouver. He is the author of the book Hold on to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers (co-authored with Gabor Mate). Neufeld is founder of the Neufeld Institute based in Vancouver, which provides education and training for parents and professionals based on Neufeld's attachment theories. https://neufeldinstitute.org/ CTA links: Remember to hit SUBSCRIBE or FOLLOW so you don't miss any new episodes, follow us on the links below for more and please review us, even one line helps!! www.gavinsisters.co.uk Insta: @gavinsistersuk TIKTOK:@gavinsisters Facebook: @TheDetoxBarn You Tube: @gavingavin

Today we embark on a profound journey exploring the challenges of parenting a child experiencing Rapid-Onset Gender Dysphoria (ROGD). Alan and I delve into the emotional rollercoaster that parents often experience when their child exhibits signs of ROGD, including stress, pain, and confusion, before embarking on Alan's experience pursuing psychedelic treatment for complex PTSD to alleviate the secondary impact of his trauma symptoms on his family. Alan shares his transformative experience with meditation, the relationship between meditation and spirituality, how spirituality can provide solace and guidance during challenging times, and how meditation can help parents build emotional confidence. We also delve into the connection between psychedelics and meditation in the context of healing and personal growth, Alan shares how insights uncovered during his psychedelic journeys inform how he navigates ROGD parenting. For those interested in this therapeutic path, we provide practical (not medical) advice on using psychedelics safely and effectively, addressing matters of harm reduction, micro dosing and guided journeys, along with important do's and don'ts of set and setting. Drawing parallels between the dynamics of cults and certain aspects of the transgender movement is a crucial part of today's discussion where emotional and psychological traits can make individuals vulnerable to both. This week's episode offers a comprehensive investigation into the challenges parents of ROGD children face, the role of trauma, and the transformative power of meditation and psychedelic therapy. Thank you for joining us! In our discussion today, I mentioned some recently aired episodes of Some Kind of Therapist: 53. Awakening Beyond Transition with Laura Becker59. Cat Cattinson on Reclaiming Her Voice After Detransition62. To Suffer Well: Detransition, Psychedelics, and Faith, with Torren Danowski69. Parents with Inconvenient Truths about Trans: Gigi & JosieAlong with some other podcasts that offer great tools for mindfulness like “Waking Up” with Sam Harris which can be found here. Or if you're interested in learning more about psychedelics, check out the Multidisciplinary Association for Psychedelic Studies, here. I also mentioned some great books in this episode including, “The Collapse of Parenting” by Leonard Sax and “Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers” by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté MD, both of which can be found in my bookshop!And we mentioned Alan's article on PITT, which can be found here. If you enjoyed this conversation, please rate & review it on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. Share this episode with a friend, or on social media. You can also head over to my YouTube channel, subscribe, like, comment, & share there as well.To get $200 off your EightSleep Pod Pro Cover visit EightSleep.com & enter promo code SOMETHERAPIST.Take 20% off your entire purchase of nourishing superfood beverages at Organifi with code SOMETHERAPIST.Be sure to check out my shop. In addition to wellness products, you can now find my favorite books!MUSIC: Special thanks to Joey Pecoraro for our theme song, “Half Awake,” used with gratitude and permission. www.joeypecoraro.comPRODUCTION: Thanks to Eric and Amber Beels at DifMix.comYou can now watch NO WAY BACK: The Reality of Gender-Affirming Care (our medical ethics documentary, formerly known as Affirmation Generation). Stream the film or purchase a DVD. Use promo code SOMETHERAPIST to take 20% off your order. nowaybackfilm.com Follow us on Twitter @2022affirmation or on Instagram at @affirmationgeneration.Have a question for me? Looking to go deeper and discuss these ideas with other listeners? Join my Locals community! Members get to ask questions I will respond to in exclusive, members-only livestreams, plus other perks TBD.Get your first month free with promo code GRANDFATHER; after that, it's only $8/month. Check it out at somekindoftherapist.locals.com. ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★

Manisha Snoyer explores the intricate subject of socialization, with a particular emphasis on homeschooling, by addressing misconceptions, sharing personal experiences, and offering practical guidance. She refutes the stereotype that homeschoolers are antisocial, highlighting the diversity and vibrancy within these communities. From discussing her own loneliness as a business owner to detailing the multifaceted approach to socialization, Snoyer offers insights into building friendships in both homeschooling and traditional environments. Emphasizing the role of parents, community, and inclusivity, she showcases various strategies to foster connections. Whether it's joining online groups, engaging in after-school activities, or even considering relocation, Manisha's ideas encourage a balanced and open-minded approach to homeschooling. SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODEJoin the Modulo premium community  for more expert support and advice on all things homeschooling. SEA HOMESCHOOLERSBlossom & RootEarly YearsKindergarten1st Grade2nd Grade3rd Grade4th Grade5th GradeBlossom and Root - FacebookBumble For Friends Appr/homeschool: Homeschool: Resources, Curriculum, & Homeschooling SupportSlifka Scholarship - Brandeis UniversityStudy finds high school students form more cliques, but counselors say social media blurs the lines - Chicago TribuneNetwork Ecology and Adolescent Social Structure - Daniel A. McFarland, James Moody,David Diehl, Jeffrey A. Smith, and Reuben J. ThomasBut what about "Socialization"?Thirty-three wonderful ways to make friends as a modular learnerModulo's socialization surveyHow To Talk So Kids Can Learn - ​​Adele Faber, Elaine MazlishHold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers - Gordon Neufeld, Gabor Maté, MDThe Different Drum: Community Making and Peace - M. Scott PeckThis site contains product affiliate links. We may receive a commission if you make a purchase after clicking on one of these links.Time Codes:[00:00:20] Manisha Snoyer introduces the topic of socialization, particularly in the context of homeschooling. She aims to delve into the issue and provide guidance for parents on how to cultivate a dynamic social life for their kids and themselves.[00:03:40] The importance of socialization in education, specifically the critical skills children learn through play.[00:07:46] Manisha Snoyer shares her personal experience of socialization growing up with a single mom and how it laid the foundation for her to develop close, intimate relationships.[00:16:32] Highlighting the bold decision to choose to homeschool, Manisha mentions that those who choose this path often do so out of desperation due to serious problems such as bullying, marginalization, or the need for independent thinking.[00:17:48] Introduction to the concept of modular learning, a method of customizing children's education, often used by homeschoolers.[00:22:01] The host delves into the developmental stages of children and elaborates on the importance of parents spending quality time with their children during their early years. [00:25:16] The age when children should start practicing their social skills by spending time with peers[00:31:06] Manisha Snoyer provides an overview of the challenges and opportunities of making friends as a homeschooler, depending on one's location and religious beliefs. She advises joining online homeschooling groups for global connections.[00:34:40] The benefits of joining curriculum-specific homeschooling groups.[00:37:00] Manisha shares a pro tip on hosting a board game night as a way to make friends in the homeschooling community. She encourages open-mindedness in friendships, regardless of beliefs.[00:39:40] Manisha speaks about her own experiences making friends in new cities and offers her assistance as a "master matchmaker for parents”.[00:41:20] She discusses the importance of family time in building relationships and social skills and encourages listeners to balance their children's social activities with quality family time.[00:44:21] Acknowledging difficult situations people who homeschool may face, Manisha provides a variety of solutions. She encourages listeners to explore all possibilities and not resist change.This podcast is made possible through a generous grant from the Vela Education FundVELA Education Fund is catalyzing a vibrant alternative education ecosystem. VELA provides trust-based funding to entrepreneurs, fosters community-building and knowledge-sharing, and increases visibility through storytelling that promotes cultural awareness and acceptance of the out-of-system space. Today, VELA serves the largest community of out-of-system education entrepreneurs in the country, with over 2,000 community members. About half of VELA's community members operate small learning environments, and the other half are ecosystem and community builders offering direct services and support across the out-of-system space. Learn more at velaedfund.org.

Episode Highlights: awakening, leading by example, personal journey Summary: What's going on everyone and welcome to this week's edition of HOT Topics where Kaylor and Alyssa dive the stages of awakening and discuss: The kinds of awakening we go through and becoming aware of how the top 1% operate in this world. Their own personal journeys of awakening The “awake olympics” and people competing amongst each other about who's more awake than the other How we are constantly being distracted by messaging that is trying to stop us from living our highest quality of life The best way to “wake people up” is leading by example and show people that you are building something extraordinary What an awesome conversation, how are you leading by example? Thanks for joining us and we'll catch you back here next Thursday with a brand new episode! If you enjoyed the episode, please be sure to take a screenshot and share it out on Instagram and tag @thekaylorbetts. Also, please make sure to give us a review and a five star rating if you're loving what we are doing. _____________________________ RESOURCES & LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/thealyssastefanson/ Book | Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Gordon Neufeld & Gabor Mate Podcast | Waking the Wild Woman Podcast with Alyssa Stefanson - Spotify | Waking the Wild Woman Podcast with Alyssa Stefanson - Apple Podcasts _____________________________ IMPORTANT UPDATES: Join the Awake & Winning Life AW-cademy | http://www.theawlife.com/ Join the Awake & Winning Business AW-cademy | http://www.theawbiz.com Follow Kaylor on Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/thekaylorbetts/ _____________________________  

Guests: Katie McDonald, Julie Hildebrand, and Gabe Boyd   The book we all read is titled Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More than Peers written by Gordon Neufeld, Ph.D., and Gabor Mate, M.D. This is NOT a recommendation of this book, but an in-depth exploration of the concepts of “attachment” parenting that are raised and an exploration of the idea that youth need to be more connected to their parents than to their peers.   The “family dinner” is one of the strategies for building a meaningful relationship and connection between parents and children - don't take this important concept for granted.   Bedtime routines can also be tremendously valuable in establishing and maintaining a meaningful connection with your child.   “It takes a saint to not be alienated, but with our peer-oriented children, sainthood may be what we are called to. If that seems unnatural, it's because it is unnatural” (HOTYK). Establishing a meaningful relationship with your kids isn't just UNnatural, it's SUPERnatural!!!   John 17 parenting - as Jesus prayed and let his disciples hear how he spoke to his Father about them, we need to let our children hear us pray for them, about them, with them…so they can hear what we think about them!   Parents, be careful of “sleepovers” with friends - your children can learn a lot of bad things at homes and with “friends” who are not on the same page as you are!   Parents, understand the incredible impact that other voices can have on the lives of your children - coaches, teachers, pastors, etc…and if you're one of those individuals, make sure you take that responsibility seriously to speak life into those around you!   Parents, our primary responsibility is to raise our children so that they are connected to and find their identity in Christ! If you're connected to Christ and His larger story for your life, you'll want to share that with your kids…and your kids will want to be a part of something bigger than themselves! Special shout out to Jared Wood for allowing us to use his music - check him out at JaredWoodMusic!

Guests: Katie McDonald, Julie Hildebrand, and Gabe Boyd   The book we all read is titled Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More than Peers written by Gordon Neufeld, Ph.D., and Gabor Mate, M.D. This is NOT a recommendation of this book, but an in-depth exploration of the concepts of “attachment” parenting that are raised and an exploration of the idea that youth need to be more connected to their parents than to their peers.   What are the dangers of a child being attached to peers more than to their parents? Whomever a child is most attached to will have the greatest impact on their lives.   Peers are not accountable for their impact on your children - you, as parents, are! “When peers replace parents as the dominant attachment figures, they become our child's models without, of course, assuming any responsibility for the end result” (HOTYK).   “Sex becomes an instrument of peer attachment. They are using sex with their peers to try to satisfy their hunger for connection and for affection” (HOTYK). The book is honest about the power of sex to connect two individuals - and the pain that comes with separation when that relationship or activity ends.   Bullying wouldn't be that big of a deal if the child is more concerned with what his father (in our case, our Heavenly Father) thinks of us!   When you lose your attachment with your children, they'll go and attach and listen to someone else. Getting that attachment relationship back with your children will take time and significant effort. As parents, do we “over schedule” our children? Attachment isn't proximity, it's intentional investment into the lives of our children.   “Children don't need friends, they need parents, grandparents, adults who will assume the responsibility to hold on to them” (HOTYK).   A “friend” is someone who has your best interest in mind - who is willing to speak truth into your life and make whatever sacrifice is necessary to help you be the best version of yourself. Your children need friends like this and so do you! Special shout out to Jared Wood for allowing us to use his music - check him out at JaredWoodMusic!

Guests: Katie McDonald, Julie Hildebrand, and Gabe Boyd   The book we all read is titled Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More than Peers written by Gordon Neufeld, Ph.D., and Gabor Mate, M.D. This is NOT a recommendation of this book, but an in-depth exploration of the concepts of “attachment” parenting that are raised and an exploration of the idea that youth need to be more connected to their parents than to their peers.   “Attachment” parenting addresses the importance of the relationship between parents and their children as well as children and other things, especially the connection of children with their peers.   Parents who are looking to foster and encourage peer relationships might need to reconsider the importance of these relationships - the MOST important relationship/connection that your children need to have secure is the relationship with you as their parent!   Parents, we should want our children to “attach” to us IF we are attached to Christ - as Paul said, Be imitators of me, as I am of Christ” (1 Cor. 11:1).   Josh McDowell, “Rules without relationship leads to rebellion.” When a child is acting unruly, these behavioral issues are really, at their core, relationship issues.   Benefit of having your children at PCA is that your child should have multiple attachments of like-minded, Christ-centered people in their lives!   The secret of parenting is not what the parent does, but who the parent is, in the life of a child - that's a very profound point in this book! Special shout out to Jared Wood for allowing us to use his music - check him out at JaredWoodMusic!

This episode is brought to you by Paleovalley, InsideTracker, and Athletic Greens.Western medicine likes to separate the mind from the body, but the truth is, they couldn't be more connected. Starting at a young age, many of us face hardships that shape the lens through which we see the world. When left unresolved, adversity and trauma can lead to unhealthy lifestyle choices that directly influence our health.In today's episode, I talk with Dr. Jim Gordon, Lewis Howes, and Dr. Gabor Maté about how trauma can be stored in the body and why putting in the effort to work through it is vital to be a happy and healthy person.Dr. Jim Gordon, author of Transforming Trauma: The Path to Hope and Healing, is a Harvard-educated psychiatrist and the founder and CEO of the nonprofit Center for Mind-Body Medicine in Washington, DC. Dr. Gordon is internationally recognized for using self-awareness, self-care, and group support to heal population-wide psychological trauma. He is a clinical professor at Georgetown Medical School and was chairman (under Presidents Clinton and G.W. Bush) of the White House Commission on Complementary and Alternative Medicine Policy.Lewis Howes is a New York Times bestselling author, keynote speaker, and industry-leading show host. Lewis is a two-sport All-American athlete, former professional football player, and member of the US men's national handball team. His show The School of Greatness is one of the top podcasts in the world, with over 500 million downloads. He was recognized by the White House and President Obama as one of the top 100 entrepreneurs in the country under 30.A renowned speaker and bestselling author, Dr. Gabor Maté is highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics including addiction, stress, and childhood development. Dr. Maté has written several bestselling books, including the award-winning In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction, When the Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease Connection, and Scattered: How Attention Deficit Disorder Originates and What You Can Do About It, and has coauthored Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His latest book is The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture.This episode is brought to you by Paleovalley, InsideTracker, and Athletic Greens. Paleovalley is offering my listeners 15% off their entire first order. Just go to paleovalley.com/hyman to check out all their clean Paleo products and take advantage of this deal.Right now InsideTracker is offering my community 20% off at insidetracker.com/drhyman.Right now, Athletic Greens is offering 10 FREE travel packs with your first purchase by visiting athleticgreens.com/hyman.Full-length episodes of these interviews can be found here:Dr. Jim GordonLewis HowesDr. Gabor Maté Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, I speak with Dr. Gabor Maté, a renowned author and speaker about ADHD and its impact on people's lives.Trigger warning: Because I'm dedicated to helping as many individuals with ADHD as I can, I push myself to the limit and brought someone to this space who has been a contrarian in the ADHD world specifically, in the origins of ADHD. I'll leave it up to you to decide which viewpoint you agree with. But what is noteworthy is that we can all learn from different viewpoints as we continue to explore our experiences with ADHD, what is, what isn't and how it shows up for each of us. You don't have to agree with my guest's viewpoints to reach the benefits of what he shares during this episode. Trauma is a very real topic for individuals and up to 70% of adults have experienced at least one traumatic event in their lifetime. Do I agree with everything in this episode? Does it matter what I think? Listen to the end to hear my opinion.What We Discuss:• How Dr. Maté believes that ADHD is not a disorder, but a result of the environment in which an individual lives.• The impact of childhood trauma on the development of ADHD.• The role of parents in the development of ADHD.• The need for connection and relationships in managing ADHD.• The impact of stress on attention and the development of autoimmune diseases.• The importance of taking care of oneself and managing stress in managing ADHD.• The role of medication in managing ADHD symptoms.• The importance of understanding oneself and seeking help in managing ADHD.If you would like to learn more about Dr. Gabor Maté, visit his website, drgabormate.comThank you for tuning in to this episode of Successful with ADHD. If you enjoyed this conversation, please +FOLLOW the podcast on your favorite platform and leave a review to let me know your thoughts.Timeline:0:38 A special message from Brooke2:27 Dr. Gabor Mate's background in ADHD.7:14 ADHD doesn't have to define you.12:24 The architecture of the brain18:28 The risk of addiction in ADHD.23:49 If you want to get a two year old to behave, don't get triggered…26:31 How much do you have to motivate your kids?30:45 What's the difference between compounded trauma and trauma?35:51 The importance of the attachment relationship in parenting.42:14 If someone has a troubled childhood and their implicit memory is encoded in their brain, can we remove that memory over time?47:49 Your body and your mind react when you put pressure on yourself.52:28 Gabor's book recommendations for parents.Resources:Dr. Gabor Maté's website - drgabormate.com-When the Body Says No: The Cost of Hidden Stress by Dr. Gabor Maté-Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor MatéAre you a professional with ADHD looking for ways to control the chaos of your ADHD brain, find consistency in your positive habits and routines, and gain the tools and accountability to be confident and empowered? Check out our upcoming signature 3C Activation © hybrid 1:1 and adult ADHD Group Coaching program Do you get stuck in analysis paralysis more than you like when making decisions?Join me while I share my 5-Step Process in my upcoming FREE Masterclass on "How to Make Decisions with Confidence and Ease." >>https://event.webinarjam.com/register/47/684m6c5vSave your spot today, seats are limited. >https://event.webinarjam.com/register/47/684m6c5v

Dr Peter Walsh joins me to talk all things polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS), how and why it develops, the role of processed food, stress, visceral fat, endocrine disrupting chemicals and much, much more. Dr Peter Walsh is a GP and metabolic practitioner from Melbourne, Australia with a special interest in Polycystic ovary syndrome  and female reproductive health. He uses a holistic approach to restoring fertility using low carbohydrate and carnivore dietary approaches. He consults out of Yarra Trail Medical Centre (see below for links). TIMESTAMPS00:00:34 Dr Walsh's background00:03:02 What is Polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS)?00:05:32 Why Dr Walsh calls PCOS ‘Type 4 diabetes'00:12:19 Diagnosing PCOS00:18:34 Environmental endocrine disruptors in normal weight women with PCOS00:22:44 The contribution of seed oils to epidemic of PCOS00:25:18 How soon can fertility return with lifestyle change?00:29:04 Normalising metabolic health as a strategy for optimizing fertility00:30:25 Could endometriosis be related to metabolic disease? 00:34:26 Stress and cortisol driving visceral fat and PCOS00:44:34 Leptin resistance and the effect of blue light toxicity and artificial light after dark00:49:04 The flawed mainstream approach to PCOS00:58:05 Reversing PCOS takes a holistic approach is necessary00:59:50 Markers of optimal fertility and Dr Walsh's approach01:05:34: Dr Walsh's take on regenerative farming01:09:55 Closing thoughts from Dr WalshLINKSDr. Peter Walsh - 'Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome - Type 4 Diabetes' Low Carb Down Under https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mUsRZ310IgEDr Jack Kruse: LIGHT, melanin, POMC in human evolution & disease | Regenerative Health Podcast #21 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ln3WszTq0uAHold on to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Gabor Maté & Gordon Neufeldhttps://www.amazon.com.au/Hold-Your-Kids-Parents-Matter/dp/178504219XFollow DR PETER WALSHYarra Trail Medical, Melbourne - https://www.yarratrailmedical.com.au/Keeto Fertility - https://www.keetofertility.com/Email: reception@yarratrailmedical dot com dot auFollow Dr MAXTwitter: @mgulhaneMDInstagram: @dr_max_gulhaneLinktree: https://linktr.ee/maxgulhanemd

@BanyenBooks joins Gabor Maté for a conversation on his new book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, & Healing in a Toxic Culture. A renowned speaker and bestselling author, Dr. Gabor Maté is highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics including addiction, stress, and childhood development. Dr. Maté has written several bestselling books, including the New York Times bestseller The Myth of Normal, the award-winning In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction, When the Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease Connection, and Scattered Minds: How Attention Deficit Disorder Originates and What You Can Do About It, and has coauthored Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His works have been published internationally in nearly thirty languages.Daniel Maté is a Brooklyn-based composer-lyricist who has received the Kleban Prize, Cole Porter Award, and Jonathan Larson Grant. His musicals include The Trouble With Doug and The Longing and the Short of It. Other shows in development include Hansel & Gretl & Heidi & Günter, Middle School Mysteries, and an adaptation of the Russell Banks novel The Sweet Hereafter. He is the host of the YouTube program Lyrics To Go and runs a "mental chiropractic" service called Walk With Daniel.

This episode is a powerful and important conversation exposing the increasingly devastating impact of the conflation between gender identity theory and the experience of living with gender dysphoria.In this episode, Sasha & Stella speak with Rose who wishes to remain anonymous. Rose is the mother of two young sons and lives in the United States. In August of 2022, she published the piece “True Believer” on the Parents with Inconvenient Truths around Trans (PITT) Substack. She wrote “True Believer” to share her story and help other parents and concerned adults who are struggling to understand the dynamics underneath the current phenomenon of transgender children. Rose's first-hand perspective is unique in that she and her partner were "affirming parents" — they thought their four-year-old son could be transgender and chose to socially transition him, only to realize they were wrong.Rose's story is incredibly important because, at its core, it's a simple case of the best of intentions garnering devastating impact. This is a humanized account of the pain, distress, confusion, fear, and regret that so many families are facing in the wake of doing what (“experts” told them) was best for their child.Links:Rose's original piece published on Parents with Inconvenient Truths around Trans (PITT) Substack:“True Believer” — https://pitt.substack.com/p/true-believerRose's appearance episode of Triggernometry podcast — https://pdst.fm/e/audioboom.com/posts/8242143.mp3?modified=1675602742&source=rss&stitched=1Rose's follow-up piece on PITT provides further reflections on the Triggernometry interview:“A Return to Reality” — https://pitt.substack.com/p/a-return-to-realityHold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peersby Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté, MD https://www.amazon.com/Hold-Your-Kids-Parents-Matter/dp/0375760288/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1680628544&sr=8-1Eliza Mondagreen: https://twitter.com/elizamondegreen/status/1625925867053383700Neufeld Institute — https://neufeldinstitute.org/resources/free/Dr. Gordon Neufeld — “Becoming the Answer a Child Needs”A Map of Detransition Island — https://genspect.org/infographics/#island“Dear Theodosia”, from Hamilton (the Musical by Lin-Manuel Miranda)https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=TKpJjdKcjeo“The Way Forward Is with a Broken Heart” — Quote/Book by Alice WalkerIf you liked this episode, more episodes you might find interesting:“1 — Trans: Identity vs Dysphoria”

Exploring the causes of sickness, author and renowned physician Dr. Gabor Maté explores how the trauma ingrained in modern society manifests as illness and pulls us away from our authentic selves, and how we can lessen our attachment to “normalcy” in order to foster both individual and collective healing and create a more equitable and awakened future. Tune in to Point of Relation — The Undeniable Link of Illness & Wellbeing to Our Collective Ecosystem with Dr. Gabor Maté. Key Points To Discover: ✔️ In the revolutionary book "The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness and Healing in a Toxic Culture," Dr. Gabor Maté argues that our culture has become so disconnected from the real needs of people that what we assume to be "normal" is, in fact, neither healthy nor natural.  Dr. Maté distinctly articulates that "normal" is a myth. He presents that every individual's response to conditions, such as addictions, depression, and physical illnesses, are, in fact, normal responses to the abnormal social and environmental conditions they face. Therefore, the conditions that are the source of the abnormality need to be addressed instead of the individual. ✔️ We are co-creators of our reality. Connection is a necessity for human life that, when unfulfilled, brings about suffering. In the modern world, where we push and strive for the attainment of the individual, we must remember that we can only exist within the collective experience.  ✔️ Do you feel that true healing is impossible for you?  Dr. Maté shares that in his journey, he too believed that no matter how hard he tried, he was incapable of completely healing his pains. But he believes that healing is possible for all of us. In his words, “In order to accomplish that healing, we have to really come face to face with the depth and extent of the trauma in our world, not to despair over it, but precisely so that we can gain agency.” ✔️ The illness of an individual is the manifestation of a collective phenomenon.  When an individual becomes ill, the Lakota tradition teaches that the community extends gratefulness and that sickness manifests to uncover shared dysfunction. This gives way to the belief that "Your healing is our healing." Dr. Maté emphasizes the traditional wisdom that works with interdependent medicine is just as applicable to our modern world as it was in ancient times. Yet, sadly, medical practice often fails to acknowledge the science that confirms this. --------------- Dr. Gabor Maté is an internationally renowned speaker highly sought after for his expertise on addiction, trauma, childhood development, and the relationship between stress and illness. He is a bestselling author of four books published in over thirty languages. His book on addiction received the Hubert Evans Prize for literary non-fiction. For his groundbreaking medical work and writing, he has been awarded the Order of Canada, his country's highest civilian distinction, and the Civic Merit Award from his hometown, Vancouver. His books include In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters With Addiction; When the Body Says No; The Cost of Hidden Stress; Scattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder; and (with Dr. Gordon Neufeld) Hold on to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers.  His recent book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture, was released on September 13, 2022. His second next book, Hello Again: A Fresh Start for Parents and Their Adult Children, is expected in 2023. Gabor is also a co-developer of a therapeutic approach, Compassionate Inquiry, now studied by hundreds of therapists, physicians, counselors, and others internationally.  Connect with Dr. Gabor Maté: Website: www.drgabormate.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drgabormate Twitter: https://twitter.com/drgabormate Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gabormatemd/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsRF06lSFA8zV9L8_x9jzIA --------------- Thomas Hübl is a renowned teacher, author, and international facilitator whose lifelong work integrates the core insights of the great wisdom traditions and mysticism with the discoveries of science. Since 2004, he has taught and facilitated programs with more than 100,000 people worldwide, including online courses which he began offering in 2008. The origin of his work and more than two decades of study and practice on healing collective trauma is detailed in his book Healing Collective Trauma: A Process for Integrating Our Intergenerational and Cultural Wounds Connect with Thomas here: Website: https://thomashuebl.com/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/Thomas.Huebl.Sangha/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thomashuebl Twitter: https://twitter.com/ThomasHuebl  YouTube: https://youtube.com/@thomashuebl Sign up for updates by visiting our website:

This conversation is from the Wisdom of Trauma Talks on Trauma Series (2021). Somatic Abolitionism is living, embodied anti-racist practice and cultural building —a way of being in the world. It is a return to the age-old wisdom of human bodies respecting, honoring, and resonating with other human bodies. It is not a exclusively a goal, an attitude, a belief, an idea, a strategy, a movement, a plan, a system, a political position, or a step forward. Resmaa Menakem is an American author and psychotherapist specialising in the effects of trauma on the human body and the relationship between trauma, white body supremacy, and racism in America. He is the author of “My Grandmother's Hands: Racialized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending our Hearts and Bodies,” published in September 2017, which appeared on the New York Times bestseller list in May 2021 and "The Quaking of America: An Embodied Guide to Navigating our Nation's Upheaval and Racial Reckoning," published in 2022.He is also the founder of the Cultural Somatics Institute. Rather than offering quick-fix solutions to these complex issues, Dr. Gabor Maté weaves together scientific research, case histories, and his own insights and experience to present a broad perspective that enlightens and empowers people to promote their own healing and that of those around them. After 20 years of family practice and palliative care experience, Dr. Maté worked for over a decade in Vancouver's Downtown East Side with patients challenged by drug addiction and mental illness. The bestselling author of four books published in over thirty languages, Gabor is an internationally renowned speaker highly sought after for his expertise on addiction, trauma, childhood development, and the relationship of stress and illness. His book on addiction received the Hubert Evans Prize for literary non-fiction. For his groundbreaking medical work and writing he has been awarded the Order of Canada, his country's highest civilian distinction, and the Civic Merit Award from his hometown, Vancouver. His books include In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters With Addiction; When the Body Says No; The Cost of Hidden Stress; Scattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder; and (with Dr. Gordon Neufeld) Hold on to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His next book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture is due out on September 13, 2022. His second next book, Hello Again: A Fresh Start for Parents and Their Adult Children is expected in 2023. Gabor is also co-developer of a therapeutic approach, Compassionate Inquiry, now studied by hundreds of therapists, physicians, counselors, and others internationally. More on his books and programs can be found here.

In our society when rates of mental and physical illness are on the rise, despite advanced modern medicine, we must look within to ask where we are going wrong. Dr. Gabor Maté is back on The Know Thyself Podcast today, for a deep dive into his analysis of our toxic culture, and how we can heal by finding our true, authentic selves. He explains how to transcend the hypnotic passivity that we have fallen into, and begin to take our health (mental and physical) into our own hands. He explains generational trauma, ignorance in the medical system, and how the coping mechanisms we develop as children lead to detrimental subconscious patterns. He also explains overcoming addiction, emotional awareness, and whether he believes there is a 'divine design' in all our wounding.     ___________ Timecodes: 0:00 Intro 2:13 The Myth of Normal in a Toxic Culture  10:53 Hypnotic Passivity  15:41 Personal Responsibility & Social Media  19:29 Generational Trauma  29:21 Medical System: Ignorance vs Evil 32:50 Childhood Trauma & Coping Mechanisms 41:10 Self Harm  43:45 What Defines Addiction  48:14 Non Attachment vs Emotional Awareness  51:09 Healthy Anger  55:47 Before the Body Says No 1:05:08 Coming Back to Authentic Self  1:06:58 Sensitivity and Creativity  1:11:52 Divine Design in our Wounding 1:18:19 Strength in Vulnerability 1:23:29 Wisdom from Gabor  1:28:57 Conclusion ___________   Dr. Gabor Maté   A renowned speaker, and bestselling author, Dr. Gabor Maté is highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics including addiction, stress and childhood development. Rather than offering quick-fix solutions to these complex issues, Dr. Maté weaves together scientific research, case histories, and his own insights and experience to present a broad perspective that enlightens and empowers people to promote their own healing and that of those around them.   After 20 years of family practice and palliative care experience, Dr. Maté worked for over a decade in Vancouver's Downtown East Side with patients challenged by drug addiction and mental illness. The bestselling author of four books published in over thirty languages, Gabor is an internationally renowned speaker highly sought after for his expertise on addiction, trauma, childhood development, and the relationship of stress and illness. His book on addiction received the Hubert Evans Prize for literary non-fiction. For his groundbreaking medical work and writing he has been awarded the Order of Canada, his country's highest civilian distinction, and the Civic Merit Award from his hometown, Vancouver. His books include In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters With Addiction; When the Body Says No; The Cost of Hidden Stress; Scattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder; (with Dr. Gordon Neufeld) Hold on to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers; and his most recent book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture. Gabor is also co-developer of a therapeutic approach, Compassionate Inquiry, now studied by hundreds of therapists, physicians, counselors, and others internationally.    Website: https://drgabormate.com Dr. Maté's Latest Book, The Myth of Normal: https://drgabormate.com/book/the-myth-of-normal/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gabormatemd/   Watch Dr. Maté's Previous Appearance on the Know Thyself Podcast:  https://youtu.be/gPU0JcjybkY   ___________   Know Thyself Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/knowthyself/ Website: https://www.knowthyself.one Clips Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ4wglCWTJeWQC0exBalgKg   Listen to all episodes on Audio:  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4FSiemtvZrWesGtO2MqTZ4?si=d389c8dee8fa4026 Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/know-thyself/id1633725927     André Duqum Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreduqum/   Meraki Media https://merakimedia.com https://www.instagram.com/merakimedia/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When it comes to disease, mental illness, and addiction in our society, trauma is largely misunderstood and not discussed enough. In this live episode of the Know Thyself Podcast, we are joined by world-renowned author Dr. Gabor Maté, as he explains the myth of normal, and how to heal trauma in a toxic culture. He describes the origins of trauma and how memories of the past haunt our subconscious behaviors. Revealing how when we use our awareness and compassionate inquiry to heal these traumas, we unlock the gift of rediscovering our true nature.  The podcast is followed by a live Q&A from our audience, where Dr. Maté discusses the broken school system, ADHD as a coping mechanism, psychiatric medications, ayahuasca, and much more.   ___________ Timecodes: 0:00 Intro 2:40 What is Trauma  6:33 Little t VS Big T Trauma  10:08 Toxic Culture  18:18 Our True Nature  22:16 When We Abandon our True Selves 28:43 Breaking Unconscious Patterns 34:47 Survival Mechanisms  38:03 Observing the Origin of Trauma  42:36 Modalities for Making the Unconscious, Conscious 44:20 Trauma Disguised as a 'Winning' Personality 55:08 Parenthood - Stopping the Transfer of Trauma  58:42 A Broken School System  1:04:20 ADHD as a Coping Mechanism  1:12:18 Unresolved Anger  1:16:47 Psychiatric Medication  1:21:17 Healthy vs Toxic Habits  1:25:49 Keeping an Open Mind  1:30:20 Origin of Depression & Anxiety 1:34:06 Ayahuasca and Entities 1:38:53 Addressing Generational Trauma 1:46:55 Psychedelic Assisted Therapy  1:52:15 Neurosis in a Toxic Culture  1:58:16 Conclusion ___________   Dr. Gabor Maté   A renowned speaker, and bestselling author, Dr. Gabor Maté is highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics including addiction, stress and childhood development. Rather than offering quick-fix solutions to these complex issues, Dr. Maté weaves together scientific research, case histories, and his own insights and experience to present a broad perspective that enlightens and empowers people to promote their own healing and that of those around them.   After 20 years of family practice and palliative care experience, Dr. Maté worked for over a decade in Vancouver's Downtown East Side with patients challenged by drug addiction and mental illness. The bestselling author of four books published in over thirty languages, Gabor is an internationally renowned speaker highly sought after for his expertise on addiction, trauma, childhood development, and the relationship of stress and illness. His book on addiction received the Hubert Evans Prize for literary non-fiction. For his groundbreaking medical work and writing he has been awarded the Order of Canada, his country's highest civilian distinction, and the Civic Merit Award from his hometown, Vancouver. His books include In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters With Addiction; When the Body Says No; The Cost of Hidden Stress; Scattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder; (with Dr. Gordon Neufeld) Hold on to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers; and his most recent book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture. Gabor is also co-developer of a therapeutic approach, Compassionate Inquiry, now studied by hundreds of therapists, physicians, counselors, and others internationally.    Website: https://drgabormate.com Dr. Maté's Latest Book, The Myth of Normal: https://drgabormate.com/book/the-myth-of-normal/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gabormatemd/   ___________   This live podcast was made possible by Still Life - which provides stillness tools and techniques to actively induce peace, meaning and clarity   For more information on their meditation app or in person events, visit: https://still.life or visit their Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/still.life/?hl=en   ___________   Know Thyself Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/knowthyself/ Website: https://www.knowthyself.one Clips Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ4wglCWTJeWQC0exBalgKg   Listen to all episodes on Audio:  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4FSiemtvZrWesGtO2MqTZ4?si=d389c8dee8fa4026 Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/know-thyself/id1633725927     André Duqum Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreduqum/   Meraki Media https://merakimedia.com https://www.instagram.com/merakimedia/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

To hear the rest of this discussion, please join us on Patreon at - https://www.patreon.com/thekatiehalpershow Direct link to the full discussion with Dr. Gabor Maté & Daniel Maté - https://www.patreon.com/posts/dr-gabor-mate-on-77937326 Here is a preview of my conversation with Dr. Gabor Maté and his Son Daniel Maté, in which Dr. Maté talks about the way capitalism kills people, his latest book which he wrote with Daniel, the New York Times best-seller "The Myth Of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture," and more. After 20 years of family practice and palliative care experience, Dr. Maté worked for over a decade in Vancouver's Downtown East Side with patients challenged by drug addiction and mental illness. Gabor is an internationally renowned speaker highly with expertise on addiction, trauma, childhood development, and the relationship of stress and illness. His book on addiction received the Hubert Evans Prize for literary non-fiction. For his groundbreaking medical work and writing he has been awarded the Order of Canada, his country's highest civilian distinction, and the Civic Merit Award from his hometown, Vancouver. His books include In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters With Addiction; When the Body Says No; The Cost of Hidden Stress; Scattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder; and (with Dr. Gordon Neufeld) Hold on to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His next book is The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture is due out on September 13, 2022. His next book, Hello Again: A Fresh Start for Parents and Their Adult Children is expected in 2023. Gabor is also co-developer of a therapeutic approach, Compassionate Inquiry, now studied by hundreds of therapists, physicians, counselors, and others internationally. Daniel Maté is a Vancouver-born, Brooklyn-based composer, lyricist, playwright, and co-author of the NYT best-seller The Myth of Normal. He's won several prestigious awards for his musical theatre songwriting, including the Edward Kleban Prize, Cole Porter Award, and Jonathan Larson Grant. He's the co-host, with Carice van Houten of Game of Thrones fame, of the new podcast Let's Get Lyrical with Carice and Daniel. He also runs the world's only mental chiropractic service, which is called Take A Walk With Daniel. ***Please support The Katie Halper Show *** For bonus content, exclusive interviews, to support independent media and to help make this program possible, please join us on Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/thekatiehalpershow Direct link to the full discussion with Dr. Gabor Maté & Daniel Maté - https://www.patreon.com/posts/dr-gabor-mate-on-77937326 Follow Katie on Twitter: https://twitter.com/kthalps

Themes: Attachment Theory, Child Development, Trauma, the Mind-Body Connection, Authenticity, Boundaries, Illness, Health Summary:  It is such an honour to welcome renowned speaker and bestselling author Dr. Gabor Maté to the podcast this week. Dr. Maté is highly sought after for his expertise on various topics, including addiction, stress, and childhood development. He has written several bestselling books, including the award-winning In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction, When the Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease Connection, and Scattered: How Attention Deficit Disorder Originates and What You Can Do About It, and has coauthored Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His works have been published internationally in nearly thirty languages. In this illuminating episode, we discuss his incredible new book, The Myth of Normal, and how much of what we deem the norm in today's culture is neither healthy nor natural. Join us as we explore a range of topics, including trauma and its effects, attachment theory, the mind-body connection, the cost of repressing emotions, and more. Discover: How much of what we deem ‘normal' in today's culture is neither healthy nor natural and is actually responsible for a lot of illness in both mind and body.  How to differentiate trauma from a stressful experience The impacts of trauma on mental and physical health and how normalized trauma is in our culture Why the medical system ignores the mind-body connection The cost of repressing your emotions and people-pleasing How to heal in the toxicity of modern culture 00:00 Intro  00:47 The Myth of Normal 03:26 The idea of normal 05:28 The toxicity of modern culture 09:38 How our childhood wounds show up in the present day 12:43 Trauma 17:16 Why medicine ignores the mind-body connection 23:46 When does an experience become trauma? 26:16 Importance of attuned caregivers 34:15 The cost of suppressing your emotions 39:00 The cost of people pleasing & no boundaries 43:42 Choosing your pain - authenticity vs. belonging 50:00 Exercises for self-understanding 55:00 Healing a toxic culture Links: Website | drgabormate.com & wholehearted.org Book | The Myth of Normal - Trauma, Illness, & Healing in a Toxic Culture Instagram | @gabormatemd Facebook | @drgabormate Twitter | @drgabormate Neurobiology and the Development of Human Morality by Dr. Darcia Narvaez The Evolved Nest: Natures Way of Raising Children and Creating Connected Communities by Dr. Darcia Narvaez Sponsors: Cured Nutrition | Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off all products at curednutrition.com/createthelove Create the Love Cards | Use code CTLCARDS15 for 15% off at createthelove.com/cards See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Parenting is a challenging journey, full of uncertainty and self-doubt.  It can be hard to know if you are doing the right thing when it comes to parenting your kids and loving them on an individual level to ensure all their needs are met both emotionally and physically. Welcome back to the Family Brand Podcast! Melissa here for another show and If you agree with the statement above, this episode will blow your mind. Fair warning before you dive into today's content, you may want to grab a pin and paper or your digital equivalent so you can take notes. This episode is packed with valuable tips all parents need to hear!  Hit play to meet the one and only Crystal Haitsma. Crystal is known as the “parenting coach” and talks with us about how to trust yourself as a parent. Crystal has a unique approach to parenting and I was excited to hear more about it face-to-face.  I stumbled upon Crystal's Instagram and after scrolling through a few posts I had to know more. I  was immediately drawn to her connection-based parenting method. Crystal explains that the connection-based parenting method is all about building a strong relationship with your children and It's about being present, listening actively, and understanding your child's perspective. It's not about being tyrannical or controlling but rather about being a guide for your child and learning how to help and love them in the best way possible. For most of us, this approach to parenting is 100% the opposite of what we experienced growing up.  Learning how to parent in a new way can seem daunting at first or your temptation may be to run out and grab every book you can find on parenting and self-development you can find. Either way, you'll learn during our conversation that building a better relationship with your child may be easier than you think. Why? Because you have everything you need to succeed inside you. Crystal reminds us of the fundamental truths of self-care and how if we take care of ourselves we can better serve our kids and families. You'll also hear her advice on how to trust your intuition, how to overcome the battles in your mind, how to not repeat the pain of your past and so much more.  It's okay to make mistakes and remember that being a perfect parent is impossible. However, we know there is always room for growth! We look forward to relistening to this episode over and over again to learn more from Crystal. To reach out to us or learn more about our guests, follow the links below!    More Of What's Inside: Crystal's approach as a parenting coach Why it's so easy to want a certain behavior from your kids It's never too late to change your relationship with your kids Self-healing is both daunting and empowering The difference between thought work and emotional work What to do if you feel like melting down Melisa gets coached live on the podcast How Crystal got started parenting coaching  The power of connection based parenting And much more!   Links For This Episode:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.parenting.coach Crystal's Podcast: http://www.coachcrystal.ca/blog Crystal's Parenting Personality Quiz: https://coachcrystal.involve.me/parents-organic Link to Crystal's Mindset Journal for Parents: https://www.coachcrystal.ca/shop Book- By Gordon Neufeld- "Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers": https://amzn.to/3GqOF6p Book-by Deborah MacNamara PhD- "Rest, Play, Grow: Making Sense of Preschoolers (Or Anyone Who Acts Like One)": https://amzn.to/3Zp6NGf Website: familybrand.com Social:  Facebook: www.facebook.com/FamilyBrandOfficial Instagram: www.instagram.com/ourfamilybrand YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCGu-7odB6gkPbyXpUIQLkrg Twitter: https://twitter.com/OurFamilyBrand  Free course: familybrand.com/10steps Episode Minute By Minute: 0:52 How Crystal and Melissa met  1:33 What Crystal does as a parenting couch 7:01 What is connection-based parenting  9:35 How to show up with different energy with your kids 14:50 Shifting your perspective as a parent 17:01 Why it's important to connect with your teenager  22:28 You have the power inside of yourself for you or your kids 27:18 Your past will affect your parenting  31:47 How to start being a better parent today 35:20 What to do when you're overly stimulated 40:02 Teaching your kids how to process emotions  45:57  How to learn more from Crystal  47:57 Books about parenting you may love 51:33 How to take control of your thoughts and mindset

In this episode of the Align podcast, Psychology expert Gabor Maté tells us all about trauma, how we can define it and how we can solve our internal psychological wounds. We explore the relationship we have with ourselves and others and what it truly means to be vulnerable. We also speak about the repression of our emotions, the essence of human nature and whether evil really exists within people or in the nature of their actions. A renowned speaker and bestselling author, Dr. Gabor Maté is highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics including addiction, stress, and childhood development. Dr. Maté has written several bestselling books, including the award-winning In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction, When the Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease Connection, and Scattered: How Attention Deficit Disorder Originates and What You Can Do About It, and has coauthored Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His works have been published internationally in nearly thirty languages. Thank you to our sponsors: LifeForce: Use code ALIGN for 15% off at: mylifeforce.com HVMN: Use code ALIGN-20 for 20% off at: https://hvmn.com The Align Method Program is launching January 15th! Now is the time to move better and feel better. Head to alignpodcast.com/amp to join the waitlist to be notified when enrollment opens! Try the first week for free.

In this episode of the In Search of More podcast, Eli Nash sits down with Gabor + Daniel Mate to discuss their new book, The Myth Of Normal, Parent + Adult Child relationships, how to deal with trauma, and much more. Sign up for the In Search of More newsletter here: https://bit.ly/eliyahunash Connect with Gabor: The Myth of Normal: https://amzn.to/3hNtLWO In The Realm of Hungry Ghosts: https://amzn.to/3jcdKKf Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers: https://amzn.to/3GddST2 Scattered Minds: https://amzn.to/3YMpdki Instagram: http://bit.ly/3i3Azj4 ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Daniel Instagram: https://bit.ly/3Gt9UFU Walk With Daniel: https://bit.ly/3G9P24X Let's Get Lyrical Podcast: http://bit.ly/3WYBoZi ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with Eli Website | https://bit.ly/eliyahunash Instagram | https://bit.ly/eliyahu_nash Facebook | http://bit.ly/3h3rFSr YouTube | https://youtube.com/@insearchofmore

In this episode of the In Search of More podcast, Eli Nash sat down with Gabor Mate. Dr. Mate is the author of several books, including The Myth of Normal, In The Realm of Hungry Ghosts, Hold On To Your Kids, and Scattered Minds. In this conversation, Eli & Gabor discuss trauma, healing, addiction, plant medicines, how to maintain constant growth & Judaism. Sign up for the In Search of More newsletter here: https://bit.ly/eliyahunash Connect with Gabor: The Myth of Normal: https://amzn.to/3hNtLWO In The Realm of Hungry Ghosts: https://amzn.to/3jcdKKf Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers: https://amzn.to/3GddST2 Scattered Minds: https://amzn.to/3YMpdki ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with Eli: Website | https://bit.ly/eliyahunash Instagram | https://bit.ly/eliyahu_nash Facebook | http://bit.ly/3h3rFSr YouTube | https://youtube.com/@insearchofmore -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Men aren't toxic, they're traumatized. Renowned physician, author and speaker Dr. Gabor Maté talks about internalized rage, our toxic world culture, childhood trauma and reframing our approach to mental illness. With over 40 years of clinical experience and personal development, Maté takes us to school on our misconceptions about the traumas and “toxicity” within us as he gently reminds us that we are much more connected than we are led to believe.      New episodes every Monday

In this conversation from the “Talks on Trauma” series Gabor investigates the paths of personal Trauma woven into the Buddhist and personal psychology fields for which Jack and Tara are so well known. Find out more about this series “Talks on Trauma” as part of the “All Access Pass” from the film The Wisdom of Trauma: https://thewisdomoftrauma.com/store/ Tara Brach is an American psychologist, author, and proponent of Buddhist meditation. She is a guiding teacher and founder of the Insight Meditation Community of Washington, D.C. (IMCW). Brach also teaches about Buddhist meditation at centers for meditation and yoga in the United States and Europe, including Spirit Rock Meditation Center in Woodacre, California; the Kripalu Center, and the Omega Institute for Holistic Studies. Brach is an Engaged Buddhist, specializing in the application of Buddhist teachings and mindfulness meditation to emotional healing. She has authored several books on these subjects, including Radical Acceptance, True Refuge, and Radical Compassion. tarabrach.com Jack Kornfield trained as a Buddhist monk in the monasteries of Thailand, India and Burma. He has taught meditation internationally since 1974 and is one of the key teachers to introduce Buddhist mindfulness practice to the West. After graduating from Dartmouth College in Asian Studies in 1967 he joined the Peace Corps and worked on tropical medicine teams in the Mekong River valley. He met and studied as a monk under the Buddhist master Ven. Ajahn Chah, as well as the Ven. Mahasi Sayadaw of Burma. Returning to the United States, Jack co-founded the Insight Meditation Society in Barre, Massachusetts, with fellow meditation teachers Sharon Salzberg and Joseph Goldstein and the Spirit Rock Center in Woodacre, California. Over the years, Jack has taught in centers and universities worldwide, led International Buddhist Teacher meetings, and worked with many of the great teachers of our time. He holds a Ph.D. in clinical psychology and is a father, husband and activist. His books have been translated into 20 languages and sold more than a million copies. They include, A Wise Heart: A Guide to the Universal Teachings of Buddhist Psychology, A Path with Heart; After the Ecstasy, the Laundry; Teachings of the Buddha; Seeking the Heart of Wisdom; Living Dharma; A Still Forest Pool; Stories of the Spirit, Stories of the Heart; Buddha's Little Instruction Book; The Art of Forgiveness, Lovingkindness and Peace, Bringing Home the Dharma: Awakening Right Where You Are, and his most recent book, No Time Like the Present: Finding Freedom, Love, and Joy Right Where You Are. jackkornfield.com Dr. Gabor Maté Rather than offering quick-fix solutions to these complex issues, Dr. Maté weaves together scientific research, case histories, and his own insights and experience to present a broad perspective that enlightens and empowers people to promote their own healing and that of those around them. After 20 years of family practice and palliative care experience, Dr. Maté worked for over a decade in Vancouver's Downtown East Side with patients challenged by drug addiction and mental illness. The bestselling author of four books published in over thirty languages, Gabor is an internationally renowned speaker highly sought after for his expertise on addiction, trauma, childhood development, and the relationship of stress and illness. His book on addiction received the Hubert Evans Prize for literary non-fiction. For his groundbreaking medical work and writing he has been awarded the Order of Canada, his country's highest civilian distinction, and the Civic Merit Award from his hometown, Vancouver. His books include In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters With Addiction; When the Body Says No; The Cost of Hidden Stress; Scattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder; and (with Dr. Gordon Neufeld) Hold on to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His next book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture is due out on September 13, 2022. His second next book, Hello Again: A Fresh Start for Parents and Their Adult Children is expected in 2023. Gabor is also co-developer of a therapeutic approach, Compassionate Inquiry, now studied by hundreds of therapists, physicians, counselors, and others internationally. More on his books and programs can be found here. gabormate.com Science and Nonduality is a community inspired by timeless wisdom, informed by cutting-edge science, and grounded in direct experience. We come together in an open-hearted exploration while celebrating our humanity. scienceandnonduality.com/podcast

Our podcast this morning completes an interview with Michael Kilpatrick, a continuation of podcast #22 from last week. Michael Kilpatrick is a farmer, podcast host, and inventor who helps farmers and others apply business principles and practical, proven solutions to grow their businesses and simplify their lives. He runs farmer training programs and he owns and operates the Farm on Central in Ohio. And of course, he is a dad! Besides growing farmers and their businesses, he incorporates his faith in his daily life, and being a good dad to his growing family is a priority as well. Michael shares his thoughts and experiences in parenting. I really enjoyed talking to him as he was transparent with us and had some very interesting thoughts. 00:00 Introduction01:28 Developing character- honesty06:35 Learning in the last decade07:22 Learning from Ancient Cultures10:34 Find the root of frustrations11:07 True man admits he's wrong and keeps their hearts12:20 Kids mirror emotions12:47 Communication with the kids14:20 Time with kids is important16:21 Take breaks in frustrations 16:45 Hand-on-arm communication17:17 Projects with kids and phone rules 19:01 Holistic approach to health and behavior 22:45 Final words Michael has multiple service-oriented businesses. Here are some links to his businesses: The Farm on Central Growing Farmer Training https://michaelkilpatrick.com/ Michael referred to an author whom he has learned from. I haven't read his books, but here are links to a couple of his books about healing from emotionally toxic environments. I would love to hear your thoughts about them! The Myth of Normal- Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture, by Gabor Mate and Daniel Mate Hold on to Your Kids- Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Their Peers, by Gabor Mate and Gordon Neufeld Scattered Minds- The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder, by Gabor Mate Michael talked about things that may be out of some of the mainstream channels of thought. I have previously mentioned our Adventure Parenting chats where we can discuss what we are hearing in our podcasts. I would love for you to join me to discuss these further. You can sign up here: Adventure Parenting with Grace Community Chats to discuss all things parenting. You get 8 forty-five-minute chats a month for a nominal fee- 2$ a session. May you have a terrific week and remember to rest in the Lord this week! You can reach me at Laurie@KidStrength4Life.com or check us out at https://KidStrength4Life.com

Today, I talk to Dr. Gabor Maté. A celebrated speaker and bestselling author, Dr. Gabor Maté is highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics, such as addiction, stress, and childhood development. Dr. Maté has written several bestselling books, including the award-winning In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction; When the Body Says No: The Cost of Hidden Stress; and Scattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder. He is also the co-author of Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His works have been published internationally in more than thirty languages.Dr. Maté generously shares his deep understanding of childhood trauma, vulnerability, grief, and emotional distress. He explains what real trauma is and how time doesn't necessarily lead to healing, how vulnerability is ingrained in us since we are young and the importance of these formative years to mold our emotional health, and the societal expectations we always try to meet but have never truly given us real fulfillment. We also exchange thoughts on dealing with grief, how we struggle to identify with the people we look up to, and how childhood experience varies for every child even when they are raised in a similar environment.Trauma is a wound that has not fully healed which can be triggered at any point in our life so it matters that we are able to find a common ground and stay firm in what can give us healing, emotional stability, and happiness.What We Discuss:00:00:00 Intro00:03:12 How do you define trauma?00:06:32 How is healing defined?00:08:45 Time itself does not heal emotional wounds00:11:38 We are all born vulnerable00:13:55 The inherent expectations we all have00:20:00 The societal standards we try to live up to 00:25:15 It's not possible to love kids too much00:29:35 Grief is essential for life00:32:19 When the past dominates the present reactions00:35:16 There is no healthy identification00:42:11 Why are we set on things staying the same00:44:38 No two children have the same childhood00:50:19 The difference between loneliness and being alone00:53:54 How do you see human nature?01:02:24 Suffering has to be acknowledged01:06:27 Getting closure and start moving on01:10:04 Spirituality becomes commoditized01:15:56 Dr. Maté on Final Five:Episode ResourcesGabor Maté | WebsiteGabor Maté | InstagramGabor Maté | TwitterGabor Maté | BooksThe Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic CultureDo you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on CalmWant to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/

A renowned speaker and bestselling author, Dr. Gabor Maté is highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics including addiction, stress, and childhood development. Dr. Maté has written several bestselling books, including the award-winning In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction, When the Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease Connection, and Scattered: How Attention Deficit Disorder Originates and What You Can Do About It, and has coauthored Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His works have been published internationally in nearly thirty languages.

Today's episode features a conversation with Ashleigh Warner, holistic family psychologist and the woman behind @raisinghumanskind. Ashleigh's teachings on mindful parenting have blown me away. She shares so many tools to actively shift how we raise little ones, which (as we explore in the interview) reflects where we are at ourselves. Whether you're not a parent yet, or are already a parent: kids are such a potent mirror to help us better see our own inner world. Even if you don't have any desire to be a parent: we are all in the never-ending process of re-parenting ourselves. I hope this episode inspires you to (re)connect with your own inner child or real-life children in a way that provides opportunities for more growth, awareness, tears, play, and deeper connection. You can learn more about Ashleigh at: @raisinghumanskind https://holisticfamilypsychologist.com The book that she mentions is, Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté.

How do you feel when you are in between stages of life? Excited? Nervous? Afraid?  Tweens - those kids in between childhood and adolescence - are capable, growing into their own thoughts and ideas and preferences, but not quite as opinionated as teenagers.  In this “in between” there is plenty of room for curiosity and character development if we will stay connected to and interested in our kids.  My guest this week is Charissa Lopez (she's gotten married since she was last on the show as Charissa Fry), a therapist and parent coach, and she encourages us that healthy attachment can lead to healthy individuation (that process of our kids distinguishing themselves from us).  She helps us see that for the entire time we are in relationship with our kids they need comfort and encouragement and connection with us. Though we still have authority over our kids we, as parents, are transitioning out of such a hands-on role in their lives and Charissa helps us think through puberty and friend groups, and our tweens' spiritual growth.  Connect with Charissa Lopez:  Website:  https://charissalopez.com  Special Resources for DMA Listeners from past episodes: https://charissalopez.com/resources/regulation-pack/ Links Mentioned*:   **For resources mentioned below, parents should read the book first. Don't feel like you have to read every word to your child. Just use the parts that work for your family and skip the rest. Or discuss why some people believe differently than you.* Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté  It's So Amazing!:A Book about Eggs, Sperm, Birth, Babies and Families The Care and Keeping of You: The Body Book for Younger Girls, Revised Edition The Care and Keeping of You 2: The Body Book for Older Girls Guy Stuff: The Body Book for Boys Birds and Bees Ministry with Mary Flo Ridley and Megan Michelson Related Episodes: Connecting Through Play :: Charissa Fry [Ep 319]  The Window of Tolerance :: Charissa Fry [Ep 260]  Self-Differentiation and Why it Matters :: Nancy Houston [Ep 335] Featured Sponsors:  Find links to this week's sponsors and unique promo codes at dontmomalone.com/sponsors.

This episode is brought to you by BiOptimizers and Birch Living.How is it possible that, in a culture so obsessed with wellness, we're dealing with more chronic disease, mental illness, and addiction than ever before?Today on The Dhru Purohit Podcast, Dhru talks to Dr. Gabor Maté about his new book, The Myth of Normal, and our crisis of separation, disconnection, and loneliness. They discuss the link between addiction, our profit-driven culture, and trauma and the first steps we can take toward health and healing.Dr. Maté is a renowned speaker and bestselling author and is highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics, including addiction, stress, and childhood development. Dr. Maté has written several bestselling books, including the award-winning In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction, When the Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease Connection, and Scattered: How Attention Deficit Disorder Originates and What You Can Do About It and has coauthored Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His latest book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture, was just released. In this episode, we dive into: -What we've gotten used to in our toxic culture and the consequences of it (2:31)-How society shapes our mind (11:37)-The crisis of separation we're living in and how it has played a key role in our toxic culture (17:25)-The role genes play in human health and behavior (32:41)-Gabor's childhood trauma and the impact it's had on his life (36:43)-Understanding trauma and how it shapes the way we live, the way we love, and the way we make sense of the world (44:04)-What society is getting from living in this toxic culture (51:11)-Why women suffer from more anxiety, depression, and autoimmune disease than men (1:07:27)-Personality traits and coping mechanisms (1:14:01)-Psychedelics and healing (1:18:18)For more on Dr. Maté, follow him on Instagram @gabormatemd, Facebook @drgabormate, Twitter @drgabormate, YouTube @drgabormate, and through his website, drgabormate.com. Get his book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture, here. This episode is brought to you by BiOptimizers and Birch Living.Magnesium Breakthrough really stands out from the other magnesium supplements out there. BiOptimizers is offering my community 10% off, so just head over to magbreakthrough.com/dhru with code DHRU10.The Birch Mattress by Helix is made out of organic latex, organic cotton, New Zealand wool, and American steel springs. To get $200 off your Birch Living mattress plus two free eco-rest pillows, head over to birchliving.com/dhru. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Renowned speaker and bestselling author, Dr. Gabor Maté on trauma and healing in a toxic culture. He is highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics including addiction, stress, and childhood development.  SOME KEY POINTS Children's irreducible needs Attachment and authenticity How early childhood trauma can show up in our parenting  The impact of parental stress on kids, including stress in utero  How you can deal with your own discomfort with our child's big feelings Pathways to healing and so much more MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE  The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness and Healing in a Toxic Culture In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction When the Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease Connection Scattered: How Attention Deficit Disorder Originates and What You Can Do About It Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers The Wisdom of Trauma documentary Hello Again workshop at Omega OTHER EPISODES YOU MAY LIKE Ep. 289: Developing Mind-Body Tools for Resilience with Rebekkah LaDayne  Ep.292: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with Dick Schwartz, PhD Ep. 260: Parenting with Presence with Dr. Dan Siegel  Ep. 203: Discovering Wholeness and Healing After Trauma with James Gordon, MD Ep. 326: Befriending Your Nervous System with Deb Dana Ep. 306: The Invisible Epidemic of Trauma with Paul Conti, MD Ep.332: The Science of Stuck and Trauma Healing with Britt Frank Ep. 314: The 6 Critical Needs of Children with Anna Seewald  Ep. 313: Reconnecting to Your Authentic Self with Dr. Thema Bryant  Ep. 311: The Healing Power of Storytelling  BEST BOOKS I READ IN 2022 The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness and Healing in a Toxic Culture A Place Called Home by David Ambroz Stolen Focus by Johann Hari The AfterGrief by Hope Edeleman The Anatomy of Anxiety by Ellen Vora Strange Situation bt Bethany Saltman  Brain-Body Parenting by Mona Delahooke  Parent Nation by Dana Suskind  SUPPORT THE SHOW, SHOW YOUR LOVE Become a patron on Patreon.com and join 21 exisiting memebers who contribute $121 towards our monthly goal of $500.  Make a one-time donation in any amount to say “Thank you!” Rate or write a review FULL SHOW NOTES www.authenticparenting.com/podcast HOW TO WORK WITH ANNA I would be thrilled to support you in your parenting journey! All listeners get 10% off on my services. Private Coaching Online courses and classes GET IN TOUCH Comments, questions, feedback, and love notes  USA listeners call 732-763-2576 and leave a voicemail. International listeners use the FREE Speak Pipe tool on my website Email: info@authenticparenting.com STAY CONNECTED Instagram Facebook Group-Authentic Parenting Community Thank you for listening!  With gratitude, Anna Seewald Parent Educator, Keynote Speaker, Author www.authenticparenting.com

This episode is brought to you by Rupa Health, InsideTracker, and FOND.Why are we seeing more chronic disease, stress, obesity, addiction, and so many other states of illness than ever before, despite having the most advanced medical system in the world?Because we aren't living in a natural and normal world. We're actually having normal responses to our abnormal circumstances, many of which create trauma that gets stored in the brain and body. Today on The Doctor's Farmacy, I'm honored to talk to my dear friend Dr. Gabor Maté about the myth of normal, and why doing the difficult work of uncovering trauma is essential for living our fullest expression of life. A renowned speaker and bestselling author, Dr. Gabor Maté is highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics including addiction, stress, and childhood development. Dr. Maté has written several bestselling books, including the award-winning In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction, When the Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease Connection, and Scattered: How Attention Deficit Disorder Originates and What You Can Do About It, and has co-authored Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His latest book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture was just released. This episode is brought to you by Rupa Health, InsideTracker, and FOND.Rupa Health is a place where Functional Medicine practitioners can access more than 2,000 specialty lab tests from over 20 labs like DUTCH, Vibrant America, Genova, and Great Plains. You can check out a free, live demo with a Q&A or create an account at RupaHealth.com.InsideTracker is a personalized health and wellness platform like no other. Right now they're offering my community 20% off at insidetracker.com/drhyman.To experience FOND's amazing health benefits, go to fondbonebroth.com/drhyman and use code HYMAN20 to get 20% off your purchase. You'll even find a sampler there with all of my favorites!Here are more details from our interview (audio version / Apple Subscriber version):Uncovering my personal trauma history (6:42 / 3:50) Scientific evidence linking trauma and stress to physical and mental illness (14:38 / 11:45) Social determinants of health (16:34 / 14:15) Our crisis of separation, disconnection, and loneliness (20:25 / 18:00) The link between addiction, our profit-driven culture, and trauma (25:16 / 22:20) The myth of normal (31:07 / 26:33) Tools, therapies, and resources for your own healing (49:50 / 45:41) Treating trauma with plant medicines and psychedelics (55:40 / 51:16) The biology of psychology (1:10:46 / 1:06:20) Gabor's vision for our society (1:31:42 / 1:25:48) Learn more about Gabor Maté at drgabormate.com and get a copy of his new book, The Myth of Normal—Trauma, Illness, & Healing In a Toxic Culture, here. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dr. Reedy welcomes Dr. Gabor Maté to the podcast. A renowned speaker and bestselling author, Dr. Gabor Maté is highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics including addiction, stress, and childhood development. Dr. Maté has written several bestselling books, including the award-winning In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction, When the Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease Connection, and Scattered: How Attention Deficit Disorder Originates and What You Can Do About It, and has coauthored Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His works have been published internationally in nearly 30 languages. His new book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture, is in bookstores now.

Dr. Gabor Maté — The Myth of Normal, Metabolizing Anger, Processing Trauma, and Finding the Still Voice Within | Brought to you by Tommy John premium underwear, Athletic Greens all-in-one nutritional supplement, and ButcherBox premium meats delivered to your door.Dr. Gabor Maté (@DrGaborMate) is a renowned speaker and bestselling author, highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics that includes addiction, stress, and childhood development. Dr. Maté has written several bestselling books, including the award-winning In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction, When the Body Says No: Exploring the Stress-Disease Connection, and Scattered: How Attention Deficit Disorder Originates and What You Can Do About It. He has also coauthored Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His works have been published internationally in nearly thirty languages.His new book is The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture.Please enjoy! *This episode is brought to you by Tommy John premium underwear! For men, Tommy John offers six different styles so you can find the one that suits you best. Their line of men's briefs and boxers is one of my top choices for all-day comfort. I tested their Second Skin Mid-Length Boxer Brief and the Cool Cotton Trunk.Shop Tommy John's Labor Day Sale now at TommyJohn.com/Tim and save 25% sitewide. There's little risk because of Tommy John's “Best Pair You'll Ever Wear or It's Free” guarantee. Offer ends September 11th.*This episode is also brought to you by Athletic Greens. I get asked all the time, “If you could use only one supplement, what would it be?” My answer is usually AG1 by Athletic Greens, my all-in-one nutritional insurance. I recommended it in The 4-Hour Body in 2010 and did not get paid to do so. I do my best with nutrient-dense meals, of course, but AG further covers my bases with vitamins, minerals, and whole-food-sourced micronutrients that support gut health and the immune system. Right now, Athletic Greens is offering you their Vitamin D Liquid Formula free with your first subscription purchase—a vital nutrient for a strong immune system and strong bones. Visit AthleticGreens.com/Tim to claim this special offer today and receive the free Vitamin D Liquid Formula (and five free travel packs) with your first subscription purchase! That's up to a one-year supply of Vitamin D as added value when you try their delicious and comprehensive all-in-one daily greens product.*This episode is also brought to you by ButcherBox! ButcherBox makes it easy for you to get high-quality, humanely raised meat that you can trust. They deliver delicious, 100% grass-fed, grass-finished beef; free-range organic chicken; heritage-breed pork; and wild-caught seafood directly to your door.And now, ButcherBox is offering you, my dear listeners, a fantastic deal—free chicken for a year! Get 2 lbs. of free-range, organic chicken breasts for free in every order when you sign up at butcherbox.com/TIM. Plus, get an extra $10 off your first box with promo code TIM10 at checkout. Claim this deal at butcherbox.com/TIM.*For show notes and past guests on The Tim Ferriss Show, please visit tim.blog/podcast.For deals from sponsors of The Tim Ferriss Show, please visit tim.blog/podcast-sponsorsSign up for Tim's email newsletter (5-Bullet Friday) at tim.blog/friday.For transcripts of episodes, go to tim.blog/transcripts.Discover Tim's books: tim.blog/books.Follow Tim:Twitter: twitter.com/tferriss Instagram: instagram.com/timferrissYouTube: youtube.com/timferrissFacebook: facebook.com/timferriss LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/timferrissPast guests on The Tim Ferriss Show include Jerry Seinfeld, Hugh Jackman, Dr. Jane Goodall, LeBron James, Kevin Hart, Doris Kearns Goodwin, Jamie Foxx, Matthew McConaughey, Esther Perel, Elizabeth Gilbert, Terry Crews, Sia, Yuval Noah Harari, Malcolm Gladwell, Madeleine Albright, Cheryl Strayed, Jim Collins, Mary Karr, Maria Popova, Sam Harris, Michael Phelps, Bob Iger, Edward Norton, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Neil Strauss, Ken Burns, Maria Sharapova, Marc Andreessen, Neil Gaiman, Neil de Grasse Tyson, Jocko Willink, Daniel Ek, Kelly Slater, Dr. Peter Attia, Seth Godin, Howard Marks, Dr. Brené Brown, Eric Schmidt, Michael Lewis, Joe Gebbia, Michael Pollan, Dr. Jordan Peterson, Vince Vaughn, Brian Koppelman, Ramit Sethi, Dax Shepard, Tony Robbins, Jim Dethmer, Dan Harris, Ray Dalio, Naval Ravikant, Vitalik Buterin, Elizabeth Lesser, Amanda Palmer, Katie Haun, Sir Richard Branson, Chuck Palahniuk, Arianna Huffington, Reid Hoffman, Bill Burr, Whitney Cummings, Rick Rubin, Dr. Vivek Murthy, Darren Aronofsky, Margaret Atwood, Mark Zuckerberg, Peter Thiel, Dr. Gabor Maté, Anne Lamott, Sarah Silverman, Dr. Andrew Huberman, and many more.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In a rare meeting of minds, Gabor Mate asks Adyashanti explore whether there is a predilection for spirituality and expand on passages from Adyashanti's recent book My Secret Is Silence. Discussion topics in this episode: The influence of trauma on the spiritual path The need for specialists help Spiritual bypassing The power of silence The relationship between spiritual insight and emotional growth In a rare meeting of minds, Dr. Gabor Maté asks Adyashanti explore whether there is a predilection for spirituality and expand on passages from Adyashanti's recent book My Secret Is Silence Discussion topics in this episode: The influence of trauma on the spiritual path The need for specialists help Spiritual bypassing The relationship between spiritual insight and emotional growth. Dr. Gabor Maté Rather than offering quick-fix solutions to these complex issues, Dr. Maté weaves together scientific research, case histories, and his own insights and experience to present a broad perspective that enlightens and empowers people to promote their own healing and that of those around them. After 20 years of family practice and palliative care experience, Dr. Maté worked for over a decade in Vancouver's Downtown East Side with patients challenged by drug addiction and mental illness. The bestselling author of four books published in over thirty languages, Gabor is an internationally renowned speaker highly sought after for his expertise on addiction, trauma, childhood development, and the relationship of stress and illness. His book on addiction received the Hubert Evans Prize for literary non-fiction. For his groundbreaking medical work and writing he has been awarded the Order of Canada, his country's highest civilian distinction, and the Civic Merit Award from his hometown, Vancouver. His books include In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters With Addiction; When the Body Says No; The Cost of Hidden Stress; Scattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder; and (with Dr. Gordon Neufeld) Hold on to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His next book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture is due out on September 13, 2022. His second next book, Hello Again: A Fresh Start for Parents and Their Adult Children is expected in 2023. Gabor is also co-developer of a therapeutic approach, Compassionate Inquiry, now studied by hundreds of therapists, physicians, counselors, and others internationally. More on his books and programs can be found here. https://drgabormate.com Dr. Gabor Maté Adyashanti (whose name means “primordial peace”) is an American-born spiritual teacher who has been teaching for 26 years. His teachings include evening meetings, weekend intensives, silent retreats, live internet broadcasts, and online courses. He has taught throughout the US and also in Canada, the UK, the Netherlands, Denmark, Switzerland, Germany, and Australia. More than 30,000 people in 120 countries are connected to his website through free email subscription. He is the author of eleven books. https://www.adyashanti.org. Find out more at scienceandnonduality.com/podcastReach out to us at podcast@scienceandnonduality.com

1:15 this is not about perfection, its about awareness and trusting the process 2:00 tool #1 GEMS “genuine encounter moments” 7:27 tool #2 Pause Buttons with intention to teach 8:08 victor Frankl book “Mans Search for Meaning” 11:08 using fear, force, rewards, & punishments isn't teaching our kids 11:35 giving kids the gift of intrinsic motivation & ability to follow moral compass 13:16 You can be the source of peace Book Recommendations: Children: The Challenge : The Classic Work on Improving Parent-Child Relations--Intelligent, Humane & Eminently Practical by Rudolf Dreikurs and Vicki Stolz Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Gordon Nuefeld and Gabor Maté MD Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life: Life-Changing Tools for Healthy Relationships (Nonviolent Communication Guides) by Marshall B. Rosenberg

Join CPP Founder Fritzi Horstman and guests as they discuss the objectives and approaches involved in bringing trauma awareness and compassionate healing to the forefront of public conversation. https://youtu.be/e2rdXV2iY_w April is Child Abuse Awareness month and I can't think of a better guest than Dr. Gabor Maté to discuss what happens to a child when he faces abuse and neglect while growing up. This was one of my all-time favorite conversations. We discuss Authenticity vs. Attachment, why a young, traumatized person is attracted to gangs, what happens to a young brain when it's traumatized and Dr. Maté answered questions sent in by men from prison. About Dr. Gabor Maté After 20 years of family practice and palliative care experience, Dr. Gabor Maté worked for over a decade in Vancouver's Downtown East Side with patients challenged by drug addiction and mental illness. The bestselling author of four books published in over thirty languages, Gabor is an internationally renowned speaker highly sought after for his expertise on addiction, trauma, childhood development, and the relationship of stress and illness. His books include In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters With Addiction; When the Body Says No; The Cost of Hidden Stress; Scattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder; and (with Dr. Gordon Neufeld) Hold on to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. His next book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture is due out on September 13, 2022. Gabor is also co-developer of a therapeutic approach, Compassionate Inquiry, now studied by hundreds of therapists, physicians, counselors, and others internationally. Learn more about Dr. Gabor Maté, his books and his work here. Feature image from drgabormate.com Donate to our non-profit compassion Prison Project

> Sign Up For Our Newsletter: http://www.firsthuman.com/being-human-newsletter/ For any parents out there, our guest this week is Dr. Gordon Neufeld, author of Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. He speaks about the perils of peer attachment in our children and what we can do to win them back. I'm joined by a colleague in my co-working space, Suzanne, who is facing this right now, and Gordon provides Suzanne with some real-time advice, including sharing how he rescued his relationship with his own daughter. We talk about effective strategies for preserving our child-parent relationships in the context of today's ubiquitous social media presence.   Links: Hold On To Your Kids - The Book The Neufeld Institute

Anna Pippus is a plant-based lawyer, mother of two and bestselling author of the new book The Vegan Family Cookbook, a collection of simple recipes and game-changing kitchen strategies. In the episode, we chat about the most effective ways to feed a plant-based family… but honestly, today's convo is going to help anyone who wants to streamline their meal planning or who is curious about how to just: eat. more. plants. About Anna Pippus: Anna Pippus is the bestselling author of The Vegan Family Cookbook, a collection of simple recipes and game-changing kitchen strategies. A lifelong food lover and the self-appointed Kitchen Manager in her family, Anna is known for her casual, creative, and realistic approach to healthy and flavourful vegan cooking. Anna holds degrees in law and psychology, having worked as a farmed animal advocacy lawyer in Toronto and Vancouver, and has been named one of Canada's most influential vegans. She now calls East Van home with her husband and two children. On this episode we chat about: The difference between what kids need from their food versus what adults need! How the parent-child relationship affects eating styles—and how healthy attachment can help prevent picky eating. When and why children might begin to choose a plant-based or vegetarian diet. How a plant-based diet can be cheaper and healthier than a meat-focused eating pattern Getting away from that old pattern of meat, starch, veg and saying hello to the bowl The value in turning to other cultures for plant-based cuisine inspiration The secret to a plant-based meal that keeps you full Why “just eat the rainbow” isn't always the best advice, and why the “well-planned” part of being a vegan is SO important. How Anna transitioned from psychology undergrad to law degree, to plant-based advocate. Learned something new? Have questions? Keep the conversation going on Instagram! Screenshot this episode and tag us @theallsortpod @easyanimalfree with your questions and/or comments! Thanks for supporting our little pod! You can help us spread the word by rating, reviewing, or subscribing to us on your fave podcast app! And doors are now open for the 2022 Eat More Plants Challenge, which begins January 10, 2022! Connect with Anna Pippus: Instagram: @easyanimalfree Website: www.easyanimalfree.com Book: The Vegan Family Cookbook: Simple, Balanced Cooking for Real Life Anna's Recommendations: Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Gordon Neufield and Gabor Maté The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma, by Bessel van der Kolk

Sometimes parents come to realise that the affirmative approach hasn't worked out for their gender-distressed child and they could benefit from alternative approaches. In this episode Sasha and Stella discuss the many complicated reasons some parents reluctantly affirm their child's gender and how difficult and brave it can be to rethink the strategy. Parenting styles are explored, and Sasha and Stella point out the importance of finding your confident voice and parenting authority. They also offer tips and suggestions for steering the ship in a better direction once a family has gathered more information and observed an unfavourable outcome of the affirmative approach. These strategies include mitigating powerful influences on your child, broadening the family's perspective on what overall wellbeing looks like, and modelling that it's ok to change your mind once you get better information.     Links:     High Warmth, High Expectations lead to the best outcomes:  https://www.developmentalscience.com/blog/2015/6/28/the-only-parenting-model-you-need (https://www.developmentalscience.com/blog/2015/6/28/the-only-parenting-model-you-need)     Book Rec for parents: Hold on to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peershttps://www.amazon.com/Hold-Your-Kids-Parents-Matter/dp/0375760288 ( https://www.amazon.com/Hold-Your-Kids-Parents-Matter/dp/0375760288)     4 Parenting Styles  https://www.verywellfamily.com/types-of-parenting-styles-1095045 (https://www.verywellfamily.com/types-of-parenting-styles-1095045)    Diana Baumrind Parenting Styles:  https://iastate.pressbooks.pub/parentingfamilydiversity/chapter/chapter-1-2/ (https://iastate.pressbooks.pub/parentingfamilydiversity/chapter/chapter-1-2/)   Support this podcast

Welcome back to the second ever Moment. Thank you for taking this moment for yourself to help you feel calmer, lighter and perhaps even shift your perspective a little before the busy week ahead. This week's Moment is with Dr. Gabor Maté. I am sure you know of him. He is a renowned addiction expert, speaker and author and sought after for his expertise on trauma, addiction, stress and childhood development. This is one of the most powerful conversations I have ever had on the podcast. It is still the most downloaded ever to date. It was so hard to choose a 10-minute clip. It is no exaggeration that I have listened to this episode about 5 times this morning trying to find the most powerful clip for you. The whole episode is just remarkable and powerful. I did manage to kick my perfection out of the way and decide on one. In this Moment he talks about why it is so hard to be a mother today and why it is our profound responsibility to keep being curious about our own behaviour on this remarkable journey of motherhood. As always, we continue the conversation over on Instagram, so come and join us there. Find out more: Full episode, click here Hold On To Your Kids by Gordon Neufeld, PhD, and Gabor Maté, MD Follow his work on Facebook, Twitter, and his website. FREEBIES! Find out how you can take control of your life, reconnect to you and more! Download ‘10 Ways to Reconnect to You' and our weekly and monthly check-in on Motherkind.co. Are you ready to find freedom from guilt? Let me help you find Freedom from Perfectionism if you are a mother who has ever felt not quite enough. GROUP COACHING GROUP COACHING EXPERIENCE - Reconnect to you: the reboot. It's a powerful 30-day programme to help you feel like you again. The next group begins in November 2021. Curious? Find out more. About Dr. Gabor Maté Dr Gabor Maté is a renowned speaker and bestselling author who teaches about human development through the lens of science and compassion. He is a retired medical doctor who has over 20 years of family practice and palliative care experience. Dr. Gabor empowers people to promote their own healing by presenting a broad perspective on issues such as drug addiction, childhood development, trauma, and mental illness. His books include ‘In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters With Addiction', ‘When the Body Says No', and ‘Hold on to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers', written with Dr. Gordon Neufeld. He is currently writing his next book, ‘The Myth of Normal: Illness and Health in an Insane Culture'.

Sections from today's episode Why the term "hungry ghost"? How did you get interested in addiction medicine? How stress impacts students' empathy levels Is treating addiction replacing one substance with another? Today's guest A renowned speaker, and bestselling author, Dr. Gabor Maté is highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics including addiction, stress and childhood development. After 20 years of family practice and palliative care experience, Dr. Maté worked for over a decade in Vancouver's Downtown East Side with patients challenged by drug addiction and mental illness. The bestselling author of four books published in over twenty-five languages, Gabor is an internationally renowned speaker highly sought after for his expertise on addiction, trauma, childhood development, and the relationship of stress and illness. His book on addiction received the Hubert Evans Prize for literary non-fiction. For his groundbreaking medical work and writing he has been awarded the Order of Canada, his country's highest civilian distinction, and the Civic Merit Award from his hometown, Vancouver.  Gabor is also co-developer of a therapeutic approach, Compassionate Inquiry, now studied by hundreds of therapists, physicians, counselors, and others internationally. He is currently writing his next book, The Myth of Normal: Illness and Health in an Insane Culture, out in late 2021. His books include In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters With Addiction When the Body Says No: The Cost of Hidden Stress Scattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder Hold on to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers.  Watch Dr. Mate's TedTalk The Power of Addiction and The Addiction of Power Check out his son's project, Lyrics to Go If you or someone you know is struggling with addiction, there is help available. SAMHSA National Helpline Confidential free help, from public health agencies, to find substance use treatment and information. www.samhsa.gov 1-800-662-4357 Shatterproof Browse addiction resources from treatment finders to recovery groups to grief support. www.shatterproof.org/ National Suicide Prevention Hotline: 1-800-273-8255 Further Learning National Institute on Drug Abuse The National Institute on Drug Abuse (NIDA) supports and conducts research across a broad range of disciplines and leads the nation in scientific research on the health aspects of drug abuse and addiction. www.drugabuse.gov Health Management Associates Helping Communities Improve Care for People with Complex Health and Social Needs www.HMAedu.com Study on the go with the ITB Audio QBank app Download for free on iOS or Android. If you want to upgrade, you can save money on a premium subscription by customizing your plan until your test date on our website! Our other podcasts: Crush Step 1 Step 2 Secrets Physiology by Physeo Step 1 Success Stories The InsideTheBoards Study Smarter Podcast The InsideTheBoards Podcast Beyond the Pearls Produced by Ars Longa Media To learn more about us and this podcast, visit arslonga.media. You can leave feedback or suggestions at arslonga.media/contact or by emailing info@arslonga.media. Produced by: Christopher Breitigan Executive Producer: Patrick C. Beeman, MD Legal Stuff InsideTheBoards is not affiliated with the NBME, USMLE, COMLEX, or any professional licensing body. InsideTheBoards and its partners fully adhere to the policies on irregular conduct outlined by the aforementioned credentialing bodies. The information presented in this podcast is intended for educational purposes only and should not be construed as professional or medical advice. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Inspire Change, Gunter discusses relationships, raising children, parenting , trauma the importance of being human and touches on community responsibilities. He also is reviewing and discusses the book:Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Gordon Neufeld & Gabor Maté MD. https://www.amazon.com/Hold-Your-Kids-Parents-Matter/dp/0375760288/ref=sr_1_2?crid=2VC3UDNSB5T4U&keywords=hold+on+to+your+kids+why+parents+need+to+matter+more+than+peers&qid=1625164006&s=books&sprefix=hold+on+to+your+kids%2Caps%2C196&sr=1-2

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I'm going to just say it: Homeschooling is awesome. And, we're not even talking about the lifestyle it allows. In this episode, Zara talks about the 7 ways that homeschooling offers better academic experiences for our children, and therefore, a more valuable education. A must-listen for anyone who ever struggles to homeschool, or is considering homeschooling. Not only is homeschooling "enough," it's better, in so many ways. Zara discusses how intentionality in these 7 key areas can inform and empower each homeschooler, or soon-to-be homeschooler: 1. Definitions of "success" 2. Individualizing, and adapting 3. Content 4. Lessons 5. Values and worldview 6. Socialization. Yup, we're going to talk about how homeschooling is BETTER! 7. Personal Growth and Development Save this episode to your favorites, share it with a friend, and be encouraged, knowing that you truly are offering your child(ren) BETTER. Get your Oyster Kit for kids who love learning through play here: https://oysterkit.com/?sscid=a1k5_11jo7d& Don't forget to use the code SIMPLE20 for $20 off any subscription of 3 months or more!! In this episode, Zara recommends the book: "Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers" by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté Learn how to simplify your whole homeschool from top to bottom and from now on with the Minimalist Homeschooling Master Class. You don't need a new planner, or school room, or curriculum... you need a new mindset :). https://resources.zaraphd.com/simple-is-the-new-smart If you enjoy this podcast, don't forget to subscribe and leave a great review! Reviews are the best way to make sure that homeschoolers who need this podcast most will find it. Reviews do not have to be elaborate; just shout-out with "I love your podcast, Zara!" and carry-on with your day.Thank you so much for listening, subscribing, and sharing. Join us inside the Simple is the New Smart Membership for exclusive, members-only podcasts, a Vault of Minimalist Homeschooling Tutorials, and more! Learn more at: https://resources.ZaraPhD.com/simple-is-the-new-smart I'd love to help some more! Get started simplifying with your choice of helpful freebies: ZaraPhD.com/Get-Started Show Notes: ZaraPhD.com/podcast (the blog, freebies, and all the videos are here, too!) YouTube channel: YouTube.com/c/ZaraPhD Follow Zara: Instagram: @ZaraPhD Facebook: Facebook.com/MinimalistHomeschooling --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/simpleisthenewsmart/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/simpleisthenewsmart/support

It’s Throwback Thursday! Today’s clip is from episode 70 with Dr. Gabor Mate. So often we think our kids need to learn how to behave, when we really haven’t taken a look at what we’re teaching by example. When we don’t come to the relationship aware and healed of our own struggles, we pass those on—but if we begin to heal ourselves and change our parenting, we change everything.  Watch the full clip here, and for more info, go to www.drgabormate.com.  Check out his books, When the Body Says No: Understanding the Stress-Disease Connection and Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. I'd love to know what you think, so join in on the conversation! Subscribe, leave a review, or follow PG-ish on Instagram (@pgishparenting), or you can always find me at www.pgishparenting.com.

It’s part of the human condition to run away from pain. Most of us have habits that we acquired as a way to cope with painful childhood experiences or traumas, which unfortunately don’t serve us as adults. These habits can manifest as addiction in a wide variety of forms, from substance abuse to overworking. If you feel a sense of deep guilt, without recognizing the source of it, you’re not alone. As children we pick up the energy around us, start to think things are our fault, and we don’t know how to drop that feeling as we grow up. This has a very heavy impact on our emotional, mental, and physical health. On today’s Broken Brain Podcast, our host Dhru talks to Dr. Gabor Maté, a retired physician who, after 20 years of family practice and palliative care experience, worked for over a decade in Vancouver’s Downtown EastSide with patients challenged by drug addiction and mental illness. Gabor is the bestselling author of four books published in twenty-five languages, and is an internationally renowned speaker highly sought after for his expertise on addiction, trauma, childhood development, and the relationship of stress and illness. His book on addiction received the Hubert Evans Prize for literary non-fiction. For his groundbreaking medical work and writing he has been awarded the Order of Canada, his country’s highest civilian distinction, and the Civic Merit Award from his hometown, Vancouver. His books include: In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters With Addiction; When the Body Says No; Exploring the Stress-Disease Connection; Scattered: How ADD Originates and What You Can Do About It; and (with Gordon Neufeld) Hold on to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. In this episode, Dhru and Dr. Maté talk about detangling our traumatic life experiences to live more aware lives. Dr. Maté and Dhru each open up about their own experiences with addictive tendencies and how those patterns were based out of a deep compensation and survival mechanisms that all of us can relate to. They also talk about what is happening in the addicts brain and how to unravel awareness to promote healing. In his famously insightful way, Dr. Maté discusses the true meaning of recovery and how we can all work through trauma to find our truest selves. In this episode, we dive into: -The pain-body concept (4:06)-Dr. Maté’s definition of addiction (9:57)-How a painful experience or trauma is at the center of all addictions (15:03) -Dr. Maté’s childhood trauma and how it led to his own addictive behaviors (22:01)-Understanding the difference between responsibility and blame, and why “it’s not all our parents’ fault” (30:29)-What is happening physiologically in the brains of addicted people (39:36) -The key to healing painful experiences (46:37) -What does it mean to recover (47:56)-How to approach the healing of behavior addictions fostered by our culture (51:11)-Dr. Maté’s non-negotiable self-care practice (1:00:03)For more on Dr. Gabor Mate you can follow him on Facebook @DrGaborMate, on Twitter @DrGaborMate, on YouTube @DrGaborMate, and through his website https://drgabormate.com/. Also mentioned in this episode:-Cured: Strengthen Your Immune System and Heal Your Life by Dr. Jeffrey Rediger - https://www.amazon.com/Cured-Life-Changing-Science-Spontaneous-Healing/dp/1250193192-It Didn’t Start with You: How Inherited Family Trauma Shapes Who We Are and How to End the Cycle by Mark Wolynn - https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1101980389/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_tpbk_p1_i0-The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self by Alice Miller - https://www.amazon.com/Drama-Gifted-Child-Search-Revised/dp/0465016901-Dr. Gabor Maté Interview | The Tim Ferriss Show - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H9B5mYfBPlY-How Our Childhood Shapes Every Aspect of Our Health with Dr. Gabor Maté | Feel Better Live More Podcast with Dr. Rangan Chatterjee - https://drchatterjee.com/how-our-childhood-shapes-every-aspect-of-our-health-with-dr-gabor-mate/For more on Dhru Purohit, be sure to follow him on Instagram @dhrupurohit, on Facebook @dhruxpurohit, on Twitter @dhrupurohit, and on YouTube @dhrupurohit. You can also text Dhru at (302) 200-5643 or click here https://my.community.com/dhrupurohit.Interested in joining Dhru’s Broken Brain Podcast Facebook Community? Submit your request to join here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2819627591487473/.This episode of Broken Brain is brought to you by Bioptimizers and BLUblox.My new favorite magnesium is from a company called Bioptimizers—their Magnesium Breakthrough formula contains 7 different forms which all have different functions in the body. There is truly nothing like it on the market. Right now you can try Bioptimizers Magnesium Breakthrough for 10% off, just go to www.bioptimizers.com/brain and use the code BRAIN10 at checkout.As someone who is on the computer a lot, I realized all that screen time was negatively affecting how well I slept. 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My guest on Mind Body Health & Politics in this episode is Dr. Gabor Maté– a physician and bestselling author of four books, published in twenty-five languages, including:In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters With Addiction;When the Body Says No; Exploring the Stress-Disease Connection; Scattered: How ADD Originates and What You Can Do About It; andHold on to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers Renowned for his expertise on addiction, trauma, childhood development, and the relationship of stress and illness, his book on addiction received the Hubert Evans Prize for literary non-fiction. For his groundbreaking medical work and writing he has been awarded the Order of Canada, his country's highest civilian distinction.Our discussion focuses on the diagnosis known as ADD. When does it help? When does it harm? What can people with this diagnosis do to live life as normally and productively as possible?To learn more about Dr. Maté, subscribe to his e-newsletter at drgabormate.com.

Hal Elrod is a father, keynote speaker, podcaster, author and entrepreneur. He’s on a mission to elevate humanity by teaching people how dominate their morning routines. He’s the creator of a massive online community and the author of one of the highest rated, best-selling books in the world: The Miracle Morning. The Miracle Morning is practiced daily by over 500,000 people across the world and on 12/12/2020 The World Premiere of The Mircale Morning Movie is hitting the internet. The Miracle Morning Movie is a life changing film that shows you how to IMMEDIATELY take control of your life, one morning at a time.   THE MIRACLE MORNING MOVIE LIVE EXPERIENCE INCLUDES: Watch The Miracle Morning Movie World Premiere LIVE on 12/12/2020 at 12:00pm EST with Hal Elrod & The Miracle Morning Community (72-Hour Viewing Window) Brand New Miracle Morning S.A.V.E.R.S. Implementation Training (Immediately following the movie) Live Q&A with Hal Elrod and the Filmmakers The New & Improved Miracle Morning 30-Day Life Transformation Challenge Get the Miracle Morning Movie Digital Download (Delivered after the Live World Premiere) Over a $100 Value   Go to MiracleMorningMovie.com to get your Tickets Now! Use the Promo Code “PrettyandPunk” to save 20%. DON’T MISS THIS!   Hal joins us today to talk about the car accident that almost left him paralyzed and how he used intention and the power of thought to push through, heal himself, and eventually walk again. He also shares with us what it was like getting his cancer diagnoses and what he and the doctors did to cure him of cancer. We chat about what it’s like being a busy entrepreneur and a father, as well as Hal’s workaholism and the actions he had to take to start putting his family first.   “I really believe that our words become out kids inner voices.” - Hal Elrod   This Week on Pretty and Punk: The RIGHT way to respond to adversity The importance of maintaining unwavering faith How Hal beat cancer by using a combination of holistic and traditional treatments Using The 5 Minute Rule – Accepting what you can’t change Why you must take ownership of your life and decisions The importance of putting in extraordinary effort as an entrepreneur How Hal uses Time Blocking for work and family time Why overnight success takes ten years Hal’s daily affirmation practices and how he prays with his kids   Hal’s Books: The Miracle Morning The Miracle Equation   Other Recommended Reading: Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers   Connect with Hal Elrod: Website Twitter LinkedIn Facebook YouTube   Connect with the Pretty and Punk Podcast: Pretty and Punk Website Pretty and Punk Podcast on Facebook Pretty and Punk Podcast on Instagram Spicy Lil Pepper on Instagram Punk Ass on LinkedIn        

You will learn about: Acknowledging the power differential Why an accessible leader will never be surprised by a problem The shape of your relationships: wide or narrow? The mission is more important than the ego You can't become accessible after a problem occurs Why eager leaders are dangerous Being an accessible leader in your family How to assess whether or not you are an accessible leader   Show Notes: So many of the leaders we talk to say they have an “open door policy” for their team. You've probably heard that from a boss in the past, too. But, in practice, did you actually feel like you could come to them? Most of the time, this is really just lip service — because being an accessible leader starts long before someone knocks on your door to have a conversation.   Connect with us on LinkedIn: Adrian on Instagram: @adrian.k Dan on LinkedIn: Dan Tocchini Chad on Instagram: @chad.l.brown   Resources: Grab your FREE change management ebook at change-imperative.com "Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers" by Gordon Neufeld   Naked Leadership is a production of Crate Media

#138 This week, I am here with the amazing Dr. Gabor Matéand a conversation about trauma, childhood development, and Ayahuasca and its effects on the body and mind. As an added bonus, Gabor also breaks down Donald Trump which was absolutely enlightening to hear. This episode is close to my heart as we discuss my effect on my new-born daughter Ava, and parents’ effects on their children’s development in general. Gabor beautifully explains how all the ideas we have as adults, were shaped as babies. To quote Gabor, “ideas are secondary, and an emotional stance is primary.” So whether you are a parent yourself, or just wish to know the origins of your thoughts and beliefs, give this episode a listen and let us know what you think.  About Dr. Gabor:  Dr. Gabor Maté is a renowned speaker and bestselling author, highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics including addiction, stress and childhood development. Rather than offering quick-fix solutions to these complex issues, Dr. Maté weaves together scientific research, case histories, and his own insights and experience to present a broad perspective that enlightens and empowers people to promote their own healing and that of those around them. After 20 years of family practice and palliative care experience, Dr. Maté worked for over a decade in Vancouver’s Downtown East Side with patients challenged by drug addiction and mental illness. He is also the bestselling author of four books published in over twenty-five languages. His book on addiction received the Hubert Evans Prize for literary non-fiction. For his ground-breaking medical work and writing he has been awarded the Order of Canada, his country’s highest civilian distinction, and the Civic Merit Award from his hometown, Vancouver. www.drgabormate.com Key points with time stamp: Gabor’s work in his own words (5:16) When do we start influencing our children? (9:18) How has Donald Trump’s childhood affected him? (12:13) When are we threatened by the outside world? (14:22) Existing conspiracies in our society (18:30) How can we be more connected as a society? (22:06) Gabor’s advice to those who may be afraid of increased awareness (24:58) What does a child need from their parents? How can we be better parents? (30:02) Has the world gone mad? Gabor’s hopes for the future (42:44) Gabor’s daily practices (44:23) What would happen if politicians took part in an ayahuasca ceremony? (47:05) What Gabor leaves us with (52:08) Mentioned in this episode: Scattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder, Gabor’s first book When the Body Says No: The Cost of Hidden Stress, Gabor’s second book In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction, Gabor’s third book Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers, Gabor Mate and Gordon Neufeld’s book The Myth of Normal Illness and Health in an Insane Culture. Gabor’s upcoming book The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma, Book by Bessel Van Der Kolk Touching the Jaguar: Transforming Fear Into Action to Change Your Life and the World, Book by John Perkins Ayahuasca Confessions of an Economic Hit Man, Book by John Perkins Buddha Laozi Jesus Paul Hillary Clinton Cortisol, the stress hormone The Continuum Concept, Book by Jean Liedloff Noam Chomsky Mary Trump Compassionate Enquiry Jeffrey Rediger About me: My Instagram: www.instagram.com/guyhlawrence/?hl=en My website: www.guylawrence.com.au www.liveinflow.co

Gordon Neufeld is a developmental psychologist and the author of Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. In his forty-plus years studying child development, a few common threads have emerged. According to Neufeld, parents tend to be hyperfocused on socializing their children in order for them to be well liked and have plenty of friends. This good intention can cause children to become peer-attached—meaning they look to their peers instead of the adults in their lives for guidance, care, and stability. Having close peers is important, but the peer relationship shouldn’t be the most important one, says Neufeld. His work helps parents and caretakers maintain and strengthen relationships with their children, recognize when kids are pulling away, and reverse damage that’s already been done to the bond. His approach does not require us to do everything “right”—but it could shift the way we raise and relate to children for the better. (For more, see The goop Podcast hub.) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

So today we had the guys in to share their views and share they did. Both Anderson Rice and Adrian Green gave profound insights into the importance of understanding investments and peer attachment culture, among other things like patience and adjusting to having a family. Definitely some food for thought. and be sure to check out the book Adrian mentioned entitled, Hold on to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers. Give it a listen and I do apologise for the technical glitches experienced in the latter part of the audio. If you're enjoying my podcast, please write a review for me in the Apple podcasts app by clicking here. Your reviews encourage me to keep doing what I'm doing and help others to choose my podcast as well. Remember that you can get in touch with me on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/korenadarnelle/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/iamkorenadarnelle Website: https://www.korenadarnelle.com/

We need to stay relaxed and understand our kids’ unique learning styles and personalities to engage with them in the way their brains are wired to receive direction. Dr. Gabor Mate explains that when we modulate our voice, get at their level, create the safe place, and show compassion, we create learning experiences that help to shape who our kids become.    You can find the full clip here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UGmADfU5HGU   When the Body Says No: Understanding the Stress-disease Connection (book): https://amzn.to/2WA5nJq   Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers (book): https://amzn.to/2WJydHk   Learn more about Dr. Gabor Mate here: https://drgabormate.com/   Email hello@pgishparenting.com to join the Happy Hour on May 16!   We'd love to know what you think and join in on the conversation! Subscribe, leave a review, or follow PG-ish on Instagram (@pgishparenting) or find us at https://www.pgishparenting.com/.

A year ago, my 16 year old son told us he is transgender. I was completely shocked, as he is not particularly feminine. My son was very emotional and begged us to allow him to use puberty blockers or estrogen. We managed to delay his pursuit through distraction and some bargaining, though I often feel like I'm lying to him or manipulating him. We are now in social isolation due to the coronavirus lockdown. My son actually seems happier than he has all year and, out of the blue, he went on a three hour walk with a girl, who he says he's now dating. My question is, what do I do next? Should I ask him if he's still transgender? I feel like I'm walking on a tightrope with him but, is this just what it's like to raise a teenager?”   In this episode Lisa mentions the book,  “Hold on to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers” by Gordon Neufeld & Gabor Maté: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Hold-Your-Kids-Parents-Matter/dp/0375760288  

NOTE: This is a non-commercial podcast. When I recommend or refer to books or other resources, it is done independently and very often without the source's knowledge, and always without monetary exchange. If and when that ever changes, I will be 100% upfront about it. Promise!!! Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers Paperback – August 15, 2006 by Gordon Neufeld, Ph.D. (Author), Gabor Maté MD (Author) 4.7 out of 5 stars 508 ratings https://www.amazon.com/Hold-Your-Kids-Parents-Matter/dp/0375760288/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=hold+onto+your+kids&qid=1586220516&s=audible&sr=1-1-catcorr ..................................... And here's another book that is highly relevant. It's also a bestseller: REALLY SEEING KIDS, by Deb Curtis https://www.childcareexchange.com/catalog/product/really-seeing-children/3600569/ --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/nini-white/message

John Berardi is a Canadian-American entrepreneur best known as the co-founder of Precision Nutrition, the world’s largest nutrition coaching, education, and software company.   He's also the founder of Change Maker Academy, devoted to helping would-be change makers turn their passion for health and fitness into a powerful purpose and a wildly successful career.   Over the last 15 years he's advised Apple, Equinox, Nike, and Titleist, as well as the San Antonio Spurs, Carolina Panthers, US Open Champ Sloane Stephens, and 2-division UFC Champ Georges St. Pierre. He's also been named one of the 20 smartest coaches in the world and 100 most influential people in health and fitness.   He currently lives in Ontario, Canada with his wife and four children, although they tend to escape the cold Canadian winters by spending January to April in warmer places.         Today, he joins the podcast to discuss the healthy rules and habits to apply to your children in keeping a strong household, considering their perspective to you as a parent.   KEY TAKEAWAYS:   The “More of, Less of” exercise  What does real play look like? How activity helps build good eating habits  Do kids need supplements?  The importance of self regulation  The most commonly used phrase in the Berardi house  How to gain control by getting quieter How parents can bully their kids  Leadership by example, not by authority  The power of “Is that the best choice for you right now?”  Compassionate questioning  The 2 things John will fund with his kids, and the rest is theirs  How much should we let our kids struggle? EPISODE RESOURCES John Berardi.com Follow on Twitter, Insta, Facebook Precision Nutrition Change Maker by John Berardi Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers The Family Tree Guide to DNA Testing and Genetic Genealogy   PEOPLE MENTIONED Hal Elrod Kim Anami Ray Dalio Phil Caravaggio Warren Buffet JOIN THE BROTHERHOOD Join the Front Row Dads private Facebook community so you can ask questions, share ideas, and be part of a supportive group of incredible brothers who help one another navigate the role of marriage and fatherhood.   LEAVE A REVIEW If you've listened to multiple Front Row Dads interviews and get value from the show, we'd love your support! Leaving us a review on Apple Podcasts only takes a minute, and in turn, it allows us to rank higher and become discovered by other Dads, just like you. Visit FrontRowDads.com/review and tell others what you think about the show!  

Slide Into The DM On Instagram To TalkWant Some M5 Apparel Sent to Your Door?Head over to iTunes, leave a review, and slide the screenshot into my DMs with your home address.Want All Day Energy? Find It HereVince Del Monte's 7-Figure MastermindGive Me 2 Days And I'll Show You How To Build A 5-, 6-, and Even 7-Figure Online Fitness Business – Even If You're Starting From Scratch In This Episode:How John went from constant partying to killing it in the gym, and eventually being a prolific content creator with Precision NutritionHow the internet created an entirely new way to be successful and how John utilized it to reach millions of people without having to leave his familyJohn's process for creating margin in his life and keeping his commitments at only 60% of his timeThree exercises you have to start with if you want to stack the deck of success in your favorHear John's purpose, unique abilities, and values that drive his work and family lifeThe business and personal lessons that taught John he needed to actually practice being calm and thoughtfulHow to take stock and fill yourself up to avoid the “neverending death march” to successWhy connecting with people often, and getting counseling before you need it, are so important -- plus, hear the two questions John asks his kids to be the best dad possibleAre you enjoying your kids, or just enduring them? Hear John's advice for showing up as a father, building attachment, and fully appreciating the time you have with your childrenResources:PrecisionNutrition.comHold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Dr. Gordon NeufeldChange Maker: Turn Your Passion for Health and Fitness into a Powerful Purpose and a Wildly Successful Career by Dr. John BerardiChangeMakerAcademy.comConnect with John:Instagram FacebookJohnBerardi.comConnect with Vince:Facebook Instagram YouTubeEmailVinceDelMonte7FigureMastermind.com

Episode 5: Preparing for a Joyful Homeschool Year! Have you ever wondered how some families manage to radiate joy in their homeschooling journey? Well, there are secrets to that joy that anyone can learn, according to our guest, Bonnie Landry, who will give us some tips on Preparing for a Joyful Homeschool Year! Bonnie’s workshop video series and Homeschooling Simplified booklets: https://www.ohthatssimple.com/ Bonnie is offering our listeners a discount code on her workshop DVDs. Here’s the code: MAKEJOYNORMAL. (The code gets you the $75 program on joy in homeschooling for only $40, until October 15, 2019. If you are reading this after the expiration date, please contact Bonnie at her blog, http://practicingmammal.com/) Also recommended: https://practicingmammal.com/resources-links https://practicingmammal.com/homeschooling-simplified-posts-about Bonnie’s books on amazon: Homeschooling, simplified series Revolution of Mercy Recommended books: Hallowed Be This House: Finding Signs of Heaven in Your Home, by Thomas Howard Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers, by Gordon Neufeld Sink Reflections, by Marla Cilley The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up Today’s Short Feature: From Ideal to Real Find Chantal Howard here: https://www.chantal-howard.com/ and https://www.aromarosary.com/ Thank you to the following contributors who made this podcast possible: Our Sponsor HomeschoolConnections.com Music by Taylor Kirkwood Intro voice Dave Palmer radio personality and author of St. Thomas Aquinas for Everyone Our host Lisa Mladinich

This week we are joined by 'Adore' missionary and host of the YouTube Channel 'Drinks with Dreads' Chris Donatto. Chris and Clint are both huge fans of J.R.R. Tolkien, C.S. Lewis, and their group the Inklings. Join us as we give our thoughts on the new Biopic "Tolkien" and lessons we can learn from Tolkien's life. We discuss our need for fraternity, allegory and symbolism in literature, the power of fantasy and myth, and how artistic creation can affect us spiritually. It's "hauntingly hopeful." Minor Endgame Spoilers #WelcometotheAdventure Find Chris on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube at "Drinks with Dreads" Media References: Avengers Endgame (Movie) 'On Fairy Stories' by J.R.R. Tolkien (Essay) 'The Philosophy of Tolkien' by Peter Kreeft (Book) 'Leaf By Niggle' by J.R.R. Tolkien (Short Story) 'The Hobbit' by J.R.R. Tolkien (Book and Movie) 'The Lord of the Rings' by J.R.R. Tolkien (Books and Movies) 'The Silmarillion' by J.R.R. Tolkien and Christopher Tolkien 'The God Ask' by Steve Shadrach (Book) 'Contemplative Youth Ministry' by Mark Yaconelli (Book) 'Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers' by Gordon Neufold (Book) Game of Thrones (TV Show) David Ramirez (Musician) Ike Ndolo (Musician) Audrey Assad (Musician) Downtown Abbey (TV Show) 'Not A Tame Lion' by Terry W. Glaspey(Book) Outlander (TV Show) Tea with Tolkien (Podcast) Enjoy the work we're doing? Please consider supporting us here: patreon.com/thechristinculture Learn more at: thechristinculture.com Twitter: twitter.com/OnTheAdventure2?lang=en Facebook: facebook.com/theChristInCulture YouTube: youtube.com/channel/UCxgPx2b0MYUziwxT9cmtuwg Special Guest: Chris Donatto.

In this episode, Alanis talks with Gordon Neufeld about developmental psychology, the power to parent, and the value in staying connected with our children as they get older. Below is a book by Gordon Neufeld: Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers

Join us for an incredible interview with Jennifer Pepito of ThePeacefulPress.com! Jennifer talks to us about the Joy to be found in homeschooling, dealing with difficulties, faith and parenting, and homeschooling from Preschool through High School. Lots of gold in this one! May you be encouraged! Show Notes: Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Gordon Neufeld How to Stop the Pain by Dr. James B. Richards Loving the Little Years by Rachel Jankovic The Ology: Ancient Truths, Ever New by Marty Machowski and Andy McGuire Connect with Jennifer: https://www.thepeacefulpreschool.com www.instagram.com/jenniferpepito Connect with us: https://www.instagram.com/findingbeautifulhere *Giveaway details can be found on our instagram! Ends March 11, 2018 at midnight.

EP18: Sil Reynolds on Mothering and Daughtering “Better” (Not Easier) with More Connection and Support You are really in for a huge treat in meeting Sil Reynolds. She and I have connected intermittently over the years. Although our contacts have been brief, she has given me gems that have stuck with me over time. At a time when I felt deeply insecure about mothering and especially single mothering, she told me, a child needs ONE person to securely attach to. And she is a person you listen to and trust when she speaks. She is a wise elder, a former women’s health nurse practitioner, a coach and teacher of women and mothers and an author, together with her stellar daughter, Eliza Reynolds, of the book Mothering and Daughtering. What Sil Shares: Why it’s our job to stay at the center of our daughter’s world How mothering and daughtering can get better (not easier) during the teen years - meaning more connected, deeper, and closer. And how conflict is an opportunity for deeper connection. Her choice to mother more consciously than her mother and the process of “growing up,” confronting undernourished places internally Her thoughts on rites of passage, attachment, dependence, and interdependence The Feminine rising in men and women = we need each other The wisdom of slowing down, connecting with other women, and creating creative containers Perspectives on mothering today. Is it really harder? How we deal with raising kids in a digital age What You’ll Hear: On becoming the mother of a daughter (6:23) As a mother, it’s our job to stay at the center of our daughter’s world and not believe peers will be a better influence (7:20) It can get better in the teen years. Better doesn’t necessarily mean it feels better…(8:12) Sil on “growing up” as a mother and finding mentors and guides (9:18) Life and death cycles and rites of passage (10:58) The story of Vasilisa: An old way of relating as a mother and daughter is dying and a new way is being born (13:04) Mothering is raising your daughter to become herself (14:15) Attachment objects; vulnerable attachment requests at any age (15:35) What kind of rituals can we provide to honor rites of passage today? (17:42) On mothering and daughtering, interdependence, and attachment (20:04) Describe Feminism (with a capital F) (21:19) Feminine rising in men and women says, “Bring it on need!” (24:00) When the tears come in the circle, there’s the oracle. Let your feelings catch up with you. (26:31) Sil sharing Marion Woodman’s quote (27:29) The antidote to so many things these days is slowing down, curing the “too much, too fast, too soon” to reveal a whole other level of understanding (28:33) Is mothering harder today than it ever was? (30:02) Motherhood is exhausting because we don’t get enough help. We don’t have the natural supports we’ve always had (31:38) Don’t miss this quote! (32:40) Attachment parenting doesn’t stop in adolescence. We need to be just as involved in a different way (34:04) Examples of missing containers in our culture: sisterhood, mothering circles, etc. (34:57) On “rupture and repair” and why conflict and communication are important (38:14) How do we deal with technology and mothering? (40:25) Perspectives on raising children in a digital age through the attachment lens (42:36) On setting limits with children (47:30) Attachment doesn’t replace limits (48:02) When you’re in right relationship with your child, there’s a natural hierarchy (48:18) “If you have your child’s heart, no discipline is necessary” (48:50) About Mothering and Daughtering mothering courses and upcoming events (49:04) https://motheringanddaughtering.com Video Blog on Tech Boundaries with Deborah McNamara: https://motheringanddaughtering.com/setting-real-tech-boundaries-kid/ Hold onto Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Gordon Neuf, Ph.D. and Gabor Mate, MD https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/120863/hold-on-to-your-kids-by-gordon-neufeld-phd-and-gabor-mate-md/9780307361967/