Podcasts about sex series

Hola Amiga, In today's episode Haley and Priscilla talk all things surrounding the topic of sex, sexuality, and unhealthy exposure to sex and pornographic images at a young age and the effects it has on our minds, bodies and spirits.  Priscilla and Haley bring spiritual perspective and awareness on how to address these concerns and sometimes blind spots in our spiritual walk.  What is your relationship with sex? Priscilla and Haley answer this question with Biblical truth.  They explain the importance of relationship with God to fully understand underlining issues or concerns that arise with sexual sin.  Priscilla and Haley dismantle the idea of shame around sex and sexual desires and encourage all to get curious with God. Love your,  Amigas!    Connect with us:  Instagram: @Amigaarise  https://www.instagram.com/amigaarise/ Facebook: @Amiga Arise https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100083723596616 Email: Amigaarise@gmail.com Website: https://www.amigaarise.com   References: Book: God's Design for Sex Series, 4 Books: Revised and Updated Edition By: Stan Jones, Brenna https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00O5DIVTU?ref=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cso_cp_apin_dp_FT137C5Y9SEYEQAKKJ11&ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cso_cp_apin_dp_FT137C5Y9SEYEQAKKJ11&social_share=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cso_cp_apin_dp_FT137C5Y9SEYEQAKKJ11&bestFormat=true Article: “What Happens When Children Are Exposed To Pornography?”  https://ifstudies.org/blog/what-happens-when-children-are-exposed-to-pornography Article: "Pornography Use Among Young Adults in the United States" https://ballardbrief.byu.edu/issue-briefs/pornography-use-among-young-adults-in-the-united-states

The third re-release in the series: What do teenagers need to know about sex? A lot. By the teen years, these conversations become both personal and complex. Some teens still need foundational knowledge, while others are ready for far more sophisticated information. For those who need help teasing apart what they need to know, by when, and how to say it, we've got you. Show Notes:Join our LESS AWKWARD MEMBERSHIP Visit Bioptimizers.com/oomla and use promo code OOMLA during checkout to save 10 percentGet 25% off your first order of Phyla, when you visit PhylaBiotics.com and use the code PUBERTY at checkout!Order our book This Is So AwkwardCheck out all our speaking and curriculum at www.lessawkward.com and our super comfy products at www.myoomla.comTo bring us to your school or community email operations@lessawkward.comTo submit listener questions email podcast@lessawkward.comWatch the full episode on Youtube!Produced by Peoples Media Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The second re-release in a series of 3: What do middle school kids need to know about sex and when? The learning curve is steep between 5th - 8th grade. Not only is this a time when kids are progressing through puberty, but it's also when most begin health and sex education classes in school… and also when most get their own phone. We cover how to stay ahead of all of it.Show Notes:Join our LESS AWKWARD MEMBERSHIP Visit Bioptimizers.com/oomla and use promo code OOMLA during checkout to save 10 percentGet 25% off your first order of Phyla, when you visit PhylaBiotics.com and use the code PUBERTY at checkout!Order our book This Is So AwkwardCheck out all our speaking and curriculum at www.lessawkward.com and our super comfy products at www.myoomla.comTo bring us to your school or community email operations@lessawkward.comTo submit listener questions email podcast@lessawkward.comWatch the full episode on Youtube!Produced by Peoples Media Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The first re-release in a series of 3: What do younger kids need to know about sex and when? We cover all the conversations kids need, from kindergarten until they start middle school. How to build the foundation — anatomically correct vocabulary, consent, and privacy — using age-appropriate and inclusive language.Show Notes:Join our LESS AWKWARD MEMBERSHIP Visit Bioptimizers.com/PUBERTY and use code PUBERTY10 for 10% off your purchase.Get 25% off your first order of Phyla, when you visit PhylaBiotics.com and use the code PUBERTY at checkout!Order our book This Is So AwkwardCheck out all our speaking and curriculum at www.lessawkward.com and our super comfy products at www.myoomla.comTo bring us to your school or community email operations@lessawkward.comTo submit listener questions email podcast@lessawkward.comWatch the full episode on Youtube!Produced by Peoples Media Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You asked, you waited patiently, and the time is here. Let's talk about sex! In this episode we go through some questions that highlight the upcoming segments in this series, while discussing our personal experiences. Journey with us as we go back into the memory bank to talk about how the topic of sex has grown with us and what you can look forward to this series!

Welcome to Step Up with Pastor Chris Kouba - a podcast providing leadership and wisdom for men to break generational curses to overcome confusion, frustration, and brokenness. On the second episode, Pastor Chris Kouba explores what it means to raise sons into Godly men. He reflects on a recent "coming of age" trip with his son, and how he marked that moment of transition. As fathers consider how to best raise their sons, he suggests there is one essential principle to consider: "be intentional." In this deeply personal episode, Pastor Chris reflects on how he is now parenting differently as he contemplates his own children becoming adults, and reminds all of us that it is never too late to be intentional with our children!Come back next time and join Chris as he guides you on how to step up as a man in every area of your life. To find out more about Pastor Chris, follow him on all the social platforms (@ckouba) and to connect with the ministry of United City visit https://unitedcity.church.Helpful ResourcesHabits of the Household by Justin EasleyThe Intentional Father by Jon TysonPrimal Path www.primalpath.co Raising Emotionally Strong Boys by David Thomas  Getting Things Done by David AllenGod's Design of Sex Series- by Stan and Brenna Jones

This Q&A session is a follow-up on the recent Sex Series (episodes 62-67) and includes questions from listeners pertaining to individual, dating and marriage scenarios. The following topics are covered, and we've attached some links to other resources related:Healing from sexual past, including memories Restoration of virginity and the healing processDating  people who have extreme sexual history such as visiting prostitutes, porn, homosexuality, etcDating someone who is actively struggling with pornography but aggressively pursuing freedomPartners who are experiencing grief as they process their partner's sexual past Building trust in the healing processDiffering sex drives in marriageChronic illness and its impact on sexual relationship in marriageRESOURCES:Moral Revolution BlogThe Whole Man Project (for men regarding sexual wholeness)DMB Episodes on Processing Pain:1. Episode 20: A Plan for Pain, Part 12. Episode 21: A Plan for Pain, Part 2 Connect with Lauren:InstagramFacebookConnect with Jason:Jay's InstagramJay's FacebookBraveCo Instagramwww.braveco.org

In the final episode of the Sex Series, the spotlight shifts to the intricate interplay of women's health and sex in the context of marriage. Rebekah LaRobardiere, a certified sex and relationship coach, joins the discussion, guiding listeners through the delicate dance of intimacy experienced by women from adolescence to menopause. Together, they explore the dynamic relationship between the body's natural rhythms and the emotional resonance of relationships, offering empathy and understanding to harmonize these elements into a loving melody.The discussion begins with an exploration of the challenges inherent in navigating intimate waters amidst life's transitions. Shedding light on the unspoken struggles that can turn sex into a choreographed routine, rather than a spontaneous expression of love, they delve into both psychological and physiological aspects. Rebekah shares insights into the transformative potential of communication, addressing issues such as painful sex and psychological barriers, and highlighting how a deeper understanding of one's body can enhance intimate connections.The conversation concludes with a heartfelt reflection on the delicate balance between self-care and the demands of intimacy, particularly for mothers. It serves as a reminder that self-nurturance is not a solitary endeavor but an essential component of a healthy relationship. Through Rebekah's guidance, they emphasize the importance of setting personal boundaries with grace and the empowering potential of taking ownership of one's choices in the bedroom and beyond. Tune in to elevate your relationship's choreography to an art form, where each step is taken with care, understanding, and a shared sense of rhythm.---Rebekah Joy LaRobardiere is a seasoned explorer delving into the intricacies of human connection, particularly in the realms of sexuality and relationships. Rebekah embarked on her journey in 2004 when she married her Love, initiating a voyage marked by love, laughter, tears, and continual growth.As a certified Sex and Relationship Coach, Rebekah brings not only a wealth of credentials but also a profound sense of empathy, humor, and genuine humanity to her practice. With just shy of two decades of dedicated engagement in her field, she holds certifications as a sexuality educator, complemented by a background in psychology and extensive study in Somatic Experiencing theory.Moreover, Rebekah is passionate about empowering women to embrace their true selves, advocating for an appreciation of the natural cycles and phases that define our existence. By cultivating self-awareness and authenticity, individuals not only enrich their own lives but also create opportunities for those around them to pursue their desires with confidence.It's essential to dispel the misconception that Rebekah, as a Sex and Relationship Coach, hasn't had the same struggles as many of you. On the contrary, her journey is a testament to the messy, yet beautiful, nature of human connection—a journey marked by resilience, growth, intentionality, and profound moments of tenderness. Alongside her partner, Rebekah has navigated challenges, celebrated triumphs, and embraced the transformative power of change.Connect with her on social media (@rjlcoaching) and explore her insights further at www.rjlcoaching.com.Connect with Lauren:InstagramFacebook Connect with Jason:Jay's InstagramJay's FacebookBraveCo Instagramwww.braveco.org

In this episode, listeners are invited to explore the complexities of marital intimacy overshadowed by past trauma, physical challenges and addiction through the compassionate insights of Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill from Connection Codes. The journey promised entails a path towards healing and a profound emotional bond between partners. Together, the hosts delve into the intricate dynamics of sexual trauma within marriage, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging and addressing old wounds for their dissolution. Utilizing the 'issue-specific core emotion wheel,' they navigate tender memories and advocate for the 'power of the ooh,' a simple yet impactful expression of empathy strengthening spousal bonds.Listeners are also encouraged to challenge their perceptions as the discussion also addresses the misunderstood condition of vaginismus, shedding light on its emotional foundations that contribute to a significant majority of cases. The discourse underscores the essential relationship between physical affection and emotional security, emphasizing the need for a tranquil sanctuary for sexual pleasure. Furthermore, the conversation explores the emotional weight often carried by men and women in response to sexual rejection and the importance of seeking external guidance when stuck in patters of current or past sexual addiction.Ultimately, the episode serves as more than just an informative resource; it's a heartfelt guide tailored for couples striving to honor God's design for sex within the sanctity of marriage. Through transparent communication and shared empathy, listeners are offered insights to enrich their connection and strengthen their relationship.-----Discount on all Connection Codes courses with the code JAY!-----Hills' Bio:Dr Glenn Hill is a marriage and family therapist, clinical sexologist, Connection Codescoach and author with a private practice in Nashville, TN. He considers his greatestcredential to be his 40-year marriage with Phyllis. He enjoys doing absolutely anythingwith her, especially traveling and spending time with their family of twenty.Phyllis Hill is an entrepreneur, Connection Codes coach and the engine that keepseverything running. She enjoys the partnership and adventures she and Glenn shareand loves being “Honey” to their ten grandchildren.The pain of their early married years along with decades of research and experience ledthe Hills to the founding of The Connection Codes. They counsel couples, families,individuals, churches and businesses in building deep connection. They are passionateabout the Connection Codes because of the effect on their relationship, as well asseeing the effect for countless others. It is the Hills' mission to take the ConnectionCodes to everyone on the planet.Connect with Lauren:InstagramFacebook Connect with Jason:Jay's InstagramJay's FacebookBraveCo Instagramwww.braveco.org

Jason and Lauren Vallotton host Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill from Connection Codes as guests in Part 2 of a profound exploration of the intimate conversation about Sex in Marriage. This episode delves into the intricacies of emotional connection and how it fuels a more fulfilling sexual relationship. The Hills unravel the complexities of sex in marriage and explain that emotional safety is not just complementary to intimacy—it's foundational. The Hills' candid reflections on their journey and the practical tools they've developed, like the Core Emotion Wheel, provide actionable steps to help you articulate your feelings and desires, ensuring a richer connection with your partner.Intentionality is the key to an enhanced intimate life. Together with Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill, the Vallottons explore the importance of understanding the unique triggers— 'brakes and accelerators'—that influence the transition into the realm of intimacy. Discover how setting the stage with the right atmosphere and a foundation of emotional connection can significantly enhance arousal and satisfaction. Sharing insights into the art of discovering what makes us feel desired, the hosts offer strategies for couples to communicate their needs effectively. This conversation isn't just about improving your sex life; it's about elevating the entire standard of marital intimacy. Candid sharing illuminates the highs and lows of building a sexually fulfilling union, piercing through the layer of silence that often shrouds this delicate aspect of marital bliss. This episode promises an unvarnished look at the journey from purity to passion, unpacking the weighty influences of past experiences and the sheer power of connection and vulnerability between partners.-----Discount on all Connection Codes courses with the code JAY!Connect with Lauren:InstagramFacebook Connect with Jason:Jay's InstagramJay's FacebookBraveCo Instagramwww.braveco.org

Jason and Lauren Vallotton host Aaron and Jenna Zint as guests in Part 1 of a profound exploration of the intimate conversation about Sex in Marriage. These three questions, and more, are answered in this episode:Why is sex important in marriage?What is permissible inside of marriage, when it comes to sex?How does sex change over time and in different seasons of life in marriage?Their candid sharing illuminates the highs and lows of building a sexually fulfilling union, piercing through the layer of silence that often shrouds this delicate aspect of marital bliss. This episode promises an unvarnished look at the journey from purity to passion, unpacking the weighty influences of past experiences and the sheer power of connection and vulnerability between partners.Navigating the complexities of physical desires and emotional intricacies, we engage in heartfelt discussions about the ebb and flow of sexual drives, the pressures that accompany our most intimate moments, and how these elements craft the tapestry of our relationships. The Zints, with remarkable transparency, reveal the transformative impact of addressing unmet expectations, the echo of performance anxiety in the bedroom, and the liberating act of prioritizing emotional bonds over carnal conquests. These conversations are a testament to the courage it takes to confront the unspoken, fostering a space of trust and growth for couples like Jason and Lauren, who graciously share their story.As Jason and Lauren lead this conversation, they also contemplate the practicalities that accompany an evolving sexual relationship. This episode is an invitation for couples seeking rejuvenation and a more profound sense of togetherness. The insights of this episode serve as a lighthouse for lovers venturing through the sometimes-choppy waters of physical and emotional intimacy, offering guidance, compassion, and a shared vision for a fulfilling intimate life. Join the Vallottons to harness the transformative power of trust and communication on the sacred journey of marriage.-----Aaron and Jenna Zint bring nearly 10 years of experience to emotional and relational health coaching, specializing in developing healthy habits around growth area goals. They have worked with a diverse range of male and female clients, empowering them to unlock their full potential and achieve lasting results. Aside from coaching, Jenna is a Bethel Ministry School alumni and deacon at Bethel Church in Redding, California. She runs a business called The Habit Lab. Aaron also graduated from Bethel School of Ministry and is the leader of The Whole Man Project at Bethel Church. They can also be found in the podcast space with The Habit Lab and Marriage Lab. The Zints have been married for 14 years and have three children. Jenna's passion is helping people put action-steps to their breakthrough and healing journey, and Aaron's passion is helping men break out of areas they feel stuck in. Together, they're committed to providing personalized support tailored to each client's unique needs and aspirations.Connect with Lauren:InstagramFacebook Connect with Jason:Jay's InstagramJay's FacebookBraveCo Instagramwww.braveco.org

In the second week of this Sex Series, Jason and Lauren navigate the sensitive terrains of intimacy, commitment, and faith in the context of premarital sex. Prepare to unravel the layers of emotional and spiritual significance that frame this topic, as they offer perspectives that could profoundly alter your understanding of relationships and self-control. Jason and Lauren engage in candid conversation about the reasons and ramifications of sexual purity, as seen through cultural and biblical lenses. They dissect the emotional resilience that stems from delayed gratification, and extend a compassionate hand to those reconciling their past with their ongoing spiritual journey.The fabric of modern sexuality is thoroughly examined, revealing its intricate weave of emotional needs and societal evolution. The Vallottons scrutinize the repercussions of hypersexual relationships, considering their impact on the fundamental pillars of trust and intimacy—essentials for a lasting bond. Touching upon the seismic shift brought forth by the sexual revolution, Jason and Lauren reflect on its echoes in today's family dynamics and personal interactions. And they approach the sanctuary of marriage, we delve into the unique trust and intimacy that blooms within its protective walls, contrasting it with the transient thrills often found outside of this covenant. Join the Vallottons on this thoughtful expedition, where the true meaning of giving, not just taking, in relationships is brought to light.Connect with Lauren:InstagramFacebook Connect with Jason:Jay's InstagramJay's FacebookBraveCo Instagramwww.braveco.org

Step into the inaugural episode of an enlightening series on human sexuality with hosts Jason and Lauren Vallotton, accompanied by special guests Cole and Caitlin Zick. Together, they embark on a journey of exploration and discovery, unraveling the complexities of desire, intimacy, and spirituality in the context of God's design for sex.In this foundational episode, they delve into four fundamental questions that set the stage for deeper exploration in the episodes to come:Why Did God Create Sex?Delve into the divine purpose behind the gift of sexuality as they unpack the theological significance of human intimacy. Through scripture, personal reflection, and shared wisdom, they illuminate the sacred nature of sexual union within the context of God's overarching plan for humanity.Why Did God Create Us With a Sex Drive?Explore the intricate interplay between biology, psychology, and spirituality as they probe the origins of our sexual desires. Engage in a dialogue that seeks to understand how our sex drive shapes our identity, relationships, and spiritual journey.What Happens to Us During Sex?Peer beneath the surface of physical intimacy to uncover the profound physiological, emotional, and spiritual dynamics at play. From the release of neurotransmitters to the forging of deep connections, they shed light on the transformative power of sexual union in the human experience.How Do You Manage a Sex Drive?Equip yourself with practical insights and scriptural wisdom for navigating the complexities of sexual desire with integrity and grace. Discover strategies for cultivating self-awareness, setting healthy boundaries, and aligning sexual expression with personal values and relational commitments.Connect with Lauren:InstagramFacebook Connect with Jason:Jay's InstagramJay's FacebookBraveCo Instagramwww.braveco.org

Why does the Bible give us so many warnings about sexual immorality? Does God truly care? Scott welcomes Dr. Kirk Durston to delve into this critical topic. Dr. Kirk's expertise in biophysics, education, and Christian ministry provides profound insights into the biblical discussion surrounding sexuality.This captivating discussion explores the intertwined relationship between the body and the soul. Dr. Kirk unveils how lust and passion have the power to turn the body against the soul, leading to spiritual warfare within ourselves.Dr. Kirk suggests that what we witness in our culture today may be the prolonged scream of humanity losing its soul. This eye-opening revelation highlights the urgency of understanding why God warns us so clearly and frequently against sexual immorality.Join us in this transformative conversation about sexual immorality, spiritual warfare, and the battle for the soul. Gain a deeper understanding of the battle against sexual sin and the importance of nurturing a strong Christian identity.— ⭐ Get notified when the new Bible Study Series “So Much More Than Sex” is available in early 2024 — a video-based Bible Study Series for young adults that is focused on rediscovering God's eternal purpose for human sexuality.

How can we place our sexual attractions into a biblical context?Listen in as Scott and Shawn challenge the modern trend to use sexual orientation as the framework that defines us. They tackle the problem that our modern, secular notion of sexual orientation is a virtual catch-all for who and what we are.They go on to encourage Christians to stop using aspects of our fallen nature for describing our identity in Christ. Rather, to “Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry.” (Colossians 3:5)Sexual orientation does not define us. Join Scott and Shawn as they focus on claiming our identity in Christ.—⭐ Get notified when the new Bible Study Series “So Much More Than Sex” is available in early 2024 — a video-based Bible Study Series for young adults that is focused on rediscovering God's eternal purpose for human sexuality.

What's the Deal with Sexual Orientation? Is there really such a thing as a heterosexual, homosexual, or even a bisexual person?Have you ever questioned the seemingly obvious answers?In this episode, we delve into the perplexing world of sexual orientation. Scott and Shawn challenge us to stop and ask: Why does it feel so natural to label people as heterosexual, homosexual, or bisexual? When and how did sexual orientation become such a clear and fixed category in our minds such that the question itself just makes sense to us? Is sexual orientation really a core, fixed, and essential aspect of human nature?Join Scott and Shawn as they dive into these really important questions, you might find some unexpected conclusions. Listen now! —⭐ Get notified when the new Bible Study Series “So Much More Than Sex” is available in early 2024 — a video-based Bible Study Series for young adults that is focused on rediscovering God's eternal purpose for human sexuality.

Our culture is obsessed with sex, and Christians are not immune from its impact. Records show that internet porn sites receive more online traffic than ‘X' (Twitter), Instagram, Netflix, Pinterest, and LinkedIn combined. Living in such a culture means that Christian young people especially are feeling pressure and asking questions never imagined by previous generations. So, we can't be squeamish. For Millennials and Gen ‘Z' believers, questions about sexuality saturate their everyday reality. We need to talk about sex! In this first of a series of episodes about sexuality, Scott and Shawn begin by looking at some of the foundational ideas behind our culture's sex obsession. They talk about the difference that a biblical view of sexuality makes and warn about some impacts we can expect which highlight the church's need to address the subject of sex thoughtfully, graciously, and above all biblically. Join Scott and Shawn for this important conversation to help Christians begin thinking biblically about sex. —⭐ Get notified when the new Bible Study Series “So Much More Than Sex” is available in early 2024 — a video-based Bible Study Series for young adults that is focused on rediscovering God's eternal purpose for human sexuality.

Sex Series Recap episode! It was a LOT of information in the last seven episodes, so here's a breakdown of some of the things that stuck with me the most and my biggest takeaways. And the answer to the question: did my sex life improve? And so much more! Let me know your thoughts! Mentioned in this episode: Tantric Muse Retreat in New Orleans Oct 13-16 with Leola and Sophia (and me!): https://www.talktantratome.com/muse The Play Party episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PvJKg_IMEYg The tiny bats: Amazon Let's get you to your HAPPIEST and most RADIANT! Book a call to apply to work together one-on-one:  https://amyedwards.as.me/15mincall Get my FREE course "The Ageless Mindset: The Ultimate Guide to Look Younger and Feel Happier!" HERE: https://best-you-life.teachable.com/p/the-ageless-mindset-the-ultimate-guide-to-look-younger-feel-happier Get the full course “The Youthfulness Hack: The Secret System to Reverse Aging Fast and Create a New, Radiant You!” https://best-you-life.teachable.com/p/the-youthfulness-hack Please remember to rate, review, and subscribe – and share with a friend! It means so much! Thank you! And join the mailing list today to stay up to date! https://www.amyedwards.com/  HigherDOSE 15% off with code MAGIC15 and use link:  https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1336029&u=3517348&m=87497&urllink=&afftrack= Glow serum https://shrsl.com/3w0ya Mask https://shrsl.com/3w0ye 10% off WAANDS:https://waands.com/?ref=amyedwards Or use code AMYEDWARDS for 10% off the CERVIX WAND: https://waands.com/products/cervix-wand?ref=GKWwgfA1tYGAd Amy's hair by https://www.thecollectiveatx.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/the-amy-edwards-show/message

WE'RE BACK!! Thank you for your patience, understanding, and support. On this weeks episode we've got the second part to our interview with the legendary Lisa Chatham. We cover a lot of ground from consent with partners and owning our wanting, speaking boundaries, polyamory and consenting non-monogamy, what it means to be a hell yes, and much more. The conversation of consent is one we could have indefinitely, and we grappled with such ideas, as not being damaged goods as a survivor of sexual assault and what it might mean to have a somatic practice in order to get back into our bodies after long moments of dissociation. We are all worthy of excellent sexual experiences so press play and enjoy!To connect with Lisa Chatham:http://www.lisachathampsychotherapy.comTo connect with Chloe:Email: chloe@downwithmydemons.comResources Mentioned:https://www.5rhythms.com/https://www.thecrimson.com/article/2022/4/21/proposed-changes-harassment-policies/https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/1363460720961303https://sadeclasses.org/speaker/julie-fennell-slutphdBooks:The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardyhttps://www.amazon.com/Ethical-Slut-Third-Practical-Relationships/dp/0399579664Please Scream Quietly: A Story of Kink by Julie Fennellhttps://www.hpb.com/please-scream-quietly-a-story-of-kink/P-47814652-NEW.htmlThe Art of Receiving and Giving: The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin with Robyn Dalzenhttps://wheelofconsentbook.com/Respect: Everything a Guy Needs to Know about Sex, Love, and Consent by Inti Chavez Perezhttps://www.goodreads.com/book/show/43669272-respectPussy: A Reclamation by Regena Thomashauer https://www.amazon.com/Pussy-Reclamation-Regena-Thomashauer/dp/1401950248Support the show

Heather and Jamie have decided it's time to have "the talk" with their younger kids. We often don't talk about certain things because it feels too scary or complicated.  But when we're willing to tell the truth, we become safe places for our kids.   In this episode, they tackle topics like walking in humility with your spouse, broaching uncomfortable conversations, and telling the truth – even when it's painful or awkward.    DISCLAIMER: this episode talks about sex and puberty, so be advised when listening around young children.   Show notes: In this episode, they recommend Stan and Brenna Jones' God's Design for Sex Series.   They also talk about Judy Blume's book Are You There God? It's Me, Margaret.

How in the world are parents supposed to navigate the taboo subject of sexuality with their kids in a way that steers them clear of the messages of perversion, shame, guilt and fear that culture and media promote so freely? One thing we know for sure is that “the talk” about the birds and the bees cannot be your only tool! Creating a culture inside your home where connection is available, curiosity is welcomed, and communication is expected is the best way to set the stage for age-appropriate conversations with your kids where you get to be the chief educator and guide for them in their sexual development. Episode 25 unpacks this topic and introduces listeners to a few resources that the Vallottons highly recommend on this subject of parenting sexuality.Resources: Parent Well: Raising Your Kids in a Hyper-sexualized CultureGod's Design for Sex Series by Dr. Stanton JonesConnect with Lauren:InstagramFacebook Connect with Jason:Jay's InstagramJay's FacebookBraveCo Instagramwww.braveco.org

Episode #74: A Conversation with Nancy on Talking with Our Children about Transgenderism (And other topics regarding to Catholic Social Teaching) Nancy Bandzuch from Catholic Sprouts joins us in discussing how to talk to our children about transgenderism and other social issues and Catholic Sprout's new book Catholic Social Teaching For Youth.  You can get your copy of the book here: https://shop.catholicsprouts.com/?ref=COFFEEANDCATHOLICS   Some of Nancy's Podcasts: https://catholicsprouts.com/catholic-sprouts-podcast/ https://catholicsprouts.com/the-just-one-small-thing-podcast/    For more discussion on this topic, listen to Episode #33: Transgender: A Catholic Social Justice Teaching Response.  https://coffeeandcatholics.podbean.com/e/episode-33-october-25-2021-transgender-a-catholic-social-justice-teaching-response/   Some other resources discussed:    Be Healed by Dr. Bob Schuchtes https://a.co/d/gadtCOX Be Transformed by Dr. Bob Schuchtes https://a.co/d/dRNDbeo  Be Restored by Dr. Bob Schuchtes https://a.co/d/g7a5n70  God's Design for Sex Series by Stan and Brenna Jones https://a.co/d/gzKbGeZ   Lauren's Library Recommendations: Male, Female, Other?: A Catholic Guide to Understanding Gender by Jason Evert https://a.co/d/4vzFVQM  Breaking Bread with the Dead: A Reader's Guide to a More Tranquil Mind by Alan Jacobs https://a.co/d/68i1vYH    Join us on Facebook  https://www.facebook.com/groups/231017461535192 If you enjoy this podcast, please consider contributing to our Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/coffeeandcatholics or you can email us at coffeeandcatholics@gmail.com for direct donations and prayer requests. We're a proud partner of the SmartCatholics Podcast Network. Find new shows to love, meet like-minded Catholics, and join the community at smartcatholics.com.   Love TAN Books? We do too! Consider using our affiliate account for your next purchase. https://tanbooks.com?rfsn=7123077.dfb511

We've all heard the story of a kid in the church youth group who is now on a destructive path. Many parents are living this story. Sometimes the lessons we teach our kids don't stick. The faith we hand down doesn't become their own. They have outside influences that erode the foundation that us parents seek so diligently to build.   In this episode, Catherine shares a cautionary tale of a young man who was raised in the church, in the Bible belt, and yet he chose a very destructive path. Blake Howard found love and affirmation under layers of make-up and pounds fake body parts. There are a lot of lessons that parents can learn from his story. Catherine and Blake discuss:   Why we need to talk to our kids about sex early, and how to go about that. The effects of bullying on kids who are struggling in the area of sexuality. How the church often reinforces unhealthy ideas about gender. How to help our kids understand masculinity and femininity. The effects of worldly affirmation.   Along the way, you will see how a church kid can slowly descend into a life of sexual confusion and gender dysphoria, all from a guy who has been there and has a lot of wisdom to offer.   And while today's tale is tragic, in the very next episode you will hear how this same young man went from being a drag queen to being a minister of the Gospel.    Only God could write a story like that!   Blake Howard is the Associate Pastor & Creative Director at Xtreme Harvest Church in San Antonio, TX. Blake graduated from Ramp School of Ministry in Hamilton, AL.   To see clips from this interview and find inspiring supplemental quotes and posts, connect with Catherine on Instagram and Facebook . To receive updates about each new podcast and free resources like Scripture songs, Bible verses to pray over prodigal children, and a topical index of Scriptures for prayer, subscribe to Catherine's website.   Episode Links: Blake's Instagram & Facebook Pages   BOOK REFERENCED: From Mascara to Manhood by Benjamin Blake Howard God's Design for Sex Series (4 books) by Stan & Brenna Jones   PODCASTS REFERENCED: Red Pilled America, Episode 149: Bondage, February 10, 2023 Allie Beth Stuckey, Episode 748: From Drag Queen & Drug Dealer to Jesus Follower CPCW Series on Sexuality: Episode 45: How Do We Help Our Kids to Understand Biblical Sexuality? Episode 46: How to Talk to Your Kids about Biblical Sexuality Episode 47: What is Our Culture Teaching Kids about Sexuality Episode 48: How Our Culture is Distorting Sexuality and Harming Children   ARTICLES REFERENCED: “Understanding Biblical Sexuality and How To Talk about It with Your Children” by Erin A. Barry and Catherine Segars “What Culture Is Teaching Our Kids about Sexuality: 7 Ways to Respond” by Erin A. Barry and Catherine SegarsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Every person is sexy just because they're alive, according to this week's guest in our For the Love of Sex Series; Dr. Alexandra Solomon. Jen & Dr. Solomon talk about how we can discover how to engage with our sexuality free from judgment or expectation.  Dr. Alexandra Solomon is the author of bestselling books, “Loving Bravely” and “Taking Sexy Back” which both seek to empower women to reclaim their sexual journeys. As a highly acclaimed psychologist at Northwestern University, Dr. Solomon regularly presents her findings to people all over the world.  Join Dr. Solomon and Jen as they discuss: Talking about sex with your partner  How to stop settling for less in the bedroom  Objectively reflecting on your sexual journey without judgment The real impact of trauma on our sexual selves How desire shifts over the course of a relationship  Dr. Solomon explains the basic premise that undergirds her work; that every person has the right and ability to experience pleasure and joy and connection through sex. * * * Thank you to our sponsors! BetterHelp | Try convenient and affordable therapy with BetterHelp anytime, anywhere. Give BetterHelp a try and get 10% off your first month at BetterHelp.com/ForTheLove   FOCL | Leave those 3am thoughts behind! Sleep better with FOCL CBD gummies and use Promo Code ForTheLove for 20% off at www.focl.com.  MeCourse | Let's join sexologist Dr. Celeste Holbrook and Jen as they talk about real steps you can take to improve your sex life. Head to MeCourse.org/love101 to register.  Thought-Provoking Quotes “What stands out first and foremost about women and sex is that we are so completely objectified from the time we're little. That's the nature of patriarchy, is to objectify women. And we learn to objectify ourselves. I don't know how it is for you, but I know I have forever related to my body as a forever fixer-upper project.”- Dr. Alexandra Solomon “There's an idea that sexiness is defined from the outside in. So in my book, "Taking Sexy Back," that's what we're taking back. We're taking back this idea that sexiness is externally defined. That actually, our “sexy” lives right here inside of us, and it always has. Your sexuality is a part of yourself. It's a part of who you are. It's your embodied relationship with touch and physical expression and pleasure and creativity and play.”  - Dr. Alexandra Solomon “There's going to be dry spells. There's going to be mismatched libidos. There's going to be menopause. There's going to be childbirth and job changes and medical diagnoses. Things are going to happen. So I want couples to be together, shoulder to shoulder, looking at the problem together. It's not my problem or your problem. It's us looking at our sexual connection. How do we as a couple cultivate this, nurture it, tweak it over time? Making love as 50-year-olds is going to look and feel different than making love as 23-year-olds.”  - Dr. Alexandra Solomon “Recovery from trauma is not just about sexual pain or sadness or post-traumatic stress symptoms stopping. Recovery from trauma is also about reclaiming pleasure, reclaiming your right to pleasure, reclaiming a sense of feeling safe inside of your body. I think our capacity for healing is limitless.”  - Dr. Alexandra Solomon “We think that if we're sex positive, it means that we're these super confident vixens and divas, and that we have to be up for anything. But we all struggle with this idea of, "Wait, can I be sex positive and a bit timid? Can I be sex positive and what we would call, quote-unquote, 'vanilla,' or not super interested in being kinky or pushing edges? Sex positivity basically means coming in with the idea that sex is natural and normal, and we're all sexual, and what we're interested in is not weird or pathological. It's coming in from a foundation of positivity.” - Dr. Alexandra Solomon “Sex problems in a relationship are always the responsibility of both people. It's not about figuring out whose fault the issue is. When I bring up a problem or a concern with my partner, it's about “us”. It's about, "I love us, I believe in us, I value us, which is why I want to talk about this question, observation or concern I have." It's not about throwing our partner under the bus or telling them they're doing it wrong. It's about starting from that place of, "I love us, and this matters.” - Dr. Alexandra Solomon “It's important to examine patterns in your own relationship with your sexuality and identify how things from your childhood impact your sexual relationship to yourself and others even 20 years later. Even seemingly simple things like your 6th grade sex-ed class can have an impact.” - Dr. Alexandra Solomon Guest's Links Dr. Solomon's Website  Dr. Solomon's Instagram - @dr.alexandra.solomon Dr. Solomon's Twitter - @ahsolomon Dr. Solomon's Facebook - @dralexandrasolomon Dr. Solomon's YouTube - @alexandrahs1   Books & Resources Mentioned in This Episode Reimagining Love Podcast Dr. Solomon's books: Loving Bravely & Taking Sexy Back E-Course: Marriage 101 for the Grown and Sexy   Connect with Jen! Jen's website Jen's InstagramJen's Twitter Jen's FacebookJen's YouTube   

We interrupt our regular episode rhythm to bring you this replay of a conversation we had in our Ways to Win at Home event we hosted at the beginning of last year.During this event, over 3,500 families tuned in, eager to join an ongoing conversation surrounding marriage and family. The response we received to this event was nothing short of overwhelming! As a result, we began the At Home with the Bevere podcast so we can continue these conversations on a regular basis, equipping families to cultivate a home dynamic that is healthy, holy, and fun.Enjoy this episode as we throw it back to where it all began!Looking for the resources Juli mentioned? Find them here:The Ultimate Girls' Body Book: Not-So-Silly Questions About Your Body—https://amzn.to/3lggSG2Full Set - God's Design for Sex Series, 4 Books: Revised and Updated Edition By: Stan Jones, Brenna Jones (Paperback) 2019 — https://amzn.to/3EbKriT

In the last installment of Jamie's sex series, she brings back Teri Cress (M.A., LMFT, LPC, NCC). Jamie and Teri dive deeper into the subject and discuss how to reclaim a sex drive that seems to have disappeared, tools for recovering from sexual betrayal as well as pornography and sex addiction. As always, Teri brings her expertise, warmth and underlying hope to what can be a heavy subject. We assure you that you will feel encouraged and maybe even have some renewed hope in your own life regarding this very important topic.

Episode Notes: **Warning: This episode contains adult themes and sex is talked about it detail.** This week, Jamie continues her sex series as she sits down with Cole & Cait Zick (leaders of Moral Revolution) as they discuss sexuality, Christian sex stigmas, how the church has hurt and helped Christian sexuality and their personal story of getting married and being surprised at the complications and surprising aspects involving sex and intimacy. You will love their authenticity and willingness talk openly about this subject in hopes that Christians can reclaim healthy sexuality as God intended and enjoy true sexual intimacy and safety in marriage.

**Warning: This episode contains adult themes and sex is talked about in detail.** Teri Cress (M.A., LMFT, LPC, NCC) is here to help launch our 3 part series on sex, sexual health, and sexual wellbeing. Teri is a Christian sex therapist who has years of experience walking couples through sexual dysfunctions, fear regarding sex, stigmas in the Christian community about sex and sexual health. Jamie and Teri bond instantly over their desire to reclaim sex in the Christian community and Jamie asks Teri many detailed questions about how to cultivate a healthy sexual relationship with your spouse. Teri has not only degrees and experience on her side but true wisdom as well. We hope this might start a healing conversation between you and your spouse and encourage you that sex is God-designed, God-blessed, and is meant to be enjoyed within his framework. Enjoy this super spicy episode and if children are around make sure you have headphones in ha!

On this episode of the Melanated Movement Podcast, Tess & Anne tackle the "Wet and Sticky" of healthy sex: What is it? How often should we be having it? Join this fun conversation as we continue through our sex series.  ** Explicit Content warning: Please be advised this conversation contains strong and explicit language as well as references to sexual conduct.  *** If you enjoyed this episode, mark us as your FAVORITE. Be the first to know when a new episode drops! Follow our socials!  IG: @MelanatedMovementPodcast As always, please take care of yourselves and each other.  xoxo Tess & Anne 

This episode marks part one of our first ever Sex Series! In honor of Scorpio Season, the holiday season, and the shifting of our environments and selves, we dive into some of the edgier and more taboo parts of life. This first episode features Lisa Chatham, a Naropa University professor and licensed Psychotherapist. We begin to unpack the very difficult to navigate conversation that is consent and discuss the not so black and white nature of it. Lisa brings brilliant psychological, developmental, and social information to the table to aid a well rounded discussion. Consent is a topic that requires much more than an hour long conversation so thank you for baring with us as we do our best to hit some major (and maybe some unpopular/controversial) points. I hope you enjoy, see you next time.*If you or someone you know is/has experienced sexual abuse/assault/violence, please seek support. You are not alone.To get in touch with Chloe, please email:             Chloe@downwithmydemons.comFollow Chloe on IG: https://www.instagram.com/chloelionheart/To get in touch with Lisa Chatham:Website: www.lisachathampsychotherapy.com*National Sexual Assault Hotline (24 hour service)1-800-656-4673RESOURCES:“No” (2017) Series by The Heart Radio with Kaitlin Presthttps://www.theheartradio.org/no-episodes“In The ‘No' Part 2” by RadioLabhttps://radiolab.org/episodes/no-part-2“In The ‘No' Part 3” by RadioLabhttps://radiolab.org/episodes/no-part-3CONSENT!"Consent: 101" A Series by Planned Parenthoodhttps://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL3xP1jlf1jgJRkChwVOlwQcV0-UqcWiFV"Consent is as easy as FRIES!"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QTSDIilyA2I"Coffee Consent: The other half of the consent argument"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WOrGa7vPzvQ"Consent: For Kids!"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AArIv-tvxWE"Sex Education Should Start with Consent" with Kaz (Tedtalk)https://www.ted.com/talks/kaz_sex_education_should_start_with_consent?utm_campaign=tedspread&utm_medium=referral&utm_source=tedcomshareBOOKS:"It Doesn't Have to be Awkward: Dealing with Relationships, Consent, and Other Hard-to-Talk-About Stuff" by Dr. Drew Pinsky and Paulina PinskyComprehensive List of Books dealing with Sexual Assaulthttps://jocolibrary.bibliocommons.com/list/share/186066773/1069795477Support the show

*DISCLAIMER* This episode contains adult content and is not intended for young ears.   Sex Series: Six Pillars of Intimacy with Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo   Ecclesiastes 9:9a (ICB) "Enjoy life with the wife you love."   Questions we discuss: What are the six pillars of intimacy? What are some emerging themes for ways couples drift into an unhealthy marriage? What are some of the best rhythms and habits you've witnessed married couples intentionally plugging into their lives?   As co-hosts of the top marriage podcast in Apple Podcasts, the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo speak to a worldwide audience about sex, love & commitment, and challenge every listener to make their relationship a priority. Their best selling book, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy, has transformed countless marriages around the world. This framework is simple, practical, and powerful. You'll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.   One Extraordinary Marriage Website   Thank You to Our Sponsor:  Justin Maust, EOS Implementer and Speaker   Connect with The Savvy Sauce on Facebook or Instagram or Our Website   Please help us out by sharing this episode with a friend, leaving a 5-star rating and review, and subscribing to this podcast!   Also, check out our Patreon Page to find out how to gain access to additional podcasts and goodies!   Gospel Scripture: (all NIV)   Romans 3:23 “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,”   Romans 3:24 “and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.”   Romans 3:25 (a) “God presented him as a sacrifice of atonement, through faith in his blood.”    Hebrews 9:22 (b) “without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness.”    Romans 5:8 “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”    Romans 5:11 “Not only is this so, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.”    John 3:16 “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”   Romans 10:9 “That if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.”    Luke 15:10 says “In the same way, I tell you, there is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents.”   Romans 8:1 “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus”   Ephesians 1:13–14 “And you also were included in Christ when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation. Having believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God's possession- to the praise of his glory.”   Ephesians 1:15–23 “For this reason, ever since I heard about your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all the saints, I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers. I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better. I pray also that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints, and his incomparably great power for us who believe. That power is like the working of his mighty strength, which he exerted in Christ when he raised him from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly realms, far above all rule and authority, power and dominion, and every title that can be given, not only in the present age but also in the one to come. And God placed all things under his feet and appointed him to be head over everything for the church, which is his body, the fullness of him who fills everything in every way.”   Ephesians 2:8–10 “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith – and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God – not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God‘s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.“   Ephesians 2:13 “But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far away have been brought near through the blood of Christ.“   Philippians 1:6 “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”    

*DISCLAIMER* This episode includes adult content and is not intended for young ears.   Sex Series: Higher Sexual Desire Wife: An Interview with J Parker   Song of Songs 3:1 (NIV) "All night long on my bed I looked for the one my heart loves; I looked for him but did not find him."   Questions We Discuss:   What is your favorite list of benefits for married couples who consistently connect sexually? What are some reasons why a husband would desire less sex than his wife? What are some reasons a wife may desire sex more than her husband? And what can the couple do about this?   J. Parker is my guest today and years ago, she started Hot, Holy & Humorous as a blog with the goal of helping others understand God's design for sex in marriage. Her goal is to help you embrace God's blessings for your marriage bed.   Since then, she's published over 1,000 blog posts, written five books, released 100+ podcast episodes with three other marriage bloggers, and launched an online community for higher desire wives. But her goal remains the same: helping you embrace God's blessings for your marriage bed.   J has a personal story of redemption in the area of sexuality, holds a master's degree in counseling, and lives in Texas with her fabulous but oh-so logical husband, fondly nicknamed "Spock."   Higher Desire Wives Community at Hot, Holy & Humorous Sex Chats for Christian Wives Podcast   Thank You to Our Sponsor:  Leman Property Management Company   Connect with The Savvy Sauce on Facebook or Instagram or Our Website   Gospel Scripture: (all NIV)   Romans 3:23 “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,”   Romans 3:24 “and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.”   Romans 3:25 (a) “God presented him as a sacrifice of atonement, through faith in his blood.”    Hebrews 9:22 (b) “without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness.”    Romans 5:8 “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”    Romans 5:11 “Not only is this so, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.”    John 3:16 “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”   Romans 10:9 “That if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.”    Luke 15:10 says “In the same way, I tell you, there is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents.”   Romans 8:1 “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus”   Ephesians 1:13–14 “And you also were included in Christ when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation. Having believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God's possession- to the praise of his glory.”   Ephesians 1:15–23 “For this reason, ever since I heard about your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all the saints, I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers. I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better. I pray also that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints, and his incomparably great power for us who believe. That power is like the working of his mighty strength, which he exerted in Christ when he raised him from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly realms, far above all rule and authority, power and dominion, and every title that can be given, not only in the present age but also in the one to come. And God placed all things under his feet and appointed him to be head over everything for the church, which is his body, the fullness of him who fills everything in every way.”   Ephesians 2:8–10 “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith – and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God – not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God‘s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.“   Ephesians 2:13 “But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far away have been brought near through the blood of Christ.“   Philippians 1:6 “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”

Melanated Movement presents: The Sex Series!  On this episode, Tess, Anne, and Special guest break down what is really on our minds when it comes to intimacy.  Grab your wine and a comfortable seat as we embark on a new series opening doors, breaking barriers, and building bridges to stronger boundaries, romance, and communication.  ** Content Warning: This episode contains strong language, references to sexual conduct, etc. *** If you enjoyed this episode, please follow, comment, and share! Leave us a quick review and/or rating, we'd love to hear from you! Let's continue the conversation with us on our IG @Melanatedmovementpodcast. As always, please take care of yourselves and each other.  XoXo Tess & Anne

Being honest about who you are is one of the foundations of a relationship that strengthens and deepens over time. The more you know yourself, the less likely you'll be to lose yourself, in an attempt to keep the peace or make someone else happy. 

Being honest about who you are is one of the foundations of a relationship that strengthens and deepens over time. The more you know yourself, the less likely you'll be to lose yourself, in an attempt to keep the peace or make someone else happy. 

*DISCLAIMER* This episode includes adult content and is not intended for young ears.   Sex Series: Healthy Self, Healthy Sex: An Interview with Gaye Christmus   3 John 1:2 (ESV) "Beloved, I pray that all may go well with you and that you may be in good health, as it goes well with your soul."   Questions We Discuss: After years of writing about healthy living, what have been your greatest lessons? How can couples grow in their communication, specifically as it relates to sex in marriage? What barriers do you notice in marriages that are hampering the couples' sex life?   Gaye Groover Christmus is a wife and mom to two young adult sons. In her day job she works as a grant writer and technical editor for a university. Her passion, though, is encouraging married women to slow down, take care of their bodies and minds, and create joy and intimacy in their marriages. She believes that small steps can lead to big changes, and that women armed with simple tools, practical information, and a little bit of encouragement can transform their busy, stressful lives into calmer, healthier, and more sensual lives. Gaye blogs at CalmHealthySexy and The Healthy Life Toolbox and is a co-host of the Sex Chat for Christian Wives podcast. She's the author of several ebooks for women, includingBreathe. Relax Enjoy. The Guide to Romantic Essential Oils and The Busy Woman's 30-Minute Guide to Exercise.    Calm. Healthy. Sexy. Blog and Healthy Life Toolbox Sex Chats for Christian Wives Podcast   Thank You to Our Sponsor:  Sam Leman Eureka   Connect with The Savvy Sauce on Facebook or Instagram or Our Website   Gospel Scripture: (all NIV)   Romans 3:23 “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,”   Romans 3:24 “and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.”   Romans 3:25 (a) “God presented him as a sacrifice of atonement, through faith in his blood.”    Hebrews 9:22 (b) “without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness.”    Romans 5:8 “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”    Romans 5:11 “Not only is this so, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.”    John 3:16 “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”   Romans 10:9 “That if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.”    Luke 15:10 says “In the same way, I tell you, there is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents.”   Romans 8:1 “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus”   Ephesians 1:13–14 “And you also were included in Christ when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation. Having believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God's possession- to the praise of his glory.”   Ephesians 1:15–23 “For this reason, ever since I heard about your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all the saints, I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers. I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better. I pray also that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints, and his incomparably great power for us who believe. That power is like the working of his mighty strength, which he exerted in Christ when he raised him from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly realms, far above all rule and authority, power and dominion, and every title that can be given, not only in the present age but also in the one to come. And God placed all things under his feet and appointed him to be head over everything for the church, which is his body, the fullness of him who fills everything in every way.”   Ephesians 2:8–10 “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith – and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God – not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God‘s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.“   Ephesians 2:13 “But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far away have been brought near through the blood of Christ.“   Philippians 1:6 “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”

*DISCLAIMER* This episode includes adult content and is not intended for young ears.   Sex Series: Orgasmic Potential, Pleasure, and Friendship: An Interview with Bonny Burns   Genesis 4:1a (KJV) "And Adam knew Eve his wife;"   Questions We Discuss:   What are some practical ways we can enhance our spiritual, emotional, and sexual connection in marriage? Will you teach us more of the scientific findings of sex that we may be unaware of? What are some other fascinating findings you've discovered as it relates to the sexual intimacy and pleasure in marriage?   Bonny Burns is an APSATS certified partner coach (Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists, apsats.org.) She has been writing and researching God's design of sexual intimacy since 2012 on the blog OysterBed7.com and has been speaking about godly sexual intimacy on the popular podcast, forchristianwives.com. She can also be found at strongwives.com.   Strong Wives Website Sex Chats for Christian Wives Podcast Bonny Burns' Website Bonny Burns on Facebook Book with Bonny as your Coach   Thank You to Our Sponsor:  Justin Maust, EOS Implementer and Speaker   Connect with The Savvy Sauce on Facebook or Instagram or Our Website   Gospel Scripture: (all NIV)   Romans 3:23 “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,”   Romans 3:24 “and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.”   Romans 3:25 (a) “God presented him as a sacrifice of atonement, through faith in his blood.”    Hebrews 9:22 (b) “without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness.”    Romans 5:8 “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”    Romans 5:11 “Not only is this so, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.”    John 3:16 “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”   Romans 10:9 “That if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.”    Luke 15:10 says “In the same way, I tell you, there is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents.”   Romans 8:1 “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus”   Ephesians 1:13–14 “And you also were included in Christ when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation. Having believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God's possession- to the praise of his glory.”   Ephesians 1:15–23 “For this reason, ever since I heard about your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all the saints, I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers. I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better. I pray also that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints, and his incomparably great power for us who believe. That power is like the working of his mighty strength, which he exerted in Christ when he raised him from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly realms, far above all rule and authority, power and dominion, and every title that can be given, not only in the present age but also in the one to come. And God placed all things under his feet and appointed him to be head over everything for the church, which is his body, the fullness of him who fills everything in every way.”   Ephesians 2:8–10 “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith – and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God – not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God‘s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.“   Ephesians 2:13 “But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far away have been brought near through the blood of Christ.“   Philippians 1:6 “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”  

*DISCLAIMER* This episode includes adult content and is not intended for young ears.   Sex Series: Enhancing Female Pleasure and Enjoyment of Sex: An Interview with Dr. Jennifer Degler   Song of Songs 1:1 (NIV) "Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth—for your love is more delightful than wine."   Questions We Discuss:   Can you tell us more about the three essential aspects to a woman flourishing sexually in marriage? How is a woman's sexual response related to each day of her cycle? What are some important things to know about female orgasm?   Dr. Jennifer Degler is a Psychologist, life coach, author, and speaker. She is known for her frank, funny, energetic seminars which weave together practical information and Scripture with real life examples from her clinical practice and her own marriage and family. She loves audience involvement and keeping a group on their toes, meaning no one gets sleepy during her talks, and everyone goes home with apply-it-now tools for successful living, satisfying relationships, and improved emotional health.    Audiences say she could've been a standup comedian, but Dr. Jennifer prefers helping people through her central Kentucky counseling practice and writing books like No More Christian Nice Girl and the Deck of Dares: 40 Dares to Make Your Marriage Sizzle. Her fabulous adult children, Josie and Jake, delight in telling their friends that their mom runs a sex shop when, in reality, she founded CWIVES.com, a ministry to help Christian wives make their sex lives sizzle. When she's not podcasting and blogging about emotional wellness, relationships, sex, and spiritual growth on the JenniferDegler.com website, you can find her teaching a women's Sunday School class, kayaking, and enjoying her empty nest with her high school sweetheart husband, Jeff.   Fan the Flame Dare of the Month   Thank You to Our Sponsor:  Justin Maust, EOS Implementer and Speaker   Connect with The Savvy Sauce on Facebook or Instagram or Our Website   Gospel Scripture: (all NIV)   Romans 3:23 “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,”   Romans 3:24 “and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.”   Romans 3:25 (a) “God presented him as a sacrifice of atonement, through faith in his blood.”    Hebrews 9:22 (b) “without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness.”    Romans 5:8 “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”    Romans 5:11 “Not only is this so, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.”    John 3:16 “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”   Romans 10:9 “That if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.”    Luke 15:10 says “In the same way, I tell you, there is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents.”   Romans 8:1 “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus”   Ephesians 1:13–14 “And you also were included in Christ when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation. Having believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God's possession- to the praise of his glory.”   Ephesians 1:15–23 “For this reason, ever since I heard about your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all the saints, I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers. I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better. I pray also that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints, and his incomparably great power for us who believe. That power is like the working of his mighty strength, which he exerted in Christ when he raised him from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly realms, far above all rule and authority, power and dominion, and every title that can be given, not only in the present age but also in the one to come. And God placed all things under his feet and appointed him to be head over everything for the church, which is his body, the fullness of him who fills everything in every way.”   Ephesians 2:8–10 “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith – and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God – not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God‘s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.“   Ephesians 2:13 “But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far away have been brought near through the blood of Christ.“   Philippians 1:6 “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”

*DISCLAIMER* This episode contains adult content and is not intended for young ears.   Sex Series: God's Design and Warnings for Sex: An Interview with Mike Novotny   Matthew 7:14 (NIV) "But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it."   Questions we discuss: What are a few unexpected parts of the Bible that discuss sex? What have you learned through your journey of recovery and counseling? Are there any stories you want to share that took place because you were willing to discuss this topic of healthy sexuality with your church?   Mike Novotny is a pastor at The CORE, a church in downtown Appleton, WI, as well as spiritual leader and lead speaker for Time of Grace, a media ministry that reaches people more than a million times each month through weekly television broadcasts and podcasts. He enjoys spending time with his wife and two daughters, continuing his streak of 37 years of playing organized soccer, running long distances and reading any nonfiction he can get his hands on.   Pastor Mike Novotny's Website   Thank You to Our Sponsor:  Leman Property Management Company   Connect with The Savvy Sauce on Facebook or Instagram or Our Website   Please help us out by sharing this episode with a friend, leaving a 5-star rating and review, and subscribing to this podcast!   Also, check out our Patreon Page to find out how to gain access to additional podcasts and goodies!   Gospel Scripture: (all NIV)   Romans 3:23 “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,”   Romans 3:24 “and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.”   Romans 3:25 (a) “God presented him as a sacrifice of atonement, through faith in his blood.”    Hebrews 9:22 (b) “without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness.”    Romans 5:8 “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”    Romans 5:11 “Not only is this so, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.”    John 3:16 “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”   Romans 10:9 “That if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.”    Luke 15:10 says “In the same way, I tell you, there is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents.”   Romans 8:1 “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus”   Ephesians 1:13–14 “And you also were included in Christ when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation. Having believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God's possession- to the praise of his glory.”   Ephesians 1:15–23 “For this reason, ever since I heard about your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all the saints, I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers. I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better. I pray also that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints, and his incomparably great power for us who believe. That power is like the working of his mighty strength, which he exerted in Christ when he raised him from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly realms, far above all rule and authority, power and dominion, and every title that can be given, not only in the present age but also in the one to come. And God placed all things under his feet and appointed him to be head over everything for the church, which is his body, the fullness of him who fills everything in every way.”   Ephesians 2:8–10 “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith – and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God – not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God‘s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.“   Ephesians 2:13 “But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far away have been brought near through the blood of Christ.“   Philippians 1:6 “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”

Welcome to our summer series on a taboo topic—sex. That's right! We'll be diving into some really intriguing and educational conversations about sex. I'm hopeful that these upcoming interviews will open doors and ideas for you, allowing you to liberate your body & sexuality! Review show notes and transcript at someplaceforeverybody.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When Kati Morton (LMFT, Episodes 6 & 7!) said that sex is one of the three main reasons that people get divorced, Jordi immediately knew it was a topic that had to be broached on Making it Work... convincing Kaitlin of this was not quite as immediate. Ha! In the intro to 'The Sex Series,' Jordi and Katie discuss times that intimacy has been an issue in their marriage, preserving kids' innocence in this day and age, and Katie (reluctantly) participates in a little intimacy Q&A and is shocked to find out that her husband, indeed, likes 'normal man' things.  

I have my amazing husband on the podcast this week! Matt and I talk about our experience with raising our kids and some of the conversations we have with our kids about sensitive topics. Books Matt and I mention in this episode: God's Design for Sex Series: https://www.amazon.com/Full-Set-Design-Revised-Paperback/dp/B00O5DIVTUScreen Kidshttps://www.amazon.com/Screen-Kids-Skills-Every-Tech-Driven/dp/0802422209Good Pictures Bad Pictureshttps://www.amazon.com/Good-Pictures-Bad-Jr-Protect/dp/0997318724Raising Kingdom Kidshttps://www.amazon.com/Raising-Kingdom-Kids-Giving-Living/dp/1589978803

Getting verbal consent from a girl before having sex is important to do, especially in these days of high sensitivity, rush to judgement, and mob mentality. But there is a way to do it that doesn't ruin the moment and actually gets her to feel safer with you and more in the mood.MORE RESOURCES 1-on-1 Premium Coaching: https://www.coachedbytripp.com/HOOKED Video Masterclass: https://getherhooked.com/Get my book Magnetic: https://trippadvice.com/bookSend an email: tripp@trippadvice.comLeave a voicemail: 323-432-0025SEE WHAT I'M UP TOTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@trippadviceInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/trippadvice/Twitter: https://twitter.com/TrippAdviceFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/TrippAdvice/

If you can make a girl squirt, she'll have one of the most intense physical sensations of her life which not only makes her feel amazing, but brings you even closer together and makes her want to reciprocate. You'll learn exactly how to do it and the mindset to help her enjoy it.MORE RESOURCES 1-on-1 Premium Coaching: https://www.coachedbytripp.com/HOOKED Video Masterclass: https://getherhooked.com/Get my book Magnetic: https://trippadvice.com/bookSend an email: tripp@trippadvice.comLeave a voicemail: 323-432-0025SEE WHAT I'M UP TOTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@trippadviceInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/trippadvice/Twitter: https://twitter.com/TrippAdviceFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/TrippAdvice/

Having a threesome is the ultimate sexual fantasy for a lot of guys. Now there's a few ways to make this a reality, but there is one method that has the highest chance of making it happen. You'll learn how to bring it up to the girls and what to have on hand when you're doing it.MORE RESOURCES 1-on-1 Premium Coaching: https://www.coachedbytripp.com/HOOKED Video Masterclass: https://getherhooked.com/Get my book Magnetic: https://trippadvice.com/bookSend an email: tripp@trippadvice.comLeave a voicemail: 323-432-0025SEE WHAT I'M UP TOTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@trippadviceInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/trippadvice/Twitter: https://twitter.com/TrippAdviceFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/TrippAdvice/

Stirling Cooper is an award winning porn star who helps men succeed with their journey of self-improvement and rediscovering masculine virtues. Today he'll share his most effective methods for fixing ED and premature ejaculation and how to tell when a girl is a true nymphomaniac.MORE RESOURCES Visit Stirling's Website: https://www.stirlingcooper.com/1-on-1 Premium Coaching: https://www.coachedbytripp.com/HOOKED Video Masterclass: https://getherhooked.com/Get my book Magnetic: https://trippadvice.com/bookSend an email: tripp@trippadvice.comLeave a voicemail: 323-432-0025SEE WHAT I'M UP TOTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@trippadviceInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/trippadvice/Twitter: https://twitter.com/TrippAdviceFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/TrippAdvice/

Knowing how to physically escalate with a girl is how you get her to consider you as a lover. So let's go over how to break the touch barrier in different dating scenarios, how to make her feel comfortable with touching, and how to go from a first hug to having sex at your place.MORE RESOURCES 1-on-1 Premium Coaching: https://www.coachedbytripp.com/HOOKED Video Masterclass: https://getherhooked.com/Get my book Magnetic: https://trippadvice.com/bookSend an email: tripp@trippadvice.comLeave a voicemail: 323-432-0025SEE WHAT I'M UP TOTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@trippadviceInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/trippadvice/Twitter: https://twitter.com/TrippAdviceFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/TrippAdvice/

The way you get a girl to come back to the bedroom for more is by knowing how to make her feel good and delivering in a way that gives her goosebumps and blows her mind. So let's go over the top 3 ways for doing this and being the best lover every woman you're with has ever had.MORE RESOURCES 1-on-1 Premium Coaching: https://www.coachedbytripp.com/HOOKED Video Masterclass: https://getherhooked.com/Get my book Magnetic: https://trippadvice.com/bookSend an email: tripp@trippadvice.comLeave a voicemail: 323-432-0025SEE WHAT I'M UP TOTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@trippadviceInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/trippadvice/Twitter: https://twitter.com/TrippAdviceFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/TrippAdvice/

Erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation can be both be overcome by understanding why they happen, knowing how to regain full control over your body and then practicing these mental and physical exercises so you can have the most fulfilling and satisfying sex life possible.MORE RESOURCES 1-on-1 Premium Coaching: https://www.coachedbytripp.com/HOOKED Video Masterclass: https://getherhooked.com/Get my book Magnetic: https://trippadvice.com/bookSend an email: tripp@trippadvice.comLeave a voicemail: 323-432-0025SEE WHAT I'M UP TOTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@trippadviceInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/trippadvice/Twitter: https://twitter.com/TrippAdviceFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/TrippAdvice/

(Warning: Adult themes, language, explicit content.)Real talk, mga Bessies. Ito ang mga nag-huhumindig na katotohanan: The World Health Organization defines sexual health as fundamental to the overall health and well-being of individuals, couples and families, and to the social and economic development of communities and countries. Sexual health, when viewed affirmatively, requires a positive and respectful approach to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination and violence. 2019 was the ninth consecutive year that the Philippines has reported a rise in teenage pregnanciesThe Philippines has recorded a 7% increase in births among girls aged 15 and below in 2019, up from the figure on teenage pregnancies in 2018.Filipino minors who gave birth in 2019 increased to 62,510 from 62,341 in 2018.There is a strong scientific consensus that providing people—in particular, adolescents—access to information and services related to sexual and reproductive health is not linked to increases in sexual activity.Population-level trends likewise affirm this conclusion, as interventions such as the HPV vaccine, affordable contraceptive access and comprehensive sex education programs have not led to more sexual activity.Despite strong evidence debunking the “promiscuity” argument, social conservatives continue to use it as a pretext to block or undermine policies and programs that make sexual and reproductive health information and services more available.So what's stopping us from normalizing healthy conversations about sex, mga Bes?Tara na! Let's have a kiki!Usapang+Sex Series na 'to!Sources:1. https://www.who.int/health-topics/sexual-health#tab=tab_12. https://cnnphilippines.com/news/2021/2/8/Teenage-pregnancy-cases-up-in-Philippines.html3. https://www.guttmacher.org/gpr/2019/06/promiscuity-propaganda-access-information-and-services-does-not-lead-increases-sexual#:::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::(If you are a Filipino living in the Philippines and you, or somebody you know, are undergoing depression or having suicidal thoughts, try talking to somebody you trust or please go to the link:    https://doh.gov.ph/NCMH-Crisis-Hotline . It's okay to ask for help. )For more resources: www.balutkiki.comIf you are listening to us on Apple iTunes, Podchaser, PodcastAddict, etc., please leave us a rating and a review. The reason we ask this is because this helps us appear on searches much quicker and allows people to discover our podcast easier so we are able reach and empower more.Better yet, please tell a friend about us, especially if that friend needs to relate to somebody going through a tough time. Let them know they're not alone.Send us an email (balutkiki@gmail.com) if you have any questions, want a shoutout, or have suggestions on how we can improve on the podcast. We love hearing from all of you - keep them coming!If you want to support our show, please click on the BuyMeACoffee link belowSupport the show (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/balutkiki)