Join us, Topher and Thomas, two twenty-somethings who like guys but love God. We'll dive head-first into your questions about LGBTQ+ issues, church culture, and living authentically while giving our questionable advice. This is a safe place for real conversations, so come on in! Welcome to your Home from Home! Submit your questions for upcoming episodes here!
The Home From Home podcast is truly a breath of fresh air in the realm of podcasts. With its open and honest discussions surrounding same-sex attraction (SSA) and faith, it provides a platform for individuals to explore their own struggles and find solace in knowing they are not alone. The hosts, Thomas and Topher, bring a level of vulnerability and authenticity that is rare to find, creating a safe space for listeners to engage in these important conversations.
One of the best aspects of this podcast is the wealth of information and counseling it provides for individuals dealing with SSA. Whether you personally identify as SSA or have loved ones who do, the insights shared on this podcast can be truly life-changing. The hosts address difficult questions with grace and empathy, offering valuable guidance and support for those navigating their faith alongside their sexual orientation. Additionally, the inclusion of scripture throughout each episode serves as a comforting reminder of God's love and acceptance.
Another commendable aspect of The Home From Home podcast is its willingness to tackle taboo topics within the Christian community. By openly discussing issues related to SSA, the hosts are breaking down barriers and creating dialogue that is often lacking in religious circles. This helps foster greater understanding and compassion within families, churches, and communities affected by same-sex attraction. Furthermore, the inclusion of female guests adds an important perspective to the conversations being had on this podcast.
While it is difficult to find any major flaws with this podcast, one small improvement could be incorporating even more scripture into the dialogue. While scripture readings are present in each episode, some listeners may appreciate additional biblical references or deeper exploration into how specific passages relate to same-sex attraction.
In conclusion, The Home From Home podcast is an incredible resource for individuals seeking guidance on navigating their faith while dealing with same-sex attraction. Thomas and Topher's openness about their own struggles creates a relatable atmosphere that welcomes listeners from all walks of life. This podcast serves as a beacon of hope and understanding in a world where these conversations are often avoided or met with judgment. It is a must-listen for anyone seeking to deepen their understanding of same-sex attraction within the context of faith.
How did God intend female sexuality to work—and why does it matter?In this episode of the Strength & Weakness Podcast, Morgan and Ellen explore female sexuality through a biblical lens, revealing how science, personal experience, and Scripture all point to a Creator who made women's bodies and desires with intention and dignity.What you'll hear:God's Blueprint – Why female sexuality is broad and relational by His designFormed but Not Finished – How environment shapes us and how God redeems every storyHope & Wholeness – Finding security in God's unconditional love and purposeWhether you're a parent, ministry leader, or woman seeking clarity about your own story, this conversation will help you see female sexuality as a gift to steward for God's glory.How did God intend female sexuality to work—and why does it matter?In this episode of the Strength & Weakness Podcast, Morgan and Ellen explore female sexuality through a biblical lens, revealing how science, personal experience, and Scripture all point to a Creator who made women's bodies and desires with intention and dignity.What you'll hear:- God's Blueprint – Why female sexuality is broad and relational by His design- Formed but Not Finished – How environment shapes us and how God redeems every story- Hope & Wholeness – Finding security in God's unconditional love and purposeWhether you're a parent, ministry leader, or woman seeking clarity about your own story, this conversation will help you see female sexuality as a gift to steward for God's glory.“I praise You because I am fearfully and wonderfully made…” – Psalm 139:14
This episode is part 2 of this series. In this timely and honest episode of the Strength & Weakness podcast, Morgan and Ellen open up about the complexities many Christians face during Pride Month. With personal stories, theological insight, and practical wisdom, they explore questions like: Why is Pride Month so divisive for Christians? Do I have to celebrate? Do I have to reject it? What does love look like here?Whether you've been invited to a Pride event, are raising kids in today's culture, or are personally navigating same-sex attraction and faith, this episode holds space for grief, compassion, and truth. Ellen shares her experience attending Pride as a young lesbian, the painful contrast with church community, and how we can lean into the tension of “the messy middle” without compromising biblical conviction.This isn't a conversation about choosing sides—it's about choosing Christlike posture.
In this timely and honest episode of the Strength & Weakness podcast, Morgan and Ellen open up about the complexities many Christians face during Pride Month. With personal stories, theological insight, and practical wisdom, they explore questions like: Why is Pride Month so divisive for Christians? Do I have to celebrate? Do I have to reject it? What does love look like here?Whether you've been invited to a Pride event, are raising kids in today's culture, or are personally navigating same-sex attraction and faith, this episode holds space for grief, compassion, and truth. Ellen shares her experience attending Pride as a young lesbian, the painful contrast with church community, and how we can lean into the tension of “the messy middle” without compromising biblical conviction.This isn't a conversation about choosing sides—it's about choosing Christlike posture.
In this wrap-up episode of our ongoing series on pro-gay theology, Guy and Davion take a deep dive into one of the most hotly debated passages in the New Testament — - Romans 1:26-27-1 Corinthians 6-Timothy 1Together, they explore:The true context behind Paul's words in RomansCommon revisionist arguments and why they fall shortWhy these discussions matter for Christians navigating faith and sexualityThis marks the conclusion of our focused theological series — moving forward, we'll return to broader conversations about living faithfully as same-sex attracted Christians.
In this episode of the Strength and Weakness podcast, Davion and Guy begin an honest and empathetic discussion around the controversial "clobber passages"—six key scriptures often cited in debates over homosexuality and Christian faith.They open by addressing Genesis 19 and the story of Sodom and Gomorrah, asking: Was the city's destruction really about homosexuality, or was there more to it? Together, they explore the context, cultural implications, and modern interpretations that continue to divide churches and shape theology today.Also: Guy announces the release of his upcoming book and documentary, "Following Jesus in an LGBTQ+ World," featuring both hosts!Subscribe and join us next week as we break down the remaining five passages in Leviticus, Romans, Corinthians, and more.
In this episode of The Strength In Weakness Podcast, Ellen Radcliff invites her longtime friend, Laura Hammond to help her process one of the most tender years of her life — the journey of navigating her son Joel's autism diagnosis.Together, they explore what it means to grieve as a parent, how faith can coexist with fear, and the unexpected ways grief parallels the experience of Christian parents of LGBTQ+ kids. Ellen and Laura dive into the messiness of surrender, identity, and connection — with God, with their children, and with themselves.If you've ever struggled with unmet expectations, spiritual doubt, or the deep ache of watching your child walk an uncharted path, this one's for you.Topics include:- Grieving with God, not apart from Him- Autism, parenting, and the slow surrender- Why fear is a companion, not an enemy
In this deeply personal and faith-filled episode, Ellen Radcliffe is joined by a very special guest—her mom—to talk through the quiet grief many Christian parents carry: unmet expectations. What do you do when the dreams you had for your child don't come true? When the path you prayed they'd walk takes a turn you never expected? From small hopes like frilly Easter dresses to big heartbreaks over spiritual decisions, this episode explores how fear, shame, guilt, and even anger often hide a deeper pain we rarely talk about—grief. Together, Ellen and her mom open up about their own parenting journeys, how they've learned to pray through pain, and how to stay rooted in peace and truth even when life looks nothing like you imagined.If you've ever asked, “What did I do wrong?” or felt overwhelmed by fear for your children's futures, this conversation is for you. You are not alone—and this isn't the end of the story.Timestamps: 0:00 – Intro & surprise guest: Ellen's mom!2:00 – The grief of lost expectations in parenting10:30 – Small disappointments that still hurt17:00 – What's really underneath fear-based parenting24:00 – “What is true here?” – Ellen's mom's life mantra32:00 – Prayer as the anchor in the storm39:00 – Finding joy, even in the wait44:30 – Should Christian parents even have expectations?
This episode is Part 4 of this series. In this episode of The Strength in Weakness Podcast, Guy & Davion dive into a challenging and often controversial topic: pro-gay theology. They explore common arguments presented by LGBTQ-affirming churches, discuss the biblical foundation for sexual ethics, and reflect on their personal journeys as same-sex attracted Christians striving to live in alignment with their faith. With honesty, compassion, and scriptural insight, they unpack the cultural shift in Christian teachings on sexuality and challenge listeners to prioritize biblical truth over personal feelings. Whether you're seeking clarity, wrestling with questions, or simply curious about the conversation, this episode offers a thought-provoking discussion on faith, identity, and the authority of Scripture.
In this episode of The Strength in Weakness Podcast, Guy & Davion dive into a challenging and often controversial topic: pro-gay theology. They explore common arguments presented by LGBTQ-affirming churches, discuss the biblical foundation for sexual ethics, and reflect on their personal journeys as same-sex attracted Christians striving to live in alignment with their faith. With honesty, compassion, and scriptural insight, they unpack the cultural shift in Christian teachings on sexuality and challenge listeners to prioritize biblical truth over personal feelings. Whether you're seeking clarity, wrestling with questions, or simply curious about the conversation, this episode offers a thought-provoking discussion on faith, identity, and the authority of Scripture.
In this episode of The Strength In Weakness Podcast, Ellen & Morgan answer a question from a listener. "How do I rebuild trust with my teen after discovering a hidden same sex relationship?" This episode is a follow up conversation from our last episode, #98. https://youtu.be/HjpyVplsMOs?si=Xvy0tIZfhFFvWI_6
In this episode of The Strength In Weakness Podcast, Ellen & Morgan dive into the importance of Sabbath rest and its impact on navigating life's toughest moments—including parenting challenges, sexuality, and faith.They discuss:✅How practicing Sabbath rest helps parents respond with wisdom & love✅ Balancing faith, unexpected challenges, & practicing grace✅Why taking time to cease, abide, and delight in God matters
This is part 2 of the discussion with Guy and Davion embarking on a deep dive into the history of pro-gay theology within the Christian Church.They explore critical questions such as:What are the key arguments for and against it?When did these theological ideas start taking shape?Who were the key figures behind the development of pro-gay theology?Tune in as they uncover the origins, evolution, and debates surrounding this perspective in Christian thought.--Connect with us!https://www.strengthinweakness.org/https://linktr.ee/strengthinweakness
In this episode, Guy and Davion embark on a deep dive into the history of pro-gay theology within the Christian Church. They explore critical questions such as: What are the key arguments for and against it? When did these theological ideas start taking shape? Who were the key figures behind the development of pro-gay theology? Tune in as they uncover the origins, evolution, and debates surrounding this perspective in Christian thought. -- Connect with us! https://www.strengthinweakness.org/ https://linktr.ee/strengthinweakness
This is part two of the discussion with Ellen & Morgan into the intricate relationship between our connection with God and our desire for the feminine archetype that he created. What does it mean to embrace the feminine in a way that reflects divine purpose? Join us as we explore themes of faith, identity, and the sacred balance between strength and nurturing. -- Connect with us! https://www.strengthinweakness.org/ https://linktr.ee/strengthinweakness
In this episode, Ellen & Morgan dive deep into the intricate relationship between our connection with God and our desire for the feminine archetype that he created. What does it mean to embrace the feminine in a way that reflects divine purpose? Join us as we explore themes of faith, identity, and the sacred balance between strength and nurturing. -- Connect with us!https://www.strengthinweakness.org/ https://linktr.ee/strengthinweakness Listen on Youtube: https://youtu.be/nz9ouXKuuz4
In this episode, Ellen & Morgan dive into a thought-provoking conversation about balancing compassion and conviction in the Christian walk. They explore how grief and the desire to alleviate others' pain often lead us to blur boundaries, and why surrendering that pain to God is key to maintaining both love and truth. Join us as we unpack these insights and discuss practical ways to navigate relationships with empathy, compassion, and conviction in a broken world. -- Connect with us! https://www.strengthinweakness.org/ https://linktr.ee/strengthinweakness
In this episode Ellen & Morgan tackle the complex and often misunderstood topic of attraction and how Christians can navigate temptation with grace, truth, and self-awareness. Starting with the question, "Should we fear temptation or lean into it to better understand our desires?" Morgan and Ellen explore the roots of temptation as an ache for Eden—a longing for connection and fulfillment only God can truly satisfy. With raw honesty and practical wisdom, they discuss: Why temptation itself isn't the enemy, but an opportunity for self-reflection and connection with God. The importance of grieving the voids in our lives while seeking God's guidance. How to set healthy boundaries and navigate relationships in ways that honor faith and avoid shame. Filled with relatable analogies, personal reflections, and spiritual insights, this episode will encourage listeners to embrace their humanity, face temptations without fear, and lean into God's unending grace. -- Connect with us! https://www.strengthinweakness.org/ https://linktr.ee/strengthinweakness
In this episode, Guy and Davion share candid insights into their experiences of sharing their same sex attraction with spouse & family. They share their approach to faith, sexual ethics, and romantic relationships. They reflect on the challenges and joys of building marriages rooted in faith, despite personal struggles, and offer encouragement to those navigating similar journeys. Connect with us! https://www.strengthinweakness.org/ https://linktr.ee/strengthinweakness
In this episode, Guy and Davion share candid insights into their experiences of sharing their same sex attraction with spouse & family. They share their approach to faith, sexual ethics, and romantic relationships. They reflect on the challenges and joys of building marriages rooted in faith, despite personal struggles, and offer encouragement to those navigating similar journeys. Connect with us! https://www.strengthinweakness.org/ https://linktr.ee/strengthinweakness
In this episode Ellen Radcliff welcomes special guest Kristen Miele, the founder of Sex Ed Reclaimed, to discuss the vital role parents and the church play in teaching kids about sex, intimacy and love from a God-centered perspective.Kristin shares her journey of being called to this unique ministry, offering practical strategies for parents to become the primary educators in their children's lives, fostering open communication and trust.Connect with us!https://www.strengthinweakness.org/https://linktr.ee/strengthinweakness
In this episode, Guy and Davion share candid insights into their shared experiences as same-gender-attracted Christian men. They share their approach to faith, sexual ethics, and romantic relationships. They reflect on the challenges and joys of building marriages rooted in faith, despite personal struggles, and offer encouragement to those navigating similar journeys. Connect with us! https://www.strengthinweakness.org/ https://linktr.ee/strengthinweakness
In this episode, Ellen & Morgan dive into the sensitive journey of supporting your child when they come out. Ellen shares powerful insights on what to do when mistakes happen (because they inevitably will), and how to prioritize repair over perfection in the parent-child relationship. Together, they explore what it means to create a bridge to forgiveness, stressing that the goal isn't flawless support but genuine efforts to reconnect and repair after missteps. Whether you've struggled in the past or want to prepare for the future, this episode offers valuable, compassionate advice on building a loving, resilient family dynamic. (Related Episode is #75) -- Connect with us! https://www.strengthinweakness.org/ https://linktr.ee/strengthinweakness
In this episode, Ellen & Morgan discuss an important and often challenging topic: how to respond when a friend comes out to you. Whether they share your Christian faith or not, navigating this moment with grace and understanding is essential. We'll explore how to approach this conversation thoughtfully, focusing on how Christians can be a light in their friends' lives during this time. Join us as we discuss how to balance compassion and conviction while staying true to your values.--Connect with us!https://www.strengthinweakness.org/Subscribe to our Youtube Channel!https://youtube.com/@guyhammond?si=3VQk4TVAdxZ2MHfP
In this episode, Guy and Davion discuss and role-play how Christians should approach conversations with people that they are in disagreement with when it comes to the topic of Biblical ethics. - How did Jesus treat those he disagreed with? - What can we do to become better listeners? - & how to tell someone you don't agree with them while showing the Love of Jesus -- Connect with us! https://www.strengthinweakness.org/ https://linktr.ee/strengthinweakness
In this episode, Guy & Davion discuss National Coming Out Day on Oct 11 in Canada. Join us as we explore our own "coming out" experiences and what we may have done differently if we had to do it again. Tune in to hear: - Advice on how Christians can "come out" - Who and when is right - How married Christians should communicate -- Subscribe to Strength In Weakness Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@SIWMinistry -- Connect with us! https://www.strengthinweakness.org/ https://linktr.ee/strengthinweakness
(Previously Home From Home) Welcome To The Strength In Weakness Podcast! In this episode, Ellen & Morgan discuss the profound connection between marriage and spiritual fulfillment. Join us as we explore how the sacred bond of marriage mirrors divine love and the ways it elevates personal growth, connection, and purpose. Tune in to hear The spiritual significance of marriage How love and partnership reflect divine principles Practical advice for cultivating a spiritually rich and fulfilling marriage -- Connect with us! https://www.strengthinweakness.org/ Subscribe to our Youtube Channel! https://youtube.com/@guyhammond?si=3VQk4TVAdxZ2MHfP
In this episode, we discuss navigating your child's coming out from a Dad's perspective. Ellen finds out in an interview with her dad!...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
In this episode, Ellen gets to know Kyla Gilespie. a former trans man who detransitioned after encountering Jesus!Find out more about Kyla: https://kylagillespie.com/kyla-gillespie...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
In this episode, we discuss how to engage in conversation with trans people in our community, we also talk about the challenges in doing so!...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
In this episode, we cover what is like to be a part of the strength in weakness ministry, we talk about the high highs as well as the challenges that come along with serving this way!...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
In this episode, we discuss what the bible says about the topic of transgender. We also talk about the difficulties of navigating cultural gender stereotypes!...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
In this episode, we discuss the topic of transgender and its key terms that are often used. We also discuss how challenging this topic is to navigate if we are not comfortable or familiar with it....Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
In this episode, we sit down with Ellen's mother and discuss the joys and pitfalls of parenting adult children!...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
In this episode, we sit down with my mother and discuss her advice for Christian parents of LGBTQ+ kids!...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
In this episode, we discuss how to stay close to god when wrestling through hard topics and we also talk about our tendency to run from God during this tension....Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
In this episode, we answer some of your questions! We discuss celebrating our sexual orientation and supporting our LGBTQ friends and colleagues alongside some of the difficulties we may navigate....Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
In this episode, we discuss the best parts of being SSA, we also talk about the tension of not being ashamed or reveling in its glory....Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
In this episode, we wrap up our discussion on grief by talking through the intersection of grief and the LGBTQ community, we also discuss how we can move through grief which can sometimes be really complicated!...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
In this episode, we discuss the journey and process of grief, we also talk about how it can be hard to navigate and talk about with others....Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
In this episode, we welcome back Hashim to discuss the intersection between biblical justice and the LGBTQ community, we also talk about the hurts of injustice and how we can respond as Christians....Check out Hashim's Website and Reading Plan on Justice Year:https://justiceyear.com...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
In this episode, we invite Hashim Warren to discuss biblical justice and how God feels about it, we also discuss how difficult and polarising it can be!...Check out Hashim's Website and Reading Plan on Justice Year:https://justiceyear.com...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
In this episode, we discuss, how, when, and where to talk to our children about sexuality and same-sex attraction, as well as the pitfalls of how complicated of a subject this can be....Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
In this episode, we welcome Katie, Ellen's childhood best friend, to discuss how friendships when growing up SSA can be complex, complicated but also enriching!...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
In this episode, we invite Dr. Jennifer Konzen to discuss with us how it's all about the relationship, our relationship with God. We also discuss the pitfalls of when we make it all about everything but our relationship with God!Email Dr. Jennifer Konzen at:jenniferkonzen@yahoo.com ...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
In this episode, Morgan and Ellen discuss the value and impact of spiritual mentors. They also talk about the pitfalls when these mentors are absent from a teen's life!...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
In this episode, Morgan and Ellen discuss the importance of finding our identity and the roles parents can play during these formative years, they also talk about the pitfalls of when we look outside of God to do so....Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
In this episode, Morgan and Ellen discuss the intricacies of navigating woke culture as Christians. How do we love with compassion and empathy whilst upholding biblical statutes? Let's find out!...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
In this episode, we discuss asexuality and what it means for both single and married Christians, we also talk about some pitfalls of this topic!...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
In this episode, Morgan and Ellen discuss how to practice self-love in a way not based on works, but a real and meditative connection with God and his love!...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
In this episode, Morgan and Ellen discuss how to have healthy same-sex friendships that lean away from codependency and enmeshment yet are truly deep and fulfilling, rooted in a friendship with God!...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
In this episode, we share some big announcements, giving an exciting podcast update as well as some very special news from Thomas!...Submit your questions here:https://forms.gle.FRG4nV525xSViRet7...Email us at:topherandthomas@gmail.com
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