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What Turns Her Off — and What Godly Husbands Do Instead Have you ever wished you could just…get inside your wife's heart for a moment? Not to manipulate, but to genuinely understand her. To love her in a way that makes her feel safe and wanted—not pressured or confused. My husband Darrow and I sat down to talk through something men rarely get honest insight about: Her biggest turn-offs. And not because we want to shame or scold—but because clarity brings freedom. When you finally understand what shuts her down, you also discover what opens her heart. So take a deep breath.You're not in trouble.You're learning—and that already makes you a good man. Let's walk through these turn-offs together, with God's kindness leading us all the way. 1. When Affection Feels Like a Transaction One of the most common complaints I hear from wives is this: "Every time he does something sweet, it feels like he's trying to get sex." A back rub, a coffee, a hand on her waist, a date night—beautiful gestures—become tainted when she senses they come with an expectation. When affection is only a bridge to the bedroom, she feels: Used Not loved for who she is Like her worth is tied to her sexual availability God never intended marital intimacy to be a negotiation.Love her without a scoreboard. Bless her without an agenda. 2. Grabbing, Pinching, or Smacking Her Body When She's Not Comfortable Yes…wives talk about this. And I know many husbands mean it playfully.But if she doesn't feel safe—emotionally, spiritually, or physically—this kind of touch feels like entitlement, not affection. Her body is not something to be "snatched."She needs room to open, not pressure to surrender. When she feels cherished—not grabbed—she wants to share her body freely. 3. Taking "Not Now" Personally If she says she's tired, overwhelmed, stressed, or simply "not right now," it's almost never about you. But when a husband interprets it as: Rejection Lack of desire "She doesn't love me" …it puts enormous emotional weight on her shoulders. Instead, respond with: "No worries, sweetheart. Another time would be wonderful." That confidence and peace will draw her toward you—not away. 4. Moping After She Says No Emotional sulking is not harmless. Moping communicates: "You disappointed me." "Now I have to punish you with sadness." "You're responsible for my emotions."   This shuts her heart down.Fast. Your steadiness and joy—even when she's not available—makes her feel safe. And safety is the soil where desire grows. 5. Punishing Her for Not Wanting Sex This is one of the deepest wounds wives carry. Punishments include: Silent treatment Withholding affection Moving to another room Being cold or distant Only being "nice" when you want intimacy These behaviors feel manipulative and honestly frightening. Your wife is not the enemy. She is the assignment God entrusted to you. Lead with love, not consequences. 6. Lack of Playfulness Playfulness is essential to intimacy. If everything feels heavy, serious, structured, pressured…then her nervous system never relaxes enough to enjoy being sensual. Silliness is holy ground for a woman's heart. Laughter lowers her guard.Playfulness creates connection. If you want her to be playful in the bedroom, she needs to experience playfulness outside the bedroom. 7. Not Feeling Emotionally Safe Women cannot separate emotional connection from physical intimacy. I'll say that one more time. Women cannot separate emotional connection from physical intimacy. When she feels emotionally unsafe, her body shuts down. Emotional Safety looks like: Listening Compassion Being slow to speak and quick to understand Responding gently Supporting her heart, not "fixing" immediately  When she feels heard, she opens. 8. Being a "Negative Nellie" (or Negative Ned!) Constant complaining is exhausting and not attractive. It pulls the atmosphere of the home downward and makes her feel like she has to carry your emotional weight. There is space to process hard things—but constant negativity drains the joy God wants in your marriage. Rejoice. Notice blessings. Bring hope into the home. 9. Bitterness and Resentment Long-term resentment is a marriage-killer. Bitterness communicates: "I haven't forgiven you." "You owe me." "I'm still keeping score." This is the opposite of Christlike love. Your wife cannot relax into intimacy with a man who holds her mistakes over her head. Forgiveness clears the ground for closeness to grow again. And if you need a little extra inspiration, let us turn you to Matthew 6:15 (NIV): "But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins." 10. Being Too Serious All the Time Intensity has a place—but not every moment. When a man is always stern, rigid, perfectionistic, spiritual-but-heavy…it makes her feel like she can never fully exhale. If she can't be herself around you, she won't be vulnerable with you. Joy is a fruit of the Spirit—not an optional extra. 11. Using Slang or Sexual Words She Doesn't Like Words matter. Some husbands use slang affectionately or playfully.Some wives love it.Others absolutely don't. If slang or sexual language makes her uncomfortable, embarrassed, or unsafe, it becomes a turn-off—not a turn-on. Honor her preferences. You're not losing freedom—you're gaining connection. Final Thoughts: So What Do You Do with All This? If reading this stirs conviction…good. Conviction is not condemnation.The enemy heaps shame.God invites repentance—and repentance leads to freedom. Your wife is God's daughter. And He entrusted her to you. Every shift you make toward loving her well brings you closer to His heart and closer to hers. We're rooting for you!   Blessing, The Delight Your Marriage Team   PS - If you want help walking this out in real life—not just head knowledge—that's exactly why our coaching and in-person training programs exist. Men who were separated from their wives…Men in sexless marriages…Men whose wives felt unsafe for years……have seen transformation they once thought impossible.For more information on our In-Person Training programs, launching January 2026, check out delightyourmarriage.com/ipt If you're ready to dive into the Coaching programs, please feel free to schedule a free Clarity Call at delightyourmarriage.com/cc PPS - Here is a quote from a recent In-Person Training pilot program graduate: "My wife and I have been separated for 6 months, and the same day as our [IPT] graduation, she chose to and began moving back into our matrimonial home. I also told her about our [IPT] program that same day. Up until then, I had said I was attending a men's bible study. All praise be to God."

In this 3X10 message, you'll get a small glimpse into the heart of Awaken Academy where education goes beyond the classroom and is a journey of transformation. We believe learning should awaken identity, inspire excellence, and cultivate Christlike character. You'll hear from an amazing student, incredible teacher and founding board member whose lives have become powerful testimonies- marked by growth, purpose, and faith that influences every sphere of their world.   For more details about Awaken Academy text "Academy" to 55525

1 Corinthians Principle 28 – Measuring Corporate Maturity     1 Corinthians 13:8-13When measuring maturity in our local churches, we should use the Christlike qualities of faith, hope, and love—but especially love—as divine criteria. NEW! - Let us know what you think of the program! Support the show

Hope sustains the soul when all falls apart. Find hope to make it through difficult times.3 Observations about life in a fallen world1. Trials are inevitable2. Trials tend to “make us” or “break us”3. Victims fail to move beyond asking “why” and remain stuck in their painA word from God to those whose world is “falling apart.” -James 1:1-41. What can I control? -My ATTITUDE2. What must I do to make it through today? -ENDURE3. What hope do I have for tomorrow? -God will take the WORST and use it for my BESTHow God uses adversity to mature us1. We're forced to DEPEND on God at a new level. Left alone, we're self-sufficient, proud, and insensitive to Him.2. We're WEANED from the temporal, urgent, and worldly affairs of life. We're forced to REEXAMINE our values, priorities, commitments, and future.3. Trials let us WITNESS God's reality and power first-hand. Our need becomes the vehicle of His grace; our problems the object of His power.4. They serve as a TESTIMONY to the unbelieving world. How we endure hardship shows the world how real God is.5. We become sensitive, caring, and compassionate CHRIST-LIKE people. Those hurt deeply tend to love deeply.Broadcast ResourceSeries ResourcesMessage NotesYear End MatchDouble Your Gift TodayMinistry ReportAdditional ResourcesChristmas GiftsConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

The Christmas season is here, and with it comes the rush, the expectations, and the pressure to make everything picture perfect. In this episode, we talk about what it really means to live the heart of Christmas, not just celebrate the day. We look at how easy it is to chase perfect moments, perfect meals, perfect gatherings, and miss the deeper invitation to be Christlike in how we show up for the people in front of us.You'll hear a simple encouragement to slow down, notice what matters, and create space for peace, joy, and connection. We talk about the difference between hospitality and entertaining, how to shift from striving to being present, and why the season can become a thin place if we're willing to pause and let God meet us there.This is for anyone feeling stretched thin or pulled in a hundred directions. Come back to center. Come back to Christ.Key TakeawaysThe Christmas season invites you to focus on connection, not performance.Look at what you're chasing this month and ask if it lines up with your faith or with outside pressure.Perfection pulls your attention away from presence. Let it go.Hospitality means opening your heart, not proving anything.Simplicity creates space for joy and connection.Christmas is a thin place. Slow down enough to sense God near.Stress Less, Live More: Simplify Your Routine with Soup and the Sabbath with Kathi Lipp- click here to listen.Christmas season, Christ centered Christmas, holiday stress, presence over presents, simplifying Christmas, hospitality, finding peace, joy in the holidays, thin places, spiritual reflection

Hope sustains the soul when all falls apart. Find hope to make it through difficult times.3 Observations about life in a fallen world1. Trials are inevitable2. Trials tend to “make us” or “break us”3. Victims fail to move beyond asking “why” and remain stuck in their painA word from God to those whose world is “falling apart.” -James 1:1-41. What can I control? -My ATTITUDE2. What must I do to make it through today? -ENDURE3. What hope do I have for tomorrow? -God will take the WORST and use it for my BESTHow God uses adversity to mature us1. We're forced to DEPEND on God at a new level. Left alone, we're self-sufficient, proud, and insensitive to Him.2. We're WEANED from the temporal, urgent, and worldly affairs of life. We're forced to REEXAMINE our values, priorities, commitments, and future.3. Trials let us WITNESS God's reality and power first-hand. Our need becomes the vehicle of His grace; our problems the object of His power.4. They serve as a TESTIMONY to the unbelieving world. How we endure hardship shows the world how real God is.5. We become sensitive, caring, and compassionate CHRIST-LIKE people. Those hurt deeply tend to love deeply.Broadcast ResourceSeries ResourcesMessage NotesYear End MatchDouble Your Gift TodayMinistry ReportAdditional ResourcesChristmas GiftsConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

Weekly live worship service from Cornerstone Church, North Gower (Ontario) FOLLOW US #northgowercornerstone WEBSITE https://www.knowgrowshow.ca/ INSTAGRAM https://www.instagram.com/northgowercornerstone/ FACEBOOK https://www.facebook.com/northgowercornerstone/ LINKTREE https://linktr.ee/knowgrowshow 30 November 2025 The One Thing: The Greatest Gift. Jesus is King. The Passage: 1 Peter 2.11-17 Know K1 What stood out to you from Sunday's passage or message? Was there a phrase, image, or idea that struck you most? Grow G1 Foreigners & Exiles: Peter calls Christians “foreigners and exiles.” What does that image evoke for you? Where in your life do you feel that sense of being out of place because you follow Jesus? G2 The Real Battleground: Peter insists the primary “culture war” is within us (sinful desires waging war against the soul). What does fighting that inner battle honestly look like for you right now? G3 Living Good Lives: Peter says to “live such good lives among the pagans” that even if they accuse us, they still see ourgood deeds. What is one way Christians can be misunderstood today, and how can good deeds speak louder than those misunderstandings? G4 Breaking Out of Echo Chambers: Where are you tempted to retreat into a Christian bubble or an ideological echo chamber? What would it look like to be more curious, listening, and present with those who see the world differently? G5 Submitting to Authority: Peter's call to submit to authorities was written during Nero's reign. How do you wrestle with submission to imperfect leaders today? What helps you foster a Christlike posture? G6 — Living Free / Living as Slaves: Peter says we are free people—but also God's slaves. How does that paradox reshape the way we think about our rights, our conduct, and our witness? Show S1 — Where might Jesus be inviting you this week to step into the Exile Lifestyle in a practical way— fighting the internal battle, doing good among neighbours, or submitting with humility? What is one step of obedience or repentance you sense God prompting in you?

Chip's series on James 1 offers God's hope and insight for facing trials and fear today.3 Observations about life in a fallen world1. Trials are inevitable2. Trials tend to “make us” or “break us”3. Victims fail to move beyond asking “why” and remain stuck in their painA word from God to those whose world is “falling apart.” -James 1:1-41. What can I control? -My ATTITUDE2. What must I do to make it through today? -ENDURE3. What hope do I have for tomorrow? -God will take the WORST and use it for my BESTHow God uses adversity to mature us1. We're forced to DEPEND on God at a new level. Left alone, we're self-sufficient, proud, and insensitive to Him.2. We're WEANED from the temporal, urgent, and worldly affairs of life. We're forced to REEXAMINE our values, priorities, commitments, and future.3. Trials let us WITNESS God's reality and power first-hand. Our need becomes the vehicle of His grace; our problems the object of His power.4. They serve as a TESTIMONY to the unbelieving world. How we endure hardship shows the world how real God is.5. We become sensitive, caring, and compassionate CHRIST-LIKE people. Those hurt deeply tend to love deeply.Broadcast ResourceSeries ResourcesMessage NotesYear End MatchDouble Your Gift TodayMinistry ReportAdditional ResourcesChristmas GiftsConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

The Spirit World is Already Here by Autumn Dickson We have the opportunity to read two revelations this week. Despite the different times in which they were given, the two revelations were placed together in the Doctrine and Covenants, and they hold more power in that manner. The first recorded vision was received by Joseph Smith, and the second recorded vision was given to Joseph F. Smith. I want to share a couple of verses from the section given to Joseph F. Smith regarding the spirit world. Doctrine and Covenants 138:22-24 22 Where these (the wicked, unrepentant, rebellious) were, darkness reigned, but among the righteous there was peace; 23 And the saints rejoiced in their redemption, and bowed the knee and acknowledged the Son of God as their Redeemer and Deliverer from death and the chains of hell. 24 Their countenances shone, and the radiance from the presence of the Lord rested upon them, and they sang praises unto his holy name. These verses talk about the spirit world on the other side of the veil. It gives us a glimpse into what life holds depending on how you chose to live your life and how those choices affected who you became. Taking the time to imagine what it will be like is powerful, especially when you've lost someone you love. But rather than read it from the perspective of the spirit world, I want you to read it again as if it's speaking about where we dwell now. Despite its insight into the spirit world, it can also be a very accurate description of the mortal life we're living in. In the fallen mortality where we dwell, there are people who want nothing to do with the Savior and His gospel. There are many who want the exact opposite of what He stands for and believe the Savior to be oppressive. In those specific places and hearts, darkness reigns. God doesn't necessarily send darkness or make their world terrible; it's what they've invited into their lives. Important tangent here. This gets slightly tricky because I don't believe all non-Christians are dark people. Rather, I believe that at any given moment, we are inviting or shunning darkness. There are a lot of people who accept so much of Christ's gospel even if they do not yet accept Him personally. They have invited portions of light into their lives by living their lives in a Christlike manner. So not immediately accepting Christ doesn't mean you live in utter darkness and allow it to reign over you. I do believe they're missing out on light, but that doesn't mean I assume they are voluntarily inviting darkness to rule their lives. Let's keep going on with reading the description of the spirit world and mortality.. So there are people who don't want Christ and voluntarily shun Him. They want the darkness. They like it. They don't see any reason to change. In other places, sometimes very nearby, there are Saints who are living in the same space but find themselves rejoicing in their redemption. They love the Savior and trust Him. They acknowledge Him and worship Him. Then, of course, there is a whole spectrum between these groups of people. Even on that spectrum, we're finding ourselves moving back and forth depending on what we're inviting and focusing on. Despite the fact that we can find people all along that spectrum, I want to bring your attention to one other grouping: there are Saints who are trying to live the gospel but still have not found the reason to rejoice. They don't always feel hope or peace. They don't feel the radiance of the Lord shining down on them. We believe in Christ and the gospel, but have we found salvation? We read this in Alma. Alma 34:31 Yea, I would that ye would come forth and harden not your hearts any longer; for behold, now is the time and the day of your salvation; and therefore, if ye will repent and harden not your hearts, immediately shall the great plan of redemption be brought about unto you. Immediately. Not just in the spirit world. Immediately. If you truly find Christ, the plan of redemption is brought immediately. Today can be the day of your salvation if you repent and don't harden your heart. Immediately, you can find yourself in the same state as those dwelling in spirit paradise. You can rejoice in the Redeemer who freed you from hell and any aspects of it that you may still be clinging to. The radiance of the presence of the Lord can shine upon you. If you do not yet feel these aspects of salvation, I have a small warning for you. Dying and going to the other side does not immediately bring about those feelings. Dying has very little to do with it. Experiencing spiritual paradise stems from your relationship with Christ. Dying happens somewhere along the way for good reason, but experiencing salvation doesn't necessarily wait for death. It's just waiting for you. When was the last time you let yourself rejoice in Christ? When was the last time you chose to trust Him so deeply that it swallowed up your pain and carried it for a while? When was the last time you chose gratitude for His promises even if you couldn't choose gratitude for what was directly going on in your life? Spiritual paradise is a choice, not just a destination on the other side. What happens there is just a continuation of what happens here. You don't change on the other side unless you go through the same process of changing that you have to experience on this side. I love the verse from Alma 34 because it doesn't say, “Follow the Law of Moses perfectly and then you will experience salvation immediately.” It says, “Repent and soften your heart and then you will experience salvation immediately.” Change! Soften! Trust! He loves you and is mighty to save. When you find it within yourself to say, “I'm going to try putting weight on these promises,” you'll find solid ground. Even if everything comes to disaster in mortality, there is solid ground in Christ. I testify that trusting Christ and taking Him at His word was one of the most joyful decisions I ever made. Though I obviously fluctuate in that trust as I move about life, continually spending time with Him every day has made that trust more consistent. Spending time with Him every day has forced me to remember His promises. As I've moved about my daily life and run into new challenges and all of the pitfalls of mortality, I have found rejoicing alongside my pain. It didn't come from living the gospel more perfectly; it came from trusting Him more perfectly. I testify that spirit paradise or allowing darkness to reign are choices we make on a daily basis; they're not just destinations in the spirit world. I testify that the day of your salvation, the day you find rejoicing in Christ, can be today, and you don't even have to die in order to find it. You just have to trust. Autumn Dickson was born and raised in a small town in Texas. She served a mission in the Indianapolis Indiana mission. She studied elementary education but has found a particular passion in teaching the gospel. Her desire for her content is to inspire people to feel confident, peaceful, and joyful about their relationship with Jesus Christ and to allow that relationship to touch every aspect of their lives. Autumn was the recipient of FAIR's 2024 John Taylor Defender of the Faith Award. The post Come, Follow Me with FAIR – Doctrine and Covenants 137–138 – Part 1 – Autumn Dickson appeared first on FAIR.

Ray Chung grew up in a faithful Christian home in Malaysia, watching both sides of his family run businesses that shaped the fabric of their communities. Even as a kid, he sensed that business carried real power, but it wasn't until his own encounter with deeper faith that he began wrestling with how work, calling, and impact could fit together. College only fanned that flame, awakening a vision for business as a living witness to the Gospel. Years later, Ray would spend significant time with HOPE International, where a healthy, Christ-centered culture left a lasting mark on him. For more than twenty years, he has been helping leaders and teams reorient their hearts toward the way of Jesus. Now a senior consultant with Rising Sun Consultants, Ray walks alongside organizations as they build cultures formed by servant leadership and spiritual maturity. Then in 2021, Ray faced a radically personal invitation to generosity when he sensed God asking him to give one of his kidneys. His story is full of wisdom on surrender, Christlike culture, and what it means to faithfully steward the life God has given you. Major Topics Include: The theology of work An example of a healthy organizational culture Why an organization's culture is important Words of wisdom about the non-profit model Assessing an organization's board, leadership, and financials The five elements of servant-leadership Prioritizing intimacy with God as a busy leader Practical tips for spiritual rest Being called to give his kidney Stewarding your story, experience, and relationships in a way the points others to Jesus QUOTES TO REMEMBER “Work is a channel of grace to display the glory of God in meeting needs, ours and our neighbors, as we generate resources that can be shared in the redemptive work of the Gospel.” “Business can be a powerful force for God's transformation” “God has been at work in these communities long before we show up.” “Organizational culture is really hard to fake long term.” “Culture requires intentionality and accountability.” “Do I believe that the more I work, the more I can advance the mission? Or do I really think that God is at work here?” “Sometimes we need to remember how to be a human being rather than a human doing. I try to give myself permission to be about more than work.” “I used to believe the lie that I am what I perform. But I'm learning to believe the truth that I am loved by the Creator and that alone is enough.” “Our life is not our own when we are surrendered to God.” LINKS FROM THE SHOW Hope International (see our interview with founder, Jeff Rutt or CEO, Peter Greer) Jesse Casler (see our past interview here) Lead with Prayer by Ryan Skoog, Peter Greer, and Cameron Doolittle (see our interview with the authors here) Practicing the Way by John Mark Comer The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer Lectio 365 App Caleb Breakey, founder of Renown Publishing (see our past interview here) Kate Gardner, co-host of the Ascendants Podcast and co-founder of Magnify (see our past interview here) Alan Barnhart (see our past interview here) Julie Wilson, President of Women Doing Well (see our past interview here) Dana and Bill Wichterman (see our past interview here) The Finish Line Community Facebook Group The Finish Line Community LinkedIn Group BIBLE REFERENCES FROM THE SHOW Psalm 46:10 | Be Still   Be still, and know that I am God. I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth!   Luke 3:11 | Share What You Have   And he answered them, “Whoever has two tunics is to share with him who has none, and whoever has food is to do likewise.”   John 13:35 | Love One Another   By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.   Ephesians 3:20 | More than We Can Think to Ask   Now to him who is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the power at work within us, WE WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU! If you have a thought about something you heard, or a story to share, please reach out! You can find us on Instagram, Facebook, and LinkedIn. You can also contact us directly from our contact page. If you want to engage with the Finish Line Community, check out our groups on Facebookand LinkedIn.

Every leader creates culture — not by what they say, but by what they allow. In this episode, we delve into the harsh reality that the behaviours you ignore, the attitudes you overlook, and the patterns you “let slide just this once”… eventually become the culture your team accepts as normal. This conversation will help you: recognise the subtle things that quietly shape (or sabotage) your team culture understand how silence becomes agreement — and how Jesus modelled culture-setting with grace and truth identify the warning signs that something unhealthy is growing under the surface make small, calm, courageous shifts that change culture without burning yourself out If you've been feeling overwhelmed by your team dynamics, frustrated by repeated patterns, or unsure how to course-correct without conflict… this episode will give you clarity, confidence, and a Christlike way forward. Your Next Step If culture issues make you hesitate, second-guess, or shrink back from the conversations you know you need to have… grab The Imposter Syndrome Blueprint — a short, Scripture-rooted private podcast to help you lead with calm, Christ-anchored confidence.

Southeast Baptist Podcast features the preaching and teaching of Pastor John Ray, the senior pastor of Southeast Baptist Tabernacle in Indianapolis, IN. His preaching is biblical, conversational, and encouraging as you pursue a Christlike walk.

Southeast Baptist Podcast features the preaching and teaching of Pastor John Ray, the senior pastor of Southeast Baptist Tabernacle in Indianapolis, IN. His preaching is biblical, conversational, and encouraging as you pursue a Christlike walk.

In 1 Corinthians 13, Paul reminds us that spiritual gifts, knowledge, and sacrifice mean nothing without love. This study unpacks what real, Christlike love looks like—and why it's the greatest mark of true maturity. CONNECT: Text “BRBELONG” to 651-419-4409 DONATE: bethelsrock.org/give LEARN MORE: bethelsrock.org NEW SERMONS | EVERY SUNDAY

In this episode of the Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher Podcast, host Maurice Harker dives into one of Satan's most subtle but powerful tactics: the war between remembering and forgetting. Why is it so hard to remember spiritual impressions, goals, and revelations—even when we want to? And why do the worst thoughts tend to show up right as we're falling asleep or just waking up?Drawing on his Spiritual Psychology Masterclass, Maurice shares how he discovered and built “personalized iron rods”—practical systems that help you hold to the word of God when your mind is drifting or under attack. From missionary days with 3x5 scripture cards in Detroit to using modern text-to-audio tools as wake-up and bedtime “iron rods,” he explains how to turn reminder systems into spiritual weapons, not shame-filled “crutches.”In this episode you'll learn:How Satan uses drifting, anxiety, and late-night/early-morning thoughts to derail youWhy even smart, faithful people forget critical truths and commitmentsHow to build personalized iron rods using scriptures, notes, and audioHow to use two-alarm systems and intentional listening to push back on fear-based morning thoughtsWhy “affirmations” often feel cheesy—but intelligent reminders are powerful and doctrinally soundHow to see structure, tools, and supports as Christlike compensation, not weaknessIf you're an LDS disciple striving for self-mastery, stronger relationships, and spiritual clarity, this episode will give you hope—and concrete tools—to stop losing battles you're not even aware you're fighting.

Pastor Dennis confronts the lie that loyalty requires silence. Blind honor is deadly. When we protect a predator in the name of “forgiveness,” we are not being Christlike—we are enabling evil. The story of Amnon and Tamar proves it: Amnon acted like a predator, Tamar was shattered, and David—her own father—chose silence to protect the family name. God never calls His people to loyalty that covers sin or to honor that ignores danger. Real honor exposes darkness. Real forgiveness doesn't erase accountability. And real discernment refuses to let fear or image stand in the way of truth.

Chip's series on James 1 offers God's hope and insight for facing trials and fear today.3 Observations about life in a fallen world1. Trials are inevitable2. Trials tend to “make us” or “break us”3. Victims fail to move beyond asking “why” and remain stuck in their painA word from God to those whose world is “falling apart.” -James 1:1-41. What can I control? -My ATTITUDE2. What must I do to make it through today? -ENDURE3. What hope do I have for tomorrow? -God will take the WORST and use it for my BESTHow God uses adversity to mature us1. We're forced to DEPEND on God at a new level. Left alone, we're self-sufficient, proud, and insensitive to Him.2. We're WEANED from the temporal, urgent, and worldly affairs of life. We're forced to REEXAMINE our values, priorities, commitments, and future.3. Trials let us WITNESS God's reality and power first-hand. Our need becomes the vehicle of His grace; our problems the object of His power.4. They serve as a TESTIMONY to the unbelieving world. How we endure hardship shows the world how real God is.5. We become sensitive, caring, and compassionate CHRIST-LIKE people. Those hurt deeply tend to love deeply.Broadcast ResourceSeries ResourcesMessage NotesYear End MatchDouble Your Gift TodayMinistry ReportAdditional ResourcesChristmas GiftsConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

In this message, Pastor O'Neil Coakley of New Vision Church shares a guest message about gratitude and using every stage of life to be thankfulRegardless of the season, gratitude is essential for being Christlike. Lessons in today's message:The true meaning of thankfulnessWhy God cares about the small detailsOvercoming magnified problems with faithHow gratitude prepares you for blessingsLiving a life of continuous thanksgiving

Ephesians 3:14-21Dr. Brian Lee

Pastor Ryan continues in our Family Month series for the month of November as he preaches a sermon titled " A Christlike Love" during this Sunday morning service.

In the final sermon of our series, John brings us a message of encouragement from Paul where we learn that a spiritually mature church is marked by alertness, steadfast conviction, Christlike love, and servant hearted ministry demonstrated through our actions and relationships..

At our Retro Praise Service, Pastor Colins Nwosu brought this powerful and practical message titled “Timothy, The Real Thing.” Using Philippians 2:19–22, he described Timothy as a rare believer - loyal, genuine, and deeply committed to the things of Christ. Unlike many who sought their own interests, Timothy consistently served with purity of heart and proven character (Phil. 2:22 NKJV). Pastor Colins showed how Timothy's journey started in Acts 16:1–3, shaped by a godly mother and grandmother, and strengthened as he followed Paul closely in ministry. Pastor Colins emphasised that character is what makes a believer “the real thing.” Quoting Helen Keller: “Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet” he explained that true character is formed through discipline, sacrifice, consistency, and the work of the Spirit. Galatians 5:20–23 highlights the fruit of the Spirit as the markers of Christlike character. He concluded that like Timothy, every believer is called to live beyond reputation - to be authentic, dependable, and devoted in service to God and others (1 Cor. 9:19–23 MSG). The real thing shows in character. Prayer: Lord, build in me real character. Help me live with integrity, consistency, and devotion like Timothy. Let the fruit of the Spirit shape my life so I can be the “real thing” in my generation. Amen.

explores a challenging but deeply biblical question: could our obsession with instant healing actually rob us of the intimacy Christ offers through suffering? In this episode, we examine charismatic healing ministry, modern miracle culture, and how Scripture presents a different vision of spiritual growth, endurance, and Christlike maturity.For Christians, Gen Z, skeptics, and those struggling with their faith, this conversation reframes pain not as abandonment, but as formation. We look at key passages like Paul's “thorn in the flesh,” the call to take up our cross, and the quiet, refining work of God through weakness. Instead of shallow Christianity that chases constant breakthrough, this video invites you into a deeper theology of suffering, discipleship, and true intimacy with Jesus.If you've ever wondered why God doesn't heal everyone, wrestled with unanswered prayers, or felt confused by prosperity gospel teaching, this episode will challenge and strengthen your faith. Whether you're a new Christian, Jesus-curious, or seeking a more grounded, biblical Christianity, this is a thoughtful guide through healing, sanctification, and the forgotten beauty of suffering with Christ.Discover how suffering can shape holiness, deepen intimacy, and anchor authentic Christian faith.Got any questions or topics you'd like to hear about? You can email us at ⁠tydhcpod@gmail.comLike our content? Consider helping us grow through Patreon, a follow, or subscribe!Leave a rating on whatever platform you listen on and write some nice commentsYOUTUBE ⁠here⁠PATREON  ⁠here⁠INSTAGRAM: ⁠www.instagram.com/thingsyoudonthearinchurchpod⁠YOUTUBELike our content? Consider helping us through Patreon, a follow, or subscribe!INSTAGRAMhttps://www.instagram.com/thingsyoudonthearinchurchpodSPOTIFY:https://open.spotify.com/show/1Ttha9t5PEg2vLVKEbzRABPATREON:https://www.patreon.com/TYDHCGot a question? You can email us at tydhcpod@gmail.com

This week, we kick off the Christmas season and get personal about Thanksgiving traditions. What did you do to celebrate, and what makes your holiday unique? I'd love to hear what makes Thanksgiving special.But the heart of this week's conversation is an exploration of "relentless pursuit"—not just God's pursuit of us, but what it would mean if we relentlessly pursued a relationship with Jesus Christ ourselves? Through a look at the story of Lazarus, we can learn  the nuances of Christ's compassion and presence in our struggles. And what might change in our everyday lives if we truly made the Savior our focus?As the Christmas season begins, let's focus on a deeper, more intentional pursuit of the sweet goodness that comes from living the gospel of Jesus Christ.Please share this episode with someone who needs to hear it. You can email me at ken@chocolatecakebytes.com and follow me at https://www.facebook.com/ChocolateCakeByteshttps://www.instagram.com/chocolatecakebytes/Check out my new podcast: The Unstuck Career podcast athttps://kenwilliamscoaching.com/listen

 In a world where masculinity is often misunderstood, marriage can become a battleground of expectations, pride, and misunderstanding. Many men ask how to be a godly husband, but the answer isn't about dominance or control — it's about Christlike love and servant leadership. Being a godly husband doesn't mean having all the answers. It means walking with integrity, leading with humility, and loving with consistency. It's choosing daily to model your life after Jesus — who led by serving, gave without demanding, and loved without condition. Learning how to be a godly husband is less about claiming authority and more about reflecting the heart of Christ in every word, action, and decision. Respect Isn't Automatic — It's Earned Through Character Every husband wants to be respected, but respect doesn't come with a marriage license — it comes through trust, integrity, and faithfulness. Too often, men expect respect simply because they hold the title of “husband.” But biblical respect grows from a man's spiritual maturity and the consistency of his actions. If you're wondering how to be a godly husband, start by asking: Would my wife see Christ in how I treat her? A godly husband doesn't demand respect — […] The post How to Be a Godly Husband appeared first on UNCOMMEN.

In this episode of the Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher Podcast, Maurice Harker dives into the real-life battle between your thoughts, weaknesses, and Satan's lies—and how God uses all of it to turn you into a powerful servant, not a failure.Maurice explains why being “lazy,” “undisciplined,” or “scattered” is often Satanic spin, not your true identity. Instead of shaming yourself, he teaches how to build compensation systems—reminders, structures, and teammates—that actually make you more Christlike. You'll learn the “seeds and weeds” mental gardening model, using simple tools like 3x5 cards to pull out destructive thoughts (“I'm inadequate,” “I'll just fail again”) and replace them with truth, over and over, just like tending a real garden.Key principles in this episode include:Why using supports, structure, and people is not a crutch, but a Christlike way to work (“let them be one”)How passion project teammates can cover your weak spots and give you confidence to move forwardThe “seeds and weeds” method for catching Satan's lies and consciously planting truth-based thoughtsHow to replace unwanted behaviors (like overeating or numbing out) with healthy, intentional alternativesTurning the DAR cycle (Discover–Plan–Act–Reflect) into a joyful, daily repentance and growth processUsing warrior chemistry—holy urgency and righteous anger at suffering—to push through resistance and serve othersMaurice also shares how to talk to others who are drowning in “weed thoughts” with love unfeigned, and how to start saying, “I have a dream, I don't know how to do it yet, and I'm looking for teammates,” so you can become part of God's miracle-making process—even while you're still very, very human.If you're a Latter-day Saint striving to repair your marriage, build self-mastery, and push back against Satan's lies, this episode will help you see your “weaknesses” as invitations to partner with God and His people.

In today's devotional, Dr. Michael A. Youssef exhorts us to seek to live at peace with others by trusting in God.If you would like more insight into today's devotional topic, listen to Dr. Michael A. Youssef's sermon It Is Never Too Late, Part 2: LISTEN NOW

Join us for the 2026 National Disciple Making Forum: https://discipleship.org/2026-national-disciple-making-forum/ Creating Authentic Disciples: Jeff Vanderstilt on Living Christ-Like Relationships In this video, Jeff Vanderstilt, the visionary leader of the Soma family of churches, emphasizes living out the love that Jesus preached in relationships. Jeff elaborates on the need to rethink church structures to foster environments that effectively make disciples. He advocates for life-on-life, life-in-community, and life-on-mission discipleship, sharing personal experiences to illustrate the transformative power of close, intentional relationships. The discussion also touches on the challenge of balancing privacy and community in the pastoral role, the importance of trust, and the necessity for dedicated spiritual mentorship. Check out Discipleship.org for resources on disciple making: https://discipleship.org/resources/  Key Takeaways  00:00 Introduction to Jeff Vanderstilt's Session on Relationships 01:57 Redefining Church Structure for Effective Discipleship 04:18 The Three Relational Environments Essential for Discipleship 08:05 Life in Community: Building a Discipleship Culture 11:45 Life on Mission: Discipleship in Action 14:40 Challenging Traditional Church Models for Authentic Discipleship 17:00 Embracing Kingdom Culture Over American Individualism 26:04 The Importance of Trust and Accountability in Discipleship 39:20 Closing Thoughts and Prayer

Want to stay up to date on LCMS Happenings from Pastor Tim?Join the LCMS Current: https://www.uniteleadership.org/thelcmscurrentIn this episode, Tim sits down with Dr. Andrew Bauman — author, researcher, and founder of the Christian Counseling Center — for one of the most eye-opening conversations we've ever had on the podcast.Dr. Bauman recently gathered data from 2,800 women serving in Protestant churches, uncovering patterns of sexism, power misuse, and cultural blind spots that many church leaders never see.We talk about:• What actually makes a church unsafe• The shocking data leaders need to hear• How porn culture has quietly shaped Christian leadership• Why Paul's “women be silent” passages may not mean what you think• The shadow side of ministry leadership• True intimacy vs. AI-driven fantasy culture• How pastors can heal their own inner world to lead healthier churchesThis episode is not about politics — it's about becoming a safer, more Christlike church.Dr. Bauman's Book: Safe Churchhttps://www.amazon.com/Safe-Church-against-Christian-Communities/dp/1540903974Support the showWatch Us On Youtube!

In this episode of Hidden Wisdom, Meghan Farner sits down with Steve Pynakker, creator of Mormon Book Reviews and one of the most unique bridge-builders in the religious landscape. Steve shares his lifelong fascination with the Restoration, his journey through evangelical Christianity, atheism, and back into a reconstructed faith, and the spiritual insights he's gained across traditions.Together, Meghan and Steve explore the feminine and masculine elements of religion, personal revelation, the role of mystical experience, faith crises, and why genuine connection with God often requires stepping outside institutional boundaries. They dive into the tension between apologetics and Christlike love, the dangers of zeal without compassion, and the shared work of healing religious division.This heartfelt and challenging conversation invites listeners to seek God beyond labels, recognize the divine image in every person, and cultivate a faith centered on love, humility, and spiritual authenticity.Timestamps & Episode Structure00:00–02:10 | Introduction02:10–07:30 | How Steve Entered the Mormon World07:30–13:00 | Faith Deconstruction and Atheism13:00–16:20 | Looking for Christ Instead of Faults16:20–22:10 | The Ego Death of Faith Crisis22:10–28:00 | Masculine and Feminine in Religion28:00–33:20 | Toxicity, Power, and the Danger of Misused Zeal33:20–38:00 | Responsibility as a Public Voice38:00–44:40 | Where Apologetics Goes Wrong44:40–52:30 | The Mirror: Calling Communities to Repentance52:30–56:40 | The Three Questions That Transform Dialogue56:40–59:00 | Closing Reflections: Love as the Center Thank you for listening to Hidden Wisdom! For more classes, writings, and upcoming events, visit meghanfarner.com. ✨ New Class Now Open: The Language of Heaven: Basic Symbols Discover the foundational symbols of divine communication and deepen your spiritual understanding for FREE! Register here! If this episode brought value to your life, please consider: Donating through Venmo: @Meghan-Farner Subscribing to stay updated Sharing it with someone who would love it Leaving a comment or review to help others find the show Connecting and exploring more resources at meghanfarner.com Thank you for being a part of the Hidden Wisdom community!

Send us a textWhat if the most painful seasons aren't proof of failure but invitations into deeper wisdom? We walk through Job's suffering with open eyes and honest hearts, tracing the line between God's sovereignty, human grief, and the hidden costs of misapplied truth. The aim is not to tidy up pain with neat answers; it's to learn how to sit with hard questions, offer real comfort, and keep faith alive when explanations fall short.We start with the unsettling reality that God permitted Job's test and explore how that challenges our reflex to link calamity to guilt. From there, we examine Job's friends: sincere, religious, and often wrong. Together we define wisdom as more than knowing verses—wisdom is truth applied in season, with humility, and for another's good. We talk discernment with dreams and impressions, why not every “word” is from God, and how to avoid pontificating when a friend needs presence more than a prescription.Hope threads through the conversation from 2 Corinthians 4: pressed but not crushed, perplexed but not in despair. We unpack the difference between prayer and meditation—prayer asks and depends, meditation beholds and steadies—and how both help us endure pruning that forms Christlike character. The heart of it all is holy curiosity: the courage to ask why without accusation. Why the cross? Why such love? Why eternal life? Far from doubt, those questions draw us closer to the One who holds the answers and us.Along the way, we hold space for grief and glory—honoring a friend's passing with the confidence that precious is the death of His saints. We close with a call to gentleness, unity, and mercy, anchored by James 3 and Proverbs 3. If you've ever been hurt by good theology used badly, or you're carrying a hard season that defies easy labels, this conversation offers language, scripture, and a path forward.If this resonates, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs wise comfort, and leave a review telling us one way you practice compassion when answers are unclear.Support the showBE PROVOKED AND BE PERSUADED!

Southeast Baptist Podcast features the preaching and teaching of Pastor John Ray, the senior pastor of Southeast Baptist Tabernacle in Indianapolis, IN. His preaching is biblical, conversational, and encouraging as you pursue a Christlike walk.

Speaker: Rob BerrethScripture: Hebrews 13:7-19Episode Overview:In this sermon from Hebrews 13:7–19, we explore how God calls His people to relate to spiritual authority within the local church. Scripture paints a vision of leadership rooted in faithful teaching, Christlike character, and vigilant care for souls. At the same time, believers are invited to remember, imitate, obey, and pray for those who shepherd them. This passage offers a deeply biblical, countercultural picture of joyful leadership and joyful followership—one that flows from the grace and supremacy of Christ. Join us as we walk through three movements in the text: remembering and imitating godly pastors, obeying and yielding to spiritual leadership, and praying earnestly for those entrusted with watching over the church.Key Highlights:1. Remember and Imitate Your Pastors (Heb 13:7)• Godly leaders are marked first by speaking the Word of God faithfully.• Their way of life confirms the truth they teach as they strive to model mature Christian character.• Believers are called to consider and continually reflect on the outcome of their leaders' lives and to imitate their faith—not because leaders are perfect, but because they point to Christ.• Imitation is not blind allegiance; Christ alone is the One we follow.2. Obey and Submit to Your Leaders (Heb 13:17)• The command to obey is tied to being persuaded by biblical teaching, not to unquestioning compliance.• Submission describes a posture of willing cooperation rather than stubborn resistance.• Scripture provides limits to pastoral authority; leaders may only require what God Himself commands.• Healthy church life happens when pastors joyfully lead and believers joyfully respond.3. Pray Earnestly for Your Leaders (Heb 13:18–19)• Pastors “keep watch over souls” and will “give an account”—a weighty and joyful responsibility.• The church's prayers safeguard leaders from drifting into false teaching, strengthen their character, and support them in the demanding work of shepherding.• A praying church becomes a spiritually powerful church.Call to Action:This week, intentionally pray for the leaders God has placed in your life—that they would remain faithful to Scripture, walk with integrity, and lead with joy. At the same time, examine your own posture toward authority: ask the Lord to cultivate a heart that is humble, teachable, and eager to follow Him through the shepherds He has provided. Seek ways to encourage your spiritual leaders, and allow their example to spur you toward deeper faithfulness in your own walk with Christ.Redeemer Church211 Northshore Dr. Bellingham, WA 98226www.redeemernw.org

Today's sermon explored the biblical view of work, challenging the common divide between “sacred” and “secular” vocations. Drawing from Ephesians 6:4-10 and various biblical examples, we saw that God's Spirit fills people in all kinds of jobs—gardeners, politicians, construction workers—not just pastors or missionaries. The message emphasized that our daily work is a mission field, and how we work matters deeply to God. We are called to work sincerely, not just for eye service or to please people, but as if we are serving Jesus Himself. Both employees and employers are to model Christlike character: employees with integrity and diligence, employers with humility and fairness. Ultimately, our work is an act of worship, and we will give an account to our true Master, Jesus.

The wisdom that comes down from above is uniquely distinguished by its Christlike qualities. If we want to experience wisdom's blessings, we have to embrace wisdom's virtues.

Seeing Others as Christ Sees: The Gospel Call Revealed in Soldiers and Saints I was hungry. You fed me thirsty. You gave me to drink. I was alone, and you were with me. I was naked and you clothed me. This marvelously simple description of the greatness of Christian life. That ability, not so much to see Jesus in each other as to see others as Jesus sees them. Today's Gospel draws from Matthew's teaching on the Final Judgment, . . . . . . where Jesus separates people as a shepherd separates sheep from goats, praising those who cared for “the least of His brothers.” The Homily then focuses on Saint Martin of Tours, a soldier-turned-bishop whose famous act of charity . . . cutting his cloak to clothe a beggar . . . reveals the heart of the Gospel: seeing others as Christ sees them and responding with compassion. Martin's life of disciplined holiness, service, and unwavering focus on Christ is presented as a model of Christian discipleship. Seeing Others as Christ Sees Them The Homily also highlights two American military chaplains whose causes for sainthood are advancing: Father Vincent Capodanno, a Marine chaplain killed in Vietnam after repeatedly risking his life to save wounded soldiers, and Father Emil Kapaun, a Korean War chaplain known for heroic sacrifice, spiritual strength, and care for fellow prisoners of war. Each embodies Christlike service . . . feeding the hungry, comforting the suffering, and valuing every human life. On Veterans Day, the Homily emphasizes that the vocation of a soldier, when lived with compassion and courage, mirrors the Gospel call to serve others. As Christ nourishes and strengthens us in the Eucharist, we are sent forth to care for the hungry, the thirsty, and the vulnerable in our own lives, following the example of these remarkable witnesses. Listen to: Seeing Others as Christ Sees: The Gospel Call Revealed in Soldiers and Saints --------------------------------------------------------------------- Art Work Seeing Others as Christ Sees: The Gospel Call Revealed in Soldiers and Saints : AI and Queen of All Hearts' Digital Team: 2025

When America's Catholic bishops do a commercial to promote how unabated global migration is Christlike, run for the hills. The grift that is ILLEGAL IMMIGRATION is one the deep state does not want to give up. Canada's 43% immigrant birth rate sounds alarm bells around the world and puts the USA on notice. Ukraine has reportedly agreed to Trump's 28 point peace plan with Russia. JD Vance reveals how Trump offered to work with democrats on health care before Chuck Schumer shut the government down. (*Hint: It was never about healthcare. It was about illegals.)  

Todaywe're looking at Ephesians 4:1-3. The first 16 verses of this chapter is aboutthe unity, the unity of the body of Christ, the church. Having unity in thechurch that shows forth to the world that we are one in Christ. We love oneanother. Jesus had told His disciples, "By this shall all men know thatyou are my disciples because of your love for one another" (John13:35). To truly love one another means will manifest itself in unity. We setaside our differences, our preferences, and out of God's love and reservoir ofHis great endless love, we are now able to forgive one another, love oneanother, and have unity in the church. Inthese first 16 verses, we see four very important things about this unity. Inverses 1-3, we see the grace of this unity. Then we see in verses 4-6, theground of unity. How that we are one in spirit, one in body, one in theFather, one in the Son, one in baptism. Then we'll see in verses 7-11, thegifts of unity. The gifts of the body of Christ that He has given us that enablesus to serve one another and to work together. Then in verses 12-16, we see thegrowth of unity, as we grow into the fullness of Christ. Meaning we areChristlike in our attitude toward one another. We're Christlike in our attitudetoward the lost world around us. Having the heart of Jesus that shows forth thematurity of the Christian believer. AsI was studying for this chat this morning, I couldn't help but think if I as apastor again, I would not just recommend, I would require every new churchmember, indeed every church member, to read Ephesians 4 over and over again,almost memorize it. Nowthis unity is so important. What we must remember is, unity is not uniformity.Unity comes from within. It's a spiritual grace. While uniformity is the resultof pressure from without. The real church is not everybody dressing alike,looking alike, sounding alike, talking alike. You see some churches like that.That's not the real church. The real church is diversity with unity. Unity withdiversity. We have old people with gray hair, white hair, sitting there lovingJesus, loving the children, loving the young couples. We see the young couplesand the children loving the old people. We see the people that like and preferthe Christian contemporary music loving the people that like the Beethoven typeof Christian music. And vice versa. We are people that get along with eachother despite our differences. This is “the unity of the Spirit in the bondof peace” as we read in these first three verses. Remember in verse 1, Paultells us to, "Walk worthy of the calling by which you werecalled." What were we called to?  We are called to unity.  Thenin verses 2-3, we see how that is possible. With all lowliness, gentleness,with longsuffering, bearing with one another in love, endeavoring to keep theunity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. Here we see seven differentattributes or graces of this unity that we should be experiencing in ourchurches. The first one is “with all lowliness”. The other word for “lowliness”is humility. We humble ourselves. We prefer one another over the other, andover ourselves. It means we put Christ first in our lives. And because we putHim first in our lives, others around us are being loved, and ourselves are putlast. Real JOY is Jesus first, Others second, and Yourselflast.  Oh,my friend, may God help us to pray that we have that unity in our churchestoday. The sad thing is that so many churches today have a reputation of a handfulof people running and ruining the church. Always making problems that causesdisunity that destroys the love of Christ in the body of Christ and destroys ourwitness and testimony to the world around us.  MayGod speak to our hearts today through these verses to help us all go back toour churches and endeavor to have this unity in the body of believers in ourlocal church!

Southside Tribe! In this next episode, we dive a bit deeper into why developing the discipline of reading isn't just an intellectual hobby for bookworms — it's a spiritual practice of love, patience, and seeking truth. Pulling from real-life ministry moments, cultural tensions, and biblical wisdom, Trip, KB and Ameen explore how rushed, shallow engagement is fracturing communities, fueling suspicion, and eroding our witness. From immigration misconceptions to conspiracy culture, and even some satanic panic, we unpack how slowing down to actually learn about people — and from people — is a form of Christian love. We talk about the gym-like journey of growing in knowledge, why motives matter, and how repetition, and steady formation shape us more deeply than quick hits of information ever could. This episode is yet another invitation to embrace reading as a pathway to wholeness, humility, and Christlike integrity. Pull up! Episode on all audio platforms, and bonus content on our Patreon community!! Become a Patreon member for Early Access & Exclusive Bonus Content - https://patreon.com/Southsiderabbi Southside Rabbi is proudly sponsored by Redeem Healthshare, a division of Samaritan Ministries. Learn more here: https://hubs.ly/Q03MQXV_0 Southside Rabbi is proudly sponsored by Native Supply - grab SR merch there! https://www.native.supply https://native.supply/collections/southside-rabbi Follow us Online: Southsiderabbipodcast.com https://linktr.ee/southsiderabbi Email us at Southsiderabbipodcast@gmail.com Intro music produced by Randeaux- https://www.instagram.com/randeauxbandeaux/ Contact at randeauxbandeaux@gmail.com All rights reserved by their respective owners. #KB #Ameen #Podcast

It's Thanksgiving Day—and between the turkey, the pie, and the endless sink of dishes, it's easy for even the most grateful heart to slip into grumbling. But what if this Thanksgiving, instead of focusing on what's missing, we helped our daughters rediscover the beauty of selflessness?  In this warm and faith-filled Thanksgiving episode, Rachael Culpepper, Executive Director of American Heritage Girls, and Melissa Bearden unpack how gratitude can transform a selfish heart into a selfless one. Drawing on Proverbs 11:25, they remind us that "whoever refreshes others will be refreshed," and that true thankfulness doesn't stop at words—it's lived out in acts of generosity, humility, and service.  You'll also hear from Patti Garibay, AHG Founder and Executive Director Emeritus, in a Raising Godly Girls Minute. This powerful one-minute serves as a reminder that selflessness isn't just good manners—it's a mark of spiritual maturity. Through practical ideas like encouraging your daughter to serve someone quietly or offering gratitude to others at the Thanksgiving table, Rachael and Melissa show how even small acts of service can cultivate joy and reshape a heart toward Christlike giving.  As moms, it's tempting to chase perfection during the holidays—but this episode will remind you that the most meaningful memories are made when we slow down, serve, and model the selfless love of Jesus. Whether you're tuning in from the kitchen or the car ride to Grandma's, this Thanksgiving conversation will help you center your heart (and your daughter's!) on what really matters: a spirit of gratitude that overflows into generous love.    Three Things to Remember:  Selflessness is the antidote to selfishness. A life focused on others brings the refreshment God promises in Proverbs 11:25.  Gratitude grows through service. Serving shifts our daughters' eyes from what they lack to how much they have to give.  Thanksgiving is more than a holiday. Daily selflessness and intentional gratitude build a rhythm of generosity that honors God year-round.    Scripture Referenced in This Episode:  Proverbs 11:25 – "A generous person will prosper; whoever refreshes others will be refreshed."  Philippians 2:3–4 – "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves."  John 13:14–15 – Jesus' example of humble service in washing His disciples' feet.  1 Thessalonians 5:18 – "Give thanks in all circumstances."    Visit raisinggodlygirls.com for more encouragement and faith-based parenting tools.  Learn how to find or start an American Heritage Girls Troop in your community at americanheritagegirls.org. 

Pastor Wayne Van Gelderen shares biblical truth that will bring hope and comfort in these uncertain days. May we draw closer to God through this time and impact those around us for eternity. https://fallsbaptist.org https://baptistcollege.org https://www.theegeneration.org https://ontovictorypress.com If you'd like to support this ministry - https://fallsbaptist.org/give/

In today's episode, we're preparing your heart and your body for Thanksgiving — a holiday that brings joy, gratitude, and let's be honest… a lot of food. If you've ever found yourself overly hungry, overeating, or curled up on the couch in pain afterward, this episode is a gentle invitation to try something different — something surprisingly simple, profoundly biblical, and deeply effective. We dive into John 21:1–14, where Jesus invites His disciples to “Come and have breakfast.” Yes… Jesus ate breakfast. And there's a powerful reason you should, too — especially on Thanksgiving. You'll learn: • Why eating breakfast is actually Christlike (and how this Scripture reveals God's kindness in your eating) • How skipping meals makes overeating inevitable — physically and spiritually • A practical plan for Thanksgiving morning that helps you stay grounded and Spirit-led • How eating earlier in the day prevents that ravenous, urgent hunger that leads to overeating • Why doing this doesn't “ruin your Thanksgiving meal,” but redeems it • How to enter the holiday with peace, intention, and self-compassion • How God wants to redeem your experience with food, even on feast days This isn't about restriction. It's about receiving God's grace, honoring your body, and stewarding your hunger in a way that aligns with Christlike compassion. If you're ready for a calmer, more intentional Thanksgiving — this episode is your fresh wind. ✨ Book a free 20-minute call to heal your relationship with food with a faith-based approach:

How can Christian parents wisely navigate family gatherings when a loved one embraces LGBTQ+ identities or relationships? In this episode, Elizabeth Urbanowicz offers biblically grounded guidance for parents with young children, helping them teach God's good design for gender, sexuality, marriage, and family. Learn how to model Christlike love, set healthy boundaries, answer kids' questions with clarity and compassion, and pray faithfully through challenging dynamics.

Summary In this episode, Dr. Easley reconnects with longtime friend and fellow Dallas Theological Seminary alumnus Greg Hatteberg to reflect on a lifetime of faithfulness—through ministry, marriage, and the mentorship of godly leaders. Hattenberg shares how his grandfather's quiet devotion to Scripture laid the foundation for his own walk with Christ, eventually leading him to Moody and then to Dallas Seminary. There, he and Michael sat under professors like Howard Hendricks and J. Dwight Pentecost, whose lives modeled the truth they taught.  Their conversation weaves together memories of those formative years with reflections on enduring faith amid hardship—especially Greg's story of loving and caring for his late wife Lisa through her decades-long battle with multiple sclerosis. Her faith and joy in suffering continue to shape his ministry and outlook today. Together, they explore how theological education has expanded from classroom walls to a global platform, yet the heartbeat remains unchanged: to know Christ and serve Him faithfully. Hatteberg's message to leaders and believers alike is simple: don't quit; stay the course; finish well. Takeaways Faith's roots often begin in quiet family devotion and Scripture study. Lifelong ministry is sustained by endurance and faithfulness, not ease. True theological education shapes both heart and mind for a lifetime. Greg's marriage to Lisa reflected Christlike perseverance through suffering. The methods of teaching evolve, but God's Word remains unchanged. Every believer is called to finish their ministry with endurance and hope. This episode is for anyone who longs for a faith that lasts. Whether you're a pastor, seminary student, or believer walking through hardship, endurance, integrity, and love for God's Word are what sustain a lifetime of ministry. Watch the highlights and full version of this interview on our Youtube channel. For more inContext interviews, click here.

In today's episode, Audrey and I walk through five Christian habits that instantly make you more professional and more of a blessing to the people you work with. These aren't complicated but when you weave them into your daily life, they change the way people experience you, and they quietly reflect Christ through your work.And the last habit? Most people avoid it completely… but it might be the one that transforms your workplace the most.We discuss:Why “doing what you say you'll do” is one of the most Christlike habits you can practiceHow learning to say no helps you honor your yesWhat it really looks like to take ownership of your roleThe surprising habit that builds trust faster than anything elseWhy professionalism is ultimately about loving people well+ MoreCheering you on,Kelsey Kemp & Audrey BagarusBOOK A FREE CALL WITH US THIS WEEK:https://portal.kelseykemp.com/public/appointment-scheduler/6222458612c06afee1de0032/scheduleFREE CAREER COACHING RESOURCES:Free Training: How to Find and Land a Job You Feel Called to in 8 Straightforward Steps → https://thecalledcareer.com/our-processMore of a reader? ⁠Download the 22 page PDF⁠ version instead → https://thecalledcareer.mykajabi.com/PDFFOLLOW US ON OTHER SOCIALS:

In this deeply validating and spiritually grounding conversation, Heather is joined again by Coach Michelle Keil, known as The Doodle Coach, who helps women quiet their inner critic, lighten their emotional load, and reconnect with their truest selves through creativity, doodling, and grace. Together they explore a pattern so many women of faith experience: serving from fear, guilt, and obligation instead of from divine connection and overflow. Michelle shares powerful principles around discerning motives, regulating our nervous system, and recognizing the subtle lines between Christlike service and self-erasure. With relatable examples, doctrinal insights, and gentle but liberating reframes, this episode helps listeners recognize when they are saying "yes" out of fear of disappointing others—and how to instead find the peace that comes from aligning with God. For more information about Michelle and for links to access all she has to offer, please click HERE! To watch this interview on YouTube, go HERE. For more information and available downloads, go to: https://ldslifecoaches.com/ All content is copyrighted to Heather Rackham and featured coaches. Do not use without permission.  

If you've ever found yourself saying “yes” when you wanted to say “no,” avoiding conflict, or shrinking back to keep the peace, this episode will help you step out of people pleasing and into calm, confident, Christlike leadership. I'll break down: why people pleasing is rooted in fear (not kindness) how it weakens your authority, voice, and leadership impact simple shifts to help you lead with clarity instead of over-accommodating what Jesus modeled about boundaries, conviction, and courage Reflection Questions Ask yourself: What's my responsibility here? What's theirs? What honours God in this situation? What needs clarity? What needs courage? These questions re-centre your leadership — and your peace. ✨ Next Step: The Imposter Syndrome Blueprint If people pleasing, overthinking, or fear of disappointing others has been holding you back, grab my faith-filled private podcast: The Imposter Syndrome Blueprint. It will help you break the cycle of self-doubt and lead with confidence anchored in Christ.

Conflict is inevitable when two sinful people share a life, a home, and a very full playroom. In this episode, we unpack a real conflict from our Sabbath (yes, we handled it poorly at first) and use it as a springboard to talk through five components of healthy, Christ-centered conflict: soft start-ups, ditching "always/never" language, having a conflict resolution plan, regularly debriefing in a weekly marriage meeting, and humbly apologizing and asking how to better serve each other. If you've ever thought, "We just keep fighting about the same things," this one's for you. Resources Mentioned:  Free Weekly Marriage Meeting Guide Episode Mentioned: No. 119: Our Favorite Way to Fight

For the past seven years, Ajax Trueblood has served as an Elders Quorum Service Coordinator in two different wards in Utah—and he calls it the best calling in the Church. Through that experience, he's learned that consistent, inspired service doesn't just bless those being helped—it transforms the hearts and unity of those who serve. Links Watch the video and share your thoughts in the Zion Lab community Elders Quorum Service Coordinator Movers & Shakers Squad Soup Patrol in Elders Quorum Transcript available with the video in the Zion Lab community Highlights Ajax shares his experience magnifying the often-overlooked calling of the elders quorum service coordinator. He talks about shifting the culture of an elders quorum to be proactively service-oriented, fostering spiritual growth, and extending Christlike care to members and the community beyond the traditional tasks of moving furniture. Ajax emphasizes that selfless service is a central, scriptural tenet of the gospel that should guide the quorum's efforts. Key Insights Service is Core Discipleship: The service coordinator role, while briefly mentioned in the Church handbook (8.5.3), is viewed by Ajax as foundational to the gospel, emphasizing the principles of bearing one another's burdens and charity. The "Movers and Shakers Squad" (M&S): Ajax organizes volunteers into the M&S list, which is mobilized quickly via text messaging for physical labor, focusing on positive responses only to keep communication clean. Physical projects are handled by small, efficient teams with a designated on-site team leader to improve safety and effectiveness. The Power of "Soup Patrol": This initiative is a non-physical service designed to provide emotional connection and support. It involves quickly delivering small tokens, such as homemade soup, bread, or cookies, to those who are sick or struggling, emphasizing presence and care over the physical item. Coordination Over Execution: A key principle is that the coordinator's primary focus should be on coordination—getting the right people the opportunity to serve—rather than defaulting to execution and doing all the work themselves. This builds linkages and involves more people. Beyond Ward Boundaries: The quorum's service extends beyond active members and ward boundaries to help anyone in the community, including those needing yard work, cleanup, or help moving, using these opportunities as a bridge for fellowship and missionary work. Synergy with Ministering: Service efforts must support the ministering program. Ajax proactively contacts assigned ministering brothers to give them the opportunity to be involved first, ensuring the service coordinator system reinforces the core assignment rather than displacing it. Leadership Applications Recruit Based on Willingness: Leaders should identify and recruit members who are genuinely willing and able to serve, creating a volunteer-driven service system rather than assigning reluctant members to tasks. Offer Diverse Service Opportunities: By implementing low-physical-demand options like the "Soup Patrol," leaders can engage members (like the elderly or young fathers) who may be maxed out or resistant to physically demanding assignments like moving, providing a place for everyone to serve. Be Proactive, Not Passive: Service coordinators should adopt a proactive approach, constantly keeping their "feelers out" by asking members for needs and looking for opportunities rather than waiting for formal requests to come down through the bishopric or ward council. 04:00 - Introduction to the Elders Quorum Service Coordinator Role 06:00 - The Service Coordinator Calling is Foundational to the Gospel 07:10 - Handbook Reference and Magnifying the Calling 08:05 - Organizing Service in a Rapidly Growing Ward (Vineyard) 08:50 - The Key to Success: Asking for Volunteers 11:00 - Service in an Older Ward (St. George) and Moving Beyond Moves

What does it really mean to lead your home the way God designed? This one's for the guys—Dr. Owen Strachan unpacks what real, Christlike leadership looks like—not through dominance or silence, but through courage, sacrifice, and grace—and how when you love, lead, and live out your faith as God designed, your wife and your life will get immensely better.Thank you to our sponsors!ZEBRA — Use code ALEX for 10% off any orderPALEOVALLEY — Use code ALEX for 15% off your first orderA'DEL NATURAL COSMETICS — Use code ALEX for 25% off first-time ordersBRANCH BASICS — Use code ALEX15 for 15% offGEVITI — Use code ALEX for 20% off your first purchasePRIMALLY PURE — Use code ALEXCLARK for 15% offOur Guest:Owen StrachanOwen's Links:InstagramX (Twitter)YouTube